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support requestSavagemaw/r/MenSupportMen11/10/22 01:05 PM
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support requestSavagemaw/r/MenSupportMen22/05/23 02:27 PM
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Archery and painting are good for active meditation, but if you want to meet people, sign up for a class at your local community college. Anything you are interested in. You'll meet people who are also interested in that thing.
/r/MenSupportMen14/10/23 08:11 PM
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So... Deathgrip is legit. Your hand is stronger than any vagina and your palm is rougher and creates more friction than any vagina. Friction caused your hands and feet to develop callouses and less sensitivity, its absurd to think that the same wouldn't happen to the penis. Furthermore, the penis depends on blood circulation to achieve and maintain erection and the bloodvessels responsible for this are surprisingly fragile. I'm not judging you. I dealt with it. I masturbated twice a day for like…
/r/MenSupportMen30/09/23 10:25 AM
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Thats tough man. I feel your pain. It also feels like all I can offer are platitudes. I'm going through tough stuff too and I try reminding myself that struggles make the man. That the old men we respect are the men who have been through some of the nastiest shit. The guy who picked up pieces of his best friend at Normandy, or the badlands farmer in the 30s. We sit and listen to the heartwrenching stories of men who buried their children who died of the flu or polio. They inspire us. And we will…
/r/MenSupportMen28/09/23 12:23 PM
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Men have feelings too Absolutely, and all men should become emotionally mature. Do therapy. Learn about psychology. Learn how to have good relationships and learn how to process your childhood trauma. Move out of your headspace and into your body and heart and allow yourself to feel. But I was more trying to address the concerns OP had and the concerns of the poster OP linked. Reality is that a man will struggle to form the kind of relationships that it seems the original poster was advised to f…
/r/MenSupportMen12/09/23 11:26 PM
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So... manosphere guys can be kind of whacky but one thing they get right is "Women are born with value that deteriorates over time. Men are born valueless and must build all of their value over time becoming more valuable." So are you a low value man? Maybe. You might be a goldmine of untapped value because you might be young. If you seem low value start building value. That doesnt mean get rich like Andrew Tate, but learn skills, get strong, develop the ability to do all the things, tell the be…
/r/MenSupportMen12/09/23 10:12 PM
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You are a bachelor. You dont have to conform to anything. Enjoy.
/r/MenSupportMen20/08/23 09:58 PM
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Do whatever it takes to not be bored. That means having passions. Projects. Plans. Action. Don't be a supporting actor in everyone else's story. Be the main character of your story. Your friends can take care of themselves, for example.
/r/MenSupportMen05/07/23 04:16 AM
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Deal with your mama trauma or you are in for a world of hurt. See a counselor or therapist. Try betterhelp.
/r/MenSupportMen21/06/23 02:16 AM
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Definitely all for the best. In fact, at your age, the harder things are, the better they will be and the sooner they will be better. Pick up some awesome hobbies to pass the time.
/r/MenSupportMen18/06/23 10:16 PM
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Dont lie. Dont protect anyone at the expense of your current relationships. Dont make yourself look bad because your mood, words and actions might be out of context because you hid your pain from people who matter.
/r/MenSupportMen16/06/23 10:18 AM
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Nutrition, Hygiene, and Patience. I didnt grow a beard until I was around 30, and I was convinced that my beard was too patchy to be attractive and would never be nice. But, I wanted a handlebar moustache and I was working onboard a ship where I wouldnt see anyone for months so I figured "I'll just stop shaving for a while and see how it ends up." At the end of a three month no-shave I had a completely different beard than what I had started with, but you couldnt tell until it was groomed after …
/r/MenSupportMen26/05/23 12:01 PM
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Sounds like they are doing a little self quarantine. Its a great time to be a dude, in perspective.
/r/MenSupportMen22/05/23 02:34 PM
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<3 Love bro. Its hard out here. And it sounds like a cliche but challenges make the man. I'm currently reading "The Alchemist" at the suggestion of my father and you should too. At the age of 50 my father started his journey to improve himself and reject anyone who would shame him or stand in his way. I can tell you, my youngest brother is noticeably better for it and we all benefit from my father's increased access to emotional resources. Follow your dreams and find your treasure. Everyone arou…
/r/MenSupportMen19/05/23 05:34 PM
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No. But, you may become a more realized man when you begin to do things you dont want to do, from a sense of duty. That doesn't have to be charity. (However, it should be noted that the masculine hormones responsible for aggression are the same hormones responsible for charity). When people talk about fatherhood and how it changes you... that's probably the biggest way it does. Selfless acts have a way of helping you hold your head higher. They don't have to be in deepest-darkest africa, trying …
/r/MenSupportMen28/01/23 01:40 AM
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Last year of HS is tough. You are doing what you should be doing. I have zero advice for how to really improve your sexual success, but if you just want some attention for the age and social level you are in, just ask girls if they want to come over and watch a movie. The advice you are working with is meant for adults outside of Highschool. It is meant to get you through years of sexual failure to a point that increases your sexual market value. Right now you have a captive audience. Just be st…
/r/MenSupportMen23/01/23 02:15 PM
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Have you tried a dopamine fast? Medical Keto diet? This is probably a bio-chemistry thing.
