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| 34 | [Mini-FR] Saying "Please" and "Thank You" | Samantha_Simpson | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/15 07:44 AM | |
| 10 | Would you all be interested in making a card for this little boy's 6th birthday? | Samantha_Simpson | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 03:21 AM | |
| 2 | Could RPW's philosophy be aptly described by "New Feminism"? | Samantha_Simpson | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/14 06:52 AM |
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| 1 | How important is for children to be taught traditional gender roles?It is certainly very important for women to be exposed to activities that are considered traditionally feminine. Skills like cooking, sewing, and cleaning should definitely not be shunned by either gender as they are essential life skills. But women should also not remain ignorant of other activities that are considered masculine, such as carpentry, computer repair, or car maintenance. As someone else said, sometimes the man cannot always be around, and in those cases the woman should not be com… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/15 11:30 AM |
| 7 | Why is RPW sub not open to being critical of men?I'm not sure what you mean, because from what I've seen on the TRP sub, there is actually far more discussion about spotting "red flags" in women compared to their counterparts in RPW. Please let me know if I misunderstood what you were trying to get at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/15 07:58 PM |
| 11 | Why is RPW sub not open to being critical of men?Much of what is said on RPW operates under the assumption that the man in question is of good moral character and has the interests of both partners at heart. If this assumption is false (which can certainly happen, as there are bad men who will take advantage of the trust their wives put in them), it could potentially lead to very harmful situations. However, from what I've seen on the sub, many other ladies are well aware of this and thus exercise good judgment in choosing a partner in the fir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/15 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Self-improvement for a single womanFirst of all, good on you for taking the initiative for trying to learn as many new things as possible! My personal opinion is that skills such as knowing multiple languages will only help you, and they may help your future SO as well. But the most important thing to remember is that RPW is an attitude much more than a set of actions. While obtaining a particular attitude/outlook on relationships seems like a much more nebulous concept than learning a new skill, there are definitely some things … | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/06/15 08:57 PM |
| 3 | [Mini-FR] Saying "Please" and "Thank You"If I'm reading your post right, you seem to be implying that red pill relationships are not healthy or kind. Obviously, many people here would disagree with that analysis. The reason I believe it belongs here is because not saying "please" and "thank you" to a significant other does not strike most people as odd, even though it should - in other words, not treating significant others with even basic politeness is the status quo, whether the ones responsible simply forgot out of habit or have mor… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/15 05:35 AM |
| 2 | [Mini-FR] Saying "Please" and "Thank You"I agree, and I think it's sad that it would even come off as weird in the first place. The incident that sparked this post occurred when I was staying over with a middle-aged couple who are friends with my parents. The wife would regularly say things like, "(Husband's name), get me my reading glasses. (Husband's name), give me my coat." I was in disbelief! I remember thinking, "Is he your husband or your slave?" But because they are old enough to be my parents, I was not in a position to really … | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/15 05:26 AM |
| 7 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesI grew up in a very traditional culture/household, so as a college student in the U.S. now I'm still shocked at how loose many of my peers seem to be concerning this matter. My parents often warned me that any high-value man worth marrying would do a thorough background check on me before committing, so I made sure to keep my record clean. If I were a man, I'd also want to do the same thing for any potential relationship partners. It's possible that many of my female peers simply aren't aware of… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/15 11:54 AM |
| 3 | female engineerJust posting in here to echo what everyone else has already said. Being good at math/science is definitely not a negative point that will "scare men off"; in fact, it shows that you are intelligent and that's a very positive quality to most men! I'm an electrical engineering sophomore who enjoys tinkering with electronics (including Arduino microcontrollers) and some coding, and I've never met any guy who's been 'intimidated' by my major or hobbies, even though they may be considered traditional… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/15 03:47 PM |
| 8 | Good, red pill role models for women in media or real lifeOne of my role models is Soong May-ling, the First Lady of China and General Chiang Kai-shek's wife. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Soong_May-ling She practically exuded feminine grace in everything she did, and was an extremely charismatic speaker. Some of her speeches can be found on YouTube. I think I personally identify with her that much more because we share the same ethnic heritage, but she is definitely very RP in the sense that she greatly helped and supported her husband not just persona… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/01/15 01:36 PM |
| 2 | [Thread] How to improve as a RP women in 2015- what are your goals?So glad you made this thread! Here are my personal goals: Keep on the lookout for classy clothes that suit me well. I'm happy to report that I spent a good amount of Christmas shopping this past week on a wardrobe makeover! Take one of the foreign languages I know from an intermediate to an advanced level. Also, deepen my knowledge of one of my native languages (I was originally bilingual). Pay attention to my body language - I have a couple of bad habits that are distracting and need to be fixe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/15 02:01 AM |
| 5 | Do we really have no value??We have nothing to offer other than our bodies? My thoughts, opinions and feelings have no value whatsoever? Obviously this is not true. I don't know which specific post you're talking about, but the thinking behind it is most likely that there are many women out there who don't take the initiative to develop deep interests and great personalities, instead focusing almost exclusively on their outward appearance and more superficial things. Even so, they are not actually just a "bunch of holes", … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/15 01:23 AM |
| 3 | Girls with more guy-friends than girl-friends. What does everyone think?I completely understand what you mean. I would personally prefer to have other girls as friends rather than guys, and I feel blessed that I have several in my life who are relatively drama-free, genuine, and trustworthy. But because of my major at school (electrical engineering) and the student activities I'm involved in (closely related to my major), I don't really get to meet so many other girls and have found myself with more guys as either friends or acquaintances. I personally believe I can… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/14 05:04 AM |
| 1 | This community is amazing <3I am so happy for you and so glad that you've found this community to be a great help! I've developed even more of a tendency to lurk these days due to my belief that I learn best by putting the words I read on this sub into tangible actions, and I can tell you that it has already made a positive difference in many aspects of my character. Ignore the naysayers and mockery; I'm sure my own posts have been satirized on TBP at least once but I simply haven't bothered looking because those comments … | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/14 08:22 AM |
| 5 | U.S.'s new female Chief Technology Officer wants to "debug" society of bias against women and minorities.The few that are talented are actually biased against because everyone assumes they didn't earn their position until proven otherwise. I actually had a discussion about this with a male friend of mine the other day. I argued that all these affirmative action, "increasing diversity"-type programs designed to give a leg up to women are inherently flawed, and that companies should make hiring decisions purely based on merit. With the wealth of information available to anyone these days, any woman w… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/14 10:13 PM |
| 2 | The burden of leadershipHello, and welcome! While there is certainly an emphasis on traditional gender roles here, nobody here advocates that women should only be homemakers or restricted to certain professions. In fact, I recall a few other female posters here who regularly read this sub that do not have 'traditionally feminine' professions. One has a Master's degree in Physics, another works in construction/landscaping, and the other is a business owner. I personally am a college student majoring in Electrical Engine… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/08/14 04:35 PM |
| 16 | What is The Red Pill and Why does it existBoth female students and coworkers alike go on the immediate attack if he shows any masculinity whatsoever. It's interesting that you brought this up, because it made me remember one of my experiences from elementary school. I was in a summer writing camp for children where the kids could write and illustrate their own stories. Since my story included cowboys and aliens, a couple of my pictures showed the characters shooting at each other. The teacher praised me for being "creative". A boy in my… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/14 04:42 AM |
| 0 | Would you all be interested in making a card for this little boy's 6th birthday?Maybe not, but I was just thinking some of the people here would be interested. Any mod is free to delete this if it's deemed irrelevant. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Would you all be interested in making a card for this little boy's 6th birthday?Thanks! I'm aiming for Monday too. I'm sure he'd appreciate every single one of those cards. No child should have to go through what he's currently suffering. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 05:39 AM |
| 5 | Don't let the women of reddit shape your views of women in general.This goes for all "circlejerk" subs, or subs dedicated to making fun of other subs. Of course there are always going to be stupid and offensive comments on the Internet, but there's nothing stopping anyone from simply clicking the 'Back' button and going on with their lives, which is why I wonder why some people would devote so much time to regularly reading and commenting on something that offends them. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/14 01:09 AM |
