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| 1 | She likes to let me check her out. What does it mean? | Shakur2c | /r/seduction | 15/05/19 04:21 AM |
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| 1 | [deleted by user]You are blessed. You're busy, she wants you. Its a great situation to be in. Stay busy. Let her be free. Its probably what makes her so attractive. Even more so if shes free to choose you. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Was I being to much of a simp during those text messages which she hasn’t responded to in a day? We already had a “date “set up for next week before those text messages but she kept texting me and I think I ruin itYou're killing her anticipation by being so available. Stay busy | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 09:57 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Dont date in the morning, always make evening plans. Inviting her to your place is kind of a promise for sex, which women dont like. If you're lucky maybe shes just busy and all of our assumptions are wrong. If she lost interest i would just let her go. And if one rejection will cause you to flip a switch and want to die, especially over one date it could maybe she already sensed your insecurity. Just because she isnt answering now doesnt mean she lost interest. Keep your options open and grow f… | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 09:27 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Its kinda desperate to plan a date while on a date. Should just hang out, have fun and hook up. If she ghosted you that means she wasnt into you, or she saw the red flags. The red flag being your serious lack of self esteem. No one wants to date someone who wants to kill themselves. Look inward and figure out whats going on in your head. You're only 19. I felt that way at 19. They say it gets better and it actually does.. good luck | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 12:56 PM |
| 0 | Got the number butEither she is testing you or she gave you the wrong number. You respond accordingly, as long as it isnt obsessively. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 01:52 PM |
| 1 | How to make friends with girls in collegeFind your purpose and pursue it. Do not make women your purpose. Women will want the energy you're expending when you obsess over your personal goals. | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 08:49 PM |
| 1 | How much is too much texting?He's got too much time on his hands and he's investing too much into you already. Have you even gone on a date? You seem to know a lot about him already. Looks like he likes talking about himself. Lots of red flags here. | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 04:05 AM |
| 5 | I hate the fact that men have to play games with women to get them interested. It's so exhaustingOh i get what you're saying. The only reason i use it is because ideally your world is your kingdom. And you should be running it, and that includes deciding who gets to enter. And tbh even though people use these terms they are still often slaves to their insecurities and mental issues. We generally chase the kind of love our parents gave us as children. Sometimes that "love" means neglectful and toxic people. | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 10:57 AM |
| 12 | I hate the fact that men have to play games with women to get them interested. It's so exhaustingThat phrase doesn't work because most people are content with toxic relationships. At least king metaphors suggest you should hold your life to a higher standard. Most people have fucked up views of what a healthy life standard is and they will carry it with them for the rest of their lives tbh. | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 09:32 AM |
| 91 | I hate the fact that men have to play games with women to get them interested. It's so exhaustingIf she dont want you, then you shouldn't want her. If this isn't your mentality then you're not putting yourself first. Be a king with women, not a beggar. Fundamentally, work on yourself. | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 12:42 AM |
| 91 | I hate the fact that men have to play games with women to get them interested. It's so exhaustingWhut. You should have been straightforward instead of pretending you didn't like her. If you had been honest from the start you wouldn't have been so invested in her when she rejected you. Your behaviour is indicative of someone who doesn't jave many options. | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 12:37 AM |
| 8 | If a girl takes you home on the first date, does she expect you to initiate physically?That mindset is going to turn her off I bet. But it's important to take things at your pace. It doesn't seem like you were that into her. But if you have any reservations that held you back I'd encourage you to work through them. | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 08:31 PM |
| 9 | If a girl takes you home on the first date, does she expect you to initiate physically?Eye contact? Sexual tension? Did she play with her hair? How is your kino game? What was your purpose of the date? What did you want out of it? Did you pursue it? | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Ego or Insecurity?Don't be afraid of losing her. How do you do that? Become fucking awesome. Pursue the best version of yourself. You have so much time on your hands. You're chasing her validation when you text her. Become your own man, that way you'll start to think "hey I'm fucking awesome.". Then when she hits you up be like "let's setup a FaceTime date." Or some shit. She'll contact you if she misses you. Capitalize when that time comes. When girls who were interested in me start getting flakey or disinterest… | /r/seduction | 12/04/20 10:14 AM |
| 3 | Ego or Insecurity?Haven't had sex yet huh 😬. One thing is for sure, you're texting her out of insecurity because you afraid of losing her. Bet she knows that. Seems like you were using her to inflate your ego too. Maybe she felt that way and that's why she stopped. If you're not interested in her and are only interested because she's interested in you.. then yes you're egotistic. And disingenuine, in which case you should just breakup | /r/seduction | 12/04/20 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Asking a girl out multiple timesI've met a lot of people like you in my personal life. People who are going nowhere, have no ambitions and constantly put down everyone else. Trust me I used to be the same. Honestly I don't have time to think that way anymore. It's a fucking waste of your brain. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Asking a girl out multiple timesDon't have conversations on the phone. Bring up a time and place to meet and be decisive about it. If she flaked and doesn t offer to reschedule, then just be cool about it and tell her to contact you when she is free to meet up. Then walk away and never look back. The ball will be in her court, and if she is interested she will contact you. Don't make the mistake of chasing her or being too available. She'll take you for granted if she knows she can have you at anytime. If it helps, don't chase… | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 03:25 PM |
| -2 | Approached todayDude. Ur supposed to give it a couple days before you text or call. And when you do only do so to set up a time to meet. You seemed way too desperate and needy by texting her too soon. Girls want a guy who is scarce and not so available. You basically ruined your chances after you sent multiple texts without waiting for her response. Move on. If she contacts you, set up a date. Be curious and skeptical but have fun. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Doing all fine until...Just keep going on dates with her. Hang out, have fun, hook up. You shouldn't be so focused on a relationship. It needs to be her idea. Also date other women, keep your options open and don't put all your eggs in one basket. | /r/seduction | 12/07/19 05:38 AM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong?You're texting too much, and killing all the tension. You should stay busy and not be available 24/7. It's a turn off to girls when you're too easy. | /r/seduction | 12/07/19 05:33 AM |
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