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QUEEN SH*TSakuraGirl88/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 09:18 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYSakuraGirl88/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:12 PM
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This. I was thinking to myself that this is comparable to drug addicts. But if you watch TV, every few minutes we get bombarded with ED ads 🙄.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 02:55 PM
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I pray that she's getting some on the side 🙏🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 09:40 PM
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I'm convinced they're delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 08:52 PM
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I have no brothers or sisters. So no nieces/nephews. But I've always aspired to be like my aunt; who was a rich auntie herself 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 07:06 PM
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I've never watched Bridgerton nor GOT nor Euphoria for that matter. And I don't have a desire to. It's just nowadays everything has to have an explicit sex scene or an explicit conversation about sex. Now, that's not to say that I'm a prude, but I'm just tired of seeing it in everything. It's in all the shows, movies, and the music. If I hear about one more Cardi or Meg clone, I swear 🤬. Just have some subtlety and let me use my imagination 🤦🏽‍♀️. But, we have to remember all of this is just pan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 03:54 PM
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I've been seeing this. I swear men are so stupid. If Ciara had stayed with future, men would say "you need to choose better men". Ciara finds a better man. Men say "he's a corny square". Ugh, men are so stupid. I saw a comment that said that Russell is corny for taking care of another man's kids 🤦🏽‍♀️. They want to blame all of this on Ciara. I swear, these losers can't stand to see black women living a good life with a good man. And another useless pickme said Russell is a good man, but he does…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 12:49 AM
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This. And they'll turn into whiny babies once they realize I can't turn my body into a pretzel. They think 10 minutes of jackhammering and a big d@#% is all it takes. But even if you tell the guy what you like, it literally goes in one ear and out the other 🤦🏽‍♀️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 03:54 PM
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As she should. This loser couldn't spell his way out of the alphabet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 10:30 PM
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It can be a little disheartening, but I try to have a little bit of hope. But that seems to be dwindling. It's difficult when men out there can't even be bothered to brush their teeth 🤮. It would be nice to meet a guy that I like, but it's few far and in-between. And the way our society/culture has been engineered over the years is not helping. Because now, you really have to vet and have good judgement because a supposed HVW can fake the funk. But I'd say just focus on yourself, not because you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 04:51 PM
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Right. It's only an open marriage if the man is getting his fill. But then it becomes a problem when the woman is having fun too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 09:19 PM
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🤣🤣🤣. This made me giggle. Not dubbed sailor moon! 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 07:55 PM
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I've always wondered this. Do guys really think that dick is THAT appealing to the naked eye? I mean, dick is ugly, if you ask me. And I mean the appendage itself. And since most guys are horrible lovers, that just makes it less appealing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 04:57 PM
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This. This drove me up a wall. My mom was a nurse, and nurses go through so much crap throughout their careers. It's such a stressful job. This just cheapens their hard work and dedication.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 02:28 AM
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You know what, I'll start giving a crap when men have to deal with all the pressure of unrealistic beauty standards that leads to physical as well as mental health issues. The minute a girl is born, we're bombarded with constant messages that something is wrong with us. That we're never good enough. While men can have "dad bod" and people act like it took a lot of courage to not workout?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 03:44 PM
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Right. But now that I think about it, Will Smith probably wasn't too far off here. He did ostracize his first wife and son before he met Jada and had his other two kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 08:12 AM
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At the Oscars last night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 07:57 AM
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Whoa. That was really interesting. I hadn't seen pursuit of happyness in a long time. Had no idea this facet of it existed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 07:18 AM
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Idk all the details, but over the past couple of years, will and jada's dirty laundry had been airing out. Jada confessed that she more or less cheated on will ( she calls it an entanglement). They always had this image that their marriage was rock solid, now the facade has crumbled in front of the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 06:16 AM
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This dude is crazy. And he's unhinged about $5. Nobody cares about him and struggle dick 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 02:30 AM
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Ugh. Disgusting and disturbing. I hope this was written by a man as some sick fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 02:12 AM
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I didn't even realize the label was not marketed anymore. When I was in junior high, I foolishly had a bag with the label on it 🤦🏽‍♀️. And after watching the documentary on playboy, ugh I wish this wouldn't be a thing anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 08:53 PM
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Who's the baby here again? The 3 year old or the loser husband? And that age gap 😖.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 08:47 PM
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And the guys who say that crap be the ugliest, dustiest, brokest scrotes. They always moan and groan about "women don't do this", "women aren't feminine" woe is me. They want that tradwife, handmaid's tale nonsense. It's all a delusional fantasy that they've fabricated from reading too much wattpad. Because God forbid a woman, especially a black woman actually be autonomous and have lives that don't revolve around making men comfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 12:51 AM
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It's not much, but I'm beefing up my resume to get a better paying job in my field.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 06:32 PM
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Ugh. I tried to do this years ago. At the time, I thought it was OK until realized that 1) he wasn't going to pursue a real relationship and 2) dude was just bad at sex, just awful. There are no benefits, for women at least. And definitely no friendship. Do not let a scrote use you like a 7-11.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 07:24 PM
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Ugh. Why do women do this 🤦🏽‍♀️. This is as bad as those cringey videos of women proposing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 07:17 PM
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Aww how sweet 🥰. This almost makes me dare to hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 01:51 PM
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Ugh. I barely got through this video. The fact that she's wearing that sailor moon shirt made me have a visceral reaction. She's trying to convince herself that she's okay with this nonsense. It'll come back to bite her in the butt later on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 01:28 PM
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Yeah because every financial milestone I hit is to impress some dusty, broke bum community dick 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 03:31 AM
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I never got into the show. I never understood the hype.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 07:33 PM
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Right. They're all delusional. They literally tell on themselves. And this idiot is depraved racist. He had an African f$%#buddy. Wtf?! 🤬🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 05:19 PM
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When they get older, they're brains are so porn fried, that it's ridiculous. When they talk amongst themselves, it's about sex , dick, sexist dogma etc and maybe the occasional sport. They can't hold a proper conversation about anything remotely interesting 😒.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 02:19 PM
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I agree with him up until that last point. But regardless of how I feel about Kim k, she doesn't deserve this nonsense. She makes way too much money to be dealing with crap like thus. It's ridiculous. And people are laughing off Kanyes behavior and saying crap like "he needs a black woman in his life". No, he needs a therapist and possibly a straitjacket.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 09:01 PM
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Ikr. Whoever created this post is a loser who is projecting. Michelle Obama is a goddess in the flesh inside and out. And if you want to talk about having an ugly partner, look at Beyonce (she's not the ugly one) 🤮. You have so many pretty women married to men who look like Gollum. But scrotes want you to look like Pamela Anderson.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:57 PM
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Talk about an entitled prick 🙄. He's one of those pseudo intellectual types who says/does stuff like this and wonders why he can't get dates. If he's not older, he'll keep spouting this nonsense and rope some innocent girl into marrying him out of the goodness of her heart. And he thinks Ruth Chris is high quality? 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 03:43 PM
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So he wants to disappoint two women 🤷🏽‍♀️. She needs to get away from this low life degenerate ASAP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 08:59 PM
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I get the idea. But this is too much effort. I'll just say "no thank you", block, delete and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 03:36 PM
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A wise man once said "cocaine is a hell of a drug"🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 09:20 PM
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Yeah. I don't really care. I might create an alternate username. But I mostly lurk a few other subs and don't post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 09:05 PM
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Very true. When we were in college, one of my closest friends got really sick (we went to separate schools in different cities). But she got so sick that her then boyfriend rushed her to the hospital. I believe he told the staff that he was her husband to stay with her. I was in their wedding a couple years later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 03:29 PM
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What is it with these guys wanting to be with women who look young enough to be their daughters. If someone told me she was his daughter, I'd probably believe it 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 02:10 PM
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But they are the logical sex 🙄. And we've been conditioned to give people a chance. Side note: there's no way this dude is 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 04:52 PM
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Wait...this dude thinks he's Tony Stark? 🧐 Should I laugh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:08 AM
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Um wtf did I just read? This is beyond messed up. As far as I'm concerned the "husband" need to be in jail. This is sick and disgusting. How low does your self esteem need to be to condone this type of madness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 12:50 AM
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Now she won't be able to get rid of him, nor will he contribute anything. My mom would have slapped me into the next century if I did this 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 07:04 PM
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This. A fitted shirt and slacks with nice cologne go a long way. You don't have to look like a Giorgio Armani model, but looking put together is quite hot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 01:29 AM
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It's ridiculous. The money I'd waste going 50/50 I'd spend on a vibrator or my own dinner 🤷🏽‍♀️. No point in wasting money when you're not getting anything in return. And so many women fall for this dogma. If you can't afford a decent date, well you shouldn't be dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 10:53 PM
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It's a no from me dawg. I have stuff to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 08:36 PM
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No need to write the joke. They ARE the joke 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 08:29 PM
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"How excited she gets when taking her to target or barnes and noble?" Is she 4? She'll think this is cute now. But hopefully she'll come to her senses and realizes that she deserves better than this cheapo loser 😒 Edited for more snark.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 03:04 AM
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It's true. And people are just brushing this off like he's having a temper tantrum and blaming Kim 🙄.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 12:49 AM
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Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 06:12 PM
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I've never watched the show before. But it sounds interesting. Where can I watch it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 02:10 PM
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He's cute. But I'd still probably melt him 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 10:54 PM
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Definitely. They spelled "you're" all the way wrong 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 04:54 PM
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I could be wrong, but he looks like an airline pilot who thinks "the mile high club" is funny 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 04:34 PM
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I mean, technically, I don't think I'm wrong 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 10:00 PM
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Supply chain issues 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 07:57 PM
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This. 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 03:50 PM
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Tell me you're negging without telling me you're negging 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 01:15 AM
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I didn't know much about ASAP rocky. But I really thought Riri was going to be one of the few celebrities to go against the grain and not have kids (at least not this way) maybe in vitro or something. I really thought she was going to go the way of Betty White. I like to think that she wasn't pressured into having kids, but idk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 10:29 PM
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I'm actually going to be in Vegas with my mom 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:07 AM
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I'm from LA (not Los Angeles). I never really liked when people called me sweetie, honey etc. Especially from people I don't know. I've never really had men say it to me. But I'd still feel uncomfortable. I just don't like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:31 PM
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What is ethnically non monogamous? 🤔 Is that like ethically raised cows or something? Why are these men so hell bent on disappointing so many women 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 12:02 AM
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This made me giggle 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:01 PM
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I'm not the biggest fan of Kim K nor her family. But this woman is so successful and people still won't let this die. No one condemns Ray j for this mess. And it's the same with Janet Jackson and the super bowl all those years ago. Janet has had this target on her back since 2004.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 12:44 AM
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Omg. I saw this. I felt bad for the lady and I was pissed off for her. The guy was giving "I don't believe in labels" energy. He was pissed about a rinky dink zales ring when he was the one dangling the marriage carrot since she was a teen 😡. The guy had to be cheating on her, you can't tell me he wasn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 03:53 AM
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Partner of 7 years? She needs to run. This is code for "I couldn't possibly spend that amount of money on you since I've been dangling the marriage carrot all this time but sure let me bemoan my oppression" 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 12:52 AM
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"Unable to control"? Like how you can't control the weather? Puhlease. No one is putting up with a man with a sad erection. And using a toy is a whole other ball game. Excuses excuses 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 11:28 PM
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This is a joke.....right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 03:55 AM
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Meh. Marriage doesn't appeal to me. Unless I marry the man I've formulated in my head 🤣. I'd prefer being the rich auntie 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 07:53 PM
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True. We're becoming more educated and starting our own businesses and doing other great things for ourselves. But some will say "that's why you're still single". Like okay? 💅🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 03:53 PM
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He really short circuited once he realized she wasn't playing that mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 10:23 PM
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Poor little tink tink 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 07:12 PM
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Right! Their definition of a "good woman" is essentially a doormat bangmaid with low self esteem 🙃. But I died at the way she said 12.5 😆.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 05:14 PM
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I never really followed their "relationship". I knew they were married. But I really thought they were solid. Like I thought they were "relationship goals" like will and jada. But pastors are notoriously cheaters and abusers while always dictating how women should act 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 07:06 PM
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Yes! 🙌🏾. That's one of my new years resolutions; limit my time on social media, television etc and touch some grass, literally 😅. It really messes with your psyche.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 09:27 PM
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I've gotten it once. And considering it's supposed to be used for dire situations is just abuse of the feature which hurts more than it helps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 03:52 AM
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Yes. I got that message once and blocked it 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 03:50 AM
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Oh puhlease. This loser cheated on his now ex wife while he was married. And the woman he cheated with was posting pics of him with her. But these idiots complain about marriage. Give me a break 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 12:17 AM
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I got this too. But the rest of my recap made me realize that I probably spend an unhealthy amount of time on this app and on my phone in general 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 05:16 PM
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I'm not in a rush to get married. But in the past, I did dream of having a wedding and all the fanfare, and I admittedly still do in some way (thanks Disney). But men are just bleh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 11:30 PM
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My last bf was the same age as me, but I was dating a guy who was older than me and once the honeymoon stage wore off and I realized he was a control freak I lit outta there. He said he thought I looked older. Dating someone older does not mean he's wiser, smarter, better looking etc. Most if not all the time dude's a predator. And she said a decade?! No ma'am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 05:24 PM
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Like another poster said, you don't have to give up dating, just drop this loser like a hot potato. He just wants to use you as an option. Get out now before you become a forever gf. It's not your fault this guy's a sociopathic loser. Oh, and did I mention he was a loser?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 08:13 PM
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She's right. But a lot of these men barely have money 🙄. At least not enough to live comfortably. And if they do have money, they don't know how to manage it properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 03:10 PM
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Tell me you're bad at sex without telling me you're bad at sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 02:21 PM
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Because they realize no one is going to put up with their nonsense. And they're about to be bald and lonely 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 04:03 PM
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This loser doesn't respect women. He's realizing that he's 40 and is about to have a head on collision with the wall because no one wants him. He sounds delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 03:22 PM
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There's another term for it, but I can't think of it right now. But it's where women should always want to have kids. That a woman should have kids despite the circumstances and that if she goes against this idea then she's considered "weird". I've often said that I don't want to have children. I have no maternal interest at all. And people will look me dead in the face and say "no you'll have kids when you find the right guy" 🤦🏽‍♀️. How can you tell me what I want and don't want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 04:11 AM
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As another poster said. It's so exhausting being a woman. The world hates women. This is about nothing but control. And as a woman of color, this is just frustrating. I have no desire to have children, unless it's with a man who can provide and won't leave. And I will not be railroaded into having kids I don't want and being a single mother. Especially since my community loves to gatekeep fertility. This isn't going to stop abortion. It's going to make it more dangerous, which is why Roe v Wade …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 11:57 PM
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No. I totally agree with you. My teen years were very confusing. But once I got to my senior year of HS, I just focused on graduating and getting into college. But years later I've discussed this with my therapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 05:14 PM
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He thought I looked older. And I thought dating someone older made me more mature? And I was so damn stubborn that I wasn't listening to anyone and had tunnel vision. But looking back on it, he had serious issues and I suspect he was a porn addict. But I managed to get out of it and avoid him completely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 04:47 AM
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Whew! I dated a guy who was 20 when I was 15. I thought good morning texts were so thoughtful. I was often told I was "not like other girls". I thought coffee dates were romantic 🤦🏽‍♀️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 08:42 PM
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Wow. Men can drag women all day, and can have preferences. But when a woman wants to have standards everyone loses their minds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:53 PM
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I agree with this. My mom has lots of plants in our house. And she talks to her plants all the time. Of course, she takes care of them properly, but I think talking to them also helps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 11:43 PM
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Idk if this would count. But any shows where there's the trope of fat ditzy guy and hot wife. Like what makes you think a woman wants be married to and have children with a man who is not that attractive. I'm not saying you have to look like Idris Elba, but come on. You don't shows about a fit man being satisfied with a bigger girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 06:51 PM
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Not the Christmas tree like the Grinch 🤣🤣🤣🤣.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 03:53 AM
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They shamed Taylor, Kim, and Lori Harvey for doing the same thing. But no one bats an eye when a guy does it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 05:16 AM
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Everything about this is cringey. And honestly, just randomly going up to people and asking them questions needs to be illegal. But she's smart, pretty, and obviously has ambitions. Why would she want a man who is beneath her and deal with a loser who will end up resenting her and will gaslight her all the time? Make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 02:26 PM
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This loser rhymed in the last sentence 😂😂. He thinks he's Shakespeare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 07:13 AM
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This is what happens when you let porn teach you sex ed. Men are just terrible at sex. One guy I was with was so awful 😭. He only did it in two positions, wanted me to give him oral, but he only reciprocated twice in the 4 years we dated. And he would roll over and j$%% off like I wasn't even in the room 😒. Just an unpleasurable experience. I've all but given up. Thank God for a vibrator though 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 09:07 PM
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They have no heart. It's a void. And endless, soul sucking black hole that puts the Grinch to shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 09:00 PM
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OMG. This is a new level of disgusting 🤮. The bar is way past hell. Some men are just despicable. I need eye bleach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 01:07 AM
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Oh God no. I, like others have IBS, and yes it is a struggle to live with. But I would never be disgusting. This is just vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 03:31 PM
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I don't really know about ashnikko. But her, Cardi, Meg, Nicki, etc. It's all the same. They go on and on with this persona about being empowered, when all it is just bragging about being good in bed? Not to mention the fact that everything is controlled by men anyway. And another poster mentioned WAP. For all that bragging Cardi does, she still went back to Offset after he cheated on her. But as far as the music industry goes, sex sells and gets more attention. But women have to be 10 times as …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 10:26 PM
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It is a scam. And it doesn't benefit women at all. And the media, libfems, etc will sit there and tell young women that this mess is "empowering" and that women should be able to do what they want. We have a lot more to lose with hookup culture. And we've been so conditioned to believe that sex is only about the man's pleasure. And don't get me started on the fact that you'll still be slut shamed and dragged by LVM for basically doing the same thing they're doing. And who wants to keep having ba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 03:19 PM
229

