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Men's Rightsmonsieurhire2/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 02:01 PM
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No kidding. But, what I meant is, they use the terms interchangeably, or as hyperbole, but they aren't going to come after you or anything.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 10:00 PM
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For some women, rough sex = "rape." I would just roll my eyes at that. Obviously she consented to it. She could have said no at any time. She's 45, and you're 21, and you have an evidence on your side that she consented. She's just fucking with you. Gracefully bow it. She doesn't expect anything from you. You want to know how worthless you are to a woman her age? I know several women in their forties and fifties who are being chased by young guys in their twenties, and they have ZERO interest, b…
/r/askTRP18/08/20 05:08 PM
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Dude, don't tell him that, she'll take it seriously and try to marry him.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 05:05 PM
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"well, it's not my fault you made a lot of enemies in there." Yeah, the whole, "let me just side with a group of people against you" thing is a big red flag. Lots of women will turn on you if you are "unpopular," meaning, a small group of people on a planet of billions decides to make you the whipping boy, or you run afoul of them, maybe even because the leaders of the group are threatened by you, or because some of the lower level guys want to score points. This can create a situation where you…
/r/askTRP18/08/20 04:04 PM
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The vast majority of attractive women figure out that they can leverage their looks, their youth, and the implied promise of fertility into money, power, and status at a very early age, like in their high school years. These women knew EXACTLY what they were doing, but they were pissed that they weren't in complete control. They got off thinking that a celebrity was a beta-orbiting them and doing stuff for them. They knew he was trying to get laid. But then they find out that they're not in cont…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 06:00 PM
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I'm talking about in the upper echelons. Women like men with money, right? So naturally, many of them trying to get around men who are making money. Whether they succeed in their goal is another matter entirely.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 04:49 PM
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The message was more, the bar is being lowered on what is considered unacceptable behavior. The guy is married, apparently, and I think he gets side action. I'm not sure what the hell he was doing playing around with all these women. Probably just planting seeds that he hoped would bear fruit, but he didn't go about it the right way. But it was definitely a waste of his time. He needed to have qualified them as DTF, or not.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 04:47 PM
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Yep. It's dumb. Also, at the end of the day, if the person doesn't like you for your flaws as well as your strengths, then there's no point, because you'll be putting an act on for the rest of your life while being miserable inside. But I grew up in an environment that was VERY gynocentric and emasculating, with very little male guidance. So I had no clue what I was doing, and this was an example of overcompensating.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 07:58 AM
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For every #MeToo, there are a bunch of chads getting away with it. A lot of the #MeToo scandals were politically prominent men, like Al Franken, Bill Cosby, and Harvey Weinstein. Do you think it's a coincidence that a bunch of people went after Trump over the pussy-grabbing statement, and then, as soon as he gets elected, there are waves of people on the opposite side of the political aisle getting purged for some shit that they did in the past. Cosby and Weinstein were completely justifiable. F…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 07:56 AM
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This guy wasn't spinning plates. He was doing the whole, covert contract, nice guy, pretend to be friends to get the pussy routine. And he's a beta. That's why he's getting punished for it. If they all liked him enough to have sex with him, it would be a different story.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 04:04 AM
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Why?
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 04:03 AM
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It was bilateral baiting and switching. They knew very well that they had marketable, exploitable sex appeal that could be used to extract favors. They're just mad that they didn't get all that they felt entitled to. They literally felt entitled to permanent, unconditional friendship and assistance. It's really eye-opening, when your value goes up as a male: the women start to chase you, and when they don't get what they want, they turn into creepy, whiny betas.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 11:11 PM
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Eh, women date men at work ALL the time. In fact, many women enter into the corporate workforce to look for a man. They imagine that their man will be some high-powered executive who will whisk them away to a paradise, and they want to be as close to them as possible. He WAS a legitimate networking and mentorship contact to many of them, which they actually state and admit. He helped many of these women in a number of ways, and even gave some of them money. But like a typical nice guy beta, he m…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 11:09 PM
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Lol, it's WAY worse than retarded. These people are trying to sell pretty much every male get-laid tactic and strategy as abuse. Maybe it's just another population control stratagem: make all women paranoid and averse to male contact so they don't reproduce and have families, let alone give anyone any joy. I mean, if you had told these women to go and fuck Warren Ellis' middle-aged sad sack ass as a charitable gesture, how many would have said yes? They knew EXACTLY what they were doing: they we…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 11:01 PM
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Well, they are going after him because he is a beta. I mean, he gave out all that time, attention, and assistance, in exchange for pics he could have gotten off the internet for free with a few mouse-clicks. He's not even a "Time Ho." Whores get paid. He's a "Time Slut." Even gave it all away for next to nothing. Probably because he has low self esteem from years of settling for either paid sex, or bad sex, but I don't know his personal history. Or it could also be that now that he's older, he t…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 10:52 PM
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Regarding #3, you just GOTTA quote the Showgirls line about going to see Caesar sing, and then we all sing.... lololol... I mean, "baby, what do you mean, I just sang to you, in fact, we performed a duet!"
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 07:52 PM
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Ha, you know, it's funny, but part of the reason I'm single was the never-ending quest to BECOME the Frankenchad, meaning I wanted to become good at everything, so therefore, I could never be dumped... lololol.... so dumb... But just look at what happens in Hollywood. Why, you could be Frankenchad, but then, a better Frankenchad exists, and another, and another... Yep, there's just no such thing as a risk-free absolute-victory life.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 07:49 PM
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The key to remember is, "impressive" according to whom? Society? Why was it so necessary for them to "achieve" as much as they have achieved? Might it be deep-rooted psychological insecurities derived from growing up in dysfunctional families? It's really a sad situation, that person works their ass off to "achieve," because in essence, they have grown up in a workaholic cult, and have been indoctrinated to "achieve," and then it makes them unmarriagable, because to cope with all the stress and …
/r/TheRedPill25/05/20 02:34 AM
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Sounds a bit like the heretical "feel good bullshit" and "just be yourself." I had that mindset for years. I held frame, etc. But the fact is, I dressed like a frigging bum. I would often fail to shave. I never got morbidly obese, but I would put on weight, then lose it. I wore raggedy ass clothes to the bone. Clothes that didn't fit well. Clothes from cheap retailers. I wanted to believe that I would be liked for myself, and I did have some female fans, but I had just played the fucking game, I…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 02:18 AM
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What's more important: his NFL career, or the fact that Giselle went shopping ALL day, and was too tired to ask the live-in maid to unload the dishwasher that one night, which meant she had to do it herself the next day, after she woke up at 10 a.m.?
/r/askTRP18/05/20 08:23 PM
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It's easy to say all this in hindsight, at the time, before WWII had bled the USSR dry, they were perceived as a credible threat, because they were the product of a successful revolution that had toppled an incumbent aristocracy, and also because they had a vast amount of territory and resources to draw on. Also, during WWII, they demonstrated a fanatical ability to coerce their own people into extraordinary acts of self-sacrifice. The Germans may have had superior technology, but that didn't st…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/20 08:21 PM
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Why, all I see is a Peter Pan syndrome suffering man-child afraid of real commitment, from a strong, independent wymAn his EXACT age, with 3 PhDs and $400,000.00 USD in Ivy League student loan debt! I mean, doesn't he want a challenge from an "equal"? When will he stop being a pedophile and molesting these children?
/r/askTRP17/05/20 01:58 AM
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Yep, it's only a matter of time before he is sitting in the corner, tearfully watching his wife having sex with her new boyfriends. : ) I bet she totally gets off on beta-izing such a macho-seeming dude. Okay, I actually read the article. From what I gathered, it MAY not be THAT sinister. A man SHOULD spend time with his family and take care of them, and that's according to Don Corleone.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 01:55 AM
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Well..... that's quite a can of worms. TLDR; The United States and the Western powers were most afraid of the USSR because of its supposed adoption of a communist, or state capitalist ideology, which meant no private ownership, which threatened all the interests of the billionaires and millionaires in the United States, as well as the hereditary aristocracies in Europe that had transmuted themselves into capitalist dynasties to maintain their power and privilege without resorting to the old con …
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 12:18 AM
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I mean, if you're stuck there, you can always use it as hard mode practice. I think the mistake men make is letting the rejection get to them without understanding the context. Some guys take it personally without realize the odds are heavily stacked against them when they still haven't even reached their potential. It's probably best to go somewhere where there are better odds.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/20 04:27 AM
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Jeez, have people forgotten that one already? Now I really feel old.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/20 04:26 AM
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Ha, yep. A lot of Russian men, for whatever reason, have self-destructed with macho alcoholism, and therefore rendered themselves unmarriagable, or even dangerous to be around. It's like what I wrote above about the supply and demand situation. Russian women are stuck with a shit supply with a lot of bad quality, just like American men! Lolololol. My Russian ex-gf had ZERO interest in Russian men. They were socially awkward, according to her. Shrug.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 11:29 PM
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What do you think men who go to 12 years of school, then 4 years of college or more, just so they can get a credential that MIGHT get them a high-paying job are doing? They are angling to purchase themselves a wife, with lifestyle and status as the coin. What about the guy that lifts and self-improves, etc? Same thing. It's more or less the same coin: hard work. Just imagine if a bunch of guys all just committed suicide, and there were like 10 women for every guy. Lots of women would become lesb…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 11:26 PM
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Not just the social proof, but the showing up late, and everyone greeting him, and being extra lovey dovey because they were already drunk, acted as a force multiplier, making him look cooler than he actually was. He looked the part, but didn't feel the part, due to his upbringing, but by showing up late, suddenly, everyone lavished attention on him, and the girls picked up on it, and assumed he was royalty. It's funny, looking back at college, I can remember this happening, where I would show u…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/20 02:43 AM
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I think you are dead on the money, unfortunately. As a recovering "lone wolf" idealist, I realize now, that it is as naive and foolish to think that women aren't attracted to the "lifestyle" we project as we are to their perceived youth and beauty. I mean, despite what some guys claim, almost all of us want a woman who at least appears young and beautiful. Nobody on here is complaining that they can't fuck morbidly obese, foul-smelling 2's and 3's, or that granny won't put out. Likewise, women w…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 12:39 AM
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Well, it looks like you got a psycho. Learn to spot the signs, and don't ever commit to one. Avoid, avoid, avoid. If she's trying to convince you that you are mentally ill: red flag. Bullies you about privacy: red flag. It's also a projection. She's thinking that since she's not trustworthy, or because some other guy wasn't, you must be as well. Smears you: giant monster red flag. Physical violence: that's it, over done. Especially with a weapon of some kind, even if improvised. It starts with s…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 03:20 AM
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It's funny though, because sometimes it SEEMS like they don't, but if you aren't getting results, you HAVE to do something different. Some guys who get laid a lot, appeared VERY ugly to me, but they were compensating in other ways: posture, social proof, social manipulation, putting in a lot of effort. Meanwhile, other guys that didn't have those things going, but were of equal looks, would get ignored. I, on the other hand, looked good, but was socially awkward, so I was always obsessed with th…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/20 10:06 PM
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I think that's probably the plan, to fuck the stock market and the economy.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/20 02:32 AM
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To reverse it, a guy who gives away his time very easily to women he's not having sex with would be a crummy key, because he's not opening any locks.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/20 10:16 PM
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Eh.... So, you were intimidated because she's accomplished. And so, you DQ'd yourself, and she picked up on it. She probably gets that a lot. I mean, if she were really that great, would she be single? Why is she doing all of those activities, especially when other girls aren't? Is it really because she is so superior? Or is it because somebody, somewhere along the line, implanted a deep insecurity in her with the object of driving her to achieve. Maybe it was her father, who wanted a son. Maybe…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/20 10:15 PM
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"Either they find a husband while still in their prime age, or else, they will soon end up in a desperate situation." This was conventional wisdom for millennia. It was unheard of for women to NOT get married past the age of 22. Longer than that and they were headed for spinsterhood. The last few decades have been one massive GASLIGHT, in the name of economic exploitation and population control. This means that women have been told the OPPOSITE of truth. When you think about it, the modern era i…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/20 01:50 AM
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"I’m a handsome and successful guy..." Does not compute with... "I stupidly got involved in her argument with her and her ex husband...." Why are you dating used merchandise? I dated a divorcee... when I was broke AF. It was almost certainly a HUGE mistake, in that I set the bar super low because I had super low, rock-bottom self-esteem at the time. So, don't bother with divorcees. There are plenty of thirsty guys who will be happy to claim them. Think about it: she wore an oath before a god, an…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 02:54 AM
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See also: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=92gOxUztxus
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 02:50 AM
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"Society and some stupid bitches eventually got to her...." Who was she going to believe? Them and their words, or her lying feels and vagina tingles?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/20 03:30 PM
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This is just more repackaged TRP dogma though. It IS a dogma. It is a useful counter to the TBP dogma we all received in school, the media, and through other brainwashing media, but it is no substitute for critical thought. I know for a fact that there are women who "love" men. Usually, they love the "wrong" men who don't love them back. Some aloof alpha who plows them good, but is uncontrollable and screws other women. They love these men because since they are aloof and non-invested, they can …
/r/TheRedPill24/04/20 01:11 AM
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Leader of what, exactly? Other people? That requires a huge time commitment and level of responsibility. And why are you doing it, exactly? Because you enjoy it? Because you find it meaningful? Or are you doing it to live up to some model of what a "real" man is. One can have "influence" without being in an overt leadership slot. Ultimately, it is for the individual to decide what role they will try to play in life.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 03:13 AM
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The Sicilian mafia acquired a fair amount of power in the United States, from the 1880s to the 1970s. However, they came under increasing scrutiny by the federal government, probably at the behest of other ethnic groups who feared their growing power. A LOT of films were made about the Italian mafia, to the point that the general public, that is those that watch TV and films know terms like "Omerta," "button-man," "a friend of a friend" "caporegime," etc. Of course, every ethnic group, or rather…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 03:12 AM
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Most of the conspiracy theories that pin it on this or that ethnic group, are funded by people looking to distract from the very obvious fact that it is the super-rich, who are composed of people from many different ethnic backgrounds, who have most of the power, and their technocrat managerial caste that works for them, who also have a fair amount of power. The super-rich control most of the wealth, even though they number in the hundreds of thousands, and they pay the technocrats to manage thi…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/20 03:48 AM
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"Most people would have issues with a 45 year old guy dating a 20 year old woman. Society absolutely hates this. It's bad because he's so much older, and she's being manipulated, and he has too much power over her, she's not safe with him, and, and, and it just feels wrong!. The first is that on a consensual relationship, none of those are facts. She's not being manipulated. Being safe would still be an issue if she dated someone her age as well, psychopaths don't have an age limit. But if you t…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/20 04:21 PM
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She probably got resentful that she was just being used for sex without a marriage proposal, so she kept her options open, and found another dude on the sly, then once he was secured, she just abruptly left you as a punishment. However, you got the better end of the deal.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/20 06:47 PM
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You SHOULD encourage that. The more experience a young man gets, the better. It's not about "proving" anything though. I mean, a lot of guys have sex with young, pretty women because they want to brag, get validated, get approval, etc. It is true, that they are what we are after from an evolutionary point of view, but eventually, they all become old hags anyway. Also, some guys cheat because they think they won't or they can't enjoy sex with an older women, or because the media has made them ver…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/20 06:37 PM
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I just came here to post that I did the smart thing and successfully seduced a 95 year old. Now I live in a mansion with a harem of 18-22 year olds. Oh wait, no I didn't. Fuck, I'm so dumb. ; ) On the other hand, there is that episode of Nip/Tuck where the old hag's sugar baby dies from sex with her before he can inherit her money, because she has a high sex drive. Now THERE was a show that dished out some red pills.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/20 06:28 PM
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No, they are illegal, because there is more profit in making them that way, and society and it's morals disapprove of push-button pleasure, and want to disincentivize and punish people who pursue it in a number of ways. The government is a silent partner in all criminal organizations, because it taxes ALL businesses, even illegitimate ones, as well as legitimate ones that are acting as money launderers for illegal enterprises. This is literally the government's "nudge nudge" "wink wink" to all c…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/20 05:53 PM
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Yep. I actually thought I was being alarmist stocking up on dry goods weeks in advance. Then I saw the first day or two of panic and what it did to the meat section at the local grocery store. So I ordered a chest freezer, and was lucky enough to get one within a few days. I managed to get some meat in there, in vacuum seal bags, so I'm pretty good on food. I even bought seeds for some indoor urban gardening. Hopefully the situation improves, but to me, it seems mostly artificial, and I think th…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 11:15 PM
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That's the thing, society DOESN'T have to collapse. They are literally stopping vast swathes of the economy on a dime BECAUSE, in theory, they can't accept ANY fatalities from the virus, even though it is inevitable. What if we lived in a society that was willing to let whoever gets infected from something like COVID, just die? I'm not saying that we would want such a society. Obviously, we would want to save as many people as we can. However, the hysteria is actually going to hurt and kill a lo…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 11:11 PM
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Ha, someone finally wrote about the COVID situation. Several things, I can say about it: It's probably a giant scam! Take a look at the stock market and the trading activity, and how it coincided with government officials reassurances, CEO resignations, billionaires shorting and dumping long positions, and the coordination of the scare headlines with the stock market crashing headlines. Next, take a look at the number regarding pneumonia deaths, the efficacy of the tests, the ages of most of the…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 08:35 PM
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I was in full-blown Will Ferrell-charachter levels of obliviousness because the crazy-girl sex was just THAT good. I did know enough not to marry her, and I got out after about a year of trying to "tame" or "fix" her.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 02:39 AM
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Can confirm. My psycho ex would try to fatten me up with food while simultaneously shaming me for not having a six-pack. It was pretty transparent, and I rolled my eyes at most of it, but her bringing in lots of carbs when I have health issues with them was a monster red flag.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/20 05:43 PM
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Now that I would be interested in, but there are, of course, many paths to self-development. Yeah, for me, I did some martial arts, and it was great when I was bigger than the people I was sparring with, and sucky when I was smaller than them. Feeling your brain rattle around in your skull is quite the wake-up call.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/20 05:02 PM
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Eh, there are thousands of them, and any small band of computer programmers can introduce a new competitor at any time. Also, you are underestimating the coercive and destructive power of the government, which has hundreds of thousands of trained professionals that are now monitoring crypto. They are building dossiers on all the crypto players, probably to some extent, at the behest of other crypto players not looking to be defeated by upstart competitors, but also in part by people fearful of c…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/20 05:00 PM
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All that crypto stuff is for the benefit of a small number of technophiles and criminals. Everyone else is just trying to ride on that wave. It was marketed as an act of defiance against the evil fiat currency, but the government just shrugs and taxes capital gains made from it. It fluctuates too much to be useful as a means of exchange. They tried to sell it as such. Maybe eventually, one of them will be idiot-proofed into a workable alternative, but without the backing of a court system, and i…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 11:05 PM
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I was watching something on Youtube called "Street Beefs," where amateurs fight each other, presumably chump change. You know who the REAL alphas are? The people making money off of this before it gets shut down. On it, I watched this scrawny kid who had won several fights rather impressively matched against someone twice his size, and then get picked up and slammed into the ground in such a way that he landed on his neck. Since he's a young man, he was only stunned by the blow. But, years from …
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 11:05 PM
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Did you lose like a winner, or like a loser though. Meaning did you go at the guy with a fury, but you still got bested, but at least you stood up for yourself, or did he whoop your ass until you cried like a bitch? Also, did they see the fight? You refer to the referee as self-proclaimed. What did it mean to actually lose? Did the guy land more punches? Were you bleeding and he wasn't? My actual point was to debunk physical fighting as somehow being the most "alpha" thing a man can pursue. In m…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 09:23 PM
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"No better a glimpse of defiant masculinity than the combat sports fighter." Sorry, but no. You're thinking of the WINNERS, not the majority that LOSE. Women are attracted to the men that do combat sports IF they win. But they also have to WIN in other ways too, by not being psycho, by not being drug addicts, by not getting punked and financially exploited by their managers and promoters. Someone posted awhile ago about a woman who was turned off when she saw her BF or ex-BF lose a fight. Even t…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 01:23 AM
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Ha, I see an old guy with a younger woman, and I think "Good for him, I wanna be like him when I grow up."
/r/TheRedPill21/03/20 12:02 AM
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This is an academy award-winning post that should be side-barred and platinumed
/r/TheRedPill20/03/20 11:57 PM
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Finally! Someone who gets it.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 11:52 PM
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they must be pissed over at /mensrights
/r/askTRP20/03/20 11:52 PM
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Does this mean that Mr. Slave from South Park ISN'T alpha even though he 1.) doesn't give a fuck, 2.) is passionate about his hobbies, 3.) doesn't worry about women or what they think, and 4.) goes his own way?????
/r/askTRP20/03/20 11:51 PM
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It sounds like you are projecting your own experience onto me. As for the "guys think any sex is good..." that's just straight up delusional. I'm assuming you're a woman, and that you probably have had a bunch of bad sex that YOU didn't enjoy, but the guy was using you like a piece of meat, and this traumatized you, so you now have a false belief that you are taking to be ultimate reality. You assume because things appear to be true from your limited experience, that they are true for all women,…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/20 07:37 PM
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Nah, I know what's up. "Most of the sex people have isn't that good." Sounds like you've been having mostly bad sex. I've had bad sex. That's where I had to think about who I REALLY wanted to fuck in order to come. Then I have had mediocre sex, where it was enjoyable, but there was not much of an emotional connection. And then I've had amazing sex, where there was a strong emotional connection on both ends. Also, who says they need to "say" the sex is good "verbally?" I have been with a panoply …
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 12:49 AM
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You sound pretty clueless. It's pretty well documented that women can have clitoral and/or vaginal orgasms, as well as orgasms induced from anal sex, depending on how they are wired. It's also been my own personal experience that if women enjoy sex with you, they stick around. If they don't enjoy sex, then they leave very quickly. It also goes for men too. Maybe you have never had sex? Or maybe you've never had enough sexual partners. Or maybe you never had an orgasm? I understand that many wome…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 10:05 PM
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He removed the post. But I've often seen men say, "Women don't like sex like men do!" or "Men exchange provisioning for sex!" As if women don't enjoy sex, when their sexual appetites are insatiable. Most of the women I've know like to have sex. I've known exactly one prude out of the dozens I hooked up with over the years.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 02:24 PM
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Ah, this old canard again. "They don't like sex..." Dude, they are MULTI-ORGASMIC. They can have orgasm, after orgasm, after orgasm, after orgasm, after orgasm. I once heard of a woman who was part of some sex cult where a bunch of guys would get together and give her a 30 minute orgasm every morning. 30 minutes of orgasmic bliss. One of my ex-girlfriends still complains about missing one of her ex-boyfriend's dick. (Sadly, it wasn't mine. LOL!) She doesn't even care about him. The dude was a ma…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 12:51 PM
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There is NOTHING new under the sun. This kind of flaky behavior has been discussed ad nauseum. You also stated that you are not really a "redpiller..." but here you are posting on TRP asking a very basic question about female behavior that you could have read the sidebar for. Anyway, I'm assuming you are after younger, attractive women, and not, say hags. You are just one of a legion of men who are soliciting them. You don't stand out. You can increase your value, increase the value of your offe…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 12:48 PM
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Haha, yes, indifference. I figured out in my teens that it worked better than eagerness, but like you say, it's not substitute for running game. But for awhile, I would try to indifference my way into girls panties. Occasionally though, they will literally DO all the work for you. Very rarely thought. It depends on your perceived value and your exposure. And then you get to know what it's like to be a HB10, where suddenly, there's this person who wants to fuck you, but you just don't care that m…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/20 08:30 PM
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Well, I have done similar things, but then I found that I spent an inordinate amount of time in many cases. On the other hand, being careless in purchases can also waste time, because then you have to go back and buy a better version of what you failed to buy correctly the first time.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/20 12:07 AM
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Well, you saved money.... but you spent extra time, and while you can trade your way to more money, you can't obtain more time very easily, aside from trying to live as healthy as possible, which only buys you a limited amount of time. Of course, maybe the elites will roll out "Immortality," for astronomical prices, in which cases everyone will be taking out massive debt to buy themselves unlimited life, which of course, they'll have to work for centuries to pay off. This is actually just part o…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 12:49 AM
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This guy is trying to have it both ways. He is clearly familiar with the TRP, as he uses some of the terminology, i.e. "captain / first-mate" dynamic, the use of "dread-game," not wanting to get get married, etc. However, what did he think would happen? And why does he care so much? I mean, the girl wanted to get married, she told him as much, and on multiple occasion. She tried different tactics to get him to budge, but nothing worked. He held all the cards, or so he thought. The only card he d…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/20 04:57 AM
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It's very interesting to me that you are blaming yourself for her lack of interest, and that you are feeling shame, when you should really just shrug, because that's the way it goes sometimes. What if she just wasn't that into you, and some other dude came along that she was more into? What does that have to do with you? You could be a RP master millionaire with chiseled physique and 9 inch dick, and they could still just be not that into you. It happens ALL the time. I'm sure you've had attract…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/20 10:50 PM
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"You don't want to be that guy..." "You don't want to lie about it..." Then don't do it. "I'm touch starved." Take up social dancing. You will get plenty of touch there. You may meet some women who are interested in you. In any case, it will demystify women somewhat. Also, it is VERY typical for young men to put pussy on the pedestal, especially if they are virgins. You are young, you are inexperienced, your hormones are raging, you are inexperienced with dealing with that, you are surrounded by…
/r/askTRP05/03/20 06:48 PM
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That assumes it is done in a ham-handed, scornful way. If two people are dating and enjoying each other's company and leave each experience together feeling positive and good about themselves, and if no overt, explicit lies are told, it would be unlikely that such a thing would happen.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/20 04:29 PM
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This is pretty much how it has always been throughout history, with a few exceptional periods. In any case, the rich usually do well in the getting laid department, either paying for it one way, or another. I mean, if you are rich dude, you can pay them to leave, or you can just attract and string along gold-diggers that you throw crumbs to.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/20 03:40 PM
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Speaking of blue pills, women like Mandy are essentially, blue pill women. Delusional, hoodwinked, sold on a lie about what life should be, divorced from reality. Reading the blurb evokes a sense of a woman who was probably neglected by the people entrusted to raise her, or else why is she a sexaholic and an alcoholic lacking in any self-awareness?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 06:27 PM
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I like the tagline: Carrie Bradshaw, but with an alcohol addiction and a sex addiction. But wait, wasn't Bradshaw an alcoholic AND a sexaholic? That was the whole premise of the show.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 06:05 PM
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Well, another thing is that attractive older women are attractive because the took care of themselves, which signals superior character and ability. I know women in their sixties who look amazing, and that is attractive because you are impressed by the amount of work and discipline it took to hold on to their figures. All the years of eating right, getting enough sleep, using the right beauty products, exercising, and not engaging in vice. But you're still not going to run off with them if you y…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 05:50 PM
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You're making a false comparison because you're comparing apex women with some average hot girl. Also, if that were true, why are so many apex women over 30 single, or struggling to find a man that will commit, hmmmm??? They want apex men, but the apex men want apex women who are 10-20 years younger than them. Many of them have to come to terms with making some sort of trade-off. A better comparison would be: Shakira at 30-40 vs Shakira at 18-25, who would men prefer? Another thing is that apex …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 05:48 PM
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Why, that's not true! You can also be extremely wealthy! Just ask Doris Duke. She never lacked for dick.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 05:42 PM
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Yeah, but when we browse TRP posts, we don't ever read, "How can I attract a strong independent wymyn with 3 PhDs???" it's, how can I seduce the barely literate (but attractive, fertile, and nubile) 18 year old HB10 bar-tender / barrista / restaurant hostess / college co-ed. Women draw their SMV from their youth, beauty, and fertility.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 05:40 PM
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Lol, no negs allowed, but she can neg you all she wants because its her sharp sense of humor.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 05:37 PM
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The web formatting on the "old" reddit is FAR superior to the new formatting, which is a big barrel of dog-shit. I imagine that some authoritarian billionaires planted a few moles in reddit with the idea of sabotaging it by fucking with the layout, amongst other things, like endlessly banning people and deleting content, shadow-banning, etc. I mean, why is that even necessary, when there are other, more democratic solutions like having individual users hide content they don't like if they don't …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 05:32 PM
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You can build something wonderful, but if you don't know how to persuade a busy, inundated, stressed out, resource-scarce person to buy it, it will just decay into dust. Just because something has inherent value doesn't mean people will buy it. Especially if some slick salespeople have already convinced them that something of inferior value is what they should be putting their time, energy, money, and other resources into. Why is it that the vast majority of the population works shit jobs, drink…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 02:17 PM
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In their case, it seems like a lot of their "experiments" were actually exercises in sadism and terrorism, the frostbite one in particular. How long has that phenomenon been around that they would deem it necessary to test it on live humans? So it goes.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/20 04:08 AM
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Redpill will NEVER be taught at school, at least not directly. Too much profit in creating a bluepilled slave caste.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/20 03:15 AM
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Germ warfare has been with humanity for centuries, or even millennia. Small-pox blankets, plague-ridden corpses catapulted into cities and castles under siege, and the propagation of scientific ignorance about what was possible at the time as a cover for these dastardly tactics.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/20 10:30 PM
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See also, Scruton's Iron Law of Oligarchy. I mean, without lieutenants, minions, ministers, advisers, a king cannot effectively govern. In a best case scenario, a king is strong, intelligent, charismatic, cunning, and beloved by his court, so that he can easily persuade them to do his bidding with minimal resistance. But this is a recurring historical pattern. Which is why I find the "return of kings" concept a bit ironic, given all the shit they have to go through to be king. In one example, th…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/20 07:18 AM
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One thing to look out for: She'll assume that you are cheating, or will cheat, or maybe even leave you, and then will use that to hamster preemptively cheating on you.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/20 04:35 AM
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According to The Golden Bough, back in the good old days, if you were the king, you could be ritually murdered or pushed to commit ritual suicide if you showed the slightest sign of aging or infirmity. One warning sign was if you failed to sexually satisfy all of your wives. If one or more of them complained to the priesthood, that was it for you. The killing of the king before he could get old and weak was a wide-spread practice in antiquity up until fairly recently. So much for the "power" of …
/r/TheRedPill20/02/20 04:31 AM
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I think that the real reason guys hate sharing is the possibility of getting cucked, where they wind up unknowingly raising another man's kid. That has been the reason for the historical obsession with virginity, as well as practices of guarding harems. With regard to a woman, this simply isn't a possibility. Her worst-case scenario is a man having to divide his time and energy more thinly to other women.... but that also increases his value, because the other women's demand validates him as hig…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/20 04:29 AM
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Luck? More like karma. Do you realize how many people were influenced by that show in terms of behavior? Those women were practically role models when I went to college.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/20 05:19 AM
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I feel like Quee-ann and her closed legs could turn into a meme. The guys looks and sounds like he could be an extra in a Mad Max movie. Hell, he could be the star of an indy film.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/20 05:42 AM
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Lol. You're not the only one. I think part of it is having these neural subroutines to "simplify" things. Some of them are: -1. Don't hit on women where you work. Okay, this makes sense. Don't mix business and pleasure. Except, that for thousands of years, men did just that. Also, the alphas at the apex of society ALWAYS do it. Because they are rich and own everything. They can shrug off lawsuits, legit or otherwise. Also, women throw themselves at them. Not shitting wear you eat is mostly for u…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/20 03:23 AM
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Read like some mediocre fanfic. “How did he just break me so easily?” I'm having a hard time imagining it was said just like that, in front of the narrator. As a recovering arguer, I can list several reasons why people argue: They are modeling what they see other people do, who are in turn modeling other people, and on and on.... so... They are modeling the media: lawyer shows are VERY popular, in their various guises. People argue on "talk" shows, on "news" shows. One might even "argue" that ev…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/20 10:12 PM
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So then, once they get the land, her pre-existing kids and lover on the side-lines move in, or if she's young, she starts another family with another dude more to her liking. Yeah, I've seen shows where they make some of these guys, especially if they are affluent white males, out to be controlling. But when you look at it from a biology standpoint, it's a freaking chess-game / war, and the guys are disillusioned and taking measures to protect themselves. Also, all the western women, especially …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/20 09:15 AM
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Here is some comedy gold of an Australian guy who married a Chinese woman. I don't know what happened to the original Youtube channel, but this one video is infinitely quotable: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SduT8jclOro Basically, Qui-Ahn is always lying in bed, looking on her phone, keeping her leg closed, and financially exploiting her husband. Edit: I found it! https://www.youtube.com/user/maskmaker3977/videos It's actually interesting, because he has earlier videos where things SEEM (to hi…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/20 08:55 AM
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That's because you always know who your mother is. Or at least, that's how it was in the past. You could always be certain of female lineage. Male lineage, not so much. DNA tests change things... unless they are criminalized.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/20 08:47 AM
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I guess you haven't seen those relatively new documentaries on skyrocketing obesity in the Middle East due to the export of American Fast Frankenphood Franchises: Kuwait - 2 years ago... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WyMTSvVAtWM Saudi Arabia - 5 years ago.... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nug7MD2UG1k UAE - 5 years ago... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B0tEei5yOFA Qatar - 4 years ago... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bwUu09-hNt4 Egypt - 3 years ago... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9SeXbvq…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/20 08:42 AM
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Yeah, there's a lot of that floating around, unfortunately.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/20 05:16 AM
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He probably just misspelled artist.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/20 10:57 AM
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Yeah, really, initially they attack her.... but then, they confirm TRP when they start saying stuff like "maybe she LIKES her husband..." and "oh btw, he runs a mixed martial arts gym." Wife had 4 kids and still looks pretty good, even with the make-up caked on. Also, the wife is functioning as the husband's personal assistant, in addition to being the caregiver of the children. If she were a moderately to highly paid executive assistant for an executive at a corporation, nobody would say jack s…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/20 08:23 PM
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Less is more in these types of situations. Of course, a lot of people watch media and take their cues from witty, rambling retorts of neurotic characters. However, if one digs into a lot of literature on the subject, ranging from psychology, to history, to religious texts, talking too much is counterproductive. Of course, NOT talking, with the wrong body language can also be counterproductive. However, once you understand what is going on in various situations, you are no longer rattled by peopl…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/20 07:55 PM
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That's because you were.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/20 06:24 AM
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Mine is shitting out delicious icing frosted cupcakes with sprinkles! Is YOURS?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/20 11:53 PM
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Nobody dares to speak to her in front of him, maybe, especially if he's all scowly, but as soon as they are apart, she's going to get hit on: at the grocery store, at the bus-stop, walking around in the mall. Also, guys will be hitting on her through the computer and the phone. Some of those guys are even going to be equal to, or better than her boyfriend.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 04:39 PM
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This is akin to you being a wealthy man, dating a HB9-10, but then getting tired of her whiny, bitchy, illiterate ways, and her coke habit, dumping her, and then her being surprised when her "friends" all start coming on to you. HB 6-10s, by definition, are desirable, because they are above average. So, there will be a surplus of demand if it is perceived that supply is suddenly available. This is especially true for HB 8-10. They are a small minority of women. Young, fertile, attractive, in sha…
/r/askTRP29/01/20 04:37 PM
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Well, good luck, I hope the situation improves.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 04:25 PM
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Stress definitely plays a role. Also, I forgot mention, anti-microbial cleaners can play a role because they weaken your own immune system if used all the time, instead of tactically at key points, like an infected cut that won't heal. Also, the constant use of cleaners can irritate your skin. However, lots of dirt can also be bad. It's really a balancing act. Also, with regard to allergies, there's a lot of cross contamination. You might try investing in air purifiers in your residence, as well…
/r/askTRP29/01/20 02:42 AM
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You gave us no real information. You diet "is not as bad as others...." That sounds like some sort of weaseling to me. You know what plays a role in acne? EVERYTHING. Therefore you must look at all the variables and start assessing whether you need to make changes, then make them, and then stick to them. For instance: Do you drink 8 glasses of water a day? (DO) Do you get 8 hours of sleep a night? (DO) Do you drink alcohol or use drugs? (DON'T.) Do you change your sheets regularly? (DO). Do you …
/r/askTRP28/01/20 05:05 PM
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I can't believe this is the top fucking comment on here. I would have KILLED to have had some proper guidance from my father at ANY age. REAL guidance, not the limp-dick, wishy-washy, "what if I make a mistake and screw him up by actually parenting, oh I'll just let the school handle it, that's what they are there for" laissez-faire non-guidance that I got. You know what I needed him to tell me? Lift weights / Resistance Training or else... I needed him to tell me what Teddy Roosevelt's parents …
/r/askTRP28/01/20 05:01 PM
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I can't believe this is the top fucking comment on here. I would have KILLED to have had some proper guidance from my father at ANY age. REAL guidance, not the limp-dick, wishy-washy, "what if I make a mistake and screw him up by actually parenting, oh I'll just let the school handle it, that's what they are there for" laissez-faire non-guidance that I got. You know what I needed him to tell me? Lift weights / Resistance Training or else... I needed him to tell me what Teddy Roosevelt's parents …
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:59 PM
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You forgot, "Oh no, what should I do!!??! She's sprawled out on the bed! She's giving me this come-hither stare! She's completely naked! She just signed a 50 page consent form for sex! She's pointing directly at her vagina! WHAT SHOULD I DO!"
/r/TheRedPill24/01/20 01:48 AM
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By traditional family, I mean, two parents work together to raise children with the assistance of the extended family. Marriage is a separate thing. It's a legal construct designed to enable resource distributions for various outcomes, like untimely death, divorce, etc. Also, the purpose of the "other" women is to make the main one "act right." What can make this difficult is that all the bitter beta crabs in the bucket married to castrating shrews will create a cacophonous chorus that you are a…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 10:57 PM
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They found alcohol and cocaine in his system. Also, he was on an "anti-depressants." If you're going to take "anti-depressants," which, like the brain, are a black box, you better not be drinking alcohol, let alone cocaine. The brain is a complex pile of variables, so tinkering with it with these substances is very dangerous, especially when LIFE is already tinkering it through the media of stressors and emotions. People literally think they are entitle to feel high and happy all the time, and t…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 03:33 PM
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Right, but then it's not an "LTR" or "relationship" or whatever, it's just some woman you are having sex with, which is fine too. OP was the under the assumption that person is trying to have some sort of traditional family.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 02:51 PM
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Eh, the whole dread game can just as easily be used to justify her infidelity. "You have all those women that you are fucking on the side, or are 'friends' with! Why can't I have 'friends'??? You're controlling!!!" I would say that it should be made clear to any LTR, that you both are free to leave at any time, because it's TRUE. If you elect to have children with an LTR, well you still don't have to marry her. If you elect to do a marriage ceremony as a reward for many years of loyal service, y…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 02:34 AM
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Find something wholesome to get addicted to: exercise, singing, dancing, programming, learning a language, etc.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 07:59 AM
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I think it depends on the culture. In some areas, everyone is on these apps. However, "everyone" may mean all the proles. High status people have more money to spend on screening out proles trying to insinuate themselves in. So they would use expensive apps and services, not that they would necessarily get better results in the end, as some people view the extra expense as an "investment." I mean, if you spent $5,000 a year on dating app for wealthier people, and it led to you marrying a boss's …
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 03:35 AM
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Dude is actually 45, I thought. At least that's what it says on his blog. Edit: no wait, that's Rivelino, the blog owner.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/20 12:00 AM
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If you are getting them more IRL than online, it doesn't necessarily mean that you are "better" with them, but merely that they are more easily able to qualify you as a person of value. So, for instance, you post a profile online, but not wanting to attract gold-diggers, you down-play your income, life-style, status, because you want them to like you for you. Not wanting to spend money on professional grade photos, you put up some random pictures that aren't too flattering. Not wanting to divulg…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/20 11:59 PM
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Well, school is designed to churn out obedient workers, not original thinkers, or, at least that's how it was when I was a lad. You're basically rewarded for conforming to what they want, and punished when you don't, regardless of your intelligence or abilities. And they try to create a monopoly around who is defined as having or not having ability.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/20 09:50 PM
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I think it comes from the school system, where you are punished for making mistakes to the point that you become afraid of making them, even though making mistakes is how you test reality and learn.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/20 08:46 PM
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Yeah, I've seen this happen many times before. I was subject to it, and people I know were subject to it. That's the great thing about the Internet though, is that it breaks through the atomization process of modern society, and you can start connecting dots to figure out what is fucked up in your life and why. It's not just women that do this though. You can have toxic male friends that shit on you. The key thing is to remember that it comes from a place of insecurity, and that you can't let it…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/20 07:40 PM
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Probably. They like the lifestyle. Also, the abuse is about control. You're so much better than her, but if you realize that, you'll leave her, so she has to belittle you to keep you off balance and make you think that the two of you are "equals." She can't accept that you might be fine being superior to her as a benevolent dictator. Also, society feeds her with brainwashing that this inequality is tantamount to slavery, and gives her scripts to throw at you. She didn't want you to leave because…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/20 02:46 PM
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It sounds like she has some sort of undiagnosed personality disorder, or, nobody taught her how to behave around men. People mostly learn how to behave from role models, and what do we see on TV? People arguing and cutting each other down. A reflection of reality, or something else? It's hard to unite with people who reflexively shit on you because they think it's the "cool" thing to do. It's entertaining to watch, sure, which is why they put it on TV, but now, people model that behavior as "nor…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/20 09:11 PM
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They fuck losers to piss off the winners, or because they are bored with the winners.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/20 11:26 PM
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Ah, you beat me to it.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 10:27 PM
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That's a feature, not a bug.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 03:22 AM
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Ha, I have historically been VERY guilty of this. However, another I would say is, that, you see all kinds of women that are cute walking around, but a lot of the time, there is this internal inertia, that just says "Meh," out of habit. It's an issue of qualification, I think, that is symptomatic of living in an atomized society with barriers of entry to meeting people, where if you want to meet people, you have to join groups of some kind, or be accepted into them. That's why women dread unsoli…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/20 07:19 PM
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I think what is insidious, is that "trying" is often perceived as a sign of weakness and lack of abundance, as in, you're perceived as some interloper, because they themselves are "trying" to get noticed by some high value guy, and here you are, interrupting them by coming over as an UNKNOWN "random," whom they have not yet qualified as being high value, and so they have the anxiety of wondering what your worth is, and what your intentions are. So, that, I think is what leads to the inaction, wh…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/20 11:55 PM
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Lol, "BDSM..." what a joke. In which, the supposedly "dominant" man caters to the depraved fantasies and whims of the supposedly "submissive" woman. You are literally back at the seddit level, being her dancing monkey if you do all that shit, UNLESS YOU actually enjoy it for its own sake, then fine, great. But still, it's a lot of work, at least in my opinion. Can't people just be satisfied with a nice good shag?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/20 10:40 PM
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Stupid? More like brainwashing. I've noticed a lot of feminist rhetorical talking points are tantamount to trying to convince men that they are better off if they do X for women or have a Y worldview regarding something that relates to women. So it's a form of salesmanship. That being said, theoretically, BOTH parties can prosper if the relationship is entered into with self-awareness and good faith. I have seen it happen with my own eyes. However, these days, it is more the exception than the r…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/20 11:28 PM
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It's not about the feels, it's about the understanding and the perspective, which CAN contribute to feeling better through the dissolution of uncertainty, but mostly it's about understanding what is worth pursuing, and what is worth ignoring. Happiness is not worth pursuing because it is transient.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/20 11:47 PM
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What do you think leads to a sense of wholeness or completeness? I have some theories... I think that you have to research the past to get a sense of where the species has been, and to get a sense of what your role is in life, and also what traps people have fallen into historically, and how they have gotten out, if at all. You also have to internalize the transience of life. And you have to look forward. You have to take care of yourself first before you can take care of other people. Travel ca…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 08:51 PM
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Eh, masturbation, is, uh, a double-edged sword. It can clear your mind of lustful thoughts, and it can keep your horniness in check so you don't wind up in the beds of any pig-ladies. But it can also lead to complacence and a lack of ambition.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 06:17 PM
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Peak experience overload through travel and over-consumption probably increase the likelihood of divorce down the road, where the routine of married life is perceived as stale in comparison to the thrill of the open road of yesteryear, along with all the random cocks that appeared along the way. And of course, tourism, air travel, and the food industry, as substitutes for actual political freedom. You have the freedom to travel and eat, but most places you go to are similar, or are in the proces…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 06:15 PM
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Harsh reality is harsh. I had a girl basically be jealous that I had a higher "body count" than her, and then use that as a pretext to try and "open up" the relationship. Next! It didn't matter that she was in an LTR for years, supposedly. It didn't matter that she had experienced a fair amount of deviant sexual practices. It didn't matter that she had allegedly had around 10 sexual partners, allegedly, LOL. It also didn't matter when I told that most of my experiences meant very little to me be…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 05:48 AM
1

