Sadismx Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. I bet a lot of those guys are larping and aren’t actually having sex, which would explain the sexual hangup, in real life the guys I know who get around don’t care and expect any hot girl to have a history	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 04:33 PM
1	Men arent fighting a war we are just fighting back against Misandry Men struggle with the fact that they have no positive identity to aspire to in order to distance themselves from the other men, I think on some level a big problem with being a man is you are expected to make up for others bad behavior but also to have the same identity as them, makes no sense	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/25 09:23 PM
7	A lot of women not being able to tell the difference between misogyny and equality, is not a joke. It’s more of a desire to seem as agreeable as possible even when they aren’t	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/09/25 05:42 PM
9	The left lost the culture war with young men due to overcorrecting for toxic masculinity I tgink it’s that feminist and leftist women regularly show contempt towards the men who are on their side and there are so many examples of men who believe they are doing what women are asking for and getting roasted for it I also think younger people didn’t grow up really seeing true religious people so it’s easier for them to larp	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 09:53 PM
–	Men offer nothing to women but still expect women to want them It’s not that they don’t want them, it’s just that they will have coworkers or friends that don’t have children/wives and they will slowly start becoming jealous of the freedom	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 04:32 PM
8	Men offer nothing to women but still expect women to want them Men say these things nonstop, and they are married, of all ages, they just don’t say it in the presence of women They say it even more about having children Well they don’t exactly tell you not to, but they make sure you know that they are jealous of you if you aren’t married with children. They basically say the same thing you hear women say about losing their identity and just being a mother/wife, their entire life is maintenance and are desperately jealous of anyone who just gets to have hobb…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 02:07 AM
1	People angry at the term “Emotional Labor” have never cared for people. Women think that just because they invented the term that we must not have to deal with the same premise nonstop, they don’t bring up the term to better communicate, but to reference how much work they do and therefore deserve more, without even thinking all the emotional labor we do without even mentioning it When women need reassurance or emotional depth out of us it counts against us, but that situation is asking us to do emotional labor, so I think most people would agree we’re doing ten tim…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 03:47 AM
7	CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western women She’s pretending that she cares about that because she wants men to feel like they need to do more to try to please women rather than just moving on to someone who will accept them as they are	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 11:06 PM
3	Introverted men are boring to most women (even introverted women) As men we often make the complaint that women don’t have enough hobbies, which they never agree with because we don’t do the best job explaining why. So many women just start creating drama when they are bored, and so many women try to have their cake and eat it too by dating a chill guy while befriending the most insane crazy bitches(or family members) so they can bounce back and forth between these extremes and dragging you into it. We all know the cliche of the person whose tired of the drama…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 01:11 PM
–	Most Passport bros leave the country because they can’t get any women in the U.S and try to take advantage of the American dollar being worth more over there Yeah, the guys going to a different country are dating down	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 11:04 PM
–	Most Passport bros leave the country because they can’t get any women in the U.S and try to take advantage of the American dollar being worth more over there That’s not what hypergamy is	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 11:02 PM
–	Most Passport bros leave the country because they can’t get any women in the U.S and try to take advantage of the American dollar being worth more over there It’s not like they are progressively replacing each wife with another wife from a poorer country, they are going from single to being in a relationship, hypergamy is continuous branch swinging	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 09:12 PM
1	Most Passport bros leave the country because they can’t get any women in the U.S and try to take advantage of the American dollar being worth more over there You aren’t doing hypergamy if you fail in the states and look elsewhere for a willing participant	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 06:04 PM
–	What are some secrets men dont tell women? Reacting badly isn’t saying no, reacting badly is misinterpreting behavior, projecting malicious intentions and trying to spread it around so other people will gang up Women don’t just want to say no, they want other women to also say no, which they attempt to make sure is the outcome, don’t act like you haven’t seen sabotage Not to mention women lie nonstop, and try to come up with reasons why it’s ok for them to lie, but not men Even the best men lie, which obviously allows the worst men to li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 03:25 PM
–	What are some secrets men dont tell women? See, this comment right here is how you want men to think so you can control them. Men adapt to their environment the same way all life does If you don’t want to be lied to, it is your responsibility to be able to handle the truth. We don’t care about shame tactics, the men that were strong based on your definition(being completely truthful) get filtered out of the gene pool. Men lie because women crave a man who doesn’t exist, who is sold to them by older women to make profit in media. Women ca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 02:27 PM
–	What are some secrets men dont tell women? This is true, look at all the women who are upset because a guy is “looking for something casual” and they believe is too old or balding or whatever, they sincerely get mad about men they don’t know being truthful	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 02:21 PM
23	Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men. Women constantly expect men to act like women as well And you can say equality isn’t sameness but both sides have to agree that something is equal, I often feel like women tell themselves that men want to do certain things(when we clearly don’t) or if he’s the one than he wants to do certain things, as a way of avoiding actual equality	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/25 12:15 AM
21	Most Passport bros leave the country because they can’t get any women in the U.S and try to take advantage of the American dollar being worth more over there It’s weird that people even think this is a bad thing, if you are an unhappy lonely person you should take advantage of whatever opportunity you do have I don’t get the implication that it’s a bad thing, people always try to project like sex slavery vibes like they are trying to buy a slave How is it any different from a woman wanting to date a foreigner?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 01:28 AM
1	Women’s Dating Problems Are 100% Their Own Fault I hope it doesn’t look like an emotionally fueled rant, rather than an enjoyable mansplaining of prisoner dilemma It may have been more inspired by one of the other posts in this chain I don’t remember	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 02:04 PM
6	Women’s Dating Problems Are 100% Their Own Fault Women have immense power over men but it’s a prisoner dilemma type situation so it hasn’t really worked out Womens lives are close enough to being good on a personal level that they aren’t really willing to make any sacrifices on behalf of women, there’s no feminist burning herself alive to make a statement or making any personal sacrifice for the betterment of future women, so it’s all just a capitalist system where half the men dropped out because of a lack of incentives and the rest of the wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 02:53 AM
0	Women’s Dating Problems Are 100% Their Own Fault Men are selective about their partners, all of the descriptions of men not willing to commit are being selective, they dip because the woman isn’t worthy enough for them, the men who are always described as not willing to commit expect someone better than them because statistically that’s what makes the most sense for them	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 02:44 AM
1	Women don't approach men because of other women. A lot of women who refuse to initiate are doomed to only date the men who ask out every single woman they interact with, they will be cheated on by every single man, because they don’t understand how extreme their behavior is filtering the men they date, they are dating the end of the spectrum thinking it’s indicative of the average	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/25 01:51 AM
