Satanks Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
18	Is it better to stay with someone you love at a young age?	Discussion	Satanks	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/20 04:43 PM
1	What's up with toxic femininity?	Discussion	Satanks	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 03:03 AM

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1	Men don't age like wine. They hit the wall at the same exact time women do. lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/20 12:46 AM
1	Men don't age like wine. They hit the wall at the same exact time women do. You can be hot with a bald head, but it depends on the skull shape. One of my teachers in highschool was fairly young, and bald, but damn he was fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/20 10:44 PM
1	CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselves I don't see being kind to people who made a mistake as coddling. It's just empathy	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/20 03:56 PM
1	CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselves No the fact that stupidity should apparently result in capital punishment. Sounds like eugenics and ableism	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/20 06:21 AM
-1	CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselves sounds like some nazi shit	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/20 06:09 AM
1	CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselves You're saying reality is sentient? Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/20 05:58 AM
6	CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselves Agreed, the only thing that's going to help is holding back on sex IMO	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/20 09:25 PM
1	CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselves Not really, ethics are a big field that aren't dominated by folks with a might makes right philosophy, that's the cool thing about ethics and philosophy in general, it's very diverse. Ethics aren't the same as law. Actually, people do selfless things all the time, but being selfless isn't exactly the same as gaining power. You seem to have a very Machiavellian view of the world, which is understandable, but when you use such a philosophy to justify harming others (not saying YOU do, just saying …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/20 09:24 PM
2	CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselves that's the kind of mindset that leads to people justifying being deceptive to others because they just want to 'win', doesn't matter who they step on. Sure, it may be the leading philosophy of many, doesn't make it ethical.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/20 09:00 PM
4	CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselves Men can lead people on just as women can	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/20 08:59 PM
5	CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselves The good thing about going through that kind of situation is that it makes it easier to clock in the future. Actions speak louder than words, if someone tells you they wanna be there for you and will always be your friend, ask yourself if they have shown that to be the case to any degree. It's basically how I met my fiance, I noticed he was probably the one dude I met in years who was actually kind to me with no expectations for anything in return. Compare that to all the fuck boy types who will…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/20 08:57 PM
5	CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselves sometimes you don't know if a dude is pulling the same shit on other women, these dudes tend to be good at lying by omittance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/20 08:51 PM
4	CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselves Yes, the good thing is that these dudes typically expose themselves as weasels, so that means women have a better chance of finding a genuine partner. However, being dishonest is pretty scummy and I'm not gonna say that people doing that is a good thing. I guess the only good part of that scenario is that hopefully, the person will be more careful next time. I actually met one of those dudes before getting in a relationship with my fiance, dude was buttering me up for weeks saying shit about 'we…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/20 08:49 PM
5	CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselves Agreed. There are plenty of guys who will lie about wishing for an LTR or being close friends just to get sex, and then move on to the next girl. These dudes strike me as harem anime types lol. Thankfully it's also these guys that make women aware that actions speak louder than words, and will be sure to spend longer vetting before allowing sex with someone who expresses an interest in an LTR. With casual sex, when someone is honest, there is no deception.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/20 08:44 PM
3	CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselves No one is entitled to it, but there is something wrong with lying to people about your intentions just to get sex. Unfortunately part of growing up is recognizing that actions speak louder than words. However, that doesn't mean naive people deserve to be duped.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/20 08:41 PM
7	CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselves Agree, but let's not pretend abusing someone's naive nature isn't very Machiavellian. Honesty is the best policy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/20 08:38 PM
3	CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselves Basically guys who love to watch harem anime	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/20 08:33 PM
2	CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselves Well, then your not the kind of guy u/FantasticChipmunk is talking about. It's more about the men who will explicitly promise things only to go back on their promise once sex has been achieved. Basically, leading someone on about friendship/LTR.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/20 08:32 PM
10	CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselves The issue is, men will lie about their intentions. They will express a wish to date long term, then once they get sex, they retract the offer and move onto other women, and the cycle repeats. They do this because they know if they get clocked for pulling the same bs with other women, they will likely lose the chance to have sex. However, someone who is honest about just wanting a fuck will not run the same risk of being denied sex. The guys who pull this shit tend to be the types that love watch…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/20 08:29 PM
8	CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselves I have no issue with casual sex, but when someone butters you up about being in a relationship as a lie to get sex, that's when I get pissed off because it's incredibly dishonest and scummy. The guys that do this shit seem to the type to watch harem anime	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/20 08:26 PM
7	CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselves kinda funny how someone can tolerate someone for months to get sex, but once the sex has been had they move on. That's very dishonest behaviour lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/20 08:22 PM
4	CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselves It's still lying, if you explicitly tell someone you are interested in an LTR with them, and then retract that after sex, you are lying by omittance since you didn't specify that you wanted a general LTR instead of one with that particular person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/20 08:21 PM
1	I think the men on this sub over-idealize virgin women I still think it's dishonest to suggest that people do this just to withhold sex from other virgins	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/20 12:56 AM
1	I think the men on this sub over-idealize virgin women I think there's a middle ground. I was a virgin before I got together with my fiance, but it's not like I didn't want to lose my v-card. I did, in fact like most others that age my hormones were raging, I also had people who wanted to hook up with me. The problem is I've never liked casual intimacy, it mostly feels fake to me, like the person doesn't really care about me. So I decided to wait, at the behest of my fiance who back then was a close friend I had a big crush on, we discussed my issue…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/20 09:29 PM
1	I think the men on this sub over-idealize virgin women Hormones are a simple answer. If you're 18+ and still a virgin, your libido can shoot up very high and it becomes hard to resist the opportunity to lose your V-card. Long term relationships are serious commitments, it would be a dick move to date, someone, to lose your virginity. You have to see a future with someone and it has to be mutual. Before I met my fiance, I was in the same situation as a lot of girls. I had a high libido and was sick of being a virgin, but at the same time, I had some …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/20 09:15 PM
1	I think the men on this sub over-idealize virgin women the post is about virgins, not high n-count. virgins arent the only non-hos	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/20 09:05 PM
1	Is Revenge Porn worse than False Accusation of Sexual Assault? You realise people can hide cameras right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/20 05:07 PM
1	Is Revenge Porn worse than False Accusation of Sexual Assault? False accusations rarely go anywhere, revenge porn on the other hand is devastating most of the time. Revenge porn is worse, however being falsely charged is worse than revenge porn. Though again, most false accusations remain as accusations rather than court cases, much less convictions. Personally it disturbs me how much people over exaggerate the number of false accusations when we know for a fact that most rapes and sexual assaults go unreported. I got accused of making a false accusation, o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/20 05:05 PM
2	If a girl openly says she wants to find a guy who makes enough to support her and let her be a SAHM TIL women who want to live a natural lifestyle raising kids and taking care of house work are just poor slaves, victims to their master husband. Personally I'd love to be a SAMH, is that feasible? Maybe, maybe not. My fiance and i are both software students, so I could at the very least work less hours or from home. I will say that my fiance was the first person I had full sex with, aka lost my virginity too. I don't think he'd be ok with a SAMH who had a high body count	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/20 04:52 PM
1	Is there a shortage of "quality" marriage material men out there? I'm 21f and currently engaged, in many ways yes. Men have generally lost the goal of settling down and having a family, hookup culture seems more pervasive and I've found people are less committed. Some guys will basically use women to monkey branch to other women, like a temporary girlfriend who will prevent them from falling into single status while they try attracting a new partner. Others will lie blatantly about their intentions to get sexual activity, then they will just move on to the nex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/20 04:25 PM
1	Women have insecurities but do not tolerate insecurities in men. No sauce? Honestly calling half the human planet 'irrational beings' sounds very misogynistic. Also, perceived as irrational? Hmm. Christian shariah maybe...	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/20 04:02 PM
2	Doesn't the low participation of women on online dating apps actually prove that women care about personality more than they care about looks? I think most the 'pairing' up happens in real life. Yes, women have an easier time having sex with 'chads', but that is not the same as a long term relationship which is the goal of many.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/20 06:43 PM
