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4

" ...all inclusive...." It sure was!
/r/seduction03/07/19 11:31 PM
3

This has been my experience as well. Particularly at work. It is a really efficient way to signal 'no fly zone'. It rarely stops me / her if I see her in a social context, though.
/r/seduction03/07/19 11:31 PM
1

How are these DBs not in prison?
/r/seduction03/07/19 01:52 AM
2

It means that she likes you enough to have considered it, but she wants to preserve her self-image as a 'good girl'. Also, she is saying nothing is certain, so she can leave without feeling like a tease. Just give her the rest of your game, and go for it. You could still pull.
/r/seduction25/06/19 11:03 AM
1

Absolutely! Men can weak-minded / willed also. However, if your goal is a healthy relationship? Try Wired For Love (Deals with a partner with a neurotic attachment style), or The 5 Languages of Love. (Mostly healthy partner with poor communication / observation skills.)
/r/seduction02/06/19 12:37 PM
2

The only real question is, do you want to get involved with a cheater?
/r/seduction27/05/19 02:59 PM
5

You were a little intimidated by her awesomeness because you fail to recognize that you are her peer. Next time will go smoother.
/r/seduction26/05/19 05:24 PM
4

Good post, OP. Worth a read.
/r/seduction25/05/19 01:27 PM
28

All of your examples are ways a girl shit-tests to see if you are high value. (They often don't realize how counter-productive this. Women can be just as stupid as men...)
/r/seduction14/05/19 12:15 PM
7

You don't. Retail is hard enough w/o the added awkwardness of having to tell someone 'no'. Leave her to her privacy.
/r/seduction12/05/19 02:18 PM
2

This level of subtlety matches up well w/ my own experiences as well. Also good point about always dodging. With enough exposure, she'll get the answers to her questions, but that needs to be the ONLY way to figure you out. Thus, you have built into the relationship a motive to keep seeing you. It's perfecto!
/r/seduction10/05/19 03:03 PM
23

Great time does not equal great date...
/r/seduction10/05/19 02:29 PM
95

"....you may now cut off your braid, padawahn."
/r/seduction04/05/19 11:13 PM
1

I see what you just did there...
/r/seduction03/05/19 07:17 PM
2

Very concise. Good job!
/r/seduction09/04/19 02:41 AM
1

Do you know why they all look hot? Because dancing is one of the best (and funnest!) work-outs ever. Bet they all started out looking fat/weird/ or w/e.
/r/seduction22/03/19 12:24 AM
3

An abundance mentality has NOTHING to do with how many women you have in your life! It means being satisfied with all of the cool shit you have going on, regardless of female presence / approval. Having hobbies, homies, freedom ... etc is the best! live your life as you see fit. If you decide to share it with someone worth your time, great. If not, you are still living the dream. Have fun with it!
/r/seduction22/03/19 12:04 AM
2

DEf follow up if you have any interest in HER. If you want to keep it casual, waiting is a good way to signal that.
/r/seduction17/03/19 09:42 PM
4

Dude, no. Just ... no. You are dating a cheating whore. She is cheating on her current LTR, and you want to what? Turn into her next LTR? ...and LDR? Does that even make any sense? ​ Keep smashing on her if that is what you want, but don't expect anything real from her. She is obviously not capable / interested in being an adult.
/r/seduction17/03/19 09:36 PM
0

You ignored her. Her insecurity got the best of her, and she HAD to turn you on in order to be validated. Play the cool cat, and force her to escalate. ALWAYS make sure that your interest in her is at least one step below her interest in you. RG covers this in the art of seduction, btw.
/r/seduction17/03/19 09:33 PM
1

SHE thinks you are her BF. If this story is true, and she disagreed, she would have immediately corrected her dad. She didn't. Ergo she wants him to think that. She tells you the 'story'. You didn't correct her, therefore you are her BF as of now.
/r/seduction17/03/19 09:00 PM
1