You are qualifying yourself as an LTR material that they want to lock down, maybe. You are relatively high SMV and you have prospects, so when you send the comfort signals, they think they can LTR you, and then they will hook up with you thinking it will lead to something.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 05:14 PM
1

Well, this is a LOT of effort for a girl with lower SMV than yourself. I'm assuming that you're doing this to "prove" something to yourself: that you can successfully seduce a girl using TRP tactics. But what happens afterwards? You're probably going to get bored and move on, and you probably will have torpedoed her relationship with the guy that she is with, by essentially LYING to her by making her think that you will actually be her LTR if she leaves her present lower SMV LTR. Your assessment…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/19 04:21 PM
19

It sounds like you have figured out a lot already, but are maybe still processing just how much you have figured out, and are maybe not quite at the cusp at realizing it completely. When you live embedded in a "free" society where powerful actors create a semi-totalitarian society for the weak to cling to, you are constantly going to be surrounded by the spectacle, beckoning you, subtly trying to influence you. And yet you see it for what it is: a big fat carnival distraction racket, with carnie…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/19 02:08 PM
45

Heh. The thing is, in order to improve the lives of other people, you yourself must be a paragon of virtue, so that you have moral high ground. Even if you are "right" about something, people probably won't listen to you unless you appear "successful" because the mass media has brainwashed them to be seduced by images, and not be able to measure substance. So, by succeeding, you are actually potentially improving other people's lives by showing a path to success that they themselves can follow. …
/r/TheRedPill25/12/19 02:05 PM
2

The women are attracted to the freedom that money buys. Actual attraction to a wealthy man is a separate thing.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/19 06:29 PM
2

Of course. Better to be high value than low value.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/19 06:27 PM
96

The effort should go into yourself to become or maintain high value status in as many areas as possible, not towards trying to APPEAR to be high value by putting on an elaborate facade with no substance underneath.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 02:38 PM
4

Strength / muscle growth training with weights is one VERY small piece of the puzzle. The human body is complicated, with MANY moving parts. Some things to look into: isometric training, mobility training, primal movement training, static holds, parkour, martial arts, technique training, dance training, breath work, visualization, diet and nutrition, etc. Good luck!
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 02:33 PM
3

Well, I'm not saying you're wrong. But, there's a gap between what's on the books, what is enforceable, what actually gets enforced, and who gets caught. Also, you have selective enforcement. The number one rule for infidelity, in most cases, is don't get caught. We are in an era, though, where they are trying to sell cuckoldry as just another life choice, and where a woman can cuckold a man, throw it in his face, and receive no real punishment. So women today are less incentivized to keep it a …
/r/TheRedPill21/12/19 12:52 AM
1

I will be super-pissed if my descendants don't ancestor worship me! The ghosts in my cohort will constantly mock me for not having any descendants!
/r/TheRedPill20/12/19 06:32 AM
5

That's true, but the people who shouldn't reproduce, because they are animalistic dumb fucks, wind up predominating.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/19 06:31 AM
3

In theory, it was, but come on, corruption probably prevailed at certain points in time, just like how priests would be cucking the peasants on the sly when the wifey went to the confession booth.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/19 06:30 AM
8

Yeah, but you can't take your money with you when you die. You can leave it to relatives, I guess, but if nobody has children, there is no future. So, if you die childless, your money and life's work go to other people's children.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 11:10 PM
14

It's sold as a method of change to people who feel impotent and not in control of their lives. You work some shitty job, you have bills to pay, but in your private life, you can pretend like you have power over the universe to manifest desires that could just as easily been manifested using the scientific method. It's hilarious to me how many people in those circles profess to be able to control the supernatural.... but they cannot control things like their own basic hygiene habits or how many s…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 11:08 PM
1

Except that government officials, especially elected officials, perpetually accountable to an electorate, are the functional equivalent of middle management on the leadership scale. Real power is about understanding the laws of what is actually possible, as opposed to being held accountable by what is written down as a law. Since money buys or rents everything, those with the most money to buy the best advisors, and information gatherers, are the true leaders, with the most power. As has been sa…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 11:15 AM
15

I think, from reading history, that it's always been this way, except in extreme cases, where women are in a near panopticon of moral surveillance (supposedly the women were better behaved in the Germanic tribes of the ancient Roman period, because there was semi-egalitarian poverty, which eliminated a lot of hypergamous incentives, and because the men would all go off together, taking away most of the alpha chads) and even then there was still probably cheating (the chief and elders probably cr…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 10:06 AM
12

That's right... let the hate flow through you...
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 09:22 PM
-1

Ah, a nice walk down memory lane... : /
/r/TheRedPill12/12/19 02:28 PM
1

You are assuming facts not in evidence. He says he got the fetish from having a matriarchal family. Presumably he says this because he introspected as to why he had certain fantasies. Your statements about him assume that exposure to porn predates his real world arousal experiences. But we only have what he says about himself as evidence, and everything else is speculation. You can say porn is fantasy, but that assumes everything that happens on it is an "act," when in fact, what is more economi…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/19 02:22 PM
15

The dude at 4:01 specifically said that he was raised in a household of women, so was used to having women boss him around, and is currently aroused by it. That has NOTHING to do with porn. If anything, porn tells some truth about what some (but not all) women like in the bedroom. A lot of guys labor under the illusion that women like to be handled with kid gloves. But in fact, many enjoy a good, vigorous romp. They just want to get off. They don't want some romantic, soul-bonding experience, at…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 09:16 PM
2

Javol!
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 09:07 PM
36

You need to lift more. Also, you don't have enough drums. You need at least 40-50. Where are the multiple monitors and multi-colored backlit keyboard? Why aren't you driving the Batmobile? But in all seriousness, yes, material success can feel very empty. You already described your problem: lack of meaningful relationships. You don't feel connected to your family. You broke up with your girlfriend. Your friends moved away. You can try making new friends, getting another girlfriend, and reconnect…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 02:05 PM
1

If you cheat on a woman, the worst-case scenario for her aside from infecting her with an STD, is that you create a financial burden for yourself that affects benefits that could have gone to her. The worst-case scenario for a man, if the woman cheats on him, barring her infecting him with an STD, is 18+ years of indentured servitude to her and another man's child while thinking that it's his own. Absolute worst-case scenario: most of his life-time spent in servitude, and then he finds out it's …
/r/TheRedPill10/12/19 08:09 PM
3

Yeah, but he's not really a Jew, he's a self-interested, materialist, hedonist agnostic. It's like saying the Bush family is Christian, or the Saudis are Muslims. They just use those labels as protective coloration so they can have some fictive kinship. Being a Jew, meaning an observant Jew, is a full-time job.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/19 08:06 PM
11

;tldw It's worse when women cheat because it means they don't love the guy they are supposed to be monogamous to, or they view him with contempt, and they put the guy they are cheating with above their boyfriend/husband... ...whereas, it's male nature to cheat, and they still love their girlfriends/wives even after they cheat with whoever... Also, men feel no emotional connection when they have sex, nor do they seek it. That's his thesis anyway.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 02:32 AM
1

I mean, if it gets to this level of Machiavellian gamesmanship, what's the point? It's just an empty relationship of extraction. You're not really that into her, and she probably senses it, and maybe she's not into you. So it goes.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 02:22 PM
3

The irony is, he's a red pill exemplar story on the television, telling it like it is . . . but it's hidden in plain sight for some people. Rather than hating, that hater should have been taking notes. Gene Simmons: found a way to make money exploiting stupid fanboys; got rich, then used the money and the fame to attract sex; used the sex and abundance to attract a decent woman to mother his children; had two children who seemed to have turned out okay; kept getting richer; constantly displays a…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/19 02:56 AM
1

Yes, she will either believe that, or that you found someone better, or that you are being spiteful, or she won't care that much, because then some other guy will message her, and then she'll forget you existed. Since guys are so thirsty, they are constantly messaging women. Also, because they have lower social value until they "establish" themselves. Guys from wealthy families are viewed as "established," unless they are real fuck-ups, so women will tolerate more immature behavior from them. It…
/r/askTRP03/12/19 02:53 AM
1

But you are a high value man, relative to them, then. They see you as above them. That's why they are reaching out to you. They desire you and your time and energy. If you generate enough numbers of prospects, eventually they will convert into "sales," provided you are selling a good product. But a lot of guys don't do this. They get one-itis over a girl they aren't even on speaking terms with, let alone having sex with. So they waste time chasing cold leads, when they should really be out there…
/r/askTRP03/12/19 12:33 AM
2

Great post, BUT, all that being said, sometimes there just isn't a way to win in a particular situation... BUT, you can change your tactics and strategies to improve the odds, HOWEVER, too much of that stuff prevents you from getting out there and swinging your bat. Nobody bats 1.000. For instance, you go cold approach an attractive woman, and she acts like a complete bitch, maybe even attempting to humiliate you, was it really your approach, how you were dressed, what you said, your facial expr…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/19 12:19 AM
2

It sounds like you handled the shit-test fine. One thing to consider that I didn't see mentioned in the top comments thus far: You mentioned that you "get attention from other women" and she "knows it." To what extent might this be contributing to causing her behavior? I mean, it's one thing to be attracted to other people, it's another thing to mention it to one's lover / sex partner. It could be that you casually mentioned something, or maybe to instill a bit of dread, or maybe she saw somethi…
/r/askTRP02/12/19 11:59 PM
27

Haha, you're just saying that to be a dick.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 11:51 PM
13

Harsh reality is harsh. I always appreciate when people post a reality check like this.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 11:50 PM
1

Only block if, upon contemplation, you want zero contact with them because they are some sort of liability, as in, they could ruin your life. Otherwise, usually it's enough to just never reach out to people. You can also delete the contact information from your devices. If you do block someone, and they reach out to you, they of course, will be upset by the lack of response. But you're not even aware that this is happening. If someone does reach out to you and you want no contact with them, you …
/r/askTRP02/12/19 11:48 PM
0

Everything you say about women, the philosophers have been saying about humanity for millennia. They don't really want to be free. As soon as they get a taste of freedom, they run back into slavery of some kind. This is used as rationale for enslavement by oligarchic rulers: people are children, they like to be told what to do. Think of all the times you did what you were told because it was the "safe" choice. On the other hand, disobey enough, and you will get locked up because the authorities …
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 09:55 PM
1

Well, back when I was in college, there were a surplus of guys with chiseled physiques strutting around. So, initially, the women are excited about it, like when they come up from high school, but then it wears off, because it's ubiquitous. You got guys who were athletic in high school, in the prime of their life, who have plenty of free time to go to the gym. Some of them even know about nutrition too. But most of them aren't Chad. They don't have their own money to throw around. It's daddy's m…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 09:35 PM
3

But the best part is, they are literally telling her over and over again that there is no chance, no hope, because there are so many girls lined up to choose from, but she is completely not hearing that at all. Also, it's apparent that she was using them to extract something, and so they were doing the same.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 09:32 PM
14

Yep. There was a TV special on it. Trying to pay cold hard cash to a woman for sex not only is against the law in many jurisdictions, but it will also set you up for robbery, crudely disguised as vigilante justice, because you "deserve" it for being a scumbag who abuses women by paying them to have sex with you. And you will get zero sympathy because you are going outside the union labor of marriage, so regular women will have zero sympathy, and so will their husbands, who are making monthly ins…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 09:08 PM
3

Haters gonna hate.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 10:05 AM
11

I had to look that guy up. Yeah, he's not anywhere near a high value man. Women don't care as much about looks as they care about the total package. You have to have status, power, money, freedom, looks, skills, etc. If you are deficient in looks, but have the rest, they will, a lot of the time, rationalize away your lack of looks and see you with rose-colored glasses. Time and time I've heard women drone on about some ugly or average-looking guy . . . who just happens to be a powerful person or…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 09:01 AM
4

Haha! I think that even though he lifts and has decent looks, he's not what women consider to be a high-value man.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 08:53 AM
1

Right, for every "white" person at the top, there are 10 working an assembly line. Also, the definition of white is so vague, and every-shifting. Within the "white" group, there are all kinds of ethnic and sub-ethnic hatreds and rivalries. The whole thing is rather comical.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 04:18 AM
8

She wanted to be "close" to the creativity. Lol.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 03:40 AM
14

The best part is that Gene Simmons is basically using Oprah's TV show as a platform to advertise his sexual prowess.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 03:39 AM
78

Lol, if you are a successful high value man, you will get cold approached all the time. Just ask Gene Simmons... ; ) High value men are the HB10s of the male gender. Women are obsessed with bagging one.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 02:50 AM
0

Successful in that they exist in the first place, as in the women aren't immediately overthrown because they have effectively brainwashed the males into be their servants, not as in, they are commercially successful, or they control vast empires. Also, it men are running around slaving for their women, and the women are aware of this, and are exploiting the situation, then even though the men hold positions of power, they are really being ruled by women, so it's in effect a crypto-matriarchy. Th…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 01:43 AM
0

It doesn't really matter what the Declaration of Independence said, since it's not actually law. Nor would it matter if it were actually law, because, guess what, laws that have no basis in reality, aren't really laws, but phantasms imposed on the masses of people by a small elite to attempt to control. I mean, what good is a law that nobody believes in or respects except as a tool of oppression? Just imagine that you lived in a society where women had the voting franchise, but you didn't. Imagi…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 01:00 AM
1

Ah, but that wouldn't be good for "freedom," would it, eh? The country was founded on the concept of individual liberty. It's one thing for women to voluntarily be housewives because they are choosing to value that instead of corporate drone-hood, it's quite another thing to use the coercive power of the law to force it onto them. Also, the oligarchs that run things would rather have talented women working for them, than 3rd or 4th rate men who are in that position merely because nobody else is …
/r/TheRedPill01/12/19 10:30 PM
2

Well, you have to ask yourself questions about how the friendship originated, and what is sustaining it. Why do YOU like the guy? Why do YOU spend time with him? Is it because he as a playstation? Is it because he has a car? Is it because he knows interesting things? Is it because he listens to you whine and complain? Is it because his parents are never around and you can do drugs and stay up all night? Is it because you enjoy the conversations? Is it because he knows a lot of girls, or attracts…
/r/askTRP01/12/19 10:24 PM
25

He "acts" like a "condescending prick" in public, during interviews. But why? To generate controversy, create publicity, and generate sales. Of course. But maybe he's also trying to communicate something. I'm listening to an interview right now, with a woman, and he DOES sound like an asshole... BUT, my ideas of what an asshole sound like are shaped by a gynocentric education system. I was raised by women. You NEVER talk like that to women, lol. So, he's breaking a bunch of soft social taboos pu…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/19 10:04 PM
10

People don't do class analysis anymore. They can't distinguish between the wealthy, powerful, but ultimately agnostics at the apex of any given ethnic group, and the vast majority of the rank and file. There are, in fact elite clubs, but no one controls everything, those that achieve a level of ascendancy for a time, don't hold onto it indefinitely, and the wave of the present has all these elites working together, across ethnic lines, to better and more efficiently "govern" the rank and file. B…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/19 09:40 PM
27

Eh, I remember when I was a young lad, and I would occasionally have an obsession about a screen starlet... but then I would get over it, because they were just another woman, and there were hot women all around me, and I also realized I wasn't really in love with the starlet, but the combination of her and the character she was playing. That's the little con trick Hollywood pulls: A bunch of writers create an archetypal character with all the desirable virtues, and then the director finagles th…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/19 09:37 PM
27

How is he an unlikeable asshole? Because he's extremely successful, rich, has a woman that lives in his house who raised his kids while he runs around and acts the alpha having affairs with fans, and is thus living every male wish-fulfillment dream, and getting away with it? I mean, I was at an absolute nadir in my life, but I wasn't going to make the mistake of hating on the dude. If anything, I learned from him, lol.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/19 09:33 PM
34

Gene Simmons is 99.9% Redpill. Did anyone ever see Gene Simmons' Family Jewels? I was going through a shitty period in my life, where I watched a lot of TV, but I remember being struck at how well his life was going, and how he seemed to have everything figured out, and how self-assured he seemed. He gave ZERO fucks about what people thought about his life-style choices. He was with Shannon Tweed for 28 years before finally marrying her after she helped him raise two children, who seemed very ma…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/19 09:31 PM
2

Well, there doesn't seem to be a definitive answer. It's like asking for a risk-free life, or a life without challenges or failure. Some harsh realities are: You can't win everyone over; Some people are just assholes; Friends can betray you (this really sucks); Enemies will pretend to be friends (this also sucks); Society is set up as competition of all against all, even though alliances are formed, so it feeds the interpersonal dynamics; Men compete over women, money to win over women, and free…
/r/askTRP01/12/19 03:16 AM
2

They are in one of my social circles, but they are not friends. It's a small community that revolves around a hobby that everyone loves, but there is competition, because it is a hobby that involves men and women. It's similar to a workplace dynamic, like The Office, where everyone is stuck together around an activity that is meaningful, and everyone performs a function, but there is also a competition to "shine" brighter than the rest, as well as subtly throw dirt without appearing to throw dir…
/r/askTRP01/12/19 02:57 AM
1

It depends on what group you are in. And yes, the transition from ideation to execution is often difficult, as many people have "dependencies" that can not easily be cleared away, like financial obligations that require them to work for a fixed amount of time, and a limited cognitive surplus.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/19 02:22 AM
10

I already accounted for this when I described the situation as those that survive, as well as qualified them being subordinate to people with better social skills, social connections, social pedigree, and more money. Also, a guy may look like a "normie," but that doesn't mean he wasn't bullied or picked on when he was younger, and then transformed himself into enough of a normie to assimilate. It's all a competition, in any case. It is easier for a "nerd" to lift, obtain social skills, dress wel…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/19 01:40 AM
6

There are virtuous pockets within the United States. You do, after all, have the "freedom" to go your own way, and many alternative communities proliferate. But they are outside of the mainstream, for the most part, although some of the Christian religious groups get large enough to be semi-mainstream. How virtuous they actually are, is another question entirely. And there are trade-offs no matter where you go or live.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 11:22 PM
10

Right, but it's like a chess game, and the United States, which is, to some degree, an extension of England, and Europe, has been at the game a bit longer than the new regime in China, which does have numerical superiority, which is nothing to sneeze at, as well as an ancient culture of military tradition. But they have been dependent on the West for intellectual property for many decades... which one might argue is a way of controlling what their capabilities are. Of course, they can leverage t…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 11:20 PM
11

Eh, that's one way of looking at. As long as the USA has military supremacy, which has never been about numbers, but about sophisticated weaponry, viciousness, and willingness to use them, one could view this "lending" as a form of extortion. Also, it's important to distinguish between the governments and the people. There are many people in America who are lending their own government to secure a return, just as there are foreign interests, but the government, which is basically like sophistica…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 10:57 PM
19

Ha, I'm so glad I never watched that garbage. I wasn't aware that Ross went insane, or whatever. But to me, it sounds like some subversion was injected into the show by the writers, to subtly mock their own audience of idiots, while "rewarding" the handful of less stupid ones. Also, I don't think the harassment of intellectuals is an accident either. When those intellectuals, or at least, the ones that survive anyway, rise to become STEMlords that oversee the vast herd with their computer and so…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 10:16 PM
51

Eh, you gotta go deeper than that. America isn't really a nation or country in the traditional sense of the word. It's more like a free trade zone jungle dumping ground for surplus populations of various ethnic groups to come and duke it out with each other in a mostly passive-aggressive Darwinian war for socio-economic ascendancy. Some of the biggest "investors" in the American system are monied interests from other places, like Saudi Arabia, China, Europe, and basically wherever there are olig…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 10:09 PM
4

More women in the managerial caste = better harem options (abundance, self-funding, submissive and servile [corporations excel at making people submissive, although it may not seem that way for people down the hierarchy, people in upper management gleefully submit to the people above them in the food chain, so just imagine a 30-40 something woman in a pantsuit, who is type A, does yoga, but makes six figures and runs with the big dogs... her fantasy is to bag the guy with 8-9+ figures to validat…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 08:17 PM
1

But with the notion of sin there comes the phenomenon of apparent choice. Why does the son NOT sin when the father sinned? Is it because he reflexively felt revulsion at his father's behavior? Is it because he received an education that influenced him to make a moral choice? I moved around a lot as a child, and I experienced different communities. Some communities were more materialistic and striving than others. It seemed down into the behavior of the children. Going from a less materialistic c…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 05:54 PM
1

Well, genetics isn't written in stone. The genome appears to have evolved, or be "designed" for a great degree of flexibility, as if it were in a constant feed-back loop with the environment. This means that while bad things that happen to your parents can affect you, it also means that good things will affect you to, which means, that you can make your life about making the right choices for the benefit of your descendants.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 05:43 PM
2

Well, they are competing with lesser tier men for the opportunity to get closer to the highest possible value men. The lesser tier men were doing it for survival purposes, meaning, if they got close to the leaders, they could get some of the spoils and raise families. The women are doing it for hypergamy, and for "self-fulfillment," as well as penis envy, and the desire to usurp or be the male. But I think that's a subset though. Many drank the kool-aid and believe corporate striving is fulfillm…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 05:41 PM
1

Yes, they also smart, it goes without saying. But let's think about the fact that the wealth inequality produced by extremely wealthy people and their technocratic minions, essentially makes whores of everyone. If there was a system where extreme wealth existed, but there was still a relatively egalitarian distribution of spoils, why would attractive young women have sex with rich, but old dudes when they could just have sex with prosperous younger guys? Sure, some would do it for the designer c…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 05:38 PM
51

Hence probably comes the biblical saying regarding the "sins" of the fathers affecting seven generations of children. It's a spiritual debt, a psychological debt, and not necessarily a material one, wherein, people don't know how to live, how to treat each-other, or why certain virtues are actually advantageous, even if it's not immediately apparent. Sure, it's nice to have a roof over your head, food on the table, steady income, a surplus.... but what good are these things really, if they lead …
/r/TheRedPill28/11/19 03:50 AM
9

Well, I don't disagree at all with what you wrote. All that other stuff reeks of over-compensating for perceived inadequacies and weaknesses. But let's not kid ourselves. Normal is average, and average is inadequate for the purpose of getting a desirable woman that is in demand, which is all the young, beautiful women that guys desire. If you start off average, and you self-improve, and most of your peers don't, you are now above-average, and therefore not normal. The more your improve, the less…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 05:02 AM
44

Ha, so in another words, "normal" means, be comfortable with yourself, in part because you are high value in that you are experienced, lift, dress well, etc. then, do daygame, display amused mastery, abundance mentality, and outcome independence which implies mastery of non-verbal communication so you can qualify and cut your time losses short. This is what psychologically well-adjusted men of value do. Unfortunately, they are a small fraction of the population, which is good for them, as it mov…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 03:37 AM
4

No problemo.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 07:56 PM
11

Right. Today it is them collectively lowering the standards as a union to force us all to accept a shittier deal.... except, many guys would rather just be single than wife up an unofficial whore. Hell, I'd rather marry an actual whore than knows she's a whore, than one of these pseudo-whores who is trying to delude me into thinking she isn't even a whore. The lying is worse than the whoring. The whoring is a business transaction. The lying is a form of fraud, wherein the whore tries to persuade…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 07:55 PM
3

Dude, that guy is a bodybuilder who takes steroids. They get pussy, but they have a niche appeal. Also, why are you talking about two celebrities? It suggests that you have no real-world experience and are projecting your own wish fulfillment. Also, you are completely delusional with regard to human desire. For millions of years, intellect didn't matter much, and could even get you killed, if say, you smarted off to the chief or one of the elders. Humans were hunter/gatherers who were valued for…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 07:53 PM
7

Huh, Thad is usually mentioned after Brad, so I just assumed he was like the good-looking stoner Phish-concert hemp necklace guy who lifts and does yoga, and gets good-enough grades to maintain appearances. Chad is basically Bruce Wayne had his parents lived. He's the American version of Prince William if he didn't have male pattern baldness. Good-looking, young, well-mannered, physically fit, engaged in a martial discipline, comes from old money so doesn't have to get his hands dirty acquiring …
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 07:43 PM
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They are impatient, because pre-Internet, they would have to get off their ass, put on nice clothes, go out to a venue somewhere, and either seduce, or pay for it. That required effort. That might even need to use a middle-man or a procurer. Now, it's all being automated. The software is the middle-man. But the people who created the service can't just call it, "Johns Looking for Hookers.com" because that would be "illegal." So instead, they invent new twilight language to cloak what they are do…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 07:39 PM
1

Well, women will shame whores. I think women have an interest in getting men to avoid whores, or even thinking about whores, because it crystallizes male thinking about male / female relations too much. I mean, if you go and pay a whore, and she makes you feel like a human being, and you walk away from the experience with a pleasant feeling, and then you develop a relationship with the whore, where you see her every other week, it goes a long way towards abundance mentality. Women have a vested …
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 07:35 PM
1

It's amazing how physically fit, sexually attractive, fertile young females can slice through your "frame" like a knife through butter. If one approach doesn't work, they try another. You can literally get worn down. Also, the club has its own psychology. If you pay to enter, and then sit down, but don't participate, it feels like you are "missing out," or not maximizing your time. That's why when I do go, which is once in a blue moon, like once or twice a year, I always buy table dances, becaus…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 07:26 PM
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No, it USED to be covert. Women would be shamed for whoring themselves out by the hour. Now, because of the shit economy, and because rich people are impatient, we have euphemisms like "seeking arrangements" and "sugaring," which is just prostitution for middle class to upper middle class girls looking to hang on to a veneer of respectability. I think I saw one of these whores state that "Well, I'm not a whore because I won't sleep with him unless I actually like him." Lol. So, basically, she's …
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 02:29 AM
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You forgot to underline the part about the guy "successfully hiding his baggage." Lol. What, Thad, you're not really Chad, the multi-millionaire Playboy? You're just a "regular" good-looking guy who lifts and works a regular 9-5? How dare you fool me! I just assumed that because you wore nice expensive clothes and were leasing a sportscar that you were Chad. But now I realize, from combing through all your social media profiles and doing numerous google searches, that you are actually only Thad,…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 01:30 AM
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$600 a date from a sugar daddy? Is that all? Lol. I bet that gets squandered right quick on some femme-swag too. The sugar daddies ALWAYS get the better end of the deal. It is EASY for them to make money, but the woman never gets her youth and opportunity back. Also, if one person outside her trust circle finds out she whores herself out, there goes her rep, not to mention the possibility of betrayal. Back when I was a lad, the whoring around was less overt. Now there are apps that can literally…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 01:25 AM
3

Exactly! The proof is in the experience. That is your experience. And it is very similar to mine. I used to think that I could win women over with my charm and personality, as well as my boyish good looks... but that was sheer laziness and stupidity. They wanted a MAN with a MAN'S body, not some twink with stick arms. As soon as I started lifting, it was like easy mode in terms of attraction. I also felt better about myself, instead of insecure. I didn't walk around worrying about getting beat u…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 12:08 AM
5

Nobody is talking about being roided out and working out 4-8 hours a day. Lifting entails doing 6-8 hours of compound lifts per week, and getting 30 minutes to an hour of cardio a day, along with any supplementary exercises. This adds up to a very low percentage of waking hours spent engaging in physical activity. Back in the good old days, most labor was manual, so people's bodies were constantly being conditioned by their environment. We are their descendants. If people DON'T lift, they aren't…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 12:05 AM
2

That's what Lacan says because he's an intellectual. Also, do they really like those attributes for those reasons, or is it because it is a signal of education, and therefore wealth that they might get their claws into? For millions of years, you didn't have to be a master of symbols to get women, but we live in an age of advanced civilization, so that's yet one more thing to master. Also, mastering the body is relatively easy, compared to the mind, and the two are interrelated, where if one is …
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 09:30 PM
29

Why do people share this knowledge? Genuine Altruism; Love knowledge, knowledge that life is finite and the end date uncertain, but that the knowledge should survive; Pity and sympathy for younger men based on their own life experience; Surrogate parenting for men who don't have children of their own, or whose children didn't listen to them. Just because you have kids doesn't mean they heed your advice. Brainwashed altruism, where they just do it because it's "the right thing to do;" Promotional…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 09:27 PM
13

Eh, it's one of the few activities that produces a near-immediate tangible return in multiple areas in a man's life: he gets stronger, bigger, possibly healthier, feels better about himself, looks better, attracts more social approval, and discourages people from physically attacking him. This seems to be universally true that all men are better off who lift heavy weights, even if they don't look like an Adonis.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 06:31 PM
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It's a competitive world. That's a euphemism for, it's a jungle. The winners stay in place by keeping their boots on the necks of the losers. Since it's not legal or socially acceptable to straight up murder people, unless you are the human avatars of the State, people use other means, like psychological warfare to beat people down. Since men are the most dangerous, most problematic, and least valuable, from a reproduction standpoint, it would stand to reason that they would be the primary targe…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 06:28 PM
2

Older men have resources. Younger men think with their dick, and are here today, gone tomorrow. That's why they are so concerned about age.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 08:52 AM
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What was the "shit test?" The "venue," which looked like a low-rent "reality" TV set mocked up to be a restaurant, over-charging them for wine? Also, where was the set up where they thought they were buying $10 a glass wine? Wasn't there a list of prices? They didn't show that. Finally, was the "shit test" the woman asking them to pay, and then they "fail" by buying her the wine? Half of them didn't even pay for her wine, and they seemed fine with it. Also, most of them didn't seem that uncomfor…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 01:30 AM
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Also, with regard to the second part of what you wrote... OP invested emotionally. He went all in. It was TRUE LOVE. One-itis. So, once that happens, a person will try to put more resources into saving the relationship rather than planting seeds to build more relationships.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 08:28 PM
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There ain't no guarantees. I was specifically thinking of an old friend who spun several plates, and was pretty alpha with this one girl... who then cheated on him with a guy of lower SMV because the guy was too busy working FORTY hours a week! It seemed like he had her wrapped around his finger... Until one afternoon she got bored and felt neglected, and there was an opportunity to get some side dick. He used her for sex for a bit afterwards, and moved on to better women. It was totally her los…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 08:16 PM
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Heh... "no indication, eh?" Working 70 hours a week might have contributed to this situation, not that I'm excusing her behavior, because from what you described, she sounds horrible, and you did dodge a bullet, especially with all that DV shit that could have DESTROYED your life. But then again, you are in between a rock in a hard place. Don't work enough, and you are a bum. Work too much, and you are neglecting her. Work from home and you aren't captain of a big ship of men working underneath …
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 12:43 AM
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Thanks for sharing your story. It's fortunate that you saw the problems early on, came up with a vision and a plan, executed your vision, enjoyed success, and kept on going from there. You systematically improved your looks, got plates, recognized a dysfunctional pattern, dropped the low value plates, and you even got to bang your one-itis, only to realize she wasn't really worth it. So you are fortunate in that you are now free from the influence of the mythical one-itis, and from all the runni…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 12:36 AM
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So then, you bring up the threesomes WHILE you are having anal sex with them, for that extra clench, right?
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 06:59 AM
1

Mayo clinic says a study showed that 60,000 IU for a month created toxicity.I supplement from 2,000 to 10,000 IU, depending on the season and my mood. Usually its 2,000 in the summer, and 5,000 in the winter, with an extra 5,000 as an experiment in mood raising.I also supplement with Calcium-Magnesium.Vitamin K does come in food, but I recently food a supplement with D3 and K together.However, I also remember reading about how we needed to supplement with D2 or just straight up D, aka Dry Vitami…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/19 10:52 PM
1

None of my healthcare practitioners mentioned anything about Vitamin D3 toxicity....My impression was that your dosage would have to consistently exceed 15,000 IU a day.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/19 10:48 PM
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If the story sounds to good to be true, it probably is. Be wary of women who claim to only have had single-digit number of sexual partners. The older they are, the less likely this is to be true. Be wary of stories that explain away character flaws as being circumstantial. On the other hand, women who own their past decisions, who admit them, and assess them objectively, are somewhat more trustworthy. But again, there's no such thing as a risk-free life. Most people are mercenary and changeable.…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/19 10:47 PM
8

This plays out like a singles ad for her. She's being given a global platform to advertise herself.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/19 07:05 PM
19

This needs to be upvoted. The ex who I am still friends with, it was crystal clear to me that she was attracted when we first met. She lit up like a Christmas tree, was on her best behavior, and zero shit-tests. She still didn't give it up on the first two or three dates, but I could tell that it was just a formality, so I patiently waited, and was subsequently rewarded.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/19 07:03 PM
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Yeah, I was jealous of the people for whom the drugs worked, like ADHD. That was my initial prognosis. Looking back on it, the whole thing is so complicated. You've got junk food, television, video-games, cell-phones, environmental pollutants, possible allergies, genetics, psychological stress, trauma, the state of the world, work, study, etc., that any one of those things, or any combination, could be the culprit, not to mention drugs themselves. And then you also have the placebo effect as wel…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/19 06:35 PM
2

Yeah, the nofap thing is all 'nother rabbit hole. It was common sense for centuries that masturbation was "bad," or "sinful." Then suddenly, in the modern era, it's "healthy" and "good for you."It seems likely to me that when most labor was manual, anything that wasted calories and energy was considered bad, because the workers might exhaust themselves before doing their work, or not be motivated to do work, or not work as hard, which from a survival standpoint, is not good.On the other hand, wh…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/19 06:33 PM
4

No problemo! I've been through the same shit. You can survive it, it will pass. It can be a tedious slog, but you will come out of it stronger than you were before, although you'll have to work at it. There is always stuff to appreciate in life. When people get depressed, they are typically fixated on something that is wrong, usually something unfixable, like all the fucked up shit in the world, a relationship with a person that is beyond repair, a person who isn't interested in them, some sort …
/r/TheRedPill18/11/19 06:50 AM
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Yeah, well, if you have relied on them to get through school, finish up school, and then think about getting off of them.So, that is a legitimate concern on your part.Breaking up with a girlfriend is like going through heroin withdrawal. You get hooked on their body chemicals, as well as the rewards from being with them, the validation, etc. And then it all gets taken away. So it is perfectly natural to feel depressed about it. All you can do is cope with it the best you can. Don't let your pers…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/19 06:26 AM
1

Many of the champions receive some form of sponsorship, or are independently wealthy. And yes, many, if not all of them "cheat" to get their physiques with drugs. That's why they, um, don't look that good. I'm talking about pure body builders of course, who are building a physique for show. The guys with physiques that are worth admiring have strong, muscular, but functional bodies that are suited to do particular things, like fighting, climbing, parkour, heavy manual labor, etc. But no matter h…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/19 05:55 AM
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Well, they didn't make things better for me. They made things worse. At that point, I was fed up with the "Doctor" who was prescribing them. So, I just went off them cold turkey. I suffered a period of suicidal thoughts for about a month or two. I coped with that by walking all day long. Gradually things would improve throughout the day. Eventually I stopped waking up feeling like I wanted to kill myself.The problem with these drugs is that the brain is still a black box, and there are many, man…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/19 04:30 AM
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Well of course, some women are nymphos, but what does that have to do with the normalization of the slut lifestyle as popularized through shows like Sex and the City, magazines like Cosmopolitan, pornography, etc. etc. etc. etc. The kind of behavior that once led to social ostracism and economic ruination is now not only tolerated, but glamorized, valorized, and lionized. Kim Kardashian rose to fame on the leaking of a sex tape, for crying out loud. I mean, people are literally applauding her an…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/19 03:19 AM
1

You can get Vitamin D supplements that seem to work well enough. 5,000 to 10,000 IU a day. You can also get your levels tseted. You can also get Vitamin D with K added to it, which supposedly makes it easier to metabolize.Be wary of anti-depressants. I had an experience with them, and they made my life worse, and going off of them was a bitch, but I came through it.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/19 02:39 AM
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With regard to depression, which I have suffered from at various times, you might try: Lifting three times a week, if you aren't already. This acts like an anti-depressant; Vitamin D levels, especially if you are inside a lot and live in a gloomy climate. This was like flipping a switch for me when I got on it. It made my "season affective disorder" go away. Sleep hygiene. This one is hard because I got into the habit of being a night-owl. But if I get 8 hours consistently, I am happier for it. …
/r/TheRedPill18/11/19 01:39 AM
1

