Sad_Quote_3415 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
42	Why do red pill men keep talking about this idea of "only 10-20 percent of men are having sex"?		Sad_Quote_3415	/r/ExRedPill	06/09/21 12:53 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Is r/FemaleDatingStrategy just the female equivalent of Red Pill ideology? nowadays a man is most likely be hesitant to be in a relationship than a Woman Source? Every data I've seen have shown the same pattern: there are way more men than women in the "dating market" because single women aren't really looking for a relationship. Imo this is an issue that should be addressed, but ppl need to recognize it first.	/r/ExRedPill	05/12/22 01:09 AM
4	Is r/FemaleDatingStrategy just the female equivalent of Red Pill ideology? Definitely not biology imo. I sincerely believe that gender norms are determined by socialization. And there are so many instances where we can clearly see how damaging they are to individuals and society as a whole. If it was biology, it wouldn't be so harmful to us. Stereotypes still put people in boxes they don't fit in. I think as society progresses, we still hold on to antiquated concepts that are creating a wider gap between men and women, which makes heterosexual relationships more diffic…	/r/ExRedPill	30/11/22 10:01 PM
11	Is r/FemaleDatingStrategy just the female equivalent of Red Pill ideology? Women report a higher level of sexual harassment (both online and offline), so they tend to be more careful when looking for potential partners. Also, there's some data that show men and women don't do the same amount of unpaid labor.. so many women are now choosing to remain single, as they are often forced into a "double burden" when entering a relationship. Women also shoulder the majority of emotional labor. In sum, many women don't really think it's worth it to invest in heterosexual relati…	/r/ExRedPill	30/11/22 09:33 PM
70	Does a man with a high body count impresses you? Anyone who brags about sex is a walking red flag imo, regardless of how many partners they had.	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/22 04:49 AM
1	How often do women get "girlfriend-zoned"? I didn't say anything about hating women. I said women are seen as prey. They aren't seen as human beings with individualized complexities. That builds up a sense of entitlement on men. From a social standpoint, "getting women" is a measurement of how manly a man is. It's not about women, it's about the confidence boost men get after reaffirming their masculinity. It's about their own sense of purpose in life, which is deeply attached to the idea of being a provider. There's no girlfriend-zoned …	/r/ExRedPill	16/07/22 08:05 AM
1	How often do women get "girlfriend-zoned"? Are you aware that only 65% of women report orgasming when having hookup sex with men? Meanwhile the number for men is 96%. Do you know that date rape is among the top forms of sexual violence that women endure? Having matches on tinder might boost someone's ego for a day, but that's not a relationship. In fact, women have to swift through a lot of harassing/insulting messages in order to find someone to connect with on dating apps. There's no advantage there, those are simply different experien…	/r/ExRedPill	16/07/22 05:14 AM
56	Why up with the red pill hating on black women? Because a huge part of what they preach is rooted in male supremacy and white supremacy. They spew a lot of casual racism, and it's no secret they believe women are inferior to men.	/r/ExRedPill	16/07/22 04:57 AM
1	How often do women get "girlfriend-zoned"? I think it's fairly common. I also think it's part of how we are socialized. Even in movies these tropes appear repeatedly. It doesn't help that we live in a world that was always controled by men. That means the narrative is controled by men, which leads to false ideas of who women are or what they want. Men might create this ideal dream girl in their heads and then project it onto someone. Women will never fulfill those expectations. That movie "500 days of summer" shows that really well, but …	/r/ExRedPill	15/07/22 11:36 PM
3	How often do women get "girlfriend-zoned"? As a woman who've been through this, I ask you to please try to understand my side. I had someone I thought was my friend. For years. After a while, he starts showing signs he's interested, but with possessive and entitled undertones. This comes in many forms, often passive agressive. I try to brush it off bc I think I'm imagining things and I'm going crazy. He doesn't come clean about what he feels. I start to back away from him bc I now feel guilty. I feel like it's my fault and that I'm "lead…	/r/ExRedPill	15/07/22 10:20 PM
3	How often do women get "girlfriend-zoned"? So called "cold approaches" is simply bothering or harassing women who are busy living their lives. It's entitled af to believe ppl owe us their time or patience when walking down the street. It's also scary AF for women to be approached by random dudes when they are alone bc women literally live in fear (with very good reason). Dating apps are hard for everyone, regardless of gender. To hide your intentions just so you can get close to someone is slimy AF. It's completely disingenuous bc while …	/r/ExRedPill	15/07/22 09:55 PM
3	How often do women get "girlfriend-zoned"? I don't think it's about developing feelings. It's more about lying about their intentions. Those ppl normally know from the start that they are romantically interested. They lie and manipulate their way into someone's life just so they can get closer to them. They know what they're doing. This isn't about feelings changing. It's deliberate. They feel entitled to a romantic relationship and they often react badly if they are rejected.	/r/ExRedPill	15/07/22 09:36 PM
4	How often do women get "girlfriend-zoned"? I relate 100%. They don't want you, they want the idea of you.. so they lie to themselves while feeding their fantasies. If we reject them we are heartless bitches. They feel entitled to having romantic relationships with us. It's definitely not love.	/r/ExRedPill	15/07/22 09:29 PM
28	So what do I do if I think she's throwing a tantrum/overreacting her reaction is out of proportion for the level of transgression. This would reenforce that you're tolerating her shitty behavior She's not a dog, dude.	/r/ExRedPill	05/07/22 08:36 PM
1	Do girls dislike vulnerability? Ok, so just be honest with her and tell her how you really feel about her.	/r/ExRedPill	05/07/22 07:43 PM
2	Do girls dislike vulnerability? "Friendzone" is just a sugar-coated term for grooming and manipulation. Real love and friendship require respect. And actively deciding to manipulate a person into believing you are their friend, when in reality you expect them to give you a relationship means you're denying them a choice. Consequently, it means you don't respect them. This sub is about getting out of this toxic ideology and mindset. I'm just being straightforward. I'm a woman, and I've had "friends" who put themselves in the "F…	/r/ExRedPill	05/07/22 07:12 PM
