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Basura
/r/seduction24/08/22 11:06 AM
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Cool. Me too, sometimes.
/r/seduction21/08/22 06:29 PM
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Yeahhh. So's your blue check mark! Congrats on your shorties, the truth shall set you free!
/r/seduction21/08/22 05:41 PM
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Who said he was poor? Shit just isn't easy to come by, and that's his flex. Stop slut shaming his watch
/r/seduction21/08/22 01:49 PM
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You're doing too much.
/r/seduction30/06/22 01:30 AM
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Ah. Now that used to be answered by Cosmopolitan! Alas, us men cannot help you out with that!
/r/seduction13/06/22 12:43 PM
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Yo. I hear where you're coming from. But that kind of logic is really ratchet and childish. There may be real women who'll react this way, but we should be encouraging this brother in seduction to give her an opportunity with her head on right.
/r/seduction26/05/22 03:06 PM
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Nah. I'd rather be off the radar. That's my peace and if you can't vibe where we met, and you don't want to vibe further, we are fine. I've got my peace of mind.
/r/seduction24/05/22 06:53 AM
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I dunno! Don't know how I do it, but when I get IOI's, or she keeps herself available to me, I manage to get enough time to make a joke, Introduce myself and somehow manage the ante for a phone number on the back of a bet or something.
/r/seduction23/05/22 05:40 PM
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Ever hear of Internal Family Systems? It's a therapy practice where you pretty much do this to all the versions of yourself that manifest out of trauma.
/r/seduction21/05/22 12:56 AM
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Nah. A new chick who can't wrap their heads around the emotional maturity it takes to keep long lasting platonic relationships that way, weather be it man or woman isn't worth keeping around.
/r/seduction17/05/22 03:17 PM
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Nah. Bob needs love, too. He and I gon' be alright.
/r/seduction13/05/22 03:35 PM
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Right? What the fuck is this that he thinks we're out here playing games with this shit? What's wrong with honest game? "No hard feelings." If that's honest, play on, playa!
/r/seduction13/05/22 11:16 AM
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Nono. Some other chicky invited me to Vegas...... I'm not thirsty enough! But thank you, fam!
/r/seduction10/05/22 02:34 PM
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Just got invited to Vegas! Maybe I will!
/r/seduction10/05/22 01:43 PM
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I guess I have something in common with Lenny D!
/r/seduction09/05/22 04:19 AM
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Her and Brené Brown are amazing. Yanno, I've been working on my frame and my state of mind, lately, and those ladies (and the people they talk to) really help put things into perspective. But we're usually coming at subjects like this collectively from a place of hurt, and sometimes it blurs our senses to the point where it just gets hard to hear. Anyway, that's enough opening up on the internet on a public forum. Stay safe out there, Sister.
/r/seduction09/05/22 04:12 AM
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Wrong games. You play the shit that showcases your brain. The shit that activates you. Be intentional, start the day with Love Letter, go into word association and flirt with Codenames, and then after an hour of that and flirting, you bust out some of those intimacy building card games? BOOM! Nice date and you didn't have to change venues, unless you went to a dinner or whatever. I'd surely offer options though in case homegirl is not feeling it. But I'd use it as my closer for a second date.
/r/seduction09/05/22 03:58 AM
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Word - if this is the kind of woman you want, lead with this, and lean into it -HARD. Make it part of your intentions. Talk about it passionately, offer alternatives and focus on games you can get in and out of in 15 minutes. If she doesn't like the game, move on to the next one and offer variety. Either she will fall in love with the passion, the creativity of the activity, your mind, the interaction, or she won't, and this board game thing is a turn-off, but that's alright, because you weren't…
/r/seduction09/05/22 03:54 AM
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Yo. Word up - this is the kind of game I've been running. And if you count what I count as sucess, it's been a 100% positive vibe ration from the moment I drop a 'line' to the time I get to just keep vibing. Numbers are cool and all, but showing up with the best version of yourself that you're out there making a better environment all around you, the more people get attracted to that altogether.
/r/seduction08/05/22 12:46 PM
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Take her on a date. Be intentional. You can speak your truth and be vulnerable, but know to a point what matters most are your terms. Your protections. What do you want out of this and what does she want? Look. Even if y'all don't get married a 'relationship' (which y'all already have) requires negotiation. And if part of it turns out you can't trust her, then whatever. You already weren't hot on the offer. That's fine. You don't need to smash every opportunity you get to smash. All of that is c…
/r/seduction05/05/22 09:11 PM
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Word, brother. A wrong slip in this situation where her head isn't on right, and later it can come out that -you- raped -her-. This is sexual assault. You handled it like a champ, but we're not endorsing this shit just because she's cute. She needs to come as correct as we needed to learn how to grow up and handle our hormones through being attracted. Great post! Upvote.
/r/seduction03/05/22 12:04 AM
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Said 'hi.' Got a number. Was too social? .......It's okay to admit you're on the spectrum - I can be kinder with that kind of space. But if 'Hi' is too high a bar for you, buddy... Life is gonna be rough, man.
/r/seduction02/05/22 11:04 AM
