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Jesus how can you be that broke and want to date? You're telling me you'd rather try hard and spend a huge amount of time talking to 100 women in person and get 99 rejections to maybe get laid once, burn through your social circle when word gets around, instead of taking some photos and having dozens of dates from dating apps with women who ALREADY find you attractive? If it works for you, keep it up lol.
/r/seduction28/07/22 07:43 PM
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Lol that's fucking bullshit. Why would extremely hot men be worse at sex or have boring personalities? If anything, being hot means sleeping with a lot more women and getting much better at sex. Also, hot men get invited to all parties and social events, everybody wants to be around them so it's hard to be boring in that position.
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:24 PM
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Lol what in the fuck, so you're telling me you look like a male model but you can't afford to spend £100 on 5 tinder photos with a photographer? LOL!
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:17 PM
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Lol, that's such a dumb attitude. Basically work 5x as hard for 1/2 the reward instead of moving somewhere where you work 1/2 as hard and get 5x the reward. I could say it's also your "job" to be smart and set yourself up for success.
/r/seduction21/07/22 06:31 AM
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Lol indeed. How the hell are these people so oblivious?
/r/seduction05/07/22 05:36 PM
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Just be stupid bro, this is the way to a woman's heart 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 08:55 AM
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Let me bring my healing crystals real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:33 PM
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That's a nice story, tell that to famous people who have busses of hot women waiting for them to have sex with them or tell it to the women throwing themselves at sports stars or rock stars. Or The Beatles, now that's an example of supreme masculinty and sex appeal isn't it? Apprently they didn't get the memo that they should be having sex with cringey try hard "game masters" who treat women like a second job and worry about "frame" instead of high status men. Whenever I encounter the red pill, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:08 AM
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Personality is next to irrelevant. Most people are pretty normal, it's very rare to meet very cringey people and attractiveness is like anti bodies against awkwardness. Cringey handsome = interesting, unpredictable, "confident" in himself, different, non conformist, daring. Cringey ugly = weird, creepy, awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:16 AM
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Average men picking up average women with a lot of effort? Sure. I'd much rather be good looking than a jester any day of the week though. I almost never see hot women with average men. It's FAR more common the other way around, at least in the south of England.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:12 AM
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Never. I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:34 PM
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Pointless discussion, humans are also killers. 1/3 people used to die to violence at some point. Humans are whatever allows them to thrive all things considered. Polygamous societies have major league downsides and they usually degenerate into violence and chaos. It's not fun watching brad pitt fuck 1000 women a year with 0 effort realizing you'll never even get a girlfriend. Monogamy is FAR more sustainable for the vast majority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:32 PM
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It depends why you can't have it tho. If a homeless person doesn't wanna give me a beer can I'm not gonna obseessively think about him/her all week and go back begging for the beer can.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:28 PM
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Assuming that "skills" is an actual thing and not looks and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:26 PM
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The number of dates is worthless. You can meet women who are shy and scared and soaking wet for you who will be extremely fun 10-20 dates in when they feel comfortable to have sex. You can also meet women who have sex with you ok the first date but they're not that much into it, it's just slightly better than a vibrator and they don't want to see you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 03:34 AM
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Yeah no, without sex we're just friends. And I got lots of friends, what I'm looking for in a relationship is attraction, passion, sex and a deeper level of cooperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 03:25 AM
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LOL absolutely not, I hate the idea of working for sex. Either she finds me attractive or she doesn't. I like easy, no effort, no drama dates and relationships on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 03:13 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 02:34 AM
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Yes but that's exactly my point. If you're good looking/high status there's no way lower status women will pass you up because you don't meet some measure or "masculinity". Sodtware engineers or any other type or "sillicon valley nerds" are rarely gonna be autistic anti social dorks. They'll more often be average men with very high status. Some even very attractive men with very high status. Look at the very recent Blizzard Entertainment scandal and their "frat boy parties". In general, I find t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 02:31 AM
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I laughed hard at this. Imagine paying 1.5k-2k on rent for a 1 bed flat close to central London + another 1k for everything else in that post with a barrista job. LOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 02:07 AM
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Bullshit, "game" is completely worthless compared to the energy you put into it. "Game" is a try hard faking his status with various degree of success by putting effort into it. Where a high status man is high status at all times, with low effort. Same with looks - low effort, a mountain of results.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:45 AM
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Absolutely not, women can't sense shit. The hottest women I dated was when I was very insecure and felt almost retarded because or how nervous I was. Looks and status. Every time. Luck/numbers game is obviously also a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:34 AM
