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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 12:31 AM
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Again, what i said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:08 AM
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Hell, all the "are we dating the same guy" facebook pages prove it. Those pages would not and could not exist if women weren't all chasing the same men. They don't all chase the same men, even UGLY men are on dating apps trying to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:33 AM
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Most women aren't after super hot millionaires but the average man fails to meet literally the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:32 AM
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There are TONS of stats about women being worse off in relationships but men don't listen and don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:14 AM
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Why don't you date other men then?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:40 AM
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Men who pay for sex aren't good people, don't care about the women they're paying for. It's a huge mismatch of values if a man is willing to pay for sex and it's absolutely disgusting and gives diseases.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:40 AM
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And you wouldn't hesitate about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:39 AM
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For less promiscuous women, it isn't at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:38 AM
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Is it not obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:33 AM
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Yeah and it's all awful
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:32 AM
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Well 'MILF Whore woman' something tells me that wouldn't really matter to you anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:28 AM
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No, I was a young girl with low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:26 PM
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Do you honestly think your wrinkles and saggy skin are attractive to women your own age? TOTAL lack of self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:40 PM
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They're all either gay or in happy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:39 PM
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You do realise that personal stories don't prove anything compared to a population of millions? Has that gone completely over your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:04 PM
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No it isn't, women prefer to date men around the same age, less than 10% of women date more than 9 years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:58 PM
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But they won't be or not nearly in the same numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:53 PM
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Because now they're less attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:49 PM
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You seem really mentally ill
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:25 PM
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Exactly, most women don't want older men even with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:24 PM
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Well maybe they should've settled down sooner
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:15 PM
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They're still older
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:14 PM
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What biological sense does it make for him to do this when a younger woman is more fertile, and looks better because she has the appearance cues that signal youth and fertility? Why should women date older men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:13 PM
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Men are such massive hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:10 PM
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I had no other standards, I had the mindset of 'I should give any guy who likes me a chance' which was the biggest mistake of my life. Looking back I would've been very vulnerable to an older man grooming me, but older men scared me and looked VERY old compared to me (since I've always looked young for my age) I see it happening to younger woman all the time now though and I can understand why.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:50 PM
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I only EVER dated my age peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:40 PM
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Younger women have standards that are too low This is a huge problem, I had literally zero standards at that age because I had no confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:59 PM
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No, most women don't. Far more men lie about bodycount than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:38 PM
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So you'll lie to your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:33 PM
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Looks like prostitutes are the equivalent for men of high n-count for women Nope, high n counts are bad for men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:20 PM
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Women do ask potential LTRs though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:54 AM
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Pretty sure most men care lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:53 AM
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That's a ridiculous claim to make
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:40 AM
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Most woman would insta dump if they found this out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:39 AM
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Lie to a future partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:29 AM
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Women will not want to date men who've used prostitutes, men are making themselves even more undatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:00 AM
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Again, if all men want to have sex with their friends then there's no point in dating any of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:39 PM
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You literally said my male friends all secretly want to have sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:01 PM
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Women are the ones pushing for marriage. I've never seen a single man in my entire life be excited to get married. Because society tells women that the most important thing in the world is approval from men and that without it, they are worthless spinsters doomed to die alone. Most of the time they're hesitant but eventually go along with it. It's always women planning the weddings, wanting some fairy tale marriage. Be realistic, now. Yeah, a wedding is a huge socially validating thing for women…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:58 PM
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So they're all would be cheaters?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:31 PM
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Marriage is for women, not men. Women have nothing to gain from marriage though. If women were smart, they'd give their man 3somes instead of complaining about their sexuality. So women have to go through the pain of seeing their partner with someone else in exchange for what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:01 PM
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So all these men secretly want to have sex with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:37 PM
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Then what does?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:36 PM
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So the solution is everyone to be polygamous?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:34 PM
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Maybe you're ugly. I don't know. Or maybe my male friends ACTUALLY love their girlfriends? Why is it more likely that I'm too hideous to be attracted to rather than men actually care about their partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:34 PM
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No, it's evolutionary biology 'Evolutionary biology' operates under whatever assumptions you want. Humans traditionally lived in tribes and sperm competition is a known thing, it's literally why dicks are shaped the way they are. Having children with many different men ensured that all the kids would get protection from the fathers as there was no way in telling which kid was his. Also the Coolidge effect applies to both men AND women: https://exploringyourmind.com/the-coolidge-effect-how-does-i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:38 PM
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Nope, LOL of course. Typically women are wired to find the highest quality man and try to make him settle with her. This is red pill bullshit, women like variety too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:57 PM
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Having a bunch of women > 1 hot woman What is the point in dating men then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:35 AM
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What is the point in dating men then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:34 AM
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Is there any point in relationships with men then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:33 AM
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Would you be okay with women doing this too?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:32 AM
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LOL no, where do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:58 AM
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"We'll see where it goes" is "no" Then why not say no
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:35 AM
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Well, if the guys norm includes dating younger hotter women regularly, makes sense he would find women his own age a lot less attractive in comparison. In what world is this the norm? If we're discussing age gap relationships, then the younger woman in question did find the older man attractive and is in a relationship with him. No. Just no. Younger women will often date men for money but cheat with a guy their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:37 AM
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This is generally the norm yes. Women don't tend to find older men attractive, these men are complete hypocrites going through the aging process themselves but expressing absolute disgust at women who've aged as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:54 AM
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They find older women ugly These older women are THE SAME AGE AS THEM.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:49 AM
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You know, due to your age, you would never have a chance with him. LOL I'd much rather get a hot guy my own age than dad bod, pudgy, post wall Leo lmao We aren't attracted to much older men but men just DO NOT want to accept this and will constantly push the 'women are jealous' myth to comfort themselves about their own aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:45 AM
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From what I've seen, it's mostly autistic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:56 AM
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Then it doesn't apply. So men and women can only be friends if the man is gay and then somehow what you're saying doesn't apply? Then he doubly shouldn't have female friends. Do you honestly think men are that out of control that they can't NOT see a woman in a sexual way? You're getting something out of it. Like what? OF course you had no idea. You're a woman and they are generally clueless about how men think/work. Pretty sure my male friends in relationships don't secretly want sex/a relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:32 AM
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Men want physical relationships with women. Romantic relationships. A woman keeps around a non-romantic man so she can get all the things women seek from men. Maybe he buys her drinks. Helps her life heavy things. Gets life advice from them. What if the man is gay? Or has a girlfriend? We 'keep around' non romantic men because we like them as people and value them. I've picked my male best friend up from the airport when he was stranded and made him food when he was ill, I've lent money to male …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:15 PM
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Literally how?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:53 PM
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If a woman wants to just be "friends" it's because she wants to extract benefits from a non-romantic relationship with that man. In other words, she wants something for nothing. Do you think that men don't benefit from friendship?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:56 PM
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Oof very ambitious, most of them start at like 7 these days unless you go very young.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:45 PM
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Go find a local incel and make him happy. What does an incel have to do with what I said? That's the best we can offer a pink piller in this regard... What does this have to do with anything
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:44 PM
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Same lol, shame there are so few of them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:07 PM
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Extracting resources? What are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:51 PM
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'I don't believe in sex before marriage, I've never had casual sex ever'
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:29 PM
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So? Not the point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:25 AM
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If you're not in a relationship with them then they're extracting resources from you free of charge. What kind of man would submit to that treatment? What on earth are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:11 AM
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Don't, most neurotypical women don't like or want autistic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:57 AM
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Men are told they are rapists and child molesters This is pretty dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:54 AM
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You still don't get it do you? Women don't like feeling used
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 10:54 PM
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I literally started and finished 10 engineering master courses in the same amount of time I don't care You saying 7 months is a short time. Yes, it is a relatively short space of time to get to know someone, I've known friends for 15 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 10:43 PM
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Well yes because forming a friendship with someone JUST to pursue them romantically is strange, how much do I need to explain normal social conventions to you people?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 10:41 PM
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Well the men on this sub and pretty much a sub species all on their own
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 10:40 PM
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Don't even know what that means but I had to select one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 10:40 PM
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Again, what does this have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:59 PM
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Well most relationships are built on friendship so this doesn't really make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:43 PM
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Clearly, you don't even seem to know what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:42 PM
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yeah bcz first you tell us to open up and then use that against us or make fun of us. Who does that? A story of a guy who had only daughters and a wife in family shared this with Irene Brown. You tell us to be vulnerable and then shame us in return so yeah we don't believe you. So one story is enough to draw a broad conclusion that applies to all women? You didn't read what I copy pasted, right the last paragraph. Let me copy what you pasted EXACTLY: *'It's hardly surprising**, then, that in thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:39 PM
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What are you even trying to say here? Food is a literal need and you will die without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:37 PM
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Yeah I did. We differ psychologically and how society raises us. You can't undo years of brain damage in a single stroke. Then why aren't men speaking out and advocating for deeper friendships between men? Women tell men that not being vulnerable and open is bad for you and could be 'toxic masculinity' and men flip out and blame women. It's hardly surprising, then, that in this atmosphere, as a single man dating women, I often felt attacked, judged, on the defensive. She literally says it's hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:48 PM
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trying not eating anything for 6 months. Pretty sure i'd starve to death
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:44 PM
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So you ignored the video of a trans man admitting guys are more lonely, Did you actually watch the video? He said women are more open and deep with their connections than men are. If men don't like this they are free to work towards making each other more open but they don't seem to want to. Nora saying how horribly men are treated by women. Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:31 PM
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Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:29 PM
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For most men it is. Again, that is not normal. confirmed by Nora Vincent who tried out being a mam and comitted suicide later due to the horrible experience of a man. She committed suicide due to life long treatment resistant depression but of course the MRAs got hold of it and tried to twist it into something else. As I said I don't expect you to understand, just like I don't know the period pain of yours you won't understand ours. I just said I have been lonely though, you just ignored it. I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:59 PM
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She did make it clear, she said she wanted to be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:56 PM
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Then why not make it clear in the first place? Make what clear? That we value men as more than just potential sex partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:47 PM
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Men aren't to blame for that. Yes they are, becoming romantically interested in anyone who gives you attention is not normal at all. Loneliness makes you vulnerable to such things. Then actually go and make connections with people. An average woman doesn't so it's understandable that you won't get it. I've been lonely before so I actually went out of my way to make friends with people and now I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:43 PM
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They can and do go away, if you still value the person and enjoy spending time with them then why wouldn't want you also want to be their friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:16 PM
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Well then it's on the men not to become romantically interested with every woman that gives them the slightest acknowledgement?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:16 PM
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So you don't want a friendship with her or a purely sexual relationship... then what would you do exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:29 AM
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You don't want to be friends with a romantic partner? How do you even operate a relationship then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:28 AM
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But if I ask someone out with romantic etc intentions…no I don’t want to be friends. That doesn’t mean I don’t treat women like people. It doesn’t mean I only treat women like sex objects….that is a low IQ take away How exactly does this work?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:15 AM
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Well most women want an actual deep connection, not to be a sex dispensing machine to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:14 AM
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How is that bs?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:29 AM
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What does that have to do with what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:29 AM
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If you see no purpose of women other than a thing you can stick your dick in, this would make sense. A lot of women actually value men, enjoy their company and find them interesting and exciting people, hell I'd wager a lot of men feel the same way about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:22 PM
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Given that men make up the majority of users on dating apps, I'd say it's substantial.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:14 PM
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That’s according to research firm GlobalWebIndex (GWI), which released some figures on Tinder from its latest survey of more than 47,000 internet users around the world that suggest the app has a wider demographic. In fact, the research claims that 30% of Tinder users surveyed are married, while another 12% are in a relationship. 54% classed themselves as single, while 3% were divorced or widowed. Did you even read this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:24 PM
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My standards have changed over the years
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:09 AM
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Exactly! You aren't trying to get married
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 03:08 PM
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Doesn't matter, this is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:01 PM
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No it really doesn't. Men are more likely to do just about every bad thing you can imagine,
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:10 AM
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Women are told their eggs expire at 30 and they are doomed to a life of depressing solitude if they can't convince a man to marry them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:11 PM
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No it really isn't, women are far more unhappy in relationships than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:58 PM
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42% of men on tinder are already in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:03 PM
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If she really, really wanted to, she has a dozen guys in her Insta dm's who would be happy to be in a relationship with her. What planet are you living on?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:02 PM
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All but the most unattractive women can get dates at will. For what? Sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:01 PM
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Men DO want to commit, but they often just don't have luck getting into a relationship. Most men could get a relationship if they wanted one but most men are awful partners and have very little motivation to change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:54 PM
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I think there's a slight bias to your responses there. I guess we have read different sources. Where are these sources? All I'll say is if it truly is much worse for women, then why do women want to get married? Because women have been told since childhood that marriage is the most important thing to aspire to and without it you have zero value.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:49 PM
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But more total labour if you add external and domestic labour together. Untrue, women do more when you combine both. Once you take kids out of the mix married women also live longer than single women. Not true again. I personally think it's complete BS. In a marriage BOTH people think they are sacrificing 90% of the time. If you only consider yourself, that means unaware people don't know about the sacrifices their partner makes. Marriage is much worse for women and women bear much more of the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:23 PM
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Is there any point dating men if this is how you think
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:15 PM
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Okay: A 24 year old professional, no criminal record, drinks on the weekends (sometimes heavily), good relationship with mother, has a few relationships but all ended because he never really pushed the relationship forward. A 32 year old self employed man, doesn't make much but works hard, non smoker/drinker, cheated on last girlfriend due to feelings of insecurity, vowed never to do it again. A 20 year old man, still in college studying hard to be an engineer. Seeing a few girls at once, really…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:06 PM
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You don't know what asshole and fuckboy mean? Yes I get the definition of the word but what would qualify?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:50 PM
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Support in what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:41 PM
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Did I want to hook up with a good looking girl? Of course. That's pretty sad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:41 PM
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But you wanted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:05 PM
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Assholes and fuckboys. Which are like what? Relationship minded men are everywhere. Again, what are these men like?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:45 AM
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Define 'unstable men' and where are these relationship minded men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:33 AM
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Yes. Well the overwhelming majority of men don't even though they're easy to meet. Careful, your misandry is showing. Just facts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:09 AM
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To answer your second question…Seriously?…you don’t know why men struggle more post divorce?… No? Because most of the stuff the manosphere says is complete bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:40 AM
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What benefits do most guys get out of marriage? - Married men do less household labour vs single men - Married men live longer than single men Only men benefit from marriage. 90% of the risk is taken on by 1 person and I’ll let you guess which one it is. How is that true? These guys have seen the results and data and have checked out of going down that route. What results and data?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:40 AM
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Statistically it's true, men are more likely to want casual sex than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:32 AM
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Exactly but women are still blamed for this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:39 AM
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Exactly, no 22 year old men are out here trying to get married lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:12 AM
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You're not even a good troll
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:51 PM
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Most women want relationships but the guys are the ones messing them around
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:36 PM
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He replied as though he was talking about me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:36 PM
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You could've said 'women should stop waiting' but you specifically said 'you' smh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:32 PM
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You were replying to my specific comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:39 PM
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Stop waiting in situationship status because you'd rather have some of him than none of him. When did I say I did this? Why do men assume details about a womans life?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:46 PM
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Women don't generally wait to late to get serious, but it's hard to get serious when men aren't serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:02 PM
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You meet those standards? I've never met a single man that meets those standards because most men are garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:33 AM
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Er no, I'm not interested in hearing about men 'banging hundreds of 19 year olds now they're a high value men in their 50s'
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:54 PM
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This is such a crazy take lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:25 AM
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I'd say a large % of the men here are autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:46 AM
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Who would've thought that whoring around for years wouldn't bring happiness and fulfilment.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/23 04:18 PM
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Yes, this plus the fact that she's really awkward
/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 01:09 PM
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But that's because most men fail at the first hurdle
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:56 AM
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And yet most men aren't going to date a fat woman for her personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:53 AM
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It's literally the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:49 PM
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Because you're implying that there's a big gap between decent women and decent men There IS Lets say you try and pair up all the men/women who've never cheated on a partner > 20% of men cheat in a lifetime compared to 13% of women That 7% gap may not seem like much but in terms of population In the USA that would leave 147.54 million 'faithful women' but only 132.49 million faithful men. Just on standards of faithfulness alone, you'd end up with 15 million single women who cannot find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:42 PM
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Yes. A lot of women lack accountability because society allows them. Lack accountability for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:34 PM
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I think a lot of mens problems would be solved if they had that attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:32 PM
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I understand about being disgusted with a guy on that part, but maybe you can chill out on the other areas. Instead of NO, maybe limited. It is hard to find a person who has self-control and is an adult, man or women. Limited on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:29 PM
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inadvertedly implying there really is not eniugh to be an average bloke these days The average man is a complete waste of space so yeah there's a reason why improvement is suggested.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:26 PM
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Same thing for women, there aren't enough decent women around Bullshit, there are always more decent women than men. If you want to put it really simply, there are more men who are violent criminals than women so if you try to match men and women up based on that, there will always be women left over who can't find anyone. As a men, your selection pool is smaller because most women ignore you. It's absolutely worse, when it comes to your selection pool. A bit of self improvement would easily fix…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:19 PM
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Why did you answer every comment with 'but wimmin too' This conversation isn't about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:12 PM