Omg. This dude got dragged to hell and back over this post 🤣. He really thinks he's a catch. And that's assuming his girlfriend is real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 12:46 AM
281

That was so funny. That last line "did you change the Netflix password?" 😂. I've texts AND voice-mails like this ex "I'm sorry for not considering your feelings and only thinking with my d#$% woe is me". Nah, you have two heads and neither of them function properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 02:09 PM
111

This. We've been so socialized to drop everything when a guy gets involved as if we don't have lives of our own. If the guy can't follow through and can't be considerate of your time, we'll he's not the one for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 06:25 PM
3

And would constantly dog her if she did leave him. If she exists 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:37 PM
44

Bruh, if you're gay just say that 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:29 AM
47

I liked Shrek as a kid. But now that I'm older I realize Fiona should've just gone solo. She's obviously smart and resourceful. But that just made me respect Frozen 2 more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 01:11 AM
82

Meh 😒. Dude is projecting. He can't stand seeing a group of women actually calling scrotes out on their grade a BS and seeing women supporting each and giving each other good advice to protect our well being. And the only threat he has is that we can't get di#@. Get a life 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 06:11 PM
318

Wtf is "maintain"? Am I a landscaper now? If you don't know how to wash yo balls, put on deodorant, and shave by now you're not the one for me. Maintain ya damn self 🤦🏽‍♀️ GTFOH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:53 PM
6

OMG. That reminds me of that episode of the Golden Girls when they came back from a girl's night out only to find their home had been ransacked. And Rose was so scared. And she said "she knows that the robbers weren't there physically anymore, but in her mind they'll always be in their home". And given that Rose had always lived in a small town with her husband until he died and she moved in with 3 other ladies in a big city and she still felt unsafe. I didn't really understand when I saw that e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 03:02 PM
74

He had no business invading your space like that. If there's something that needs to be done, they need to schedule it when you're ready.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 09:28 PM
189

This really bothered me. I still live with my parents, but this is part of the reason why I'm reluctant to move out. He was a "maintenance man" and had 24hr access to her apartment (that is a practice that needs to be abolished). And was mad that she wasn't interested in him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 09:06 PM
72

Lol. At the beginning I was like "oh hell no". But the rest of the video was cute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:23 PM
128

Girl. I felt this with my spirit. Most days I'm like "I don't need a man to be happy" (and I don't). But somedays I think " it's really slim pickings out here". Or I'll berate myself for having "high standards". But there's only one vision of man that I like .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:31 PM
196

He's so delusional he thinks he looks like Idris Elba 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:22 PM
26

It's bad enough that society has been peddling this crap for years and I hasn't benefited us AT ALL. I regrettably had a few hookups in my 20s and they were all just awful 🤮. And the last guy I "dated" was even worse. All it does is give scrotes the false belief that having a penass is like having a magical orgasm wand from Harry Potter. And it treats women as if you can stick a quarter in us and sex pops out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:19 PM
2

Omg. Not budget cuts! 🤣🤣🤣🤣. I'm laughing while trying this. I'm using that line in my everyday life 🤣🤣.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:26 PM
18

This. We all did. Until last year, I thought will and jada were good. They're kids always seemed a little off to me, but they always portrayed themselves as the perfect couple/family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:27 PM
71

Wtf did I just read?! Yeah, I can't trust anything that has two heads and can't use neither one of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:14 PM
51

But they'll sit there and yell " men are the logical sex" and benefit from the sexist rhetoric that men are somehow better at everything because p*nis. Men have two heads and can't use neither one of them 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:50 PM
54

I've never been on a real date before that was planned. It was always a meet-up thing 😒. If I agree to take time out of my schedule and venture outside, just to get to know you, then yes, plan the damn date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:47 PM
6

Still too long to decide if you want to marry me or not if you ask me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:57 PM
24

Sounds like this guy doesn't make as much money as he lets on 🤔. And he started love bombing her and she probably wasn't into him at first. And 6 years before getting married? I would've noped out of there so fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:38 PM
13

Lol. Well I'm from Louisiana, so hunting and fishing is big here. I'm not sure about other states though. But where I live, I wouldn't be surprised to see camo as a daily form of dressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 02:43 PM
110

I haven't been out dating (I just have no desire to). Idk if this is a trend in all the USA but here in the southern US, the beard thing is just not attractive to me. And dad bod? Blech! And they just wear t-shirts, jeans, ball caps, and ugly shoes. You don't have to wear a suit and tie everywhere (although I love a man in a fitted suit). Or they'll wear oversized clothes everywhere. I'm not asking for Giorgio Armani, but geez!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 04:45 AM
91

That's neither a man nor a king. That's a child. "Elevate our men". Yeah tell that mess to Nicki Minaj 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 12:34 AM
83

😂😂😂😂. This looks like a over 40 frat boy reunion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 05:20 PM
13

Right. I am not ride or die. I am flee and retreat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:56 AM
60

Scrotes have nothing, literally nothing but audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 10:20 PM
16

Yeah. Tell that mess to Beyonce 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 10:18 PM
37

And that ride or die crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 07:54 PM
77

I agree. As a WOC, I'm not diminishing the severity of the Petito case. I think this is the symptom of a much bigger problem. There was a post on here earlier about how Gabby spoke to the police and it was brought up that that douche bag had scratches on his neck, but they still let her go. If Woc had said the same thing, we probably would've been arrested. And when it is brought up that woc disappearances don't get as much coverage if any, people get defensive and act like "this isn't about you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:23 PM
864

A "chore date". There is no bar anymore, it's invisible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 02:41 PM
62

I am a proud INFP. I think that's why I didn't really mind the lockdown with the pandemic 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 02:05 PM
35

Omg 🤮. That sounds like a serial rapist/killer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:35 PM
82

Omg! This comment made me laugh for an inappropriate amount of time 🤣🤣🤣.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:11 AM
31

Today I learned about "gym dates". I've never heard of such a thing until now 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 09:15 PM
63

