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You hook up on the dance floor. Have high energy, be assertive, entertain. Its attraction based, so bar game or day game is a lot easier if you are not hot.
/r/seduction08/07/19 09:13 PM
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A natural is just a confident guy who is social enough to hit the right buttons. Once you are 30+ and you have some experience under your belt, you become a natural. When you earn money and have life experience, you basically never ask yourself questions if you have enough "value" or crap like that. So when you read your summary again, you will notice that a natural is a non mentally retarded grown up. Those who were naturals at a young age just had the luck that they grew up in the right circum…
/r/seduction08/07/19 09:05 PM
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That's bs. Women are interested in status. If they are laughing because you have a high status they may be attracted to you. If they are laughing at you because of your pathetic jokes, they are definitely not attracted to you. Also nobody will laugh their pants off.
/r/seduction14/06/19 12:24 PM
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It's a no brainer.
/r/seduction11/06/19 07:00 AM
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There are no "professionals" dancing on the dancefloor. 90% of the people absolutely can't dance. If you have no confidence take dancing classes. You have better chances to pick up somebody decent there than in a club anyways as a side effect. Regarding club game: stick to the bars and lounges, it's (a lot) easier to pick up somebody there than in a danceclub.
/r/seduction06/06/19 08:19 AM
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I realized that women want sex as much as men. I got my shit together, finished my education, got a job and built my own business. I started taking responsibility and stopped viewing myself as a "boy". I got my mental shit together, faced my fears and started expanding my comfort zone. I became mentally tough and emotionally stable. Nowadays even bad situations rarely scare me. I keep cool even under pressure. I accepted myself, including my flaws and weaknesses. I am rather optimistic, but also…
/r/seduction09/05/19 02:45 PM
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Experienced guy here giving you his 2 cents of advice: 1) look decent but not like a hooker. If you are too attractive you will be perceived as a hooker, golddiger, tryhard or easy. 2) just say hey. It's that easy to start a conversation. You don't need some magic opener, just be normal. 3) carry the conversation if necessary. Most guys have no social skills. They don't get it you like them. Don't give up, just follow up with talking. 4) be touchy. Just as most guys have no social skills, they m…
/r/seduction09/04/19 07:40 AM
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Happened to me 15yrs ago. I was smart enough to realize there is something wrong. It's an old scam, probably as old as the internet.
/r/seduction22/03/19 08:40 AM
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Everywhere, you just don't try.
/r/seduction14/03/19 04:37 PM
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Yes there is a guide, but it's not political correct enough for 2019 so I won't post it publicly. You can pm me if you like.
/r/seduction14/03/19 03:57 PM
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That's what you ASSUME, because you don't try.
/r/seduction14/03/19 03:52 PM
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People in their mid twenties have casual sex all the time.
/r/seduction14/03/19 03:49 PM
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If there are credible studies, you can quote them. Otherwise it is "broscience"
/r/seduction11/02/19 01:11 PM
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Where is the science to back up this infographic? The hardcore approach can be counterproductive to most. You may condition bad behavior due to anxiety.
/r/seduction09/02/19 08:31 PM
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Well, then take classes and you'll learn it.
/r/seduction04/02/19 01:26 PM
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Go to dancing classes, martial arts classes, gymnastics classes. Basically do everything where it is normal to touch somebody because the environment allows it to. You can even touch pets to learn how to do it. This should give you confidence. The next step is to touch a person with the back of your hand on a non sexual spot like their upper arm. And so on. You'll have to do some trial and error, but it works. Be patient and desensitize yourself.
/r/seduction04/02/19 01:12 PM
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Still attractive women look for men they find attractive. They also have to put in effort for such men. It's not one sided. I wasn't talking about validation but game. Validation gets you nowhere.
/r/seduction28/01/19 10:24 PM
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Yes it is possible. However, it is almost impossible to be charming or to flirt when being 100% honest.
/r/seduction28/01/19 04:52 PM
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It seems you do not know what absolutely honest means. Somebody who is honest all the time will be rude at some point. Good luck when you are saying you don't like this or that on her because you are so honest. Strictly speaking even a small lie is a lie, so don't kid yourself.
/r/seduction28/01/19 04:14 PM
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Seduction is persuasion. If you look at nature, each species competes for the ultimate prize of reproduction. Nobody "owes" you sex. Sex isn't free. You have to earn it. It is all about the words you say, the emotions you create and how you present yourself.
