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Beautiful woman, beautiful sentiment, beautiful ring ❤💙💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 01:51 PM
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Wow what a warrior woman. Thank you OP for posting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 11:05 PM
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I second Schitt's Creek, funny and smart. I've been watching Queen Sugar, about a black woman owning a sugar cane mill, set in present time. The women are strong, smart and dont take no shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:31 PM
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Wow, what a beautiful story, it made me cry. Your aunt is a strong woman, it takes real presence of mind to not give in to societal pressures and get married, in the hope her life would have improved. Instead she went her own way, walked her own path, built her own house and business. Tonight, I'm sitting here, crying and so inspired by your aunt. May she reap the joys, big and small, of all her hard work for many years to come.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:08 PM
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Fantastic woman, great voice and lyrics that hit the spot. Heres hoping she can record this song soon. I would like to dance around it to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:36 AM
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Hello ive had the same surgery inc the bowel resection. Good luck for the day. Remember to take it easy for at least 6 weeks after the surgery. Do post and let us know how you are doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 09:01 AM
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Yes, me too, I kept looking for it thinking it was in some secret place that I didn't know about!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 10:08 AM
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Thanks for posting your experiences, it confirmed what I already knew. I'm 49, happily childfree, never married, financially good but physically it can be challenging as I manage chronic health conditions. When I dated or had relationships in my 20s, men were much more open to taking me to dinner and behaving like a decent man, even if they were hiding low values. Last time I dated was back when I lived in the UK and it was shit show. Men my age thought I was desperate for marriage and wanted me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 10:04 AM
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So funny and what moves they have!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 09:12 AM
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Haha, what a fabulous auntie she is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 11:01 PM
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Congratulations on getting through with grit and guts. Enjoy your new home. I agree, peace is underated. Its been the number one gain in my single life. I love peace for me and for all of you queens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:00 PM
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This is a great book, i read it many moons ago. I still do the Morning Papers most days. Its useful getting thoughts on paper and as you say looking over the themes. It brought me a great deal of peace to bring stuff up from my subconscious and into my awareness. The best part then being able to act on the themes. It helped me move to a new country about 18 months ago because i kept writing about how i wanted to walk and ride a bike in this country. Now i do exactly that! I hope it gives you wha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:59 PM
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Aww that is so kind of you. I love to see women looking out for each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:43 PM
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Ohh what a lovely friend you are. I brought some chocolates and flowers for my friend. She was absolutely delighted and it was lovely to see a big smile on her face and her shiny eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:40 PM
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What a mega bath that it, looks gorgeous. I love that you also had chocolate!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:35 PM
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Your story moved me to tears. Congratulations you brave, wise and beautiful woman. Take all the time you need to care for your mind, body and soul. I truly believe FDS saves us and in these situations, saves lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:33 PM
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Ohh yes Im here for all these great HVM stories. So happy you are being treated like the Queen you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:28 PM
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What a magical evening. You deserve all the happiness, love and attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 07:45 PM
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Aww great you all enjoyed your Valentine's day. I've had a fabulous weekend too. Hurrah to all of us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 08:36 PM
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That sounds great especially the getting dressed up. I've had a party for one weekend-got a smoke, listened to music, danced around, ate a lot of delicious food, lazed in bed, read a bit and then more snacks. It has been peaceful, freeing and joyful loving myself. Happy Valentine's women 😀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 08:26 PM
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Haha this got me in the giggles!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:00 PM
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Wow beautiful, so lovely to see you treated yourself to such a gorgeous piece.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 08:04 PM
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Thank you for responding. Yep, people send money all over the place without knowing who its going to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:05 PM
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WTF! What was the scam she was warning women about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:01 PM
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Haha super funny!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 11:17 PM
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Im envious of the money men have made on Game stock. I understand some of the lingo but didnt buy. Wish i had! I posted this question on another thread- if anyone knows a women led trading company who could trade for me, id love to have the details. Im in Europe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 09:46 PM
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I love this, I do hope my health will improve this year and I can fly towards my dreams.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 10:26 AM
