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Fundamentals Secrecy_Guaranteed/r/seduction14/06/24 12:41 PM
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Inner Game Secrecy_Guaranteed/r/seduction13/07/22 01:30 PM
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ResourcesSecrecy_Guaranteed/r/seduction23/04/20 06:07 PM
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You are making success with women the foundation of you personal value...
/r/seduction02/05/25 10:09 PM
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That is why I am being veeery selective and most often will ignore the seduction community. Too many simplistic and mediocre tips considering the complexity of the human mind. The OP is just frustrated with the uncertainty certain women gave him and is trying to make things more clear inside his mind. OP is describing nearly a robot, a programmed person to say only the virtues and not the flaws of her mate. What an insecure and immature way of verifying if a person likes you. This shows he is a …
/r/seduction02/05/25 09:52 PM
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This is the most mental healthy post I've ever seen in this sub. Nevermind most of the comments. You spoke about enjoying the journey, true connection and, yes, vulnerability! Also, knowing that you've tried a lot and went to a lot of dates and did not have sex with all of the girls seems pretty realistic. Also, your way of seeing life is admirable. Great inspiration. Thank you for posting!
/r/seduction11/03/25 02:54 PM
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What about Instagram?
/r/seduction13/10/24 05:06 AM
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Even if you are a 40 yo dude living with parents?
/r/seduction13/10/24 01:21 AM
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It applies to every immature human. A mature one would tell this kind of person to have self love and not lose respect or try to step on them.
/r/seduction27/08/24 08:18 PM
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That's a general and good recommendation for everyone. But if you can't interpret well what they say, every content and experience will be kinda worthless. In summary, I just rephrased Manson's phrase in a more mature way.
/r/seduction27/08/24 07:29 PM
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I think you need to study text interpretation. I said the exact opposite with a plus of "being willing to leave the conversation"
/r/seduction27/08/24 07:01 PM
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Better would be: "I love to be me and I will not change the things I love to be for anybody. I hope we can find someone who likes us the way we are" It can be wrongly interpreted as "I won't improve myself for the better". It is not the point. The point is "I like to dance like a crab in the club. It makes me feel alive and free, and your conditional approval is not worth it compared to the feelings this kind of dance brings to me. So, if you like only the guys who dance like masters, we won't l…
/r/seduction27/08/24 06:55 PM
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Boundaries, always
/r/seduction27/08/24 06:47 PM
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We make ourselves go out of the comfort zone. Good for us. But since they do less of it, bad for them
/r/seduction27/08/24 06:42 PM
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They're not teaching it consciously. It is how the human brain works. A lot of times through cognitive biases like Conviction bias: Tendency to believe someone based on how convict they sound and not on the validity of the their arguments Also, the human brain likes to save energy and avoiding discomfort. So women expect you to do most of the uncomfortable and effortful things. Specially because the man approaching is a cultural thing, i.e. peer pressure (group bias).
/r/seduction27/08/24 06:41 PM
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It makes you wonder who is being real and who is not. But why did Owen disclosed the fact that the infields were staged? About the length of John Anthony's video, it is effort, but it doesn't mean he plays fair
/r/seduction27/08/24 12:12 AM
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Well, John Anthony is not a reliable source. He gossips about other puas and says his material is better. Worst marketing strategy.
/r/seduction26/08/24 02:16 PM
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You wanted a mention. Some feedback from her in Twitter. However, the best feedback doesn't come from social media posts, but from the signs she gives in the presencial interaction. Maybe you let your ego take the lead and are insecure about her opinion of you.
/r/seduction26/08/24 09:55 AM
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Wow, who started a splashing water fight is so serious lol c'mon
/r/seduction26/08/24 09:42 AM
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Yeah. Maybe people are lazier and more sensitive nowadays. Because of that, it's easier to criticize. So did Tyler fake infields? And yeah, if you expose yourself socially a lot like these guys, being hated by some and loved by others is more than completely normal. And maybe people are too afraid of bad reputation and maybe this is another factor that may make them choose the complainer role instead of trying harder.