| 6 | Question: How is a blue pillar financially supporting his wife/SO substantively different than a red pillar financially supporting his wife/SO?Many RP don't even believe in the concept of compatibility Would you mind sharing some examples of this? I personally think those forums vastly under-emphasize its importance, but I don't think anyone would outright deny that it exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/14 06:45 PM |
| 5 | Question: How is a blue pillar financially supporting his wife/SO substantively different than a red pillar financially supporting his wife/SO?I think your perspective is very interesting. I personally identify more with RP than with BP, but I definitely agree that forging a "true bond with a reliable person" is extremely important. I would even say it should be the most important criterion, ahead of what RPW's topics currently seem to emphasize (i.e. taking care of your SO). If a woman ends up with the wrong person, then things could turn sour extremely fast regardless of how much she does to care for him. In fact, I can see how some … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/14 11:21 PM |
| 2 | What are you working on?I have a hot temper and am prone to outbursts if I am provoked enough. This is something that has caused me much distress. For this reason, I tend to stay away from conflict unless it is absolutely necessary in order to resolve a problem. The most important lesson is for me to calm down first before I respond to anything. Nothing ever gets accomplished when I'm in a frustrated or panicky mood. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/14 08:35 PM |
| 3 | The advantages of admitting you can't have it allI wish this was something more people would realize. My father is a professor at a top business school and is frequently out of the country teaching seminars, giving presentations, attending conferences, etc. Sometimes it gets so bad that his flight literally gets back one day, he meets my mom at the airport to switch out his suitcase for another with fresh clothes, and then gets back on another outbound plane. I can tell he is regretful for being somewhat of an absentee father. It's definitely … | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/14 06:41 AM |
| 10 | Well I got banned from TBP and Downvoted to oblivion in TRP ... so I'd say it's a pretty okay week. Lets hear how you got banned from TBP or TRPFor reference, this is the thread she was talking about. I believe she misrepresented the actual situation as told by the OP. The activity was planned with one of their friends, so it was heavily implied to have been a group activity to begin with. More importantly, the OP was not forced to apologize nor promise him that she would ride next to him in the future, unlike what this poster suggests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/14 05:43 AM |
| 6 | Ask Women has been infected...If she didn't agree with her grandfather's requirements in order to receive her inheritance, there was nothing stopping her from simply ignoring him and making her own money, which she should be capable of doing if she is so highly educated. Instead, much of what she writes sounds like she did it solely for the purpose of spiting him. Disagreement is fine, but her grandfather wasn't holding a gun to her head and forcing her to accept those requirements. In this society, she has many other option… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/14 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Who is the biggest influence on your life and how have they shaped how you view the world?What does that have to do with anything he said? Also, see Rules 1 and 2 in the sidebar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/14 07:24 PM |
| 2 | If you metaphorically swallowed the other pill, how do you think your life would be different?I think I would more or less remain the same, except maybe with less of an inclination to control my hot temper in a relationship (I say 'maybe' here since I've never actually been in one, but it's definitely something I want to keep an eye on knowing what I know) and certainly less of an understanding of what most men find attractive. While it's common sense that people are attracted to pleasant people (in both the aesthetic and personality sense), I probably would not have realized that it was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/14 07:47 PM |
| 1 | "You've never had a boyfriend?! Why?"There are definitely boys who are interested in pursuing serious relationships. I personally think you sound fine; it might just be the company you're keeping. People often judge others based on who they choose to surround themselves with, and could easily assume you're just as promiscuous as your friends when that is far from the truth. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/07/14 04:28 PM |
| 20 | Highly upvoted post in the EMSK subreddit - batteries included, as well as straw men, pedestaling, explaining what love is, emotional abuse, torture. But wait, there's more: "A healthy human being doesn't use sexual strategy."He is mixing hooking up with relationships. This is the crux of the matter right here. The strategies for short-term flings and long-term relationships are very different, and most of the stuff here is for men who aren't interested in LTRs. Another comment about the notion that TRP perpetuates abusive relationships: being abusive to a long-term partner is the complete opposite of what is advocated here. How do I know this? Because I have personally witnessed a real abusive relationship within my… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/14 09:54 PM |
| 1 | What brought you here?That's expected, because this sub is meant for debate whereas Blue Pill is a mere circlejerk - just look at their sidebar. I don't expect any serious counter-arguments to come out of there (although there may be occasionally some). That being said, I recognize the fact that some people simply find stuff posted on TRP, RPW, and all other related subs to be ridiculous. There are some very legitimate criticisms of them, and yes, some posts are indeed quite ridiculous. What I don't get is why some p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/14 04:31 PM |
| 9 | Great example of how feminists make everything unpleasant [x-post from tumblrinaction]The funniest thing about this is that our critics consistently claim that we are unfair in our assessment of feminism, and don't understand what feminism is. According to their definition, feminism supports a woman's choice regardless of whether or not she chooses to act feminine, so in their opinion the feminist view is not in conflict with ours. But if you look at their actions instead of merely listening to their words, you find the exact opposite of that. As an example, I saw talk of a new /… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/14 02:35 AM |
| 9 | For Women that don't feel that they are naturally attractive or feel uglyGood post. Even if someone is actually ugly, there are still things they can do to maximize their physical attractiveness the best they can. For women, this means keeping a slim figure (through having a healthy diet and regular exercise), a fitting hair cut, and proper skin care. I've seen plenty of girls who would look much better if it wasn't for the lack of at least one of the aforementioned items. Then there's also the non-physical part, which you mentioned as well. Having a cheerful disposi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/14 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Flair UpgradesI've posted here a few times before, but I'm probably not among the more active users. I do read this sub regularly though, and my beliefs are certainly much more aligned with RP than anything else due in large part to being raised by a very RP mother. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/14 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Productivity TipsThank you for this post, OP. It's easy to devolve into complaining, but it's far more important to come up with strategies like these to enhance your quality of life. Hope to see more of these kinds of posts here! | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/14 04:22 PM |
| 5 | An Honest Discussion on Good GirlsVery well said. Usually the promise of a large inheritance is more than enough to get most rich kids to behave well, but the few who disobey often end up regretting it many years down the road (or at least their descendants do). If I were one of those kids, I'd do absolutely anything to ensure that I got my millions of dollars' worth of inheritance. Call me shameless, but there is literally so much you can do if you have enough money. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/14 07:32 AM |
| 9 | An Honest Discussion on Good GirlsOf course they can't literally prevent them from having boyfriends, but if they were caught the consequences would be dire. Would you risk being disowned (and thereby throwing away your enormous inheritance) just for a guy? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/14 01:48 AM |
| 10 | Farewell PPD - At least for nowMany RP tenets are designed to make you reject LTRs/marriage/family, which I have always disagreed with. The notion that women don't have enough 'value' or it's too risky to trust another person isn't going to lead most people to a good destination, we all get old. I personally strongly agree with you on this point. I think there isn't enough material for men who are interested in LTRs, and from what I've read of the field reports, many men seem to be only going to bars and clubs to pick up wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/14 09:42 PM |
| 23 | An Honest Discussion on Good GirlsI couldn't agree more with this. Having been raised in a relatively well-off family (dad is a professor at a top business school; mom helps run a company that sells jewelry), I've observed far better behavior among other girls who come from similar backgrounds to mine, or better. In fact, the more wealthy a certain family is, the more "traditional" they tend to be when it comes to marriage/relationships. We have a couple of family friends who are billionaires, and they absolutely forbid their da… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/14 09:16 PM |
| 3 | Hey fatboy, your fat makes you less of a man. Literally.This is an excellent suggestion. My mother does this all the time, which is why no one in my immediate family is overweight. We don't do anything special; it's just that our sweets and desserts consist of fresh fruit (which already contains natural sugars). | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/14 01:21 AM |