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you might want to consider either lowering your standards or keep waiting. Why should I have to lower my standards? Based on your standards, I assume you're a virgin? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:47 PM
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So you're personal anecdote is better evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:42 PM
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What does loneliness have to do with sexual assault? What exactly do you want women to do? Make friends for you? Be a better friend for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:41 PM
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What bloody men? Seriously. Most men, because this is the dynamic in most straight relationships and is one reason why women are so unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:53 PM
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in my life I felt the visceral fear of death and that I had to take care of my body more. Now that I'm single I could hardly give a shit I OD'd last year and when my consciousness was fading I was thinking to myself aight thats it fuck it lol. Why don't men look after themselves without women motivating them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:20 AM
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Should've settled down younger
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:46 AM
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Maybe you should've settled down in your 20s then instead of riding the p*ssy carousel
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:56 PM
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You're a fool if you think chaste women don't also want chaste men. Promiscuity is unattractive regardless.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/23 06:16 AM
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Or when they want a woman to try and 'fix' them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:04 PM
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I DON'T CARE, WHAT DOES THIS HAVE TO DO WITH ME?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:28 AM
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What the fuck does that have to do with me, who are you even talking to?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:56 AM
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Well yes I'm very fit and in shape and I don't want to date a fat guy, the fact that most men are overweight or obese doesn't make my standard unreasonable or too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:10 AM
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Well, I think you know your list is unrealistic. No, it's just most men nowadays are complete slobs and have no standards for themselves. How about just learning to meet people you like instead of using boxes to see if someone is good or not lol. That doesn't work, if I like a guy a lot and find out he's been promiscuous i'd be disgusted and turned off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:44 PM
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Men are not on dating apps posting no fat chicks. And I'm not on dating apps posting 'no fat men'. Not saying you won't find someone, but likely you will have to adjust your list. I wish you well. I'm definitely not adjusting my list, and I don't date anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:26 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:25 PM
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And to most women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:14 PM
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You’re intentionally missing the point. I already said if the two people dating are generally clean human beings who know how to clean up after themselves, then cleaning up after each other shouldn’t be a big ask if he asks you or if she asked me to. And you're missing the point, despite it being easy/manageable, men still won't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:14 PM
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Men get killed if they say that now lol. Barely, a lot of men expect this and more. You can get away with it because you are a female. I'm hardly 'getting away with it' a bunch of men are messaging and responding saying I'm extremely unreasonable and will die alone/with cats. If you find 60-70% of men attractive that is kinda high, just the fact your list rules out 90% of men without taking attraction into it is funny. Well yes, most men fail on this before anything else is even considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:53 PM
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Again, it's extremely unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:32 PM
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Well most people don't get stds from kissing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:18 PM
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I’m hesitant with even a girl who has kissed guys before. That's going to be pretty much all of them over the age of 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:03 PM
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I suppose but it would depend on why. I've only kissed a couple of guys and only in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:52 PM
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If a man is saying the stuff you are saying. He would be listed as toxic lol. No he wouldn't and men frequently say these things. If a man said, I won't date any fat girls. Two X chrom would find you and burn you. What's that got to do with me and my standards? I don't mind the weight thing, I get it. But, we are not even getting into the fact you don't have looks listed in your floor, which is why I think your list is kind of silly. Well 'looks' is a pretty hard thing to define? I would say mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:51 PM
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You realise these standards are the bare minimum, not a guarantee of a relationship? Why did you get rejected?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:48 PM
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Beyond kissing/light touching no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:47 PM
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That’s not what is relevant here. Yes it is. (assuming you meet those yourself). Far exceed Women with all those 5 criteria are a unicorn in the US, because #1 alone makes them highly sought after by men, while the opposite isn’t true for guys because height is prioritized ahead of body Again, most men don't hit those 5 regardless of other traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:22 PM
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Yes dated, a couple of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:14 PM
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It is your floor is so high, I am sure your other shit it just stupid and nobody would be good enough for you. Not at all, I'd be happy to date a short guy, a guy with an average job, a guy with some debt, a guy who doesn't have the best credit. I am also going to add in the fact you are not likely a 10 so there making it unlikely you will get picked by top guys. So in order to be with a man who isn't fat or porn addicted or a slut, you have to be a 10? Is that what you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:14 PM
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None.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:11 PM
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Which we don't even get started on if the person is good looking, has a good job, you enjoy doing the same things. Well of course, because I have all those things to offer. That is your floor. Your ceiling must be crazy lol. I didn't know that not wanting to date a fat, porn addicted, mentally ill childish slut was so unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:54 PM
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I doubt it, most men fail those 5 before height is even factored in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:40 PM
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The fact you have not found someone lol. I had people interested but as i said most men don't meet these standards. Also do they have to be attractive or just meeting those are good enough for a start? Well these are the bare minimum to not be immediately ruled out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:30 PM
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How old are you? 26 You just seem unrealistic and I see lots of cats in your future. How is it unrealistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:28 PM
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You’d be drowning in options where I live or anywhere in the US really I seriously doubt the US is drowning in fit, mentally healthy sexually conservative men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:19 PM
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Those standards are pretty wild lmao. Seriously? 4/5 are entirely within your control but they're 'pretty wild'? No porn watching, or video games. Because you list addictions, but I am sure you mean NO games lol. Well they're all bad habits, especially porn. Also the world we live in everyone has a mental illness pretty much. Having a bout of depression or anxiety is fine but no neurodiversity or personality disorders.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:18 PM
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but I don't think people who meet your goals, you would meet theirs lol. Based on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:13 PM
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I've already given up, as I've said 90% of men fail at the first hurdle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:40 PM
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See what I mean smh. Besides even if you met the criteria, you'd be too old.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:37 PM
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I make 100k+ and own 3 properties so I would be more than capable of affording them and housing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:37 PM
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Highly unlikely. Obviously this is the bare minimum but they would also need to be: Within 3 years of my age Straight Interested in having 4+ children Interested in similar things Have at least some degree of ambition And that rules out even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:28 PM
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Most men would not date a woman that had BPD even though it isn't her fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:24 PM
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I never said all men were, I said most men will fail at least one of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:23 PM
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LOL no pretty sure they wouldn't want to. Half of posts on r/bpd are women complaining about being dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:13 PM
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No it doesn't apply to women. Women are less likely to be overweight than men, they have less sexual partners, are less likely to cheat, are MUCH less likely to watch porn and be alcoholics and have lower rates of personality disorders.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:12 PM
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That's the bare minimum they'd have to meet to not be immediately disqualified. If most men fail to meet this is doesn't mean that I'm being unreasonable, it means most men have unbelievably low standards for themselves. 4/5 of these are entirely within a mans control I mean, what is so unreasonable about not wanting to date a fat, undisciplined, mentally ill slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:11 PM
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*You're And yes they do overlap, but the point is that most men will fail at least one of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:07 PM
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How is that relevant? BPD isn't a choice either, but I doubt many men would be down to be with a chick with BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:05 PM
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: whoops :D -no STDS but well exceed 5+ also I'm older Promiscuity is an absolute disqualifier, so you've already failed. I have "adult ADHD". I like to try new things, have an insiatiable curiousity, I will never stagnate. so I guess...sorrtaaaa meet? Absolutely not. So case in point, you failed 2/5 meaning you're the 90% I'm referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:02 PM
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There’s plenty of men who meet all your bare minimum requirements No there really isn't. 50% of men are overweight or obese so that's HALF the male population ruled out already. Men have an average of 6 previous sexual partners and 25% have cheated, that rules out another huge chunk. 70% of men watch porn at least occasionally so that's almost 2/3 ruled out on that alone. 13% of men have ADHD, 5% have autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:46 PM
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They aren't absurd at all, if most men fail to meet them it says more about men than it does about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:38 PM
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Not overweight or obese No history of cheating, promiscuity (5+ previous partners) or STDS No porn watching, alcohol/drug/gaming addictions Able to do all basic adult skills without being asked/begged/nagged No chronic mental illness/personality disorders (including adhd & autism) How are these standards absurd, please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:26 PM
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They'll happily bitch online about women not wanting them though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:26 PM
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I didn't even discuss 'bringing things to the table' I talked about bare minimum standards to not be disqualified. Let’s hear why a high valued male should date you specifically Meeting the bare minimum standards is all that it takes to be a high value man?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:07 PM
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My standards are reasonable and why should I lower them? I exceed all the standards I have for men. It’s more likely your the problems than the million of men Yeah no, if millions of men are fat, childish, mentally ill and slutty then me not wanting to date them isn't the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:02 PM
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I exceed the standards. Also this is pure just world fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:59 AM
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I'm about 95th percentile and still don't meet her "bare minimum standards." Of course sluts don't meet the standard, immediate disqualifier for an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:48 AM
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Men don't consider how unattractive they are to women generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:44 AM
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55kg
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:42 AM
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/ Don't give a shit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:41 AM
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Bare minimum standards for decent: Not overweight or obese No history of cheating, promiscuity (5+ previous partners) or STDS No porn watching, alcohol/drug/gaming addictions Able to do all basic adult skills without being asked/begged/nagged No chronic mental illness/personality disorders (including adhd & autism) I'd guess over 90% of men fail at the first hurdle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:08 AM
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Dating as a woman is a LOT worse than you think it is. There simply aren't enough decent men to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:04 AM
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both work and both do the housework. You aren't getting it are you? This is what women want but men just won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:37 PM
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No one is expecting men to work and do all the housework but men are readily expecting this of women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:48 PM
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f you don’t have a food cover, then wipe the inside of the microwave a few times a week, have sturdy paper plates and alternate between glass and red plastic cups when you want a drink to minimize dishes needing to be washed. I clean out my car every weekend. Wash the mats outside your bathtub, by your bathroom sink, and the rugs in the kitchen once a week. Separate each others white clothes, coloreds , and non dryables, and put them in the assorted section so you can just throw them in the wash…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:15 PM
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Which is a vague answer that's open ended. The opposite of what you said is vague and open ended?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:49 PM
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How can you not figure this out? I don't want to date men anymore and I have no interest in sleeping with them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:47 PM
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No the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:10 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:36 PM
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I never said I was a lesbian you weirdo, I'm just not interested in sleeping with or dating men anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:41 AM
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Still far more statistically likely that the woman just divorces the guy. Why are you now trying to change the subject? https://laurencomo.medium.com/female-breadwinners-are-50-more-likely-to-divorce-lets-talk-ddad398f6bdb They're more likely to file for divorce BECAUSE they got cheated on/abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:40 AM
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As women outearn husbands, domestic violence increases Domestic violence committed on female partners in heterosexual couples occurs significantly more frequently when the woman earns more than the man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:21 AM
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I'm not interested in having sex with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:15 AM
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It's here: https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2010/08/100816095617.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:16 AM
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You do realise that I have to sleep right? Here it is: https://www.smh.com.au/politics/federal/when-women-earn-more-than-their-male-partners-domestic-violence-risk-goes-up-35-per-cent-20210329-p57ewb.html#comments
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:14 AM
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If both work and make around the same amount, is it reasonable to split the bills and housework 50/50 Expect that rarely happens, women do more housework even when they're the breadwinner and their husbands are unemployed...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:13 AM
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I'm not miserable, I'm much happier because I don't date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:56 AM
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When did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:31 AM
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If men want women to do all domestic work then they should pay for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:30 AM
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Look at the divorce rate, women won't put up with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:00 AM
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Yes women like this do exist and they're all crying in other subreddits about how their husbands never help with anything and how miserable they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:19 AM
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If she's working too then yes it absolutely is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:52 AM
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No woman is going to be a free maid for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:47 AM
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But you have to do the equivalent for 2 people and then kids on TOP of this, it's completely unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:16 AM
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You'll find no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:12 AM
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If a you expect a woman to do ALL of the domestic labour then you should be paying for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:26 PM
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I’ll find the woman who wants this dynamic. You think there are women that WANT to be taken advantage of?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:15 PM
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only want rich men I don't care about money, I'd want a fair relationship if I dated. that you have to work and do “housework” Then why aren't men forced into doing this? Why do women have to fulfil both the male AND female roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:14 PM
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I'm just repeating what women say What women say this? Where? What are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:12 PM
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The majority of bills are paid by men. Source? Did you forget the divorce rate is 50% Yeah and there's a reason for that, women are sick of being in these relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:11 PM
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You think that's all the household work that needs to be done? Sweeping floors once a day?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:09 PM
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The woman I find won’t see it as unfair. Yes they would, why on earth would you agree to something that isn't fair? Would you agree to such a dynamic? lot more to lose in a failed marriage/relationship with kids involved. So I fail to see the unfairness. But like I said voice your opinion This is utter bullshit. Women end up poorer after divorce and you'll have the chance to make far more money than she will because she'll be too busy at home with the kids to work the long hours and get the prom…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:09 PM
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I'm sorry your sex life is unsatisfying. I don't have a sex life. You'll really like it when you love the person too. It's a whole different level. You're literally just making up assumptions in your head and responding as if they are true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:05 PM
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You may want to check again, 3 people have upvoted what I said. Your assertion that women can only love in exchange for money is the single most insane thing anyone has ever said on this site and so reeks of echo chamber manosphere bullshit that I don't even know what to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:04 PM
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Most women do that No they really don't. Even if she is the breadwinner. The husband uses his money to pay the bills That's utter horseshit, where are you getting this from?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:03 PM
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Why should a woman have to pay someone to do the work her partner is failing to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:01 PM
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Life’s not fair LOL so she should just suck it up and accept an unfair relationship? Women have always worked and have no issue doing so. It’s not like you have to deal with it and I’m only going to expect this from a woman who actually wants to do it so why do you care? Because this entitled attitude is the reason why dating men is so awful, they just constantly want, want, want. It doesn't matter that the burden of working AND household labour is exhausting and unsustainable, men just don't ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:01 PM
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Either lying or in denial it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:59 PM
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Lol sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:54 PM
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This is a well documented fact, nothing imagined about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:54 PM
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How is it fair to expect your partner to take on this huge time consuming job while also going to work at a job?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:54 PM
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Women are still fine with having sex without the orgasm. It still feels good and they enjoy the intimacy. And deeply dissatisfying, more satisfying with a vibrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:52 PM
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30% of women are the exception?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:52 PM
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Guessing that's a yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:51 PM
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Probably because the men start beating them up and cheating on them to soothe their own bruised masculine ego?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:51 PM
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Children can be wonderful but OF COURSE they are a burden. They scream and cry and throw tantrums and need constant attention and stimulation. They need doctors appointments and nutritious meals and plenty of extra curricular activity. They also get sick constantly because their immune systems aren't fully developed. Taking care of children is a huge burden and you trying to gaslight this situation like a woman should take on ALL of that burden by herself as well as work a job isn't going to wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:50 PM
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It absolutely is two jobs. Meal planning, cooking and taking care of children is already a huge burden but then she has to work on TOP of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:21 PM
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You want your partner to take of the burden of essentially 2 jobs while you work one, come home and relax?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:10 PM
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That’s why I’d rather find one who wants to. So you're openly seeking a relationship that is unfair from the get go?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:06 PM
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This is insane. What are women who date men who make less money doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:02 PM
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Why should women work AND do housework?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:01 PM
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Men enjoy sex a lot more than women, a lot of straight women don't even orgasm during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:00 PM
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So all the women who've married men who make less money are what? Lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:59 PM
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I'm sensing autism
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:56 PM
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And two the fact that you disagree that back then women were seen as better fit for raising children is insane. You're talking about a stereotype, can you prove this stereotype affected custody cases?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:30 PM
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I literally just put the fact that for years they didn’t. That's just not true though, you've obviously 'heard' this from the manosphere and believed it because men on here never do any fucking research.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:39 PM
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Men often don’t fight for it due to courts not being in their favor for the longest. Men are likely to get custody when they ask for it so how tf does that make any sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:09 PM
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You literally just linked to the thread. Most men don'y pay alimony, most child custody is decided outside the courts and when men ask for custody, they usually get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:39 PM
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He didn't say what specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:15 PM
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Again you responded with a claim right? Back the claim up like you said I needed to do. But the original claim wasn't made by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:01 PM
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You said divorce court isn’t biased against men so I said explain how. The burden of proof is on you lol. And I was responding to the assertion that divorce court IS biased against men. Unless i know why you think it's biased, how can I try to disprove it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:59 PM
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I've got plenty, but since you're the one making the claim, the burden of proof is on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:33 PM
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Well explain how it is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:30 PM
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What does this have to do with anything
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:56 PM
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Divorce court isn't biased against men, you've got redpill brain rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 11:08 AM
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You were with him for a reason, so I wonder what that reason was. Most guys don't even get that chance. 'MUH CHAAAAAAAD'
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:51 AM
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There is no "help" talk therapy and ssris are bs that will never help because the problems are intentional and not solvable until the puppet masters swing from light poles You could just actually seek out friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:11 AM
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A lot of men are single because they have deeper issues and don't want to get help. This, I've dumped guys who refused to improve but continued to blame everyone but themself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:10 AM
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it's the same when the statistics of cheating showed that it's equal in both gender Where are these stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:27 AM
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...were the "nice guys." Nice guys aren't really nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:25 AM
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You really have no idea apparently how serious the male loneliness pandemic is, haven't you? This is largely self caused.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:23 AM
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divorce court It really isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:19 AM
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Raised religious but are you very religious now? Still am, not as much though and I'm still a virgin. I really doubt that, most people raised very religiously back off and just become generally spiritual at best. I think if you were you'd centralize yourself in your religious description not the actions of the people who raised you. This is all wrong. There's something that you're hiding along with your diminished lack of faith. There really isn't, you just don't want to accept the fact that wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:21 PM
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Unless you're ultra religious, I was raised very religious, yes. Evrrything else was fine and you threw away a 10 because you were disgusted that he had a couple of people before you? It was 5 which I consider to be excessive, and 2/5 were hookups. As I said, I find casual sex to be the most disgusting, vile thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:38 PM
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He slept with a "few people" and you got turned off. I don't believe that I'm a virgin and the thought of my partner having sex before me disgusts me, just because it goes against your bullshit red pill worldview, doesn't make it not true. Especially with a guy you said was extremely good looking. I don't care, the thought of him sleeping with someone else makes me sick. Were these people of the same sex as him? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:47 PM
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Ok, then if you dont mind tell us why you broke up? He had slept with a few people before me which I thought was disgusting. You didn't say why you broke up and my best guess is some insecurity of his that made him unattractive to you and lose the spark. No, literally all your assumptions have been wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:44 AM
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Your mate value was higher and his was lower. Nope, he was extremely good looking. You broke up because you weren't feeling the "spark" anymore right? Nope, literally all your assumptions of the situation are wrong. Or he's just an outlier, don't take the experience of a guy and generalize it. My other ex who was very ugly pushed me into a wall and emotionally abused me because I was quote 'too nice'
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:50 PM
1