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It's unbelievable how many people perceive approaches by a seduction point of view to be considered cringy, when the truth of the matter is innocuous conversation starters are often not considered approaches. We call them that, because the inverse is approache anxiety. We get in our heads. The thought is that if you don't have a reason to talk to this chick, or even some dude you find attractive is for fear of rejection - But what if you weren't getting rejected? What if for the express purpose …
/r/seduction25/04/22 08:47 PM
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Frame, brother. It's about frame. I get you. I'm starting to reel back on an old friend who's playing the same shit with me with 1 word answers. Difference is, I know I'm on her mind, and she knows she's not the only one.
/r/seduction25/04/22 11:12 AM
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You okay, girl? You know why we're here? How can we be more helpful?
/r/seduction25/04/22 11:10 AM
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Thanks for the insight, Fam.
/r/seduction16/04/22 03:00 AM
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I know it is. You know it is. But she likes him, and he's a fool
/r/seduction28/03/22 07:58 PM
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'Yeah, I get that a lot." I dunno. She might be interested. Or she might be a really good friend.
/r/seduction28/03/22 06:37 PM
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Propose a workout date, walk her through a park with chess pieces and take her home for a jam session. Stopping at the park for hot dogs or a picnic.
/r/seduction25/03/22 03:30 PM
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I see that, man.... I see that!
/r/seduction25/03/22 03:16 PM
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I like you, u/weary_horse5749!
/r/seduction25/03/22 06:13 AM
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Working out. Minding my fashion. Rebuilding my family unit. Reaching social groups and therapizing. It's a lot, but recovery road has got me.
/r/seduction25/03/22 06:11 AM
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Ugh.
/r/seduction16/03/22 02:06 AM
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Maybe they're polyamorous and not into the hotwife style?
/r/seduction08/03/22 04:35 PM
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Data collection for a Social Psychiatric hypothesis. We should be looking out for articles on societal receptiveness to male vulnerability after sexual encounters for the average looking woman sometime soon. .......and for those "not like the other girls" from fds, and the rest of the 'toxic masculinity' crowd, weather or not this actually happened, it does happen, and it's a common lesson in human empathy. Yeah, he needs help, and maybe she was just there at the worst time. But that doesn't giv…
/r/seduction23/02/22 07:54 PM
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Of course. Yes. This goes both ways. She may like him, or she may be using him as an emotional support blanket. Leaving things ambiguous on both sides is what leads to trauma. We all are in agreement that he should draw the line somewhere.
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:00 PM
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Fuck you. Stop this. Thanks.
/r/seduction20/10/21 02:58 PM
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We get brigaded by female dating strategy users. They're toxic as fuck and encourage this kind of behavior instead of using honesty and communication to turn down men. Further adding toxicity and confusion to dating.
/r/seduction20/10/21 02:27 PM
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Kid, I'm fine. I am not out here looking to put my dick in everything with a heartbeat. This was a long time ago.
/r/seduction27/09/21 04:25 PM
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I was high when I read that, and responded. And it came across as self defeating. Soooo. Yeah. I stand by the comment. I guess the context brings up a different clarification. But you still don't make good rice without burning your pots and you don't get good at seducing without practicing some of this stuff.
/r/seduction11/09/21 04:35 AM
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The fuck kind of defeatist response is this? This ain't a poor man's game, son. You don't win by playing patsy to their panties. Make yourself present as a viable sexual option. Only way to do that is baby steps and fails. Burn your pots - make better rice. I never want to hear this shit ass attitude from your mouth - ya hear!?
/r/seduction10/09/21 05:23 AM
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I've started to take on a persona that's 95% seduction, and like, 5% polyamory. Along with the "fun" side of things with seduction, I quote some of my favorite raps, and Karaoke to some of my favorite songs that feature polyamory prominently. I'm unashamedly flirtatious, and will casually mention my relationships. Often it is openly admitted, what I am offering to a single lady, and tons of times, when the expectations are set, I've been having some positive experiences. Casual relationships do …
/r/seduction01/09/21 09:54 PM
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Another tip about making it better for you with condoms: Make it part of your foreplay routine. Put them on when you're semi flaccid, naked, and making out so that you can give it time to set itself to your temperature. It'll make the feeling inside her feel so much more natural
/r/seduction28/08/21 07:35 PM
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Girl. How do you feel about yourself. You got the stuff? Look. The worst he can do or say is no, and the whole entire premise of this seduction game is if you tryin' to fuck, and this is a numbers game, then play the numbers. Realistically though, banging and relationships make different goals and you can't pressure whoever your crush is into sticking around based on a fantasy version of them. So talk it out. Ask him out. Have a feel for him and figure out what y'all can offer each other if at a…
/r/seduction28/08/21 07:28 PM
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Yo. What is up with your post history? You just put up like 4 posts back to back asking about disparate crush related type posts. Are you going through puberty?
/r/seduction28/08/21 07:09 PM
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Basura. Just straight. Basura.
/r/seduction24/08/21 03:48 PM