| 3 | The Purple Pill debate is not a debateThis is the correct response. I sympathize with OP because I've definitely seen poor debate skills (if they can even be called that) on a sub that's meant for debate, but once I see who is debating poorly, I just make a note to myself not to take them seriously. There are a few reasonable debaters on PPD who don't agree with TRP, but even then, I've observed that they tend to identify themselves as "purple pill" or "independent" more often than not. A significant proportion of the users with "bl… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/14 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Drama QueensI think to some extent, people are all drawn to drama - it isn't necessarily just an RP-versus-BP thing, or vice versa. It's why many drivers slow down on a freeway to view the aftermath of a terrible accident. They know the results won't be pretty, but somehow they just can't help feeling curious. The same principle applies to why watching gladiator fights was such a popular pastime during the days of the Roman Empire - it was bloody and messy, but it drew in crowds of spectators. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/14 09:58 PM |
| 14 | Hey fatboy, your fat makes you less of a man. Literally.sugar from your diet I have one more point to add to this. Sugar can also be consumed through what we drink, rather than what we eat, so a lot of people are actually consuming far more calories than they think they are. It's not just soda, either - many brands of fruit juice contain a lot of sugar. Obviously the best solution would just be to drink water, but sometimes you just get cravings for something sweet. One thing I do is that I fill my cup halfway with juice, and then fill the other half… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/14 09:20 PM |
| 5 | Do PPD Debaters miss the point of personal philosophy?But as a general rule, it's better to assume they like confidence and adjust as necessary. This is what the whole AWALT thing over at TRP is really about. TRP's approach is based on probabilities - it is more probable for a given woman to be attracted to confidence and dominant characteristics in a man than it is for her to be attracted to shyness. Exceptions do exist, but for the most part there are certain assumptions about attraction triggers that can be made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/14 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Drilldowns of TRP and TBPYou're right. Unfortunately going by the users' post counts is currently the only means of doing any sort of analysis since subscriber counts are private, so this survey is the best that can be done given the circumstances. But that doesn't mean it is perfect at all, and I think viewers of these analyses should keep that fact in mind, especially when it comes to the subs with counts of under 25. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/14 07:39 PM |
| 6 | Drilldowns of TRP and TBPHere is a link to the bot's source code. You are right; the bot only counts people who have actually posted in the sub, rather than subscribers. Similarly, the "subreddit overlap" is counted based on the other places where the users have posted rather than subscribed. Obviously this leads to a somewhat flawed analysis, or at least more flawed than if the bot were counting subscribers as well. People tend to subscribe to subs that actually agree with their views, and as you said, even if someone … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/14 03:27 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill is Pro-WomanSome of the vitriol surrounding the RPW sub is truly astounding. I've only ventured into TBP a handful of times, but I saw enough to know that the extent of the unfounded assumptions they make about us is really incredible. It's not just the "men pretending to be women" thing; they also assume that every RPW who's actually a woman is a subservient drone with no personality and no interests of her own, and only serves as a yes-woman to her husband. In all my time reading the sub, I've never come … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/14 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Woman puts up with abusive boyfriend for 5 years. Claims date rape and kinda blames TRP.I need to work on being the kind of woman that he'd want This is what I like most about this sub too - there are plenty of self-help and self-improvement resources out there, but to me RPW is special because it's about improving yourself within the context of a relationship (i.e. thinking about "us" and "we" rather than just "me"), which I would argue is significantly harder. It's easy to pursue everything we want, but when there's someone else involved, it becomes far more complicated than that… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/05/14 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill and AbuseI'm an RP woman and even I disagree a little on the way the sub is run, especially when it comes to their definition of "concern trolling". Their current rule basically bans anyone who tries to make suggestions through any means besides messaging the mods. On the other hand, there has been some truly bad behavior from TRP's detractors, so I can't fully blame them for setting it up the way it is, but I think some people are really just trying to make suggestions in good faith. Acknowledging those… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/14 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Woman puts up with abusive boyfriend for 5 years. Claims date rape and kinda blames TRP.I remember seeing your posts, and I'm so glad you're out of that situation now! For some reason people seem to think that we advocate abusive relationships, when we do just the opposite - we tell women to RUN when they sense something isn't right, as we did in your case. Yes, RPW focuses on bettering our relationships, but the relationships have to be with worthwhile men to begin with. This is part of the reason why I am personally still not in a relationship as of now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/05/14 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Is TRP worth debating? For people who are opposed to TRP, does engaging with TRP validate their position?Ah, now I see that we may have talked past each other, and that was partially my fault. When I said "representative of TRP", I meant representative of the majority of TRP's opinions, which is important because many people point out highly questionable things said by mods or ECs and use them to say, "Look, this person is a mod/EC, therefore his opinions represent what the whole sub thinks; therefore everyone associated with TRP hates women." That was what I was initially arguing against. Now what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/14 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Is TRP worth debating? For people who are opposed to TRP, does engaging with TRP validate their position?The original question had to do with which was more representative of the whole sub of TRP. Obviously the sidebar link I mentioned still had to be posted by the mods, but it was posted in part because of the large amount of users in favor of it being posted there. Also, if I remember correctly, the user said he messaged all the mods, not just one, whereas ECs are only representative of one mod's opinion and have less to do with how the rest of the sub thinks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/14 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Is TRP worth debating? For people who are opposed to TRP, does engaging with TRP validate their position?I definitely agree! Unfortunately, this is another aspect of TRP that I personally disagree with - much of the sentiment there is not to allow any form of "tone policing" so as not to offend anyone. However, I think they take it to the extreme. In the case of that blog post, it isn't about tone or anything; it's about saying what you mean and getting your point across. That's why I believe a certain amount of the anger is justified, and I do wish more posters would realize this. Maybe I should w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/14 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Is TRP worth debating? For people who are opposed to TRP, does engaging with TRP validate their position?Well, I can't speak for all the links posted in the sidebar, but I was around when they added a new one to it. In that case, the link led to a Norwegian documentary discussing the realities of controversial subjects like gender, race, and IQ, and it was very well done so a large number of posters recommended it to the mods. Comparing that to the selection of Endorsed Contributors, there was definitely more input from a larger variety of users. Now of course some sidebar links were just added by … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/14 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Is TRP worth debating? For people who are opposed to TRP, does engaging with TRP validate their position?This is true, and I've always wondered why the points system should be restricted to only the few users whom a specific mod has deemed to have palatable opinions. Regarding the source you quoted, I was actually just discussing it with another TRP poster and he said the "women not maturing past age 18" thing is really just a side-effect of a pervading sense of entitlement in the Western world today, rather than a comment that women are actually mentally incapable of maturing past age 18. This sen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/14 12:28 PM |
| 2 | [Meta] Why I don't post here as much anymoreI see. That makes more sense. So what you're saying is that women aren't necessarily completely incapable of honor; it's just that due to the way human relationships are, they aren't expected to have it (and therefore don't in the vast majority of cases). Also, about what you mentioned regarding the objections to the "women being the most responsible teenager" article - I went back and looked over the post that was critiquing it, and you were right. While I think that particular article could ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/14 10:03 AM |
| 1 | [Meta] Why I don't post here as much anymoreI've only just discovered the existence of this sub, so forgive me for the somewhat late response. Very recently, I became intrigued about what drove TBP to mock TRP with such frequency and aggressiveness, so I went and perused their top-rated posts. There are a couple that do raise good points - there was one where the validity of the blog post linked on TRP's sidebar on "women being the most responsible teenager in the house" was called into question, and there was another where a poster linke… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/14 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Hamster bitter that MIT is - gasp - competitiveWhen I said she wasn't a good match, I was referring to the fact that she admitted she didn't yet know what she wanted, so she would probably do better in a school where she could take courses from a more diverse array of subjects, as opposed to MIT's purely math and science core. That wasn't intended as a comment that anyone who is unhappy at MIT is automatically a poor fit. The point I was trying to make was that work doesn't necessarily always have to be draining. There may be a lot of it, an… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/14 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Hamster bitter that MIT is - gasp - competitiveThe sense I get is that she probably wasn't a good match for MIT. This isn't to say that she's not bright, just that she would probably have excelled in a school with a more supportive environment than MIT's. If she was smart enough to be accepted there in the first place, I'm sure she had other offers from other excellent schools that might have been a better fit for her. All the things you mention - friendly people at admitted students' weekends, school prestige, and academic challenge - can a… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/14 05:23 AM |