Well at least the pinkpill rhetoric has actual evidence to support it, the red pill is just emotional men sperging out online.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:46 AM
1

but if you think holding out makes him more attracted to you. You're dead wrong. My ex boyfriend TOLD ME that me being harder to get was a turn on lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:47 AM
1

Yeah it always comes down to money, if women are dating you for money they don't actually find you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:36 PM
1

That's bullshit, men don't appreciate women who are too easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:51 PM
-1

So bad men tend to lead exciting lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:28 AM
2

Yes they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:46 PM
0

Where are all these wonderful men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:20 PM
7

No, both is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:00 PM
3

Never in a million years. 3 is max.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:19 PM
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It really depends on a lot of things, No it REALLY doesn't. The vast majority of young women won't even look in your direction. There's overwhelming evidence that women don't want older men at all: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nG8Fc75bCtc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:16 PM
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That’s about 7 partners a year. That's insanely high.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:21 PM
-1

Again, in what? Why do you think women care about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:24 PM
0

I'm sick of their creepy behaviour too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:00 PM
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Not every woman feels that way. But MOST of us do and men don't seem to understand that you won't have a load of hot teen girls propelling themselves at you legs open the second you turn 40. We're sick of the delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:03 AM
2

Where are these women? Are they in the room with us right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:59 AM
-2

No MOST women don't like older men, some will use them for money and toss them aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:54 AM
-1

more experience More experience in what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:52 AM
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That's the majority of women then lmao If you want mandatory legal paternity testing, all men should have to legally disclose if they're ever cheated or gotten a woman pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:34 PM
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Funnily enough I'm a woman and i've had this exact experience with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:48 PM
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What kind of men are you dating that aren’t empathetic, aren’t capable of screenshoting an emotional description wheel online to refer to when at a loss for words to describe their feelings This isn't about me or my life, I'm talking generally about what the average woman experiences in relationships with men. can feed themselves and enthusiastically ask you how you like your pussy ate out? What the actual fuck, I was talking about women's experiences generally, this is an extremely graphic resp…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:25 PM
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Reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:45 PM
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delusional as hell. It's the truth, whether you like it or not. Western women are disloyal and hypergamous. Disloyal? Men cheat more than women. Hypergamy? I think the red pill has rotted your brain. Can't cook or clean And yet women still do the majority of cooking and cleaning in modern relationships. very basic like mac and cheese and of course prefer eating out. You have zero proof of this, it's pure conjecture. Entitled and expect u to do most of the work and be glad for them just giving u …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:44 AM
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What is a woman bringing to the table in a relationship??? Do I really need to spell it out? Women are expected to pay 50% of pretty much all expenses Women are expected to do the lions share of the 'domestic' work: The cooking, cleaning, childcare, pet care, care of elderly relatives, home maintenance, keeping track of appointments and health, planning outings and social events. Women have kept their 'traditional' gender roles and expectations while essentially taking on mens as well. Aside fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:22 AM
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Why is it cruel? Neurodivergence could be what caused this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:05 AM
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Sorry, did your red pill buddys not tell you that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:05 AM
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No it really isn't, stop talking out your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:01 AM
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Emotional intelligence? Domestic skills? Sexual skills? Literally anything more than what they bring now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:36 AM
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Because you said so?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:36 AM
1

For what? That women still do the majority of household labour? That most women in relationships work at least part time?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:12 AM
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This is not at ALL typical of the average heterosexual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:10 AM
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LOL go on, can't wait to hear how on earth you've managed to reach this conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:05 AM
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Do I really need to spell it out? > Women are expected to pay 50% of pretty much all expenses > Women are expected to do the lions share of the 'domestic' work: The cooking, cleaning, childcare, pet care, care of elderly relatives, home maintenance, keeping track of appointments and health, planning outings and social events. Women have kept their 'traditional' gender roles and expectations while essentially taking on mens as well. Aside from all this women are expected to stay in shape (despite…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:55 PM
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Do I really need to spell it out? > Women are expected to pay 50% of pretty much all expenses > Women are expected to do the lions share of the 'domestic' work: The cooking, cleaning, childcare, pet care, care of elderly relatives, home maintenance, keeping track of appointments and health, planning outings and social events. Women have kept their 'traditional' gender roles and expectations while essentially taking on mens as well. Aside from all this women are expected to stay in shape (despite…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:55 PM
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Its equivalent to saying a man should only ever date women if that same woman would have date him if he was perpetually unemployed and/or 4'10. That's a ridiculous comparison, being a 4'10 male would literally put you in the bottom 5th percentile. Becuase you still get a relationship while being able to indulge in your hypergamous nature, whereas men have to sacrifice their sexual needs to have a family. What hypergamous nature, what is this pseudoscientific red pill bullshit? Sexual needs? So m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:24 PM
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and women who don't realize what is actually going on. Lol prey tell
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:16 PM
1

What balance? And withhold children how? You mean withhold sperm? In which case women can go to a sperm bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:43 PM
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And this is why women don't want to date men. Women are carrying most of the burden of relationships but all men do is hate and blame us for every problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:56 PM
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They should do less in relationships yes, right now women are massively overstretching themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:49 PM
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Well maybe men should actually bring more to women's lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:59 PM
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No the reality is men trying to be whores, and failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:54 PM
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Even women on there acknowledge that the situation is grim for men. Women who don't realise what is ACTUALLY going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:50 PM
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Are you autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:49 PM
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40%+ of men on tinder are ALREADY in a relationship, the problem is men can't seem to stay monogamous and this of course had the knock on effect of putting women off dating completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:48 PM
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Firstly this is such a typically female perspective as only women have the luxury of thinking that unless a relationship is a Disney fairy-tale its not worth having. When did I say anything like this? Secondly the point of dating men is you get the companionship, so you should swallow your ego and just be grateful that men are ok not getting what they really want. Why should I be grateful for being a consolation prize? Pretty sure men wouldn't be happy if they knew their girlfriend was fantasing…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:37 PM
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Completely agree, I did everything 'right' that men claim to want and I have been treated horribly by men. I even found out my ex preferred his mentally ill ex over me because she was more 'exciting' lmao, they just want what they can't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:32 PM
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Again, it's a ridiculous comment. People in my country don't just randomly engage with people in the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:03 PM
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Facts don't care about your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:52 AM
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I literally didn't
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:45 AM
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How is that trolling? It's literally a quote from a book?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:40 AM
1

Okay, so random men I walk past in the street are all wonderful potential partners? And this is based on...?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:28 AM
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No, we're talking about the actions of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:11 AM
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What men? Who? Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:11 AM
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1st rule of misogyny: Women are to blame for the actions of men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:40 AM
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Women could easily enforce new standards of hygiene but they don't This would require women collectivizing, there will always be dumb, lonely and pickme women who will accept literally anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:36 AM
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I don't think you realise how disgusting the average man is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:33 AM
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I doubt men would be happy if women started copying mens hygiene routines.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:27 AM
1

Again, I rarely go out because I work from home so what exactly do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:19 AM
1