/r/seduction28/01/19 03:44 PM
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If you truly want to get laid, then you should use any tactic out there that works. Don't be sleazy, but you have to put in at least some effort to have sex. There is enough information out there. Pick what you like and find out what works best for you. If you want to be nice and always morally correct, that's ok. But then you'll probably start getting laid in your late thirties. The harsh truth is that both men and women lie to some extent to have sex or a relationship. Meaning, women know that…
/r/seduction28/01/19 03:05 PM
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Go to the party and have fun. Maintain a high energy vibe. Be the party. Don't be outcome oriented. Look and feel good. Keep alcohol consumption moderate. Be touchy but not too touchy. It can get you laid without a spoken word. Clubs can be good for hookups, but it is a lot of luck as everybody is wasted and looking for entertainment. Bonus tip: change venues with the same people, go to the after-party. However, people are usually very wasted there, so it may not be what you are looking for.
/r/seduction25/01/19 12:16 PM
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She could be shy Also, your conversational skills may need some work
/r/seduction24/01/19 02:52 PM
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I date multiple women from time to time. And with date I mean have sex with. I see nothing wrong with it and it's the most normal thing in the world. Without social brainwash and guilt tripping much more people would do it. If you would be married with kids, that would be an entire different story. First of all because I see it as a responsibility to be a good parent. Secondly it is a marriage contract (just like a business contract) which you have to value or else there are pretty heavy sanctio…
/r/seduction23/01/19 12:21 PM
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Figure out what your long term goals are. If you want to run a business and have a family and if there are in general significantly more positive things than negative when spending time together, put in more effort into the relationship. Good relationships are more difficult to come by than casual sex. I like to have some rotation, but if I genuinely like somebody I prefer a relationship without any side action. You waste less energy and the relationship has a much better quality. Former pua fro…
/r/seduction22/01/19 03:40 PM
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Lots of couples meet way earlier. You can meet the love of your life at the age of 20. You don't need to wait until you are 35. If you refer to picking up women, after 30 you have less drive for chasing them. The desire decreases. In other words, you become more focused on other things in life. But it is true that women start chasing you. Males are usually most attractive in their mid thirties and later. They are still young and good looking, mentally stable, confident, often financially well of…
/r/seduction17/01/19 03:48 PM
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You need to feel some sort of attraction. If you don't see the person you are interacting with as sexual being, you will have a hard time to project a sexual state. Really ask yourself if you are talking to women that you find sexually attractive, or are this random strangers where you think "whatever". When you feel attraction, it is much easier to build any kind of sexual tension. In a nutshell you need a sensual voice (talk like you are talking to a lover), sensual eye contact, and physical c…
/r/seduction17/01/19 10:06 AM
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Is this even a serious post? It's no surprise guys have become so passive and whiny with such a mindset.
/r/seduction25/12/18 08:17 AM
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Tinder dates are easy lays. Cold approaches require brass balls & skill. Congrats anyways, all that counts is that you had fun.
/r/seduction23/12/18 01:37 PM
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Clubs suck for game. If PUAs refer to clubgame, they are usually talking about bars or lounges, not about a dance club. In a dance club you are reduced to your looks and energy. Hookups are possible, real gaming is rare.
/r/seduction21/12/18 09:22 AM
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Confidence comes from inside. Realize that women want you to talk to them. Besides that, conditioning is king for anything in life. Condition yourself to walk up to strangers and it will become a habit. Create a habit and you create your destiny.
/r/seduction04/12/18 09:07 AM
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In the cab: touch and kiss, reduce conversation. Otherwise you'll have to re-seduce her when you get home, because you lose momentum. If you have to talk about something, "you have nice lips" then kiss her, "you smell nice" kiss her on the neck etc. You don't need to be funny or interesting at this stage. It's obvious why you are in the cab, even if you used some excuse. Just keep it sexual and you will be fine.
/r/seduction03/12/18 01:55 PM
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Your presence and status. Also how you behave and if you are confident or not.
/r/seduction30/11/18 01:42 PM
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Improv classes are really great, but can also be expensive. In general have a structure: Introduction (what is it about?) Main part End (what's the conclusion or the punchline?) Keep it simple.