| 2 | I just have to share...Looks pretty! I like the curls. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/14 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Hamster bitter that MIT is - gasp - competitiveI actually don't disagree with her desire for a more healthy environment at school. It is true that when an environment is brutally competitive to that extent, it sets up plenty of people for failure, regardless of their gender. Unlike a few posters here, I personally don't believe this is a "male vs. female" thing at all; the truth is that we're all still human and should take care of our basic needs, and I agree with that aspect of her piece. To MIT's credit, I think they are actively doing th… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/14 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Hamster bitter that MIT is - gasp - competitiveAdmittedly I have not, but I have several family friends who either went there at some point or are currently attending. The one thing they all say is that the work load is extremely intensive. That's why her complaint that attending class and studying for 48 hours every week was too much struck me as odd. It's no secret that MIT is a tough school - even the admissions blogs highlight this fact - so I found it strange that she'd be complaining about 48 hours being a "bare minimum" of expected wo… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/14 03:19 AM |
| 1 | We Hit 5000!! Lurkers and Newbies--Come out and Say "Hi!"I've never had anyone call it a 'cult' - in fact, quite the opposite. Sometimes when I speak one-on-one with some of my female friends about relationship-related stuff, they end up agreeing with what I have to say. I think most people do realize that a lot of core RP beliefs have merit, but because they run counter to a lot of the feel-good "you are perfect the way you are" stuff that insists modern women don't need to mind personal responsibility to others, the natural reaction is to want to ig… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/05/14 08:26 AM |
| 0 | New here, I now know why it's called the Red PillIf this is a satire of typical posts deriding this sub, it's brilliant! If not, it's still pretty hilarious, but you are not doing anything to meaningfully contribute to the conversation in any way. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/14 05:57 AM |
| 1 | We Hit 5000!! Lurkers and Newbies--Come out and Say "Hi!"This is what I understand least about them. I honestly don't get what's so repulsive and abhorrent about wanting to be the best partner possible for our husbands. There are some truly messed-up subs like /r/rapingwomen and /r/beatingwomen (I shudder to think both of those actually exist...), and yet they decide to direct their hatred at us, who have beliefs that are nowhere near as controversial. What gives? A strong possibility is the whole "crabs in the bucket" mentality - they don't like to s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/14 03:48 AM |
| 9 | We Hit 5000!! Lurkers and Newbies--Come out and Say "Hi!"I'm 19 and in college, and although I have a lot of friends, I haven't been able to be 100% myself with the majority of the people that I interact with. I barely talk to anyone about my political beliefs, my desire to be a homemaker and homeschool my children, and almost no one knows that I'm waiting until marriage to lose my virginity. Are we the same person?! I am exactly your age and in the same situation, and I know how it feels when it seems so many other college-aged girls around you just … | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/14 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Interesting take on "why feminism is good": (XPost from r/TheRedPill)Not to mention that the sign makes a reference to "rasists" [sic] - what does this have to do with race at all? It's laughably incoherent. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/14 11:14 PM |
| 14 | FR: After devouring content on this sub, finally saw TRP work for me.This... is actually quite spot on. At least when I've heard a lot of my girlfriends say this, that's usually what they mean. The implication is "don't change for anyone; do things for yourself", which seems to me what a lot of TRP is about. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/14 11:42 PM |
| 4 | The hamster is strong with this one: Female driver that struck teen suing dead boy's familyHer decision does make more sense in light of this new information, but that doesn't absolve her of all guilt. She was still speeding, and ultimately was still directly responsible for the boy's death (and the injury of his friend). What's more, her reason for the countersuit is ridiculous and makes her look completely self-absorbed - she claims she suffered "emotional distress". And she's saying this to the family who lost their son forever thanks in part to her reckless driving. There should n… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/14 11:26 AM |
| 3 | The hamster is strong with this one: Female driver that struck teen suing dead boy's familyThe irony is that she's the one suing them for grief and distress. I can't believe she has the audacity to look them in the eye and say that with a straight face. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/14 02:16 AM |
| 21 | The hamster is strong with this one: Female driver that struck teen suing dead boy's familyThis is absolutely vile. I can't even imagine what that poor boy's family must be going through right now - and now this lady has the gall to try and rub salt into their wounds? If I were the boy's mother I would probably spit in her face. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/14 01:43 AM |
| 2 | What does a man have to offer me?Yawn. Yet another troll who obviously failed to grasp the meaning behind the post in question. If you're just here to stir up anger, the door is that way. We already get more than enough harassment from feminists online and in real life without you adding to the mix. Oh boy it must be so sad to live your life. Pot, meet kettle. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/14 01:26 AM |
| 6 | Dating tips from the 30's, very applicable to usI'm no historian, but I get the feeling that the average woman back in the early 20th century (our grandparents' generation) was generally much more dignified, and had more of a tendency to not take anything for granted and uphold responsibility. It's sad how much things have changed within less than 100 years. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/04/14 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Top performing boys outperform girls, world wide, Pisa researcher finds. Twice as many boys than girls are in the top 1% of maths students across the globe. What about promoting top talent instead of trying to close the gender gap?I noticed that too. It reminded me of what was said in the "Brainwash" documentary linked in the sidebar - that a large component of IQ is dependent on genetics, and much more so than most people are willing to admit. So if that is true, then it makes sense that white Americans, who are the descendants of European immigrants to America, do not differ much in terms of IQ from the descendants of Europeans who decided to stay home. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/14 11:51 AM |
| 23 | Why women like unemotional menThis reminds me of the time I was at a bookstore and picked up a self-help book geared towards business women out of curiosity (it was also written by a woman). The advice in there came across to me as overly aggressive and domineering. If any woman were to actually follow it in real life, she'd be dismissed as "trying too hard". I have spent some time observing qualities of strong leaders (who are mostly male). You're right in that the best ones don't ever need to tell anyone that they're the b… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/14 06:47 PM |
| 7 | Hamster bitter that MIT is - gasp - competitiveThis was the line that stuck out the most to me. If you're at an engineering school, especially a top one like MIT, 48 hours of class and study a week is nothing. Compare that to the fact that you have 168 hours in a week, and it seems even more insignificant. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/14 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Rollo Tomassi AMAAs flattered as I am, I'll be the first one to say you shouldn't be so quick to say that. :P Based solely on who I am, there is literally nothing that separates me from all other women, and this realization keeps me motivated to always be moving forward and building skills that will actually be helpful to myself and my future family. I've said it in another post in this sub, and I'll say it again: the day when I start believing that I am unique compared to other women is the day when everything … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/14 07:40 AM |
| 3 | Could RPW's philosophy be aptly described by "New Feminism"?Ooh, good point! I hadn't noticed that. I take it that this should be a warning sign that anything that even references "feminism" in any way should be ignored, no matter how appealing it might look initially. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/14 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Could RPW's philosophy be aptly described by "New Feminism"?I agree with you. I certainly wasn't suggesting that we should rename RPW (and especially not to something containing the word "feminism"); I was simply asking whether or not the philosophy discussed in this article is really all that similar. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/14 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Could RPW's philosophy be aptly described by "New Feminism"?This is what I thought too. I am also quite skeptical that this even deserves to be called "feminism" at all (hence the reason why I used quotation marks in my earlier post). As I understand it, feminism's core tenet is the belief that men and women are absolutely equal, and since New Feminism doesn't reflect that belief, I think its name is misleading. Funnily enough, the user I was speaking to on TRP said that he was promptly banned from /r/Feminism for even bringing this up - proving that thi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/14 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Could RPW's philosophy be aptly described by "New Feminism"?A bit of background: this exchange took place on a TRP thread, and I was intrigued as to why I hadn't heard of this form of "feminism" before (I use quotation marks because I'm not sure if it actually qualifies). It comes across as far more reasonable than the vast majority of traditional feminist ideologies. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/14 06:54 AM |