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You're beautiful, homie. Horrible comment thread. That other girl is trash. And I'm assuming her gender here, yes, but 9/10 it's an FDS user.
/r/seduction24/08/21 03:46 PM
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Sure. We believe it at face value. Fine. All the bullshit women tell us needs to be listened to as a response for what is said, EVEN THOUGH, almost always never what is meant. We have problems communicating, everyone. All the time. In casual situations like this, in the deep when you're in a 5 year relationship, in a relationship when you say forever and you break up 3 months later. Look, we lied. You lie. I lie. Mom and Dad lied, and it isn't so much the lie we should eat and take to believe th…
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:42 PM
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Maaaan, some of us just wanted to go on dates. We'll take it from there.
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:23 PM
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We don't know what he did. His account is one sided. What we can assume based on his post is his behavior directly led to missing the opportunity to attract - and according to his account, if we extrapolate from data we don't have, can only collectively speculate on pitfalls so he could get better results. Seduction gets a lot of flak from outsiders as we're looking to manipulate girls. Nah, consent is important. We love women. We want more women seducing men, and hell, personally I'd love to se…
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:18 PM
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Emotional dumping on a new person you meet is an objectively unattractive trait. Now, I want you to understand those of us on Seddit don't think you don't know what you're talking about - you know you. But in the art of seduction, and in the interest of attracting even you, emotionally dumping on anyone lends them to being susceptible to emotional manipulation if you take it in at first meet. A lot of people are turned off by this behavior because of this. Being vulnerable -in- a relationship is…
/r/seduction05/08/21 01:35 PM
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Anne Lamott's "Shitty First Drafts" is fantastic too
/r/seduction04/08/21 04:51 PM
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Spot on, man. Look, I used to be one of these dudes. But I came here to learn. I came here to learn the game, and what skillset I was lacking to even get a girl to like me. But among those dudes? The same with the toxic mindset who work on this stuff for real? Pay attention to inner game and get those moments of self reflection? A lot of the better ones sincerely come here to break the chains that build that mindset. Dunno if redpilling is still a thing, but what made Seduction so much better in…
/r/seduction28/06/21 05:41 PM
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Yeah. Uh.... you suck.
/r/seduction17/06/21 09:26 PM
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:/ damn. This is fucked and really hits close to home. Like on a psychological level. Is it bad to recognize the dichotomy between how to humanze them, and what it means for us to be human? They're not the same thingand the standards are wayyyy off base for us. I got fucking lucky with my long term partners. This 'game' shit? It's a whole other level of playing roulette with whether or not a lady is even worth persuing.
/r/seduction15/06/21 04:14 PM
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Here's a thought. Can you recommend a subreddit?
/r/seduction29/05/21 04:07 PM
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Neat trick. Requires the right kind of frame and rapport to be set beforehand. Fellas in here talking down this technique probably aren't at the point of considering techniques to brush off their game. Actually, I'm seeing a ton talking down on this sub lately when it comes to suggestions on posts in outer game/technique/social tricks/social hacks to learn to be comfortable by. Guys, seduction is cringe as fuck. Doing these things to get women to like you is an arduous endeavour as it is. Being …
/r/seduction23/10/20 01:31 PM
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Indicators of interest
/r/seduction21/10/20 07:31 PM
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I also feel like the name gets a bad rap from outsider brigades. I had a conversation with a few subscribers to /r/FemaleDatingStrategy and THAT sub is toxic as fuck.
/r/seduction20/05/20 11:19 AM
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When the sub is helpful, the talk about inner game is the best advice out of here. Congruence and abundance mentality helps when your goal isn't to pick up chicks. The better of us may see how self development with a healthy approach attempt creates positive outcomes, but really it's just resocializing ourselves that produces the best.
/r/seduction24/03/20 08:17 PM
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You're right. The anxiety is cyclical. Somebody's gotta put a stop to it. This is my argument for seduction
/r/seduction23/03/20 12:05 AM
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Aight. This post isn't about this. But let's bring to light all these questions and the reason bitterness and resentment get bred in some of those who get turned here. Honestly, this is the society we live in and it shouldn't be okay. This is what makes us human too, and we really do want to be loved, but you create people like this and it's a cycle that needs a cutoff. As for comment poster: don't let this bitterness turn you black [at heart]. We're here for a reason and all those insecurities …
/r/seduction22/03/20 11:48 PM
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r/femaledatingstrategy It seems pretty toxic, and the brigading going on here feels like it's coming from a crowd. Thank you for your insights and engagement.
/r/seduction22/03/20 10:30 PM
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What I'm implying is there seems to be some kind of brigading going on here. But now that it's on front street, I want to talk about our implications. Implications are intentional. Most of our users do not imply what we do not mean. We're a simple folk, and lawd jesus if I don't ever believe any woman is smarter than me so help me, gawd. Let's be real, the mentality of what we don't say with our words or our bodies is what brings us to this general misunderstanding in the first place. It's why w…
/r/seduction22/03/20 10:12 PM
