You don't have to get it. Dating is a buyers market. If the buyers universally tell you that 100 bodies is too many there is nothing to argue you pretty much have to eat it. Same way the market tells us 6ft. is the standard. Also it may have to do with biology. Biologically men don't want to get cuckold when it comes to paternity. If you get with a woman that has such a high body count there's no telling if she has the ability to stop rising that count while she is with you and has gone through …
"I mourned our connection, not him" That's literally all you need to know about how women view you as a man. As ye old red pill adage goes, she doesn't care about you she only cares about what you can do for her.
"I just need to make the right choice in men for once" Women are no longer hiding it and flat out calling men the backup plan beta bucks directly to their faces 😂😂😂😂
Her being 5'2 and asking for men that are 14% of the population isn't the most offensive thing about her profile. Her being 43 years of age while doing so is.
Imagine being so cocky that you can list all of your bad traits on a dating app and they just so happen to be the worse traits when it comes to finding a significant other and you still think that with this information you will land a relationship. Oh yeah all while being 44 years of age. Outrageous.
She gained a little more than 10 pounds. Ten pounds on 5'9 woman will maybe show up but not enough to confuse a person based on pictures. She either posted an old picture from the jump or she's lying about how much she has gained.
Lmao she really thinks someone wrote about her in the missed connections section of Craigslist just based off of looking at her. Jesus christ the solipsism is on 10.
Sooo the uglies have more confidence than the beautiful Chad's that don't approach her? I have bad news for her...most men especially betas go for what think they can get....and guess what.
A lot and I mean a lot of black women are like Tomi Lahren...they are originators of her mindset. Get ran through by every Thug, Dick, and Tyrone and will literally blame all black men for their wrong choices in men. Sadly it's a tale as old as time in the black community.
This us textbook. Scrolls upon scrolls if qualities she wants from but when it comes to her personality trait..."she loves to laugh". Which also comes back to you because you have to be funny and entertaining.
It doesn't optimize hypergamy. Prostuiton means that the women have to actually earn their money...women are more about doing as little as possible while gaining as much as possible. That's why onlyfans is popular amongst digital hookers. A few clicks of a cellphone is easier than finding Johns, finding locations, and faking moans.
Agreed she is quite old. She has the Pinocchio mouth lines and everything. But to be totally honest she has what seems to be a decent body. While I can't picture any man outside of an extreme beta giving her a relationship I can't picture any man pushing her out of their bed for a guilt free fucking.
I'll never understand paying for onlyfans when you can't even search basic words in Google without porn popping. And on top of that her onlyfans catalog is right here on Reddit. The people paying for onlyfans should be wiped wet in the middle of the street for public display.
Don't underestimate how blue pill the majority of men are. As the saying goes even the red pilled ones are a blowjob away from going back to the plantation.
LMFAOO so you have to be fit and attractive just to send her money for pictures? Have women lost their collective rabid minds? And the nerve of her having a muffin top and a child resting on it while demanding such foolishness.
Actually she didn't leave because she recognized that Forrest was better than her. She left because Forrest invented Tinder and she got her last shot at riding the carousel again.
Society: Support sex workers. Also Society: *shames men that buys sex from sex workers. The only appropriate thing to do is hand women cash in their hands for literally nothing.
Most women don't want to be married, they just want marriage on their resume. It's the ultimate way of saying their womanhood is worthy. You hear women say things like "I'd like to be married by age 30" and there is no boyfriend in sight. They don't want the man they just want the princess party and the title to add to their social media pages.
She'll be target practice for the rest of her years. This is why men should be extremely careful about entertaining women long term these days. OLD has put the carousel at hyper speed and women are taking full advantage of it and damaging themselves at alarming rates.
In a man's mind it's you didn't like me..we didn't click so no harm no foul. In a woman's mind it's how dare he not let me use him for attention even though I know good and well that nothing will ever happen between us.
Pretty much. She's been in a long relationship for awhile and is bored and is looking for orbiters. Those pics have probably traveled around the 4G network by now and flashed across a few phone screens. Sending nudes means nothing to women. She gets to have someone fawning over her telling her how hot she is. It's basically fish bait to keep you on the line playing truth or dare with her throughout the night. It's almost as if you're half of a boyfriend....a girlfriend even. Now if she let's you…
It's funny that for years women expected men to hold up their end of the bargains in the fairy tale role but they themselves were never as fair and pure as the maiden. Shit I'm willing to bet that it was the same way back in the day when those tales were actually made.
Back story: She has one of those relationship channels on YouTube with her boyfriend where they record and post everything they do. Someone leaked a sextape of her getting fucked by multiple men at the same time. The boyfriend does the right thing and leaves her. The Hamster is spinning and she is heartbroken.