How does that make any difference when I'm literally choosing them based on who will be DEAD faster?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:19 AM
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I'd choose the older one because he'd probably be dead faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:30 PM
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Lets say you had to choose one. Which one would you say is more attractive than the other? I would choose neither because there's no way it hell I'd date a guy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:24 PM
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Yes, the bar is that low. Have you tried dating men in the west recently? It's an epidemic of manchildren wondering why they don't qualify for super models. Yes and I don't date them anymore. All I'm saying is there is a difference between guys like him and sex tourists. But for some reason, lots of women seem to lump them together. Hardly, neither and desirable and neither would make a good long term partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:57 PM
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Well let's see, he's physically fit, active, a pilot, well traveled, has interests outside of video games, tall, doesn't seem to be a misogynistic man child or inceI... I'd wager a few women might find that a foundation they could work with. The fact that being 'active' and 'has interests outside of video games' is something you said is laughable, like the bar is really that low lmao. He's 32 and unmarried and not dating seriously. The fact that he's hooking up with random foreign women means a …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:46 PM
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Are we looking at the same guys? This man is over 30 and slutting around abroad, in what world is he desirable? Plus he's such an exception he's literally in the NEWS lmao. Not the sex tourist movement of old balding fat guys trawling backstreets of red light districts in Malaysia. Those guys tend to get lumped in This is absolutely the average sex tourist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:17 PM
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Most passport bros are men who are too old/fat/autistic to get women from their own country. When you look at these men, it's not the most attractive men or even men in the middle of the attractiveness spectrum. It's literally bottom of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:50 PM
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Yep this, when even the ugly guys want a hot instagram model, why the fuck should i care what happens to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:35 PM
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LOL, that's what they're hoping for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:14 PM
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What is the point of dating men then? If they just want to whore around until death?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:40 PM
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No, ill lie about my age, until i cant and then ill passport bro But western women are the problem *eyeroll*
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:57 AM
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You didn't, but the other poster did.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:06 AM
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guy friends give you input on that dude Yes, they saw no problem with him either. as emotionally invested as you are in the guy that you are having sex with. I never had sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:29 PM
1

I work from home and rarely go out, so please explain how exactly this statement applies?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:58 AM
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Plant?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:49 AM
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if you’re some ran through thot trying to lock up pussy for 6 months you’re out of your mind Who said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:55 PM
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Yep and it's funny because my ex used to tell women to 'pick better men' on twitter even though he was a horrible pick by me lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:13 PM
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Imagine a RPer promoting FDS views. Though if a woman did this I be leaving. It's hilarious, men say that FDS won't work but then ACTIVELY AGREE WITH IT lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:11 PM
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need is another woman who wants to be saved. Where did she say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:10 PM
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You choose better by revising your standards. You choose a man by his actions and behavior towards you specifically, not his looks, money, credentials, or accomplishments. What makes you think she isn't doing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:08 PM
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No, men don't make women promiscuous; women can't be promiscuous. Pretty sure women can be promiscuous. How? Men gain experience through engaging with multiple partners, You can make the same argument about women then. and this typically occurs when they have gained some status. To illustrate this point, consider the Fact that over 50% of men between the ages of 18 and 20 are virgins, while on the women's side, it's only about 12%. That sounds like bullshit, where is your source? By definition, …
/r/ExRedPill01/11/23 11:27 AM
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How can a man be a hoe? Please explain. By sleeping around? It's pretty obvious. A man's value doesn't decrease by having multiple sexual partners. Yes it most definitely does. Most women don't prefer a virgin man; they seek someone with experience. Virgin women and women who've only slept with a few partners do, there's nothing good about being a slut. If a man engages in sexual activity with a woman, he can wash off the physical remnants. Can't wash off HPV virus. However, a woman can't do the…
/r/ExRedPill01/11/23 12:11 AM
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If a woman chooses to be a Hoe, why should she deserve a high-value man? If a man chooses to be a hoe, why should he deserve a high value woman?
/r/ExRedPill31/10/23 05:05 PM
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And if he still ends up with women who cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:03 PM
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Utter bullshit, my ex boyfriend had a ton of friends and none of them suspected he was abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:46 PM
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will display these traits despite trying to hide them. How do they do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:09 PM
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Seems like most 'redpillers' have autism.
/r/ExRedPill31/10/23 11:41 AM
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Guys who are getting regular sexual interest from women like her have very little interest in settling down until they want a family and kids. So are you saying that men want to have their fun until they're ready to settle down?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:28 AM
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How has sex got to do with anything I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:02 AM
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You don't know anything about me or my life so this literally makes no sense at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:02 AM
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You think all abusive men openly show these traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:38 PM
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If a guy has been in prison is he a good guy or bad boy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:37 PM
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How do you check for abusive traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:23 PM
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All guys who met him thought he was nice, including my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:22 PM
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Do those standards include good morals, values, and a track record of making good choices overall? Of course it does. Women have to gain from a good relationship the same thing men have to gain. This is laughable, men gain way more from relationships than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:10 PM
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But if you can't reliably filter out abusive men, you shouldn't be dating. Because obviously you don't know wtf you're doing. Again, HOW can you filter out abusive men? How can you predict that a man will hit you 10 years from now?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:09 PM
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And if she later starts hitting you/cheating on you then it's your fault right? You should've seen it coming?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:47 PM
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Interesting, so what caused the breakdown of the relationship if you don’t mind me asking? He hit me and started stealing from me. Especially if you aren’t even interested in guys anymore? He must have had a profound effect on you? I haven't had any good experiences in relationships, I can never find a guy who meets the standards that I have for myself and I don't think women have much to gain from relationships with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:46 PM
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So? How do you vet?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:29 PM
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PEOPLE are good at hiding sociopathic/abusive sides…that’s why they are sociopathic? He wasn't a sociopath, just an ordinary guy. He was actually quite dumb. I hope you’re doing better now? Yep, I don't date men anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:28 PM
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Unlucky
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:26 PM
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That isn't my take. It's yours. Whether you realize it or not, you are communicating that you don't know what to look for in a partner. How? Literal what wheels are turning in your brain to make you reach that conclusion? You're making zero sense. I want to be a teacher (I want a boyfriend). However, I don't know how to add or subtract. I said none of this. So when you say, "vet for what?" It means you don't even know what you want. If you knew, your question would be phrased differently: how do…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:25 PM
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Guys can smell other guys bullshit a mile away. I don’t say, “pick better men” but I can sense an asshole from spending 5 seconds with them. Ever heard of the “bullshit alarm” ??? Dudes know when other dudes are full of shit. And yet despite this, my ex had a LOT of friends who all thought very highly of him and vouched for him. Guess all their 'bullshit alarms' were faulty or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:23 PM
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good guys in favor of hot, exciting "bad boys" who later turn out (surprise) to not be great partners. But then, everyone's free to make their own choices. What is the difference between a 'good guy' and a 'bad boy'?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:07 PM
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You think you do. But you don't. You don't know anything about me but you think I don't know what I want? Lmfao I love men's online takes. & there is. But you need to learn to vet first. Okay again I'm asking, what is it? What does 'vetting' mean to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:05 PM
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Good shout, my ex used to say 'pick better men' despite being a bum lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:01 PM
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Of course I know what I wanted. But men always say 'vet' as though there is some kind of secret formula to detecting whether someone will become abusive or cheat in future, so I'd like to know what that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:59 AM
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and in particular good "gentleman" Where are these hordes of supposedly good men that women are overlooking?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:56 AM
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Women thinking with their vaginas and fucking it up spectacularly is a normal part of being human. So me picking a guy I had no physical attraction to because he was 'nice' and seemed to be very friendly with a lot of good people around him who later ended up shoving me into a wall was me 'picking with my vagina'?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:49 AM
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You have to fix yourself in order to fix the picker Just world fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:47 AM
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How? Vet for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:47 AM
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treating evil men as saviors How and where am I doing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:07 PM
1

Again, what does this have to do with anything I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:18 PM
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"I NEED MORE MONEY!" his wife screams when he is done with his 18 hour shift, so now he needs to go rob people just to satisfy his wife. What the actual fuck are you talking about, making up bizarre anecdotes that have no basis in reality? Its so funny at the end of your rant now men are useless and not even popping up on the radar because theyre so beneath you, so why did you say you wanted to control them all in the first place? seems like its handling itself. I have no interest in men or cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:19 PM
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Well if you want to go down that route and be super social darwinist, for one women arent going to be able to oppress men, men will be doing the enforcing. When did I say anything about oppression? If men are voluntarily admitting that they can't control themselves then surely there is a legitimate argument to put structures in place to control them for the good of society? What is more likely is women get their rights stripped, then when they complain online they get arrested for it. LOL, this …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:43 PM
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Saying most men have more sexual impulse and less self control than women is a very valid argument. In that case there is a solid ground for men having less rights, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 10:11 AM
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So the only reason men will defend women and encourage men to be accountable is to get sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 10:11 AM
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picks of shitty men Are men ever responsible for their behaviour in your world or is it all somehow women's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 10:10 AM
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I think most women would not date the male version of them Nope I'd love to date the male version of me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 08:35 AM
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Yes, I really wish I could
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 07:56 AM
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What on earth does that have to do with anything
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 11:45 PM
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Yuck, not every woman is into fossils.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 11:33 PM
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Women don't like sluts either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:29 AM
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nope, this is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:28 AM
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Promiscuity and misogyny top the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:58 AM
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pine after older men Funny, why don't they seem to be marrying or dating these men then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:23 AM
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because at our core what we all want is a deep connection, a loving companion, someone who laughs with you. She has an entire section about emotional connection, why did you choose to ignore that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:35 PM
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"women perfect Where does she say that women are perfect?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:31 PM
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Roommates and friends rarely do the kind of "ask anything of me" day to day favors and assistance that a romantic life partner or spouse will do. Do you think men do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:26 PM
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You do realise calling OP an incel instead of addressing her arguments really doesn't help?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:24 PM
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Why didn't you address ANYTHING she said about men creating work for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:22 PM
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Extremely famous celebrities? You think this somehow proves your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:15 AM
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young Brad Pitt in his 30s or even 40s and have him approach Why do men always go to these extremes to prove that age gap relationships happen lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:44 AM
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How many average looking men do you know that think they are “models” complete with glamour shots and Instagram accounts specifically for their portfolios? How often do you see average-ugly or obese men rudely decline the advances of women more attractive than them? You don’t, because the above never happens. I'm loving these angry anecdotal rants from men that have no basis in reality with a full expectation that everyone will agree with them lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:35 PM
1

That doesn't really answer why dating for men is supposedly 'and horribly traumatizing and dehumanizing in the vast majority of circumstances'
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:58 PM
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But that's because the dating dynamic has become draining, unfun, and utterly miserable for men. It is a cost at best, and horribly traumatizing and dehumanizing in the vast majority of circumstances. Why do you think this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:18 PM
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My ex was such a dirty slob that we ended up with rats and cockroaches. I'm not sure if this is just a 'Why men tend to become resentful is they're being forced and pressure to live their life according to someone else's values'
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:00 PM
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Where's the proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:06 PM
1

It's literally stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:29 PM
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Do i really need to spell this out for you? The average number of lifetime sexual partners for women is 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:39 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:05 AM
1

The stats completely contradict you....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:32 PM
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Yes, most men drawn to this ridiculous movement are mentally ill in some way.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/23 12:23 AM
1

So? Where are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:18 PM
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I see the world in person Your view of the world will be very different to mine, which will in turn be very different to someone else's. This is why we can't rely on EITHER of our 'experiences' and have to have stats. So I'll ask again, where are the stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:02 PM
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Cool, so you have none. Thanks for confirming.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:31 PM
1

Where are your stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:17 PM
1

'Life' and 'Anecdotes' are utter bullshit so where are the stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:17 PM
1

But you do, you said so yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:22 AM
0

According to what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:40 PM
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Yes, what women are regularly having sex with strangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:16 PM
4

Learn some self-control and stop having sex with people you don't know. Most women don't....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:59 PM
1

but he told everyone. Eughhhhh gross. What happened to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:26 AM
1

I also saw multiple studies saying that 5-7 year differences had the highest marital satisfaction Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:07 AM
1

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:01 AM
1

Cannot wait <3
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:05 PM
1

What a perfect story
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:02 PM
1

Oh wow, ever since I broke up with my ex I have too tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:59 PM
1

First, she said herself she wasn't being serious with him. Second, he could just go for a woman his own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:58 PM
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I'm sold
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:54 PM
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If old men are stupid enough to think a young woman would be with them for any other reason but money, they'll get whats coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:53 PM
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I assure you women prefer guys in their 20s to guys in their 30s lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:50 PM
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You responded to this question: Why don't you post a selfie and your income so that we can see how viable you are as a mate? Or did you waste it all on Clash of Titans? With your salary. What were you trying to prove?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:50 PM
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Is it really?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:48 PM
1

Again, why didn't he go for a woman his own age?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:48 PM
1

