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13

Why did he get married and have kids? Confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 02:22 AM
4

Not gonna lie, the whole situation weird from all angles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 11:58 PM
5

Just chiming to say this is truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 11:54 PM
30

I met up with someone who lied about their height. They ended up being my height. Then proceeded to say that I must be taller than I’m saying??? Um, no, you’re just a short liar. It really is so unnecessary and frustrating. Like why… whhhyyyy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 11:42 PM
43

For 3 whole years 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 12:53 AM
36

Totally looks like a stock photo lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 12:10 AM
12

Okay, yeah, I see how the French thing is playing into it. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:24 AM
3

Dang. I hope lil sis realizes that she has her whole life ahead of her and her relationship with that loser is not the end all be all. A family friend’s son convinced his gf to drop out of college (how? no idea) and they have recently broken up after 3 years. Entirely unfortunate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:06 AM
36

The truly bizarre thing to me is that people would have a life size nude sculpture of someone in the household in the living room. I was picturing going over to a friend’s house and seeing a life-size nude sculpture of them… that would be so awkward to me. Some people really out here living completely different lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:58 AM
5

The whole post sounded weird as hell. If it’s true though, good luck to her sorting that husband-worship sitch - truly disturbing stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:58 AM
9

Snaps to you ma’am~ happy to hear you’re doing the thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:54 PM
2

If this ain’t the whole truth and nothing but..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:18 AM
21

Leave her tf alone? lol. I don’t even understand the premise of the question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:11 PM
10

The solution is so simple yet it eludes her. I hope she figures it out eventually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:31 AM
205

2 hours isn’t even that much time though. Or maybe I’m a bad texter...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:20 PM
41

Oh my gosh, sis, same. In public, I just break pieces off. So sad this is what it’s come to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:48 PM
10

Truth! I am out here trusting mine all day everyday, as we all should.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:52 AM
15

That’s a really fucked up reply. Sorry this happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 12:01 AM
175

It has clothes and accessories? nervous laugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:54 AM
1

holy fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:32 AM
61

HAHAHAHA I totally didn’t even see that it’s suppose to be a typo. I just thought it was a bizarre joke thread.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:19 AM
18

Who publicizes this kind of thing to the Internet? Girl... stop... it’s not as cute as you think it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:05 AM
5

I see it often. It’s unfortunately very common in academia. These women are just accepting less and I think societal pressures have a lot to do with it. Sad situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:57 AM
22

Are these posts real? Legit cannot fathom...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:52 AM
1

“I never said that.” THEY ALWAYSSSS. I’m so happy for her. I hope her friends help her see that she got this and she can 100% find the love she’s loving for because she seems like a pure delight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:28 PM
19

“Is he dead yet? Yea, I have a lunch break in 2 minutes” 💀😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:57 PM
5

Sorry if this is bit personal but do you communicate with him often?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:42 PM
4

yo what the fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:34 PM
7

Ladies, this shit is real. If you’re reading this post and these testimonies... KNOW.. just know we are spitting facts. If this seems familiar and you’re like, “No, I don’t think he’s like this.” Guuuurrlll. Believe that he is showing you exactly who he is. He may not be cognizant of his particular breed of gaslighting POS, but he is that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:02 PM
8

RA in a nutshell for real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 10:55 AM
6

What a QT! I don’t have a dog but my cat who we rescued from the streets is afraid of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:30 PM
29

Lost me completely at “I would read you your favorite childhood novel while voice acting all the characters.” Why? ...but why
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 01:09 AM
8

Quality over quantity. I guess finding the few that matter takes time and not everyone can be trusted to be your friend. I’ve had primarily female friends my whole life - I have just always gotten along with other girls and women now that I am older. I don’t have many people I would consider friends but the few I do have, they are worthwhile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 01:04 AM
2

If the post is real, that is definitely not the only weird/disturbing shit he does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 03:18 AM
3

Also confused/concerned by this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:55 AM
3

The last one. This is something I have to remember a lot, especially with friendships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:55 AM
5

I love these kinds of things! Congratulations!🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:53 PM
2

The man was being 500% serious and it was most definitely not a joke. If he dropped 100 lbs tomorrow, he would leave her. She deserves so much better and should dump his ass and not assume he’s “joking” all the time. The man is telling her facts with a smile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:37 AM
1

