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| 5 | 31M still living at home. Should I not even worry about girls right now?Get some white noise machines around your house and outside your bedroom door/walls. Get some sound proofing around your room/bedroom door. it's a shortterm solution to a longterm goal but you could be more comfortable bringing girls home like this. Also discussing your adult needs with your adult parents. | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 01:40 AM |
| 3 | Those who have 0 game and no action in years, what you all doing?I hate the answers that are like "you don't need material to read, just go out an approach." Sure it's good to just do it but I had no clue what to look for so I wouldn't know what to work on for improvment! So I spent a good few years actually reading useful material and applying it as I go along. books, especially books on conversations and communication, are extremely useful. | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 06:18 PM |
| 4 | Those who have 0 game and no action in years, what you all doing?I'd also like to know what percentage of guys on here aren't actually going out and applying game and getting zero action. It's been a while for me too. depression hit bad so I stopped being social. Things are starting to look up, however. I'm getting back into the grove and i've learned more things I can apply when practicing game. I'm looking to build momentum. | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 04:12 PM |
| 24 | Your Go To Ways To Get A Woman To Come Over After MeetingYou Odyssey deez nuts. | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 11:53 AM |
| 1 | How to Approach: When you notice them walking on the opposite side of a busy road?" Who is actually watching you, tracking your every step...?" All the flock cameras, probably. | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 03:56 PM |
| 2 | The essentials for attractionIntegrity, Congruence and Commitment. Commitment to yourself and your values and your principles, your passions and your hobbies. | /r/seduction | 13/06/26 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Volume will save youVolume plus knowledge from the books Atomic Habits and 6 Pillars of Self Esteem. Every approach you should be 5% more conscious about making at least 1% improvements. I also recommend the books Models and Mystery Method for the timeless foundations of pickup/seduction. | /r/seduction | 05/06/26 12:01 PM |
| 1 | 10 keys to hot chicks in your bedpoint 4. Essentially this is telling young guys, or any guy to put game on hold until they have their own place. yes, having your own place elevates your game by miles. but many younger guys these days cannot afford their own place. the big issue of living with family is not the fact that you live with your family. Better inner-game is having a healthy respectful interdependent relationship with your family, and owning the fuck out of bringing girls home. tip: Get white noise machines around you… | /r/seduction | 30/05/26 08:24 PM |
| 1 | I've learned here's the best method to ask a girl out and maximize the odds she'll say YES and (most importantly) she won't end up FLAKING.$8 cup of coffee... nearly 3x the cost it was back when I first started this journey. sheeeeesh. good luck younglings. | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 01:10 PM |
| 14 | Is it okay to have boners while talking to or hugging or playing with a girl that you know?My boner would become a trebuchet. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 04:25 PM |
| 3 | Caffeine, Alcohol, and Porn: some of the most detrimental contributors to social anxiety are also the most accepted by societyAlcohol and coffee are the top 2 first date ideas across almost all society. They can also be abused by an individual. My take away is not to eliminate coffee and Alcohol, only to consume in moderation. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 04:02 PM |
| 2 | All my saved post from askseddit are gone. Are there any Archives of post from the subreddit?Buddy I think you're responding to the wrong post lol. | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 02:20 AM |
| 2 | 30 year old autistic guy can’t get a girlfriend.My dude thanks for this comment. I've recently learned I'm on the spectrum with ADHD and I thought "instead of looking at this as a bad thing, I can use this knowledge as a reference for what my true strengths and weaknesses are and target what parts of myself need improvement." I already realized my social anxiety comes poor communication skills. My poor communication skills come from lack of not knowing/having anything to talk about. Not knowing what to talk about comes from being boring. Bein… | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Psychology in game?Check out "50 Psychology Classics" Also read "what every body is saying", body language ties in with psychology. "Crucial Conversations" and "Nonviolent Communication" dive into some if the Psychology behind having conversations and communication, enough for you to get better at communicating with yourself and others. "Feeling Good" is also fantastic. Some more that can help you in seduction and other areas if life: "The Psychology of Judgement and Decision Making," "Influence: The Psychology of… | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Date planned for tonight but haven’t heard from her since WednesdayYou ever notice you can only ooze 2 things? Lack of confidence and pus. Man, I tell ya. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Tell us, what was the #1 experience you had (positive or negative) that showed you that game was real and works?What were the lines? | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Tell us, what was the #1 experience you had (positive or negative) that showed you that game was real and works?What was the body language technique? | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Advice for starting out with zero experience 26 MNothings better haha. Over the last year I read over 30 self help books. There were a lot of journaling exercises in them that I've practiced, eventually I cultivated my own from them. Journaling my thoughts, my dreams (meaning my dreams when I sleep), gratitude, and those exercises took me a lot further in my inner game this year alone. I pair Journaling with meditation every night. I can't recommend it enough. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 12:14 AM |
