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Social IssuesSea_Tour_3696/r/MensRights27/11/22 03:19 PM
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GeneralSea_Tour_3696/r/MensRights05/05/22 04:26 PM
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Too many men will continue to pursue. This won't change, unfortunately. Supply and demand
/r/MensRights23/05/24 08:49 PM
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Nice edit and paraphrase. If you want to draw back from anictodatal despite all of your claims being exactly that, please feel free to look into gendered gang statistics. There's no better example of opportunistic morality than gang affiliation. This directly contradicts your statements on opportunistic morality. You are straw manning This is exactly what you did in the paragraph prior. You don't see campaigns to shore up male self-worth and self esteem, or campaigns for men to sign up for caree…
/r/MensRights23/05/24 05:21 PM
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Look, you can go as long-winded as you want about your anecdotal life experience, but end of the day that doesn't change the fact that you are flat out wrong. It's abundantly clear that culture and religion by far have more grasp on peoples morals than gender could even come close to reaching. To say that women as a whole have no moral compass or even less than men is abundantly false. A better hill to die on is people in harsh circumstances (divorce, etc) are likely to go against their morals d…
/r/MensRights23/05/24 02:51 PM
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I don't think she's arguing we are held to different standards. She likely took offense to just the title alone. Saying women have no morals is so far out of touch it's not even funny. Morals are on a person by person basis and have always been. There are consistencies between cultures, religions, genders, etc, but consistencies do not hold true on a person to person basis. The loudest people stick out more. Meaning you notice it more. What you aren't noticing is the good people in the backgroun…
/r/MensRights23/05/24 12:41 PM
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I think those subs are for a different niche, for sure. Of course, this is just my opinion based on a quick scroll through them. I'm sure there are some good conversations to be had there, but it seems very politically leaning.
/r/MensRights23/05/24 12:36 PM
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Completely agree. Bros lost touch with society. Probably should seek mental help. Sounds like he's been burnt too many times. There is no real excuse for this mentality, though. It's extreme enough to where I believe this may even be a troll post lmao.
/r/MensRights22/05/24 04:09 PM
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This post ain't it. I understand the frustrations with modern feminism, but the same could be said about guys from women's perspective. Let's not drop to the level of twox here lmao
/r/MensRights22/05/24 02:09 PM
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Fair enough. Hope you have a good night
/r/MensRights19/04/23 02:50 AM
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Pushback or no pushback a kid cannot concent. It's true there are many variables, but if a kid cannot concent and they don't have the mental capacity to even consider thinking long term I think that invalidates any argument for it to be legal before 18.
/r/MensRights19/04/23 02:10 AM
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So sorry if I seem a little ticked, but you just happened to directly insult the 2 most personal topics to me, my family(trans person), and having autism. (I am high functioning autistic) By no means am I insulting anyone here. I take no issue with your brother being trans nor do I take issue with you being autistic. Wish you and your brother the best honestly. Like how Trans people's brain just functions more like the opposite gender, which causes extreme discomfort in their own body, which lea…
/r/MensRights19/04/23 02:07 AM
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So your solution is to allow girls that are anywhere from 8-13 or boys between 9-14 to make a forever life altering decision in hopes the gender (affirmation actually helps them which isn't always the case). Do you believe these children can conscent to this? Do you believe it should be mandatory or up to the parents? I'm not sure allowing a kid this young to make a decision that will forever essentially disable them (meaning they have to go to the doctor regularly) is a good hill to die on. Wom…
/r/MensRights19/04/23 12:56 AM
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I'm just explaining what others are saying. I'd say you're contributing to the problem being so quick to demonize people for so little. Feel how you want to feel about it. That's just the take many people are having... Personally I don't care what an adult does, but I do care when a kid is involved. No kid can conscent to gender affirmative therapy or hrt. Even with a doctor excuse. As for the whole part where you were questioning if I even met a trans person. I have. And no this person did not …
/r/MensRights19/04/23 12:40 AM
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Correct you are both your body and your mind. What I was speaking on is when someone in their mind associates with their body negatively because of consist reinforcement from society that their actions are that of the opposite gender or that they are bad people because of what's between their legs. If there's enough trauma combined with normal teenage year self image issues and said person finds a rabbit hole it is not unlogical to see why some people go this route. I'm purely saying this is a s…
/r/MensRights18/04/23 03:26 PM
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You as in second person perspective.
/r/MensRights18/04/23 12:20 PM
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I believe many people argue that transgenderism is sexism because the majority overly feminize themselves. To an extent they have to because testosterone develops more masculine features. Ie hair, higher bone density, thicker skin, wider faces, eyebridges, etc. However the general idea is that trans women make their identity off the most extreme female looks. Ie lots of make up, flashy clothes, etc... This dwindles the meaning of what it means to be a woman to some people and spreads the idea th…
/r/MensRights18/04/23 12:24 AM
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It sickens me because I felt the anxiety of the "all men" or "the only girls like" type of people when I was growing up. It's so pathetic how so many people can sit there and say it's sexism to generalize based on gender and turn around and do the same thing themselves but 100 fold. To me it's no wonder transgenderism is on the rise. Sure one could argue "oh its on the rise because there's more knowledge out there and more people to back them". To that I agree to an extent, but I'd argue transge…
/r/MensRights18/04/23 12:10 AM
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Have a girl in my life that does this. Uses the same excuse for racism. It's just blatantly stupid in my opinion. The argument is purely "well its okay if I do it but when someone else does it it's not okay". They try to justify it by saying "the patriarch still exists" or "men are always the nasty creeps that murder". When the truth is saying hateful shit only causes more of a problem. They create a self fulfilling profacy. The type to say I hate all men will bring out the hatefulness in men. J…
/r/MensRights14/04/23 06:12 PM
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What was the total accusations?
/r/MensRights10/04/23 05:53 PM
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I guess that depends on the type of content doesn't it? And I'd say the viewership.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:41 PM
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I say you deserve nothing no matter who you are. You are actively in charge of the people you seek to date no matter the gender. You decide what traits you want and don't want. If you end up unhappy and single until you're 60 that's a you problem even if you don't want to admit it. The same way someone with no standards is bound to be unhappy. I say have standards. Know what you like and don't like. Only way to do this is date around. It's okay to settle, but be sure it's with someone willing to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 12:56 PM
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Never said it did.... I'm just giving you males perspectives on it. If you don't think it's valid then so be it. End of the day it's because men don't have equal say. I'm sure you are fine with that. I'm indifferent on this. I'm just telling you my understanding. A girl could end the kids (ik you're going to yell fetus so please dont) life and move on with her own life. The male cannot or if he wants it he cannot. Abortion it's a moral grey in my opinion. I see why people do it but I could never…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:33 PM
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Way I look at this is I believe many men have been told they better not be a dead beat or their father was one so they don't want to be. Thus requiring many to feel like they have a responsibility even if they fuck up. The idea of an abortion is the female gets to choose everything that occurs with the baby. She can void the responsibilities of a child despite her having just as much fault in making it as him (not speaking about rape or incest). If he runs away before the baby is born. He's a po…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:52 PM
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Yeah I far more agree with this than ops post.
