| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 21 | First tinder date | Field Report | Sea-Temperature-5893 | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 03:42 AM |
| 5 | Flakes 🙄 | Sea-Temperature-5893 | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 05:37 AM | |
| 1 | When is it appropriate to cut a girl off? | Lifestyle | Sea-Temperature-5893 | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 01:55 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 23 | What’s the difference between the guy who ends up becoming the best friend and the guy who fucks her?Best friend guy thought acting like a girl would get him laid, never stated his intentions and he accepted a shitty deal for himself by conforming to her frame of putting him in the friendzone. Guy who fucked her stated his intentions early on, demonstrated traditionally masculine traits that are known to turn women on, and maintained his frame by being straight forward and leaving no possibility of a platonic relationship between them. | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 01:17 PM |
| 4 | Are bars and clubs the best spot to meet women?Damn I think I’ve been ONSmaxxing unintentionally. | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 05:25 PM |
| 2 | "GRA" - the only 3 abilities you (unfortunately) need to get women in 2025 (longer post)Could you elaborate on this? How were you trying to play it “cool”? And what behaviors did you change to help you drop that act? How did it change your results in dating? | /r/seduction | 20/04/25 08:00 PM |
| 11 | What has been the worst rejection you have ever receive? And how it happenedCraziest part is you know they went “yeah girl we showed him!” after you left. Women lol | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 11:53 PM |
| 9 | Found out we’re incompatible during the first date. I’m learning to stop simping.Last sentence fucking killed me hahahaha. Pretty sure that’s happening to me with last chick I was involved with at my old job. Hopefully she kept shit discreet but eh, I don’t work there anymore lol. | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 06:47 PM |
| 17 | I invited a woman back to my apartment and I did not escalateMy roommate thanked me cause he didn’t know what to do with a chick he bought over and I have a ps2 and keyboard in the living room. I came home to bro getting his ass whopped on Tekken, I was fucking dying hahahaha. | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Girl says I HAVE TO bring her a gift on our first dateBring her something if you want but you’ll be aight if you don’t, a kiss is prolly best like others said. I’d bring my dick in a box personally | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 12:06 PM |
| 5 | Growth Mindset is Hurting MeFacts, I need to internalize this truth myself as well | /r/seduction | 27/01/25 06:11 PM |
| 2 | She is very talkative and social, you are the quiet guyHonestly always works well in my experience as long as you’re the quiet confident type, not quiet and nervous. When I talk too much on dates I say stupid and offensive shit on accident lol. | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 05:11 PM |
| 18 | Don't "Next" women, keep them in your orbit.It’s a self respect thing really. Even if she comes back and you put her in the “fuck buddy” zone, a fuck buddy can easily turn into a baby momma and a worse headache than she would have been had you just exed her out of your life. Some of you guys are too old to be so controlled by your lust or the need for female validation, we need to do better. | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 03:44 PM |
| 9 | How long should I wait when a girl I’m interested in doesn’t reply to my text?This. Honestly if she responds to the double text and gives you hope it’s worse, just prolonging the inevitable lol. Leave her alone | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 05:09 PM |
| -3 | 15 phrases that reveal your insecurity and turn women offYeah kindof crazy huh? Couldn’t be me. My problem is my confidence is way too high, borderline delusional. Still a better alternative than being down on yourself all the time. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 05:14 PM |
| 5 | When a girl come overYeah this guy gets it | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 04:22 PM |
| 9 | What is your step by step make out strategy to turn on your date on when kissing?I’m ngl I must be kindof retarded when it comes to this. Usually end up kissing her neck and that does the trick often, taking her shirt or my shirt off. I’m pretty toned through training martial arts so when the shirt comes off she’s ready to go. I love kissing her body and sucking on her boobs a bit too. You guys ideas sound way cooler tho, taking notes hahah. | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Th power of saying no !I mean I’m glad you get an ego boost from all this but it sounds like a waste of your and any girls time. Idk maybe I haven’t unlocked this level of game yet 🤣 | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 06:48 PM |
| 4 | Sex in the 2nd date?I’m not him but I feel like having an abundance mindset makes it kind of easy to just cut chicks off for little shit like that. I don’t think it’s wrong honestly. | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 08:57 AM |
