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Red Pill TheorySelfMadeMonarch/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 11:35 AM
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Rant/VentingSelfMadeMonarch/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 11:30 PM
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Science as a path to ego-death. I like it.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 02:00 AM
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Also, note the difference between letting a man know you want a relationship with him and opening yourself up for his pursuits vs coming on to him. As I work on myself more, I get more and more women approaching me, touching me, giving me the "drag me somewhere and fuck me" vibes. I've started to develop a bit of a stigma for women who approach me cause 9 times out of ten they're nothing but career plates.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/14 10:07 PM
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Seriously, this is getting out of hand. The great "final boss of the internet", anonymous, once the fear of international governments and criminal organizations, the originators of "tits or gtfo", along with the logic behind it, are now more concerned with rape accusations. W. T. F. The internet is dead. Feminists specifically targeted it the same way they did the media and the education system. It's sad to see the last great bastion of truth, the ONLY great bastion of truth in the last century,…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 12:25 PM
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Actually, a quick Google finds FOR PROFIT tests that only cost 200.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 09:08 AM
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Good points. Thanks for the reply.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 09:05 AM
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Seriously, hospitals take footprints and blood samples to confirm that a baby is the mother's before leaving the hospital. This is the law. Why. The. Fuck. Isn't. Mandatory. Paternity. Testing? Why is it such a fucking taboo? I mean, we all know why, but fucking hell...
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 12:22 AM
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Well there you go. Obviously I have no advice to help you though haha!
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 02:19 AM
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I do not understand this at all. Are you gay? Bi? Obviously cool if you are, I'm just curious because I just don't get how?
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 01:55 AM
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A feminist plate of mine is deluded enough to try this shit, though always only playfully. I treat it as a test of strength. Strength: The ability to move the environment to suit ones will, and resist being moved by the environment against ones will. You shouldn't need to restrain her. If she has any ability to move you against your will, you need to get stronger. My plate tries to push me, ends up pushing herself away from me and looks all incredulous. She's done it a few times, but I don't kno…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 11:14 PM
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Seriously. How much can one man give a fuck about what others think of him? Autonomy. Go get some.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 10:54 PM
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Haha, very good mein cherry. Clap. Clap. Though I'm curious, how does her knowing when you're running game affect things? Surely she would throw way more congruence tests around? Can you even pass them? You've larger balls than I sir, spinning plates is like red pill on training wheels, I'm drawn to the challenge and companionship of ltr, but not ready yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/14 02:50 AM
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There's a legitimate theory that power structures in hierarchical animals are defined by the level of autonomy a participating agent has. Power isn't the ability to control others, it's the ability to resist being controlled.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 06:28 PM
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See, this is why we can't have nice things.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/14 06:02 PM
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Yeah, learned game can't be passed onto her son, who'll be raised by her BB. I've always thought this was the true disgust for game. If it ain't natural alpha cum, it's disgusting. How dare these betas trick us into cuckolding our betas with beta sons?!,
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 12:15 PM
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If I'm going to night game, it's at bars not clubs, for this exact reason. I like boutique bars, heaps of interesting intellectual types about who can keep up with me in deep conversation and don't mind a bit of a debate. Plenty of women too, but the lack of intensity makes it easier/harder to game depending on style. At the end of the day though, night game is about blowing of some steam, having a good night and getting a SNL, not finding quality plates.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 12:10 PM
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What do you want to suffer for? Forgot about money, recognition and satisfaction. What do you want to suffer for is the question.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:04 AM
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Bill Maher: "Yes... and an indoor cat..."