/r/MensRights04/04/23 06:49 PM
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Makes sense then. To each their own. What you and your husband decided is not my business
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:32 PM
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Ooo buddy that's not a hill to die on. Have you ever been in a relationship where the SO doesn't ever cook, clean, pay bills, help with errands, shows no interest, never does anything nice, etc.. Sure you may be able to argue transactions are not the only part of what makes a relationship long term. To that I'd agree. However where I mega disagree is with the nonacknowlegement of the transactional nature of a relationship. It's not a bad thing per say. Even the smallest transactions show your lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:31 PM
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Then why is he your boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:17 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:15 PM
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I can speak for this personally. I'd like to argue for the sake of humanity that men should still cold approach women. We shouldn't let psychos speak for women. It depends on your situation obviously. Don't be approaching women in a dark alleyway lol. That being said I exclusively didn't approach women for years and probably still wouldn't even if I ended up single again. Of course I may be biased as I grew up watching the political extreme demonize men for this since the mid 2010s. I don't know…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:51 PM
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Nah I could care less. More happy for them, but also idk the relationship dynamics and its not really worth my time to worry about what orher have going on in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:10 PM
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It's funny because I actually got in a weird argument with my girlfriend a little while back over the meaning of this word. She's a big true crime fanatic. She thought the term literally meant men murders who only kill women. I was used to seeing women saying it as an insult so I tried to explain my side and she wasn't having it😂. I was like well at least I know I won't ever be called an incel by you (in my head). It cracks me up. But yeah no for sure. If men cannot even bring up weight then the…
/r/MensRights19/03/23 11:57 PM
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I answered that. It's easier to blame the outside world or others than it is yourself. Blaming yourself would require accountability and action. Blaming others or the outside world requires nothing and enables complacency. Thus it's easier to take it out on women than it is to actually change the maladaptive behavioral patterns or really even admit you're wrong. I'd say as well because we've established they are in a miserable position it makes a lot of sense that they would degrade others to ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:15 PM
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I think you could probably argue that some people like having things to complain about, so their behavior is maladaptive to bring in more problems for yourself to then have more to complain about. Typically the complaining acts as a sense of validation for those individuals. I guess in this sense you would be correct as well. I've found myself in this pattern but catched myself before I get suicidal or destructive, but I could get some people never finding an exit I feel you. I feel like many of…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:36 PM
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Bad take. Better wording would be complacency due to consistent suffering. It's true they often cause their own problems when they don't take care of themselves. To them though I would imagine it's like being stuck in a rut. It's really a self fulfilling prophecy for those that don't take care of themselves while also not treating women correctly. They then fulfill their biases about themselves and the world around them when they cannot retain a decent relationship with a woman. I'm talking very…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:12 PM
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I agree with what you're saying. It's an easy scapegoat for some women to use to get the same result. I'm glad my girlfriend was never the type to try and make me pay. We split many things 50/50 or pay for our own food. We do treat each other on occasion. It's nicer this way. It's definitely a red flag if a girl gets upset either at a cheaper first date or constantly is making you pay for everything. I say use your best judgment and cut off those that you believe have the potential to take advan…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:47 AM
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I would say it would be evolutionary advantageous for any human to prefer partners with lower body counts. 1st point being less likelihood of stds and stis. Those that have this preference and also do not have sex with people outside of a committed relationship will likely have far less encounters with what used to be a possible death sentence. Now we have recently developed medicines for many stds/stis and ways to test for them, but I would say it's still a valid avoidance. 2nd point If someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:32 AM
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You know when you're thinking of that argument you had earlier today and you're chilling in the shower telling that mf what you think. That's the vibez this post gives. This one's been festering for a while. Really hope OP gets the chance to tell homeboy what she thinks lmao. That being said preferences are well and fine, but the majority of preferences are not worth even mentioning especially prefering virgins... It can't hurt to ask so you know how to treat someone if it gets to the point of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:14 AM
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No one is forcing anyone. As I said they have the choice to further the conversation or let it be. I work at a grocery store as my part time job. I can tell you customers constantly have conversations in my store. Sometimes for 30 mins to an hour lmao. A harmless conversation never hurt anyone. You usually can figure out how someone feels about the conversation within the first few seconds of speaking to them. It's pretty common sense. If someone seems annoyed or non interested just say somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:03 PM
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Lol that sucks we've all been there. I've been guilty of this. For me I was always scared of reading signals wrong and coming off as a creep. I say especially if they are the type to own a d20 you may have to be more forward with them😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:01 PM
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Yeah I mean I am from the younger generation. I'm 22. I was always afraid to approach women out of fear of looking like a creep or being put on blast because my approach was awkward at first. I feel like there may be a shift it a lot of men feel and act this way in my generation. I could be wrong though. It's just weird this last year I had two girls approach me. I'm in the worst shape of my life too which is what threw me off more. I'm not sure I guess I'll have to see if it continues.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:00 PM
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Obviously you should keep in mind the situation you're approaching. You should approach someone in the day time in a public place if you're going to do it. If someone is in a hurry and gets approached a simple I'm sorry I'm really busy today and don't have the time to talk would do. You can tell when someone's interested when they talk to you. If they are short and avoiding anything move on with your life. It's true that not all guys take no easy, but I was talking about women prior. Since we ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:09 AM
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Well you can politely tell them no thank you and move on with your day... It's not the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:21 AM
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Both the girls that approached me last year were actually surprisingly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:19 AM
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A little less than average, but not bad. Her creepy approaches and persistence after being rejected were what turned me off completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:15 AM
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I wouldn't mind if women approached me in public at all. Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:59 AM
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You don't think there's partially a social aspect to it? At least where I'm from there's the remnants of the courting and chivalry system. These were pressured onto me at an early age. Asking her out first, buying her flowers, opening doors for her, paying for the food, paying for the date, and so on. I would say this to some degree has an effect on the psychy of a guy. It puts the women on the pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:57 AM
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I'm not sure why you even posted if you're so heavy set on this... It is not an egregious assumption because most men are roaming the earth looking for nothing but sex. Literally nothing anyone could say would change your mind if you're this set in stone. If you're simply looking for validation for your hatred of men there are better subs for that. Start with r/twoxchromosomes Good luck this conversation isn't going any further if you believe it's likely I'm lying + you believe the majority of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:02 PM
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It would benefit you because getting laid is so important to you as a man that you actually believe your own lies if they help you achieve the ultimate truth of getting laid. I'm not sure how lying to you on Reddit would benefit me in my sexual life, but okay. That's a weird jump in logic. Speak off assumptions... I don't roam the earth in hopes to trick females into letting me sleep with them 💀. It's true sex feels nice, but that's an agregous assumption. You are saying because I'm a man I'm ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 08:35 PM
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I am saying you and your friends are probably lying, or you’re not average I'm not sure why it would benefit me to lie to some anonymous user on Reddit? It's possible I'm not average, but I don't think anyone could prove or disprove that. I'm just speaking from my own experiences on when I'm approaching women. I definitely never said that you should chose your mate off of looks exclusively. Never said you did. My point was if I'm looking for someone to have a meaningful relationship with its not…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 07:43 PM
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You say the average man cares about looks. Unless me and my friends are above average I'd say I have a valid point that counters what you're saying. I care less about looks than I do personality in my dating life. Truth is there are plenty of shallow people in this world. Both women and men. I'd advise both to look out for surface level people If we are speaking purely in fantasy I think I could agree with you. A video of a smoking hot woman would turn me on more than a short novel about a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 07:17 PM
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I think you've been on the internet too much tbh. I'm a man and encourage all my friends to go for a girl that has a good personality that you're also attracted to. Anyone that says they don't care about looks lies. What someone looks like is the first thing to catch your eye. Then afterwards it's the personality that keeps you. It's true too the more you're around people the more you become closer to them. Some relationships start this way also. I don't think it's healthy to say all men or all …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 07:04 PM
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Yeah my b I missed the quote. The sister can keep her opinions to herself especially those pertaining my own kid. She can fuck off with the whole parasite thing. So nah I agree.