1	Doesn't the low participation of women on online dating apps actually prove that women care about personality more than they care about looks? This is absolutely the case IMO. The majority of relationships I know of amongst peers, and even my own engagement, started out as friendships or they were acquaintances prior to dating. Of course I am not saying long term relationships never start from apps like tindr or snapchat, it's just that the majority I have seen formed IRL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/20 06:41 PM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. Oh absolutely I agree that humans are not motivated by what would make the world a better place and are motivated by what would benefit themselves and their inner circle, some people assume this is limited to the human species but it is not. Say if someone has thousands of dollars to spend and their dog needed surgery, but so did a kid in Sudan, most people would choose their dog, since the dog is within their inner circle. Now I will say, although we are motivated selfishly most of the time, we…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 08:04 PM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. Finally you are moving on from arbitrary attributes. Yes, there is utility in creating laws that protect others from harm. By that same logic meat and dairy would be phase out considering the livestock industry is the leading contributor to habitat loss, ocean dead zones, 90% of Amazon deforestation and there top 15 killer diseases in humans such as heart disease, diabetes, cancer. On top of that it is an incredibly waste of resources, 100,000 liters of water are required to produce 1lb of meat.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 06:54 PM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. Why do you care about if starnger children or women are disenfranchised? They are not your inner circle, you should have no ethical or empathetic concern about a group by your own logic. Name where I used a term such as heretic or blasphemer to describe meat eaters. You said society must take into account the biological superiority of groups, and that these groups pleasure interests should be valued much higher than those beneath them. So, there would be nothing wrong with rape, because why shou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 06:37 PM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. Empathy and ethics are not the same thing, you don't need empathy to follow an ethical system. You need to be rational. Do you understand what religion is? Because you keep using it to describe things that are not at all a religion. If we created laws based on sophist principles, it would be ok to rape anyone because they 1) aren't all in your immediate circle, 2) are biologically inferior to adults, 3) the dominant would feel pleasure from it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 06:19 PM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. Ethics are not religion, though to those who afford no moral value to anyone but their inner circle, you probably see it as such since you're following your own 'religion', sophistry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 06:11 PM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. Empathy isn't a mystical force. Neither is ethics. Actually you do believe it is fine, you said so yourself and keep doing such. Except because you follow and egoic system of ethics, you only believe that systems should protect your inner circle. The disabled and animals aren't considered by you at all	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 06:10 PM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. You take it as an insult because you live through your ego	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 06:01 PM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. No, fascist philosophy is based on appeals to nature that allow the dominant force to exploit others with no remorse or empathy. No one is trying to get bears or pigs to vote, you just think it's fine to abuse them since it benefits the dominant force. That is fascism at play	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 06:00 PM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. It's not an insult, it's what I've gathered from your own philosophical views. Beyond your immediate self (ego), you don't find inherent moral value in anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 05:45 PM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. 'Might makes right' is a common philosophy adopted by fascists because by appeals to nature it allows them to justify exploitation to everyone who isn't themselves	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 05:43 PM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. Ah ok so same philosophy as any other fascist	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 05:36 PM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. We have ethics and laws that apply to vast swathes of people, do you think life should be a free for all? Clearly you do since you have no concept of humanity beyond your own ego	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 05:35 PM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. You're ignoring my question	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 05:27 PM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. Humans have moral agency. You seem to believe "might makes right"	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 05:27 PM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. What about disabled humans who have very limited sentience? Should we value them with far less consideration?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 05:23 PM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. Just because some harm is unavoidable that does not mean all harm is justified	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 05:00 PM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. Exploitation isn't ethical in the least.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 04:58 PM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. Why are human right considered at all, why does sentience matter? Microbes aren't sentient at all by the way. Simple, because they have the capacity to suffer. Without sentience there is no capacity to experience anything positive or negative, agony does not exist, neither does joy. Humans aren't the only animal who can suffer, so why should humans put animals through agony for unecesscary reasons? Your position is the most arbitrary of them all, you'd think 'because we're humans'	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 04:51 PM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. It's not arbitrary	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 04:44 PM
1	The reason why most men struggle with dating is because OLD doesn’t work and cold approaching doesn’t work Agreed	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 06:46 AM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. Again, you are making an appeal to nature. Microbes are not sentient.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 06:46 AM
10	Many mental disorders more negatively affect a man's fertility than a woman's (some to a significant extent) As an autistic women I agree. We are far more likely to be raped or abused, because we can't read red flags as well as neurotypicals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 04:11 AM
6	The reason why most men struggle with dating is because OLD doesn’t work and cold approaching doesn’t work I might be off base here since I have no clue what OLD is, but I met my fiance in my software development class. I firmly believe making friends is the best way to find relationships, it allows for a lot of vetting and deep conversations that would probably be missed otherwise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 04:10 AM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. I know he isn't. He has spoken on canadian television about it	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 04:06 AM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. None of that has any impact on ethics, it's also highly subjective to each animal. A herbivore would not kill you if given a chance, they only hurt people if they feel threatened or are being territorial. Again, we do not justify slaughter of our competitors simply for competing with us. Nor do we base our laws or ethics on the actions of animals who have very limited moral agency compared to humans. This is an appeal to nature fallacy	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/20 04:05 AM
0	Why do some beautiful women become sex workers instead of marrying a rich provider? Rich men are hard to find and also being in a monogamous relationship when you're extremely beautiful is bound to be hard unless you have a lower sex drive or are with a soul mate, you'd have so many opportunities for sex. Also generally unless you plan on being a SAMH, women like to earn their own income for stability reasons. I'm sure Aella Girl makes good money	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/20 05:15 PM
2	In your experience, what have been the differences between the men you've just slept with and the ones you wanted/had a relationship with? Was bb/af part of it or it was a completely different system not discussed in PPD? I never had full sex with the dude but he was essentially a very charming guy who knew what to say to a girl, but was completely full of shit. Will butter you up and make it seem like he's interested in dating but is really just interested in upping his number of conquests. Now, there's nothing wrong with hookups. It's just annoying when people lie about their intentions to get in your pants. I'm autistic as well so I hate such mind games. My fiance was really honest about intentions, was kind t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/20 06:39 AM
3	Why would you chose to sleep around rather than look for a relationship first? I got the former option and am happy with it, hook up culture seems very stressful and lonely at times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/20 06:23 AM
4	Why would you chose to sleep around rather than look for a relationship first? I got engaged at 20(f), my fiance 22(m) was was the first person I had sex with. I just hated the way hookup culture works, I can't read intentions well enough to navigate maybe due to being autistic. IMO best to be with someone who is your best friend unless you have a very high sex drive and can't deal with a monogamous relationship. It's been a good choice, I could have had hookups pretty easily but I wanted to wait for someone I trust. Don't really wanna risk broken hearts and STDs, a wise m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/20 06:19 AM
6	In most couples, is the woman more attractive than the man? it's about even imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/20 06:10 AM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. nice non peer reviewed study, idiot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/20 06:01 AM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. He has talked about his views on TV. He doesnt see anything wrong. He takes the decarte view that animals are a means to an end, biological machines and resources. Name the difference, because people love to get offended by comparing humans to animals despite humans being animals ourselves. There is no meaningful trait difference that justifies killing 2 trillion animals each year, if we did to humans what we did to animals all humans who live currently and have ever lived would be extinct in a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/20 01:37 PM
1	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. Unfortunately I don't see anything changing at this rate. If Adam Smith rose from the dead he too would be called a 'sOcIaLiSt', at least if he discussed his ethical concerns about 'the way it is'. Unfortunately I have to take issue with Peterson for his view on ethics, especially on his view of Animal Rights. He seems to understand that good men can behave in evil ways, sadly he is right. We have victimized animals to the point they are not even considered victims. That's always what happens in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/20 12:39 AM
4	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. Lesbians do not desire the male gaze	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 10:12 PM