This. I've heard of walking dates, I've heard of guys inviting you to their place for a date, I've even heard of "car dates". But a gym date is a new one on me. Nah sis 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 09:14 PM
43

This! I turned 30 last year and I was feeling kind of meh. I had been thinking about what I really wanted in my life. My aunt died last year and she never married and never had kids. And people would make it seem like a woman not having or not wanting kids is some type of abnormality. But I realized dammit this is my life and I can chose to live how I want unapologetically. I don't need to go a "traditional" route to be happy. And there's other women out there who feel the same way. I don't real…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 05:49 PM
9

😂😂😂. Omg. I really wish I could get away with that. Just have an arsenal of things to throw in my purse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 11:50 PM
61

Right. And then men will sit there and claim that everything they do is based on natural instinct 🙄. Men have two heads and don't know how to use neither one of them 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 05:51 PM
74

Yep. Those long hat pins that women used to hold the hat to their heads. A man can defend himself by any means necessary. But a woman can't use a measly hair pin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 03:23 PM
4

Ugh. That just makes my blood boil. Especially after the testimony today from the women of the gymnastics team in front of Congress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 06:21 PM
27

Good. I remember a while ago, I made a comment to a post about wanting a guy at least 6 ft with muscles. And the next day I had gotten a message from Reddit about needing mental help like I was suicidal 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:44 PM
21

I'm not in Texas. I live in Louisiana (which isn't much better). But I just know that my state will implement something like this at some point. I've never understood why what I do with my body is anyone's business but my own. But the same wackos who voted for this also complain about women draining the system who are mostly woc and low income who don't have access to efficient resources to care for their children 🤬.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 09:23 PM
12

Not the lasko fans 😂😂. And he said "I take sh$#@ bigger than you". So funny 😆😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:00 AM
123

This 🙌🙌. Society loves to act like something is wrong with women who are single. And ENJOY being single. Women nowadays are waking up, and men can't handle it at all (logical sex my ass). People always ask why don't you have a boyfriend, when will you get married, when will you have kids 😫. It's exhausting. Life does not have to revolve around men. Find other things that are fulfilling. Men just bring unnecessary stress and trouble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 12:35 PM
102

They mean "supercalifragilisticexpialidocious" 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 09:18 PM
13

What kind of BS is this "be mysterious". I'm not mystique. And "complicated words"=MEN ARE MORONS and only think between their legs got it 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 09:15 PM
36

This. You get more time for having weed 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 11:04 PM
51

And in the same vein, a woman can do all the things a man does and still not be paid as much and not nearly as highly regarded. Especially black women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 11:00 PM
2

Last guy I went on a date with apparently thought Olive Garden was "fancy". I've had genuine French food in Paris, and ate a real pizza in Italy once. But Olive Garden is "good quality" 😒.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:11 PM
268

He is the king of incels. Like a spokesperson.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 06:00 PM
80

This. Speaking of which, I never knew that about Hedy Lamarr creating the technology for wifi, GPS, etc. That ties into the whole "pretty women can't be smart" 😒. And as for the lights going out, I heavily prepare. I live where hurricanes pop up and the occasional ice storm is possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 05:27 PM
5

Amen! I love to see it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:53 AM
15

For sure. Scrotes like these always tell on themselves 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:32 AM
103

He's single because he clearly does not have a proper command of the English language. Dumbass mofo 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:10 AM
55

Ugh. I know I'm late but as a black woman this made me cringe 😖. Nah. They want you to be ride or die literally. But these same men that she's praising in this piece wouldn't even take you out to a nice dinner date and think that sex is transactional. Our community always has a thing about being loyal to our own kind as far as race goes. You'll never see a BM pen this about a BW.....EVER!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 08:56 PM
58

I hate that comment "let down her country" 😒. Yeah because no country loves black women more than the US OF A /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 07:14 PM
28

Since working from home, I don't really get asked this question. People will ask if I have kids, but won't pry any further when I say "no". But when I answer I just say they're too expensive to have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 01:08 PM
17

Oh ok 😆. He's just terrible at texting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 11:48 PM
34

That part. "Essence", these losers try to sound profound when all they want is ass 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 11:14 PM
279

She had me going until the end 🤣. She gave him the address to the charles county health department 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 09:23 PM
13

Oh no. This is not what my therapist would encourage me to do. This will just enable men to do nothing, not even the bare minimum 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:54 PM
31

They always say "you'll die alone". I don't like the idea of dying alone. But I'd rather die alone with my chardonnay than with a loser whose slowly killing me inside. Besides, I won't be alone, I'll be with the people I pay to take care of me. They know they can't last one day without a woman taking care of them. Like another poster said it's all projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:59 AM
0

If he's dumb enough to create this statement, I don't doubt he's dumb enough to think that menstruation is a myth 🙄.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 10:56 PM
25

Right. Because our normal bodily functions suddenly inconveniences his dumb ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 09:18 PM
80

I was a teacher for a while and that really sealed the deal for me. For years I would tell myself that I'd want kids when the right guy came along. But men are trash. It took until I was about 25 to realize that not having kids was an option. I tend to avoid the conversation which is hard to do since the black community is very pro-natalist despite the blatant medical discrimination.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:06 AM
205

"Are we looking at the same body?" 🤣🤣💀. He was so confused and he started doing push-ups wtf?! Now her body on the other hand is fantastic. I want to be friends with this woman!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 11:25 PM
9

Just step out the front door. We don't need a show for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 06:44 PM
80

Cheating boyfriend aside, this just sounds like so much fun 🥰.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 01:43 PM
52

This is what they mean when they say they want a woman to "build him up". This isn't build-a-scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 10:49 PM
19

This is why as much as I would love to go to a gym, I choose to workout at home. Even though you can't really escape it whenever you're out in public, but still. I would love to go to an all female gym 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:38 PM
51

He thinks it high maintenance to see your parents? 🤣 what a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 08:53 PM
13

I love TDWP, but this just really irked me. They were mad that Andy leveled up and missed a damn birthday. I mean, Andy was doing her job, like the rest of us. Like grow up. Nate worked as a chef, it wasn't like he was some big CEO. He could've made his own damn cake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 02:55 PM
79

I was in a situation like this too. I tried to justify his behavior. I literally put blinders on and I refused to listen to anyone. But then I just slapped myself and said "wake the eff up girl!" 🤦🏽‍♀️. I'd rather be single than go through stress of wondering whether my SO loves me or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 08:14 PM
395

I really hate the phrase "at least he comes home to me at night". Being in a situationship is not cute. And people say "that's why you're single, you're too picky". Yeah don't threaten me with a good time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:15 PM
1

I just wanted to say thank you guys for the likes, comments, awards and upvotes 😊. I didn't really think this post would get much traction 😅. This just resonated with me so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 04:59 PM
69

Lol. As a kid I always thought turning 30 would either be the beginning of the end or I'd be a high power ceo 🤣. But when I got closer to 30 I was kind of like "you know, this ain't so bad" lol. People act like 30 is a death sentence if you haven't hit certain invisible time-line life markers but I'm just like "whatevs"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 12:08 AM
34

Omg. The age difference makes me physically ill. The bar is the devil's baseball bat at this point 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:04 PM
81

This whole thing is BS. Pickme bs aside, what grabbed me was the first tweet. What does he mean by earn? 🤔. He's one of those scrotes who thinks sex is transactional for all women. And $30-$50? That's not even enough to take myself out 😅.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 06:27 PM
41

It's damned if you do. Damned if you don't. If I'm just polite, they'll see that as an invitation to bang. But if I'm rude, that could possibly result in retaliation 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 04:10 PM
23

This really pissed me off 🤬🤬. So they can free Bill Cosby but not Britney. Nice job breaking it folks 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 01:17 PM
44

This is so gross. But the lady's face on the right of the picture says it all 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:38 PM
66

Ridiculous to even bring this up. Because God forbid a successful, attractive woman just be happy with being single and having standards and not wanting to settle. She wants the whole cake with the cherry on top and not just the crumbs. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 02:57 AM
60

Um what? If I can't have my 6 ft, muscular, abs-having, big dick, thick thighs, intelligent, slightly dorky, financially stable, emotionally mature, well dressed male counterpart then what even is the point 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 07:08 PM
28

Ugh. If you're gay just say that 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 02:14 AM
25

Yes. I haven't gotten sick and my allergies haven't been going crazy either. It bothered me even more that he wasn't six feet away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 11:01 PM
92

Ugh! That's why I was low key thankful for the mask wearing. I didn't get anyone asking me to smile. But even the mask didn't stop the uglies. I was in the casino with my mom and this guy came up to me and said "excuse me miss", I turned to face him and just stared at him. He proceeded to say "you look good" 😒. Ugh! Just leave me alone! I don't want you. And I already know I'm pretty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 10:21 PM
31

I'm so glad she's taking a stand and speaking up. The news made her out like she was crazy. But she was trapped and no one was listening. This was just modern day slavery. Everyone around her didn't even treat her like she was human. I'm rooting for her. I hope she can get all the help and support she needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:39 AM
75

I hate those types 😒. And another poster mentioned Beyonce. Jayz said the same bs with his ugly dog fart self. I still don't understand how or why beyonce married or stayed with him. But at the same time, they'll yell that a woman isn't "wifey material" if she dates around or if she doesn't stay with a cheater. If the woman cheats they'll call her every name in the book. But this mess keeps perpetuating because the pickmes keep picking these worthless scrotes and then get mad when the scrote doe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 03:40 AM
118

It would be nice to be with a financially stable partner. But my mama always told me to make my own money, get my education, and to be independent. I've seen too many women end up with nothing when they left their careers for a man. And that way you never have to feel like you owe somebody something because they are able to provide for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 06:17 PM
128

I don't care if they're embarrassed 😂. My vibrator gets the job done in less the time. I don't have to worry about stds, beg a guy to go down, and I don't have to pretend that I'm a porn actress to boost the fragile male ego. It's just so much easier. 2 aa batteries and I'm good to go 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 03:39 AM
25

There's nothing to talk about. He moved without you. He probably had a side piece already lined up. Just forget about him. Moving halfway around the world is a long and stressful process. Don't do it unless you really want/have to. Not because of some guy. Ugh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:31 PM
52

Because he's a disgusting, depraved degenerate who needs to die. He knows he'll get off scott free. And I'm willing to guess that this bastard has done this before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:29 AM
66

I'm glad you mentioned this. It's funny that Meg is actually getting her degree in Health Administration. She is a very intelligent woman. But no one wants to talk about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:58 PM
23

Yet she’s the one who’s been branded mentally unstable and problematic- crazy in the black community. I can’t read a single article about her on a black celeb site without several men jumping in to say- too bad she’s crazy as a loon/ can’t keep a man etc. They tried this with Laurie Harvey too. In the black community, it's always about us being "wifey material". The men can just do what they want without any repercussions. But we women are just supposed to be ride or die. But they'll praise Beyo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:59 PM
2

Yeah. I basically, just moved on with my life. I got burned again by a scuzz ball, but he was my age. I just decided that I'm focusing on myself. I don't need a relationship with a man to be happy or anything like that. It took me a while to learn that I define what happiness means to me and the rest of the world can screw it 😌.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:23 PM
63

I really needed this when I was 15. Story time: I was 15 and I stupidly started "dating" this guy who was 20 (D'oh) 😖. Now, my mother warned me, but I was being rebellious and didn't want to listen to her. But I really thought that he would be my forever guy, but I quickly realized that all men were trash. But I was so disillusioned. I thought "dating" him made me better than all my friends. Granted, he wasn't abusive, but he was pornsick and my standards were already rising at 15. But thankfull…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 12:28 AM
60

There's actually a phrase called "gold miss" that originated in South Korea (yeah I know). It refers to women who are well educated, travel, make their own money, and basically don't need a man or marriage to be happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:00 PM
47

This is why I just watch funny cat videos. They just won't leave us alone. And they're followers will just shrug and say "well that's just his/her opinion". Spewing this nonsense isn't helping and it just pushes us further back into the stone age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:33 PM
91

