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You totally missed the point of RDF.
/r/seduction11/01/11 06:32 AM
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It's very beta to go around like a dancing monkey to every group. Do your thing, have fun (but not the over-compensating dancing monkey style a lot of people here do) and notice who enters your proximity. The point is for the girls to seduce you. It starts with them placing themselves near you.
/r/seduction11/01/11 06:19 AM
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I hate women trying to teach pickup. THIS was awesome though. Well written and informative. You are being you, and explaining your thought process in picking up men, a thing women do know something about. I can not suport this enough. I look forward to reading more
/r/seduction09/01/11 02:23 AM
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Best bet is club soda with a lime in it.
/r/seduction07/01/11 06:33 PM
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This right here folks is why women can not give advice on pick up. Nine instances of the word 'cute' and that's about it.
/r/seduction07/01/11 06:32 PM
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Surprised no one has told you to calm the fuck down. I was heavy into flirting with this lady, who I fell for as soon as we started talking too, I do not mean 'she was so hot I want to have sex with her'; I mean I fell head over heals for this woman who appears to be 100% compatible with me ... Then The problem is that we did not share THAT much There is no way you are head over heals for her. There is no way you know she is 100% compatible with you. Take ten steps back. You are going to be beyo…
/r/seduction04/01/11 04:31 AM
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Yep, he's got a little upvote bargade
/r/seduction04/01/11 04:25 AM
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Read up about mLTRs
/r/seduction30/12/10 08:50 PM
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A little long but well done.
/r/seduction15/12/10 07:46 PM
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Uhm. ... becoming the best possible man you can be. That's a big thing these days as the western world seems to be filled with many spineless maginas. ... managed to lock me down into an LTR. She has found out about me going out sarging, and needless to say she wants that to stop. I think you need to rethink some things.
/r/seduction14/12/10 11:26 PM
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Agreed. Sometimes I'll refuse to take a picture in a situation like this. When I do, I direct the hell out of them. I'll snap a few and then hand the camera to someone else. I don't allow the parade of cameras thrown at me. I simply refuse, stating I have a one camera policy.
/r/seduction13/12/10 08:42 AM
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Never, never, never do a D1 or D2 with a group. Never. I don't introduce a new girl to my circle until AT LEAST after I've slept with her. The "some friends and I' crap is indirect, passive, beta, pussy bullshit. Be direct.
/r/seduction11/12/10 09:09 PM
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You sound robotic. She dates losers. And ask what they DO look for in a man, not what they don't.
/r/seduction11/12/10 10:29 AM
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Nice
/r/seduction09/12/10 12:25 AM
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Female confirmation that females do not know what they want and asking for their advice on picking them is a waste of time.
/r/seduction08/12/10 04:55 PM
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You mean she baby talks? Have you had sex?
/r/seduction08/12/10 07:37 AM
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You never stop, even in a monogamous relationship. Have you not read the FRs from married guys who can't have sex with their wives? It never ends, one relationship or many, you must keep advancing.
/r/seduction08/12/10 07:36 AM
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I've been in the community for years, just looking for thoughts and a place for me to talk of strategy for this particular situation
/r/seduction06/12/10 08:56 PM
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This is very helpful and I think you are spot on. Although, in this particular situation I am not shooting yet. This would just be random actresses I meet at quasi work related functions where I would ask them to coffee perhaps under a work related pretense. Still, great info for gaming the hot chicks who will be in the show I start shooting in February :)
/r/seduction06/12/10 08:54 PM
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Took me a second before I saw your username
/r/seduction06/12/10 07:20 PM
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Thank you for the call out on the pedestal. You're right. I suppose I am a bit insecure in that these girls are further along in their careers. That's just the nature of things though and in another year they will be putting me on the pedestal ;) I think you sort of indirectly answered what I need to do - Keep my confidence up and don't devalue myself. I have a lot of value to add, even to them. And normally I would agree with not mixing work and pleasure, but in the movie world it's pretty much…
/r/seduction06/12/10 07:19 PM
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Also a great way to transition into sex talk "Have you ever read My Secret Garden?" No "Well, an author had women from around the country write about their deepest sexual desires ...."
