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There's millions of bi women. There is a lot of biphobia out there and I worked with a bi woman who said things in front of straight male coworkers like "we are so greedy, aren't we? I am so promiscuous blah blah, that's what bisexuals do". Bisexual women crowing for male validation is biphobia. I was there, closeted and mortified. People can differentiate between different women, I have been welcomed by lesbians, I have never had an issue. We're just women, but gay women have a right to exclude…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 09:25 PM
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Thank you so much for that info. It brings tears to my eyes, especially the digital rape part. These poor girls. No matter how problematic she is, I always respect Cardi B for getting out of that hellish lifestyle. She talks about it sometimes, some sick stuff happened to her. Awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 07:30 PM
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If you cross femcels (females who are involuntarily celibate due to being unattractive and are generally just depressed about it :/) and an actual misandrist who has snapped, it still isn't quite right. Misandrists are the closest, but most misandrist women are more... inclined to TRANSIENT misandrist leanings when triggered. It'll be like they see a story about some evil shit a man does and then go OFF about the sheer scrotitude, but they don't plot and scheme over men irl. It's flashpoints, my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 10:43 PM
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Volcels is a thing, but by this point, anything with the suffix "-cel" is derogatory because of its incel connotations. To be honest, I am a celibate woman sick of the opposite sex. I see the easy comparison. It is perhaps the closest equivalent that can be found and an essential reach to make for one of the most misogynistic websites on the Internet. There isn't an equivalent to incels. Blackpillfeminism was closer than this, but it still isn't the same. We can't genuinely feel the level of hat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 10:35 PM
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My long post: You have PTSD, like a lot of women. You are also oppressed and have experienced some of the worst aspects of sex-based oppression and the silent oppression of children. People with C-PTSD also tend to view abusers as all-powerful and unstoppable. Yes, patriarchy is extremely powerful, but seen through traumatised eyes, it is that much more depressing and seemingly insurmountable, trust me, I know, I am fucking sick of it lately. Women aren't as powerless as you think and we don't h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 10:24 PM
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This is the cutest thing I have seen all week and I watched a box full of kittens on YouTube yesterday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:58 PM
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Yep, I know no men anymore, really. All male friends, gone. Celibate since 2015. Only female healthcare professionals. Don't get to know male neighbours. I am not overly friendly with any men who drop off deliveries/assist me in shops etc. Only really talk to my Dad and he knows I am a radfem so is improving as much as he can. Ignoring male relatives' sexist jokes still continues, but yep, 24 hours was too short for me :) I have other things planned, but, oh my GOD, life without a constant barra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:51 PM
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Oooh, it's better to call it female-exclusive bisexual females (febfem) rather than political lesbianism. Lesbians aren't a big fan of being gay being put forward as a political stance. If you aren't gay, you aren't gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:12 PM
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Sounds incredible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:56 PM
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Just seen "aggressive driving". WTF is that? is that like that "depressed" German Wings pilot who flew himself and 150 others into a mountain in a way literally NO WOMAN would ever do. "Suicide by pilot" is far higher than it should be. I don't want to be on a damn plane and have to worry that the bloke flying it is feeling emotional lately. FFS. Yeah, because when I am sad I get behind a wheel and drive dangerously. GTFOHWTBS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 02:30 AM
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Men are less likely to be diagnosed as mentally ill for showing excessive anger because it's "a male emotion", yet women who show irritation are seen as aNgRy fOr a wOmAn and must be pathologized. Sick of fucking seeing it, there is not right response to rape in the eyes of patriarchy when it comes to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 02:23 AM
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Sadistic Personality Disorder is floating about, but will they allow it in the DSM? If they allow "Self-defeating Personality Disorder" (apparently for women who don't leave abusive relationships), I will start a rebellion. I don't even read about psychiatry's woman-hating BS anymore. Point is, Cluster B Personality Disorders already get used for what you said. How many times do you hear "psychopath" or narcissists or sociopath used as an insult in daily life? Drs do this too. Don't like a patie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:42 PM
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BPD is not the wastebasket for shitty men tbh. So many men aren't mentally ill, they just suck as people. It is easy to label them with a "personality disorder", but it's not that simple. BPD is the most stupid label ever. I was misdiagnosed with it myself at one point. Sometimes shitty men are just shitty and it isn't mental illness :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:22 PM
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So, so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 08:47 PM
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I have been through similar. Stay away from men for a while. Do NOT ever mention this type of stuff to ANY man. Or woman who could tell a man. Do not drink/get intoxicated around men, in case you relax too much and tell them this. Play dumb if sex workers or something similar comes up in conversation. You don't have any idea about that seedy underworld, you are shocked at what you have heard! No. Male. Therapists. No. Male. Therapists. No BDSM. No BDSM. Female therapists can also have a lot of i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:19 AM
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Thanks, you made me a little teary. Thank you :')
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 09:25 AM
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Those first two lines should be broadcast into the evening sky round the globe for all women to read nightly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 07:45 PM
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Oh my god, his mother must have been mortified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 07:43 PM
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LMAO, "pick a struggle!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 07:42 PM
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You are welcome, sister xxx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 07:40 PM
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Where there's a will, there's a way! They're disgusting when they find or create a route.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 07:36 PM