/r/MensRights14/03/23 05:08 PM
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Or you know have an actual conversation about it like an adult. Get her the therapy she very clearly needs and see if there is a way to bring the kid up so we don't create a cycle from our issues. I could take your advice and shut her down entirely which would likely lead to us splitting up, me paying child support, the court favoring her, and her raising the kid with greater influence from her and her sister. I like my route better
/r/MensRights14/03/23 04:29 PM
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Well I mean coming from someone that just surprisingly had a kid after being told "I have PCOS. I have to be on medication to even have kids, so I'm going to stop taking birth control. Oh also I'm allergic to latex and vynl", this hits pretty close to home. I originally told her I wasn't going to have sex anymore. Obviously, the temptation got to me there... Truth is I always wanted kids just not this early... I'm not sure there is an argument to say that it's rape logically. To an extent when y…
/r/MensRights14/03/23 03:07 PM
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I'd be avoiding her like a plague. If you have to interact with her record everything. Keep a pen and paper writing down everything. Date and time it all. Upload it all to a cloud service. Do everything in your power to get away from her.
/r/MensRights14/03/23 11:55 AM
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Nah man I definitely think this is fine. Genders reversed I wouldn't have a problem if my girlfriend asked me to do the same. Though guess women don't really buy me drinks😂
/r/MensRights10/03/23 12:49 AM
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They think it should be all on us despite a pill being less effective/more detrimental due to millions of sperm vs 1/2 eggs. They aren't as educated on the difference
/r/MensRights26/02/23 03:19 AM
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There's a reason the females clothing section is always larger then the men's in stores.
/r/MensRights19/02/23 09:13 PM
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I get where you are coming from. I agree. I definitely think there are better ways of changing the system without holding boys back a grade. I'd say there's probably ways to support them knowing the prefrontal cortex doesn't develop for a longer period of time. Even my female coworkers will say the school system isn't built for boys. So he found a solution, but not the best one. I wish he hadn't spent the majority of the video on this truly. I again don't agree with this route of solving the ans…
/r/MensRights11/02/23 07:32 PM
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I've realized it's not worth the time to have conversations in Twox. Your opinion isn't of value if you do not agree with absolutely everything the radical feminist left believes. Seen many people that ended up like OP. A pretty consistent theme of you talk to anyone in disagrence there.
/r/MensRights08/02/23 08:13 PM
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Lmao I'm on this boat till I hear the words in this post come out of her mouth. If it gets to that point I always got righty. She never complains
/r/MensRights27/01/23 12:36 AM
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This person really hasn't done any research. We are set for a population crash... at least in developed countries
/r/MensRights21/01/23 09:08 PM
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Tbh idc what other men do. Maybe that's just me. Let em wear make up if they wish. Don't tell me I have to support it though. I just feel indifferent.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 01:13 PM
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Sounds like we agree then. Wish you the best.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 02:34 PM
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Is it bad that girls have their genitals cut? Yes. Is it bad that boys have their genitals cut? Yes Yeah wasn't saying otherwise That's all that matters, no one cares about the "surgery type" apart from people trying to say one has it worse than the other, which is a divisive and pointless argument. It is not. You were getting pissy and claiming I was using whattaboutism. Let's preform a thought experiment. We would say all murder is bad no? So let's say there are too men. One gets shot. The oth…
/r/MensRights07/01/23 02:10 PM
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You're pinning it down to soully the clit. When you know damn and well it's not only that...
/r/MensRights07/01/23 02:00 PM
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Well I'd have a theory it wasn't just men. Though there are ties to religion. Before antibiotics a uti could kill. Though with foreskin it's still rare, but I feel like the reason it has such strong links to religion is the same reason why the Bible says to not eat pork. During that time period it was relevant to follow both theses rules for health concerns. I'm a more modern context there's still the religious aspect, but I've encountered many females with a stigma for no reason.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 01:59 PM
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Lmao you've spent no time looking into this clearly. Also haven't read what I said. r/woosh
/r/MensRights07/01/23 01:54 PM
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You're right it isn't about who has it worse. It's about the surgery type. That's the point I was making. There's a slight advantage to male circumcision with less chances of yeast infections and utis. There's 0 benefit to doing it for a vagina. This is the point. I've very clearly stated that it should be the kids choice regardless.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 04:08 AM
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Nah dumbass. It's simple. If we look at it comparatively the procedures are completely different. Head fucking ass. I very clearly said I'm against both. It's not a whataboutism to acknowledge the differences between the surgeries. To acknowledge one is often more detrimental than the other when it's blandly obvious. Half of the mfs here seem to be sensitive asf. Go touch some grass or cry a fucking river. Both are bad, but one is unequivocally worse.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 04:03 AM
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Doesn't it fall on women too? Both parties are guilty. Usually it's done shortly after birth. The parents decide. Also there's many women that are fucling brain dead and act like uncut dick is a mortal sin (being a little dramatic on the tail end of that but still). I'm speaking from experience. That may be apart of why families decide to do it. Or religion
/r/MensRights07/01/23 03:54 AM
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Clearly didn't read what I said
/r/MensRights07/01/23 03:51 AM
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Look it up💀
/r/MensRights07/01/23 01:00 AM
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Intact is fine if you take care of yourself. If you teach the kid to clean themselves they will be fine. I've had yeast infections occasionally since I've had sex, but it's not bad. As you said over the counters work. Sure you have utis and it's harder to clean, but it's better in my opinion. I think the worst experience I had was my foreskin getting caught in my swimming trunk liner💀 that didn't feel so good. That was a one off thing tho when I was a kid
/r/MensRights06/01/23 11:03 PM
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Very much so.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 10:59 PM
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Yeah if you're wanting me to say I want to ban all male circumcision outside of medical reasons I'm on board. I say the same laws should apply. You're arguing with someone else.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 08:53 PM
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Yeah I figured it may be a karma bomb. I'd just encourage people to look up the many forms of female circumcision and form their own opinion. Typically it's not just the labia they snip off. There's a version where they sow up the vagina outside of a small hole. As you could imagine this allows for far more infections. Though with antibiotics I disagree with both. No matter the reason. Should be the person's choice.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 08:40 PM
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Female circumcision is far worse, but that doesn't justify the laps of care. There's no reason to do either in current society.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 08:00 PM
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Yes, but it happens. My brother was an example.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 07:56 PM
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Agreed. I'm uncircumcised. Glad I had a choice in the matter. I have a had a few utis but that's nothing non treatable in a first world country. Plus it's less than girls around me get utis. I won't be circumcising my kids unless it's medically necessary.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 06:37 PM
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That's an option but not always conceivable. Especially with 8 kids. That nanny check might equal her pay check or be a little less than it, if she has no job experience or degree because of watching the kids. Depends on the incomes of the two of them. Ideally with 8 kids nowdays both partners would work. I'd have a hard time supporting 1 on my own let alone 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:50 PM
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Well I wouldn't be so happy if I never got alone time. Though sometimes you gotta do shit you don't want to do. Especially with 8 kids. That's a lot to deal with on both ends. Watching the kids and feeding those kids is a lot. Sounds like a shit ton of stress until they get old enough to take car of themselves. Even then if you're the only income. They'll come knocking on the door looking for the wallet at every corner. Working 75 hours a week is a lot, but so it's watching the kids 24/7 365. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:46 PM
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You aren't gonna find a way to settle things with this type of girl my friend. Not unless you do everything she says or absolutely agree. Sounds like a very opinionated person. I'm making an assumption here but she seems like the type if you disagree you are what she sees as the most evil of her enemies. I'm slightly speaking off my own experiences with someone that was more extreme in their beliefs. If you stay with her, which I don't recommend as it sounds like she does this often, you're goin…
/r/MensRights05/01/23 05:18 PM
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Would guarantee that it has to do with the lack of sympathy and emotions for men in society. Add radical feminist that consistently shout "fuck all men" and get promoted on online algorithms. Then add loneliness to it. Add social media detaching us from reality. Add dating apps. Add men being seen as preditors. Add the stress of being expected to be a provider. Add all the double standards. Then it's clean to see why many men decide to take their lives. Edit: Feel free to add some more points.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 06:21 PM
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Gender flipping is an amazing way to see the reality of how people treat each other based on sex. It's sad sometimes to see the difference in reactions. Kinda wonder how it's influenced my development as a person from time to time.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 05:48 PM
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Well said. I completely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:42 PM
