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This is a rare "cool story, bro" and I mean that genuinely! Thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction06/11/15 12:16 AM
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Sounds like an interesting character! I'd be interested in reading the field report about how you met/fucked her. Edit: oh I just realised you posted one previously. My bad.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 05:30 PM
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I got 99 problems, but a plate ain't one
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 12:43 AM
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Yep I would definitely make it a shorter text in future, I take on board your points, they are fair.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 09:18 PM
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I'd hate to pay for sex. I'm picky and set my standards high. Just felt good that I could fuck this attractive woman so easily I guess, by adopting an alpha mindset. I've also had one or two dates where I've been honest and said I had a son and normally it's younger girls who have visibly changed towards me once I've said that and it killed their attraction. So here I killed two birds with one stone, explained my situation in life and primed it so I'm only meeting up with her to have sex. Good l…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 11:26 AM
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I think you're missing the point. The point was I don't have time/energy to go on a date that doesn't end in sex. This was very low effort and worked out how I wanted it to. You sound bitter and negative considering I'm just trying to give something back to the community with a field report.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 07:41 AM
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I agree to a point but feedback I've had from hot women I've fucked is they hate selfies especially topless guys. I often ask them about their online dating thoughts as it's interesting. I think you can still convey masculinity and fun by having intriguing pictures. I have one of me with a group of loads of attractive girls, everyone having fun and smiling with me in the middle looking devilish and well dressed. If asked about it I will tell the truth, oh they're just some girls I met on a night…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 11:33 PM
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Haha. I can picture him saying that and I don't even know him! Nice.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 11:06 PM
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It sounds like you've been over analytical and thought about it all a bit too much. You could have just said when you met up with her, "we always had good sex, and now I'm going to fuck you." (And then had a productive evening of hot sex) Surely that would have been a better outcome. You wanted her to pass your own shit test, but you've said yourself, she has a great body and you like fucking her. Hahaha!
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 11:25 PM
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Really good post. It struck a chord with me. I've PM'ed you.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 11:18 PM
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Strong eye contact, kino, and be bold, be honest and be sexual. Be a man. But most importantly you'll get rejections or flakes that surprise you or come out of nowhere. That girl who has been texting you 24/7 and then disappears? Don't let it get to you when a girl flakes, just move on. Before you know it there will be another girl and you've forgotten all about the rejection.
/r/seduction15/09/15 12:31 PM
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Hilarious. A random guy on the Internet just described the exact way I shave my cock'n'balls. Reddit I love you.
/r/seduction14/09/15 10:29 PM
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It may be that you're not sexually compatible. From experience while being single I've had AWFUL sex that didn't click for me at all, the girls style and approach was all wrong or even just a simple thing like I didn't like the way they felt 'down below.' On the flip side I've had some amazingly hot, passionate sex that blew me away and made me feel something. Marathons can happen when you're with a chick who is completely on tune with you and you can end up wanting to fuck her all day and all n…
/r/seduction14/09/15 09:51 PM
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Can confirm. Happn is a good app to keep ticking on in the background. You get girls flirting with you out of nowhere too and I like the way it works - every time you cross someone's path they show up on the homepage and you click on the ones you find attractive.
/r/seduction10/09/15 12:22 AM
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Yeah mate it sounds like she's a nice girl and she's taken the nice step of asking you out in a very genuine way with nice compliments attached. It's in the bag, she wants the D.
/r/seduction10/09/15 12:19 AM
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Did you have sex with her? It wasn't clear.
/r/seduction10/09/15 12:16 AM
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Really appreciated you sharing this. Good read. Made me chuckle when you described your high school girlfriend as 'not skinny, not obese.'
/r/seduction10/09/15 12:11 AM
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Correction: put the p in the v and make her cum with it. If that doesn't work then make her cum in other ways!