| 21 | What's your WORST cold approaching experience?Jesus fucking Christ dog, how? 😂 you know what don’t answer | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Need adviceAh ok I see, context changes things a bit. Yeah try to set up a hangout with you guys and some friends asap, doesn’t have to be anything crazy. Don’t overdo it but pull back a bit on the constant texting, try to keep conversations on the phone short and sweet, aim to set up a hangout when you are talking with her. If you continue texting her all the time with no real purpose behind it, you run the risk of boring her and being put in the friend zone or just getting ghosted. Just my opinion/experi… | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Need adviceMatch her energy, don’t keep chasing her you’re gonna fuck it up. Also, if it seems easier to set a hangout between yall rather than a two man, do that. How old are you? | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 01:42 AM |
| 1 | What can I do to fix it?Nah you overcooked this one champ. Coworker shit gets messy anyways, I just fucked up and did the same not too long ago, luckily left the job soon after anyways. I would say don’t invest into this chick anymore because now you’re chasing, and explore other options outside of work. | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Is swiping and lack of results on apps bad for your irl game and cold approach?Also I have pulled through tinder but the juice is so not worth the squeeze lol. I think the algorithm is fucking me over too cause I kept hopping on and off the app. | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Is swiping and lack of results on apps bad for your irl game and cold approach?I mean I won’t deny this but I do have a much easier time in person than playing the numbers game online. If you’re charming and average or below average looking fuck online dating, just cold approach and increase your social standing within whatever groups of people you interact with often. Doesn’t hurt to increase your income aswell lol. | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 12:03 AM |
| 19 | How do you get a girl isolated from her friend?Bro if you feel like it’s a hassle to get a hangout going between just the 2 of you, she doesn’t like you. Just my opinion/experience honestly. | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 02:13 AM |
| 7 | I set up a date with someone 2 hours away, never even been in that area, but I have lead?Yeah I personally would google maps some bars in the area or bowling alleys etc. 2 hours is crazy tho, you met her through online dating I assume? | /r/seduction | 22/12/24 04:08 PM |
| 1 | When is it appropriate to cut a girl off?True, thanks for the input. Blocking is an emotional reaction, kinda a bitch move in hindsight. Idk will keep in mind for the next girl or whatever lol | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 02:09 AM |
| -13 | Got rejected last time I approaches but she’s still staringDunno why everyone cares she’s married. A cheater is a cheater. If it ain’t you it’ll be some other dude. If you get the chance, might as well capitalize. You’d be doing dude a favor at the end of the day in my opinion | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 01:34 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]To be quite honest I think you should go into the situation without pre prepared lines. It fucks things up. Just go with the flow, speak with confidence,eye contact, make her laugh(without being a clown) and make sure she’s comfortable. The key with things like this is being able to read body language really. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Well she may see you as an asshole if you make a move on her while she’s dating someone. If you’re like most guys (including myself) and still wanna go for it, then just don’t bring the guy she is dating up in conversation, if she doesn’t bring him up either that’s a good sign. I’d suggest breaking the touch barrier little by little before fully going for the kiss. Touch her shoulder, hand on her thigh, put your arm around her, things like that. If she’s not comfortable with that then that’s 100… | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 07:02 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Ask her??? | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 06:54 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Bro what? If you mean literally right now get tf off Reddit and enjoy your time with her 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 06:53 PM |
| 7 | Why do women always act so weird around me?Lol okay. Stay ignorant if you want. I didn’t say women are only worth their physical beauty at all. I said that their physical beauty is extremely important to attracting a man, that’s 100% a fact. And no I don’t get mad when women say they only want tall men, because a lot of women are fucking short guys anyway so. All I told you was truth, call it whatever you like. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 05:26 PM |