"ZOMG! Get out of my room!"
/r/seduction17/03/19 08:53 PM
5

Title IX is a non-judicial form of arbitration that goes on at the university. Your rights are suuuuper restricted, but the school is obligated to do a lot more investigating. (All they can do is interview, though. Not collect / process actual evidence. It is widely mocked here in the US as being BS.) It is essentially designed to protect the school, not anyone else.
/r/seduction17/03/19 01:26 PM
4

This "... just go to her house ... " will get you arrested! stay the f away from her, at all costs.
/r/seduction17/03/19 01:22 PM
46

Defamation is a real thing, too. Emotional harm. Are you in therapy? Newly minted agoraphobe? Any tangible change in your behavior needs to be documented IF you decide to purse legal action. The court will not just take your word for it, obviously. ​ Other than that, OP, just remember that the VAST MAJORITY of women out there are caring adults, and will treat you a lot better than this. Hopefully you can take something away from this experience. Good luck, and I'm really sorry that happened to y…
/r/seduction17/03/19 01:20 PM
2

Dude, you have a lot of self-work to do before you involve someone else in your life. Good luck.
/r/seduction16/03/19 01:00 PM
2

creepy bordering on harassment.
/r/seduction16/03/19 12:22 PM
2

yup. You are essentially trapped by your fear. It is no surprise things ended so abruptly, considering you set a precedent of avoidance. But I agree that if she wanted to change the parameters, she should have done so in a fashion that was a bit more mature and face-to-face. (Would you have been receptive?)
/r/seduction16/03/19 12:43 AM
2

Dis is da truuuuuf....fo sho!
/r/seduction15/03/19 11:42 PM
2

This issue is easily solved if you qualify them up front. Find out if they have a car, a place of their own, how far is it, is she willing to take you home...etc. If the answer is no, eject! Next!
/r/seduction15/03/19 08:42 PM
1

Good job! Textbook score. Does Z know you smashed A? If so, aloof may not work at all. You may need to find a way to convince her that she needs to prove herself to you. Is she a domineering achiever? Point out that these are male traits. Play up all of the things that she has in common w/ male stereotypes, (w/o mocking her or even calling her a man directly) and let her mind do the rest. She may feel the need to fuck you just to prove her femininity to herself. Good luck. BTW, Your english is f…
/r/seduction13/03/19 01:35 AM
1

Try asking in r/relationships, or r/AskWomen. Might get better feedback.
/r/seduction10/03/19 11:21 PM
3

They were drunken sluts looking to hook up at closing time, but you didn't pick them up aggressively enough to get around the internal slut-shaming they were experiencing so they changed their minds and bailed.
/r/seduction10/03/19 12:36 PM
3

This. As long as you know what you want, and clearly communicate that, you have nothing to fear. Just stay true to making sure your LT goals / needs are being met.
/r/seduction10/03/19 11:42 AM
1

of course
/r/seduction10/03/19 11:11 AM
1

No, but I have traveled extensively. Aggressive patriarchies have several traits in common, and one of them is the whole 'all women are sluts, therefore I need to control my daughters every move' hypocrisy.
/r/seduction10/03/19 11:03 AM
1

Because the men are so controlling.
/r/seduction10/03/19 04:46 AM
6

Don't bother gaming her. Go for vulnerable sincerity. "I realize you get hit on a lot, but I still want to take you out. When are you free?"
/r/seduction09/03/19 10:06 PM
3

"Thanx! You are too. Imagine the super babies we could make!" with a jokey-smirk.
/r/seduction09/03/19 08:44 PM
1

NC. Now. For ever.
/r/seduction09/03/19 08:43 PM
4

IMHX, lots (Most?) of college girls are waaaay more focused on their grades than the guys. They know the achievers from the not-so-much guys. Which are you? RS, first, just relax. Be yourself. Be into w/e it is that you are doing. Engage, be friendly, open to others, but don't SEEK attention. This is what is often meant by 'outcome independent thinking'. Abundance arises from being around other quality people, not just attractive women. So, take a look at your peer group. Are the guys marauders,…
/r/seduction09/03/19 01:26 PM
1

Neutral ground used to negotiate how to carve up a former rivals territory with all of your fellow surviving rivals.
/r/seduction09/03/19 05:21 AM
1