5	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. I know was more female loners than male asexuals, I was a loner in high school mostly because I am autistic. I also knew other girls who were loners, and not always because they had autism, a lot of the time they were picked on by peers for being uncool, poor, or because someone started a stupid rumor. Loners aren't immediately doomed to death either, not in the past. Autistic people still exist today, in the past they would likely have spent a rather solitary life working on a special interest …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 10:11 PM
5	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. Marriage and children is still personally my long term goal. I see so many people around my age (21) who are lonely, sure they can have casual sex but they still want a long term partner, maybe for the aesthetics, maybe for the solidarity that comes with a relationship. Plus, with COVID and future pandemics which are bound to happen in our current food system (factory farming causes pandemics and antibiotic resistant disease outbreaks, only gonna get worse), people will be more isolated than eve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 10:06 PM
41	CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older. i know plenty lonely women. Society is becoming more and more socially isolated, now more than ever it's important to have a best friend or partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/20 09:47 PM
3	UK: 'Bring back manly men!' Harry Styles is SLAMMED for wearing a dress in Vogue as jounalist insists 'no society can survive without strong' males. The feminization of men at the same time that Marxism is being taught to children is no coincidence Imagine if this was a woman wearing a suit, do you think we'd be getting this reaction? No. It's unfortunate that people are getting so upset over a man wearing clothes, this narrative that anyone going against gender norms is 'destroying society' is the kind of thing fascists say. In their mind anything that deviates from their own ideal must be evil.	/r/MensRights	17/11/20 03:29 PM
1	Do you think Kindness is seen as a weakness in our society? Are you talking about in the current food system? Because if so, yes we do have a choice. Animal protein needs at least 10kg of plant protein and 100,000 litres of water to create 1kg of animal protein, it is incredibly inefficient. And let's not pretend that vast majority comes from insects, we are talking about mammals, birds and fish. The vast majority of crops on this planet are fed to livestock, despite high rates of starvation and drought in the countries that produce such crops as it majo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 07:46 PM
1	Do you think Kindness is seen as a weakness in our society? anti-zoophilia laws are not commonly enforced, let alone existent in all countries. How do you think we get so many cows, chickens and pigs? They dont breed naturally. Funny that shoving a fist up a cows ass isn't considered zoophilia. Also, yes we have minor regulations against abuse of pets. But what percentage of animals on the planet are pets? 60% of mammals are livestock and they have NO rights at all, certainly none that prevent them from being put in a gas chamber or having their throats …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 06:05 PM
4	Women of PPD, would you prefer to marry a Bachelor or a Divorcé? Women won't want a never married guy, it means, to her pea brain, that he couldn't get married, rather than choosing not to, so that's a red flag because no other women pre-selected him, so something may be wrong. This is rather silly, people who have never been married continue to get married to each other, false assumption on your part. So you do what women do, you lie to them Obvious projection here	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 05:39 PM
0	Do you think Kindness is seen as a weakness in our society? Except these things are not lies, these explanations have been given in court, are documentable excuses given by men and their lawyers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 05:35 PM
1	Do you think Kindness is seen as a weakness in our society? How do animals have the oppressive force of the state behind them? Last time I check we aren't at war with chickens, pigs or cows, in fact these animals have NO rights at all and are slaughtered in billions each year. No force of the state their except against them. Tbh Plants can also harm you, in fact some plants can kill you	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 05:32 PM
1	Do you think Kindness is seen as a weakness in our society? Wouldn't that be mercy rather than kindness? Mercy is a form of kindness. How about doing harm to that which will do no harm to you, or rather, not hurting something that wouldn't hurt you. People reject this idea 3 times a day	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 04:22 PM
1	Do you think Kindness is seen as a weakness in our society? “Boys will be boys” is a standard feminist lie and not what the phrase means. You’ve watched too many feminist scripted propaganda movies. Then say what it means? Stop lying about everything. be specific.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 04:20 PM
6	Do you think Kindness is seen as a weakness in our society? True, when people go against their own morals they degrade their conscience and sense of self. People tend to forget that being kind in itself can be a pleasure, so long as you have the mirror neurons that will allow you to enjoy another's happiness. It's just about learning how to be kind without becoming a doormat to peer predators, the best way is just to save your kindness for people who also display some, or those who cannot harm you. No point in doing favors for people who wouldn't do the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 04:18 PM
6	CMV: Women’s physical attractiveness comes mostly from makeup and their bodyweight, men’s physical attractiveness comes mostly from their genetics This is just untrue. Men who get jaw surgery for an overbite or underbite jump up drastically after surgery, as do men with large noses. Sticking fake tits on a woman with an unattractive face is like putting pink tassels on a camo bicycle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 04:15 PM
2	Do you think Kindness is seen as a weakness in our society? No, being kind does not automatically mean weakness. Humans would have never made it out of the plains with such a mindset.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 04:13 PM
1	Do you think Kindness is seen as a weakness in our society? Yes, it is. It's the same reason people will view meat as 'manly' despite animal product industry being one of the cruelest industries, the top polluter, the destroyer of oceans, the most destructive to wilderness and rainforests. People will just ignore all of that harm because they think if we are not to top predator, who will be? If we are kind, who will take advantage? Nice guys finish last, right? People have a 'dog eat dog' and 'might makes right' mentality, it's part fear part selfishness…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 04:09 PM
3	Do you think Kindness is seen as a weakness in our society? You also hamstring society when in attempt to avoid predators via use of strength you then turn into a predator, as humans have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 03:59 PM
1	CMV: Women’s physical attractiveness comes mostly from makeup and their bodyweight, men’s physical attractiveness comes mostly from their genetics im Scottish so i have no clue about football i just googled her and couldn't see the ugly i guess xD but i can see how she might not be some peoples type because she does have a very characterful face	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 03:58 PM
2	Do women even have any problems in dating? The main one is deception. Some guys will say absolutely anything to get you in a position where they can have sex, including making you think they have an emotional investment in you when they are not interested in dating long term or even being friends. The other big risk is being raped, women are naturally weaker than men so if you get into a hairy situation with a guy the odds are very much against you. It's even more risky if you're a socially awkward person, or autistic because then you do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 03:54 PM
10	Do women even have any problems in dating? Yup, dating can be very dangerous especially if you're like me (autistic) and can't read people very well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 03:34 PM
1	CMV: Women’s physical attractiveness comes mostly from makeup and their bodyweight, men’s physical attractiveness comes mostly from their genetics There's been studies that show women who either rate high or low (as in are one mans 9 another mans 2) actually get more messages on dating apps than the women who score consistently high. Perhaps because they seem more approachable. Look at the craze about goth girlfriends and tomboy girlfriends too. I will also say Mahomes has been dating her for 8 years and they started dating in highschool, so however valuable you perceive him to be now is not what he was back then so his wealth etc does not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 03:30 PM
3	Why won’t you go gay for pay? I'll call the Romans	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 03:25 PM
1	CMV: Women’s physical attractiveness comes mostly from makeup and their bodyweight, men’s physical attractiveness comes mostly from their genetics 10% facial structure? No way. I know girls with nothing wrong with their face structurally (because they have no deformity or malformation) who were still considered ugly. Why? Because people aren't exposed to that many types of faces in the media anymore, go watch an old movie and compare it to what you see in todays media. Many of the women featured in these films wouldn't make it far today. Basically anything that deviates from this norm is considered ugly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 03:23 PM
1	CMV: Women’s physical attractiveness comes mostly from makeup and their bodyweight, men’s physical attractiveness comes mostly from their genetics This. She's not ugly at all, she has a normal face with no structural defects, both of them have dated for more than 8 years so since highschool. It's funny how facial structure apparently only accounts for 10% of attractiveness according to OP yet here we see men freaking out about a women they find 'ugly' due to her face (Despite her having no deformity, or malformation) who is dating an NFL dude who also has a normal face. I guess they're just mad because he earns a lot of money so now he sho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 03:19 PM
1	CMV: Women’s physical attractiveness comes mostly from makeup and their bodyweight, men’s physical attractiveness comes mostly from their genetics Sorry but she's NOT ugly, she is basically the kind of girl who would be one mans 2 and another mans 9 because lots of men these days can't handle dating any women with faces that deviate from whats in magazines or on TV. Look at old movies and you will see how many 'ugly' women you can spot that were actually considered to be very beautiful then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 03:14 PM
6	CMV: Women’s physical attractiveness comes mostly from makeup and their bodyweight, men’s physical attractiveness comes mostly from their genetics If women can go under the knife so easily, why can't men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 03:06 PM
1	CMV: Women’s physical attractiveness comes mostly from makeup and their bodyweight, men’s physical attractiveness comes mostly from their genetics Men can also wear makeup, they just choose not to which means men do have an alternative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/20 03:04 PM
2	Why Men report such high rejection rate yet women claim their standards are not high but quite realistic It's sad but not surprising since people have a harder time finding friends in the first place these days	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 07:49 PM
2	caught inviting another guy over, crazy itch syndrome. MoMmY i cHeAtEd nOw He'S lEaViNG, hElP m-M-mOmMyyyyy	/r/PussyPassDenied	15/11/20 07:47 PM