| 9 | Why do women always act so weird around me?Ok. While I see why that thought seems valid at first glance, the idea of the prime years is based on what the majority of men and women are looking for in a partner. The majority of men value a woman’s physical attractiveness over everything else when choosing his partner, and most women look their best between the ages 20-26, maybe latest 30, but after 26 most womens physical beauty starts to decline. Most women are looking for a man who has a high status in society; a man who is earning a goo… | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 04:39 PM |
| 6 | Why do women always act so weird around me?Ok walking red flag with an attitude problem. Hope your prime years weren’t wasted :) | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 03:49 PM |
| 9 | Why do women always act so weird around me?So because he’s a man it’s not true? Not a decent argument. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 03:46 PM |
| 6 | Why do women always act so weird around me?Yes | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 03:44 PM |
| 1 | What if attraction is way more esoteric than we thought?While it is true that getting into a 9 to 5 is mostly a trap, if you invest your money right you won’t have to work it for long. Just gotta make that sacrifice for a few years | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 06:51 AM |
| 4 | What if attraction is way more esoteric than we thought?Honestly, for what my opinion is worth I don’t think having high standards is a bad thing. What is bad is having high standards and not fitting those standards yourself. If you’re gonna hit on 9s and 10s you have to be able to look in the mirror and say you yourself are on that same level. Or else you’ll feel like you’re trying to attain something that is out of your league. Idk about you guys but once I shifted my focus from trying to pursue women to being the guy women will pursue, seduction g… | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 06:49 AM |
| 1 | What’s the best US City for a single man?Numbers game amigo. Just gotta get out there and you’ll find sum. I assume at least. | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 01:20 PM |
| 9 | What’s the best US City for a single man?Maybe, but even then most men are ugly or out of shape so, if you’ve been working on yourself from a young age you have a big advantage. | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 01:19 PM |
| 8 | The most attractive thing to women is a transcendent emotional experience.Thanks | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 02:21 AM |
| 6 | How do I win my ex girlfriend back?Bro I’m sorry I know how it feels but fuck her. I mean she doesn’t owe anything to you so maybe I’m overthinking but if she found another dude literally 2 days after, there is no way in hell you should be worried about her any further. That’s way to fast man I wouldn’t be surprised if they’d been flirting for awhile now while you guys were dating. If not more than flirting. Respect yourself brother this is not a girl you wanna pursue further | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Is Not making a move the first date really so detrimental?Ok sick I’m glad to hear it’s working like that for other dudes ahahaha | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Is Not making a move the first date really so detrimental?Thanks man great advice. Don’t wanna make things serious. | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Is Not making a move the first date really so detrimental?True true. Shit man I gotta start capitalizing, I have it way easier than most but still fumble the bag somehow lol | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Is Not making a move the first date really so detrimental?Most definitely. I just think it’s really funny how society makes it seem like its so rare for a girl to fuck on the first date and the guy always has to be the super horny impatient one. I’ve experienced the opposite myself and through friends lol. | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Is Not making a move the first date really so detrimental?Gotcha. Gonna give it a lil time and try my luck at rebuilding the vibe we had. Don’t worry, I know the chances are slim. | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Is Not making a move the first date really so detrimental?That is the real question, and I have been contemplating it. Quite frankly, I probably dodged a bullet. Can’t get over how hot this girl is tho I’m considering maybe asking her out again further down the line even though it’ll probably come off as desperate😅. | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Is Not making a move the first date really so detrimental?Also facts. You sound like my higher self. Currently on a good streak of abstaining right now, gonna keep it goin. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Is Not making a move the first date really so detrimental?I do be masturbating doe. But yeah I figured, honestly made this mistake before too. Last time for sure. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 09:50 PM |