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But is it a freedom we should take lightly? Shame is not a very good motivator. It is not the carrot to endure that drives us to be better people. It is more likely to create rude people, who's ambitions of vengeance create monsters inside us. Is the continued inner struggle worth it for you? In the end the shamer alone stands out the ugliest. Shame. Go ahead and shame. But this community isn't about that. The majority of us seek guidance for swlf improvement.
/r/seduction22/03/20 10:04 PM
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Holy Christ your post history! Just browsing your favorite subreddit is part of the combative extreme reason why we're here in the first place. Holy shit no wonder guys turn ugly. With this mentality how can you respect your partner to choose you when his options are open? It's as if it's shameful to look for a mate who compliments your lifestyle, or seek someone who will be a part of your team. It's alright that somebody hurt you, but it's uglier when you can't find compassion.
/r/seduction22/03/20 10:00 PM
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Why should I have to? Because we reserve the right to remain shitty to each other? Especially in a space where we're trying to build ourselves out of staying alone? Why are you defending the right to be shitty?
/r/seduction22/03/20 09:50 PM
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The point of this sub from the top down is largely self improvement. It's fine that you call the bullshit out. I do. (Not all the time, I am no longer an active member of this community) But it's also very rude to troll and harass, and doesn't inspire any positive growth from the call to action. I'm not saying we're perfect or batting a hunnit. There are overarching patriarchal issues that are VERY apparent and wrong about how we treat each other, but it goes both ways here. Learning about psych…
/r/seduction22/03/20 09:48 PM
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I have. It makes it seem like we're being brigaded
/r/seduction22/03/20 07:45 PM
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and his post history... it is cringe as fuck. a "26 year old" trolling teen subreddits, asking questions in ask seddit, and being a general cunt all over the reddits. what the even fuck, man? edit: 16 year old girl? I dunno. jesus. it's still cringey as fuck.
/r/seduction22/03/20 07:34 PM
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Please fuck off with your logic and wanting to have normal relationships. We're here to manipulate people for personal gain like real men. 😎😎 is this sub... currently being trolled by outside opinions? What the fuck even is this comment?
/r/seduction22/03/20 07:24 PM
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Just start rolling d20s every 2 minutes next time y'all are at the table. It'll show her there's some pressure to the situation and she needs to respond before rocks fall over and she dies.
/r/seduction26/07/19 05:14 PM
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+1, this isn't what this sub is about. Get the fuck outta here with that shit.
/r/seduction02/03/19 02:05 AM
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:/
/r/seduction22/08/18 04:46 AM
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Kinesthetic [attention] in this case. Appropriate touches usually combined with banter, an appropriate compliment, or light conversation.
/r/seduction18/08/18 10:10 PM
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With all of these comments, there's a bit of wisdom. You mind posting up an update with your experience after?
/r/seduction18/08/18 07:04 PM
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The argument of inner game still stands: work out, find a better haircut, dress better, it's all part of the inner game portfolio. I can see where the cultural difference applies, and as relevant as it seems, exuding confidence in the landscape in your intent is a universal lesson in congruence.
/r/seduction01/07/17 03:19 PM
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I'm sorry, man. I don't think this is the right course of action here. The reason inner game is in vogue is cause it shines genuineness to your target. From what I can tell, he's showing signs of intent while putting off these girls straight away - it shows by the way they react to him just introducing himself. It's more a sign of calibrating congruency, which can go two ways, in your case, not being clear with intent, which may be true and then this would be appropriate. But the second instance…
/r/seduction30/06/17 08:05 PM
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Am I an uncommonly breed of chubby chaser?
/r/seduction29/03/17 01:14 PM
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This is an amazing thread. All the emotional support for one of our brothers come from the woodwork in a moment of weakness. It's absolut beautiful
/r/seduction04/08/16 08:58 PM
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Dude. I used to be in the same boat as you. Believe it or not, women still come on to me when I am oblivious or felt like I was too ugly to ever feel wanted and a plethora of low self esteem issues, but if it's obvious, then you have to take advantage of the situation and play the game. Reading the sidebar is a start, but being comfortable in your own skin is important to let yourself enjoy the company of a girl who obviously wants yours.
/r/seduction04/08/16 04:10 PM
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Gotta get outta your head man. Try meditating. It should help you stay present.
/r/seduction22/07/16 08:02 PM
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Saved. I need this right now.
/r/seduction22/05/16 05:02 PM
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/r/dnd
/r/seduction08/04/16 10:13 PM
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Well, I don't quite do voices. Sometimes I put on a light earthy voice, and speak with an accent if I need to, but after a character description and setting her demeanor, I just commence dialogue. I don't sexualize any of her aspects in case any of my players want to get frisky with her, I'm not much of a fan roleplaying hookups. But if they're interested in persuing anything, I make them roll whichever diplomacy check is relevant for what they want to accomplish, and mark down any relevant NPC …
/r/seduction04/04/16 07:23 PM
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I'm not.
/r/seduction06/02/16 10:01 PM
