Just saw a post about how in the west, only looks matter. I had to laugh. I've seen so many perfect looking men be rejected or get beta slaved by vomit inducers, I've lost count. Shit, I've cucked these guys before.

Every man's heard the typical chain of euphemisms from a woman: "you don't love me" = "you don't buy me enough shit", "you don't spend enough time with me" = "you don't listen to my neverending chain of illogical inanity", etc.

The least understood is "confidence". You hear this bullshit description from every woman slipping and letting out a little honesty. The real definition that men think women are saying is "full trust; belief in the powers, trustworthiness, or reliability of a person or thing: ". Honestly, could anyone say that's what a woman-defined "confident" man is?

This is how women communicate with men: half-truths, plausible deniability, and deception all wrapped up into one. It makes it hard for someone who plays their stupid games pin anything on them. "I told you what I wanted!" "I never said that!" "You just don't listen!".

What does woman defined "confidence" mean? Simple: "I think he doesn't want or need me". That's it. No magic.

It's human nature. The old money douches I knew growing up could wear anything, look like anything, say anything, but the ones who had had women throw themselves at them a few times because they found about their wealth all acted in the same way that allowed them to get more women than what their money allowed: they treated nearly all women dismissively.

It's the same for everyone. These guys would act in their old money douchedom, and everyone would find themselves trying to accommodate them.

Treat a woman like you don't want or need her, and you'll be the all-attractive "confident" guy.