You are not sure what you want. If you go for HER, you have to be with ONLY her, right? Change / commitment is scary. Know what else is scary? LOVING someone. Being vulnerable to being harmed, or rejected sucks. Nothing wrong with that, but learn to identify it, and deal with it. (She has removed you, BTW, because she has feelings for you, and can't stand the hurting of seeing you with other gurlz and the mixed messages.) ​ My advice? Come clean. Explain how you feel, why you pushed her away, an…
/r/seduction08/03/19 02:19 AM
2

In that case, you are already 'behind the curve'. Obviously, each man does what is right for him, but at 32 you are coming up against the womans biological clock, and MOST women your age will expect some settling down pretty quick. Refuse to do this, and you had better have something really impressive to offer, or be content to smash on 20-somethings exclusively.
/r/seduction02/03/19 07:26 PM
3

It's pretty normal. This will (Hopefully) change as you get older, and / or find someone worth giving up your freedom for.
/r/seduction02/03/19 04:02 AM
2

This happened to me years ago. I stayed suuuuper quite, and LISTENED. It was really interesting to hear what they said to each other after they thought i had tuned out and was more into my phone than them. ​ Edited for spelling.
/r/seduction01/03/19 02:42 AM
5

Belittling is not what he is talking about. He specifically says "playful, flirty" NOT mean-spirited!
/r/seduction26/02/19 02:56 AM
2

Genius.... Sheer genius.
/r/seduction25/02/19 02:22 AM
1

Almost finished with it. Pretty good. Got a lot of insight into my game, and some miss-steps. Have to ignore the 'victim' talk, though.
/r/seduction25/02/19 02:01 AM
1

Def follow up soonest! It's suuuuper easy to talk yourself out of a real prospect by hesitating. (The longer you wait to follow up, the harder it is.) If she is hesitant, address it right up front. Try: "I know it is a little weird to be interested in a girl. If you have changed your mind, that's cool. I will still like you w/e you decide." This is usually the worst way to handle a woman, but in this instance, letting her feel more in control may help to overcome her resistance to being involved…
/r/seduction23/02/19 08:57 PM
2

melixxa, Good job! You showed a high level of caring and tolerance by not getting grossed out or rejecting her for over-indulging. ('parenting' someone in these scenarios is a gr8 way to build trust.) You made your feelings / intentions clear, which lined her expectations up with yours. (Guaranteeing there is no 'shock' when you kiss her.) You escalated, (always be closing) but didn't go too far for her comfort. (Guessing she is str8? Getting hit on is always flattering, but can be off-putting w…
/r/seduction23/02/19 07:01 PM
5

Also, pauses are an often under-utilized technique. Let her fill the void, and she will. This is most important when dealing with shy girls. Give her plenty of space to show you who she is, and she just might.
/r/seduction23/02/19 06:37 PM
50

Some thoughts on anecdotal evidence / confirmation: Years ago I realized that I was using the stereotypical pip-squeek voice. (Rapid, pause-free, high pitched voice with a rise at the end of each idea.) I was mostly doing this out of anxiety and (I now realize thanks to this article) approval-seeking. My intuitive self correct? Deepening my voice. How did I do that? By relaxing my throat / neck muscles. I found that forcing my throat to relax opened it up, deepening it. I also had to sloooooow m…
/r/seduction23/02/19 06:35 PM
2

First off, if you are getting IOI, then she is NOT by definition in a happy relationship. She may be displaying happiness for the sake of social standing...etc. If she is interested, escalate. If she changes course, move on.
/r/seduction23/02/19 04:01 PM
1

You are pursuing tail half your age. Never non-creepy. Money talks.
/r/seduction16/02/19 08:48 PM
2

Very interesting AMA. Also interested in the answer to this.
/r/seduction16/02/19 07:18 PM
1

Giggling can also be a sign of anxiety. Anxious = invested in the outcome.
/r/seduction16/02/19 04:27 AM
1

Ben Franklin basically controlled 2 governments using this technique. So does that answer your question?
/r/seduction16/02/19 03:32 AM
1

