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This is the move. Get this to the top.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 05:01 PM
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Touché. But enough about semantics. Do you have any relevant advice for my friend?
/r/askTRP29/03/15 01:36 AM
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Noted. Thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 01:03 AM
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I agree, but right now were talking about the picking up chicks, because this is a sexual strategy after all.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 12:54 AM
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Cool. This is a good direction. He dresses nice, is a cool dude and all that, but I just don't know what advice to give him about going after girls. Otherwise he's got shit going for him. As far as I know his dick still works (it's not a muscle so he can think himself into an erection).
/r/askTRP29/03/15 12:52 AM
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Did you mean you want all girls, regardless of your attraction or lack thereof, to find you attractive (as opposed to liking you)? I've found myself feeling that way. I want the girls that are at least my equal in level of attraction or lower to want me. I don't care if they don't, I don't care if they hate me, but I want them to find new attractive. It could be growing pains. I'm getting more confident as I progress on my red pill transformation, and even though my internal game is getting pret…
/r/askTRP25/03/15 02:52 AM
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Man's love is sacrificial... I read in this scientific study on happiness that... ...Our worldviews are heavily emotion-laden, and, in extreme cases, we will sacrifice our personal life for our cause. Jones compared self-sacrificing heroism to “almost sexual enjoyment” [33] and Gopnik used the term “explanation as orgasm” [34]. (emphasis mine) This is another reason that you should not make women your cause, because it can be pleasurable as fuck to sacrifice yourself for your cause. And paradoxi…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 10:31 PM
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Me too my man. It takes a lot of courage, but it feels amazing when you get to do what you want regardless of the opinions of others. Using amused mastery on dudes who are trying to cut you down is hilarious. Nothing gets their man panties in a bunch quicker than not being able to shake your frame.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 02:51 AM
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I found a blog post over at /r/Stoicism about dealing with haters using philosophy. It's pretty good, I think. It's painful to watch. It is. And you'll want to help them. But be very, very careful if & when you decide to. People can be boat anchors. This is a fact. And there's nothing more that a person "stuck" in life wants more than to rationalize their shit by seeing someone that has zoomed past them now stuck. Friends like this don't do it out of hate. They actually do it because they like y…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 10:15 PM
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I'm not the fattest of dudes but I cut out smoking and drinking awhile ago (still smoke green occasionally). I've recently started back at the gym and I go daily. I also cut carbs, and I am working on my own blog, which is my passion; my purpose. I do socialize but I don't have any real friends anymore. They all fell off when I started to change. Oh well. The way you and I are doing this is what I originally understood Monk Mode to be used for. Keep it up, dude. "Nothing happens to a man that he…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 07:19 PM
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So what do you tell the fat dude who has no self-esteem, self-confidence, and doesn't have any or many friends? They need to fuck off, go in to Monk Mode, work on themselves by reading, working out, talking to strangers, and working up from the bottom. If they don't go Monk Mode, they'll get a little taste of success and get comfortable, but it never lasts, and they will likely backslide into skipping workouts, eating shitty, and acting like a bitch. Others further along can use Monk Mode to avo…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 08:40 PM
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There's some nuance a lot of you are missing here. Yes, your close circle of friends (or just yourself if your going it alone) should accept you as you are (however, if there is something you can change that needs changing -- do it.). I know that's what the fat acceptance and SJW people say, but theres a difference in what is meant when we say that. The SJWs don't want to change anything about themselves, they do it to rationalize their fat ugly bodies. We don't do that. For instance, in sheddin…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 05:51 PM
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Thanks for the info. Interesting things to consider.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 10:11 PM
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I'm not saying wealthy women are inherently bad -- I'm saying be careful... but especially so with the affluent. I'd be interested in hearing about what lessons they taught, and what brutally honest truths they told, though. Whatchu got for us (seriously)?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 06:41 AM
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Looks cool. I'll check it out. Thanks for the suggestion.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 08:07 PM
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Right. This is why outcome independence is important. You have to be willing to walk away or she will have all the power. We all know that almost any woman can get a man (not necessarily a quality one, but a man nonetheless) almost anytime -- yes, even the post-wall bitches. you have to be the one willing to walk away.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 08:04 PM
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Yup. I have a former friend that is a NiceGuytm. He does work out, but he's still a bitch. I tired to help him out, but he perceived it as a personal attack instead of advice -- even though he told me he would rather have people criticize him so he can fix shit. But it's only about external shit, like hobbies or lifting. If you say anything about his character or his personality he loses his shit, your calling him out and your such a dick for doing it (/s). Even though this dude is intelligent a…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 08:22 PM
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Sounds amazing. I'm sending a hot blonde to ask for the cash if I ever need investors.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 02:31 PM
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Apparently it's a marketing thing. I was unaware, though. Joke was on us.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 04:28 AM