7	Why do women seem to dislike men who like fishing? They aren’t, they are just posting a picture that they happen to have, most single men just flat out have no pictures of themselves They take the fish picture to show their friends the fish, they are only in the picture to prove that they caught it, they aren’t thinking of it as a picture of themselves Going out and actually having the thought to take a picture of yourself is like the male version of an ick, a friends group of men could go their entire lives without taking a single picture of ea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 10:47 PM
9	Why do women seem to dislike men who like fishing? All culture is stereotypical I think a big divide between men and women is that men aren’t trying to be “creative” when they take pictures, because to us being a tryhard is worse than being stereotypical. Assuming that someone isn’t creative when they aren’t trying to be, compared to people who are actively thinking about themselves in such a performative way is not going to come to an accurate conclusion	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 09:52 PM
1	Men are not attracted to young women because they are "naive and easy to manipulate" but mainly because they are thinner and have nicer skin. If you are a woman and you take care of yourself, you can post-pone "hitting the wall" and remain attractive even into your early 40s. You can’t avoid childhood baggage no matter what you do, everyone’s gonna have something like that. But this is exactly my point, assertiveness is a positive trait, but when you add baggage to it there are unforeseen consequences from the males point of view, there are a lot of things that women get mad at men for that to us doesn’t make any sense Another example could be a man asking a woman to “hang out”, there is obviously objectively nothing wrong with that, but if you add enough baggage it …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 01:09 AM
9	Men are not attracted to young women because they are "naive and easy to manipulate" but mainly because they are thinner and have nicer skin. If you are a woman and you take care of yourself, you can post-pone "hitting the wall" and remain attractive even into your early 40s. People really downplay just how much of a woman’s personality impacts their beauty, and women get sick of men because they deal with us so much and individual guys take the brunt of years worth of interactions those women have had with other men Not having baggage is really attractive and a lot of women’s “self improvement” looks like baggage to us, an example I’ve seen in my own life is anytime a woman claims she “knows what she wants” which really just means she won’t do anything else that isn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 11:18 PM
7	Why does it seem like women very rarely lust over a guy? How does a guy go about getting a woman to lust for him? Being in a band and having free coke is the best answer	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 11:00 PM
5	Why does it seem like women very rarely lust over a guy? How does a guy go about getting a woman to lust for him? Love without a period of lust is disappointing Especially since she has probably lusted over other guys in her youth, if a man thinks that about his gf the relationship is basically over Women often mention disliking things feeling transactional on this sub, men agree in the sense that lust requiring other factors feels transactional and therefore less trustworthy	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 10:51 PM
2	“Trust But Verify” paternity tests are bs because most men would never want a woman that’s always paranoid of cheating. Women are suspicious of men all the time without them cheating, I would say women being suspicious of men based on nothing is the norm I would get the paternity test if I felt like the baby didn’t look enough like me, there doesn’t need to be signs of cheating to want one	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 03:07 PM
3	Men and women's instinctual definition of a "Good Man" are completely different. Everyone is fit for dating	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/25 08:55 PM
-1	How would you react if your boyfriend admitted you weren't exactly his type looks wise but he values you for your personality? You just made all that up, the main post was about being someone’s “type” and you are acting like anyone who isn’t your type is a person you see with contempt	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/25 09:31 PM
0	How would you react if your boyfriend admitted you weren't exactly his type looks wise but he values you for your personality? You are offended at the idea of someone valuing you highly enough to look beyond your looks or that you aren’t his “type”, and you believe that person is a loser So odd, I feel like every children’s story has been telling us to be this way	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/25 08:02 PM
1	Alimony laws force men to provide after the relationship ends. Men seek sex and affection. No laws force women to uphold that role in or outside of the relationship. You will never convince a woman who wants to be married into thinking it’s not important, and if you try they will freak out and act like you cheated on them and did some type of betrayal You aren’t going to have a debate with a person whose acting hysterical, the relationship will be over right there	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 10:19 AM
–	Is it fair to criticize men for consuming porn when most women don't want them? People assume that the default male brain is a desirable experience, maybe the effects are an improvement? Although I do agree, age of consumption matters, I think I first started when I was 17 or 18	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 02:48 PM
1	Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options? Men would jump on a better option in a heartbeat, but we aren’t gonna be guinea pigs, once a suitable product hits the market it will become popular I can already see the future discourse trying to get men to stop taking bc Men don’t advocate for anything, so the claim that we aren’t advocating for this specific thing doesn’t matter	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 09:04 AM
5	The idea that men are intimidated by successful women is mostly a myth. I have made less than a gf before, and I will say that people just generally treat you worse and bring it up a lot, they make assumptions more, people always act like you have something you need to make up for and act like you are supposed to have a plan to make the most in the future, it’s weird I think most men wouldn’t care if they didn’t have to deal with the stigma, in fact I bet many would prefer it	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/25 04:17 PM
7	The idea that men are intimidated by successful women is mostly a myth. Why you actin like the bear didn’t happen, it was like a month ago	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/25 04:15 PM
3	Losing your virginity "late" is far better than with the wrong person Women underestimate how much being a virgin will warp a man’s entire life, and if a man is a virgin for too long than the “right person” actually just doesn’t exist anymore and even if she did you lose the ability to treat her properly	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/25 10:05 PM
1	What Makes a Man Creepy? I consider myself creepy, but I think there are different types of creepy so there isn’t going to be 1 singular answer	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 06:24 PM
–	Q4M: A well-traveled adventurous woman? Or sheltered homebody? Traveling for no reason is great, the whole lifestyle is a dream I wish I could still do I’m always envious of my dad when he tells me about how him and his brother would go on weekend road trips, driving halfway across the country, I actually miss having to read those old maps from my childhood, it was so much cheaper back then	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 04:03 PM
–	Women don't really want equality relationships as evidenced by women in society You are talking to a troll	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/25 03:55 PM
7	The "If she did it with an ex, she should do it with me" rule applies to pegging The argument is that she would have to be willing to do it, but if the guy doesn’t want that than the argument would never come up This is a dumb attempt at a gotcha	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 02:15 AM
1	Women have zero tolerance policy for even slightly socially awkward men I’m pretty good at knowing how far to go 1 on 1, but sometimes I fuck up while in mixed company if I know someone specific would really enjoy it	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 11:45 AM
1	Women have zero tolerance policy for even slightly socially awkward men I’m a creepy weirdo, in my mind in an ironic funny way Very hit and miss	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 07:43 PM
3	Men love whores Some guys are turned on by that, look up r/hotpast They also assume that the women is willing to have sex even when she doesn’t want or isn’t into it, she’s normalized to the transactional sexual relationship already so guys who have enough resources who are already jaded to normal relationships will be obsessed, but that doesn’t mean these relationships play out the way they imagine, they are chasing a different type of unicorn	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 01:46 PM
