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| 2 | New York City is the best cities for instant datesTotally agree with you how instant dates don't mean that much. It's low commitment on her end because it's convenient. For cold approach girl seems to know how she feels about you within 5 minutes. The instant date just confirms her initial feeling. I've done 5 instant dates and nothing came of it so I don't bother anymore. Always grab number and if she's invested enough she'll show up | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Cold ApproachFor sure, as long as you're doing you're best. I have a minor stutter but it gets better as I get more approaches in. You'll have to experiment with what works best for you. I stopped opening with "Hey I thought you were cute..." and now I just go indirect and mention something about them like, "those are cool tattoos!" I also read that it's best to go for insta-dates or same day dates. From my experience the "let's grab coffee sometime" and getting the number almost always results in flakes (ex… | /r/seduction | 23/05/21 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Cold ApproachI did 200 cold approaches in the past and got one date out of it. Your mileage may vary but yes, in general cold approach has a low success rate. What I've learned is to not take things personally and don't be too hard on yourself on the results. I'm starting cold approach again because my online dating results have been lackluster, (i'm 5'5") | /r/seduction | 23/05/21 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Share your success percentage in cold approach.Correct. 1 date and 0 lay. | /r/seduction | 29/12/18 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Share your success percentage in cold approach.0.7%. 135 approaches. 17 numbers. 7 replies. 1 date. I got the one date after approach #98. I do most of my approaches at colleges (70%) and it's interesting to note that's where I got all the numbers. Sometimes I wonder if it's worth the effort, but I started approaching this year and I'm proud myself. What helped was volume approaching (since it's inherently low), keeping a log of improvements, watching videos (I used Todd V). Keep it up! | /r/seduction | 29/12/18 09:56 PM |
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