| 5 | Advice for starting out with zero experience 26 MYou don't often see Journaling mentioned on this subreddit. It's one of the best things one could do on their self-improvement journey. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 12:04 AM |
| 5 | Best book or course which actually turned you into a playerYes there is. I've listened to a bunch of good audiobooks this past year. Here's the top 5 or 6 i can recommend: Atomic Habits, Feeling Good, A Mind for Numbers, 6 Pillars of Self Esteem, PsychoCybernetics, Think & Grow Rich. And throw in Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. They're not long reads at all and you can find them on audiobooks, and there's also summaries and discussions about them on podcast. I can't get over how far my inner game has come within the year after reading them! | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Best chic drinks to stock in my fridge for maximum comfort when she comes over?Oh you better have stocked up on freeze pops! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IBRL7D0wcXM | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 02:30 PM |
| 2 | The most surefire way to botch a new relationship is by becoming too overly invested prior to even giving the other person a chance to get to know you.Yeah guys, don't Mosby her on the first date. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 03:23 PM |
| 2 | My journey into inner game has completely changed my life and has made dating 10X easier. Taking a solo vacation is a paradigm shift internally.And 100% reason to remember the name! | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 10:48 AM |
| -1 | Anyone in Istanbul down to daygame during 2021?if you have a date in Constantinople, she'll be waiting in Istanbul 🎶 Edit: yall don't realize that this is lyrics from a song. | /r/seduction | 10/06/21 12:31 PM |
| 8 | For those of you who are unaware: Please don’t waste your time responding to this guy...I'm super certain that the story's behind his post aren't true. The same story cant be happening every week. Maybe it started as a true story, then somebody took the pictures and became a troll using them. My theory is: the original story might have been true, then it became a troll post, and now it's all copy cat trolls. Regardless of what it may be, just downvote and report the troll every time he makes a post. And make other aware that it is a troll. | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Fun line to ask a girl out?If you can think of the lines yourself, why ask us? Use one of these and report back. But yeah as the other guy said, no need for funny lines. | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Kiss Close & F-close after the first date. What's a reasonable rate per date?Is that 30% from the original 100%? Or from the 98%? | /r/seduction | 11/04/19 11:20 AM |
| 2 | And posts on how to attract women in community college?First step is to put the majority of your focus on your grades. Study, read the text books, di the homework, ace the exams. Do not lose sight if your main college goals, which is to succeed in life and open doors to a good career. Second; work on your inner game. Have your hygiene and finances in check. This is key. Also get yourself a good hobby within your interest. Read lots if literature. Read interesting articles online or in a magazine. Have a passion you like to pursue. Now that's out of … | /r/seduction | 11/03/19 04:04 AM |
| 2 | Well that went wells 😂🥦I think he was trying to sell himself lol | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 02:14 PM |
| 0 | What are the best guides/books on conversation skills for approaching?Search bar: books, conversations, conversation skills, guides, conversation guides, conversation books | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 03:15 AM |
| 7 | Teenage girls annoy me so much...The taboo thing about this is that humans are naturally attracted to other humans who have at least reached puberty. This is totally normal. In the natural world, once you've passed puberty you're basically an adult: ready to reproduce and what not. And our monkey brain wants to reproduce as soon as possible because we want to keep the species going. This has pretty much been tradition in humans for thousands of years. Especially before our average life span passed 35 years. And of course, there… | /r/seduction | 13/12/18 05:47 PM |
| -13 | Lol I gave this chick my number and she put it on her IG story for everyone to see. And yes I had to block my own number to post here. I usually get the girls number but she was cashier and there was a huge line behind her. Only reason I know this is because someone who works with her texted me.Well then, maybe dont hit on ppl when they're at work lol. | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 04:28 PM |
| 1 | think shes not Interested anymore? we were flirting hard the night before, she said she was going thru some stuff and then thiscelibate | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 01:20 AM |