I was saying you're not attractive enough for me, in all honesty. Without even seeing your pic, I instinctively know that. Omg I'm devastated, literally so hurt. I think some guys would really like you but I'm hesitant. Oh no, how can I convince you otherwise?!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:38 PM
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So why didn't that delusional old man go be with a woman his OWN age? Why go for a woman 20 years younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:35 PM
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You're greying with a receding hairline and wrinkles, the idea that you're a looksmatch for a much younger women is laughable. The woman you're with has clearly had a LOT of plastic surgery, fake lips, fake breasts, microbladed eyebrows. Again you're supposed to be some sort of exception when you have to travel abroad to a much poorer country to get a woman with cement lips lmao i can't this is too funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:33 PM
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Why do old men think young women will be attracted to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:23 PM
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She used him for money and left lol, how does this prove any kind of point?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:21 PM
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Except I DID reply to you. You literally got a mail order bride from Asia, I was literally doubled over laughing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:20 PM
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The only women who respond to being negged are women with low self esteem. What did you possibly hope to achieve by saying 'Definitely not in my league.'
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:18 PM
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What's impressive is that I love my job and my work is super low stress with lots of room for advancement. Wow how incredible, but the entire point is that you think this is impressive to younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:15 PM
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Assuming he's taking great care of himself the difference is pretty small. But okay, if that's the battle you need to win 😄 Why go for a less virile man when you can go for a more virile one?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:15 PM
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Yeah negging, where men try to insult women in an attempt to lower their self esteem and make them more receptive, usually some shit they learned on youtube.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:13 PM
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I'd have to see your picture before I could do that. What on earth are you talking about. It's funny how I'm a natural PUA tho 'and I don't read any of that stuff other guys do, lol. It's just natural for me. Still got no clue what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:10 PM
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I was 27 and this one guy was 45. I wasn't attracted to him at all but he had money. I asked what he saw in me because I was like 18 years younger than him and he goes on about how age is just a number. Like whatever dude. He asked me to invite some friends to his lake cottage once to hang out with him and his old ass friends. Eww. I stopped talking to him and he was so lonely he called me once on Christmas day and begged me to go have a drink with him. These men are losers. ​ This is what i was…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:08 PM
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Your ability to lie is impressive Lie about what? What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:00 PM
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But you're alone and sound like it for a reason. Yep, I've dated men and decided it wasn't worth it. Definitely not in my league. LOL did you just attempt to neg me? In YOUR league?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:59 PM
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She's not a romance scammer, she went on a date with an old man as a social experiment. And yeah, any old man who's delusional enough to think a young woman is interested in him gets what he deserves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:49 PM
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Well I'm alone because I choose to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:48 PM
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And? They'll be alone then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:44 PM
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So all 24 year old men are x box playing losers who live in their moms basement?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:44 PM
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Lol so you think 20s women will be dying to get with a 40 year old man?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:57 PM
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Men can be perfectly virile throughout their 30s and 40s. But less virile than in their 20s so they're lesser.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:50 PM
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I make 75k a year, just started a new career. And you think that's impressive for your age? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:46 PM
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the women our age have already given up. Why would we bother with them??? Meaning what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:46 PM
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These females are not interested in some guy who is 24 living at home working at the local grocery store. I'd rather date one of those than a 40 year old any day
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:44 PM
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That's bullshit, divorce risk increases as age gap increases.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:43 PM
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Because it happens all the time. No it doesn't. It's rare and when it does happen money is involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:42 PM
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Both of these things can be true, most younger women are disgusted by older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:41 PM
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Dude why are you assuming that every older man wants to fuck you? I never said that. A couple older dudes hit on you and now you think every guy in the world wants you. Never said that either. But I do speak for most younger women when I say that we don't want older men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:40 PM
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This old man actually thought he could get with someone like her, delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:36 PM
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Eww. I stopped talking to him and he was so lonely he called me once on Christmas day and begged me to go have a drink with him. These men are losers. LOL I hope you laughed and hung up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:35 PM
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All old men are creepy and delusional, eh? YES. We don't WANT older men, literally I could scream this from the rooftops and men just will NOT listen. Well then I guess all young women are entitled, clueless leeches. Cool, then why don't older men leave young women alone then eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:34 PM
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Because a man in his 40s tried to give me his number when i was 16 and on my way to school. He was fucking nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:33 PM
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So why do y'all hate old men so much? Because old men are creepy and delusional. Most young women have ZERO attraction towards older men and no matter how much we say it old men don't listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:28 PM
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I have done, he was terrified and left.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:27 PM
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You're right, being abused is different than being approached. Men abuse women they don't find attractive too, far more often than women. The point is young women get harassed by old men who are stupid and delusional enough to think they have a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:20 PM
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Where did I say anything about calling the police when people talk to me? I will call the police on the delusional old men that approach me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:19 PM
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No, but I've seen the way short and poor men get ignored and even abused by women. This is not the equivalent of what I said at all. Women and men have never been so divided. Women have not caused this divide.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:18 PM
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no delusions that they will stop. Maybe if I call the police every time one of these sad old creatures approaches me then they will.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:16 PM
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I'm just as sick of the entitlement and height/money fetishism of young women Are these women approaching you and asking you out?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:15 PM
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Who goes grey in their 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:13 PM
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Women of all ages are just generally bitter toward men, especially old men. Well as I young woman I don't like older men and I'm sick of their entitlement and youth fetish. Maybe if we keep saying it they'll just stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:00 PM
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The minority, No, the majority and they prefer it fit the time until they want an ltr Oh how nice, i guess women should just wait patiently until they're done whoring around?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:20 PM
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And abusive women are more common than abusive men (in todays age) According to what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:55 AM
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Men don't as a whole want casual sex ideally, they want 1950s monogamy. That's a wild thing to claim, more men prefer casual sex to LTRs, the data shows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:47 AM
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On the flip side of this, why should you be praised for doing something just because it is difficult? Heroin is expensive and maintaining a heroin addiction is therefore expensive because you have to come up with large amounts of money to buy it. Should we praise heroin addicts? Also the only reason why it's easier for women to sleep around is because men are horny and have no standards, again this isn't anything to be proud of.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:43 AM
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What? Where did i say this? Are you replying to the right person?
/r/MensRights27/09/23 08:37 AM
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Interesting, why do you think that it's womens fault?
/r/MensRights27/09/23 01:54 AM
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This is a change.org petition, there's nothing here about the 'genocide' of men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:47 AM
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inciting hate and violence against men. FDS incited violence against men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:35 AM
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That's not what's bigoted about what she said. I already explained to you what makes what she said bigoted. The problem is that you agree with her. I've decided to no longer date men for the same reasons, does that make me a misandrist? Are you a white supremacist? What? What has that got to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:35 AM
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So why is OP saying that this is how most relationships end up and she doesn't want that bigotry?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:26 AM
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I think I ought to tell you, the low IQ documented in the Bell Curve and the heritability of IQ can be explained by other factors, mostly intergenerational poverty. Likewise 13/52 can be explained by socioeconomics and population distribution. The statistics you alluded to with regard to gender can be explained by longstanding social norms, the specialization of labor in the home, and cross-cultural psychological tendencies. What on earth are you talking about? Though you avoided the question th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:21 AM
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You're a part of a group that roots for suicide and genocide against young men (FDS). What on earth are you talking about? Are you high?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:19 AM
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Oh fantastic, so if I take that exact statement and pose it as a question over on r/twoxchromosomes , you think they’ll share your take? What has that got to do with anything? We were discussing whether this post is 'misandric' or not and you can't seem to provide any evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:15 AM
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Nope, it doesn't. Saying you don't see what x group has to offer isn't hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:53 PM
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Any "study" where you ask people to self-report data is only useful in drawing the conclusion that this is what people perceive about themselves. Perceptions are different from reality. It's not just self reported data, it's reflected in how much less women work after having children. In marriages where both work full time those "studies" come to this conclusion however in the aggregate many married women work part-time or don't work at all and men on the aggregate work slightly more. when count…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:48 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:45 PM
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I would like an answer to my question. Would you think I was a white supremacist if I articulated my personal experience and cited statistics as I did in my last reply? If you have stats then no? You're free to not date someone for any reason but if you have stats to show you'll likely be disadvantaged in a relationship then no?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:33 PM
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The stats from "studies" that are essentially surveys of what people self-report (ie. garbage). So ALL women are collectively lying about their experience with men and somehow women also do more household labour and childcare even if their husband is unemployed? Not to mention that most of those studies find that men work more overall if you count work done outside of the home. Nope, women still work more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:29 PM
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What statistics? and what does this have to do with dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:22 PM
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She was doing that to men by calling us vampires. She didn't say that though. As I recall she also generalized about all men being like children so far as we are not able to cook, clean or generally take care of ourselves. No she said in her experience and in the experience of the women around her, women take on the majority of household labour and childcare even if they have a job, this is reflected in statistics. She even said that she'd be happy being with a man if one actually added to her l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:09 PM
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Yep, a guy on here called me one three times but can't explain why lmao. Best thing is to not rise to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:45 PM
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It's designed to shut down any and all debate on their poor behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:38 PM
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Any criticism of men = Misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:31 PM
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But you don't even date men. You would genuinely be the last person I would turn to for advice on this stuff. I used to date men but I don't anymore, for a reason. And any women in your influence would be daft to listen to you too. I've persuaded women i care about to leave some pretty horrible relationships, so they are listening. But I accept that's a lot less fun (or whatever you get from it) than coming onto other forums to attack men. Do you think it's possible to criticise a group of peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:58 PM
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I am genuinely sorry that you feel it is an attack, least of all on your character. It is simply what I have interpreted from your language style, your tone. Well perhaps you aren't really the best at 'interpreting' text on a screen. You seem to spend a lot of time online, particularly in forums like this and your style of questioning is not warm. Its patronising. I really don't, you're wrong again lmao. I can't think of a single time in my life I have seen someone applying your method of engage…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:48 PM
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Really starting to see the problem here. Not ability to read between the lines. Well no because if I say 'convince me' then it's something I'd like to do but need persuading, vs 'Why should I?' which is looking for counter arguments she may've missed. I think she is doing the same thing male incels do. You don't understand, none of this actually needs to be said. You don't have to post! If your life is so great alone, live it. Well often women get questioned if we aren't dating or married, I kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:42 PM
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My father and most men I know are absolutely nothing like she described in her post. She's just bitter. Have you considered the possibility that the men that you know aren't necessarily a reflection of men overall? Particularly when the stats show that what OP is describing is common?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:37 PM
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Why is it misandrist?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:30 PM
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Here: https://imgur.com/HGlnCTJ
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:30 PM
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This is interesting, what do you mean by social legitmacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:28 PM
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Of course he can't, none of them can lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:27 PM
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Those people do everyone a favour by not engaging in an activity where sucking at it will hurt another person She never said she sucks at relationships, she's point out that the average dynamic in a hetero relationship doesn't really benefit her
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:27 PM
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This is just world fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:23 PM
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Is this really a personal advice post?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:22 PM
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'Convince me to get married', She NEVER said convince me, i think you're just seeing what you want to see at this point. She's not outright saying it, we can infer it from her post. It's like any rudimentary level of thinking lol. Women discussing how bad and disgusting average men are is pretty much a straight line, not sure how you missed it. When does she say that men are disgusting? Are we reading the same post? Why do you think that talking about the average dynamic in a hetero relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:18 PM
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Attacking my character and attempting to put me in a defensive position rather than say what about OPs post is misandry. You could just say 'idk i just feel like it is' Which is really very weird. I’d be more curious to know what you hope to achieve by it? Like, let’s say you’re right and all men are completely worthless. Without a single redeeming quality. I've never said anything like this, you're really clutching at straws.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:12 PM
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Literally in the title. As a woman why should I get married? is the title, it is not 'Convince me to date men' as you claimed. It's throughout her entire post. If you have trouble with seeing why, maybe its time for self reflection? Not once in the entire post does she say she hates men, she talks about the dynamics in hetero relationships and how she feels like this isn't really a good deal for her as a woman. Why don't you self reflect on how a woman having a problem with this is 'man hating'?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:51 PM
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LOL I see you couldn't respond either. You know it's amazing the lengths men will go to in not addressing the issues in hetero relationships lmao. Is it really that hard to just say 'yeah maybe women are getting the short end of the stick'.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:48 PM
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That isn't what the question asked: https://imgur.com/HGlnCTJ
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:47 PM
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No, she spoke of the experiences she's had with men and her female friends and relatives and how society expects women to be in relationships compared to men. What she said is reflected in statistics so we can assume this isn't a one off bad experience. expecting us to convince her to date? She never said that, she asked what the benefits of marriage are for women. Go your own way and leave us alone if you hate men so much. She never said she hated men but it's interesting that you think critici…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:44 PM
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The guy you were arguing with asked you a question first No, he made a claim OP was being misandric and couldn't explain how when I asked. So based on your previous comment, you would “not at all” find the man sexist? Even though he is conveying negative stereotypes about women. Literally the definition of sexism? No, and saying so is being stupid and childish. The majority of white people are lactose tolerant according to statistics, if i claim that most white people are lactose tolerant am I b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:41 PM
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Yeah, you've got no idea have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:33 PM
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Why do you think this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:32 PM
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What on earth are you talking about? Are you now trying to claim that women are lying on an anonymous survey because they want to make their 'notch count' look lower even though the survey didn't ask about notch count?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:51 PM
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No. Factually your record of the sequence of this discussion is false. I have made this clear 3 times, which is enough. So you're now claiming you never accused OP of having misandry in her post even though you can literally just scroll up and see where you said that.. Are you trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:48 PM
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No it isn't, they asked the women if they'd had sex in the last year, 25% said no.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:47 PM
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I’ll respond for him if you’re going to be like this about it. Going to be like what? I simply asked him to explain why he feels the post is misandry and he literally cannot do it lol. Every negative thing she said a man would bring to her life she generalised to apply to all men. But she literally says: 'If I settle down it’ll only be with a man who makes life even better. If it happens, awesome. If it doesn’t and I never find someone who adds to my life' She is saying she would be happy if a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:46 PM
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'Certainly not with the obvious misandry sprinkled all over the place.' Can you please point out the misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:40 PM
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I hate to break it to you but that's not generally how a conversation goes. I get the keen sense (and your comment history supports this view) that you're a bit of a bully. LOL I ask you what you mean by misandry and you'd literally rather dig through my post history than answer, what does this say about you? You CLAIMED that her post is 'misandric' but you can't even explain how and you're refusing to elaborate. I think her points are valid because her experience reflects that of a great deal o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:39 PM
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Why do you want to argue about the semantics of words rather than your claim that practically all women are having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:35 PM
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I asked: Where do you think the misandry is and what do you think misandry is? Where has she implied she hates men? You haven't responded. Still waiting. Would you please indicate which of the various points she raised you believe are valid, when speaking about men? Happy to share but i'm waiting for your answer first.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:30 PM
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Practically all women are having sex of one kind or the other No, no they aren't. 25% of women aren't sexually active.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:28 PM
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I answered you. Sorry I must've missed it, where?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:24 PM
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He doesnt. As she said, she is happy to keep any men out of her life. She's happy to keep men out of her life NOW but she's been in relationships in the past. When a healthy person get signaled to stay away, they stay away. Only toxic people invade. Thus the only people you get to know are toxic people, reinforcing the reason to keep anyone away. Except she didn't say this at all, she said: *'If I settle down it’ll only be with a man who makes life even better. If happens, awesome. If it doesn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:13 PM
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Certainly not with the obvious misandry sprinkled all over the place. Where do you think the misandry is and what do you think misandry is? Where has she implied she hates men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:08 PM
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HOW is the guy going to know if she isn't saying it? You're assuming she takes this attitude as she talks to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:51 PM
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Highest domestic abuse rate* Those stats are pretty shaky, which group is mostly likely to die from domestic abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:50 PM
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Do you not think she's raised valid points?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:34 PM
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"women are not a necessity at all. Keeping them out of my life has brought me nothing but peace and joy. " She doesn't go outside and broadcast this on the regular and it's weird for you to assume this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:33 PM
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Personally, I've been cooking virtually all my meals for myself and my dad since I was 13. You do realise that this doesn't reflect the average man or how men behave in relationships? In my experience most women who talk like you still have casual sexual relationships with men, unless they're lesbian. You're not really walking the walk and "keeping men out of your life" if you still fuck them regularly. Why do men always use personal stories like this? 25% of women are now celibate, it's not a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:06 PM
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All you seem concerned with is how marriage will benefit you. She's asking if it will benefit her at all. You seem to dread thinking about how you will contribute to the marriage. No, she's wondering how she will gain from marriage when she will likely lose a lot. Marriage isn't about making you happy as an individual. It's a duty. It's about service to your family. That's they ultimate goal. Ending up with a healthy family is the end goal. It takes personal sacrifice on both partners parts to r…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:05 PM
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Of course not, it's a ridiculous statement to make. Good people end up in abusive relationships. some people end up being murdered by their partner. Treating someone nicely is no guarantee that they'll treat you well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:03 PM
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'You attract what you deserve' is assuming the world is fair and this is how it works, it isn't and it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:01 PM
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Why would she be 'saving some poor man'?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:59 PM
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She probably has the biological urge to "submit" to a man LOL what does this feel like? I'd love to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:59 PM
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This is just world fallacy and doesn't work at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:57 PM
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Yeah, honestly OP sounds like a miserable person to be with. why? she has her life in order and seems happy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:56 PM
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Just world fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:56 PM
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I’m a guy who enjoys cleaning and keeping my space clear. When I’m with my girlfriend we share house cleaning duties but I probably end up doing more because I’m more of a clean freak. All of my guy friends keep their places clean too, they vacuum, do laundry, mow the lawn, etc. This isn't the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:55 PM
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Now they get the roles all fucked up for feminine superiority and look what we got to show for it? God deliver us from evil. what on earth are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:55 PM
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The reasons they're citing are high libido and lots of available partners though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:34 PM
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Because who the hell would choose to be attracted to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:46 AM
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Lesbian woman 100%. Lowest STD rates, not worried my partner will abandon me when I get sick, cute LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:44 AM
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What? When did I say anything like this? Are you replying to the right person?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:56 PM
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No we don't, this is insane. Where do you guys get this from? Do you tell yourselves this because it's preferable to the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:26 PM
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This is complete bullshit, the average woman does not have men paying for her food, what planet are you on?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:49 PM
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Dating south east asian teens who only want you because they're poor and want a better life is a good alternative to dating women your own age in the west?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:12 PM
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Leaving the country is not on the mind of most of them. I also block the money grubbers. Then live in a 3rd world country then lmao, do you think anyone cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:43 PM
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No they don't, average age gap is 2 year in the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:05 PM
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Not in SEA. Well if you want to go abroad and trade your money for a chick who wants a greencard go nuts lol. But 50yo USA women will readily date 60yo men. No chance lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:21 AM
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Young women don't want older men, how many times do we need to tell you this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:18 AM
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Then most older men will end up alone because older men are invisible to young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:14 AM
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But younger women don't want you...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:11 AM
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> Younger women by in large don't want older men (apart from to use for money)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:54 AM
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If she wants to get into that racket, I suppose she herself could consider dating men over 40. Eww, why would she want to do that?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/23 11:46 PM
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You do realise that some women end up single at 30 without sleeping around, right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/23 11:38 PM
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She should aim for a guy around 45+ if she wants to have a relationship. Ew, what woman in her 30s wants a guy that old?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/23 11:36 PM
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They can just have kids alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:32 PM
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As a woman I completely disagree. I've had relationships with men and they just made me miserable, i much prefer being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:30 PM
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men work slightly more hours than women overall, That's a lie, women work more than men in every country on earth apart from Denmark.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:13 PM
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Over 30% of women earn more than their partners. But all women are golddiggers?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:07 PM
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Women disproportionally do the household labour in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:06 PM
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Yeah, and it was ridiculous. This constantly gets put to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:05 PM
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I’d rather die alone than be the bread winner and the care taker. Men love to fling shit at women who are “cat ladies” but being a cat lady is better than taking care of a dude that will sit around for literal days doubt [insert hobby here] Exactly, choosing to be single is a lot better than whats out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:05 PM
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Don't you think you should be getting therapy rather than posting on ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:35 PM
1