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That is so disgusting, i wasnt sure these pocket things actually existed. Fuck, not only do they exist but actual men put thier dicks into it. Thr bar is in the earths core, burning and unbearable. I hope she wakes up soon and realises she is only responsible for cleaning her actual vagina.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 01:31 PM
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This is a gorgeous ring, looks beautiful on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:08 PM
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All of these rings are gorgeous. Your fingers look lovely with the nail varnish and rings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:00 PM
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Sorry OP to hear he broke your finger. Very happy to see you are healing. Life always finds a way to grow even in the most desolate environments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 09:59 PM
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Ohh how lovely to see this Queen here. I used to listen to her so much back in the day. She was and is an icon of a HVW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 09:05 PM
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Woo wee, that is just lovely. Congratulations on always cherishing yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 09:59 PM
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Beautiful what type of stone is this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 09:58 PM
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Great idea Please can send me a link too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 09:05 PM
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Thats beautiful, looks gorgeous on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 09:10 AM
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Yes please i will open my mail box now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 03:46 PM
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That is beautiful, love the design and it suits your skin colour. Congratulations on committing to yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 09:12 AM
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Beautiful sparkly nails and rings. Congratulations. Thanks for posting where the ring is from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 09:07 AM
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Thanks for the recommendation, i will check this out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 03:25 PM
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What a little shit, to do this on the very day you were so happy. Its great he never went to your new house, keep that bad energy out of your home. So glad to hear you blocked him. Now you can focus on creating a lovely home, just for you. Best wishes to you Queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 03:17 PM
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Beautiful, my two favourite Reddit subs together- Reddit and witches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 11:21 PM
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Congratultions, you can be whatever you want. Screw societys expectations. I wish you all the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 11:06 PM
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Huge congratulations, its so exciting to have your own place. Safety, security and pure sweetness in your own hands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:44 PM
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Thanks very much. Good point about stones, i would love a ruby but definitely dont want it to fall out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:31 PM
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Thank you, ive just seen the whole of your message. 14k it is then. It all sounds more complicated than i thought!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:28 PM
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Thanks very much for your response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:25 PM
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Thanks very much for your response. Im going to look at 14, 16 and 18 carat gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:17 PM
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Thank you What karat gold doesnt wear thin over time? I would love to buy myself a beautiful gold ruby ring but have no idea about all the carrots!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:00 PM
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Beautiful, the gold suits your skin colour. A general question- what kind of jewellery is considered high quality? fiddles with her cheap beads and considers its time to throw out old cheap jewellery
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:54 PM
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I read this as 'the penis of shit'!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:49 AM
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Great post OP I found that men supported by family, religion, culture, society cannot cope with a womens rage. Like sexuality and sensuality, they are terrified of womens anger. Instead we internalise this rage and we get sad. We get depressed and have low energy, low vibration and lose connection with ourselves. Society supports this, it suits men, our abusers if we are to exhausted to change anything. Ive allowed men to get away with bad behaviour because I simply did not have energy to argue …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 11:02 PM
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Thank you OP This is a great resource. The blog posts are accurate and funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 10:42 AM
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Im so happy to hear this. Congratulations, you can now relax and live your life in love, peace and respect. This news has made my Christmas. Another Queen rising up :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 11:04 PM
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I dont know the back story to this but my heart goes out to this woman. Its horrific she was abused and her abuser now has a Netflix show! I dont want to Google the vile man. Please can someone post who he is and how he got a ahow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 10:59 PM
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Lovely to see FDS in action. Congratulations, wishing you both the best of life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 07:35 PM
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I would love to read this. Can someone copy and paste the text for us Europeans? Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:36 AM
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Haha, this is funny and spot on. I have ulcerative colitis which is generally well managed but I'm terrified of flare ups. I'm careful about drinking alcohol, limit fried foods and cheap crap. I've noticed men get supper annoyed when I've said no to drink dates (pre FDS) or cheap food places.I know afterwards, I will likely vomit, have terrible cramps and be in the toilet most of the night. No man is worth that. I used worry that I was undateable due to my drink/food requirements. Now with FDS I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:28 AM