/r/MenSupportMen04/12/22 05:35 AM
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I'm disabled......I can't join the military or really be a hobo because I desperately need the medical care. Ah. That sucks. I have next to no experience with disability personally. Good luck.
/r/MenSupportMen07/11/22 12:11 AM
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Legit, ignore any thought that says you cant. Join the military, or be a hobo. Dont cope. Resist any escapism or anything that helps you deal with the slow decline into death. A homeless shelter? Sure. Or a tent. Or some place that houses volunteers in exchange for work (think of the site of a recent disaster). Become the roady for a band, or become a sailor. Get a job that takes you away. You need to get as far away from that sleep gas as you can.
/r/MenSupportMen06/11/22 03:33 PM
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Still, I can see how the stress is impacting me so I'm doing my best to take it slow and taking it easy whenever I can. I can tell that my willpower and patience will be tested and I do have to practice on remaining as calm as I can be, No! Thrash! Flee! Run, if you can! -Wolf I have found that powerlessness can feel sedative. Fight that feeling. You are not a husband or father, as far as I can tell from your post. You therefore owe no one anything more than yourself. Run as far from everyone as…
/r/MenSupportMen06/11/22 03:06 PM
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The minute any womam becomes sexually inavailable the relationship is over or needs a hard reset. If a woman can get what women want out of your relationship without providing what men want, she will abuse you. Sex is non-negotiable.
/r/MenSupportMen29/10/22 09:01 PM
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My son asked me a question recently, as he started to show an interest in girls, "Dad, how do I get a girl to like me?" I told him, "Son, I can't tell you how to get one girl to like you, but if you want all girls to like you, you need to learn how to make other guys like you. Don't worry about the girls, they just show up." Forget about girls. Your lonliness is part of the reason you dont have girls. Make friends. Do so by being interesting. Do awesome stuff with your free time. If you cant aff…
/r/MenSupportMen26/10/22 01:34 AM
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and I blame my gender as one of main reasons Well, there is something there, as 7/10 suicides in the US are adult white men. However, It isnt likely gender causing this phenomenon but the perspective. I say that because the suicide rate is not similar among black men. Its not similar among men in other countries. They all share the gender variable but they come from different cultures. A lot of mental health issues are a matter of cultural perspective. Perspective in general. Luckily, that is so…
/r/MenSupportMen18/10/22 04:22 AM
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Can't I just live normal life No. with girl I love Sure. Only you can choose to love someone. who doesn't judge me This is out of your control, so you shouldn't worry about it. based on any enforced social standards Maybe, but you may be overvaluing those "social standards" and ignoring human nature. just loves me how I'm? No. Women don't love men. Not like we love women. Women need security. Women need to feel safe and stable. That feeling will be strongest if you have enough self respect and i…
/r/MenSupportMen18/10/22 03:31 AM
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You dont need anyone's permission to do anything. You are a man.
/r/MenSupportMen17/10/22 03:56 PM
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You dont need to be powerful. You are powerful. If you want to be a luxury for someone powerful, you can be gay, but women do not have it in them to pour their power into you.
/r/MenSupportMen17/10/22 03:47 PM
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Girls have it easier because men are powerful and pour their power into women. Embrace your power as a man. Become aware of who and what you are. Embrace it. Recognize that you pour your power into women because it gives you joy, and do so for no other reason. Discontinue doing so for reasons that are not true to you. Be brutally honest with yourself, so you can be brutally honest with women. Have shame for nothing and do nothing for which you will be ashamed. Women are a luxury. Do not treat th…
/r/MenSupportMen17/10/22 02:45 PM
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Yeah. You think I put up with 4 years of this shit because I thought she was faking it? Forgive me but I take extreme offense at your implication that I dont have empathy for my wife.
/r/MenSupportMen12/10/22 11:11 AM
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Performance issues can be psychologically debilitating. After my vasectomy, my erections became weak and unsustainable. Don't let it bother you or it can compound itself with performance anxiety (I know, easier said than done.) If you can afford a higher caliber escort, she shouldn't let that be a problem unless you have a significant health issue. Its her job to help you have the best possible experience. And seriously, for your first time I think its worth it to get the best you can afford. Pe…
/r/MenSupportMen12/10/22 02:58 AM
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Oh yeah. That's really good advice and something I hadn't considered. Thanks again.
/r/MenSupportMen12/10/22 02:51 AM
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Track down some of the professors you studied under at academy and ask for help. Im a hawsepiper, so no professors. I'll reach out to some old captains. Thanks.