In that case — good riddance!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:49 PM
16

15 years... I’m so sorry 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 03:21 AM
37

Why I can’t read R_A in a nutshell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 03:15 AM
7

I read the info in the first image. I can’t go on. It sounds too ridiculous to proceed (aaaand judging by the comments here - it is). 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:48 PM
6

holy fuck????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 01:40 AM
2

Honestly I don’t recall. I thought the alley one was that creep who wanted to have sex with the girl right off the bat so he kept trying to flirt / seduce the girl in his car so he would have an excuse to pull over and have sex with her without taking her out to dinner. But then he needed somewhere to pull over so he decided on an alley? I could also be misremembering that whole thing lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 01:31 AM
17

Let’s not forget the good ol’ laundromat!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:29 AM
49

I can’t fathom the cognitive dissonance this guy is having. First, the title saying his gf was “once-promiscuous” then the part where he acknowledged his gf had trauma from the relationships she was involved with THEN he “respects” and “understands” her decision but he’s also “guilty” because he doesn’t actually respect nor understand shit because he then says “How do I see things in a different light?” WHAT. What. Just... bro, which is it? Anyway yeah, seems he’s just pressed he “helped her thr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 01:04 PM
2

I don’t know how anyone can stay with someone for so long when she clearly resents him. Wild.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 12:49 PM
7

So the math here is: raising 5 humans is cheaper than a single ring? Worth more than $20? How does one even keep that kinda rusty ring on their skin for so long?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 01:54 AM
1

Damn. That sub is really a fucking mess. 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:50 PM
5

I don’t know what it is about the way the post is written (the language) but it was really off-putting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 10:11 PM
24

What the fuck did I just read?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 02:20 PM
1

Even at the first sentence... is this real? 😧 I feel like she had to know this before getting pregnant with their first child?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 02:10 PM
5

oh my god 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 02:04 PM
5

It’s a strange position to be in but I’m there with ya. Everyone always says “Imagine how you will look when you’re older” okay cool, but what do I do about this now? Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:50 PM
39

Truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:43 PM
2

The people who use that sub have no idea how it’s suppose to work. Unpopular opinions get upvoted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 07:48 PM
2

You know shit is bad when they preface the whole post with “I love this guy to death”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 07:12 PM
1

First of all, it wasn’t a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 07:05 PM
12

That one was the most appalling for me too. There is so many levels of depraved in that comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 06:35 PM
3

I think she does know. I hope she finds the courage to let him go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 01:43 PM
25

1) Yes, 2) I’m an idiot, and 3) how did this not ever click... wtf. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:33 PM
3

Girl, it don’t matter why. Let him stay gone. Onward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 07:48 AM
20

This is not really related but this comment reminds me of men named Robert who, over time, just become “Bob”. It’s like, wow sir, at one point you had a real name. I’ve thought about this particular name evolution a lot because I’ve known some “Bobby”s and have wondered when they’ll just become “Bob”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:14 AM
7

It was nothing you did; the man was depraved long before you met him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 12:29 AM
7

Why even go on the date when you’re ill?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:39 AM
6

I have truly been thinking about this so much recently. I feel like the people I consider my friends don’t reciprocate or care as much as I do. I just hold myself and therefore my friends to a high standard. If I make the minimum effort to visit and check in and see how you’re doing, like damn, can’t they even do that back? I’ve come to the realization that these friends just may not be the friends I want because they can’t be what I need. It’s sad but I’ve been really thinking about how I can b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:36 PM
3

Why does she bother though...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:07 PM
9

Sometimes I wonder if videos with this narration are serious and then by the end, I realize they are. Ew. Did she forget to include the part where she wipes his ass?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:06 PM
7

Wait what? They watched it in front of him?!?! W-w-why...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 03:58 PM
4

Honestly... learned so much from this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 03:56 PM
5

Honestly I try to explain the very concept to my total pick-me friend but she’s not in a place to accept these truths. Hopefully she gets to where we are someday but sometimes I truly worry about her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 09:48 PM
10

Dang but also she’s so pretty though. I’d choose her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:50 PM
61

“going along with the curve of his dick too much” sent me 💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:46 PM
5

