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seriously it's right by your name lol
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/15 07:19 AM
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Eh, this has gone out the window, as sometimes my SO has to help me if I'm dizzy to the toilet. Part of being disabled though :/ We still have amazing sex and dress up or do other things. But he also cares for me if needed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/15 07:54 PM
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Agreed. It's an interesting perspective being one of the younger on this sub. You know what's funny is so few people marry young these days, especially in California where everyone is super career focused, that people are confused when I say "I'm his wife". Like they think I'm lying. Even at the doctors office! I've been called girlfriend, sister, etc.. but no one assumes wife. It's just amusing to me. You know what's really satisfying about being a RPW? When all our friends (we pretty much shar…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/15 02:21 AM
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It's hard to imagine that though, because women have to accept that their greatest asset is their youth. And that most of them wasted it on the cock carousel. With men, there is constant room for improvement. For women their is to, but in different in a different way, and the most important thing is somewhat out of their control. And if they are older (and finally waking up) then most of their SMV is gone, and facing that reality is too bitter a pill for most. I'm thankful I figured it out young…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/15 07:13 PM
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it's absolutely true . I hate being thought of as too vulnerable to be able to sort my own shit out
/r/MensRights28/02/15 12:43 PM
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I would, but my husband would yell at me if we both came out of it alive. He values my life more than his own, and I value his above mine. And if I got hurt doing this as well, he would never forgive himself. and vice versa.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/15 12:45 PM
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It's hard, but ultimately you find the things you CAN do to help. For me, I manage the finances and bills because he asked me to. I grocery shop online and stock the fridge. I use different devices such as swiffers or vacuums with a wand so I can sit and clean. I can do the dishes in an office chair. I give him back massages if my hands are ok that day. I love him and listen to him and play video games with him. But also let him take care of you, it's not terrible. It's natural. He loves you, an…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/15 06:46 AM
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yeah that's what typically happens Edit: Case in point lol
/r/MensRights13/02/15 06:09 PM
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There are plenty of us!
/r/MensRights13/02/15 05:17 PM
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absolutely not true that meds are the only way. Go to therapy, see what they say. Most insurances you can use their website to find a preferred provider. Medication will be something a doctor decides. If it may help, then by all means, but it will usually be combined with therapy
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/15 01:35 AM
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This is awesome. And it's huge! And the fact that its not just a place to stay, but a place to pick your self up to get back independant is just wonderful. We need more of these. Men are predominantly those affected by homelessness. Why not have the proportionate amount of shelters for those men
/r/MensRights28/01/15 04:10 PM
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I'm childfree and a RPW. It's possible. My husband is a wonderful man who also agree.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/15 08:45 AM
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Was anyone surprised by this?
/r/MensRights25/01/15 01:16 PM
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I love Clannad! My husband and I watched it, I admit I cried quite a bit.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 03:47 PM
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Very powerful. Love it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 03:36 PM
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Bwahahah I'm always the healer in actual gaming as well :D Love it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 03:04 PM
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As a Christian RPW, I couldn't ever have thought of any serious relationship with someone who wasn't. If they are, they will try to "save" you, because they care. But as Christians it says do not be unequally yoked. We are not supposed to date/marry those who are not Christian. The life view, and morals are so different. It's worse than different politics, it's like you don't speak the same language. Also the "experience with religious folk is that if you're not with them , you're against them".…
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/15 05:15 AM
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Yep my littlest nephew just had his procedure. My sister was determined to not circumcise for their health, but the littlest one, it had to be done, and he's almost two years old. He was constantly getting really bad infections giving him a fever so bad he had to be hospitalized. Reason? His penis is apparently really big lol. And so it broke the foreskin when growing. And then it got infected because he's a little kid, you know how it is. Now, no problems and no more infections. But if the risk…
/r/MensRights01/01/15 08:26 AM
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Um, my husband is working tonight, but it is double pay :D Resolutions are to go to church more and to get in shape a bit with a physical therapist. Oh and to change my diet to include more fresh food :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/14 03:41 PM
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I am, so hello! and Thank you. Loved the article!
