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Thanks all for the advice. I decided to be upfront and told her I wasn't looking for someone. She replied that she wasn't either. So now I'm omw to pound town.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 10:18 AM
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Remember: Slow is smooth, smooth is fast. It's all part of your process. Besides; starting with an empty bar is sensible. Not stupid.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 08:48 PM
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Read Psycho Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz
/r/askTRP05/05/17 08:35 AM
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When I formulated my goals I asked myself the following questions: "Where do you want to be in five years?" "What's the kind of person that you want to become?" Seems to me you're already doing well, sucks that you don't realize it. Let me tell you wat I see: you're working towards getting more social and you started lifting. Besides you're in Uni at 21 in a country that has a bad economical situation. Hence a uni degree will be really valuable. You seem to have a negative self image, which is w…
/r/askTRP23/04/17 07:22 PM
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Send "????" or "Is somebody home?!" In al seriousness, she'll get back to you if she want to continue talking. Go do other things.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 07:51 PM
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If you want to lift I got some tips for you; Learn the basic barbell lifts (the squat, deadlift, overhead press, bench press and deadlift) through reading Starting Strength (and watching videos) Start doing a beginner routine like GZCLP (Google it). A spreadsheet is posted somewhere on Reddit about this program. With this spreadsheet you can track your progress Read this article http://www.leangains.com/2011/09/fuckarounditis.html
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 09:40 PM
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Yes, I don't feel the same since my injury which abstained me to lift heavy without any pain. A good lifting session alleviates your mood big time.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 06:25 PM
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Good call. I followed your advice the next day (Friday): only texted her to set up a 2nd date. Coincidentally she started drunk texting and calling me Friday night. The next day we dated and afterwards we fucked. So it went pretty well. I thought about the situation today. I worry too much. After 23 years I’m still insecure (in a way) when dating somebody whom I kinda like. However the signs that she likes me far outweigh that one issue that she replies late to my texts (I’ll spare you the detai…
/r/askTRP02/04/17 07:56 PM
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Thanks for the reply. She initiates as well and I'm also not a speedy texter (approx 2~3 hours to text back.). I just worry too much sometimes. But you're right. I'm acting needy and overall living too much in my head. I shouldn't bother caring about trivial stuff like texting and focus having a good time on dates and see where it goes.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 06:50 PM
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I make smalltalk yes. Haven't seen them after matching though, otherwise I would escalate for sure.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 06:04 PM
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You're overreacting. All your failures and triumphs are part of the proces. Trust the proces.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 03:30 PM
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"Continue exercising, but take care to avoid overworking your injury." This is trash advice sorry not sorry.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 03:10 PM
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Spot on. That's me as well. I'm a hard worker. That's my greatest strength and people close to me admire that quality of me. I set high goals for myself that I want to reach. In addition I always worry and question myself if I will reach these goals. In the end I have always reached them, which feels great. In a way I love the struggle as you describe. However there is also a toxic side to this; I don't ever feel I'm good enough (for something/someone) until I accomplish the next big goal. I am …
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 08:16 PM
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Thanks for this. In a few weeks I'm gonna live om my own for the first time in a student dorm, and I want to doen everything as cheap as possible
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 09:25 PM
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Can you put this into a practical situation (from your own life?)
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 03:59 PM
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2016: the death of free speech
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 10:02 PM
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Your mind is dwelling in the past and the future, not in the present where it should be. I'd recommend you to practice mindfulness and read the Pwer of Now.