| 11 | Is RSD a scam?You dont need RSD bootcamp. There's nothing you cant learn from their old videos. As long as their free content is still on YouTube, that's all you need. | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Girl customers at work acting weird? Was they ripping me? U.K.I've waited weeks for you to post these pictures again! Two possibilities: You're really the guy in the photos and you're truly insecure and you need therapy. You're not the guy in the photos and you're just a troll and a loser who needs therapy. Either way, gtfo. | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Girl customers at work acting weird? Was they ripping me? U.K.I've waited weeks for you to post these pictures again! Two possibilities: You're really the guy in the photos and you're truly insecure and you need therapy. You're not the guy in the photos and you're just a troll and a loser who needs therapy. Either way, gtfo. Edit: haha meant to comment this on the main thread, not to you, /u/needmoarbass! | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Girl customers at work acting weird? Was they ripping me? U.K.I believe this is a troll who's using someone else's photos. Even so, they still need a therapist! What kind of loser uses another guys photos to bother people over the internet? | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 02:21 PM |
| 1 | In a Few Hours...OP? | /r/seduction | 27/10/18 05:00 AM |
| 1 | 5 Reasons Your Conversations Are Suddenly DyingIndeed they did. | /r/seduction | 20/10/18 08:49 PM |
| 58 | 5 Reasons Your Conversations Are Suddenly DyingI've read tons if post about conversations. This one actually says something different, and can be useful. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 20/10/18 02:42 PM |
| 1 | How do you be more interesting to women?What would you put on your bucketlist? | /r/seduction | 05/10/18 03:36 AM |
| 4 | Big-dick energy./r/SuicideByWords | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 04:57 AM |
| 5 | Virgin because I’m hideous and I don’t leave the house because of it..Lordwingus, please do not feed this troll. This guy post the same thing every week and uses the same photos and ask the same questions. It is suspected that the poster is not the man in the photos, but perhaps a cyber-bully who's posting this to give the man in the photos a bad reputation. | /r/seduction | 13/08/18 09:54 PM |
| 1 | What are some flirty, funny and teasing texts to send a girl when she doesn’t reply for a while?Then say you sent it by accident! | /r/seduction | 07/08/18 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Sexual Jokes - Step 1 to start “Talking Sex” with a Woman (with Examples).Brad Pitt wouldn't apologize for a subtle penis joke. | /r/seduction | 29/07/18 02:57 AM |
| 59 | Sexual Jokes - Step 1 to start “Talking Sex” with a Woman (with Examples).Most of these jokes sound like creepy text that you find on /r/OopsDidntMeanTo. Never apologize about your sexual intentions. And if you're talking about your dog, don't try to make it sexual. That a pretty gross and weird. Your first post was decent. This post is just beta, creepy and cringe worthy. | /r/seduction | 28/07/18 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Is a grocery store a good place to do day game?Display High Value. | /r/seduction | 07/07/18 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Is a grocery store a good place to do day game?I would say it's an okay place for Daygame, but you absolutely should not work with more than one woman there. Go in, shop for what you need, and approach the one woman you see. Chat her up, attempt to close. Then go on about your business. Going in and pulling routines on multiple women will likely give you a negative reputation and you could be asked to leave. So limit grocery store sessions to 1 girl. A couple tips, be friendly and open with everybody. Engage her interests by having a basket … | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 09:25 PM |
| 1 | How To Cure AA ForeverIn Taoism, which is what Alan Watts bases his philosophy from, there is a teaching that says: if you go looking for X, you won't find X but you will find Y. To find X, you need to forget about X and search for ABC or Y. It's like searching your couch for the remote but you found other things you forgot about but were looking for earlier. | /r/seduction | 27/06/18 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Is there any required reading? Line any foundational books i should be reading?This question gets asked every day. Here's a very useful answer: use the search bar. you will find list of books that are recommended to read. search: "recommended reading" | /r/seduction | 21/06/18 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you have a go-to bar where you bring your dates?How did you find this bar? Did you start going there with friends, or by yourself? Have you only 2 select bars? I know a bar with billiard tables that's only a 5 minute drive from My house. I've been there a few times. | /r/seduction | 21/06/18 02:50 PM |
| 14 | Shy 23 years old male, looking for an online gf for practice...i recommend you practice irl with real people. doesn't have to be girls. talk to the cashiers at your local market. talk to the bus driver. strike up a conversation with any random person. start small, then go big. you do not overcome shyness by talking to a pretend gf over the internet. do what i'm doing. start with day game by just telling any pretty girl that she's pretty. i'm 24 years old and working my way up the ladder. being more social. combating anxieties. stop being shy. | /r/seduction | 20/06/18 12:23 AM |
| 3 | Figure it out for yourself - stop looking to gurusTo Newbs: * Take OPs advice with a grain of salt. What's best course of action is to learn things you have little understanding of, PUA related, and put them into practice. For example, how to approach and open. How to hold a conversation. How to escalate and how to date close. There's much that a newb definitely needs to read and learn and practice. But once you've got the basics down, don't rely on the written material more than going out and experiencing things for yourself. You will always l… | /r/seduction | 16/06/18 11:38 PM |