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Hey, man. I'm on rejection number 63. They all sucked. Only thing I'm learning here is to roll it off, and keep working on me.
/r/seduction05/02/16 09:32 PM
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So what happens when you've known her for a couple of months and she still rejects you?
/r/seduction05/02/16 08:41 PM
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Making yourself too available for her is a thing. Like clearing your plans so that she can occupy them makes you seem too easy. What have you enjoyed thoroughly if it came that easy?
/r/seduction30/01/16 04:29 PM
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o _o Were you about to mug her?
/r/seduction25/12/15 11:15 PM
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Ditto. I like that... What's wrong with it?
/r/seduction11/12/15 07:44 PM
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I like this response. Stay here. Your insight could be useful without a gender bias - but to avoid that don't advertise being a girl - you make a spectacle of yourself.
/r/seduction21/11/15 01:05 AM
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At least the 23rd thing people will most definitely say about him.
/r/seduction10/09/15 03:33 AM
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/r/hugreddit I need to figure out how to run that place :/
/r/seduction27/07/15 10:14 PM
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Holy shit... Ok. Yeah. I'll PM you
/r/seduction02/07/15 06:41 PM
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:/ Florida here. I'd have loved to help you game, man.
/r/seduction25/06/15 06:49 PM
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Hey, man. Where you at?
/r/seduction25/06/15 04:48 PM
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He never said he was asking them out.
/r/seduction03/06/15 12:46 AM
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Along with what everyone said, don't jump the gun. Be curteous. Say Hi, enjoy a conversation, maybe flirt if you're the flirtatious type, but don't act weird or get too touchy (low kino with handshakes and the such.) She's maybe already been sold to you if you're that kind of guy for your friend, so you don't have to work too hard. Just get her number and stay aloof and friendly. Don't fuck shit up by giving her a backhanded compliment (actually, stay away from those altogether), and don't flat …
/r/seduction21/05/15 01:18 PM
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Work on yourself dude. If you work a shift with her stay strictly professional and turn on your charm elsewhere. It would be appreciated by her as well, but you've got to polarize
/r/seduction20/05/15 06:01 PM
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Hey, um... I'm not here for the prospect of just getting pussy. I'm not too sure what's been going on in this sub as of late, because I tend to read the same drivel, and reposts, but r/seduction used to be about how to be, build, and convey attraction confidently. Not all of us have pussy in mind as end game, and if you really think this sub is about that, then do I have a surprise for you... r/theredpill must be more in line with what you're looking for in emotionally manipulative men. Leave th…
/r/seduction19/05/15 02:45 PM
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Put her in her place The pedestal! Right? Right! No wait... this is how i got here in the first place :/
/r/seduction16/05/15 07:22 PM
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Nah, man. I get it. You have to put more value to what you're getting to appreciate the moment with these people.
/r/seduction16/05/15 11:21 AM
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I'd headbutt the fuck out of you for that display of disrespect. It doesn't have shit to do with the girl by that point. You're just an asshole.
/r/seduction15/05/15 11:43 PM
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Kid... Just walk away... Labeling you as a "beta," calling you "pussy," or a 'bitch' is not the kind of environment you want to be putting yourself in so get yourself out. Game away from them, ignore them, and if they give you shit tests, keep smiling, respond with a firm rejection of their company and isolate your target. I befriended a dude because of how I ignored him while gaming his target. In the long run it didn't help me, but it phased the shit out of him for a little while.
/r/seduction15/05/15 04:19 PM
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Look, man. I know this isn't the place to promote pedantic socially autistic redditisms, but fuck is your use of "you're" bothering the shit out of me. These women are not his. We're not talking about his possessions, and frankly i wouldnt even give a shit if you miss a capital i, or legitimately leave out the apostrophe to a unique conraction. But 7 times in one post with some semblance of grammatical knowledge and punctuation just shows how unfazed you are (you're? Idk) how the use of homynoms…
/r/seduction12/05/15 04:34 PM
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Honest question: as a pharmacist, don't you find knowledge of these ladies' medical needs/conditions a bit... Disparaging?
/r/seduction12/05/15 01:55 PM
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In case you don't get them, read a bit on the text associated with the comic. A bit of education in many topics is usually relevant to the jokes.
/r/seduction11/05/15 01:04 AM
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Lol
/r/seduction06/05/15 09:46 PM
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Oh, that's lovely. I got a message just like that here. What kind of people would do that?
/r/seduction24/04/15 05:28 PM
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What'd he say?
/r/seduction24/04/15 05:13 PM
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Sooo... Their life is a berkel test failure.
/r/seduction03/04/15 04:55 PM
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I have a pet goldfish (things that don't matter). Is he here? (Be congruent). (My personal favorite) Thanks, but I'm not interested in guys
/r/seduction03/04/15 04:39 PM
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These are called shit tests the rest of the time, bro.
/r/seduction03/04/15 04:30 PM
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I could not get into that conversation... I'd look like a tard. Unless they actually looked cool, and then she mentioned they we're yeezys wed never get to 808s. Let alone heartbreakers
/r/seduction03/04/15 03:29 PM
-5