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This will fail. It's girls looking for their beta bux. This is an app that the Ivy, or at least a top tier college, educated woman can, after having already rode the cock carousel, pick and choose a beta suitor with money and status. Just because someone ends up with a high level career doesn't mean that they're alpha. How many girls out there would fuck a known felon as long as he gave that gina some tingles? Most of 'em, that's who. I was pissed about this at first, but after reading the artic…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 02:39 AM
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They do. I got an email from OKC after a few people "chose me" in their quick match section that said I was attractive enough so were going to start showing you more attractive people.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 02:31 AM
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It very much is. I am "faking it until I make it," but I derive my confidence internally. I'm actively working on myself, mentally and physically, and even though I'm not really where I want to be, there is a noticeable difference in the way I'm perceived and treated, and it's only going to get better as I progress. I think the only true way to achieve outcome independence is to do all this, deal with all this struggle, for yourself. If you do it just to get bitches, you're doing all this to ach…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 12:50 AM
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I'm in temporary MGTOW mode, or Monk Mode, or whatever you want to call it -- I'm not chasing bitches is what I'm saying -- and there are most definitely girls that are addicted to me. I flirt with them, I have their numbers, but I never call them. A few of them will text me occasionally, I get IOIs, I give IOIs, but they always want me around. I think its because of what you've described. I have been working on outcome independence and just not giving a fuck. Because of this, my confidence is g…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 10:49 PM
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Yeah, exactly that. Fuck those crabs!
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 07:54 PM
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Pretty much!
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 10:11 PM
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People who ain't worth shit judge everyone who is with empty criticism. I'm dealing with this right now. A few of my "friends" and I have fallen out because I'm making progress. Instead of being supportive of that, they are trying to pull me back down. I saw this blog post on dealing with haters over on /r/Stoicism, and It's a mix of RP and Stoicism I think.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 08:53 PM
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It is sad. I'm glad you aren't a brofag. I mean, dudes can do what they want to do, It's just annoying hearing them say "Bro, you gotta be fucking bitches! Is reading that book on philosophy gonna get you bitches? Is trying to attain peace and tranquility going to get you bitches? You gotta go lift, bro! Then go get some pussy and life will be great!" To each their own, I suppose.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 05:52 PM
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Right, and I agree, but I would suggest you check out both Epicureanism and Stoicism to see what suits you best. I don't think they are comparable. I personally subscribe to the Stoic school of thought, but I wouldn't have any trouble calling an Epicurean a friend. I just don't fully agree with them. MGTOW (in groups) Right, I agree with that completely, but the group is nonetheless MGTOW (which is not a bad thing). instead of trying to derive your happiness from females. I also agree with the n…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 05:22 PM
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I've seen that video, and regardless of my take on Epicureanism, Epicurus thought that living in his commune with his friends -- HIS MALE FRIENDS -- was enough. He was celibate if I do recall correctly. Here's the thing: there are lots of intelligent dudes who eschewed relationships with women so they could focus on what they thought was more important -- mostly science and philosophy -- than fucking women. And I agree with them; there are many things more important than fucking women, but I sti…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 07:49 AM
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Telling your close inner circle of friends about TRP isn't so bad, but if your telling casual friends, you're only creating competition. If I were to tell any of my "friends" (I'm in the US) about TRP, all of them would think I'm a women hating asshole and probably shun me. At present, I live in a smaller town and this kind of label would ruin my reputation here. I get the "need[ing] another human to listen to me" thing, but, at least for me, I keep my shit to myself. The people around me have d…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 01:10 AM
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I mean -- not really, no. The thing with other people is that they're jealous as fuck. So if your bouncing ideas off people, they will steal your idea or tell you it's bullshit so as to keep you in your place. I'm not saying ignore feedback from people if you happen to get some, but you should consider the source and evaluate not only what was said, but who said it. I mean think of TRP, if you went out and told some of your friends about it, would they think its a good idea? Would they agree? I …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 10:01 PM
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Try writing in a journal. That way you won't need to divulge your secrets to friends. As we all know, even friends can -- and most certainly will -- betray you. Writing in a journal will help you get your thoughts out of your head and you won't need to tell anyone to do it. Win-Win.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 07:57 PM
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My only concern is that this sub doesn't die. Both sides of TRP have helped me tremendously.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 01:42 AM
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Oh, well, that's different! Fuck yeah! But still, my heart condition prevents the lifting. Like, if I lift, I'll likely die. So I'll just skip it.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 04:24 AM
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This is the plan for the cpap. Buuuut there is something to be said about just owning it. I'll field test with plates and see what happens I guess. I'm working on my "it ain't nuttin to cut that bitch off" mentality so if a girl leaves, or complains about the thing and I leave her because of it, then oh well -- I'll go get another girl.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 12:21 AM
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I don't really know what you are trying to say with this ALS ice water challenge video. The dude in the video was, however, wearing a cpap mask like I wear, and still has a bitch, so theres that, so... thats cool I guess. If you were trying to insult me for wanting to tone up rather than getting swole up, then you did a really bad job. Yeah, so, in conclusion: I don't get it, and you suck a little, but maybe you helped a little too, so... fuck you?