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 03:15 AM
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Ah the delicate balance of shit vs comfort. I miss the companionship of ltrs, bit having only swallowed a year ago I know I'm not ready to pull it off yet. The big key that seems to keep coming up is learning to get women to flirt with you, without actually flirting with them.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/14 12:18 AM
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It's not a case of believing what I want, it's a case of studying to be an endocrinologist and my career relying on me learning this stuff. But you don't want to argue, and that's fine my man. We're all on the same side here, technical disagreements aside.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/14 02:38 AM
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Innate testosterone levels increase aggression and provide a better platform for rising in a hierarchy, ie becoming an alpha, but does not define a species mating schedule. Beta wolves are still polygamous, just like beta lions. That they're unable to act on this mating schedule does not render them untouched by it. Red queen specifically states all men are polygamous while all women are hypergamous.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/14 02:14 AM
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That's an illogical response.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/14 02:01 AM
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I think all men are poly, just like all women are hypergamous, but some are less impulsive, more reserved and less likely to risk guaranteed pussy for new pussy. Same for AWALT. I'd never an impulsive, risk taking, extroverted woman past any more than a plate. AWALT. AMALT. Monogamy, and thus marriage, is a way of tempering our promiscuous nature to increase a man's chance of obtaining pussy, thus increasing male socio-economic competition and increasing the industry of monogomous societies.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/14 01:48 AM
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Okay brother, first Google comfort vs shit test and find the chateau heartist. I'd link it but my phone is dicking up. Now, I conclude, by acknowledging it as covert, that the correct way to handle this is take her, aggressively, and fuck her in a totally consumed by passion way. Completely dominate her with desire. Tell her she is your little slut and the only little slut you need. Read sex god method and just fuck me if you haven't already. I say this because a simple question is, if this is c…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/14 12:14 AM
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Does your gut say it could be a comfort test? Maybe she's scared of losing you? Or that she wants to see other men? I would assume something covert is going on here.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 11:45 PM
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Be 'enlightened and nonjudgemental'. If you wanna play games. Personally I'm just a sexual beast, always pushing boundaries, amazing what will slip when you're 'the guy' she's done the most with.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 10:52 AM
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You know. How many years of evolution do you think refined a man's mate guarding intuition. Ever thought about how funny it is you know when you're in competition with a dude while a girl remains oblivious? How, even as kids, you know when the girl you like is under threat of being stolen? You know. Because if you didn't, your ancestors didn't, and they would have been cuckolds, and you wouldn't exist. You have the right to exist. Your ancestors have the right to your patronage. She has threaten…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 01:16 AM
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You don't need to like a woman to fuck her. She doesn't have to be a unicorn to be good at tacking your load. As an appeal to beta logic, how many women complain about their asshole boyfriends or the jerk she can't get to commit? Why is it that men aren't allowed the same reprieve? Yeah she a sloot, but I like to fuck her. Spin plates.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 02:32 AM
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Fuck I wish fight club was real. Not to glorify unrefined models of masculinity, but when I first started training martial arts it gave me a buzz like no other. Then I got used to it. Then came sparring with no protective gear, no gloves, just tape, which was even more centering. Then I got used to it. Now I just want to legitimately fight people. Not to hurt them. Not to prove anything. But just to have that moment, where you and another man are completely present with no concern for anything b…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 09:10 AM
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Personally I don't like playing games. I've legitimate things in my life that require mental energy and strategy, such as handling my money or improving my martial arts. I don't waste that energy on people. Take me or leave me. So, my advice is to stop playing games and stop tolerating them. If I feel a girl is playing games I will call her on it and let her know I'm not down with it. Shit tests? Fuck that, I'm not going to consistently enforce my boundaries just to prove I have them, treat me w…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 04:35 AM
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I cannot overstate how much I'd like to see this happen.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 05:21 AM
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Stef is straight up red pill, talks about it from time to time. Only thing I've heard him criticize is AWALT, except he comes from a place that AWALT but you can find one who is aware of it and consciously makes the decision to be better, provided you uphold your standards. Essentially, find an RPW. I don't like him all that much, he likes his own thoughts enough for me to call mental masturbation, but he does have some interesting thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 05:16 AM
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This movie is straight red medicine. 'He actually expected me to love him for who he is' Loved watching all the couples shuffle out of theatre afterwards. Worst date movie ever. Or best, depending how you see it. Terrifying in any case.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 02:16 AM
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In one: optionality. He with the most options, wins. It's amazing how many BP dudes will stay in a shitty, pain inducing relationship because they don't see leaving as an option. Hell, a year ago I was like that, but it's foreign to me now. Thr last year I've learned to walk away. From women. From shitty friends. From situations I don't want to be in. From arguments I don't want to have. I walk. I always reserve that option and I abuse it with flagrant self-regard. Life is ten times better for m…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 02:12 AM