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Love this especially, 'my value is infinite'. It reminds me of connection to life source which is is an endless open space, where I can grow, where I am supported, where I can fully develop my potential and shine brightly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:21 AM
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I donate every month to a charity that supports WOC to escape domestic violence. Its very important to me as I grew up in a DomVio situation and paid the price for it. I also contribute every month to support girls/women in education. For me, this was a major element in not repeating family patterns. After getting my degree/Masters I could financially take care of myself, create a safe home and did not have to get married to a LVM in the false hope of him providing security.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:15 AM
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Aww thank you OP, I've got a little something in my eyes :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:04 AM
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Thanks OP, i didnt know how a post got onto the all list on Reddit. I will be sure to upvote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:41 PM
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You can do this because you respect yourself. Let us know how you get on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:39 PM
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This is so disgusting, i just cant imagine, it makes me feel nauseous. How the fuck how can anyone put up with this literal shit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:37 PM
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WTF, this is scary. Im so glad to hear she was physically strong enough to fight back and is safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:32 PM
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Yes this is the truth. The majority of women i know are deeply unhappy in their marriages but trapped due to finances, emotional bonds or having children. They are exhausted from taking care of everyone while noone takes care of them. I caught onto this early in life and resisted all pressure, esp religious to get married. Men tried to trap me many times. Im 49, despite having chronic health issues and smoking, i look 10 years younger. Im richer, freer, emotionally healthier and have a stronger …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:26 AM
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I love looking at maps on Reddit- why does it have to be called mapporn? I absolutely hate how the word 'porn' has become synonymous with something a person loves. It has become so normalised in every day language, people talk about foodporn, travelporn. I want to return to using the word love, lovemaps, lovefood, love travel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:58 AM
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Definitely an ex, this was a few years ago. I've had emails from the shoe company over the years telling me they have my size. I felt the shoes were too expensive, I'd never have a chance to wear them and I didn't deserve such beautiful shoes. I'd integrated what this ex said to me and believed it to be 'The Truth'. Yesterday when I got another email from this shoe company, I said to myself WTF woman, of course you deserve these shoes. I'm so happy that 'The Truth' has changed for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:49 AM
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I spent around £700 on my boyfriends birthday. I paid for a 5 star hotel with sauna and a massage for both of us. Arranged for dinner to be served in our room. His favourite, steak and chips (I'm a pescatarian) and his favourite bottle of red wine. Also brought £150 lingerie, snacks, weed for me and a bottle of wine for him. We had a good day but he was pressurising me to get to the sex part so dinner was quick instead of the envisaged romantic evening. We had sex, he came quickly because I look…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 08:33 PM
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Wait what? more details please. How did you steal his laptop and passport? What happened afterwards?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 08:05 PM
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So glad you spent money on yourself, get into the habit of doing this. Please can you share a link of where i could buy this top?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:56 PM
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I hated this film when it first came out. Bridget irritated the hell out of me, i know she was the product of her environment and the pressure to get with a guy. I found i didnt have any empathy for her, just wanted her to tell everyone inc the stupid men to fuck off!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 12:22 PM
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No response is a response- this is one of the life changing things i've learnt from FDS. A few months ago i blocked a male friend. In the past i would had long phone calls to explain all the ways he upset me. In the hope he would change his behaviour. I know he knows and just doesnt give a fuck. He was faking for a while but then his true shift shaper form came through. It was such a relief not to waste any energy on him. All i did was block, delete and check my crown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:30 PM
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Men hate that women in their 40s are emotionally mature, experienced in life and financially secure. We simply dont need them. I do occasionally have pangs of loneliness, longing for touch and shared experiences. I would rather feel all of this than have a LVM in my life who brings deep saddness, dissatisfaction and chaos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:14 PM
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Congratulations on your grade. Take some time over the festive season to relax and enjoy your win :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:31 AM
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Haha, such a great comment. I curtsy to you, Queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:33 PM
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Yes exactly, she does everything for him and the kids. Now she gets to have a nights sleep!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:30 PM
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Aww gawd, this makes me want to vomit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:27 PM
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Haha, this fantastic. Im sending it to all of my friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:25 PM
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I love this. Thank you OP for posting. This is my body, my space, my home, my right to live how i want. Why? Because Life said so :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 03:11 PM
