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I'm willing to bet that 99% of the people hating TRP have no clue what the purpose and the principles of the sub actually are. I do understand where they get all the hasty assumptions from though. There's a decent amount of userbase overlap between TRP and our whiny, toxic relatives MTGOW, Incel and so on. There are huge amounts of young men on the internet that spend most of their day discussing how shitty everyone and everything else is with each other, and the anger phase is a part of that ph…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 11:12 AM
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LDR is more about how often you meet than how far the distance is. If she flies from Mexico to Denmark to meet you five times a week, sure it's technically long distance, but it doesn't really matter does it? If you meet 2-4 times a month, you're fine. If it's more like 6-12 times a year, you might want to reconsider whether you're in a relationship or just a texting buddy.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 11:48 AM
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The basic idea of religion can be summed up by the snarky quote "Rules are for the obedience of fools and the guidance of the wise". God is basically "That which makes delaying gratification pay off" and sin/demons/the devil is giving in to tempting instant gratification that fucks you over in the long run. The idea has probably been around at least since the first guy went "I saved crops over winter to plant when spring came, dude over there ate all of his 'cause he was cold and hungry, then he…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 11:00 AM
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I've talked to people a few times about how TRP relates to the current political climate. The usual initial impression is that it's alt-right/conservative/misogynistic of course. I say all that is bullshit. TRP is too selfish to be political, and I mean that as a compliment. People come here after spending their teens and/or twenties as doormats and the first thing they learn is, if you don't respect, like or care about yourself, nobody else is going to respect, like or care about you either. No…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 12:52 PM
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TRP usually recommends erring on the unapologetic end, and that's definitely wise since a lot of people apologize way too often and end up becoming completely spineless. I had a situation with a friend of mine who regularly behaved selfishly and immaturely, never hesitating to ruin everyone else's good time, things like "I'm hungry now, so fuck what you guys want, I'm eating at this place with or without you", or "I'm in a shitty mood because I keep dying, I don't care that this is a team game a…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 12:23 PM
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Go ahead. I think the fact that fuckboy is the most widespread "insult" that girls use these days is hilarious. If there was a tutorial where you learned what a shit test was and was then asked to come up with the most basic, obvious one you could think of, fuckboy would be a perfect fit. Asking someone if he's a fuckboy is basically like having this conversation: Girl: "I think you might have a dick! Do you admit it!?" Boy: "Yes, I do have a dick, that's the truth." Girl: "And what do you plan …
/r/askTRP14/05/18 02:46 PM
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People on TRP, especially the ones who are new, would do well to remember Hanlon's razor; Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by ignorance. A lot of the young men who come here (me included) tend to lean towards the introverted, logical personality type and will eagerly devour any information about evolutionary psychology in order to understand how the sexes interact and why things haven't been going great in their sex lives so far. With that mindset, it's easy to assume…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 09:11 AM
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That's a lot like saying "I have no interest lifting weights, I only lift things that I actually need to move from one place to another". You need to practice, and you'll have to do it on someone. If you're too afraid of rejection when it comes to girls you're actually interested in (which is normal, happens to many of us), then you have to practice on someone else so that you don't get rejected by the ones you actually want.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 09:52 AM
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People who know the benefits of lifting and want to start doing it (read; literally everyone here who isn't already lifting) are procrastinating. Maybe they're scared, maybe they're lazy, whatever. The point is, one thing that seems to beat procrastination for almost everyone is to break down tasks into subtasks until each step is extremely easy. "Lift", "Get a job", "Develop abundance mentality", "Get rich". All those things can easily be replied to with "Okay, but how though?". The trick is to…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 10:39 AM
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"no one likes another dick trying to hang around" Sounds a lot like "no racer likes other cars on the track". Path of least resistance indeed, what a loser.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:02 AM
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Just like MGTOW, the definition of TRP is pretty vague and seems to mean different things to different people. But from what I've seen, its main focus is teaching this generation of 18-30 year old lost manchildren what it means to be a man and how you can become a fully mature, happy man even though you're starting late. That includes things like how to eat and work out, how women work (and why they've evolved to work that way), and how to use their nature to your advantage in order to get laid …
/r/askTRP08/04/18 11:40 AM
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That post was new to me, although I'm familiar with the flower vs blade metaphor. "Don't expose weakness, do something about it" is an interesting sentence though, since it aligns extremely well with my recent thoughts about honesty and deception. I've been a shameless opportunist most of my life, lying left and right as long as I thought I could get away with and would benefit from it. I still don't care much for the moral aspect of honesty, but I do think that having to keep track of all your …
/r/askTRP08/04/18 10:40 AM
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I'm not planning to get married, commit to any legal contracts or spend a larger portion of my income on a woman than I would on a cat. I'm well aware that practically none of them are reliable, helpful people to have in your life. As Hitchens said, women aren't funny because evolutionarily speaking, they've never needed to be. Same thing goes for loyalty, honesty, selflessness, stability, all those things you probably desire in a partner. But the thing is, the only biological incentive they hav…
/r/askTRP08/04/18 10:20 AM