Yeah, this feels right too. No need to be emotionally stunted. If you really love someone... all bets are off! ​ Edited for spelling
/r/seduction16/02/19 01:53 AM
5

This is tha trooooof. ​ IMHX, women want someone that can open up their hearts to them, and be vulnerable to loving them, but do not want someone weak or too complicated. (Think Gregory Peck.)
/r/seduction16/02/19 01:52 AM
3

ZOMG, yes! So hawt!
/r/seduction14/02/19 03:04 AM
4

It is a really good guide to seducing weak-minded gurlz. He talks about exploiting obvious neurosis and insecurities. He even specifically says that his book is useless when dealing with healthy, self-motivated people. However, I found it useful in understanding myself, and how to provoke uncertainty in even the healthiest women. Ignore the verbage, ("weakness", "victim" ..... etc.) and focus on the actual lessons.
/r/seduction14/02/19 02:54 AM
1

This has been my experience as well. Well said!
/r/seduction14/02/19 02:01 AM
1

Comfort is always key. Don't evaluate them. Just present them as drawings, and let HER evaluate them for herself. Bonus: It will give you guys something to talk about that is an easy topic for you.
/r/seduction11/02/19 12:12 AM
4

I would say that being comfortable is most important. "Projecting confidence" can sometimes look like seeking dominance, a huuuuge turn off for anyone!
/r/seduction09/02/19 03:30 AM
6

Or is just a selfish hater. He might be using her to provide him with a false abundance. ​ Either way, def dump him. If he is not trying to help you achieve your objectives, is he worth investing in?
/r/seduction03/02/19 10:52 PM
17

"No" means "no". But sometimes "We're just friends" means "I need a little bit more convincing in order to not feel like a slut". If you are escalating, and she ACTUALLY means to reject you, she will break rapport and walk away. However, having said that, some weak-willed / conflict avoidant women will have a very hard time rejecting you explicitly. You have to pay attention to her social / emotional demeanor in order to get full context. We're not cavemen, after all.
/r/seduction03/02/19 10:28 PM
1

Score! Don't forget, Reddit expects updates, and I'm sure it's been said before, but it def bears repeating.... POIDH.
/r/seduction03/02/19 10:10 PM
3

Not the only path, but it is the one that worked for him.
/r/seduction02/02/19 10:40 PM
9

You are in her orbit. Gradually reduce contact down to 0. If she dumps him before you ghost her, start fresh. If not, move on to someone smart enough to know a dumpster fire when she is in it.
/r/seduction27/01/19 02:26 AM
1

You're breaking with your 'take the initiative' precedent. Stay in frame, and be decisive. Don't bother giving him your number. Get his. Come up with an activity and invite him out. (Nerve wracking, isn't it? Now you know what guys go through every. single. time!)
/r/seduction27/01/19 02:12 AM
2

You took the initiative, so you are now in the drivers seat. He is just expecting you to follow through. (He IS DEF interested.) "Just... talk about the show last night, ask if he is down for meeting for drinks. (Keep it low key. That way either of you can bail w/o making it too obvious.) If that goes well, change venues by inviting him back to your place for ... dinner? Netflix and chill? W/e the activity is, if he is in to you, he will agree." You could even try the super awkward sell. Tell hi…
/r/seduction26/01/19 11:57 PM
3

Well, it shows that he is worried about how you perceive him. Instead of saying 'just saw your message from last night.' or not prefacing at all, and just answering with confidence. His assumption is that you are choosing him, because you took the initiative. If he was choosing you, he would have reversed the dynamic by saying something like "Yes! Had a great time talking to you last night. Wanna get drinks tonight?" or something similar. Instead of waiting for you to do the asking.
/r/seduction26/01/19 11:37 PM
31

Lolz @ this....
/r/seduction26/01/19 08:08 PM
19

Target brought the 'nottie' on purpose. No saving this one. Move on. Side note: Why didn't one of your 'bros' pick up on the third wheel and get her out of the way? Isn't that the job of the wingman?
/r/seduction26/01/19 08:06 PM
2