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'Hope that works out for you. This hasn't been lovely. Bye.' God I love dropping entitled women mid date. A year ago I never would have thought that possible.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 08:47 AM
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Actually a monarch looked up from the book of pook, noting the style and all, to see this post. Check out a clockwork orange my droog.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 08:24 AM
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I remember reading an article on that sit years ago about getting out of the friend zone. It had a handful of points given, all with studies cited to back up their validity. It went something like: 1: Stop being so available and start calling them on behavior you wouldn't tolerate from anyone else. Start actually treating them like a friend and not a god. 2: introduce competition. Friends talk about people they are dating, start dating and don't hide it. 3: start bargaining. Start getting her to…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 07:13 AM
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As I stated in our last discussion on this OP, personality and behavior definitely have a large inherent component. This is indubitable. Human nature is real. Your argument in favour of socialization is one step away from the nature-nurture arguments we see in gender studies. The more I see you post on this matter, the more suspicious I am that this is an elaborate concern troll. It is not enough to know how women behave or how human sexuality shapes society, we must know why. You're assertions …
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 04:23 AM
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Okay. But do not, ever, trust her with a cent. You'd be a fucking idiot to pay this debt to her or her mother, you need to deal directly with the debt collection agency, even then do your due diligence.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 06:06 AM
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Op, please tell me you don't believe this new mystery debt? She has your details, she can pass them on and if it's real you can deal with it. I really don't see any need for you to be replying to her.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 05:58 AM
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Personality very much has a large inherent component. This has been proven. I will read that book though, thanks for the link.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 04:29 AM
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So you also maintain then, that you cannot prove that male dominance is an attractive trait based on scientific principles then? Or that female hypergamy exists? Do you just dismiss the entire study of female sexuality?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 02:51 AM
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Look, I'm not going to conduct a systematic a review of EP in the space of the few minutes I care enough to reply with, and asking me to do so knowing I likely won't is fallacious. I honestly don't see how anyone can support the assertions of this sub without agreeing with the science that birthed the philosophy. The red pill was born from science. Can you provide any science that says being nice will get you laid or keep your wife happy? Are you even from round here?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 01:00 AM
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You know who says that? It's not thwarted biologists. It's not the mathemeticians. They both back the findings of EP. It's the soft sciences that disregard EP. Psychologists and sociologists. And you know who oppose EP more than fucking anybody? Gender theorists. Read the sidebar. Do more research. Read 'Sex, Power, Conflict: Evolutionary and Feminist Perspectives' by David Buss. TRP is science.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 12:04 AM
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I meant if you just stop playing the game with her. Stop strategizing and call her behavior. Also, awalt. This is why I said by third date you should be getting laid. But sometimes no matter how hard you push you just won't get it on a first date because there's no plausible deniability there for her, feeling cheap is the quickest way to turn a woman off, after all, her sex is her most valuable asset. Just adopt the mentality that you're okay with not getting laid first date. Adopt the mindset t…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 11:52 PM
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You don't need to fuck every one on the first night. As others have stated, sometimes there is genuine resistance on the first night when you go down the dating route. It's a different game to picking up at the meat market, you need to open up a bit more, perhaps wait til second or third night. Shes hardly going to feel sexy if she feels cheap, that's not to say hand your balls over, but give her some plausible deniability. If still getting lmr on the third date and pushing through doesn't seem …
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 04:20 PM
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Truly confident people wear their flaws like armour. Truly confident are modest. When was the last time you heard someone brag about how well they pour a bowl of cereal? When you master life, you don't need to advertise it, it just is what it is. People who don't give a fuck don't need others to know. Modesty indicates mastery.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 12:21 PM
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Yep. A shit test I'm coming up against more and more is a gender role test. Women constantly try to define masculinity like it's their prerogative. I just laugh and highlight that if men got to define femininity shit would be a lot different, alas we don't so fuck off.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 10:04 AM
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A book I'd recommend which I don't generally see in the required reading lists on here is 'Being the strong man a woman wants' by Elliot Katz. It's the best RP LTR text I've found, better than even No more mister nice guy and the way of the superior man.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 09:02 AM
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Meditation for warriors. Amazon that shit. Also, martial arts. I train 2 hour sessions three times a week. I practice focus meditation the whole time. No I'm not focused the whole time, that would be perfect and I'm not perfect, but meditation is a practice not a state of perfection. Nothing better than being 'in the zone', completely present and cold as ice while squaring off with a dude that wants to knock you out.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 05:13 AM
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Don't punish her, that will just prevent real victims from coming forward and feed right back into the hands of femenazis everywhere. Instead, punish the magazine. Put enough financial and social pressure on them that they must sack anyone who played a part in this lazy perpetuation of offensive rape culture bullshit. Same goes for false accusations that result in jail time. Punish the state with such heavy financial reimbursements that people start losing jobs for these 'honest mistakes'.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 07:50 PM