Exactly. To me it just seems like a waste of time. I've had older women tell me to "get out more" because I might find the man of my dreams. Look, the man of my dreams is just that:a dream. I'm not picking through the cesspool of mediocrity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 12:16 AM
232

I just don't care. My answer is "have you seen men these days? They're ugly af!" 😤. I'm not the problem. Men are just butt ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:58 PM
16

Not cave trolls 😂😂. But they'll do all this for their "bros". But when a woman wants a man to look it's all "he's a simp!". Ugly ass mofos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:47 PM
49

She said the douche canoes! 😂😂😂😂. And not a supernatural reference 🤣🤣🤣🤣. I like that idea though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:43 PM
98

So men nowadays want to be pampered like women 🤷🏽‍♀️. You basically want a mommy to bang. And how exactly does this explain rape? And women's bodies are always complimented?! I made a post last month about how that high school tried to edit those girls' "cleavage". Men want to feel desirable? Well, do something desirable Gary! Miss me with this bullshit. Did a pickme write this? Men don't even go down or do anything that's remotely pleasurable to women. And we're always shamed into not voicing o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:10 PM
117

Nah. He'll take a selfie with her in labor. And then, months later he'll bitch and moan about how her body isn't the way it was pre pregnancy. And how he can't get his dick wet 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:29 AM
185

Sadly, men get the benefit of obtaining a higher degree with or without some type of financial privilege. Or they're book smart but dumber than a bag of rocks (sorry rocks 😥). But a lot of "educated" men I've met are so condescending and dripping with entitled assholeness. But I'm glad I read this post and not just the title. I seriously thought you meant a man who's at least 6ft 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:04 PM
42

Nah. He's pushing 30 and she's barely in her 20s. So he is trying to get with her under the guise of being emotionally understanding and "mature". He's a predator. He sees an emotionally vulnerable girl and wants to take advantage of that. Nasty creep 😒.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:23 PM
176

This. She didn't say it, but I smell a huge age gap. She has 3 kids and is just 22? But I'm pretty sure she's noticed multiple red flags, but just ignored them and just tries to rationalize his abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:48 PM
89

That last line "you can't sit with us". But society, especially with black men, they make it seem like women are always supposed to "perform" and prove our worth. Especially with statements like "what do you bring to the table" or my favorite "is she wife material?". There's never an active discussion about how men can be good partners. But we women are expected to just be perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:18 AM
2

Oh God. That's worse 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 07:27 PM
66

Does he mean 3 times in one go? No man is capable of that 😏. Or does he mean 3 times since their relationship. But no man is capable of that either. A delusional, porn-addicted, limp dick loser. A wise woman once said "you can't f$#@ sir".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:53 PM
56

Car seat!? 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:47 PM
16

Did she say he bit her armpit? That sounds like some deranged Jeffrey Dahmer type mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:02 PM
12

OMG I loved sailor moon as a kid. When it was on TV they portrayed sailor Neptune and sailor Uranus as "cousins", but we knew they were lesbians. Thanks cartoon network. But they re-released the manga and redid the anime to match the Manga storyline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:22 AM
8

I'd nope outta there so fast. She does not need this dog hating loser in her life. He sounds like a spoiled child who wants wife privileges. But they'll get mad if a woman addresses a man's expensive p*rn habit 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:01 PM
165

This right here."If you don't want to pay for her $*!+ another dude will do it happily" omg yes. I'm glad guys are addressing other guys for thinking the bare minimum deserves a gold star 👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:55 PM
17

And they call it "trust". OK and when you wind up with a burning fire cooch don't wonder where you got it from. But of the tables were turned, they'd call her every name in the book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:19 PM
82

This lady is my spirit animal 🤣. I dated a laundry list of men who would think that 10 minutes of jackhammering is all it takes. I always thought that all that huffing and puffing meant it was good and that's just how sex was supposed to be. I thought that if I told the guy I didn't like it he'd be mad 🤷🏽‍♀️. So I wouldn't say anything and just let him have his "moment" . They just do what they see in porn and it's all theatrics. Now I'm just like "f this shit, I'm out".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:12 PM
56

That's true. Despite his intelligence, Homer manages to hold down a job and provide for his family. While some of these men literally don't have a pot to piss in, but want you to treat them like a king 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:19 AM
178

Never lower your standards. I don't care if they call us shallow, prissy, etc. Dating an ugly man does not mean that he will treat you better. Don't date down. Don't let a man Homer Simpson you. And it's a shame that men nowadays just make my ovaries shrivel up 😒.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:08 AM
16

"No romance without finance". I'm putting that on a shirt! But that transition from Rege to Flava Flav had me dying 😂😂. Because Flav is so damn ugly. And people call me shallow for not wanting a broke ugly man 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:14 PM
21

This is so me. I'm just not settling for bad sex 🤮. Pickmes, libfems, and lvm always make it seem like if you're a woman who is not sexually active that you're a prude or men don't like you. But in the same vein, if you are just putting it out there, you're slut shamed. Society tries to treat dick like it's as rare as the hope diamond 🤷🏽‍♀️. Dick is not that great when the man is ugly, fat, has no stamina, and thinks 10 minutes of jackhammering is the best sex ever. I'll be 31 tomorrow 😊. But in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:59 PM
29

He wants you to suddenly test your gag reflex in the bedroom and become a porn star meanwhile he becomes repulsed by my vagina when I ask him to go down 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:52 AM
34

Racist loser describes "idyllic" life of travel. And cooks a mean Italian? He means chef boyardee 🙄. This dude thinks he's God's gift to women. And 5'9. Yeah Dave we know you're 5'6. Next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:03 AM
10

It's always about controlling women's bodies and not being a "distraction" to boys/men. But God forbid they start teaching boys/men to, you know, be respectful and keeps their hands to themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 07:38 PM
76

I remember for our senior prom, they lined us girls up 5 at a time in the bathroom to check our dress lengths. Just ridiculous and humiliating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:44 PM
38

Wouldn't shock me if they did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:41 PM
106

This just drives me up a wall. It's bad enough that girls/ women are sexualized even when fully clothed. It's just sad that a girl can't even take a damn yearbook photo without being bothered. At that age, you're already self conscious about the way you look and your body is changing so much. This just reinforces that society always sees something wrong with the female form 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:34 PM
13

Exactly. Any gold I dig with my bare hands is mine 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:06 PM
2

All of this and I'll pretend to have a conversation with someone even if my phone is on silent 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:36 AM
5

Thank you. And black men are sometimes the worst critics of our hair among other things 😒. But I've gotten to a point where I just do what I want. And since I wfh now, I give less of a damn 😅. But it can be a struggle on the outside and the inside. If all the men died, that would fix most of it 😏.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:57 AM
12

It's a constant struggle. As a girl, growing up, I would spend at least 3 hours to get my hair relaxed. It's like a reverse perm. It would be a long and sometimes painful process of coating our hair with chemicals to get the "kinks" out of our hair and make it manageable. And getting a weave is an even more tedious process. Now a lot of women have gone natural and ditched the relaxers. And you would think this would be freeing. But that comes with it's own set of problems. We'll be judged based …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:31 PM
15

This is the life that I'm trying to build 😭.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:06 PM
45

Are we sure they hit the wall? Looks like the wall came crashing down on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:31 PM
77

It is shirking responsibility. Saying "that was a boy not a man" is just as bad as saying "not all men". They'll say this, but in the same breath, will blame the woman for going out with a guy who is a dirt bag. They only want to protect their own. And it's not just men. The boys are starting out as garbage too. Edit: typo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:46 PM
31

🤣🤣. This made me guffaw. I'm still laughing as I write this comment 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:00 AM
26

Well everyone went ape shit over twilight 🙄. And then 50 shades of gray, which was a twilight fanfiction. And has an entire generation of women thinking situationships like that are "romantic".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:53 PM
39

I swear Russell Wilson is the epitome of HVM. He would give Ciara the moon if he could. He gives me hope 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:47 PM
74

Ugh! They will say anything to get women to compete with each other. If you like to wear makeup, fine. If you don't, fine. Just leave us alone 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:41 PM
55

I don't understand why women put themselves through crap like this. The signs were as clear as day. This woman is just dumb. This scrote is just using her. And did she say she had to prove to him that she was gf material?! And she married him and gave him offspring?! This makes me want to go on a scrote purge 🤬.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:09 PM
24

Friend with benefits. Just someone you use for sex. This scrote was just using the girl for easy free sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:03 PM
85

I hate when people tell me "maybe your standards are too high" 😒. Wanting a tall man, who showers, wears nice cologne (not that cheap mess), who dresses well, and maintains some type of self care is not that hard. I'm not asking for a Giorgio Armani model, but damn! But let's just ignore the endless onslaught of women being told how to dress, smell, look, act etc to get a man puhlease.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:03 PM
17

OMG. This gave me a visceral reaction 🤮. Why do some women do this to themselves? The bar is below hell and I don't know where that is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:29 AM
188

We are literally not safe. As far as I'm concerned, pulling out an iud is sexual assault. That's just deplorable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:23 AM
38

Same. I had a childless aunt whose life seemed like a dream. She was married, but divorced her husband because he liked to waste money on gambling. When she left him, she worked two jobs, went to nursing school and eventually bought a very nice house in San Francisco. She didn't get married again, but had no kids. She was financially savvy and traveled all the time. On the surface it seemed like she was living her best life. But I now realize she was a bit of a pickme. She was messing around wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:40 PM
93

This. I'm 30, but it took me years to realize that NOT having kids is an option. I've always been told that having kids is great and that I would be missing out on having them. I thought that not wanting kids made me some morally corrupt person. But to me, having kids is a privilege. I hope more women catch on. NOT HAVING KIDS IS A CHOICE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:07 PM
69

I have neither the heart nor the gumption to be in a relationship. Singledom is great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:00 AM
278

She's been playing house for 8 years? He probably convinced her that she could help him build his "empire". She needs to get out of there and get her own money before she marries this loser and he financially abuses her, if he hasn't already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:40 PM
36

That is a disturbing thought. But not surprising. And the worse thing is, there are pickmes who defend these men when they say things like this. Like Chris Brown sympathizers 🙄. It's just better to be single and have your own group of trustworthy female friends or a dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:01 PM
144

Reason 160000 why I'm single and don't deal with men at all. As a black woman this just sad, but not surprising. Now, are all men like this, no. But the majority outnumbers the minority. I said this in another post. They'll dog us and disrespect us, but will beg for our support when they get killed. Black women go missing, turn up dead, get assaulted, and other unspeakable things happen to us, but no one bats an eye. Nor even our own men. We are conditioned to just take it or they'll make it see…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:03 PM
12

"Have conversations while the other is pooping" 😳🤮. This made me gag. My dog is more civilized than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:42 PM
211

But they'll get mad if we date someone outside our race, or if we choose to not deal with men at all. But when one of them gets shot, they want us to be on the front lines of activism. But when something happens to us, not only will they not defend us, but they'll have several reasons not to defend us. Malcolm X said that the black woman is the most neglected person in America. Now mind you, he said this in 1962, not much has changed 😒.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:20 PM
135

This man would send me straight to hell 😭. Dad bod keeps being pushed as "just give him a chance". They want us to lower our standards and think that a man with "dad bod" is somehow morally better than six pack hotness. They'll shout "just love me for me" but they'll give a million and one ways for women to be the ideal woman. I understand that things happen and you can't always be ripped, but men have it so easy. They can think about muscles and just have them 🤷🏽‍♀️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:23 PM
49

Or Saweetie and Quavo. No one was saying he should do better. But everyone made it seem like it was all her fault. He didn't treat her right, so she left. She doesn't have to take that mess. And and earlier poster mentioned about T Swift dating. I never understood the backlash behind that either. It's like the buzz with Lori Harvey and her dating. They just labeled her a sl*t and a clout chaser. But then when you get a man who truly loves you and treats you right (Ciara and Russell). Then there'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:19 PM
3

