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Kindness on both sides helps both sides. Laying down and taking abuse doesn’t help anybody. And it sets a bad example for future generations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 04:33 PM
39

I’m three minutes in and this video is amazing so far. I’ve saved this post so I can watch it properly later when I have time. Thank you for posting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 05:27 PM
278

Perhaps because they are all a certain type men on that sub ?? Makes zero sense. Of course she should run. No brainer wtheck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 08:09 AM
131

DAD BOD FOR SURE NO HESITATION THIS GIRL’s got sKiLLzzzzzzz in spotting the boo hooey give me attention
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 11:49 PM
60

Lol 😂 love her !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:06 PM
101

It’s up to us to change this mentality. It’s one thing to work together and compromise but it’s another thing to just marry into a life of servitude or abuse because otherwise … you are threatened with the invisible label and stigma of “spinster!“ Nope. You can be a beautiful Financially independent Woman. You can be kind and do the right thing and expect a high value male, who brings as much to the table as you do at least, to come into your life and make it better not worse. And if that doesn’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:14 PM
6

Thank you for posting this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:07 AM
32

I love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:30 PM
57

Not to mention all the hours a woman would spend trying to get the right angle for her boobs to look bigger or her waist to look smaller or shopping for cute yet cheap slutty outfits that fit her body just right… Or doing her make up or straightening her hair or getting her nails done ... promoting herself on social media... That’s like at least two hours MINIMUM (probably 5) every evening of targeted attention she’s spending where she could be investing that time and energy and money in creatin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:23 PM
157

I agree with this. You don’t see little boys trying to make money pouting into the camera, using their time to market “perfect flawless makeup” thinking that this is a viable way to make money. This is a set of ideas targeted to little naïve girls. And it’s perpetuated by adults and grown women who agree that men are visual creatures and we need to be hot and sexy for them because that’s what the main point of us is. Meanwhile we’re running the company lol, highly intelligent, highly educated, f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:04 PM
10

What a guy. It’s like saying I like your dick’s smoother boys! So you boys got to get to that skin exfoliation clinic at the end of the block and start exfoliating. Try a salt rub. And then manual buffer. Kind of like they have in car washes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:55 PM
55

I totally agree with this. Approach everyone, especially the vulnerable, and we are as women... Yes we are strong and beautiful and capable but we are also vulnerable. Be soft and caring and kind to others. Be kind to other women. We are special. As women let’s not be part of the problem but let’s help other women and support other women because we are in this together. Women need as much support as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:28 PM
15

That you realize this now .. is so valuable. Thanks for posting this. Makes me see I, like you, have gone through this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 05:18 AM
3

😊😂 thank you. I especially liked the gum reference
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:56 PM
15

Lol I honestly have no idea who did that or why. I’m not a “pick me girl” at all. But it’s cute. I like it. It’s a label, which like most, can be inaccurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:04 PM
52

Interesting that you said “visual creature” I had an ex also, who privately and passive aggressively did “admit” to me how manipulative his ex was who also said how “visual” he was. He turned out to be a big narcissist, very selfish and manipulative himself. Where do they get that “visual” rhetoric from ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:11 PM
71

Absolutely yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:50 PM
405

Yes exactly ! That’s why we take our time. That’s why we want to talk. That’s why we wait for things. That’s why we don’t jump right in. Because we have learned the hard way that we need to vet properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:16 PM
94

I agree with this. Why not just play it fair? Value a woman. Why so much fear of women ? Instead of trying to push a woman down so a man can feel “higher” why don’t these men just concentrate on being better people? We can do this the same way good women do it. Educate yourself. Work hard. Treat people with respect. Don’t cheat. Tell the truth. Show loyalty. Be kind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:52 PM
17

Yes he is. 20 years ago this was seen as a virtue
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:16 AM
2

Thank you ! Wow DARVO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 07:53 PM
25

I don’t know many but from those I do know I agree with you 💯 unfortunately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 05:19 AM
20

Maybe because porn is, fundamentally, a skewed disgusting exaggerated “vision“ of sexuality. It’s a sickening series of scenarios that would make a regular human being feel guilty after so it is skewing their sense of “real” sex which impacts their relationships… With everyone. Including their own self respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 02:00 AM
17

A night alone can be as exciting as a date. Get ready, beautify yourself you don’t have to wear inappropriate clothes that you would wear to a club but wear comfortable beautiful well fitted clothes. Wear those clothes for yourself. Put on just a little bit of make up to make you look dropdead gorgeous. Choose your Best most favorite music and play it. Dance like no one‘s watching because… No one‘s watching. Go for a run walks in nature wearing good clothes and new shoes and take deep breath‘s. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:55 AM
29