Approach the ugliest or red herring of the bunch. It will impress the others and set the bar to non threatening. When approaching the whole group initiate light Kino on everyone. And make sure you either single out your target girl, or make her feel included. Or ignored. That can work too. But you have to be meticulously charming to pull that off.
/r/seduction02/04/15 05:27 PM
1

Hold on. Kiss carry on...
/r/seduction02/04/15 03:45 PM
2

I love it. Going to make this my next opener. Maybe even exclaim she's a hooker
/r/seduction31/03/15 04:39 PM
1

Only thing they all have in common is scarcity
/r/seduction27/03/15 07:11 PM
5

The I button on the top will take you to the subs' sidebar
/r/seduction27/03/15 05:53 PM
1

What are you on?
/r/seduction27/03/15 02:35 PM
5

We're not all PUAs. We're not learning pickup to collect X number of girls just so we can brag about our N count. Some of us just want to learn the gift of gab to be overall successful with women. Also - read the sidebar. Overcome approach anxiety by opening some sets, do some field reports, learn what you did wrong and build on your failures. GL
/r/seduction25/03/15 06:27 PM
1

Oh, and when she's on top of you, keeping your hands firm on her stomach and back as you slowly make your way to her breasts. But you don't do that without kissing her either.
/r/seduction24/03/15 02:44 PM
2

When she sits on top of you, crossing her legs over yours, that's an invitation to play with her inner thighs. If she's necking YOU, your hands should be all over her. Don't beeline to her pussy before you've warmed her thighs and have your hands on her waste. If she gives you a cheek, when you go for her lips you kiss her cheek, then jaw, as your forefinger and thumb grabs her chin to bring her face to you.
/r/seduction24/03/15 02:30 PM
1

Eye contact. Smile. The nod. The approach, a touch on the shoulder, an invitation to dance. A line for the kiss, she turns around, BOOM! Make out city. Touch her butt...
/r/seduction24/03/15 02:20 PM
1

I have no tips, bruh. Only thing I learned from this sub is that if they're not DTF, they're not worth your time, unless you have enough in common to keep them around as friends. There's an article I read the other day about Fuck Yes, or No, that if they're not excited to be around you, then they're not interested. But maybe there's an in for an FWB situation with them.
/r/seduction24/03/15 02:05 PM
1

You got anymore dates lined up with new girls?
/r/seduction24/03/15 01:50 PM
0

Ayo, whattup, sleezy. I tried daygaming in KIS on sunday. That city fuking blows for chicks. Went to the library, a few bars, walked in downtown. A damn ghost town overall. I AM knocking church. Don't want to meet girls at a sermon with her fam. What would you recommend is a local gathering spot for Sunday morning game in a rural predominantly Catholic area?
/r/seduction23/03/15 10:49 PM
1

What this guy said. And cut contact from the other girls.
/r/seduction23/03/15 09:56 PM
2