5	Do girls dislike vulnerability? Number one rule of healthy relationships with women (romantic or otherwise): recognizing they aren't a monolith; they are human beings with personalities, likes/dislikes, and values of their own. TRP teaches ppl that women are these monolithic creatures who act according to their "nature". In order to overcome this ideology, you need to first understand that women are individuals, not robots programmed with the same code. If you're romantically interested in someone, do not pretend you just want…	/r/ExRedPill	05/07/22 06:48 PM
4	Why are men in redpill are obsessed with women? I think you're either being ignorant or disingenuous. TRP is inherently anti women's rights and anti-feminism. All that women's rights groups try to do is defend that women are human beings. To say TRP doesn't encourage control over women is simply a lie because the tools they teach go against the idea that women are humans who deserve rights and freedoms. TRP very clearly lumps all women together as a monolith that lacks personhood. They also imply the existence of men's problems is connected t…	/r/ExRedPill	04/07/22 02:53 AM
6	This is not the "red pill" Why did you go through all this trouble just to post this?	/r/ExRedPill	03/07/22 05:08 PM
4	This is not the "red pill" Male supremacy is the gateway to more extreme ideologies. Yet people will try everything to make others look away when it comes to misogyny, bc it's "not that relevant" or it's "just feminists being hysterical". If people actually cared about misogyny and male supremacy, maybe we could catch this much earlier, before it evolved onto other ideologies.	/r/ExRedPill	03/07/22 05:07 PM
13	Why are men in redpill are obsessed with women? Imo.. I think it goes deep. It probably relates to previous trauma either from their mother or ex-partner in some part. But at its core it has a lot to do with power and control. Maybe they felt they didn't have control over their lives at some point in time. Controlling women gives them a fake sense of control. What all of these strategies really do is reaffirm traditional gender roles that categorize men as providers and women as submissive caregivers. It gives them a sense of purpose, but for…	/r/ExRedPill	03/07/22 03:37 AM
6	Not trolling, I want to be honest, but I just stumbled upon this sub, and after scrolling through the top posts, it's clear to me that you guys have no clue about what TRP actually is. Lmao men who are afraid of feminist women are so cringe	/r/ExRedPill	03/07/22 03:12 AM
8	Not trolling, I want to be honest, but I just stumbled upon this sub, and after scrolling through the top posts, it's clear to me that you guys have no clue about what TRP actually is. Not sure why you felt so bothered to the point of needing to comment that. People will have different opinions, not everyone will agree with you always. People have different interpretations of the same thing. You seem upset that you cannot control the narrative and you think you have the ultimate truth. It's fascinating tbh bc the arrogance someone must have to believe they know the "truth" and everyone else is just dumb.. it's astonishing. People who point out misogyny aren't feminists and whi…	/r/ExRedPill	03/07/22 03:09 AM
2	Why do women seem to care so much about height? And how can I get over it? We live in a patriarchy, which means the world is controlled by men. The effects of this can be seen everywhere. Men decided that tall equals masculine and short equals feminine. That's the male gaze. Women who seek tall men do so to appease the male gaze that tells them that in order to be beautiful they must be petite and feminine. So women want to feel petite, thus they seek tall men. But this entire concept was created by men under our patriachal system. Men dictate the beauty standards for …	/r/ExRedPill	02/07/22 02:39 PM
14	Why do women seem to care so much about height? And how can I get over it? Actually men developed an obsession surrounding height when they associated it with masculinity. This is a beauty standard developed by men. Also, it absolutely goes both ways bc men don't like tall women, as femininity is linked to shorter height. So bc of this standard, women seek men who will make them feel smaller, thus more feminine. The way to get over it is by detaching your sense of self from your notion of masculinity. Once you stop caring about fitting the mold, you'll see how stupid a…	/r/ExRedPill	01/07/22 05:10 AM
7	How many sexual partners did men and women hace un 2021 Shouldn't women be having sex? This isn't the 50s you know? And being sexually active doesn't equal having sex with a thousand people. This entire "women have a huge body count" narrative is so dumb and unfounded. It's not even practical or safe for women to keep multiple sexual partners. Women are biologically more vulnerable to STIs than men are. Not to mention women can get pregnant. And they also put themselves at risk of getting assaulted when choosing to have casual encounters.	/r/ExRedPill	27/06/22 12:44 PM
4	The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red Pill Female subreddits and feminist subreddits are not the same thing. I think it's fascinating how some people are repulsed by the idea of feminism but they can't even recognize it and don't even understand what it means. Women aren't automatically feminists just bc they are hanging out together or talking about something you didn't like. That's such an archaic notion. And if women's rights are trivial, imagine what men's rights are.. it's literally just complaining about "female privilege" and male…	/r/ExRedPill	26/05/22 07:40 AM
4	The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red Pill You clearly don't know the concept of privilege	/r/ExRedPill	26/05/22 07:32 AM
2	I think the lack of a father figure throws young men into the redpill culture. Yes, but it's a very complex issue and it involves so many unspoken problems that intercept harmful forms of masculinity. Even people who aren't raised by single parents can be raised by someone who carries toxic beliefs or who's abusive. So it's not really the "being raised by a single parent aspect" but the lack of healthy masculinity around, that being bc the father abandoned them, bc they abused them or bc they raised them under strict gender roles (eg men can't show emotions).	/r/ExRedPill	16/05/22 06:44 PM
6	+18 I'm sorry but where tf do you see those obscure handpicked posts?	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/22 03:10 PM
