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With the nurse, this was pretty simple, you got cock blocked, and given the situation there wasn't much of anything you could do about it. She isn't going to tell her dd friend to go piss off so she can get laid. But, you should have foreseen she wasn't going to make a move with the dd friend there trying to cockblock, and not invited her in. You're forcing her to reject you, and with witnesses, and you're also declaring to her friend that you think she's DTF, so you're demonstrating a lack of d…
/r/seduction07/08/13 05:43 AM
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Thanks man. I really appreciate any input you can give.
/r/seduction06/08/13 05:54 PM
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I made a full thread about it that got ignored. I did all that stuff, btw.
/r/seduction06/08/13 04:56 PM
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Why can't I close? I can get to the point of kino, even making out with girls, but I can't get any further, and I usually get froze out by the chick. I even had a girl who admitted she had a crush on me for months who stopped returning my calls/texts after we made out one night. She said she wanted to go out!
/r/seduction06/08/13 06:27 AM
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Thanks for all your insight man. Really appreciate it. Honestly, I feel like I'm doing pretty decent. Things were a bit rusty coming out of my breakup, but I feel like things are beginning to take off. Honestly, just a few years ago, I wouldn't believe I could be doing as decently as I am now.
/r/seduction09/07/13 06:49 AM
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First off all, I'm curious. Has some girl actually said, "He didn't make a move so I didn't think he was interested". And did this occur within the first few minutes of your interaction with her? When I'm trying to get to know a girl, it doesn't take me that long to figure out if I'm interested in escalating. (Often, as quick at 5 minutes or less.) If some guy were to swoop in and snatch her out before I'd made that determination, it's no loss at all. Granted, I've never had someone swoop in lik…
/r/seduction09/07/13 05:52 AM
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Just a brief note: When I interact with girls, I rarely act as if "hitting on them" is the initial goal. I walk up and I'm social. I introduce myself and see what they're up to. I get a feel for what they're about and what kind of person they are. I like what I discover, then I transition into hitting on them. I mention this because it sounds like you're jumping straight to hitting on them. Which is fine, I guess, but you're going to waste a bit of time going that route: because you'll be flirti…
/r/seduction08/07/13 06:05 AM
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Yes, they probably thought of you as the long term relationship guy. So, what your saying is, the overt, obvious signs of interest is more indicative of a girl wanting a one-night stand, while a girl who is interested in me for long-term dating will be much more subtle about her interest? Read the book No More Mr Nice Guy. I've read it actually, but I was just about to read it again because I clearly need a refresher.
/r/seduction07/07/13 07:08 PM
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That theory makes perfect sense. My guess is that these girls put you in the Marry him category. Meaning they see me as relationship material, but not sex material? Let me guess, you consider yourself a Nice guy? Reluctantly yes. I've struggled with being nice my whole life. I've been really trying to be the fun guy instead of the nice guy, but I struggle. I know some guys who are straight up assholes to girls, who get laid on the regular. I want to be more like that. Problem is, when I try to b…
/r/seduction07/07/13 07:02 PM
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And that's something I've come to learn, the only problem I have with it is it seems like in order to be successful with women you basically have to accept a cubic fuckton of rejections in the process. Personally, I don't like the idea of throwing everything at the wall to see what sticks. I'd rather judge the interest of individual girls and strike at the ones I think are interested, but women seem unwilling or unable to meet in the middle in that manner.
/r/seduction07/07/13 02:27 PM
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What do you mean? I know from the gender politics stand point, there is little to be gained from a woman showing interest, because she is always the one being pursued.
/r/seduction07/07/13 02:25 PM
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I don't know. I'm always looking for those signs before I act, because I really don't want to bother unless I've got some sort of sign that the interest is mutual. What seems to keep happening is that I'll make a pass at a girl who I thought was interested only to get rejected, meanwhile some other girl slips right through my fingers because I had absolutely no idea she was interested. I've gotten better and recognizing the cues, but it still only seems to be about a 50/50 success rate of proper…
/r/seduction07/07/13 02:24 PM
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Did you even read my post?
/r/seduction07/07/13 02:20 PM
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I know it's very subtle, but I keep struggling to differentiate friendliness from interest. I've had girls who apparently were crazy about me, he did nothing more than talk to me. I've had women who had no romantic interest in me whatsover who randomly grab my ass and kiss my cheek. It's so hard to tell the difference.
/r/seduction06/07/13 03:51 PM
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Untrue. You're simply not paying attention. You're guaranteed to miss 100% of the information that a girl is giving you, if you're in your head. So I would have to assume that's where you've been: in your head. Honestly, I don't see how. I'm always on the lookout for those signs, but I'm very rarely seeing them and it seems that often times what I think is a sign doesn't pan out to be one. I thought this one girl was into me a while back because on one occasion she gave me a shoulder rub out of …
/r/seduction06/07/13 03:48 PM
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I give a max of two options. Generally if a girl wants to go out with you, she'll jump at the opportunity when asked out, but some girls are flaky and want to play games and shit, so sometimes I'll give a girl a second shot, but no more than that.
