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| 12 | Glad to find a platform for female empowerment in dating that doesn't glorify sex workNobody does this work “for fun”. It’s insulting to frame it that way for trafficked girls you’re trying to be a champion for. There is a large community of sex workers who work as independent contractors and treat it as a expedited way to get to where they want to be in life while they still have their looks. It’s bizarre that this sub says they dont glorify sex work, but they’ll hail SheRaSeven’s advice as gospel. She literally tells girls to dress provocatively, bat their eyes and ask a guy to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 10:48 PM |
| 5 | Glad to find a platform for female empowerment in dating that doesn't glorify sex workStrippers/cam girls/escorts/phone sex operators are all sex workers. You may consider them different but in sex worker spaces they are all understood as sex work | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 10:26 PM |
| 7 | Glad to find a platform for female empowerment in dating that doesn't glorify sex workGotta disagree. Decided to avoid relationships 5 years ago and work on leveling up, saving coin and traveling as a stripper. I’m debt free, fixed my credit, have fuck-you money, I fund my own shopping sprees across Asia and have a dermatologist in Korea that keeps me looking unbelievably fresh, my job keeps my body looking fit and toned, and I’m Starting my own business next year. The HVM have no trouble finding me! This surprised me at first because I internalized derogatory thoughts about sex … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 10:14 PM |
| -20 | Glad to find a platform for female empowerment in dating that doesn't glorify sex workSex work is empowering if you use it to get to your destination. Sex Work as the primary vessel for your empowerment and career? Very very very risky and very few women are cut out for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 09:58 PM |
| 26 | Can you relate to Pickmeishas anymore?I can’t. But it was elusive to me at first. I’d see some of these girls and think they were pretty, well educated nice girls next door that believed in love. I mean they just seemed desirable all around and why wouldn’t I expect a hvm to swoop one up? After some observation I realized these girls were moving in within a year, splitting 50/50, and I noticed the nights out consisted of going to pool halls, chicken wings, and trivia nights at local bars on weeknights. While I love chicken wings, I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 09:36 PM |
| 27 | LVM happy he can finally be a total piece of shit in peace with his brand new “downgrade” PickMeishaholy shit lmaoooo but also 😨🤢😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 05:56 AM |
| 85 | When you let a man set the “precedent” of what you’ll accept in a relationship, this is your futureShe’s resourceful about spending less than 500$ on a pair of rings and he immediately gaslights her into thinking she’s pushing a problematic “keeping up the joneses” fantasy. Uh... tf....I’m pretty sure the Joneses aren’t threatened by your 50/50 1bed1bth roommate situation, pawn shop rings and Netflix dates | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 03:21 AM |
| 3 | How to get your power back from a LVM?Saving this post. This is life changing 💕👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 12:17 AM |
| 33 | Oh my god this is is the most cringe thing i have ever read.Aaaah hahaa right? 🤣 It’s also encouraging to lvm that they can just flip a switch and magically become heroes and husbands! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 11:03 PM |
| 15 | Wives/serious daters of FDS-What do you think of your SO attending bachelor parties?This here. I’ve been a stripper in a popular destination city for bachelor parties in the summer for 5 years. If a man past college age still has a group of dudes called “the boys” that he’s grown with, treat them like the protozoan hive mind they are even if you see their individualities. They all take turns covering and making excuses for each other’s depraved behavior on nights out. Bet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 10:46 PM |
| 1 | We’ve all heard of the No Contact Rule for either getting over or reconciling with an ex. Can you tell me your stories of falling off the NC wagon and getting back on?There’s a really good sticky in FDS that talks about a man being unlikely to magically change for the right woman, if he spent the majority of his prime years reaping the benefits of low value and fuckboy behavior. Sounds like this guy stayed dangerously stunted from ages 30-39 then and is selling the ex a little hope before the same issues reveal themselves again because he never actually worked on himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 01:28 AM |
| 19 | We’ve all heard of the No Contact Rule for either getting over or reconciling with an ex. Can you tell me your stories of falling off the NC wagon and getting back on?The ex-girlfriend he reunited with and the 3-4 long term relationships since then? He’s had them all in rotation or consideration this whole time. NC and never look back, chances of him reaching out are high. If he doesn’t marry that ex with who the “force is strong” with in 2020 this man is forever LV and will gaslight and delude any girl in his contact list unless he gets professional help for the issues he’s trying to get unreciprocated emotional labor for | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 01:11 AM |
| 31 | My profile stated my love language is “receiving gifts”I’ve been wanting to talk about this exact same conundrum for a while. I’ve come to realize that gifts are my primary giving and receiving love languages, but it is impossible to communicate this without setting off alarms in both LVM and HVM . Acts of Service is second place for me, and it’s a nightmare navigating “let’s build together” millennial men with these love languages without getting taken advantage of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 09:33 PM |
| 12 | Man (25) strings forever GF (25) along in 10 year relationship, develops "infatuation" for another woman (25), who has a boyfriend... admits he's seeking "excitement", having good & bad motives....SERIOUSLY. I left a fuccboi player on read almost 3 years ago and He and two of his fuccboi friends have been messaging me and gossiping for years about it even though they didn’t even want to date me and two of them have girlfriends. They’re all in their early thirties. The whole thing is so embarrassing for them. It’s like seeing a girl minding her business is very triggering for these men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 03:15 PM |
| 12 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Of What Use Is A Man to A Woman? Males, come justify your existence to FDS in the comments! The Floor Is Yours!Yeah I gotta disagree with the secretive thing. Men gossip and spread pics like crazy. My girl friends take a little bit of time before divulging intimate details or waiting to ask about them to feel out how serious it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 09:10 PM |
| 4 | The dynamics on birth control in relationships really bothers me.I really don’t see the point in putting hormones or foreign objects in my body, and then dealing with the bleeding and emotional side effects 24/7/365 just so I can be “ready” for some manlet who insists on maintaining a text relationship for months | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Finally done with the bullshitHaha something similar happened to me, when I became single and wasn’t looking for anything serious. Men are always trying to use up as much emotional labor as possible and a straightforward FWB setup is never enough | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 05:57 PM |
| 15 | Of course men have value, but so do women— beyond our beauty, fertility, and sex appeal. I would never want to be with a man who truly believes this. 🙄They say this and still expect the woman to have a non existent Ncount? Sex appeal and fertility ... just no sex or kids 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 12:42 AM |
| 17 | 21F has sex less than 3 dates in and is now pressuring for relationship. He is, of course, unsure but he’s “enjoying the sex”.Had a one night stand that turned into 3 more hookups spread out over 2 years, damaged delusional fuckboy but physically I was very attracted to him so I compartmentalized HARD... He interpreted my silence and distance over the years as me being “mad” at him cause “we didn’t start dating” after the first night... what??? I was horrified and embarrassed for him and his Pickmes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 04:26 AM |
| 2 | YouTube channelsChloe’s “Life with a broke man: 50/50 scam” video is life changing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 02:22 AM |
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