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/14 04:18 AM
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This is why I said that anal sex is the marker, regardless of if you are gay or straight. Plenty of straight people have anal sex, and plenty of gay people have other forms of sex as well or in stead of. Sex is a wide spectrum of things I think. However the point stands, Anal sex is a higher risk behavior because of the nature of the way the tissue is inside. This is why you can have medications for instance through the ass, such as suppositories. The connection to the bloodstream is quicker and…
/r/MensRights27/12/14 10:44 AM
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I don't know, I don't think there is really anything I can do with best friends that I can't do with my husband. He's my best friend and my husband.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/14 08:35 PM
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Even those who are serial monogamous though can claim that. It's just a higher risk group in general though. I believe the one year ban on anal sex, or unprotected sex in general is a good idea. Yes a monogamous relationship with gay men is higher risk, due to the fact that cheating happens (yes straight relationships are just as likely, but with condom use is less likely than anal sex as stated above). As well as the fact it can take six months to appear. Since gay men are statistically more li…
/r/MensRights24/12/14 02:32 PM
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Merry Christmas to you as well!
/r/MensRights24/12/14 02:13 PM
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If you noticed, it said a recent study in 2013 showed the same results as the 1989 study. Also there was another in 1999-2001 that also showed the same results research does show that condom breakage is higher in anal sex acts. Most likely due to the different conditions upon the condom, which they aren't designed for. But because of ethical situations, the research is stalled some, because they can't risk an exposure for a test subject, so a LOT of sex research is self reported. Also some studi…
/r/MensRights24/12/14 02:13 PM
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Actually condoms are not as effective in Anal sex. http://www.aidsmap.com/Consistent-condom-use-in-anal-sex-stops-70-of-HIV-infections-study-finds/page/2586976/ They are more likely to fail, and since the risk is 10 times higher than vaginal, the rate even with consistent condom use, is still higher than vaginal sex.
/r/MensRights24/12/14 01:48 PM
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Actually the risk of contracting HIV from anal penetration is higher than vaginal penetration. I'd say more specifically gay or straight, participation in anal sex is the marker. STI's in general are more likely to be transferred in anal play.
/r/MensRights24/12/14 01:35 PM
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Which is exactly what I do. Such as the thread I mentioned, I suggested they go to the doctor to check for possible anemia as it's very common in women. It can cause lots of fatigue. And hey if their labs show something else, then it's good they went regardless. Also although I am not a nurse, I do know almost all nurses now go through at least a bachelors degree because no one will hire associates. And many go on to Masters degrees. My experience is as a EMT and Mental Health Technician, althou…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/14 01:12 PM
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This made me want to vomit. Divorce is like a juice cleanse?? That no one really has a happy marriage? My husband is my best friend, and I do have other friends. But he is the one I can share anything with, laugh at myself with, be completely silly and comfortable with. He is also my rock and someone I can always go to if the world seems to be falling down. Isn't that what a best friend is?
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 01:13 AM
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yeah I think I was confused. Feel silly now. Gonna butt out too.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 12:53 AM
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I learn some about what confuses Captains, what bugs men more so that I may avoid these habits and please my husband more. It is difficult sometimes to see that as equally when you are surrounded by those of your same gender. I also learn of some of the difficulty men face in marriage so that I may support my husband more. And finally because it's a nice refreshing change of pace to see men married or in LTR, as in TRP many have sworn off marriage altogether (although understable considering how…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/14 02:18 PM
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That's fair. Just went through looking at my comments, and I've only commented in two other threads on here before, both just giving a bit of a medical side to possible behaviors. They got upvoted and a doctor did agree with me on one, so I guess they did add to the conversation. Wasn't really about RP theory or such. Mostly I just lurk here, but if I feel something NEEDS to be said I'll say it. Otherwise, I will just respect your guys' space.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/14 01:05 PM
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I would put on a special outfit, and welcome him home with everything I got. Cooking (maybe a nice steak-my man loves steak and potatoes so cliche but hey it works). Blowjob, long deepthroating if possible. Special toys. You know, the crazy kind of sex. Make the house extra clean and give him a bath and scrub him down after. Massage. All sorts of things.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/14 09:46 AM
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May I ask, as a RP wife, why do we have the different tags then for RP wives? Also sometimes I see a thread where they don't consider all the possibilities so my opinion, not as a woman, but as someone with medical experience (thread where wife was always tired, liked sex but didn't have the energy, suggested possible anemia) or as someone with a chronic illness. I feel then I have a unique perspective. Also how a woman may react to certain actions. And my other point. I understand that you don'…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/14 09:37 AM
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I want to tell you that you are not alone. I was actually raped by my mother from age 8 to 14. I am also a female. My own family will not believe me still. Even the judge only terminated parental rights, no jail time. She passed away this year and I'm finally free (I'm 22), but still no one believes me. I'm not going to say that is going to be true for you. The police laughed at me and said no mother would do such a thing. They even asked me if it was really my father doing these things to me (b…
/r/MensRights18/12/14 06:52 AM
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I've been recovered for 3 years, but sometimes it's still hard
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/14 11:46 AM
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I would, but I have a history of anorexia, and now don't really know how to lose weight safely (I go overboard very easily). Ideas?