Yup. That’s how it is. And can’t go back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:48 AM
33

They are addicted. Any human being looking at what these people are watching know it’s a disgusting warped assault on human brains that do nothing positive for healthy relationships long term. After they watch and after they orgasm they, themselves know, honestly, how disgusting it actually is. But they succumb to their dog in heat carnal lust with no self control and then get swept up into a spiral of it and destroy their relationships with quality women; they lose time, energy & money. Their c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:45 AM
40

Be nice… To yourself. Put the oxygen mask on your own mouth before you put it on your little one. Letting someone walk all over your boundaries doesn’t only do a disservice to yourself but spreads and creates hardship for everyone involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:55 AM
12

This is good. Thank you. Things like this are important to see in writing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:44 PM
9

Yes! Loved seeing that. A physical expression of disapproval and non acceptance for everyone to see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:54 AM
3

Preach !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:10 AM
59

Lol showing off trash like a trophy. Smh 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:09 AM
11

She’s a tiger who roars honesty, justice and strength.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:08 AM
21

Excellent reminder. If any person strives to become better, more evolved and less destitute… Their partners should celebrate this strength & foster it. If they don’t then it’s because they want to remain small.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:07 AM
23

Yes. Yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:04 AM
8

Beautiful ideas here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:02 AM
18

What a jackass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:01 AM
138

Thank you for bringing this to our attention
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 08:34 AM
13

Thank you !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:00 AM
11

Yap will also be partaking 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:26 PM
68

Ya me too. Single & disagree. And lady it’s so he can get his “hair cut” lol is this woman loving her relationship with the man she’s paying to be in it? Really ? ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:16 PM
178

Doesn’t sound satirical to me, sounds straight up arrogant, narcissistic & racist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 03:48 PM
101

Shit like this takes common sense as a value out the window.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 12:58 PM
3

What makes it worse is that those of us who love music like he makes… This idea is perpetuated in rap music unfortunately! Being the boss, being strong, being dominating… What needs to change is the idea that a strong man doesn’t need to step all over “weaker” people or women who are essentially… Mothers… Sisters… Friends… Business partners… CEOs… Surgeons… So this antiquated idea of “strength” and power over women… Doesn’t actually bring a man to a more powerful place. Sure if you want to go qu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:39 PM
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He’s a jackass (and I love rap music & have a lot of his lyrics memorized). He wants a humble woman? He should be a humble man lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:23 AM
15

Yes I agree. There is a TIME to be vulnerable and we must give that to those who are actually deserving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:27 PM
23

Thank you for this. For me it’s right on the money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 04:36 PM
2

A few hours of listening to who she’s labeled as sweet and wonderful can save her years of heartache later down the road was my intention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:58 PM
3

She believes still .. that he is “sweet & wonderful”. I’m simply meeting her where she is right now as she’s described in her post. My input was that if she hadn’t yet seen that he is actually NOT sweet yet, she’s still in the stage of believing his initial act. If she keeps listening she’ll understand who he REALLY is deep down and hopefully she can learn a long term lesson and cut them off to move on EARLIER next time. That was my intention- to help her navigate. To understand and learn. Maybe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:57 PM
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If you think he’s sweet and wonderful and then he has also communicated to you that he believes women are evil opportunists and manipulative victims ... this could be a red flag. Because what person would group all people as one way? My only advice to you is to sit down with him for a few hours and listen. Interject a little to keep his dialogue going but listen and listen for hours and hours about him. His beliefs on all topics from work to ex relationships to future dreams and aspirations. Lis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 05:04 PM
70

Thanks for writing this. It’s great to hear examples of high value people & what that looks like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:44 PM
11

Well put 👌🏼you’re right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 11:02 PM
60

A lot of times it’s this game that they play. They know right from wrong. They wouldn’t do it at work. They do it to people they can get away with it by. It’s disappointing when a man who you like does this to you. All you can do is communicate your boundaries and then stick to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 09:26 PM
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Women are different and special and lovely. I guess it’s human nature to want to conform. So we look at magazines and we look at our girlfriends who get their fashion and make up and hair advice from Instagram… Which is one big ad for companies who want to make money. It takes courage and strength for women to express the wide variety of rainbow that we all are. And hopefully one day there will be support for differences. Because differences should be appreciated and seen as strength. Being diff…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 09:00 PM
49

