| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 18 | Never EVER take or send nudes. This poor woman had then used against her 12 years ago and then spread around town recently by her neighbor who got access to her case. The post was made by the woman's husband.I don't believe in victim blaming women who's nudes are leaked and I know how people get about the warning not to take nudes but it's true: DON'T SHARE NUDES if you would be embarrassed by them being leaked. I'm sorry but there is absolutely no GOOD reason for me to ever take and send nudes to anyone. Even in my long term relationship, I was never asked for nudes, nor was I ever sent dick pics. When did the production of pornography become such a normal part of a person's sex life? Of course, if… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/22 04:03 PM |
| 202 | Asshole tells his wife to lose weight or consent to being cheated onShe doesn't know how to feel about it??? This is something I notice a lot, a man will blatantly disrespect a woman or hurt her (emotionally or physically) and she won't know "how to feel about it". I think it's a sign of how well some women have been brainwashed into questioning their feelings when it comes to the mistreatment they endure at the hands of men. Even her "idk" when she says it would be nice if she supported her weight loss journey instead of sleeping around. This is very sad. She s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 01:31 AM |
| 2 | If you dated men who expressed they were not attracted to women from their own culture, what red flags did they have? What other problematic behaviors and personalities did these men exhibit?Hmm... I did once waste my time with a NVM who told me that he didn't usually date girls of my ethnicity (we were the same ethnicity)... But that the only girl he got pregnant (she had an abortion) was of our ethnicity. Looking back, that was a clear sign that he did not respect us enough to have responsible safe sex. He only did that with the girls of his preferred group. He saw women of his ethnicity as undesirable and so it didn't matter if he derailed our life with an unplanned/unwanted preg… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Do you think this certain person from Love is Blind USA HV? Think again. *Spoiler Alert* 🚨Thank you!!! I did not like him or buy his act at all! I was beginning to wonder if I was just jaded. He does not come across as genuine to me but rather like he's checking off a cheesy romantic comedy list of things to do. I'm glad to see that I'm not the only one who felt that he was off. That whole situation with the ex seemed really sketchy and I don't believe that he was entirely honest with her or Mallory. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 04:40 PM |
| 111 | guys who say they don't know what they are looking for on oldIt's as strategic for them not to say what they're looking for as it is for us. If we're told not to tell them what we're looking for to avoid them tailoring their behaviour to future-fake... It only makes sense that they don't tell us outright that they only want sex to avoid us cutting ties immediately. Ideally we could be honest with each other but that's not to either party's advantage so we just have to vet to wade through the bull-ish. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 01:07 AM |
| -20 | “She doesn’t bother to pretend she’s not being raped and that makes my pp sad”Ok? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 08:17 PM |
| 329 | “She doesn’t bother to pretend she’s not being raped and that makes my pp sad”Edit: SPELLING Mia Khalifa has been saying for years that she regrets doing porn and that she's unhappy that those videos are out there forever...and this degenerate actively went to look for them and has the audacity to make this "critique"???? What a crusty scrote. Then adding women of colour as if being a favourite porn star of some loser is representation and helps counteract racism? They are as delusional as they are disgusting. 🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 05:31 PM |
| 14 | Men will not compromise on their space and living arrangements just for being in a relationship. They can use the woman's place as their own when it suits them but not return the favour. Women who compromise for the men that don't, disrespect their own boundaries.He's 31 with THREE roommates??? Housing is a mess in NYC, wow. It's really holding people back from moving onto the next stage of their adult lives. That being said, there's something that doesn't sit right with me about a 31 year old man having 3 roommates. I really feel for OP because having a space that you love is so important BUT I don't think him moving in is a good idea at all. He made a passing comment about helping with rent probably because he felt he should and he knew that OP wouldn'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 04:29 PM |
| 13 | Crystal Hefner Destroys Depraved Hugh Hefner's Revenge Porn StashLet us throw the term "underage woman" into the deepest pits of hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Scrote is trying to take his date to a storage unit to make her clean it!This is a great confirmation for my decision to put a hold on dating until restaurants and other typical date venues reopen. LVM have been having a field day not having to plan or pay for dates. Sorry but a guy who isn't a worthless POS wouldn't even think of bringing you to his dirty storage unit. Also, notice how scrotes suddenly get soooo creative when it's time to waste a woman's time or pull a fast one on her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Masturbation requires porn apparentlySincerely, A Pick-me 🙄😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 01:00 PM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]I'm sorry, I'm not a parent so maybe I'm reaching but... Ladies would you want to know if your child's teacher was romantically 🤢 involved with a teenager? People's personal lives are their business but I wouldn't be comfortable with a man who has already proven himself to be predatory teaching my child. This young lady could pass for a tween and I refuse to believe that this was the first instance of him being attracted 🤢 to someone who not only is much younger than him but who also looks so mu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 09:50 PM |
| 5 | Husband openly telling OP he doesn’t like the way she looks and he preferred her when she was 17…"I don't think my husband is into teenagers at all. " Uh huh... Did he say he preferred you when you were 20-30 or did he specifically say he preferred you when you were sevenTEEN???? She's lying to herself at this point. And I would be incredibly shocked if this scrote who was so comfortable telling the woman who carried and birthed his kids that he liked her better as a teen wasn't also watching porn featuring TEENAGERS. But she's probably found some way to justify or explain thay away as well… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 06:17 PM |