6	If Chelsea Manning never transitioned, would she still be in prison? https://www.nytimes.com/2020/03/12/us/politics/chelsea-manning-released-jail.html It had nothing to do with her being trans. This article goes into what happened, but the gist of it is that she was originally arrested for refusing to testify to a grand jury, also sentenced to >30 years for the leaks. She attempted suicide, and then was released after it was found her presence was no longer necessary. She was however still fined $256,000. In short, it had nothing to do with her transitioning, and…	/r/MensRights	15/11/20 06:18 PM
2	Why Men report such high rejection rate yet women claim their standards are not high but quite realistic And yet your points had no basis in reality, you yourself dubbed them 'hyperbolic', if you want to live in your hyperbolic reality go right ahead, but your average person would call it a delusional existence. Enjoy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 05:44 PM
1	Why Men report such high rejection rate yet women claim their standards are not high but quite realistic Yes they make the point that you have an extremely delusional view on women. Can't struggle if you don't try, touche.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 05:37 PM
7	CMV: Maybe women have high standards because the average woman is really superior in terms of attractiveness than the average man You'd think it was obvious but lots of guys haven't got the memo. Although i'm a tomboy so guys seem to be more comfortable bragging about stuff since i can be viewed like 'one of the guys'	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 05:36 PM
2	Why Men report such high rejection rate yet women claim their standards are not high but quite realistic Dudes like that usually have very kind characters and are fun to be around. My fiance wasn't exactly Mr Style when we met, he was obese too, but he was extremely kind and genuine, we shared interests and sense of direction in life. However, even with a sloppy appearance you at least have to be clean. My fiance has since lost a lot of weight but he was always hygienic even in the past	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 05:33 PM
6	Why Men report such high rejection rate yet women claim their standards are not high but quite realistic This. Why would a woman want to date a man who believes your average woman is 300lbs and has half a dozen children and only wants a rich sugar daddy? It reeks of a certain kind of mental illness known as inceldom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 05:28 PM
2	Why Men report such high rejection rate yet women claim their standards are not high but quite realistic But at the very least support her and her 5 kids without her working. Because your average woman is a single mother with five children who wants to be a SAHM. This is very delusional, certainly not a good base view of women. When your standard 300 lb. ham beast with a half dozen kids and no job has a bunch of massive standards, What the hell are you getting in return for even being close to meeting those "standards"? Today I learned the average woman is 300lb and has half a dozen children, seems…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 05:25 PM
5	Why Men report such high rejection rate yet women claim their standards are not high but quite realistic Most successful relationships I know of have started out as good friendships. This is a good way to find a partner (so long as the sole intention of the friendship is not dating, because that is very hard to hide and comes off as really dishonest and manipulative) because you get to know the person very well, you can gauge the chemistry, you can see what direction you are both going in life. You cant do that via a dating app. My fiance and I started out as friends, he was always very genuinely k…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 05:19 PM
9	CMV: Maybe women have high standards because the average woman is really superior in terms of attractiveness than the average man The issue is that by making the bar for sex so low, i creates a bit of a red flag as to how faithful said person would be in a committed relationship. Before I started dating my current fiance I had some people who had showed interest, but it's also obvious that a lot of dudes are looking for sex with lots of different girls at once. This in itself is fine, people can have multiple attractions at once, but making it obvious (as a lot of men tend to brag about it) will just make girls decide to h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 05:13 PM
3	CMV: Maybe women have high standards because the average woman is really superior in terms of attractiveness than the average man Well, this makes sense. If you're a female who is very glamorous, why would you be in a relationship with someone who makes no effort on appearance? There would have to be some good reason for it, like perhaps said person has a beautiful personality, perhaps there is an amazing friendship between both, common interests and sense of direction, perhaps the woman is into men of his type. But there are also females who don't care so much about their appearance in the sense they don't wear make-up or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 05:09 PM
6	If you're getting ghosted after a ONS, it's because you only have your beauty to offer. This. It's delusional to think that the only reason a ONS didnt become a friendship or relationship is because the woman was only beautiful, usually it's because people who do one night stands usually aren't primarily interested in any form relationship, they just want the sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 05:00 PM
5	If you're getting ghosted after a ONS, it's because you only have your beauty to offer. Has it ever occured to you that people can lie about their intentions? Probably. Getting ghosted after a ONS usually means the person was only interested in an ONS in the first place, generally people who are interested in a committed relationship don't go around having casual on night stands all the time. A mistake people can make is listening to the bullshit lines that these people will use, because they will say anything to get the ONS and try to make it feel like they are more interested in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 04:57 PM
3	Why is the phrase 'shes not yours, it's just your turn' one of the most repeated ones in RP circles? It's the whole 'cock carousel' idea again IMO. I don't think great sex is alone can keep a woman around or bonded, because in every other aspect you could be failing. There are complete sociopaths and narcissists who are great at sex, but they will have a hard time keeping a relationship without involving abuse to make the person afraid to leave because they have poor character. Also, there is much more to a relationship than sex, It's not very common to find a couple that have been together mos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 04:39 PM
1	Men who want independent women What do you mean?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 12:50 PM
0	At what age would you say there’s something wrong with a person if they couldn’t get into a relationship? it's a question about relationships, most relationships involve sex and losing ones virginity	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 04:40 AM
1	Do most women these days want to get married? I absolutely want to get married. Having a partner to share each other's lives with is a very good thing, especially in the modern world where people are increasingly isolated. It's only bad if you marry the wrong person and don't communicate well with each other, I feel like people have a rose tinted idea of relationships that makes them more likely to give up the minute they run into conflict. My fiance agrees, we love each other very much and can't wait to get married, finish our degrees, wor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 04:39 AM
13	At what age would you say there’s something wrong with a person if they couldn’t get into a relationship? None specific tbh, people should get in relationships when they're capable of it. This whole virginity shaming thing is extremely toxic, it encourages people to have sex when they're not prepared for it, to get into relationships that have no real foundation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 04:26 AM
1	Which is more appealing to you: a life of pleasure or a life of purpose? 21f, Purpose. My fiance (23m) thinks the same, the way see it; sure you can go sleep with as many people as you can,do whatever you wish regardless of ethics, engage in carnism. I don't think any of that is fulfilling, in the modern world it's extremely hard to find good friendships, plus with certain behaviours you may get pleasure at the expense of other conscious beings, human or animal, but that other still exists. Someone is feeling that, future generations will too. You can still find plea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 04:21 AM
5	Men who want independent women I'm getting a degree first but when I have kids, i'm not working, well at least anything that isn't freelance. My fiance likes the idea, he likes working and I want to raise my kids to have a good childhood filled with fun activities rather than just being put in front of a TV. It's less feasible to do that stuff these days though, but my fiance and I are both in college for computing. Hopefully he will earn enough and be still have time to be around this kids, I also hope i can do some freelanc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 04:08 AM
4	Men who want independent women Question: Why do we pay childcare workers any money? It's clearly not work. Yes, raising children is all fun, no stress, you can do it with your eyes closed... I guess this depends on what you find valuable. Some people want each other to be working, others don't mind having one partner raise the children and do the domestic work and cooking. Why? Because then you don't have to do both, or pay for childcare costs. Also some guys like their jobs a lot	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 03:58 AM
1	Men who want independent women Marriages can have ups and downs, it's how you deal with them that will decide if things last. I don't think anyone is delusional enough to think that all couples who have reached a death of one has been a constant state of romance	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/20 03:55 AM
1	The things I have noticed about gender roles and what is expected of men Yes but he lives hundred of miles from me and I only got to see him for a couple weeks each year, so no consistent father figure. He just wasn't around much because my mum moved my sister and I to another country when I was 8. I had one step-dad figure who was nice but he wasn't around long, and my mom was a complete bitch to me when I was teenager and then started dating a cranky opiate addict who convinced her it was ok to smack me around for asking questions, so I felt pretty parentless. Look…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/20 09:16 PM
2	The things I have noticed about gender roles and what is expected of men Ew yourself lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/20 07:28 PM
1	How does female dress size effect their SMV? And does it create millions of single who cannot adjust their biology and pursue fat women? Thats a very small band though tbh so im not surprised you could fit at 4/6	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/20 12:07 PM
1	The things I have noticed about gender roles and what is expected of men True lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/20 03:21 AM
5	How does female dress size effect their SMV? And does it create millions of single who cannot adjust their biology and pursue fat women? Dress size is misleading, you can be skinny af but if you have large breasts (D or DD+) There's no way you're gonna fit in a size 6 UK. Also ask yourself how many men in the USA have a slim waist?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/20 12:44 AM
2	The things I have noticed about gender roles and what is expected of men Yep honestly some people seem to forget the amount of school girls (or boys) that end up getting crushes on their teachers or other adult figures at that stage in life. Not that such a relationship is ok, but nonetheless, the attraction exists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/20 12:37 AM