/r/seduction02/09/15 06:18 PM
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Put the p in the v.
/r/seduction02/09/15 11:52 AM
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How many girls did you shag? ;-)
/r/seduction02/09/15 11:37 AM
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when I say 10... I mean 10. Like 500+ likes on her facebook picture. Can confirm. I stalked her yesterday and liked it.
/r/seduction31/08/15 01:24 PM
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Exactly why I wrote it. I love reading positive field reports here as they inspire me too and encourage me to go out and not feel anxious. Thanks.
/r/seduction29/08/15 08:37 AM
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He can now sleep easier at night
/r/seduction28/08/15 11:06 PM
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If there was no chemistry then you dodged a bullet. Don't overanalyse it, move on and remember there are millions of other women out there.
/r/seduction28/08/15 12:04 AM
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My advice is you need to look at things more sexually, with more masculine intent. You fuck a girl from your class? No problem. You just wanted to see what her pussy felt like. Just because you fucked her doesn't mean you are obligated to enter a relationship with her, nor would you be a bad person for just having a one night stand. This is two consenting adults engaging in nature's oldest past time. Fornication. It really sounds like you are caring too much what others think, and not being true…
/r/seduction28/08/15 12:01 AM
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I got a girl's number about 2-3 weeks ago off POF and didn't do much with it as I was busy. I've never met her. Today I just messaged "how are you? I went on a boring date last night." This created intrigue and a good conversation out of nowhere, I was able to turn it sexual pretty fast and now we are sexting and I will probably fuck her.
/r/seduction27/08/15 11:48 PM
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Dude the fact your eyes are getting wet shows you are capable of emotion. It's definitely good to be emotional and have opinions and also stand up for you beliefs and values as a person and discuss them and also how things make you feel. When you share things that are deep with people it builds comfort and trust, and then they feel like they can confide in you. This is how you can build a deep connection with someone. You'll soon find that your P is getting a lot more V.
/r/seduction27/08/15 08:42 PM
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Mine was an ex-heroin addict. Bat shit crazy but hot as fuck!
/r/seduction27/08/15 08:33 PM
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I actually disagree with this. Tinder is an easy way to set up dates with women you might not otherwise meet. Through his interactions with women on dates he will improve his social skills. OP- you will be able to practice things like eye contact, physical contact (touch) and hopefully gain more confidence based on women finding you attractive/funny/interesting to talk to.
/r/seduction27/08/15 08:23 PM
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I think you sound like a douche when you call her "baby." It's really condescending and cocky, like you think you're Danny in Grease or something. I think though the main thing is it sounds like you're getting a bit of oneitis, if you've asked her out loads of times already then she's just not that into you and there are better girls out there. Sorry.
/r/seduction22/08/15 01:53 AM
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Well said.
/r/seduction16/08/15 08:30 PM
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Your kino on the plane was top notch. Takes balls to hold a girl's hand like that. Good report and well done, I guess you've just got to assume attraction and like you said, you probably could have kissed her a lot earlier, but still, it sounds like it went really well and could develop into something.
/r/seduction16/08/15 06:39 PM
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It sounds like you all did mdma. Agree with your post though, I've had some great nights going out solo. It's what you make of the night that counts.
/r/seduction16/08/15 06:33 PM
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I don't think this would work on every woman, surely some would get freaked out or think you're creepy. But whatever works for you dude!
/r/seduction16/08/15 06:31 PM
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Your story hit me in the feels. I appreciate you talking about it, this girl must have been pretty special to you. And how you realised she lost interest because you didn't have your shit together. Must have been hard.
/r/seduction13/08/15 11:50 PM
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Just be direct. Keep it simple. "Hey." *strong eye contact, smile, really look her in the eyes. "Let's go for a drink." You are communicating you are interested in her. You are asking her on a date, without making it a huge thing and complicating it by telling her she is attractive or that "you don't normally do this". If she finds you attractive, she will say yes. If she says no, then you know she isn't interested. If she says yes you say "how about later, or Tuesday?" Arrange it and then swap …
/r/seduction13/08/15 11:42 PM
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I am kind of into this story now. You should keep us updated with another field report!
/r/seduction13/08/15 11:27 PM