That sub is a cesspool. Their blatant hate for women is so obvious, appalling, and sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 10:03 PM
11

What in the actual fuck is this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 09:54 PM
5

Mhm. 110% There’s a certain level of calmness and resolute involved. It will really feel right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 03:04 AM
3

Exactly - most people could always use a bit more cash. Like what the fuck is wrong with them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 03:00 AM
21

Honestly I read the whole post and I’m like — is it fake? Shit is crazy, especially that dumb line. Like have y’all been planning a wedding for 11 years? What the fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 02:33 AM
7

First of all - why are they engaged for 11 years?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 02:30 AM
7

These flowers are beautiful. They’re like, perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 07:05 PM
10

Guy lied about this height and when we met, he then tried to convince me I’m not as tall as I am because we ended up being the same height even though he was suppose to be 2 inches taller than me. HAH For a second upon meeting, I did doubt my own self, like damn, have I been wrong about my height this whole time? The answer after a 5 sec train of thought was no. He lied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 09:02 PM
19

I have been thinking about this a lot lately. I don’t have anything to add but it is an interesting concept to ruminate on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 07:59 PM
32

People’s sons really do be wildin’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 02:12 PM
20

I cackled hahahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 12:42 PM
22

Holy... that woman’s head must be absolutely fucked when this dude told her that they aren’t in a relationship after 2 years of doing relationship shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 12:37 PM
1

It’s a neutral habit. I only recently (like within the past 3 months) became aware of it because someone else told me I do it. It’s just my normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 09:20 PM
2

Yeah, constantly when talking to someone in the same convo lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 03:09 PM
3

Ahh. So I guess I do a peculiar thing where I constantly call people by their names when I speak to them. I’ve always done so as far as I know. I also noticed I only do so with people I’m really comfortable talking to, like coworkers I speak to a lot, my friends and family members. I’m a really caring person and I value close bonds with people so for me, I think I do this (subconsciously) to: re-enforce my bond with the person I’m talking to, let the person I’m talking to know that I’m present t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 02:34 PM
8

What in the fuck?????????????? This is so scary. What a psychopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 10:18 PM
6

Ain’t that the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 10:13 AM
319

Why do men (and even society?) treat being single as some type of disease they need to help women deal with? Like okay, and? I’ll be single and? Literally no one else’s business. A woman who wants to remain single and doesn’t want to fuck you — hahaha stay mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 03:10 PM
1

Aren’t thigh gaps a result of genetically wider hips though? Unless a woman is like really skinny, then her thighs don’t touch for sure but it won’t be in that triangle at the top of the thighs kinda way - it will likely just look like she’s unusually thin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 08:15 PM
6

HAHAHAHA the comeback! Love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 04:24 PM
2

Aw, thanks 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 09:25 PM
8

What the fuck did I just read?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 09:09 PM
22

The whole post is disturbing but what really got me: “bra straps hanging out the side” 💀💀💀 I— just—hm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 04:30 PM
12

What I imagine it’s like: sometimes uni feels like I’m in the bottom of a dark, empty well and it’s almost like I don’t remember how I got here but everything stinks, there’s no way to get out, but there’s a distant light above. I assume there’s better times ahead but until then, I’m just stuck in a well - trying my best given the circumstances. But on good days, I realize the well has always been a mental trap and I don’t ever have to be there. I think the women in RA aren’t even cognizant to t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 04:17 PM
11

The name part was really sad because I can’t understand why she just didn’t give her child her own name, at least hyphenate?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 04:02 PM
3

It sounds like you have been giving this person a lot of chances. I’m sorry you are losing such a long time person that has been in your life - that is very difficult. But it’s also for the best because it doesn’t seem like she has your (or other women’s) best interests at heart. You’re making the right choice. All the best during this difficult time. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 11:45 PM
12

Whoaaa. The gfs don’t know about the OF?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 11:12 PM
26

This comment reminded me of a friend who went on a date with a man who ordered an appetizer for them to share. What the actual fuck, right? Edit: the shared appetizer was the whole meal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 02:02 AM
15

The depravity of men is bottomless. It doesn’t matter what women wear. They always come up with an excuse for why it’s acceptable for them to be fucking creeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:24 PM
30