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Lol this is completely delusional. These women would absolutely love these silicone valley "nerds", "masculinity" as you put it is pretty worthless as long as you're not an autistic weird bumbling fool, which most people aren't. It's all about looks and status. Or at least 90% of it is looks and status. I'm a software engineer in UK(eastern european to boot) and low-income or low-education women absolutely love me, and I meet some of them mostly for sex and the occasional dates - I'm very nice t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:31 AM
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Women use a fuckton of fakery so it's hard to tell. Between makeup, pushup bras and ultra tight pants that make chubby women look like curvy hourglass godesses, it's hard to tell. Here in the UK I know for a fact that I see quite a lot of unattractive/unfeminine women with fairly attractive men. Also the super attractive women are always accompanied by some omega chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 11:10 PM
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Would you decline a job because they're paying you too much? Would you turn down food because it tastes too good? Would you sleep on the floor because the beed feels too comfortable?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:45 PM
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Are you seriously saying that a woman will date fat ugly guy instesd of a 6'4 intelligent model because... he'll do the dishes? LOL. If anything, the fact that women do most of the housework and parenting shows that they don't care that they have to do it if they're dating an attractive successful man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:57 AM
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The only advamtage he'll have is getting killed or beat up 10x faster than the shy guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:53 AM
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Game is a bunch of nonsense, playing the numbers game 2x than you're currently doing is worth more than 10000 game books or videos combined. The idea that after 800.000 years of evolution through sexual selection I need some bald guy on youtube to sell me a £4.999 course on how to talk to women ia frankly ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:51 AM
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No, high status is high status.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:47 AM
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This is a sexual species so it would be strange for women not to like sex. Weather they cheat on you or break up depends on the woman and the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:20 PM
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I've never seen a man with food in his beard so you must be one very lucky lady. It sounds to me like I just gotta take a shower and wear a new t shirt and I should be good to go dating a couple of victoria's secret models at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:17 PM
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No. I can't imagine not dating a woman because I like ping pong and she likes swimming. That's quite ridiculous. Physical attraction and similar vibe to mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:09 PM
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TRP is overrated cult nonsense for the most part. A mix of looks and status has always been the way to get women, nothing special there. On the other hand all the pills have too much "religiosity" around them and too much Deepak Chopra style of nonsense. I find the idea that men like assholes completely stupid. The hottest women I ever dated, I dated when I was completely clueless with women and very very nice. Looks and status trump everything, personality and behaviour are quite irrelevant sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 11:07 PM
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It depends on the demeanor. Some people are stranger or have a more passive aggressive style of talking which can put you on edge. They seem like they might snap at any moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:59 PM
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It doesn't, this is no proof of anything. A 5'1 skinny guy will never win against a 6'7 strongman competitor no matter what their personalities are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:58 PM
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Doesn't really matter. 66% hot, 33% nice and similar to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:56 PM
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So, 80% of men then. Personality is useless, most people are pretty normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:53 PM
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Wrong, having perfect skin for example would make a huge difference for men, just like it does for women. Also, covering up dark under eye bags, or using shading to make cheekbones or jaw more angular and defined would.make a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:44 PM
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Whatever looks high status for the environment that you're in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:42 PM
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Pretty much this. Men who invest a lot of anything - effort, time, money, affection into women who don't give a fuck about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:41 PM
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"Some men". Some women shoot porn movies with horses and dogs. Doesn't mean anything. You can't be seriously thinking that women don't date the majority of men because they didn't take a shower. What's more likely, that the vast majority of men are disgusting human beings that live like Gollum, or that sexual selection is relative and people pick from the top down? Is it more likely you're a very unique and different snowflake or that you like mostly the same things that other men/women do? Let'…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:34 PM
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That's quite delusional. It's impossible for 100% of men to date hot women for free. Never happened, never ever gonna happen since sexual selection is relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:12 PM
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Isn't the problem with this that the men are also just as obese, so there are few hot and fit men around as well? Everything is relative. The winning scenario only shows up when there's a big imbalance. For example, if 70% of women were obese and 70% of men were fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:11 PM
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The problem with what you wrote is that it fits 80-90% of people. I mean really, cooking and bathing? I don't know 1 single person who can't throw some potatoes in the oven or who hasn't taken a shower in weeks. There's no way selection can be that loose. If this type of view was accurate, all women would date the first man that they met on the street. Maybe the second man once in a while. And we're not that individual, people are extremely similar in most regards, the differences are tiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:02 PM
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But do you think dating is random? Do you date completely random men? If we assume it's not random, then there's something you can measure and quantify. Just because we suck at measuring, it doesn't mean people are magical, mystical beings msde of fairy dust who fall in love for myserious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 09:59 PM