| 10 | Don't help your man find a job. And don't help women who ask you to help theirsI'm so sorry that you went through that. It's actually quite scary to think that even as the breadwinner, you can still be the victim of financial abuse. Thank you for sharing your story. And I wish nothing for the best for you, your children and girlfriend ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 03:51 PM |
| 17 | [deleted by user]He's a teacher too????? 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 10:15 PM |
| 42 | This queen! 👏Not gonna lie, I would do this for my ex. He would never ask, but I would always (politely) communicate with waitstaff if there was an issue. We were in a LTR and he went above and beyond for me in so many areas, I had no problem taking the lead in those situations. That being said, if someone I went on a few dates with (was not in an established relationship with) asked me to speak to the server on his behalf... It would make me less attracted to him. IDC, IDC! If he can't handle himself when h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 06:05 PM |
| 2 | "High" standards will literally save your life. Say no to flying out to meet strange men. Say no to walks & hikes with strange men. PLEASE protect yourselves ladies!Thank you for the update and I'm glad you were able to get out of your situation safely ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 05:24 PM |
| 47 | Am I the only woman tired of men acting like the entire world around them is a 24/7 offline dating service?THIS!!! I had a man follow me out of the subway, into the grocery store across the street. Many people get off at that stop to shop at that particular grocery store, so I didn't think much of it at first. It was only when I crossed him in 3 different aisles that I allowed myself to admit that he was following me (because when we're rightfully aware of our surroundings, they call us paranoid). After running into him for the 3rd time, I called a friend to stay on the phone with me as I hid from hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 02:44 PM |
| 20 | "High" standards will literally save your life. Say no to flying out to meet strange men. Say no to walks & hikes with strange men. PLEASE protect yourselves ladies!Yup https://www.thedailybeast.com/angela-tramonte-dies-in-arizona-desert-after-hike-with-cop-who-has-history-of-lying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 11:19 AM |
| 51 | "High" standards will literally save your life. Say no to flying out to meet strange men. Say no to walks & hikes with strange men. PLEASE protect yourselves ladies!I'll definitely be following this story as it unfolds because there are too many reasons to be suspicious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 01:13 AM |
| 80 | "High" standards will literally save your life. Say no to flying out to meet strange men. Say no to walks & hikes with strange men. PLEASE protect yourselves ladies!That's a great point. He did just that but to the most extreme level and that's the best case scenario. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 09:33 PM |
| 208 | "High" standards will literally save your life. Say no to flying out to meet strange men. Say no to walks & hikes with strange men. PLEASE protect yourselves ladies!This story reeks of foul play, yet because the man in question is a cop (which is its own 🚩 in my opinion. Politics aside, the rates of ipv exacted by cops are notoriously high) he is not even being considered a suspect in this poor woman's death. Angela Tramonte deserves justice, which begins with the bare minimum of a proper investigation into her untimely death. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Just a quick reminder: never ask a guy out.Thank you so much! It hurt but I'm glad I learned that lesson sooner rather than later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Just a quick reminder: never ask a guy out.Thank you dear❤️It hurt but it was a valuable lesson. I decided to share in the hopes someone else can avoid my mistakes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 03:18 PM |
| 34 | Blood in the water: a custom made tacticThis is fantastic! I think I have a really good example of a boundary Drop (OP or anyone else, please feel free to tell me if I'm off base)! Years ago, I was wasting my time with a NVM. All we would do was watch Netflix (at my place, of course🙄). I love tv & movies so it didn't bother me too much. But I'm veryparticular about what I watch. There are plenty of shows/movies that I've never seen for reasons as small as I don't like the actor(s) to bigger reasons like the premise is offensive. Now, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 03:31 PM |
| 65 | I'm going to have a nude sculpture of you in the living room even if you don't like it.People are sick! The comments don't seem to acknowledge that it was a sculpture of HER and that SHE isn't comfortable. I bet they'd be more sympathetic if it were a man saying that his wife insists on keeping something in the home that makes him feel badly about hos own body. I find it hard to believe the husband doesn't know that having a nude statue of herself when she was fitter would cause her distress about her current looks. Plus, in the living room??? Maybe, just maybe she doesn't want ev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 02:48 AM |
| 147 | Just a quick reminder: never ask a guy out.(edit: typo) This makes me think of something my first boyfriend (we were in our late teens) said to me. He treated me so terribly and one day I finally asked him what made him pursue me because his behaviour didn't make it seem like he liked me at all. He looked me dead in the eyes and said "Well, I could tell you were interested so I figured 'why not?'". That has stayed with me til this day and I'm in my 30s now. His whole reason for dating me was knowing that I was easily available to him. He… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 02:10 AM |
| 11 | (SPOILERS) "I should treat you like my mom" - Too Hot to Handle is a Hot MessI'd love to see that. Also, apparently Marvin has done the circuit of French reality shows. So the whole show just seems like Netflix exploiting ppl's desperation to increase their social media presence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Girl, you need the FBI, not relationship advice 😳We may need a flair for sexual assault. This was very triggering tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 06:12 AM |
| 5 | Beware the ones who “forget their wallet,” ladies.I'm so happy to live in a country where we can simply e-transfer money. I've never had a date "forget" their wallet but best believe they would be transferring me the money before I paid the bill and they'd never hear from me again😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 05:47 AM |
| 7 | It isn’t that bad…Wow, this is bleak. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 05:12 AM |
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