6	The rise of Andrew Tate is sad, but not surprising Cardi b brags about drugging and robbing men and an actual song lyric she sings is “fuck him then I get some money” They are the same, although she doesn’t need to pretend to be a role model because she makes her money from rap. Andrew tate is filling an internet celebrity void that will always exist, but anyone who can be an actual celebrity will avoid it because they know the toxicity required will always give a lot of bad feedback, the closest women trying to be like AT are the women’s dating…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 01:39 PM
7	the reason why most american polticians are men Women love to support each other when it is somehow in opposition to men, it’s easy to justify that as self interest, but when it becomes women vs women they lose interest	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/23 06:44 AM
0	Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest? People aren’t having sex for reproduction, 99.9% of sex is recreational. This is capitalism, not nature If you create an entire argument that is based around survival of the fittest, than you should also be 100% against abortion, for aborting children who clearly are the fittest, right? You could also use this argument to justify rape if you wanted	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 11:16 AM
1	I never realized how many men actually go bald until I hit late 20s/30s. It’s more common than you think I don’t think we have the same idea of what that looks like, because “nobody feels the need to say a thing to him about it” is a weird response Wearing something confidently has nothing to do with what people say to you, it’s about whether or not it limits the types women that are attracted to you, if you can confidently rock a wig than it should actually become attractive, not ignorable, otherwise it’s not better than just being bald (confident wig guy > normal guy with great hair/confident bal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 10:02 PM
1	I never realized how many men actually go bald until I hit late 20s/30s. It’s more common than you think That makes you even more insecure about it… I have a head of hair, so it isn’t really advice for me. But I don’t think there is anyway to confidently wear a hair piece other than ironically doing it as a joke, which only works for 1 day	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 08:16 PM
8	I never realized how many men actually go bald until I hit late 20s/30s. It’s more common than you think If you wear them people perceive you as insecure, it defines their personality, it’s not really a solution	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 07:17 PM
3	It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically. You are living in extremes, there’s a difference between allowing low level clutter and turning the house into a slop pit	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 05:57 PM
11	It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically. See, that’s where you’re wrong, we fantasize about how they were when we met them, when they had bachelor standards	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 05:34 PM
5	It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically. I have for the last 7 years	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 05:30 PM
10	It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically. You might not know this, but we fantasize about living as bachelors again, not even to get pussy, just simple shit like leaving food and cups on the coffee table overnight. Guys who want women to be good housekeepers don’t exist anymore, that’s boomer trad shit, men want our lives to be simple and chill	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 05:23 PM
14	It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically. I assure you, you add up all the little shit and it is real time out of the week. And no, I don’t have ocd type rules or tendencies Your answer is to just do it, my point is that all the extra stuff shouldn’t be part of the 50/50	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 02:19 PM
28	It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically. It will be dependent on your house and how you organize things, first thing off the top of my head is the way I store my socks and boxers, I just throw them in the drawer, she thinks boxers should be folded and all socks should be paired up, tons of little stuff that adds up like how all the bottles sit in the shower, I would be fine with 1 shampoo and 1 conditioner, not 10 bottles that all have their place, etc The problem is that she will do these things if I don’t, trying to guilt and act lik…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 01:27 PM
36	It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically. It’s because women see a lot of things as needed that men know aren’t actually important at all, and the worst is when they want you to do things the same way they do even though your way of doing things works too. A lot of the time I think it’s because women are thinking about projecting a specific image, while men are focusing more on functionality and don’t care about what it looks like	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/22 01:02 PM
2	The bluepill "communication solves everything" meme sounds good, but it turns you into a dog with all bark and no bite You aren’t solving her nagging you lol, you are just putting it off until later. This is like advice that is meant to promote procrastination, if you successfully get to the point that she stops nagging you it just means she resents you and thinks you are lazy. “Master communicator” lol Women aren’t “realizing” anything when you do this, because she’s just going to tell her friends and family and they will all side with her	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/22 06:31 PM
1	Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+ I don’t know why people think if you are in a relationship you aren’t enjoying your life, it sounds like you don’t want to be in a relationship at all, it has nothing to do with age really	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/22 11:48 AM
1	What can actually be done to improve the dating scene for everyone When I say status quo of relationships I’m referring to the criteria people use to select their mate and what they expect to get out of their relationship, what they picture in their head as desirable or normal I’m not debating whether or not people pair up to raise an off spring, I’m referring to the expectations associated with marriage	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 05:07 PM
1	What can actually be done to improve the dating scene for everyone The entire idea of a relationship and all of its “rules” are social constructs, people are conditioned to perceive relationships as routes to achieve desirable lifestyles and social status. Humans have an innate desire to connect with each other and form bonds, but most people desire “relationships” because of a fantasy they have slowly developed over their life in which their life is better. The entire concept of (the romanticized version) relationships and our innate drive for connection is ta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 03:24 PM
2	What can actually be done to improve the dating scene for everyone Modern relationships aren’t just “pairing up,” it’s an entire social contract that is purely cultural	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 02:52 PM
0	What can actually be done to improve the dating scene for everyone We’re born with a desire to connect, but the status quo of relationships is purely cultural	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 12:44 PM
8	Q4Bluepill: In your opinion why do you think more Women iniate divorce than men? Nice effort, it’s called an expression	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 04:09 PM
8	Q4Bluepill: In your opinion why do you think more Women iniate divorce than men? Maybe it’s just me, but I feel like women push men into putting everything on them. Men would love more time with the boys, female friends, etc. When men get into a relationship with a woman it’s pretty normal for her to invade all of our other relationships or try to isolate us from them And once the woman invaded your life she has an expectation of a certain “appearance” that you need to keep up, I can’t even count the amount of times women have been upset at me for embarrassing them whilst I’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 03:59 PM
2	Fds is now gone, thoughts? You think Elon is personally gonna read your tweets?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 03:26 PM
2	Fds is now gone, thoughts? Being a narcissist is pretty in touch when it comes to USA	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 03:25 PM
3	People who say men aren't vulnerable/don't open up emotionally/aren't as good at expressing/processing their emotions: what are examples of what this would actually look like? I typically get the feeling that when women want a man to open up to her it’s because of 2 reasons, she recognizes that she often uses the man for emotional support and doesn’t want to feel guilty that there is no give and take, and secondly she believes that you opening up to her will make her life easier In my own life I feel like I am fairly open in general, but strictly with past emotions, not current emotions. Because I think expressing emotions in the present as a man is not really helpful…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 06:35 PM
2	What are some examples of female privilege? If they aren’t expecting anything and don’t have an ulterior motive than it is still nice	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/22 08:53 PM
4	What are some examples of female privilege? People doing things for you just for existing seems pretty “nice” to me If you held the door for someone you wouldn’t classify yourself as being nice?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/22 06:43 PM