First off, he is interested. If he wasn't he would not have bothered texting back / apologizing. (Apology implies insecurity here, which means he is outcome DEPENDENT!) Just... talk about the show last night, ask if he is down for meeting for drinks. (Keep it low key. That way either of you can bail w/o making it too obvious.) If that goes well, change venues by inviting him back to your place for ... dinner? Netflix and chill? W/e the activity is, if he is in to you, he will agree.
/r/seduction26/01/19 07:45 PM
2

Did you do alright? No. You did super-awesome! You took the initiative, something that is very rare for a gurl to do. (Good job!) Spent a little time with him to spark his interest, but not so much that it starts to bore him. You followed up with a short message to let him know that you are open to more contact, but it was nothing too forward. You def struck exactly the right note. It is now up to him to spine up. (I wouldn't hold my breath, though. Keep it up, and happy hunting!)
/r/seduction26/01/19 06:46 PM
1

I really suck at club infielding, so I'm pretty interested in what you playas come up with.
/r/seduction26/01/19 03:18 PM
5

I'm extremely skeptical of this claim. You have to 'trick' a woman into wanting to sleep with you. Explicitly asking / stating your intent will make her feel obvious / cheap / like a huuuuge slut. IMHO, this would be counter-productive. Try it. Let us know how it goes.
/r/seduction19/01/19 07:01 PM
-1

This is exactly why PUAs have a bad rap.
/r/seduction19/01/19 06:35 PM
3

My last GF passively initiated by signaling that she was interested. Actively initiated (which I'm sure is what you were really asking anyway) about...20-25% of the time, though.
/r/seduction13/01/19 09:23 PM
0

It doesn't matter what you look like, as long as you 'own' it. Confidence is key!
/r/seduction13/01/19 02:14 PM
3

Def postpone. She has kids, she'll understand.
/r/seduction13/01/19 01:51 PM
3

No it isn't the same. Saying it is counts as a false equivalency. You won't starve if no one wants to date you. Also, to quote a great man, " It's ok for anyone to say no to dating you for any reason they want. Dating / mating is not the same as hiring or w/e. " We are genetically programmed to prefer to mate with like members. If we weren't, we would all be the same ethnicity. I would hire a black woman, even though I would not date one. Not the same thing at all.
/r/seduction13/01/19 12:15 AM
6

" People are never discriminated against for a job cause of their weight or height... " This is patently, and demonstrably false.
/r/seduction13/01/19 12:09 AM
1

Immediately after HS, I dated a black girl for about...3 months, I guess? When I lived in HI, I dated a Japanese competitive surfer. Hmmm.... also in HI, there was a deaf Korean.
/r/seduction13/01/19 12:07 AM
3

It's ok for anyone to say no to you for any reason they want. Dating / mating is not the same as hiring or w/e. ​ I personally won't date non-whites anymore. Does that make me a racist?
/r/seduction12/01/19 11:51 PM
12

3) Hang out with higher quality dudes that have more self-restraint than to hunt their bros girl. (Ever heard of the 'bro code?')
/r/seduction09/01/19 07:33 PM
7

I have found this to be true, but (major BUT) gurls that are subject to such a low-investment approach tend to flake more often than a pull resulting from a higher investment approach. (GI, GO) Also, college, younger females...etc.
/r/seduction09/01/19 07:29 PM
4

I just ghosted my X for the last 4 days, and she just texted me a lunch invite for tomorrow. Absence can be an asset.
/r/seduction06/01/19 03:21 AM
-1

Game only works on a very narrow group of women, and even then only under a very specific set of circumstances. This is why you are pulling women that put in low-effort, but expect you to do all the heavy lifting. For me, Seduction was all about ... communicating better, having fun, being more relaxed, and just more genuine. I developed my internal world and found ways to be more satisfied with myself. Women responded to that as a secondary result, but pulling was not my goal. With no expectatio…
/r/seduction05/01/19 08:25 PM
2

This. Decisive is alot harder to flake w/o looking like it. Also, imhx, alot of BS behavior involves self-delusion. By making your expectations fixed, tangible, and comprehensible it becomes harder (not impossible) to justify to herself flaking.
/r/seduction05/01/19 07:57 PM
3