/r/seduction26/08/24 09:35 AM
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It is normal to have people having negative behavior and thoughts at you when you've been making social mistakes. Continue embettering yourself working on self sufficience and letting go of what people think of you. Don't be attached to what people think, regardless of your wrong doings. You cannot change your past but you can focus on what you can control right now.
/r/seduction25/08/24 01:19 AM
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Example: Belief - She is with a frowned face. She is gonna reject me if I approach her Challenge: Say to yourself - This thought is illogical, since expressions may change depending on the stimuli people receive and really it does not matter, because focusing on what I can control (my actions) is the wisest to be done. So if I take action, It is gonna be a success already.
/r/seduction24/08/24 01:55 PM
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Agree with you. I like to simplify using these: Be authentic and love yourself no matter what she thinks Focus on one thing to learn Train resilience regarding discomfort Challenge beliefs that hinder action
/r/seduction24/08/24 01:00 PM
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Why her youngness is a problem?
/r/seduction24/08/24 12:42 PM
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Go for the 21s and you indeed need to work on your inner game about rejections. Amp up your resilience.
/r/seduction24/08/24 10:18 AM
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It seems that he needs to have approval from a woman to start having fun. But having fun is the first step
/r/seduction23/08/24 07:18 PM
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Focus on what you can control, do the best you can at the moment, learn from mistakes, do not get attached to the person, move on.
/r/seduction12/08/24 11:02 PM
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Oh shit. Do not compare yourself with others. You're not inferior from your married friends. Dating 18 yos is not necessarily bad. Depends on what you want. Do you wanna get married now? Do you wanna enjoy your life being a fuck boy? Do it. Society wants to dictate the ages allowed to do certain things. But if it's not illegal/crime, you can do it Are you focusing on what you want or on what society wants from you?
/r/seduction08/08/24 04:43 PM
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You gotta meet a lot of people and do the filtering. There will be rejections and mistakes. Have a Good journey!
/r/seduction08/08/24 04:36 PM
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Study text game and openers in general. It's kinda the same structure
/r/seduction06/08/24 09:02 PM
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Of course not. They don't matter. Just do what you have control over
/r/seduction06/08/24 05:37 PM
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I get it. Me neither, sometimes. But I put a rule to it. People who won't like me for the way I am right now will not be liked by me. It's one of my demands. How can I like someone who does not like the most important person in the world for me? Who doesn't like the traits I love in this person (me), who does not comprehend me and supports me? I won't hate them. I will actually understand them. Everyone has their demands. But I have mine also. And I will keep improving myself independently. And …
/r/seduction06/08/24 05:26 PM
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But they shit on you because they see it as a manner of gauging your value. The fact of it being a prison is exactly because it is associated with value.
/r/seduction06/08/24 05:18 PM
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many men attach their self worth to success with women. And it is a prison. It seemed you just wanted to feel loved. It is super cliche, but love yourself anyway. No one will be able to do it like you do.
/r/seduction06/08/24 03:16 PM
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As you saw their breasts, you amped up their value in your mind and got intimidated. Breasts must be a common thing in your mind, if you want some minimal stability in order to take action. There is a fast value comparison we usually do about the girl and ourselves when we look and desire them because of their attractive traits. You probably got intimidated because their value, in your mind, was too big compared to yours, when you saw their features.