So you're saying you have internalised misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:27 PM
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Yeah I'm really doubting that you're a woman, you're parroting red pill language.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:19 PM
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Do you have any pictures?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:13 PM
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Of course you would say that Well if my mother isn't saggy at 55 but you are at 37, clearly you've been doing something very wrong. Ok,you should meet potoricco What does that mean
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:59 AM
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😂 I can't with you all. Wanting security, an easy life for you and your kids is golddigging these days. If a woman is attracted to you because of money, that isn't genuine attraction. But living from paycheck to paycheck and having a 50/50 with a man while keeping a household (so extra work) is respecting yourself! Why are these the only options? Either you have to be with an old man who has money or living on the verge of poverty? I'm not attracted to older men, at all, I'd much rather just be …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:40 AM
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My mother is 55, she looks incredible and men in their 30s ask her out constantly. The only reason why she's single is because she doesn't want to share a house with a man and she's not into younger men. You're clearly not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:34 AM
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They're not. You just don't live in reality but in a bubble. The reality is less than 10% of women get into relationships with a man more than 9 years older and those relationships have a huge increase in divorce risk. After a man will be older he will have had fun on a older woman's money but move in to find a younger woman to have kids and family with. In 9 out of 10 cases. 90% of men will leave their same age partners for younger? You realise there literally aren't enough younger women for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:24 AM
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Yes i'm in my 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:09 AM
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It's literally a troll account lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:08 AM
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A 35 year old man has a lot more money and able to do a lot more cool and grown shit then a broke 25 year old So you're focusing on attracting gold diggers?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 10:22 AM
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LOL nice larp
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 10:06 AM
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Then why do men constantly bring up anecdotal age gap relationships even though they're rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 10:06 AM
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The men are in their prime A 35+ year old man is definitely past his prime lol, this is delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 10:05 AM
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Number one was entirely your fault. I’m really not trying to be mean but the truth has to be said. I’m curious how did you not notice a man who doesn’t wash himself when you presumably worked with him in some proximity? Believe it or not your can't smell a persons genitals through their clothes, also his hygiene got a LOT worse after he moved in with me. Low self esteem is not your fault but it is your responsibly. Past the age of 20 we’re all responsible for our own social skills and self estee…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:53 AM
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They all eventually get sick of it and leave in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:13 PM
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Me too lol, much happier now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:48 PM
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Well it's a man on PPD so likely he's going down the route of 'iTs YoUr FaUlT bEcAuSe YoU pIcKeD tHeM!' But it would be good to see him try to explain how my exes being childish is actually my fault somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:54 PM
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Where the hell are you finding these people At work Through friends Online how did they manage to get relationships that far more stable, capable, independent men can't get? Men very rarely show their bad traits at first, they're very careful until they got her into a relationship. Additionally, why is that standard of broken men then used to describe men as a whole, It's an extremely common experience that women have and one of the biggest reasons for divorce. those better men exist and are beg…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:36 PM
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I'm sure you have your own flaws your partners tolerate. Same for your friends. This isn't the topic of conversation. The topic of conversation was if the bar is low for men but you obviously don't like conversations that focus on the negatives in men so you try and change the topic of conversation to be about women instead. The way you talk about your exes as if you're better then them is already a major red flag. I was A LOT better than them in terms of what I brought to the relationship and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:15 PM
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The topic wasn't my negatives, it was about if the bar is low for men, which it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:10 PM
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What has that got to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:50 PM
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They're all adults and are able to look after themselves. What a weird thing to say though, are you implying that unless they're perfect they aren't allowed to criticise the fact that their boyfriends act like children?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:49 PM
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They definitely do need a mommy to take care of them, look at how quickly men remarry after divorce or their spouse dies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:24 PM
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Most are still living at home and and mommy steps in whenever they need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:23 PM
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A pattern of men being incompetent children?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:00 PM
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Any 'admin task' in their lives they see as beneath them, they just hope and assume some woman will do it for them and when that doesn't happen, their life falls apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:57 PM
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First one, 25-28 Second one, 21-23 Third, 25-27
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:42 PM
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If someone is crap in area they have to usually make it up in another area you know They had some good traits but that's still no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:41 PM
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could it be cause of their looks No, and it's very strange that you think attractive men are incompetent children while ugly ones aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:37 PM
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He was nice to me and i had low self esteem He was my best friend, was very smart and had a good sense of humour Similar values and desires for family, similar interests, good sense of humour
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:23 PM
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Not sure what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:22 PM
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It doesn't sound like your exes are like the average single professional male looking for a girlfriend/wife. Every single one of my friends has had a similar experience of their boyfriend being an incompetent baby incapable of looking after himself. What did they have that made you pick them, then? He was nice to me and i had low self esteem He was my best friend, was very smart and had a good sense of humour Similar values and desires for family, similar interests, good sense of humour
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:52 PM
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After, definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:34 PM
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basic adulting, because their guys are not able to do that. Yep, it always comes back to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:33 PM
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My first ex didn't know how to wash himself My second ex shared a bank account with his mother My third ex burst into tears when he needed to call the doctor because he was scared of talking to people on the phone Yes, yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:32 PM
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Did you seriously just give a personal anecdote to prove a point after I said it's statistically rare? Are you that slow?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:15 PM
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Do gay men not mind the lack of commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:02 PM
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It doesn't matter that most men aren't bisexual. It's a very simple question and there's no reason why you aren't able to answer it. That's like saying 'do women rule out men with webbed toes' I don't know because it doesn't come up for most women? MSM have much higher instances of STDS so it's not really a surprise that straight women are cautious to date a bisexual man. So, is "no bisexual men" one of the "ridiculously low standards" you're talking about or no? Yes? It doesn't apply to MOST me…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:51 PM
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Most men aren't bisexual, this has no relevance at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:27 PM
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How does this have any relevance? Only a tiny percentage of men are bisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:24 AM
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This hatred against man is notnhealthy for you at all. I literally sent stats and you immediate deflect with 'wow you hate men' You reject facts in front of you, What facts? Where? You pull out statistics from your ass So first I had no proof, now I 'pull out statistics from your ass' lmao. you didn't even opened that video which is not a 1 minute video, it's over 20 mins with loads of studies and facts shown. I watched the video, she didn't blame women for male loneliness. No point in debating …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:32 AM
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Not laughable, it is the truth that most mdoern women want that kind of men, watch more dating podcasts nad get out more too. 'Watch dating podcasts' Yeah dating podcasts don't provide proof of anything, but it makes sense where you got your twisted worldview from. And you got proof that lower status men are more agressive? 'Men with lower mate value are more likely to perform higher risk, cost-inflicting mate retention' Right here: https://www.cambridge.org/core/books/abs/cambridge-handbook-of-…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:22 AM
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I never said every woman wants that kind of man, but most do. Again, this is absolutely laughable. The reason why women cannot find a decent man is because they are keep chasing the same top 20% of men while the rest are completely invisible. This is absolute bullshit, you have no proof that ugly men make better partners or that women are all chasing the same 20% of men. Lower status men are actually more likely to engage in aggressive strategies in mate retention like abuse. If women really had…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:10 PM
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Being over 6 foot, being handsome, charismatic, funny, confident, earn a decent amount of money, etc? If you think that every woman is demanding this you're absolutely insane. Most women have ridiculously low standards for men, they'd benefit from raising them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:04 PM
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especially on the men's side when they really cannot find a woman because of how ridiculous female pickiness has become. Yeah no, this definitely isn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:14 PM
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- Women don't care about your hair, if it's bringing you down just embrace it or shave it off. Yeah we do, I'm a woman and I do not find bald men attractive at all. Also this is peak just world fallacy, even if you put a ton of effort into self improvement, doesn't mean that other people will you can only pick from what is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:12 PM
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Where's the insult?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:37 PM
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No it doesn't, not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:37 PM
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And now you insult people with disabilities. It's a literal fact that autistic people struggle to understand nuance and have rigid black and white thinking, and there's a fuck load of angry autistic men on PPD. everything will be fine and there will be no repercussions. LOL you want there to be repercussions for me saying this? Like a literal toddler throwing a tantrum because you heard something you didn't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:12 PM
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I work from home, I have no social media, I have no dating apps of any kind. I don't 'get attention' from men per se and the only medications I'm on are vitamins lmao. You so desperately want to believe women live for male validation don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:10 PM
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t‘d be worse if you were not. Trust me. Be grateful every day! Er, no? I won't. Deep down, you know that too. Why else do you dress nice, put on makeup, lipstick, cologne? It is very easy to get less attention. Yet you go for attention and then complain about it. Typical. I dress nice because I like to dress nice, I like feeling confident and happy in my skin. I don't wear makeup and if I wear perfume it's because i like smelling it throughout the day. I don't dress nice to get attention from me…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:44 PM
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No because not everything that a person said it literal, it requires a degree of interpretation, something that autistic men can't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:43 PM
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So you even acknowledge it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:56 PM
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And you're basing this on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:17 PM
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This is a pretty big reason for the collapsing birth rate in the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:42 PM
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According to who? You?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:37 AM
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It's not like I'm a bad person, just a lazy one who doesn't like being an adult. LOL why are so many men like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:33 AM
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That's not the question, what kind of interest are these women getting?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:31 AM
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You realise that being noticed sexually by men isn't a compliment?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:29 AM
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England.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:28 AM
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No, he took what I said literally, probably because autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:27 AM
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I have to be a peer reviewed scientist in order to read that the average age gap in hetero relationships is 2 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:41 AM
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Ok. Then where's your study? Average age gap in hetero relationships is 2 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:39 AM
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What on earth is this illiterate nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:36 AM
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Stop being weird
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:27 AM
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Not my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:27 AM
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Why did you take what I said SO literally? Are you autistic? I mean, horny men will literally ejaculate inside ANYTHING. Being 'noticed' by an extremely horny man who just wants to get off isn't not being invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:26 AM
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So are you claiming 40% of cheating tinder users are pseudo chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:23 AM
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What kind of interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:23 AM
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How? Where? What kind of interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:16 PM
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Yes, most women do get ignored for genuine respectful courtship but depending on where they live, will still be sexually harassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:16 PM
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Interest that goes beyond ejaculating inside a warm body.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:52 PM
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Obviously it varies but being sexually harassed is not the same as men showing genuine interest in getting to know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:31 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:22 PM
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Source: Tinder users
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:21 PM
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You literally just made that stat up with no proof. No, the 42% stat is true. Although there are plenty of men on tinder who aren't single I'm sure, the entire reason we see this is because men are essentially forced to be in relationships with women. How are men 'forced' into relationships with women? Are you saying the men on tinder trying to cheat are actually the victims here? Ironically, I also guarantee you that those coupled men are the ones getting the most swipes on Tinder. Well no beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:19 PM
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Yeah men don't even seem to realise that they don't notice the women who aren't extremely stereotypically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:18 PM
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No not really, most guys between 18-25 are just trying to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:17 PM
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From ages 12-18.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:32 PM
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Yes, red pill men are full of shit with their 'men are so lonely and no one likes them on dating apps' Men are out here slutting it up trying to cheat on their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:25 PM
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Agreed, most girls i went to school with got ignored by all of the guys. They only wanted the very hot popular girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:08 PM
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42% of men on tinder are already in a relationship so clearly it doesn't stop men from trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:06 PM
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I'd probably get to know them and enter into an exclusive monogamous relationship with the one I have feelings for. I'd never sleep or kiss with any of the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:05 PM
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Are men at all accountable in this scenario or?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:58 PM
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Pretty sure women would be too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:50 AM
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Too old sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:06 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:29 PM
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No one cares about what red pill bros claim on here. Most men on here claim to be regularly sleeping with teen virgins, like sure bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:58 PM
1