/r/seduction27/11/18 08:41 AM
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Because those PUAs know that alpha male BS sells their below average content. Women want confidence, not overcompensation of a grown man's child ego. Modern society heavily penalizes overly aggressive behavior. We are neither monkeys nor wolves. Besides that as you pointed out, there are no alpha wolves. Usually the parents lead the pack. So it's a BS theory from keyboard "alpha" jockeys. Overcompensation, bullying, overt aggression and overt dominance, ancient macho man behavior only gets you l…
/r/seduction23/11/18 12:44 PM
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I get never friendzoned, so Here are my tips. Please take note that you need social skills to use some of the techniques, otherwise you may seem weird or creepy: first things first: relax. Even if you are desperate, there is nothing more off putting than being clingy as a guy. Relax your body language, be rather leaned back. Don't mirror her body language. You're not selling used cars. Also don't be outcome oriented. Even if you are attracted, she is just a human being that buys toilet paper and…
/r/seduction23/11/18 08:19 AM
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If you think you need to be an uber alpha male to attract women, you are either a caveman, a gangster or an adolescent. Yeah, don't be a wimp, but alphaness is no requirement at all to get laid. Stop kissing her ass, putting her on a pedestal and being her doormat. That's all you need to know. Have game and show intent. Profit.
/r/seduction20/11/18 11:18 AM
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I can confirm that it has become crap. I have 500+ matches, almost no additional in 2018 even with Tinder Gold.
/r/seduction19/11/18 07:47 AM
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Tinder has become horrible. I've been using it on and off for five years. I had a couple of one night stands, some affairs and several long term relationships. I have good photos and I test them online (paid service). The tests say I score somewhere at the top 3-5%. I tell you this so that you have some reference. The first two years when Tinder was free, I got lots of matches, dates were easy to get. Year three or four I used Tinder plus, and also gold. Superlikes and boosts had a noticeable ef…
/r/seduction19/11/18 07:37 AM
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Fashion doesn't matter that much. Rule of thumb: dress similar to the subculture you want to seduce. Wear up to date and clean clothes. No fashionista styling necessary.
/r/seduction15/11/18 08:38 AM
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Hi. As others have pointed out, reasons for creepiness can vary. So without knowing you that's difficult to know. In general some reasons that could be possible: Lack of social skills (too little practice and experience, in some cases autism or other disorders) Neediness (being clingy) Being awkward Being very dominant, bullying people in conversations Interrupting others too often, not caring what they say. Not listening Being overtly aggressive, being pushy Being overtly sexual, verbalizing th…
/r/seduction11/11/18 04:33 PM
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Yes: You make a fun statement and change the topic. You steer the conversation in another direction. No: You act whiny about it. There can be a hundred reasons why she says that. Some girls even say they have a boyfriend as an automatic response. It doesn't mean anything if you do not know the exact context. Maybe she has an ex boyfriend. Maybe she is single but very hot and gets approached a lot by lame dudes. Personally I do not care about that response (and tbh you shouldn't either), but if y…
/r/seduction09/11/18 09:15 AM
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Look up Gunwitch method. There you will find what you lack.
/r/seduction07/11/18 06:19 PM
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I totally agree. You forgot the potato for the long post.
/r/seduction07/11/18 04:09 PM
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Easy: go to a bar where golddiggers hang out. Invite them for a couple of drinks, buy a bottle. Get laid. Easy 2: host a party, only people with hot chicks are allowed to come. Get introduced. Get laid. Easy 3: get introduced by your social circle to hot single girls. Get laid. Hard but best in the long run: get decent wardrobe, a modern haircut, join a gym, if you are lazy hire a personal trainer. Take acting classes to lose inhibitions, do a course on rhetorics, learn public speaking (toastmas…
/r/seduction07/11/18 03:27 PM
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Well you can't mind read. And as far as I understand you don't have any ill intentions. So why worry about something you are not doing? What's offensive in a normal conversation? Nothing. If she is triggered or crazy just move on. Don't buy in into the media brainwash, most people are normal.
/r/seduction07/11/18 09:16 AM
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Hi. The three second rule is a pile of horsesh**. Only fools rush in. Currently I approach only a couple of girls a week. But when I was approaching a lot I usually had sticking points or missions. E.g.: i want to approach 50 girls this summer. Or 10 per day and do xyz. At the stage you are in, you are doing conditioning (approaching is ok). After you are conditioned you will approach way less women. Regarding you worrying a lot: you are not the centre of the universe. Women don't care about you…
/r/seduction07/11/18 08:44 AM
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Well then frame the cold approach less offensive. It doesn't have to scream "hey I'm picking you up". If it's that bad start with something situational. Start slow then throw in some influence material. If they get triggered because of media brainwash find a way around. Tell them what they want to hear to think you are an ok guy.