You know you're desperate when you have to demand dates. I'd bet my bottom dollar that she's never been on a real date that includes courtship but she has had many a "netflix and chill's".
Oh fuck off lady. She is a fat black woman desperately trying to date "traditionally attractive white men" (her words). You can't force attraction. Just like they have opinions so do you.
She still wants the perks of being your girlfriend without actually having to have sex with you and all while she sees other people. Be sad for a moment and walk away from the situation as if it never existed is the best way to get over this. It's cliche but lift and spin plates.
Where are these tattooed with piercings stable and wealthy over 6ft men at? I think that is a fantasy built from the movies that women have plastered in their minds that simply don't exist in volume. Let alone the ones that go for 40+ year old women...The hamster is dangerous.
What does a person like her deserve? Honestly. Society has told women they're entitled to the absolute best even though they're ridden with mental health problems, social anxiety, and another man's kid. And I haven't even gone to her physical attraction. Once again princess treatment has done women a nasty disservice.
This is the third time this week that I've heard of a single mother trying to get a man to "officially adopt" her kids. Being married isn't good enough they want that permanent child support.
What makes her think she deserves a decent man when she isn't a decent woman? A decent woman is one who doesn't come equipped with a ready made family.
It's sad that men have finally awakened to being used and some of us still fight to protect the matrix. I understand the biological urge but jesus christ nobody wants to be used.
I know Tyrone is the boogeyman around here, but I'd bet dollars to donuts that a black chick posted this and she's talking about making the switch to white guys. Af/bb.
The cockiness of women on dating sites are staggering. Once upon a time a woman would die before she told you her weight or even an amount around the ball park, but now they're telling you their weight and daring you to not message them. They simply can never be considered unattractive when the hamster will spin every negative into a positive.
She goes to the gun range in her skankiest shorts hoping that some asshole pick up truck driver hits on her. She probably pretends to love country music as well just to appease them. I also love how the last part tells any man willing to take her and kid on will be second or perhaps even third best because you know, the :/ bad boys.
I had empathy for her but that last line was infuriating and screamed entitlement. If you don't have kids of your own go far and beyond for her and her kids?
Askwomen is full of women...no problem right? But Askmen is full of.....women. I mean I literally seen women on there giving men advice on how to grow beards.
Wow. Her entire youtube channel is sad. All of the videos are about finding a man. I would almost feel bad for her if it wasn't for all of the entitlement and video titles speaking in the third person and about what she deserves and absolutely none about what she herself can offer.
Even if all of this were true it's negated by the simple fact that she has children with another person. Men want to start their own legacy and spend their time watering that seed not another man's plant.
Jesus. These post wall women are like old boxers. They are always the last ones to know it's time to hang it up. I almost pity their lack of self awareness.
Are you serious? Drown her. I'd do it just for the life experience. Your princess has done plenty of disgusting things..dont worry about her stories and count...shes giving you a tale of your own..take it.
Lol I think it's the boogeyman in your minds...for every one commercial featuring a white woman with a male of a different race it's probably 20 featuring a white male and a white female. Literally a drop in the bucket bro.
It's extremely rare that women let this kind of slip up happen. Either this is a glitch in the matrix or they are running to the endzone high stepping with their hypergamy not giving a fuck who sees.
You're pissed at the mere disrespect of it. When dealing with women you have to set your ego aside because the flake is inevitable. You gave her that sweet gooey validation that women crave now she doesn't need you anymore. Don't go messaging her to death because now you're just putting attention cherry on top making her feel even better about herself. Treat the flake as if it doesn't bother you.
If you are bold enough and depending on how plugged in this guy is get him rollos the rationale male book as a wedding gift. He may thank you or it may fracture your relationship. I think every living male that has had any contact at all with women can find something in that book that they can relate to.
If you're overreacting or not it sounds like this is your deal breaker. Texting another man is shitty. Break it off. It's only going to keep pissing you off in the long run until it ends ugly.
And yet none of them are nowhere near the chad she has pictured in her mind. Women watch too much tv and think that these million dollar a year making 6'4 muscle bound alphas exist.
That's his aunt though. I mean unless he isn't trying to plate her (You aren't are you???? Right?..right???!!!!) There shouldn't be any harm there. Not saying that she can't hurt the guy in some way but hard nexting a female family member that hasn't previously done anything out of character to you is a bit harsh.
Is it childish of her? Yes. Very. But the saying around here is women are child like. Tease her about it. Next time she brings him up say something like "awww you have a crush are you going to marry him". Show that her obsession doesn't phase you. Do this for every male she shows interest in. If she says she finds so and so attractive you sarcastically say "Yeah I'd hit it". Don't mate guard.
