Things we need to become more mindful of!

volcanic_equation · 2020-12-22T18:46:09+00:00

No response, is a response.

For many of us, it’s the best response. Let the undesirables sniff around elsewhere, ladies 💛✌🏼

2020-12-22T19:53:11+00:00

The last one hit hard. I'm someone who used to think that because I was honest and careful about how I handle people's feelings, they will be the same. Nope. People will play with your heart and not even care. 💯

Sashamorningmidnight · 2020-12-22T19:30:51+00:00

No response is a response- this is one of the life changing things i've learnt from FDS. A few months ago i blocked a male friend. In the past i would had long phone calls to explain all the ways he upset me. In the hope he would change his behaviour. I know he knows and just doesnt give a fuck. He was faking for a while but then his true shift shaper form came through. It was such a relief not to waste any energy on him. All i did was block, delete and check my crown.

CuriousBubbleMilkTea · 2020-12-22T21:37:12+00:00

This is a really good reminder. No response is a response. I probably will add 1 more point - stop giving the benefit of the doubt. 😞 Learned it the hard way.

Villanelloh · 2020-12-22T22:16:23+00:00

No response and no regrets. My ex tells everyone "we" stopped talking (as in a mutual decision) because there was too much history for us to stay friends lmao. Nope I just wanted to get the hell away asap

fireforestfairy · 2020-12-22T18:44:11+00:00

Yeah this is why girls shouldn't ask guys out. If the guy was interested in you, he would have made the first move.

warinmymind94 · 2020-12-23T08:06:49+00:00

"Timing will not always be in your favor" this rubs me the wrong way because it sounds a lot like pick-mes saying "we would have worked out but it was just the wrong time" and thats not an excuse.

the thing is if a man wants you, he makes the time, the effort, and you will know he wants you.

pickmes will try to elaborate and say things like "but I was still away at college / he was deployed/ we never ran into each other" its all nonsense. we live in a world full of technology and there are so many ways if a man actually wants you, you will know because he will find a way to make the effort.

Mutteriman · 2020-12-23T10:41:59+00:00

I needed this. I'm so tired of being the one who cares more. I just broke up with my bf and it seemed so easy for him. He was ready to just let me go. Didnt even want to talk, or fight, or try. I tried to talk and make sense of things and i regret it so much. Fuck this.

suncolor · 2020-12-23T02:55:49+00:00

The last one. This is something I have to remember a lot, especially with friendships.

2020-12-23T18:02:47+00:00

“Timing will not always be in your favor” - to expand on this, there is never a “perfect time”. There are better times, but no “perfect time”. Don’t let a man convince you that “now is not a good time”. They say that all the time in order to delay basically everything.

purasangria · 2020-12-22T21:32:18+00:00

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Title	Things we need to become more mindful of!
Author	chicky173
Upvotes	1390
Comments	26
Date	December 22, 2020 6:37 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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