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A few months ago i ended a friendship with a guy. He was a local and helped me settle into a new country. He let me store stuff at his huge house and last Christmas i stayed over. He paid for stuff, was respectful and we had a laugh either having a smoke together or going out. Post FDS, i noticed how he was distant when inside the house. Uncaring when i was unwell, expecting me to do household chores and not meeting my needs. However, if we went out, he would always reach out to hold my hand. FD…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 01:00 PM
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When i saw this last night, i felt yuk and moved on. This morning during meditation i realised it had brought a memory back 25 years ago, my boyfriend punched a wall right next to my face. What caused this rage? He burnt the chicken in the oven and was angry at himself. Then angry at me because i didnt remind him. I stayed another month before i left him. Years later, a boyfriend broke my fave tea mug. It had 'witches brew' written across it and made me smile every morning. He broke it because i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 12:30 PM
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A tough day with my fuckwit man-a-ger so taking a while to wind down. I brought myself a lot of Ferro Rocher for my birthday and decided to open one of the boxes tonight. Waving back to you, lovely to know a fellow queen is in the timezone as me. Im going to try and sleep now, night night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 11:28 PM
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Im loving soo much this content of women on the journey through education either starting, progressing or finishing. Congratulations to her, i like how she holds it with care, attention and a calm face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 10:51 PM
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Haha, also feet size. I have big feet and long toes, used to think it was such a compliment when men said i had lovely slim hands and feet. Now i think yeah i do because they match the rest of my body you idiot! Fuck i dont know if I will ever date again. Another Ferro Rocher in my mouth, hmm im good with such a fate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 10:45 PM
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Haha i understand now you made the comparison to Kinder Eggs. Im nodding whilst eating yet another Ferro Rocher 😀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 10:36 PM
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Thanks OP, im still stuck on all the old school Bollywood films from 1960s and 1970s with their old school message- if your a woman your life is fucked! Although i do love some Mohd Rafi! Will check this out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 10:10 PM
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Thank you OP for posting. Ive put it on my list of books to read. I really love the concept of core gifts. Im super sensitive, like the idea of turning this around to a strength instead of feeling like im carry a burden that messes up my relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:21 PM
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Thanks ok-fee-6353 for responding. I was worried i was missing out on sonething delicious but after reading your description, I'm good with my delicious ferro roche chocolate!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:13 PM
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Haha love her face at the end! Can someone explain are laffy taffy very tasty? Im in Europe and ive not heard of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:57 PM
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Love to see this Happy birthday to you. Where are the cushion covers from? I'd love a couple of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 01:26 PM
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Oh god, this is more horrifying than i ever imagined!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:48 PM
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Thank you for explaining. Im showing my age but i just dont get why you would get so upset about a make believe situation, given the real stuff thats happening in the world. Im not surprised to hear they dont give a fuck about the graphic sex acts or sexualised characters. Yet another reason to vet hard!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:10 PM
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Yes exactly they want to dress up and weaponise an avatar! Rather than sort thier shit out in real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:06 PM
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Ive seen a lot of memes about this. Im not a gamer and i dont understand what the fuss and disappointment is about? I understood there was a release of some new equipment which was expensive. LVM tried and in some cases succeeded in getting this brought for them by the women in their lives. Then a new game was released and they were all sad and some men said life wasnt worth living, wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 09:50 PM
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Thank you very much for keeping this space safe for women. I can only imagine what you have to read behind the scenes. FDS is my no 1 space on the internet. I visit daily; morning, afternoon and night. Thank you for educating my mind with radical feminism, thank you for teaching me how to protect my heart, thank you for acknowledging no man has a right to my body, thank you for allowing my soul to be who she is, sensitive and wild. I love all of you with all of my heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 09:10 PM
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Looks delicious, enjoy your evening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 06:41 PM
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Im not on OLD and have been single for two years with not a whiff of a decent date. Im high risk so i cant risk going on dates. I want to try OLD, id love to try out FDS with real men. However, i feel its a really bad time to look for my HVM while we are in the midst of a pandemic. I see this time period as a great opportunity to work on myself, intense therapy inc psychotherapy, body healing, healthy eating and working out. Im 49, never been married but a romantic at heart. Ive put it aside unt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 09:31 PM
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I read this earlier today. Its a great first step although feels like we have a long way to go. Porn has become so normalised in every day life. Its terrifying to think about the girls and women it will affect for the rest of their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:12 PM
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This hit me hard, I have limited contact with my family, think religious, controlling narcissistic's including my siblings. I left when I was 18 and found myself in many vulnerable situations. When I first had therapy, the therapist suggested to aim for minimum contact as a way to keep in touch with nephews/nieces. I really wanted this and spent years learning healthy boundaries and I have it now. My boyfriends family, who spoke a lot about adopting me and various women friends were angry and th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 10:41 AM