/r/seduction05/08/24 03:48 PM
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You cannot control what people are gonna think of you. Many dudes will give you a list of what is creepy and what is not creepy to do, but even if you don't do what they are saying not to do, there is always the chance that you are gonna still be perceived as creepy, due to some natural mistakes that you are gonna make in your journey of learning game and because each people will perceive yourself through their lens and past experiences. And what is not perceived as creepy by the guys who gave y…
/r/seduction05/08/24 01:16 PM
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Disagree. The more you fail, the clearer the lesson becomes. And 50% of the time, it is not you, but the girl
/r/seduction26/07/24 03:22 AM
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Actually, I think that according to science, this is called falling in love: hormones. It is just not convenient, considering his situation. And your suggestion is good: do not nurture. Let it pass. Meditation helps
/r/seduction26/07/24 02:25 AM
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Calibrate. Easier said than done
/r/seduction26/07/24 02:16 AM
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So if they do not want to show you know each other. Wtf, it's like a Veiled orgy. But how did you make this conclusion?
/r/seduction26/07/24 01:54 AM
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Whatever makes you happy. In fact. Seduction may be just like a hobby. Not something you must be good at. So take the pressure off.
/r/seduction23/07/24 06:46 AM
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Go indirect (also useful for men) Ask information/opinion Comment on the context you are into (environment, place you are etc) Commonality (something you noticed you both are sharing)
/r/seduction21/07/24 02:28 PM
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I also have this kind of thought. But actually your family probably want you to "reproduce". There are always gonna be the members that disapprove your ways. But like with any other person, you should care less about it and more about your goals.
/r/seduction15/07/24 05:22 PM
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First. Don't lie to them. Learn to love yourself anyway. You are using experience as a criteria to determine your self worth. You are using what women want in a man to define your self worth You are too attached to pleasing people. Set a goal to be yourself regardless of what women gonna think of you. Your experience with women may determine if women want you or not. But it shouldn't determine if you find yourself valuable or not. Your sense of self worth should not be attached to what society t…
/r/seduction15/07/24 01:08 AM
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Probably, because of a strange situation, You were afraid to do or say something that would be strange or inadequate. It is a shot in the dark, but you may have been comparing yourself with others and using others' approval as a measurement of your own value. So at work you do not consider that your sense of self worth is at risk. Maybe, just maybe.
/r/seduction13/07/24 02:37 PM
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You are doing well. Like you said, charisma is trainable, you have to make mistakes in public and not to care about rejection and the point to think it says something about your own value. There are methods to do game, but the most part is about improvisation, and trial and error. Like you said, there are things you study in books and follow a plan strictly, but is also very important to know how to improvise. And game has a lot of it, what is different from other areas, where improvising does n…
/r/seduction13/07/24 02:29 PM
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It depends on the woman and the man. What girls think of you will make you be rejected or not What you think of yourself will make you keep getting better and better on what's under your control So, older guys, just keep improving and approaching.
/r/seduction12/07/24 11:36 AM
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Yeah, kinda like it. And I would carry this mentality through all the levels. Because a too strict game without spontaneity is not worth it, no matter the result you're looking for, in my opinion.