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Agreed. Personally I just like someone that can build me up and I reciprocate the favor. Someone that I can find middle ground with and move on. Not someone that has to be right. Like I said I don't really care to argue with people. Especially with someone that's my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:29 PM
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I'll be honest I don't like absolute submissiveness in a woman. I don't need a yesman. I need someone that challenges me some and keeps me in check when need be. Someone that can actually have a conversation with me that brings a different perspective than me. Though I also do not like dominant women or really just the dominant type of person in general. Often they have their heads up their ass too far to consider that they are wrong or that there may be better ways. Often leads to clashes and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:11 PM
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I don't like many of the arguments held by those that ride Andrew's dick, but I will say I'd rather the shit arguments get called out for what they are over them going to an echo chamber and become even more polarized. I feel that we are grown enough to call the bullshit out. Maybe it'll deradicalize some of the people that ride him.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 03:05 PM
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Very very true. I've had a girl in my life consistently say I hate all men or men are trash. I used to try to combat it. Tried to tell her that is not fair to judge all men by the acts of a few. I just gave up really. She eventually said well not you as a buffer to try and keep me from saying something back. I feel that it pissed me off even more. How are all men trash but I'm somehow the exception? Dogshit. I just avoid her at all costs now. She brings it up to people I'm close to and blames th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:59 PM
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Go ahead and checkout r/twoxchromosomes
/r/MensRights04/01/23 02:49 PM
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We just gonna act like milfs aren't a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:50 PM
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I can't speak for other guys. My only point was if someone leads on with 0 picture of their acne then shows up with a lot of bad acne then that's dishonest. I'm not saying you have to blatantly say "oh I have really bad acne". Just don't deceive people purposely and I think you'll be fine lol. Hopefully the Accutane will work for you best of wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:47 AM
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Lmao headass. Glad we are still in grade school
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:02 AM
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Lmao I have a girlfriend so there's not much need in me finding girls. I'm just saying my experience lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:53 AM
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I disagree a little tbh. Sure men would do better irl because of the dating app saturation of men, but I still think better is not good. I think I only saw two girls out in public last year that approached me. I'd say I'm a little above average in looks. Only thing holding me back is being 5'7. I also work 6 days a week and don't get out much, nor do I have many connections. This might be apart of my bias. I feel that in the social media Era this is kind of the case though. Many of us have those…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:46 PM
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I could see that being the case some. I thought the same until my girlfriends sister noticed the same pattern with her girl friends she had no interests in. I guess ultimately it comes down to the person. Some know when to stop others keep going.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:25 PM
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I feel ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:22 PM
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I'm sorry you had to deal with that though honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:21 PM
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Yeah it's a bit weird. I wish people would just respect boundaries. I have a friend that's lesbian. Many bi or straight women that are her friends act weird and extra flirty when they find out she's gay. It's really disrespectful and nasty to watch. She even calls it out, but it continues.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:17 PM
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I have the same experience as a straight male. I ended up being roommates with a guy. He was bi but said he was gay as a shield to get touchy with women. He consistently would hit on me or my guy friends even after I set boundaries. He eventually got jealous when I got a girlfriend and would just not talk to me and sulk all day every day. Dude sexually assaulted women in front of me but got away with it because of his gay pass... pisses me off. Dude was the "friend" to watch out for. Edit: Befor…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:11 PM
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I guess maybe the assumption the standard argument is where there's two people that have potential for sexual attraction there often is more risk in being friends. I think I agree with that. I wouldn't ever put myself in a scenario where I'm alone with a girl that's not family outside of work or such activities. It really depends on the person I feel like. I have friends that are girls, but do not seek to hangout with them alone. I have a girlfriend so I mean that has a lot to do with that one. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:58 PM
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Men "I hate sex work" ... also men... 💵🍑 Goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:33 PM
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Literally r/selfie? What's to be expected?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:20 PM
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Very very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:17 PM
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Okay and? Unless she's dolly Parton you'll probably catch her without makeup? Hell my girlfriend loves makeup and is really good at it, but she doesn't wear it every day because of the time it takes. Also you can still see what she looks like under it all. The majority of women are not going to waste their time and completely alter their face with makeup everyday. Hell if they do often you can tell its caked on unless the lighting is poor. Don't really see it as a problem. Let's be honest how ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:11 PM
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Yeah I mean if that's all the photos she posts online sure. That being said seems like there's a little more than makeup going on in the picture. Also as I said you aren't missing this irl. Sure you'll miss the discoloration but that's not what I'm talking about. She likely wears makeup just to have normal interactions with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:49 PM
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Well if the right picture was all she showed on a dating profile sure I'd agree. Realistically you wouldn't miss it irl. Makeup doesn't change facial texture.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:44 PM
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Very true. You wouldn't miss this irl. I feel as though the makeup just let's her have normal interactions without strangers in the distance constantly staring at her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:41 PM
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Wouldn't blame them tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:39 PM
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I mean tbh if I had to put myself in her shoes. I'd probably do the same. I get where you're coming from but maybe pump the brakes a little. Seems like she got a dose of bad genetics. Realistically anyone that see her irl will know what she looks like due to the cystic acne. Sure the color is off, but it'd be hard to miss the cysts. I get it some. In modern society most of dating is online and people tend to only post the best photos of themselves as a way to have more matches. Sure we'd all agr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:33 PM
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Depends. I grew up in a single mother household in my earlier years. I'm not in prison, nor do I have a criminal history. Single father deserve just as much praise. It's not easy raising kids nowdays with two parents let alone one. Poverty is the biggest problem in regards to problems. Impoverished communities typically show higher crime rates and so forth. It's not necessarily a single mom issue. Correlation and causation are different. We shouldn't just shit on females here blindly otherwise w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:09 AM
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Yes but it doesn't keep a woman. Hell I think at a bare minimum everyone should look for some kind of financial stability in their partner or at bare minimum the drive to be financially stable. You don't have to be rich to attract women. It does help. Being broke and always in debt runs women away ofc. Who would want to be with anyone that would ruin them financially male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:36 PM
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Let's be honest. Tate is a grifter. His opinions are just the opposite of the current western culture. He's caught a large following because of this. Western culture has a lot of flaws. That being said he's just monopolizing on the lack of conversation allowed in our current state. There are certain things that I agree with, but I definitely don't think Andrew is some kind of messiah that I should worship and take everything as a solid truth like some of his following. I definitely don't think A…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:49 PM
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It's fucked up isn't it. Society tells us we should never hit a woman and thus many of us don't. Then Society says when we get abuse there's no way it could happen or that we should have done something about it. But if we try to there aren't any resources for it and if she says we did it then the majority will listen to her. I saw a social experiment where a girl was tossing a man around for a minute straight. Everyone watched and never stepped in. The moment the guy fought back in self defense …
/r/MensRights29/12/22 05:10 PM
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I'm in this boat😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:26 PM
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Fr
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:25 PM
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It doesn't. OP is just coping with his ineptitude to please a woman. He'll end up sexless and wonder why the women don't wanna fuck with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:24 PM
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Only if you don't like it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:23 PM
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True I love me some aba and preach. Fresh and fit the classic Miami folk
/r/MensRights29/12/22 03:09 PM
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Completely agree. You beat me to it. If you take this route focus on yourself and let the girls follow, but do not become resentful if you fail. Also if you want an actual connection you'll never find it in people that only want money, status, and a good looking guy. First time you slip they could be gone. Not to say you couldn't find a good partner on this path. Just be weary and acknowledge you may be attracting the wrong people into your life and move accordingly.
