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[–]Serg885 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Go to dancing classes, martial arts classes, gymnastics classes. Basically do everything where it is normal to touch somebody because the environment allows it to. You can even touch pets to learn how to do it. This should give you confidence.
The next step is to touch a person with the back of your hand on a non sexual spot like their upper arm. And so on.
You'll have to do some trial and error, but it works. Be patient and desensitize yourself.
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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Start with small things. Rest hand on shoulder for two heartbeats while talking something that is related to the person you're touching, like "I'm sure you can do it Jenny, you're one of the smartest people I know"
Brush their hair out from their face. Women have lots of hair and it gets everywhere. Hair always sticks to lipgloss and it's super annoying. Your facial expression sets the mood for the action. If you're grinning, it's lighthearted and fun, if you're staring at them, it's creepy (or super sexy, if the girl is into you)
Hug when you meet someone, and when you part ways.
If they say they're cold, take their hands into yours and be suprised when you discover that they are like ice. Warm them up and rub them between you hands
Etc :)
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