An extreme low effort picnic date that the girl more than likely begged him for. He only posted this because he didn't have to put anything on this. He made an agreement to advertise the food place in exchange for a free plate to have for his "soul mate" for this date. And are they sitting on a sheet? After 4 months, you better be planning a trip to an island. And it doesn't look like a park. It looks like a random field across from a school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:55 PM
62

I did it. I said no I don't want kids. I said too expensive, inadequate Healthcare, and too many bodily risks. I honestly do not want to be a single mother. Now I understand that certain circumstances can lead to single motherhood. But most men nowadays are just inept caregivers. I'm not taking that risk. It's just too expensive to have a child. And right now I don't make enough money to support a tiny human. I live in Louisiana and that should be self explanatory. The infant mortality rates her…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:47 PM
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I've seen this post before. Quadruple nope 🙅🏻🙅🏻. But there are LVM like that who feel that entitled with an ego as long as the California coast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:50 PM
2

Like another poster, it's my birthday month 😊. I'm trying to get back into my workout routine and limiting my social media time 😅. I WFH but I have so much time on my hands. I'm also working on a new business I want to start. No time like the present.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:00 AM
30

Omg. I learn something new every time I come here. Society, LITERALLY tries to silence our voices. Please post part 2. I don't have tiktok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:17 PM
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Note: the creep is not the guy in the thumbnail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:29 PM
39

Not surprising at all 😒. I always found that family a bit weird 😖. And people would prop them up like they were a model family on camera.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 07:45 PM
15

This is my dream !😍😭.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 12:19 AM
10

"Happy for the opportunities that I create"? Delusional much? He's one of those tradwife enthusiasts who likes to humble women into submission 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 12:55 PM
26

Wow. That reminds me of an episode from this animated show called "Daria" where this group of freshman girls got nose jobs but later on their noses caved in after the surgery 😳.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 09:50 PM
41

I'm 5'2 and I would get that all the time. Once had a guy in school put his arm on my head like an armrest. I've come to terms that I won't be a 5'10 glamazon. But it can really blow my self esteem when you get comments like "you look young for your age" (I'm 30 btw) or feeling like no one will take you seriously because of your height.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 09:32 PM
34

This 💯. They'll scrounge funds for onlyfans or for something to do with the "homies", but when you say you'd like a nice dinner that isn't red lobster then it's all 50/50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:28 PM
22

Is that what they call cheating now "a sleepover"? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:03 PM
60

She's not describing a man. That's a little boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:49 PM
61

So you're mothering a child? 🤷🏽‍♀️You won't see a man write this and the genders swapped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:48 PM
57

This is why they need to teach financial literacy in school. And I know that if you're a WOC it's probably worse. That over 75 statistic is just disheartening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:35 PM
56

I was really praying that comment was sarcasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:02 PM
8

Basically, "how to say you're trash without saying the word trash". I don't trust the opinions of ANYONE who can't spell. "Hoar" is that a species of boar? And he has this all skewed. A HVW is only young and attractive? But should date an ugly mofo. But the HVM is an attractive slut. I get it, he thinks all relationships should be like Christian Grey and Anastasia Steele.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:56 PM
80

I've always hated this narrative. I remember once as a pre teen I said I was going to try out for cheerleading and I kid you not a church lady said "you know the boys like cheerleaders". My 12 year old brain was floored. It made me terrified of being attractive to the opposite sex. It's always if a man likes an attractive woman, it's "men are visual creatures". But if a woman says she likes a man with abs, thick hair and nice muscles then all of a sudden you shouldn't judge a book by it's cover.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:53 AM
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🤣. Because they've been coddled so hard by a society that tells them that having a big peen is all you need to be attractive and make it in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:03 AM
78

These crazy scrotes really think we sit around pining for them. Good on her to standing up to him. But he had the audacity to have flowers like that's something 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:46 PM
60

💯 🤦🏽‍♀️ Because good dick (whatever that is) is going to magically solve all my problems like it's some magic orgasm wand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:46 PM
18

Well...technically the clit is like a...never mind I'll sit back down 🤣.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:40 PM
37

So it's a woman's fault that the man is utter garbagé and we have to "step up". Nope. They'll gaslight you into thinking you're overreacting. And fulfill his "God given desires"=cater to his sick, demented, depraved p*rn filled fantasy without protest. Reason#30222 for why I'm happily single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:23 PM
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Nah sis. I'm not settling for bad unfulfilling sex. And all the other "reasons" she listed men can't even give you that.🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:59 AM
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Short answer-Not a damn thing. Long answer-years of social conditioning. We're often told to not say certain things and not be critical because we have to "keep the peace" and "not to be rude" or something along the lines like "well it's different for men". And being led to believe that if I say that I like a man with abs that I'm some she devil witch who only cares about looks. But men can say/do whatever they want because they're men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:37 AM
501

That's a lot of words for "I just want free pussy".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:40 AM
6

This is gold. This needs to be in the handbook 🤣. And add breadcrumbing to the list 😆.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:49 PM
6

I agree with this. It's sort of a damned if you do damned if you don't situation. When I was in school I always wore t-shirts jeans and hoodies. Now when I was still interviewing for jobs, yeah I looked put together. But most of the time, I'm wearing jeans and a t-shirt. But I remember one time, I went out a teeny bit done up and everyone was like "why are you so dressed up, who are you dressing up for?" 🙄. Ugh! So I just stopped trying altogether. And as far as hair removal, I only do that in t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:35 PM
30

Scrote Logic: Billie Eilish already has 30 year old mom bod. Also scrote logic: Criticizing my peen size is body shaming and emotional abuse.🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:11 PM
155

Riiiiight. Because all the problems are caused by women. But when they have problems, they always want us to come up with a solution 😒. Nevermind the fact that there is plethora of battles that we black women have to deal with, but men zero in on divorce and "fight for your relationship" and "support your black kings". NO. If you don't benefit my well-being or my financial health I don't want you in my life 💯.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:23 PM
10

Blech! He's got that predator bod. Avoid at all costs. Double yuck, yuck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:02 PM
9

I would've told her the man of dreams will stay exactly that:a dream 😒.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:28 PM
55

Men are not romantic at all. And they don't know how to be without wanting some type of benefit from it (sex). I've had the wool pulled over my eyes too many times to believe this BS. In my college days, I thought it was soo sweet that a guy would send me a good morning text, or remember my favorite food. And I would, regrettably fall for this line "I want you to have my last name" 🤮. Thank God I'm over that nonsense. Scrotes will tell you what they think you want to here (and there's too many w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:16 PM
48

🙌🏾. Despite what libfems say, it's not positive at all. It's just degrading. It's always about what he wants and his "needs" and how we have to be understanding and considerate. And there's generations of women being brainwashed into believing this drivel.But when I say I want a man to go down on me for longer than two minutes everyone loses their minds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 07:22 PM
16

Honestly, his name was the first thing that popped up in my head 😅. But the guys who believe this look like Elmer Fudd and are built like porky pig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:20 PM
39

"Peak desirability at age 50?" What care bears world are they living in. They think they're as handsome as George Clooney. All the ED and male pattern baldness ads tell a different story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:18 PM
29

Like another poster, I always dreamed of being a mother. But the thought of pregnancy has always low key terrified me. My mom had me 3 months early, but she had terrible morning sickness. Everyone romanticizes pregnancy and having children. And, if that's what you want, go for it sister. But now that I'm older, being a mother just doesn't appeal to me. And men nowadays are just 🤮. This post has reaffirmed my choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:43 AM
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I came here for this line. I see no problem 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:34 PM
8

Lol. Before we started WFH, I had coworkers question if I was gay 😒.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:55 PM
27

Just wait till you're 30. That's when the fun really starts. Them: Don't you have a nice guy fried? Me:No Them: Wouldn't you like a nice companion? Me: No. My money is my companion 😏 Them: You'll miss out if you don't have kids Me: Can't miss what I don't want. Bazinga! Just let me live 😫.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:49 PM
87

I don't listen to the radio at all. I said this in a post a while back, but the songs about missing a dude, praising a dude,and the vulgar lyrics have just really turned me off. But I cringe at some of the things that passed my eyes and ears when I was a kid. Thankfully I had a mother who loved to blast Handel's messiah and Hallelujah whenever she felt like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 09:12 PM
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I was just thinking about this. Particularly when they were saying the Atl shooter was having a bad day, and when they always mention the supermarket shooter has mental illness. As a black woman who has struggled with anxiety and depression, I've had plenty of bad days but if I went on a shooting spree every time I had a bad day, I'm pretty sure my city wouldn't exist anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:30 PM
19

This to the nth degree. All to no avail. That's part of the reason why I was thankful for the quarantine. I wfh and I only had to go out when necessary, which wasn't very often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:07 PM
49

I've used this line. I've purposely worn a ring on my hand in some cases. I've even told men that I was gay and on a date with my bff 🤦🏽‍♀️. And they still don't stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:56 PM
104

This is disgusting. The whole site is toxic and needs to be shut down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:26 PM
5

Dried up 30-35 year old? 😂. I'll be 31 this year and people still think I'm under 20. I still get carded at the casino. Meanwhile, all the commercials are always about men needing help with ED and hair loss. Hell, prince William was 28 when he married Kate and his hairline was beyond the horizon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 04:02 AM
43

I loved this. We need more men like this to speak up. But unrelated, I definitely have an uncle like this 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:52 PM
45

I didn't read the book, but I saw the movie. I wasn't interested in the romance aspect of it at all. But I was intrigued to learn more about the geisha lifestyle itself. Memoirs was a grossly watered down and romanticized version of that lifestyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:38 AM
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She's 17. She's still a kid. Why is this such a normal thing? This needs to be the least of a 17 year old's worries. It's sad that she thinks THIS is a healthy relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:03 PM
43

This has to a) be written by a man, b) be horrible satire, or c) grade A Wagyu pick me BS. Yeah a wonderful male being just killed 8 women because he was having a "bad day" 😒.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:21 PM
54

Wtf?! Religion prides itself on telling women how to treat men and get a husband. And it's all bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:20 PM
23

If you have to verbally tell me that you're a nice guy, then you're not a nice guy. Nice guys just use that as a ploy to get sex. And you can call me shallow or whatever, but most guys who proclaim this are just ugly. There I said it. Confidence is sexy, but instead of bashing women for their choices in men, you can either go for women in your league or do something about yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:35 PM
188

Plank was a HVM. No comparison to this creature 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:11 PM
26

I'm not really the biggest fan of Cardi although I do like Meg. But I'm getting tired of everyone clutching their pearls over this. Do I like Wap? Not really. But that's just a taste thing. But for years, rappers have made songs calling women every name in the book. And have created songs that are just downright degrading and humiliating towards black women and no one blinked an eye. But Cardi and Meg make one song about enjoying sex and everyone loses their minds. Now if they came out with a so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:37 PM
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Yes, because women are just baby incubators waiting for the right man to plant his seed. Oh no, don't worry about money 😒. And who is he to talk? I don't have words to describe what he looks like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:02 PM
89

He said Super Single 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:40 AM
23

Girl. He'd rather get off to virtual cooch as opposed to being with you. If you have to ask, then you should dump him. That's a woman that he wants to bang 🤦🏽‍♀️. I don't understand why these women jump through mental gymnastics over a man. If he's stressing you out, dump him, it's that simple. It's not the end of the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:44 PM
38

Came here to say this. This narrative is too prevalent among WOC. It's like you're shamed for wanting a partner who is financially stable. You want to be with someone who can function like an adult in society. I was talking to one of my friends about something like this from a TV show. The guy in the show is a bum. He can't hold a job, couldn't help pay the bills, couldn't afford a place to stay, and didn't have transportation. He was dating a girl, but the girl was tired of being on the struggl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 09:18 PM
203

I stopped at "plate". I don't want to know the thoughts of anyone who refers to a woman as a plate. She needs to wise up and leave, block, delete. This scrote is lower than low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:14 AM
25

That's so neat! I want to play lol. I love to see it 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:43 PM
195

Humor aside. I found this very interesting. I legitimately didn't know this lol. I also saw that drones don't feed themselves and apparently can't hatch out of their pupae when they're born 😂. They literally just mooch and mate until they get thrown out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:33 PM
78