The double standards… Need to stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 08:55 PM
5

But no judgment, right? I have respect for people who are like I’m lazy and I’m on welfare and i’m all taker and zero giver and I admit it. At least that has integrity to it. Yes it’s lazy. Yes it’s irresponsible. So then it’s my choice if I want to build a relationship with a person who makes those types of life decisions or not? To me this is great. It is honest and it is upfront and it makes my job a lot easier because that’s a no brainer… I’m not gonna ever be with a guy like that. She can h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 08:49 PM
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I love this man’s honesty. Yes, finally a man who knows he’s low value and open and honest enough to say that he is low value. And there are women who are also low value; don’t care how they are treated, don’t mind if he’s loyal or not, will pick up after him and don’t expect much in return, will work hard and not expect him to do the same, don’t have a job where they need a man to be of a certain level when they’re at dinner parties or out in social situation… Thank you women who are low value …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:04 PM
3

Yes exactly. It’s the default label, “crazy.” Silly. Well. Not getting what you want when you want it no matter what… Is disappointing. And when so many women for so many years have let men get away with disrespecting them, double standards, unfair treatment ... call her crazy because that’s not what they’re used to. They’re not used to being fair and considerate and kind to the women in their lives like they would perhaps be To their male boss or male supervisor at work. So they call women “cra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:42 PM
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If she goes she is purposely setting herself up as a low value female. It could be that she simply doesn’t know better. All of society has mostly given women the impression that they need to be in a subservient position to satisfy a man, who is higher. What happened to equals? What happened to basic respect for women? What happened to being a high-value female? I hope that one Day she has more respect for herself and doesn’t get suckered into these bad deals. She has literally nothing to gain fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:50 AM
60

When women stop thinking it’s “cute“ or acceptable for a man not to be a proper dignified wonderful man… And instead behave like a toddler… We won’t continue contributing to this problem. Level up ladies, keep your standards high. Communicate your boundaries clearly. Take your boundaries seriously. Don’t allow boundaries to be crossed and follow through with being treated as a priority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:44 AM
44

Lying to yourself, ignoring your gut, Staying when you know it’s not right… Can drive anyone insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:43 AM
15

“Kk” is worse lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 04:17 PM
11

Thank you 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 04:40 AM
18

This is very good and needed. Bad behavior continues because of the people who let it happen and think it’s OK. Understand your own power, strengths, beauty, kindness. Protect yourselves from behavior you know is not right. Treat yourselves the way you would treat someone you loved and respected deeply. Expect that other people treat you that way as well. If they don’t, communicate in a kind mature way. Communicate your boundaries clearly and if they agree then maintain that healthy relationship…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 01:40 AM
10

Lol! Yes. Agreed. I will keep potato with eyes. Before that I had “dragging a dead body across the floor.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 03:01 PM
21

Lol yes. I laugh but .. I feel the exact same way at times. Frustrated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 02:12 PM
139

Always have high standards ladies. Don’t settle for scraps. If you’re getting scraps, move on to the next. Be alone if you have to but don’t take it. You put guys like this back in the water for the rest of us. It’s horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 03:56 AM
14

I totally agree with this. Yes it’s a beautiful thing to have watched our mothers struggle and deal with difficult men and find their way like a blind mole in the dirt digging up into the surface where finally there is more oxygen and some light. But they didn’t have a choice. We have knowledge and we have a choice and we can choose men who are respectful and fair and kind. And if we choose the opposite, we are perpetuating a less than favorable cycle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 05:14 PM
2

You’re welcome, thank you for a great post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 06:36 AM
6

Well said thanks for posting this reminder. It’s important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 11:09 PM
11

You ladies are wonderful 👌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 11:07 PM
3

Of course it’s a double standard. It’s in their best interests to be seen as “reasonable“ or “powerful“ or “competent“… And for us to be seen as “psycho” or “crazy” or “over-emotional” or “irrational”… These are all stories made up by the stronger sex to unfortunately maintain power over “the weaker sex“ The truth is, women are logical, strong, capable, hard-working, sexy and full of love, kindness and generosity. And all people should strive to be that way, male and female. Because we need each…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 11:06 PM
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Come on. How does anybody expect to get something in return when they don’t offer anything of value? And honestly this doesn’t have to be directed at the men only. If a woman thinks it’s OK to have a low value it’s more likely she will end up with a man of low value. Both parties have to bring something to the table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 10:59 PM
28