/r/seduction11/07/24 01:36 AM
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Yeah. But like I said, depends on your mental state. Mental health is very important for socializing. That's why you should focus on something first rather than another. An advanced tip can be prejudicial or do not help at all a beginner. A lot of the times a mentality like "she got spooked, but fuck it, I managed to approach and apply what I wanted to apply" gives back the control to the man when the subject of calibration is not a thing to to be dealt until he solves more important things firs…
/r/seduction10/07/24 01:51 PM
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All about balance indeed. We agree. It would be like: "Whatever, I'm confident and it's their problem if they don't like my vibe, but I detected some things I could be better at next time" Like I said, this is a balanced view. But if you are on a extreme, go to the other extreme, in order to find balance (and I am not talking about walking naked lol, it is just about the mindset). The thing is, for people too concerned about not looking creepy, stopping caring about it may lead them to take more…
/r/seduction09/07/24 07:12 PM
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Your point is what most men want to hear and it is definitely not a lie. Game is about the image you project and the best we can do is to focus on we have control over. And yes, ignorant people may see a nervous guy as creepy and more ignorantly yet, see them as a "threat to their safety", which is, most of the times, a fruit of ignorance, because the majority of the "creepy" dudes, are just too worried about not pleasing the girl or too afraid to get to talk to them. In other words, a primal th…
/r/seduction09/07/24 06:16 PM
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What makes anyone look like a creep is the lack of the comprehension and empathy from the person who is looking. :) Being a "creep" is a lable created by people too lazy to understand human behavior and reasons. That is why psychotherapists and psychiatrists do not call their patients crazy Sometimes insecure people will be seen as creepy, because they talk and speak nervously in certain situations, when, if they spoke confidently, they would not be seen as such. People who truly understand peop…
/r/seduction09/07/24 02:51 PM
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If you're not fake, it is nice to have a female opinion. It certainly makes sense. Social proof is a nasty thing in a way, specially for girls with inflated ego Do you think the girls in your social circle think this way too? Do you actually feel disgust for men who are with unfit women? Do you see them as mere things to be despised? It sounds like it doesn't matter if they have good character or not for you. I know we are talking about attraction, but being disgusted is way too much. If you are…
/r/seduction07/07/24 08:19 PM
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It's not about the guys here. It's about discussing a topic. And yes. A lot of them here know how to build social proof and value in general and its level doesn't need to be of a famous person.
/r/seduction07/07/24 05:47 PM
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That is an awesome point, and true. However, if value builds attraction, maybe them will not just want pics for themselves and, with comfort being added, it may lead to something else. In other words, social proof brings attraction, not only gold digging. It would be "unnatural" and dumb to use a famous and talented person only for pics, if you can escalate to a deeper and more intimate thing, specially if the woman is attracted. And the argument "women are not logic" does not apply here. Game i…
/r/seduction07/07/24 02:40 PM
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Don't you think girls would pay to have a date with Justin Bieber, Drake or Bruno Mars if they were fans? It always depends on what the man brings to the table.
/r/seduction07/07/24 01:21 PM
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What do you think about that cases when the guy is so high value that the girl would pay to meet him?
/r/seduction06/07/24 11:39 PM
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daygame is healthier. but fix your life first
/r/seduction06/07/24 09:17 PM
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If it anytime fucked you up mentally, have the consciousness that the other guy had more value, but exchanging a guy for another because of social value means the lack of values, so the girl herself is low value. Of course it depends on your deal breakers with women. But the first step is stopping basing your intrinsic value on social value.
/r/seduction06/07/24 04:15 PM
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Finasteride and minoxidil
/r/seduction06/07/24 04:11 PM
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Not exactly related to the subject, but it's so sad to do all of these procedures because of women's approval. It almost makes me cry.
/r/seduction06/07/24 04:11 PM
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It seems too late when you are too attached to uncontrollable results. If you do it to interact and learn, you notice it is never too late.
/r/seduction06/07/24 03:48 AM
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By bragging you mean qualifying yourself?
/r/seduction06/07/24 03:46 AM
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What is fun for people vary. Using this mindset of making people laugh tends to make you anxious and in your head, thinking if the joke inside your mind will make her laugh or will make her see you with a contempt expression. You can say things that makes you laugh and do not care about her approval or if she likes you or not, or you can try to find her humor type by calibrating step by step. But if you do this just to have her approval and laughter, in my opinion, it is kinda mentally unhealthy…
/r/seduction03/07/24 02:17 PM
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Abundance = not needing So another option is understanding you do not need any women in your life or, like the OP said, you may state priorities and demands.
/r/seduction29/06/24 09:48 PM
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Well, my second alternative just requires gestures
/r/seduction29/06/24 09:35 PM
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Not a bad idea. Really pornish
/r/seduction29/06/24 09:34 PM
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It really seems like an erotic story we find in the internet. You can just ask for some help at carrying some heavy objects while you use your tiny shirt lol Or just do the same thing again, stare at him and invite him with your pointer
/r/seduction29/06/24 09:29 PM
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If that is the reason this is kinda ok even if 21 is still "very late" (according to our culture) for your first time.