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Yes i've experienced this with Muslim men throughout my whole career and day to day life. I currently work with a guy where i have power over him in my position. He kept trying it on, saying things like, 'Im Muslim too, you must go out with me, its written in the Qu'ran. You cannot date any other religion, culture'. This 'good Muslim man' is known locally as a fuckboi, sleeps with the local women but has never married any of them. He is 44, goes to the gym every day, drinks a lot of alcohol and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 06:31 PM
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I came across him last night on Netflix. Blown away by his honesty, integrity and humour. I'm telling everyone I know to watch him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 09:09 AM
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Haha thanks. The strategy of asking men to take a look at random things outside my flat, like a door, window or wall has been very effective in getting men out of home quickly. Its worked for both ex boyfriends and creepy workman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 10:37 PM
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Great post, it's my birthday so I'm going to join in. ​ Before FDS (about 7 years ago)- I get all dressed up in a lovely frock, make up, hair and nails done and wait for my boyfriend to pick me up for dinner. He arrives at 9pm, dinner reservation was at 8pm. We get to the restaurant, the manager very kindly finds us a table as they knew it was my birthday. He get's annoyed when the manager sends free wine and starters as a birthday treat for me. He goes off into how the manager is making a move …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 08:12 PM
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These first few months will be tough. Your smart, brave and a woman with a plan is a beautiful thing. Do post here for support and when you can, get therapy so you can heal and get ready for your bright future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:07 PM
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Congratulations on getting out. I wish you all the best in your levelling up journey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:57 PM
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This was posted earlier this week. She has had me in stiches since. She covers racism, Bollywood and addresses her haters. So smart, strong and her messages are funny. Just wonderful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:53 PM
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Oh, i read about himraising salaries and thought he was a HVM. Take another out to the rubbish bin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:14 PM
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I remember watching this as a tv series in the UK. It was great, her revenge was so sweet because it cost him everything! Had no idea it was a film, going to check it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:05 PM
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What s stupied shit, glad he got the shits!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 09:34 PM
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Haha, this is soo funny. I know what I'm doing now while having my morning tea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 10:42 AM
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This got me feeling all hot and bothered!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:03 PM
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Good to see read this, im 48, no man for several years now. Will see what happens next year when things hopefully open up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 07:24 PM
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Oh my, I was not expecting that ending. Karma will catch up with all of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 09:07 AM
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Thanks OP for asking this question. Im interested in doing some radfem reading too. Going to take a look at the suggestions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 08:08 PM
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Beautiful colours, suits you Queen. I raise a glass to you creating your own happiness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 05:42 PM
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In deepest gratitude mods for everything you do in keeping this space free of men. I visit every day and it means so much to me that its here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 05:25 PM
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Beautiful, this sentence particularly got me in the feels, 'you are choosing the integrity of your soul over propping up destructive myths that give power to entitled men'. Thank you very much for posting such an inspirational message. It reminds me I am strong as are all my fellow queens who will not settle for less. I hope you have a day full of love, peace and happiness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 08:35 PM
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Thanks for the link OP. I'm looking forward to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 01:35 PM
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This post makes me feel sad. I have chronic health conditions that affect my health. My eyes are swollen, puffing and always red. I take care of the rest of me, on a good day, I'm average. For me low to average men tend to make more of an effort as they know they got lucky. If smart FDS women rate themselves, what hope is there for women to not be judged, graded and treated a certain way due to looks. I am so much more than the vessel that carries my mind and soul.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 10:19 AM
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Haha, im laughing a lot tonight on this sub!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 10:59 PM
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Oh yes, i understand the feeling. I will tell you a secret, ive always wanted to be a writer too. More than anything else in the world. Im writing my first book at the age of 48! Its never to late to pursue your dreams, especially creative ones. It feels like words and writing are a part of your essence and you are being guided by spirit. So do it, write whatever you want to write and publish it. We will all be here to congratulate you when it's done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 10:57 PM
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Thats a golden comment. It's why FDS is right when we say don't train men on how to behave. They will fake ir.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 10:51 PM
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This was on my list of films to watch. It's off the list now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:50 PM
2

Fuck, these men just go lower and lower. He should go and bury himself. It does give a stark warning to never ever send nudes to anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:48 PM