Again, do you understand statistics? Most women don't want older men, how hard is this for you to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:37 PM
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Where is the proof that successful women want older men? Also are you saying that women become successful at a younger age?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:37 PM
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There's zero proof successful women are more likely to want older men, zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:33 PM
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It literally explains that women are into it. It talks about the perceptions others have of that kind of relationship. You realise because a tiny minority of women are 'into it' that this doesn't mean the rest are, right? Again, if women are so into this, why don't the majority of women try and date older?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:32 PM
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I choose C
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:27 PM
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My claim is that study shows women prefer guys who are older. The study is about perceptions of age gap relationships, it has nothing to do with women's preference. And dating apps show that women also don’t like the majority of men which is constantly told is wrong here. What? That's not even a coherent sentence. Most people aren’t even on dating apps. Yes, and most women don't like or want older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:22 PM
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The actual study. What CLAIM are you making here? Also all we have are stats about age gaps in marriages not regular and normal dating. So we don’t have actual evidence on how many women date men way older. You just said we have stats on marriage and dating. We also have dating app data which shows that women prefer men of the same age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:08 PM
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It doesn't say anything about how many women date older, it's an opinion piece. Again, this proves what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:58 PM
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A psychology today article, this is meant to prove what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:57 PM
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No, women have way worse outcomes in marriage than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:55 PM
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They will fall surely .We will see Why would it increase year after year and then suddenly fall?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:54 PM
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And just curious to know whether in your mind is there any chance of women being the same? Men aren't the ones leaving relationships. Men gain A LOT more from relationships than women do, if you want to change that maybe work on making men better partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:39 PM
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Let's see whether then sexless number grows or not Can you read? That IS the sexless number and it's going up every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:38 PM
1

Well yeah, women tend to put effort into social relationships more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:37 PM
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Nope, have a good amount of friends who are though. And they love to talk about their dating struggles. Trust me, I would be with you on this one if I hadn’t heard this story so many times, from women who are around my age. It's incredible how often men, even articulate well spoken ones seem to think that 'me and my 10 friends' are some kind of tell on the rest of the world. Do you understand how statistics work or do you just choose to disregard them because your friendship group gives you a mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:31 PM
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You don't beleive women will always have someone? No of course not, most men are awful partners and there isn't really a choice between awful and nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:30 PM
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Those single women will completely ignore all men and go full celibate?? Yes, that's already pretty common. 25% of women haven't had sex in the last year and it's been growing year on year.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:29 PM
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Very small number of men say this. There are entire podcasts and youtube channels dedicated to shitting on women, blaming them for everything and telling them they will die alone but yeah it's just 'a small number' lol. Women always will have someone That's complete bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:26 PM
2

You're a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:21 PM
2

Most women don't go for fwb situations, especially not by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:20 PM
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Again you missed the point. It's not about 'winning' it's about pointing out mens hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:18 PM
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It’s not as crazy as you think. Yes it is, it's statistically rare for a woman to go over 9 years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:10 PM
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Oh please with your woe is me posting. The point is that men never stop hissing at women about 'dying alone with cats' when actually, it's men dying alone and going unclaimed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:09 PM
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Older men get their youngish women. But that's the thing, most young women don't want older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:03 PM
0

The belief that the male virgin must be some weirdo or likely to be one. Because unfortunately most men who have the option to have sex, do and do so without thinking. Exceptions exist of course, like men who are religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:19 AM
1

Consider you're an internet stranger, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:18 AM
4

even though I knew it wasn't what I wanted long-term. Did you not tell her that wasn't what you wanted long term? Or you did and she didn't care? And every second you live with her is a reminder of how YOU fucked yourself. And you're gonna make her pay for it. What did you mean by this?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/23 09:19 AM
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You most likely resent her to a great degree whether you know it or not. You want to leave brokeness. And every second you live with her is a reminder of how YOU fucked yourself. And you're gonna make her pay for it. You punished your ex because she let you live with her?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/23 08:41 AM
1

Crazy accurate... You punished your ex for letting you live with her?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/23 08:38 AM
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Also dude you've got diabetes and ADHD, your prime is long gone if you had one at all. Keep dreaming about getting these young women lmao
/r/TheRedPill12/09/23 08:33 AM
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Most female virgins are virgins by choice Most male virgins are autistic and weird
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:27 AM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:27 AM
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That doesn't answer the question
/r/TheRedPill12/09/23 08:26 AM
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Why are you looking for a woman under 30 if you're in your late 30s?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/23 01:33 AM
1

guys in their 30’s are even worse: “No woman under 30 will want me, it’s too late for me now. Guess I’ll have to date cranky old women now.” By cranky old women you mean, women of the same age?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/23 01:23 AM
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Yes we do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:10 AM
1

It's a shame men can't yknow, choose to not be sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:09 AM
4

Lol same here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:08 AM
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Yeah, more like less value, really Rather than special value, it's anti value Not that those who praise feminine virginity are exactly normies contributing to the low male virginal value, but if women truly didn't care about a man being a virgin and did so honestly they certainly aren't making it aware compared to those who will make it aware how important good experienced quality dick is Yes, promiscuous women don't value virgin men but virgin women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:06 AM
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Yes they do, I'd love to be with a male virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:05 AM
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Sadly the only virgin men are weird autistic men that no one wants, it's pretty hard being a virgin girl wanting a virgin man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:04 AM
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LOL I don't care about being a 'weird old virgin' I'll only have sex if I'm married.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:24 PM
3

I'm a female virgin and I have no intention of doing this lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:07 AM
4

Agreed, women should not get married either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 09:49 AM
1

Experience. As in life experience. Should be self explanatory. Who cares about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:32 PM
1

more likely to cheat when hormones kick in. Gonna need a source for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:06 PM
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Higher testosterone is what makes men use women as flesh lights. No, men are sentient creatures with control over their own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:45 PM
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Would've been C but he's too old
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:51 PM
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most of those are women not wanting to do any intimacy while their husbands are wanking off on the toilet and coping Have you ever put thought into why women lose interest in sex with their husbands?
/r/MensRights04/09/23 03:57 PM
1

Do you think men shouldn't pay towards the upkeep of their child?
/r/MensRights04/09/23 03:57 PM
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The fact that I used celebrity’s isint the point. Yes it is, you're talking about the top 0.001% of men. The Sexiest men are consistent In their 40’s and not in their 20’s it’s determined by women through the online people magazine polls. Again, most of those women are older, these aren't 20 year old women voting for 40 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:19 PM
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That doesn't mean the men they're with are making significantly less than them. When did I make that claim? In almost every poll you can find, women self report wanting a guy who makes around what they make or more. Because women take on the burden of childbirth and childcare so obviously. But if you know a lot of older career women who are fine marrying a man who makes significantly less than them, more power to you. Let's eliminate these gender role expectations. You're completely changing the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:09 PM
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Chris Evans and Chris hemsworth, David Beckham are too “old” for you eh? Yes they are. I don't know why when women say they don't like or want older men you try and use multi millionaire male celebrities with personal trainers and all the money for anti aging treatments as some kind of 'gotcha'. The most voted on sexiest men alive are consistently in their 40’s and it’s been that way for decades. Who's voting for them? Of course a 40 year old woman is likely to pick a 40 year old male celebrity …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:07 PM
1

But how would you know what they wanted? Why when women have a choice do they not choose to be with older men anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 02:32 PM
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Aren't older men incapable of treating a girl right? What are you talking about, I was saying this is what women mean when they say you 'deserve better'. I remember there was a study that discovered women in relationships with older men experience less domestic violence than women with men their age. Which study? Also the divorce rate in age gap relationships is much much higher. Thats the thing, men like attractive women regardless of age (obviously not minors). You think a man who likes younge…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:57 PM
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men would be considerably older than the women they married. It was always the norm. Not because women wanted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:53 PM
1

So are old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:53 PM
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Then tell them to leave you alone if they try with you lmao. No, I want to make sure they don't do it again so hopefully calling the police will get the message across.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:50 PM
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“Even though I’m older than her father, she actually wants me, but she’s afraid other women will bully her” LOL yep, that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:49 PM
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All women have financial expectations of the men they're with. 30% of women are the breadwinner in their household. If anything, I've noticed younger women are more likely to date guys who don't make a lot of money. Girl I went to college with (22) married a school teacher (34), and you know they don't make money. She said she liked his goofball personality. Anecdotal evidence/the exception doesn't prove the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:48 PM
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How can a man have delusional high self teem if he is going after someone below his league? (Her words not mine) She said OUT of his league. Also, aren't women constantly told "don't settle, you deserve better"? Yes when a woman is with a man who isn't treating her right. Shouldn't that mentality apply to men too? Shouldnt men go after the women they like? Or are men supposed to settle down for women they don't like 100%? If the only women men like are women significantly younger than them then …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:46 PM
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It is higher, not lower testosterone levels that lead to hair loss, desperate stranger. No, it is DHT that causes hair loss. Old men do not have more testosterone because they're balding. I think you might be getting somewhere. Oh, wait, wait, and you know for how long men can be fertile? Quite well into 70s and beyond. Now live with it. 40% of infertility is caused by men and older men are significantly more likely to have disabled, autistic and ugly children.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:43 PM
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Statistically it doesn't, unless the woman is after money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:03 PM
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I think old men should leave me the fuck alone because I want them nowhere near me. (where you also call a strong man to come protect you, nice job you independent queen). Well duh because if I physically attack him or shoot him I'll be arrested.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:35 PM
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Shawn Rhoden won Mr Olympia when he was 43. This does not contradict what i said at all. "Max" age to start bodybuilding and aim for championship, per Joe Wader, is 33. Again, doesn't contradict what i said. ​ Significantly only after, hold your breath, age of about 80. Now live with it. It still starts declining late 20's, most men experience significant hair loss by age 40. Sperm quality starts declining at 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:33 PM
1

More men die childless than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:24 PM
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who see eligible men their age choosing younger women in their prime over them. This isn't happening though, young women overwhelmingly DON'T want older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:21 PM
1

Definitely report them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:18 PM
1

It's both younger and older women who have a problem with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:17 PM
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It’s wild how many middle aged men on PPD claim to be fucking 20 year olds. LOL it's literally all of them isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:14 PM
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a lovely instance demonstrating just how hypocritical some ladies are But where is that happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:12 PM
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Lol, feel free to use the magical phrase "no, not interested." Reject them if you want, who gives a fuck. I'd prefer to call the police.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:11 PM
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a lot of women decide for older but more attractive (in every way) guy LOL no they wouldn't, it's very rare that a woman goes older unless she desperately wants money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:10 PM
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Would you call a man who is 35 and is sexually attracted to 15 year olds a pedophile? Because he is not. Wait what
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:06 PM
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LOL no chance, testosterone starts declining late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:01 PM
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Dont want to know that older men are attracted to younger women? Too bad, it exists. Welcome to the real world. Well then, don't complain when women take measures to make them stop approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:56 AM
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not the attraction they have, you know? The attraction is gross too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:55 AM
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The girls were constantly trying to appear more mature. What does that have to do with sleeping with old men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:54 AM
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“Gross” just means they were ugly, and if you think there are no +30 dudes who are attractive to young women well… idk maybe touch some grass? Lol Only to women who want money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:53 AM
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35-40 is definitely old if you're in your 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:52 AM
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maybe those older men are actually the best you can get for a LTR That's laughable, why would the best a young woman can get be older men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:51 AM
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Did you seriously just try to neg her in your response? Lmao. Young women laugh about old men and their delusion and not because we have low self esteem but because we can't believe they have self esteem that delusionally high.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:51 AM
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This man sounds pornsick, ignore him and block him on everything.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/23 09:58 AM
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Women shouldn't have to 'make it work' with guys who are unwilling to change.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/23 08:12 AM
1