Yeah, I posted about it awhile back on the front page, but they took it down for whatever reason, because it didn't have enough mass appeal, or fit their ideological goals at the time. For all we know, he was in on it. Maybe lost money and he used her to fake his own death with the help of some police officials that they both paid off. I mean, she gained a fuck-ton of money by marrying him, and he married a four-time ex-widow, so maybe he knew she was a sociopath and admired her, and she either …
/r/TheRedPill18/11/19 01:36 AM
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Well, that would be a good use of it, assuming that's the right way to go about it, which in this day and age of uncertainty, MAY lead you there just because of luck. There is certainly something to be said for getting a woman in the sack, because at least if she's willing to sleep with you, it means she thinks you might be a long-term candidate, on some level, if not a conscious one. But many women are brainwashed to be like Samantha from Sex in the City, and seek sex only for hedonistic pleasu…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/19 01:34 AM
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Agency? Agency? We're talking about people who did what their parents told them until age 5, then were sent off to school for 12 years, where they then did what they were told, or else. People who don't do what they are told wind up in prison, for the most part. It's to groom them for "the job," where they do what they are told until they die. Go see the doctor or the dentist? Better do what you are told. Sure, there are geniuses who break out of the mental chains, but most people are born, ment…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/19 01:30 AM
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Lol, too many that I don't even remember all of them anymore, nor do I care that I was that many. Once I got into an LTR with someone where there was mutual reciprocal caring, I felt validated, and stopped giving a shit about racking up numbers.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/19 06:41 AM
1

Generally when things go well for a teenager in a film, it's because the teenager is either outside the norm, like a Ferris Bueller, or something extraordinary happens to him to lift him up outside the norm and send him on a hero's journey that culminates with him being rewarded with sex.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/19 01:43 AM
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What countries might these be?
/r/TheRedPill17/11/19 01:28 AM
46

Whenever I express this viewpoint, I get labeled a "tradcon." How about maybe I've been there, and done that, don't find it that enjoyable or meaningful, and can find better things to do with my time. There's a lot of thirst on here that covers for itself with bluster about being an "alpha" or a stud, or whatever. But, I mean, women that have sex with hundreds of guys over the course of the year just because they like it are.... I'm not going to use a pejorative label, because that would be putt…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/19 01:26 AM
6

You don't have to do that either. And I wasn't advocating for that.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/19 11:44 PM
4

Don't go. It's not for you. You are enriching people who make a living degrading other people under the guise of providing a venue for socializing. Find a better scene. Even better, put yourself in the position to make the scene.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 09:52 PM
9

That's one approach, I guess, assuming that's the best you can do with your life.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/19 09:51 PM
1

Yes, but was it foul play? I mean, it's one thing for an individual with self-control issues to self-destruct from too much wealth and not enough restraint. But it's quite another for a decent person who comes upon a sudden windfall, to suddenly find themselves a target of predatory individuals: lawyers, cops, random people, hackers, women, best friends, family members, etc.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/19 09:49 PM
1

Ha, this was me and the last woman who was after me, except I only intimated at the truth, rather than being completely blunt like OP. She was so myopic about it, not understanding why guys were no longer approaching her, even though she still looked pretty good for mid-thirties.
/r/MGTOW15/11/19 08:45 AM
3

See also: the wife of Jesse Livermore. Prior to marrying him, she had four husbands, each of whom committed suicide. Livermore, at one point, was the wealthiest man in the United States due to shorting the stock market right before the crash of 1929. Of course, I'm sure there may be more to the story. But that's the official story.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/19 08:23 AM
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Wow. That's really crazy. Were these people like, the super-poor, drug-addicts, crazy? I mean, suing a rich person for $50 USD is a trifle, and could also get the rich person to say, hire a goon on you, or a rat-fucker, and then ruin your life to set an example and send a message to the rest. I mean, it's one thing if you legitimately fuck up, but it's another if people are just targeting you to extract stuff from you. It sounds like her dad needs to step up the plate and be a bit more like a Ty…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/19 04:08 AM
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Jesus Christ! That sucks balls! What kinds of lawsuits were these? The easily dismissed, frivolous kind, I hope. Yeah, I've heard of this sort of thing happening to celebrities. Yet another reason not to be "famous." It's like painting a target sign on yourself saying, "I have stuff you need/want, and you might be able to get it from me!"
/r/TheRedPill14/11/19 11:45 PM
41

More money, more problems. Being richer doesn't necessarily make things easier for you. In fact, it can make you a target for a Level 99 Sociopath Apex Predator Gold-Digger. Abilities include: some independent wealth, manipulation skills, media skills, team of Level 50 professionals to ratfuck you with, each having their own team of Level 25 managerial staff, who in turn have 3d20 Level 10 office staff, as well as hired goons, etc. etc.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/19 10:00 PM
1

Not necessarily. People social dance all the time with other people's girlfriends, fiancees, and wives. I social dance. She was the one who asked me if I would dance with her. I also asked the fiance and he said he was fine with it, and seemed fine with it. So, there were extenuating circumstances. I was actually the most concerned about the appropriateness of the dancing out of the three of them. Also, I think I was just out of an LTR, and was poorly socialized for the type of situation I was i…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/19 09:45 PM
7

Eh, shit just happens. I was actually John a few years ago. I went to a bar for someone's birthday. Instant social proof. Also, I don't really drink, and I was confident, and happy with myself. So I attracted the attention of one attractive woman, and we chatted for awhile. Then this guy's fiancee started talking to me. At first it was just a friendly conversation, but then it kept going and going, and it seemed like she was interested in me, and I was more attractive than the guy. He tried to p…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 10:58 PM
5

It depends on the situation, and the person. There is no one-size fits all solution, unfortunately. Dread, and flirting with other girls worked great with one LTR, like clockwork in fact. She was super into me, though, and we are still friends. That relationship was based on something solid. With another LTR, it was like throwing gasoline on a fire. When she was super-into me, initially, it worked. But when she became disenchanted, because I had expectations she refused to meet, it then became a…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 10:52 PM
3

It sounds to me like you have decent SMV and a decent wife (ZOMG) who is a willing partner that shares your values, and also values you as a person, to the point, that she wouldn't easily try to trade up just for an increase in material wealth. At a certain point, material wealth can become a liability anyway. People trying to rob you, kidnap and ransom you, kill you. Constant solicitations for business proposals, etc. I actually saw a clip of this pop up on my phone, from Mad Men, where Roger i…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 10:44 PM
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Well, there's no such thing as a risk-free life. If you leave her alone with the dude, who knows what he's going to say, and how she's going to react towards him. If you go over, you don't have to get all aggressive, but you can engage the guy, and divert his attention away from the girl, and also signal to him that she is with you, and that he's wasting his time, without play the role of jealous boyfriend. Also, you can subtly make fun of him, or deflate him in conversation, or prove that howev…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 08:55 AM
2

Theoretically, you can press criminal charges on someone for unwanted touching, and you can also sue them as well. However, it would be kind of a waste of time if there were no visible damages. Everyone would be rolling their eyes at you. Also, you might invite retaliation of some kind.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 08:45 AM
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There needs to be a new category on Reddit of platinum, because this is a platinum comment, especially the first bit about getting the guy to talk about himself, which is actually some pretty good trade-craft.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 06:31 AM
3

This man gets it! Yes, I think there is definitely a sweet spot of stringing them along for a bit, getting a low-priced table, dance, then sending them on their way. If you don't at least get a little bit of service, then you get ignored. If you hold out the promise of the table dance, then they "work" for that, then think they have a shot at working for a private dance, which of course, you never must give them or you will hate yourself. Lol.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 06:23 AM
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Both are true. When you see any visual pleasurable stimulus, the brain releases a cocktail of pleasure chemicals, and this can keep you watching the stimulus. It could be a painting, a TV show, mountain scenery, animals, etc. Women wear colorful clothing to attract male attention. Also, men find younger women visually appealing, if they are healthy and have symmetrical features. Then you have the chemicals released by the human body. If two people have chemistry, this can have an effect on both.…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 06:22 AM
2

I'm not sure I understand your argument. You say you have never been to a strip club and you know nothing about strip club policies, yet you are somehow able to bootstrap an argument that a stripper who touches a man in a strip club is committing sexual assault? Strip clubs sell lap dances, which involve touching, as a service. It is reasonable for a stripper to assume that a man is at a strip club either to watch, or be touched, or else, why would he even be there? Most guys have some idea of w…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 06:19 AM
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This is another important point. Even if a woman manages to successfully rape a man, he's not the one potentially carrying the child and going through the childbirth experience. But my point was, a strip club sells lap dances as a service, and a lap dance involves touch, so a stripper would presume any man in the strip club is at least open to being touched by some stripper there, and that some kino is an acceptable approach to a passive male sitting in a strip club.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 06:16 AM
2

Explain to me how a guy who voluntarily goes into a strip club with a known policy of strippers soliciting lap dances by touching the patrons in a suggestive, but non-sexual manner, would then be able to sue the strippers for "sexual assault." Also, the strippers qualify who they will touch in a suggestive manner. They aren't going to try it on some uptight, Travis Bickle from Taxi Driver-looking guy wearing weird clothes. Also, they frequently ask if they can touch you, or they start off touchi…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 09:13 AM
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Just don't let it turn into a habit, or I'll feel guilty! Lol.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 03:16 AM
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Eh... some more harsh truths. You are always paying one way or another. Either it's time, energy, money, work spent on a career, or at the gym. Being successful attracts women. They want the lifestyle of a successful man. If you aren't successful, you won't attract women. And success could be build a ripped physique, social status, wealth or some combination. But what if you don't want to do any of that? No matter what people say about doing it for "yourself," subconsciously, it's to increase va…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 03:15 AM
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Great use of the strip club to learn some harsh truths. Don't think too harshly of him though. The legal system favors women in many disputes, and women know this, and so they act out accordingly, knowing full well that male hands are tied. It used to be that wives could get thrown out on a whim, or disciplined in other ways, not that it always happened that way, and not that it is an ideal solution; neither gender should be favored. The legal system is generally biased against violence, and it …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 03:10 AM
5

Lol, you are welcome.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 03:04 AM
12

It wouldn't work, because going into a strip club, you know that it comes with the territory, or one would reasonably know, since people go for visual, but also tactile arousal. Also, you are free to tell them to stop, and they are supposed to respect your wishes, however, if they can tell that you are wishy-washy about your intentions, they will keep pushing to win you over. Also, it's not about engaging in destructive conflicts, but learning about the experience. You know when you go into a st…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 03:03 AM
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To respond to OP: The reason the frame collapses is that most men are unaware that the women's natural body chemicals will drug them via their bodies, tricking them into thinking there is a "mating opportunity," just like pornography does. Going into a strip club is like drinking alcohol and thinking you can prevent yourself from getting intoxicated, when the first sip begins the process. It's true that some people have tolerance and strong wills, but over time, those weaken, as more is consumed…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 12:16 AM
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Go to a strip club, but instead of just "relaxing" and enjoying the experience, turn it into a game. See if you can avoid spending any money there, period, aside from any entry fee. Observe what persuasion tactics are used. Observe what is seductive and what is not seductive. Observe how the negotiation unfolds. See how long you can extract time and attention from a stripper without actually giving her any money before she gets fed up and leaves. Some actually enjoy the challenge. They make take…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 12:01 AM
1

Ha, you got a bargain!
/r/TheRedPill11/11/19 11:45 PM
2

Oh, okay, now worries. Lol. Looks like I got -18 points for my sarcastic reply.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/19 05:20 AM
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Private classes are a great investment if you have some body knowledge and a general idea of how you want to advance, because you get to set the agenda, and you get undivided attention, and you can ask a lot of questions, and get individualized attention. But they are a waste of money otherwise. For a newb, it can be overwhelming.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/19 05:19 AM
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Of course. But dance is very time intensive, and most people aren't in it for the money. So if you are a guy who has mastered dance, you probably come from money, or are otherwise independently wealthy. Of course, many gold-diggers who do their home-work would probably target guys who are into Formula 1 racing, or who are super-yacht enthusiasts. Can't you just see them showing up with a captain's hat pretending like they just happen to be interested in boating. Anyway, but I was thinking more o…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/19 05:18 AM
3

Lower sex drives??!? They can have orgasms all day long, given the right partner. You do need to be above average, and the closer you are to the top, the better. But still, a lot of it comes down to biochemistry. When there is chemistry, and the guy is a top guy, it's on like Donkey Kong.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/19 08:31 AM
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It's not like violence is a black and white issue. On the one hand, one must "prepare for war" to achieve peace, on the other hand, violence is... depressing to say the least. As for morality, it's all very fine and well to try to be a Macchiavelli, but if you are perceived to be immoral because you commit too many immoral acts, you will be shunned by people more moral than you. Also, many immoral acts are unethical and/or illegal. So one paves the route for the next. As for morality having no a…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/19 05:44 AM
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Oh, riiiiighhhttt! Because only the dreaded "social just workers" that you cower in fear of use that word! Edit: I think you are thinking of the word "problematize," which is a separate concept.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/19 05:38 AM
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They didn't succeed at getting women because they didn't enjoy it, and they had ulterior motives. The former was a turn-off, and the latter was picked up on and interpreted as a sign of scarcity and desperation, meaning, they were willing to spend time doing something they didn't enjoy just to meet women, as opposed to being ambivalent about the outcome and enjoying the process. Also, many women do the same thing. They go dancing just to meet guys. They use dance as a signal that the guy has mon…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 10:42 PM
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Dude, it's so funny that you mention that, because I find myself very dissatisfied with men's clothing, and ultimately, I concluded it was because as a child, I played video-games a lot, which were mostly war games, and the avatar was usually in military dress, whereas men's clothing today is mostly androgynous, effeminate, non-manly, or boyish. The only attire I find appeal is militaristic.... which on the other hand, I also find to be problematic for moral reasons.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 10:33 PM
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Shit, you don't have to dress outrageously. You can just, you know, actually wear "nice" clothes, meaning stuff that is well made and looks good on you. You can also try ponying up for some custom-made clothes, but then you have to find a decent designer.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 10:31 PM
3

Both are just vehicles for a power elite, who are currently with which model is more efficient and serving their aims.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 01:43 AM
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Good job on the sleuthing. The post was too well-written. This comment should be upvoted more.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/19 07:04 AM
1

Eh, I never said tradcon is the "only" way. There is no "only" way. Nor did I say that marriage is "playing it safe." There is no "safe." Safety is an illusion, since nobody knows when they are going to die or suffer a disastrous reversal of fortune. All people can do is play the odds and hope for the best. Currently, for most people, the odds aren't favorable with regard to marriage, since most people are sheep, and sleepwalk through life. Even under the best circumstances, it is still risky, b…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/19 06:15 AM
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I replied to someone's comment, but if they are happier with an "uglier" partner, it may not be for the professed reason but because they are in advantageous situation, know it, and appreciate it. This means that they rode the cock carousel, found a beta provider, and now are free to sample as much alpha cock as they can get on the side. What do people say on here? What has proven to be true? Married women are available, if you are the right man. Harsh reality.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/19 03:44 AM
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Au contraire, mon frere. They are happy BECAUSE they have the beta bux providing, while they discreetly get the alpha cock on the side, after having already sampled a fair amount in their youth. They are happy because they appreciate having their cake and eating it too. Even better if they brainwashed the beta bux to hold the camera and jack off in the corner while they get it on with the Alpha, but what Beta Bernie don't know, he can't complain about.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/19 03:42 AM
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Again, it comes down to what you VALUE. Some guys, believe it or not, DON'T VALUE banging as many 8s, 9s and 10s as humanly possible. They don't value having three-somes, throat-fucking, ass-to-mouth, bondage, or whatever. They are ambivalent about sex. Now, you can say that they are lesser men, low on testosterone, beta herb cucks or whatever, but you aren't them, and you don't know their truth. It could be that some are compelled toward those values by biology, but it could also be that upon c…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/19 03:04 AM
5

Ha, I use it all the time IRL.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/19 12:14 AM
1

I wasn't talking about a 20 year old with a 50 year old. I was talking about several 20 year olds with a guy who is in his mid 80s, who looks like a walking corpse. Tell me they are with him for his "frame." Please. I know for a fact that he pays one with cash and gifts. She's more of a companion and backup. He has to pay, because a younger guy, say in his fifties, who looks more youthful, IS paying with his youth, or rather the time of his youth. You ALWAYS pay. Time is the main form of currenc…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/19 08:22 PM
1

There's no such thing as a risk-free life. Again, it's all about what you value. However, how can you actually value you something if you don't fully understand what is gained or lost by valuing it as opposed to something else? This is what happens with people who blindly follow received values from school programming without questioning what they are gaining or losing. This is what leads to materialism. It's very easy to understand material gain. It's less easy to understand immaterial loss, or…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 11:17 PM
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That's all very fine and well, but again, people don't notice it when they are shit-faced. I'm in a pretty good position to know, because I am sober, and I run in a field where reading body language is a necessity. When I go into a bar or a club, I am now acutely aware of how bad the energy is. I see people huddle defensively in little groups. I see people getting drunk and acting bizarrely. I once watched people dance on a dance-floor and nobody made eye-contact with anyone. People go out to so…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 06:05 AM
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Fine, judge away. I don't though. People don't even realize they are being set up. That's the thing. They are literally born into situations where their parents are already brainwashed, who then hand them over for brainwashing at an early age, and the brainwashing is all they know until they either break out of it, which is a long, grueling process, unless you are a genius, or you die in a confused state.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 05:56 AM
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Eh, it's up for debate. It's all about what the person values. Some people get ambivalent about sex as time goes on. So, they fuck a lot in their twenties, thirties, and forties, less in their fifties, and maybe at some point become voluntarily celibate as the hormones release their grip. Or they voluntarily get side-pieces, but still maintain the relationship. So, you can be in a long-term marriage, and still not have it blow up in your face. I think that the reason a lot of marriages fail is b…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 05:55 AM
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True, there is that, but that suggests people are sober and sensitive enough to pick up on them. Really, the only way to sub-communicate at the bar is to show up in expensive clothes with an entourage, glad-hand the management, then be seen. But that already assumes high value, as in, the guy is high value enough to coordinate an entourage of people willing to go to a bar. The more high value people basically self-segregate from the unwashed masses. They have exclusive private parties at members…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/19 09:07 PM
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Well, congratulations on committing to a better lifestyle. Yes, it's a struggle. I've gone back and forth with it, as have a lot of people. Food is literally one of the few affordable diversions that is readily available. When you go outside, you are constantly being tempted with junk food of all kinds. Here's another tip for you. I noticed that you are referring to your status in terms of gaining or losing weight or (lbs). While that is one marker of progress or backsliding, it's not the most i…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/19 09:04 PM
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She's definitely approaching the Wall, and is probably experience an epiphany. College is toxic. The small, cramped living quarters, the crappy food, the party life-style, the punishing workload if you actually take it seriously, the economic exploitation, the maze of bureaucracy... and you are most likely BORROWING MONEY to be there with NO GUARANTEE that it will pay off. So, that's why I don't judge her too harshly. I look back at how fucked up and retarded I was in college, lol.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/19 08:56 PM
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That's because they've been sold a bill of goods that the college will somehow do it for them. Like, they keep going to classes and events, and if they "pass" enough of them, they then "graduate" and become "valuable." I remember the sheer anxiety and terror I felt going through college without the slightest clue as to what I was supposed to be doing or working on, with everyone just smiling and nodding, and enabling me, as I literally rowed around in a circle with one oar. I did learn a few thi…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/19 08:53 PM
1

No problemo!
/r/TheRedPill01/11/19 08:51 PM
1

Absolutely! But do your homework first, and do a scouting mission. Don't commit to a place for any length of time until you have at least visited to it for at least a week, AFTER having researched it. Relevant things to research: Economic opportunities; Job opportunities; (1 and 2 are completely different things) Cost of living; Demographics a. Low crime vs. High crime; b. Available single attractive women; c. Live-ability of the place (long commute times, pollution, etc.)
/r/TheRedPill01/11/19 08:51 PM
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You can't really be fun and charming in a loud, crowded, dark environment where most people are drunk or on drugs.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/19 06:18 AM
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Um, you are talking about girls at bars and clubs... What would actual (non-alcoholic, non-degenerate) hot girls who don't work at bars and clubs be doing there? Bars are for LOSERS. Maybe at one point, the local "watering hole" served as a public meeting place. But now things have migrated online. Hot people can find each other online and go fuck each other's brains out discreetly without having to pay the bar tax. What's left are a bunch of people who can't sell themselves by appearance alone,…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 07:31 PM
1

Yes. However, it may just also have been that you didn't have much in the way of physical chemistry with her, and your brain is inventing a post hoc rationalization for why you "chose" to find her behavior unattractive, and thus herself, even though, she's physically appealing from a symmetry and appearance perspective, there is simply NO biochemistry between you two. Had she behaved more appropriately, you might have gone further with her, but then been "not that into it," and then moved on, bu…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 07:26 PM
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Yep. I get why they have the AWALT and other rhetoric, even if I don't agree with it 100% based on my own personal experience and observations. Some guys are so simped out that they really need to go to the opposite extreme to eventually see things clearly as being about SELF interest, which manifests differently for both men and women.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 01:29 AM
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Well, feel free to cut and paste, and consolidate away, if you like.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 01:28 AM
1

Eh, she achieved international notoriety and became a laughing-stock. Also, she is outed as a false accuser. Also, I'm not even sure if she KNOWS she's a false accuser. I mean, you would have to prove intent to deceive. There was some evidence that suggested it, but it was electronic. It's definitely a lapse of justice. I don't recall all the facts of the particular case. There is a lot of other crap floating around out there that is worse. It's possible, that in her mind, she WAS raped. What sh…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 01:28 AM
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Right, I'm not saying it's all on you. Some people are set to impossible mode, and there is no winning with them, except to avoid them. Strippers are considered hard to impossible mode. Still, when people are young, it is easier for them to change. Nonetheless, you need to focus on you and what you can do that is in your best interest to optimize your life to make your SMV as high as possible. And one of those things is to be aware of the competition, because I guarantee you, it played a role. E…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 01:24 AM
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Heh. It's like asking what does a white belt do to defeat a black belt: Get better through hard work; Cheat by "winning" outside of the rules; Be a prodigy; Be properly groomed for success; All the "law-abiding" "successful" older guys did #1. Younger guys will do #2, but it's very risky in an era of mass surveillance. 3 is luck. 4 is also luck to some degree. Now, you said "bottom of the hierarchy," so I assume #3 is out. And you're frustrated by the harsh reality of #1. Several things: a. Ther…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 01:21 AM
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Of course it can, but the person at least, knows that they are innocent of the crimes. When you have been raped, there is the trauma of the act, which can stay with you forever, and then there is the stigma of having been raped, and then there are people who are gonna say that you weren't raped, that you provoked the rape, that you deserved the rape, etc. And then you may have an STD, an unwanted child, which people may shame you into trying to keep and raise for 18 years, a living reminder of w…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 08:02 PM
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Aha. Yep, there we have it. Since you both were in college, you were essentially in a controlled environment, where, while theoretically, older men had access to her, she still was dealing with the age segregation of high school and its after affects. So, she viewed older guys as a combination of attractive, but also stranger danger. Since you are a year older, you are like a compromise, but she probably became disenchanted, because as a college puke, you couldn't provide for her, and you aren't…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 07:51 PM
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I have run into a fair amount of these people over the years, and I have been one myself, and to some extent still am one. We're all crawling around in our "reality tunnels" where we think we know what's going on based on what we have read and our own personal experience, until something that doesn't fit either bitch-slaps us out of them, into another one. But yeah, at lot of women I know read this shite, then regurgitate it, but then if you talk about it with them, you can kind of point out the…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 07:45 PM
1

Of course it's a serious crime to falsely accuse. It's called perjury, and in the Bible, not that I'm religious, it's called false witness, and it's in one of the Ten Commandments, which is like the "4 legs good, 2 legs bad" propaganda slogan of religion. It's also a serious crime to rape. The effects stay with the victim long after the event. And of course you wouldn't want to be beaten senseless with a bat. You say that, but the reality is, it could cripple you for life, and that ain't no picn…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 07:41 PM
1

Eh, I would never consider a friend, but I wouldn't make waves by shunning her or acting hostile. It's work, so also, you have to maintain boundaries. People at work will often pretend to be your friend, but for ulterior reasons, so it's always a good thing to keep a certain amount of emotional distance with co-workers.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 05:02 AM
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EXACTLY! He's a natural. He's probably emulating a role model who is also a natural, like his father, or other male relative, who probably told him what to do at an early age and explained why. Like, "Son, you better lift weights if you want to get pussy in high school and college. You better read a book on investing and get a part-time job while in school, and then line up a better job for right after college so you can buy a good bachelor pad and throw good parties. Guys who are properly groom…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 05:01 AM
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Yeah, it was pretty dumb. I think that was part of why it went viral. It was essentially a straw argument that was easy to burn down. But there's all kinds of dumb shit floating around in that age bracket. This is an age group that eats GMO pizza and drinks GMO beer, in between trips to McDonald's and the mid-day Mountain Dew. It's not a coincidence that college food is lower in quality than prison food.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 04:59 AM
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Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 03:12 AM
3

Well, because, as she put it, got raped by the media, which defined as being worse than actual rape, it will be VERY difficult for her, because once the guy googles her, he will have reservations. On the other hand, most guys are still simps, and will remain simps. Even if you try and wise them up, they will snap back to simphood. It could be as simple as them being in a functional relationship with a woman that "proves" TRP tenets "false" because they misunderstand the actual dynamics. So, even…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 03:12 AM
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Eh, it seems like she is less "nuts" than she was before. Whether or not that makes her more or less dangerous as a person, and a romantic prospect, is a question that will be decided by men other than myself. : ) "Nuts" is a gross oversimplification of what is going on. "Nuts" puts the onus entirely on the individual. Just like everyone else, she was born embedded into a toxic system that will gradually drive a person crazy. Alienated from the natural world, mandated by her family to do normali…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/19 10:56 PM
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Yes, it sounds like she did get redpilled. Meaning, she's realizing what her best interest is, which is, namely, to cozy up to attractive, powerful men, namely, Chads, EVEN though, it goes against her previous cultural conditioning. She WANTED to ignore that attractive wealthy-looking guy on Tinder, because that was what her brainwashing said to do. But her instincts kicked in, so she contacted him, and when he didn't turn out to be Patrick Bateman, she realized that she had probably been sold a…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/19 08:57 PM
1

What were your relative ages?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/19 06:52 PM
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Word!
/r/TheRedPill28/10/19 08:56 PM
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Younger relative to you. If you are a high school senior, girls your age are dating guys in college, even though they are minors, they look like women, and the age of consent laws are not easily enforced, as they are on the cusp of womanhood, and the men in college are only a year or two older. If you are a guy in college, all the girls are now "legal," which means they are fair game for guys their own age, but also: youthful graduate students, professors youthful and not so youthful, local busi…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/19 08:55 PM
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She can't restrict your access, period, unless you're weak enough to do what she says. If she opens the relationship by sleeping with other men, then she has no moral high ground whatsoever.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/19 05:52 AM
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I think the remedy to this situation is a public relations campaign to get the betas in open relationships to go fuck hookers, or go to strip clubs, that is, if their SMV is too low to attract decent side pussy, or if they value their time more than their money. Or, here's another solution. Wifey can sleep with other guys, but they have to pay beta bux for the privilege. Oh wait, that will never happen, because wifey would rather give it away for free than "stoop" to charging for it, lol. Anyway…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/19 05:50 AM
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"So my big failing is that I expect people to behave rationally." Ha, I can relate to this. I think if a person comes from a place of abundance, i.e. coming from a stable, two-parent, somewhat traditional family, where there is love, it becomes hard to relate to where all the people from broken dysfunctional homes are coming from. Really, advice I would give to young guys is get as much practical experience in psychology as you can. Not the bullshit they teach you, but real-world stuff. Most of …
/r/TheRedPill28/10/19 12:19 AM
1

Are you sure that they aren't "good" with women? I mean, think about all the assumptions buried in that statement. It is VERY common for young men to coincidentally NOT be "good" with women, when really what it boils down to is that they are competing with higher value men without even knowing it. If you are interested in a SINGLE (unattached) woman your age, chances are, she has already fucked a few men your age, and has a feel for what they have to offer. Meanwhile, she's being propositioned b…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/19 11:58 PM
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You're not lazy, you just haven't yet put in the work to adapt to an exercise regimen. You grew up in a modern industrial society where a person can survive and even thrive without any physical labor. This is unprecedented, as throughout human history, most people had to work hard to live, either as farmers, or as warriors, or as tradesmen. So don't beat yourself up too much. You just have to carve out 10 hours a week for physical exercise, and there are over a hundred hours a week, so that's le…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 09:06 PM
3

This is exactly what you needed to do. Hard and easy are relative. Today, it was hard for me to do pullups, but last week, I was banging them out pretty easily. I just accepted that today will be a "light" day, and that I will go harder on the next work-out. A few months ago, doing any exercise was "hard," because I was out of the habit of doing it, and in the habit of making excuses that I was too busy. My health suffered because of it. So yeah, if something is too hard, back off a little bit, …
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 09:02 PM
1

Well, make a list of what you have, and then a list of what you don't have. Look at yourself in the mirror. Are you muscular? Do you have symmetrical features? Do you dress well? Do you appear affable? Do you have friends? Do your friends like you? What are you good at? What hobbies do you have? Do you have money? If not, are you on a path to making money? Society, including women, expect you to provide for a family. Do a self-inventory. Then compare it with several high value men: a celebrity t…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 09:00 PM
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You're welcome. The sooner you move on and get serious, the better off you will be. However, still set aside a few hours a week for it, for some balance, but make those hours count. And I mean, try to find the best women you can, even if AWALT, meaning hypergamy, solipsism, etc, there are still women who aren't bipolar sociopaths who use hard drugs, but some guys don't even see that much of an ambiguity, having gotten dicked over so often. They are kind of like the feminazi "All men are Pigs" (b…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 08:57 PM
3

The best is when you have someone who you have patiently explained these things to, dozens of times, and they still make the same stupid mistakes. I worked out, but I gained a pound! Oh noes! Calories are all equal, so let me just go on an all-donut diet. Let me just do a super hard exercise (sprints) and wonder why I can barely move the next day.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 03:33 PM
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It's not that difficult to figure out what to eat: DON'T EAT processed food, especially with a lot of GMO carbs. Pizza, I would say, is THE worst food you can eat. Beer is the worst food you can drink. DO EAT Organic food, high in protein Organic vegetables A few nutritional supplements Drink plenty of water A little bit of organic fruit Regular exercise: 6 hours a week lifting, in three 2 hour sessions of compound lifts; Walking for 90 minutes on off days. However, it's not that this is hard, i…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 03:31 PM
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Eh, maybe he thought I was breaking his balls. But I sympathize with his predicament, because I went through the same thing, only almost preemptively, and at a young age, which pretty much ruined casual sex for me.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 03:19 PM
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If they were high value, someone likely would have wifed or LTR'd them up.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 03:17 PM
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Also, you are wasting her time, and she's wondering if you are gay, or a serial killer.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 05:16 AM
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I once fooled around with a girl who was overweight, but otherwise cute. There was actual physical chemistry there, but ultimately, her unwillingness to take care of her health was a huge turn-off, as was her fixation on sugary foods. That and she was saving her virginity for marriage. Still had the tightest pussy I ever played with.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 04:17 AM
13

Still had what? The entirety of the Old Country Buffet???
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 04:14 AM
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You're probably a little depressed because after banging 15 of the hottest girls of your life, and having it not immediately change your internal life on the level of Buddhist enlightenment, LIKE IT WAS MARKETED as, you're now wondering what all the fuss was about, and if there is anything out there that actually lives up to the hype.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 01:16 AM
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tldr; Go one step further: sex is about reproduction, not pleasure. Once you have children, you really don't need to bother with casual sex IF you don't want to. You can cut the THOTS out of the picture entirely through saving money and doing surrogacy or being a sperm donor. I think the main problem with this post, and the problem with using the term "sexual strategy," as it is USUALLY DEFINED on this sub, is that the people who write these posts, and therefore are attempting to assert some lev…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/19 01:13 AM
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Was the married brother's mistake that he got married and raised a family? Or was the mistake that he didn't go into the marriage with his eyes wide open, understanding female nature, holding frame, practicing dread game, and so on? Edit: It sounds like it was the latter because OP states that he was blind-sinded. A TRP-aware dude would at least know what happened, and would have seen it coming. One can argue that it was a mistake for him to actually marry in the first place, given what is known…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 10:02 PM
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Chads? No way. Chad is dating women at least a decade younger than him. At best, they can get a beta-fied natural alpha, or a moralistic alpha bux. And that's literally like finding a needle in a haystack. Plus, most older single guys worth a damn have gone through a divorce or two, have children, emotional baggage, etc.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 08:50 PM
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Eh, people on here would benefit more from, "How to Find Better Ways to Spend Your Time Than Pandering to Used Up Bar Sluts." If you are a high value man, and you stoop to walking into a bar, which is like a roach motel for humans, but over a protracted period of time, the bar sluts will notice you and try to get your attention.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 01:20 AM
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It's also a great method of banishing them with little social consequences.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 12:03 AM
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Here are some interesting links: This one has the word roots: "breathe" and "with" https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/conspire Now, notice these detailed explanations of civil (i.e. business) and criminal conspiracies. In the former, the damages are mostly monetary, where companies caught trying to steal intellectual property or compete unethically are punished monetarily. In the latter, there are criminal penalties that involve incarceration. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conspiracy_(civil) https:/…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 07:27 AM
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Well, I agree with you on it being used as a cop-out. However, the cold hard reality for most people, is the even their best efforts may lead to nothing, but then again, we are all in that boat, even as a species, in the grand scheme of things. One more detail. The term conspiracy has been around for generations, it means "to breath together," meaning a bunch of people in a room, breathing together, presumably plotting against somebody in power. The laws make it a crime not only to commit a crim…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 05:08 AM
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Ugh. This reminds me of a female relative nobody talks to. She drove away her first husband, and several of her children with her toxicity. Before she drove away my immediate family, she had a boyfriend. She never liked the guy, but he was useful to her. He drove her places, took her on trips. He was an affable enough guy, but it was clear she looked down on him. When he got older and sickly, she started panicking that she would have to be his nursemaid. She literally stated, "I don't want to be…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 04:30 AM
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Great motivational post.... except for the title. I'm sorry, but the title is true only to the extent that there isn't just ONE conspiracy against the general public, but MANY. Not understanding that what you are born into is a product of human planning and design, will definitely hold you back. Sure, it's true that there are natural limits to life, like, we will all die eventually, we are subject to the laws of physics that require us not to jump off cliffs, starve ourselves, or hit ourselves i…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 04:25 AM
1

Yeah, you can leave it up.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 02:07 AM
4

Older women are usually universally thirsty, hence the show "Desperate Housewives." The husbands have either moved on to younger women, or their sex drives dry up as the woman's go up, or they divorced them, but can only sporadically ride the cock carousel for the occasional pump and dump, where they get used for a ONS, but then no repeat business. And then you have all the old maids and never marrieds who keep hoping to find someone, but won't lower their standards. So the thirst is real. Howev…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 09:03 PM
16

Well, one should be healthy anyway, and it is better to be rich than poor, no? So he's already doing that work to support his son, and possibly an ex. So for him, it really is just a few hours pay to get laid. Lifting is like paying your taxes, except you get way more back from it. And money is money. His SMV and plausible deniability are his primary seduction tools.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 08:52 AM
23

Location, location, location. He's in some country with sufficient economic difficulties that he went to a club and there were more women than men, and men don't have a lot of money. So, since it's a numbers game of supply and demand, he was in short supply, and therefore, in high demand. They assumed he had higher value. Also he lifts. If his country is poor, that signals that he is prosperous enough to eat well and has free time. Also, he's in an LTR, so he's already getting laid, and he has f…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 08:44 AM
4

Well, you're not 100% wrong, I will grant you that. I know guys that died before they ever reached the "prize." OD'd on drugs, committed suicide, or got a chronic incurable disease and passed away. There is no such thing as a risk-free life. The thing is, these earthly pleasures are mostly cheap. I mean, they are just TOO easy, and they lead to stagnation that is hard to recover from. Sure, many wise people have said that one NEEDS to go to extremes and derange the senses, but for every person t…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 06:02 PM
2

Well, the "alpha" guy IS the relaxed, funny guy. He's relaxed because he knows he has it made in the shade. It's another way to signal abundance and wealth to girls. Of course one shouldn't go on about wealth, as it does reek of insecurity, however, if one signals wealth, in any number of ways, it will attract women. One need not spend astronomical amounts of money, as that might have the opposite effect of scaring people and/or attracting gold-diggers, but it is enough to wear above average qua…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 05:40 PM
3

Yeah, okay, in these cases, then, I definitely agree with you. Guys who are on the right path SHOULD get out there and start practicing their game. But there is less urgency, as many of these guys aren't going to want to settle down until 30-40 at least, unless they come from traditional families that want them to settle down early. The women will often pick up on this, and DQ themselves, looking for a guy who will commit, that is, if the women are smart they do this. I think, though, that it's …
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 05:36 PM
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It is possible to not bang an ex. I still remain friends with an ex, and we NEVER bang, although because of the degenerate culture we live in, EVERYONE assumes we are banging! A lot of bitter truth in here. It sounds to me, like everyone needs to read Madame Bovary and discovery the dangerous addictive nature of peak experiences. There was probably nothing wrong with that Italian girl, except your inability to appreciate her, and also, perhaps you weren't anywhere near ready to commit, but could…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 12:32 AM
1

Well, that is one of the points to self-improvement: rewards. However, many of the rewards are internal, and not necessarily in prize form.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/19 11:47 PM
2

I never said don't go and get laid. It's not that hard to get laid, if that's all you want. Go hire a hooker, and you're done. You have gotten laid. If you exercise regularly and have an athletic body, go out with your buddies and hit on drunk chicks. Odds are, eventually you'll get laid. Also, if you want to get laid, fuck girls below you in SMV. However, all of this, is, for the most part, A WASTE OF TIME. How do I know this? Because I WAS that guy chasing girls. I wasted my time being a blue-…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/19 11:42 PM
7

Lol. Oh really? I went to college, and was part of numerous social scenes. I got laid there through what people on the internet call "social circle game." More relevantly, I had a close view of guys who were EXTREMELY successful, and guys who were ABJECT failures at getting laid. I never said you had to go monk mode. I said that if you excel there, and you aren't a sperg, you won't have to work very hard to get women, you'll have to work hard at a different set of problems, like getting trapped …
/r/TheRedPill19/10/19 11:41 PM
8

It's far easier for a man with excellent habits to "learn game," than it is for a man with shit habits who got laid in college to then turn himself into a man with excellent habits. When you are young, you have the most neuroplasticity and strength. If you work your ass off, you are likelier to succeed. The problem is, you are also at your horniest, and you are subject to peer pressure. You are also inexperienced and insecure. You have also been brainwashed and sold a bluepill lie about romance.…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/19 11:34 PM
2

Dude, if I were a scammy pick-up artist, wouldn't I try to be selling services on here? Do I have a PUA website? I think not. Granted, I am a dude with an opinion, but it is an informed opinion. I am a dude who lucked out in many respects, so I DID have women throwing themselves at me. They weren't the high value ones though, because I wasn't high value you enough to get THAT level of attention. It was more like the guy who had the local betas' and below girlfriends hitting on me, which incurred…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/19 11:26 PM
3

Of course. I think about death every day. That's why I try to spend my time wisely. Chasing after cheap lays is not a wise way to spend time.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/19 11:19 PM
10

I dunno. It seems like most guys go to college to subconsciously chase after girls. College is marketed as a hedonistic free-for-all. Thus, girls are constantly fending off the advances of low-value horny guys, who get increasingly frustrated that their "game," isn't working. So, in that case, we are in agreement. I think that if money is being spent on a college credential, the person who is getting the credential better make the most of their time. TBH, college may just not be the best place t…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/19 04:56 AM
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Um, nope. You DO need to be serious... but not about "trying to get laid," meaning chasing women. You need to be serious about improving your damn self, so that women will be chasing you when you are in your twenties through fifties. This means lifting, eating right, sleeping right, mental hygiene, weeding out bad habits, building social networks, looking for and learning new skills, accumulating wealth, etc. If you are DEADLY SERIOUS about all of that, women will be throwing themselves at your …
/r/TheRedPill19/10/19 03:55 AM
2