5	+18 Think logically for a second. Think about movies you've seen and how realistic they actually are. The media we consume is meant to entertain and not to mimic reality. Are superheros realistic? Do you honestly think step siblings are out there fucking each other as if it's everyone's fantasy? Porn is like any other movie production in the sense that they also use scripts and special effects. They put water up women's vaginas to say they are squirting. How logical is it for people to mimic porn in…	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/22 03:07 PM
7	Has redpill made you look at female friends as a waste of time? In my opinion, most women know when a guy is getting close to her just bc they want sex or a relationship. This is something all women I know despise bc 1. Women don't owe men anything, they don't owe them their time, their affection or a relationship. 2. There's no such thing as a friendzone as so many ppl like to call it. That is a form of grooming bc the man knew from the start he didn't wanna be just friends and he lies and manipulates his way into a woman's life so later on he can attempt t…	/r/ExRedPill	13/05/22 10:46 AM
13	I’m becoming bitter and sexist. Not sure what to do. Aren't you guys tired of this? This topic comes up here basically every single day. How do you know women have easier lives if you don't live as a woman? You can't possibly know someone else's life. You don't think their thoughts. You just victimize yourself and shift the blame towards women because they are the easy target. I'm truly sorry you feel bitter, but this is not women's fault. Women don't owe you a relationship. If you can't even think of women as individual human beings, how do you e…	/r/ExRedPill	11/05/22 10:00 PM
9	women don't want to be judged by their body count then why do they judge men if he gets an escort. I don't think women are judging. I think it's self-preservation. First off that's high risk sex and it's good to be safe when it comes to STIs, especially bc there are STIs that men can carry but not develop. Women are much more vulnerable to it. Second of all, there's a dark unspoken side to sex work and many people feel icky about supporting the industry. That's 100% valid. If they don't support it, of course they consequently won't get involved with people who do. I think your comparison is c…	/r/ExRedPill	10/05/22 04:59 PM
1	How do I view women as individuals and Human beings? It's not "natural" to see the opposite sex as less than human. This doesn't happen to everyone, and it's not really about sex differences. In order to heal and grow it's important to understand the nuances here. Just bc it always happened it doesn't mean it's natural, same goes for murder or rape. This is sociological not biological, which means change is possible if people actually put time and effort into changing the culture around it. The reason why so many ppl dehumanize women is bc women a…	/r/ExRedPill	09/05/22 03:53 AM
4	I hate being a man Women are constantly judged on a variety of things. It doesn't mean it's easier just bc it's different. I love being a woman, but I don't think it's easy.. at all. You start getting harassed, groped, and objectified as soon as you hit puberty. For me that was 13. Men feel entitled to you, your body and your time and they'll feel like they have the right to get what they want, regardless if it's a rando who approached you on the street or someone who offers to pay for dinner on a date. You are mo…	/r/ExRedPill	08/05/22 11:58 PM
34	That didn't go well for Frest & Fit... I still find it so baffling that YouTube allows them to literally monetize misogyny. They are so harmful to their young audience who buy into every word they say. And it's not like they just say shit sometimes, their entire platform revolves around male supremacy. It's some extreme shit.	/r/ExRedPill	30/04/22 08:56 PM
1	Why can’t women admit that dating is easier for them? I can't comment on those posts bc I've never seen them. Idk the context. But you won't gain much by taking out your frustrations on women as a whole. No place should be "male exclusive", especially when talking about something that directly affects women. It's important to listen and learn from different experiences. Best of luck tho.	/r/ExRedPill	28/04/22 02:25 AM
1	Why can’t women admit that dating is easier for them? Why is it important for you to make this comparison? It's funny how TRP always says men and women are completely different, but this dating comparison is also a reoccurring topic. How are you gonna compare two completely different things? Why does one have to be proven easier? I think you should reflect on that. There are many studies to back up the fact that heterosexual women do not have it "easy" in dating. Women don't orgasm as much as men. They have to take precautions when meeting new peop…	/r/ExRedPill	28/04/22 02:11 AM
4	Red Pill Men are Just as Bad as Third Wave Feminist Women Waves were periods in time that saw a big moment of change. The third wave happened in the 1990s. Personally I don't believe we are still stuck in the same set of beliefs. Plus, each individual has their own set of values that is influenced by several life experiences and feminism is just one of them. It's very ignorant to claim feminism is just one single entity, as if it tells you what to do. It's not a cult, you don't "join it". Women are labeled as feminists simply for defending their own ex…	/r/ExRedPill	28/04/22 01:16 AM
7	Red Pill Men are Just as Bad as Third Wave Feminist Women Do you understand what "waves" mean in feminist theory? Because I don't think you do.	/r/ExRedPill	27/04/22 10:15 PM
3	I have unhealthy thoughts about women Only 65% of straight women orgasm during hookup sex.. The number for het men is 95%. Around 80% of women report being sexually harassed. Many times what you see as "attention", they see as harassment but it happens so often they just brush it off. The majority of female homicides are committed by intimate partners. About a quarter of women in all age groups worldwide will experience violence from an intimate partner according to the World Health organization Women don't have a hundred options. H…	/r/ExRedPill	20/04/22 04:08 AM
1	Women aren't hypergamous, they have more options for sex, while simultaneously having lower libido Ok I'll try to be clearer. My point is: not everything is about having offspring and reproduction and biological instincts. We have rationale, emotions, conscience, etc. Nowadays many people don't even want to have children and this trend is even showing up in censuses in several countries. We aren't driven by biology alone, we aren't irrational. Many factors affect the way humans behave.	/r/ExRedPill	27/03/22 04:29 AM
3	Sometimes all it takes is teaching people the correct words and definitions and not hiding things behind new age terminology and repackaged ideas... 🤘🏼🥸🤘🏼 I'm sorry but what is this? First off, people who think the opposite of misogyny is feminism are either ignorant or anti-feminists. Feminism isn't a bad thing and it's not meant to be heroic either. Women simply need to be treated as human beings. For men to be liberated from our capitalist, exploitative, heteronormative society, women need to be liberated. It's all connected, not opposed. Misogyny and misandry aren't opposing forces either. Men aren't oppressed bc of their gender. Misogyny is a…	/r/ExRedPill	27/03/22 04:09 AM