/r/MenSupportMen12/10/22 02:04 AM
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I really appreciate all these suggestions. Some I was aware of (surveyor in chicago... Ive talked with their office and Im on a first name basis with the surveyors) some I was not. There are possibilities there. There's the ship assist tugs in the cleveland area as well, if they ever get back to me.
/r/MenSupportMen12/10/22 01:34 AM
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Thanks. I have gotten therapy in the past for nice guy issues, but it wasnt covered by insurance so I had to stop. Ill probably go back to a nice guy therapist money be damned.
/r/MenSupportMen11/10/22 11:34 PM
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She believed I was in league with the spiritual entities she believes are responsible for her auditory hallucinations and broadcasting. So she drank a liter of jaagermeister then threw a glass-jar scented candle at me for watching a tv show she didnt like.
/r/MenSupportMen11/10/22 11:33 PM
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Thanks for the response. I know you are right. But I dont know how to reconcile that obvious 'right' choice with my personal moral code.
/r/MenSupportMen11/10/22 10:22 PM
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unless you are officer trained, in which case come on already. Yes. I am a pretty seasoned officer. But if I were you and you have any academy background at all I'd go for a harbor pilot gig. I have first class pilotage between Duluth, to Gary, to Buffalo and from Port Welland to the Seaway. No pilot association is desperate for guys. The coast guard literally has to force them to hire guys (the more guys, the more they have to split the money). Coworkers and friends of mine have been in waiting…
/r/MenSupportMen11/10/22 09:18 PM
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Thanks. First: You have two big options, find a new job, or find a new family. Here's the thing. I'm not a mariner because I love the sea. I'm a mariner because it was the only way I was able to find that allowed me (with no skills or education) to provide for a family. We built our family around my career as it developed. Now I am unable to continue this career (obviously) but I still have 6 kids and no transferrable skills.
/r/MenSupportMen11/10/22 06:45 PM
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Then have sex. You can ask women to have sex with you. You can pay women to have sex with you. Its just sex. You may say "I would never pay for sex!" Why? Everyone pays for sex. Its a transactional relationship. Women want totally different things from a relationship than men want. You provide what they want and they provide what you want. In the case of a sex worker, it's money and sex. Ironically, thats the case for a lot of traditional relationships. Ease into it. Go to a strip club and buy l…
/r/MenSupportMen11/10/22 04:39 PM
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Use it to empower you in your relationships with these women. Their statements are not rational. They are expressions of feelings. Of pain. All persons want to have their feelings validated, but particularly women who dont feel like they have a positive male figure around them. Do not try to argue with a woman who is speaking from her heart space by moving the conversation to the head space. Meet her at her heart and comfort her there. In most cases I would say that the reason someone would say …
/r/MenSupportMen11/10/22 04:19 PM
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Im sorry you feel that way. While there are a great many treatable conditions that can cause irrational suicidal ideation (and you should consider that any one of those may be the culprit here) the right to die is real. I dont know what you are going through but no one should be forced to endure suffering against their will, or made to die in shame for considering leaving this life with dignity. That said, unless it's really hopeless, it's not hopeless. Overcoming challenges against all odds is …
/r/MenSupportMen11/10/22 03:27 PM
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Bad news: you violated the don't shit where you work rule* As a teen this rule does not exist. Shit everywhere except your own gene pool. That's my opinion. There is no reason he can't continue to work there and no reason to continue if he doesnt want to.
/r/MenSupportMen11/10/22 03:19 PM
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Dude. You were a stallion. She chickened out and you didnt let it phase you. She didnt let you get in her bed to get warm, she let you get in her bed then got cold feet. She's embarrassed. Don't you be. Go back to work, and laugh it off. Slay some other tail and forget about it. Let her worry. She probably likes you more now than she did then.
/r/MenSupportMen11/10/22 03:15 PM
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Do you want to have sex? Thats the most important question for yourself, and ironically any potential sexual partner. But specifically, I'm asking you.
/r/MenSupportMen11/10/22 02:01 PM
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This is the best question in the world for a man and super congratulations on asking it at your age! It is the question that answers all the other questions. Questions like "How do I make myself attractive to women?" And "How do I improve my status at work?" You are on the right track by being on the 7 a side team with men 10 years older. Don't think of them as men you can't relate to. Learn to relate to them. They may not be your friend network, but they can be mentors and role models. If you a…
/r/MenSupportMen11/10/22 01:48 PM
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You should continue to read No More Mr Nice Guy. It changed my life. You should also get Marcus Aurelius Meditations. You might also read King, Warrior, Magician, Lover By Moore and Gillette. If you read anything else at 16, keep in mind that if it's angry and bitter, it's not masculine and it's not healthy. Those three books should help you to understand that. Books like "The Game" and stuff from the PUA community is like bicep curls. It's not going to make you stronger, but your sixteen so you…
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