Eh, the so-called "true friendship" can also be the one-itis of inter-male relations, so be wary of who your so-called friends are, and what is being exchanged between the two of you.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/19 01:53 AM
1

Don't get me wrong, if you are not paying attention, or if you are part of some group program, you will get your pocket picked. One thing they can get you with is if a piece of gravel scratches the rental car, you'll get hit with several hundred dollars / euros worth of fees in Icelandic Krona. So, it's best to play it safe and buy an insurance policy rider that will minimize the hassle involved with renting a car. Renting a car is great, though, because even though you may pay a bit more, you g…
/r/MGTOW19/10/19 01:47 AM
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The best way to appear to not care .... is to not care. Think about it this way. The odds aren't in your favor. So why not just relax and not give a fuck until she's has been having sex with you for at least a few years while behaving herself? She is NOTHING to you when it's just a first date. She's a stranger. Also, she is guilty until proven innocent. She needs to sell herself to you.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 08:03 AM
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Yawn. You're splitting hairs. If you get your passport stamped in Iceland, you can then travel to a whole bunch of other countries, as it is heavily integrated into the European Union. That's what I meant by "Eurozone." Also, even though it is expensive there, as long as you don't do anything stupid, like go to a bar and buy alcoholic beverages, it is very affordable. You can stay at discount motels for reasonable rates. And you can shop at grocery stores and prepare your own meals. If you go wi…
/r/MGTOW18/10/19 07:55 AM
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Airfare to Iceland is a few hundred bucks. It's the cheapest Eurozone country to fly to. Portugal is cheap. Costa Rica is also cheap. If you and a few friends pooled your resources, you could EASILY go to any one of those places. But it's hard to go if you believe it's impossible.
/r/MGTOW18/10/19 04:59 AM
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Touche. It is a grey area. As someone else pointed out, people in the upper echelons of society will often affect a "common touch," because they are secure in their knowledge of their superior status, and it is considered bad form to flaunt it. On the other hand, even though it is considered bad form, some will act like jerks as a naked display of power to signal the apparent interchangeability of the people supposedly underneath them.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 04:22 AM
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The policy I follow, which isn't fool-proof, is to default to being polite and respectful. Then, if a person takes that as a cue to behave rudely or disdainfully towards me, I ghost them, meaning, I withdraw attention from them, and redirect it elsewhere. Over time, I accumulate people who treat me with respect. If one of them lapses, I don't reward the lapse, I just redirect my attention elsewhere. I accumulate more people. Eventually, I am left with a fair number of somewhat reliable people, a…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 03:44 AM
7

The only men that are higher status than the women that matter, that is, the minority of young, attractive, healthy, fertile, and agreeable women, are the even smaller minority of HIGH VALUE men. That is why these women are always complaining about not finding a "real man" or a "good man." They are competing for this narrow sliver of conspicuously superior men. Meanwhile, ALL non-high value straight men with sex drives are competing for them. High value men don't have to compete because they are…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 03:38 AM
1

TRP is about sexual strategy and doing what you want to do. If the guy wants to fuck 40 year old women, then let him. More younger ones for you. It sounds like you may be looking for a wingman for validation and moral support, and there is nothing wrong with that, but this isn't your man, so you should look elsewhere. Also, he's probably a bit insecure about it, so he's trying to rationalize what he is doing like he has the upper hand. But maybe he just prefers 40 year old women because he finds…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/19 03:44 AM
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Eh, I'm telling you, it's all smoke and mirrors with these people. They have paid advisors telling them things they can do to increase market share. If he was an actual Christian, he'd be washing the feet of lepers somewhere, not living an ostentatious lifestyle in the public eye.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/19 12:22 AM
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Whatever, the dude could have gone to Armenia and wifed up a beautiful Armenian woman tens times prettier than that heifer he roped himself to. Marrying her was a cold-blooded, calculated business decision. These people out in Hollywood, they're like fucking reptiles with that shit. Go read the history on it. They are so far from Kansas, they aren't even in Oz, but like some weird bondage Cliver Barker hellscape of debauchery where their personal lives are just more grist for the money mill.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/19 12:20 AM
3

That method acting tho... I wonder how many takes it took to get the desired effect. We are seeing an edited version of what happened.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/19 12:18 AM
10

Who is it "universally" despised by, exactly? Half of TRP is MGTOW. TRP is basically MGTOW, with "hey, it's okay to get laid, and here are some tips on how to!" Going Your Own Way means doing what you want, and if that means getting laid, then so be it. But A LOT of people don't like MGTOW because they see it as male selfishness. We are expected to sacrifice for women and children, and if we don't do that, it's not good for "society." Meanwhile, I would say that these interests: women, the emplo…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/19 08:34 AM
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That's because half the children were sired by Gerard Depardieu.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/19 08:30 AM
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The whole original post is a joke anyway, because it's a Hollywood couple whose entire life is being televised. Does he REALLY care? I doubt it. If he cared, he would never have gotten with her in the first place, nor would he continue to agree to have his life televised with her. They are two people who whore themselves out to the general public and the media, through the media. So this all just drama.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/19 05:08 AM
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Yep, harsh reality there. If you are broke, you aren't going to be around quality people, or really any people, period. After all, you are broke, so you are constantly trying to make money, so all your relationships will be related to making money, which isn't the same as having actual friends.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/19 05:00 AM
2

Had he been poor, she never would have gotten with him in the first place, or she would have left him, or she would have complained that they were poor.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/19 04:51 AM
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Massive frame collapse. Edit: This is probably all just more manufactured drama.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/19 04:43 AM
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He expected that as a high-value male, his wife will fall in line and orbit him.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/19 04:40 AM
1

I had my suspicions back then. Obviously I'm familiar with it now.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/19 04:36 AM
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Eh, there are a whole bunch all over the internet, and in used book stores, and they are all over the political spectrum and use different language to describe the same thing. For instance, one person describes a "straw boss" system to manage the general population, where if there is a problem, there is essentially nobody to hold accountable, because the real power brokers aren't elected or appointed, but are behind the scenes sitting on giant stacks of money. So, women are part of this straw bo…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 12:40 AM
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He dodged a hail of bullets, but is wondering where "he" fucked up, as opposed to this woman, and her fucked up life making HER radioactive. That's how deep the bluepill brainwashing goes. You're expected to adapt and compensate, aka, "man up" and "do the right thing" for women who are complete trainwrecks as human beings.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 12:30 AM
2

I know of at least one older woman who is probably going through resentment from her husband for having married him late. Her response is to shrug and go back onto the carousel to get her needs met with a "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy from him. She has no clue as to why he might behave the way he does, nor does she have any interest in finding out.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 12:28 AM
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Women are mostly in bullshit jobs anyway. They can pay it back with their token salaries calculated to keep them in the hamster wheel of work/consume until death, occasionally earning a luxury handbag, fancy dinner, or slut-shoes on the side in exchange for a lay or two. In fact, a fair amount of jobs are bullshit, designed to puff up a company with an army of warm bodies to keep away the hoi polloi so it can't interfere with the managerial elite and the old money shareholders.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/19 07:53 AM
19

Heh. They will continue to LOAN out the money, more and more to women, so that THEY can have the corporate debt-serf jobs, and be the pay-their-own way harem to the alpha male elite at the top of the corporate hierarchy. The women borrow the money so that they can get a shot at Chad. Marry Chad or die trying. Well, maybe have his baby and get a Beta Bernie to support it. Meanwhile the Betas will keep borrowing money so that they can get close to the women in the corporate hierarchy, who will be …
/r/TheRedPill14/10/19 07:50 AM
7

They are probably just upset that none of the hundred or so baldness "cures" they tried worked at all. The lasers, the creams, the gels, the surgeries that just made them look like stupid dolls, the markers, etc.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/19 03:02 AM
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Dude, don't feel bad. Look at it THIS way. You saw an attractive woman, and then, you let an idealized image MOTIVATE you into SELF-IMPROVEMENT. You worked your ass off, got shredded, focused on yourself, then you went and found her, approached her, got her number, and went on a date with her. You know what so many other guys would have done? Not a fucking thing. You did EXACTLY the right thing. Only, you did it for the less than right reasons. Keep in mind, she's "nothing special," BUT, she's a…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/19 12:11 AM
10

This person is "hooked on a feeling," to quote the song. It's literally like a drug addiction. It IS a drug addiction.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/19 09:41 PM
3

I'm with you. It's not. However, to some guys, i.e. super-high-value guys who are so solipsistic they don't realize how much of their own value is contributing to their lay count, meaning the "implication" that if the woman plays her cards right, she could get a piece of the lifestyle the high value guy is leading, that this behavior appears thirsty. I regularly encounter a lot of women on regular basis, and I would say that chemistry isn't that cheap. And I mean, really good physical chemistry …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 11:50 PM
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She wants to know if there is a problem in case she needs to start planning an exit strategy, or execute a pre-existing one, or even in certain cases, just straight up end the relationship immediately.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/19 08:41 PM
1

Is this your personal experience? It's hard to tell what is going on in that department. You have what you see on the media, and then what you see with your own eyes. From what I've seen, wealth and status can carry the day, but social scenes mostly seem segregated along skin color and ethnicity lines, at least where I'm from, and I imagine it is worse in other areas. I merely drew the conclusion that OP was of middling SMV because he flew to another city to get laid. I had a friend in high scho…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/19 08:37 PM
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You're not wrong. But, I mean, let's be real here. If he were a Chad, he wouldn't be here. Also, reality check: Chad isn't on here. What you see on here are guys who were missing something, who then went on a quest to improve and discover what was missing, and are posting their results. Chads are having a great time of it with the women. Their futures are set. They will have a job at their Daddy's company, or at the company of one Daddy's friends, and then they will take over one day, or inherit…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/19 05:36 PM
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You are not wrong at all, HOWEVER... They are BRAINWASHED into thinking that THEY are the prize, and it is supported by every guy licking their asshole as soon as they sprout boobs. That's the diabolical thing: the brainwashing supports their "reality" of being deified as idols of fertility. Also, they lack the intellectual maturity and experience to see through the brainwashing. All they know is "green," so the possibility of brown, or even its inevitability is hard to fathom. Do a thought expe…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/19 05:30 PM
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If he makes decent money, and values his time, spending a few hundred bucks on a planet ticket and a hotel room for consensual sex with a woman that wants to fuck his brains out with no strings attached is not too bad a deal. Remember, not everyone is an 8-10 Chad. This subreddit is about sexual strategy. Guys who are 4-7s can still use sexual strategy to get laid, but they just have to dial back their expectations a bit. Maybe OP is a guy who spams a lot of chicks online, fails most of the time…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/19 04:08 AM
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Alpha-hood is often situational, but even then, certain timeless patterns prevail: physical strength and beauty, as represented in the physical build and form of a man, which demonstrates the likelihood of children that resemble the man in strength and beauty, displays of wealth and status which demonstrate the material abundance necessary to provide for children, and also a fair amount of intelligence and cunning, also hopefully inherited by the children.... and almost everything else is window…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/19 08:06 PM
2

Well, don't beat yourself up too much over it. She also was pushing you away as well by engaging in emotional terrorism. I mean, she could have recognized the dynamics for what they were and told you that she didn't think you were going to be in it for the long haul, then ended it to go find someone who was. Instead, she behaved in a repellent manner, which added to a vicious cycle of repulsion. So yeah, learn from it, move on, and hopefully it goes better the next time.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/19 07:51 PM
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Ha, you beat me. Only four. Let me ask you a question then. Do you draw any conclusions about the people from which the language originates based on the structure of the language? Also, these five languages... are they similar to some extent, i.e. Romance languages, Slavic languages, or do you know languages that are radically different, i.e. Arabic, Chinese, etc.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 10:33 PM
1

Heh. Ironic that you should use that as a metaphor. How many languages do you speak, read, write, study, think in, eh? One thing about learning a foreign language: you realize how languages borrow from each other.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 07:00 PM
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From reading this, I suspect the following: You were never in it for the long haul with her, but like you said at the beginning, you weren't honest with yourself. That's why you pushed her away, and passively sat back while she escalated with other men. That was her way of trying to "win you back." She was demonstrating abundance mentality, hoping it would make you want her again. Instead, you did nothing, then after she blew some guy and had sex with him, suddenly, you can now put it on her for…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 06:01 PM
1

Eh, this model assumes a linearity to life, when there is often back-sliding, and uneven progress. So, people may advance up the chain, but then get triggered backwards, or they accept certain things, but stay angry about others for years. Such is life.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 05:44 PM
4

Generally on point, but there are prohibitions on wife rape that go back thousands of years in several different religious traditions.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 05:41 PM
1

You're naive if you think it's just that "they were the people who could be bought." There were people of all different skin colors that were enslaved, but ultimately, they elected to by slaves from Africa, in part because their skin color would mark them permanently as a slave. Also, you're assuming that there is one monolithic race of black Africans! That's like assuming there is one monolithic race of white Europeans! Completely wrong! If all the "non-white" "races" perished today, the so-cal…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 03:28 AM
1

I already wrote that it doesn't have to be "race" based slavery. The original argument started when GLO wrote that Leon Trotsky invented the notion of "race" and "racism," when in fact, we had 400 years of racism-based slavery in the United States that predate Trotsky's very existence at the very least. There are other examples of slavery that don't use race. Sometimes it's religion, sometimes its politics, sometimes its having the wrong clan affiliation. But it is always an ingroup superior / o…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/19 08:09 PM
1

Well, you're the captain of your own ship, so you decide what is and isn't possible.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 11:12 PM
1

No, everyone is NOT equal. Is someone with severe Down's Syndrome equal to a super-genius? I think not. The mistake the racists make is lumping themselves in with the great persons in their ethnic cohort, when really, they ain't that great at all. Most people are AVERAGE TO BELOW-AVERAGE. It takes extra resources to be above-average, usually. You seem to think skin color, hair type, eye-lid shape, and a physical height variance of one foot are huge differences. They're not. People can still have…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 08:24 PM
1

Most people aren't willing to put in any effort AT ALL. Or, their idea of effort is a montage from Rocky or the Karate Kid. Effort is effort. It requires work. Suffering. Willingness to risk failure. Willingness to be rejection. Would you be willing to go out five nights a week and be rejected by 10-20 women a night, so that somewhere along the line, you might be getting some mediocre sex? Well, you're in the boat most men are in. One thing you can do is work on building wealth and power, as it …
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 07:49 PM
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Yeah, but maybe you have a brain, some skills, the ability to build a musculature. It's not about looks. It's about biochemistry. That's where the term "sexy-ugly" comes from. Many women DON'T like pretty boys. I see all kinds of men with pretty women. So don't worry so much about your face. Work with what you have.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 05:18 AM
1

Only if you actually improve in a number of areas. There are plenty of sad sack 30 and 40 year olds not getting laid. These are guys who either let themselves go, or never had much to work with, or never bothered to improve. If you are 30-40, on the other hand, and you lifted through your twenties, AND you played your career cards right, you are now making a fair amount of money, you have investments that have appreciated, you have property, you can be "generous" with gifts and trips to Europe, …
/r/TheRedPill26/09/19 10:03 PM
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Yes, then they aren't real "radical leftists," then, are they? They're just capitalist tools. The only reason the capitalists tolerate these alternative ideologies is that they limit the supply of actual capitalists who could threaten their mini-fiefdoms, and then they also provide a big fat signal for who isn't a "team player," and is therefore marked for non-advancement by the intelligence agencies they control. If they tried to impose their ideology on everyone, it wouldn't work, and people w…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/19 10:00 PM
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Fucks sake bro, and you're NOT a historical revisionist, what with Leon Trotsky "inventing" racism? What, did he use his portal gun to go back in time and give the idea to pre-historic Cro-Magnons so they could use it to slaughter the Neanderthals and eat their corpses? And next, you're going to tell me Al Gore invented the Internet, right? What you're presenting isn't historical research, but historical revisionism through an ideological lens that you gleaned from another person's synthesis. Ad…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/19 02:38 AM
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Nothing you have said here is an actual argument. It's all ad hominem defensive blathering because you don't want to admit that you were wrong on a basic factual matter regarding slavery and racism, which you claim are unrelated even though the USA had 400 years of "race" based slavery before Leon Trotsky was born! Also, you are mischaracterizing what I said. I never at any point said that the Europeans had a monopoly on racism. That would be NON-FACTUAL. There are racists in every ethnic group,…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/19 01:27 AM
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Racism has much to do with slavery. How are you supposed to enslave someone that you view as an equal? One needs a doctrine of inferiority / superiority. Since people can always change their supposed beliefs on a whim, or pretend to, you need something fixed that can't be changed overnight. Hair can be dyed, so it can't be that. Skin color, on the other hand, has historically, been difficult or impossible to change. So now, with this in mind, one can construct an ideology of supremacy / inferior…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 10:22 PM
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"Racism is bullshit invented by Leon Trotsky." Leon Trotsky was born in 1879. Racism is one of the major pillars of the institution of slavery. Slavery has been around for thousands of years. Racism-based LEGAL de jure slavery existed in North America (pre-dating the founding of the United States) for hundreds of years until 1865. That predates the existence of Leon Trotsky. If you're going to make arguments, they should probably be based on FACTS. There are stacks of books that condense primary…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 06:38 PM
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They have magazine. I believe it's called "Divorce .. something or other.." I'm not joking. Saw it at a gym. Started flipping through it, and it was all psychological ploys to get mildly dissatisfied people to commence divorce proceedings.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 01:28 AM
1

You're not wrong, at all, on that point. I think it comes from trying to control something that is essentially, uncontrollable. Even I turn myself into Bas Ruten Jr., people will still try and test me. This really just me being insecure and griping about a very minor problem. I know it sounds conceited, but without any formal training in wrestling, I managed to prevent my college room-mate from "winning" for about 30 minutes. He eventually gave up trying to win. He was an experienced wrestler an…
/r/askTRP19/09/19 09:57 PM
1

This seems relevant: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pUXyCXUko9g
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 06:52 PM
1

Edit: Also, I don't have cauliflower ear. And I don't currently train MMA, though I plan to try BJJ in the near future, I'm more focused on other forms of movement; I would like to reprioritize climbing, so I'm working on that right now. And, with regard to looking formidable, that UFC guy, Bas Ruten, routinely gets physically assaulted and challenged, even though he looks very imposing and has the skills to beat most people to a pulp. He also comes across as very affable in the interviews, and …
/r/askTRP19/09/19 06:42 PM
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I'm over 6 feet tall and I weigh over 200 lbs. I have trained in martial arts in the past and I know how to defend myself. The dude that approached was also over 6 feet tall, and I think he was more muscular. He also looked like he had done martial arts training. He was also wearing more expensive clothes. I don't think anyone can ever avoid these kinds of situations. Even if you are Conan the Barbarian, there is always some fool who is going to try and be "The Guy that Bested Conan!" In fact, l…
/r/askTRP19/09/19 06:31 PM
1

Heh. Well... it's a bit of a gray area. It's basically a hobby that's a competitive arena as well as a community. So people come together, do their thing, and so there is a need to keep the peace, but people are also competing to be the best, so there is more demand for them within the group, and so if you get better, you are suddenly threatening the people who have a vested interest in staying at the top of the hierarchy, or at least in their own minds. The best dudes are the ones who confident…
/r/askTRP18/09/19 10:26 PM
1

Thanks for the thoughtful reply. Yeah, the whole bikerss thing was a bit silly because nobody in their right mind goes to a place like that. But do you have any "rivals" or "frenemies" or ambiguous dudes that you are acquainted with that try to befriend your or leverage some positive vibes to get to a girl you are with or interested in?
/r/askTRP17/09/19 11:05 PM
1

What about guys you know within your social circle, but who aren't your good friends, maybe even they are rivals, AND they also do BJJ and mixed martial arts, so maybe even they think they can take you, and that adds to it? I'm not worried about randoms because of stranger danger. Also, if you go to the wrong place at the wrong time, you might run into Hell's Angel's types, then what?
/r/askTRP17/09/19 10:13 PM
5

I just couldn't resist that play on words.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 10:10 PM
1

No problemo.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 10:09 PM
21

What exactly are you trying to save her FROM? What if you grew up in a culture where prostitutes were venerated and admired instead of pitied and despised? She wasn't asking you to be her boyfriend, or provider, or soul-mate. She was probably just looking for some judgment-free sex with a man she's actually somewhat attracted to, instead of a John who is paying her. That is what Tinder is FOR. Of course, brainwashing is hard to combat. You were literally ASSUMING she wanted to be wifed up. You w…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 10:26 PM
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I don't think this kind of mission is fit for an officer of his pay-grade. Strippers and escorts, we're talking at LEAST a Lieutenant Colonel...
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 10:22 PM
1

Eh, IMO, EVERYONE is potentially dangerous. You never know if the scrawny droopy dog looking dude is packing a knife or a gun. That's why I don't disrespect random dudes based on appearance. I don't care if the looks and talks like a big loser, or is harmless. Everyone gets treated with a de minimis of courtesy and dignity. I would say that my appearance would deter most guys from trying something. The problem is, these guys KNOW me, they have known me for years. But we aren't friends. We are ju…
/r/askTRP16/09/19 07:49 PM
1

Thanks for the thoughtful reply. You seemed to grasp that it's a fairly gray, nuanced situation.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 07:46 PM
1

Well of course not. Also, if the woman is PoS, then they are just helping the process along... HOWEVER, I feel like it's a respect issue, and that I don't command enough respect from certain dudes, but also that it may be a lack of character on their part as well, where they are just simply dogs who are trying to suck eggs off the floor, and they would do it to anyone, even their best friends or brothers, or whatever, just for the lay count.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 07:45 PM
1

If they were strangers, then they wouldn't do anything in all likelihood. I'm over six feet tall, I work out, I have the 1000 yard stare, I have been in fair number of fights and physical confrontations. What works against me in these situations, is that these guys know me, and we are all in a peaceful setting, and it's a recreational community that I am fairly invested in. They aren't randoms coming up in a crowded situation. They are people who are leveraging the community to "befriend" women …
/r/askTRP16/09/19 07:43 PM
2

Eh, not "mate-guarding," where I try to control her. More like suitor-deterance within a social circle where I'm not viewed as a threat because I'm a "known" entity. Basically, it's a respect issue from dudes. I don't feel like I'm respected enough by certain people
/r/askTRP16/09/19 07:37 PM
3

Eh, these aren't random guys. These are guys I know in my social circle who are either overt or cover haters or frenemies. They do this to test my boundaries and to validate their egos. I probably do it to, though I have my own way of doing it so as not to be a dick. It's actually kind of complicated. Also, I didn't ask for the endorsement, nor I claim to be a god or a guru. I'm just a dude on the internet with an opinion, and I sometimes look for advice, like anyone else. I think basically, tha…
/r/askTRP16/09/19 07:35 PM
3

I wondered if there was some sort of corporate chicanery going on with that ad campaign. It kind of reminded me of when Abercrombie and Fitch used to chemical bomb their customers with cologne, and it was driving away business. ANF is a publicly traded company, so maybe there were some Sith Lord shorts (entities that bet against the upward progress of the stock price) who infiltrated management or otherwise adversely influenced the company's policies, so as to drive down prices so that the compa…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 09:20 PM
2

Obligatory Mormon dum dah dah dum dum dumb... comment.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 01:36 AM
2

They may not even be his children. He could just be the beta care-taker.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 01:35 AM
0

Yawn, so if you are elite enough to get into an elite institution, you can leverage that eliteness for more eliteness by running in elite circles. It's not that it's a BUSINESS SCHOOL, it's that it is an ELITE business school.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 01:33 AM
0

Ugh, I'm already seeing this play out with a close relative...
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 10:25 PM
13

Their sexual prime is post-wall PROBABLY because natural selection allowed women who turned into huge sluts after 30 to retain some value to the men in their lives as sex partners, and thus survive longer to pass on their genes by cranking out a few more kids. Prudish women were discarded when they got older for new, younger sex partners. So it is natural selection that led to this. I remember realizing how fucked up this would make the sexual marketplace when I was back in high school, at MY se…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 10:21 PM
20

Ah, let me see if I can help you. I suffer from anxiety as well. I introspected on it, and realized it comes from the ILLUSION that I, the individual, can CONTROL my circumstances, when really I am at the mercy of impersonal forces that will eventually destroy me (entropy leads to old age leads to death). This leads one to believe, in a relationship, that one can CONTROL the other persons feelings, behavior, etc. In a healthy relationship, one can set boundaries, and the boundaries are respected…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/19 12:48 AM
12

One of the ladies I associate with is in her late forties to early fifties. She still looks good. Her age didn't stop her from fucking a relatively successful (career-wise) guy in his twenties, who SHE then ghosted because he seemed too needy. Getting laid is easy for women. So many guys are thirsty and desperate because of the bottle-neck around the fertile, attractive women, that there are still plenty of pickings for older women who take care of themselves. They won't get serious relationship…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/19 10:52 PM
13

Note to self: be more like Putin.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/19 06:04 AM
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In the immortal words of Vladimir Putin, "one must not get into arguments with women...." Also, scrubbing the toilet is easy. Just make sure you have a brush in the bathroom and some toilet cleaner. Flush, use the cleaner, wait a minute or two, then use the brush, flush a few times to clean the brush, put the brush in the brush holder that it keeps it locked up, and you're done. You can also use some wet-wipes to clean the other parts, then toss them in the trash. Don't forget to wash your hands…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/19 01:53 AM
2

Well, I do agree with this. I never liked what went on at bachelor parties. I kept wondering where these "traditions" came from. I'd wager it's the influence of industry groups through the film and TV shows, where these kinds of parties are depicted as normal, when they are just one more thing to piss away money on.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/19 03:13 AM
1

I never said they WERE the same, I said they DO the exact same things... I agree that the behavior is off-putting, but I think that it is equally off-putting for either gender, though for different reasons. I mean, a guy is PROBABLY already on the fail route IF he is getting married in the first place, so it's a fail that would include the accompanying bachelor party. Then you have the thirst that it demonstrates. The guy is telling his friends and family that he is so hard up, that he needs to …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/19 03:12 AM
6

This man gets it. Rather than say, outright slaughter, or overt iron shackle-enslavement, the alphas BETA-IFY as many males as they can.... more women for them.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/19 11:28 PM
13

"I can't marry you honey! I love you too much! I want us to be life partners, and I don't want you to lose attraction for me by entering into an unfavorable legally binding situation that incentivizes you to emasculate, and ultimately castrate me!" ALSO "I only see those side-pieces while simultaneously forbidding you from cucking me so I can still be the center of your world for the greater good of our life-partnership! You wouldn't want some weak cuck that can't get other women, would you???"
/r/TheRedPill30/08/19 09:01 PM
7

Men do the same exact thing, in my experience. They will "test" the relationship by either disparaging the woman, the institution of marriage itself, or by hitting on the woman to see if she takes the bait. It seems to be some sort of instinctual social firmware that serves the purpose of "stress-testing" a potentially disastrous relationship before a commitment is made. If the people shrug off these tests because they are secure in their relationship, everyone just moves on and accepts it as th…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/19 08:58 PM
4

There are many reasons not to get married. Piggish behavior by a subset of women when confronting by a muscular guy with a dangling schlong in a setting perceived as consequence-free is not one of them. Men do these exact same things for a number of reasons. Many of them do it just to get it out of their system so they can have that experience and move on. Some of them do it because they are single and lonely, and want to experience human contact and beauty. Of course, many get shamed for being …
/r/TheRedPill30/08/19 08:56 PM
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"Girls" don't have a sex drive.... ....until they turn into "women" around 30 or so, and the desperation kicks in. A woman in her 30's is akin to a boy in his teen years: horny and desperate. Meanwhile, as we men age, we become more circumspect and ambivalent.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 10:49 PM
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You can be masculine without denigrating gay people. Also, wouldn't you rather define your own masculinity rather than have it imposed on you by a central authority, not matter how apparently well-intentioned? I mean, how masculine are you, really, if you practice the virtues traditionally assimilated with masculinity only because a centralized authority is influencing you to through some sort of hegemonic process, (usually so they can then send you off to die in a war)? It also applies to the w…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/19 12:19 AM
2

I just had a woman try to throw herself on my dick because she was ovulating. Then she apologized for it the next day, stating it as the cause. I actually found it off-putting.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 05:34 PM
7

Eh, you are exaggerating a bit. You will attend maybe one "diversity" seminar to comply with laws or virtue signal. It's not like you have to attend one every week or even month. Why would any sane and mature person WANT to insult their associates on a daily basis with words like "fag?" I mean, I could see someone who is deeply in the closet and trying to stay there.... the proper heterosexual posture is INDIFFERENCE at worst. Many people cannot handle freedom. They need someone to tell them wha…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 05:32 PM
1

Metaphor? Why, whatever do you mean? I just went through the same thing. I determined to have at least two pairs. One that stays in the car, and one that stays at home. They aren't completely cheap, but they 50% less than the designer brand that finally broke after being dropped numerous times over the course of a year.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 05:21 PM
1

Metaphor? Why, whatever do you mean? I just went through the same thing. I determined to have at least two pairs. One that stays in the car, and one that stays at home. They aren't completely cheap, but they 50% less than the designer brand that finally broke after being dropped numerous times over the course of a year.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 05:21 PM
4

If someone says "Maybe" to an invitation, it's a "soft" "No." You can always just say that you assumed they weren't interested, so you asked someone else, or you told someone else and they were excited and invited themselves along, etc. You've got your own life to live. You can't go around waiting on other people. Many of us are taught conflicting things: that we are the center of the universe, but that we also need to be people pleasers, oh, and also, there is our "soul-mate," that one special …
/r/TheRedPill17/08/19 03:06 PM
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How would you go about doing that? By telling her how great you are? By trying to bribe her with incentives like a free meal? By adopting some sort of pose? The best thing you can do is just accept it, walk away, and try asking someone else out. This demonstrates abundance and actually raises your value by showing her that you never needed her, or didn't have some sort of fixation on her. She merely piqued your interest, and now you're on to someone else to see if THEY are interested in YOU. IF …
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 02:55 AM
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Maybe = Probably no, but I don't want to alienate you just in case I have nothing else going on, or you somehow become useful to me in the future. If she flat out told you "no," you would think, "Well, I guess she is of no further use to me," and then you would stop paying attention to her. This has already happened to her, that is why she has learned to hedge her bets with a "Maybe." If you think about it, you have probably done this at some point. It just means you were lukewarm about the acti…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 02:52 AM
2

I just saw good ole Jordan Peterson talking about how "meek" means those who know how to use their swords but choose to keep them sheathed most of the time unless they determine that it is absolutely necessary to use them. So, yeah, THOSE meek would naturally inherit the earth as opposed to the bloodthirsty.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/19 06:19 PM
1

The girl is a 9 and you are 7 at best. Lol. Obviously the paradigm you are using is flawed.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/19 06:17 PM
11

The devil is always in the details of the individual's biological limitations. Some guys can literally jack off 10 times a day without any kind of supplementation, other guys will be ADHD for a week if they jack off once. I think historically, there was an awareness of the dangers and hazards posed by masturbation. Now of course, the media makes fun of those old-timey pamphlets, but that's also because they are peddling an agenda of control through excessive sexual release and dissipation. Sexua…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 06:08 PM
1

The woman muay thai fighter is sooooooo DUMB! Maybe that's why she is single at age 43. And everything she said is probably her own insecurity and doubling down on her failed sexual strategy to preserve her ego. I've met women like her IRL, and I just roll my eyes and move on. That's why I find hilarious about all of these fighter types. They never seem to realize that no matter how much you prepare, or how tough you are, even if you are #1, some pencil-necked dweeb like Kip from Napoleon Dynami…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 06:29 AM
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Yes, but after you die, you won't care that you were TEMPORARILY sad and alone. Everything is transient. Pleasure, pain, etc. Also, you experience those as deviations from the norm, so they can't exist without each other. If all you had was wall to wall sex, it would get old very quickly, because there were no sex-less gaps to make you appreciate the experience.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 06:17 AM
1

That's assuming it's actually real, and not agitprop. There is a LOT of agitprop floating around the internet, and it works because it can be easily passed off as TrueStoryBroTm according to the biases of the intended audiences. People on here have been burned by women, so many WANT to believe that already. It could really just be more divide and conquer stuff. Then again, maybe it IS real. I think that whoever wrote that would have been on sounder footing if they had just put murder or robbery,…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 06:10 AM
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The monk that carried the woman expiated what was on his mind, and what would have been a distraction, by carrying out the act. The act was in service of a higher purpose, even if went against rules. The other monk, following the rules, now has to contend with his own mind distracting him, and thus will actually be in a bigger bind than the monk that broke the rules, as he will invest more time in morbid rumination, and or attempting to distract himself or otherwise banish the negative thoughts …
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 06:06 AM
1

Oh no, I do believe you. It's just that everyone's individual threshold varies. Some people will care about X, but not Y, or not about, X, Y, Z, etc. but something else. For instance, if you tell a woman that you have a terminal case of the flesh-eating ebola virus, or leprosy, or AIDS, AND they actually believe you, they aren't going to have sex with you.... unless you find one that wants to die immediately by that particular means, but what are the odds of that happening? You should try that e…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/19 08:09 PM
2

Ah yes, that old chestnut. But given that this is the internet, you have to take into account that those supposedly authentic documents might have been manufactured for agitprop purposes. It would be the functional equivalent of militant, angry, lesbian feminazis cherry-picking or even manufacturing "evidence" to support their argument that all men are pig-like beast-oppressors: it stirs up fear and hatred in its audience, which is to some degree primed to believe it due to a past negative exper…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/19 09:11 PM
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If everything hinges on 1 or 2 words, then that's a sign that she's... just not that into you! (to borrow a phrase women's dating agitprop mandarins use....) I just had a woman who was super into me. She's attractive, but there were red flags. I fooled around a bit with her, but I wouldn't actually go as far as the sex, because I know that it's just bait to reel me in. I said so many stupid, potentially alienating things over the evening. At one point, I was actively trying to see if I could "fu…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 08:23 PM
6

Incels on here will need something to fap to.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 02:36 AM
1

Is it the college or the students, though? It's kind of a chicken and egg thing. I share many of your criticisms. However, when I attended university, it seemed like most of the people there, myself included suffered from several pathologies that had nothing to do with the school: Not wanting to be there, but attending anyway due to parental pressure; Having no appreciation of what we were actually undertaking by attending university, and muddling through in a sort of confused stupor; Suffering …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/19 04:16 PM
1

Some female friend of the guy threw herself at me, then it was revealed later, after we hooked up, that the guy liked her the whole time, but I was just supposed to "know" this even though he never told me. Something like that had happened before, but he had shrugged it off. In this case, he had some sever one-itis. Our friendship ended over it, but he got a year or so of guilt-banging from the girl. We were all so blue pilled back in the day.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 08:58 PM
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Great critique of vetting. However, I know guys who are needlessly marrying crack-heads because the very idea that a woman should be held to any sort of basic standard is completely foreign to them because they believe in unilateral, male to female unconditional love. So, while it's not perfect, at least it's a step in the right direction. Also, I think of all the guys who settled for the first woman who would give them regular sex, the guys with low self esteem who pedestalize women and fall al…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 05:15 AM
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Eh, this wasn't what I was expecting. THIS is what I was expecting: Women ARE attracted to THIS form of benevolent sexism: Men who cultivate strength in all aspects of their life as traditional males were trained to do. See 1. (I could make an a. b. c. d. e. f. g. on all the ways men can be strong: physical, financial, health, looks, status, ward-drobe, spiritual, discipline, life-style, etc. etc. etc. but they all boil down to strength in one form or another.)
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 08:51 PM
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I would say that there is much truth to that, only it's not certain how self-aware of that aspect she is. I mean, he would probably say yes to sex if she directly told him she wanted to re-initiate the sexual aspect of their relationship, assuming he is still attracted to her. I think it might be maybe more accurate to say that she fears losing aspects of the relationship that she values, mainly the economic and social partnership ones because she now has something resembling a rival, even thoug…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 08:49 PM
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Ha, you and I walk a similar path. I agree with much of what you said. That being said, I will point out that everything is a trade-off, and a lifestyle that includes many platonic female friends, while having advantages, can also have the following drawbacks which one must knowingly and self-consciously accept going in, the better to counteract and mitigate: You lose incentive to pursue women romantically because you already having several intangible but important needs met: female validation, …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 08:37 PM
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Props to you for not taking an easy lay that might have cost you a friendship. I hope you wised up your friend. However, the irony is, fucking her WOULD have wised him up quicker and firmer than telling him after the fact, where then his ego will probably come to the defense of his perceived SMV. But then that would have cost you the friendship, which you obviously valued enough to avoid the easy lay. On the other hand, if the guy ends the friendship because you have sex with a girl that threw h…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 07:56 PM
1

I have also seen a lot of women tolerating infidelity if the husband is Chad, meaning, they will either grudgingly share him, or get turned on by the prospect of how in-demand he is. Of course you have guys that get off on being cucks too, but I feel like this is actually being sold to lower-value beta bux men to encourage it as a life-style choice. You don't really see it being sold the other way. Most normal guys can't handle "their" woman having sex with other men, especially if they have to …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 04:55 AM
1

Well, but there is a contradiction with women that you won't find with men. Men will desire a woman that other men are chasing after, but they won't desire her nearly as much if she is sleeping with a bunch of them. Women, on the other hand, will be turned on a promiscuous man, because it "PROVES" he is desirable. Once she has him, though, she tries to betafy him so that he sticks around.... at which point, she begins to become less attracted to him, because monogamy, especially if involuntary, …
/r/TheRedPill21/07/19 09:35 PM
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Well, it's sexual strategy, and that term is a warfare term, because if one cares about reproduction, then one is in competition for a quality mate. They are always in demand because the pool is small. Women who can reproduce legally and safely are between the ages of 18-40, and yet with men, it is 18-120. Then you have to factor in things like sexual orientation, desirability, fertility, etc. Most of the men on here aren't trying to figure out how to bang 1s, 2s, 3s and 4s. Most of the men on h…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 08:18 PM
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Thanks, bro. I was riffing off of u/Nicholas0631, who I was responding to.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 04:32 AM
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Yes, you are spot on in your analysis. Actions trump words every time. Repeatedly having sex with a woman is telling her you are interested in commitment with your actions, and it trumps verbally telling her you are not interested in commitment. Just imagine if HB9 kept having sex with you regularly for a year or so, once a week, but says she's not interested in committing. You might not believe her. You might think you have a chance in winning her over. Meanwhile, she's getting repeated ONS fro…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/19 09:21 PM
1

They can give up a head's up as to how people are being programmed, but at the risk of having your time wasted, and of being programmed yourself.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 10:36 PM
3

I'll just repost one of my own top-up-voted comments from awhile ago regarding Sex and the City: I was at ground-zero when Sex and the City came out: university. Man on man did I have a sinking feeling as I watched it. It advanced the fraudulent premise that men found women who slutted around to be attractive and high-status when the opposite is true. I still see this mentality pop up in women. No, we don't like it when you try to make us jealous with other guys even as you get insecure when we …
/r/TheRedPill16/07/19 08:19 PM
1

No mention of the role played by money / status-seeking / careerism.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/19 08:18 PM
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Oh, sure, he could find one. But he might not like the way she herself looks.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/19 03:17 AM
9

Yes. Either by getting more or not caring about women that much. In the first case, you have abundance, in the second case, you have priorities.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/19 03:15 AM
1

Well, there is a "custom of horseplay" exception, where if people develop a habit of touching each other playfully without calling it assault and battery, they cannot then suddenly claim assault and battery over playful touching very easily.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/19 03:12 AM
4

Absolutely, they spread it. Misery loves company.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/19 05:26 PM
1

Oh, I agree, good for him, from an immediate psychological gratification standpoint, but if things have degenerated to this level, he should really just leave her and move on. The best revenge is living well, not perpetuating a vicious cycle.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/19 11:51 PM
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It seems punitive on his part, and she probably deserves it. Also, she went to the media with her complaints, and publicized them, which is also punitive. So it's just a vicious cycle for both of them at this point.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/19 08:21 PM
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LOL. WTF is this shizz? An advertisement? WTF is this place? Cosmopolitan? GTFO here. Seriously, the only vape trick you need to remember is that if she vapes or smokes, stay the fuck away.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/19 02:21 AM
3

Wealth of Nations is instrumental for understanding how and why class war skews to capitalists, as they can always starve out the laboring classes who don't have surpluses and stockpiles, or rather, who would have to muster force to take control of them. You are absolutely right about having to do insane amounts of private research to make any sense of anything. And even then, so much is locked away in private libraries, and one only has so much time. And of course, there is the think outside a …
/r/TheRedPill02/07/19 12:35 AM
3

