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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | Am I crazy? | Secure-Bid7466 | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/23 01:36 PM |
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| 2 | Am I crazy?I think the part you are missing here is that I have also worked through out the years. MY money has gone into OUR checking account which paid for OUR vehicles and OUR houses. Not enough to support an entire household which is what I’m scraping to do now. My money went into all of those assets too over 15 years. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/23 06:19 PM |
| 0 | Am I crazy?I just filed finally. H me wants me to just walk away with the 401k but I don’t even know how much is in there because he won’t tell me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/23 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Am I crazy?Everything you are saying is exactly what I am asking for. The car is in his name. I just drove it. WE paid it off once and HE took out another note without my knowledge. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/23 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Am I crazy?Thank YOU! That is all I needed to hear! I am going to go ahead and remove myself from this circle jerk now. Appreciate you sir. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/23 05:12 PM |
| 0 | Am I crazy?I haven’t gotten a dime. He’s putting off getting divorced and stringing this out. Finally came up with attorney money. What I signed from the banker isn’t what I thought I signed. Signed the morgtages but apparently not the notes and am not on the deeds. Just found that out too. Yep am working and working my ass off with $2.87 to my name | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/23 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Am I crazy?Anyways. Thank you all for our time and insights. Much appreciated. Got what I needed. Hope you all have a great day. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/23 04:58 PM |
| 0 | Am I crazy?I did not sign the note on the car. It’s not in my name. He took out an extra note without telling me. I had no idea. I don’t want the marital home. He can have it. I just want some compensation so I can get on my feet and start over | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/23 04:57 PM |
| -1 | Am I crazy?Thank you! He’s making me feel crazy for asking for anything and is only offering the 401k. My goal is to get on my feet and move forward as quickly as possible. I would like some of the equity out of our homes and help with alimony until I can get that. I have worked through out the years and contributed too. I also gave up my career goals and worked non-traditional jobs that allowed the flexibility to cater to their every whim. It worked. That was the plan. I’m working full time now and like I… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/23 04:53 PM |
| -2 | Am I crazy?Not asking for sympathy. Was asking what you guys think is fair as far as division goes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/23 04:10 PM |
| -1 | Am I crazy?I left the home because it was toxic. You can only be told you’re worthless and stupid so many times.We weren’t getting along at all and fighting constantly. I admit I did my fair share of arguing and there were times that I dug my heels in. Most fights were when I was trying to dig into what was going on with our finances. I became extremely depressed and was using alcohol to cope. He is also a heavy drinker, which made hanging onto sobriety difficult. Through out our marriage he controlled the… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/23 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Am I crazy?I didn’t move out by choice. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/23 03:47 PM |
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