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/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:07 PM
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They are attrected in the same way. But - in opposition to us - they have enough blood for genital zone and brain to the same time. So they choose smarter and control themself better than we can do. And they have higher expectations to themself as men have to themself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:59 PM
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Ad-hominem attacks, hm? Look, who is talking ... Please name one primary source for the point, you made. Btw. Discussion was closed one week ago ...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:02 AM
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The first part of your username seems to be correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:41 PM
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Because you are generalizing over a very divers spectrum. I think, you have a very specific stereotype of bi men in your head, which is not connected to the reality. You can date, who you want, every queer person would subcribe this. You don't have to explain your preference if all happens in consent. Every bi person would subcribe this. But to say, it's because of stupid and (in this context) degrading stereotypes, is irrational, a phobie.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:56 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:48 AM
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Well, to conclude from being bi to a high body count or being more feminine is an irrational and unreflected beliefing of a stereotype, which is called internalized biphobie. For a lot of bi persons, this is not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:13 PM
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Check open public stats, you will see, this figures are not the average or median. More TOP25 But using stats at this point is crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:55 PM
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Dude, you need to talk with women more. This is absolute basic stuff. I learned this with 14. It's like a woman with the highest drive to give blow-jobs, but doesn't care about holding back her teeth. Be a good lover starts with caring for the satisfaction of your partner at first. Second is communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:06 AM
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Didn't corresponds with the top- choice 666-Role in Dating. If 6inch (the last 6) is a top choice, 8 can't be average. Btw: Dating rules are crap. This is real bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:59 AM
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Dude, talk with her, say where you are and that the kid is fine. Let the son talk to her. Then call a lawyer and say you need help. Than call a therapist, that you need asap a session. Do you realized, what you done? After dropping the bomb by your wife, you took your common child without her permission to a place, she doesn't know. You kidnapped your own son. In addition, you did this by driving drunk. And she knows that. Also, you prove with these actions that you are in a "mentally challengin…
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/25 07:32 AM
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Dude, what a shit show. You need a better lawyer as she is.
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/25 09:34 AM
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Therapy isn't giving you answers directly. It helps you, to find the right questions and how to answer them by yourself. But no suffer, no need for therapy. Great, if you have people, you can take about everything.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/25 07:50 AM
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Lol, be healthy, I think. I like skinny and a woman, who can take care for herself. You can expect the same from your partner. So a good starting points for a new life.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/25 07:35 AM
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Enjoy it. Lived alone for a dozen years before I met my stbxw and now starting it new again after 17 years. It's like a secondy puberty. Finding out, who I'm still after this years in relationship. Trying to keep good things and skilles I learned, letting things go I always was annoyed from, doing things I always wanted, but wasn't possible and trying out things, I never thought about. Take your time with replacing furnitures. You need less than you think, and buy only stuff you really want to h…
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/25 07:30 AM
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Would be my way. Everything can be, nothing have to. There some girls on my way, which dated shortly after a seperation. Some stopped with "I though, I was ready, but I'm not", some fucked it out, some are friends now. The person, which initiated the seperation is normally earlier ready, because the seperation process started already in the mind before communication.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/24 01:41 AM
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This!
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/24 01:32 AM
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I did the same, bc all other stuff were fine (nice family in law, cozy home, still respectful and being friends) but I would never fell in love again in this woman. The last decarde together did this in baby steps. And the consequences were like expected. I never wanted to be the asshole and now I"m and I feel guilty sometimes, but I have the same right to be happy as my wife (no kids). And I"m sure, she wasn't happy, too. Just fearful about the consequences, like me.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/24 10:28 AM
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Same here. And in a healthy relationship both should be possible. This shown me, that the seperation was the right decision.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/24 10:16 AM
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Or taking the opportunity to vist them. It's important to enreach your social network. My STBXW (from Latin America) and me (Europe) have no kids, but some young relatives in the near. At chrismas we were the host for all of them and their +1, which had no time or money to fly back home. Were my best christmas parties ever. With the initiating of the divorce, I thought, I will lost the contact to all of them. But to a few I had an own connection and it turned out, that there are no bad feelings …
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 02:48 PM
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Did you 'delegate' your social life during the marriage to you ex? That's a common mistake.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 07:18 AM
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Do you have other relatives? My sister invited me for this holiday and also our single dad. My STBXW is with her relatives, the boys of my sister are with her ex. So all single family member come together.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 07:14 AM
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I would do this. For my son, not for my ex. He needs also support, and it's for a specific time frame. A chance. Imagine, the treatment didn't works, she died, and how your son would view on you...
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/24 08:52 AM
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Inspireing
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/24 01:34 AM
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Eastern Europe is not just Poland. Also being conservertive didn't mean getting childs without control. Also all is relativ. A conservative political opinion in Germany is pure socialism in the USA. Longterm: Lets say there are more women with a more classic family orientation. Didn't mean that they want more than 2 childs, bc their economic perceived situation is not secure enough for more. Shortterm: Same the perceived security situation. All east european countries are very afraid if the russ…
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 11:35 AM
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Same as in US: Uncertainty of economics. Putin isn't helpful.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 12:43 AM
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Hm, wrong people to ask. If you look in this sub, you don't find the guys, which could profit from this. Just where it was to late or didn't try.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 12:32 AM
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Survival instinct. Ignored my own needs until there was no other option. Still hurts.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 05:01 PM
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I agree, that both parts of the sentence are true, but also in the opposite combination. It's more the learning process, that everybody is responsible for not losing her-/himself and forgotting own needs.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/24 11:04 AM
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I initiated the separation 2 months ago and put the ring off a few days ago. I realized, that there is no reason for this habit anymore. But a ring is a sign to others, specially to potential partners. It could a sign, that you are not ready for something new at the moment. That can be useful in a time of selfhealing. But put it off, if you feeling open for somebofy else in your life.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/24 09:55 PM
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This!
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/24 09:47 AM
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No problem, if you like cats, too. I wait with seperating until the last died.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/24 01:00 AM
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Asking for money Look at her mother and think, if she is attractive ro you, if you would be in her age. The probability, that your girl will tend in this direction is high. No own hobbies or gave them up to have more time for you. Same for friends.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/24 12:46 AM
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Being pretty hard on myself, sounds familiar. You are not alone.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/24 09:53 AM
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17y together, 7 years marriage here. I told her 2 weeks ago and it was the hardest thing ever. For her also, but fortunartly she accepted it and started to look in the furture. Keeping respect for both of us was very important. But the marriage was dead, more flatemates and friends. So what can I say? Perhaps: Wrote down why excactly yoz are doing this. For her, for you. It helps me a lot in the moments I felt guilty. And she has an answer to understand. Yes, it will hard. Specially, if there ar…
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/24 06:14 PM
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Ask for 1-2 remote appointments. Easier to get a specific advice fast, if you are already known.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/24 10:07 AM
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If you want to know, if a cage bird is yours, let it out. If it flys away and didn't return, it was never yours. If it did, by itself, it will be always yours. Let it go and choose someone, who is already free flying.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 09:58 AM
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