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Great writing, a fun and flowing story. I hope your writing career takes off, I would love to read more work in this style.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:38 PM
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Nope, something is amiss here. Spending money does not equal HVM. I cant help but feel he is paying in credits and will demand payback one way or another.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:30 AM
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Thats a beautiful ring. Congratulations, you are a Queen and can have the best in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 08:07 PM
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Haha fantastic idea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 08:02 PM
9

Thank you OP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 02:25 PM
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Oh fuck, please can we get a trigger warning on this? Im in tears as i recall an old childhood memory. This woman needs help. I hope she finds it soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 10:51 AM
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This guy is a shadow of a person, too engrossed in games to stand up, go to the toliet and wash his hands as a sign of respect to himself. How could his girlfriend tolerate this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 01:41 PM
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This article made me want to vomit- disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 07:32 PM
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Haha perfect response
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 05:54 PM
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Im glad this was posted. Its terrifying but we need to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 10:15 AM
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I love this, thank you OP. A great reminder for me to not get carried away with the story my ego creates and my soul longs for. Saved in my phone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 10:01 AM
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Thank you very much, i won't bother listening to his bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 12:29 AM
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I keep hearing his name and how he is sooo funny. Im guessing it's at the expense of women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 12:21 AM
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Who is this guy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 12:19 AM
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I never thought of emoji in this way but you are absolutely right, save it like everything until they have worked for it. I tend to put xx as I'm from the UK but recently started using the kissing/heart emoji I'm going to start being aware of who gets what emojis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 10:09 AM
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Brilliant read, thank you for posting OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:59 PM
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Congratulations, keep going. I gave up for a bit then started again! I'm cutting down now and have set a date for next week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:07 AM
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I'm proud of myself for doing some intensive therapy (via Skype) over this Covid period. It's been painful revisiting wounds I thought I had cleared long ago. I found they are still impacting my thought patterns, feelings and behaviours. As I unwrap the layers I get closer to the essence of me. I realised I'm brave and have a good soul that is kind, gentle and loving. I'm connected to sprit, Allah, in my own individual way and I can prayer for her guidance and receive this support minus all the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:06 AM
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I live near a military base. When I first moved here, I met a few of these guys in a bar one night. One guy insisted I go home with him because, ' I love your smile and you can cuddle me'. Followed by, 'your old so you better marry me'. He tried to grab me and pull me out of the seat. I screamed with such fury. The owner of the bar came and told him and his friends to either behave or leave. He felt humiliated in the silence that followed, everyone in the bar turned around to stare at him. They …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:16 AM
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He talks the talk but there is something off about his mannerism that makes me distrust him. The real story is from his finance/wife perspective- wonder what she would say?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 11:11 AM
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Very funny, wonder what I can wear today to ask for it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:03 AM
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I had a chat with one of my sisters this week, we have minimum contact but our dad is sick so she was permitted to call me. After we talked about dad, she said all of the familar rubbish, pretty much one after the other. 'Your standards are too high, you're going to be alone forever, the man you want doesn't exist, aren't you done with being a feminist, what's going to happen when you get old and sick'. I told her I'm looking forward to dying alone in peace and quiet. Death is just the last stag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:35 PM
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Haha, this had me laughing my head off. Thank you OP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:19 PM
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Congratulations, it's lovely to see FDS works for women. Wishing you both a life full of love, peace and respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:03 PM
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This is how i sleep knowing im only buying for me. A sweet and safe sleep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 08:45 PM
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Great link OP I so agree, financial independence is essential in and out of marraige. Never give up all your income, savings or home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 10:17 PM
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Yes, good point, im in when it comes to pissing off straight men! I thought Josh was just a symbol for her mental illness rather than the whole cause. Im going to watch it again soon esp as i love all the song and dance routines so much. I hope she produces again soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:29 PM
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Thank you OP, this post is timely for me I may have met someone, he lives in another continent. Mu friend, who is is LVW has been pushing me over the weekend to tell him he is a potential and to chase him. I told her he needs to pursue me to strike a good balance of masculinity and femininity. I've taken notes that i will refer to next time we speak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 12:51 PM