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The way I interpret it is when I'm texting a girl or talking to her I am 100% genuine and talk about the things I am passionate (even some subjects that are a bit more risqué). I also talk about my emotions quite a bit. I am a real human with feelings. E.g. I shared some cool black and white photos with a girl. "I really liked finding these old pictures of my dad the other day. We had a really complex relationship, he caused me pain, but these photos make me miss him." It's about going one step …
/r/seduction13/08/15 11:14 PM
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It's a good field report but was frustrating too. I can't believe you didn't wait and tell your friends you would call them/ catch up with them. You only needed 5 minutes to kiss her and try and go home with her. Shame.
/r/seduction13/08/15 12:40 AM
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Dude I loved your approach. Especially if it was as awkward as you say. You're badass for doing that, fair play. I passed a girl today I should have said hello to and I chickened out or found some last minute reason in my head not to. Your story gives me inspiration. It's a reminder.
/r/seduction13/08/15 12:34 AM
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I disagree. The Japanese eggshell business card is better.
/r/seduction12/08/15 06:42 PM
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If it looks like a troll, smells like a troll, then it's probably a troll.
/r/seduction10/08/15 11:06 PM
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I was going to say the same thing. Smile. You are not ugly at all, it's weird that people would say that. So maybe you don't smile enough or exude an outward appearance of happiness and fun around people which puts them off. If you walk around frowning like that then it would be off putting - it's the same with job interviews.
/r/seduction06/08/15 10:04 PM
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😳 oh, Reddit.
/r/seduction06/08/15 12:07 AM
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The reaction from women to Terre D'Hermes (by Hermes obviously) has been overwhelmingly positive. I love it.
/r/seduction04/08/15 05:54 PM
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No not at all. I just bought some Dumbbells and do the routine on the piece of paper that came with them. I figure I will just go up the scale and when that becomes easy keep increasing the kgs on them. I don't like the idea of going to a gym I don't have much time at the moment but at least with this I have no excuse not to lift. Best investment I've made in a while.
/r/seduction03/08/15 05:32 PM
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Great post. I have just started lifting and even the marginal gains I'm starting to notice have me feeling good. I also enjoy the process of it, how it's now becoming a habit. And the person who is winning is me, and all it takes is half an hour with some dumbbells at home while listening to good music.
/r/seduction03/08/15 10:41 AM
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Congrats dude. I LOVE Madrid. What a city, thanks for reminding me of my time there.
/r/seduction02/08/15 07:47 PM
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How the fuck did this guy get downvoted?!
/r/seduction02/08/15 12:01 AM
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That's a pretty immature thing to say. You know, it's fine to have a girlfriend. The point of seduction is not to get loads of phone numbers, it's to be ready so that when a woman turns up who you might actually want as your partner, you are capable of seducing her and capturing her imagination. Oneitis as you call it, is just a guy's way of saying/thinking a girl is pretty special enough that he doesn't need to chase other women. Judging by your response it sounds like you've never had a girlfr…
/r/seduction01/08/15 11:58 PM
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I'd be interested to read this Tyler post. Can you share the link please?
/r/seduction01/08/15 06:48 AM
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The advice is simple. It's like riding a bike. Be calm and enjoy it.
/r/seduction30/07/15 09:40 PM
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He was proud because he said "must be the family charm." Good job.
/r/seduction29/07/15 11:05 PM
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Yes and the thing you've got to remember is girls your age are insecure too! They want boyfriends! They wish they got approached more because boys your age are nervous and scared of telling girls how they feel. Worst comes to worst if you get rejected she will still be happy you did it and tell all her friends. Girls love this sort of shit. If you do it enough you will be seen as confident and you will feel more confident too. You can use this as a weapon.
/r/seduction29/07/15 11:02 PM
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I take it you didn't number close him either..
/r/seduction29/07/15 07:14 PM
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But I guess you'd need to bear in mind that you could flirt, but they might play along and just use you and could flirt back thinking it increases their chances of getting you where they want you. In their commission cheque!
/r/seduction28/07/15 10:57 PM
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It's easy. You simply respond to their message, give them your number, and when they call you you say you prefer to meet them in person in order that they can really represent you as best as possible. You are the guy with the skills, you are the buyer. They need you.