Well, marital rape can be about a number of things: When one person wants sex, but the other person is actually tired, sore, worn out, not in the mood, but the person who wants it pressures them for it. This can go both ways. Forcing undesired sex acts. Just because you are married doesn't mean that the wife wants to let you ass-fuck or throat-fuck or regular-fuck her on demand, or in some position that she doesn't like, but you like, or wearing clothes, etc. etc. Sex was supposed to be mostly a…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 10:45 PM
2

It wouldn't be rape, it would be some form of assault and battery, in theory. But you would have to actually prove that. The most likely case would be if there was absolutely no history of horseplay, and the touching persisted after a verbal demand was made to stop it. And then you are getting into, what were the damages? Mild annoyance? How much is that worth? Is it worth litigating over? What was the evidence of the touching? Only verbal testimony? No marks were left? Then the person can deny …
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 10:42 PM
4

You're not wrong, but in an intimate relationship, or even many other relationships, there is a vast gulf of difference between ordinary touch and sexualized touch. You are allowed to tap on someone on the shoulder to get their attention. You are not allowed to grab their ass. The person may not like the former, and they may instruct you that they prefer no touch, or some other form of touch or attention getting in the future, and you are then supposed to respect their boundary, but there is no …
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 06:39 PM
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Ah, revenge, sweet revenge. A dish best served cold. "Honey, thanks to you, now I learned about consent! Now go do some chore-play, and MAYBE that will put me in the mood!" Edit: Okay, I read it. Now it's obvious that he's doing it just to get back at her, demanding that she text him before tapping him on the shoulder. That's a little extreme. However, the not sleeping in the same bedroom thing is a logical extension to consent culture, because people will often wake up in the middle of the nigh…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/19 08:18 PM
3

Sure, but why would it have to be with them in particular? I mean, if you just don't "feel" the chemistry, how could you be expected to procreate with them? Why, it would be unnatural! Now, if they were that 18 year old cocktail waitress with a killer bod who flunked out of high school, it would be a different story! But that's just who you are attracted to! You can't help how you feel! It's not the washed up 40 year old who's the problem, why it's you and your human frailty that compels you to …
/r/TheRedPill29/06/19 07:05 PM
3

Yes, yes, and yes. I once was in a class, and I tried to make the point that all the oppressed groups should unite because they all had their oppression in common, and many of the people in the class got REALLY angry, because in their minds, THEIR oppression was unique, special, etc. and therefore they had special victim rights over other victims. To me, as someone who can pass as the oppressor class, and who has family on all sides of the divides, from a historical perspective, it seems so blat…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/19 07:03 PM
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Of course he COULD cheat. All it would take would be another younger, more attractive woman to come along to see his value and seduce him. It happens all the time to men who are married, provided they are attractive. And of course, attraction is a relative game. She's just dumb if she thinks he's really a paragon of virtue. Has his virtue ever really been tested? Has he ever really been tempted? If he's like most virtuous people, he avoids temptation. He lives in a temptation free bubble. But wh…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/19 06:51 PM
3

Eh, if any "leftists" have power, it's as corporate stooges. I certainly consider all the college academic leftists to be corporate stooges. If they were actually a threat, they wouldn't have jobs. Rich people actually like to spread "leftism," because it is often akin to economic illiteracy. So then you have all these college graduates running around working for paltry wages thinking they can somehow change the system as debt-saddled wage slaves. I have never seen a leftist institution that isn…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/19 12:55 AM
6

I'm talking about a rarified small percentage of misanthropes. They do exist, but they are VERY few in number. They do in fact prefer being single. Some of them had husbands or boyfriends for years, had children, so they have been there and done that. Others are introverts who find human contact painful. Others are jaded and jaundiced about human relations. I'm sure there are plenty of corporate women who want out. But I'm curious who they are begging for dates? Alpha Adam? Beta Brian? Gamma Gar…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/19 12:51 AM
1

Honda civics and acuras hold their value pretty well.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/19 12:22 AM
1

Don't forget to mention the following regarding running: Run on grass, not concrete; Make sure you know what the effect on your joints will be. Running is often best for people when they reach a certain weight, meaning they aren't overweight. Make sure you have the right shoes for your body; Also, there are other forms of cardio you can invest in: swimming (salt pools if you can), punching a heavy bag, faster paced dancing, sports that don't involve high risk to your body, jumping rope, etc.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 11:25 PM
1

Profit is about them surviving at your expense. They know EXACTLY what they are doing.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 11:17 PM
2

The convenient thing about impersonal "disruptive" effects theory, or any other impersonal forces theory, is that there is no easy obvious target for the put-upon masses to sue, lynch, or otherwise deal with. It's all just mysterious forces at work! Go back to sleep! Another analogy would be cows in a field. Everything is fine. Until they are a taken on a truck to a slaughterhouse cleverly designed not to arouse too much anxiety. It's a maze of passages they enter single file, and then one by on…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 11:16 PM
5

Not all of them. It depends on what they value. Some want to be with the sensitive artist who makes a lot of money with his art, and wins international acclaim. That's the common thread linking jocks and artists: the potential for public acclaim and money. Some women see the value in a guy's athletic potential. Others find sports impenetrable, but see the value in a guy's artistic potential. These are the intangibles that attract in addition to raw animal attraction. Also, the nature of biochemi…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 11:10 PM
10

Money quote from my own mother: "It was your father who wanted to have children...." said in passing while discussing an unrelated topic when I was an adult. Suggests she went along with it as part of the "job." That's why I never bought into the men love women, women love children, children love puppies argument. It suggests that men don't love children, and women do, etc. I would say that most, if not all people are self-interested, and that the only variance is whether it is conscious or unco…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 11:05 PM
4

The pillow was to keep from breaking her jaw. Nonetheless, it is still a closed-hand strike to the head. Multiple ones too. In the context of the bedroom. And also, there was thought on her part that went into it. She asked for something specific. Specific precautions were taken. My guess is that it is connected to white western guilt at feeling responsible to what goes on in the third world as a beneficiary of exploitation, that she felt she needed to expunge with an exercise in flagellation. I…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 08:23 PM
1

Thanks, man.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 08:19 PM
3

Two of my exes who were into it claim past trauma as the reason. The saner one explained the trauma and how it related. The crazier one would never tell me what she thought really inspired it. She had all kinds of crazy stories that were like something out of the Twilight Zone. And of course the crazier one provided the crazier, though not healthier sex.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 08:19 PM
2

Yep.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 06:20 AM
2

Hmmmm.... I think actually that many Porsches with that mileage are in fact more valuable than the Hyundai, provided they undergo a bit of restoration. Now I have heard of vaginal restorative surgery, and of course, women can get all kinds of work done, but we all know that it's not the same thing. Also, you have classic cars and such, that hold value. There are a vanishing few number of naturally beautiful women who took care of themselves, were pampered by beta bux hubbies, and thus can hold o…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 06:20 AM
2

Oh, not at all. There is just extremely high scrutiny for marriage, and heightened scrutiny for an LTR, depending on your goals. I was mainly arguing against the whole "just run perfect game and maintain frame 100% of the time!" thing. You know, I've posted about this before, but what you describe is like my dad. He basically NEVER breaks frame. My mom shit-tests him endlessly, and he just treats it like entertainment. But for me, the lack of respect, and constant histrionics, were disturbing an…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 06:17 AM
3

And how do they respond to that?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 12:28 AM
16

Used (but quality, vetted [like new, but half off at least!]) car = good. Used woman = bad. Therefore, original metaphor bad.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 12:27 AM
4

Yeah, seriously. Who would want a to buy a used car for twice the money and who knows what's wrong with it. The parent comment picked the WRONG metaphor.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 12:27 AM
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Eh, broad brush strokes I see. I saw plenty of socially awkward jockcels not getting any, and plenty o' nerds slaying the puss, albeit perhaps not the cheerleaders, but maybe the hot goth or hippie chicks. Skill with women isn't dependent on one particular activity or attribute. A lot of the guys that had "success" with women were simply willing to put a lot of time and effort in, and they were also willing to put with a LOT of bullshit, like the girl trying to control them, the girl hogging all…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 12:04 AM
3

Nobody is rational all the time. Rationality can be a construct, to some degree, as the real encompasses the rational and the irrational. But I'm talking about people who will fuck you hard with absolute certainty, even if you run airtight game. It's great to have personal responsibility, to try and excel, to try to learn from mistakes, to succeed at that, to improve, to add value.... but there are men who do all of that, and just get fucked because of greater forces at work. There is very littl…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 11:46 PM
3

I'm not saying you're wrong, but there are A LOT of irrational people out there who DON'T act in their own self-interest, or what could rationally be construed as a self-interest. Addicts, the mentally ill, the brainwashed, the deluded, the list goes on and on. It might make perfect sense to stay in a marriage for a number of reasons, but the promise of "adventure" and "excitement" will lead people away from it all the time.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 07:22 PM
1

Lol, exactly. You see, it was that one time you cut yourself while shaving. She saw the small spot of blood, realized you were mortal, then took up with some meth-dealing bikers. All your fault. You ALWAYS must clean up the blood.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 07:21 PM
8

It can also happen even if you don't "fuck up." Why? Because people can secretly be crazy/evil while presenting a virtuous face, or, more commonly turn crazy/evil over time. They can also change ideologies that reframe their entire lives as undesirable. For instance, they might start as a religious fundamentalist, then discover a feminist book-store, read the books in secret, then "discover" they are being enslaved by their husband.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 07:19 PM
10

Ha, choking? choking? That's nothing. Here's an article on how a reporter who went to a third world country, experienced PTSD, then sent for a male friend to have violent sex with her that involved punching her in the head with a pillow acting as an intermediary. She says it helped cure her PTSD. Now, I'm not going to condemn her for doing this or trying this. In fact, I appreciate her bravery and honesty in admitting what she did in her personal life. But it just amazes me that she has male "fr…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 07:01 PM
11

Sorry this happened to you. Don't beat yourself over it, you were a child, and it sounds like the notion of boundaries and how to defend them weren't instilled in you. For some reason, I actually lucked out in this department, as it was made clear to me at age 5, that NOBODY was allowed to touch me in a way that made me feel uncomfortable. Over the years, I had several run-ins, and I always managed to defend my boundaries, although I was fortunate to never encounter hard-core, uncompromising vio…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 04:53 AM
12

The "ideal friend" and "understanding" bits were part of her predatory nature. She was offering this value to draw people in.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 04:44 AM
3

That too, but it's over-reach. The whole reason women are sequestered away in schools is to keep them from having children so that they can provide their free time and energy to their employers. When I was in school, the WORST thing a woman could do.... was fulfill her biological objective of reproducing herself. This was according to the school and the authorities. If you were a mother, you were a fucking LOSER. You were laughed at. You were mocked. Teenaged and early-twenties motherhood was fo…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 03:54 AM
2

Ha, yes, I had several lengthier suggestions, but then I realized they were too complicated. If he subtly foists her on some other guy, she'll be grateful to him for doing the favor, provided the dick is good.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 10:54 PM
8

That's because the employer wants to extract useful labor from her, use her as part of the reserve army, and wants her economic loyalty to be to the corporation and its shareholders, and not say, her husband.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 10:52 PM
4

Oh, they would have as many as they could book in accordance with whatever their terms and limits are. They know their youth and beauty are perishable, so they have to make the most out of the time they have without catching a disease, getting murdered, getting enslaved, or any other undesirable outcome. It's purely a business to them. They sell their time, their bodies, and their services. So, therefore, they will try to get as many guys as possible with as little effort as possible, and then, …
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 10:47 PM
2

Whores get paid.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 10:42 PM
3

Don't forget the orgies with 10+ partners! But don't worry! She's not even the sluttiest of her friends! It's shit like this that makes me feel LUCKY to be single. I could have married a shit-show like her without even realizing it.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 10:42 PM
1

I'm not saying you or OP are wrong, just that nothing is every that cut and dried in human relations, because we can never fully see what is inside another person's mind. I adopted some of those mannerisms because I would see them in film, and the film hero, a stand-in for the neurotic writer's wish fulfillment, or a stand-in to the target audience of lonely, awkward, neurotic young men with a little extra cash, would get the girl. IRL, they would alienate people, or attract people that I found …
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 10:31 PM
2

Get her to shift her attention to another guy. Also, let other guys know that she's hot to trot, and hopefully someone else will dive on the grenade and save you the trouble.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 03:30 AM
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Sounds like granny was weight ahead of her time. My paternal grandmother was monogamously married to my grandfather for the duration of their lives, which lasted until they were 80s. They got married as teenagers. My maternal side didn't fare as well, but they were married for a fairly long time, and it wasn't my grandmother that was the problem, but my grandfather.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/19 06:54 AM
35

Eh. Every single one of these can be problematic. Gesticulating and taking up space = you are a "spazz" who can't control himself; Unwavering eye contact = aggression, naked sexual interest, you are a stalker, you are attempting to dominate another person, which then invites them to resist you in some way, either to your face, or more problematically, behind your back; Vocal tonality projects dominance = you are loud; Unfiltered = you are a social liability; The problem with these approaches is …
/r/TheRedPill22/06/19 12:34 AM
2

Eh. Every single one of these can be problematic. Gesticulating and taking up space = you are a "spazz" who can't control himself; Unwavering eye contact = aggression, naked sexual interest, you are a stalker, you are attempting to dominate another person, which then invites them to resist you in some way, either to your face, or more problematically, behind your back; Vocal tonality projects dominance = you are loud; Unfiltered = you are a social liability; The problem with these approaches is …
/r/TheRedPill22/06/19 12:29 AM
10

Hmmmm... Yeah, I have run this experiment. I would say that while you have the right idea, that it's a little extreme. I would be better just direct your energy and attention elsewhere without blocking them outright. You don't want to appear butthurt. Also, as someone else pointed out, you don't actually have to make plans with them, ever, even if they show interest. I personally agree with the whole "red-hot or not" prospect. If she isn't dripping wet for you on first meeting, you should be sus…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 09:55 PM
1

I think part of the reason people over-game is that nobody instructed them as to the true purpose of gaming. It's supposed to be educational, not mindless entertainment. Once it becomes mindless entertainment, then it is a waste of time. I would say that because it was an emerging technology, and therefore new, very few people understood the implications of it. Also, before video-games, people played pencil and paper games, and you have the same tension: developing some abilities at the expense …
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 08:49 PM
1

Well, but these are the same people that get sucked into counterfeit religions, or who scrupulously follow electoral politics controlled by wealthy gangster oligarchs, or watch Keeping Up with the Kardashians, or who get into arguments and fights over who has the best sports team. They are at the middle to the bottom of the bell curve of human ability. They are the people that are governed by the spectacle. Many of them are perfectly content to be that way. Others aren't content, but will never …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 12:04 AM
4

I am one of those guilty parties. I have made those defenses. I have made those rationalizations. I know with iron-clad certainty that the games, especially now-a-days, are designed to be addictive. In fact, a few months back, I got sucked into a phone game, then stopped after a few hours when I realized it was nudging me to actually "gasp" spend money to buy in-game currency. Man, what a great con that is. Then I thought about my nature to be enthralled by electronic games, and downloaded some …
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 11:24 PM
6

Yes, exactly, nuance. Low caliber people will ALWAYS find a way to waste their time. If it isn't video games, then it's passively watching spectator sports or listening to music. At least video-games are interactive. At least you can even tinker with them. You can't as easily do that with other media forms, or at least, you couldn't. That being said, I probably wasted a fair amount of time on video-games, but c'est la vie. I have no regrets.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 11:14 PM
5

Are you saying having a translucent drop-down menu materialize before you eyes with pre-scripted responses ISN'T a social skill??? Is it wrong to expect people to wait around for me to go to the bathroom or get something to eat after I break off the conversation abruptly? Does this mean it's not a good idea to impatiently making a hand-clicking motion when someone is telling a story I've already heard like I'm trying to scroll through it? : )
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 11:10 PM
5

It's generally NOT a good idea to roll out your entire bag of tricks on the first sexual encounter. Everyone has different comfort levels. What some find exciting, others find repulsive and horrifying. This can create liability issues. Someone linked a few weeks ago some alleged TRP master taking a girl to a sex club when he barely knows her, and then trying to get her to blow him right away. Some tips: You are in control. You are leading. You make it clear that the first time is going to be "ch…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 11:06 PM
3

Nobody repressed me either. These were just individual gay or bi guys acting out their frustration while drunk. I live near a major cosmopolitan city.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 09:47 PM
3

Pretty much. They basically mistook my human decency for sexual interest, meaning because I treated them with courtesy and empathy, like I try to treat everyone, they assumed I was interested in them sexually, and then became angry and frustrated that I was "teasing" them, then found a pretext to start a fight. In both cases, they had been drinking. It's kind of like how betas get enraged after talking to a hot girl for a half hour, getting their hopes up, then Chad roles up and says, "Thanks fo…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 07:16 PM
2

Well, it can be fun, if you have the right temperament for it. Supposedly, most soldiers join for economic reasons, and don't actually want to go fight because of all the risks to life, limb, and sanity involved. It's true that the military institutions have made huge strides in conditioning to kill, but this always conflicts with civilizations don't kill conditioning represented by all the major religions. There are military families of some means who send their sons to receive elite military i…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 07:07 PM
1

Yes, that's true, BUT, for intelligent people, why would THEY want to have firsthand direct experience of war, when a cursory examination of actual history (through books!) reveals that the warriors are on the losing end of the war? They die, get maimed, get weird diseases, get experimented on, get paid shit, get saddled to dependopotamuses, get mental illnesses, etc. etc. etc. I mean, you can read "War is a Racket" by Two Time Congressional Medal of Honor winner General Smedley Butler, and that…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 07:03 PM
1

Entertainment? Really though? You can be entertained by math and science. It doesn't mean that it is just entertainment. Is the Bible just entertainment? Works of philosophy? At the very least, you learn about the past by reading books. I mean, you can't actually go into the past to learn what happened, so you have to either read a book, or listen to a lecture by someone who wrote one. But what if they were a bad writer? Maybe a reenactment would give you a more vivid picture. That's why films a…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 09:55 AM
0

Oh, really? How is that the case?
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 09:50 AM
3

But... but... it tastes and feels so good!
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 03:15 AM
1

Nah, I just comment here to give back to the community, and for self-expression.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 03:14 AM
10

Kill them with kindness is a very real strategy. People have shit vocabularies. Am I being nice, or am I just being diplomatic for my own ends? Maybe I'm even being nice to keep aging gold-diggers from getting too close? It works pretty well, actually. The problematic niceness is when you act nice thinking it will get you laid, and then when it doesn't, you act butt-hurt and hostile, which people then resent. It's called the covert contract. So there is self-aware diplomacy, and non-self-aware c…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 03:09 AM
1

Eh, I think many are on there for bait and switch tactics. Just think of all the thirsty betas out there to be milked for a $1,000 handbag or two. I know a few of them who went on there and got taken for a ride. There is no "shame" in it either, because they have plausible deniabilty: "What, me hooker? Hahahahah, why I'm just fighting the patriarchy by wasting their time for fun and prizes, lololol (except for that one sugar daddy I like to call daddy, but he's discrete, so we'll just pretend he…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 03:05 AM
3

Well, the alphas at the top win when all the betas or whomever fall for this con. Less competition for them. I used to joke to guys that there was no point being homophobic. They should tell OTHER guys it was COOL so there would be more women for them. I guess someone took the joke and ran with it. It was funny, too, because then you would watch the system error from some atavistic, irrational prejudice conflict with the obvious self-interest involved. Most refused to acknowledge the soundness o…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 03:00 AM
3

Wow, five times? I guess I'm not as 'lite as I thought, lol. Aside from those two occasions, I have only experienced some non-verbal hostile body language.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 09:09 PM
1

Ha, I'm sure it has its merits, unless you get some horrible injury that puts you in chronic pain for the rest of your life. If you're dead, your personal problems are over, though your family and friends might grieve.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 09:08 PM
4

What evidence? I mean, if you seek, you will find. Lots of times, people don't want to look. Or if they do, they want to hand-wave and explain away. The prison-industrial complex, which houses record numbers of people in the millions, many of whom are put to work for private for-profit corporations for pennies on the dollar. Most are in for drug-related offenses. The war on drugs that incarcerated them ramped up as Jim Crow was winding down; Schools are a form of indentured servitude that groom …
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 09:07 PM
11

In both cases, I was at a party, there was drinking. In each case, a guy was interested in me, but I politely made my position of being a straight person clear to them. This created resentment, which then festered for awhile. Later on, in each case, the person, having gotten frustrated, invented a pretext to swing at my me. In one case, after I had made my position clear, the person tried to argue with me at length and convince me that a sexual orientation I had experienced since I was a small c…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 08:57 PM
1

I'm not saying the argument is wrong, sound, or invalid, but it IS just an argument. It is easy to look at time spent playing video-games as "wasted," but in my opinion, it is superior to time spent passively watching television, because at least it is interactive, unless you count yelling at the TV an interactive experience. It really is all about balance and mindfulness. I mean, people go to various temples and attempt to become enlightened. They go to institutions to become educated. Not all …
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 08:50 PM
13

I agree with much of what you say, however, I would say the following in their defense: You get a watered-down, simulated experience of WAR, minus the risk to life and limb. Eventually, they will have completely immersive VR War sims, as the technology is moving in that direction. Enough time spent in a war sim convinces one of the ultimate folly of participating in a war IRL, because no matter how "skilled" you get, you can still get fragged by a newb... just like in real life! You can learn a …
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 12:05 AM
7

You know what's lonely? Creating a false personality just to fit in with other people just so you can be around people and feel like you fit in. Going to mass spectator events where you are surrounded by people, but nobody really reacts in a meaningful way. Going to events where everyone is maintaining appearances because of some expectations that appeared from somewhere, maybe the mass media. Supporting a family that doesn't appreciate you, ridicules you, hates you, manipulates you, or otherwis…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 11:25 PM
42

I personally think that it's just a way to distract people with SJW tendencies to prevent them from actually trying to take on problems with the systems that affect vast swathes of the population. How are you going to have prison reform or collective bargaining if the SJW cognitive surplus is tied up in the trans rights movements, which affects around 1% of the population? That's why the corporations subsidize it. Also, they like the idea of malleability, just like the Marxists, because it plays…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 11:16 PM
33

I have experienced just this. It literally led to a fistfights... twice. Lol.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 11:14 PM
2

I assume the "business," if it ever existed, went DOA, and that no recovery of capital is possible. Oh well, lesson learned. It could have been a divorce rape. Now THERE is a lesson for you...
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 10:02 PM
3

A government that purports to be "free," or value "freedom," that also has an institution of non-freedom, like chattel slavery, where humans are owned outright, creates cognitive dissonance among its subjects, as "freedom" is considered a "good" or beneficial thing to the individual, and people like to think of themselves as "good" and "benevolent." Therefore people are at the very least confused and disturbed by a government that purports to create "freedom for all," yet in fact, restricts the …
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 10:02 PM
5

I would say that the role of the "father" is to "provide" for the family, with provision being a euphemism for some sort of culturally sanctioned predation, and to teach survival skills to the children, and which is to teach them a form of relevant predation, as well as self-care. Predation is what we do in actuality, when we go out to make a living. Criminals take the direct approach through direct thievery. Professionals take an oblique approach: exploiting ignorance, selling services that are…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 04:51 PM
1

You mean you made a cash loan or gift at their request or sob story? Well, I guess it could have been worse. I think it would be useful for socially awkward guys or ugly guys or otherwise virgin guys to go see hookers until they find one that treats them like a human being, for whatever reason: pity, biochemical attraction, whim, personalities clicking, whatever, so they demystify the whole sex with a pretty woman experience and take it off the pedestal the mass media has shoved it up on.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 02:02 PM
7

Of course not, he can find someone else if he likes. But this is still relatively petty stuff, IMO, that could be easily sorted out. Then again, I grew up with a atomic-level shit tests on all sides. Threats of divorce, murder, yelling, screaming, hysteria, etc. My father weathered it all with barely an eye-blink, because for him, it was funny. For me, it was disturbing, until I understood what was really going on. Also, the women in my community were all domineering, ball-busting careerist femi…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/19 06:03 AM
3

Yeah, I would never want to be tied up... nor would I want to tie someone up. I don't get the whole binary, "dominate/submit" paradigm. For me, it would be boring to be dominant all the time, or to submit all the time. Women that are domineering are annoying, but so are submissive women. Domineering women are annoying in an obvious way: they try to boss you around and control you, and they perversely, if they succeed, they think you are weak and despise you, but if they fail, then you are a chau…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/19 06:00 AM
3

"Sounds" is the operative word. Especially if you grew up in a culture that formalizes touch to mostly cordial firm handshakes, or no touch at all. Hugging is for "friends" and family. This creates a touch desert, which then introduces artificially high demand for touch, which then leads to women as sellers and men as buyers, and then you have prostitution, which is a touch transaction, and then LTRs and other relationships which are transactions of a different nature. In a complete touch desert…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 10:49 PM
11

Now, I'm not saying you're wrong, and I'm right, but.... How does it fuck up your game? I mean, you are just paying for pure sex when you go to a prostitute. She's not having sex with you because you won her over with your "game," which is a combination of social skills, display of status, and biochemical compatibility, you are just paying for it. BUT, what it does is give you an avenue for near-guaranteed sex, which makes you less thirsty. You no longer have press to try and bed women just to b…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 09:25 PM
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This shit is relatively minor. You are both in your mid-fifties. It's not like she's going to trap you with a kid. She could give you an STD though. At this stage in the game, it's mostly about personal preferences. If you are dating someone her age, and as you said, you don't give a fuck about kids, you can either keep he around, or find someone more to your liking. It's funny how the tables turn as women age. She's the one with the scarcity mentality now, and you're the one who as abundance me…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 08:44 PM
2

Lol.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 08:33 PM
3

He WAS talking about Columbia. It's a drug called Scopolamine. I've read about it from numerous sources. People use it to rob people, etc.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 04:14 AM
8

Any eye-opening experience for me was going on Craigslist years ago and reading the ads by disgusting, used up, 45-60 year old UGLY, FAT hag DEMANDING that their NSA sex partner be at least 6 foot 5 and have at least a 9 inch penis. They would accept no less. Also, I understand it is part of the porn industry, that all the male stars have to fuck ugly ass women before they can fuck the pretty ones, and of course, many are underpaid, at least in the wages department. Now, if they become entrepren…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 04:10 AM
17

LTRs are about family formation, business ties, business alliances, socializing, social alliances. Hookers are for sex and maybe some companionship. It's like a form of therapy.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 04:05 AM
18

I once read someone who said the opposite. They saw prostitutes for years, learned what they liked in a woman, and then eventually found a suitable partner for themselves. I mean, compared to not socializing with women, only virtual socialization, buying a doll / waifu etc., ANY socialization, even with a prostitute, is an improvement. In fact, I would recommend it as a rite of passage to any of the guys who are virgins past college, or even high school, just so they can get past the whole virgi…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 04:01 AM
1

Yep. You are absolutely right on many fronts. You have abundance mentality when you do things like that. You aren't trying to "buy her love," you are just being a generous guy, and you don't care one way or another. I mean, what self-respecting woman would sell themselves so cheaply, eh? : ) It's interesting how even when people attempt to break out of one mental box, they fall right into another. I think the difference between Alpha Abundance and Beta Bux is intent and awareness. The Beta think…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 08:01 PM
1

Well, it's all in how you go about it. I'm not recommending doing this, because I think it is the functional equivalent of gold-digging. I think it's despicable, abhorrent, and demonstrates a lack of self-awareness. Nonethless, it is something I have observed. It is often said that many women are "naturally" redpilled. To me, it means that many of them realize that they have SMV, that it will expire after awhile, and that they need to capitalize on it. These are the women who are attractive, and…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 07:53 PM
2

Not even with Angela Merkel? ; )
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 11:20 PM
7

Ha, just invest in some nice clothes, pretend you are a bigwig of some kind, string them along with promises of trips to Europe, a part in some film, investing in a business, gifts, etc. Watch the panties fly off. Not that I have ever stooped to doing it. Not quite there yet. Getting closer. Edit: Make sure all the promises are indirect. Don't be upfront about it. Just hint and suggest with actions. They will fill in the blanks on their own.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 11:18 PM
7

"Pretends?" Many of them don't even know enough to do that! Can you imagine the circle of hell a guy who has never been properly laid by a woman who desires him thinking HE MUST be so repulsive that even a paid prostitute can't even pretend to be attracted to him, when in fact, it's really just a lack of professionalism and poor trade-craft on her part.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 11:17 PM
2

Well, there's no such thing as risk-free life. There were many broken homes where I grew up, but usually it seemed to me, that the women brought it on themselves by acting like total assholes. Even if the guys wants young mistresses, he may not necessarily want to ditch the wife, unless she ISN'T the mother of his children. And yet, conversely, in the media, we see all these scare scenarios of smug, wealthy men, dumping their long-suffering, hard-working wife who supported them, for some sweet y…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 08:28 PM
5

Not just once, either. It has happened LOTS of times. You could probably write a Michael Crichton style novel expose on the industry. I have read numerous short Hard SF stories that satire it. But think of the diabolical genius. You're some nerd. You got passed over. But wait! You study evolutionary biology, genetics, and technology, and conclude that to "win" at life, you have to "pass on your DNA." So you found a clinic that exploits women's hypergamy. I mean, why would a woman want the sperm …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 08:25 PM
4

It's not as simple as the false construct of "race." I have met women from all "races" that I have felt abstraction and repulsion from. I think that the body has its own "wisdom," and it "knows" who is a good mate, and who isn't a good mate, based not only on things like appearance, but also smell, etc. I mean, if you meet a woman who likes you, and she is fertile, strong, healthy, youthful, beautiful, even-tempered, and intelligent, AND you feel a strong physical attraction to her when you are …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 08:21 PM
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No such thing as a risk-free life. As OP said, you can have children, and they can be fuck-ups. This could still happen even if you try any number of "eugenics" methods. For instance, many sperm donors falsify their credentials. There is a lot of sperm donor fraud. So women who think they are getting rocket scientist Brad Pitt, are maybe getting the clinic director. Likewise, women may have undetectable congenital ailments. Or maybe if your DNA combines with theirs, the children will be idiots. …
/r/TheRedPill11/06/19 04:18 PM
1

Yes, that's true. However, that still is a rationalization hamster, just a different one. I mean, just because people did something terrible to you, why would you continue to abuse yourself? But of course, it's not that simple, and these things happen at a psychological level that is difficult to reach. Also, wanting to be sexually invisible is a valid strategy to avoid sexual assault, albeit a potentially self-defeating one, as one will repel many good and worthy suitors. And some people are ov…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/19 03:55 PM
4

Finally, a great post.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/19 01:41 AM
9

TRP, at its core, is about increasing SMV through self-improvement, mostly the kind that can be quantified / measured. Physical improvement through different kinds of physical conditioning; Increasing wealth through transition to economic literacy and career advancement; Improving appearance by means of 1. as well learning how to do hygiene, groom, and dress; Improving status by growing social networks and public accomplishments; Improving the psyche through education, meditation, contemplation,…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/19 12:20 AM
1

Ha, some of them do, believe it or not, but they are vanishingly few.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/19 07:58 PM
1

I spend plenty of time in the "real" world, whatever that means. From what I see, it appears to be in the process of being consumed by cyberspace. Everyone and everything mediated via apps. People on here always talk about how surprised women are at getting approached IRL because so few people do it anymore. Does it sound like the world they are living in is "real," when the new normal for everyone is to cravenly hide behind an Internet screen instead of trying to make connections? We're talking…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/19 07:57 PM
2

To make a point. For instance, if you tell a woman she is "sexy," it will often trigger a cascade of social programming that says you are objectifying her. Even without the social programming, she will wonder about your self-control. I mean, a high value guy is "getting laid" or can get laid at will.... just like her. Therefore, he wouldn't be mentioning sex because it's a given. Lower value guys can't stop thinking about how they want to have sex with her. High value guys have had plenty of sex…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/19 02:01 AM
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The "hamster" is short for the "rationalization hamster," which is a visual metaphor for a tendency to blurt out a string of rationalizations to explain away behavior that has other causes. For example, someone who is overweight will rationalize away their unwillingness to control their caloric intake and exercise habits with a bunch of science about their genetic history, the failure of diets to work in the long-run, or maybe they will philosophize that they have different values, etc. But deep…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 10:38 PM
5

At a certain point, they CAN'T have children, period. They can't develop one with an egg, and they can't carry one. Men, on the other hand, can impregnate women until they die. Sure, some guys are sterile, some go sterile, and some have sperm decline in quality over the course of their lives, but overall, men are fertile until old age and death.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 10:35 PM
2

Those tactics are cringe-worthy. Just recently, someone compared a woman I know to a celebrity she looks like. But the smarter, more meta line is, "Oh, u know what celebrity sort of resembles u on you worst, day, this one.... " But's better to not even go there, because it suggests that you are some servile fanboy who pays too much attention to the lives of celebrities. Also, the whole "I was watching you ..." is NEVER a good idea. I don't even know why anyone would say this. Anyway, it's no sec…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 10:23 PM
3

I wrote it because I thought it was funny that the girl had such bad "game," that she used tactics that get guys friend-zoned or ghosted ALL the time because they "demonstrate" low value, and yet because it's a girl hitting on a guy, the guy doesn't have that reaction because he's flattered at the role inversion of being the pursued one.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 10:20 PM
2

Are you saying women don't think like I've just described???? That wasn't my experience, coming up. These are actually pretty standard high-value female responses to ill-conceived expressions of lower-SMV or perceived lower-SMV male desire.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 10:18 PM
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My most recent ex had a Mountain-sized hamster about how 35-40 was the BEST time to have a child, and that declining fertility was more of a male issue. She had read that in some magazine somewhere. Probably a woman's magazine. Probably one subsidized by captains of industry who want a giant army of spinsters to work in their white collar salt-mines. It was pretty unbelievable to hear that nonsense come out of her mouth, but I think ultimately, she was selfish and afraid of what motherhood would…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 08:23 PM
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The more your value increases, the more you will have women gaming you and coming after you. This is what you want, although you don't want to be lazy. You still want to put yourself out there and approach. A lot of women that are aggressive about going after men are potentially problematic because this taking of the initiative shows intelligence, risk-taking, ability to manage fear of rejection, calcuation, etc. which can be a GOOD thing... but also a bad thing if you don't deliver on the goods…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 08:06 PM
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On the one hand, yes. But on the other hand, doesn't that show overinvestment? I would think they would have to agree to a coffee date first, where they can prove that they are capable of not acting like an asshole for a 30 minute stretch of time, and THEN they EARN the right to a better date. Not that it needs to be a hard and fast rule, because as you say, you can just do something you want to do anyway... ...unless you don't feel like including some random woman who might turn into a stalker …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 08:04 PM
3

Ha, it's so interesting to read this . . . and imagine how it would go if the genders and SMVs were reversed! Telling you that you look sexy... ZOMG, U R OBJECTIFYING ME!!! shit test... Telling you that you look like a celebrity = high status and/or high wealth person... ZOMG, I'M A PRICELESS JEWEL, HOW DARE U COMPARE ME TO THIS OTHER PERSON, EVEN THO ITS A COMPLIMENT BC THEY ARE SUCCESSFUL!!! shit test... Admitting to you that they had been watching you for awhile and making conclusions about y…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 08:01 PM
1

A lot of them either experienced a divorce in the family, where the successful Dad leaves the mother for the younger model, OR they were warned that this was a high possibility, because successful men like youth and beauty. After getting pumped and dumped a few times by Chad, who is of course, drowning in abundance, they become increasingly fearful and bitter, facing up to the possibility that they will have to develop a career or risk something worse. They reason that if they are economically i…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 05:22 PM
2

"the 'Prince that was promised' recognizes how subjectively amazing they are despite all their quirks, faults, neurosis, past mistakes, crippling disfigurement, weight problem, drug prolbem, history of committing heinous crimes because they were misunderstood, general mediocrity, ... insert whatever theme of the week is being marketed to the chosen demographic of TV watching females... etc." Fixed that for you.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 05:00 PM
5

Eh, it's kind of funny. If it were someone bragging about holding their breath to breathe less, or not pissing or shitting for days at a time to demonstrate willpower, and then beating themselves up because they shat 5 days a week instead of the 2 or 3 they were aspiring to, we'd all say they were unhealthy and crazy. Everyone has different libidos. Some people have such a high libido that if they don't masturbate a few times a day, they feel really stressed out, or they prematurely ejaculate wh…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 03:35 AM
2

This is a sign that you are a man of value. Once, many years ago, I decided to do a "King Arthur" as he appeared in Mark Twain's "A Connecticut Yankee in King Arthur's Court," wherein I went to another city where I didn't know anyone, and nobody knew me. I drove an old beat-up car, wore shit clothes, didn't discuss having money or anything. This was similar to what King Arthur does, when he ventures around his kingdom anonymously with the Yankee. He discovers that his kingdom is an oppressive pl…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 12:51 AM
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Ha, but most of them aren't Princes. They are mostly gladiators who are competing to try and become a Prince, or perhaps to make a family that produces a Prince. Princes are born into dynastic wealth that grooms them towards omni-competence, or at least the appearance thereof. The upper middle-class strivers understand this to some extent, which is why the push their children so hard. Except, that many of the most fulfilling activities that best develop the person are out of reach by being too e…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/19 07:26 PM
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Social media is for women, the following: Validation; Creating abundance mentality; Dicks in glasses cases; Advertising and making themselves to a broad market of men with plausible deniability thrown in; What are they hoping for? A Prince. Forget about Chad. They want a Prince. A Prince is young, but also strong, intelligent, educated, wealthy, good-looking, but sensitive. He is good at everything, BECAUSE he is a Prince. A Prince doesn't just go to school. He is educated by the best private te…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/19 04:05 AM
1

Yeah, it does happen. However, I also see women who stay in relationships with men that are subpar to them, because: They are self-aware enough to realize that since they are alpha females, they won't accept alpha male leadership, so they prefer a man they can benignly control, but they also VALUE this kind of relationship, and they don't romanticize the caveman thing... these are rare; Same as 1., but it's less based on self-awareness and more on fear and scarcity mentality, perhaps from being …
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 07:32 PM
1

Lots of good stuff in that book. Everyone should read it. Also, it wasn't "assigned" where I went to high school, although a teacher did put it on a recommended reading list.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 09:25 PM
1

So... she is doing the work and he is reaping the benefit? I mean, I have seen men sit back and let the women do all the busy work and the worrying that goes with it. The man then intervenes at decisive points, picking his battles, so to speak, and usually gets his way. The female lion does most of the hunting. The male lion chills until it is absolutely necessary that he acts. Clearly he must have some use, or she would not have partnered up with him. Maybe I'm missing something here though.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 09:07 PM
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Ha, most of them WISH they were pumped and dumped by Chad. Most settled for wannabe-Thads without evening realizing it. Meaning, they were fucked by young healthy guys who were cunning enough to lift weights, take care of themselves, and learn a little game and abundance mentality, but without really putting their nose to the grindstone to improve on other fronts. They were only ever in it for the pussy.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/19 07:33 PM
1

So, the woman acted rationally, saw a guy with potential, then rather than say "Nah, I think I will just try and be "Already Successful Chad's" fluffer because I just can't take a chance on maybe-loser," she HELPED HIM REALIZE HIS POTENTIAL, and now they are getting married, this is a bad thing, because she appears to have some degree of power over the relationship? This is more than most women I have met are willing to do. Most just want you to be already successful, no questions asked. They do…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/19 07:31 PM
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Anyone who does any kind of porn should expect it AND their real identity, to enter the public sphere. This is the age of the internet, after all. Once someone has nude photos or video of you, they are free to release it onto the internet, and good luck getting it taken down. I know of at least one person who was bragging about "getting revenge" this way on girls he had hooked up with who nexted him. I see a lawsuit or even jail in his future. I also know dudes that sext nudes back and forth. Ag…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 08:09 PM
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"Now, if you bookmarked her for later, she’s going to subconsciously sense your interest and shit test you even harder. She’s not going to respect that you didn’t go for it when you met her. A random dude with the same SMV as you is going to have a better chance with her than you are. You completely fucked yourself, and not even because you fucked up your chances with her, she’s one of many. You fucked yourself by wasting your time." I would think this would only happen if you entered into the f…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 01:37 AM
2