/r/askTRP12/03/16 02:34 PM
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dont wait for a chance, be bold and make one
/r/askTRP06/03/16 10:51 PM
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Ask guys how your form looks or ask them to record your form
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 06:58 PM
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Why do you think nobody really wants you to succes? Recently I was in such a situation.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 04:52 PM
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About whatever the flying fuck you want to do. Alpha is a term that is thrown around by everybody over here but everyone defines alpha differently: I think it's alpha when you do whatever the fuck you want to do and it makes yourself happy. Having discipline to do stuff you don't like is alpha. You should read No More MR. Nice Guy. It's a self help book that helps you to do stuff for yourself instead of doing stuff to stay on the good side of other people.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 11:38 AM
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In most European countries 'college life' is different. The major difference is that (in my country) there is no campus where everybody lives. Most people live at home with their parents so getting laid is a bit harder. Honestly I can't imagine that social semi-popular guys can't get laid on a college campus especially since most American girls are sluts: I mean everything is there to get some fucks. Be ause of this I would love to experience college life in America. But in essence your advice i…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 09:22 PM
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Read No More Mr. Nice Guy
/r/askTRP03/02/16 09:10 PM
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Concerning key principle #1, does one of you use a comprehensive excel sheet to track your goals?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 06:28 PM
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Meditation, lifting, having a good time with friends, basically doing stuff that gets my mind off off it. And I talking about it
/r/askTRP09/01/16 08:20 PM
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Have you fucked her in the end or dit you leave it like that?
/r/askTRP24/12/15 08:20 PM
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Give Headspace a try. It explains thoroughly how t meditate, it's a good place to start from.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 02:24 PM
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Doubting yourself is such a waste of time. Everybody does it once in a while but it hinders you to be the best you can be. Try some meditation in the long term it will bear it's fruits. Also read Models by Mark Manson. Also: Internal changes are the hardest to make. But you're on the right track.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 04:39 PM
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Why even care about that girl man? You're pedestallizing her: you don't want to go to a party because she is there. For real? Just go and enjoy yourself.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 04:34 PM
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Thanks! I think leading was the key, i didn't do that enough..
/r/askTRP11/12/15 06:59 PM
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Yeah I experience this as well. In my experience being hard on myself is because I have high expectations of myself. I have a huge drive to be succesful in every aspect of my life. Thanks to this I achieved a lot, although it also causes me a lot of stress. If I don't achieve a goal I was aiming for I'm devastated. Because of this I'm trying to pat myself on the back more about what I've achieved. You shouldn't forget to do this. And just like you TRP didn't made my behavior change drastically, …
/r/askTRP16/11/15 11:25 PM
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Thanks for your 2 cents. I need to be serious about not acting so serious. I think I can achieve that by beïng bold and reading this post daily to remind myself I don't matter much. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2ykmhu/the_guide_to_accepting_yourself_even_when_women/
/r/askTRP28/09/15 04:49 PM
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Thanks dude, but I don't worry about if women perceive me as serious or not, the thing I need is a less serious attitude. I believe the rest will come if I genuinely just don't give a flying fuck during social interactions.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 04:47 PM
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I don't get why some people want to improve the small shit, acquiring habits for the sake of acquiring them does not make sense. Just like OP described it is a form of escapism, which needs to be fixed first (that would be relevant self-improvement). Assuming everybody here is an aspiring alpha male, improving SMV should be the goal, and self-improvement should be the way to do so. When improving oneself thus aiming to raise ones SMV, one should focus on three aspects, which in theory can boost …
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 08:57 PM
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yeah, or she was in doubt because she dated that dude. Anyhow the past is the past indeed, still want to plate her though. When I see her again, I assume the best way is to act like nothing happened?
/r/askTRP17/09/15 09:41 PM
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I thought about it today from another perspective: I just spoke my mind to get what I wanted, and she could've just said no if she didn't want to.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 06:27 PM
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You're basically kicking in an open door: men should have pride and no hubrice, aka men should have confidence and no ego, which is true though.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 05:33 PM
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If you want to lose weight, and want to gain muscle the leangains subreddit is all you need.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 07:55 PM
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We should have a list of commandments just like this added to the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 11:59 AM
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a friend of mine went to a gym and talked to a lot of people jn the gym. There was a guy over there that trained guys for BB tournaments. My friend asked if he could train him. He did and provided him the roids he needed. He's pretty big right now but I prefer the natty route though.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 12:09 PM
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A lot of shitty posts lately, you learned a lesson 99% of us already knew. Besides that, your sources are crap.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 04:47 PM
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Why is your post deleted? Do you still have it somewhere I want to read through your tips again. I tried writing yesterday and I felt a lot better. It feels great writing stuff off my chest.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 09:42 PM
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Great post, thank you for the tips. My head feels really full so start writing a journal seems like a great idea. Are you writing on the computer in a .doc file or are you writing everything in a notebook?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 07:07 PM
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Overall a good post. However I don't understand why you put white people on a pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 03:00 PM
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Great essay, looking forward to the next part. I guess I'm not the only one who feels more confident after abstaining from masturbation..