/r/seduction28/07/15 10:52 PM
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You're in a really lucky position. You can have some banter with them and say that you've heard so many bad things about recruiters that they will need to meet you before you will let them represent you. Bam. They need to meet you because they need you locked in so they can try and place you, meanwhile you can turn on the charm and flirtation when you meet. Suggest a cafe during the day- this is still professional but much more like a date.
/r/seduction28/07/15 07:44 PM
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Top marks for the surprise inclusion of "fingerbanging" in your otherwise thoughtful post!
/r/seduction28/07/15 07:39 PM
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I was chatting to a new acquaintance today who is quite young and shaved his head due to baldness. He's grown a fancy beard. He has a nice girlfriend. The look suits him. All the while I was talking to him I was thinking "you're a great guy". I didn't once think his baldness was a weird thing. He even made a joke about it the other day, "I can grow a big beard but I've lost my hair". The thing was, he was smiling while saying this. He knows it doesn't make him less of a man, it just is what it i…
/r/seduction28/07/15 12:30 AM
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Those subjects are my idea of hell on a date. Oh dear.
/r/seduction27/07/15 10:49 PM
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You could say something playful like, "People pay me silly amounts of money to talk in code to their computers and get them to do shit. It's a bit like sexting but a lot more complicated. If I tell you any more than that I will have to... silence you somehow." sexual eye contact. Smirk. Wait for response. Then try and move conversation to any interesting hobbies or passions you have outside of work if you feel uncomfortable about it I guess? I know that line up there is pretty stupid but what I …
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:29 PM
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I now use "bad/funny date stories" as part of my routine on dates if I am asked about my dating life. I tell a really funny story about a girl who was atrocious at kissing and gave the most violent handjob to the point I was disturbed and had to end it (nearly passed out from her tight grip!) This is a funny story and turns the conversation sexy. It also calibrates them that I don't like girls who use loads of tongue when they kiss.
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:17 PM
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Great field report and good job for salvaging it with a happy ending. The girl you made out probably watched and noticed you being charismatic earlier without you even realising it. That was the real seduction- effortless.
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:13 PM
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Whatever happened to "but I don't want to be your boyfriend." I love that one! It's cheeky, sexual, and also a subtle challenge. But is also your get out of jail free card. Magic!
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:08 PM
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"You only get a limited number of fucks to give over your lifetime, so you must spend them with care. As my father used to say, “Fucks don’t grow on trees, Mark.” OK, he never actually said that. But fuck it, pretend like he did. The point is that fucks have to be earned and then invested wisely. Fucks are cultivated like a beautiful fucking garden, where if you fuck shit up and the fucks get fucked, then you’ve fucking fucked your fucks all the fuck up."
/r/seduction27/07/15 01:25 AM
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He reminds me of Borat, the way he "gestured to his bulges"!!!
/r/seduction27/07/15 01:11 AM
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And one thing I would add to this, "alright if I text you later?" -not cool!
/r/seduction27/07/15 12:45 AM
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I enjoy live music so and knew it would be a good place to grind some xp. Bravo, sir! LEVEL UP for this outstanding field report.
/r/seduction26/07/15 10:12 PM
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Maybe being direct is a lot better with her as you've already fucked her. Cut the crap and call her. Don't text her an invite. Put on your deepest, manliest voice and tell her something like, "the doctor will see you now." If she quizzes you, quickly bring the conversation to sex. "I like it how you cum for me." P.S. Please don't say 'lol' in texts especially if inviting her to something it devalues you and makes you appear nervous. Be a man. Good luck.
/r/seduction20/07/15 01:37 AM
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I find success lately with this opener: "Tinder is weird so how about we play a game instead. You can ask me any three questions you like and I will answer them honestly. Then I'll ask you three questions." Girls like games, and if she doesn't respond to that I next her, no point investing any further. Note: I don't compliment her in this text. I reason that if she finds me sexually attractive she will respond and be curious to know more about me.
/r/seduction17/07/15 01:02 AM