| 4 | Rollo Tomassi AMASorry to hear about that. I'm sure your male friends had vastly different reactions, though... | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/14 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Kirsten Dunst comes out in support of traditional gender roles. Bluepilled liberals freak out.It could be! It would certainly make for some very interesting discussion. A number of RPW are ex-feminists (in the more commonly used sense of the word), and I'm sure learning that something like this exists would be new information for them. It was for me, anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/14 12:09 AM |
| 3 | Kirsten Dunst comes out in support of traditional gender roles. Bluepilled liberals freak out.Wow, this 'New Feminism' thing sounds very similar to what is advocated over at /r/RedPillWomen. If that were the definition for feminism, then I would definitely consider myself a feminist. I didn't know such a thing even existed. It's too bad that it's being vastly overshadowed by the far more extreme variants of feminism. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/14 09:53 PM |
| 24 | Rollo Tomassi AMAInteresting that you brought that up, because I remember reading something on this sub along the lines of how men have a tendency to work together in order to help each other, while women tend to put down their competitors instead of improving themselves. This general attitude is most noticeable when a fat person loses weight, thereby becoming much more physically attractive. If the person is a man, other men will dish out congratulatory remarks and comments on how he looks much better now. If t… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/14 03:58 AM |
| 29 | Rollo Tomassi AMAI regularly browse that sub and I agree. What's baffling to me is how often we are said to be "weak-minded women", as well as how often we are accused of actually being men pretending to be women (since apparently no sane woman would actually think like that). So apparently focusing on self-improvement and wanting to be the best partner possible for our husbands is being "weak-minded"? I'll take that any day of the week over bitterly throwing baseless accusations at random people on the internet… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/14 12:25 AM |
| 1 | classic example of a woman acting like a childWow, now that's just unacceptable. If I were her mother I'd have attempted to put an end to this behavior much earlier, at the very least. I just don't understand how some parents can be so passive. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/14 04:10 AM |
| 5 | classic example of a woman acting like a childI bet she's one of those mothers who believes her children can do no wrong. They are among the absolute worst parents by being so irresponsible. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/14 03:59 AM |
| 19 | classic example of a woman acting like a childI agree that they suck, as I have a few smokers/ex-smokers in my family. But that is still no excuse to act like a child throwing a temper tantrum. Heck, even when I acted like this as a kid, I would be severely (usually physically) disciplined. There's no reason why a grown woman should be allowed to act this way. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/14 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Weekly motivation thread!Got my room cleared up during spring cleaning! But there are still a bunch of unneeded things that need to be thrown out. I have to sort through them and decide what I want to keep. Hopefully I'll be looking at an even neater room by the end of the week! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/14 01:26 PM |
| 5 | Fat Apologist Expresses Rage at Disney for Slimming Down Her Favorite Characterthat's wrong based on pure biology. Which part, the claim about it being relatively easy for women to maintain a healthy weight, or the one about men having it harder? I suspect it's the second... what I was trying to say was that compared to women who can look good by just eating right, men also have to build muscle through eating certain foods and regular exercise, so in that sense they have it "harder". | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/14 04:58 PM |
| 15 | Fat Apologist Expresses Rage at Disney for Slimming Down Her Favorite CharacterWhat's even worse is that for women, staying thin doesn't take much effort at all. All we have to do is to eat right. I personally don't exercise nearly enough, and yet I've managed to maintain the same weight simply because of my diet. I actually think guys have it much harder in terms of building muscle. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/14 04:30 PM |
| 3 | 40 things every college girl needs to be reminded of [xPost]I agree that there were okay and even good bits of advice in this post, especially the last line that you pointed out, but I couldn't stand most of it, particularly when it came to things like this line: So you’ve gained a few pounds? You’re becoming a woman you’re not supposed to look 18 forever. Ugh! No, gaining weight is never okay (unless you are skinny to the point of being unattractive), and it certainly doesn't make a girl look more "womanly" (whatever that means). My mother is in her 50'… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/14 01:26 PM |
| 2 | how many of you either have a degree or are actively pursuing one?/u/yesalright already summed it up pretty well, but another way I look at this is that an educated woman is far more likely to have intelligent and successful children. I don't necessarily mean women in master's or doctoral programs; even a woman just getting a bachelor's degree increases her children's odds of success in life. I personally have no aspirations to pursue further education beyond a bachelor's as of now, but I know that whatever knowledge I acquire right now will only serve to bene… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/14 11:05 AM |
| 1 | how many of you either have a degree or are actively pursuing one?I'm studying Computer Engineering (bachelor's). I'm not sure whether or not I'll get a master's degree; a CompE degree is already pretty lucrative in itself. Edit: Plus the obvious fact that when I graduate, it'll be about time to start seriously thinking about my family anyway. Ideally I would be married right after I finish school. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/14 10:48 AM |
| 8 | Women admitting how many guys they slept with and not letting hubby know.I don't understand why her husband even tolerates such behavior. Besides, if she wants sex that badly, why not just go to her husband and say so? If he had any self-respect he'd definitely prefer that option. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/14 07:33 AM |
| 5 | Women admitting how many guys they slept with and not letting hubby know.Yeah, that one got me too. I'm the same age as her... how is she even meeting all these men?! I don't think I even personally know 50 guys right now; all my friends are girls. (On a somewhat related note, it irks me when I hear girls saying that they hate other girls because they're "catty", or that they naturally get along with guys better. I have many wonderful female friends and we all somehow manage to get along without any drama.) | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/14 06:40 AM |
| 4 | Women admitting how many guys they slept with and not letting hubby know.Admittedly, I don't - what I said is purely based on what I have personally experienced, which is admittedly also a pretty small and unreliable sample size. It's entirely possible that they could have had more partners that I just don't know about. And I know the original post was pretty much setting up for these types of answers, but women having slept with more than 100 men in a span of less than a decade?! That's still extreme no matter how you spin it... | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/14 06:21 AM |
| 9 | Women admitting how many guys they slept with and not letting hubby know.Oops! I didn't bother to check out the main site - you're right; it's apparently based in Fort Myers, Florida. Still, though, I am originally from a non-Western society and I can't imagine that the women where I come from have such staggeringly high partner counts, since promiscuity is very much frowned upon there. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/14 06:13 AM |
| 2 | Adding value to yourself and those around you...Don't worry about having few friends - quality is what matters, not quantity. I'm sure your significant other truly appreciates what you do for him. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/14 05:46 AM |
| 26 | Women admitting how many guys they slept with and not letting hubby know.I have a ton of respect for that elderly lady who said she has only ever slept with her husband (assuming that what she says is true). I aspire to follow in her footsteps. It's a shame that too many other young women are unknowingly ruining themselves this way - do they have no self control? Edit: Something interesting I noticed - I checked out the posters' locations and most of them seem to come from either the US or the UK (or English-speaking countries). Now I understand the disillusionment o… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/14 02:25 AM |
| 9 | What do you guys think about the idea that gender is a "social construct"I highly recommend visiting this link in the sidebar for a thorough debunking of the notion of a "socially constructed gender". It is absolutely 100% false. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/14 02:39 AM |
| 2 | What the fuck, how can anyone, regardless of gender bias, downvote this post?Plus, the death penalty doesn't actually execute that many people in practice - just its mere existence deters the vast majority of potential offenders. Come to think of it, it would actually be very helpful in terms of preventing such crimes from even occurring in the first place, so all the resulting heartbreak/psychological torture could be avoided. I didn't think of it that way at the beginning of this discussion, and for that I have you to thank. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/14 07:23 PM |
