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Dead link.
/r/seduction19/03/12 09:47 PM
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Gotta head out, but I'm gonna read your posts when I get back. I like the "actor playing a role" idea. I'm definitely gonna give that a shot. Damn, reading this comments make me want to hit up a bar and approach!
/r/seduction19/03/12 08:56 PM
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Wow, I guess I really am not approaching enough. I imagine the 5 day gap between the weekends doesn't help either. Alright, well there goes the first tweak to my situation. Approach a lot more. I should probably set myself some small goals like "approach 10 sets tonight, doesn't matter who or when."
/r/seduction19/03/12 08:35 PM
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YES. This clicks a lot actually. You most likely have all the pieces up until isolation I ALWAYS forget to isolate, my friend keeps telling me to do it. I've tried before, but when I try to separate the girl from her friends, they don't budge.... The problem is most likely that they sense incongruence... Yep, I can totally sense that. Question is, how can I adopt the the attitudes and behavior of someone that gets laid constantly without it looking incongruent. Total mindfuck.
/r/seduction19/03/12 08:16 PM
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Alright let's see. My memory is pretty bad so I'll write down what I remember. The sets are quite embarrassing now that I think about them. This particular one happened on Fri night. Context: Some girls birthday (we have a mutual friend). People are arriving, I've had a few beers. Set: Two very cute girls (friends of the birthday girl) are standing right next to me. Redhead and Blue-eyes. I've met redhead before and she's sort of a bitch. Anyway, I catch blue-eyes and look at her for a few secon…
/r/seduction19/03/12 08:12 PM
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Just out of curiosity. What does he do for a living? And how did you meet him? I've always wanted to have a conversation with a natural about women. Seems so interesting just do dive in their way of thinking and see how they explain themselves.
/r/seduction19/03/12 08:02 PM
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I lost count man. But I do at the least 1 or 2 approaches every friday and saturday. Sometimes I do like 5 other times only 1. Lately, it's been a lot of crash and burn. Go direct, make small talk, awkward silence, "it was nice meeting you." Eject.
/r/seduction19/03/12 04:22 PM
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Yeah, that makes a lot of sense. I never really think about what I'm doing wrong and what needs to be corrected. But there's the catch 22 you're talking about. I don't want to end up overthinking every approach in order to analyze my mistakes. I think I'll change things up a bit (maybe go indirect for a while) and see what happens.
/r/seduction19/03/12 04:21 PM
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Yeah, that makes a lot of sense. I never really think about what I'm doing wrong and what needs to be corrected. But there's the catch 22 you're talking about. I don't want to end up overthinking every approach in order to analyze my mistakes. I think I'll change things up a bit (maybe go indirect for a while) and see what happens.
/r/seduction19/03/12 02:14 PM
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You're right. Looking back 2 years ago I can definitely say I have improved. Simply by the fact that I can approach a girl and tell her she's adorable. But I've been doing that for a while, I guess I'm just mindlessly approaching without really thinking about what I need to work on.
/r/seduction19/03/12 02:10 PM
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Yeah, we're gonna need an update.
/r/seduction17/03/12 01:13 AM
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Love the comment and I agree, but it sounds like you're describing someone who is already at that point in their life. How do you GET there, if you don't really consider yourself a charismatic and confident person? P.S. Would you agree this is pretty much "not giving a fuck what people think about you?"
/r/seduction14/03/12 11:13 PM
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You're too far man! But thanks for the offer.
/r/seduction09/03/12 12:12 AM
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Shit sucks man. And I agree, I think working out should be one of my main priorities. It's just finding that internal motivation can be really difficult.
/r/seduction09/03/12 12:11 AM
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Hey man, thanks for the response. Yeah I am in a serious state of self-neglect. And I think at this point, it's depression. I've been feeling like this for a while now. I definitely want to pull myself out of this but I don't know if I can. And yes, I'm in college right now so a counsellor is definitely an option.
/r/seduction08/03/12 11:58 PM
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Read it. Found it interesting, but it didn't really help my self esteem.
/r/seduction08/03/12 10:42 PM
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You've spent so much of your life seeking validation from others that you barely know who you are anymore. This blew me away. My self-esteem/confidence issues are summed up into that one sentence.
/r/seduction08/03/12 02:26 AM
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How was the bootcamp? I think Cajun's awesome, the man has my sense of humor. Was it worth the money?
/r/seduction02/03/12 06:29 PM
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Reminds me of that 30 Rock episode with John Hamm.
/r/seduction01/03/12 02:17 AM
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Hey Sasha, I've known about the game for a while and actually got a little success when I started. Due to some other circumstances I regressed A LOT and I think I'm even worse than when I first started. My social anxiety is through the roof and I can't really even manage to make friends (I'm in college). I've always loved that your idea of "gaming" is just to have a great time. I totally agree with that, however, how can I do that if I'm over thinking everything? I just can't seem to "not give a…
/r/seduction01/03/12 01:53 AM
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Removed
/r/seduction01/03/12 01:50 AM
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Yeah, that's what I was thinking. Even though this might be an interesting assignment it wont do much if I don't change things for the long term.
/r/seduction24/02/12 12:07 AM
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I can relate so much. Look at my past two posts, some useful advice there.
/r/seduction23/02/12 10:15 PM
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Alright, how many days do you suggest?
/r/seduction23/02/12 03:09 PM
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Truth hurts sometimes. Might as well face it.
/r/seduction09/02/12 06:16 AM
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Oh dude, inner game is definitely the root of my problem. I've read quite a few self help books (long time ago though). My favorite being Psycho Cybernetics. But I just find it so hard to truly change without any external differences (I'm not sure if I'm clear here).
/r/seduction09/02/12 01:41 AM
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Music is probably my biggest hobby. I play guitar and I'm hoping to learn how to produce music on my own. My body type is average and I should definitely work out. I got get on top of that shit ASAP. I don't sing or dance. I have a good sense of humor, but since I always try to make people like me, it sometimes comes of a little forced (I wasn't always like this).
/r/seduction09/02/12 01:23 AM
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This is very plausible man. My life is definitely not that interesting. I just moved into college for the first time ever and I think this is a perfect opportunity to step it up a notch. I moved in the middle of the year so I haven't met that many people yet, but pretty much everyone here is on the same boat. But yeah, you hit the nail on the head. Live a more interesting life = become an interesting person = women will become interested in you.
/r/seduction09/02/12 01:04 AM
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... Initially, I was super exited about "attracting women" and to realize that I'm not hopeless. I started getting a little better and managed to get lots of numbers and very few (a handful probably) makeouts. I definitely went out. I tried to go out about 3 times a week. I was getting better but I couldn't get past a certain point. And I DID see a change, I got a lot better with women (in comparison) but I couldn't get past the phone number or makeout. It seemed like girls could sense my desper…
/r/seduction09/02/12 12:50 AM
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