"There are 3 of us now." Wow. That's like some pillowpants the pussy gnome level of creepiness.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 01:09 AM
1

Dude, guys at the apex of the social hierarchy have 2 of the 3 main things women look for: Wealth; Social status; What other factors may have played a role? Many men in the aristocracy, having been born into the apex of the social hierarchy, were handed all sorts of vaginas on a silver platter: high-born, middle-born, low born. I.e. There were arranged marriages to produce heirs, kept mistresses to satisfy romantic urges, and dalliances with prostitutes for a quick fix. These guys were swimming …
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 01:34 AM
2

No problemo.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 08:11 PM
2

Bonus points: all the pissed off looks from younger women thinking W T F you were supposed to be my beta bux, respond to my youthful charms, damn it; people assuming there is something wrong with you, but you giving zero fucks because of the biochemical feels; note, if the woman is youthful, nobody will know unless you tell them; in any case, a strong frame about it will unnerve people;
/r/askTRP15/04/19 08:11 PM
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Benjamin Franklin used to tell younger guys who didn't have the money to play daddy to some sweet young thang to seek out older women as lovers, as in the dark, "all cats are gray..." so it's nothing new under the sun.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:47 PM
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Ha, arousal has less to do with appearance, and more to do with biochemistry, at least for me anyway. There are young attractive women, but I don't like their vibe, the way they smell, their energy, whatever. Then there are women who aren't so attractive, or they are older, but I like their vibe, energy, smell. Of course, if you get a young, attractive woman, and you have chemistry, that's ideal. It's just that many of them are a combination of dumb, arrogant, venal, avaricious, ignorant, anti-m…
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:22 PM
1

And you can add the internet, smart-phones, psychiatric drugs, brainwashing, and other things to the list of barriers to make a connection.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 10:51 PM
3

Sounds like you are young. Your uncle is man, you are a boy. If you want to be a man, you have to work on yourself, you have to "make" yourself. You can't just sit around and expect to be treated the same way. You are fortunate that you have a stud as a role model. Also, he is a relative. You can get up close and study him, study what he does, his routines, his history, how he made himself into a stud. Sure, some people have it easier than others, but ALL studs have to work. They have to lift, t…
/r/askTRP14/04/19 10:09 PM
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The main advantage a MILF or MAWILF (Mother, Middle-Aged) has over a regular WILF or GILF (woman, girl), is that age and experience have (hopefully) humbled them somewhat and that they have developed character and personality. So, a well-preserved MILF or MAWILF, I'm talking, no addiction issues, took good care of herself, but is single because alpha Chad got bored and cheated, to which she capitalized on the opportunity to divorce rape and return to the cock carousel, so now she's back on the m…
/r/askTRP14/04/19 10:07 PM
2

Ah, I see. Yes, this makes sense. Natural leader. Yeah, most people hate any kind of responsibility or accountability because it involves bearing risk, which people are indoctrinated against in school. I mean, school is one big act of obedience, every day, day in, and day out, and the slightest deviations are punished, so now vast swathes of the population are risk-averse rule-followers... which is, of course, by design. Those that resist, become the leaders.... or wind up in jail, or fail miser…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 08:26 PM
3

Well, thank you for taking the time to reply at length. In your opinion, what would you say the women shared in common in terms of their attraction to you? I mean, it seems like the mistress who never accepted any gifts, was probably genuinely into you, as in, YOU were the gift that she wanted, and that was more than enough. But I'm curious about your thoughts regarding all the random plates, etc. I mean, was it because you presented status? DGAF attitude? Game? Prospect of commitment? Thanks ag…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 05:50 PM
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If the relationship is based on love, or really good sex, gifts aren't necessary, as they are nothing more than tokens of affections anyway. I had an affair that lasted a few years, and she said it was the most fun she ever had not spending much money. We went to the beach, cooked meals, went to parks, went dancing, hung out. Just being together was rewarding enough in itself. Everything else was just window dressing. She was drowning gifts and material possessions prior to me, and obviously it …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 05:48 PM
2

Well, OP didn't provide enough context. In some areas, quality women are scarcer than what is already a scarcity situation for most men. I mean, guys lust after women aged 18-30, generally. So, that creates scarcity. And she has to be attractive. More scarcity. So, really, you have a whole bunch of guys chasing after quality women. But high value men are pretty scarce too. Maybe even scarcer than attractive women. I mean, a guy can be wealthy, but still gross looking and acting. An example would…
/r/askTRP12/04/19 05:36 PM
2

Well, I guess it depends on what the "values" are. For instance, I recall, from years ago, beautiful, well-dressed women in their thirties firmly defending their decision to pay a male prostitute for sex, because, as they put it, "he curls my toes." Sure, they could have gotten with any number of guys, but this guy, who wasn't that good looking, probably had a chiseled physique, was well-endowed, knew how to fuck, and had some game. But I think, mostly, it was all communicated on a subliminal le…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 08:16 PM
3

Yeah, well, OP touched on that in his post: the pool of quality, desirable women is relatively small, by design, because it has been shat in by a number of interest groups. It doesn't matter that they don't deserve your attention and commitment with their entitled, low-value behavior that they learned from TV. If they all buy into it, it becomes reality, and they find out too late that they were sold a bill of goods as part of a grander scheme. Hell, most don't even find that out. They just get …
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 07:23 PM
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What was the weekly hour commitment to all of that, and over what stretch of time? Also, who knew about knew and what was their attitude / demeanor? Also, did your wife / mistress / girlfriend have their own side thing going? Also, what is the distinction between the mistress and the girlfriend?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 07:00 PM
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Eh, most men are just that, given the right situation. If you were on a desert island, and Chad Thundercock got bored with one of his harem women, and cast her aside, you'd better believe you'd be all over it, assuming it was your best option, meaning you any attempts to kill Chad would likely result in your own demise. OP never provided details on how plentiful or scarce quality women are. If they are ALL interested in her, it's probably a scarcity situation AND/OR they are beta. In any case, h…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:50 PM
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Well, of course it's going to suck emotionally for most people in OP's situation, unless they have complete mastery of their emotions, or are 'Spergs or whatever. I mean, he got sick of her, wanted a break, but suddenly is mad that his buddies want a piece of the action. Their demand for her is probably making him reevaluate his decision to take a break. Why is there demand? It might be that they live in a relatively underpopulated area, and women who are high quality are in short supply. It cou…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:45 PM
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Yep, you are definitely right. OP is only human, and it's perfectly naturally to feel the way he does. It always amuses me that people think they can just magically apply words to control situations that operate with language made up of chemicals linked to emotions, bonding, sensations, etc. I mean, it's like the FWB people saying "We are just friends" with words, but the act of sex says "We are MORE than friends."
/r/askTRP10/04/19 10:51 PM
3

Sex leads to children. It's not the "pussy," it's the will to reproduce that trumps intangible feels and intangible value in relationships. A kid is a kid is a kid.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 09:02 PM
2

Yep.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 09:01 PM
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They fucked her? More likely, she went to each one of them and fucked them to get back at you. You're giving WAY too much credit to the guys in that case. Like, do you really think that each one independently seduced her with their "skills?" It's more like, she was "free" now, from you, and wanted to sample each one of them, like a greedy pig, and of course to "hurt" you, before finding another LTR. Most guys don't have the will-power to turn down free sex. I mean, maybe she wasn't hyper-aggress…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 09:01 PM
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On the one hand, yes. On the other hand, HE told her HE wanted to take a break, so he basically told her to go fuck other guys. Since quality seems to be in short supply, what are people supposed to do? Relegate her to nun status? They are all thinking, "If I don't, someone else will," and "Well, if he doesn't want her anymore, one man's trash...." Now, in my opinion, if they were trying to break them up, hitting on her on the sly, or if she had dumped him, and then they were waiting to pounce, …
/r/askTRP10/04/19 08:57 PM
1

Nice. But yeah, you are dealing with clueless rookies, I think.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 08:45 PM
1

Vegetables are advised for fiber, healthy source of carbs to help you metabolize the protein, and various other nutrients.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:58 PM
1

Only you can say for sure. Some guys are conditional with their love.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/19 08:52 PM
1

Going your own means whatever you decide you want to mean. Give up and turn into a couch potato? It's still your decision to make. The only difference is, how conscious are you that you are making it, and do you know what the stakes are, as in what are you gaining or losing?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/19 08:52 PM
2

Lol, but MGTOW means freedom to go in any direction, including down. I mean, let's not go nuts and assume MGTOW means, "Hey killself is as valid as become hero" in terms of life-scripts. But one model of MGTOW is a monk type of dude who just prefers his own pursuits, be them spiritual, scientific, business, art, or misc. oriented. And if he is ambivalent about anything beyond the basics in terms of diet and exercise, well then, so what. He's not trying to looks-max.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/19 03:40 AM
4

1 and 2 are sound MGTOW arguments, bc MGTOW is GTOW, which would include not necessarily being a gym-rat. 3 however is BS.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 08:21 PM
8

Yep, that was a bridge too far. The first two are plausible arguments under the MGTOW ideology.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 08:21 PM
6

Will you love her when she hits the wall? How about when she's 90 and smells like fish? It's easy to love someone who is young, healthy, wealthy, charming, talented, virtuous, etc., and not so easy when they are the opposite of these things. Also, people tend to take each other for granted after awhile, so there's that.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 01:41 AM
1

Yep, no such thing as a risk-free life. A lot stuff on here is trying to order what is essentially chaotic. You can everthing-max all you want and a woman can still leave you for someone else. C'est la vie. Also, what if the sex-doll attains sentience?????????
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 01:05 AM
2

Eh, then she's exposed to constant temptation, depending on the work setting. It's one thing if it's a setting of bitter old broads, gay dudes, and beta-herbs. But if it's a setting where there is alpha dick floating around, then you have a whole different set of problems. "Winning" ain't easy in this modern civilization set up.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 11:36 PM
6

I think it played a role in my last breakup. I got exasperated with her at one point when we moved in together, and her reaction, was, "Well, should I move out then?" I was dumbfounded by this, because I grew up in a household with daily, contentious arguing, that always resolved itself, because it was conducted mainly for entertainment purposes. People would say horrible things, but it was all just bark is worse than bite stuff. And then, all the female platonic female friends were suspected as…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 11:35 PM
25

Ha. Don't feel bad, bro. Take it as a sign that she didn't think that you would be with her long-term. She's probably realizing that she should find a nice beta to lock down, and she thinks that you are too high in SMV as a long-term prospect. I mean, she could spend the next three to five years with you, and meanwhile you will be using her like a whore, but for free, then you will gradually get bored, not "feel" it anymore, and then, richer, more accomplished, and better dressed, will start scr…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:15 PM
2

Dude, if you're that concerned about it, go find a pro. Also, if you don't want to go that route, just doll yourself up and present yourself as a "man of property" and lay out some beta bait for some post-wall sloots who think they can get you to wife them up. I mean, it's just as bad as prostitution, but it's more socially acceptable, because you can then plausibly deny that you were just using them, because you just weren't "feeling it" after a few months, and just didn't think you two were "c…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:04 PM
3

Well, it's the elites who have their own "society" that want to divide everyone else so they can't form rival, upstart, challenging societies. I mean, you have humanity, and then you have civilization, and then you have society / societies. The Society at the top is informal, and they get together and rule everyone, and we live in their civilization that makes it hard to form a counter-Society to compete with them. People mostly form ad hoc social groups that lobby for some concession from Socie…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 04:30 PM
6

Sure. But then you also have common law marriages that result from cohabitation. Also, some jurisdictions will literally construct a marriage or marriage-equivalent legal relationship just to take your money and redistribute it. For instance, if you have a live-in plate, and she washes your plates for a few years, they'll treat as your waifu, and then you'll have to give her back pay.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 04:28 PM
2

Just wait until they become sentient by being connected to the internet of things, and then sue you for reparations for your enslavement of them.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 04:26 PM
8

Eh, true in theory, but as you age, you have to deal with people's petty judgments. Think people who are trapped in crappy relationships, but are afraid to leave for religious or petty socio-economic reasons. They see a middle-aged single guy in his thirties and forties and they see what they think is the greener grass, and they are resentful. Also, think about women who are just hitting the wall and looking to lock down a beta bux. It doesn't matter how gently you spurn their desperate advances…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 04:25 PM
1

Save yourself first. Don't try to convince other people that they need saving if you don't save yourself. Lead by example. Avoid toxicity and toxic people. Don't be around people who use drugs. Just avoid them. Be willing to suffer. If you are using drugs, and you want to get off, you have to go through a period of suffering that could last a year or more, depending on whether you exercise, eat right, sleep right, have mental health issues, etc. People take drugs habitually to escape pain in the…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 07:05 AM
10

I agree that much of it is bullshit, but they have their reasons. Also, there is an intangible component to it. I can tell you from experience, that when you are in a couple, people are nicer to you as a man, your status goes up, you get invitations, women treat you better, etc. When you go back to being single, you experience a bit of a drop. Of course, there are people who are jealous, and there are guys trying to get with your girl on the sly, etc. But, when I was with my last GF, even though…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 06:32 AM
2

Nobody taught you how to live. You don't appreciate the things you have. You don't understand the transience of life and are hung up on material things. You don't understand the value of education. You don't understand your mind's relationship to your body. Typically, people who are drug addicts, or experiencing any kind of addiction are experiencing an aspect of spiritual poverty. Also, people who are in despair, and constantly make excuses, but nothing is really wrong.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 06:29 AM
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If he's good-looking enough, and knows how to slang the D, he can easily get that. All he has to do is run the same con they run: "Baby, I LOVE you! I want to BE with you! Only you can have my dick!"
/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 02:43 AM
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Less men marrying means more corporate debt slaves toiling away in one bedroom apartments with cats and dogs. It dilutes the labor pool, drives down wages, and prevents solidarity from existing. You have the individual, then the family, then communities. If families don't exist, then communities don't exist. Married people tend to shun single people, and single people are constantly rotating through friends as people move away, get married, or get sick of each other.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 02:42 AM
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Yes, spend a king's ransom sending the kids to an expensive nursery school just so mom can help dilute the labor pool in exchange for the validation of being a corporate serf. If people are together over a period of years, and they have children, the law reasons that the assets acquired by the bread-winner were enabled by the domestic support provider. So, while the hubby focuses on work, wifey makes the food, cleans, takes care of errands, manages the house, manages the children. Not having to …
/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 02:40 AM
1

What have you got to lose by reaching out? Life is short. The worst that happens is that she'll think you want her, and then she'll be all smug, lord it over you, not fool around with you anymore, and try to turn you into a beta orbiter. That's the absolute worst-case scenario. Is that really so bad? You could use HER as your female beta orbiter in that case. You could go out with a group and use each other as wingpersons. So, that's the worst-case scenario. These people on here with their absol…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 02:27 AM
1

It's all about the delivery. If you say it with confidence it will work, although I think that the line I came up with ad hoc is a bit, um, long. I just felt like going to an extreme. I think it should end at "lost in there."
/r/askTRP27/03/19 02:21 AM
2

Someone is using the area you want, so you ask if you can work "in" between their sets while they are resting, because usually people rest about a minute in between sets, which is more than enough time for 2-4 people to rotate sets in succession.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 02:20 AM
2

A Cornell MBA grad making twice your salary.... but you rejected her, after using her like an unpaid hooker.... yeah, no wonder she is going ballistic. She thinks she is the prize and you just gave her a rude awakening that the sexual marketplace is not the economic marketplace. She could be the female Doogie Howswer MD, but you simply CANNOT NEGOTIATE ATTRACTION. I don't know about BPD, like other people are saying. I would just tell her that it's not her fault, or your fault, that these things…
/r/askTRP26/03/19 08:02 PM
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Wait a minute, I thought you guys all had stacks of pixels instead of dicks.... hahahaha... Okay, I got that out of system. Don't let on that it is a weakness. It's some OTHER guy who has a small dick. Also, unless you have a micro-penis, your dick is more than adequate to the task. Most girls don't like anything bigger than 7 inches. If you watch porn (and I'm sure you do), half the time, the guy with 10 inch dick has half of it hanging out of the vagina, or if he uses it all, there is a jump c…
/r/askTRP26/03/19 07:58 PM
1

Dude, it's the gym. It's like work. You are there for a mission. It's a temple, a sacred space. In all the years I have gone to gyms, I have NEVER sought to make a female friend at one. If they want to throw themselves at me, fine. It's scarcity mentality to think otherwise. I don't want any drama at my gym. I prefer a home gym, and then I can spend my freed up time to socialize in less risky and problematic ways. If you shack up with a girl at a gym, and she turns out to be a psycho, then you m…
/r/askTRP26/03/19 07:49 PM
1

Okay. I left a response. TLRD: You can reach out to her, but keep it casual, and don't expect any particular outcome. Also, I would add, you can never fully "own" or "control" someone, at least not someone of value.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 07:44 PM
3

One of the traps people fall into, especially people of above average intelligence is thinking that because they have influenced or controlled some outcomes in the past, they can control EVERY outcome AT WILL. No matter what you say or do, you can never completely guarantee how someone will react to what you say or do. NEVER. What does that mean? It means that it is impossible to know what the actual consequences of your actions are. It is impossible to know if you will ever get her back to wher…
/r/askTRP26/03/19 07:43 PM
3

Good, I'm glad it worked.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 05:32 AM
5

I'm 95. Was a total blue-pill cuck. Now I have three plates aged 88, 84, and 79. Best blow-jobs ever because none of them have teeth.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 08:31 PM
0

According to Sun Tzu, the acme of skill is to subdue a city without shedding a single drop of blood. This does not compute with "crush your enemies..." etc. Empires are most powerful when people are clamoring to be a part of them, and on their way out when they have to send the legions out to compel people into servitude that they gain nothing from. Ultimately, the problem is, how to make the pie bigger. Failing to make the pie bigger means you're going to have start liquidating the eaters....
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 06:51 PM
1

Yep, that's a sound analysis.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 06:34 PM
7

From what I have seen, parents have no fucking plan as to how they are going to raise their kid, what kind of education they want to give it, what kind of values they want to instill, how they will instill those values, what activities their child should engage in, and at what age, etc. They are literally just following along with what their peers are doing. For instance, I witness my relatives' children eating processed food, despite the fact that we know it is neurotoxic. Most of the toys they…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 05:00 AM
1

No problemo.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 04:19 AM
1

Well, several things to consider: Don't get too emotionally invested; face up to the possibility that the trip will lead to the end; Enjoy the moment; you guys are in your twenties, so trying to get commitment or locks someone in at that age, given the dominant culture, is difficult; You can sort of walk back the whole seeming too emotionally committed, by simply emotionally detaching a bit and being outcome independent; You can still game other women; you should be gaming other women your whole…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 03:47 AM
2

There will be other women. Now you know what to look for, in terms of behavior, and how you feel. That being said, it looks like a no-win situation. If she doesn't go on the trip after only knowing you for 2.5 months (which isn't that long of a time), then she might resent you down the road. I mean, if it is related to her university work, and she has been working towards it for years, she would take some serious blowback from schoolmates, colleagues, friends, family, herself, etc. for jettisoni…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 02:48 AM
11

No problemo.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 02:42 AM
1

One possibility is to allow some time to pass, game other women, and then if the opportunity arises again, be a bit more aggressive. The worst LIKELY thing that will happen will be she way say no and that she isn't interested, in which case, "next." But wouldn't worry too much about it. Also, the fact that you were non-aggressive and ambivalent may mean you weren't that into her. I mean, if the hottest girl on the planet invited you over, and you could barely think because all the blood went fro…
/r/askTRP21/03/19 11:13 PM
1

You don't know. It's unpredictable. I think that fear of public humiliation ties in with it. If you do go ahead and do it, which I don't recommend, better not do it anywhere publicly. Don't be seen in public with her. Don't go on "dates." Don't turn it into a relationship. Just get the sex and get out. Also, there are plenty of single women out there. By pursuing married women, you are demonstrating scarcity mentality. Also, I have to question why you would want a woman you know a guy is jizzing…
/r/askTRP21/03/19 10:21 PM
2

Why is it more "fun" to fuck married women? Do you get turned on by the residue of the hubby's semen? Or do you imagine that it is really him that you are fucking? I really can't think of why it would be more "fun." If married women are "more" attractive, it's because the security and the perks of the relationship are puffing them into someone greater than the sum of their individual parts. They are being taken care of by the hubby, so they are more relaxed and confident. By contrast, single wom…
/r/askTRP21/03/19 10:19 PM
1

Then the men with guns come after you.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 10:15 PM
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When I read stuff like this, I find it infuriating. You have supposedly paid your debt to society, yet your punishment continues unofficially because of human nature. You are essentially, an indentured servant, if you try to go the employee route. I bet you COULD find work, but you'd basically have to work as an unpaid intern, and you would risk exploitation. You would also risk the scenario of, no matter how good you do, any one little thing out of order will be viewed with suspicion. And all b…
/r/askTRP21/03/19 10:13 PM
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Ha. So, the NSA thing that she proposed was actually a covert contract in which she expected to win you over by treating you like a king. It sounds like it is partially working, because you went for the sex, and devoted some of your time to her. Also, it sounds like you both are in scarcity situations: you are in SJW hell-hole, and she is in a po-dunk town. If you both moved to Sex & the City Land, like a NYC, would things be different? For you, assuming your are successful, would have your pick…
/r/askTRP21/03/19 10:12 PM
1

If it makes you feel any better, I still slip into it in several ways. I think it is a byproduct of a civilization that alienates people. We're all spread around and have to commute everywhere to spend time with each other, so people "seem" scare. Not to mention that everyone is chasing after young, beautiful people, and those are super scarce. The ones that like us back are ever scarcer. But if you can build enough value, you will attract a fair amount of them, but still have to work at it.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 08:19 PM
1

I started with the rules of physics as a baseline. I think all the social rules are derivative of natural rules, such as the rules of physics.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/19 08:15 PM
5

Yes, there are a "right" and a "wrong." It's just that it is difficult to completely quantify, there is a gray area, and there are many variables that affect the status of whether or not the "rules" are observed, to what extent, and under what circumstances. If you kill someone, there will be consequences. You may not immediately perceive them, or understand them, but it's an action, and so there will be effects and counter-actions. Even if you are a billionaire and you kill a poor home-less orp…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/19 08:14 PM
3

Yes, the answer is yes. If she is fucking someone below you on the SMV scale, she WILL fuck you, IF you can either give her a better LTR deal, i.e. boyfriend, not mere fuck-buddy (unless promotion to LTR is the bait), or you are good at seduction and can over-ride the anti-slut defense. Keep in mind, if she goes for lower SMV guys, she either has low self-esteem, or she has some level of self-awareness of her true SMV, and is looking to lock a beta down early enough to be secure through her midd…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 11:58 PM
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Don't "starve" her. Pay attention to other things and be busy. It's a waste of time to "negatively" act like that. It's more like you go where the love and the light are. If she acts like an asshole, she is "driving you away." You want to be with her, but she keeps pushing you away with her bad behavior instead of attracting you with good behavior.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 11:49 PM
1

Look at the Big Picture Here Make an Outline of TRP Stuff The Outline Should be Subjects like "Lifting" "Financial Independence," "Looks-Maxing" "Status Building" "Personal Fulfillment" "Socializing" "Interactions with Women" Then there should be sub-headings for each one. Things like lifting are pretty straightforward. So start there. Sub-headings would be "Intervals" "Exercises" "Progression" "Sleep" "Nutrition." Others would be WAY more complicated. As you read TRP, you can add stuff that you…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 11:48 PM
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Well, you did what you did. Some things to think about: Why does her bad behavior affect YOUR self-respect? She was acting like a child, probably because the peak experience fun was over and she was crashing, yet also unaware of that, because of immaturity, so she lashes out at you, and then.... you go nuclear and dump her. The real person who misbehaved was her. She acted like an ingrate. Her self-respect should suffer, not yours. She acted like a child. Are you surprised? They ALL act like chi…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/19 10:38 PM
8

Lol, at "there are no rules." Sure there are! You just don't like them because they weren't the rules you were told existed. You're really mad that you were lied to and that lies are used to control people. But that doesn't mean that there isn't something resembling reality. It's just that it is difficult to get to with our puny chimp brains. But, I mean, jump off a cliff, and you will go splat. So there's gravity. Put a loaded gun to your head and pull the trigger and you will either die or end…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/19 10:17 PM
12

That's a bit of a Manichean black/white way of looking at it. It's not the tools that are the problem, exactly. It's that we haven't adapted quickly enough to use them effectively. It's all new to us. We are the pioneers, and many of us are going to wind up face down with arrows in our backs. These tools can be used VERY productively. People use the internet to telecommute, to learn new skills, to meet people around the world, to trade assets, to avoid traffic, to find good restaurants, to learn…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/19 10:04 PM
3

The archetypes you speak of, the stories, those were created by people, and then used by other people for a purpose. People will literally live out these stories if they don't have another script. Scripts are powerful things. The chaos of nature is frightening, so scripts and stories impose some semblance of order on it. And elites with media organs can exploit this. With regards to earning a living, that's a trick subject. Many people are trapped in the wage slave paradigm where they believe th…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 09:02 PM
2

Well, that's a good thing then. Go for a rural chick, get her to crank out a few kids, and everything else is gravy. If that's what you are looking for, anyway. Guy that can get that easily usually then want to have a harem, sport-fuck an entire brothel, etc. Grass is always greener on the other side.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 08:50 PM
1

There we go, that's a good one! It could make him look like a weak, beta bux sucker.... On the other hand... Then you risk the guy whipping out a massive wad of cash and cucking you by demonstrating that buying dinner is NOTHING to him. See, it depends on who is doing it and how. If it's a some nebbishy, balding, pudgy guy with a weak frame who is doing it out of desparation, that's not a threat. If it's Brad Pitt, you're in deep, deep trouble.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 08:49 PM
1

Yeah, but the rural ones... are they... attractive?
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:25 PM
2

Eh, well, you're going to do what you want to do. Here's the thing. I think a lot of boys wanted to be Batman. Why? Because he's a superhero who is sold through the mass media. When you go into the theater, you are paying for a certain experience. Why did you find Batman such a compelling character? Probably because like a lot of boys, you were bullied, and had revenge fantasies relating to the trauma. I know I did. But does that mean that you should let some events that happened long ago dictat…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 04:24 PM
2

If they will fix your teeth, what is the problem? If they look like shit already, the braces aren't going to make them that much worse. If you are using this as an excuse to not game women, all you are doing is adding to your wait time. Who cares if they reject you over braces? If that's the case, you didn't want them anyway. You could use that 3 years to go out and game women. Maybe you'll even meet a good one. I made similar mistakes. It's always a mistake to stop gaming women. Never stop. Alw…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:31 PM
9

Yes, what you say is true. On the other hand, she probably interpreted your lack of thirst and abundance mentality as bad for long-term prospects. Those two things are great for younger women, who are intrigued by them because they are a pleasant departure from the desperation and thirst they deal with day to day. For women in their thirties, they are impatient, and they want the good thing NOW. Thus, they are the desperate, creepy ones that repel men with their demands.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:15 PM
2

Eh, if you're worried about falling in the line of duty, I'm not sure that detective is the right job for you. Consider why you REALLY want the job. Might it have something to do with how it is glamorized in the media? They glamorize it to stimulate demand, as well as for doctors and lawyers, which are also soul-sucking jobs. It's like a trap for the middle class, where they Tom Sawyer people into thinking that stressful, dangerous, relatively low paid work is more meaningful than earning a comf…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:11 PM
5

It's natural to feel anxiety. It never really goes away entirely. Even for guys who do it non-stop for years. You basically have to divorce yourself from outcome and focus on process. Just literally focus on the process and don't worry if you get rejected, or even humiliated. Invariably, you will. You WILL be rejected, and you will even occasionally be humiliated, but that is life. You can try running through scenarios in your mind ahead of time, and then planning a response to each of them to h…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:04 PM
1

That would be a counter-argument against that approach, HOWEVER, I have read many a time, and it is my own personal belief, that a quality woman WILL handle these things herself to avoid putting her man into a potentially awkward situation. I mean, if you are the girl, and you are sitting there thinking, "Wow, this is a quality guy, I sure wouldn't want him to think I was a mercenary whore, I'd better show him that I think the other guy is so far beneath me that I won't even take a free gift fro…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:59 PM
12

Yep. This is, more or less the process: Prepare yourself by physically (hygiene, clothes, etc.) and mentally (where you are going, will there be women there, what time of day are you going, what kind of girls will you will be approaching, what will you be saying etc.) Go to the place; Look for the women; Qualify the women by their body language to see if they seem interested; this can be walking near them and trying to make eye contact in a casual way; if they scowl, that's not a good thing, if …
/r/askTRP19/03/19 07:15 PM
2

No way man: Continue to ride cock carousel, have a Chad's kid, rely on family and friends for support, as well as government and corporate america; Become a lesbian; In vitro; have an uber-Chad's kid, rely on friends and family for support, as well as government and corporate america; This is why are they are lots of single incels running around. They are literally no longer needed.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 06:28 PM
7

You're over-thinking it. He just told you that what he does, is he goes outside to places where there are women, and then he starts conversations with them in a subtle way. What he probably didn't tell you is that he may engage in a few qualifying moves first, like reading their body language to gauge their receptivity. But I have read plenty of stories of smooth guys winning over hard-cases who would eat less smooth men alive over one conversational mis-step.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 06:01 PM
2

Have you fucked any mothers lately, tho?
/r/askTRP19/03/19 05:59 PM
4

She did you a massive favor by showing you this kind of behavior early on. It was a test to see how much of a sucker you are and what you will tolerate. You may have thought it was hilarious that a 40 year old guy would send over drinks, but that guy knew what he was doing. He saw that you two were on a date, and he didn't care at all, and invaded your boundaries. How SHOULD you have reacted? Hmmm... difficult question. Picked up the drinks, walked over to the guys table, and dropped them off sa…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 05:41 PM
0

I'm not really up on the sentencing rates of any offender groups, but I did assume that if they pled 8 years, the other path would have been much worse, because 8 years, or any time in prison, for that matter, sucks. It also varies by jurisdiction. I know that much. Some states are very lenient, and others, like the Southern Bible Belt states, can throw the book at you.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/19 04:42 PM
3

The "evidence" could have been sufficient that in similar scenarios, people that tried to plead not guilty, and failed to win, were then sentenced to 20 plus years as a punishment for not just admitting guilt. It's called plea-bargaining, and it happens in a lot of cases, especially at the federal level, where the federal government has a 96% plus conviction rate, so a plea of not guilty against them is asking for trouble. The only way you plead not guilty is if you have a mountain of evidence i…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/19 06:07 AM
8

Exactly. Also, they send them to school, into extracurricular activities, overnight camps that least weeks or months. But those are "professionally" run. And everyone does it. Whereas, if the babysitter molests the kid, well, you hired them, so you were neglectful for not doing enough screening.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/19 05:58 AM
1

Yes, but I wanted you to think, instead of having me do it for you. I mean, you posted that whole thing. Not kissing on the first date can mean any number of things. It is contextual. For instance, if you forgot to floss your teeth before the date, or you are a habitual non-flosser who is habituated to the stench, you won't be getting many kisses. I know plenty of pretty girls who don't floss and wonder why they aren't getting any. Seriously. And nobody wants to be the sacrificial lamb who tells…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 08:42 PM
2

Yeah, I felt like going the cryptic zen koan route today. It may seem like it's no big deal to offer up the kiss, and for some women it isn't. But for others, it is, because: Kissing, in the past, has led to other things, like getting fucked in the ass behind a dumpster in an alley; Kissing is considered romantic and emotional, a sign that the two people are in "love." Once, this girl wanted to have sex with me, but she didn't want to kiss me! It would be too emotional! But I was free to plunder…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 08:18 PM
9

You know who else won't kiss on the first date? Whores.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 06:31 PM
2

Yeah, I figured. Also, the part about the Chad guy who was ugly and had a small dick sounded like a segue into some sort of PUA marketing schtick.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 05:54 AM
22

No, not permanently. Eventually you will die, and all your problems will be gone.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 12:59 AM
7

Yes, yes, and yes. Shaving is a submissive act.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 12:58 AM
9

Oh come on, this is TOTALLY a troll post! I mean, how "pregnant" is she? Just a few weeks? Eight and a half months and due in a few weeks?
/r/askTRP18/03/19 12:12 AM
1

It's always a recipe for drama. I had this woman in one of the buildings I lived in after me. Every time I would be exiting or entering my apartment, she would always just happen to be nearby. She had a banging body, but she was older than me by a fair degree, well past child-bearing years, and her advanced education and credentials, surprise surprise, didn't compensate for her lack of youth. But she had an amazing body, and since it seemed like she hadn't gotten any in awhile, and was slightly …
/r/askTRP18/03/19 12:09 AM
1

Oh, I think the "ban-hammering" that is going on is pretty ridiculous, but not necessarily here, although I don't know very much about it, occasionally a mod will complain of having to get rid of trolls, or spammers. In other groups, people literally get banned for using the kind of language your describe, when someone could just calmly talk to them and explain to them not to use it, that it's not appropriate, and why. Also, if you disagree with people, they automatically assume it's because you…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 12:07 AM
1

Dating in the same building is akin to shitting where you eat, IMO. It's also similar to moving in with someone too soon.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 09:00 PM
2

On the one hand, yes, but on the other hand, civility. People in the upper echelons of society "filter" everyone else by their use of language. Use the wrong language in the wrong setting and you can forget about being invited or included again. It's not because they are weak, or sensitive snow-flakes. It's because they are aware that the wrong language can alienate people. It's all very fine and well for you to write what you just wrote, but how would feel if you went to a restaurant with your …
/r/askTRP17/03/19 08:56 PM
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OP, YOU need to be the one to organize social outings. If you are always the one who is waiting to be invited, you are kind of a value leech. I know this because I was once in your position. Always waiting to be invited, or inviting myself along. I was being lazy. Had I been smart about it, I would have sat down, thought about my situation rationally, and thought to myself, "What social goals am I trying to achieve? Fun night out with bros? Mixers with women?" Then I would ask myself, "How can I…
/r/askTRP17/03/19 07:46 PM
3

Ha, proximity. Yeah, it's hard to have proximity if you live somewhere where you need a car to get everywhere. Nothing like that high school or college experience where everyone is mostly within walking distance. I don't think it's by accident. It's part of the design of modern industrial society to divided, segregate, atomize, and alienate people. I mean, you go to high school, and then the high school encourages everyone to go off to their own different college. When I was in high school, my g…
/r/askTRP17/03/19 07:40 PM
5

Why, she could be your LTR, and then you could have some side-pieces that are hot, but have shit personalities. Since you are so much higher in the SMV department, she would probably go along with it to "share" the alpha. If you enjoy her company and she is a solid person, you could keep her around, but then satiate your desire to bang hotter women by having a mistress. This practice is as old as the hills. Also, don't give rat's fuck what other people think. Life is too short for that. Your att…
/r/askTRP17/03/19 09:42 AM
4

So, the lion concerns itself with the opinions of sheep, does it?
/r/askTRP17/03/19 09:40 AM
11

Ha, to all the guys who say "If I don't fuck her, someone else will..." This is what can happen. Now he has to worry about STDs AND sleep with one eye open.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 09:37 AM
2

Try shaving your head. You can augment the shaved head look with a soul patch, goatee, etc, or not. Balding makes you look middle-aged. It also makes you look like a nerd. However, completely shaving your head makes you look youthful. Of course, some women are turned off by it, but others are completely turned on by it. Yes, money is important. Trying to be the class clown is not a good idea. You are trying to entertain people to win their approval. Why would a high value person need to do that?…
/r/askTRP17/03/19 04:24 AM
5

A con artist IS an improvement over what most people are. I mean, before you can make it, first you have to fake it.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 02:10 AM
1

Well, both, to be honest. It was his idea, after all.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 02:09 AM
11

Ha, you know, I'm "EC" on here, and I STILL haven't watched all this guy's stuff. This is EXACTLY what I needed to hear today. So, a million thank yous for posting it.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 12:05 AM
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Be sure to also buy some smoked salmon, and then smear some of the oils into the panties. Then put the salmon on a bagel with cream cheese and eat it. Or, to be carb free, roll it up with the cream cheese. Leave some of the fish juices on the index and middle finger on your dominant hand.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 12:01 AM
2

You're not the only one, bro. Most people were NOT in fraternities or sororities. Also, you assume these people have strong ties, when many of them may only see each other a few times a year, and they go out together to maintain certain appearances. I did the fraternity thing. I can tell you that I would have preferred to have aligned with guys on some shared actual interest aside from a crudely disguised quest to get laid.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 10:15 PM
1

Because their vagina is the gateway to the closest thing to immortality yet achieved. Conceiving a child with a woman is the male organism's purpose, from a biological perspective. Now, it seems like the gender ratio is even, correct? Maybe there are even MORE women than men on the planet, right? Well, but are the DESIRABLE women? To be a desirable, a woman has to be young, fertile, healthy, and attractive. Youth eliminates almost all the women over age 35. The remainder over 35 retain their val…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 10:13 PM
2

Oh god. I think I was just the other guy in that situation. Even though nothing overt happened, there was a situation with a married women where there was obvious attraction. Then a few days later, a loving tribute to the hubby on social media. Yeah, I think it can be a sign of a guilty conscience at the very least. I mean, we are all human, and therefore fallible. If girls are constantly going out into social situations, they will be exposed to men they are attracted to, and they will think tho…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 07:47 PM
1

First of all, take up that bouncing opportunity and see where it goes. You will be exposed to a ton of women. Will they be the best women? Probably not, but you will get volume, and that's a good thing. Hmmmmm... well, if they touch you, it can be an IOI. I think you probably read the hugging situation correctly, so that shows you have some social awareness. It could have been worse though, they could have pushed you away and started to shriek or something. I mean, the thing is, a lot of this st…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 07:45 PM
2

Publicity. It sells those crappy little magazines to ignorant yokels who have no lives of their own and need to read about beautiful people that they deify.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 07:54 AM
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I did a bit of research on this, and the most chilling thing I found was: Sex can actually increase and become more passionate when she is cheating on you! Also, the opposite too. Sometimes, there are no obvious signs. If she really wants to be in a relationship with you, but still wants some "strange," she'll do her best to cover her tracks. She'll lie to herself first, or rationalize her decisions somehow, and then she'll lie to you by omission. Occasionally, like any normal person, she'll wan…
/r/askTRP16/03/19 07:54 AM
5

What about landwhales?
/r/askTRP16/03/19 07:36 AM
8

I think the principle to internalize is to never answer a qualifying question seriously. When they ask you these questions, they are trying to draw you into their frame to see if you are a weak bitch. Even if you have "perfect" answers, they will still be pissed that you complied so easily, like an obedient job applicant, hoping to be their supplicant, instead of a god-emperor they can look up to. Example: Q. 1. So, what do you do? A. i. (Weak Answer ) I'm a low-level retail pawn... (hangs head …
/r/askTRP16/03/19 07:35 AM
1

Also, what are your thoughts, if any, on ayahuasca, DMT, etc. I've never tried any of that stuff.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/19 07:30 AM
1

"I only started using lsd when I went to grad school and met a guy with a chemistry PhD that makes it himself." I did it once under similar circumstances, and it was fine, similar to shrooms, only it lasted longer. I will look up that yogi you mentioned. I did a retreat that was free. They provided room, board, and food. They did ask for a donation, but it wasn't mandatory. I think we are here for reason, and obviously we can't all afford to be monks who navel gaze. Well, maybe we could, who kno…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/19 07:29 AM
1

Agreed; Also agreed; I agree with some of what you say, based on my own personal experiences, however, they provide several important functions: a. Keepers of ancient traditions that predate modern technology; b. They subscribe to non-materialist values and thus provide an example of what people are like who don't subscribe to them; I have heard of people who get their heads wrapped around meditation very quickly and enjoy the benefits, or even achieve "enlightenment" in a fraction of the time. …
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 10:25 PM
2

Yeah, I wish I had prepared properly to process the experience all those years ago, but mostly there was hysteria, superstitious, and people doing it purely for hedonic purposes. What I learned: Better to do it outside than inside. Inside makes you focus inward on yourself, and it can be very uncomfortable. Outside, you feel connected to nature, as part of a continuum; That to large extent, we are bio-chemical phenomena, and that our perceptions are heavily influenced by our biochemistry, which …
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 06:34 PM
2

