Just looking for you guys ideas honestly. I get a good amount of chicks interested in me, well maybe not cause I get flaked on lmao. But atleast interested enough to get good replies and fast replies at that. But literally every chick for the past couple years who claim to be down to hangout over text flake. I’m just genuinely wondering why they don’t just reject me. I would honestly much rather them say fuck off dickhead than saying they are down to hang but then flake.

I’ve learned not to be too persistent in trying to hangout , I don’t keep asking after the first flake honestly, just onto shooting the next shot. But I’m just genuinely looking for an explanation as to why this flaking shit happens to me time and time again. I kindof figure they just have better options but wanna have me as a plan c or some shit or just want the validation, but after this keeps happening I’m starting to think it’s something in my game, just tryna get you guys 2 cents. This applies to girls from tinder and some girls from the past I haven’t seen in awhile.

I understand cold approach would probably work out a lot better for me, but I haven’t got into it much just due to not going out enough and COVID shit.