/r/seduction04/12/10 02:19 AM
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I highly recommend this book as well. Really helps you internalize and TRULY know the fact that women want sex just as much as we do and are just as kinky and weird as we are.
/r/seduction03/12/10 11:10 PM
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Uhm, you think the alpha is determined by winning conversations about particular topics? This isn't speech and debate. While perhaps a small part, there are many more (important) attributes that make up the social scale of a group.
/r/seduction01/12/10 12:34 AM
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I obviously did a horrible job explaining what my intent is here. That said, would you mind sharing some of your experiences?
/r/seduction30/11/10 06:26 AM
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First sexual partner, he marries her. After marriage she starts verbally abusing him He has such low self-esteem and a scarcity mentality to end all scarcity mentalities that he stays. I wish more men would spend even 6 months just reading and thinking about the topics we discuss here. It truly saddens me to see reports of this nature.
/r/seduction27/11/10 06:13 PM
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You're in high school? "Aren't meant for each other" has a funny implication and I can tell you are parroting her words which you've since made your own. Don't do that. She's leading all of your interactions. Go make friends with some other girls in other classes. If you are old enough to be having sex, go bang lots of high school chicks.
/r/seduction27/11/10 05:03 PM
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It sounds like there has been some sexual abuse in her past. Proceed with caution. The good news is after she gets it out, she'll be ready to have sex. Of course by then you may not be.
/r/seduction27/11/10 04:34 PM
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I don't think that's what I'm looking for... Unless there a specific subset of bdsm that goes into this, and if you I'd be thankful for a link or two.
/r/seduction27/11/10 05:51 AM
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Ugg, yes he does keep going three back. I cringe when I read these, but that's ok. I also agree you need to keep writing this stuff down. At the very least, you'll laugh your ass off at some of this stuff in 6 months. You can't do this stuff then apologize for it!! You should not be doing this stuff in reaction to her. Your behavior was incredibly childish and then, at the end of the night, she out gamed you. You're a married man and your wife crying (in a situation like this) still works on you…
/r/seduction27/11/10 05:50 AM
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The practice of quoting out of context, sometimes referred to as "contextomy" or "quote mining", is a logical fallacy and a type of false attribution in which a passage is removed from its surrounding matter in such a way as to distort its intended meaning. Look at how you quoted me. The "I'm sure she'd do anything I say, up to a point" was in reference to sexual activities, not making her cluck like a chicken. Tat, thank you for your concern and your points have been made. Now, let us continue …
/r/seduction25/11/10 07:29 PM
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The point. You missed it.
/r/seduction25/11/10 04:01 PM
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I'm sorry about your negative experiences, but no need to project them here, ok? To the point, of course his wife, who has all the power in the relationship, doesn't like her husband trying to regain his masculinity. In a situation like this, the best advice is not going to come from her. Think about it. Actually, I'm getting the sense that you are a woman, is that correct?
/r/seduction25/11/10 05:51 AM
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Nice work taking my quotes out of context to make a point that doesn't need to be made. You're like the Fox News of commenting! Troll on.
/r/seduction25/11/10 05:49 AM
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ThrowawayPUA gets downvoted a lot and he's one of the most knowledgeable guys on here. Sort of says something about Seddit I guess ...
/r/seduction24/11/10 08:10 PM
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My thoughts exactly. When she called you out on it, you should not have engaged in her frame and had a discussion. You should have pointed to up the stairs and smacked her on the ass. It may not have resulted in you getting laid but it would have planted the seed. And you didn't get laid anyway. In fact, I really think you fucked up in having that discussion. She now 'knows' that you are trying to change and is going to resist harder. Remember, women rarely know what they actually want. Understa…
/r/seduction24/11/10 07:50 PM
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You do not go to movie until after you've had sex.