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Forget the woowoo garbage and be more like a scientist. Alpha/beta is pure nonsense, your behaviour changes with your environment. If you're high status and good looking you'll have no problem with women. Trying to fake it is never gonna be sustainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 09:08 PM
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Well, fundamentally it doesn't matter who tries harder or who makes what improvements. Sexual selection is relative, so in free societies the men in the bottom half(botom 80% whatever) will always struggle with women. There's absolutely no way around this. If every man made £5 million a week and took 50 showers and 100 haircuts a day, women would go after the men that make £50 million a week and take 500 showers and 1000 haircuts a day. Rather than try harder, you gotta figure out what genetic o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:14 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 10:41 PM
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So then you must have some mystical inner magical "confidence" that reaches out through a wormhole on yhe other side of the screen and fills the woman with your powerful masculinity. That's the only logical explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 10:16 PM
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Pretty much my immediate reaction, reading something like this is always painful. Giving dog treats to men for slaving away.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 11:27 PM
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What proof are you asking for, this is literally human nature. There's an endless amount of proof for things like hedonic adaptation, the fact that it's always been a minority of men getting all the women, we even have twice as many female ancestors as male. This isn't even up for debate. And you don't have to be a genius to understand that everyone wants the best possible partner they can get, according to the supply and demand around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:08 PM
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My claim here is that if every man got in great physical shape, there would still be the same percentage of men struggling with women, since women would just go for the men in the BEST shape. Yes, if you workout a lot and end up being a 35yo super fit man when everyone else got fat around you, you'll do better with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 12:50 PM
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That basically discounts the entirety of sexual selection. Never happened. Never gonna happen. Not before some SERIOUS genetic editing anyway.
/r/MGTOW203/07/21 11:44 PM
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It's pretty obvious, having all the women mate with only the top few men means the best genes keep getting passed on and the species as a whole improves.
/r/MGTOW203/07/21 11:42 PM
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You just gotta be a 6'4 multiple six figures earning chad who's a friend of a friend of hers, and be willing to fully commit to her for life. You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 11:01 PM
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This is actually much rarer than you think. I get a LOT of women who really like my looks only to say something like "wish you were 10 years older... you're just TOO young!"(31)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 10:54 PM
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Just pointing out that this is true by definition, since the comparison is always relative. If every man was 6ft+, all the women would chase after the 6'6 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 10:29 PM
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To be honest this is very easily fixed by having self respect, as well as being willing to walk away. If a woman doesn't respect you, talk about it. If she gaslights, just leave and get a new girlfriend. It's that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 01:48 PM
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I think that there's too much fixation on women here and people tend to severely overestimate how much women love "bad/rude" men. I've had plenty of women say that I'm "sooo bad" with them or "macho" and it made 0 sense to me, it was just silly jokes and banter. People have a very easy tendency to call men assholes when they're just having some fun and making stupid/sexual jokes with women who are into them. Also, think of your average 20-25yo man, what's gonna catch his eye more, a shy libraria…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:46 AM
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This is quite accurate, average men who were constantly rejected by average women, at one point might end up being way above average men. But at this point they won't date average women anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:39 AM
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Very much this, the cringe levels are off the charts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:26 AM
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It depends on how you define "hypergamy", I think it's more straightforward than that, once you know how good it can get, you just get somewhat desensitized/used to that standard and it's hard to go back. I personally also think this is much more of a contribution to women's sky high standards than any hypergamy drive per se.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 07:46 PM
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It's not just casual sex and it's not about average or not. You can end up having quite a few 1-2-3 year relationships by the time you're a 30yo man, and they might have all been average or below average but they had one very strong feature. Over time you build up more of a "bank" of features that you love in a woman, and it will be hard to find a woman that has all of those at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 06:04 PM
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I think you're wrong, many sexual partners will make men much more desensitized too. you date Jenny who has huge tits that you love to motorboat you date Andrea who does squats 5 times a week and has a tiny waist and thick ass you date Alexa who has an oral fixation and loves deepthroating ... etc. After a while, your average woman is just kind of underwhelming in at least a few areas and you always have flashbacks to how one of these other women used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 05:44 PM
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To be honest I think men have no problem with women saying they wanna fuck hot chads or date rich men or any of this stuff. What's absolutely infuriating is when you constantly hear that "you just need cOnfiDeNcE" or "you just gotta make me laugh" or "I don't care where you work" type of bullshit virtual signaling. Personally it drives me crazy when I hear/read these things, because I know what an astronomical impact changing my looks has when it comes to dating women, and how little personality…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 05:16 PM