/r/seduction29/06/13 05:07 PM
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There was no tv in the room but good idea.
/r/seduction29/06/13 04:08 AM
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I think my problem here was that I completely ignored her friend, making me seem dependent on the HB9. I also didn't display any value (but how could I aside from my 'magic'). Based on everything you wrote, this most likely what stood in your way, for a few reasons: Girls look for approval from their friends before they will allow themselves to be sexual with a guy, even kissing. If you haven't won the approval of the friend, she's likely to not give her friend the green light. This is especiall…
/r/seduction28/06/13 07:36 PM
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Like others have said, you are falling into "dancing monkey" mode. You simply cannot be just funny. Making girls laugh is huge, but you gotta use it to seduce, not entertain indefinitely.
/r/seduction27/06/13 07:13 AM
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A fact that ultimately there is no benefit to knowing. I hope this isn't the kind of thing you say to girls.
/r/seduction25/06/13 06:17 AM
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Oh, I'm not debating that. I just wanted to clarify that where I am now is the result of quite a bit of work, but there is still much much more to do.
/r/seduction25/06/13 05:57 AM
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Recognizing abundance is what I'm trying to do right now, in addition to my other self-improvement goals. I rarely do cold approaches. In fact, I have a bad tendency to focus on coworkers, which is a bad idea. It's just easier because you already have a connection to the person via work. I rarely make cold approaches, and usually only feel comfortable enough to do so when I'm drunk, which means my game is sacrificed in favor of comfort. The process is my focus right now. I'm back in the mindset …
/r/seduction25/06/13 05:54 AM
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It added a comment, but some feedback/advice would have been even better. The story was disturbing, but it was a wake up call, so there's that.
/r/seduction24/06/13 06:00 AM
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It certainly gave me a good "crazy chick" story to tell, so atleast there's that. Honestly, the night did suck pretty bad, but I'm almost glad it happened, because I learned alot from it and it help reawaken the desire to learn and constantly seek improvement.
/r/seduction24/06/13 05:59 AM
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After the fact, now? Doesn't seem like there would be anything to gain from it at this point. It's not like I'll work with her anymore and need to be civil.
/r/seduction23/06/13 05:40 PM
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I think I'm on the verge of saying "I like women, but I don't NEED them, because I'm awesome either way"
/r/seduction23/06/13 05:19 PM
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Thanks for bringing absolutely nothing to the discussion
/r/seduction23/06/13 05:18 PM
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Honestly, I kinda digged her, but up until that night I had not fixated on her at all. In fact, I was deliberately trying not too, but my will power went to shit the minute she started grinding with me and kissing me. I have a couple of girls I could easily call up and bang if I wanted to, but honestly they're below the standard I want to maintain for myself.
/r/seduction23/06/13 01:26 PM
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Abso-fucking-lutely. Honestly, the night sucked, bad, but I'm almost glad it happened for the wake up call/learning experience.
/r/seduction23/06/13 01:24 PM
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No offense, but fuck you. There's a difference between white knighting and simply a being a decent human being. I sould have handled it differently for sure, but not by letting her drive drunk, ass.
/r/seduction23/06/13 01:20 PM
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Great advice bro, thanks. Honestly, today I woke up in a much better mood and I'm not so hung up on it, because now I see all the value it had as a learning experience.
/r/seduction23/06/13 01:19 PM
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In hindsight, that's exactly what I should have done. Live and learn
/r/seduction23/06/13 01:18 PM
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i dont think she was that interested in you, to be honest. I know that. I was a third option, at best.
/r/seduction23/06/13 01:17 PM
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Ooh, good one
/r/seduction23/06/13 01:16 PM
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Wow, I honestly thought my self-esteem was ok. Sure, it's not massively great as I'd like it to be, but I didn't think it was low. I have been trying to see the silver lining. After this experience and one before it, I'm not alot more aware how I'm responding to this situations, and I'm trying to change how I behave as to not get too invested in the outcome, but that's the challenge isn't it?
/r/seduction23/06/13 01:16 PM
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Yep. I think it takes the cake as my worst, most beta, crash and burn moment in history.
/r/seduction23/06/13 06:03 AM
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Going to disagree with you. Your mindset after a breakup is going to be a HUGE obstacle. It can take time to fully process the loss of the relationship and even after you've done that, sometimes it takes much longer to recover your Outcome Independence. Definitly. There was a noticeable change in how I acted this time compared to the previous chick I had in the picture. I'm still getting over the breakup. By outcome independence, do you mean not getting invested in the outcome? That's always bee…
/r/seduction23/06/13 06:01 AM
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Agreed. Frankly, I got a bit too invested in her as I knew her from work, which was as an awesome chick. I had no idea she was a fucking wild lunatic when she gets drunk, but I was already in deep so I rode it out, with disastrous results.