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Do you know what? You don't need the number to get the girl. You have an unusual situation here. Milk it. This girl is into you. I think you should just turn to her next time you see her while you're talking, butt in when she's saying something, look deep into her eyes, glance down at her lips and back to her eyes. Say, "do you know what? You look really fucking sexy today." And then watch the shock and awe on her face. Enjoy it. Smile, and kiss her. Send me a message when you have been successf…
/r/seduction17/07/15 12:55 AM
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Them HB10s doe!
/r/seduction15/07/15 01:16 PM
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I love stories like this. Effortless. Nice work.
/r/seduction15/07/15 12:23 AM
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I probably would have asked exactly the same question as you. I don't think you've done anything wrong so should not go out of your way to 'placate' her now The only other logical explanation is that she DID want to hook up but her anti-slut-defence and fear of rejection got the better of her? Tough one. I guess if you're interested then next time you see her, isolate her, kino, compliment and go for the kiss. Things will naturally escalate from there.
/r/seduction13/07/15 11:47 PM
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"No one has ever kissed me that quickly."
/r/seduction12/07/15 10:12 PM
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Here. Take this biscuit.
/r/seduction12/07/15 04:21 PM
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This. You can say anything. "I'm the guy who warms girls up on porn sets." She will then ask you how you do this, so you are good to tell her about your amazing ability to talk dirty and finger a girl into submission. Bam. Sexual vibe achieved.
/r/seduction12/07/15 12:36 PM
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One of the best ways I find to make things playful is to listen to a girl really carefully and any time she says something even remotely sexual or that could be an innuendo if I twist it will say "oh really" while smirking and looking at her in a knowing way, then repeat what she's just said. So much stuff can be reinterpreted in this way, you've just got to listen out for it and take the opportunity when it presents itself. This can then quickly lead the conversation down a more sexual, playful…
/r/seduction09/07/15 08:04 PM
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Your friend sounds great. He needs a sitcom.
/r/seduction08/07/15 11:26 PM
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I got stuck in my head trying to think of what my move should be. I can't remember a lot of the details, but I do recall that I was able to get her onto the couch where I proceeded to escalate (kissing on her neck, touching her legs etc.). Just kiss them properly dude. You had all the IOI's, you needed to kiss her on the lips. Things would have escalated naturally from there. If a girl sits apart from me I've found success when the sexual tension is right by holding out my hand and saying "come …
/r/seduction08/07/15 08:03 PM
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I've got a Bluetooth speaker and now I live in fear of having someone home for sexy time and putting my Spotify on, only for my phone to then flash up with messages from sexy girls. Awkward.
/r/seduction08/07/15 07:50 PM
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I always kiss them in the bar if I can. There's never a right moment, you just have to make it happen. Then getting them back to your place is a lot more natural and doesn't take effort. My best line is to stop them mid flow, stare and smile with my eyes, and say, slowly and deeply, "you look really fucking sexy by the way." And then I lean in feeling like James motherfucking Bond and we kiss.
/r/seduction08/07/15 07:46 PM
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"So, tell me what you know about tents." - love that line.
/r/seduction08/07/15 07:34 PM
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I might post a proper field report about this but I had a very good night last night. Fucked a girl I thought was potentially out of my league on the first date. I was really surprised as she told me on the date she wasn't that type of girl and I wasn't really even trying too hard. But I had called her as discussed in this post and established a sexual rapport... So it does work. I'm a bit bewildered to be honest. She was really hot.
/r/seduction08/07/15 06:54 AM
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Exactly this. Wanting to speak to her on the phone as soon as you have the number demonstrates confidence above guys who merely text. You can build a sexual rapport, have a laugh together and you can quiz her about stuff on her profile, tease her, and if you like her then close her to committing to a date. They never say no if you do this right, and you'll probably find they text you a lot in the run up to it. This also helps avoid flakes and means you can connect with someone on a much higher l…
/r/seduction07/07/15 10:39 AM
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My best success with Tinder is to set up a quick coffee or drink (prove you're not weird or a psycho, make them laugh, intrigue them, see if the conversation can be escalated sexually and eye fuck them) But my game specifically works around speaking to them on the phone to build rapport and sexual interest prior to the first date because this is my differentiator to all the AFC's who text them. Then sex normally happens on the second date where I will get them to come for drinks near where I liv…
/r/seduction06/07/15 11:44 PM
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I would go back and not smoke weed. Fun at the time but it didn't do me any favours. Wish I had known what I know now about seduction too.