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 09:50 PM
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Good stuff. The fifteen lessons.. Great material..
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 03:27 PM
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And is the book of Pook any good? And what do you mean with that neat stumble app you can add to your browser?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 01:49 PM
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Stronglifts 5x5. Thank us later
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 08:08 PM
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Thanks, for answering my questions, great progress by the way.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 10:57 AM
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Saved, will check it out when I finish Stronglifts. Care to tell how many fats you eat per lb of bodyweight, or does 30 or 40 grams per lb doesn't matter that much? Besidees that, how strict are you with calorie counting? And care to post some progress pics?
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 06:24 PM
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You write "a Compliment is praise of someone below you for acting in ways which you want to reward." and then you say that beta's give compliments when they look up? Care to elaborate?
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 07:44 PM
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how long do you do it and how many times per week? I tried headspace but it's not my thing
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 01:57 PM
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That's good to hear. It's amazing TRP changes lives (for the better).
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 08:38 AM
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Are you comparing bp and rp analogies to ways of lifting? Is this a joke?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 07:47 PM
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Thanks for your contribution but you're over-complicating shit. When training, it doesn't matter what kind of program you're doing, as long as it's balanced. Consistency is the key. Especially for beginners.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 07:40 PM
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Good one! Yeah, I guess so. It are always fat chicks who play that card against me.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 01:30 PM
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Do you do guided meditations? I tried headspace but I don't find it that good
/r/askTRP03/04/15 03:17 PM
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U used a great analogy. I think I'll live by this from now on
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 04:50 PM
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tell me when u find it!
/r/askTRP26/03/15 09:53 PM
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Starting strength/stronglifts. Need I say more?
/r/askTRP25/03/15 07:50 PM
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Yeah thanks you guys are right. There is indeed no point in texting her and it's pretty much beta behaviour.
/r/askTRP21/03/15 03:36 PM
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Bro you are putting them on a pedestal, don't forgot you are the pruze. I am assured your friends can confirm that. I also suggest you to read No More Mr. Nice Guy.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 11:03 PM
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sure thing man. text or call or does it even matter what I do?
/r/askTRP14/03/15 08:09 PM
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In what sense is this beta? My friend asked me if I liked her appearance, to check if it's worth my time. But your right about SMV though, but that's hard to do at texting. How to beat the shit text she definitely going to throw at me about acting too quickly.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 06:00 PM
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No problem, but whatever you decide: keep in mind it has to be pleasurable for you as well in the bedroom.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 02:10 PM
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Sure man, I will.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 01:11 PM
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It's cool that you want to orient yourself on being more dominant in the bedroom, I guess most of the women like to be 'pounded'. But I don't think you need to leave your submissive side behind. Ever heard of somebody called a 'switch?' Somebody who feels like being dominant one day, and submissive on the other. Why not try something like that? Than you can have the best of both worlds: you can please a woman, and she can please you. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 11:41 AM
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Thanks all, I appreciate the help!
/r/askTRP23/02/15 11:17 PM
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Do you mean with a follow up posting a topic with what I learned from the book?
/r/askTRP23/02/15 11:17 PM
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I bet Hamyd Mourad and Chérif Kouachi's SMV must by sky high then. They most definitely will have big orgies in heaven right now. You know a place where to get guns & knives? need to raise my SMV
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 06:08 PM
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What the fuck man this is utter bullshit. That girl is just fucked up in the head. The only women that like killers are crazy fucking bitches. Being a killer most definitely won't raise your SMV.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 05:56 PM
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How come Smurfettes prefer hanging out with males though?