3	The things I have noticed about gender roles and what is expected of men 13 - 17. The reason the crush ended was because another man I grew to respect greatly, like a father (he was handsome but just too fatherly for me to ever develop a crush. I miss that man.) warned me that the guy was actually very shallow and fake nice. I watched his behaviour and it ended up being true at the time. And this wasn't just a casual crush, this was full blown dreaming about him, getting butterflies anytime I was near him, thinking about him a lot. When he got another job i was heart…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/20 08:29 PM
1	Researchers predict reversion to traditional gender norms, women increasingly sexualizing themselves due to increased economic inequality, and other changes due to impact of pandemic It's chill at least u can say that	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/20 06:36 PM
2	Researchers predict reversion to traditional gender norms, women increasingly sexualizing themselves due to increased economic inequality, and other changes due to impact of pandemic I’m so sorry interacting with and teaching YOUR CHILDREN is so cumbersome. Unfortunately, children are humans too and do have needs. They trust you emphatically through all this, btw...imagine if they only knew how much you detest this... Nice strawman. Who said it was cumbersome, or detestable, or kids aren't human? Or that I have kids? If you think looking after kids is just 'playing with them', then why do people get paid for working at daycare or babysitting. People certainly are being rippe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/20 06:33 PM
1	Researchers predict reversion to traditional gender norms, women increasingly sexualizing themselves due to increased economic inequality, and other changes due to impact of pandemic No, I did not. I said LOTS of women do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/20 06:15 PM
1	Researchers predict reversion to traditional gender norms, women increasingly sexualizing themselves due to increased economic inequality, and other changes due to impact of pandemic once again strawmanning me	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/20 06:09 PM
1	Researchers predict reversion to traditional gender norms, women increasingly sexualizing themselves due to increased economic inequality, and other changes due to impact of pandemic Totally depends on the legal system, but still doesn't change the fact that lots of women would love to be a SAHM and that women never chose to have that option become so unavailable. It's become difficult due to unchecked capitalism and a very litigious culture. The two are entwined. Easy to blame the wahmen or feminism instead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/20 06:03 PM
5	The things I have noticed about gender roles and what is expected of men I'd say for the most part this is true, but at the same time when I was at my most athletic (Was in the male hockey team, had the female version of a six pack.), I had a massive crush on a chubby man in his mid 30s. I will admit he was a tall guy. I guess I liked him because he was the only non family, non teenager man who seemed to show any care about my well being. He was also a guitarist and was funny. I also know a lot of very attractive girls who like chubby guys. Why? Because tbh chubby gu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/20 05:36 PM
1	Researchers predict reversion to traditional gender norms, women increasingly sexualizing themselves due to increased economic inequality, and other changes due to impact of pandemic Alimony isn't always an issue, that assumes you're a married couple and live in a country where alimony exists. Also, not everyone can afford child care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/20 05:18 PM
2	Researchers predict reversion to traditional gender norms, women increasingly sexualizing themselves due to increased economic inequality, and other changes due to impact of pandemic I never said it wasn't? Strawman. I was talking about a situation where the mom is raising the kids instead of sending them to daycare. Imagine instead of the kid being away from 9am to 4pm you have them toddling around, needing diaper changes, needing mental stimulation, you also need to cook, clean, do laundry, go grocery shopping. That's your whole day, 7am to 9pm child minding at the very least without considering cooking and cleaning, 7 days a week. Also little children are basically suicid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/20 05:16 PM
2	Researchers predict reversion to traditional gender norms, women increasingly sexualizing themselves due to increased economic inequality, and other changes due to impact of pandemic What a blanket statement. Women wanted the freedom to choose whether to work or to stay at home, now due to wages being so low (despite massive increases in productivity and cost of living) it is often a necessity for both parents to work. Blaming the wahmen is an easy scapegoat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/20 01:43 PM
9	Researchers predict reversion to traditional gender norms, women increasingly sexualizing themselves due to increased economic inequality, and other changes due to impact of pandemic People seem to forget that 'homemaking' and child raising is a full time job, 50+ hours a week if not more. It's sad how being a stay at home mom is so frowned upon now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/20 11:41 AM
7	Researchers predict reversion to traditional gender norms, women increasingly sexualizing themselves due to increased economic inequality, and other changes due to impact of pandemic Not the same as traditional roles, an escort or prostitute is technically reliant on male partners but definitely not a conservative role	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/20 11:37 AM
1	Literally every woman on Tinder. In my experience, the top left woman is the most insufferable of them all. Bottom middle sounds cool af though, I also like the lack of filter/heavy make-up	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/20 02:34 AM
5	Women are BRUTAL. The fact that so many of them consider "Titanic" to be a great love story literally proves the blackpill. Some homeless dude she had an intense romance with and who sacrificed his life for hers yeah what a bitch for thinking about him	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/20 02:12 AM
2	Easy Mode If people feel the need to insult people like this then they are probably 'bad' tbh. It shows a severe lack of empathy and is hateful cringe. Compassionate cringe is different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/20 03:38 AM
1	Easy Mode yet here you are wishing to burn people alive	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/20 03:36 AM
0	Easy Mode People love to say "these kids will only suffer", but they usually suffer because of other humans being assholes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/20 03:35 AM
1	Easy Mode she is only guaranteed because people are absolute assholes to the disabled and deformed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/20 03:34 AM
2	The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl. downvoters is this sub can fuck off	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/20 04:56 PM
3	The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl. also holy balls that sub is T O X I C	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/20 10:10 AM
1	The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl. My fiance made me toast this morning, I was so happy. The other day he bought me a cooking thermometer which i've been searching for a while for.... I cried lmao. Stay away from financial abusers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/20 09:56 AM
1	Q4All: What in your opinion/belief is the purpose of marriage? That's a poor comparison also that chance is not 100%. If you have a kid, married or not you will have to support them. Also what about all the Labour value stolen by companies? This could go on and on	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/20 06:39 PM
1	Q4All: What in your opinion/belief is the purpose of marriage? That's totally different from a prenup then, you're meaning child support which is required if you're married or not lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/20 06:37 PM
2	Q4All: What in your opinion/belief is the purpose of marriage? That's why pre nups exist	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/20 06:30 PM
1	Q4All: What in your opinion/belief is the purpose of marriage? That's still a 50% chance of a lifelong marriage	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/20 02:02 PM
1	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women Not quite, I had to stay with the family but they all ignored me if that makes sense	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/20 07:46 PM
18	Why do women across all culture (at least in the civilized world) so obsessed with their looks Because women are judged based on looks, being an unattractive woman is far worse than being an unattractive man since females are valued primarily on looks. A sad truth of this world, also advertisement and marketing toward woman is extremely neurotic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/20 05:52 AM
1	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women At 10 - 13? Im a female	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 04:48 PM
2	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women Age of consent laws have been around since 1885 in my country, age unchanged.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 04:15 PM
-1	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women You're missing the point, I mean that's what would stop you, so you wouldn't engage in the precursor either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 06:00 AM
1	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women Im talking about young teenagers and tweens, big distinction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 05:58 AM
1	Don't Be Autistic Try taking the autism quotient if you think this, no one is half autistic, it is more likely you are just straight up on the spectrum.	/r/MarriedRedPill	11/10/20 03:23 AM
1	Don't Be Autistic One possible cognitive defect in autistic people isn't the totality of autism. It isn't common sense as much as it is cognitive empathy (rather than affective empathy, which autistic people do not lack) it is frustrating as an autistic person to see the word autistic been thrown out as a statement to describe negative behaviours and a lack of common sense. When do you see people describing autistic behaviour as something positive? You won't. Not tryna be salty i'm just saying this is very a very…	/r/MarriedRedPill	11/10/20 03:21 AM
2	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women Today's version of capitalism is everything Adam Smith hated	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 03:13 AM
1	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women Exactly, so you can't assume they are just being told to feel that way rather than experiencing it. I'm sure there's elements of everything, and we all know highschoolers can be assholes to each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 03:12 AM
3	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women So, it does then. If you're watching a music video, you're not being sold anything except the music. Sex is everywhere in the media and it's not always in a product ad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 03:08 AM
1	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women No, but the fear of being raped can discourage women from seeking out sex with others in the first place, especially with unfamiliar persons. You could say, end up going to someone's room to engage in foreplay, and they end up penetrating you without consent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 03:05 AM
2	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women Or they have had experiences that have shaped their opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 03:02 AM
1	Q4All: What in your opinion/belief is the purpose of marriage? If you're downvoting, then please see rule no. 10	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 03:01 AM