/r/MensRights29/12/22 03:08 PM
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I agree with the definition of it. I think it's best to take the most logical position you can, but also think about how your emotions may construde your perception of the facts. Many people say they are logical but purely follow their emotions and then proceed to find facts to cover their emotional attachment to the idea. Then they claim they are logical. An argument does fall apart if there are no facts though. I just mean many people have emotional responses that they aren't even aware of, bu…
/r/MensRights27/12/22 01:03 PM
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This. My girlfriend is the total opposite of the lady in ops post. Hopefully he'll take a break and find someone that treats him better
/r/MensRights27/12/22 04:04 AM
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Yes that's the definition. Let's be real though many people that say they are logical and pride themselves with it often use their emotions first and follow it with "logic". As the saying goes as well "Believe those who are seeking truth. Doubt those who find it". Many speak as though they know the truth but far less know what they are talking about. Typically this is due to what I mentioned. They have emotionally attached themselves to ideas and will continue to hold them because they have foun…
/r/MensRights27/12/22 03:58 AM
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Your sex doesn't invalidate your opinion. You are dead on. We are all humans. We all think emotionally about things regardless of how much we convince ourselves out actions are logical. End of the day. We are all humans and thus social creatures. Sure there are set in stone facts, but just the fact that we have so many differing opinions shows that there's not one line of "logic" to follow by. Often times our opinions are formed through experience too and thus are reinforced emotionally. It's ju…
/r/MensRights26/12/22 08:19 PM
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Who defines what's logical? What's logical to one may not be to another. Why ban people that you disagree with? Seems illogical to do that on its own. Self explanatory. I'm tired of radical dickheads steering the conversation to their line of "logic" So simple answer no. Let people talk. If you disagree so be it. Reply or downvote. We are all human and thus we all have emotion. Pathetic if you think otherwise. Why shouldn't we allow people to reason in your definition of non logical?
/r/MensRights26/12/22 08:06 PM
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I think you can take some from everyone's values and reject the shit advice. Of course this doesn't work for boys that are like 12, but for men that are older than 18 we have little excuse to not filter the good shit from the bad shit. Or bare minimum learn the hard way. There's always something to learn and disregard from the people you meet or see. I will say though Andrew tate is mostly marketing. He's the big brother many guys needed growing up. That being said I don't think being andrew tat…
/r/MensRights24/12/22 01:27 AM
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You can think people's preferences are stupid all day, but you will never force anyone to pick you or someone they don't care to be with. Ultimately if someone's standards are too high they've weeded themselves out. You never want to be in a cookie cutter situation where someone forces you to fit somewhere where you cannot. This is merely complaining However, for women a mans weight is hardly part of the equation Disagree. You may be speaking about your preferences or those around you. I'm willi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:26 PM
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Thank you, same to you my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:25 PM
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I agree. This person has absolutely lost it. There's no reason having a family and taking care of those you love strips you from your masculinity. Really I feel that reinforces your masculinity. You are put in a leadership role of your children. You provide for and protect your family. You look after your wife and love her. These values are very traditional sure, but it seems as though the men that follow these often have better lives than those that follow the advice of OP. Sure you can sleep a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:20 PM
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Yeah you sound like the opposite of a radical feminist. You've far lost me here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:01 PM
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So here's my opinion on this I guess. While I agree with your mindset as it's the only way to get out of a rut and I'd encourage anyone to take that mindset and roll with it, I also think gender can play a factor in social dynamics. The average man is far less approachable generally. Rather it's because women fear them or just generally do not approch men. It's very rare anyone that's not over the age of 65 talks to me when I'm out and about in public. I will say though I could work on my social…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:58 AM
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It could be that women are more open about these things. I wouldn't tell many about a suicide attempt let alone report it.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 09:06 PM
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Yes and no. I could have a baby without having to worry about the shitty women in this world. I could also have a kid and only pay for their expenses not the mothers. I don't like the idea of it though personally. I'd like to find a woman I can spend my life with. What is a child without the sharing of experience. I want a feminine energy to match my more masculine energy. Both of us have different lessons to teach our child. Also ultimately raising a kid is far more easier with two parents in t…
/r/MensRights13/12/22 03:53 AM
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Guys look this is the game we live in. We will be looked over by many in this regard, but you have to keep your head up and focus on finding the one you're looking for. Don't chase women that aren't worthy of your time. Find you a girl that can actually hold a conversation with you. I wouldn't be as shallow as the women that say "I don't respond to heys or his", but I will say if she cannot take time or the mental strength out of her life to give you just a little bit of what resembles a normal …
/r/MensRights06/12/22 02:41 AM
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Ah gotcha now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:28 PM
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Respectable
/r/MensRights01/12/22 05:04 PM
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I think pre-nups are necessary if a male has already established a solid income prior to the relationship. I don't see how another person has a right to money you had been earning prior to a relationship. This is especially necessary in court systems where they favor the female if they split paths. If prenuptial agreements weren't a thing and I had a lot of money and ownership prior to the relationship, I wouldn't ever get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:58 PM
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My dad and stepmom saw the red flags in my ex gf. Tbh I did too. They knew I probably wouldn't listen so they let me figure out for myself. I'm thankful the harder the lesson the more you learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:47 PM
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You can add to that woman are twice as likely to feel depressed according to some studies I'd be willing to bet it's the estrogen especially in women that take birth control as they have even higher levels of estrogen. Higher Estrogen is often linked to anxiety and depression. Obviously with the way society is going, that doesn't help it either.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 03:24 PM
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It's a human trait unfortunately many people cannot comprehend being wrong especially in the moment of a heated debate. People tend to dig their heals in and double down if they feel attacked. It's only after the debate when people think about it that minds change. Some won't of course. That being said I think it depends on the type of conversation. If it's a blatant attack on someone's identity or something they believe in the person often won't be receptive to what's being said. Sometimes peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:20 PM
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So do you not think a good relationship has a good amount of sex? I guess I mean a good relationship would have a pretty good balance in sexual need.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:55 PM
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I would argue most men can’t even truly tell if a woman is really enjoying sex with him or not. And that has to do with experience. Isn't this partly the females job to be open to communicating what she needs? Before you say it some guys can't take that ego blow but I guess that's a good red flag to get out of there if he can't actually communicate to make things better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:54 PM
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You probably did. It's most likely my bad. I started the thread so I just assumed the reply was to me because I got the notification.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:48 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:03 AM
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Idk I'm not talking about incels here, but men are more lonely than ever. I don't believe the blame all falls on girls. I think it's society right now. I feel like it'll only get worse if feminism continues to be as polarizing as it's been getting.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 01:48 AM
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Yeah same here. I worry it'll get worse if things continue to get more polarizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:37 AM
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Oh your reply was to the guy above not me. My bad. I'm not gonna sink on his ship🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:36 AM
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A vasectomy is 1k and the reversal can be anywhere from 5000 to 14000 dollars. Also I wouldn't be comfortable taking that chance if I still wanted to have kids. 90-95% is very early on post vasectomy. The longer you have the vasectomy the less likely you are to reverse it. Then as the years go by you're even more unlikely to conceive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:05 AM
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Yeah I agree with you. Primal satisfaction is the best term for it fr. You're not wrong😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:55 PM
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You can encourage conversation of you'd like. It's fine give the men are okay with not having kids, but if that's not the case the conversation should end there about vasectomies at least. Only way I see that conversation going further is say a couple has had a kid and one wants two and the other only wants the one. I feel like in this scenario they just need to figure out what they want. If you don't want to have a baby at all fine talk to the S/O about the possibility of a vasectomy, but if th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:53 PM