/r/seduction23/06/13 05:53 AM
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That's a bad sign right there. It's not your job to be caretaker. That's what female friends, beta orbiters, significant others, therapists and parents are for. Notice how you are (or at least should not be) none of those. I definitely notice that now. It was a learning experience for sure. I fell back into beta behavior that I had forgotten how to recognize. Yeah she's dramatic and bad news. At this point, you made the right call in putting her in a cab. You should have definitely brought her b…
/r/seduction23/06/13 05:51 AM
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Before even trying to get into seduction, work on your self respect, because by the looks of it is very VERY LOW. Honestly, it's better than it used to be. Back in the day, I would have just let her run all over me, atleast in this situation I made an effort to stand up for myself in some aspects, even if it wasn't great.
/r/seduction23/06/13 05:46 AM
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I would have, but 1. My phone was dead and my coworker didn't have a land line. 2. I didn't want to dick him over by leaving him stuck with dealing with her (which in retrospect, is what I should have realized I was doing to myself).
/r/seduction23/06/13 05:45 AM
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What happens when 6 months from now you're only down to 270lbs? Are you going to put the rest of your life on hold for another 6 months? That would be pretty pitiful progress for 6 months. Saying that you're going to wait to improve a major area of your life until you've sorted some other stuff out is the best way to make sure that you never improve. I probably took it a bit too far. I still want to socialize, but I definitely need to cut back the drinking, both for the calorie consideration as …
/r/seduction23/06/13 05:43 AM
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Serves you right being a "nice guy". Funny how she wasn't thankful of how well you treated her but she threw herself on coworker straight from the doors and he didn't give two shits if she drive drunk or not. Clearly. That was the big lesson. It doens't matter that I saved her ass, she still hopped on the other guy's dick, who's doesn't give 2 shits about her. Don't ever be a babysitter to drunk sluts and don't ever take women in other places than yours or hers. And why did you stay there with t…
/r/seduction23/06/13 05:41 AM
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Just a tip - don't be anyone's babysitter, EVER. Try not to, but I have a tendency to get protective of people, and when I see someone in a vulnerable position with nobody helping, I step it. Yeah, it definitely shoots me in the foot though. Thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction23/06/13 05:39 AM
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She wanted him, not me, and she was already her second choice (first choice guy blew her off). If I had taken a shot solo, I might have gotten some, but I don't know how she would have felt about it in the morning.
/r/seduction23/06/13 05:37 AM
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Something I've been striving to do, but cleanliness has always been something I struggled with.
/r/seduction23/06/13 05:36 AM
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I'm already an advanced lifter, I've just got a shit load of fat covering it all up. I basically bulked for years but have never done a proper cut. I have a hard time not getting fixated on one girl, unless I've got a bunch in the picture, which I rarely do. I get fixated, really quick on girls, and then when shit goes south, I take it really badly.
/r/seduction23/06/13 05:35 AM
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Bar
/r/seduction23/06/13 05:34 AM
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Honestly, I've known her for months, and didn't think she was like this when drunk. So it just turned into a mess that landed in my lap.
/r/seduction23/06/13 05:33 AM
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Perhaps, but I'm nowhere near as bad as where I was, and I kept her from driving and potentially killing herself or someone else, so atleast there's that.
/r/seduction23/06/13 05:32 AM
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I said I was muscular, I didn't say I was cut. I've got the build of a linebacker.
/r/seduction22/06/13 07:02 PM
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That's what I keep trying to remind myself. I feel my confidence and personality are the reason I get the marginal success with women that I do. Also, consider that this girl was thin, in shape, and about a 7-8/10. If I were to get in good shape, I would probably be much, much better off.
/r/seduction22/06/13 05:51 PM
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I've been doing social activities pretty much constantly lately. Problem is, they are generally with the same circle of people, so I'm not meeting many new people.
/r/seduction22/06/13 05:46 PM
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I was really close to just leaving her ass there, but I felt responsible for making sure she got somewhere safe. If her friends were still around I would have told her to fuck off.
/r/seduction22/06/13 05:35 PM
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Lesson learned, for sure
/r/seduction22/06/13 05:34 PM
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Yeah, which was also a reason why I didn't try to sleep with her that hard, but of course my coworker swept right in and fucked her brains out and she loved it...oh well
/r/seduction22/06/13 05:22 PM
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Yep. I dun fucked up. Best to learn from it and move on.
/r/seduction22/06/13 05:09 PM
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I dunno man, either way I was fucking stupid
/r/seduction22/06/13 05:00 PM
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It's more of a quest to change how people respond to me than anything. I'm pretty happy with myself, but I would definitely like to get more cut. The issue I seem to keep running into is that I get very little acknowledgment from women, and I think it's because of my weight. I feel like my confidence is the only thing that gives me the marginal amount of attention I get from women, because otherwise women don't even notice me :-/
/r/seduction22/06/13 04:55 PM
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