I think it’s a lack of empathy when someone laughs when they do something inconsiderate or hurtful. And then the same person gets really angry and takes it seriously when the exact same thing, or something similar, has been done to them. I see this a lot. It’s just a joke and it’s funny to a person who’s doing it. And I think maybe we all do this to an extent. Some more than others and I’m not sure it’s conscious. But noticing it in others can help see it in ourselves if we have a good sense of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 10:56 PM
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I think you’ve shown a great example of a man who is dependable, loyal, loving and kind. We need to look out for these things. We need to remind ourselves to not be bitter and hurt because of the things that have happened but to look forward and realize that there are so many different kinds of people out there in the world. And just as we evolve and change and learn, so does the world. If we, from day one, insist on kind generous men then that is more likely to happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 10:39 PM
7

Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 06:09 AM
37

Oh I love this so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 07:34 PM
6

You said it best 👌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:23 AM
16

Lol this twerp’s gonna end up with a pick-me ... who he’ll abuse unfortunately ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:45 AM
32

Magus ? What is this magus code he speaks of ?!? (He thinks he’s a “sorcerer” ?)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:28 AM
3

I took a women’s literature class in University years ago, decades ago. And our gorgeous young professor used bell hooks as one of the female writers we would study. And she was revolutionary back then so the ideas prevail and I’m glad that you’ve spoken about her today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:51 PM
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Be proud of yourself ..that you’ve come to these realizations. Next year I hope that you will not look to any LVM or ZVM or NVM .. To spend any part of your birthday with even ice cream. Next year I hope that you are sitting on a beautiful rooftop in a gorgeous dress, relaxed, with an equal. A HVM or beautiful, smart women who appreciate your value, or simply your high-level self about to dance or eat dinner or have a drink. Be proud of yourself for having standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:34 PM
12

I agree with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:30 PM
12

Awesome story thx for the link. I’m glad I clicked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 05:07 AM
20

Confide in only people you really trust. If you’ve communicated your boundaries and someone keeps stepping over them then it’s your choice whether to allow it. Decide if this is ok. If it isn’t, maybe remove yourself from this relationship and find someone you can trust with private information.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:32 AM
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True. It’s like men assuming that when we were broke we were nicer people. I don’t think I was nicer when I was broke. What does one have to do with the other? Also after a person, male or female, achieves financial independence, now they have a reason to spend money in either a good way or a bad way. So the person who is good before money will probably remain good after financial independence. I’m not talking extreme wealth that corrupts or extreme power that corrupts but just having a lot of m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:04 PM
42

So sad may her soul rest in peace
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:47 PM
11

Ruminating thoughts can be destructive cycle. This is a longshot and it doesn’t work for everyone but for me watching and listening to Eckhart Tolle helped. Also Pema Chondron & Michael Singer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:30 PM
27

This all makes sense. I’m glad you are thinking to distance yourself from friends whose morals you don’t share and whose values you don’t understand. Keep trying please. I hope things work out for you soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 10:00 PM
11

If you stop playing, the game ends for him and he has to face his own life, whatever he’s created for himself. At the same time, so do you. So make your life happy and exciting and rich and wonderful and peaceful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:43 AM
22

Because they get away with it.And they don’t have a conscience. So what’s the penalty? I’m sure even his conversation with you in that text exchange is a game for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:39 PM
0

But do you like drinking Gatorade? I don’t think it’s very healthy, is it?
/r/MGTOW22/06/18 02:45 AM
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I won’t. Sorry that happened to you.
/r/MGTOW21/06/18 01:49 AM
1

Whoa. Easy. I just wanted to know if that was a fact or an opinion?
/r/MGTOW21/06/18 01:45 AM
-1

Is that a fact?
/r/MGTOW21/06/18 01:37 AM
6

That’s a great idea, working towards a better future for everyone.
/r/MGTOW16/06/18 05:07 AM
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*Decent
/r/MGTOW10/06/18 12:27 AM
-8

You’re talking about one woman. Not all women. Move on to the next girl.
/r/MGTOW09/06/18 11:58 PM
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Except all women are not like that. Some women were raised by a very strong, highly intelligent, generous, loving, aware set of parents. And some women were taught by their parents, society & their friends to work hard, struggle and give back to society. Some women are more intelligent and more resourceful than many of the men they meet, who are spoiled, lazy and Mama’s boys.
/r/MGTOW02/06/18 12:02 PM
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Well if you deal with young women who can’t think out of the box or beyond makeup/outfits of the day/their cell phones then yes. Men: choose your equals.
/r/MGTOW02/06/18 11:53 AM
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