You see a lot instagram attention seekers in scrubs for what it's worth...but women constantly cheat at work...if your girl is going to cheat I'm willing to bet that it's a co-worker 80% of the time...she can have a PhD or flip burgers at Wendy's..if she's bored those legs will open.
Women step out for two reasons. She is no longer attracted to you. She is bored. Women will put all of the blame in one reason. Him. Don't let her hamster you into a monster because she decided to move on and needs a scapegoat instead of just owning up to her real feelings.
I can't believe how many of these post are made daily...women are not toddlers..they know that male and female friendships are bullshit...he is either an orbiter or he is fucking
From someone who has done it multiple times...dont It's easy yes and down right lazy to be truthful...its like shooting fish in a drinking glass but it never ends well.
Approach brown girls...a lot of brown guys are usually talking about white women when they make post like these...stop placing white women so far up on the pussystal that you'd do anything to smell their farts
It wasn't your father's fault that you had this mentality. You would have been like this anyway to some degree because it's what we've all been taught subconsciously.
Been doing it the last 4 months..she recently ended it..shes getting married in the summer. She's committed to him not you...but also be prepared for whatever situation comes your way and own it.
Slap the shit out of yourself op...of course you should not give it another shot...let those 3 months turn to 6 months and that into a year and that into another year all while you're spinning plates and she'll become a distant memory.
It doesn't matter if your boundary was sealed air tight from the moment you met her. I don't think any woman that is used to getting social media attention will delete it for you. She will "cut back" or lie and say she deleted it or she will create a faceless slut page where she post nudes if she haven't already done so. Women care more about their social media pages and followers than their relationships.
If she isn't responding to you then yes she is a lost cause. You have to move on. It seems as if you're making women your focus when you should be making self improvement the goal. An abundant mentality isn't exclusive to women. You need an abundant lifestyle. It's a slim chance you will be sticking your dick into her ass ever again and that shouldn't bother you because we all know the old adage we don't own them we simply rent them. Sometimes it's hard for our minds to come to grips with it but…
A lot trpers won't admit it but rap is as red pill as it gets...they want to criticize it but it speaks red pill truths...it confuses the hell out of them
That's not good...and she used the "if you were secure" line to shame you...move on..this is not a good situation to be in Talk to one of your ex and text her constantly..see how secure she is
how many times have you heard women say "i want to be married by 30" there is never a specific man involved but they just know that somehow they want it by age 30...the marriage is the goal the man attached to it is expendable
If you both were to claim exclusivity today she still would look at her dating profile for the attention and to see if she can get something better. Like someone mentioned her hypergamy is running like a well oiled machine. Stop focusing and using all of your firepower on her. Spin some plates.
Is either of the girls fucking you or not? If yes shrug it off who cares and don't engage. If no don't talk to either of them from this moment forward.
I'm sorry man I can't continue this no longer. I thought you read my sarcasm but you didn't. I was trying to be a wise ass by making fun of the Trump love fest around here. Great post by the way lol.
Dread dread dread. Dread by lift, dread by hobby, dread by being distant, dread by constantly improving. Dread. Or should we call it simply being better for your own well being. Not hers. Not the relationship. But yours. Be selfish.
She's in purgatory. Not good looking enough or young enough to get the chadster that she desires and also can't get wet enough for beta bucks...this is the dilemma of 90% of single women slamming into the wall. She's going to be that cat lady rather you like it or not. Women are taught not to "settle" and even if she does "settle" she will be miserable with her bb. Just let her get the occasional pump and dump while she can as long as she can. I think her type will be happier with that than "set…
Nothing will happen when she gets too old. She will chase her youth and continue to do the same things she's been doing since her teens. The cast will just get weaker.
I'm finally convinced that you can be born a different gender because of this story. Only a woman's logic can hamster why they themselves can have a preference and the person they desire cannot.
TRP tells men that you are what you attract and if you want to attract better you must become better. Polite society does no such thing for women. Society tells women that even though you are 15 years beyond your prime or overweight or just flat out undesirable that your 6'12 24pack abs having bad boy surgeon is still around for you. I'm stroking with a broad brush but you're probably gonna have to humble yourself in the dating scene. You will have suitors just not the kind that you probably thi…
I think bodyweight training will get most around here the bodies that they are looking for. A combination of both. Squats and deads combined with startbodyweight would give you a muscular frame and low body fat percentage.
she will find someone else and they may or may not be better...he may have an 18 inch penis or an eighth of an inch penis..but she will find someone else just enjoy your turn
Damn. We really are the true romantics. Men truly want the disney love story and live happily ever after with their one. The second line in the op really makes me pity him because it will never happen but he still has hope.