/r/seduction06/07/15 11:33 PM
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Bossed.
/r/seduction06/07/15 11:25 PM
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Well I had exactly this situation. Friend of mine kept engineering ways of us spending time together. I knew she wasn't going to make the first move so in the end I was just sat on a park bench with my arm around her, stroking her and I said "I feel there's a lot of sexual tension between us." I was kissing her shortly after.
/r/seduction05/07/15 11:56 PM
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Her:Giggles, that one is a bit more private You could have smirked at this point and said something like "oh really, you should show it to me some time." Good job for approaching but this could have been an opportunity to escalate things a bit more sexually, state your intentions and get her number. By the sounds of it, she was into you.
/r/seduction04/07/15 12:05 PM
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I had a BURNING DESIRE to kill myself while reading this.
/r/seduction03/07/15 11:02 PM
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No way dude. You're doing the right thing and ahead of most guys who don't have the balls to kiss on the first date. Well done. I think the thing to analyse might be your kissing style, maybe it is putting them off?
/r/seduction02/07/15 11:04 PM
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I know this might be controversial but I often try to kiss them the moment I meet them in situations where I've talked on the phone or we've had sexual conversations. A hug, hands on their hips pulling them tight along with "you look sexy." Making my intentions clear the moment we meet. If I get rejected then I laugh it off but the kino ladder is already high for me to stroke their back etc when we sit down. I kissed one girl 10 seconds into the date. She was like "what the fuck" but kissed me b…
/r/seduction02/07/15 11:02 PM
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Or even better than texting, call her. Hope this helps- I just got a hot babe's number off POF. Rather than text her I called her, it ended up being an hour long conversation with half of it about sex. Haven't even met her yet!
/r/seduction01/07/15 08:31 PM
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Way to go dude. This is just the beginning and it keeps getting better.
/r/seduction01/07/15 08:25 PM
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😂
/r/seduction01/07/15 08:21 PM
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"Let's go and get a drink." take to more secluded area "You look really sexy by the way." watch her closely, smile, enjoy the response, then kiss her.
/r/seduction30/06/15 11:57 PM
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Provided you've been slowly escalating kino during the date I can picture you sat down on a rock waxing lyrical about barnacles(!) while slowly rubbing her lower back. You realise you've been talking about barnacles too long, stop what you're doing, look her in the eye strongly, smile and say "you look really sexy." You pause a moment, enjoy the response, and know when you lean in a second later your kiss will not be refused* *this prevents you from being known in your town as 'Barnacle Boy'.
/r/seduction30/06/15 11:50 PM
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Me: "Excuse me, hey, I know this is a bit strange, but I just thought you looked nice, do you have a minute to talk?" Perhaps you could try tweaking this to be more manly. "Excuse me. pause I know this is a bit strange. But I thought you looked nice." (All with a big smile and eye contact as confidently as you can muster) Don't talk quick. Slow down, keep your voice deep. Wait for the response.
/r/seduction30/06/15 11:19 PM
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Absolutely this. Friend of mine recently invited herself over to "hang out" because she was "bored". I just said to her, "I'm feeling a bit of sexual tension between us. Are you?" She admitted it was true. Everything else happened naturally.
/r/seduction30/06/15 11:09 PM
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I agree. Bland message, but it was the way it was said that worked. I was trying to fuck her with my voice. Hard to explain lol.
/r/seduction29/06/15 05:57 PM
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That's pretty much exactly the feedback I've had so far. That and they like it because it's different. Well worth doing, guys!
/r/seduction29/06/15 05:54 PM
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Yes. You can, so it's great because you can delete it til you get it right.
/r/seduction29/06/15 03:32 PM
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I just checked one so here is a sample: "Hello, [username]. (Pause) you look attractive (pause) I noticed you like board games. I like board games too. I like X, Y, Z and Monopoly. (Pause) what board games do you like?" I sound like a slightly sleazy, but admittedly confident motherfucker when I hear it back (haha) Her response was a voice text (where she was laughing) and a compliment about my approach.
/r/seduction29/06/15 03:31 PM
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Nearly 50% response rate. I keep my voice with as much downward tonality as possible, and fairly slow. Try and use the full 30 seconds, sometimes I would do two messages one after the other if I ran out of time. I went from having no leads on Friday morning to too many hot leads and not enough time in my diary this week!
/r/seduction29/06/15 03:22 PM
2