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/14 06:19 AM
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I think 3-4 of them apply to me. 4,5,6 (molested by mother). However for number 4, it's just that there aren't as many girl gamers around me, and most of my friends were first my husbands friends. Also number 16 is the other possibility. I did suffer from depression for a while and PTSD. It took several years but I am doing well , take a daily medication for depression but I'm pretty damn even keel now. For me, besides my mother abusing me, I was a virgin until I met my now husband. We waited ab…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 07:01 AM
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hey I make no claims against. I've had rape fantasies. I've also been actually raped. The two are so far from each other it boggles the mind. The absolute fear for your life and wondering if they will actually push the knife all the way into your throat, is completely different from being held down by someone with the idea that you are completely safe and you both want each other, but as a "good girl" you resist. That's fun. Sometimes I act out these fantasies with my husband. But I know if it s…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 03:23 PM
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Eh, a lot of rape fantasies are very different than the actual thing. The idea of being overpowered is fun, an alpha thing if you will. But the woman is still IN CONTROL of the fantasy so she feels safe. To be completely out of control is much scarier
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 12:07 PM
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I think you have a future in television my friend.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 12:04 PM
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This is more meta, but is there a way we could have tags, like /r/marriedredpill does? For instance, one for RPW or those in a LTR. Different things like that.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 04:23 PM
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How early do you wake up, what's both your sleep schedule look like? I'd recommend if she's oversleeping maybe you two could go to the doctor together. She could have anemia or a vitamin deficiency. Anemia is especially common in women of childbearing age. It sounds like she is really exhausted and you sound tired too. I actually don't think it's a shit test. Also what does she do for work? If she has a very active job it could be very tiring. I think she's worried that she can't perform because…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/14 02:36 PM
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I do understand this quite a bit. I don't know how to better deal with it, because I see it so clearly and with my friends I don't have much of a filter, so it comes right out. And either they deal with it or not... Let me know when you find the answer!
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/14 02:29 PM
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/r/cats and /r/corgis are mine...
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/14 01:44 PM
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I agree. It will be used as a weapon.
/r/MensRights03/12/14 01:01 PM
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Just undies, occasionally one of his t shirts
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/14 06:12 AM
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I felt that way a bit. I choose to still be idealist though, even though I know how the world is because I was abused. Like really f-up Child called It stuff. But I still choose to risk love, to risk trust. It took me a while to come to this conclusion that every day is a choice to be vulnerable. It's the only way to make true connection. I'm open and honest even though I have every reason not to trust. But this is the key part "I don't want her to have....or any type of negative emotion fueling…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/14 05:39 AM
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I admit, I like me some /r/aww. But I've never even heard of the other one, but by the title I can guess
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/14 05:28 AM
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yep, started dating my now husband at age 17, right around my birthday. I noticed a lot of RP marriages involve a woman who is younger, as no time (and for me no inclination) to ride the CC and before college tries to convince you feminism is "the only way".
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 02:06 PM
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I love TIA, it's one of my favorite subs. Also like certain other less popular subs . This is my "controversial" account.
/r/MensRights02/12/14 04:39 AM
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I also find medical stuff fascinating, I think a lot of people with chronic illness do because we're seeped into that world. I'm kinda a redpillwoman and egalitarian. I think women have kinda swung too far the other way in America at least, with all the rights, none of the responsibility. But men's issues aren't even supposed to be talked about, and if you try, it's "but women have it worsssseee!" I think we need to focus on HUMAN rights, not based on sex. And if you commit the crime you do the …
/r/MensRights01/12/14 09:56 PM
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Ouch, that really sucks man. /r/CrohnsDisease might be a good place for support also. Don't know if you know theres a sub for everything lol. I myself suffer from Ehlers Danlos. And apparently also suffer from being an female MRA lol. Apparently that is a deadly disease to reddit :D
/r/MensRights01/12/14 09:43 PM
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I also wish you the best. May I ask what illness you are struggling with?
/r/MensRights01/12/14 09:28 PM
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No , chronic illness is a lead factor in suicide. My mother killed herself this year for instance. And believe me people would rather have you talk to them than deal with that pain for the rest of their life. Suicide grieving is very different and it takes a toll on everyone around. And believe me you are not airing problems on people that can't handle it. The wonderful thing about the internet is that you can be open and not be afraid. It leads to two things a) more assholes as evidenced by you…
/r/MensRights01/12/14 09:05 PM
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As someone also suffering from an incurable illness I can relate. There are a lot of people out there who are willing to talk if you ever need to. Also /r/chronicpain is a great place to hang out. Lost my job due to this as well, but am a woman so its different. But hey I got an open ear if you ever want.