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Not a fan of MGTOW to be honest. The comparison I usually make, and think I think it's pretty accurate, is this. If you post here, chances are you grew up being taught that that the best way to win in a game of football (soccer) is to run in circles and pay no attention to the ball or the goals. At some point you figured out that this is complete nonsense and that the other players who are actually doing well haven't bothered to teach you how the game works, and in fact, most of them don't even …
/r/askTRP08/04/18 09:55 AM
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Sidebar -> Glossary of Redpill terms -> ASD/LMR. Either that, or like other commenters said, period or insecurity.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 08:47 AM
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Look, catching feelings and being rejected is a pain in the ass, no doubt about it, but it's just something that happens, like hunger. The thing is, let's say that getting rejected gives you -50 happiness. Chances are you're not the happiest guy in the first place (no offence). Let's say you only have 70 happiness, so getting rejected is fucking devastating. The trick is improving all kinds of things in your life (health, friendships, money, hobbies etc.) so that your happiness pool is large eno…
/r/askTRP08/04/18 06:56 AM
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Most women want sex to "just happen". That's why it's easier to invite her to your place after closing time with "I'm just going to get my jacket" than "I'm going to bring you home and fuck your brains out". Same thing goes for online conversations, but you can be a bit more ballsy there because it's pretty anonymous. Keep it reasonable though, you don't want to be mistaken for one of the guys that use hookup sites just to talk dirty online and jerk off.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 06:42 AM
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Honestly, this sounds a lot like the classic "He's pulling your hair because he likes you" playground dynamic. If you had started throwing napkins back at her I bet she would've gone from pouting to laughter in a few seconds. Treat her like the ridiculous little girl she clearly is, make fun of her until she starts laughing or runs away crying. The only reason to get angry in this situation is if you're dedicated to shaping her into a respectable person as you would if you were raising a daughte…
/r/askTRP08/04/18 06:31 AM
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There are lots of good books, but my first and still favorite one is Book of Pook. It doesn't really break any of the standard redpill rules iirc, and it has a very optimistic, positive vibe. I think it's hard if not almost impossible to both internalize that book and stay in the anger phase.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 06:17 AM
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Exactly, and I don't think you'll have any luck there I'm afraid. I'm far from a scientist but it seems to me that men who have a desire to be submissive and women who have a desire to be dominant (and so-called switches) have some sort of unmet psychological need. I read this interview a few years back with a 19 year old girl who moved many miles away from the home of her parents to a new, big city unknown to her and was dealing with a lot of stress. Despite being a virgin and pretty awkward ab…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 09:05 PM
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What kind of freedom and dominance is it that you feel you would lose out on in a commited relationship with a dominant man, exactly?
/r/askTRP28/03/18 04:06 PM
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Decide who you want to be. Imagine your future, set goals, break those goals down into small managable pieces, write a plan for when you will do those small pieces, and stick to it. Stop doing things you know you shouldn't be doing. Things that you wouldn't openly admit to doing. Jerk off to porn 2-3 times a day, but not exactly proud of it? Work on dropping that habit. Compulsively steal loose change whenever you see it lying around? You wouldn't want others to consider you a thief, so work act…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 11:40 AM
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Keep being social, keep trying. Hell, expect failure. The only bad thing about failure is if you decide to not get up and try again. I'm far from a catch, but I haven't been nervous around women for years. I was a shy virgin until I was 21, then something just ”snapped” and the anxiety and social inhibitions were gone, and I started getting laid a few months after that. Why did that happen? Well, I'm not sure, but there are quite a few proverbs that come to mind. What doesn't kill you makes you …
/r/askTRP28/03/18 06:55 AM
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Coming from someone who spent his twenties sleeping with a bunch of ”troubled” women, I can assure you that we're not trying to fix you, girls like that are just really easy and available for any man who is able to hit on her and get an erection. I was unemployed and living off of pizza and antidepressants, and that didn't stop them at all from being needy and falling for me despite me being 100% emotionally unavailable. I don't know you, but dark/no makeup, dyed hair and more creative than prod…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 06:30 AM
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52 / 2 + 7 = 33. Woah. It's almost as if that rule was made up to make older, educated, well-paid men settle for post-wall women. No one regardless of age or gender who is infertile is proper dating range. That's kind of the thing. Humans like to date (aka fuck) fertile people.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 12:00 AM
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You can, but most people freak out if you do, as if you just took a picture of them shoplifting or something. The app is good for discretion, I agree with that. Terrible for communication though, at least if it's anything worth remembering, like what time you're going to meet up etc.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 12:56 PM
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For some people, maybe. I still stick to messenger, discord or actual text messages, depending on who I'm communicating with. No chat history makes Snapchat terrible for communication. The purpose of the app is validation, not communication.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 12:34 AM
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I'm a few years older than you, but from the same country, so I'm aware how popular snapchat is these days. That being said, I'd advise you to use it as little as possible. It's mostly a place for girls to collect orbiters and get validation. And yes, that includes the practical disappearing pictures that no doubt make them less cautious about sending nudes. You'll probably get to see her tits, but what are you going to do with that? It gets old. I used to be that guy, but I've cut contact with …
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 09:50 PM