| 1 | According to some people I’ve met, I’m attractiveWell I mean I’ve been told I’m attractive too but it feels good for like 5 seconds at most, even if I catch a girl looking it’s cool for about the same amount of time. If you’re not superficial those compliments won’t really matter much Imo. I feel my confidence skyrocket when I’m consistent with my workouts and seeing gains, when I make a song I really like, when I spend the day having an awesome day with friends, stuff like that. I won’t lie I also get a good confidence boost when I approach a… | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 08:13 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Lol you’re bored. You first ;) | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 12:29 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I completely agree bro. My main motivation is my happiness when im improving my life don’t get me wrong. But I won’t lie, being able to form relationships with girls I truly desire is apart of overall life satisfaction for me, that’s kindof what made me ask. You’re for sure spitting facts though, I shouldn’t really be worrying about women as much at all. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 08:55 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Shit man maybe lol girls can be complicated. But yeah bro just gotta focus on improving, would definitely love to have nines even look in my direction lol | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 08:05 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Sure thing man, Thankyou for the tips! | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 04:16 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Create an image in your head of the girl taking a huge dump. Like she’s constipated really trying to push a big log out to the point where she is shaking and screaming. Your welcome 👍 | /r/seduction | 21/07/21 11:52 PM |
| 22 | Confidence ChangingI feel like it’s pretty subjective but when I’m doing really good with good habits in life I’m way more confident with everything. Like if I’ve been working out consistently, working everyday at my job and on my projects, and have been eating well I’m way more confident with women and social interactions in general. If I’m living kindof shitty, eating bad, laying in bed all day, beating my dick alot, I don’t even feel like talking to mfs lol. It could likely be different for you tho so idk. | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 01:45 AM |
| 1 | First tinder dateThe sentence before that says she didn't look as attractive as she did online..... | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 04:47 PM |
| 3 | First tinder dateLol I guess. It’s millennial/gen z slang | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 09:45 AM |
| 2 | First tinder dateBasically it just means let’s hangout | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 06:54 AM |
| 14 | PSA: If it’s not a fuck yes, then it’s a no.I’m not asking more than once tbh. When she’s interested, if she flakes or says she’s busy she’ll suggest a better date. Asked a girl to hangout three times once and looking back on it now I cringe. | /r/seduction | 16/06/21 08:12 AM |
| 1 | New guyI don’t see what advice we can give you. You know that if you cheat on your husband you will most likely feel guilty if you have any empathy, and if your man finds out he will be crushed and that may be the end of your serious relationship. All for some dick that may not even be good. You know the answer, you literally said it in the last sentence. | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 09:24 AM |
| 2 | I just stumbled on something big for myself. I got a girl that was shutting down to be into me again.Ahahaha I love when doing shit like this works. Us humans are ridiculously simple minded, really. | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 09:14 AM |
| 9 | she is playing hard to get - should i keep pursuing her?Expeditiously | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 09:10 AM |
| 78 | she is playing hard to get - should i keep pursuing her?I would say drop it. From an outside perspective she’s stringing you along like a puppet my friend. I have to much respect for my self to be toyed with and you should too, doesn’t matter if you will be able to smash later,it’s about respect. Just my opinion | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 05:17 AM |
| 3 | First date and problems arisedA long stay at the hospital lmao. I get leaving the date but Jesus I’ve been seeing so many idiots talk about beating up girls over the dumbest shit. Control your emotions. | /r/seduction | 01/06/21 12:13 PM |
| 3 | Be 100% present in interactions. It’s obvious when you’re not.My adhd makes this literally impossible. I probably look really stupid honestly because I will zone out for like 10 secs, realize I did it and feel really bad, and then make super intense eye contact for like 20 seconds to make up for it then repeat lmao | /r/seduction | 25/05/21 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Flakes 🙄I’m not quite sure what you mean by my desire is off?could you elaborate on that a bit? And Thankyou, honestly one of the guys advice below really helped about being more decisive when setting dates, I got one set up on Wednesday after talking to her for a day so that’s dope. We’ll see how it goes. | /r/seduction | 19/04/21 06:28 PM |