You’re.. joking.. hahahahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 05:59 PM
6

Ugh. I’m so weary of my information being online but LinkedIn is one of those platforms you should have as a professional. I never update mine because I’m paranoid af. I also see people posting their current workplace and things like that... it’s so crazy to me! But simultaneously I’ll likely have to bite the bullet to help network / find a job when I graduate. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 05:58 PM
22

I’m sorry that it has to be that way. Since finding FDS, I think I’m quicker than ever in knowing who I want to cut off immediately. When I first found this sub, I was still entertaining a shitty male friend who basically used me as a free therapist but was also racist, rude, and most other negative traits you can think of. Why? Because most times he wasn’t that bad so I let other things slide. But no more - FDS helped me see the light to cut him off cold turkey and haven’t talked to him since. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 03:13 PM
41

Honestly the implication of the last sentence is too true. They really trying those games at night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 02:47 PM
96

Everyone, there’s a popular AskReddit post currently trending asking sex workers if they had ever fallen for their John. The amount of “I started stripping at 18”, “I was in an abusive relationship at the time”, “I was poor”, “sex trafficked” stories leading to these oh-so heart warming romances is sick. One guy even said he’s in the best relationship of his life with his fiancée who is is a stripper, and his profile shows him and the fiancée have decided to open their relationship. WHAT! The re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 02:31 PM
37

Story time. I had a situationship(-ish) with a LVM where he would have random periods of acting really cold, distant and basically giving me the silent treatment. First, I would try to figure out what was wrong while being so nice, but was always met with, “I’m okay. Nothing’s wrong”, which obviously just made me fucking annoyed because why is he acting like a sociopath if everything is fine? I would then return the behavior, which changed little. Moral of the story: Remove these men from your l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:57 PM
16

I agree. I read the image and was surprised by the # of upvotes in correlation to the caption.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:41 PM
1

Honestly I thought there was mention of a child. It’s all a mess for real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 05:00 PM
11

Holy... this comment definitely introduced an aspect I hadn’t thought of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 03:38 PM
3

Oh my gosh! I READ THAT ONE. Like what?! Literally why is she keeping him around? She said he’s her fiancé. Watch her go marry him even though he’s been unemployed like 90% of the time she’s known him. She said she wants to be on the title of his house because of all the mortgage payments she’s made but honestly she just needs to forget that money and leave that man in his raggedy house that “needs 70K worth of repairs”. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 10:01 AM
4

I saw it here but I didn’t look for the op. This is mostly due to the fact that the RA sub makes me irrationally upset (obv because I literally don’t know those people) but there’s so much toxic behavior described there. It can be overwhelming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 01:35 AM
5

Aw damn, sorry, sis. :( Edit: but also yes, not wasting time is a silver lining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 11:27 PM
2

This is interesting to me because I’ve been on a more normal pre-pandemic schedule due to work. Have you been doing some socially distanced hangs? Like catch up face to face on a walk or going to the mall or even getting take out and eating somewhere outdoors kind of thing? Not sure where you’re located or how seriously you’re isolating (because I know some people really can’t risk it for health reasons, etc.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 08:41 PM
4

I chuckled at “someone (me)”. Your place sounds lovely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 08:37 PM
5

Cheers to that. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 08:33 PM
14

I just decided to check out relationship_advice to find a post that was mentioned here annnnd those people are a fucking mess. Some of those titles really leave me speechless, confused, and so concerned for how some people are living. All the best to them, for real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 08:30 PM
3

How does anyone decide to talk to someone they didn’t even know well in the first place, after 14 years?! I could never. I don’t talk to people for 2-3 years and I’m like “Well that’s a wrap. I can never talk to them again.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 08:28 PM
8

I honestly don’t see the problem because the solution is so much more glaringly obvious. I hope she lets go for her sake and her kid’s, it truly does not sound like this man contributing anything to this woman’s life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 08:18 PM
8

I feel like it could be if you’re doing something to improve your life, like getting sponsorships, or promoting a brand/business. But regular scrolling through Instagram is most definitely not a hobby. That’s like saying sitting on the toilet on Reddit is a hobby lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 08:10 PM
52

The prelude to some “The Handmaid’s Tale” type hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:29 AM
49