/r/seduction26/06/24 02:10 PM
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Some men say a movie date can be good if there is few people around and the movie is boring. It is kind of an excuse for kissing, but it seems very teenagy, when people are first experiencing kissing
/r/seduction26/06/24 01:39 PM
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Sometimes it's the case. But if I show it, I do not care. Specially because to approach I have to show some anxiety. So fuck it, I am gonna do what I have control over.
/r/seduction24/06/24 11:49 PM
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I do not think there is such a great difference. The false time constraint gave above is a good one for standing or stting sets. Group ones are more difficult for introverted. You can talk, ask the number when you think is the time to do it and leave.
/r/seduction20/06/24 12:59 PM
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Happened with me. But it does not matter so much. Practice game with every girl you want to, independently on they showing interest or not. Then, collect your hits and misses and move on.
/r/seduction19/06/24 03:50 PM
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But knowledge from others is good. Denying it is like trying to build a car without reading the blueprint while others are using it. Just filter what you see.
/r/seduction18/06/24 01:16 AM
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Are you talking about the guy whose name starts with J?
/r/seduction15/06/24 02:15 AM
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What a realist opinion on my view. I cannot add anything to it.
/r/seduction15/06/24 01:05 AM
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Kinda true, depennding on what you are looking for at the moment.
/r/seduction14/06/24 06:42 PM
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I think I know this dude who "debunks" other puas. For me he does this just to sell his own course. Classic strategy. It is easy to find an unsatisfied customer when you want to. And he had a very good looking gf, however, I abide to the idea that looks do not matter so much in the long term. It is always traits over looks, but it does not mean you are gonna overlook it completely. And there are always the guys like the ones you mentioned that may have some mental issues and controversial prefer…
/r/seduction14/06/24 06:34 PM
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What a great discussion until now. Thank you, you have such great minds. And interestingly, one opinion contradicts another with their own arguments I can summarize evertything as: PUA courses vendors do not have the results they show; - well, maybe it is a matter of taste on women (personal traits over beauty, cause beauty do not raise good children well or makes a good company necessarily) PUA courses may help you or not, they are not perfect, but it is worth testing - Just test it, like you d…
/r/seduction14/06/24 06:30 PM
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Very good, OP! Saved
/r/seduction14/06/24 12:35 PM
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Most common thing. A girl I know said she liked black men only. She broke up with a black man and know is dating a white man. Just stick to the fundamental attraction traits. Most of the rest is just fog.
/r/seduction03/06/24 02:01 PM
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If girls liking you is what most defines your identity, two things may be true about you. Or you get a lot of pussy and think you are superior in relation to others because this single detail (also gives a lot of power to girls, because their appreciation of you defines who you are), or you can't even start a conversation with one girl, because if you make a single mistake that leads to a negative reaction from them, you feel worthless. You are underestimating the complexity of human life. There…
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:19 AM
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Dead? How so? Pua is game and game is interacting with people. A lot of guys went to social circle game and online. But approaching girls in a club is timeless. Day game may be rarer, but still ongoing just because you don't want to lose the opportunity of approaching someone you will never see again.
/r/seduction13/07/22 04:55 PM
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Thanks for the encouragement! I mentioned not having sex because maybe if I have had, there would not be any doubt about the worth of learning seduction. And yes, my successes are based on these tiny little objectives being completed. Frequently they seem boring and uncomfortable, but I know I need to pass through them to get to the next levels.
/r/seduction13/07/22 02:30 PM
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Very good advice. Eye contact is the first and very important advice to any social interaction
/r/seduction15/11/20 06:03 PM
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It doesn't make any logical sense
/r/seduction08/05/20 07:25 PM
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You are an amazing person for sharing your story and motivate any person. Thank you, I'll never forget your report.