| 11 | What brings you to this sub?All of the above. Right now I am young. Early 20's. Of course I want to bang a ton of beautiful women. But that is a secondary goal. (it was primary when I was 18 and 19!) I have gone through several stages of self-development and self-realizations over the past 7 years. The main thing I realized is that I want a fun and interesting life, and an active social life. The techniques you learn here are not just for getting laid, they also help you make friends and be your best self. You learn to be … | /r/seduction | 09/06/18 04:18 PM |
| 3 | 12 Strange, According To Women, Men's Behavior/r/titlegore | /r/seduction | 08/06/18 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Some of the best pick up artists lost their virginity at a late age. Mystery lost his virginity when he was 21.I lost my virginity at 22. Hang in there! | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 01:14 PM |
| 13 | The importance of a schedule for lifestyle transformationPro Tip for waking up early: Have a tall glass of water ready for you across the bedroom. Have a light that comes on the time you need to wake up. I have a lamp set to a timer that turns on at 7am. Do stretch and pushups immediately after you're out of bed. Make your bed once you're out of it. Open a window and get some fresh air. Been doing these things for the past month. Been waking up before 7:30am. Waking up early really helps get your shit together. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/18 11:31 AM |
| -4 | I have trouble landing 7s and 8s, what do I do?Get rid of ratings like "7s and 8s" and every girl is a 10. | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 08:26 PM |
| 3 | The Seduction guide needs a complete overhaulSearch bar is better than the sidebar. | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Is there any subbredit about dark seduction,psychology,nlp, mind control, stuff like that/r/hypnoseduction (nsfw) | /r/seduction | 15/03/17 07:05 PM |
| 3 | How to get good at sex?You could hire me (: | /r/seduction | 31/12/16 06:56 PM |
| 48 | Holy shit, I'm waiting for my DATE to arrive!"Um why are you staring so hard? Please let go of my hands!" Haha jk goodluck OP. | /r/seduction | 25/11/16 10:57 PM |
| 3 | 5 direct and cute ways to ask a girl out on a date - plus a game-changing secret!That was the cringiest article i ever read. Sounds like lines that a "Rawr means love you in dinosaur" type guy would say. Edit: I just read the second half. I take back half of what I said. | /r/seduction | 24/11/16 10:41 PM |
| 6 | I don't know why, but when I'm a bit drunk, I am a girl magnetMaybe it's your Tyler Durden (Fight Club, not RSD) that comes out when your drunk. I believe everybody has a different part of their personality that exhibits different behaviors from our "normal" everyday self. You could read all the material on here and let it absorb into your brain. "You" would normally be afraid to put it all into practice. When you lower your inhibitions (eg. drink alcohol) you are not afraid to plug in and apply your knowledge. Figure out what holds you back, and learn to … | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 06:23 PM |
| 3 | First ever college dateBe interesting, but more importantly be interested. Do not just talk for 2 hours straight, that is enough times for you to change the date location 3 times. Bring the fun. | /r/seduction | 14/11/16 11:40 AM |
| 35 | Asking someone out on a date for the very first time, Wish me luck lads!Goodluck. Report back here whether the answer is yes or no. | /r/seduction | 04/11/16 03:51 PM |
| 1 | What are some PUA's with disabilities? I want to break my insecurity of being born with servere developmental motor dyspraxiaI'm deaf and I got laid. (to be honest, I am not entirely deaf. I have hearing loss in both ears and I wear hearing-aid-devices.) | /r/seduction | 22/10/16 03:41 PM |
| 1 | So many girls post that they want an "adventure." What are some good ideas /plans to take them on an adventure?Better yet, go buy some plastic golf balls and cheap gold clubs and those green grass mats, then shoot them in a park. Or go to a driving range. | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Am I the only person that finds infield videos creepy as fuck?Watch "same day lay" the guy is a creeper who post very blurry videos of himself having sex with random girls on youtube. | /r/seduction | 20/10/16 10:57 PM |
| 1 | first date VS approach conversationI went on a date with this girl, and honestly for me to have a good conversation with her I would keep little notes of things she mentioned to me beforehand and build on those. We texted a bit between dates, but I told her straight up "I'm not big on conversations over text, lets talk more about this face-to-face on our date." You can use what you learned from her during the initial interaction and build on it. (just don't get caught looking at that list on your phone lol. Try to use your memory… | /r/seduction | 15/10/16 09:39 PM |
| 23 | My biggest fear is that I'll chat a girl up who appears to be alone and then her boyfriend comes back from the bathroom...My biggest fear is I chat up a girl and she is a delusional feminist and she starts yelling at me and recording me with her camera saying "You said hi to me because I'm a girl?! This is sexual harassment!! What is your name?!" | /r/seduction | 12/10/16 07:42 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Trying too hard when you start talking to a girlWhat could the story have possibly been? I'm sure it was a good story. Next time a girl says something like that, disagree with her and stand your ground. Then ask her to tell you a better story, and say the exact same bullshit to her which she said to you. | /r/seduction | 09/10/16 07:50 PM |