Some of you take this crusade against sjw's way too far on TRP. It's kind of weird. Take a deep breath and step the fuck away from the social media for a week or two.
One sided my ass...she didn't give him her number or take his for nothing. Women aren't toddlers they know that male female friendships are bullshit. She either wants him or wants his validation.
You're not going to get test tube stations and beakers about this shit. Most of it is social society. Women aren't going to volunteer themselves to prove that they like being shitted on for the sake of awalt.
Asking a woman to shutdown guys giving her validation is like asking a dog to not eat the medium rare perfect steak placed on a plate right in front of him Edit: a word
I never knew how hard it is for Indian guys until I swallowed the pill Indian guys place too much value on white women I believe. I went to school with an Indian dude that damn near cornered the market on Latinas.
i think some of you are taking this too serious...more than likely OP knew that LMR was a shit test..he just wanted to call her on the bullshit as he said this isn't a 23 year old thirsty for a piece of ass...OP stated that he is almost 50...at least see the satire in it and besides that he proved that he could walk away from a woman with her legs opened for him...you little dumb mother fuckers
In this day nudes and digital validation someone has definitely seen those pictures. Women send their husbands or ltr boyfriends the same nudes they send their Chad's. At the very least she has a faceless social media page or other site where she has uploaded the pictures. The likes and comments are plentiful. Women don’t waste nudes.
this is why having a female in male spaces is extremely dangerous for the males and nothing but beneficial for the female she gets to feel like the belle of the ball because she is the only one around with a vagina where in any other group made up of more than one woman she would be far down the totem pole...add in thirsty male attention and her validation meter is off the chart and the below average princess can be as shitty as she please while all of this fuckery is happening it's only going t…
if it wasn't a bigger cock it'd be a bigger hands, or a bigger car, or it's not cheating if he's of a different race, or it's not cheating if other man ever owned a dog that's just how the hamster works...it will spin up any reason to give itself the green light
i hear ya...that's when you have to find things to fill up the time and replace one addiction with another you have some serious illnesses going on and to add porn to that is not good at all...porn addiction in it's self is a complete monster
We can't blame him though. We've all been blue before...some shades darker than others but blue nonetheless. Some of us are still fighting to fully unplug. I have enough sympathy for the guy that the best he think he can do is a former heroin addict who's had more men than she can count.
"Maybe you still have a chance you never know " Because I'm sure she is so special. She wants to string you along for her own ego. Don't eat your own vomit.
Not to shit on your motivation but you have to cut both porn and masturbation. At least for your first 90 days around. It's easy to bowl a 300 with the bumpers on. Also recovering from porn is a marathon not a 40 yard dash. Once again not to discredit your counter but 20 something days is just the beginning and you feel invincible right now. But those urges are always lurking. Remember when the motivation wears off discipline is more important. Reboot well friends.
Some of those comments are mind blowing. One woman says she's torn on this one.....the op has stomped her with his post....it's literally 50/50 in her eyes if he is at fault for this or not.
Yes. Women always rewrite history. I once had a chick do the typical no response after I tried to confirm a date. She didn't respond until the next day a few hours before the date. Blue pill me didn't know any better but now red pill me knows I got better dealed and recycled once better deal plans fell through. By then I made other plans and went out with friends. I responded to her a little deeper into the night that "sorry I made other plans we'll catch up later". So the next day she tells the…
Move. You're a black man in a rural community with a white wife with a known hate group in the area. It will not end well and you will not change their views. I know saying that you don't think about race and all that good stuff is going to get you a lot up votes by TRP but race matters to those men and their organization. Lacing up your boot straps and "not playing the race card" is going to harm you and your family. Get out of there.
So wait a minute...she said that she doesn't get butterflies from you but she was sad that you moved on so quick and that you never loved her? I know it's easier said than done but don't let this chick play with your emotions...radio silence harrrrrrd next And she behaves like this because awalt
I never enjoyed fiction even as a kid. But I want to expand my libary because other than a few coffee table books everything literature I own is self help. I read three game of thrones books which is a huge accomplishment for me since they're 1000 page long books and every fiction book I've tried to read I never finished. Any suggestions?
While you were constantly texting her and trying to get her back she was showing her friends and whatever guy she was fucking at the time and laughing at you. Never boost a woman’s ego like that again.
Read redpillwomen some time it's kinda funny. They even use the terminology that we do. I was reading a post one about monk mode..tears rolled down my cheek
Trp 101. The feminine imperative will always look out for themselves. That includes beta males. I think it was ross jefferies who said it's easy being a slut but hard being a man whore since you have actually be attractive and have status. Women simply have to turn on their cell phones to be sluts.