2	the problems in modern dating between the genders are actually Darwinism in action In the past partners were chosen based on a social hierarchy and based on resources, not really different than now Remember, we’re talking about reproduction, not dudes who look good having flings on tinder	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/22 11:47 AM
5	women (and guys) are you currently leading someone on that you don't have feelings for? if so, why? be honest this is reddit. It’s pretty strange for someone 40+ to spend their free time talking to incels online, I don’t think the juice is worth the squeeze Buy some kittens and start making crush videos, it’s a lot more profitable than all the hours of talking to nerds just to get flowers and dinner lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 07:17 PM
5	If a woman continues to multi-date after going on a date with you, she's not into you. I’m 33 and married	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 01:08 AM
4	If a woman continues to multi-date after going on a date with you, she's not into you. When I start dating someone Im texting them daily and thinking about them constantly, if I was going on dates with multiple people I would put less weight on the quality of the person and more weight on the date itself If I’m going on multiple dates I wouldn’t value any of the experiences as highly and doubt that I would be as mindful and present I’m sure a sociopath is going to be more on point when you are only judging them on a planned event	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 10:56 PM
2	If a woman continues to multi-date after going on a date with you, she's not into you. You aren’t ruminating towards a specific person if you are planning multiple dates with different people. It’s not complicated that if there are more people less of your attention is spent on each	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 10:45 PM
1	Most men present themselves poorly in public. Men don’t care, we notice like you say, but we don’t actually have beliefs or thoughts about it, we perceive it like “she’s sending x signal” We don’t attach traits to women based on clothing because women can wear whatever they want, whenever. We aren’t judgement or anything like that, we know how much women try to manipulate and control their look so it’s really just a question of attraction, nothing more We might respond accordingly, but we don’t genuinely have beliefs based on it, we know ho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 09:10 PM
1	Most men present themselves poorly in public. I go in the opposite direction, I look like shit on purpose	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 09:04 PM
10	If a woman continues to multi-date after going on a date with you, she's not into you. This doesn’t really make sense, if anything dating multiple people at the same time makes it more likely for a sociopath to slip through the cracks since your attention is split between multiple people	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 08:57 PM
1	How big of a deal is it, dating someone who has different political beliefs than you do? Are relationships better when both people are on the same page, politically? Or do political differences make for more interesting interactions? Just curious what people think. Its not pessimistic at all because its not a bad thing. I'm 33 and have been in my relationship for 7+ years. You might get into some political discussions based on children/schooling, but even that is often times just a personal opinion about your own child(or other children/parents) rather than a full baked idea about the world, so i would often put these into the 'gossip' category	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/22 06:52 PM
1	How big of a deal is it, dating someone who has different political beliefs than you do? Are relationships better when both people are on the same page, politically? Or do political differences make for more interesting interactions? Just curious what people think. Yeah, you will sometimes talk about topical things, but at a certain point there is nothing left to uncover so any discussion would just be either agreement or disagreement. If you agree with each other about everything there isn't much motivation, and if you disagree with each other one person will just opt out of the conversations and just mindlessly agree and go back to their hobbies OR you will argue about shit and probably ruin the relationship. The older you get the more practical all your…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/22 06:47 PM
1	How big of a deal is it, dating someone who has different political beliefs than you do? Are relationships better when both people are on the same page, politically? Or do political differences make for more interesting interactions? Just curious what people think. I looked at your post history and saw that you are 24, at such a young age you are talking about politics and ethics because you are still growing as individuals. When you are both 30+ and know everything about each other you won’t do it anymore	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/22 06:22 PM
1	How big of a deal is it, dating someone who has different political beliefs than you do? Are relationships better when both people are on the same page, politically? Or do political differences make for more interesting interactions? Just curious what people think. People don’t talk about ethics in relationships After a year 99% of conversation is about food, work, gossip, plans and what do you feel like watching	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 12:22 PM
1	Porn is the epitome of cuck culture. Just watch pov	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 01:33 PM
0	What’s something you think you know about the opposite sexes behaviour that they might not realize is happening within their own gender? There’s plenty of good “white trash” people, let’s not act like they are some 0.01 fringe group, white trash is a pretty solid percentile of white people I see that you live in Sweden, I know you aren’t asking me but if I was you I would meet some nice Norwegian black metal girls	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 07:26 PM
1	What’s something you think you know about the opposite sexes behaviour that they might not realize is happening within their own gender? That’s just your bubble You might think you are “overtly anti lib” but that doesn’t mean that’s how others view you, I know plenty of anti lib guys who are really just argumentative douchebags who don’t know themselves and just praise themselves for being “logical” Or better yet, maybe instead of being anti lib you could be pro something else. I’m just saying from my point of view all the coolest girls I’ve met are from acting racist in a funny way, doing drugs and just acting narcissistic and e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 02:33 PM
2	What’s something you think you know about the opposite sexes behaviour that they might not realize is happening within their own gender? You need to meet more women There’s tons of atheist women who are racist in the fun way if you know how to let them know they are safe around you Maybe you just don’t meet them because they aren’t comfortable around you There’s nothing better than small talking coworkers and it’s all just straight racism, next thing you know you find all the fun girls	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 12:59 PM
1	What’s something you think you know about the opposite sexes behaviour that they might not realize is happening within their own gender? Cope	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 12:55 PM
1	This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire lives True, and people with lower n counts tend to be less social, more likely to be a homebody, introverted, etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 02:44 PM
3	This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire lives You are just less likely to meet them in general, unless its a coincidence like its a coworker	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 02:34 PM
1	Should men start wearing makeup? Should women stop? I used to go to goth clubs and I feel like you aren't thinking of it from the male perspective, its not about covering up acne or anything like that, its a variation of when guys cut lines into their eyebrows, its just peacocking Heres a clip it reminds me of that uses the term 'queerbaiting" https://youtu.be/ztrhotjfW7Y?t=691	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 02:32 PM
0	Where do you draw the line in this new era of pornography? Another solution is TRT, I don’t have to worry about my testosterone or my dick If you use the internet in general your dopamine is fucked Reducing sperm count is a positive for many men The only thing you linked that is that relevant is the gray matter thing, I’ll have to look into that	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 01:34 PM
3	Where do you draw the line in this new era of pornography? Are you talking about actual porn or all those thirst trap pictures that say like “omg I need someone to carry me in valorant”	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/22 01:19 PM
2	Fundamentally believing grown women biologically think like teenagers is sexist Perceiving adult women as teenagers is a successful strategy vs seeing them as adults For example, if I see you as less capable than I won’t blame you for that shortcoming because all women are like that, I accept it, deal with it and do what needs to be done Perceiving women as adults has the same flaws as wanting a unique life free of gender rules. If there are no rules than I will ultimately try to create a selfish lifestyle catered to myself, I will promote the idea of 50/50 but the end resu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 06:36 PM