| 7 | What motivates a guy to reveal his feelings to a girl prematurely ?I can tell you the reason why you shouldn't: society frowns upon it. | /r/seduction | 07/10/16 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Gotta get out there and Game.Reads likes a journal entry. | /r/seduction | 06/10/16 01:34 PM |
| 2 | 5 Cheap & Simple First Date Ideas That Don’t SuckYour ex sounds creative. Could you share more fun dates he has took you on? | /r/seduction | 30/09/16 10:24 PM |
| 28 | Guys with high lay counts, how did you commonly get your lays?So how do you commonly get Fritos? | /r/seduction | 20/09/16 07:39 PM |
| 1 | asking girls on a date right away?There's nothing explained as simple as this in the sidebar. Can we get this to the sidebar?! | /r/seduction | 13/08/16 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Got an hour to fill during a date.Well, maybe, perhaps you two could, like, FUCK? | /r/seduction | 06/08/16 10:02 PM |
| 4 | I think I approached way too many girls in campus. Is this wrong of me?While this post may discourage newbs from practicing on campus, i find it rather inspiring and educational. Newbs, do not fear. College daygame is not as hard as this guy makes it seem. | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 06:47 PM |
| 4 | Never Run Out Of Things To Say To Women:Keep The Conversation Going Forever.Its about time we'd get some new material in the sidebar! | /r/seduction | 12/07/16 02:41 PM |
| 1 | How do I change my life?/r/pornfree is the way to go! | /r/seduction | 07/07/16 11:25 PM |
| 6 | 3 Reasons Why “NICE GUYS” Don't Get GirlsWhat movie wasn't it? | /r/seduction | 07/07/16 11:22 PM |
| 0 | How hard is it if you're bald?Read The Game. | /r/seduction | 02/07/16 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Can't figure out the formula for a second date and it's slowly killing me.Remember what works for one girl might not work for another girl. Quick edit: a girl recently broke it off with me. I wondered why, then came to the conclusion that it could of litterally been anything. Instead of figuring out what it was I paid attention to everything it could have been and work on fixing those things. | /r/seduction | 01/07/16 11:46 PM |
| 1 | How hard is it if you're bald?Neil Strauss is bald. | /r/seduction | 01/07/16 11:44 PM |
| 4 | How to talk to a girl that's walking? Like, in a market, perhaps? Or a mall? Like she's going somewhere. Also, most women are in groups, how to approach?That's my go-to line! Usually i go with "hi, haven't we met before? No? Okay I'm seddit_only, and who are you?" | /r/seduction | 26/06/16 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Daygame at a parkIts easier to compliment them on something as you pass by, since there is no need to stop. You will feel rewarded. Keep that up as baby steps if you are nervous of stopping them to talk to them. Even myself is still afraid of stopping girls to tell then they are beautiful, but when I do it I feel amazing!!! | /r/seduction | 18/06/16 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Daygame at a park"Hey wait! Let me ask you something!" "Excuse me, if you're not busy I'm gonna talk you for a bit." | /r/seduction | 18/06/16 01:46 AM |
| 3 | Daygame at a parkThe first thing to do is overcome the fear of talking. Do not be afraid to ask anything, like "what was your day like?" "what do you do for a living?" "hey, do you speak another language?" You could get away with complimenting their glasses or pants. I learned this once i got over the notion that talking is scary. When i do it i laugh at myself after the interaction and think "damn man, that was so easy and so fun!" Also listen more than you speak. Keep this up and you'll learn how to respond wi… | /r/seduction | 18/06/16 01:36 AM |
| 1 | I've recently come across a good type of question to inspire conversation. Can you help me think of some more?Good idea to bring up out of the oridnary questions. If you could teleport where would you go? If you could fly, but only last as long as you run, where would you fly to? What would you do if you were invisible? | /r/seduction | 15/06/16 07:50 PM |
| 3 | What to text a girl who's number you got at a bar but was too drunk to remember anything?I just tried this line. She responded "what's cabin fever?" How do i proceed? | /r/seduction | 10/05/16 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Used to have amazing game but now that I care it doesn't exist?|i really want to have a relationship. This advice is different for everyone, but Don't try so hard to get into a relationship. Put on an IDGAF mentality. I'm not saying the girls will come flocking to you, but there is a neediness mentality that they can smell and it repels them. Depending how how bad you want a relationship, you may smell of neediness and need to take a shower. Have you tried applying all that you've learned from this subreddit? There must be more to your game that you need to… | /r/seduction | 09/05/16 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Books about improving one's self.This question has been answered more than enough times. Go to the /r/seduction search engine and enter "books". | /r/seduction | 02/05/16 06:22 PM |
| 7 | 10 ways to have a better conversation | Celeste Headlee | TED Talktaken from the youtube comments: For anyone interested, here's the list of her advice : Don’t multitask. Don’t pontificate. Use open ended questions. Go with the flow. If you don’t know, say that you don’t know. Don’t equate your experience with theirs. Don’t repeat yourself. Don’t go into the details (names, number, dates…). Listen. Be brief. | /r/seduction | 09/03/16 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Basics of the gameUse the search bar within this subreddit. Search the basic things like approaching, opening, conversations, first dates, etc. you can find tons of good material through that. | /r/seduction | 23/01/16 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Become the best possible version of yourself. Don't be afraid to make mistakes, making mistakes is part of the process, learn from them, embra..There's also an IRC channel. #reddit-seddit on freenode. But a kik is a good idea. Anyone else wanna start one? | /r/seduction | 11/01/16 02:36 PM |