This is pretty good advice, really. I realize that it is contrary to the PUA ethic, but when your target is a PUA, one of you HAS to play target in order to get anywhere. Betting she won't volunteer. Good luck! Just don't forget Reddit expects updates!
/r/seduction05/01/19 03:17 PM
1

Douh! (slaps forehead)
/r/seduction05/01/19 03:03 AM
2

I refer to it as my lacuna. It has gotten smaller as my INTERNAL world grows richer and more diverse. It is still very real, as I too pine for a lost love with an intensity I never thought possible. I don't care what you say, I know love when I see it. We loved each other, and I miss that, and want it back. With her. I know the OLD relationship will not return, but I still seek a NEW one with her. She is still my friend, and once I GET MY SHIT TOGETHER, I fully intend to try again.
/r/seduction05/01/19 02:56 AM
2

You are in love. It's natural to feel this way. Being so closely bonded to someone that doesn't reciprocate your feelings is extremely frustrating. It's so common, and powerful that there have LITERALLY been thousands of songs written about it through the AGES! The answer? There isn't one. Spend your life trying to get her attention from afar by BEING AWESOME! Build a bridge, fly to the moon, burn Troy...This is the stuff that drives history, my love-sick (there is a reason they call it that) in…
/r/seduction05/01/19 02:47 AM
2

17%
/r/seduction02/01/19 10:01 PM
53

TLDR: Synchronize breathing with partner. (as a way to relax, and remain in the moment.) Focus on only 1 body part (as a way to calm an overactive mind w/o distracting it.) Maintain eye contact. (This is also an excellent way to build and maintain intimacy!) Relax and enjoy the act / process w/o worrying too much about THE GOAL. (Orgasm)
/r/seduction02/01/19 09:22 PM
3

Def IOI.
/r/seduction29/12/18 06:08 AM
0

Pretty basic, but interesting.
/r/seduction28/12/18 03:51 AM
1

I did, actually. Married for 12 years, divorced for 9!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 04:05 AM
3

Yup. U were not orbiting her, you were orbiting him. Way worse, and a recipe for automatic failure. Live and learn, my friend.
/r/seduction25/12/18 05:47 PM
2

Try the Relationships sub. Def a better place for this.
/r/seduction25/12/18 04:13 PM
3

You don't need much game. The single wealthy tourists are all there for pretty much the same thing you are. Just got back from the Hilton resort, and 'shooting fish in a barrel' pretty much covers it!
/r/seduction22/12/18 05:05 PM
4

First off, when you are with someone, it is actually rude to do this. Unless you are studying in parallel, in which case they are usually too focused on what they are doing anyway. Second off, no, don't tell them what you are up to, for all of the reasons above. Also, if she knows how the trick works, it will spoil the 'magic'. Girls like to believe in romance. Showing how it is done kills that for them. You are not doing anyone any favors, least of all yourself.
/r/seduction17/12/18 01:10 AM
2

She was asking you if you are looking to pay for sex and / or drugs.
/r/seduction11/12/18 03:41 AM
4

I've got a feeling that is about to change!
/r/seduction11/12/18 01:26 AM
1

Gonna have to second this. Great job not orbiting HER, but her social circle would have meant access to the good stuff! (Building abundance is key to being attractive for most girls)
/r/seduction09/12/18 09:13 PM
2

Qualify her ahead of time. Preferably as early as possible.
/r/seduction09/12/18 03:12 PM
46

You have more control at yours, but more safety at hers. I prefer her place. It puts the conversational pressure on her, but you can still dictate terms as needed. Or leave when needed.
/r/seduction09/12/18 05:06 AM
2

First off, don't 'try' anything. If she likes you, let things evolve. Pay attention to her IOI, but don't project your interest. She may get threatened staying with a guy that has designs on her. Especially if she feels like you are making assumptions or are thinking you are entitled to access. Having said that, she may be feeling the ladyboner for you, but doesn't want to feel like a slut. She obviously trust you enough to get a room with, so there is something there.
/r/seduction09/12/18 02:26 AM
1