"Let it slide". Men will fall to pieces when their SO cheats on them. They will call you everything but a child of God. And will have the whole village ready to burn you at the stake. But when a man cheats, society tell us "it's just his nature" or my favorite "you have to learn to forgive him". And what lavish lifestyle? These scrotes act like have Elon Musk money and don't have a pot to piss in.....literally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:44 PM
11

If I had to suggest a kpop song here, it would be Feel Special by Twice. It's not about a boy or too sexualized. But nothing detracts from the message of the song, which is moreso about having supportive friends when things get a little rough in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:57 PM
7

Well, if he's choking and doesn't want help, who are we to stop him 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:09 PM
27

Omg. I spat out my drink! 🤣🤣. Fine wine my ass 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:42 AM
3

And these same scrotes will puff up in front of their friends claiming to be "grown ass men" and can't boil water 😒. If you want to marry your mother just say so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:43 PM
134

"When being an extreme pickme backfires". That needs to be the title of a book or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:52 PM
138

I'd never date a man for money. I like making my own money. My job doesn't pay that much and I'm still living with my parents. But I've been saving and working on getting my credit score up. I've stopped spending money on a lot of frivolous things and it's actually quite freeing (thanks Marie Kondo). Would I like to meet a nice guy who is well off? Yes, but not without my own financial security that no one can touch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:36 PM
36

Everything about this video bothered me. This is disturbing. That's not the type of attention you want. She's screaming about "all these guys". There are men who will travel in packs just to target a girl for assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:28 PM
6

I never understood that wall hitting 30 thing and why society seems to be repulsed at what people's bodies do;age. Especially women's bodies. But here's a woman I follow on insta and omg, I want to be this woman when I'm 70 😊. Making 70 Look Delicious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:36 AM
198

In my experience, men who say they want independent women want a meal ticket. They'll praise you for making your own money, but will neg you for "not having a man" 😒. Or they will make you feel like you need them for emotional support. And once they've got you right where they want you, they will rob you blind in every sense of that phrase.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:36 PM
14

🤣. I'm my own companion, and I think we get along nicely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:35 PM
76

I'm glad more women are wising up. I remember I was at a baby shower for one of my friends and an older lady asked me if I wanted to have kids. I kinda shrugged and didn't answer, but she out of nowhere just said "yes you do!" I was like "wtf". I was barely in my last year of college, marriage and kids were not my concern. Another time, one of my family members asked "you don't want to have a nice companion?" 😒. I was still fresh out of college, mind you. I never understood the fascination. I ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:31 PM
115

I tried to pause and read it. He said, he's a Christian, but also a freak when he has to be. Said he was a physical therapy assistant but also works at Amazon 😒. The text contradicted itself more than once 😖.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 05:54 AM
27

This is the most backwards mess. I wasn't ready for this level of stupidity. Is it crack? Is that what they smoke? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 03:49 AM
53

Submission=bangmaid. A man will still cheat and be trash regardless of how "submissive" a woman is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:54 PM
18

And pour gasoline and set it on fire. Don't forget that part 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:54 PM
52

Same. Let me know when this crusade happens. I want in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:57 PM
36

What a pathetic, lousy, worthless piece of sh*t. His girlfriend went through a very traumatic experience. And having to possibly see her rapist in court again. And this dick-possessed demon is in his feelings because HE felt uncomfortable?! So instead of being supportive, he just had to get his dick wet. She better not stay with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:55 PM
17

Wtf. This ugly mofo? Built like porky pig with Elmer Fudd face. Telling women to stop looking "butch". How about you stop looking pregnant with a food baby😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 08:08 PM
19

This 🙌🏾. Eye gouging should really be an option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:40 PM
41

I honestly don't listen to the radio. I listen to a lot of women centered podcasts and audio books. But the music I do listen to is very selective. I got tired of listening to a lot of female artists because it's always about losing a man, a man cheating on you, being in a relationship etc. It's nauseating. Or I'll be blasting beethoven 🤣.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 07:59 PM
107

"Trauma is healthy" and "serious kink for choking". Back to the dumpster off brand Shaggy 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:22 PM
156

As a petite WOC, I've felt so much insecurity about my body growing up. I was a skinny kid growing up and when I hit puberty, I felt like something was wrong with me since I didn't have an ample bust and butt. I was always made fun of for "not having meat on my bones". I was in marching band through high school and college and I realized I enjoy being fit and slightly muscular. And black women have always been shamed for having curves while also being told to lose weight. And the whole "slim thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 12:41 AM
22

Or you'll be mocked for being "bald" if your natural hair doesn't look a certain way 🙄. It's truly exhausting. Damned if you do damned if you don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:29 PM
20

Where's that SpongeBob rainbow meme that says "nobody cares"? Because we don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:02 PM
17

Ah. A height challenged, road raged, racist brute. I low key think he's a pedo. Or he's one of those men who has an exotica fetish. And military man? I wouldn't touch that with a 39 1/2 foot pole 🙅‍♀️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 10:41 PM
120

This so much. They said it with Tiger Woods, Lamar Odom, now Kanye. Black women are not Olivia Pope. We are not going to fix anyone/anything, that's not our job. That's just using someone as a last resort. We are not emotional support humans. And that black queen mess is just annoying. Because by that logic, Beyonce and Jayz would fit that mold but nobody wants to bring up the fact that he still cheated on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:09 PM
31

I see no lies here 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:01 AM
39

Way to go! I don't even know you, but I feel inspired 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:42 PM
11

So you do this with your male friends too right? Thanks, got it. 360 trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 10:57 PM
1

"I do that with all my friends ". So you do that with your male friends too? Ok got it. You're just 360 trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 10:19 PM
16

Yeah she's a queen pickme. But her rhetoric isn't even technically hers. And I'm so sick of this "king" nonsense. For me, it's not even about buying dinner, movie tickets, or having a bad day. That mess is 50/50 anyway😒. The trash that we have to sift through can't👏do👏basic👏shit👏. "Treat him like a king". It's a sea of jesters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 08:48 PM
88

🤣🤣. That crown was the icing on the cake!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 12:18 AM
9

I swear the dudes who say this kind of stuff act like they are as valuable as the hope diamond. Ciara is a pretty, loving, and talented woman. And clearly Russell adores her. "Washed up singer?" Yeah, she's laughing all the way to the bank 🤣. She's married to a man who is her equal and these scrotes can't handle it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:35 PM
208

Oh puh-lease 😒. Black men always repeat this submissive woman narrative. They complain about black women having attitudes, not cooking, not being "obedient". They'll want a woman who will "ride or die" without saying anything. A man will cheat if the woman looks like Adriana Lima or if she's homely. He's saying "yeah I only married you because the hot woman is too good for me, so I'm settling, but I'll still pursue other hot women". Men who say this just want a woman with blinders on. Definitely…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:18 PM
80

Yes, we women at 30 something are sooooo useless and pathetic. Meanwhile, it's these scrotes who have ED and need Rogaine by the time they're 27 😒. They can say whatever they want, but I'm starting my hellish crusade if anyone would like to join me 😊.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:51 AM
12

Oof. That's a hard ass 36 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 08:27 PM
41

He's definitely height deficient. But it also seems like he can't decide whether he wants to be 28 or 29 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 04:21 PM
12

It's easy to forget this is an ad for athletic wear. I love Mamamoo!! 😍😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:37 PM
81

I literally had a guy tell me that he doesn't usually date black women, but since I was light skinned he'd make an exception 😒. And don't even get me started on the black men who go out of their way to make statements like "black women are loud, rude, don't listen" or "I'm dating white/Asian/Hispanic women from now on". Ugh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:29 PM
96

I'm going to guess that the loser who replied to you has actually done this to women before but he's trying to project that he's a "nice guy". The ones who bark the loudest always tell on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 12:57 AM
69

"Gooch grease and booty flakes"🤣🤣🤣🤣. That took me out. Having a man is not important, it's not that deep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:22 PM
114

"I'd never commit until I feel like I had experienced enough women". "Men are one uppers". That's a lot of words for "I'm a slut".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 02:21 PM
55

This. And then the comment from the LVM below calling her a "gold digging b****" for wanting a real ring just speaks volumes. The pickmes are settling for less, and the LVM hate women for wanting better 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 02:15 PM
70

She shut him down! I love to see it 👏👏. And he was criticizing her appearance? That fat tub of lard has no room to talk (literally).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 07:13 PM
8

First of all sex work and housework are two totally different things. And men who claim to be feminist are the worst ones. They only portray their views this way as a means to get sex or some other unequal benefit. Honey, they want you to be a stepford wife and a pron star wrapped in one, while you get breadcrumbs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 03:20 PM
46

Amen 🙌. When we meet you, we meet your representative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 01:20 AM
30

I was brought up the same way; education was the major key. My mom did teach me to keep up a home, but it was never with the intention of being a housewife/bangmaid. My mom always instilled in me to be self sufficient and independent and not afraid to take care of myself. But in the same vein, my dad taught me to change oil, tires, and fix small appliances to be independent, never a slave 😒.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 03:58 AM
251

What a pretentious little prick. Problem is not anxiety, this guy is just an entitled ass. "She didn't look the same as the picture" "I have a dark sense of humor". GTFO with this BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 03:03 AM
32

I like good sex. I've never had GOOD sex with a man ever. It's all the same: a few minutes of jackhammering while I fake it. But they still want you to give them a bj. Men's brains have all been turned to porn mush. They think their dick is some magic orgasm Harry Potter wand. They think as long as it's "big" then that's all it takes. And that's turned me off of sex for a long time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 03:08 PM
51

Also, scrotes say this BS, but they want the mother to do all the, you know, parenting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 09:23 PM
59

Yeah. Those chicken legs ain't 5"11. But they neg us for wearing makeup and saying it's false advertising 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 06:52 AM
34

That's a lot of words for "I hate single mothers". A complete annihilation of the male race doesn't seem too bad right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:18 PM
40

In the black community, wearing a bonnet when you sleep, protects your hair from being frizzy. Our hair gets dry very easily and cotton pillowcases can cause a lot of friction and frizz. But you could also sleep on a satin/silk pillowcase.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 03:59 AM
30

Now, what you're not going to do is trash the Golden Girls. I see nothing wrong with this life 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:01 AM
19

Omg. Aside from the "friend", the OP is throwing her life away to a spineless dolt. Over 5 years, a child, and no marriage until 2022? Wtf?! She's wasted her 20s. I hate to sound harsh, but she should've gotten out of there when she could. And it's not like this "friend" is going to magically dissappear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 09:13 PM
27

Nope. This isn't cute. This is a cry for help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:04 PM
28

Scrotes say this in a condescending way. They'll neg you for being proud of being independent, especially financially independent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:58 PM
10

Hell no. I don't let strangers in my house, and I'm not cooking for a complete stranger. Talking about a "best dish". I'm not Gordon Ramsey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 10:30 PM
41

Now we all know this dollar tree Santa knows nothing about pleasuring a woman 😏.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:19 PM
68

Came to say this. Who took this picture and posted it. That's a crime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 07:54 PM
84

Omg. Alpha, beta, sigma. Are they trying to start a sorority? 🙄. Same $#%$, different toilet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:29 PM
211

It's damned if you do damned if you don't. When you do become a mother, society shames you for not being June Cleaver, but if you don't have kids, or choose to NOT have kids, you're deemed a witch. Men don't get nearly as much flack for being deadbeat dads or choosing not to have kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 11:08 PM
12

Thank you for this post 👏. Women and men are vastly different. I don't want to be treated like a man, I want to be treated fairly based on my individual needs and concerns. I hate that equality has become a thing of "anything you can do I can do better"😒. I've also seen men complain saying there's no equality since women are not required to sign up for selective service.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 08:21 PM
15

Are you me? 😅. I was always teased for being small chested and petite but I'm 30 now and I love the fact that I can go without a bra sometimes. I used to feel so insecure about it, but now I don't care. I do keep up with my appearance. But there are so many other ways we can take care of our bodies. Like exercise, eating right, wearing sunscreen etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 04:07 PM
114