/r/seduction07/11/18 06:14 AM
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Yes, I have 20 years of experience. Whatever, I dont care if my advice gets downvoted.
/r/seduction06/11/18 04:14 PM
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No. Cold approach will never be out of date. It is true that it is not easy or some ideal setting like your social circle. Also in some cases you need brass balls. But girls almost never get approached (read that sentence again) so it is something special to do. The rule that if you want to be successful just do the oppossite of what the majority of other people are doing is 100% true. I met two long term girlfriends and the love of my life through cold approach. I still do cold approach wheneve…
/r/seduction06/11/18 01:37 PM
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Verbalisation stating = the obvious = boring = numbers game = ineffective yes you CAN be direct, but that doesn't mean it's the ONLY thing you can do or that it is more effective than another approach
/r/seduction06/11/18 01:22 PM
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Avoid making compliments when you are approaching. This puts her on a pedestal and you state something that is probably obvious to her. Also girls realize that you approach because you're attracted. No need to verbalize it.
/r/seduction06/11/18 12:47 PM
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Game how to get a chick and game how to keep her are two entirely different worlds. If you want to pinpoint one problem, do not mix it with unrelated things. Also different authors are quoted who wrote some of their advice almost 20yrs ago. Which was good advice back then.
/r/seduction05/11/18 09:06 AM
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Good advice - for year 1999. Unfortunately it is outdated.
/r/seduction05/11/18 07:17 AM
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You look like an average dude. Start socializing more and get some clothes that are up to date.
/r/seduction31/10/18 05:30 AM
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Only works if you are each others type and both drunk. Its the magical time about 2am or when the club is closing.
/r/seduction30/10/18 03:50 PM
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Clubs suck. Almost anywhere it's easier to pick up chicks. Clubs are easy if: you are popular and know everybody there (waste of time). If you can supplicate with bottles and drinks (waste of money). If you are extremely good looking (why pick up drunk girls then?). If you have good enough game to keep others attention in such a crazy environment (makes only sense if you are there and having fun anyways). Personally I got laid often enough in clubs, but at some point you stop wasting your time a…
/r/seduction30/10/18 03:44 PM
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Yes. I don't care about approaching. The only thing I do care about is if i'm in the mood to approach somebody. It's basically talking to people. Nothing more or less. If something goes wrong, who cares? It's just a random chick. If you do still have anxiety after lots of approaches, you probably have some issues that bother you subconsciously (e.g. no self respect). Find out what they are and work on them.
/r/seduction30/10/18 01:11 PM
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As you get older and more mature, your conscious mind comes more into play. It filters your decisions much more. So for the somewhat mature guy not going for the crazy chick is the smart and right thing to do. For the young guy only one thing matters: getting his d*ck w*t - which is perfectly fine too. It's just another phase in his life. Just as going to clubs gets boring after you turn 30. You've seen it all and you know the consequences. ​
/r/seduction27/10/18 10:06 AM
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No they are not. Conversation can be non specific. It can be small talk, banter, normal conversation. Game means using active influence techniques and psychology to achieve a goal (e.g. get laid).
/r/seduction12/10/18 09:05 AM
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Pickup is the only game where people assume they have to be experts from day one. Get sticking points and work one at a time. Example: If you lack social skills, befriend people first and work on your conversations. THEN learn game. You'll save yourself a lot of time.
/r/seduction12/10/18 08:01 AM
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Make a plan and stick to it. Every phase in the seduction has different sticking points. If you have approaching problems, do twenty approaches each day. If you have conversation problems, or escalation problems work on them. Treat it as a sport or hobby and make time for it. Practice positive self talk. Write down a manifesto, and repeat it each and every day. I am great. I am social. I like to approach girls. I am relaxed. I am confident. Use a whole page and write down as much as you can, in …
/r/seduction10/10/18 07:01 PM
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In social settings (bar, club) work the room. Get to know some of the people first. Or get to know the barkeepers so that they know you as a regular. Then it's no big deal. People are drunk in bars anyways, they don't care about their surroundings too much. A lot of people go to bars by themselves and they meet people there. If you don't like the setting, do some barhopping. Daygame works, it has just a different pace. If you can ask somebody about directions or how late it is, you have enough c…
/r/seduction10/04/18 06:41 AM
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It is kind of weird and makes you look insecure. It is much more likely to get rejected if you ask instead of trying anyways. Initiate a kiss, if it doesn't work try again later. Change the setting if you are ashamed to kiss her in a bar.
/r/seduction10/04/18 06:14 AM
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