1	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women So it's hardly free sexual exploration then is it? Also, it's not just capitalism, it isn't in a vacuum. Sex sells, of course, but it only sells because people are buying it. The same kind of hatred toward unmarried women in the past is not being wielded against 'prudes' because they are viewed as less valuable. It's still sexism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 03:00 AM
2	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women You're being ageist. They aren't speaking to robots, 18-22 year olds also speak to real humans.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 02:56 AM
0	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women I'm not sure why it hurt so much for me when I first tried, i think I'm kind of, errr, narrow. I basically had no choice but to use one since I can get a heavy flow and was sick of essentially marinating in blood and listening to those pads crinkle like diapers lmao. I don't actually use tampons anymore because they can be quite dangerous if you leave them in and im a forgetful person, i'm considering a menstrual cup.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 02:55 AM
2	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women It isn't really without shame when those who choose to wait are shamed for it and considered boring geeks. It's just been flipped.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 02:51 AM
3	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women Sorry, that's on you because you're the one saying these women are wrong. I am not, i'm actually just accepting what they say as their answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 02:49 AM
2	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women You do realise consent can be revoked/limited? If you agree to engage in sexual behaviour with another, that doesn't automatically mean you're saying yes to everything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 02:48 AM
8	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women I think it is that more 'shy' girls seem less approachable than ones who are more sexually attractive. The only way I ever got asked out by guys was if I was friends with them for a while first, I guess it's viewed as disrespectful to just ask a quiet girl to date out of the blue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 02:46 AM
1	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women I wouldn't use a tampon because they fucking hurt, at least when I was a virgin. I did eventually gain the ability to use one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 02:45 AM
14	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women Most the 'slut shaming' I have seen comes from guys rather than girls (often these guys are the same ones who would have sexual intercourse with these girls.) however the bullying of 'virgins' is pretty much across the board amongst peers of the same age. I had a friend who ditched me on a holiday abroad because I didn't want to chase boys, that was fun /s. Seriously even her family made fun of me for being a 'geek'. It wasn't until later years of highschool that the whole virgin bullying thing …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 02:44 AM
4	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women So that means their opinion isn't right, because you say so?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 02:37 AM
4	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women Despite the fact so many TRP dudes and others always harp on about how they want virgins, sure. You also seem to be assuming a girl having an n count of zero is based on her attractiveness, rather than her waiting for the right person. I think people seem to forget that losing one's virginity as a girl can be a scary thing, in general women risk far more by having sex than men do due to how easy it is to get raped or end up pregnant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 02:37 AM
16	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women Absolutely true. In my experience if you weren't going to those stupid youth night club events and making out/doing foreplay with boys you just met, you were viewed as boring/useless to the more sexually active folk. This probably lasted until about senior year age, then in college people care a lot less about other people's business. I think worrying about sexually attractive people stealing your partner is just a human thing, guys worry about the same thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 02:34 AM
12	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women Sex drive != n count	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 02:31 AM
16	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women 100%. Young girls are now essentially forced to sexually mature faster than normal, and if they don't, they are viewed as 'boring' and 'prude' and 'geeky' instead of actually smart for making the most of their childhood years before being bombarded with neurotic messaging. All I wanted when I was 11-12 was to watch Naruto and Spongebob. Look at magazines for young girls, it's all about how to attract boys! Liberation my arse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 02:28 AM
7	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women Look at how young women dressed a few decades ago vs now, and apparently society has a slut shaming problem rather than the over sexualisation of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 02:22 AM
2	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women No, that's the women giving their opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 02:21 AM
70	Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to women I got bullied by some 'promiscuous' girls in highschool for not being as into the hook up scene. Society loves to talk about 'slut-shaming' whilst ignoring the ridicule faced by less promiscuous males and females, aka 'virgins'. This does affect people's views later in life IMO	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 02:20 AM
9	CMV: The only way a man, that struggled with dating in his youth, can avoid a beta bucks relationship is dating younger women? This is a false dilemma fallacy in the sense that you think there are only two kinds, you also seem to be basing your relationship strategy based off negative experiences in high school, which is the time in life we are around the most shallow and vain people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 02:09 AM
2	Q4All: What in your opinion/belief is the purpose of marriage? isn't it the case in California?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 02:04 AM
7	Q4All: What in your opinion/belief is the purpose of marriage? You're contradicting yourself there	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 12:58 AM
0	Q4All: What in your opinion/belief is the purpose of marriage? NotAllWomen	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 12:56 AM
9	Q4All: What in your opinion/belief is the purpose of marriage? I honestly don't blame men for not wanting to marry in those countries, also the fact that living together for a few years means you're basically married legally is insane to me. My condolences to North American's	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/20 12:56 AM
1	Q4All: What in your opinion/belief is the purpose of marriage? ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/20 11:20 PM
10	Q4All: What in your opinion/belief is the purpose of marriage? Well I'm a woman of fertile age who is engaged, sorry to burst your bubble. Also it has nothing to do with finance for me, in my country there is no financial benefit. There's no alimony after divorce, and prenuptial agreements are very common. My fiance and I are both computing students	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/20 11:17 PM
2	Q4All: What in your opinion/belief is the purpose of marriage? Well that just makes marrying the right person that much more important, same with prenuptial agreements. It also depends on the country. In my country, there is no alimony for example, but if you have shared property there will be a risk. I for one would be fine with marrying even without the legal part of it, you can have a ceremony without going to court, but you wont be married on paper. Marrying in the USA seems much more risky	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/20 11:15 PM
2	Q4All: What in your opinion/belief is the purpose of marriage? True, but marriage often has tax benefits. Even if this is factually incorrect (as marriage is typically a legal thing), i'd call something like that a spiritual marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/20 11:02 PM
19	Q4All: What in your opinion/belief is the purpose of marriage? When I look at marriage I try not to look at the political or financial reasons, but at stuff like the story of Baucis and Philemon (ideal) or Pyramus and Thisbe, you know, true love. Marriage for me is finding a best friend to grow old with and possibly have kids with. To me this is even more important in modern times since people have smaller or sometimes non existent social groups. If you're not truly friends with someone, why even get married? It's pretty much doomed to fail at that point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/20 10:14 PM
1	Men and women are both hypergamous but in different ways. Women marry up for wealth, power and social status while men marry up for looks. Well I got engaged because my partner and I are best friends. I would have dated him even if he was skint, because he was skint already and so am I. I've dated people in worse positions than me, which is fine, but what I have an issue with is when people resign themselves to never getting an education because they think they're stupid or just want to work 14 hour days so they can go to raves on the weekend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/20 10:09 PM
5	Men and women are both hypergamous but in different ways. Women marry up for wealth, power and social status while men marry up for looks. Lmao ok, that's just false.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/20 10:06 PM
1	Men emphasize character because we understand male machiavellianism. Until women vet for character they will always have bad relationships. True	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 08:25 AM
1	Men emphasize character because we understand male machiavellianism. Until women vet for character they will always have bad relationships. There would have to be more examples, but that is one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 08:25 AM
1	Men emphasize character because we understand male machiavellianism. Until women vet for character they will always have bad relationships. Well in my country, if you are convicted of domestic abuse (this can be emotional or physical, as long as its proven in court) you cannot visit the dwelling of the victim, or you are breaking the law. This is without a restraining order, so it's definitely a good first step since it stops those convicted from going straight back to their prior living space with their victim.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 07:48 AM
1	Men emphasize character because we understand male machiavellianism. Until women vet for character they will always have bad relationships. Is any of that stuff right though? Is there something wrong with trying to protect people from the worst of humanity? I'd argue no, and again that isn't true because weak people are very much alive these days. It's more like "Only the strong survive when the strong don't protect the weak"	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 07:43 AM
1	Men emphasize character because we understand male machiavellianism. Until women vet for character they will always have bad relationships. That's not really true in the modern world, we have babies who would have probably been left to die on cliffs in incubators, living healthy and happy lives. We have people who would have died from cancer, who are cured, people rescued from burning houses, etc. I don't think that because someone is mentally vulnerable (and let's be honest, it is not just 'weak' people who can become victims of abuse, there's plenty training programs that can teach you how to break anyone that isn't a complete mas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 07:27 AM
1	Men emphasize character because we understand male machiavellianism. Until women vet for character they will always have bad relationships. Psychopathic logic	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 07:09 AM