What sort of LSD trips, exactly? I mean, did you get some sort of training / instruction on how to make the most out of psychedelics, or do you just take it, and go into a forest with some buddies?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 05:49 PM
5

If you are truly red-pilled, wouldn't you already know the answer to your question? Your question was, "Can I get laid as a low SMV guy?" Did you mean ugly guy? Ugly guys get laid, they are even desired, but they have high SMV. For instance, I knew plenty of ugly-ass bouncers who got puffed up from the thrill of beating up and dominating lesser, drunken beta, gamma, delta, and omega idiots, throwing them out of bars, humiliating them, etc. These guys looked like wildebeests, but they were drowni…
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:46 PM
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That's great that you are doing that, but be mindful of your health. Since you have plenty of money, you can afford to get check-ups. The only possible downside to working like that would be if you died from some stress-induced illness that snuck up on you because your youth allowed you to habituate to the tell-tale symptoms. I knew a few guys that passed away in their twenties before they got to claim the prize they were working for. However, it sounds like you are well ahead of the game, so ca…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 04:38 PM
1

You haven't been on this sub long enough, or read the side-bar. The "regular bloke," if he's lucky, marries the first girl that lays him and thinks he has won the lottery. The "regular bloke" gets friend-zoned, rejected, becomes an orbiter, etc. The "regular bloke" settles for what he thinks he needs, and gives up on his desires. The only guys who get to choose are high value guys. Guys build value over time. Sure, you can be good-looking, but that isn't enough. You also have to have status, wea…
/r/askTRP15/03/19 04:23 PM
2

All kidding aside, if you low charisma, find way to cast a glamour. Usually guys join a band and get groupies. Only works if you stay away from drugs, have strong work ethic, master your instrument, and develop a huge following. Examples would include: any ugly ass musician who has sex with a lot of brainwashed women. Another option is to become a bouncer at a bar in a college town. All the bouncers where I went were fugly, yet they all get laid.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:59 PM
1

If there is an exchange of value, there can be a friendship. For instance, if you have a colleague or someone you share a hobby with, and you both are already getting laid, or you have abundance mentality and don't care whether you fuck her or not, you CAN have a friendship. It IS possible. Seriously, though: abundance mentality. You don't have to fuck every hot chick, or try to fuck every hot chick that you know. In fact, not trying to fuck her, will make her more interested, and you won't come…
/r/askTRP15/03/19 07:07 AM
2

Yes, they can get cock on demand too. They all can. All they have to do is either lower their standards or be super-aggressive and throw themselves on a relative Chad's dick. It could be a guy who is a 7, but for them, he is unattainable. Just imagine if some hot girl was like, "Well, I definitely won't marry you, but if you are aggressive, I will totally have sex with you!" That is literally what below-average women on up deal with. So that's why they have abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 07:04 AM
1

Yes, there are 100% for sure bluepill women. These would be the women that lack self-awareness to understand their own motivations, which is a lot of them, and then women that are hopeless romantics. I have seen women get oneitis over loser guys. I have seen women put guys on pedestals. I'm not talking about Chads here. I'm talking about FUCKING LOSERS. Guys who actually had lower SMVs. What did they have going for them? They weren't that in to these girls. They had sex with them, but they weren…
/r/askTRP15/03/19 06:00 AM
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Ah, the old Dungeon's and Dragon's approach. Banging the low-level orc-women raises your XP. However, you forgot to tell OP how to increase his SMV. He must somehow get his hands on gold, which he can then used to buy better equipment. Like a lot of PCs, he starts off with dirty sneakers he has had for four years, a ratty T-Shirt, some jeans he got at Walmart. This simply won't be good for very much other than pity-fucks from orc-women. Once he upgrades to designer clothes, and hits the gym for …
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:57 AM
2

Lol, 18? That's only if you have been brainwashed by the American media, or if your parents are rich and they buy you a place. What happens is, rich parents buy their kids their own places, and then all the poorer kids go to great lengths to try and emulate that lifestyle. They prostitute themselves to various employers, deal drugs, etc. Now of course, some kids are solid, and they have solid employment lined up after college. Most of these are rich though, and groomed by their parents to succee…
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:46 AM
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Oy. They don't know unless you tell them. It's not like there is some female CIA database that keeps track of who is getting what. If you don't run around telling people you are a kiss-less virgin, they will assume you probably got some. If people ask you, it's none of their business. You don't kiss and tell. Or you could just act like you got some. There is an instinctive component to these things, and there is also a learned component as well. If you want to "learn," watch the kissing parts in…
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:42 AM
1

A friend was once dating a girl with a dog. Now, granted the dog had been with her through thick and thin, whereas she had been deserted in her time of need by the man in her life. He totally failed to understand this aspect, and kept complaining about the dog always took precedence. He was especially angry that one time he took her out for an expensive meal, and then took half of it home to feed to the dog. I explained the whole thing to him, but it went in one ear and out the other. Eventually…
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:21 AM
1

Haha, so true.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:09 AM
3

So, you took it to a forensic grade data recovery specialist, the kind that large international law firms hire to discovery, then? If the answer is no, and if the machine is still in your possession, then go take it to one of those companies. If, on the other hand, the machine was thrown in a dumpster years ago, and presumably sent to an incinerator, or into a landfill, then I guess it really is gone.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 10:56 PM
2

You bought shitloads of it... didn't back it up... and didn't really think anything of it. You and/or your family must be loaded. Anyway, I suggest, assuming you still have the hard-drive in your possession, to at least try. It's amazing what they can do with data recovery, especially if properly motivated. Hell, offer the recovery team 20%. "Smashed to pieces" does not necessarily mean the data is unrecoverable. Also, hard-drives are not that easy to destroy.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 09:11 PM
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Wait a minute, billions of dollars of bitcoin on your laptop, yet you are complaining about this stupid skank? Why, with that money, you could buy a barracks full of skanks. Your own personal private skank barracks. Seriously, bro, priorities. Work on recovering that bitcoin, and while you are at it, send us all some. SRSLY.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 08:44 PM
3

Well, maybe he just can't get girls his own age! LOL! (The response to that attack is, "Oh, I can get them alright, that's the problem.... Or, that's like shooting fish in a barrel, I prefer a challenge.) Or maybe he's just an immature, Peter Pan manchild who fears a strong independent woman and refuses to settle down and man up. Double LOL! Given the choice, people choice youth and beauty. Not just men, but women too. Just look at who Doris Duke was screwing. She would be a prime example. She d…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 08:31 PM
1

Dude, it's not over. You could always "steal" her from the other guy. Seriously. It could just be that she herself is bluepilled and doesn't know her own value. Just make platonic plans with her, then escalate and see if she responds.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 12:25 AM
1

I would say that it isn't necessarily evil, but that it is a natural phenomena that reacts to the cruelty of the material world, with it's principles of causality, chaos, and superabundance, where there are too many living entities vying for a limited pool or resources, thus insuring a brutal struggle to survive, and that the cruelty of humans is an offshoot of that. They are cruel to others to the extent that it furthers their survival, even if they don't realize or understand the reasons for t…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 11:11 PM
2

Part of Brian's bad luck is to follow the advice of Bad Advice Kevin, who is always leading young men astray with his fabulism. Brian even tried to terminate the pregnancy with Coca-Cola, but all it did was give the girl a yeast infection.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 09:13 PM
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No, they prosecuted in part because the higher-order sociopaths and sadists who populate law enforcement and justice circles get to have their cake and eat it too. Otherwise, punishment, at least in the USA, would be more humane and geared toward rehabilitation. Just because the world is cruel doesn't meant that the authorities are going to let low level predators run amok. Why, that would threaten THEIR privileged position of relative comfort. Plus, part of the cruelty results from the strong k…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 09:12 PM
2

Yep. Keep me posted. I believe in you! : )
/r/askTRP13/03/19 07:24 PM
1

Obviously not. What "noble purpose" would that serve? Maybe the HB10's could inspire the homeless guys to stop doing drugs, or maybe their hotness will cure their mental illness, and then they'll become productive member so society. Think of the possibilities. I mean, you're the one who is claiming to have these women in your thrall, but if they REALLY were in your thrall, they would go against their natural tendency to be selfish. Also, this is not an original idea. It's what cult leaders and r…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 06:46 PM
0

Well, life is cruel anyway, even with your help. The thing is, periodically, vast populations are wiped out because war, plague, famine, natural disaster, etc. So ultimately, our notions of control are illusory.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 06:45 PM
3

But how many of them will wind up as cannon fodder, or factory fodder, or office drone fodder? It's difficult to say. That's the strength of the scattershot approach, I guess. It's not like he can effectively parent them. Maybe if he's an inspiring figure, they will study his life and emulate him. I don't know very much about him except that he has a lot of children, and I completely understand why. I mean, if he's part of a minority group that the Establishment oppresses and actively tries to c…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 06:40 PM
1

Well, it's difficult to say what is and isn't really. For some, it may start off as a way to meet guys, and then they discover they genuinely like it, and relate to it, and it edifies them. I think many guys can tell the difference, but also many cannot, and get played.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 06:36 PM
2

How about controlling them for a noble purpose game? Maybe you could get them to pick up litter along the highway, or tutor underprivileged children? If they REALLY loved you, wouldn't they feed the homeless at the soup kitchen? Put those dark triad skills to work for GOOD! No, seriously, I'm not joking around here. It would be a VERY interesting experiment.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 06:34 PM
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Ha, even if you "own" their "souls," you probably still won't be satisfied. You have basically just experienced peak experience overload, and now you are falling right back into the post-high low, and are now seeking a NEW high.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 05:44 PM
1

The high smv girls MUST develop some inner attributes or they risk winding up some sociopath who exploits them, or with some schlub because all the "good men" go for the high smv women who took the time to develop themselves, or who were groomed by their parents.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 05:41 PM
2

That's their competitive strategy. That can't or won't compete in the looks department, so they adopt the "just one of the guys" strategy. Then they try to find a guy they like, and then sleep with him, get pregnant, and then he's in her life for the next 18 years at her discretion.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 05:40 PM
3

Yes, it's pathetic how self-destructive the culture made them. They literally chase after guys who "signal" alpha, even if the guys aren't that alpha. There really isn't that much difference between mid to high beta and alpha, except in behaviors. I see so many guys who look alpha, who make a lot of money, who lift, who have all these talents, but their learned beta behavior repels women like lanolin repels water. Meanwhile, the beta looking guys who study the natural alphas, then adopt alpha be…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 05:37 PM
36

Ha, I'm with you on the preference of raw sex. Of course it is a million times better. Once you taste the forbidden fruit, you don't want to go back. However, you are taking several risks, which you can mitigate in several ways: STD risk. Obviously, you can try to "know your customer," but people lie, and shit happens. For instance, the girl could get acquaintance raped, and that not tell you about it because she blames herself, and then give it to you that way. Pregnancy risk. This can be manag…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 05:28 PM
12

Well, like L. Ron Hubbard said, if you REALLY want to enslave people, tell them that you're going to set them free. I mean, what is to be expected from people who have been institutionalized since they were six years old, or even earlier by adult children to selfish and ignorant to raise their own spawn. They know nothing but the steady diet of brainwashing. From the bed to the breakfast table with the TV, radio and newspaper, to the school, to back home again with the TV, radio, and newspaper. …
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 09:59 PM
2

Oh, but you do, my friend, you do. Drugs are chemicals. We are giant complexes of chemicals that manifest as a macro-organism and an eco-sphere of micro-organisms living in symbiosis... well, that's our bodies. Every emotion we feel is a chemical reaction. Anger, hatred, love, anxiety, etc. Surviving drug addiction, as well as meditation, can help you realize this. Also, certain foods as well. For instance, having a bunch of sugar will set off a chain reaction that can affect your emotional stat…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 09:35 PM
6

LSD and mushrooms... lol. If only we lived in a society that trained people how to handles those experience, instead of having that knowledge be on the fringe from dubious sources. They can be very dangerous, leading to insanity for some. Kratom, is now sold "legally" in stores. For how long, who knows. I dabbled with it a bit, for the supposed "benefits." But then I gave it up after a few weeks because I quickly realized it was nothing more than another pain-killer / crutch designed to create r…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 09:33 PM
8

As soon as I found a life-affirming hobby that I loved, my urge to use drugs disappeared. I mean, it was like it was never even there at all. There were no cravings, period. Granted, I didn't have a metabolic addiction. Another thing, after struggling with it for so long, I REALLY appreciated that hobby. I really enjoy practicing it sober. HOWEVER, there are people that come to events, and they are high. They are talented at what they do, but they still get high. Now, maybe they can manage their…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 05:16 PM
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You have to be willing to suffer. Drug addiction starts with drug use. Drug use starts with curiosity and a desire to escape drudgery and pain, which is imposed on us through the school system that cuts us off from the natural world. Or at least, that's what happened with me. Going away from drugs is acknowledging that you cannot escape existential pain with chemical pleasure. When you use drugs, you are high for awhile, but then you come down, and now, not only are you not high, but reality APP…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 04:23 PM
1

Scarcity mentality is: "I feel something for this pretty girl, she's the prettiest girl in the whole world! None is better. It is her or the hermitage." Abundance mentality is: "I feel something for the pretty girl.... but I bet I would also feel similarly for other girls. She has good qualities, sure, but so do other girls. It would be nice to be with her, but if not, there are plenty of other women out there. I'm not going to worry too much either way. Meanwhile, I will be talking to lots of p…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 04:13 PM
8

Ha, it doesn't even matter if you fuck her good. She will habituate to being fucked good, not appreciate it, then think she could get fucked better, which is always true. There is no silver bullet, except not to care because you realize everything is transient. But easier said than done.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 02:12 PM
2

Lift; Read History; Read about economics, trading, and investing; Don't look at what people say; look at what they do; Go visit a prison, a factory, an office, a school campus, a slaughterhouse; note the similarities; Find older mentors and listen to what they have to tell you; Don't be a cuck; if they claim the kid is yours, get that DNA test; Abundance mentality and you are the prize.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 02:05 PM
88

The organism wants what it perceives to be superior genes. It doesn't care about the feelings of the entity that lives inside and how it was programmed by the culture. She knew it was going to be a train-wreck, but she went through with it anyway because she was following her body's selfish desires, and not any kind of set of higher principles. Also, chasing the super-attractive person for the feels is chasing a peak experience. And if you don't get it, you are left wondering your whole life, an…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 01:29 PM
2

Glad to be of service. Most people hate listening to, or taking advice, even if it is reasonable and grounded in truth. I find this infuriating. I hope it helps you on your journey.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 08:32 PM
1

Also, in some follow-up advice, I also told him that I thought listening and asking questions would make him more popular than trying to be "fun" or "interesting." I have been both of those guys, and the first guy, ironically brought on by depression, was more popular, because people like to talk about themselves and be the center of attention, and if one can set aside one's own ego, one can reap the fruits of this.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 07:30 PM
1

What you say is true. However, I would still argue that the study of history and the reading of science fiction, which often contains cutting edge research, expands your consciousness to the point where you more rapidly develop social discernment, and also be able to position yourself as unique. Also, you can improvise "fun" topics easier, which usually revolve around observational humor that is relatable. I mean, there are some people autists on here, who would take what YOU say about being "fu…
/r/askTRP11/03/19 07:23 PM
1

You can make ANY subject interesting, if you talk about it in an engaging manner. Where intellectuals go wrong is to adopt a dry, pedantic tone, and drone on in a monotone for lengths of time with no regard for their audience. By contrast, you can go on Youtube and observe any number of speakers talk about any number of topics, and you'll notice that the engaging ones all know how to talk. They make eye contact, they modulate their tones, they enunciate clearly, they use descriptive language. On…
/r/askTRP11/03/19 06:16 PM
1

I'm not saying you talk about that stuff with women. Some of them are into it, and those women are the high value ones. Most don't want to hear about anything unpleasant. Hell, that's a lot of men too. And you think history and science fiction are BORING? That makes no sense to me. History is literally the story of people struggling to control each other for loot, with plentiful accounts of murder, mayhem, sex, pillaging, etc. etc. Now, there are people who are pedantic and discuss it in a borin…
/r/askTRP11/03/19 05:23 PM
1

Well, it's a perk of marrying into money. The key, I suppose is not to value it too much, and to not let it control you. Can you imagine marrying a gross, disgusting ugly girl just because she's rich? And yet women do it all the time, and men too. Some things you can't price on, at least for me, anyway.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 05:19 PM
2

Ease your way into it; Keep your expectations low; Go to observe initially; don't worry about interacting. You can just be that guy that looks cool, chills with a club soda, and sizes people up. I mean, why be over-invested in the idea of having a conversation if you barely know a person? Also, people LOVE to talk about themselves, and that means they LOVE listeners. You know how I learned this? When the career I had worked for years to get to, didn't pan out. I fell into a depression. I stopped…
/r/askTRP11/03/19 05:18 PM
2

Well, you don't have to have to money to signal that you can provide and take care of the daughter. Most dads are probably paranoid that their precious little angel will repeatedly get pumped and dumped, then wind up a spinster. And most guys are hopeless man-child bums with multiple addiction issues.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 02:32 PM
2

Yeah, but there is also counter-programming, and sure there are those messages, but there are also other messages. You rarely see the fat, ugly girl ride off with the prince. I can recall exactly one movie from my youth where that happened, and it was a made-for-TV movie, where it was the guy who had to look beyond. Usually, the girl, no matter her internal attributes, is HAWT. Every girl on TV is HAWT. It's actually to the point where it isn't even that attractive, because it's not exceptional,…
/r/askTRP11/03/19 01:43 PM
2

See, you're not thinking outside the box. If you think that all you have to choose from to make money is be a retail or restaurant hireling to make money in your present situation, then you're basically trapping yourself in a financial prison. I'm not saying it's easy, mind you, but there are other things you could be doing to make money. Some guys start small businesses, either selling some kind of merchandise, or service. Other guys do trading of some kind. As for the social circle. It's good …
/r/askTRP11/03/19 01:38 PM
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Why would you want their money or depend on it? You are a man and you can make your own money. OP is merely arguing that the rich people won't be after you for your money... except some of them are, and if they find out you don't have any, they pressure the woman into dumping you.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 01:33 AM
2

Hmmmm... Well, you might try to find a better night job, or rather a better way of making money than waiter. Unless you are in fine dining and making a lot of money, it's probably a waste of time. I have done it before, so I know from experience. It's basically a job for people who can't think of a better way of making money. Also, you are essentially low value while you are doing it; submissively scurrying around for peanuts. Sure, you could say you are learning "people" skills, but there more …
/r/askTRP10/03/19 11:37 PM
5

Aha! You left that part out.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 11:14 PM
3

Watching professional sports is for losers. You are wasting your life passively spectating. None of the people you give your time, energy, or money to, care about you or anything in your life, yet you care about them and their lives? Think about that. Really think about it. Also, it's not just sports, it's celebrity culture, it's movie "stars," etc. It's everything that takes you away from your life, your struggle, your success or failure. You simply should not care. Whenever I tell this to spor…
/r/askTRP10/03/19 11:07 PM
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It's not privilege because it is considered the default setting. Why? Because civilization and the species doesn't continue unless women are taken care of. They need to be impregnated, and cared for while they raise the young, otherwise the whole thing grind to a halt. They know this. Therefore, anyone offering it to them as if it were a privilege, is insulting them, by ignoring the importance of the role they play in the continuation of the species. What they want is for us to compete to offer …
/r/askTRP10/03/19 11:03 PM
2

Several things: "halfway through an accounting degree" means absolutely nothing, especially to a woman. You're not even an accountant. Also, accountants are bean-counters who don't make that much money right out of the gate, and who get bossed around, dominated by more powerful men, etc. etc. Does it occur to them that you could leverage that accounting degree and make a ton of money with it in any number of ways? Not necessarily. I went through the same thing getting a professional degree. Firs…
/r/askTRP10/03/19 10:54 PM
21

What u/caius100 said. Once, I saw a youngish white MILF go apeshit on a slender, soft-spoken, African American guy dressed in something resembling L.L. Bean that was shorter than her. He approached her and asked her quietly and politely if she would like to have coffee with him. She unloaded on him with both barrels. It was broad daylight, afternoon, at a bookstore, and she started screaming at him about she was sick of this shit of being approached in public, etc. etc. He meekly apologized and …
/r/askTRP10/03/19 10:43 PM
8

So, those stripper-bear videos on Pornhub are actually documentaries then.... lol
/r/askTRP10/03/19 10:36 PM
7

Well, wait, there's more. Be wary of trying to start or maintain too many things at the same time. Of course, when you are a younger person, there's a sense of try everything, and try to find something that you like, but how will you know unless you try EVERYTHING. Etc. etc. So that can lead you down a rabbit hole. You have to ask yourself what role these activities play in your life, and what you get out of them. Your body, for example, benefits from exercise. Without it, you get weak, depresse…
/r/askTRP09/03/19 07:36 PM
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Dude, you are 19, practically a child. On the one hand, don't make that an excuse, on the other hand, get started on fixing your procrastination issue now. And let me tell you something, I have struggled with this since age 10, and that is three decades. Here is what helps: Recognizing that you do in fact have the issue; Making lists of what you have to do; Being mindful of what you are doing and not doing on those lists; Examining why you aren't doing the things on your lists; Realizing that of…
/r/askTRP09/03/19 06:18 PM
1

Mr. Big doesn't take kindly the idea to potentially have to raise Mr. Slick's kids, so all evidence of slatternly behavior must be erased, or rewritten. Edit: Also, with regards to other women, they don't appreciate the possibility of having some slut draw resources away from them with bastard children, or being dumped, or even having to think or worry about any of those things.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 05:05 AM
12

Bingo.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 05:04 AM
1

Eh, this is a rookie level move from the first girl. She's unsure how she feels about you, she actually brings her friend. A more experienced girl would either not go if she found you unattractive, string you along if she wasn't sure or ambivalent, or got out with you solo, and then MAYBE ask for friend's opinions if she were interested in getting serious. This is some high school level or college home-schooled thru high school level shit right here, IMO. However, it's not the end of the world. …
/r/askTRP09/03/19 04:29 AM
1

For some, it's get rich or die trying, for others, it's max penor or die trying. Fool shoulda tried jelquing and weights rather having it sliced open.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/19 07:55 PM
4

Only if the friendship is just ploy for you to try and get laid. If you get genuine value from the relationship that has nothing to do with trying to get laid or convert it into an LTR, then it isn't orbiting. Orbiting is a time-wasting activity because you are investing your romantic hopes and dreams into one girl, and you are wasting energy and time investing in the relationship with the idea of converting it. Now, some guys do convert from friend to romantic partner, but many don't. Abundance…
/r/askTRP08/03/19 02:55 PM
1

Lol
/r/askTRP08/03/19 02:52 PM
2

Update: Remember the rams? Well, the wolves also have it rough: Not gross, or anything, but funny... this alpha male is mating with his alpha female, and all the other lesser wolves keep trying to horn in on his action and he has to bare his teeth to drive them away... It makes frat-house cock-blocking look like no big deal. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gPd7EDjR6eI A lone wolf stalks a pack for a mating opportunity with a young female wolf; the alphas don't want the younger wolves to mate bec…
/r/askTRP08/03/19 06:55 AM
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What u/effyouasshole said, plus, you were too explicit in the text without having adequately bonded with her where that is acceptable banter between the two of you. For instance, you could do that with an LTR, but not someone you just fooled around with. The anti-slut defense kicks in and they think "Oh, i'm just a piece of meat to him, ewwww, gross..." or "ewwww how crass/creepy/etc."
/r/askTRP07/03/19 09:53 PM
7

Yes, but I how do live a risk-free life and still win in every possible way? /s : )
/r/askTRP07/03/19 09:48 PM
2

Well, you weren't high value you enough the first time around. Maybe now she perceives you as higher value. However, it could also be that she's play a game to test her own value and yours as well, where she wants you to think that she's interested in you just enough to see if you make her any offers, and then she'll harvest the validation and move on. There was some research done that says when people make a bad first impression, it basically over-rides all future impressions 80% of the time. S…
/r/askTRP07/03/19 07:15 PM
1

We weren't talking about me, we were talking about the fears of a sexually active 21 year old male. He wanted an explanation for them, and I offered up one. Do you think wealthy guys worry about knocking women up? Not as much as broke guys do, although I just that R. Kelly is being incarcerated for owing over $100,000 in back child support even though he has enough money to live in Trump Towers. I told the guy to go make money. That's always sound advice. That and lifting. Not sure what you were…
/r/askTRP07/03/19 04:15 PM
3

Are you as ugly as this guy? https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/2053233/ugandas-ugliest-man-with-an-alien-head-hopes-to-use-his-new-found-fame-to-launch-a-music-career/ SPOILER ALERT: He has 8 (alleged) children, and is on to his second wife. He monetized his ugliness. Turns out, women like money more than looks. Anyway, at least you mustered the balls to pay an escort for sex. Some guys won't even do that because "morals." You can shave off your thinning hair and lose the weight through diet and exe…
/r/askTRP07/03/19 03:37 PM
0

How old are you? I'd wager you're not an adult. At least not mentally. It's all very fine and well for you to live in your delusional fantasy land that woman consists merely of a "used wet hole," and that they are not "important." However, the modern industrial western state sees things differently. It sees it as an opportunity to put manacles on people. The courts love it when men try to knock women up without paying, because it gives them an excuse to fine them, drag them into court, possibly …
/r/askTRP07/03/19 02:52 PM
0

Lol, so, the guy is 21, presumably has little to no money, and has anxiety about impregnating one of his plates? I mean, if he knocks one up, that's $800 a month he's looking at, which for some people, is like rent. And if you're a guy with no money, and you suddenly have to come up with money, you have to "get a job," unless someone just hands you a pile of money to invest and live off the proceeds. Or he could start a business, in which case, he would still need money. Anyway, when I was young…
/r/askTRP07/03/19 02:33 PM
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I believe him, because I went through a "turn the other cheek phase," where I would literally martyr myself and be the group whipping boy. Then one day, I snapped and did the exact opposite. I started punching back, verbally I mean. And I would keep punching. I would say nasty, cruel things. I would bully. I would play mind games. Suddenly I attracted a circle of dudes who viewed me as a leader. I was a "cool" dude. Next thing I know, I go from pariah, to having a crew. Pretty soon my crew acts …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 02:23 AM
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It's interesting that she thinks all women are in her predicament. It reminds me of the woman who thinks that all vaginas are 11 inches deep. Not being desired by a woman is a deal-breaker for me. If I can't feel visceral desire, I'm not interested. I don't care about winning a woman over, or melting an ice princess. I don't want a challenge. If a woman isn't wet for you, what's the point? You can even be king of the world and she still won't be wet for you if she doesn't find you attractive. Th…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 02:02 AM
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It's a sign that you are poor and have scarcity mentality. The solution is to make plenty of money so that if you do knock someone up, it's really just another line item in your monthly expenses.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 11:35 PM
1

I don't know if they put that shit on there to degrade and debase people, or if they are just responding to the market demand of degraded and debased population. "Vintage" porn had similar themes, so what is supposedly new and shocking, really isn't, except that the resolution is higher, you see more detail, and the women appear to be professionally groomed to affect a demeanor of absolutely reveling in whatever they are doing. I mean, since a lot of fantasy has to do with taboos, it would only …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 02:09 AM
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Ah, but it is true, for: Those that believe in it; Those that are fated to lose: ugly, low IQ men with no social skills. I had a relative with a severe, congenital birth defect that affected his intelligence. He was institutionalized his whole adult life until his death. The prime catalyst for his institutionalization was the onset of his sex drive, wherein his family realized he could become a serious liability. No way was he going to "lift" and "improve himself." If he got laid, it was because…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:33 PM
2

Eh, I think a hybrid approach is called for. I view school as a kind of purgatory for people too disorganized, lazy, and stupid to think their way out of it, just like traditional jobs. I think the kids should be sent to school, but be encouraged to not become "gunners" who take every last fucking class and are overloaded on the "extracurriculars." The kids need time to do their own thing and learn at their own pace, and they can't do that if they are loaded down with planned activities. They ne…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 06:38 AM
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Of course it's possible, but... Elevated STD risk; Risk of raising other people's children and not your own; Risk of being financially / economically exploited for little to no starfish duty sex; Risk of having ego repeatedly bruised; Risk of not being able to get a comparable number of partners to the people in the relationship; Risk of social condemnation and legal repercussions from people in traditional relationships; Oh wait, most of these already exist in traditional relationships because …
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 06:29 AM
2

If the Black Pill men think it is all about looks, and if the Red Pill men think that's a distillation of the Black Pill ideology, they should review the situation of the supposed "ugliest man," who happens to be from Uganda. Godfrey Baguma https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/weird-news/ugandas-ugliest-man-becomes-dad-5931177 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bkPGqwDKzhs Dude is on his second wife and (allegedly) has 8 children. He gave the first wife the boot when he learned she was cheating on him. "“…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 06:23 AM
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Eh, but harsh reality says, that while the ideology of the black pill is not true, statistically, it will play out as true, because a certain percentage of men will buy into, and it will become a self-fulfilling prophecy, and also, another percentage of the male population really is going to lose because they never self-improve, or their self-improvement efforts are not competitive against those of other self-improving males. But should you just give up and fap to anime all day? You're definitel…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 06:02 AM
9

My god, it's like the plot of something seen on Pornhub.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 05:22 PM
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The dude was raised in a fundamentalist Christian household, so these kinds of shame-based issues are common. I wasn't, so I don't have that baggage. But I can imagine what it would be like.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 04:37 PM
1

Well, at least women are after you and you're in demand. Yes, it's depressing that the supposed partners of the men in your social circle have no morals, but this isn't a new thing, it has been going on since the dawn of humanity. So, go out there and find some women of your own. If these women are making passes at you, you maybe spending too much time near them.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 03:19 PM
1

Yeah, it's kind of funny. Sex is SUPPOSED to be enjoyable and relaxing. For women, they don't have to do ANYTHING. They can just lay there and receive. They don't even have to be wet. They can just apply lube. They don't have to enjoy it to perform. Men, on the other hand, have to be aroused enough to maintain an erection, but in order to "perform," they have to neither become over-aroused and finish too quickly, or become under-aroused and not be able to perform. For people who don't understand…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 03:14 PM
1

Yeah, of course there are differences based on geography. But, some people being lactose intolerant, and other people being more vulnerable to the effects of grain alcohol, and other people being more likely to get X disease but not Y disease are not significant differences. People from supposed other "races" can do the following: Have children with each other; Donate blood to each other; Communicate with each other; Form economic productive economic partnerships with each other; Eat most of the…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 09:21 PM
2

Well, the elite like to be close to nature, to remind themselves of their role as apex predators. It's the rest of the people who have been herded into artificial environments and separated from nature, the better to control them.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 08:05 PM
1

Sure it is. As is the term "ethnicity." As is the term "religion." Every area of knowledge, is to some degree or another, a social construct. Why? Because it uses language, which is ambiguous, and points to, rather than, is the truth. In order for the so-called "races" to exist, somebody had to come up with the idea of dividing people by skin color and physical appearance. And somebody had to decide what qualifies or disqualifies a person from being a member. And opinions differ, and the rules a…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 08:03 PM
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Going on Tinder is basically trolling for sluts. So you went trolling for sluts and are surprised that you found some, and that the interactions were unfulfilling. It's a mistake to think that Tinder is a "dating" profile. It's the digital equivalent of a meat market. People there just want to fuck someone attractive or get fucked "properly," meaning, like how they saw genetic outliers fuck each other online. When I drive around areas that used to be meat markets, there are a fraction of the peo…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 04:15 PM
2

Well, provided the kids is yours, it sounds like she has accomplished her real purpose in your life, and any enjoyment you get from her thereafter, is purely gravy. Meanwhile, there are plenty of other enjoyable things to do. Also there are plenty of other women out there. So things aren't as bad as they seem. Have fun.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 04:01 PM
2

Ha, I posted about mountain goats months ago, and NOBODY on here gave a shit. It's literally, the one alpha male fucks ALL the female goats, and he becomes alpha by defeating all challengers in single combat by butting heads on dangerous cliffs for hours at a time. Human civilization allows many ways of becoming alpha, and you have your whole life to improve in any number of ways.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 03:59 PM
0

Ethnicity, not "race." Unless you are fucking Martians, or people from the planet Nibiru.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 03:54 PM
1

Yes, but what if and/or my wife were of African descent? LOL. I really want to see someone lampoon this concept, where you have the stereotypical good-looking, athletic couple of African descent, but then the wife cucks the husband with some scrawny nerd-looking white guy because he was funny, made her laugh, was versed in game, and slithered in there while the hubby was away on business or with his buddies. Then she develops a fetish and hubby has to watch in the corner and cry while being cuck…
/r/askTRP02/03/19 09:45 PM
3

Thanks, bro!
/r/askTRP02/03/19 06:03 AM
1

It happens with all of them to some extent. It depends on your perceived value versus their perceived value. If you are the son of a wealthy oligarch, she'll be wanting you to knock her up ASAP, and will do anything to further that goal. If she thinks she can't tie you down, she'll aim for a baby, or whatever she can get. If you're the beta nice guy who does her homework, no way will she spread for you because she's already getting everything you have to give for nothing. ​ It's possible that sh…
/r/askTRP02/03/19 06:02 AM
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"they did instead was most likely sit home, smoke pot, watch TV. " Get the fuck away from them NOW. "But on the other hand, i have hard time pushing myself forward, and without people around me - it becomes even harder to do. And i do miss contact with people." You have become addicted or psychologically dependent on the validation that comes with human contact. Kick that habit. Learn to enjoy being alone. Stay away from that drugs/TV crap. Read the sidebar. Focus on self-improvement. Find bette…
/r/askTRP01/03/19 10:12 PM
3

Don't limit yourself to college people. Like u/MattyAnon said, college/school people are clickey. Let me go a step further. They are mindless fucking sheep zombie losers who will drag you straight to hell. Well, most of them are anyway. Anyone who is a student, is by definition, a weak loser. A strong person doesn't need a professor to spoon-feed them. A fraction of the students, like maybe 1%, are strong. They are there on scholarships. They are plugged into all the real resources at the univer…
/r/askTRP01/03/19 10:09 PM
4

She's not wrong though, is she? I mean if you just want to get laid with a 9/10, it's going to come through in your behavior. You are probably communicating a lust for result, and she is picking up on it. Remember, if she really is a 9/10, then ever since she sprouted boobs, or even before then, she has been endlessly propositioned by men age 11-80. Some offer her dick in the box, others offer her a house and a marriage, and few the moon. In any case, by now, she is used to every guy she meets t…
/r/askTRP01/03/19 09:57 PM
3

You're framing it as "approaching," but that language is high-risk. Why would you "approach" when you could just happen to, buy serendipitous (women love serendipity, fate, chance, etc., maybe because it takes away personal responsibility and accompanying anxiety) chance, just happen to nonchalantly start up a conversation that escalates into a romantic proposition of some sort. Like, you weren't actually intending to "approach" and ask her out. You were just making conversation, but then she se…
/r/askTRP01/03/19 09:53 PM
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If you have money and toys, but you still have beta tendencies, you could try investing some of that money into some form of therapy (need not be professional) to make yourself into more of a man. If you have money and toys, you are in a better position than most. Money is alpha. Nothing sucks more than being poor, aside from being ugly and unhealthy. Behavior can be changed. Also, I can relate to your position because I had similar upbringing. Even though we had material prosperity, there was s…
/r/askTRP01/03/19 09:47 PM
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You're a constant living reminder of someone doing significantly better than him. Part of the reason he is where he's at his himself, aside from circumstance. Think about it, a quality person with absolutely nothing would try to get out of that situation as quickly as possible, not make things worse. What did this guy do? He made things worse. He literally bit the hand that fed him. He could have added value to your life by offering to do a chore or odd job for you in exchange for the ride. He c…
/r/askTRP01/03/19 09:37 PM
1

It sounds like you haven't read the side-bar yet. "I can't improve my looks ... because I have no money." You can't do a push-up? No money at all? Yet you're in college and you eat 3 meals a day. No money at all is the people in Venezuela digging through trash heaps to eat and/or prostituting themselves on the streets. You're in college for fuck's sake eating 3 meals a day. Presumably you are there because it will lead to a higher paying job than had you never attended. If this not the case, the…
/r/askTRP01/03/19 09:22 PM
4

But that's just another way of framing it. You WOULD be broken-hearted IF she were the raison d'etre of the relationship. Fortunately for you, your heart was already broken by another woman that cheated on you, so you entered the relationship with your eyes open and didn't have unrealistic expectations. You wanted a family, children, a mother, etc. And you got that. So that's a huge thing right there. Once you got that, you were probably ambivalent about whether the relationship would last for t…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/19 05:44 PM
2

What would "Blerta" say? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Njs7TFQ0b2s You are unpaid prostitute (slut)? You are lower than dog. Lol.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/19 02:29 AM
4

If you can seduce an HB10 by going on an extended wild-eyed rant about philosophy and politics concerning Evola's work, then you will know that you have arrived at the Master Level of TRP. Because nothing dries up a vagina like extended wild-eyed rants about philosophy and politics. That is the challenge! If you can make the rant alpha enough, by channeling your inner game, and making sure that your frame is rock-solid, surrounding yourself with trusted high beta wing-men and a harem of supplica…
/r/askTRP01/03/19 02:13 AM
1

On the one hand, the comments about the "revenge" are on point, on the other hand, plating some bitch that snubbed you when you were low value shows a lack of abundance. It would be far better to simply focus on other women who didn't know you when you were low value. Then make them your prospects for whatever. Then the women that snubbed you will see you with them and want you more, but you won't care anyway because you someone better. Also, even if you did get with them, they would always reme…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 09:40 PM
5

Yep, testing for weakness. They should really rename "shit-testing" "testing for weakness" for the sake of accuracy.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 07:16 PM
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Of course! I'm by no means an absolutist or a TRP dogmatist. Stuff like you describe happens all the time. However, she already had seen your stoic side, so this "humanized" you and made you more relatable. It would be like watching Thor or The Rock cry. Women find it adorable when THEY cry, because it makes them relatable. However, the pimply nerd crying.... he needs to die.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 05:26 PM
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If you got two kids out of it, then she served her true purpose, which was to carry your (hopefully) children to term. So her being pissed is her realization that it was never really about her as the focal point of the relationship, and that she was merely a means to an end, and not some goddess to be worshiped and pedestalized, which she wouldn't have appreciated anyways.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 04:52 PM
19

It was on here. It was more than one account. Now, this place selects for guys who have been fucked over, so there is that. I mean, it's pretty cold-blooded to have zero empathy for a guy dealing with depression after a parent dies, especially if the guy is younger and/or the death is untimely. I would say that depression and mental illness are a huge turn-off to women, as a is a bad attitude, negativity, bringing up depressing or "serious" subjects, etc. They are all about survival. They want c…
/r/askTRP28/02/19 04:50 PM
9

Russell Brand, Chad Thundercock? He looks more like Mystery running his feminized PUA peacocking pick-up game. Also, her body language indicates she is submissive and plays along with attempts to dominate her, but that she was uncomfortable with his advances. He literally took her hand and led her onto his lap, and she went along with it, even if she didn't really want to or like it, she still submitted to it for no real reason. Also, that was basically an event that could have been trumped up i…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 04:25 PM
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Bedroom eyes made at another man. That was it for me. I wasn't going to stick around to wait for it to actually happen, which it may have already had, but those are the breaks. Sure, there was fighting, and all kinds of BS, and I had pegged the relationship likely to fail from the beginning, but that moment was when it really sunk in for me. And of course she tried to deny it, initially. Then later on, right near the end, to her credit, she admitted it. Which meant that she had lied to me face, …
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 04:22 PM
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I have literally read accounts of alpha guys losing women for getting upset when their dad dies.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 04:14 PM
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Oh come now, if I someone's going to claim to be the mother of my child, I will be having that claim tested six ways from Sunday.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 03:24 PM
194

Yes, on your deathbed. And only to say, "Ha, you thought I was alpha, but I was actually a massive beta this whole time. Every time you thought I was out banging a side-piece, I was secretly playing D&D and watching Inuyasha with the nerd herd. Thank you for passing on muh beta genes, and now, I bid you adieu."
/r/askTRP28/02/19 02:38 PM
1

Also, he has a whole well-written passage in there about how the party brainwashes women to hate sex, and how his ex-wife only married him to do her duty for the party, and as soon as they conceived a child, she was gone with the child. Or maybe she miscarried. The point was, the party brainwashed her into viewing sex as repugnant in and of itself, but demanded her to conceive a child out of duty, so she grudgingly complied, then abandoned Winston. By contrast, Julia, the young girl who becomes …
/r/MGTOW27/02/19 11:37 PM
2