/r/MensRights01/12/14 07:19 PM
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Yeah I guess I am, haven't seen a lot of newer ones. But even so I used to work in a hospital, and the stuff...it just doesn't phase me much anymore. EMT who worked as an ER tech, and I also worked in a psych hospital. You see a lot of shit both figuratively and literally. I saw the purge and its sequel and liked it, I like the psychological thrillers much more though. And I have a preference for deadly disease outbreak movies, no matter how terrible their science is.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 02:20 AM
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Agreed, women do it for completely different reasons. And it doesn't make men a less attractive mate. I'm getting one eventually with my husband's permission (after all why would I do something to my body that he wouldn't like?) to symbolize my struggle with Ehlers Danlos Syndrome, a rare genetic disorder. Also even the outlier males who are "thugs" really can represent at least parts of the dark triad, and as we know, that's attractive as hell lol. Look at mugshot guy from Stockton, CA. Tattoos…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 02:15 AM
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Not really sure why its irrelevant, I'm a RPW and my husband is a RP man, so his approval is needed for this and it shows how some RP men view tattoos. However we both agreed most women with a lot of tattoos , it indicates a certain amount of sluttiness.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 07:26 PM
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It's definitely different for men I believe. Most women however look trashy.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 07:23 PM
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lol I'm a woman and I like horror films because they make me laugh. The gore is always SO fake, the acting usually terrible, and to me it's just comedy. People won't watch with me because I'll giggle when someone is decapitated or something
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 05:43 PM
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that's why I do what I do , lay next to him while he jacks off..it helps him feel close to me still while i can not cause more pain. And then we cuddle after.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/14 05:35 PM
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With a chronic illness it's a bit different, because some days are very painful for me. But on good days I absolutely practice this. And even on bad days, we've worked out that my husband can lie next to me and touch my body while he...you know. But when it's a bad day, I don't even have to say no because he understands I'm not up to it. I choose my husband and he is not the type to want me when I wouldn't be comfortable. He gets turned on by turning me on. If I'm in pain (not the good kind lol)…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/14 11:14 AM
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oh well that is a bit upsetting
/r/MensRights29/11/14 01:17 AM
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wow, it's rare someone admits they were wrong and corrects it. I really respect that
/r/MensRights28/11/14 08:00 PM
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I think you should respect this for now. Right now she has crazy hormones raging through her system, and the body changes that come after delivery. Her breasts may not be very painful, but they may feel too full, a bit sore, heavier, and all around a turn off for her. Suggest to her other things you can do. She seems right now insecure about her body which is INCREDIBLY common after someone has a baby, and it's possible that she is not turned on either very much (evolutionary wise this makes sen…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/14 02:55 AM
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Um most men should know there are many ways you can break your hymen including even riding a bike or horseback riding. If he doesn't believe you, well then he doesn't but hey that's something to discuss with him. Or you could even be honest about what happened. Shocking idea , I know lol but truthfully I wouldn't think it was that big of deal. But yeah, some people break their hymens by inserting their first tampon even (hymens come in different forms so some are more "complete"). Hymen=/= virgi…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/14 07:53 AM
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How do you get on this thing?
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/14 07:42 AM
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No, and I don't understand the hostility I'm getting from you right now. Just saying there are more important issues for the people that consider themselves feminist to focus on, and the things they are focusing on aren't issues at all. The thing I'm referencing for Saudi Arabia is the driving situation, which I wasn't aware there was anything in their religion about that. I know that there are many women who were there working to change a law about women not being able to drive.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/14 04:30 PM
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I know, I'm talking about now lol. Not just about America, I like what it originally stood for, and what in some countries it stands for today. I'm not familiar with different waves but I like what I know about some of it, however most feminists today don't care about real issues affecting women around the globe, and are whining about nonissues.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/14 04:08 PM
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I was thinking about the Saudi women and the driving thing as well as in other countries the right to marry whom you want, not just who your parents want. That sort of feminism I support. That is not way though that feminism is. I don't understand how feminists can be so concerned about song lyrics and showing naked breasts when there are women who actually suffer, who are oppressed. If feminism was about that sort of thing, I would support it, but the driving force of feminism seems to be over …
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/14 03:55 PM
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But it was a cultural thing. Either way my point stands lol , I get the first part of feminism (though hey, right to vote= right to draft in my opinion), but today they are crazy as you can be
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/14 03:37 PM
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Thats so awesome! I've been considering some tattoos and my husband says they would look amazing on me, but the thread convinced me, I shouldn't be worried what the other people think, only what he thinks. I feel the same as you. I agree with the first part of feminism (voting, driving, having freedom to decide whom you marry, being able to have your own bank account etc) but now it's "Be attracted to me when I'm fat as a house!, This song is promoting RAPE CULTURE, I should be able to walk nake…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/14 06:59 AM
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Welcome!