0	Men emphasize character because we understand male machiavellianism. Until women vet for character they will always have bad relationships. You seem to be failing to understand the influence that repeated down putting has on one's self esteem and psyche. Lovebombing can also be a part of the process. The person is essentially trying to manufacture the threat of the person being 'forever alone', and loneliness or the threat of loneliness is an extreme motivator in humans, either positive or negatively so. If you say something enough times, especially if the person has lower self esteem, they will start to believe it. Even more so if …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 07:02 AM
1	Men emphasize character because we understand male machiavellianism. Until women vet for character they will always have bad relationships. Oh, I didn't realise /s. You are still arguing against a strawman. Again, abusive relationships are by their own nature manipulative. Threats are an attempt to manipulate someone, be it physical or social. Emotional abuse can also be threatening, it's a psychological form of violence considering this abuse actually damages the brain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 06:41 AM
0	Men emphasize character because we understand male machiavellianism. Until women vet for character they will always have bad relationships. did i say, 'mEn tOo'. No, I don't remember using that capitalisation. This entire thread I have been talking about abusive relationships, which manipulation is a part of. So I think you're arguing against a strawman considering not once did I mention a lack of abuse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 06:33 AM
1	Men emphasize character because we understand male machiavellianism. Until women vet for character they will always have bad relationships. Why are you quoting things I didn't say 🤣 Again, like I said, that's a machiavellian view on your part. And in abusive relationships, people ARE threatened either socially or physically. If someone asks someone to drink kool aid, do they deserve the poison because they were gullible enough to drink it? I feel like you're assuming people in these relationships have more awareness of their situation than they actually do. Stop being toxic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 06:21 AM
1	What is a mothers role? My own mom kind of fell into that mistake, she now regrets it. Basically when I got older (8+) she stopped being emotionally supportive, except my dad wasn't in the picture either. She's better now, but we don't have the relationship other moms and daughters do. When I was a teenager she was especially neglectful. Basically having a kid goes well beyond the 'cute' years. My mom and I have a better relationship now since she apologised for what she did, I will also say she was going through an aw…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/10/20 06:10 AM
0	Men emphasize character because we understand male machiavellianism. Until women vet for character they will always have bad relationships. In your comment, you said it wasn't manipulation. I understand the sentiment but there are psychological barriers that stop women from leaving abusive relationships. In fact, this goes for men too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 05:57 AM
0	Men emphasize character because we understand male machiavellianism. Until women vet for character they will always have bad relationships. That's a very machiavellian view of things. Just because people behave in a way that makes them vulnerable, that does not excuse exploiting that behaviour in others. Basically, 'might' doesn't make 'right'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 05:48 AM
0	Men emphasize character because we understand male machiavellianism. Until women vet for character they will always have bad relationships. Agreed. Not that people from harsh background can't be lovely people, but sometimes the apple does not fall far from the tree. My exs mom was kind of wack, always dated abusive alcoholics. Ex was a directionless guy who was unstable and not committed, always ghosting friends for different reasons and ending up alone. My fiances mom is a sweetheart, so is he. His dad? Less so, but he's ok now. I think if the person recognizes the flaws in their parents and works to avoid repeating their patterns …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 05:20 AM
8	Men emphasize character because we understand male machiavellianism. Until women vet for character they will always have bad relationships. I feel for your friend. I feel like a lot of this stuff is luck of the draw, you either put yourself out there and risk being messed around, or wait, and risk waiting for the right one forever. I hope she finds someone!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 05:14 AM
6	Men emphasize character because we understand male machiavellianism. Until women vet for character they will always have bad relationships. cheating shows a lack of character	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 05:12 AM
12	Men emphasize character because we understand male machiavellianism. Until women vet for character they will always have bad relationships. Agreed. 'Choose better next time' is useless advice, it's like someone being upset they can't do a skateboard trick and saying 'dude, just do a kickflip'. Learning how to vet is more important than just knowing you have to vet, because a lot of people just don't have the ability or experience to do that properly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 05:11 AM
3	Men emphasize character because we understand male machiavellianism. Until women vet for character they will always have bad relationships. We know empathy has a strong genetic component comparatively.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 05:09 AM
1	Men emphasize character because we understand male machiavellianism. Until women vet for character they will always have bad relationships. Mmm, no. Because that speaks to lack of communication and dishonesty. If you actively lie to someone about commitment, there isn't an excuse to go and do what you please because you feel 'mighty'. And also, the manipulation I'm talking about is stuff like insulting a woman to make her feel less attractive, some people call it 'negging'. In a genuine relationship, the boundaries are clear and if someone is more attractive than the other, that is just accepted, not held against the other person or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 05:02 AM
2	Men emphasize character because we understand male machiavellianism. Until women vet for character they will always have bad relationships. Oh, hmm. Answer to what question? If you mean advice, then i'd say self esteem is very relative. If you're in highschool or just starting college, if you're a loner, depressed, you are MUCH more likely to have low self esteem, and it's easy to think stuff like 'it's because i'm ugly', 'it's because i'm broken', rather than take a step back and evaluate your social circle or direction in life. Also, stay off instagram, stop comparing yourself to others because you will NEVER be anyone but yoursel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 04:58 AM
2	Men emphasize character because we understand male machiavellianism. Until women vet for character they will always have bad relationships. Agreed. Usually if a woman stays with someone who is an asshole it's due to low self esteem, or some kind of manipulation on the part of the arsehole making the woman think she is better staying with him, or social stigma, children, etc etc. It's very rarely due to a sexual attraction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 04:43 AM
2	Men emphasize character because we understand male machiavellianism. Until women vet for character they will always have bad relationships. Depends on the person, a lot of women are intrigued by genuine acts of kindness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 04:28 AM
2	Men emphasize character because we understand male machiavellianism. Until women vet for character they will always have bad relationships. I'd take the 30 years of happy marriage with 'beta billy' over 3 months with violent 'chad'. Character means a lot, if someone acts in an ugly way they often seem less attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 04:24 AM
6	Men emphasize character because we understand male machiavellianism. Until women vet for character they will always have bad relationships. I honestly agree with a lot some of what you're saying. Here's the thing, a very large proportion of females today have low self esteem. A lot of this can be attributed to the standard women are held to, particularly within popular and also social media (instagram, magazines, reality TV). For someone who doesn't hold themselves in high regard, having a guy express attraction can feel like a blessing, especially if said dude is conventionally attractive, or if the woman in question hasn't had muc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/20 04:17 AM
0	The most important thing I want for my future kids, is that they grow up attractive. Wrong. You can be attractive and still not have anyone want to date you, meanwhile you can be conventionally ugly yet successful in relationships due to strength of character. I think males like to project how they experience their attraction onto females. Looks isn't a priority	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/20 06:35 AM
3	The most important thing I want for my future kids, is that they grow up attractive. For me the most important thing is that they have empathy for others. If they are born with deformities or such then of course I will get them help if they want it, and I will be raising them on a healthy diet, but focusing on looks in negative to self esteem. I was considered ugly to most in highschool yet still managed to be happy and find a fiance. In fact, over focusing on looks caused a lot of mental damage that I could have avoided with a different outlook.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/20 06:31 AM
1	Apparently men can't even enjoy their hobbies anymore without women tearing them down 🤦‍♂️ Fuck fishing tbh	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/08/20 02:01 PM
1	What should be done about the “sexlessness epidemic”? Because people with the condition offer a perspective most don't have, there are many people with aspergers who have done amazing things because if the focus it offers them and you'd be surprised at how many people have ASD. I just found out today that Anthony Hopkins, Dan Aykroyd, and Tim Burton are autistic lol. The only negatives of the syndrome are the treatment from others, social issues, and sensory problems which both can be mitigated .	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/20 01:11 PM
2	Women’s sexual advantage creates a coolness gap between the genders You said "Men abuse their power later in response to women's actions" which is victim blaming. Not all females start off abusive, I know some great people who would never hurt a fly, yet still go battered by their spouse or worked to death.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/20 12:45 PM
1	Women’s sexual advantage creates a coolness gap between the genders These women exist because they are the embodiment of what they were taught was cool. The fashion, the boy chasing, all is sold to little girls as totally normal and admirable. Guys do exactly the same thing in puberty with chasing girls, bar culture. Look at the magazine's aimed at young girls and you will see what I mean, all this is taught behaviour. The only way to dodge that bullet is to: Somehow grow out of that phase if you are one of the popular types and focus on education and making rea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/20 12:39 PM
2	Women’s sexual advantage creates a coolness gap between the genders OP says men want sex and relationships but usually that sex is with multiple women so that makes wanting anything other than a poly relationship a lot harder for women as men can lie about their intentions with sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/20 12:28 PM