| 14 | I have a somewhat odd name. What to do?Use your real name. That is who you are. Are you comfortable with who you are? Are you an awesome person? Then use your real name. Now that you're older nobody should bully you about it, and if they do fuck them. Your name is foreign and interesting like you. If you don't mind me asking, what is your name? | /r/seduction | 29/12/15 04:39 AM |
| 0 | How long after you started did you start seeing a real, tangible change in your personality?between middle school and highschool, during the puberty phase i started seeing my personality change a lot. It was then i realized i wasn't a little boy anymore, but becoming a man. | /r/seduction | 23/12/15 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Should I have sex with my ex tonight?Here's her number | /r/seduction | 31/10/15 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Who should my friends be for social proof and development?I've cut out all of my high school friends because they're all negative people. You already know what kind of people you shouldn't be friends with. Define "friend". Someone close? Formal acquaintance? If the latter, be friends with anyone who is fun and not a jerk. Surround yourself with positive people who contribute to your life, as you should contribute to theirs. You don't have to be "friends" with everyone, but you should be kind and sociable with everyone. This does lead to friendships, an… | /r/seduction | 09/09/15 10:52 PM |
| 11 | I can talk to anybody except" popular" kids?popular kids. you mean higher status. Status is irrelevant, it is a mindset for most. You are the only person in your reality who has status above all others. Your life matters to others as much as their life matters to you. You are in highschool, 5 years down the road you'll be in/out of college and you may only see 1% of everyone you see now. Then think about college. There is no status in college, or you can create your own. New people, fresh start. It will not matter if you were "popular" or… | /r/seduction | 09/04/15 08:05 PM |
| 45 | Successful 'ugly' sedditors: how did you get over the fact that you're ugly?Maybe a story will cheer you up. It's called "The Ugly Barnacle." Once, there was an ugly barnacle. He was so ugly that everyone died! The end :) | /r/seduction | 10/03/15 07:11 PM |
| 1 | How To Create A Social Circle Of Beautiful Women (excuse the shitty drawings :)started listening to your podcast, amongst others, in my car every day. good stuff! thanks for your work! | /r/seduction | 25/02/15 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Advice for when she's says "Let's take it slow" or "Moving to fast"Agreed. Just DO NOT execute this operation with any negative emotions. Looking/being upset about her rejecting your advances is a turn off for most girls, it shows that you're not capable of handling "no". Brush it off with a smile and still be cool while drinking that glass if water. | /r/seduction | 22/02/15 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Got a girls number last night, should I have gotten her friends too?Beastiality? | /r/seduction | 22/02/15 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Direct vs Indirect On Campus? Escalation Issues.Nofap is good, but for the long run your should be sticking to PornFree. Yeah, nofap may boost testosterone and all that but for fresher mindset on life and women do PornFree. | /r/seduction | 22/02/15 11:18 PM |
| 1 | On and Off with beautiful girl, she has never had a boyfriendCommon /r/seduction advice: "bro u got 1itis. U need 2 talk to other gurls." Now delete that advice, because you have a serious chance with her. So far She seems interested in you, so you need to man up and ask her out. Do it with confidence. She might even WANT you to ask her out, and you may go your entire life regretting the chance you once had. She's never had a boyfriend? Maybe she's looking for the right guy, and she may think that's you! You gotta find out. Start slow with a date, we how … | /r/seduction | 19/02/15 06:24 PM |
| 8 | [FR]The most brutal rejection i have faced, with a twist.This is a good example of why we shouldn't feel bad if we're rejected. She may be having serious issues in her life, and it's not your fault that she's rude to you. You're not ugly or weird or anything. Also, fuck your friend for lying. | /r/seduction | 19/02/15 05:27 PM |
| 5 | What were your seduction/pickup skills like in highschool?Came here expecting to find this answer. Was not disappointed. | /r/seduction | 28/12/14 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Porn lowers your threshold. If you still have it, scrap it.Porn puts women on a pedestal, and the top advice from seddit is "don't put women on a pedestal." | /r/seduction | 27/12/14 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Why can I be bold as a nice-guy, but not as a player?Is it still "fear of rejection" if I've asked out plenty of other girls and have gotten plenty of no's? | /r/seduction | 18/12/14 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Top 3 Conversational Ways to MAKE ANY GIRL HORNYPickup artist HATE him! | /r/seduction | 22/10/14 06:59 AM |
| 3 | Response when a girl says she has a boyfriend.."woah, slow down. We just met." | /r/seduction | 15/10/14 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Don't be a Theory Junkie + Student InfieldI laughed at the guy with the camera at 1:30. (hiding behind him at the right.) | /r/seduction | 26/09/14 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone know where to find good infield videos?YouTube. /r/seduction search bar. | /r/seduction | 16/09/14 11:51 PM |