OMG all the time. It will pass. Stay frosty, and don't listen to the haters!
/r/seduction09/12/18 01:38 AM
1

more friends or more benefits? If it's A, then take the time. If it's B, then live the numbers game. But to answer your question, it is partly luck, in the sense that alot of factors play into your success that are outside of your influence. (Mood, bagggage..etc.) The point of learning all of these skills is to improve the things you can, to increase your chances as much as possible.
/r/seduction09/12/18 01:22 AM
2

Not really. The coach industry has perfected the rapid approach. Your percentages go up if you put in more time, and favor fun and sincerity over rapid disqualification followed by a graceful exit. However, it takes its emotional toll, if you are just going out for ass. Looking for a serious SO? Use all of these skills to build abundance and pick the best of the bunch. Stick with her, and keep her interested in sticking with you. Happy hunting!
/r/seduction09/12/18 01:12 AM
1

It sounds like you are about to become a statistic.( Ever hear of the piloting acronym CFIT?) keep us posted. We could all stand to learn something here.
/r/seduction09/12/18 12:54 AM
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Stay away. She is potentially toxic. If she wanted out, she would leave. Anything else? She is putting the classic cheater narrative on you. Reverse the genders. Him: "I'll leave her as soon as...." Him: "She is too frail right now." ....etc etc.
/r/seduction09/12/18 12:33 AM
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Don't try to pull solo. Stick with group stuff to build interest, and demonstrate abundance. She might be telling otherjerk that just to fend him off. Also, consider the term 'right now'. Once the semester ends, who knows what will happen?
/r/seduction08/12/18 11:36 PM
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You are not negotiating anything. she is dictating to you. You are dancing to her tune. Not good. I would also give her the space she needs, and then some. HM chicks hate that. She will cave, or move on. Also, you have let her get away with threatening you for advancing a normal, healthy relationship on mutual terms. Biiiig red flag.
/r/seduction08/12/18 11:06 PM
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yes. But this is actually the part i find hardest. I have been 'off the market' for 20 years (!) so ... the skill has def atrophied.
/r/seduction08/12/18 08:06 PM
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I am dealing with oneitis right now. I am still in love with my ex. How am I dealing with it? By pretending / treating her like she is a stranger. By increasing my awesomeness, she will eventually notice and chase me. If she doesn't, I still win, because now OTHER women notice me. ( Building abundance.) By taking charge of my life, and freeing myself from other peoples opinions and constraints. By addressing ALL of the shitty, low-value things I did to diminish our relationship in the first plac…
/r/seduction08/12/18 07:49 PM
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It is a lazy way to drive a plot. Who cares if it is accurate, or helpful.
/r/seduction08/12/18 07:43 PM
2

First off, never chase. Display value, but qualify them. As far as having no friends goes, get a hobby or 2, join a group for them, and...let nature take its course. Who knows, you might meet someone!
/r/seduction08/12/18 03:14 PM
15

Great idea!
/r/seduction08/12/18 12:58 PM
3

Just be confident, and normal. You could try to acknowledge it by saying 'this kinda feels weird. I'm not upset at all or hurt. I get that you don't feel like we would be a good fit. It's cool.' and move on. She might even re-assess you if you handle it well.
/r/seduction24/11/18 10:02 PM
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This level of aggression makes her sound like she is someone that is both lonely and hurt. Baggage, perhaps? Chill out, get to know her before disqualifying her. Maybe even ask her about her behavior directly. Might be enlightening. You know, from a strictly academic view.
/r/seduction24/11/18 04:08 PM
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Loss of trust, mostly. I snooped through some of her personal mementos about a month ago, and she feels violated. I've already apologized, and it helped a bit, but she is having a hard time forgiving me and moving on.
/r/seduction24/11/18 12:16 AM
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/r/seduction23/11/18 11:58 PM
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yup x2. There is a huge dif between gaming and skeezing.
/r/seduction22/11/18 03:39 PM
3

Inviter usually pays. Also keep in mind that money dynamics can be tied to power and expectations, so if she insists on buying a round or two, be gracious and let her assert herself. This is the '90s, after all!
/r/seduction17/11/18 11:34 PM
1