"It's not my fault if your balls are turning blue" 🤣🤣. That line is priceless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 06:17 AM
254

I agree with this. But I wouldn't care if he's 30 with cheeto stains or 30 running a fortune 500. I'm not submitting to any damn man;eff that 😒.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:32 PM
2

I really hate this narrative. One thing that I'm thankful for is that in 2020, I didn't get the question "don't you want a nice man in your life?" from family members🙄. I don't need a boyfriend/husband/SO to be happy. And honestly, I don't really see the appeal with being in a relationship with a non-pussy eating slob 😖.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 04:14 PM
29

What that really means is. Him:My brain is now porn mush, so I can't form a coherent sentence. But I want you to be intelligent enough to listen to my "problems".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:15 PM
177

In a word:yes. No disease, no pregnancy, no man begging for a bj. Just a worry free and pleasurable orgasm 😊.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 11:18 PM
41

Amen 🙌. This reminds me of when Jasmine Tookes (model) posted on her IG that she was engaged. Her fiance took her on a helicopter ride to this mountain range? In Moab,Utah. He had a table setting with champagne on the mountain. I also want to say he had the question spelled out in rocks . It was so pretty 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 10:33 PM
2

I Am-Yung Baby Tate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:40 PM
93

Facts!😩😩. My vibrator has a clitoral stimulator, and it's the best investment I've ever made 😊. I've also tried to get the same feeling from a male, but it just isn't the same. And men are lazy anyway. No worry about getting pregnant, no male begging you for a blowjob, no disappointment from a male not eating you out, just a worry free orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 12:22 AM
362

Omg this. When did this become a thing? It's so annoying. I was talking with a group of friends a while ago and one guy started a statement with "why do females?". I stopped him right there and said "female what? There's female versions of damn near everything. Be more specific". He tried to laugh it off, but he knew he couldn't answer my question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 06:24 PM
26

I am praying to the internet gods that this fake. A guy collecting his pubes?! I didn't think men could be any more disgusting 🤮. "He's perfect in every other way", nah. Send him into the wild.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:08 PM
249

And here we have a psuedo-intellectual mama's boy who wants to bang his own mother (as told by David Attenborough).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:03 PM
10

Yeah. Don't waste another second on this loser. He wants to be way more than friends and you already have a bf. Block, delete, done. And when you ladies do develop a scrote repellant, please tell me, I'll gladly buy it 😅.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:23 PM
27

Ikr. And men will get mad, neg you, and will set out to ruin your reputation all because you said "no".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 10:49 PM
21

Um no. I'm a 5'2 120 pound petite woman. Someone could literally pick me up and carry me off. I don't go anywhere or do anything alone at night. And it's not like it's safer in broad daylight either 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 10:18 PM
26

Oh yes. Because women just looove getting dishpan hands while watching the "menfolk" game. All with a fake plastic smile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 10:11 PM
87

I've guiltily watched sistas and OMG it is a mess. Now I love a good guilty pleasure as much as the next person, but the way TP writes the show is just terrible. It just doesn't make any sense. Society thinks that women, especially black women, are terrible at making decisions and can only live lives revolving around a man. It's ridiculous. Why can't we just be single and just live our lives? 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 09:58 PM
2

She's so pretty. And look at her smile 😊. Idk what wall these men are talking about, but once I get to it, I'll blow it up with a stick of dynamite 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 03:22 AM
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I really enjoyed reading this. I'm 30 now, but I do wish I had dated more in my 20s. But I was focused on school at the time. But I'll admit, I would think people would think I was easy if I dated multiple people. It took me a long time to realize "hey, it's not like you had to sleep with anyone". I was also in a situationship with a guy and I thought he was "the one" (God i was such a pickme 😅). But dating should be normal. If you like the guy, great; if you don't, moving on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 01:28 AM
82

Just dump his ass and invest in a good vibrator. He's a gaming moocher. I don't understand how some women can get with guys like this. He has no job (gaming 24/7), and she pulls all the weight. LEAVE HIM. It's that simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:14 PM
7

I agree. Especially for those of us who have skin issues. Your skin is your largest organ and can tell a lot about your health. It takes years to find the right products for your skin, and even then your skin is always changing. My skincare routine is therapeutic. I feel like a brand new person when I do it. It's like eating healthy. It's not a fad; it's a way of life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:51 AM
88

Nope! These men not only want to have their cake and eat it too, they want you to bake the damn cake for nothing. Casual dating is not empowering. These men aren't trash, they're the whole dumpster...on fire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:42 AM
21

Yay!! 🙌🙌 😊😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 10:22 PM
170

"Choose where the money is going". He doesn't want to lose his meal ticket. She has to know that she can do light years better. Or at least be single and focus on her career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 09:21 PM
102

Lol.He has no money. He's a broke freeloader who needs to be left out in the cold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 09:04 PM
347

As a self professed skincare addict, this would really irritate the hell out of me. He thinks he's doing her a favor. It's HER hard earned money, she can buy what she wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 08:08 PM
104

Nope. It's not just you. They try to shame women into not having high standards. The "ugly guy, hot wife" trope is perpetuated everywhere ex. Simpsons, Family Guy, The king of queens. I'm not saying you have to be a Giorgio Armani model. But at least be groomed, and exfoliate, have some fashion sense, and workout a little. Men will have a laundry list of the type of women they won't date. But when a woman has standards all hell breaks loose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:48 AM
7

Oh the lies men tell. They say they can go several rounds but konk out after a few minutes. They think jackhammering is one of the keys to success. I used to do all that moaning and shit with an ex. And he just made it more awkward with saying "you like that baby" or the ever so wonderful question "how does it feel". Just lazy, and when they say go several rounds that just means changing positions every few minutes. Not pleasurable or appealing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 03:08 PM
12

Lol. They really need to teach this in achools.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 03:39 AM
3

"Tender your heart"?. Sir, the only thing I'm tendering is this steak in my fridge 😅. I hate this fake woke "we men are peacekeepers" crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 09:23 PM
75

And they all of a sudden can't find your clit 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:40 AM
135

This is too true. And never trust a man who says he has a big d*ck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:20 AM
3

I've never lived with a man. I do still live with my parents. And as much as I love my dad, the idea of living with a man makes me shudder 😖. I would find it to be the equivalent of living with an uncivilized wild animal. And I'm too much of a clean freak for that nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 03:17 AM
84

😂😂😂. And then have the audacity to say "looks aren't everything". If your boobs are bigger than mine, I'm not dating you, unless you're a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:20 PM
20

Gah! He told me that since he was the first person I slept with, he should be the last person I slept with 🤮. I told him I'd have to think about being in a relationship since we were on again off again. After a week I told him I think I'd want to try again he hit me with "I'm not ready for a relationship" 🙄. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:15 PM
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Ikr 😁😁. This will be my mantra for life! I figure if I listen to it enough and say it enough, my subconscious mind will just default to "I am the best" regardless 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 03:53 PM
2

He probably can't afford a taco 🤣. He thought he was going to get some action if the restaurant was "fancy". I don't even think he cared if she paid her share or not he just thought if the restaurant was "fancy" she'd be impressed. Broke ass loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:14 PM
37

Nah. My faking it days are over! If I know what I want and I tell you and you don't reciprocate, then I'm not doing anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 03:40 PM
106

Why would you go on a date when you know you can't afford a "fancy restaurant". Glad she spoke up. He mad because she didn't just order a glass of water 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:44 PM
181

She said the only thing poor about me is my vision 🤣🤣. I relate to that line too much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:37 PM
6

I'm so glad you posted this 😁. But seriously THIS needs to be taught in schools.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:14 PM
29

Ikr! I would love to see what she looked like when she was younger. She's so pretty 😍. I aspire to have her level of no bullshit attitude 😁.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 02:55 PM
38

Omg. This is just perfect. And the music hit the nail on the head. That domino train was wayyy to relatable. Instant save!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:34 AM
5

I agree that you shouldn't disrespect women of any skin color. But there is so much misogynoir in the black community it's not even funny. Black men will go out of their way to shame black women about every little thing we do/say/think, but for some reason won't leave us alone. It's like we can't even just breathe without criticism. I don't agree with everything Malcolm X believed, but his statement on black women being the most disrespected person in America is still true and he said that in 19…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:25 PM
24

Exactly. I don't need to bring anything. I am the table and I'm not giving you a place setting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:16 PM
16

"I think her thoughts and projections made me do this". Meaning: She wasn't letting me take advantage of her anymore but I still needed to get my dick wet". Good grief.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:01 PM
8

"Not that they would ever do anything". Nah sis, they've already done something. It seems like he's only dating OP because he can't get with this "close female friend". Just throw the whole man away, it's that simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 09:08 PM
53

It's beautiful. And I love your nails 💅 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:05 PM
111

She needs to divorce this porn sick bag of nothing. And she's giving him blowjobs?! Nope. The only person who should be saying anything about the way my labia looks is my gynecologist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 10:51 PM
35

I gasped when I saw this. It's so pretty. Go you!!🤗🤗 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 06:59 PM
25

2 years and you JUST notice he's a revolting slob 🤮. Teeth are the first thing I notice. Blech no thanks. I need a shower after reading this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 10:31 PM
17

Yay. I can keep the faith. My faith in humanity has plummeted a lot this year 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 01:51 AM
18

Exactly. I once bought an ex a very nice costly cologne because whatever he was wearing just wasn't it. He was shocked and said he didn't think we would be exchanging gifts FOR CHRISTMAS. He didn't get me anything in advance, but got me one of those last minute generic Walmart gift baskets knowing that kind of stuff breaks me out. After that never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 09:10 PM
16

It forces them to actually use that lump above their ass and not use dick as a Christmas/Birthday etc gift. But if the woman doesn't get him a gift (i.e. a POS5) all hell breaks lose and it results in him bitching to his buds. Or he'll complain that you didn't get him what he wanted while he gets you either nothing, or something totally thoughtless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 08:26 PM
16

This is beyond disturbing. She needs to report him to a much higher up. And "don't mind the age gap". That's 13 years and she can't even buy her own booze yet. She needs to stay away from this predator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 05:20 PM
39

Same. I have a friend who is married now with two kids. We went to high school together and started college together. She was going to get her degree in education and become a teacher, but after our first year, she moved away, married this guy and had her first child at 22. I'm not sure if she's gone back to school or anything, but she has two kids. But I just wish she had at least gotten her degree. Because I always wonder what are you going to do when the kids are grown and out of the house? I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:58 PM
21

I immediately thought of Buffalo Bill from silence of the lambs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:17 AM
36

And he had to give back the trophy and the money 🤣.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 01:34 AM
42

And now her parents are trying to get help from the president of all people 🤦🏽‍♀️. All this for a "professional jet skier".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 01:33 AM
25

Teen imprisoned in Cayman Islands I hope you can see this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 01:04 AM
7

Not gonna lie, I couldn't get past the title of this post. That "more muscle on a chicken leg" took me out 🤣. I haven't laughed like that all year. But as for the profile, um fxxx like a pornstar? No thanks. 5 minutes of jackhammering is what he means 😒.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 10:15 PM
14

I've felt like this for a long time. The idea of having children of my own has never appealed to me. I always felt like something was wrong with me for not wanting to have kids . But I'm definitely not going to be a single mother, a SAHM, and I refuse to let a man Marge Simpson me. I would always say I'd wait until the right man comes along, but I'll be dead by the time that happens 🤣, unless the universe manifests him for me. And I've got other things that I want to accomplish. But later on in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 10:10 PM
44

Exactly. And did this happen during the pandemic?! I'm sorry but this is just dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 10:00 PM
80

Dude sounds as dull as dishwater 🥱. And military? Nope, RUN!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:12 PM
13

It's repulsive and racist. It ties into that whole "exotic" woman fetish that men have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 09:35 PM
12

Yes. And she said her female family members like this. This is not empowerment. Idk about anyone else, but if my mom found out I did this, she would beat my a$$ and I'm 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 09:29 PM
17