0	Should men start wearing makeup? Should women stop? It’s not really true to themselves, it’s just a specific strategy for fucking Brooklyn hipster type girls Like if these dudes moved they would immediately stop doing that shit and start doing something else It’s like if you’re in a mixed room and identify as straight but you tell specific girls you are bi to try to be perceived in a non sexual friendly type of way when you know you are gonna put the moves on once you get close enough	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 06:19 PM
-6	Should men start wearing makeup? Should women stop? Yeah those guys always come off pretty predatory though lol They know exactly what they’re doing, you can paint your nails and suddenly it’s so much easier to get close and personal with women, these dudes infiltrate friends circles and get easy pussy, but it’s really just queerbaiting	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 05:39 PM
3	Should men start wearing makeup? Should women stop? Women wear makeup for the same reason men workout, to be better than their competition, to be the best looking person in the room, to value themselves greater than others and subconsciously perceive themselves in ways that promote hypocrisy I have always hated this distinction because it makes no sense, both ways of saying it essentially mean the same thing, it just shows how you think of it “I wear makeup for men” “I wear makeup for myself” These actually mean the same thing, the only differenc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 05:29 PM
1	What is the wall? A big part of the wall is personality, women hit this age where they suddenly start planning their entire future and become much more neurotic about everything. This is unattractive because it’s obvious how much they just think of lifestyle, they start looking at men as “potential” and can’t really even get to know their partner, they don’t really see men anymore and every man will become some degree of disappointment. The fun, spontaneity and love for life dries up and the woman will physically…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 05:14 PM
1	Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material" Some men are really good at walking the line, they are purposely trying to be hookup material without going so far that the women stop having sex with them They make themselves look bad on purpose, like openly being known as a cheater	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 01:35 PM
1	If men thought of and treated and women based on how women treat and think of men, what would men be changing, or what are men already doing appropriately? This isn’t true, a lot of it is just our societal structure. Marriage, monogamy, jobs, etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 09:31 PM
0	Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attraction I feel like women try to turn this into a woman’s thing, as a man I feel like what you describe is just how I feel towards people in general, it has nothing to do with race, sex, etc. It’s kind of like talking to someone just because they are close in proximity, it’s convenient, I don’t think the average adult is actually interested in treating anyone the way women want to be treated, people are too accessible to put time, energy and thought in that way. And women most definitely don’t do this f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 06:28 PM
2	Why does comfort and familiarity kill attraction with women? Later in my post I talk about how sometimes you start developing feelings of rejection even when you do have sex Deadbedrooms kind of have “levels” when it comes to how much each spouse withdrawals, the paragraph you are quoting is in the early period of db. I remember being in this period and thinking that my withdrawal would change my spouse’s behavior, after i realized it didn’t have any effect I was already comfortable in the style of relationship, so you just keep doing it and connecting wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/22 08:56 PM
4	Why does comfort and familiarity kill attraction with women? My post is specifically referring to db where the women claim high libido and the men “won’t” have sex with them. I have no doubts that situations in which the women are the low libido are more complicated, that’s not what my post is, I have zero experience in that situation and honestly I’m not really interested in the discussion, a better place to have that discussion is the dead bedroom sub. I also am not speaking as if 100 percent of these women are wrong, I’m sure there’s low test guys who …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/22 12:44 AM
34	Why does comfort and familiarity kill attraction with women? This is from your sister in laws point of view, I would love to hear it from the husbands point of view because whenever women talk about being in a dead bedroom I think they are leaving out some key details I have been in this situation myself, the best way to describe it is that the woman doesn’t really want sex, she believes that she does, but what she really wants is for her husband to want to have sex with her, the moment that the man initiates sex she is validated and isn’t really interest…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/22 02:46 PM
2	If you're the kind of guy upset at a girl labeling you "boyfriend material", then you're probably not cut out to be "hook-up material" Because this entire idea and discussion tends to happen 6 months-1 year into the relationship, it’s hindsight and makes you realize that the idea of your relationship isn’t actually accurate When you are in a relationship and slowly gain information it takes time for all the pieces to slide into place, the problem arises when you learn that the picture is totally different than you had imagined, no one wants to hear that their relationships foundation is built on bad intentions and motivations	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/22 01:47 PM
6	Men are upset about being "boyfriend material" because it offers the same amount of validation that seeing a prostitute does That’s not really what they are saying I don’t think any guy cares about the specific details, they care about when the specific details differ between different men and the man who is the “winner” somehow gets the worse deal, which makes it look manipulative If you fucked every guy on the first date or fucked every guy after 3 months than there is no sexual distinction to make A comparable situation is like if a man took a bunch of women out on dates, wined and dined them, but with you he was o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 07:57 PM
2	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material Why do you assume that the two men look differently? The distinction is the existence of “husband material” traits, both men in this example look the same	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 02:36 PM
0	would you be willing to date a woman who did not have sex? This is something I could never do, like I can somewhat imagine a non sexual relationship that works, but I would put making out into the sex category, for me a non sexual relationship should also be less physical in general, because otherwise it would be like dangling food infront of your pets face but not giving it to them I think a non sexual relationship would work best without any physical intimacy beyond a simple hug, because otherwise it’s just mixing signals imo	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 01:49 PM
21	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material To us, it translates to a woman saying “I want less men to be boyfriend/husband material” Sex is our metric for success, we emulate and idolize men who are sexually successful, so this type of female behavior pushes men away from being husband/boyfriend material In a way, some sexually successful men are trained by women to be bad partners, because they are rewarded for having subpar traits in one way or another And I don’t think any guy wants to be with a woman who rewards negative traits over …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 05:41 PM
2	90 Day Fiance Mega-Thread I think the fact that they are all Australian adds to the autism from an American pov I have noticed that most of the male autists have way better manners than the women, my theory is that either their parents are more vigilant to instill manners and to be very proper because they know men are more likely to get into trouble or that the men are just generally diagnosed at a younger age and receive more specialized help It’s truly just a hilarious show, I wish they would combine the matchmakers +…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 01:16 PM
2	If the mascot villain for the black pill/incels is The Joker, and the mascot villain for the red pill is Tyler Durden, who is the mascot villain for the blue pill? Don’t you think ignoring the laws and being a vigilante right from the jump in order to avenge your dead wife is kind of red pill? I think daredevil is a better example, because his first option is within a socially acceptable methods, although he isn’t really a “villain” Maybe Gerard butler from law abiding citizen is a better example, I feel like he is kind of halfway between these 2. The biggest distinction between red/black vs blue is that red/black are inherently rebellious to society while…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 05:53 AM