/r/seduction24/11/10 05:26 PM
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Most men I know have not spent anytime considering what is discussed here. Sure, a few have read The Game and gave a weak attempt at trying something from there. But I mean the true examination of yourself and then the incredibly difficult, and never-ending journey of making yourself better. The majority of these men have horrible relationships. The girl walks all over him. They don't have sex often. He isn't allowed out without her. On and on. These men have never examined relationships, while …
/r/seduction23/11/10 04:52 PM
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You should have had sex with her. "I don't want a relationship" "Great! Me either. Let's go back to my place" She was more or less saying you can have noncommittal sex
/r/seduction22/11/10 09:08 PM
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Completely agree
/r/seduction22/11/10 05:17 PM
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Your frame about this girl is all tweaked. There's more going on that you're either not telling or are not outwardly aware of. Your process his been: Don't care about her Flirt Try to kiss / get rejected Don't care Flirt Try to kiss / get rejected Ask on date / Want to get rid of her That's a weird, unintentional push/pull. You're intentions aren't clear to YOU, how do you think they are clear to her?? What are you doing and why?
/r/seduction22/11/10 05:12 PM
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Did you see the fight outside?
/r/seduction21/11/10 04:28 AM
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Maybe give him a call, see if you can rekindle that?
/r/seduction21/11/10 04:24 AM
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Uhm. I think he was trying to bang you, bro.
/r/seduction21/11/10 03:43 AM
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You failed by going to another bar. You should have extracted after the outside makeout. They were ready.
/r/seduction20/11/10 04:25 PM
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Sex is a forgone conclusion. Internalize and understand this. You've got her.
/r/seduction20/11/10 04:16 PM
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You should not be going out to a dinner before you have sex with the girl. As a few have said - Get a couple drinks at a place close to your home. If you are well off, you're entire self will reflect that. She is going to be much more impressed that you aren't trying to impress her and instead going to the cool wine bar down the street vs. the $100 / person dinner. She will be fighting for you / your attention and constantly qualifying herself to you.
/r/seduction19/11/10 08:46 PM
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It doesn't work that way. You must not only allow but encourage her to sleep with other guys if you want to be with multiple women. You are not selfish, you are jealous. Jealousy is a useless emotion in modern times. Get over it.
/r/seduction19/11/10 08:41 PM
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It's best to say upfront on that first date, pre sex, that you do not do monogamous relationships. Do not have HER set the rules for the relationship. You set them. IE "I encourage you to sleep with other people as long as you you are safe. We will not discuss the other people we are with. When we are together, we are together, and I am only thinking about you and your sexy lips/eyes/ass/clit/etc."
/r/seduction12/11/10 02:40 AM
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Which is why you shouldn't frame them as 10s :)
/r/seduction08/11/10 09:16 PM
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But by ranking them as the zenith of beauty you are framing it in a way that's going to automatically give them too much power over you. They may be high value, beautiful women and that's great. But there are plenty just like them.
/r/seduction08/11/10 08:48 PM
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Too much communication 10s do not exist. Make sure you believe that and understand at your core why.
/r/seduction08/11/10 06:42 PM
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have read stuff on seddit that I know would never work on me It's funny because generally people of that opinion are the ones who DO 'fall' for such things. In fact, I'm going to place a ten spot on the fact that it's happened to you more than you'd ever admit. You are also overgeneralizing. A high quality, masculine man is not a manipulator. But a femmine man is a little bitch who, 9 times out of 10, is not what his girlfriend is looking for. A woman only has so much fun walking all over a guy …
/r/seduction04/11/10 05:29 PM
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quality
/r/seduction04/11/10 05:27 PM
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I wish it were that simple. These guys don't attract golddiggers, I don't think. They keep alive this notion of supplicating to females to the point where they expect it and men think that's "normal".
/r/seduction03/11/10 03:22 AM
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Whoops I just posted a link to this post too. It made me rage. Only interesting thing was the whole 'put her legs on top of yours and stare into her eyes'. Never heard of that before, would be curious about seddits thoughts.
/r/seduction03/11/10 01:18 AM
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I know I'm not the only one who rages over this shit. Buy your woman flowers all the time! Buy her expensive diamonds, because she WANTS them! Randomly ask her if there is something you can do. WHAT. THE. FUCK. ???? It's just insane how far out to left field most men have become. This intrinsic need to always please their women is killing us. I suppose I'm lucky in that my father was firm, strong, alpha (but loving). It just kills me to see this shit.