This girl has been getting paid to talk dirty to men in a British accent. Stop the world I want to get off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 09:19 PM
26

I had to read this post 3 times to fully understand. This post is just to appease the so called "nice guys". If the man is trash, then he is trash. It has nothing to do with me 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:55 PM
44

Gah! I guiltily watched this show as a teen. At the time I wondered why those women wanted that gremlin looking man 🤣. But this show really is a classic. I always loved New York (Tiffany).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:26 AM
255

Peak at 24? At 24 I was just graduating from college and starting first big girl job. I'm 30 now and I'm hitting my stride 😂. These dusties mad that I don't give them the time of day lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:26 PM
73

He needs to go ahead and divorce her before this gets even worse. He just wants to have his cake and eat it too. Like women are really going to be falling all over themselves for him. But I think he's wasting time because he's scared that once ( if they divorce), she'll do so much better than him, or live a happier life after him. Just let her go, you worthless male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 10:54 PM
46

I loved this 😂😂. I've found the title of my book "Let's move that hoe ova".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 04:32 AM
7

"Marriage loan"? Never heard of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 03:18 PM
11

I love watching her channel. Very therapeutic. This was a good interview.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:13 AM
25

I agree with the last statement. But does she not have any self worth? Geez! You just let him use you and screw up your ph over a loser. Omg, I will never understand girls/women like this who say "oh it's just sex, it's not that deep". I'm yes it is. We women have a lot at stake. And the fact that he dogged her to his friend is just worse. Ugh! This is not empowerment. This is just degradation at it's finest. And I hope she wasn't thinking a real relationship would come out of this. Girl is delu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 11:01 PM
105

He didn't. The vibrator is the real MVP in this story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 09:31 PM
26

Nah. Sis, your patient husband didn't do shit (like the rest of them). She basically just masturbated while her husband watched. And 7 years?! Girl, bye. At least you got your money's worth with that vibrator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 09:29 PM
30

It's been 5 years for me now. It's just not worth it. These men are just trash. And they can't even get sex right. I'm 30 now and I'm not settling for a lazy lover. I'm focusing on things that I want to do and how I want my life to look like, and a rusty man is not in the picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:07 PM
26

Nope, it's not just you. If you have to tell me it's big, I know you're lousy. Every man I dated bragged about that, like it's some kind of magic orgasm wand out of Harry Potter. They are so lazy. No, just jackhammering into me does not do it for me. No foreplay, no oral, no nothing. Just a few minutes of ramming it into me while I think about something else that I find pleasurable 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:55 PM
126

Once again, the bar is all the way in hell🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:49 PM
78

We got a real Romeo and Juliet out here. And that whole video game bit is just "as long as I'm in your presence, I'm happy". Like girl, he clearly doesn't want to be with you. A blind person can see that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:31 PM
233

Wow. The bar is all the way in hell, and I think the devil would be offended. She literally jumped through hoops like a circus animal for a lover. Sis operating on one brain cell. Also, the fact that he insulted you behind your back is a huge red flag. He said she talks too much. Just wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:19 PM
20

Nobody👏asked 👏for 👏your👏worthless👏opinion 👏. He getting mad like he built the damn house. And wtf is "wife skills"? But I guess WOC can't be truly happy and content without a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:03 PM
45

OMG. This so much. I can't compliment someone who doesn't exfoliate and doesn't put in any effort. And even then, they'll think you want to have sex or that you want something more🙄.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:37 PM
20

That sounds like an excerpt from a fanfiction. Nah, I came here to get my stuff, not be hit on 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:30 PM
29

Every time I "communicated" it was me talking to a brick wall about my issues. When he had a problem, he claimed I didn't understand. I am not your emotional support human. Go to a therapist!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 09:51 PM
86

Canadian judge calls sexual assault victim overweight 🤮.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 09:42 PM
71

Here's a link to the story. This is why is just want to go on a rampage and bury all the men in death valley. https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-41755852
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 09:39 PM
51

First of all, I wouldn't go out with a guy who wants to dictate my appearance. But I am so sick of this trend. If she wears makeup, she's lying. Take her swimming on the first date. Since when have men been so obsessed with makeup. Newsflash, the women you jack off to in porn wear makeup. The insta baddies you thirst after wear makeup. The women a thousand miles out of your league wear, you guessed it, makeup! If I'm going on a date, someone has to look good, it might as well be me 🤷‍♀️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 03:29 AM
3

I read the article. He needs to improve his double chin and rabbit teeth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 05:56 AM
8

This has to be a joke 😂😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 05:50 AM
36

Oh boo hoo. When a man "levels up" so to speak in the looks department, society will treat him like it's the second coming of Jesus and that women are just supposed to drop their panties for them (although men think this without changing appearance). But when a woman is attractive or enhances her beauty, everyone loses their minds and will tell her "you're pretty but you really shouldn't have high standards". And even if a woman improves her appearance, we'll still be picked apart 😫. It's exhaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:46 PM
16

😂😂💀💀. I almost spat out my drink at this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 12:00 AM
147

He said all that and couldn't even spell. And men say WE have ridiculous standards. Sounds like a used car salesman 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 11:53 PM
43

I laughed too long at this 🤣 💀. Uncle fester wasn't a Gomez, but he was a small step in the right direction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:33 PM
17

Oh boohoo. "Wahh, I'm mad that you're living your best life and my dick is gonna freeze off this year because you won't let me use you". Cry me a river. Good on you OP 👏. I'm sure he'll find a worthy pick me before the end of the month.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:27 PM
67

I am deeply missable. But I've had several exes contact me out of the blue spouting that BS. They just want a warm hole for their dick, not reconciliation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 03:20 PM
7

Wtf did I just read? She needs to get away from him and he needs professional help. She's going to develop an eating disorder if she hasn't already. She needs help too if she thinks this is a healthy relationship. He's clearly controlling her. I wish a man would tell me what I can and cannot eat. I'll poison him ASAP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 03:18 PM
99

That man is a straight 🤡. He is a colorist fraud. He hates black women, especially dark skinned black women. And the men and women who cosign his BS are just fools. Because God forbid we black women have standards and not settle. This whole loyalty bias is just infuriating. And calling a woman "average" because she is a single mother. That woman is so pretty, she could get any man she wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 03:20 PM
61

And the dudes who do this BS have a porky pig body and a gremlin crusty face. In other words "you don't look like a fake insta model that I couldn't possibly get. And my brain is so out of touch with reality, that something else needs to tell me you're pretty, even though I'm ugly AF".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 07:52 PM
101

Definitely. I look back on some of my exes, especially from college, and I just think "what did I see in him?" 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 07:05 PM
28

Wtf did I just read? Please be a joke. Please be a joke. Please be a joke. I'll be waiting with my clown mask 🤡.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:40 PM
41

TL;DR- I was coddled as a boy and as a teen. I'm not emotionally mature enough to face my own emotions, but when the next weak woman comes along, I'll just unload all my emotional baggage on her. I want a mother to bang 😒. I really hate these pseudo woke bullshit types.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:00 PM
47

OMG. I thought I was the only one who noticed that car analogy. No thanks 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:48 PM
27

People always say "men are visual creatures". So women are all blind and can't be with someone attractive. If you have an imperfection, that's fine;nobody's perfect. But I'll be damned if I let society think I'm going the Marge Simpson route 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 03:12 AM
46

First of all, men think we wear makeup just for them 😒. They want a consistent no makeup look with already perfect skin. If I want to walk out the house with a beat face, I will. I'm not trying to impress a dumbass who thinks I was born with rose gold eyelids and a black eyeline. And "false advertising"? Tell that to these scrotes who boast about a "big dick" but the sex is nonexistent. Miss me with this bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 06:15 PM
11

Don't feel terrible about speaking up. You deserve to work in an environment where you feel safe and comfortable and can do your job. This was all his fault. He got himself fired. And I can guess that he's probably done this to other female coworkers but they never spoke up. Good for you 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:07 PM
47

That's just stupid. First of all I'm not buying no damn game system for ANYBODY, especially not a dude. And then the fact that he sold it to buy a ring. He just treated the ring as an after thought. I'd demand my money back and throw him out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:11 AM
19

It's fine if you have standards. But I think it's questionable when men say they have standards, but they immediately thirst after an instamodel or a woman who is light years out of their league. He said "no fat chicks, baby mama's, broke chicks". These men want a rich top model woman while he looks like porky pig with an elmer fudd face. Sir, the women you want are not banging down the door for your $1000 checking account and your struggle dick 🤦🏽‍♀️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 09:28 PM
16

OMG. This made me have a very visceral reaction. EWWWWWWW🤮🤮🤮. That is just disgusting. She needs to get away from that diseased, germ infested freak stat. Omg no! He just wants her to wash his underwear for him. Just throw the whole man out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 10:53 PM
2

Sis been watching Duck Dynasty reruns 🤦🏽‍♀️. Girl learn a trade!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:27 AM
24

Same. Just throw the whole state away 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:40 PM
349

Poly-mono? That's sounds like a disease cluster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 01:50 AM
78

Please be a joke. Please be a joke 🙏. Middle aged scrote wants a literal bang maid in his parent's house. This has to be a troll post 🤡. I'm just gonna leave my clown face here until further notice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 07:54 PM
16

The top starts with "I'm am" 🤦🏽‍♀️. Way better than Macbeth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 09:43 PM
39

Voice come out like a sobbing child? 🙄. Not with my loud ass. I hate these fake woke types.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 09:06 PM
46

Engaged for 11 years but together for 16 and now 40 with kids and still not married. She wasted her 20s on this ass crack. And now he wants to body shame his forever girlfriend after knocking her up? Throw the whole man away 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:13 PM
57

I hate when this is a "complaint". I often hear this from black men. When a woman starts talking about an issue she's having or is voicing her opinion on something, the loudest MALES will say "why you tripping?" "Why do you have an attitude?" "Why do you act like that?" Excuse me for having a mind of my own that doesn't cater to your low level thinking and for having a life that does not revolve around you 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 09:33 PM
51

🤮🤮. I wouldn't even feed that to my dog. Blech! And why is there a stethoscope in the vicinity? Is that to check if she's dead from being poisoned?🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:41 PM
167

I was hoping someone would say this. They want an insta model to ask them out, not the woman within they're league. It's like saying " yes talk to me. But not you, you're too ugly to talk to me, even though I look like a dog fart"🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 01:13 PM
10

She said "attractive" but he doesn't brush his teeth and picks his nose. Is she dating Shrek? The description alone made me gag🤢. If he doesn't even brush his teeth, what the hell makes her think he'll be faithful? She's brainwashed, I'm calling it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 03:22 AM
31

That's funny. I looked it up on Amazon. It's a picture book with pictures of classical art with typical misogynist rhetoric in the captions. In one of the preview pictures, the man was telling the woman to let him paint her nude but to make sure she was free of body hair because body on a woman is "unnatural".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:06 PM
67

I prefer young 18 or 19- means I'm pushing 40 and I know at some point you'll be repulsed by the sight of me. So I'm going to break you in while you're ripe for the picking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 06:19 PM
15

Because God forbid, we she-devils of the Earth, would like a man to be tad bit more than a walking talking dildo 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 07:08 PM
23

I watched the video and I was like "sis,👏🏿 you 👏🏿are 👏🏿the mother fxxing👏🏿 president👏🏿 of 👏🏿the 👏🏿United States. Why 👏🏿are 👏🏿you entertaining 👏🏿a 👏🏿man?"🤦🏽‍♀️ But I did like the production of the video and those transitions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 08:13 PM
8

I love this. That 20% more woke took me out 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 02:11 PM
4

I 100% agree. But you had me at Sailor Moon. I'd gladly be your plus 1 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 12:06 AM
560

But it's the men who cause these problems in the first place. If the males would just bang each other, we wouldn't have these issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 08:12 PM
16

He's going to get bored with her. And flowers and chocolate? What kind of 3rd grade BS is that? If I'm planning the dates, you better be planning my first class week long trip to Bali 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 01:34 AM
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