1	If the mascot villain for the black pill/incels is The Joker, and the mascot villain for the red pill is Tyler Durden, who is the mascot villain for the blue pill? I think this thread is referencing different pill ideologies/emotions, not lifestyles. Dan bilzerian isn’t a guy living a lifestyle, he’s creating an image of living a certain lifestyle that would actually be harmful to living the lifestyle, it doesn’t really make sense. Tyler represents an aspect of toxic masculinity that men felt they were losing(and losing masculinity along with it), same with the red pill, it’s a rebellious reaction. Black pill is also a rebellious reaction, but it is not fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 05:24 AM
1	If the mascot villain for the black pill/incels is The Joker, and the mascot villain for the red pill is Tyler Durden, who is the mascot villain for the blue pill? Plenty of blue pill guys cheat, a narcissistic “spiritual” type of guy is the first off the top of my head, lots of artsy guys that are in bands I think you are projecting some unrelated stuff on the pills(like capitalism)	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 05:10 AM
1	"Body Positivity" has everything to do with sexual attractiveness “Empowering” women is a business model The problem is that the math doesn’t add up at the end of the day if the women believe that their own self improvement will lead to a better partner. Female empowerment in this regard is fine as long as no one is keeping score, but that doesn’t really happen, because from the male point of view it’s just a feedback loop that is only rewarding to the woman Ideas like “you pay for dinner because I pay for my makeup” or “I let him buy me drinks” are toxic beca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 04:56 AM
1	90 Day Fiance Mega-Thread Honestly, 90 day fiancé sucks, they drag everything out and reshow the same scene so much. It’s great for 1 or 2 seasons, that’s it. It’s kinda bullshit after that and just about the money My favorite people were Angela/Michael, baby girl Lisa/souljaboy and Darcy/Swedish guy. Not because these are good relationships, just because the first 2 are complete white trash and Darcy is the typical crazy gf every guy has met, she’s the definition of “boy crazy” You can kind of tell that some of the rela…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 04:40 AM
1	CMV: OnlyFans creators are taking a massive gamble on their futures Pics on the internet is all the same, the rest is only details There is no nobility in not having pics up there either Women cannot be noble or virtuous, when they are it means it is in line with their self interest, it does not make sense to judge any woman positively for this type of behavior. If that’s what you want, YOU create the circumstances, but that is just you, the woman is irrelevant in this regard	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/21 06:38 PM
0	CMV: OnlyFans creators are taking a massive gamble on their futures How does banging your girl on camera or her jilling while simps pay your rent make you a cuck, actually retarded Being a digital pimp is the reddest a person can be	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/21 06:35 PM
1	CMV: OnlyFans creators are taking a massive gamble on their futures I don’t know why you think my response is blue pill, If a woman is making money on OF all it means is YOU are making money on OF It doesn’t make sense to compare a pornstar and OF because porn involves other men fucking them. Every girl will eventually be an OF girl, even if she’s just sending pics to guys on tinder, why would you want the less attractive person who can’t use their looks to make money? It sounds like you are just looking for a unicorn to me	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/21 10:01 PM
0	CMV: OnlyFans creators are taking a massive gamble on their futures I can’t imagine caring about this, you can’t define what a “self respecting man” would do, it sounds more like insecurity to me It’s silly to compare OF to actual pornstars	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/21 01:24 PM
3	Men struggle because they don't know the difference between attractive and sexually attractive This isn’t true, you can “get it” without doing it. Most men learn pretty fast that it’s not worth it to change their life that much, it becomes a feedback loop that only empowers the woman and forces you into their framework. The people who “get it” and dedicate their lives around it are just trying to stroke their ego People who really “get it” just do whatever they need to do to maintain their natural state of being and still get what they want. You don’t need to control others perception of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/21 12:18 AM
1	Blog: "Women Don't Pay For Dates." I agree, hyper morality is only appealing to the meek	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/21 03:11 PM
1	what makes a man regret sex? It can be anything, including the reason why you sought that sexual interaction to begin with. It doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with the woman. If you use common sense and only engage in relationships that make sense you shouldn’t worry about it, you can’t avoid it because the whole idea is we don’t know are own perception until after we cum. A lot of the times it’s not really regret, but we don’t want to do it again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/21 10:04 PM
1	“He’s not emotionally available”. But is she? I don’t think this is really true, in fact I think this is a low key goal for women. Women walk through life with a 401k mentality, everything they do for themselves they expect us to do something that benefits them too. As modern men many of us tend to go through a nihilistic stage that will put our thoughts and values beyond society. So we don’t have competitive views towards social status, we either seek hedonistic pleasure or seek to meet our bare minimum biological needs while having maximu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/21 10:40 AM
6	What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism? I think that any person who tries to blame the other side is inherently wrong, you don’t hold individuals accountable for existence within a system and their behavior should not be relevant when determining a new system. When people are concerned with blame while discussing entire countries and cultures it makes it seem like they just don’t have good evidence or rational for their proposed change, it’s like if you wanted to appeal to christian morality in order to create a completely different m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/21 02:32 PM
4	What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism? Do you think this is a biological absolute? Or maybe we act this way because this is the way society treats and encourages us to be? The “patriarchy” does not support men, it only creates a dominance hierarchy that pushes us to behave in very specific ways. This is why men don’t support each other, we are taught to compete or opt out	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/21 01:47 PM
1	Men must change their own behaviour if they want women to change. Not expect women to change on their own. I don’t think men really get much out of our youth to begin with, the main value of youth as a man is that women insert you into their fantasies and therefore do most of the work for us when it comes to attraction. The downside of this is that we have crazy expectations being put on us that we have no desire to live up to. I would say that this makes having sex with a new partner easier, but overall makes our lives harder. As a man ages he might look worse, but now we can actually live up to the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/21 04:34 PM
1	Men must change their own behaviour if they want women to change. Not expect women to change on their own. Women definitely haven’t been socialized to tolerate hitting the wall, there are billions of dollars spent every year trying to avoid it. Think of all the Karen’s, we only start seeing these women when after they hit the wall, they have been acting that they way their entire life but they get away with it when they are young, you don’t see them changing their behavior as they age, if anything they double down and resent the world for treating them differently I think we may have different defini…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/21 04:12 PM
1	Men must change their own behaviour if they want women to change. Not expect women to change on their own. I’m not saying there isn’t an alternative to chad, I’m saying many modern men just don’t want to settle for the average relationship, most average relationships are guys who aren’t really thinking about what they want, they are just doing things that are normal and see other people doing too. Most married men don’t actually care about marriage, we just do it because women care so much about it and we just want our relationship to continue the same as it has been. When I was younger I was curious…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/21 03:09 PM
1	Men must change their own behaviour if they want women to change. Not expect women to change on their own. I don’t think they need to learn the new rules, they need to accept that the game has changed in the first place. The new rules are obvious, chad or bust. If you accept that you aren’t chad you have 2 paths, do all the things woman demand of you or opt out completely. Men are already doing this, but not all men have accepted it yet because women haven’t accepted it either. There’s always a big dispute of who needs the other more, men or women, both sides desperately want to rep this because both…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/21 02:01 PM