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Men shouldn't be. I shouldn't be, but we are. Like I said I should have worried less about what people thought about me and I would have gotten better had I of done it more. But yeah nah guys like that ruin it for the other dudes in the world. I take my rejections well and just let them be even if I feel stupid momentarily. We shouldn't be afraid to approach women, but many of us are. I'm just speaking from my experience is all. Maybe I'm an outlier, but in a world of increasing male loneliness …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:41 PM
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Well yeah you could do it at home with a turkey baster, but you better hope your partner doesn't run into fertility issues and you get it in at the right time of the month. Or just freeze a life time of sperm beforehand😂. You don't sound slutty for that. There's definitely truth there. The ape brain be speaking hardcore sometimes about some baby making.😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:36 PM
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Idk I didn't approach women really when I was dating out of fear I would be yelled at for cat calling or that i would scare her. Even though an approach isn't cat calling necessarily. I should've cared less about how I was perceived especially as I'd probably never see the people I could have approached again. The one girl I approached wasn't that type really. She was about 5'8 curly dark hair and a healthy build. Not overweight and not skinny. I approached her because I liked the way she though…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:45 PM
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Still gonna get that doctor bill 🤑 plus what I said still stands regardless of the route chosen. It'll still be more expensive and takes away the natural process some would choose. Obviously it's up to the person but by no means is it going to be practical for the average Joe. They'd have to really want to go this route for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:21 PM
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I mean I guess it depends on the part of the red pill you're speaking about right? I agree with what you're saying. Obviously if the goal is only to better yourself to get women you're inherently just doing it for the women. Which is fine just don't talk shit about the women when they are your goal. Now a side of the red pill that is for the self development and getting your life together before you look to date anyone, so you reach your potential before finding a partner. Then there's the botto…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:16 PM
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Yeah that's an option, but that can come with risks depending on the company. Also some may prefer to have kids without IVF. I think the last is a pretty valid reason to avoid it if you are healthy and want kids. IVF would be a more expensive route to have children. So for financial reasons if you know you want kids and can control yourself, freezing sperm doesn't make sense for the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:46 PM
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Also if your perspective is from dating apps. Sure that is right because of how many more men there are over women. So of course the top of the top will get matches while the rest get over looked. We live in an attention market place online. But the good news is we still live in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:09 PM
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If you're talking about the Miami style girl sure. If we are talking about US women or women in general. I think we can say there are traits we all know to be more attractive both in males and females. If we pull back and think from an individual stand point I think many of us agree that we could never find our unicorn or that it would take far too long to. That its an extremely competitive market place to find that ideal person we see in our head. The truth is every person is different. Every p…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:56 PM
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Conversely, I tried to get my tubes tied as a young woman and the dr insisted my future husband might want kids so no operation for me. A hypothetical man’s wants are more important than my own apparently Th I would have gotten it if he had said "You may change your mind in the future. I think you should consider it just a little longer before carrying it through", but not this. That's a bit absurd. If you want to get it done then it shouldn't be any of his business. Let alone bringing a hypothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:25 PM
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I think it depends on the scenario. If a couples plan is to never have kids and both parties know absolutely they don't then so be it let the dude get snipped. If a couple plans to have kids just not quite yet or maybe the dude sees a potential to have kids in the future, I think it's horribly wrong to try to convince him to get a vasectomy. Sometimes vasectomies can be reversible, but not always. There's a shitty idea going around that it's always reversible. I definitely think that these peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:34 PM
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Yeah I mean too the only time I even get a UTI is taking a bath. That doesn't happen if I clean the bath really well before hand too. Basically all we have to do is teach the boys the same health precautions we teach the girls when they are young. Even then the boys will get less utis than the girls typically.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 03:11 PM
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As a non circumcised male I can say UTIs suck but they're not world ending if you live in a region that has antibiotics and also properly clean yourself. I've only ever had 2. One was pretty bad. While the other went away on its own. There's no real reason to do it in a first world country. Even though female circumcision can be way more harmful there's no reason for either of them in a modern environment. No reason to sacrifice a man's sexual pleasure, risk the possibility of a botched surgery,…
/r/MensRights30/11/22 02:39 PM
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Careful now you're sounding like a red piller😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:31 PM
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Unfortunate reality. Society says men are supposed to deal with it. We are supposed to be stronger and "how could a female over power a man"... simple many men are taught to never hit a women. Yes some will in domestic abuse scenarios, but it's very clear it's that more men hurt men over females when you look at national crime statistics. Many men also don't report their domestic abuse scenarios because of this/ Just look even on this sub how men are treated when they try to make a police report…
/r/MensRights30/11/22 02:18 PM
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Yeah I guess it's just her morphed perspective that makes it sound bad, but generally if they want to fight for us let them so long as it doesn't just become about them and it's all of us.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 01:59 PM
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I asked in twox what the line of advice for a man would be on a post saying abortion wasn't male birth control. Which from a fundamental stand point I'd wish anyone bringing a child into the world would step up and not run away. I know that's not the utopia we live in though. Especially now that things are getting more and more expensive... That being said the girls in twox said that it was entirely the man's responsibility if he got a girl pregnant. They said you should always wear a condom (go…
/r/MensRights30/11/22 01:50 PM
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Well yeah that's possible. But unlikely. Considering the way they went down. I had seen them both checking me out out of the corner of my eye. One chose the checkout beside me and the other yelled at me from across the pumps. I try not to assume girls like me just because they are nice to me. It's still a possibility but given how they both went down I definitely don't feel that was the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:44 AM
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Yeah for sure. I definitely learnt my lesson with her. I said never again after that and proceeded to filter out the women I was seeing at the slightest red flags. I do my best to warn other guys and try to vet their girls out the best I can if we are good friends. There's only one guy I know that slipped between the cracks. His girlfriend is apparently massively conservative and Christian. He started dating her after I knew him. A good guy but I could tell he was lonely. He ended up with a girl…
/r/Male_Studies30/11/22 01:30 AM
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The men then just suffer in silence, or assume this is how it's supposed to be and blame themselves for not being good enough in the relationship. This resonated with me. I thought I was the problem in my first real relationship. I would always blame myself in the beginning. If we fought I thought it was me that did something wrong everytime. Once the sex drifted away I thought it was me. Thought I had done something wrong. She got mad and made a scene storming off away from me and my friends on…
/r/Male_Studies29/11/22 07:02 PM
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Yeah it be like that. I've only had two girls cold approach me. They were very sweet and pretty. They just initiated conversation with me though while I was out in public either shopping or filling my car up. I felt like they wanted me to ask for their number. Both conversations were awkward. One was from two tanks away. I'm also dating a girl so I did my best to continue the conversation but end it in a way where I didn't have to blurt outright "I have a girlfriend". Hell they could have just w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 06:40 PM
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If culture remains the same. There are very few women that will as of now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:58 PM
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I think it depends really on the definition of opinionated and doesn't take shit. I never want anyone that's so opinionated there's no middle ground in talking to them. That's not a partner that's a dictator. I also don't want a woman that shoots me down because she "doesn't take shit" If she's strong yet has a humble ego sure I don't mind it. I was raised by females like this. I'd rather my girl be able to take up for herself and communicate with me when she's been wronged instead of holding it…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:19 PM
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I have a theory that many men don't report these things. Say thought experiment right. Say a guy had been consistently slapped by his wife for saying something she didn't like. Say this man has been taught to never hit a woman back, so he doesn't. Then he knows consciously and subconsciously if he tells anyone it'll be dishonorable. Let's say he does say something. He's told he's bigger and stronger than her. That he should talk to her and figure things out. Obviously bad advice (but sense women…
/r/Male_Studies29/11/22 03:52 PM