Amazing report and kudos to you for putting yourself through it. You must be a good looking guy though in order to have that success rate, as that's insane. Do you look like Ryan Gosling or something?!
/r/seduction29/06/15 02:33 AM
1

I have dipped my pen in the company ink a few too many times Haha! Love this line. Not heard it before but will be using it from now on!
/r/seduction28/06/15 03:47 AM
1

"Grenade."
/r/seduction28/06/15 03:38 AM
1

There was a nice moment when we were alone in a churchyard which could have been a good moment to kiss her but I hadn't gotten that vibe from her yet, we hadn't had much kino or anything You had a good date and connected well, but you've summed it up here perfectly. You should have done loads of kino throughout, and kissed her. Sorry dude but we all need events like this to learn from. Next time you see her you know what to do.
/r/seduction28/06/15 03:37 AM
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People are so receptive to random conversations with strangers. It's all part of the festival experience and without it, a festival would not be the same. What I always do is have strong eye contact, smile, and say "Hi. Are you having a good time?" No need to mess around with complicated intros. This is a natural, easy conversation starter that starts with them saying "yes!"
/r/seduction28/06/15 03:26 AM
1

Good skills. I like how you pulled Peachy. Confidence must have been flying high from the first girl and you just said "hey are you ok?" and got her. Magic.
/r/seduction28/06/15 03:19 AM
13

Haha. Works for me. I could literally say "I fuck goats" - as long as the smile is there that's the most important thing!
/r/seduction21/06/15 07:09 AM
16

Something that works for me is to really throw myself into enjoying myself on the dancefloor. Recently I was alone in a club but enjoying the music so much that I approached loads of girls just with a big smile across at them while dancing, pointing up in the air and mouthing the words "what a tune" or "this music is so good". It was a big dancefloor with a lot of space so I was moving across it while dancing, constantly working out who my next targets could be. Abundance mentality - girls every…
/r/seduction20/06/15 11:40 PM
2

Me: "So, what do you say? Don't let me hanging" In my opinion this comes across as needy particularly with the smileys you're dropping everywhere. She has an opportunity to say no because you aren't acting like a man. All the girls I've had dates with I've kept it brief and firm. I've dictated where we go. I like to say we are going on a date rather than asking her. I choose the venue, e.g. "I really fancy some tapas and have heard good things about X." Or, "I like the cocktails in Y and they ha…
/r/seduction18/06/15 11:42 PM
2

This.
/r/seduction16/06/15 08:56 PM
3

Yep I agree. I was driving home as I had not been drinking and I was half tempted to go into another club and make the most of my confidence being so high, at this point I felt like I could pull anyone! But I was too tired. As she doesn't live near me she will be a nice hook up partner for adventures or random weekends etc. P.S. Thanks for your comments everyone.
/r/seduction31/05/15 01:31 PM
1