/r/seduction08/05/20 02:58 PM
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I think both are important.
/r/seduction05/05/20 01:01 AM
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Have you bought?
/r/seduction23/04/20 09:26 PM
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Amazing lesson! Bookmarked!
/r/seduction01/03/20 08:10 PM
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Share your openers my friend
/r/seduction13/11/19 09:02 PM
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Lots of different opinions. Do your research and find yours
/r/seduction05/11/19 04:47 PM
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Shit, man. That's true
/r/seduction18/10/19 08:40 PM
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So true.
/r/seduction18/10/19 08:36 PM
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Buy their content. It's excellent. Also, Max said he would re record his content, but under YouTube's filters
/r/seduction08/10/19 08:14 AM
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This helps a lot
/r/seduction07/10/19 11:30 PM
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Good enough
/r/seduction07/09/19 03:26 PM
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Make yourself feel good first. You aren't the source if you put up a mask, telling jokes without finding them funny or smiling without feeling good
/r/seduction02/09/19 05:59 PM
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That's a good experience to have.
/r/seduction21/08/19 04:28 PM
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It seems you're the prize. Just act accordingly
/r/seduction05/08/19 02:07 AM
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Say thank you
/r/seduction04/08/19 03:40 AM
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A secret: girls won't save your life
/r/seduction18/07/19 01:08 AM
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Not cute in my opinion, but perfect for practicing. Excellent
/r/seduction16/07/19 05:36 PM
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Probably you will be put in the same situation again with other woman. Wait for her instead and see what happens. You kinda freak out when things don't go the way you want. Welcome to life, people
/r/seduction05/07/19 03:15 PM
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Every addiction is bad
/r/seduction05/07/19 01:03 AM
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It's never too late.
/r/seduction05/07/19 01:01 AM
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That would be so creepily funny lol
/r/seduction03/07/19 07:10 PM
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You inspired me
/r/seduction03/07/19 03:57 PM
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Caucasian. 23. No dating life. Intra and interpersonal abilities being developed.
/r/seduction03/07/19 03:27 AM
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They made their mistakes back in the day. But I will never say their material is bad. It's excellent. We just shouldn't approve things like that, neither do
/r/seduction02/07/19 10:24 PM
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You inspire me!
/r/seduction02/07/19 08:44 PM
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That's amazing my man! Keep going!
/r/seduction01/07/19 04:04 PM
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Woooorray man! Keep gooooing!
/r/seduction28/06/19 10:53 PM
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Shit, I'm hyped
/r/seduction26/06/19 03:43 PM
1

Why Medellin?
/r/seduction26/06/19 10:12 AM
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Wooray, man! Keep smashing!
/r/seduction23/06/19 10:18 PM
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Put some itching powder on the sheets, put a hidden camera, post on YouTube and send the video to this forum
/r/seduction22/06/19 12:14 AM
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Not necessarily superior, but the one who's the prize. The who's chased.
/r/seduction22/06/19 12:04 AM
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That's not a good tactic lmfao
/r/seduction21/06/19 09:40 PM
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Amazing, my man. Saved.
/r/seduction21/06/19 09:27 PM
2

Thank you for sharing. EMBRACE THE POWER OF AWKWARDNESS
/r/seduction19/06/19 08:25 PM
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Those people were very nice! Complimenting unknown people is a very good habit to be cultivated.
/r/seduction19/06/19 02:52 AM
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Of course you should continue
/r/seduction19/06/19 02:47 AM
0

Woorray!
/r/seduction16/06/19 10:35 PM
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What a generous man
/r/seduction12/06/19 03:09 PM
1

What's your country?
/r/seduction10/06/19 03:12 AM
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Agreed. And yes, that's a shit test.
/r/seduction08/06/19 03:16 PM
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Fuck what the girls think, this forum is not to help you make people think something of you. It's to make you think the best of yourself.
/r/seduction07/06/19 05:17 PM
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