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Don't have much to say, other than I have been alone for more than 5 years really. Learning to enjoy your own company and have hobbies is so vital. I am so sorry he did that to you, especially on your birthday. It is very sad to look back on abusive males. You are safe right now, yes? Sad but safe? Do something to distract you. Make some tea. Think of all the happy women and baby girls out there! We would all embrace you. You are worthy of love and happiness. That sweet woman should not have bee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 07:05 PM
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What an evil man. I went through something similar one time, it took me about 9 months to move on (it's complex, I went through sexual abuse when younger too and this was my first consensual relationship). I am sorry you are in so much pain. Write down everything that sucks about him and everything good about you that you know to be true (you aren't narcissistic for that). Get your therapy and turn to all the support you have. Read similar stories, speak to other women. Preferably in person, not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 06:52 PM
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Never shaved. Never will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 06:15 PM
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Because men need to be taught to cry /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 04:44 PM
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This little girl has a natural gift. I would buy her album.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 04:40 PM
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Exactly. I mean...what do they think they will achieve? Misogyny will change our minds? Well, some just try to be nasty, of course, but others really think that paedophilia is a fundamental right and they can change my mind on it. Err...no. No, you fucking MORON. Just ignoreeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 04:33 PM
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Well, a microsecond of being told "this isn't for you".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 04:26 PM
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Are you me? Similar thing happened to me at 6. Horrible. Horrible. But also haha, your phone knows the truth. Miss Andrea Dworkin is the one and only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 05:53 PM
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I love mangoes and this poem is great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 05:47 PM
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Same. My Dad used to point it out like I had a fuck to give. I am wearing underwear. It's better than the alternative of wearing none right!? Let them stare, if women's clothes weren't so damn thin (on purpose half the time), it wouldn't be an issue. I pretty much only wear "granny panties" so... You know. Have at it, porn sick dudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:16 PM
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Yeah, that got me too 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:12 PM
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Wow, that's sad :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:08 PM
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Yup, most of them are quite cunning indeed. They're not some dumber form of life, we are all Homo Sapiens with highly developed brains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:07 PM
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A question feminists/society have been trying to unravel for a long time. Biology vs socialization. Thank you for your kind words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:45 PM
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It makes me grateful to be a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:44 PM
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I do better every day, but the anger is very real. It hurts to have open eyes, but it's worse to be sleeping. What she said was hurtful to me, but I could see she was messed up. I had to stop being friends with her eventually, she was not good for me with behaviour like that :/ Some men are brainwashed to think this way and can change. Some are just evil to be honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:38 PM
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Thanks for the name for it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:35 PM
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Men do it because they empathize with the rapist and can see themselves doing it, women victim-blame as a psychological defence. They know deep down they could be raped at any time, any age, no matter what they wear, say or do. But if they don't get drunk, or wear those clothes or act like that, it won't happen to them. It helps them cope with the truth. It "others" the victim, so they can distance themselves from reality. Rape survivors do it too. I have known multiple women who will never wear…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:28 PM
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Trust your gut! The fact he made a choice to type that :/ eww lame. Glad you let it out :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:51 PM
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Probably to make you feel like you lost a good thing, or to make you think he was thriving without you. Whatever it is, I actually cringed at the fact he did this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:43 PM
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Post-clam clarity haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:35 PM
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The answer is you don't look like that, you're his sexual partner and that's the end of the discussion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:28 PM
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Same here. E cups. I hated my boobs from that age of like...10, when they started growing, because I could already see they didn't point at the sky and were big. Why is a literal child already influenced by porn culture? 15 years later, I am realising I am not a porn star, I have big breasts. Breasts don't have muscles to hold them up, they're fat bags with one or two ligaments. Shouldn't be revolutionary, should it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:26 PM
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So well expressed, it is like online shopping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:22 PM
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100%. If a dude asked me out, I would ask covertly about porn. If I caught a whiff of porn consumption, I would be gone into the breeze. I wouldn't want to let them know why though, they shouldn't learn to lie to the next woman ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:19 PM
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You could have sex at any point in your life, you don't depreciate with age. Your ability to feel pleasure isn't going anywhere. What can go though, is your psychological wellbeing and drive to succeed if the wrong man has sex with you/uses you/tries to drag you down into hell with him. You should NEVER have to know how that feels. I have been celibate for 6 years now. Yes, good sex is good, but read the stories on here and see how many men are bad in bed. It's best waiting for a HVM who can pro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:11 PM
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Thank you for this, agreed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 06:00 PM
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Hahaha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 05:59 PM
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