I know what you mean but I think I handled it really well because it wasn't really a question it was more like an assumption she would give me her number. The conversation was going great and she loved the sound of some tunes I had recommended so it was a logical next step and I said it in a way like she would be an idiot if she said no, in other words maintaining my status without coming across needy or creepy - subtext was a bit like: "I'm doing you a favour by taking your number."
/r/seduction31/05/15 01:28 PM
4

My interpretation is that to be yourself you need to steer the conversation on subjects you are really enthusiastic and passionate about or have interesting stories to tell about (music? Travel?) but also ask her plenty of questions and listen for hooks she can give you to lead on to the next conversation path. Try and jump in with a cool story or opinion at a relevant opportunity too.
/r/seduction31/05/15 07:53 AM
5

Ditto. I met a homeless man once. Spent a few hours chilling with him. He must have been about 60 but had the most interesting stories and wisdom to tell. He had been in prison several times but wrote amazing poetry. Loved that guy, the few hours I had with him made my week.
/r/seduction28/05/15 11:34 PM
2

Tell it then. It's all group therapy :-)
/r/seduction25/05/15 12:33 AM
2

Well we've had some very sexy chats and I've slept in her bed and stroked/kissed her pussy through her clothes while she murmured about how she had a boyfriend and "didn't want to do anything too naughty". Cringe!
/r/seduction24/05/15 11:50 PM
5

What in the literal fuck did I just read... :-)
/r/seduction24/05/15 10:03 PM
1

I don't know if 'wingman' is necessarily the right word but basically we are friends but lots of kino and long looks between us, lots of eyefucking from me to always keep a slightly sexual edge. I occasionally grab her arse and say "what an arse you have" and she will tell me off but very half heartedly because she likes the attention. When she asks me for my news I'll always include a few sexual smirks at her and say something like, "well, there's one interesting girl I'm going to go on a date …
/r/seduction24/05/15 09:38 PM
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Useful reminders. I've been taking a lot of these steps with one particular girl. Treat her a bit like my wingman. I've made it clear I would fuck her, but I don't revolve around my life around her. Instead I keep her updated from time to time with a few snippets about the women I'm seeing. I know that if things fizzle out with her boyfriend she will come to me in a flash so she's always an option in the background and a nice girl to hang out with.
/r/seduction24/05/15 04:50 PM
5

This is a great reminder. I approached a lot of women yesterday at a festival but the majority had boyfriends even though I sensed interest. I could have handled this objection better- really I just ended the conversation quickly like "oh well, bye!" But one in particular I bailed on too soon but could tell she was keen. I could have tested her a bit more.
/r/seduction24/05/15 08:12 AM
7

I'm pretty new to seddit and the game but at a festival today I made myself approach about 7 or 8 women, forcing myself to not fear rejection. I often said "hi, you're cute" with a smile or "are you having a good time?" And while I could sense attraction in many of them they all had fucking boyfriends. I smiled and moved on, no hard feelings. Anyway I was just feeling good and enjoying myself and a girl then approached me later on, I kissed her within 10 seconds. Went straight in and she was gam…
/r/seduction24/05/15 01:10 AM
1

Of course you build rapport before bringing up the telephone interview. It's all playful. You'd be a bit of a douche without rapport. I trusted my instincts with this and she was game. The phone call also prevents flaking because it builds the interest and rapport.
/r/seduction19/05/15 10:45 PM
1

Kudos to you for doing it.
/r/seduction11/05/15 10:41 PM
3

Dude, I've already fucked that girl. Just kidding!
/r/seduction11/05/15 10:30 PM
1

Update: she left it over a day, and I had forgotten about her. Then she texted me last night.
/r/seduction10/05/15 04:21 PM
2

Why text? Why not call her?
/r/seduction07/05/15 01:02 AM
10

Love this story. Way to go. Fuck you, Angela!
/r/seduction07/05/15 01:01 AM
1

Poor kitty.
/r/seduction05/05/15 08:49 PM
1

Wham.
/r/seduction05/05/15 08:37 PM
4

I just said, "ahahahaha."
/r/seduction05/05/15 05:27 PM
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