| 0 | What the fuck, how can anyone, regardless of gender bias, downvote this post?Obviously shaming seems like a lazy and ineffective tactic when it's used on men, but due to differences between the sexes, men and women respond very differently to it. It has been said countless times in this sub that men respond logically while women respond emotionally. While shaming does little to nothing to deter men, it is very significant for women because women are constantly seeking emotional validation, and to have that validation replaced with judgment is something nearly unbearable … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/14 06:47 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck, how can anyone, regardless of gender bias, downvote this post?Fair enough. If fear is what you're after, then I wholeheartedly agree that there is no better way to instill that than imposing a death penalty. I used to live in a country that imposes the death penalty on drug traffickers, and it was certainly very effective. But there will always be others who argue that the motivation behind the law, at least in the West, shouldn't necessarily be to instill fear. Thanks for sharing your perspective; it has definitely made me think hard about what is obvious… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/14 06:37 PM |
| 0 | What the fuck, how can anyone, regardless of gender bias, downvote this post?You are probably right that I can't fully grasp how serious the situation is, because as I said earlier, I am not a man and therefore cannot relate to this man's experiences subjectively. Another user pointed out that the female equivalent of this situation would be getting violently raped, and that does help me in that respect, but even then I still wouldn't advocate the death penalty for rapists. Even if the rapist gets killed, the victim and her family might feel some satisfaction at the fact… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/14 06:05 PM |
| 2 | What the fuck, how can anyone, regardless of gender bias, downvote this post?I should have been more clear in my previous post as well. When I said "I understand where you're coming from", I meant that I understood the argument he was making, not that I literally knew what he meant based on my own personal, subjective experiences (as that is impossible since I am not a man). And I understand your argument, too. What I'm trying to say is that killing a cheating woman in this case wouldn't help anyone at that point since the damage would already have been done, as unfortun… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/14 05:09 PM |
| 8 | What the fuck, how can anyone, regardless of gender bias, downvote this post?I understand where you're coming from, and I'm not trying to diminish the effects of what she did in any way - I find them plainly repulsive as well. I'm just not sure that your proposed punishment for her matches her crime. While she did indeed humiliate her own husband to the utmost by doing this, killing her off wouldn't really do anything else to help solve the problem at that point. If she were a serial killer or something of the sort, that would make more sense. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/14 04:53 PM |
| 10 | What the fuck, how can anyone, regardless of gender bias, downvote this post?I wouldn't say death is the answer. A far more effective solution is for their husbands to dump them and then be constantly humiliated at every turn by other women for their staggering lack of judgment. My mother often talks disparagingly about other women she knows who did similar things, and uses them as an example of what not to do. I'd imagine that being constantly singled out as a poor example in front of countless other women's families would be a far worse punishment. Women are expert sha… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/14 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Was anyone here a male feminist or anything or anything of the sort before taking the pill?Reading your post actually made me laugh out loud. Since when is mentioning that someone has a chip on their shoulder equal to being a rape apologist? Feminist "logic" is seriously beyond me... | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/14 04:43 AM |
| 4 | Tits or GTFOThere was some pretty solid discussion on this topic a few days ago. I think it might be helpful in terms of clarifying what is really meant by the phrase in the title: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2103vf/tits_or_gtfo/ | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/14 03:51 PM |
| 8 | Tits or GTFOUgh, that... there have been stories at my school of some older woman consistently interrupting lecture with comments that begin with that exact phrase. They rarely add anything valuable to the discussion. Luckily, I haven't experienced anything similar in any of my classes so far. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/14 12:46 AM |
| 7 | RP women in STEMI've noticed this as well in my classes. There are a good number of girls who take higher level math and science classes at my school and do very well, but when it comes to highly creative, "out-of-the-box" kind of thinking, the people who are best at this are predominantly male. Like you, I also don't think people should be discouraging women from entering STEM fields, because some women really do prefer studying those fields and some truly are naturally gifted. To the OP: please don't get the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/14 11:24 PM |
| 60 | Tits or GTFOI have a small story to share. My first post in this sub was a comment on a thread discussing /r/gonewild, and I think I wrote something along the lines about how I, as a woman, was disgusted with the behavior of the women who post there. While that post was still upvoted, I did get a couple of replies linking me to that "no women on the internet" screencap. I didn't understand what they meant then, but after having read a bit more, I now realize that women pointing out their gender when it does… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/14 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Fred On Everything -- Why white men prefer Asian Women.As painful as it is to hear those kinds of comments, I appreciate them too. Whenever one of them is directed at me, I take it as a sign that I need to watch my diet and exercising habits more closely. It's like a warning that I'm headed in the wrong direction physically and should do something to correct it soon. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/14 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Fred On Everything -- Why white men prefer Asian Women.True; I almost forgot about that. But I think that's partly a result of our shorter heights on average. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/14 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Fred On Everything -- Why white men prefer Asian Women.Do you feel there's a cultural origin to this, like maybe the disregard for the written word in favor of personal experience in their religious traditions? I think so. I may be completely off the mark here, but I think Western cultures tend to be more individualistic (i.e. follow a more "do what feels good to you" type of philosophy), while Asian cultures instill more of an awareness of the effects of a person's actions on the people around them. For example, a close family member of mine is in … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/14 03:39 PM |
| 5 | Fred On Everything -- Why white men prefer Asian Women.East Asian woman here - I think the primary reasons for our relative thinness compared to other ethnic groups are indeed cultural, as you've pointed out. While it obviously has a lot to do with our diet, it is also strongly related to the fact that fat shaming is very common behavior among our cultures. People, especially other women, will outright make comments about how they think you've gained weight since they last saw you. As a result, many women are extremely conscious about their weight a… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/14 11:50 AM |
| 29 | Batten down the hatches, more TRP publicity brought to you by the White Knights, Omegas and Feminists of RedditIt's not just that. Whoever wrote that demonstrated that they don't even know the meanings of the words they're using. The dictionary definition of a cult is "a system of religious veneration and devotion directed toward a particular figure or object." That's about as far from what TRP is as you can get. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/14 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Thread: What's your favorite beauty secret?+1 for oil - I've recently started using a toner containing various types of natural oils after washing my face. I've struggled with acne for many years and I was shocked to see that the frequency of my acne growth went down significantly after I started using it. I think it has something to do with the fact that the oils actually hydrate the lower layers of your skin better. In any case, my face looks much cleaner now and I couldn't be happier! | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/03/14 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Thread: What's your favorite beauty secret?Yes! Eyebrows are important. I used to have very unflattering bushy eyebrows until I was taken to a salon when I was 14 and had most of the hair plucked. Since then I've just been maintaining the general shape on my own. The before/after difference was shocking. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/03/14 09:55 AM |
| 12 | Cambridge student complaining about sexual assault risk. Halfway through the article she talks being sexually assaulted by a fast food worker. After reporting him police find CCTV footage of them just kissing for about a minute. Then compares herself to rape victims and questions society's motivesWho told you that? That makes no sense (as I'm sure you already know) - applying the 'rape' label to far more minor incidents only dilutes the meaning of the word and actually makes people more desensitized towards it. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/14 11:18 PM |
| 38 | Cambridge student complaining about sexual assault risk. Halfway through the article she talks being sexually assaulted by a fast food worker. After reporting him police find CCTV footage of them just kissing for about a minute. Then compares herself to rape victims and questions society's motivesHonestly I'm just angry when I see stuff like this. Just recently a female student was violently assaulted by a gang of strange men on the college campus near where I live. I feel bad that she's being put into the same category as the woman in this article, even though obviously her situation was a lot worse. Ironically, feminists are making it so that the real victims of rape can't be taken very seriously anymore. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/14 09:28 PM |
| 26 | Why do I bother trying with these feministsThey accuse men of objectifying women, all while objectifying men themselves. Sometimes I really wonder why they can't just be honest with themselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/14 08:47 AM |
| 39 | Why do I bother trying with these feministsI'm sorry that you've had to deal with this kind of behavior, especially in a sub titled "AskMen". This is part of the reason why I suggested in another thread that all female posters should be banned from commenting in that sub - the people asking questions there are seriously not interested in their opinions; they're simply irrelevant to them since they're not men. I personally didn't see how any of what you wrote was objectionable. It's actually very reasonable and one of the few things of wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/14 08:34 AM |