10	Women aren't hypergamous, they have more options for sex, while simultaneously having lower libido Not everything about humans revolves around "evolution". If it did then no one would be lgbt	/r/ExRedPill	26/03/22 10:09 PM
10	Women aren't hypergamous, they have more options for sex, while simultaneously having lower libido Women don't have lower libido, that's a myth. Women just have a lot more to lose when it comes to one night stands. Women can have a high libido and still be abstinent. Biology isn't the only factor.	/r/ExRedPill	26/03/22 05:25 PM
5	My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it. That's not the female gaze. It wasn't created, enforced or normalized by women. If anything, it's still the male gaze.	/r/ExRedPill	10/03/22 10:35 PM
4	My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it. It's very sad that you hate half the world for something that happened to you. Women aren't the reason you got circumcised and they aren't even the ones upholding the cultural standard. And I say cultural because it absolutely is cultural. If you look it up, you see how widely the rate of circumcision varies from country to country. In the US, it became popular because men made it popular. Some women might prefer the standard because that's how standards work. That applies for every beauty stand…	/r/ExRedPill	10/03/22 10:29 PM
3	Sister dating a dark triad scared for her life From what you described, your sister is in an abusive situation. It's not easy to solve and you have every reason to be scared for her life. It's important to note that people in abusive relationships tend to alienate and lie to their loved ones because their partner is emotionally abusive and makes them believe they are being crazy and their family wants to ruin their life, etc. There's a lot of manipulation in those situations, and they don't call it "cycle of abuse" for nothing. This unfortun…	/r/ExRedPill	04/03/22 07:25 AM
24	I’m addicted to escorts. I hate when people say "women have more options". It just tells me men have lower standards and that's not good. It also implies that women "have it easy", when in reality dating is hard for everyone and we deal with different issues. For instance, statistically speaking, women face a higher chance of getting raped or sexually assaulted when meeting new people. It's scary putting yourself out there, for everyone. Also, finding meaningful connections isn't easy. Women getting creepy unsolicited s…	/r/ExRedPill	03/03/22 12:35 AM
3	I need help understanding this I've looked into the female gaze and it doesn't seem much better I never said it was better. I said that things men find attractive most likely aren't the same things women find attractive. We live in a very gendered world, with very gendered norms. From birth we are taught differently both directly and indirectly. So I think it's fair to say men and women see the world differently. Thus, what we find attractive and what we look for in partners also is impacted by this difference in perception. …	/r/ExRedPill	28/02/22 08:10 AM
5	I need help understanding this This isn't a black and white situation, but you're aware the male gaze is a thing right? Every beauty standard dictated for men is also made by men. Men are the ones deciding what is "attractive" and not many women will resonate with that. Yet if women try to talk about the female gaze, we get shouted down and told that it's a lie and that we do in fact are attracted by what men say we are. For example, if we say we don't obsess over muscular men, men will say that's a lie. If you want any advic…	/r/ExRedPill	28/02/22 12:28 AM
109	What’s this obsession with 18-19 year olds? Younger women are easier to manipulate bc they don't have a fully-developed brain yet. Many people use this to groom the person and mold them into their liking. 30 year old women have a lot more experience and knowledge of how manipulation works and that annoys many men who rely on those tools to coerce women. 18 year olds are less likely to be opinionated, confident in their stances, and they are overall more compliant. Another aspect is that younger women tend to be more easily amused, and men…	/r/ExRedPill	26/02/22 04:26 PM
2	I don’t know why I should spit out the red pill when it has worked so well for me. Respecting women and having hobbies or whatever got me nowhere, so why would I bother with that? The red pill made me much more successful in my romantic/sexual life. I don't know what you personally consider "successful". Humans are social and we seek connections. If you don't respect people you have sex with and only treat them as objects, you quickly dehumanize them to a point you'll find very hard to bond in any way. So I doubt you're having "romantic" relationships with women, I'm guessing …	/r/ExRedPill	25/02/22 01:05 PM
0	I drove uber last night for few hours..so many couples Isn't ok Cupid like the worst of all dating apps? People in dating apps all write the exact same bio, they rarely put effort into it, and it's mostly used for hookups and short term dating. Short term/hookup means people most likely go for looks.	/r/ExRedPill	16/02/22 11:55 AM
5	I drove uber last night for few hours..so many couples But when you say 80% you mean 80% of high profile extremely attractive women. Bc those men you just mentioned aren't sleeping with average looking women. So in reality it's not 80% of women, it's 80% of the select few who are extremely attractive.	/r/ExRedPill	16/02/22 11:37 AM
3	How is Darius M even allowed to be on YouTube? Omfg the fact YouTube allows that type of content is beyond me. There was even a petition to remove them bc they are literally causing real world damage to several women. Like for real, they made an entire career out of misogyny... Exclusively. Their content isn't even "dating tips". It's straight up berating women for entertainment. And the influence they are having on young boys is scary.	/r/ExRedPill	14/02/22 07:31 AM
12	How is Darius M even allowed to be on YouTube? It's so bizarre how they live in this complete alternate reality where everything is money, social media, clout, etc. It's quite dystopian. And many times it's borderline pedo behaviour.. how they encourage men to groom younger girls bc they are "easier to manipulate". Of course that's not how they frame it, they just say stuff like "older women are bitter, sad, and less likely to shave" lol	/r/ExRedPill	13/02/22 11:01 PM