He must have had micro-penis.
/r/MGTOW27/02/19 11:35 PM
1

Gather all the stuff they posted online and save copies of it. Get your friend and girlfriend and another other friendly parties to sign statements. But talk to an attorney who specializes in defamation of character.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 11:23 PM
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Hire a lawyer and sue them for defamation of character. Since there is no material basis for any of their claims, and you have witnesses that will bolster your side of the story, sue the motherfuckers. They are literally damaging your reputation and ruining your ability to enjoy something you love, and those damages can be quantified, monetarily. It would be one thing if they kept it off the internet, or maybe took you aside and had a frank discussion with you. Instead, they are turning it into …
/r/askTRP27/02/19 11:21 PM
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Do NOT listen to them. Several things: When you are a guy in your teens and twenties, you are generally perceived as having only "dick in the box" to offer women your age and younger. This means if you have sex with them, and knock them up, you potentially ruin their prospects if you don't wife them up and pay for everything. That's why women your age will date older men. They have already been pumped and dumped a few times by some player guy in his 20's who looks the part, but doesn't want to s…
/r/askTRP27/02/19 11:18 PM
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Eh, this kind of has a "cool story bro" feel to it. The guy has literally no emotional reaction to discovering infidelity. Also, he just happens to have built the house from scratch and installed a security system, which is quite an accomplishment, like something you'd see in a Hollywood film. All that other stuff he did is all fine and dandy, but I'm sure there would probably be litigation over it, or even white knights deployed. However, I do agree with the spirit of preparation.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 10:04 PM
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I lived with my ex-GF for a period of 3-4 months, quickly became convinced that it would never work because of her toxic lifestyle and inability to take control of it, so I kicked her out. We got back together with boundaries for a month, but she kept violating them, so that was the end of that. When you live with someone, it is very difficult for them to hide who they are, especially if they have toxic habits.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 08:44 PM
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Leading what is euphemistically referred to as a "cool" life is really just girl code for, "do you have money, and do you spend it on a luxury lifestyle that I can partake in, benefit from, make my friends jealous, and elevate my own status." Thus, it's all very fine and well to have money and nice things, but if you broadcast it on social media, you will attract gold-diggers and haters. Of course, if you don't care about stringing along some low-level gold-diggers for some pump and dump action,…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 04:48 PM
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Thanks, brah! But seriously, it's like the soft bigotry of low expectations and self-fulfilling prophecies with that shit. Disgusting pigs who should never get laid by any dude higher than a 3 are pulling 6ts and 7s. 5s and 6s and are pulling 9s. I did it a few times and found no advantage to it. They aren't any better for being less pretty. They will still cheat. They will still shit test. Their personalities aren't any better. AWALT from 10 to 1. Also, if the looks improve, the loyalty goes ou…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 05:23 AM
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Can confirm. This is exactly how my breakup played out. At first I didn't care, and was happy about the freedom. I started a bunch of new activities and kept busy. But then when I finished some of them, and when I caught glimpses of what going on, or might be going on, I got hit hard with the feels, and that lasted a few months. Now I've been back to not caring for the most part for several months.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 10:07 PM
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Not me, man. I got standards. I did relax them a few times in several different ways to see if I was missing anything and I discovered that I wasn't. Also, less risk of STDs, bastard children, child-support, psycho beta / gamma boyfriends snapping and showing up at my door with a gun, and other drama.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 10:04 PM
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You can never fully control what other people do. You can influence them, sure, incentivize them, or even coerce them, but not fully control their behavior. So, people will flake. All you can control is how you respond to it. It's never good politics to get butthurt. It's best to have back-up plans and contingency plans. It's a good idea to not invest in people that flake on you. Let them pursue you. If they don't pursue you, that tells you everything you need to know. They were merely practicin…
/r/askTRP25/02/19 06:23 PM
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The sex begins to dry up if the woman just married the guy as a meal-ticket and a vehicle to something better. It's kind of a like person who starts to work at a company they don't really like so they can position themselves to jump ship at the earliest opportunity. At first they present well and appear to try hard, but then once the period of scrutiny that precedes and immediately follows employment has past, they begin to try and cut corners, find hacks, and spend their free time looking for s…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 04:39 PM
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They would realize that once they get laid, but statistically, there will be men would are simply too inept, either by nature, nurture, or some combination, to get laid, and they will wonder their whole lives about what they will never experience unless they go to a prostitute, which of course they won't because they are conditioned not to. Remember, these are the statistical outliers.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 04:15 PM
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It's more like, how many different ways can you trigger an orgasm in a person, and for what duration.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 04:02 PM
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Yes, everyone on here is a nerd pretending to be an alpha because they discovered that it works, and now they are sharing it with you. Think about it this way: Men aren't born, they are made, over time. Before a guy is muscular, he is non-muscular. He has to transform himself through effort. People who only see the finished product may think that he was always that way, but that simply isn't true, even if he did have superior genes, he still had to apply himself to develop his potential, and in …
/r/askTRP25/02/19 03:40 PM
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If she agrees to it, you dump her. Or turn her into your whore, and you collect your percentage, you know, to "liberate" her.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 04:35 AM
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Hmmm... it sounds like some sort of mind-games are going on. I mean, women are players too. She could be pinging a whole bunch of guys then giving her attention to the highest value one that responds. So, she pings you and five other guys, but a guy she perceives as better than you is DTF, so you get put on the back burner just in case she needs you later.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 11:31 PM
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It's good that you dropped her, but far better NOT to expressly verbalize it in that manner. What is better than dropping someone like that is simply to not respond to any communications from them, and move on in your mind. This is hard to do because the behavior is passive aggressive, ambiguous, and thus sets the male hamster running. By telling her directly that you guys are done, you make your position clear to her. Also, if you act butt-hurt, then she gets the satisfaction of knowing she got…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 09:11 PM
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That's the problem with gurus and seminars. People believe in the authority of the person speaking and don't scrutinize the message enough. I have seen this happen now several times, and it goes like this: Person on margins tells the "forbidden" truth; Telling the "forbidden" truth builds an audience; The authorities and powers that be who perpetuate the comforting lie take notice; The authorities try a number of tactics, but usually settle on bribing the truth-teller to incrementally water down…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 04:20 PM
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Well, it's possible that the you are failed "comfort" tests with the previous girlfriend who was probably using the co-worker to test your commitment to her and prod you into making her your wife. The married woman is a depraved slut. Being cheated on sucks, and I could see how it would destroy your trust. And now you are the guy that women want to cheat with. Welcome to harsh reality, I guess.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 03:55 PM
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So, you are afraid of him. What's to stop him from doing this to you in the future? You could get another girl and he'll just keep doing it. Sounds like he has some sort of homoerotic thing for you. You need to come up with some way of setting boundaries with the guy. I'm not saying do something that will get you in trouble with the law. Be creative. Use your brain. This is a huge violation of your boundaries. Plus the guy got away with beating you up already. Do you want to live your whole life…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:34 PM
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This is the exact opposite of the situation I replied to yesterday, where the suitor was some socially awkward pariah who had been rejected already. She saved his # in the phone as a girl; She's coming over at 8pm; She says "he looks like Drake" and is "tall" The guy fucking beat up OP This is the second time OP has caught her. She's probably fucking the guy or planning to. So, if OP has self-respect, he should end the relationship. Also, he needs to do something about the guy who is violating h…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:32 PM
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Well, that's too bad about your family situation. Yeah, keep working on him while he is calm. He is your dad after all. When someone has been invested in a certain frame of mind for most of their lives, it is very difficult to unplug them. You might be able to get him away from your mom, but then also, he could attract another toxic woman. But if he's the guy with money, he's going to feel a whole lot worse if she takes a significant portion of it and then leaves him. Better for him to dump her …
/r/askTRP21/02/19 04:58 AM
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You countered rudeness with rudeness. I mean, she could have been polite about not wanting your arm draped on her shoulder. It sounds like she either wasn't into you, or you escalated physically too quickly before qualifying whether she would be receptive to it, and she abreacted. In any case, it's almost certainly over and you should move on to the next.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 03:04 AM
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Well, I agree that he shouldn't tip his hand. Words would ineffective against her. As would actions to restrain her behavior. She perceives him as "weak" and now feels free to do whatever she feels like. All he can do now is leave.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:16 AM
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Well, it's your job to calmly sit the guy down and lay out the evidence that eradicates that denial. If you have to spy on your mom, so be it. If he's passive to your mom, he's probably passive in general, and you can exploit that passivity in your favor. If you and your sibling get on board together and gang up on him with evidence and then present a plan, and explain what will happen if he doesn't follow your plan, meaning he will be divorced raped and suffer further humiliation, he will proba…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:12 AM
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Lol. Well, I'm guessing they didn't read OP's post closely enough.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:08 AM
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The guy is a co-worker and said it was work related. If he is harmless, she will go to maintain appearances and stay on good terms. Also, she's probably doing this in part to get attention from OP, and to score brownie points for "honesty." If this guy were a threat, no way would OP know about it.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:07 AM
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The low value guys you are referring to are: guys that are broke, but not ugly, and who work out, but would be categorized as "losers" because they have no economic prospects; guys, who while not good-looking, can pass as "artists" or have some charisma, and present to the best of their ability: think some poetry reading hipster that does yoga and wears the right kind of used clothes This guy is just some clod who asked her out, got rejected, and is now not getting the message and is trying agai…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:06 AM
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Getting laid is easy. Making love to a beautiful woman who is a perfect 10 who loves you like the ideal feminine archetype and is a perfect partner in every other respect is difficult. The quickest way to experience the joys of sex is to do a little homework, scrape together some cash, and go pay some professionals for the experience. May no mistake, you ALWAYS pay for sex. Usually the coin is time, energy, hard work, socializing, gaming, reading, strategizing, self-improving, etc. etc. Of cours…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 08:43 PM
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The dude is alleged to be low-status though.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 08:27 PM
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The dude is alleged to be low-status though.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 08:26 PM
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The dude is alleged to be low-status though.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 08:26 PM
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Eh, if everyone hates the guy, and she already rejected him, but she's clueless and thinks it's work related, let the guy hang himself. It doesn't sound like he's a threat. If anything you could just bemusedly tease her about the date and speculate that he'll probably whip out a poem or a rose. The far bigger threat is the "cool" guy everybody likes and approves of that she speaks of in glowing terms and wants to hang out with. Can't a girl have friends? You have female friends.. Blah blah blah.…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 08:20 PM
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Shouldn't that really be: "If you were thinking.. of.. pursuing that single mother.. romantically..... DON'T!!!" "If you were thinking.. of maybe just using her for some ONS action... DON'T!!!" "If you were thinking.. of maybe just having a coffee with her for the companionship and social proof... DON'T!!!" "If you were thi... DON'T... DON'T... DON'T!!!"
/r/askTRP20/02/19 07:37 PM
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Anything other than an enthusiastic yes, yes, yes is probably a no. Maybe? We'll see? I'll let you know? You're a plan B, C, or D. If she has nothing better to do, she'll spend time with you. You should invest your time in gaming other women. Don't worry about any individual woman.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 07:22 PM
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Because he is still living in a blue pill fog. Also, he could just take his money and leave, cutting her off completely. She'll stumble around for awhile, relying on her new "friends" for support. Then she'll stumble into some hack attorney's office and he'll realize she's a hot mess and that it's probably not worth his time or trouble. Also, the husband can talk to all the attorneys in the area to stymie her attempts to get an attorney. Or at least, all the good ones. If they guy is halfway aro…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:35 PM
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Tell your dad to start squirreling away his money and prepare to leave your mother. If he has to move to another country, so be it. The point is, he makes all the money, and she makes nothing. He holds all the cards. She's 50. He could easily get himself some young sugar babies to fool around with and take it easy somewhere where the cost of living is cheap. Your mom, even though she is vicious, probably wouldn't have the resources to get him. She works minimum wage after all. He needs to just y…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:25 PM
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This advice is shit. If he make six figures a year and the devil mom is on minimum wage, he has a fair amount of leverage even if she does try to divorce rape him.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:23 PM
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If you want to make money, you have to be prepared to read a bunch of books on business, investing, trading, the law etc. Also you have to determine for yourself what to read. Also, you have to be prepared to take risks with your money. If you're not prepared to do that, how can you hope to amass a fortune?
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:18 PM
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It's over.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:09 PM
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Right, non-escalation is the proper way of rejection. Laughing in their face, or any of the typical harsh ways women reject men would have possibly created social liability for you. In this case, she might just have spread a rumor nobody would have believed that you were "gay" for not wanting her.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 09:26 PM
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Well, you can do several things: Don't participate in it; Find groups of people that don't participate in it; Shun people that participate in it; Organize people who either don't participate in it, or are on the borderlines; While it exists, it is not useful, IMO, to completely eradicate it; it is useful as a counterexample of how NOT to live; if it were prohibited, people would then clamor for it because they would have no direct experience or example of how it DOESN'T work; sad but true.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 09:05 PM
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Nah, you are a lot less fucked if you realize what is going on, come to terms with it, and plan accordingly. There is no room for the weak, though, and perhaps that's a good thing. I mean, back in the good old days, they would just throw guys into a combat zone, a salt mine, a prison, a factory, or sacrifice them Aztec style. Today they have more refined, passive-aggressive ways of thinning the herd.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:45 PM
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I think so probably, but I'm not that old. From what I've heard from my elders, the main thing people were worried about was rapacious male sexuality knocking up women and leaving them to support kids in poverty with no possibility of remarriage. My grandparents got married right out of high school. My grandfather was a working stiff, and my grandmother was a beautiful woman. They were married their whole lives. My dad and my mom got married in their mid-twenties. They actually thought my dad wo…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:42 PM
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Yup. It's sad. They are completely brainwashed now. I saw it in high school and in college. I think that she literally drove you away. She probably also thought that if she was honest and disclosed everything, you would respect that, which you could have in theory, had she LEARNED something from those experiences and grew as a person, which is theoretically possible.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:39 PM
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It's best for your "action" of calm, non-emotional non-reaction to cue her to put herself into place, rather to have to actually say, "Bitch, calm the fuck down." Words activate the reflex to argue and oppose. Also, when I look back to my friendships with dudes, there was this one dude who would never waste his time trying to persuade me to do anything. If I wanted to go to the gym and lift with him, it was on me to make sure I was ready when he was ready. That basically put me in his frame, ins…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:35 PM
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Well, in order to get the woman, some guys go through a period of monk mode, lifting, working, self-improvement, etc. Then they get the girl, go hog wild with the sex, their bodies get flooded with pleasure chemicals, but without doing any "real" work for the reward, so then their equilibrium is thrown off, and they start slacking off because work suddenly becomes really hard again. Or they just get lazy for some other reason, or they are perceived as being lazy. Or the girl sees through the ima…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 06:59 PM
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Well, it you cannot "deal" with a woman's shit-test, how are you going to be able to deal with a child's tantrum, a guy who is trying to mug you, your boss who won't give you a raise or a promotion, some adverse health event, a wild animal, contractors trying to rip you off, etc. etc. Yeah, it can be annoying and counter-productive, but how are else are they going to know if they have a good man or a lemon? So, it's a balancing act. If you get angry and upset at her, that tells her how you will …
/r/askTRP19/02/19 06:54 PM
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I'm pretty sure that the vast majority of them, if not all of them shit-test. The difference is, you won't see it if it's not your woman. So, you'll see some woman who is in a relationship in public, and she's all on her best behavior because of her public image, and also her ego is being inflated by the validation of being in an LTR. And she'll be nice to you, so you'll think, oh, what a catch. But then she'll maybe bash her LTR to you, or even worse, she'll shit on him in front of you, either …
/r/askTRP19/02/19 06:26 PM
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Eh, this isn't necessarily shit-testing, but more like ignorance and strategic idiocy on her part. Women should NEVER disclose their number of sexual partners. If the girl is a virgin the guy will think there is something wrong, unless she's in the 18-19 range, or however many partners she has had, it will be too many, or he'll compare himself. I mean, she can say that she's had a boyfriend and a fling or two, but anything beyond that is not going to be good PR. Also, she should never volunteer …
/r/askTRP19/02/19 06:17 PM
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It's their nature. They do it automatically. My mom has literally been on auto-shit-test to my dad every day of their marriage that I have been present. Every time I'm over there she's make threats. He just ignores it, smiles, laughs, or occasionally withdraws, or loses his temper. But mostly he shrugs it off. It doesn't affect his ability to carry on his life or complete his responsibilities. He eats healthy, lifts, makes money, takes care of what needs to be done, while she relentlessly harang…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 06:12 PM
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Eh, you say that, but if they are willing to share alpha, it is more like that they just want alpha at any price. They don't want monogamy with a beta or below. They want the beta's unilateral monogamy and commitment so they can extract his resources without any pilfering competitors, but they themselves don't want to be monogamous to him.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 06:02 PM
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That's not good enough because it's words. It has to be actions. Removing yourself when she is "like this" and returning when she "calms down" but without appearing butt-hurt or sullen is probably a better approach.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 06:00 PM
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Making money = strength. We are in violent agreement. If a woman shit tests you, ignore and get back to making money. She'll come around, and if she doesn't, she can GTFO.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:58 PM
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Ah, so glad you posted. So, then what would you do if they still kept escalating even though you drew or flashed your weapon? I could see that most people would back down in most situations, but some people are on drugs, or drunk, and then you complicated your life. Also, even worse, you could the thing escalate and turn violent / deadly. Could you elaborate more on your contingency plans for various situations?
/r/askTRP19/02/19 09:52 AM
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They are testing you to see if you are weak. If you act weak, you fail. If you act strong, you pass. Then they test you again, just to make sure you didn't go soft. Acting weak, or hinting that you are weak leads to more tests. Weak can be anything don't like, things associated with weakness, or actual weakness. They are terrified that you will go soft on them at key points in their lives, and they don't want to get stuck with a lemon.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 09:49 AM
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Part of the exercise would be determining that for yourself. What would be useful before you go looking for books, would be to make an inventory of your identity, your beliefs, etc. Then, try to find people who think the opposite as you. Read their stuff, try to understand where they are coming from etc. So, I mean one should works by capitalists, communists, anarchists, atheists, religious nuts, conspiracy theorists, journalists, party hacks, mandarins, historians, science fiction writers, tech…
/r/askTRP17/02/19 05:49 AM
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Part of the exercise would be determining that for yourself. What would be useful before you go looking for books, would be to make an inventory of your identity, your beliefs, etc. Then, try to find people who think the opposite as you. Read their stuff, try to understand where they are coming from etc. So, I mean one should works by capitalists, communists, anarchists, atheists, religious nuts, conspiracy theorists, journalists, party hacks, mandarins, historians, science fiction writers, tech…
/r/askTRP17/02/19 05:49 AM
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No pics for reasons of doxing, but I got a power cage for around $1,200 and some accessories for another $800. This was a few years ago. It's basically just a bunch of metal beams bolted together. I put it on heavy rubber mats. I also got a bench with it, an Olympic barbell, and some pumper plates. I don't aim to be a power-lifter, just to stay health. So, all the exercises can be done in the cage for safety reasons and efficiency. It's a squat rack, and it allows for safe, spotter-free bench-pr…
/r/askTRP17/02/19 05:42 AM
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Here are some things to think about: Actions, not words. Talk is cheap. Does she keep promises? Regularly? Reliably? To the letter? Does she invest time, energy, money, etc.? Does she stay consistent, or abruptly switch directions at the slightest barrier obstacle? Meaning, is she nice when things are in her comfort zone, but then abruptly mean when her comfort zone is infringed on? Does she sacrifice anything in terms of comfort? What you can do with women who make overtures is test their nicen…
/r/askTRP15/02/19 09:25 PM
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I think you did the right thing. But you yourself seem a bit unsure of it. I wouldn't overthink it or second-guess it. You didn't like how she was behaving, so you had her leave, and now she's butthurt and trying to spin damage control. Pretty soon, she'll move onto some new drama and forget all about you.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 09:17 PM
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Lack of chemistry on her end would be my guess. I don't know your age, but when you are young, you tend to think you have chemistry with way more people than you actually do because your hormones are raging. That's if you are a guy. So, maybe you did everything right, but she just wasn't quite "feeling it." She's doing your a favor by presenting a signal. You can try again or move on. Either way, don't waste too much time on her, pursue other women and your own mission.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 09:14 PM
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It's not that you are a "relatively boring guy," it's that you are still poor and must work, and therefore do not have the luxury of free time for them. A rich guy has all the time in the world because he doesn't have to spend it working. He has a pile of money that earns interest or dividends he can live off of. He has people managing his wealth. You're just some guy who is trading extra time for money to dig himself out of a hole. This sends the scarcity message to them. Scarce time equals sca…
/r/askTRP15/02/19 09:06 PM
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Ha, mine should be at the top of the list, but we shall see: Books! Specifically books on investing, trading, psychology, and books written by relatively obscure dissident types that helped me learn to think outside the box. This allowed me to learn how to make money, which allowed me to live and to buy stuff. Knowledge is power. Exercise equipment: power cage, bumper plates, olympic bar-bell, rowing machine. Saves you the trouble of commuting to the gym. Broadband internet and a computer. You n…
/r/askTRP15/02/19 08:17 PM
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Yep!
/r/askTRP15/02/19 08:12 PM
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You need to find better things to do with your time that you enjoy, like a video-game, but that produce an actual return. When I was a child, I was basically a beta test subject for video-games. People had theories, but nobody knew with 100% certainty. I mean, if they did, my parents would have put me in a treatment center, because I was a hard-core junkie. Why? Because I had no friends, and no prospects for friendship. Books and video-games were my only solace. Nobody raised me. Even though I h…
/r/askTRP15/02/19 08:11 PM
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Eh, you're referring to what some people call "natural" alpha. When you are in school, like under college, money isn't as important; it's not really your "wealth," so to speak. It's not the currency that buys you pussy. Of course, it is there in the background. Kids with nice clothes have an easier time getting laid than those in rags, and if rags are in fashion, rich kids can easily buy them. When you are young, your currency is your body, your social skills, your social circle, your ability to…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 07:10 PM
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Yeah, you can be alpha all you want, but that doesn't mean you are getting laid. Some of the most alpha guys give zero fucks about getting laid. Their mission is so important to them that they want zero distractions. Women are a nuisance. If they have sex, it is purely incidental, where the woman chases them, seduces them, and they grudgingly give in, then once their curiosity is satisfied, it's back to the mission.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 07:05 PM
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Yes, of course they do. Also, prosperity is a relative thing. In college, if you come from a wealthy family, they buy your nice clothes, or give you an allowance, or you have a trust fund, or they have a nice job lined up for you at the family business or a family business of a family friend, or some other connection. However, there is no urgency towards settling down, so middle-glass guys that work some part-time job and "invest" the proceeds in nice clothes can still present as prosperous too.…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 07:02 PM
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The number of "alphas" in their twenties are vanishingly small, smaller even than the number of beautiful women. In order to be an alpha, you must: Be good-looking, Be prosperous, Have status Have social skills Have talents Be good in bed Most guys do not have all of those pieces together in their twenties. To have them all, is to be a prince. Therefore the men that have them come from wealthy families, and are essentially groomed from birth to be at the top of the food chain. An even smaller pe…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 11:58 PM
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Harsh reality: if you are born a 1-3, you can work hard and raise yourself up to 4-5, but you probably won't be banging the prom queen, unless you are paying, and then maybe not even then, because hookers say no all the time.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 02:46 AM
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Stopped reading at "just as men need sex..." Sex is a luxury. You don't "need" it to live. It is not a necessity. You can lead a full, meaningful, productive, happy life, as a VIRGIN, if you want to. Hell, you don't even need to jack off, though that's a harder act to pull off. One might argue that human contact makes life more bearable, but many people don't even enjoy it that much. The notion that men are like animals who need sex, and women aren't, and that women only trade sex for provisioni…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 02:23 AM
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Nah, the real abuse is her trying to hold you hostage with THREATS of suicide.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 02:14 AM
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Eh, maybe. Sometimes these people are running cons. Like they pretend to have money or status they don't have. They run in social circles that prop each others illusions up to create the appearance of abundance and status, when really it's just a bunch of guys desperately clinging together. However, it still works because of pre-selection. If you are a random woman, do you perceive a guy in a pack to have a higher status, or a lone guy? The lone guy could be a rugged individual, but he's more li…
/r/askTRP12/02/19 01:19 AM
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Eh, it's not about witty verbal replies and saving your ego, it's about the significance of what she says, how it shows her hand as to how she perceives you as a prospect or non-prospect, and how you act in response. People often talk about IOIs on here, but what about when a woman tips her hand that she views you as an exploitable beta chump? What an alpha do? Whatever the fuck he wants. Keep her in the friendzone? Try to fuck her a few more times? Ghost her? Whatever. What he wouldn't do is ha…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 06:55 PM
5

Like I wrote some young kid the other day, the real reason you are probably insecure lies in that you are competing against guys who have a lot to offer who are outside your peer group for the prize of women in your peer group. How are you supposed to feel secure about fucking someone your age when a guy ten years older can swoop in with the promise of security living in a mansion with all material needs provided for? Even if you have prospects at that age, many women in your peer group "like ol…
/r/askTRP07/02/19 06:10 PM
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The nice thing about older women is that you get some practice. All of her "shit tests" were mere formalities. The truth is, they are lonely, want to be touched, and have to deal with guys flaking on them all the time, even if they are attractive. Just like an average guy! That's actually part of their appeal. They are finally getting a dose of reality and are being beaten into some semblance of humility which makes them seem like actual people, and not harpies sent from hell. So, don't get too …
/r/askTRP07/02/19 06:07 PM
1

Not a problem, was just taking the piss. : )
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 06:03 PM
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When she PMS's, she needs an outlet for her negative emotions. Don't be that outlet. If she doesn't like something you are doing that you have control over, then don't do it, or if you do it, then own it. But you are probably better off spending less time around when she acts that way. Don't reward that kind of behavior with your time. But also, don't be obvious about it. As soon as you sense it coming on, make yourself scarce for as much as possible. Also, if she says negative stuff, don't take…
/r/askTRP07/02/19 06:18 AM
2

MGTOW can mean whatever you want it to mean. For some guys, it's an incel pact. For me, it was always about the following: Not settling for a shit relationship with a shit or mediocre woman; Not being pussy-whipped if in a relationship; Not letting female values dominate my life; Not pandering to women; Not making a fool out of myself, contorting myself every which way to try and make myself more attractive to a woman; Not chasing after women; Not romanticizing women or relationships; Studying w…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 05:58 AM
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What you need to understand is that: Girls from 16-22 are at the peak of their SMV, and they are your peers, and so naturally, you are attracted to them, however.... You are low on the totem pole, because all you likely have to offer them is.... dick in the box! Your competition is guys ranging from 16-60+ Yep, that's right, girls your own age are being approached by men who are NOT your peers. Wealthy businessmen. College guys with cars. Yuppies. Musicians. Actors. Celebrities. Thugs. Sports st…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 05:52 AM
4

To achieve true alpha autist, you must achieve mastery in all simultaneously within 1 year, then fuck the prom queen, or else you must execute the command /killself.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 12:06 AM
2

What about the barefoot runners who ran on grass? I did a stint of running a few years ago, doing the Couch to 5K and gradually worked my way up to 5K over a summer, running on grass at a nearby park, and occasionally sand. It actually seemed to toughen up my feet. But then the weather changed, and I had taken up dancing. I still wonder if I should have stuck with it, as long as I stayed on grass. My friend's girlfriend used to play basketball and run on pavement, and now her knees are bone on b…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 12:04 AM
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STOP SHOUTING! WE'RE NOT DEAF! But seriously, it sucks about your friend getting raped by a gril.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 11:54 PM
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Maybe they will have a no-lift-weights, everyone must drink soy and take estrogen supplements rule. And no contact with anyone without affirmative consent.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/19 08:43 PM
8

There's a nice human sacrifice that will make for a good story to distract the public some more from all the looting and pillaging going on.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/19 08:41 PM
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The guy isn't orbiting. He merely has integrated lifting into his work-life and is living the dream. He would help anyone move just for the lifts XP.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 08:39 PM
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Sounds like you have a self-esteem problem. Nobody IS good with people. The successful salesmen you see are a product of some natural ability, but mostly lots of study, reflection, and hard work. They are literally putting on an act to manipulate people into serving their interests. There is nothing natural about salesmanship. It is all contrived, and some of the best applied psychology comes from sales literature. What you have right now is a limiting belief. It's inaccurate to say you are not …
/r/askTRP05/02/19 08:38 PM
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Build wealth, not a "career." You have a money problem, not a job problem. You don't need a job to make money. You don't need other people's approval. Even though you "graduated" in economics, in all likelihood, due to your age, and the fact that you spent most of your life being indoctrinated by people for THEIR purposes, and not yours, there are gaps in your economic literacy. There is no permanent career failure. There are setbacks and challenges. Never give up. Eventually you will die though…
/r/askTRP05/02/19 08:35 PM
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Or maybe she WILL be allowed to play for the NFL, and she will.... until she gets hit by one of the misanthropic or misogynist line-men... so many possibilities.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/19 06:16 PM
45

Can't wait for them to change the rules and the entire structure of the game to allow for women....
/r/TheRedPill05/02/19 06:14 PM
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It doesn't start out that way. They get a boyfriend, it's good for awhile, but then one or the other becomes dissatisfied, and it ends, and then the next guy in the queue gets his turn. The only men who experience this are rich men and guys with a bedroom rep. Just imagine if there was line of hot women waiting for their chance to impress you. A line. You walk down the street and women smile at you. Occasionally a woman walks up to you and tries to get your phone number. Some even try to get sex…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/19 06:13 PM
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Well, they have lowered expectations and therefore lowered standards. A guy who wears decent clothes, appears to be gainfully employed, and not a drug addict or a criminal would be perceived as catch. By contrast, in Italy, where that is the "norm," the pretty women then want billionaire industrialist supermodels who are also extremely popular and charming, and fight crime, while at the same time spurning the advances of all the women chasing after them, except for their "true" love, who they ce…
/r/askTRP05/02/19 06:00 PM
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DISCLAIMER: Me not doctor. Me layperson. Anywho, you may have cervical vertabrae out of alignment referring pain. This comes from lack of awareness of proper neck posture, and repetitive stress activities, like text neck. What happens, they get out of alignment and stop doing their job of supporting your head properly, and then the muscles pick up the slack and then get tight and form knots, which then causes a chain reaction that reduces mobility until you start to notice. Sudden movements can …
/r/askTRP05/02/19 01:57 AM
2

Ha yeah, I have a female friend who had like 8 to 11 males plates at one point, over the span of a few years. 8 to 11! She did find someone to settle down with though...
/r/TheRedPill05/02/19 12:10 AM
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So many lulz here for me: "married trad con girl" Me: "oh good for him! . . . wait what . . . oh . . well..." LOL Some people dream of world peace, a brilliant new innovation, others dream of being "gangbanged by 10 hung body builders with no regard for [their] wellbeing. Her "dream." LOL
/r/TheRedPill05/02/19 12:08 AM
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And admit that they are wrong? Ha! Never! This is what you have working against you, propaganda (to which there are many grains of truth, mind you, as propaganda with truthiness is better than blatant falsehoods)-wise: Men are dangerous, destructive animals; women are life-givers! Women are smarter than men; Women are more valuable than men; men are disposable; Having a family is for LOSERS; YOU GO GIRL with your career, but first get a Master's and a Ph.D; Go live in a big city and fuck as many…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/19 12:05 AM
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On the other hand, if she DOESN'T have a boyfriend, she's a LOSER or a PSYCHO because no guy wants her, obviously. Lol. It seems like the best women are ALWAYS attached and are are rarely actually single. They go from one boyfriend to the next. The window of opportunity where they are actually single might be 1-2 months every 3-5 years, where they are either in the process of branch-swinging, or interviewing their back-up dicks in a glass case, or eat pray loving to "find" themselves, until they…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/19 11:57 PM
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Yeah, but you would at least think he would follow what goes on in the country of his origin.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 11:18 PM
6

Texting is for logistics only.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 04:09 PM
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You are "Argentinian." Do you even know what is going on in your home country? They just debauched the currency again, making the economic situation worse. Of course the women will be friendlier than in Italy, a wealthier country.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 04:02 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to take a thoughtful reply. It is much appreciated.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 01:52 AM
1

Well, I mean, the term friend is so bastardized and diluted that it is virtually meaningless. One time, a girl I barely knew that well wanted me to give her a ride to meet her friend, but also accompany her because she was afraid to be alone with her friend, who was male. What about me? I was her "very good" friend. Lol. But not good enough to give a blowjob to, unfortunately.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 01:49 AM
1

There was plenty on there that was useful, but a lot of it was already out there anyway, so there would have been no point in bumping him off.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 01:48 AM
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You don't really understand what "pre-selection" is. Pre-selection is when the girl sees you with a bunch of high-value people, and assumes you are high-value as well, making things easier for you. It's like inside sales. The pre-selection part was when you were with your friends, and they were making out with her friends. She followed them like a lemming. The mixed-race girl was you losing frame in front of the Persian girl AFTER she had invested in you by making out with you in public. By lett…
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:48 PM
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I prefer associates.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:41 PM
1

"This also makes me feel like a piece of shit, knowing deep down I don't give a fuck about our 'company', and that I'll either leave to another company, or start my own shit without the egocentric leader we have now. " The company doesn't care about you either. You are an interchangeable cog. Also, the other people care about themselves first, and everything else a distant second. Everyone with a brain uses rhetoric to try and get others to do the heavy lifting for them. It's called the Tom Sawy…
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:28 PM
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To what extent would you say that these play a role: What you Built: 1. the money; 2. more importantly, the free time that the money creates that allows you to invest in yourself, and to also manage the women. versus What you Are: 3. Looks 4. Charm / Game There is a relationship between the two. Meaning, 3 and 4 help you get 1 and 2, but also if you built 1 and 2, you can pursue 3 and 4 to some extent.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:25 PM
1

Ha, I remember Alex Jones before he became a complete shill for the Trumpfuhrer. There was actually some good information on there. But then as soon he shifted to the tabloid model of showing endless puff videos of ranting on an increasingly thin gruel of shallow subjects, I smelled a rat and stopped following it. I suspect these "dissidents" make just enough noise and trouble to solicit bribes from the elites, meaning they gain market share by telling the truth, and then they use that market sh…
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:09 PM
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Well it seems like you have it down. Nobody will accuse you of being a pedophile for kissing a 20 year old adult woman . . . except bitter women that are older that want your attention instead. Also, if you date an older woman, then the younger women will shame you for that too. If you have value, they all want a piece of you, and they'll use reverse psychology and all sorts of dirty tricks. The best way to deal with it is to redirect attention at women who behave the way you like it. It's all j…
/r/askTRP02/02/19 01:23 AM
1

Eh. Credentials don't mean shit. Working "hard" doesn't mean shit. Being smart doesn't meant shit. Adding value does. That's the ONLY thing the employers care about is: can this person add value, and is the value they add more than what we are paying them. You will NEVER be paid according to the value you add. The employer will get 80% of what you add. That's to make up for the all the fuck-ups and liabilities they hire. Also, because they are greedy, and artificially created near-poverty is wha…
/r/askTRP01/02/19 05:24 PM
2

Less people can afford to get married. Less women are marriageable because of degenerate culture that glamorizes being a slut who gives away sex for hand-bags, shallow social acclaim from other degenerates, and the thrill of it. Less men who can afford to get married, are actually willing to get married because of all the horror stories. So, less marriages, equals less divorces. Divorces used to be only granted under exceptional circumstances. Now people will even marry with the idea of getting …
/r/askTRP01/02/19 05:01 PM
3

You neglected to do the following: Attempt to establish eye-contact first. If a girl won't make a eye-contact with you, it decreases the likelihood that a cold approach will be fruitful. Girls communicate non-verbally through avoidance. They get hit on all the time, so one defense strategy is to subtly discourage people who approach them by putting up a cold front and avoiding eye contact. It is deliberate. If you were a man of high value, like a celebrity, she would be eye-balling the hell out …
/r/askTRP01/02/19 04:54 PM
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Nobody wants to blame themselves, so they blame other people. The "blame" lies on both of you. Sure, she could have said no, but your seduction worked. And you didn't have to try and seduce her, but you were following your biological programming, and not any artificially created behavior influencing cultural programming, or maybe you were. But in any, blame or responsibility is equal unless one of you is retarded. Oh wait.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 03:50 PM
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No. Did you start saying, "Hey man, you need to take the RED pill, man!!!!" Nope. All you did was give advice based on logical reasoning and not rose-colored glasses.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 03:47 PM
2

If you get tired from going to the gym then you are neglecting your nutrition. Your energy levels should go up, not down. If you only went for three months and then gave up, then you probably are fitness ILLITERATE. Let that sink in. See, people always act like illiteracy is the worse thing. And it is. We also have other terms, like innumeracy, meaning you don't know your way around numbers. But the best term we have for ignorance is illiteracy. I guess you could also say that you are ignorant a…
/r/askTRP01/02/19 03:42 PM
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Here let me help. The feels are abstractions produced by chemical reactions within your body. Oxytocin. Dopamine. Etc. etc. When you are with the woman, getting laid, etc, you are getting your fix. When the woman leaves, you are experiencing WITHDRAWAL. Just like a HEROIN addict. Understanding it this way helps you see it for what it is, and helps you cope and move on. The feels and these reaction are evolutionary adaptions that came about through natural selection because they increased the lik…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 05:18 PM
2

Mindfulness. Don't do what your childish butt-hurt impulses tell you to do. Take a step back. Ask what a person with high self-esteem and outcome independence would do? That person wouldn't care one way or another. Seriously. Can you imagine not caring whether you fucked an HB9 one way or another? Sure, we all have the drive to reproduce, but if it overwhelms us to the point of making us behave irrationally, as in, against our long-term best interest, then we need to take a step back. Find a wom…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 05:09 PM
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I know, but I have LIVED that experience. And it was used as a pretext to fire me. Damned if you do. Damned if you don't. If everyone is fucking around, and you aren't, then you're like the one clean cop who is distrusted by all the dirty cops. What could one do in such circumstances? Pretend to be a bit dirty so everyone feels more secure about themselves is about right. It's one thing to maintain high personal standards, but that can be used against you by all the people who feel threatened by…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 05:31 AM
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Whoa, take it easy there killer. Money can't buy you class. A guy making a million-dollars a year who bangs his secretary is still a class-less piece of shit. Why? Because work is for work, and play is for play. He could go and pick up women outside of work. He could go to a whore-house. Instead, he bangs his secretary and puts his life-line in jeopardy. You decide if you have class, and nobody else. Also, there may be disadvantages to it, as other people may resent you for trying to set a highe…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 03:43 AM
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Ha, at least you got laid. But that's also the harsh reality of sleeping in the same bed with women. Some of them snore. My second most recent ex snored. My most recent ex didn't snore, but she had horrible sleep hygiene and would never go to bed early, or at the same time.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 01:51 AM
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Eh, since you work with them, you want to stay on their good side, but without being perceived as kiss-ass. I would just maintain frame, and pretend like whatever negative thing they say doesn't affect you. Maybe they think you're going to try hitting on them, and they perceive you as low-value, because you are a worker, and not, say, a billionaire industrialist. So this is their way of protecting themselves from your potential dick-in-the-box advances. Also, why WOULD anyone with class fuck aro…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 01:47 AM
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Some things to think about: The term "friend" is a mushy, ambiguous word that has lost most of its meaning. I read historical accounts of people risking or sacrificing their lives for complete strangers, yet today, you find people are so mercenary, or strapped for resources, that maintaining relationships is exhausting. A better word is "associate," because that is who most of your friends really are. The only reason you are even friends with them in the first place is because of "location, loca…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 01:38 AM
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Tell him he really shouldn't run around slandering people or else he's liable to get sued for defamation of character down the road. That should make him think twice before opening his mouth again. Also try to get to the bottom of why he did that. Did you threaten his status in some way with your existence? That is usually one of the motivators. Also, he's not exactly the whole problem. What about all the so-called friends who believed him and had no faith in you? I've been on both sides of this…
/r/askTRP28/01/19 07:39 PM
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The worst is when the bull-shit narrative takes over, or they are deliberately telling you the truth just to build trust that they can cash in on later when they fuck you over.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 07:11 PM
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