| 2 | Askhamsters about why they cheated.Hey, just being real here... raising a child is expensive, especially in this modern age and also if you want to raise him/her well. I would feel like an irresponsible mother if I had a child whom I really couldn't support financially. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/14 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Askhamsters about why they cheated.I really agree with what you're saying. I honestly don't understand why modern Western women look down on stay-at-home mothers so much. They shoulder an incredible amount of responsibility, and it really takes an excellent woman to produce a kind, intelligent, well-adjusted child. If anything, I actually think motherhood holds women to an even higher standard than the one they'd normally set for themselves if they were alone. For example, it's easy for me to be lazy one day and decide not to coo… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/14 11:36 PM |
| 4 | Askhamsters about why they cheated.Would you say this kind of behavior is purely an American (or Western) phenomenon? I am originally from a non-Western culture and I can tell you that nearly any woman doing this would be automatically dumped by their husbands, as well as being shamed to no end by other women. I'm honestly surprised there are men who are even allowing it. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/14 06:43 PM |
| 1 | In Which /u/AnnaFlyte Makes the Most Elegant Statement of the RPW Position on Family vs CareerI can scarcely believe she's my age - her wisdom and insight is truly uncommon. This is why I personally love reading this sub; it really gives me hope for a lot of people! | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/14 08:37 PM |
| 7 | /r/askwomen is at it again with its hypocrisy and blatant projection.Exactly. I think there would be fewer issues like these if all female users were simply banned from commenting on anything there, because the people posting questions/topics are only interested in hearing answers from the male perspective (otherwise why would they be posting to a sub called /r/askmen?). I respect the fact that /r/askmen is a place for people to get answers from men (surprise, surprise), and so I've never commented there at all. Edit: Just noticed this in one of the comments - I … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/14 07:22 AM |
| 1 | How detrimental are under-eye circles to a woman's looks?Usually mine are caused from lack of sleep, stress, and/or rubbing my eyes too often. So I don't think my problem is genetic. I just need to be careful about avoiding certain situations that trigger it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/14 01:34 AM |
| 2 | How detrimental are under-eye circles to a woman's looks?Hey! While I do not have this problem, I personally use this product for prevention purposes: http://www.origins.com/product/3855/11641/GinZing-/index.tmpl Obviously everyone's body is different, and I'm not sure how much this product will personally help you since it sounds like you have something different from the standard puffiness/dark circles, but I find that the area around my eyes looks noticeably brighter every time after I use it. Try massaging the product into the affected area - it h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/14 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Do you see anything special about a woman bringing a "life" to this world?"as a mother" Hearing this irks me so much. Maybe it's because I've heard of classes at my school where some older woman consistently interrupts lecture to make this completely irrelevant comment that begins exactly that way. Being a mother doesn't mean anything within that context, unless you were specifically discussing things related to motherhood and raising children. Anyway, I've just never understood why anyone would want to flaunt it like that, especially when it was not asked for to begi… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/14 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Emotion mini-rant.I definitely consider myself fortunate that I happened to have very wise parents in this respect, but I think it also depends on culture to some degree. I am of East Asian descent and a lot of what's labeled "RP knowledge" here is actually considered quite mainstream in my native culture. Add that to the fact that my religious background is Protestant Christian, and you get a very "Red Pill" mentality! But I know that I'm a minority case; my experiences are not typical for most modern Westerners… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/02/14 04:37 AM |
| 4 | Emotion mini-rant.Excellent post. This is easily one of the most useful bits of information I've ever learned from my mother. She often told me that it generally wasn't necessary to get aggressive/defensive, unless you were being physically harmed or being robbed of your material belongings (including money). In most cases your ego might be a little bruised, but it isn't something worth losing your temper over. Believe me, it can be trying (especially with certain people), but generally remaining calm, yet firm w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/02/14 03:18 AM |
| 1 | More women in tech failures. UK woman in charge of the 3M pound "Learn to Code" Initiative has no idea how to code.the hours you put in and the work you produce are what matters. Exactly. That's why I think that a lot of those "women's engineering clubs/societies" are unnecessary - they tend to be less productive than co-ed clubs where everybody works on interesting projects regardless of their gender. Sports are different because men and women have significant physical differences, but as you said, in engineering and science it's all about dedication and diligence. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/14 03:09 AM |
| 1 | More women in tech failures. UK woman in charge of the 3M pound "Learn to Code" Initiative has no idea how to code.Thank you for sharing your perspective. I have also heard similar things about the software industry from multiple people, so I am personally not very sure whether that career is the right path for me, especially when I'll be competing against people who have been programming seriously since their early teens. The reason I'm enrolled in those courses right now is because I view programming as a useful skill - sort of like learning to play a musical instrument or learning to speak a foreign langu… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/14 12:05 AM |
| 2 | More women in tech failures. UK woman in charge of the 3M pound "Learn to Code" Initiative has no idea how to code.I agree with you. Programming is an important skill, but at the end of the day it is just a tool (albeit a very useful one) that can (and should) be easily combined with other fields. It's like learning a foreign language: being proficient in one alone won't help very much, but if you work in a separate industry and know a couple of languages, the rewards are much greater. But for one to truly be a good programmer, I would say they still have to at least master the basics - at a bare minimum, da… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/14 04:11 PM |
| 8 | More women in tech failures. UK woman in charge of the 3M pound "Learn to Code" Initiative has no idea how to code."girl geeks" and "ladies learning code" groups I was part of a women's science/engineering club briefly last semester at my school, but soon discovered that they weren't actually there to discuss new ideas and/or teach the girls anything really practical that would aid in expanding their skillsets. They struck me as more of a campaign to get more women into these fields, rather than emphasizing technical skills like their co-ed counterpart. There is no "men's science/engineering club" on my camp… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/14 03:52 PM |
| 15 | More women in tech failures. UK woman in charge of the 3M pound "Learn to Code" Initiative has no idea how to code.I think their priorities are misplaced. Rather than teaching young children how to code, they should be emphasizing basic computer literacy first - what a word processor, search engine, and various other things are, and how to use them. Those skills are a lot more widely applicable across all industries, not just the technology sector. Yes, it is true that society needs people who can program - but the question is whether or not they are actually any good at it. As another poster suggested, in o… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/14 08:02 AM |
| 3 | Request: Guide to Making a RPWThe reason many teenage girls are ideal candidates for RPW is that they have not had many opportunities to taste the easy rewards of using their SMV to seize advantage. That's another way of looking at it, I guess. Another reason (the one I had in mind when I posted earlier) would be the fact that since RPW is basically a strategy for women to find high-quality men that tends to work more often than not, it would be better to let young women to know about it as soon as possible at an age when th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/14 08:10 AM |
| 5 | Request: Guide to Making a RPWfostering her mindset of consciously prioritizing the relationship Interesting that you should mention that... I've noticed that there are certain aspects of the RP lifestyle that can be learned 'through osmosis' (i.e. by simply being around a significant other who is RP), but others that can't for some reason. I think that might be due to the attractiveness of other alternatives to prioritizing the relationship, such as being successful career-wise. But of course, if you have a career that requ… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/14 01:40 AM |
| 3 | Request: Guide to Making a RPWI definitely think a candidate RPW should be young - late teens/early 20's sounds like a good range. But it depends on the girl - while it may be true that younger girls are more impressionable, they may also be quite immature and generally short-sighted due to their age as well. I've mentioned this in another thread, but I'll say it again: family background matters more than most people think. I was raised by a very "Red Pill" mother, and she is the reason I am a RPW at a relatively young age. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/14 11:05 PM |
| 3 | Question for RPW from a man, regarding the odds of meeting a women like you?Just to add on to this post - another thing to look for in younger women is their family backgrounds. I am also 19 and the daughter of a highly capable mother with a very Red Pill mentality, and was heavily influenced by her when I was small. Of course I also did a lot of thinking and observing on my own and decided that what she told me was reasonable, but she is probably the biggest reason I am a RPW at such a young age. Family influences matter more than most people expect. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/14 11:36 PM |