1	Men must change their own behaviour if they want women to change. Not expect women to change on their own. Male youth has no value so we can’t really waste it, if we waste our youth we are the ones missing out Male youth can be useful, but that’s much more about education which isn’t technically related to youth	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/21 01:42 PM
5	Men's problem with the current dating scene As a man, we don’t even know if we are interested, we know if we are infatuated physically and we know if we flat out dislike the person but nothing in between. That’s why men talk about the clarity we have after we cum, sometimes our first thought is “what the fuck am I doing here?” You don’t even begin to know each other for a few months at least, the older you get the better you become at knowing people because you realize what does and doesn’t matter. For example, when you are young you thin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/21 01:11 PM
1	Are men attracted to women who are the victims of jealous bullying by other women? If so, why? This is a hypothetical, in reality it’s pretty even. Go on over to fds and you will see plenty of examples of women being unreasonable. You probably just don’t know what men perceive as unreasonable, in the same way that men don’t know all the things women expect	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/21 09:27 AM
1	Are men attracted to women who are the victims of jealous bullying by other women? If so, why? Influence is a passive thing that you gain from leading your own life, influence comes from your own value, not from playing politics, this is more like a scheme which is why I call it manipulation. I think it’s kind of a bad argument when you have to say that the girl is only saying things about the other girl that are true because I think statistically that is very unlikely, and even if she tells the truth we both know it is going to be super biased and peppered with hatred and jealousy I defi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/21 11:05 PM
1	Are men attracted to women who are the victims of jealous bullying by other women? If so, why? You told me that the reason is because they FEEL like their boyfriend doesn’t care do they use an alternative strategy, my point is that if you know your boyfriend doesn’t care how you feel it’s either A) he’s the asshole B) you are being controlling and unreasonable Your response doesn’t actually make sense to either of these situations, despite what you think you are still making yourself look insecure, our thoughts will be “why does she care lol why does she keep talking about her” To be hone…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/21 10:22 PM
1	Are men attracted to women who are the victims of jealous bullying by other women? If so, why? Most of the time when women aren’t direct it’s because they know that they are probably being unreasonable, so when they start talking shit, it’s an attempt to manipulate their boyfriend. A secure person doesn’t manipulate, they tell it straight up and let the chips fall where they stand. Part of your post that makes zero sense to me is this “loyalty” part, loyalty has nothing to do with thinking someone is attractive or anything like that. No guy will ever be so “loyal” that his feelings change…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/21 10:08 PM
–	Are men attracted to women who are the victims of jealous bullying by other women? If so, why? I don’t think you have a good idea of what insecurity is. Think about it like this, why do you have the motivation? Insecurity is what drives your behavior, you can call it a strategy but that doesn’t change the fact that your behavior is driven by an internal fear and inability to accept another’s freedom to make their own decisions Here, if I called this strategy by it’s true name, manipulation, what would you think? Are you saying manipulation isn’t driven by an internet fear and insecurity b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/21 09:57 PM
1	Are men attracted to women who are the victims of jealous bullying by other women? If so, why? You are defining the situation by the result, this is the wrong way of thinking, confirmation bias. Behavior is either secure or insecure and different results don’t change that, how do you know that the insecurity didn’t contribute to the result? You have no control over your boyfriends decisions, getting into an insecure paranoid mentality certainly doesn’t help, now don’t get me wrong, you can still be vigilant and on guard. But your response being “I’m gonna talk shit about her” is not a goo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/21 10:21 AM
1	Are men attracted to women who are the victims of jealous bullying by other women? If so, why? I like laughing at other people(I’m capable of admitting I admire these people) but no I don’t like talking bad about other people in the insecure way that some people do it, but I’m also the type of person who isn’t willing to just agree, I love to argue with my wife if I feel I’m right, shit, even if I’m not I don’t know where you are getting these details for a hypothetical situation, I think you are projecting. If your boyfriend doesn’t listen to you or care why are you still with him? Teari…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/21 10:11 AM
1	Are men attracted to women who are the victims of jealous bullying by other women? If so, why? The first persons selfish behavior is based out of insecurity is what I’m saying, although the second person is insecure too if they don’t directly confront the problem or gracefully accept the results	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/21 10:04 AM
2	Question to Women: how much of a factor is male fashion? I don’t define myself in any serious manner, all I care about is smiles, laughs, honesty and living my life free from any feelings of discomfort, embarrassment, or shame. When I met my wife I remember she once told me I was embarrassing her when we were out in public. I didn’t like that because it reminded me of my narcissistic, wannabe socialite mother, so in the future I doubled down on my ridiculousness and anytime I felt like she was feeling that way I would show her how much everyone else w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/21 07:38 PM
1	Are men attracted to women who are the victims of jealous bullying by other women? If so, why? This is a silly idea, why would a man be in the wrong for leaving a woman? Especially when she is talking bad about another person, people who try to tear others down instead of rising up are toxic	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/21 04:26 PM
1	Are men attracted to women who are the victims of jealous bullying by other women? If so, why? Most human behavior(especially as a teen or young adult) is all about insecurity and weakness	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/21 04:17 PM
1	Are men attracted to women who are the victims of jealous bullying by other women? If so, why? It’s not about the truth, it’s the motivation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/21 04:15 PM
2	Question to Women: how much of a factor is male fashion? I have been thinking of buying a pair of crocs and a durag recently, when I told my girl she wasn’t totally against it so I’m taking it to the next level and it’s gonna be a durag with an American flag	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/21 03:11 PM
1	Mass media is the most impactful factor in whether people are happy with partners available to them. Being exposed to the most attractive/charming people in existence invites comparison, which realistically available partners are almost always going to fall short of. If being dumb and selfish is socially acceptable more people will be that way, so we will have to tolerate greater amounts of stupidity and selfishness Seeems pretty bad from a societal POV	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/21 10:55 AM
1	For red and blue pill [or possibly pink as well] ideologies, when it comes to gaming and anime, are there aspects of it considered uniquely problematic or is it just seen as a potential hazard the way similar frivolous activities are? I meant more like trying to get a higher kill streak than the columbine kids or something	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 07:24 PM
1	For red and blue pill [or possibly pink as well] ideologies, when it comes to gaming and anime, are there aspects of it considered uniquely problematic or is it just seen as a potential hazard the way similar frivolous activities are? You sound like you know a lot about anime, Idk what some of these words even mean but are you sure this isn’t just a personal defeatist attitude? I know a ton of super successful mma fighters only got into martial arts because they loved dragon ball z, I’m sure if you google “celebrities who watch anime” you could find proof that your hobbies have no definitive hold over your value. You are capable of great things without giving up whatever you are personally passionate about, don’t let the 20 s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 07:19 PM
1	For red and blue pill [or possibly pink as well] ideologies, when it comes to gaming and anime, are there aspects of it considered uniquely problematic or is it just seen as a potential hazard the way similar frivolous activities are? Games are a potential outlet for masculinity that would be “ toxic” in the real world, gaming can be addictive because it can be competitive in a way that we really strive for and no real world aactivity can really compare. I’m really thankful to gaming because I got really into it around the time I became a legal adult, most of my childhood friends are either locked up, dead or chained up to a baby mama. Gaming saved my life in a way and has helped give me a supreme confidence the way any goal …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 04:50 PM