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No, not me but i've blocked everyone from sending me messages. I figure if someone wants to message ne, she will ask and then i can open my messages Otherwise, i do not want to see this shit in my in box.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:38 AM
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This photo makes we want to retch hard. Its so vile that he offered her this and sad she accepted this as a token of her worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:35 AM
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Congratulations on waking up from the nightmare. The more you look, the more you will see. Its all about you and making your life better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:32 AM
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Haha, wow, her accent, her words, her knowledge of herself. The guy in the Safeway line cracked me up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:30 AM
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Yep that line about gay men is not right. They are often misogynistic. Although overall, i do love this series.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:15 AM
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I'm soo happy tonight, having a rare glass of wine and cheers to a woman of colour in power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:18 PM
9

This woman again. I clicked hoping someone was going to confirm she played a prank of sorts. But no, what a shame. I hope one of her friends helps her see the light.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 07:05 AM
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Yes, defintely, lies we were told by everyone. Family, community and society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:54 PM
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Hello it's the breaking mom sub. I dont advise it unless you want to see what your future could be if you don't follow FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:16 PM
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Yes sure, money is a big factor. Once again, to anyone and everyone have your own money. Either income or savings. Martydom is a other factor. My religious female relatives think staying with arseholes is a test from God and they will get rewarded by getting into heaven. But these women get nothing here on earth. They got to wait until they die, many of them at the hands of their men. I feel such a mix of emotions whenever i see posts from the other subs. Overall, my heart breaks, all women have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:13 PM
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Oh gawd, i had no idea David Bowie would be on such a list. One by one all my chuldhood heros go onto the pedo list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:28 PM
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Haha, she is super duper, her laughter, throwing her head back in the, 'I do not give a fuck'. She knows who she is and what value she has. That is what makes her so powerful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 04:59 PM
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I don't understand this sub at all. Do all the women lack any awareness of their agency? Why is it so funny to be used and abused by their husbands and partners? It reminds me of me female relatives in the kitchen, cackling about how dumb their husbands are. Yet with the same breath, im supposed to want that? It's going to take a fuckin miracle for me to agree to marraige. In the meantime, im soooo happy single, free and can eat all the cakes i just brought from my fave bakery. Cackle, cackle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 04:55 PM
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Thank you MyDarlingGirl for responding. I'll wait until they're ready to assign.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 08:04 AM
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Hello mods not sure if this is the right place to ask but my flair still says 'Throwaway'. I'd love to get another flair assigned to me. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:21 PM
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Wtf, its been a while since i saw something that shocked me like this. And she said all lives matter! I need a cuppa and a several biscuits now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:12 PM
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Great advice here, my contribution-; If you are a woman of colour- know that the majority of men are using you to explore their own fetish with black/asian women. They will mansplain about your religion/culture/history to show how educated they are and how much they care. Do not be fooled, they do not give a fuck about you as whole being with an individual personality and history. They see you as an object to fulfil their desire/curiosity. Essentially you are an exotic hole. If you have a chroni…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 06:10 PM
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Here on FDS we talk a lot about making choices. If you are a woman born into the Muslim religion, your choices are limited. It's as simple as that. If you are a Muslim woman and you are allowed to choose, you are in a very privileged position. The backlash the OP has received from several posters offers a tiny window into the lives of Muslim women who dare to question. I have read the Quran, studied the Hadith and I read many interpretations of the text. I completed my Masters dissertation on Wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 09:19 PM
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I agree with your points. Well written and clear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 08:01 PM
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No British men are as bad as any group. They sometimes talk posh, have good manners, say they are feminists but its a veneer that falls away very quickly. Once I had a posh boyfriend, he was white, Im Asian. He was sooo upset that I wouldnt cook delish daal, saag n aloo and chicken korma for him and his friends. He said 'I thought you would love to cook for all of us, isnt it part of your culture?' He wanted me to be his slave in the kitchen and the bedroom. I handed him the menu for the local I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 09:37 PM
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This comment is on point for me. Love that book. I have chronic health conditions due to a genetic marker so I'm always going to be unwell to some degree. However, my symptoms were a lot of worse (nausea, weight loss, severe digestive issues, hospital admissions). Then I started to some body work, releasing emotions held in the body. The therapist/healer guided me into saying certain statements. As you can imagine, it is intense and deeply personal. I'm using this time period to continue this wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 09:18 AM
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Yes, agree wholeheartedly. The rule of delete and block has come about due to other women's experiences. This wisdom has been shared with us, so use it and heed the warning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 09:05 AM