| 3 | As a guy, should I sub?By all means subscribe if you want, though for you I'd recommend going to /r/TheRedPill since it's geared towards men, whereas this sub is mainly concerned with the female perspective and thus not as immediately relevant. But you're always welcome to lurk here if you wish! | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/14 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with feminists outside of RPWUnless they specifically come to bother me about something (via a comment reply or PM), I've decided that going out of my way to argue with them is not useful. The thing about the Red Pill is that for people to really "get" it, it takes either life experiences or close observation of other people (or both). Most feminists today seem to fall within the younger demographics (so not much going for them in terms of life experiences), and a lot of them are extremely vocal over relatively insignifican… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/14 10:25 PM |
| 4 | There's a thread on r/askwomen about red pill womenAs someone who regularly visits the RPW sub, what's most appalling to me is the near-total lack of reading comprehension among the people in /r/askwomen. They attack us for supposedly having said things that were never actually said in the first place. One comment that stuck out to me was the one about how men used the RP philosophy to justify their "playing games" while their wives/girlfriends cooked/cleaned/gave birth. I can guarantee that no one in either TRP or RPW has actually ever said thi… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/14 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Why should I join the Red Pill?I completely agree with you on all points. What the vast majority of modern feminists fail to realize is that in an event like this, both parties are at fault. Obviously the man is wrong, but the woman is also wrong for not taking all the necessary precautions in the first place. Now if the woman did everything that was needed to keep herself safe but still got raped due to misfortune, that would be a different story. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/14 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Why should I join the Red Pill?Why don't you do it? It was your idea; besides, I'm sure the results would be interesting for a lot of people. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/01/14 11:07 PM |
| 4 | Why should I join the Red Pill?High five! :D Seriously, I have a feeling there are actually more of us here than either of us may expect. I usually tend to lurk here instead of posting. Maybe that's what most of them are doing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/01/14 06:26 AM |
| 3 | Why should I join the Red Pill?Thanks for the compliment, but I can also be VERY immature/unreasonable when it comes to some things. :P I'm not perfect - nobody is - but at least I'm willing to work on improving and actually getting somewhere. Virtually everyone else on this sub is the same way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/01/14 05:50 AM |
| 5 | Why should I join the Red Pill?I'm pretty sure that's what some people would actually call me. The worst part about it is that they'd likely also be 100% serious... | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/01/14 01:57 AM |
| 16 | Why should I join the Red Pill?heavy on the "self acceptance" and low on the "personal accountability." For me, this is one of the most attractive qualities of RPW - the notion that we as women have responsibility, and can actively make various lifestyle choices to help ourselves. For example, going to a sketchy bar and getting drunk clearly puts a woman in a vulnerable position for potentially getting raped, but much of the modern feminist mentality doesn't assign any blame to the woman at all, even though she obviously coul… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/01/14 01:39 AM |
| 3 | Former feminist here. Looking to bounce some ideas off you ladies... (long)Thanks; your original post makes more sense now. I'm curious about the small hump in the graph in the 1670's and 1680's... what was going on then, especially considering that there were virtually no other mentions of feminism in comparable time periods? | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/01/14 12:54 AM |
| 3 | Former feminist here. Looking to bounce some ideas off you ladies... (long)Very interesting; I didn't know that the women's rights movement and the modern feminist movement were actually separate from each other. I always thought that advocating women's rights was considered part of first-wave feminism. Or am I not understanding something here? | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/01/14 12:43 AM |
| 1 | intelligent women?I don't think being good at complex math is necessarily a turn-off for men; it's just not among their top priorities when they evaluate a woman. There's absolutely nothing wrong with it (and being good at math won't drive them away); it's just that they tend to value other qualities (e.g. sweet personality, sense of humor, willingness to listen, etc.) more. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/13 11:35 PM |
| 27 | Norwegian woman puts up post-birth selfie. Fat feminists go crazy.Why are other women reacting negatively to this? If anything, I actually feel happy for her and encouraged. It makes me realize that should I ever have a kid in the future, it is possible for me to still look great afterwards. Maybe that's just me, though - I've always had the "if others can do it, so can I!" mentality for as long as I can remember. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/13 10:11 AM |
| 11 | LURKERS! Im calling you out...Lurker here - I've never posted in this sub before this, though I did a couple of times on TRP before I really figured out what it was all about. I'm a 19 year old girl in college. I guess you could say I was raised by parents with a very "Red Pill" mentality. They always emphasized that men and women had different needs, and that I shouldn't compare myself to men. Cooking and cleaning were always seen as extremely important skills in my household, and weren't viewed condescendingly. We were jus… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/13 03:18 AM |
| 6 | The Female ProblemTo be fair, though, the question she's asking is pretty thought-provoking and definitely worth considering, as evidenced by the number of substantive responses here. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/13 12:52 PM |
| 4 | Seen this so many times over the last 12 years. Woman tries to work as hard as a man in the IT world, with predictable resultsI agree. It's important for everyone, including women, to be aware of their own limits, and to know what they can and can't do. It's no secret that people are wired differently, and that especially goes for people of different genders. Once they realize this, they will be more realistic in terms of their goals. This isn't to say that the woman in this article is completely incapable of performing exceptionally well in an IT job, but in order to do so, she has to sacrifice her other responsibilit… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/13 06:31 AM |
| 1 | My god, r/gonewild is absolutely disgusting post-TRP.Sorry. It was very late when I typed that, and I sort of just did so spontaneously without really thinking about it. I didn't know so many people would take issue with it (though I will acknowledge it was wholly unnecessary). I'll be sure to remember not to in the future. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/13 12:50 AM |
| 2 | My god, r/gonewild is absolutely disgusting post-TRP.You've brought up some very good points. I should have noted in my original post that I was specifically talking about the girls who post on /r/gonewild, and not actresses who pose nude or other models. At least an actress is getting paid for her time. The girls on /r/gonewild aren't. That's why it doesn't really make sense that they would do so. I can't think of any other thing that those girls would gain besides receiving attention. Now, I'm aware that there's a sub called "gone Bitcoin" (or s… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/13 12:41 AM |
| 4 | My god, r/gonewild is absolutely disgusting post-TRP.Good point. Then again, everyone likes to be praised, regardless of their gender. It's a challenge for all of us to value learning and accomplishment for their own sake. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/13 01:29 PM |
| 12 | My god, r/gonewild is absolutely disgusting post-TRP.Well, I got a good discussion out of you. :) More than anything, your comments forced me to re-evaluate my statements and to think. That's always valuable no matter what. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/13 12:50 PM |
| 7 | My god, r/gonewild is absolutely disgusting post-TRP.I wouldn't say that. :P Even if it doesn't say much about their character in general, it does tell me at the very least that they are insecure, because what exactly do they gain from it besides receiving praise from anonymous strangers? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/13 12:32 PM |
| 3 | My god, r/gonewild is absolutely disgusting post-TRP.I see. My mistake, then - I didn't quite understand what point you were trying to make in your previous post. Probably a more precise way to put it would be to say that I personally don't respect that kind of behavior from the girls on /r/gonewild. But that is not meant to be an indictment of their character in general. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/13 12:20 PM |
| 6 | My god, r/gonewild is absolutely disgusting post-TRP.Apologies - I'm pretty new around here. I read through the introduction and posting guidelines but don't recall seeing that phrase being mentioned as a red flag. I'll be sure to remember in the future though - thanks! | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/13 12:11 PM |
| 2 | My god, r/gonewild is absolutely disgusting post-TRP.unafraid to stand up for itself Ah... looks like you and I have differing interpretations of this point. What if I told you that I seriously have no interest in that kind of thing (at least not at this point in my life)? Now don't get me wrong - I'm not asexual, but I currently have far more important things to do and I want to take advantage of my young age to learn as much as I can. Shouldn't I have the freedom to do whatever I want? If so, then shouldn't I also be able to choose not to get in… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/13 11:59 AM |
| 20 | My god, r/gonewild is absolutely disgusting post-TRP.Call me a prude, but as a girl I think the girls who post in /r/gonewild have absolutely zero self-respect. If they want to be praised so badly, why can't they go out and actually do something praiseworthy? Write an amazing story, draw an incredible picture, do some hands-on project... seriously, anything. The results will be far more rewarding, and they might even learn something valuable in the process. There's none of that in posting nude pics of themselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/13 11:12 AM |
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