Such as what?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/23 08:06 AM
1

LOL a mail order bride from asia, oh my god you can't make this up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:05 PM
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Proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:19 AM
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No they are not Yes they are, mens testosterone starts to down post 30, their hairline recedes, their sperm quality starts to drop after age 35. Men are 64% more likely to remarry then women in their 30s, 40s, and 50s and this has always been the case. Women not being able to find a committed relationship is the the correct definition of phenomenon known as “The wall” a women can still be physically attractive and post wall. Because they want to. Women are the ones who end relationships with men…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:15 PM
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People really need to go back and read Rollo’s book to actually understand the terminology before debating a topic they clearly no nothing about. The boomer who got tricked and caught lying by 2 women? Lmao okay. Men in their mid 30s are going to have the same drop off.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 03:36 PM
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If what you said was true only tip 20% looking men would get married and have kids. Guys like Leonardo DiCaprio and Ed Sheeran wouldn't be dating and banging models. Neither of those guys are lookers. Clearly, they compensated in other areas. Those are famous celebrities, they can't be used to prove a point because they're literally the 0.01%. Not ad long as a guy who can support a family and provide a good lifestyle for a woman for the remainder of their lives. Most women would go for looks ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:59 AM
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Everything except staying and making it work huh. Why should they have to? Why are relationships only able to survive if women can put up with men?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/23 11:47 PM
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they need to take equal responsibility and accountability for their actions. They want to have their cake and eat it. What does this mean? What are you referring to?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/23 11:46 PM
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You can't "looks" your way into it either, whatever "genuine attraction" is in your dictionary. Do you understand what attraction is and how women feel it? Separate issue. The factors that are emphasized for getting a relationship isn't the same as what maintains one over time. Like Law and Order, they're two separate yet equally important groups Women like good looking men and the only reason they go for old men is for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:57 PM
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Then even worse, he'll stay and use her for sex until something better comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:49 PM
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Even though old men may be able to father a child, it is not the greatest idea. Older men have higher chances of fathering children with certain health issues. Autism is just the most researched one. The older people get, the more damage to their DNA, which gets passed on to their offspring. Yep, this is really overlooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:49 PM
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So basically, if she doesn't lust after you for looks alone, she's not really attracted to you then? If she doesn't have some kind of attraction to the way you look then no, she doesn't. All guys waiting 3 months to get intimate, give up, you didn't meet the sexiness criteria which means she really can't love you bro. This is stupid, women wait to have sex to actually create an emotional connection, to ensure the guy isn't using her for sex and to become comfortable. Obviously, not just charisma…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:46 PM
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What's genuine attraction here, just sexual attraction? Physical attraction causes a lot of other attraction, sexual and romantic. Yes being attractive alone isn't enough for most women but you're insane if you think women will overlook a guy being old/ugly because he has 'Charisma' lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:28 PM
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even more than looks in many cases This is complete bullshit. No-one will give a fuck about your charisma if you're ugly. Hugh Hefner was literally banging model looking girls until he died in his 90s. He was a billionaire, do you not understand that dating a man for money isn't the same as attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:23 PM
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No because then men will lie, pretend to be interested, get sex and then leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:57 PM
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Beauty isn't key for men to be attractive to women. It absolutely is, you can't buy genuine attraction. Couldn't have major age-gap relationships with men being older if that was the case. Yes women enter into transactional relationships for money, hence they have an insanely high divorce rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:37 PM
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Men's beauty fades with age too, the wall exists with men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:21 PM
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almost no woman would date a poorer man Women outearn men in 27.6% of households, you're chatting complete shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:23 PM
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sex for resources. Like women don't also enjoy sex and don't also bring resources to a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:53 PM
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Uh because other people responding to you has nothing to do with her or me? Can you actually address the points she raised?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:38 AM
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LOL you literally ignored everything she said, emotional crybaby response.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:13 AM
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men who sleep on the first date can't be relatonship material is flat out wrong. They can't be, end of.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/23 11:41 PM
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I would sooner jump of a bridge than date one of these vile freaks.
/r/ExRedPill30/01/23 11:37 PM
1

Dario 1000%
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:44 AM
2

So you cheat and try to hide it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:36 AM
1

So you admit you settled?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:35 AM
2

If you don't mind marrying a woman who's slept around, then go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:01 AM
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WEW she said it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/22 07:03 PM
3

Most men on here are autistic, lonely and bitter. They aren't the 'norm'
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:56 PM
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They can but a lot of these men will want to 'settle down' at some point and most conservative women will not settle down with a man who is a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:53 PM
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I'm a virgin and I couldn't be happier! Certainly glad I don't have any horrible memories of being forced/coerced. From what I hear, men are terrible at sex and all the consequences are on the woman. I'd only have sex if I was married and or if a man had proven himself and devoted himself to me for years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/22 05:34 PM
2

Wtf, that's vile. Hope you laughed at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:19 PM
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but I don’t know what I would do if she received a terminal diagnosis. That may sound terrible If you don't know, then leave her so she can be with someone who actually cares about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:09 PM
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It's incredible how all these older men on PPD have extremely young attractive women going after them supposedly. Incredible how real life just doesn't reflect this too, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:06 AM
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Men aren't great by in large. Majority are selfish, self-centered and shallow. give every man a chance DON'T EVER 'give men a chance' they wouldn't do the same to you and will likely laugh at you behind your back. Be ruthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:38 PM
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You're 39 and supposedly have model tier 27 year olds throwing themselves at you? Yeah I call bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:36 PM
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Too bad, it's a draft. If women protest and refuse then there's nothing they could do. Can't lock them all in a room with men by force.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:05 AM
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When they're a majority and pissed off, absolutely. How exactly are we meant to do that? When they go back to being a fringe minority, feel free to treat them like you currently treat them What, completely ignore them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:43 AM
1

LMAO how you figure that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:43 PM
1

they will burn it all down. Let them do it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:34 PM
1

So prepare for your funeral, if you can't see yourself working out a compromise with these men. Compromise with a bunch of angry entitled virgins or they'll burn down society?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:33 PM
5

What if women don't want to mingle with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:24 PM
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Most older women aren't wanted by men Older women don't care though. both young and old men want young women. It doesn't take a genius to know that there isn't an endless supply of young women. Some young women don't want a partner, some are gay, and the rest want young attractive men their OWN age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 01:49 PM
1

Most. Young. Women. Don't. Want. Older. Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 11:38 AM
1

Yeah sure a lot of them are. But most young women don't want older men lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 01:30 AM
1

Nothing cuter than men with a revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:21 PM
2

To the above average American guy in his 20s or 30s, you'll eat them up like hotcakes. No, you just want this to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:18 PM
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"yes, but as soon as you guys breakup I will try to sleep with you." That's vile, hope you never spoke to him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:01 PM
1

Most men don't change and we have a right to protect ourselves from the dangerous ones/time wasters
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:56 PM
1

why they stopped dating and all this. This is actually really smart
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:55 PM
1

If the only thing that could motivate men to be better people is if they get something out of it, then they've missed the point entirely. More and more men will be competing for fewer women who are actually interested in relationships, if they've been dumped multiple times before for their poor behaviour, they might actually try and be better people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:21 PM
1

Oh well, maybe they'll learn something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 05:06 PM
0

It's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 05:06 PM
1

A lot of men regardless of how attractive they are will be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 03:38 PM
1

Big doubt. Plenty of hideous men end up with women with low self esteem. But women are already walking away en masse, there are far more men seeking relations with women than the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 02:14 PM
6

Fine lol, chase women all you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:52 PM
0

So we have to suffer and lose money for having kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:24 AM
7

Don't grovel, fuck off and go your own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:04 AM
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Only mentally ill women want male attention
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:01 AM
1

Just refuse
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:59 AM
1

The more men who end up alone, the more they might actually realise there are consequences to their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:56 AM
2

Why take the risk though?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:24 PM
2

but don't lose all hope I'd rather not take the risk tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:51 PM
1

Well yeah, why the fuck would I feel sorry for men feeling horny?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:50 PM
3

Yeah, now I don't trust men at all and I more than likely won't end up with one now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:08 PM
2

Help with what? Leave his cheating lying ass.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/22 10:22 PM
2

Lol imagine being a man, what a curse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:12 AM
0

you are worthless and easily replaced. Well why don't you try actually being pleasant?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 08:37 PM
1

You're right, I don't give a fuck about 'muh dick' problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 08:36 PM
6

It’s abusive. This is completely ridiculous. Women assert that they don't need men because a lot of men have used things like finances to leverage control over women. We don't need men to survive, therefore bad behaviour will result in the women dumping the man. A lot of women want to be with men, but are men needed? No. We'll do just fine with or without you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:58 PM
2

lmao pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:03 PM
1

LOL you actually reported me, awww so cuteeee!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:59 PM
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https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/wellbeing/articles/menenjoyfivehoursmoreleisuretimeperweekthanwomen/2018-01-09 https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2018/01/09/women-have-less-leisure-time-15-years-ago-men-take/ https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/women-free-time-less-men-household-jobs-chores-cleaning-ironing-survey-a8150996.html
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 01:21 PM
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I wanted a virgin man, gave up because I couldn't find one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:40 PM
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If she doesn't stop seeing all other men after going on a date with you, then she's not into you. Or at least, she's certainly not into you enough that she deserves your commitment. Because we don't have time to waste on 'I don't want to put a label on us' men. If you aren't ready to give us what we are looking for, then don't be surprised if we look elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:26 PM
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I mean - do you see any changes to paternity leave for example? In my country it's TWO WEEKS. I don't know where you live. So forgive me for thinking feminazis want men to help raise their kids. They clearly wna do both! Why don't you push for paternity leave for yourself? It would be you addressing this issue with your employer, or do women have to do everything for you? Also in more feminist countries (like Sweden) there is a lot more paternity leave available for men, so logic fail. Also woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:31 PM
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men sacrifice our hobbies and social lives to be dragged into whatever current trend they suddenly think is the most important thing in the world. Women have less leisure time than men, on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:49 PM
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Well, if a man is attractive to you, chances are he is attractive to many other women. So why should he commit to a single one? Well, if a woman is attractive to you, chances are she is attractive to many other men. So why should she commit to a single one?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:49 PM
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Female independence is the best thing that's happened to men. Then why do they complain endlessly by something they massively benefit from?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:31 AM
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Men should expect both?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:28 AM
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A lot of ugly men do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 11:06 AM
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This is from your first reply stating that it is wrong for a man with a High body count to desire a woman with a low bodycount. Because it's hypocrisy and shows a lot about you if you have a standard for your partner that you can't meet yourself. Weakness, lack of impulse control, entitlement being a few. But a few posts later you state that you perfectly understand why men (including men with High bodycount) desire a woman with a low body count. No, I don't wonder why men desire women with low …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 10:05 AM
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Sounds a lot like something called hypergamy. Using your own logic that would mean that a majority of women are weak, lack impulse control and are entitled, right? Sounds like this is something that only is ok when it benefits you, but when it benefits me.. now that’s a problem. Yeah I'm not a redpiller, I don't have autism and I don't spend all my time online. What exactly are most women demanding? With all due respect it doesn’t matter what views women have in this instance..unless you seek a …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:05 AM
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I dont see how that is relevant. Because it's hypocrisy and shows a lot about you if you have a standard for your partner that you can't meet yourself. Weakness, lack of impulse control, entitlement being a few. A woman being a virgin is often regarded as an achievement, a sort of accomplishment if you will. However a mans virginity is universally regarded as a liability as it might be an indicator of passiveness or low SMV. By MEN. Women don't view virginity as an achievement in other women. Co…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:44 AM
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....so you're not?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 10:08 PM
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But are you a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 09:47 PM
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You do not, perhaps. You, personally, and that's fine. What others want is a different business. Most women marry men of a similar age The bigger the age gap, the higher the divorce risk
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:07 PM
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The point stands, we don't want older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:47 PM
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That is literally what you just did. Are you trying to say you had another point?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:38 PM
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Jason Momoa is STILL old. And it's ironic too because he was married to a woman 12 years older than him until recently lmao. It's just hilarious how when men like you try to make the argument that women like older men, then choose a multimillionaire celebrity as your supposed evidence lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:00 PM
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You're making the comparison between a celebrity and the 'average guy' as proof that women like older men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:03 PM
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The truth is that i speak from experience while the basis of your thinking is what you think you personally would not do, Anecdotal evidence is exactly that. I speak from both my own experience AND actual statistics and data. Most women do not date older, most women do not want to date older, else it would be more common. Age gaps increase divorce risk. All of these things are facts, you not liking to hear it does not make it less true. Else, this conversation have reached the point of diminishi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:24 AM
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“The men I fuck without exclusivity take that opportunity and then leave because they’re highly desirable and I thought I could lock them down with sex”. But you're making an assumption that these women are sleeping around. Most women aren't having endless casual sex, men just observed this for a few women, then assumed the same was true of the rest of them... it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:19 AM
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You are more then welcome to believe whatever you wish, I am telling you what is. Your beliefs are insignificant on this matter. It's the truth. Most women marry their own age, age gap relationships are rare and the bigger the age gap, the higher the divorce rate (duh, when you marry for money you aren't gonna stay with the old goblin longer than necessary)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 11:28 PM
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40 years old guy is a balding, fat, ugly, sex-hungry, dumb troll who thinks money can buy anything. Sure enough, there are plenty men like that No. Older men PERIOD are gross. Why the fuck would I want someone older when I could be with a young attractive guy my OWN AGE? It's just pure cope from older men who are desperate to believe young women are lusting after them, we aren't, we really really aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:21 PM
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What i do noy understand is why are you guys keep thinking like this? You know, there are plenty of accomplished, 40 years old men out there, who look better then your avarage 25 years old who "matches your income". You keep imagining these thirsty, ugly rich gnomes who want to do all sorts of things with your holes, but in reality, if you'd come across any of these men in question, you'd throw yourself at them without hesitation. You would not be able to determine their true age, as they have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 03:35 PM
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But not all virgins are incels, and I'm talking about virgins, not incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:34 PM
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No they aren't average lol. They're almost always ugly, autistic or both. Any way, I wasn't making a point about incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:59 PM
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Monogamy as in a lifelong stable marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:12 PM
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Or they actually value commitment and monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 12:32 PM
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Incels are incels because they are ugly and often autistic. Virgin women DO PREFER virgin men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 10:37 AM
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And men. Believe it or not, most traditional virgin women are not interested in marrying the HPV ridden town dildo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:38 PM
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Women uniting as a community to expose a philandering liar, job well done. If men got together to expose a gold digger, would you take the girls side? Of course not. Men are just angry that a man is being held accountable for being a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:57 AM
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Why the fuck do I need to claim that? - Shit patchy beard - Weirdly thin top lip - Ungroomed eyebrows - Wide bulbous nose/tip - Flat face with no depth (no cheekbone definition) - Creepy black shark eyes (No pupil/eye colour contrast) Maybe he appeals more to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:22 PM
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That's how community used to work- if you were a lying whore, you got exposed and women avoided you from then on. Men on here say all the time that women are to blame for 'choosing' bad men, this is just women helping other women to make a more informed choice but all of a sudden, you guys aren't happy about that either?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:20 AM
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He is ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:17 AM
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Wtf he's not average, he's ugly as shit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:17 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:16 AM
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I think all men who have a child should get a paternity test, no matter how sure you are. What if your wife instantly divorces you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:15 AM
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Think I'd rather just avoid entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:02 PM
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Women need to take responsibility and not keep walking into fire wondering why it keeps burning. So treat all men as potential sex scavengers, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:23 PM
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If he really likes you, he’ll even use other women for sex while still dating you. Men who cheat and or sleep around are completely unsuitable for a relationship so this defeats the purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:22 PM
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Don’t blame men for trying to get easy sex Don't blame men for their choices, is that what you're saying? Why can't men take responsibility for their actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:24 PM
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Difference is women don’t really “care” about men being hoes to an extent. Oh yes we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:44 AM
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Why don't men just be honest about their intentions?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:43 AM
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Would you tell her your beliefs if she asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:45 PM
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