/r/seduction03/11/10 01:09 AM
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Creepy as hell
/r/seduction01/11/10 05:45 PM
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Horrible. Remove everything and start over. Incredibly try-hard, miles too long, do not have a shirtless picture unless you workout (And don't say you workout then have a picture like that). Come on man, think a little. Or maybe think less.
/r/seduction29/10/10 08:10 AM
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She's the first chick you think meets your criteria since your LTR two years ago. This is a test. If you can successfully negotiate this challenge, you will have overcome one big hurdle in your goal of becoming the person you think you want to become. If you stick too close to this chick, you're going to lose your momentum with the other women, which could cause you to either choose to settle for this chick, or throw your inner game off. I 100% agree. Is this too early? Yes, you've been sleeping…
/r/seduction27/10/10 04:02 PM
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You think you're slick because you gamed her into bedding you a few times and that you are on your way to getting a harem, but women are much better social gamers and manipulators than men are. When you were playing with G.I. Joes and D&D, girls were stabbing their best friends in the back in bitter social jihads. I very much agree here. It's always important to remember you are not as slick as you think. The most important time to remember that is when you are in the midst of thinking you're sl…
/r/seduction27/10/10 03:12 PM
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I think that's a good assumption to operate under at all times. Does this SPECIFIC girl? Chances are low. It's much more likely I'm paranoid about it. But it's a good thing to be paranoid about, and I should be taking actions that support this paranoia.
/r/seduction27/10/10 03:06 PM
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Wow.
/r/seduction27/10/10 03:05 PM
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That would be very incongruent and most likely freak her out. Again, another important thing for me here is learning to be truly open with my communication. That's not open.
/r/seduction27/10/10 03:05 PM
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Point is, the type of person who would have sex without a condom with you, is likely to have sex without condoms with other people. That's exactly it.
/r/seduction27/10/10 03:04 PM
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Thanks for the quick response. I also need to clarify to myself how involved this girl is going to be. She's the first one I've met that I've had a connection with since ending a 2 year LTR, which ended over a year ago. Since then, it's been boring whores. That said, that year was vital to my growth. I am a much improved person, and quality women have been entering my life. There is the possibility that she will be more than a fuck buddy. She may end up being that one I sleep with without a cond…
/r/seduction27/10/10 08:45 AM
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This is exactly what she does, too. I tried at first to do something about it, but alas he just doesn't see it. I guess all I can do now is be supportive when the divorce happens in 5 years (They aren't engaged yet, but she's pressuring for it, so she'll get it soon).
/r/seduction25/10/10 09:33 PM
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Hahha. Comma fail
/r/seduction25/10/10 09:32 PM
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Agreed 100%. And EVERYTHING a modern male is SHOWN is the opposite - tv/film/radio. It's terrible. It's also why it took me nearly two years to get my shit completely together. During that time I only had sex with 5 women and none of them were interesting or good looking, just a step above masturbation. But I knew it was now or never. Get on the right track mentally, else I'd suffer massive consequences later in life. What sucks is my brother was on a similar path and then gave up. The demands h…
/r/seduction25/10/10 07:49 PM
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Fair point. It's just sad all the negative influences he's had that got him to this point. The mind gets programmed wether we are aware of it or not. That guys mind has been programmed with a lot of crap.
/r/seduction25/10/10 04:17 PM
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I CRINGE every time I read something like this. It seriously hurts. I go into rage mode. Man has devolved so quickly to the point that many turned into cuckolds. Every song you listen to, every TV Show and movie has slowly devolved to the point where the a guy can wonder what to do when his girlfriend is flying across the country to fuck another dude. It's in such a horrible state, that he is asking for advice what to do! Of course, this was the inevitable conclusion since the beginning of the r…
/r/seduction25/10/10 03:32 PM
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Aren't you fucking others? This is simple psychology that you can easily overcome.
/r/seduction18/10/10 07:52 PM
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Come on. You are acting in an incredibly predictable way. Someone else has her, you don't, and now the entire world ends because of it. You need to act like a man and own up to your actions. You clearly do not want her as a girlfriend. Give her space. Encourage her to see other people. The worst thing you could do is cry and act jealous. When dating multiple women in this nature you must be up front in what you want and what the relationship will be. Once you define those rules, you must stick t…
/r/seduction18/10/10 03:59 PM
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