I’ve never done one of these but wanted to try for laughs. “sucks at texting but extrovert in person” = I’m on my phone often but you wouldn’t be worth replying to in a timely manner “Guess i cherish face to face conversations more” = I’ll ask to meet 5 minutes into texting “Simplicity is everything” = I’m a boring person “i don’t get why people go on expensive dates” = I’m broke as fuck and will take you on walking ‘dates’ to grab some water at a local coffee shop “ok i sound cheap” = just maki…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:09 PM
16

Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:27 PM
131

Well he’s definitely not over his ex. Is it just me or are too many men emotionally unavailable because they’re hung up on some ex from like 5 years ago? And they’re trying to convince everyone otherwise? Uuuugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 09:59 PM
4

Exactly. I laughed because it sounds ridiculous. Where does one even begin...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 12:49 AM
11

Absolutely disturbed. I had to stop reading before he came to whatever shite conclusion one can come to after typing out so much drivel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 12:46 AM
9

I do not frequent those types of subreddits as much as I did when I first joined Reddit. At first I was amused but quickly grew tired of the negativity and toxicity of the posts. The upside of Reddit is all of these thoughts and opinions I would not otherwise encounter at my fingertips but the downside is the same. Unfollowing those subs has definitely made my time here more enjoyable and keeps me in a less jaded mental space. Relationship subs are indeed the worst though. The number one complai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 12:43 AM
2

Holy fuck. I am SO angry reading this. Someone give this woman a hug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:05 PM
9

Ahh. One of my male ‘friends’ plans on proposing to his gf next year but this is also the same person who was giving me mixed messages for a while, comments on how random women are “so beautiful” regularly, and once asked me if I “don’t ever just see someone and want to.. does hip thrusting motion”. Sometimes I really wonder about him and his gf and if he acts like this in front of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:41 PM
4

This got popular once on r/ tinder and the men in the posts were so mad at her. “It was so funny, dodged a bullet bro” 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:38 PM
26

“What are the odds?! Must be fate” made me laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 08:59 PM
28

Low key offended this woman thinks we’re trying to pick-up men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 08:45 PM
9

I feel like the Internet equates “a woman can get dates and male attention” to “a woman can easily find the type of lasting relationship she’s looking for”. When what they’re really saying is “a woman can get dates and male attention” = “a woman can find a man willing to have sex but I can’t because women don’t like me, I’m average looking boooo :(” It’s so tiring because getting dates =/= dating one person who you see lasting potential with. So what if women get dates? So what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:05 PM
12

Before finding this sub, I did discuss some of my standards with 2 male friends and they both said I was never going to find a man like that. I mean granted, I didn’t take their word for it but I thought to myself, even if that’s true, I guess I’ll just be alone. But then I found FDS and you ladies taught me that my standards aren’t high enough - the ceiling is not the limit. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:57 PM
3

This is a really good point. I feel that no woman of sound mind would say something like this, much less have such a BIZARRE plan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:48 PM
1

LOL WHAT. I’m sorry but is this a joke? If so, I did laugh but if not... yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:47 PM
3

Ah, I’ll take your word for it and not click it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:45 PM
8

Definitely movie plot material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:48 PM
6

Makes sense to me. The fact that women venture to men’s homes on, especially, the first date after meeting that day, for sex? Why? Stay safe, everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 01:51 PM
59

She has an all female bridge team?! That’s so inspiring. I legit started tearing up — I am so happy when women are getting to the heights of careers they weren’t able to in the past / were turned away from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 01:31 PM
7

That’s great! We love to hear it. Good luck 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:40 PM
8

Like many of you, I think what stood out the most is this idea some women have that they need to be “ride or dies” and “my man” this or that or that they need to be there to see a ~transformation.~ All too giving and not nearly selfish enough, which would be for our own benefit. Always sad. Currently, I know a couple who would really be better off separating but they won’t (of course not) and a mutual friend was romanticizing the situation: “You know, it’s so good when you can learn who your par…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:50 PM
9

“...and he chuckled” What a fucking psycho. I hope she continues to see this assault for what it is and he doesn’t end up convincing her otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:14 PM
3

I was thinking this exact thought just recently. There with you all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 01:38 AM
11

