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Warn her about the acne, and also about how you're insecure and sensitive in general.
/r/seduction03/06/16 01:48 PM
24

First you ask for tips, then you give out perfect tips.
/r/seduction03/06/16 01:44 PM
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If she's 3 hours away, why are you even stressing about texts that weren't funny? Unless you live in a tiny remote town, you can find some local babes.
/r/seduction02/06/16 07:12 PM
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I've only been too high once and it was the first time. But still didn't experience the really wild things you mentioned. I found that after I became much more confident in general, the feelings of paranoia and self-consciousness didn't happen at all.
/r/seduction01/06/16 08:20 PM
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What kind of bad experiences?
/r/seduction01/06/16 07:58 PM
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Yes, become a popular, socially in-demand guy. That would help more than anything else. If you looked like a bum and had nothing "that women want" but could make her enjoy time spent around you and seemed chill then she may also want to have sex. There's absolutely no way girls expect anyone to be perfect. It's actually the fact that you know you're not perfect and accept that and just relax that makes her wanna spend time with you. Entitlement? You sound like you're the one with that issue. I u…
/r/seduction30/04/16 10:08 AM
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Approaching doesn't mean asking out every single girl. You might be coming off as desperate. Just have fun talking and flirting with girls for a while. Also, 3 is not a lot. Expect less success. Plus, a fancy car and haircut is just a nice first impression but how you behave is what is attractive.
/r/seduction29/04/16 06:40 PM
1

This relevant post from a week ago
/r/seduction13/01/16 03:52 PM
2

I share absolutely anything with my current girlfriend and everything is great. This FWB might not like the real you, but another girl could.
/r/seduction06/01/16 07:09 PM
3

If you are hopelessly struggling with insecurities or past trauma's then it wouldn't be overly attractive. But if it's something you're overcoming or can make light of, then it should be fine.
/r/seduction06/01/16 07:03 PM
1

Nothing will work every time
/r/seduction05/01/16 01:17 PM
1

I just hand them my phone with a blank contact form.
/r/seduction04/01/16 09:20 PM
2

You have to be okay with it fucking up. There's lots more girls out there. Take some risks.
/r/seduction12/11/15 01:38 PM
1

The point of coffee is to get to know her better. Why is this so complicated?
/r/seduction12/11/15 01:19 PM
3

Had to read twice about being born a woman
/r/seduction02/10/15 05:11 PM
1

From the sidebar: The primary focus of Seddit (/r/seduction) is the study of human seduction. Mainly, how to integrate specific seduction and self-improvement techniques into our long-term personalities and how to succeed at forming successful romantic relationships.
/r/seduction25/09/15 06:11 PM
3

This is cute
/r/seduction23/09/15 02:58 PM
9

You can say whats on your mind but not express your neediness like a little bitch
/r/seduction23/09/15 02:56 PM
2

Your mentality should be of abundance (aka don't be needy). Right now you may feel like she has qualities that you want, has value to you, and you want a lot from her. This should spin 180 degrees. If you feel like you are the one in demand, then this will show though your actions.
/r/seduction17/09/15 08:18 PM
6

Here's a good explanation
/r/seduction17/09/15 08:04 PM
2

RSD Julien got a lot of hate from the media but he was always my favorite. After watching his videos non-stop, maybe I got brainwashed but I actually did start having success.
/r/seduction10/09/15 12:59 PM
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Niagara Falls, ON. Let me know if you ever visit. This place is booming with girls in the summer.
/r/seduction20/05/15 07:35 PM
6

Just don't be friends with girls you're trying to game.
/r/seduction05/05/15 10:25 PM
0

Correct!
/r/seduction04/03/15 06:52 PM
2

Yes, JesusSavesIUpvote took it way out of the ballpark of context.
/r/seduction04/03/15 06:49 PM
5

Thanks for explaining the concept perfectly.
/r/seduction04/03/15 04:40 PM
2

Yes, Exactly! Thank you.
/r/seduction04/03/15 02:10 PM
1

English is not her first language.
/r/seduction04/03/15 11:47 AM
74

Tl;dr: Be lighthearted and playful, stand out, don't waste her time by texting too much, avoid seeming desperate.
/r/seduction01/03/15 07:12 PM
45

Capacity limits for fire regulation?
/r/seduction04/01/15 09:33 PM
1

Letting her know you are free is inviting her to lead. You need to lead.
/r/seduction18/11/14 08:28 PM
3

5)Teasing Shit Tests
/r/seduction14/11/14 01:12 PM
2

I have this EXACT issue right now.
/r/seduction30/10/14 05:02 PM
1

It's realising that you're enough and don't need to impress or prove anything to anyone.
/r/seduction30/10/14 12:30 PM
12

I don't understand standing on one leg.
/r/seduction29/10/14 06:53 PM
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She should be analyzing your texts, not the other way around.
/r/seduction24/10/14 06:59 PM
3

If it seems to them like your not going to lead into something slightly more serious, then of course it will eventually fade away. They move on to the next adventure or potential serious relationship, as should you. Something serious won't happen with most girls, but with the right one it will.
/r/seduction24/10/14 03:30 PM
2

What's your goal with them?
/r/seduction24/10/14 02:52 PM
6

Check out /r/nofap! The times I had the most success with any girls was when I had gone weeks without touching it.
/r/seduction23/10/14 03:55 PM
3