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 10:39 PM
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Good for you. MDMA and XTC are fun to use from time to time. You should try to keep the mindstate you get from it, and apply it to your sober life. Because as you've experienced, a positive view and not giving a fuck works wonders. However, sometimes I've got the feeling that since I've been using it, I sometimes can't express myself or just feel a little bit hollow inside. Really strange.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 10:30 PM
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True, true. which bulking program could you advise me? I'm skinny with muscles and want to push my gains to the next level.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 02:34 PM
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How many years of training did it took you to accomplish this?
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 10:24 AM
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True, true.. Thanks, I'll keep that in mind!
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 08:59 PM
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You shouldn't be too unavailable. After some time this decreases interest as well. You need to find a balance between availability and unavailability.
/r/askTRP24/12/14 06:36 PM
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Nice man! I tend to overthink as well, A LOT. How did you get that out or your system? Wish I found out how..
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 06:29 PM
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What do you mean with "squint sarcastic" and "resting bitch face any dialogue"?
/r/askTRP24/12/14 04:36 PM
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Yeah I agree, that shit turns you in a social robot, firing of lines at chicks. Yeah models is pretty good so far. Just finished chapter 1 and Mark Mansons theories make much sense. Correct me if im wrong but when people on this subforum talk about game they talk about the way they fix chicks?
/r/askTRP19/12/14 11:08 PM
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Thanks, I'm following your advice and started by reading Mark Manson, since it gets recommended a lot. But I don't think I got the definition of Game quite clear: Is Game about Pua stuff or is Game about the way how you act around women (you want to fuck)?
/r/askTRP19/12/14 08:32 PM
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Haha nice one!
/r/askTRP10/12/14 01:11 PM
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Thanks man, I know you're no pro, but your post was so good it changed my state of mind, thanks to you I've found a new point to view my situation at. Yeah sorta. I live in Europe and the country where I live in we dot have college, I live at home but I go to a university tough. Yeah I'm into lifting weights for a while, lol but maybe another hobby is dope too. My social life is also great, the thing is that I don't go clubbing that much anymore, I'm only going to raves but never mind that. The …
/r/askTRP09/12/14 11:11 PM
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Thanks for your input and time. ♂ First of all, you're a pro. And you hit the nail right on the head. When reading your comment, I guess it's most definitely a shit test. She dit treat me like shit, you're right, I just thought it was the way it goes but it ain't the way you should treat people. About oneitis, I already thought I had it. I already kept NC, I think what I need right now is to have a one night stand, a date or a LTR with another girl who is better than her. Feel much better thanks…
/r/askTRP09/12/14 06:34 PM
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My ex had 2, 3, 4, 9, 10 and 13, when we were dating she told me she kissed a girl (and said the bf wanted to kiss her as well but she pushed him away) yeah rigt. I always found it strange she has more male friends than gfs, but does that really makes somebody a slut? an somebody explain? Well, after reading those posts I feel better haha
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 06:03 PM
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Thanks, I will keep that in mind. Well, I hate to admit it, but I in my heart she's still special to me. And I still want to try and make it work. She was my first gf and after 4,5 months our relationship ended. I had a tough time to get over it and she still passes my mind daily. But in my head I guess we can't make it work, because the relationship was very short. And months before our relationship I dated with her and after a while she said it didn't work out for an unkown reason. After that …
/r/askTRP09/12/14 05:02 PM
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I didn't opened the text yet, I did now, and she said: "I don't know if it's suitable for me to say this, but happy birthday x".
/r/askTRP09/12/14 04:28 PM
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Doesn't ignoring the text give her the impression I'm still not over the breakup? But you're right
/r/askTRP09/12/14 04:12 PM
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Wat does having an orbiter status means?
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 10:34 PM
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Wat does having an orbiter status means?
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 10:34 PM
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IMO you need to accept it and shave it off. and go to the gym. bald + muscles is dope as fuck
/r/askTRP01/12/14 10:21 PM
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This. My ex was like this. She wanted a feather tattooed, for no reason. lol
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 10:33 PM
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