17	How is Darius M even allowed to be on YouTube? Well bc society simply doesn't see misogyny as an issue, even though it has been proven to be time and time again the gateway to other extreme ideologies and violent acts. There's research that shows that over half of mass shooters in the US had a history of domestic violence. If society actually took misogyny seriously, we could prevent so much damage. Misogyny indicates deeper issues and that's a fact. When big tech companies allow those men to PROFIT of misogyny, they are not only giving them…	/r/ExRedPill	13/02/22 10:17 PM
1	Has the RedPill Turned into an incel Movement? If by incel movement you mean dudes feeling incredibly entitled over women while displaying their blatant hatred, contempt or bitterness towards them, then yes. And if you look closely at the real world effects of this, you'll notice that crimes fuelled by misogyny have been on a consistent rise for the past years. What is called "incel terrorism" is literally being acknowledged as a form of terrorism by governments worldwide bc online communities are feeding into this every single day in massiv…	/r/ExRedPill	11/02/22 12:52 AM
3	Is dating easier if you’re white?? Oh people have racial biases for sure, that's a fact. But to say that Asian women, Hispanic women, black women tend to do this or that is also a bias, influenced by stereotypes. I just think it's a lot more nuanced than that bc women aren't monolithic. People are full of biases, every single person.	/r/ExRedPill	04/02/22 02:54 AM
5	Is dating easier if you’re white?? Hispanic isn't a race though. Hispanic ppl can have all types of skin tones. I'm not sure if you're talking about culture or looks. Seems like you're generalizing. In any way, everything is easier in life if your skin is white, that comes with white privilege. However, it doesn't mean you can't succeed.	/r/ExRedPill	03/02/22 11:17 PM
1	This red pilled video has 300k likes on Tik tok. Is it safe to say that the majority of people these days are red pilled? But don't you think that having massive platforms like podcasts are a way of bringing more people into it? Especially young boys.	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/22 03:46 PM
11	Red Piller Here - Why Should I Quit? no girl gets married to someone who makes less money than her. I sure hope no "girl" is getting married at all. I think you meant women. It's weird af to call grown ass women by the term we use for children.	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/22 08:55 AM
0	This red pilled video has 300k likes on Tik tok. Is it safe to say that the majority of people these days are red pilled? I've been thinking about that lately. I think these last two years of covid probably contributed to the increase of ppl joining in. I used to use tiktok but I gave up after a while bc TRP is really prevalent there. I've been seeing a lot of self proclaimed red pill dating coaches as well, and all of those ppl have platforms with 300k+ followers, that being YouTube, instagram, tiktok, podcasts or whatever. I think this lack of responsibility from big tech companies when it comes to actually regul…	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/22 08:34 AM
6	Red Piller Here - Why Should I Quit? That's incredibly inaccurate	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/22 07:41 AM
21	Red Piller Here - Why Should I Quit? That's hypergamy - your husband has to be able to replace your income to do that. That's not hypergamy, it's patriarchal gender roles, which everyone's subjected to. Feminism is destructive. I don't think women and men are equal and I think that forcing them to be equal has just made men and women hate each other I think blaming feminism is a huge problem and I don't even think you understand what it means. Feminism gave women choices they previously did not have. If men feel offended by women h…	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/22 01:48 AM
3	MEN..... IT IS OUR FAULT Sounds like victim blaming to me Yes, men should understand the root causes. But I think your message is way too "motivational speaker" textbook. The classic "you're in control of your own happiness" that MLMs are constantly spewing. And what I mean by that is that life is a lot more nuanced than that. It's not that black and white and it's also not how abuse works. The root cause isn't as simple as "you're the problem"	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/22 09:42 PM
5	Curious to know what y’all think of this statistic? Well, don't traditional manly men often complain about women who wear too much make up, has stretch marks, don't shave, don't dress feminine, etc.. and then they go on to say "it's just a preference"? Women are allowed to have preferences as well, and a lot of modern women simply do not want the "traditional manly man". In fact the beauty standards for men are created by men and not women.. but that's a whole different subject. Y'all tell yourselves it's ratio just so you don't have to think abo…	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/22 08:42 AM
8	Curious to know what y’all think of this statistic? Most men on dating apps post the same exact picture of them holding a dead fish, guns, dead animals they hunt, them with a bunch of women, with a baby (?!) etc. Most women are obviously skipping all of those. It's a performance of tradicional masculinity and most women nowadays either fear that type of men, or they avoid them completely. Yet it's still a prevalent tactic they choose to use on dating apps, then they wonder why they aren't getting matches. It's not because of ratio.	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/22 02:45 AM
33	Curious to know what y’all think of this statistic? And that really sums up that 20/80 regurgitated narrative. When they talk about "minority of men getting all the women", they are disingenuous af bc they aren't referring to "all women". They don't include any woman who doesn't fit the "super hot" category (which is literally the pretty privileged minority).	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/22 02:37 AM
2	are men even attracted to women? There's a lot to unpack there. Idk how old you are, but women are taught from a very young age to doubt themselves, humble themselves, hate each other, etc. This is everywhere, it's in the media we consume, in our interpersonal relationships, school, work, at home. I'm pretty sure every woman develops internalized misogyny one way or another, and we eventually figure it out at some point and then we start healing from it. Some figure it out sooner than others, but it's most likely in our mid 20s…	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/22 11:23 AM
2	Why are there so many women here Honest question: do you know what's internalized misogyny and how it manifests?	/r/ExRedPill	25/01/22 10:09 PM
5	Why are there so many women here In the redpill, women are treated as collateral damage. It's completely valid to have trauma from relationships with redpill ppl. Imo that's part of how this entire thing negatively impacts society. I'm sorry you had to go through that, I hope you're doing ok.	/r/ExRedPill	25/01/22 10:05 PM