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If everyone thought like that the average guy's SMV would increase, increasing the quality of dick available to cheat with and thereby increasing the likelihood of LTR's cheating.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 08:27 AM
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I once walked out of the bedroom into my walk in bathroom after a good 2 hour fuck fest in the dark, turned the light on and oh my fucking god, it was like a scene from American psycho. Was startled, but never had an issue with it again. I'm actually kinda flattered whenever a chick is so hot and heavy for me she wants my load and isn't afraid of embarrassing herself to get it during what some hypothesize could be her most fertile period.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 06:10 AM
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Be mindful of one thing, learn to recognize when you're making decisions based on others perceptions of you. It's okay if someone thinks you're an arsehole or an oversensitive jerk. You don't need to appear like you don't give a fuck. You don't need to appear like anything. You just do you. Other peoples perceptions are the products of their mind, it's none of your business. Your perception of yourself is what counts, your the one who sleeps in the bed you make. Drop. Walk. Keep walking.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 05:30 AM
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I'm a natural introvert myself and suffered huge social anxiety for years. It takes practice like anything, learning to enforce boundaries. I recently, as in just this week, ended a budding friendship because I found out the person in question was bad mouthing me over a disagreement we had earlier that I thought was settled. I simply confronted the person, told them that was behavior I wasn't willing to tolerate, said no hard feelings but don't talk to me again. Goodbye. It's that simple. I don'…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 05:20 AM
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It isn't about being a douche either, it's about being a strong, high value, no-nonsense having badass who knows himself and isn't afraid to be himself. If OP hit the gym 4 days a week, was hung like an ox and fucked Alexis into a new dimension every night, whilst building his own empire and nurturing an ability to form genuine emotional and respectful connections with everyone he met and always knew where his line was and dropped anyone who crossed it. Do you think Alexis would have fucked Mark…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 05:04 AM
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We are all players in the sexual market place, ltrs are no exception. There is NO insulation from the sexual market place, shy of removing you and your partner from society. Sex is society. When I say outcompete, what I mean is be the best player. Be the fittest. Be the most ambitious and industrious. Be the most autonomous and have the strongest sense if self. Have invincible frame. Dress the best. Always improve your station and work on your social skills. Every man your wife meets is your com…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 04:49 AM
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Worst part about this is that he didn't mention the dude next door as being built, wealthy or charming, so his gf could have been getting pounded by a distinctly average dude he could have easily outcompeted if he knew better. Remember, for the ltr lovers here. There is no such thing as love, there is just being her best option. Love is just the chemicals that keep her informed of this fact. Be her best option, losing an ltr to a guy you could have easily outcompeted just because you weren't awa…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 04:04 AM
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I think it's great you ask for evidence. Evidence is what lead me here. Evidence is why I formed the views I have long before this sub existed. There's a lot of immature tit hating here (anger phase they call it, i say misogyny as a defense mechanism), but there's also a lot of pragmatic acceptance of reality, you just have to look. I "took the red pill" by studying biology and joined this sub because I was sick of being shamed in every other corner of society for espousing the politically incor…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 11:27 AM
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Not to mention that hypergamy is widely, almost universally, accepted as the females primary sexual strategy in biology. Also supports the concept of' better genes for fucking and better fathers for marrying'. I'm on my phone but get reading on sexy son theory and follow that thread if you're interested. Also, I'm studying to be an endocrinologist and I can say there is a wealth of new information regarding the effects hormones have on each genders brain development. Emotions drive myelination a…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 11:14 AM
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'I'm not ready for anything emotional, and I'm not interested in kissing you more, but I hope you keep chasing me.' Women don't lie and men don't listen. I wouldn't say next just yet. I'd say get two other plates spinning before you consider pushing it further though. You don't need to be laying them, just get some options going.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 12:27 PM
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Listened. Basically Steph just says unicorns exist, you just have to be incredibly disriminatory to find them. Basically, a statistically important number of women are cunts because men aren't choosy enough or honest enough about what is expected from their women. Tldr, if she isn't the kind of person who chooses virtue over comfort, next her ass.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 10:24 PM
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Excellent post. Like others, I've sadly had to learn these lessons the hard way. Another I'd say is: don't ask and don't tell. If you want to take her out, don't ask her out, but don't tell her to come out with you, just say you'd like her to dress up so you can take her out. Don't ask, don't tell, just express what you want.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 01:25 AM
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Read: The Red Queen. Then read No More Mister Nice Guy and Models: Attracting Women With Honesty and you should have an idea.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 01:20 AM
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Who gives a fuck what it means to others, if it helps you then it helps you. Don't make decisions based on how you appear to others.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 10:03 AM
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