I didn’t watch the video but did read the caption under the video, which was unsettling in how it implied she learned something valuable (I.e. that she wouldn’t have otherwise learned). BUT did she really say that in the video? Aw, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:17 PM
3

That last title hahaha. People say that a lot of the relationship advice sub is fabricated stories and it very well may be, but simultaneously I feel like I have been known to grossly overestimate people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 01:05 PM
9

Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 08:01 PM
3

Nah, I thought he was too but he’s definitely lost the appeal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 07:58 PM
11

Oh nooo. Imagine finding out about your partner’s secret children after TWO years and your biggest struggle is trying to figure out how to let go of your “negative feelings” regarding the lies and deceit. I hope she makes the right decision before she decides she still wants to give this man more children he doesn’t want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:14 PM
21

Too pressed to date? Sis needs to reprioritize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:31 AM
7

That sub was unsettling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:13 AM
2

Of course 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:06 AM
23

Ugh, the comments on the original post are praising this situation. Someone mentioned the “romance” of it all. I hope they were being sarcastic. She invited herself to a laundromat with someone and he agreed. Oh, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:04 AM
6

It looks like it may be one of the Buzzfeed videos where celebrities get asked questions while playing with puppies. Edit: Keanu and puppies - buzzfeed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:51 AM
45

I cackled in the library. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:13 PM
1

I know a particular man that cooks well and enjoys cooking and has used it as a selling point to bring women home and sleep with them on first dates. Women tend to love the fact that a man can cook so men use it to their advantage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:22 PM
69

This is where they meet for coffee then head to the field.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:33 PM
7

what the fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:49 AM
2

That final paragraph... why include that? It really seals the deal on why he’s so bitter. The only thing that gives him purpose is exercise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:14 PM
5

Yessssss! snaps! His behavior was downright disrespectful and they always only come correct when you establish you won’t stand for disrespectful behavior. It’s sad. You did well. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:43 PM
6

Agreed. I feel like the posts that gain overnight traction end up getting deleted quite often. Those must be the real stories because some of the posts in that sub are so bizarre that I can’t bring myself to believe them haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:12 PM
6

I learn so much from you all everyday. Thank you. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:38 PM
15

Oh geez, that’s horrible. How can someone do that to someone else? I hope she’s going well now, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:39 PM
7

Right, sis. The Venn diagram is a circle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:31 PM
46

What kills me about posts like these is that it’s always some woman who has been dating the man for “a few months” (but even if it was YEARS, it’s not excusable). But knowing someone for a few months and having this kind of issue, whyyyyyyy is she still in this relationship? What is she looking for and this huge problem isn’t reason enough to cut your losses? Especially if she’s only known the man a few months. I just cannot comprehend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:20 PM
10

Truly. The majority of the posts with these crazy age gaps are so unsettling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:04 PM
62

I snorted. This was funny. A field is bizarre and he thought her idea of a normal date was strange?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:40 AM
25

I find that men praise other men for having beards so maybe that’s why they’re so keen to have dramatic beards. But heaven forbid women have a centimeter of armpit/leg hair and it’s because we’re unhygienic animals. Yeah, okay. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 01:11 AM
46

My goshhh. I hope it’s real too. I think it’s so gross how her fans always leave comments praising their relationship when she posts photos of them together meanwhile the man is a POS. It’s like, why, if you care about Cardi as her fan, would you want her to be with this man who everyone knows cheats on her?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:31 PM
1

This sounds amazing! Keep going! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:03 PM
6

The depravity is bottomless. 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 01:27 PM
3

I love this. Wishing you the best! You got this! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 12:52 PM
5

What kind of foolery... I can’t even fathom... just??? I laughed but seriously, what is he trying to accomplish? Pull up in a parking lot for a few minutes — maybe he’s selling something. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:11 AM
3

How did he believe he had the time/resources to entertain multiple women when he needed to find a job? Logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 01:55 AM
7

I feel like they are everywhere. Not sure if it’s my age demographic (20s) but I’m under the impression a lot of the men now and into their 30s sink significant time and money into video games. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 01:31 AM
5