| 18 | Done with thisI understand your point of view bro, but really I wouldn’t suggest having the done with this mentality because you will block off good opportunities. Focus on improving yourself everyday and your results will be better; and on top of that, it won’t be as stressful because you are so focused on yourself that you won’t think of all the rejections after they happen. You’ll continue on your path and just shoot your shot when the opportunities arise. Don’t give up bro, just make little tweaks and don… | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Flakes 🙄Nah I get that, makes perfect sense. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Flakes 🙄Yessir yessir that’s a good idea too. Gonna tweak these things and hopefully I’ll be able to tell seddit how shadow__account got me laid 😂 appreciate the pointers! | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Flakes 🙄Gotcha. In my mind I’ve gotten rejected in the past by being too decisive and applying to much pressure by setting the date immediately, but I think you’ve got the right idea for sure. The chicks from the past would’ve rejected either way I’m sure, so thanks bro I’m gonna try to be more decisive when I ask next time. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 11:35 AM |
| 3 | Flakes 🙄Ahhhh I seee. So basically I sound like a fuckboy robot lmao. Which in retrospect is for sure true. All my friends call me horrible at texting when they first meet me, so this makes a lot of sense. Thanks bro idk how I didn’t think of this aspect. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Flakes 🙄Well after the initial feeling out text I’ll just say wanna hangout sometime soon? If no then clearly abort mission ahaha but it’s usually yes and from there I’ll say ok and make a suggestion (hike for example) and see what they think. If it goes smooth from there, I’ll say ok I’ll text you back soon so we can find out when’s a good day. Few days later I’ll say hey you free saturday? And that’s when things just go poop. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Flakes 🙄So basically I try to keep things short tbh, I’ve found dragging out conversation to the point of it being clearly forced just kills things faster. I atleast try to do a few sentences before going for it to feel it out to see if she even likes me. Things like how’ve you been, what’s new, etc. with the girls i kindof know. With new chicks pretty much the usual like what are your hobbies and what’re you looking for on tinder. So yeah I average about maybe 3 or 4 back and forth text before saying s… | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 11:06 AM |
| 2 | what are the worst IRL rejections/blowouts you've experienced?I would’ve started dying laughing, how delusional😂💀 | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 07:37 AM |
| 2 | what are the worst IRL rejections/blowouts you've experienced?Good for you bro but that’s crazy numbers. Admit you got burnt at least a couple times. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 07:21 AM |
| 2 | what are the worst IRL rejections/blowouts you've experienced?My worse is probably “I think we are better off as friends” that stung. Nah matter fact the absolute worse was a girl I liked talking about another guy she liked, we joked with each other a lot. She said” he keeps telling me why don’t you go out with sea temperature, and I’m like nooo he’s fucking ugly!!” I didn’t show interest so it’s my fault for even hanging around that long but shorty knew what she was doin💀said it in front of my bro too. My past is dark 😔 | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Flakes 🙄Yeah I feel. I wouldn’t call myself an orbital due to the fact I don’t stick around. Sure I shoot the shot, but I’m way to involved with my own life to orbit anyone. And in my last paragraph I said I don’t get out enough and don’t cold approach, so no newbies coming around as often. Definitely need to start doing that though. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Flakes 🙄Yeah I feel, I know that I come off passionate, but I truthfully could care less about the flakes. Just tryna improve. Thanks g. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 06:09 AM |
| 2 | i just dont have anything important or interesting to talk about to people mostly girlsI’m no Casanova at all so take this with a grain of salt, but it’s pretty easy to tell when you are doing all the work in a text with chicks. My advice would be to dead that shit as soon as the responses become too dry, no reason to waste time on girls who have no interest in you but don’t have the respect for you to say it straight up. Too many fish in the sea for that bullshit. | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 12:53 AM |
| 1 | i just dont have anything important or interesting to talk about to people mostly girlsGotta respect her honesty tho. She’s not wasting your time | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 11:56 PM |
| 1 | How can I find a wingbuddy in a new city?I’m down to go game with you if you still need a partner friend! Lmk man I haven’t been out gaming in a bit to me honest but I also need a decent wingman. I’m 19 btw | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 03:39 PM |
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