2	For men, it's not that hard to be above-average -> extraordinary, most men are just lazy. This actually happens which is what makes people so mad. The next step after this is enlightenment, the inner monologue of eureka moments and true freedom of shamelessness feels really rewarding, the true red pill, not all that “self improvement” that has nothing to do with the self I’m married just to maintain my level of degeneracy, it takes true bravery and certainty to coom to the depths of self discovery free from society, I salute you. It’s much safer when you can step back and say “I’ve m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 02:48 PM
3	Why do guys run away from their feelings? And why are men’s and women’s emotions on different cycles? It’s hard to express feelings as a guy because a lot of times women aren’t interested because they want a resolution, they are interested for their own benefit. I’m sure most men can relate to a situation in which revealing our feelings trigger a woman’s feelings and suddenly it’s all about her, or our feelings are met by a cold calculated statement about compatibility in which you see that she is only interested in the female narrative It’s a situation that never seems to better our lives unles…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/21 06:08 PM
1	Men: what is your perfect waifu like? Because you should want to, you should value each other as equal humans without thinking so much aand trying to keep score based on biology that no one has control over I think you are over thinking things to the point that you become low value	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/21 12:17 PM
8	I don't believe that a beta uprising will happen, instead, a beta downrising https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning–Kruger_effect	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/21 03:17 PM
1	How the dating world radicalizes people Sure you can, it just takes work and a lot of deep digging	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 02:49 PM
2	What argument here has changed your mind? During the Middle Ages most of the morality is based around religion, duty and a willingness to die for your king. They didn’t really have an infrastructure that would maintain the lives of a bunch of worthless people, I’m sure there were village idiots, but more often than not people would blame the king if poverty became widespread(taxes) not each other. I don’t think people were really lazy in the way we think of it, life was too hard to allow it. I think the only time there would have been l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 11:16 AM
4	What argument here has changed your mind? My first thought was, at what point did society start equating production with morality? I wasn’t thinking of any specific period or culture Prior to capitalism most financial based marriages were arranged, people longed for relationships based on love. The common folk did not engage in these beliefs because there was no path to great wealth, they didn’t have losers, they had good and evil. People valued effort over results and ambition was considered a negative trait because it was in oppositio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/21 03:19 PM
7	What argument here has changed your mind? Not all cultures expect every male member to fulfill the same role and embody the same values, in fact I think this is one of the most unhealthy aspects of America. For example, if you saw a Buddhist monk in USA you wouldn’t respect the positive traits they embody and the path they have chosen, people would say “who is this homeless guy, he must want what I want and therefore he is worse than me, go get a job” You can motivate people through positivity, a culture built on shame is not going to f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/21 03:08 PM
0	What argument here has changed your mind? I wasn’t thinking of communism	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/21 03:02 PM
14	What argument here has changed your mind? This isn’t true, the concept of a loser is a capitalistic archetype. Being a loser has nothing to do with lack of success, it’s a perceived fear ingrained in men at a young age that’s meant to motivate us and make us obedient while still useful. It’s an alternative version of morality used to control your behavior	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/21 01:46 PM
1	Youtube Influencer "Overdose" stupid take on females beeing less secure I feel like those studies don’t really say much, they certainly don’t separate nature vs nurture, I can see why you could argue “women were more neurotic in every country” so it must purely be nature, but I think it’s more complicated than that. In your original post you reference the fact that men face more violence, therefore men should be more neurotic. This is a really simplistic view because it doesn’t filter out all the violence that the men could easily avoid, if there is a subsection of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 09:07 PM
1	Youtube Influencer "Overdose" stupid take on females beeing less secure I don’t think being weaker would matter if people were never exposed to the idea of violence, abuse, manipulation, etc, there’s plenty of little dudes who haven’t gotten the memo. I’m not gonna say nature has zero impact, but it’s certainly not the defining factor The most anxious people aren’t the ones who grew up in rougher areas, it’s the ones who grew up coddled and warned. If it was purely a hormonal thing this detail wouldn’t matter	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 01:46 PM
1	Youtube Influencer "Overdose" stupid take on females beeing less secure Women are less willing to take risks because they grow up being warned about all the potential danger and abuse that could happen to them. This is also why a some women resent seeing men who still have a carefree childlike views of the world, we weren’t forced to grow up as early, one of the benefits of society not caring as much about our safety is that we aren’t programmed to be anxious(although I think this is becoming less true because of the internet) So we are put in a position to use risk…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/21 01:00 PM
0	People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z. This is one of those opinions people come up with after the fact. If you care about it so much what else are you doing to solve the problem? We both know your real reason is much more personal since your reaction doesn’t really make sense, I mean if you thought there was gonna be a food shortage don’t you think a genuine reaction would be something like start a garden and try to invent a soylent type of product, go vegan etc. The planet regularly changes, every moment of existence on earth is be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 01:32 PM
1	People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z. I don’t think your opinion matters too much under 30, you haven’t finished growing yet, when you reach your final form that is defined by your daily routine rather than your opinions, identity, politics, interests, etc life will become far more practical and straight forward. When you are young you manage to find such dramatic things to base your behavior on I think the biggest problem with being child free is that there isn’t really an infrastructure to maintain friendships with a bunch of othe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 12:12 PM
3	People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z. The only reason you think modern times are “hell” is because you have never faced real adversity, human life is easier than it has ever been	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 11:44 AM
4	Why men and women have completely different experiences when it comes to women approaching guys Omg ur back PPD hall of gamer right here guys	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/19 05:00 PM
6	Why do people despise MGTOW? Because that is only important to people who don’t actually want to “go there own way” The guy above you said he just cares about his career and passions, you are asking him why he doesn’t care about a topic that is basically the exact opposite. It wouldn’t make sense to care	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/19 05:54 PM
1	If there are so many nice and good guys out there that women are ignoring for assholes, why is getting a good man so competitive? If the 2 don’t need each other in anyway and are too focused on personal endeavors like their career it makes sense that neither person would be as likely to compromise and bend to the others demands. So if they are both high smv/rmv than the grass is gonna look pretty green. Actually needing someone for an emotional/financial/quality of life type of reason is an important ingredient since marriage is a shared social constraint that allows you to secure your future. I think it’s normal that the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/19 02:38 AM
1	U.S. Men Less Concerned Than in 2017 About Sexual Harassment You can care about sexual harassment within society while simultaneously putting zero weight on public statements about it, people have too much to gain and the modern victimhood views that some people hold essentially places you beyond morality. The whole no victim blaming thing is really unhealthy if you ask me	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/19 02:04 AM