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Yeah but... they're also fucking 50! What do you even do at that age, do you really want to have kids or start a family at 50? Might as well not bother dating and just rent a 20yo sugar baby with huge tits for sex and company at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 11:30 AM
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This is delusional, I personally know women who cut men off because they wanted just casual sex and the man wanted a relationship. I think what you're talking about has little to do with gender, when someone gets a much, much hotter man/woman in their life, they will try to monopolize them and turn them into their ideal fantasy boyfriend/girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 09:50 AM
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The problem with your thinking is that while you "had a reasonable amount of attention", a very physically attractive man has had sex with 100x more women, that were more attractive, and required 0 effort on his part except existing. There's a big difference between "I got a girlfriend" and "I got a smoking hot girlfriend that wants rough sex 3 times a day and treats me like her god without asking for anything in return, and if she left me I'd find another in 5 minutes".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 01:44 PM
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Personality doesn't matter at all in the practical sense. It doesn't mean that I'd date a woman with any personality, or that women will marry any asshole. The thing is that personality is completely useless if you're not attractive enough, especially if you want the type of passionate and carefree relationship where a woman has geniune strong desire for you. Sure you can get a girlfriend if you're a good slave or an entertaining jester, but that gets old real fast. If you're not attractive, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 01:33 PM
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It depends on the context and the type of relationship you want to be in. Sure, women can find men with dad bods attractive for other reasons, but it depends in what situation you want to find yourself in. 1. Very physically attractive man Stay in shorts on your couch and have dozens of women come to your house for sex every year. At worst go on some half an hour dates to the local coffee shop/pub if they're scared to come to your house because you might be a catfish. If you're a normal human be…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 12:07 PM
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I "care" because it's an interesting topic and I wanna know more about the thinking behind it and how it's supposed to work. I also find many, many women on online dating trying to pull this thing where they suddenly want this high value man that does everything on her terms and waits for sex like a good dog, and I always wonder why would a high value man do that to himself? Does that even work out for these women? "Men gotta step up their game" - why? How are women stepping up? Are they sexier,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 02:29 PM
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What does this mean "don't get used"? If a woman is having sex with a man, she's having sex because she wants to have sex. Is sex a reward for being a good boy/good dog/good slave? 3x candle lit dinners for 1 hour of sex? This in my mind exemplifies why waiting on a woman to have sex with you is never EVER worth the wait, because these women who make you wait treat it like a reward or currency and you have to "work" for it like a wage slave getting your salary at the end of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 02:05 PM
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But this is exactly where the problem lies here. If a man is attractive, well-off, high status etc. then it's pure insanity to commit to a woman, especially one that makes you wait and beg for sex and treats it like a reward. It's very humiliating to have to jump through hoops to get sex and affection. What are you a dog? Horse? What do you get out of this "relationship" that you're not getting out of it? If you are such a HVM you can always find women for company and affection, you can always f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:57 PM
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But this is exactly the thing, you're comparing two very attractive actors, I'd argue that's really just one league, the very attractive league. The variation there isn't between leagues. It's in the same way that I prefer latinas with very dark features and quite voluptous, and my friend prefers thin european blondes, but the reality is that both our ideal preferences would be in the "smoking hot" category, it's just a different variation of smoking hot. I do think that it's definitely possible…
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 07:46 AM
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Being a "beta orbiter" isn't about having female friends. It's about having sexual desire for a woman who keeps you at arm's length and exploits that desire with 0 chance of it ever going somewhere. I know plenty of women who tease and flirt and lead men on, but when the men get any ideas they say "we're just friends". This is the situation you don't wanna be in, if a woman is your friend, you make it a hard rule that you'll never EVER have sex with this woman even if she begs on her knees. Then…
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 07:29 AM
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This type of thing is why men turn to the red pill and find women very unreliable and untrustworthy. Photos of 2 men There is virtually 0% chance that you or any of your friends or any woman on the planet considers the man on the left less attractive than the one on the right. Could the man on the right find some below average looking girlfriend and have a good and fun relationship? Sure. But to say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder is delusional.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 07:20 AM
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Women's logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:46 AM
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This is the thing women are completely delusional about, I laughed so hard at these comments. If I'm at "the finish line" how can I possibly take a given woman seriously anymore when I could just fuck a bunch of random women and not bother investing in them or living with them, since most women here seemingly weren't willing to invest in me when I was young and potentially a loser, with no utility value. Well there's simply no reason to commit to any one woman at that point that I've become a "h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 07:53 AM
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That alpha beta thing is one of the dumbest things around that keeps persisting. It's not a thing for wolves, and it sure as hell isn't a thing for humans. Women want attractive men(looks and status), period. The more success you get in life, the more attractive and vice versa, it's a continuum not a two sided distinction. And yes, the more attractive you are, you can get away with more things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 10:41 AM
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