| 1 | A simple tip for college parking gameCollege PUAs hate him! | /r/seduction | 13/09/14 04:24 AM |
| 1 | White guy going solo to Latin night club. does anyone have this experience? Advice?Yikes, I'm not to find of hostile men. Especially me being white. However, this club is sorta exclusively Latin, but non-Spanish guys can enter. It wouldn't be a bad idea for me to take a salsa class before hand. | /r/seduction | 09/09/14 03:59 AM |
| 1 | The worst place in the world for pick up is the mallHe probably meant 5-6 HB10s per hour. | /r/seduction | 20/08/14 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Looking for good places for a beginner to practice approaches?Walmart, bookstores, mall, library, college campus, supermarket... | /r/seduction | 18/08/14 03:26 AM |
| 1 | WHERE DID I GO WRONG?!Most likely she had no clue what Led Zeppelin is, and she only wore the shirt because she thought it looked cools. Or she does and forgot that she was wearing the shirt. Anyhow, you said you don't get upset when a girl rejects you. What happened? | /r/seduction | 18/08/14 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Random thought: approach anxiety'When you approach, make your goal to simply speak to the girl rather than to get her number'. This is good because if that's the goal, by just saying "Hi" you've already accomplished it, and you have nothing else to worry about. The rest comes naturally. :) | /r/seduction | 14/08/14 01:01 AM |
| 3 | Improving game at workWrite it with mustard. | /r/seduction | 07/08/14 04:22 AM |
| 27 | PSA: I overheard a guy on his first date ask the girl "Hey, do you think my armpit hair is weird? Here, touch it. It's super soft. Weird right?!" DO NOT DO THIS.But then how do I initiate kino? | /r/seduction | 06/08/14 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Is getting caught masturbating a good way to seduce someone?yes. establish dominance. | /r/seduction | 11/06/14 08:52 PM |
| 3 | When a girl asks to hear your story, what's a good reply?say: "The details of my life are quite inconsequential... very well, where do I begin? My father was a relentlessly self-improving boulangerie owner from Belgium with low grade narcolepsy and a penchant for buggery. My mother was a fifteen year old French prostitute named Chloe with webbed feet. My father would womanize, he would drink. He would make outrageous claims like he invented the question mark. Sometimes he would accuse chestnuts of being lazy. The sort of general malaise that only the … | /r/seduction | 21/04/14 04:00 PM |
| 10 | Dear Seddit, In search for an interesting hobby. Any ideas?It's fun, you learn how to protect yourself, and... it's a great way to stay in shape. | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 11:50 PM |
| 2 | What are some interesting conversation topics?"fuck her" as in... "Fuck" her? | /r/seduction | 15/03/14 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Forget Game: Become a Badass, Don't Fake It"If you build it, they will cum." FTFY | /r/seduction | 28/01/14 03:19 PM |
| 0 | What other subreddits do you use to help improve aspects of your game?We need to get these subreddits to the sidebar! | /r/seduction | 02/01/14 10:53 PM |
| 1 | How many girls do you approach, and what percentage of those girls do you sleep with?Thank you for giving a straight answer! they couldn't answer honestly because they think the question is "How successful will I be if I practice seduction?" | /r/seduction | 14/11/13 05:23 PM |
| 2 | How many girls do you approach, and what percentage of those girls do you sleep with?when I ask "you" i don't mean plural. I mean it for every individual who practices seduction. I am familiar with the term "YMMV." I know that not everyone is gonna be pulling in the same amount of girls. One guy will say 20 while the other says 10. While it means nothing to you, I just want to know. Why? because i just want to know. | /r/seduction | 13/11/13 12:22 AM |
| 4 | How many girls do you approach, and what percentage of those girls do you sleep with?Okay. So, how many girls have you approached this year, and what percentage of those girl have you slept with? | /r/seduction | 12/11/13 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone remember their first ever day approach?Yup. That is what I meant by "fighting away the fear." | /r/seduction | 22/09/13 01:44 AM |
| 5 | Does anyone remember their first ever day approach?Storytime!!! Last day of college (for the semester). I'm sitting in the cafe, eating my lunch. All of the sudden, a beautiful girl sits down 2 tables away. The college is almost empty, so it's just me, her, and some other guy in the cafe. I thought "she's cute. I should just talk to her. it couldn't hurt." At that instant, i froze up and couldn't do it. So I left to go to the library. There, i'm working on an essay and meet a classmate of mine. He's talking, being friendly but annoying, while i'… | /r/seduction | 17/09/13 08:15 PM |
| 2 | How to get the motivation?Stop Watching porn stop masturbating walk/jog every day be well read go out often and do things! The read/jog/going out part gives you a lot to talk about, makes you less boring. The reason we don't want to socialize is because we feel like we're boring, there's nothing about us to discuss! We fear that we'll lose the other party's interest over that. That's true, we will. But that all changes if you become a bit interesting. If you feel interesting, you'll feel confident. If you feel confident,… | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 06:52 PM |
| -1 | How should you respond to "I'll think about it"the only response should be "okay, get back to me on that." then END OF CONVO! Don't talk to her again unless she give you an answer. You wait for no one! Don't say "nevermind, i'll invite someone else." because that sounds pushy/needy. instead, if you get no answer from her, just invite someone else in secret and have your fun. Post the pictures on facebook/instagram and get her jealous, showing her what she missed out on. | /r/seduction | 11/08/13 11:21 PM |