3	Women’s sexual advantage creates a coolness gap between the genders So victims of male domestic abuse are to blame? Hmm. You know there are plenty of men who abuse their physical power from the start.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/20 12:25 PM
2	If tinder and online dating are so great for women, why aren’t more using them? I don't want to date someone just because they like how I look, that's just not my criteria. I want a best friend, someone who I respect. I met my dear fiance at my college class, no regrets. Online dating and hookups can be very dangerous, and honestly the culture doesn't appeal. Maybe that's cause I was raised Catholic, but always preferred the idea of a life long partner and tinder seems too shallow for that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 02:43 AM
1	Q4all: could you forgive your cheating spouse? Only if they were completely fucked aka spiked or something. Basically only if they were raped, I respect honesty so wanting to fuck someone else irl is something I should know about	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 02:40 AM
0	Schrodinger relationship status That sounds like some shitty behaviour, she probably felt ego bruised. I don't mess with hookups. I'm female but only had one hook up and it wasn't fun, well in the moment it was but the dude kept saying "We will be friends forever blah blah, you can talk to me any time, " and had been talking to me for weeks saying similar stuff. but ofc he ignored me soon as he left the next day. I wish people would be more honest. Lucky we didn't have full sex, saved first for current fiance. I have also hear…	/r/TheRedPill	03/04/20 07:14 PM
5	What should be done about the “sexlessness epidemic”? I hope asperger free babies never becomes a thing as an autistic person	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/20 05:58 PM
3	Q4ALL:Is a short relationship a waste of time? If it has any possibility of lasting, no. Flings are ok if both parties are aware separation is most likely but lying about that is wasting time imo	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/20 06:38 PM
1	Is it better to stay with someone you love at a young age? he wears the pants in the relationship if that's what you mean	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/20 06:27 PM
4	Is it better to stay with someone you love at a young age? This 100%. With my last relationship I tried EVERYTHING to hold shit together, if the other person doesn't try it wont work. My fiance isn't autistic, but he does hallucinate and in this way he is not fully neurotypical. I don't think I could be with someone who was fully, as most NTs tend to lie with their eyes, body, and voice a lot, and can be kind of self centred maybe due to a more solid sense of self. Even if they mean no harm, those who can't read social situations are more likely to miss…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/20 06:05 PM
1	Is it better to stay with someone you love at a young age? I mean i think im living the relationship right now xD. It'd be different if we never gave access. You have to keep in mind if i sound like im over rationalizing, i am autistic, I have to rationalize or I wouldn't be able to function because I experience different sensory information than most people, from others and the environment. It's just how I process things. If I didn't i'd be a neurotic, overloaded mess. I don't have an accurate filter of information or ability to read others which leave…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/20 05:59 PM
1	Is it better to stay with someone you love at a young age? Thanks! I thought i hated romance n stuff but with him its different. Every other time just seemed fake i guess, now its genuine I feel very lovey. I know some people just aren't like that though	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/20 05:48 PM
1	Is it better to stay with someone you love at a young age? Yep its a big no no. I never lost it to him cuz it was too painful, in fact he didn't even try to use lube. We ended up breaking up, no regrets, very glad I didn't lose it to him I likely would have been stuck longer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/20 05:45 PM
2	Is it better to stay with someone you love at a young age? Yeah we masturbate together whenever I don't feel up for sex :) its fun, also we like similar things sexually which is good!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/20 05:40 PM
1	Is it better to stay with someone you love at a young age? It would be strange as we both agreed prior that it must always be on the table for us to feel secure in each other, we don't really look at each others much as to respect privacy but just knowing that option is there makes us both feel more secure. He has been cheated on before	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/20 05:39 PM
2	Is it better to stay with someone you love at a young age? We are waiting till after uni to get married cuz we both agree marrying so soon would be dumb as there is legal things there. The engagement is more of a promise to go in that direction . I loved my ex but would have never have married him, but it definitely wasnt the same kind of love i feel now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/20 05:37 PM
2	Is it better to stay with someone you love at a young age? Thanks :) we are waiting till after UNI etc for marriage (about 4-5 years) because rushing into it would be dumb and we can't afford a nice wedding till then. We'd be fine with getting married at the council office but family would be a bit annoyed lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/20 05:35 PM
1	Is it better to stay with someone you love at a young age? Lol thanks it was not easy, I almost wasted it on a dumb hookup but thankfully he talked me out of it and reminded me I was being blinded by hormone urges and would end up regretting it. First time was of course not like porn (never thought it would be though,) but not something I regret or cringe about. My last ex tried to have sex with me by just trying to ram it in...0 consideration for me so never worked lol. My partner was very considerate and kind. I feel you on the family thing, even my f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/20 05:33 PM
3	Is it better to stay with someone you love at a young age? lol that's just not true	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/20 05:27 PM
2	Is it better to stay with someone you love at a young age? I feel like if he was different in a significant way that made us incompatible, we wouldn't stay together. Still, we both want to see where things go and I feel if we stay together we may develop together, so far we are both doing well together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/20 05:26 PM
2	Is it better to stay with someone you love at a young age? Because I don't think it's wise to bring a kid into the world unless you're in a stable position. Having a kid without the financial or mental position to have one risks the relationship and means the child will not grow in optimal conditions. It's like getting a pet without the means to care for one, I think people should be supported to have kids but also be considerate of their own circumstance where possible. Fiance and I want to finish UNI and possibly emigrate before having kids. He seems …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/20 05:23 PM
3	Is it better to stay with someone you love at a young age? I guess cause I had a couple sexual experiences with other people, not full on sex. Never enjoyed it the next day as I felt what was the point and felt kinda used, I usually misunderstand their intentions being autistic and expected a relationship or at LEAST a friendship and it just was not nice. Being autistic when i like someone, i really want to be around them so hookups seem to mess with my brain, make me neurotic. Most of my prior sexual experience have been heavy coercion or assault which…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/20 05:16 PM
6	Is it better to stay with someone you love at a young age? I am learning this. Luckily my fiance has only had one previous sexual partner and that wasn't the same level of intimacy at all, he's not into hookups, i'm not either. he seems to love me deeply and is very attracted to me. But I also realise the male sex drive is very different, this guy has gone from masturbating 8 times a day to sex maybe every other day lol. I dont always want to have sex, i get sensory overload but recently been just trying to relax and enjoy things as even if I dont want …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/20 05:10 PM
1	Is it better to stay with someone you love at a young age? Nope no proposal we just talked about the future a lot and agreed we want to get married so thought we may as well get engaged now	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/20 05:04 PM
5	Is it better to stay with someone you love at a young age? That seems to be what happened with me and fiance. He didn't even propose we just mutually agreed we want to get married lol been that way from the start	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/20 05:03 PM
3	Is it better to stay with someone you love at a young age? Yeah this is exactly why i wouldn't date someone far out my age range. It's harder to tell if an older person is a master manipulator or not (more experience, more time to learn how to lie) being autistic it's a dangerous game to play especially.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/20 05:00 PM
0	Is it better to stay with someone you love at a young age? About 6 months but feels like far longer lol We have lived together most of this time as it seemed to make sense	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/20 04:58 PM
2	Is it better to stay with someone you love at a young age? That's a pretty evil thing to do to someone though. Hopefully my fiance is not a psychopath and seriously doubt he is lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/20 04:57 PM
1	Do you think feminism is destroying relationships? The original goal of feminism was to end the binary hierarchy of sexes, this includes where men are disadvantaged by raising their position to a fair and equal one. Some women forget this, and make it about their selfish interests rather than the betterment of all society. It is not true feminism if it has zero consideration for the rights of men IMO.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/20 04:47 PM
1	Do you think feminism is destroying relationships? How do we live in a 'feminised' society in your opinion? Curious	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/20 04:45 PM
7	[Q4W] Do you really want 100% equality? Do you really believe in 100% equality? Details please? Equal opportunity for all imo wherever possible	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/20 03:59 PM
15	Sex is much better for women than for men. It is far harder for women to orgasm than it is for men, it also requires more foreplay. In this sense sex is worse for women, because PIV sex isnt a reliable way to have an orgasm. Women are much more complicated sexually. Women alao face much higher risks during sex than men, such as pregnancy or internal damage. Women also face more risks prior to sex, and are putting themselves in a more vulnerable position due to strength differences. Not all women are as attractive as each other either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/20 08:33 PM
0	Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women? Personally as a femoid ive never shit tested a potential partner, especially not current partner who is fiance. (20f, 22m)... But then again i just asked my fiance if its a womans job to test men, and he said "mm, you test my patience all the time" Haha. I think some people especially women who tend to be more neurotic they think 'if he cant handle me at my worst, then he is not worth it' but i am of the opinion that for a partnership to last both must show good behaviour in spite of any neurosi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/20 07:31 PM
5	Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women? Ah, yes, democratic socialist death squads	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/20 07:21 PM
-1	Wouldn't it make more sense for the anger phase to be directed at "Chad" instead of women? How is a woman's job to test men? Pretty sure like all humans it is to survive and help the group survive	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/20 07:19 PM