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That being said I'd encourage men to find a woman that doesn't ascribed to social roles as much. Someone to compromise with. A 50/50 standing. Rather it be splitting dates or splitting chores. Don't settle for someone that wants you to ascribed to the double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:30 PM
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I do feel like the tides will turn within the next generation or next few decades. Men are dropping out of colleges at an exceptional rate. This will likely mean women will start becoming more wealthy than many men. Many of the high earning women may have to date down because of this. It's really going to depend on where the future goes. Personally I'm one of the dropouts. It's very clear even in the south at a smaller military college that many of the classes are female oriented. Possibly becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:28 PM
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I'd say I'm good looking for the most part. I've only had two women approach me in public. Of course it may be that I work a lot, but that being said it's rare for women to do this unless you're EXTREMELY attractive. But you're right most men would be okay with this. Hell I like when girls approach me. It makes me feel like I don't fly under the radar even though I certainly do most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:21 PM
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I knew a guy that gets a majority of his retirement taken away upon retirement. He deserved it though. His karma for raping his own kids and getting away with it. That being said if that happened without said circumstance and it was just a decent ending to a bad marriage, I think it's fucked up that the wife is entitled to any retirement post divorce. Especially if they had their own career like many women do nowdays. There should be no reason they have a right to any retirement that accumulated…
/r/MensRights29/11/22 03:19 PM
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I'll probably do it again within the next few days on a separate subreddit.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 03:15 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/z72lnm/need_help_deciphering_this/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/MensRights29/11/22 10:28 AM
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Ayoooo👀😂
/r/MensRights29/11/22 12:20 AM
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Yeah 😂 I should have waited a little longer to post it. I still got the response I had expected.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 06:18 PM
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I'll post in another subreddit later to get a more accurate idea.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 06:18 PM
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Very true
/r/MensRights28/11/22 06:17 PM
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Lmao I'm busted now. I was hoping a few more would see it beforehand
/r/MensRights28/11/22 05:47 PM
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I'll fix it real quick thank you
/r/MensRights28/11/22 05:44 PM
4

I've just done it. Already got a post saying I SAed this hypothetical girl.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 05:35 PM
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Lol my b I already used a image to text generator and posted it on r/sex
/r/MensRights28/11/22 05:33 PM
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Yeah I mean he definitely could have expressed the way he felt better.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 04:30 PM
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You doing it?😂 I'm curious to see what the reaction is. Edit I used a image to text genertor and switched the pronouns and posted it. Feel free to tap my profile and see this social experiment go down. 2nd edit: busted will try again later
/r/MensRights28/11/22 04:27 PM
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It definitely can be. I'd suggest if someone didn't meet your sex drive and it's important to you, just leave and find the person that will match you. Now if you can live with less sex and have a good relationship with the person it might be worth staying with them. It's all on your cards and what you choose to play. The grass isn't always greener on the other side. Also if you immediately tell a woman that without building a substantial relationship with her it will be seen as a red flag. Most …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:13 PM
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Imagine if it were the reverse. The dude would be downvoted to oblivion. The post would likely have been taken down.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 04:09 PM
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I believe he met the type of men many would over look in public. The ones that fly under the radar generally. I could be wrong but he did say attractive. Usually if someone's attractive to you, you find that you are sexually attracted to them in someway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:13 PM
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When I was in the dating game as a guy I was extremely picky with any and all red flags. Now I did have the privilege of doing so during that time period because I was extremely in shape and making a decent wage. I would talk to a few women at once. If I felt the chemistry wasn't there I'd let it be. If I talked to a girl and she never wanted to meet up or if she canceled I'd just drop her. No sense of wasting time. If I felt she wasn't looking for a guy like me I'd move on. If she was picky, ru…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:34 PM
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I guess this is a case of the loudest in the room. Everyone hears it but few say anything after. Changing peoples perspective of the reality. I dunno how to change this really. Especially in feminist centered groups. It would be a lot to change the narrative especially in echo chambers where all they do is circle jerk each other. The best thing I can do is be a good man. Show others that they are inherently wrong about their beliefs in real life, but that won't change a thing online. People will…
/r/MensRights28/11/22 12:54 PM
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Should be. But it will never be that way. Typically the line that's fed for men is "Just wear a condom" or "There's only one way to get her pregnant".
/r/MensRights28/11/22 11:37 AM
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In the same breath nowdays they tell us to speak for our own rights. Then when we do we are misogynistic somehow or just flat out told to shut up. Pathetic, but you know how it goes its the patriarchy even though they tell us to sit down and shut up just the same...
/r/MensRights27/11/22 06:39 PM
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Bad take. Obviously anyone that cheats are in the wrong and generally seen as shitty people. Male or female. Sounds like you'd encourage men to though. Kinda shitty
/r/MensRights27/11/22 06:09 PM
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Because the modern societal usage of the term is far too broad and watered down. That's my only real point. While I would agree with this, I also do think some of the things Andrew says are misogynistic. I should have been more direct previously. The threads in here have plenty of quotes from him if you care to look. You could make a very strong argument that misogyny has been watered down but still hold the view that some of the things Tate says are misogynistic. As I said if you regurgitate th…
/r/MensRights27/11/22 06:04 PM
1

Right yeah I agree. I would hope in a court they'd uphold that both parties had raped each other and dismiss it. I just mean from a social standpoint. Is what bothers me. Rape is such a charged word really. Even if technically both parties raped each other. One side of the story may get out without the nuance and a reputation is destroyed. I dunno just seems off putting.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 05:22 PM
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This situation I am referencing is both parties being under the influence. Neither of them are sober enough to make the decision, but also too intoxicated to think clearly. In my personal life if a girlfriend is well beyond the point of being blackout i get her to bed.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 04:39 PM
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Yeah no for sure. I'm not a party goer. I'd never go have sex with a random inebriated girl. I acknowledge that actual rape can occur in both a relationship and marriage. As in one party forcing sex. I just don't know rationalize a couple that are crossfaded having sex being rape really. It's most definitely a grey area. Say she was passed out and he took advantage of her. I'd definitely say that was rape, but if they were both blackout but still physically there I dunno what to say about it. It…
/r/MensRights27/11/22 03:37 PM
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His views from a modern societal stand point can be seen has misogynistic for sure. I think if he let off the gas a little with the women part he'd definitely be more susceptible to a wider audience. Though I feel like he knew sparking some controversy would only help his business out. I dunno I feel like you can still like some of what he says and still criticize the bad takes. I'd say ultimately his advice does apply to the most wealthy men, but if you're average and you treat women like he do…
/r/MensRights27/11/22 03:07 PM
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It is. Especially if the woman knows and says I won't get pregnant. Now I will say accidents do happen. I was one of them😂 but that being said if a woman knowingly traps a man that's so beyond fucked. But there's nothing we can do about it. Women can say consent to sex isn't consent to a baby, but when we say it it's like we are literally satin.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 12:33 AM
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Love this
/r/MensRights26/11/22 11:26 PM
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Yeah I would hope that's not the case. I guess we'll find out the hard way if it is.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 05:36 PM
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I think many of us question it really. I think from a fundamental standpoint I think most people would agree with early feminism. I think nowdays though it's gone into the weeds. It's turned from equality to superiority. I think this has caused a big power struggle between men and women. Radicalizing both women and men. I think generally viewing people on the individual standpoint is far better than viewing each other based on group identity, but that's the opposite of mainstream feminism nowday…
/r/MensRights26/11/22 04:16 PM
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Likely extortion, but I'd like to see the case if it ever arose. He very well may have done something inappropriate or not. None of us know. But if this lady is upset over what this article claims happened then she can go fuck herself. I dunno I increasingly limit my one on one time with women I do not know or trust because I worry something like this could occur. Just be careful out there boys. Always keep your head on a swivel.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 02:10 PM