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/14 06:10 AM
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That was my thought. You get the wedding invites months ahead of time, and if she was single then she probably didn't get +1. If the relationship was not at almost a year pretty much for my wedding, they didn't get a +1 because we paid for it, and we had a small wedding.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/14 10:44 AM
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As a RPW I really do think it makes a difference. I also like the look of well dressed (button up, long sleeved shirt, and some well fitting slacks). I think that looks even better. It's..attractive and sexy. My husband and I also did a fun experiment where one day I dressed very nicely, did some subtle professional makeup, and he dressed in the outfit above. Then we went to the mall. The service we got from stores was crazy: free samples, attentive customer service, assistance in the dressing r…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 12:27 PM
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Eh, online a lot. Not so much in person. I've had some rude comments before, because I'm 22 and married and people said things about my ambition, career goals, and stupidity. But it's much better now.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/14 12:07 PM
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Huh, that's interesting. I met my husband before I was on the pill and before we decided to be sexually active I got on it. Nothing changed. I've always loved his smell. Before the pill and after. But I can understand why this makes sense for in general. Don't know why not me
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/14 02:19 PM
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Oh that is the best way to waste a whole rainy day. Highly recommended!!
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/14 03:09 PM
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Wow, just wow. Even as a woman I cannot understand these comments. At first I thought it was the guy with the girl, and thought well yeah he's attractive. But then I looked up the name and it's the little guy! He's cute, but like kid cute. Like my little brothers (same age). The kind you want to ruffle their hair and then challenge them to tag or something. I can't see him anyway as a sexual being. Gosh, my brothers are the same age and are in 6th grade! They like pokemon and minecraft. They are…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 07:11 AM
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I always appreciate your input and modding on this sub. Yet again I feel you are shaping this sub in a positive direction. The way to wake people up is not to act like the people they believe of us irrationally, but to reason, to be sincere, and to be firm. Intelligence is almost always the way to go. However witty sarcasm to show a point more clearly is always appreciated.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:24 AM
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hey thanks that helps a lot!!
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/14 05:57 AM
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I have an question though. Does the same apply when the couple is married or in a LTR and the friends were the male's but the female also then is friends with them because they always hang out together. For instance my husband has a group of guy friends. Now they are my friends too. I have a few women friends, but when I became disabled most didn't care enough to stick around. Since the guys are lowkey and I can play video games they come over (with my husband and I both there) and we game and p…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 01:23 PM
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I think this is beautiful. She really realized she almost lost this man, and it sealed their decision I think. Though who dates for 15 years?
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/14 01:02 PM
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I will have to look that up!
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/14 11:28 AM
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bwahaha that one is amazing. When women are allowed to pin whatever they want, they tend to go toward things that are naturally feminine
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/14 02:48 PM
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Lol, as a RPW , I've only ever been with my husband. It took a while to be open about my desires, but yes this is one, and yes it's wonderful to just BE HONEST with your husband and it leads to happiness all around. I don't know why women are so afraid to admit this to themselves. If it's hot, and you're in a committed relationship, why not share it? Worst that can happen is it doesn't work for you in practice and you try something else. But from my limited experience yes, yes it works in practi…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 11:58 AM
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Oh goodness, I love pinterest.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/14 11:50 AM
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Isn't it funny how men fall into the traditional roles and are happy about it? You can try as hard as you can be a certain mindset but you can't change nature.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/14 01:18 PM
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lol this is too funny. I see nothing wrong with netflix and hikes! If she had an issue, scared about the future, she should discuss it openly and honestly. Not the shit test. You know how you keep money? You don't spend it willy nilly. I'm sure though that if he needed to make a good purchase like a house, he wouldn't need a mortgage and would get a nice modest house. If his car breaks down, he'll go to a good respected mechanic or get a nice stable car. If he gets injured, he doesn't have to wo…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 09:09 AM
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It was a female who posted it
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 11:34 AM
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