I read something about this... You're right, but she doesn't owe that as much to you, and the truth is that if there's heavy petting, the need intensifies, so there's a real danger here with the tease. So yea. The best thing to do is communicate why you shouldn't be petting and making out in the first place if it isn't going anywhere, and that you have needs, and if she needs to have her space respected, then you do too. Go play a videogame, or take a cold shower or anything to cool you down rig…
/r/seduction23/03/15 04:58 PM
3

Seems like you handled it pretty well. The point of shit tests are to see if they can alter your frame. If this was during a date or something and she pulled out her phone, it was pretty rude and disrespectful to bring it up. I don't like to play that. Go flirt with the waitress and see her react to it.
/r/seduction23/03/15 10:59 AM
5

You missed the point of my post. To each their own. Not everyone is a chubby chaser either. But confidence for lack of feeling good about the way we look is why we advocate inner game
/r/seduction23/03/15 09:23 AM
26

A seductive HB4 has a better chance at success than any unattractive man. That's why inner game has been perpetuated so we can be overall more attractive. Also, I'm not afraid to admit I like fat chicks. Although I get what you mean, seduction does come easier for women. Perhaps she actually lacks in being interesting, no stories to tell, and not enough life experience, though. Her looks don't hinder her as much as ours do. At least from inner game perspective. If she feels unattractive then I g…
/r/seduction23/03/15 01:02 AM
19

TIL, I have no testicles. Thanks.
/r/seduction23/03/15 12:56 AM
1

Only you would know, right? How long have you been in the game?
/r/seduction22/03/15 08:02 PM
6

Made another post. Enjoy.
/r/seduction22/03/15 08:01 PM
14

Ok. Just so that OP is not a bundle of sticks, I'll just tell all the times OP was at least a faggot. In high school, I had a very beautiful girl get her group of friends to catch me on my way down the main central hall. This was the most painful because it wasn't anything subtle, or seductive, she just straight up told me she was interested around all her dude bros. But I had just moved into the town and have been historically teased for my looks by attractive girls growing up, so I just figure…
/r/seduction22/03/15 08:01 PM
13

Many times. I am an idiot though and passed up all the chances. Their subtlety combined with my ineptitude was a recipe for disaster. I'd love to tell you all the tales, but I don't have the time to dedicate for elaborate detailed accounts of what happened. Remind me later.
/r/seduction22/03/15 02:58 PM
2

That's the thing, though. As a salesman you're more interested in how best you can fit their needs. There's no bullshit in between, and weather or not they regale their personal stories, the cut to the chase is that you have a product they need. How can you suit that to their liking? So let them spill their guts. They'll sing hard before you need to fill in the blanks with the product you're selling
/r/seduction22/03/15 02:51 PM
3

Very much so. Same in retail. Being in a positive state is infectious, and that's how you get people hungry for more.
/r/seduction22/03/15 02:32 PM
2

Assume attraction if you get an indication of interest. Don't assume you've won if you won't even start the battle. At least go in and find out if there is any interest by saying "Hi." or "excuse me." Smile, excuse yourself, invite them to wherever you're going, and if you need conversational lube, lie about the things you don't know. Convey intent (I usually do this by revealing the lie, but letting her know I found her beautiful and wanted the chance to speak to her). But always be closing. Yo…
/r/seduction22/03/15 02:29 PM
1

Lol. Are you new?
/r/seduction22/03/15 02:15 PM
3

Women ask questions here often, and if you ask you'd most likely get an answer, but the game is heavily in your favor - especially if you're an HB7+. If you're not, and you don't get approached, then I understand how seduction can work for you. But the ball goes both ways. There's attraction in confidence - people are interested in interesting people.
/r/seduction22/03/15 01:03 PM
1

"Wanna fuck?" I got this.
/r/seduction22/03/15 03:59 AM
1

AYO KDAWG. YOU DUN FUKT UP BIG TIME. "My tongue moves better than my hips."
/r/seduction22/03/15 03:59 AM
2

"Yes, Sir." 'Umm... Excuse me... I'm a lady!' "Not till I see proof!" This one got me to jump in a make out with 2 chicks - "looks like you two need some dick." True story.
/r/seduction22/03/15 03:56 AM
2

Consecutive*
/r/seduction22/03/15 03:41 AM
-1

Then they have a shitty sense of humor... All your women. They're all assholes. Not you. You're fine though.
/r/seduction22/03/15 03:29 AM
5

Lol... I get where these people are coming from... They're reading something cringey off the web - it comes off corney, too direct, so not smooth. But yea, sometimes it is ok to be awkward as long as you're in your own skin. One of my better nights in game ran on auto pilot. My vibes were dominating the room, and talking to this chick on the bar, Sisqo comes up with that thong song... It reminded me of a pickup line I read some time ago I thought was cringey as fuck when I saw it too, but whatev…
/r/seduction22/03/15 03:27 AM
24