I agree. I’m not religious and have no problem with people who are in a general sense but there are some people who are so anti-religion that they make it a goal in life to insult religion/religious things at every turn. It’s like, give it a rest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 02:50 PM
21

lol what the fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:52 AM
14

Sis, even that sounds better than what it was. For me, he liked to passionately argue the other viewpoint to get a rise out of me then say “I don’t even believe the opinion I was arguing, I’m just playing devil’s advocate. And you’re getting so mad while I’m calm” it really makes you wanna choke someone out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:13 AM
6

This post made me realize thaaaat when I told this guy friend I would ‘hang out with him’ (at his invitation), dude really twisted it in his mind to believe we were on some pseudo-date because he kept acting really flirtatious. I was uncomfortable to say anything as to not be awkward (even though hah, he was the one making it awkward) so I kept not reciprocating but it’s like he had no self awareness and was coming on so strong regardless. Damn - he really thought. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:45 PM
1

What’s truly bizarre is they are posting on a sub like that and think this sub is full of vitriol. The delusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:43 PM
1

There is a grievous lack of reading comprehension for the people who browse this sub and draw those conclusions. Once I saw a comment saying FDS preaches that women shouldn’t love their sons? wtf lmao where do they get this shit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:39 PM
3

But if she loves him enough and really communicates, she can make it work? Think of the children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:26 PM
2

It is so sad to think this woman has decidedly trapped herself with this man in having a house and children even though there have been problems since day 1. 😔 And she’s going further by trying to marry the man! I can’t imagine it. I hope someone helps her see the light.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:22 PM
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This is truth. Sometimes I caught up in remembering pleasant conversation, a better time, but it is quickly followed by: But remember all of the gaslighting and disrespect? The “jokes” and “playing devil’s advocate”? Or all of those times he said “you’re always offended by something and trying to start an argument” “it’s your fault we’re having an argument” “i feel like i have to defend myself because you’re always accusing me of being racist/sexist” UGH. Frankly, the fact he couldn’t see he was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:40 PM
11

I am cackling. “From the past” lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 09:12 PM
3

He said that shit out loud? I hope sis leaves. 😔 3 years or not, the man has shown his true colors. And I would find it hard to believe this was the first of this kind of exchange.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 07:29 PM
2

It’s true. I’ve learned that sometimes I have to let people learn the hard way. I have a close friend who definitely exhibits pickme tendencies and pursues men who are simply awful to her but she craves their time and attention. I used to speak out against it, try to make her see reason (“No, girl, it’s not you. You have to be good enough for yourself. You have to love yourself. He cheated because he wanted to” etc.) but she has never heeded any advice so now I’m simply an onlooker. It’s sad but…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:36 PM
2

Ew. That is all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 04:47 PM
5

And they say romance is dead..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 04:53 PM
6

That description was amazing but not sold on Sea Hag haha. Maybe Siren Song or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:26 AM
2

Completely absurd. What a psycho. I can’t believe he typed all of those words and didn’t see a problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:19 AM
2

This artist posts her work on IG as @mrs.frollein. She has a lot of cute relationship ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:15 AM
9

I deleted the messages but reading posts on this sub make me think back to specific texts... and then I’m like the girl in the picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 04:03 AM
3

I truly did not realize that this was a common type of individual. I was friends with a man like this and had to cut him off because he would say things like in the OP. And after arguing me into the ground would say that he didn’t believe the opinion he was so firmly defending and I needed to calm down. Truly, truly sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 03:29 AM
3

Very excited for you to start anew!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 12:30 AM
1

I never considered this perspective but it’s entirely true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 05:16 AM
16

I always tell people I was raised by an army of women, which is basically true. My mother was/is a responsible single mother as my father died when I was 2. My mother also has 2 sisters while my father has 4 sisters. Throughout my life, these women have been the ones leading me and I never witnessed bad relationships from any of them. My mother never introduced me to the men she was dating unless it was actually more serious. Since it was also just my mom and I, I actually had to be very indepen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 05:40 PM
1

I’m of the mindset that I don’t judge people on their clothing because I don’t know their life, etc. etc. When I find myself judging other women’s clothing in particular, I definitely ask myself why I’m feeling the way I do to pinpoint if I am feeling some kind of insecurities and projecting. That aside, I did see a man in an IHOP recently wearing the grimiest looking sweatpants that were too short for him and a ratty t-shirt that was too short so his gut hung out in the space between his shirt …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 06:33 PM
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