2	Why are there so many women here I thought this was for ex redpill, is it men exclusive?	/r/ExRedPill	25/01/22 09:59 PM
6	As a woman that's not into casual sex I'd like to weed out sexist/redpill men. How do I nicely explain to a date that I'd rather wait? I've been seeing a lot of leftist men with the same ideology lately. It's really weird. They differ in some topics like the traditions, but the core values and overall points are basically identical. I think it's the intersection with red pill PUAs. Idk if it's just my perception but I feel like they've been growing their audience..?	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/21 11:36 PM
2	As a woman that's not into casual sex I'd like to weed out sexist/redpill men. How do I nicely explain to a date that I'd rather wait? Look I'm gonna be pretty honest and this is my opinion alone, based on my personal experiences. and I wanna say that dating in general nowadays has become specially hard. Data shows that a majority of women say they have experienced harassing behavior from someone they went on a date with, which is beyond concerning. When I was open to dating I went on about 13 dates with 13 different men. I was a virgin during the first 9, so I didn't want to have sex. I'm using the term virgin here because alt…	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/21 11:26 PM
0	what does 'incel' even mean anymore? I think many people aren't aware of the extreme misogyny that goes on online with the whole manosphere thing, especially with PUAs always putting this front of "male self improvement" coaches. And everytime there's a mass shooting in which the perpetrators is proven to belong to several of these communities, the media loves to talk about incels only, because people find it more interesting and tbh, more insane. So it sells more, society is more likely to believe these people are simply crazy mon…	/r/ExRedPill	06/09/21 12:35 AM
2	Sigma? Didn't the guy who started the whole "alpha" shit later admitted that he was wrong?	/r/ExRedPill	28/08/21 06:57 PM
0	Is there a better way for men to talk about their problems outside the manosphere? I get what you mean Men need to have a space to talk about their issues, period. And many times that doesn't happen because they are constantly reminded that "even though they have issues, women got it worse", so they end up turning this into resentment and anger towards women. Especially towards feminism. Anyways, I'm not a man so I cant speak for men. What I personally think is that men needed support from people who could discuss men's issues from a knowledgeable perspective, based on facts, …	/r/ExRedPill	23/08/21 09:25 AM
5	Is there a better way for men to talk about their problems outside the manosphere? I don't go there but I've seen some people saying they are "feminists" therefore they are inherently "anti-male".. I believe they recognize the existence of the patriarchy so by doing that they are already angering MRAs, who blame their issues on feminists and claim there's no patriarchy I guess it might be because of that. Because there's also r/leftwingmaleadvocates which says it's left wing but it's basically MRAs as well and they also show a deep hatred of feminists and also frequently talk …	/r/ExRedPill	23/08/21 09:08 AM
1	How dare these boys and young men think that their lives might be worth preserving! Reports were saying there weren't any women on the streets when the Taliban got to Kabul. Under Taliban ruling, women can't leave the house unless accompanied by a male relative. They also have to cover themselves from head to toe. My guess is they couldn't risk being on the streets so they stayed behind. There were also reports women were busy burning their documents (like university diplomas) and trying to figure out how to stay alive because they fear they'll be persecuted for having jobs.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/08/21 04:52 AM
1	Men are not monolithic I agree. But what's your position on women's rights? Do you think there's equality? What about when women or feminists are described as a monolith?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/08/21 04:18 AM
-8	What’s Up w/Reddit’s Hate on Men? Not manipulation. It's a suggestion. Try asking yourself why is it that everything and anything contrary to the group think gets immediately downvoted. Wallowing in self pity will lead you on a very dark path. Y'all aren't working on your traumas or helping each other grow, you are simply validating each other's existential dread.	/r/MensRights	09/08/21 02:59 AM
-9	What’s Up w/Reddit’s Hate on Men? You should reflect on why yours subs that claim to be a "support space" for men's rights actually lead men on a path to more hatred, loneliness, and sadness... And even inspire mass shootings. It's not a big conspiracy against men. If those are getting banned, there's obviously a problem with how you direct your frustrations.	/r/MensRights	09/08/21 01:54 AM
2	Since in my previous post about you wanting to see my debate, here it is. There will be part 2. It didn't all fit and I hope is not confuse. Any criticism is welcome, I'm still 15 and it's always good to learn more. May I ask what made you interested in all this at such a young age?	/r/MensRights	17/07/21 06:57 AM
2	Hi I wanted to know everyone’s opinion on the Netflix show sex life and how it reflects modern dating and redpoll ideology. Pls tell me your opinion or reviews. Trying to see if this creates an interesting discussion. I haven't watched it, but the look of it reminded me of that 365 days movie that many young women were obsessed about. I find it concerning tbh. In my opinion, media has a huge influence in how society shapes interpersonal relationships. If you were to look critically at movies from the past decades, you can clearly see the narratives they planted about romantic love and how damaging it has been for everyone. So many misconceptions about people and dating come from this constant presence of toxi…	/r/ExRedPill	13/07/21 08:40 PM
2	I am sick of seeing the same excuses about lazy women. Well, if you are fighting for men's rights.. it's not by simply pointing out mean comments, and inverting the genders, that you are making a significant analysis of the oppression men face. It just sounds like returning the same empty rhetoric. My question isn't limited to this post, but to the pattern of redirecting the focus and the concern to what women are doing and thinking online, and then returning the trash talk with more trash talk.. rather than focusing on what is actually lacking in t…	/r/MensRights	12/07/21 04:05 AM
0	I am sick of seeing the same excuses about lazy women. Why's this sub called men's rights but the topics are entirely about women?	/r/MensRights	11/07/21 11:19 PM
2	Do female brains actually "mature earlier?" No	/r/MensRights	09/07/21 07:20 PM