It could cut a load of crap from the mind games and manipulative suggestions left by pop culture to cultivate negative feelings in human nature. But I'm more interested in the motivations.
/r/seduction22/03/15 01:37 AM
24

A lady practicing seduction, or learning how to differentiate a charmer from a scumbag?
/r/seduction22/03/15 12:17 AM
10

I still like this sub I know how to differentiate shit from gold though.
/r/seduction21/03/15 02:58 PM
1

I go bald by choice sometimes. I like the look. Embrace the look. Grow a beard. Be awesome.
/r/seduction17/03/15 04:45 PM
5

It means not to fear her liking or disliking you for your interests. It means that instead of finding out her interests so that one can aim to please, please oneself in the pursuit of her company. If it turns out it's not what she wants, it's up to her to weigh in her interest in you over her conflicting interests. This is basically permission to be assertive.
/r/seduction04/03/15 01:54 PM
1

Personal house problems fucking my head up when I get smiles often enough.
/r/seduction03/03/15 10:32 AM
1

It's not rational. I still feel ugly because the people i live with don't approach me. They often make me feel like shit.
/r/seduction02/03/15 09:54 PM
1

And don't add her if you see her that often.
/r/seduction02/03/15 09:42 PM
1

,
/r/seduction28/02/15 05:58 PM
1

You expect more out of us than we should expect of our target. Only once have i ever recieved an honest response from someone who out of the blue made themselves unavailable to me. I learned not to expect as much from anyone, so why do I have to submit to the psychology of scarcity when I'm being shit tested? Granted, my frame of mind at the moment (thanks to seddit) is that I shouldn't make any excuses to give in to shit tests and attraction games. I'm not answering this text because she's eith…
/r/seduction19/02/15 01:50 AM
2

SHE STARTED IT
/r/seduction19/02/15 01:40 AM
0

I need to read about "yeah?"
/r/seduction18/02/15 08:58 PM
1

:/ Hug, brother? That's all i got.
/r/seduction17/02/15 07:29 PM
1

I too get anxious for cold approaches. I have rationalized this by excusing myself on the basis that there is no professional or platonic foundation to open on as an excuse to fall back in case she loses interest. I do know i need to get out of that mindset to telegraph intent even outside of my charming personality, as it shows dishonesty in my interest with women.
/r/seduction17/02/15 07:24 PM
2

That's how it's been for me in central florida
/r/seduction17/02/15 04:12 PM
2

Alternative dating ideas for the homebody. I'm guessing instead of dinner at the garden and a movie at the theaters it could hopefully be at home.
/r/seduction17/02/15 02:03 PM
1

Sorry you feel that way, but men are usually in the butt end of social engineering to the point where quality men have been left cold and lonesome due to miscommunicated social awkwardness feuled by anxieties to repel the opposite sex. We're here doing our best to get a mate, learn and support each other with our journey through the path to confidence. Although it may be real confidence in the things we're more passionate about (our work, our hobbies, and personal tastes), the projection comes o…
/r/seduction17/02/15 06:08 AM
2

I am no fan of clubs. But the last time i went to a bar/club spot, i found it incredibly easy to escalate to that level. Opened up, met her friends, got to dancing and was able to manage a whisper (yell) to her ear that my tongue moves better than my lips... This was s fairly short ride, but dancing gives you the perfect excuse to check her out, touch her body, and prime her for a heightened sexual interaction.
/r/seduction16/02/15 05:39 PM
1

The vine isn't up anymore
/r/seduction14/02/15 07:16 PM
1

Now it is. It's better than "looks like you two need some dick." Which was more successful for me really < _<
/r/seduction14/02/15 06:49 PM
1

My bar is pretty chill and quiet.
/r/seduction14/02/15 06:39 PM
0

Day 1 with the girl left me lingering with her for most of the night. Im a pretty unlucky dude, and had regretdully overplayed my self depracating jokes to her dismay, yet she still affirmed attraction. I don't know how the hell i blew it, but in the first day, but we made a solid enough connection based on our affinity for games. So yea. That line was my openrr to solicit a kiss.
/r/seduction14/02/15 05:23 PM
2

Will do at the bar tonight. Will post results.
/r/seduction14/02/15 05:16 PM
1

Yes. Don't give it to a 9 year old
/r/seduction14/02/15 05:15 PM
0

"You ever heard of schrodinger's cat?"
/r/seduction14/02/15 05:11 PM
2

Don't do it, bro... I just turned off a chick this way, but that's not the depiction you want others to see in you.
/r/seduction14/02/15 12:08 AM
2

Oh this is wonderful
/r/seduction13/02/15 02:27 PM
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