Why not have the random hook up with her?
/r/seduction23/10/14 01:35 PM
9

You are writing too much. You need to appear as a guy who has success on tinder, who wouldn't put in as much effort as you are. You need to mention going out with her, THEN ask for a number. Otherwise she will risk having you as an annoying guy texting her lots of crap which you have already been doing. http://imgur.com/UBHNf4A
/r/seduction14/10/14 08:25 PM
2

I get asked for directions all the time if I'm downtown. Never thought of it like that.
/r/seduction07/10/14 11:13 PM
3

Sounds like a shit test or to find out what your interests are in a teasing way. I'd say you didn't play it right but it's not a big deal either.
/r/seduction07/10/14 12:51 PM
4

Models by Mark Manson (It's almost tiring hearing about it but it is good).
/r/seduction06/10/14 01:04 PM
1

Were you looking for the obvious answer that animals need proper sleep to function well with anything? Then, I will say it is a very big factor.
/r/seduction03/10/14 04:23 PM
10

Girls can't tell you with certainty, what they want.
/r/seduction03/10/14 04:21 PM
5

Was it not out of the question to literally shove them out of the room? You let her know what a little boy you were for not standing your ground.
/r/seduction03/10/14 01:45 PM
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Stay in reality. Don't fantasize or imagine her to be something that you want her to be but actually isn't. Love is blind but try to see what's actually there.
/r/seduction02/10/14 03:18 PM
1

Why do you need to prove it to her? If she's not that close to you, it's weird.
/r/seduction02/10/14 02:31 PM
1

I relate with "showing attraction kills attraction" but I think its solved with the art of push/pull and keeping her guessing. Also, she would love to be attractive to someone higher status, so expressing attraction shouldn't come from a place of neediness.
/r/seduction01/10/14 04:46 PM
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I think it's spot on. Great job!
/r/seduction30/09/14 08:32 PM
3

I just say: "wanna check out my place?" This shouldn't be complicated.
/r/seduction26/09/14 06:36 PM
3

How old are the girls you date?
/r/seduction16/09/14 12:50 PM
99

weird story bro
/r/seduction12/09/14 02:34 PM
1

And I can confirm through my experience that if it takes a long time to initiate anything than it just ends in rejection. I've lived with being "just friends" after telling her how I felt and pursuing and it just turned me into a little gay boy to accept that and still spend time with her. Seriously, with women its best to actively go after what you want and move on from what you can't have. Also, as soon as you have feeling for a girl you are friends with, the friendship is already ruined for y…
/r/seduction12/09/14 12:27 PM
2

This. Been there, done it.
/r/seduction11/09/14 07:40 PM
2

True
/r/seduction06/09/14 04:31 AM
1

9 likes to be exact
/r/seduction05/09/14 07:07 PM
11

text is a lot different than the physical world
/r/seduction05/09/14 06:01 PM
1

tl;dr
/r/seduction05/09/14 05:31 PM
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Hey, been so busy this week and its the same this weekend. Lets make it next week... I'll keep you posted I wouldn't be as vague as to say "a week or two", that sounds like a hint to forget about you. I think "You flaked. How are you going to make it up to me? ;)" is a out of place of the situation. Maybe if she flaked on a date, but she just didn't text you. You could also show some kind of consideration for how her week has been.
/r/seduction05/09/14 12:33 PM
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Let's see some of the text convos in which you failed. Take screen shots and post them, seriously. It will make it much easier for me to help.
/r/seduction04/09/14 01:06 PM
1

I wasn't dismissing anything, just stating that it was against my expectation. We're here to discuss so thanks for your input.
/r/seduction29/08/14 07:30 PM
2

I read this as: "What are some great ways to make women feel like they're shit when you fuck them?
/r/seduction29/08/14 05:58 PM
2

I could slightly understand if you said the line in a playful joking way. But this explanation just baffles me.
/r/seduction29/08/14 03:50 PM
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I wouldn't expect this to work since it sounds like you're unsure of what you're doing.
/r/seduction29/08/14 01:44 PM
1

Body language? Stand as tall as you can, shoulders back, walk like you own the place.... I don't know what else to say except that you don't need to focus on this topic too much.
/r/seduction29/08/14 12:32 PM
1

Sometimes guys purposefully make girls jealous. It could be intentional.
/r/seduction29/08/14 12:27 PM
1

I have girls looking at me all the time. I'm also 6'3" with a nice face. However, looks you're born with are really not that important. Body language and grooming mean so much more for visual impressions.
/r/seduction29/08/14 12:25 PM
2

I'm in Niagara Falls right now and its just old or ugly people. You're making me want to move. Thanks!
/r/seduction26/08/14 06:29 PM
1

The concepts were right but his demonstration was not.
/r/seduction25/08/14 12:24 PM
2

Grammer: Damn I should have said hi..
/r/seduction21/08/14 01:47 PM
1

Saying date isn't needy, if you know you can always get more dates elsewhere.
/r/seduction19/08/14 01:54 PM
1

Jealous. I'm in Niagara Falls and it's pretty sparse here.
/r/seduction18/08/14 10:52 PM
1

Toronto?
/r/seduction18/08/14 05:53 PM
1

Yes, general rules don't work.
/r/seduction23/04/14 05:04 PM
1

It took me a while to understand online dating but I found success in mentioning very early that you would like to get together to do ______ . Then, ask for a number. Then text it and if you can call, or just make plans over text. Some girls are scared so if they need more time, ask them if they do. Or just move on.
/r/seduction22/04/14 01:22 AM
0

Females are not attracted to feminism, unless homosexual.
/r/seduction22/04/14 01:15 AM
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