This only works for me if done in this order: mouth vag butt I've never done it on a first / only date, though. Good luck!
/r/seduction11/11/18 02:55 AM
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Self improvement, w/e the form it takes, always feels good!
/r/seduction10/11/18 09:18 PM
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yup. She is selling her time / affection. The only way to pull her is to outbid the competition. Which of course begs the question, why would you want to?
/r/seduction10/11/18 07:38 PM
1

Yeah, I agree. It was more about her expectations, than anything you did or didn't do.
/r/seduction05/11/18 11:54 PM
1

Exactly. Choades will often try to throw shade, because they cannot perform, and don't like this being pointed out to others. Thus, the attempt to get you to leave 'their' territory. at any cost.
/r/seduction05/11/18 03:56 AM
10

Congrats! Way to game it!
/r/seduction05/11/18 02:45 AM
2

Great job! Don't feel PRESSURED to score. Ignore the outcome, and just enjoy the process. Is she fun? Interesting? Your enthusiasm is its own reward.
/r/seduction02/11/18 02:20 PM
2

I think she is attracted to you, but is too much of a lady to cheat on her bf. Friend her, and move on.
/r/seduction30/10/18 02:13 AM
6

Print is dead. This is why I hate 'social media'. Too much assumption / ambiguity to it. IRL is always better.
/r/seduction30/10/18 12:39 AM
10

"Mind if I eat here?" Is less personal, but it shows that you are being considerate. Sit down, and start talking immediately, before you unpack, or start eating, or w/e. That way you can move to the next target w/o any awkward re-packing if you are not making satisfactory progress.
/r/seduction30/10/18 12:00 AM
1

Don't weasel-work her. Be honest and direct. Confront her with her BS preconceptions. Make your physique work FOR you. Try this: 'Hey Mary, I heard you were only into super musclebound gymrats. (Talking down her preferred guy, w/o insulting them) As you may have noticed, I take pretty good care of myself, and I think that's what really counts. (Shows confidence w/o taking self too seriously) We should def go out for coffee. (decisive) When are you free? (considerate) Saturday? great! (enthusiast…
/r/seduction29/10/18 11:48 PM
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This. Especially #2 Trying new things enriches your life, gives you something to talk about, makes you a more interesting person in general, and also exposes you to new people and their female friends. Big win all around.
/r/seduction29/10/18 11:05 PM
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In essence: "I was just interested in the experience of hanging out, and was not concerned at all with the outcome." Staying focused on your overall objective (getting satisfaction out of your life in general) is important, but so is not expecting to find it in THIS person.
/r/seduction29/10/18 06:54 PM
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You're way overthinking it. Just do w/e comes naturally. If you like her, let her know. Nothing wrong with an intimate friend. Being too aloof, especially after sex, is the fastest way to scare off a quality woman.
/r/seduction29/10/18 03:42 AM
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The best thing I can tell you is not to worry about outcome and focus exclusively on the experience. If you have stage fright, just approach as many stuuuupidly hot female strangers as possible. Get used to being shot down. Once you see that it isn't the end of the world, it will actually improve your game. (All women love you, they just don't know it yet!) Don't bother with planning it out. Memorized scripts are just one more thing to fret about trying to remember. Better to focus on your own a…
/r/seduction29/10/18 02:58 AM
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Listen closely padawahn... I pulled a 10 (8 months strong!) by simply zero-stating her. I was just interested in the experience of hanging out, and was not concerned at all with the outcome. I was so into the moment, I almost forgot to even get her number! How did I remember? The look on her face when she realized I was about to walk out of her life. Oh yeah, she wants me.
/r/seduction29/10/18 02:43 AM
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The fact that there seems to be such a strong positive reaction in favor of outsourcing a relationship says several things to me. 1) YOU are sadly lacking in your intimacy building skills. Being in love is one of the most fulfilling states I have ever been in. (If you think that a sexual relationship is akin to a commercial transaction, it may explain why you will have no idea what I'm talking about.) Talking to / sharing yourself with someone that can reject you (ie NOT a slave) is terrifying. …
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