I was scrolling through reddit recently and saw a post from a girl about how she and her boyfriend were both crossfaded. From experience I can definitely say that this combo can make you blackout if you take the wrong amounts of either weed or alcohol. In this scenario I'm referencing the girl and guy were both dating and settled down for the evening in bed. From my understanding the girl probably blacked out after getting in bed but was still awake. I don't know much from the guys stand point as I only got one side of the story, but I'd imagine he was in a similar state as her. This girl posted saying she felt as her boyfriend accidentally raped her and is now emotionally checked out.

I dunno this situation makes me uncomfortable. I feel like I need to be extremely careful as a guy nowdays. I know I'd never harm my partner or do anything she didn't want. I dunno me and my girlfriend often are drinking and smoking and have sex. We've both blacked out and had sex. The thought never crossed my mind that she raped me or I her. Of course there's conversations the morning after piecing things together, but I just cannot fathom accusing my girlfriend of doing as such. Let alone her accusing me of doing it.

Many are saying she was raped. Some encouraging her to just have a conversation. And the people saying she wasn't are getting met with mass criticism. I just don't know what to think really. I couldn't imagine being that guy and being accused of rape when we were both in the same state. It honestly scares me and makes me never want to have sex with anyone from this point forward that's inebriated even if they concent before or there's a general understanding that we both are safe and wouldn't hurt each other.

I dunno I'd hate for my reputation be ruined because of one single misunderstanding.