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I'm for either one of your statements. Though I'd feel bad for leaving a child that was mine with only one income. I dunno it just doesn't feel right as of now one side has an advantaged hand and the other always has to bear the consequences. That doesn't sit right with me.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 02:01 PM
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I know a girl that actually admitted doing this to a guy. He wasn't the best guy, but she told all her friends when he got out of jail she was going to get pregnant and trap him. It makes me sad.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 01:57 PM
1

You really stuck the gold in the crazy cave on this one my friend😅. Hell if she's dumb enough to believe she can communicate with something that cannot even speak let alone recognize itself in the mirror yet maybe she'll be dumb enough to believe that😅. Just be very very careful. These are massive red flags. I'd be worried what she'd do once she was mad at you. To me I'm against abortion generally, but it may save you a lifetime of dealing with this lady. I'm not sure how much they are. Idk I'd …
/r/MensRights26/11/22 01:08 PM
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Damn man this whole situation is one big shit show. This girls is insane. How could she even know for sure it's yours without a DNA test? If she's been sleeping with all these people how could she even start to be sure it was you? Also this girl is fucking insane. If she actually believes she has a psychic connection with this child she is beyond crazy. If she's sending you these notes knowing that she doesn't have a connection just to manipulate you into paying for it she's a pos. If it were me…
/r/MensRights26/11/22 12:54 PM
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I hear ya. I'd say though if you were going for something you love don't let their bullshit stop you. Just be more tactful. I never spoke about those things because I was worried I'd end up in your situation. Or really even spoke out my opinion on what my professor said. For me I just left because I knew I'd find something better. Something I cared for. Whatever you do you have to do what's best for you.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 09:10 PM
1

What da hell they banned you for this? That's wild... I feel the pain though man. I dropped out for similar reasons. My psychology professor was insanely left leaning to the point where she was a man basher and would say things like there's infinitely more than 2 genders and that's proven. Then followed all of it with jokes about politics on the fucking tests. Everyone that sat around me failed. I only got an A in that class because I stopped listening to her pointless rants and read the textboo…
/r/MensRights25/11/22 08:56 PM
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I definitely don't feel like mine is a perfect model of sexism tbh. My dad always cooks because he's the better cook in the house hold. His turkeys are never dry and them side dishes like his green bean casserole be bussin🤤. My stepmom can't cook for the life of herself. Never says anything to her about it. Even though he's gone working out of town a lot. I dunno maybe I have a one off family. But even with my other extended family the guests bring a lot of the sides while the host cooks the mai…
/r/MensRights25/11/22 08:49 PM
1

That depends on the person. If the person you're looking to spend the rest of the life with weaponizes your vulnerabilities then you probably shouldn't be with them. Typically that's narcissistic behavior. Someone that remembers things only to use them as weapons are dangerous. No need to be around them. It's inherently obvious they care less about the relationship and more about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:08 PM
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The red pill rage and women hating that can come with it. Some of the red pill can be okay. Just keep in mind the only popularity it has is from some of the uncomfortable truths the left doesn't speak about. It can keep you healthier physically but mentally is a different story. Hard-core red pillers end up being the same as the hard-core blue pillers. Hateful, detached from reality, and overall just annoying to listen to or be around. If it interests you filter the shit advice out. Don't become…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:55 PM
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I believe there was just a post about staying away from twox. I feel like that's pretty good advice for the people that will slip into extremism reading their comments. It's very easy to. So for those people I'd say they'd probably be a lot happier and more productive just discussing men's problems here and ignoring the extreme.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 03:46 PM
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Yeah I generally agree with you. This subreddit doesn't need to become a c&p of twox. I think it's okay to repost some things from twox so long as the conversation doesn't just turn into a massive shit post generalizing women. I guess for me it's on intention. If the people posting here are offering a productive opinion that would otherwise be demonized there I feel as though there's no harm. If it's a post that is just fruitless complaining then it's pointless and only serves to further the pro…
/r/MensRights25/11/22 03:43 PM
2

Ultimately I feel like most people would agree that the toxicity and extremism should go away. I'm by far not saying that. I go on both subreddits. I try not to engage with the extremists. I think some of the reason the men post about twox here is because twox will go out of their way to be hateful if you express an opinion that is not the classic cookie cutter. I haven't been here long enough to form an opinion on what goes on in this sub. Generally though if someone's just shitting on women fo…
/r/MensRights25/11/22 03:10 PM
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I feel the same way as a guy. I know the women have to carry the child, but if the father doesn't want it and the mother does it feels wrong for me to say that men have to pay child support for 18 years. Especially if the lady can go back and request more later on if the man makes more. I dunno it just feels as though men have less rights in this department than women. Personally I'd have to be their for my kid regardless and I hate that the contractual abortion would mean the kid would have onl…
/r/MensRights25/11/22 02:51 PM
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There are definitely similarities between the two subs despite the difference. I don't see a problem if twox exists so should this. Men should be able to express their views just the same as the women on twox. To say otherwise is a bit absurd. Though maybe this sub should be more productive in actually fixing the problems. That being said I'm not sure twox is doing that themselves. Change occurs in the real world. Not here.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 02:36 PM
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You're right. I commented on a post where a girl was complaining about men expecting something from a paided date. All I said is both parties are in the wrong. Expecting a free meal and the person paying for it expecting something afterwards are both entitled positions. I got downvoted to hell and back. Double standards are crazy there. It's not equity is one big power trip.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 02:30 PM
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I'll comment on twox occasionally, but I refuse to join in on anything that's petty or engaging because I could care less. Half the takes are cookie cutter in there. I'd encourage people to try to make a center line or maybe comment where advice is needed. However, don't go their expecting change or for multiple view points. It's nothing more than a reactionary echo chamber.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 02:27 PM
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I'm not sure we can do anything my friend. During war times we are nothing more than government property. Unless you want to smuggle people out on the ground.
/r/MensRights24/11/22 02:27 PM
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I've heard the other end of this story too. Where a guy actually did this and got away with it because of the family status and money. It makes me sick on both ends. Idk wtf to do.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 05:44 PM
2

Oh the irony
/r/MensRights21/11/22 01:42 AM
1

Take the fatest shit you can in there now king
/r/MensRights21/11/22 01:40 AM
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Nah fuck it I'll move to Dubai
/r/MensRights21/11/22 01:38 AM
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I mean I get the point, but female circumcision is much worse in all honesty. Doesn't change the fact I won't be circumcising my children.
/r/MensRights17/05/22 11:56 AM
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Anytime I say this to some people in my life they just tell me it's mens fault and shut me down. It just boils down to perception. A pretty more charismatic person can get away with more than an ugly antisocial person. It's the same idea with men and women on court sentencing. Obviously it depends on the money, power, influence, and crime. It's highly variable but still a problem nevertheless. I wish people would be more open to talking about problems across the board instead of just hating the …
/r/MensRights09/05/22 04:28 PM
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Thank you
/r/MensRights05/05/22 06:27 PM
2

Yeah her sister will say at least once a day she hates men when I'm there. I also overheard her one night about a year ago talking shit to her sister about me before even talking to me about why she was upset. Saying "is he just blind to the world because he's a man"
/r/MensRights05/05/22 05:23 PM
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I think I'm going to have a serious talk with her before I make a permanent solution to a temporary problem. If I feel like I'll always be a loser I'll leave
/r/MensRights05/05/22 05:16 PM
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Yeah that's a fair point. At some point I have to decide to live with it or move on because I cannot change the way someone thinks. Thank you though
/r/MensRights05/05/22 05:10 PM
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I just don't want to leave her in a low moment. I kinda feel like if I do leave she'll end up hating all men just like her sister, but I guess that's not really my problem.
/r/MensRights05/05/22 05:01 PM
1

Yeah I think she has a lot of mental shit she has to work through because of her past. She was supposed to move in with me about a year ago after I had a fallout with my roommate. Her first reason was her mom told her she had to finish school (which was never a problem before). Then when I asked recently she said she needed therapy before the responsibility. I've even picked up am extra job in hopes to move forward with our relationship. But you're right especially recently. She has become more …
/r/MensRights05/05/22 05:00 PM
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I should have added that a lot of the major male figures in her life have done some fucked shit, but they were apart of the "good boy system" that used to run my county before it got so big. So she's associated men with bad. When she used to spend more time with me when I had an apartment this was less of a problem, but now that she's been around her sister that recently had flash backs to the abuse they shared. She's started speaking more caustically of men. Her sister will out right say she ha…
/r/MensRights05/05/22 04:54 PM
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