1	Why do only women get their own section of a gym? What? I meant it can be an anxiety-inducing space for PEOPLE, and an intimidating atmosphere for PEOPLE. I'd have no problem with men having men exclusive gyms if that's what makes them feel more comfortable. I'm trying to understand why is this upsetting. It's a genuine question. I'm not a man, I can't guess how it feels, so I'm asking how do you feel. It's not an attack. It's a genuine question. Edit: Also, I used the word women because this is something being brought up by women, and I'm pres…	/r/MensRights	09/07/21 07:59 AM
1	How does it sound now? Dude idk who you are, but you have so much anger, that must be exhausting. I honestly wish you can heal someday.	/r/MensRights	09/07/21 04:06 AM
1	How does it sound now? And I'm not obligated to answer question, especially from someone who's being incredibly disrespectful towards me and deliberately throwing insults at me. Also, that's creepy AF. Why are you on the askfeminist if you hate feminists so much?	/r/MensRights	09/07/21 03:56 AM
1	How does it sound now? What? That's not how that works, and you are contradicting yourself because you already invalidated everything I said about incels, including that part about police finding out the motive. Feminism doesn't encourage killing of any kind, it's not the same as incel ideology that believes in a black pill and talk about the day of retribution when they get to kill people. Where in feminism does it defend going on killing sprees? Feminism doesn't even have just one stance, it has many, depending on t…	/r/MensRights	09/07/21 03:51 AM
1	How does it sound now? That's an awful story, but in nowhere it says she is a feminist, and her crimes seem to be motivated by mental illness. She was being abused and groomed by a grown man since she was a teen. I'm trying to understand how this is related to "feminist hate against men"	/r/MensRights	09/07/21 02:47 AM
1	How does it sound now? Again, I don't understand why you feel so much anger towards me, you feel the need to insult me. Cant we have a conversation? If you don't want prevention I don't know what your goal is. I also never claimed to be a feminist, you are just deciding everything I am and I get no say on it. There is no conclusion because it's supposed to be a conversation. It's not black and white. Men also commit most violent crimes if you wanna go the route of "the most", but the why doesn't matter? Should we igno…	/r/MensRights	09/07/21 02:42 AM
0	How does it sound now? Don't you have the link for that? That's not feminism tho. What would you think if I said an MRA killed a bunch of little girls bc they'd grow up to be feminists? Would you agree with it? Would you say it's part of the entire ideology?	/r/MensRights	09/07/21 01:54 AM
0	How does it sound now? What? I didn't make it up. The government uses this. Why would I want create this? Incels kill men too, especially because their hatred isn't only towards women, but also towards men they perceive as alpha.	/r/MensRights	09/07/21 01:52 AM
0	How does it sound now? You don't even know me but you already decided you hate me.	/r/MensRights	09/07/21 01:50 AM
1	How does it sound now? Men comparison? What? Not that high? Those are human beings who've lost their lives. All of those were classified as femicides. I didn't classify it, the government did. Also, why do you feel the need to insult me?	/r/MensRights	09/07/21 01:49 AM
0	How does it sound now? Why are you so angry? Men and women exist in the world together.	/r/MensRights	09/07/21 01:47 AM
1	How does it sound now? It's not about who gets killed more or who's "a victim". It's about understanding the motivation and the perpetrators. Shouldnt the focus be on prevention instead of "protection"? To prevent, we need to know the patterns. And data shows that yes, men get killed more. But the majority of perpetrators are acquaintances or strangers. While for women, the majority of perpetrators are intimate partners and family members. It's important to interpret data, wouldn't you agree? Data is there not to be a…	/r/MensRights	09/07/21 01:42 AM
1	Why do only women get their own section of a gym? I don't understand how this is discriminatory..? If you've ever stepped foot in a gym, you must know that's a lifestyle for many. But many people just want to exercise and get it done so they can go home. If you have social anxiety, you'll probably understand what I mean when I say that it can feel uncomfortable to be around people in certain situations. Many women feel anxious at the gym and they just would feel more comfortable around other women. It's not difficult to understand. It's not lik…	/r/MensRights	09/07/21 12:59 AM
-2	How does it sound now? The women weren't seen as 'submissive', they had a very important role of nurturing What I mean by submissive, is that their role was related to passive traits. For example: for a long time, women couldn't enroll in University programs that are considered manly, like Law or Engineering. While men's value was connected to physical strength and financial support, the woman's was to procreate and be a housewife. I'm not saying that those things are inherently good or bad, I just think people in 202…	/r/MensRights	09/07/21 12:05 AM
-1	How does it sound now? I believe any hate-motivated crime, especially when it's a mass murder, should be considered significant. Those were people who lost their lives. And the US and Canada have accounted for more than 50 deaths driven by incel ideology. Also, what's urban youths?	/r/MensRights	08/07/21 11:33 PM
-4	How does it sound now? Sure, but isn't misogyny more prevalent and more visible in the real world? I see a lot of both online, but does misandry manifests as crimes irl? For example, incel mass murders are already being recognized as terrorism. Is misandry manifested as real world violence, as in crimes against men purely because they are men? Genuine question. I have no idea. I know men get raped, and endure domestic abuse, but there isn't any indication that they are victimized for solely for being men. It's about p…	/r/MensRights	08/07/21 08:55 PM
0	How does it sound now? You believe misandry is real, right? What are your thoughts on misogyny? Do you think it exists? Do you think it's a real issue? Edit: in order to have genuine discussions about this subject, which is important, I think we should be open to information that contradict our beliefs, and open to actual productive discussions. With that being said, I'd like to point out that this author is a self-proclaimed misandrist, and not a feminist. I just think it's disingenuous to paint her book as feminist …	/r/MensRights	08/07/21 07:37 PM