/r/askTRP17/12/14 10:14 PM
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Cool. That's pretty much my mentality on any flaw I may have -- I own it, and let it go.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 04:44 PM
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Cut Her Off by KCAMP is my current favorite RP song "It aint nuttin to cut that bitch off" and "So what you sayin, hoe? You know I'm the man, hoe. Nuttin but a bird, Imma leave you where you stand, hoe. Heard you got a man, hoe. Hope he understand, though, You aint nuttin but a creeper, baby I'm just sayin, hoe." edit: forgot some words; changed formatting.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 08:34 PM
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People are hating, but this could be the solution to my issues with condoms. I have an average size, but condoms kill my hard-on like 5 mins in. It's pretty fucking annoying. I say let it ride. I'm sure others will appreciate this advice, too, seeing many of us have average dick sizes.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 10:35 PM
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This worked in my favor just today. I was telling this girl -- a girl I friend zoned -- about me telling an HB 8 I had a few interactions with to walk-on because she did something I didn't like. The friend-zoned girl was almost throwing herself at me today after hearing this. And its all because she knows I can get hot girls (even though I'm currently broke and little flabby), and not only that, but I can toss them aside like they don't even matter. Confidence is something very important to cult…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 04:54 AM
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This is good fucking advice. I used to think "fake it until you make it" was bullshit. I fucking hated it with a vengeance. But now? It's what propels me forward. Your body follows your minds lead. Think of it like a placebo effect -- you think you've been given a drug that will fix your ailment when, in fact, it's just a sugar pill, but it cured you anyway. Just switching my mindset from "I'm not worthy of these women, I'm not worthy of peoples admiration, I'm not worthy of a place at the top o…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 08:38 PM
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Yeah totally. I'm not done learning by any means. Just looking for some perspective on why these things are happening so I can adjust and adapt. I didn't go out looking for this situation it just kind of happened, but I did better than pre-TRP me would have, so that's a plus.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 01:17 AM
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I doubt this is happening, but my guard is up. Like I've said elsewhere in this thread, I am not concerned that I will get butthurt or something. This is practice on fending off oneitis feelings, getting comfortable with beautiful girls instead of just average ones, and escalating on girls that I thought were out of my league. I really don't have anything to lose. I'll either get laid by a really attractive, cool girl, or I'll fuck it up and learn from my mistakes, or she's just fucking with me …
/r/askTRP05/12/14 01:02 AM
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But you're missing parts of the equation. Like the time we made out in her car when I ran in to her before she went silent. Regardless, I'm just trying to figure the situation out so I can figure out what needs to change for the next interaction -- if there is one. I am aware of my current flaws, but Jesus-titty-fucking-Christ, man would you not take shots with an HB8 if you had them? She may very well be trying to keep me around as a worshipper/orbiter/validation machine, but I am not going to …
/r/askTRP05/12/14 12:51 AM
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We full on made out a week later. Money isn't everything, but I am indeed working on that.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 10:18 PM
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You're retarded if an HB8 chased you -- even just a little -- and you didn't attempt to acquire her. Now if it was some HB5 that I was asking about? Yeah, you could call me out. If nothing else, this was practice. I may have failed, but I learned something, and gained some confidence from the experience.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 07:19 PM
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Should have stuck with my gut instinct on staying silent in the first place.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 07:07 PM
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Your focusing on the wrong aspects. I don't really drink alcohol. I drank only water that night, and DDed. This girl is at least eighty percent interested, and based on the interactions we had, the interest was not faked. I am working on my shit. This girl came to me -- I did not chase her. See my edit on the OP, too.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 06:59 PM
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She lives 2 hours away, but frequently comes to town (I am living in the same city she's from). Loose plans have been made that either this, or next weekend, we are going to meet up. As I said, I was trying to stay fresh on her mind. But in hindsight, silence would have probably drove her more crazy than the stupid text I sent.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 06:55 PM
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She totally has a different dude, and you're the back up plan. Very likely. Sounds like there's genuine chemistry between you, though. I agree, and that's what makes it hard to keep some distance.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 06:40 PM
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Yeah, I thought that might have been too much, but I was trying to stay fresh in her mind. I have mirrored radio silence. Will continue the silence.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 06:38 PM
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