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It's expensive to ship them to where I am in Europe so I will need to buy a few of them to make it worth the cost of PnP. Iv'e put it on my list for my birthday list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 08:21 AM
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What increases my energy and vibration-; I love the how to spot, all the analysis, red flag information. More specific scripts on how to respond to common questions asked by men, retain boundaries and self protection. How life is married to a HVM, how you attracted a HWM and how to maintain your self respect, dignity and boundaries over the years. How to vet/spot red flags and do checks on men. I'm not internet savvy and have no idea how to check aside from a basic Goggle/Facebook/Instagram Covi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 10:02 AM
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That colour is gorgeous on you. I love nail polish and just looked up ILNP. They have some fab colours, thanks for the suggestion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 08:22 AM
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Agree, I get a boost when I see how many women are online. It helps me so much. Helloooo to all 3,425 online now 💋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 08:38 PM
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Thanks OP for setting this out so clearly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 09:28 PM
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Haha- I love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:39 AM
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Yes, absolutely men create war and use women's body to fight those wars. I remember years ago being horrified when I read about what happened to women during the partition of India in 1947. Both sides brutalised women and their bodies. If you haven't seen it already, the film Earth (1998) by Deepa Mehtas portrays this time. It's moving and deeply disturbing. It makes my heart warm and fuzzy to hear you are using your dad's money to educate yourself and saving your money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:08 PM
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Pakistani women here, 48 years old. This is an amazing and informative post. I get soo much shit from my family for not getting married to an LVM my narc father choose for me. My sisters, cousins, in fact all women in my extended family are married to LVM and are in abusive relationships. The younger ones are being groomed to accept LVM under the guise of Islam and Islamic duty to be married and have children. The trade is off is that they get financial support from family members including hous…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:17 AM
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FDS confirmed what I've known for years. It now gives me the confidence to not settle and instead pour my energy into myself and my dreams. If and when I do OLD, I have so many great strategies to protect myself and my emotions. Thank you to the mods and everyone who posts. I don't feel lonely anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:56 AM
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This is great advice, men will use your energy and leave you exhausted. Focus on your education, get therapy and begin your journey of healing, make HVW friends and nurture those relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:48 AM
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Future You will be so very proud of Now You for getting out. It's an oldie but golden, Sisters are doing it for themselves. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=drGx7JkFSp4 You got this, we got you xxx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:23 PM
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Beautiful, break free of the family entanglements
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 03:45 PM
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I love the space created here, I'm not active on any social media but feeling like I'm going to post more on here. It makes me so happy to see young women levelling up and not taking mens bullshit. Underneath all the layers, we are all Queens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:59 AM
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I'm 48. In my 20s, I met a HVM who I was going to marry. I wasn't ready to share myself due to mental health issues which were so bad that I couldn't even acknowledge them. Also he wanted a quiet settled life whereas I wanted to travel, I was on the path to being childfree but he wanted more kids (he had two from a previous marriage). He has since married and has more kids. Sometimes, I'm sad that I missed this opportunity as I've never met a HVM like him again but I also know that we wanted dif…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:43 AM
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Hello I read ages ago a sub would be created for women over 40. Was it created? ​ Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:43 AM
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I worked it out-photo sent on discord.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:15 PM
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I started to get verified on Discord but couldn't figure out how to send a photo of myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:07 PM
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My favourite series of all time, just love her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:41 PM
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Thank you for sharing this- I love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 08:28 AM
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Haha this is super funny! It applies to a lot of men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 08:19 AM
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Soo glad to see this. I would be devastated to see this sub banned. I've sent a message via Instrgram
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 11:27 AM
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Haha that was very funny- what a great writer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 11:06 AM
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Thank you so much for taking the time and compiling this. It's really helpful to have the information in one page. Go well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 08:06 AM
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Thank you for posting. I took your advice and had a listen. I love her rage, her love and and her voice. Really cheered me up today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 12:41 PM
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This is very helpful. I'm about to start OLD! Thanks for posting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 11:13 AM
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Hello all of your Queens I recently joined Reddit and have been reading the handbook, what an eye opener! Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 09:52 AM
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