Sapientharmony Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	What if we stopped caring so much? Ah, yes! Koffie is coffee in Dutch as well. I think we could probably understand each other if we were to speak in real life.	/r/seduction	30/06/19 01:53 PM
1	What if we stopped caring so much? That makes perfect sense. Your name gave it away. We both use the words "onbeschoft" (rude) en "schoffie" (brat) in Dutch. :-)	/r/seduction	22/06/19 01:22 PM
2	What if we stopped caring so much? Yes, this is key! I think the most effective way is to constantly work on your inner game and develop as a man, prepare with theory (mostly fundamentals), and when you are in the field just let go, be present and enjoy the process. Getting too much in our heads will be counterproductive. Afterwards you can always think about how the day/night went, analyze, make notes, and work on some pointers which will improve your process. Also, it's best to improve your game step-by-step, instead of bombard…	/r/seduction	17/06/19 09:03 PM
1	what to do when a woman insults you and it's not a shit test? Insults are taken, not given. Her intention seems to be a positive one. Like others have pointed out, it's probably a form of self-deprecation or maybe even her insecurity about her age shining through. These kind of statements are opportunities to show you are a confident and emotionally mature man. Like "puasd" suggested below, either agree, ignore, or exaggerate. Personally I love exaggerating. It works best in my experience, because you demonstrate you have humour and don't take yourself (or…	/r/seduction	17/06/19 08:54 PM
2	Social circle game - small penis, is it a bad idea? This is most definitely the case, my friend. And I applaud you for the honest self-reflection.	/r/seduction	17/06/19 07:59 PM
2	Social circle game - small penis, is it a bad idea? Hey man, there's not any good reason to feel insecure about your penis. Penis size does matter, but generally only if the penis is a micropenis or when the penis is too large and is painful for the girl during sex. You seem to be rather average in your size, so that's perfect. Most (emotionally mature) girls won't mind at all, and neither should you. Sex is more than just the penis going in and out the vagina. Even more so, the vagina tends to reshape itself during sex to fit the partner's penis…	/r/seduction	17/06/19 07:57 PM
1	I read ‘Models’ notes & it’s life changing That's sad to hear, brother. Do you have any idea why? Did you put it to practice?	/r/seduction	17/06/19 06:26 PM
1	I read ‘Models’ notes & it’s life changing Yes, of course, (approach) anxiety exists in your mind. But your mind is also part of the world. And an important part of your inner world and functional brain structures. Anxiety will probably always be there, whatever your experience. It is not the problem. The key is learning how to constructively deal with your anxiety. To use it to your benefit (anxiety as eustress or as excitement!), to prevent getting into negative self-talking, and to decrease the debilitating effects on the long-term wi…	/r/seduction	17/06/19 06:07 PM
1	I read ‘Models’ notes & it’s life changing Yes, of course, (approach) anxiety exists in your mind. But your mind is also part of the world. And an important part of your inner world and functional brain structures. Anxiety will probably always be there, whatever your experience. It is not the problem. The key is learning how to constructively deal with your anxiety. To use it to your benefit (anxiety as eustress or as excitement!), to prevent getting into negative self-talking, and to decrease the debilitating effects on the long-term wi…	/r/seduction	17/06/19 06:06 PM