2	Commenters are posting blatant sexist stereotypes and generalizing all men without even trying to answer the question. It's so disheartening to see sexism against men receive so much support. Am I the only one seeing this?? Generalization is bad all around. No matter the subject. What's your opinion on how to approach a subject like gender based discrimination, and the social impact of gender roles, without using any kind of generalizing?	/r/MensRights	07/07/21 07:21 PM
-2	I am sick of hearing women wanting a “traditional man” when they aren’t willing to be traditional woman. Making this into a gender war won't solve anything. Bad people exist, regardless of gender. There will always be people who are toxic. It's not a female or a male trait. Patriarchy severely affects men and it's the root of most of their issues. Yet, y'all don't wanna believe it's real for some reason. It's not a conspiracy theory. There's so much evidence. Saying that we live in a patriarchy isn't the same as saying that "men are bad". It's a system, it's not about individuals. I'm pretty sure y…	/r/MensRights	05/07/21 08:57 AM
-23	I am sick of hearing women wanting a “traditional man” when they aren’t willing to be traditional woman. I have a question tho, can you talk about men's rights without mentioning women's rights? Because if the ideology of men's rights is rooted in the idea that "feminism created men's issues", then you are inherently against other group's rights. It would be hypocritical to complain about something that it's just factual. I'm not arguing. I'm genuinely wondering what's the logic. It's much simpler to just own it for what it is and move along. Most people would agree that it's innacurate to compare …	/r/MensRights	05/07/21 06:44 AM
3	Why are women all the same but men are individuals? They simply don't see women as human beings. It's a fact of humanity that women have been historically treated like "the second sex". And till this day, many men cannot see women as their equal, aka a human being. While "women are all the same" for them, if a woman talks about her experiences with SA, they immediately receive the "not all men" response, or "stop generalizing men". Misogyny and patriarchy are pervasive, it shapes our lives and views. And it can be incredibly subtle. And the more …	/r/ExRedPill	19/06/21 10:50 PM
2	If the redpill tactics aren’t working when dating why do they still insist on using them? I totally see what you mean, and I agree that this social expectation is very real. I think it's incredibly unfair the type of pressure put on boys and men, not to mention unrealistic. However, there's this misconception that women can pick out men, when this isn't true for most women. For the extremely pretty ones? Sure. But if you're a woman who doesn't portray the expectations of beauty and femininity, I guarantee that's a false assumption. I'm a 28 year old woman, I'm not hideous, but I don'…	/r/ExRedPill	17/06/21 05:57 AM
1	If the redpill tactics aren’t working when dating why do they still insist on using them? Power, dominance, it's the feeling of being in control. It never was about relationships. PUAs know their techniques are manipulation, they even state it proudly. They talk about dating multiple women so you are never left without an option when they "flake". It's how they curb the fear of rejection, which is a human fear, everyone gets rejected. But they relate it to their masculinity and personhood so badly, that they can't stand the idea of it. It's like they try to fulfil this emptiness they…	/r/ExRedPill	17/06/21 04:50 AM
4	If the redpill tactics aren’t working when dating why do they still insist on using them? If you need to use tactics to impress someone, I assure you that they are not worth pursuing. I mean, if your goal is to find meaningful connections.	/r/ExRedPill	17/06/21 04:38 AM
3	LMS is it that important ? I honestly believe that people who seek looks, money and status on others when it comes to relationships, do it because of unresolved traumas. That won't help you find meaningful connections. It only turns relationships into a "market" and people into "commodities", easily replacing each other for the "better" model. It's no way of living, in my opinion. It seems extremely sad and empty. And any group that preaches a "one size fits all" model is something we should be very suspicious of, because…	/r/ExRedPill	16/06/21 08:27 PM
2	Hey guys, made a post on menslib regarding tiktok and it’s overlap with RP and such. I see it everyday and it concerns me so much. It's incredibly sad. I think the pandemic created a huge setback in society. This far right radicalization seems to be only growing. It's awful to watch. I use tiktok and my videos get taken down constantly.. just for mentioning female sexuality or SA. But red pill, misogyny, no fap.. those are all allowed to upload freely. I think the people behind the app have a serious bias, bc they have no problem with it, but they'll enforce all of these guideli…	/r/ExRedPill	15/06/21 12:23 AM
1	If we want to stop boys from being radicalized into certain groups then we have to stop demonizing their sexuality I think sex Ed is bad all around. I remember my teacher telling us that boys shouldn't masturbate while also ignoring that girls do it too. I felt incredibly guilty and I didn't like to look at my body. And I'm not even from a religious family. It was always incredibly taboo to talk about our own bodies among girls. Grown women still don't understand their own anatomy because of that. it's a social issue that definitely affects everyone. Also, about "demonizing" boys' and men's sexuality, I see …	/r/ExRedPill	12/06/21 10:32 PM
3	How does one prove they are genuine nice guy In my opinion, there's no such thing as "nice guys". You either have good morals or you don't, and that's not really a "checklist". It's about your personal values. It's also about self-awareness. Being able to look inward for things, to know your vulnerabilities, when you need help, and when you are wrong. It's about who you are by yourself every day. It's very hard to be believed when you self-proclaim to be anything, because humans believe continuous actions better than words. Some women who …	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 11:31 PM
-3	Do you think women are taught a common agenda to pursue when it comes to their intentions of dating men? On the contrary. Many women still teach their daughters to be passive ladies and to never raise their voices to a man. Many teach them to do everything for their husbands. I've also seen it with my own eyes, multiple times. My mom is an example. That's no proof. But what is a fact of history is that women did not have rights or independence until few decades ago. So you really believe that society drastically transformed in so little time? Women needed their husband's authorisation to do most th…	/r/MGTOW2	29/04/21 12:38 AM
2	Do you think we should consider the red pill as a men’s issue as well as a women’s issue? Absolutely. The normalization of misogyny is extremely harmful to everyone, including children.	/r/ExRedPill	05/04/21 03:08 AM