| 0 | Favorite Date Ideathis all sounds fun, but my trouble is this: How do I initiate these dates? | /r/seduction | 14/07/13 04:45 PM |
| 0 | How can I make regular conversation more flirty?"Make your intentions clear from the beginning" | /r/seduction | 14/07/13 04:34 PM |
| 6 | Putting a short letter on her windshield?If you don't know her, and she doesn't know you, this will definitely come off as creepy. do NOT do this. | /r/seduction | 21/04/13 06:17 PM |
| 2 | When I'm talking to a girl, most of what I say tends to be a questions... (with a mini field report)I'm neither texting nor asking her out. Only working on my conversation skills, which becomes easier for me since I can practice while I'm at work | /r/seduction | 09/04/13 01:08 PM |
| 2 | When I'm talking to a girl, most of what I say tends to be a questions... (with a mini field report)I'm sorry, what are you referring to? | /r/seduction | 09/04/13 01:00 AM |
| 2 | When I'm talking to a girl, most of what I say tends to be a questions... (with a mini field report)I can back that questions up, and lead into a conversation. I also respond with "I went vegetarian once... 6 months blah blah blah..." They don't seem too ashamed of it if you can connect with them in a way, which seems like a good thing. Gives us something to talk about | /r/seduction | 09/04/13 12:57 AM |
| 5 | When I'm talking to a girl, most of what I say tends to be a questions... (with a mini field report)thanks :) If i ask about what they're buying, I usually say "yum! I like the coconut flavor." or "What recipes is this normally used for?" is this a bad thing? I try to stay away from making them feel ashamed. For instance, I wouldn't say "Ohh, an Enema. Anal tonight?" (Lol. I would love to say that.). I've been practicing that more recently. If i see a girl with a jogging suit on, I'll say something like "looks like you just went jogging." or "early morning jog?" (I work mornings). i got a resp… | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 08:52 PM |
| 1 | At what point should the study of seduction be discarded?B* | /r/seduction | 07/03/13 05:53 PM |
| -1 | What Would You Do if ‘The Seduction Community’ Did Not Exist?If the seduction community disappears from existence, that means there'd be no rules to follow and no game to play. We can experiment with whatever Tactics we have and see what works well for us. | /r/seduction | 28/02/13 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Help with text game. She's texting me about her workout from the gym.Hey, no need to apologize. I got tired of everyone on here saying "read the sidebar." And you're right, this was a question for askseddit, but I asked here cuz that subreddit is kinda slow compared to this one. | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Help with text game. She's texting me about her workout from the gym.If you can redirect me to the answer I'm looking for, rather than redirecting me to a bunch of unhelpful irrelevant links that help with of situations, that would be quite helpful and I'd thank you a lot. Re-read my original post and try to help me figure It out. I could not find anything that helps with a girl telling me about her workout. | /r/seduction | 21/02/13 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Help with text game. She's texting me about her workout from the gym.I object. My question has not been answered. Don't redirect me to the sidebar because that's not helpful to what I am asking. I'm asking for help with a certain situation, and so far you have not been helpful. | /r/seduction | 21/02/13 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Help with text game. She's texting me about her workout from the gym.She sent a pic of the weight she's lifting. This was before she said the thing about bigger hips. I responded with "damn, girl. Work that body ;)" (I was being flirty/kidding around). Not the greatest response? | /r/seduction | 21/02/13 10:42 PM |
| 2 | How do you befriend women?I mean he "does the opposite" of what you want to do/trying to do. I could be wrong | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 08:54 PM |
| 1 | How do you befriend women?I think his username might mean something. Possibly, looks like it | /r/seduction | 16/02/13 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, what do you say after a girl says "no"?"Really? I just broke up with mine." Or something similar, maybe "i had a boyfriend once." Then continue to play off a story from there. (Completely bullshit a story if you want/need to) Say it with confidence! This is useful whether you're bi/curious or not. The girl will admire your feminine side, and she'll be more comfortable with you. Escalate from there. | /r/seduction | 07/02/13 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Can reading make you a more interesting person and hold interesting/intellectual conversations? If yes, what book/s would you recommend for a beginner reader?I recently began reading the newspaper. You have a variety of topics to discuss from it, and you keep up with current issues. Not only does it come in handy when talking to a woman, but you can talk to strangers about certain topics as well. Good conversations and good practice/experience. | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Just a quick question...Like on the show "Drake and Josh"? | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 04:16 AM |
| 1 | How to Enjoy Your Life (face it: if you are miserable you won't get laid ;))I missed the word "life" and read "how to enjoy your face". Thought it was an article about confidence even if you don't have a pretty face | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 12:17 PM |
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