They are natural plate spinners. All men must know this. They collect plates in any way shape or form. Also women never completely give up their exes. You should always assume that she still has some type of contact with her exes. Be it just texting or fucking.
If you handed her a gun and told her to kill herself for the ride do you think she would've done it? She is a grown woman I'm assuming. She could've walked away from the offer.
Meh...sports fan here...die hard Chicago Bears fan in particular..if you don't like sports that's cool...if you like sports that's cool People like different shit
This pretty much. A lot of women say they like chubby guys or some other body type other than the traditional muscular type that women have liked for centuries but listen to them talk about that celebrity that they fawn over and click on their follow list on social media. Once again gents watch their actions and ignore their voices.
g in beta attraction and then kicking in the balls is not nice. Sure, better than orbiting forever but there's still room for improvement. the thing is though they might not even have gotten the lesson
I've been reading red pill about as long as you op and I struggle going back and forth as well. On one hand I get that a fish doesn't know it's swimming in water but on the other hand I'm like they must know what they're doing to some degree. I really believe the former is true but it's still hard to swallow.
Sounds like an Oneitis. As rollo tomassai says what's the medium? Close the validation atm machine. Focus on your other plates and let her smash go crashing to the ground and shatter in a million pieces.
Don't overtly mention women while you're with another woman. Text another plate while you are with her and occasionally answer the text. Let her hear those text sounds go off and it will be the soundtrack to her competition anxiety montage.
THIS. Older women are not mature at all these days. You have women in their late 30s that are just as obsessed with social media as you'd expect a teenager to be.
You're heading towards what sounds like a really bad Oneitis after a short 3 months...we've all been through it. But I agree with the comment above. 3 kids and a decade older is not something you want to hitch your wagon to.
She’s not walking out of your life unless you’re crushed. They never walk out if you’re indifferent on the couch. If you go “goodbye, nice talking to you, I love you but you have to live your life” That bitch will not take a step. Trust me. fucking this
You can be a scholar...you just have to be a jerk dick head scholar You have tease her playfully and be moody enough to not scare her away but draw her in
Yeah that's true..but in this day and age of attention whoring and vanity most women have pre-stocked nudes hiding their face or any incriminating evidence that they are ready and willing to show for validation...they post them on social media and send them to their plates
Funny..It's not hard for a woman even in the wall phase to get plates...hell even if she busted through the wall years ago like the kool aid man she can still get plates.
I had a long conversation with a female coworker yesterday. I've seen her a lot but we never spoke at length. The only things I know about her is that she got caught tongue kissing another male coworker by the bathroom and her husband picks her up everyday. During our conversation all she spoke of was her kids and husband. She had the makings of a unicorn. All I could think of was AWALT.
Are you chasing white women only? A lot of Indian guys around here seem to put white vagina at premium. I've seen a Indian guy I grew up around game Latinas hard. Short Indian guy who had aloofness down perfect.
Don't masturbate period would help you get to a lot of these goals. Work on dropping porn from your life all together. Edit: Also don't try to do so much in a day. Work on a few things a week. Bull rushing goals will burn you out.
I think because a lot of it is "aha" moments When I first read the rational male, illimitablemen, and the side bar I been through a lot of what was written and recognized it immediately. To see it put into words and have an actual solution for all of it was refreshing.
Like another poster said women get secure in relationships. They become comfortable and sloppy. Watch that sex drive rise when you flirt with other women in front of her or disappear randomly for a few hours.
I forgot who said it but "women love their children like men love women." Something along those lines. The same way that men idealize their love for women no matter what kind of human beings they are women idealize their love for their kids no matter how bratty they are.
You answered your own question. Women are selfish. They feel empathy but when it comes to their needs and emotion they feel all of that goes out the window and they only feel empathy for themselves.
I've had a 36 yo. Plate literally force nudes on me. I've seen women in their late 30s and early 40s post nudes on social media. It's not an age thing it's a validation thing. Attention is like heroin to women of any demographic.
Women flake all the time. There is no flake proof plan. If you're spinning plates make multiple dates on the same night or simply call up other plates to set something up.
Self improvement. It's hard to get going I am starting off myself. You say you are half assing lifting but I think that is the best place to start because it gives you a boost. Lifting and nutrition is a good first step. I personally think calisthenics is better than lifting because you burn a lot more fat.
the men she wanted to talk her up aren't doing it so she's taking it out on the poor nerds they are so transparent it's sickening..sad thing is i don't even think they know what they're doing