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Massive debt with an interest rate of 0.5% is fine. It's good to be Swedish.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 12:25 AM
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Agree. Intelligence is a big turn-on and a great addition to a girl's personality. It's hardly a replacement for beauty though, I'm afraid.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/17 03:56 PM
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I'm not female, I just come over here from trp for some reading every now and then. But I think I have a good analogy for this. To me, an intelligent girl who is both able and interested in discussing all kinds of topics is definitely a plus. But if she lacks more important traits (isn't cute, is overweight, refuses to be led), intelligence is not going to save her. It's kind of like having a barber who shares hobbies with you. Sure, I'd love to have a barber who will have passionate in-depth co…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/17 02:56 PM
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Quite frankly I don't care what a man's motive is for improving himself, as long as he keeps doing it. I enjoy vaginas and I would enjoy having a lot of them quite a lot. That isn't about pleasing them, it's about pleasing myself. The people who aren't welcome here are the ones who would rather complain and cry about the state of the world than get a hold of themselves and enjoy the one life they get. But sure, if you hate other people so much that you would rather not have anything to do with t…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 03:49 PM
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Oh, I will, trust me. I will also enjoy being hit by cars when crossing roads. Life is full of risks. But the biggest risk is living a boring, safe life until you one day wake up as a 45 year old sad fat incel. That thought, if anything, is scary.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 10:37 AM
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This is the difference between TRP and MGTOW/Incel. TRP goes "Oh, so this is how women work, time to get my shit together and become successful, with them and with the rest of my life". You go "I'm unsuccessful, so now I'm really sad. Also I probably have whatever random diagnosis and my mom was abusive and blablabla. I don't want to play anymore, I'm taking my ball and going home". You don't belong here mate, not with that attitude. As soon as you want to stop pitying yourself and start working…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 09:42 AM
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Sure, you can be exclusive. Just not in the way you would think. If you've been here for more than a day or two I'm sure you've heard "Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment". And that's exactly how it works, because men mainly value sex and women mainly value commitment. Think about it from a genetics point of view. How do these things affect you spreading your genes? For him: She's having sex with multiple people: Absolute disaster. Your genes don't know about …
/r/askTRP12/11/17 08:24 AM
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Your perspective on the world is contagious. We love to subconsciously mimic each other. If you're constantly worried about sexual allegations and thinking about them every day, people around you will be more inclined to do so too. As people here often say, this is a society-wide shit test. The men who are too worried about sexual allegations to flirt are filtered out this way. And, as the other guy said, be attractive and don't be unattractive. You may be able to convince or bribe or blackmail …
/r/askTRP12/11/17 07:57 AM
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Can't say I've been doing any scientific studies, but it seems like simple logic to me. People who let themselves get off without the help of women aren't as motivated to become someone who gets to stick his dick in women. Sounds like common sense to me, not religion.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 04:21 PM
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Different people have different moral compasses I guess, but I doubt I'd do Bevan a solid like you did, to be honest. He's making his own choices and they've gotten him where they have gotten him. It's not like he deserves to be warned about this major fuck-up on his part. It's a nice thing for you to do to him, but you're not always going to be around to save his ass. Betas gonna beta.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 03:41 PM
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Hey, we've all been there. Some bluepill values are less blatantly bad than others. "I want a smart girl" doesn't sound like a bad thing, unless you spend some time thinking about it.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 02:26 PM
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Same thing that differentiates the man who gets angry and punches his boss in the face from the man that gets angry and does not punch his boss in the face. Everyone has emotions, some more than others. Sometimes they feel fucking unbearable. But you never have to act on them. It takes a lot of discipline to not act on them, but it's not impossible. That's what differentiates them.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 02:17 PM
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Like the classic saying goes, both here and on the rest of the internet (/fit/ comes to mind), "Don't do X to get girls, it's meaningless if you don't do it for you". I'm not sure I agree with that to be honest. Yes, you should be doing it for yourself. Lifting and getting shredded just because you want pussy is extremely validation-seeking and a bit pathetic. But the thing is, if it's what you need to tell yourself to push yourself to actually go to the gym regularly, then tell yourself that. Y…
/r/askTRP10/11/17 02:13 PM
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Look, I've been an "I'm turned on by intelligent, nerdy girls"-guy for a huge part of my life. I've cared less about that recently, and I guess it's thanks to trp. Call me misogynist if you want to, but the thing is, intelligence (as in, an interest in logic/science) and independence are primarily male traits. Look for those in your male friends. If your sex partner has them, great I guess, but it really doesn't matter that much. It's like saying "Well, I really like the guy who does the regular…
/r/askTRP10/11/17 02:03 PM
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You don't need to determine it at all, because it doesn't really matter. Sure, if you're looking for someone to settle down with (if you insist on doing that), then you probably won't want a girl with a 3-digit n-count. But the thing is, if she fucks around that much, you'll be able to tell through other signs without even trying, long before you even think about asking her about her n-count. If you're just looking for a casual sex-focused relationship, then the n-count is irrelevant. Some peopl…
/r/askTRP10/11/17 01:57 PM
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On one hand, if it feels frustrating for you and you don't pull it off regularly, you probably need to improve. On the other hand, I think it should feel like it "just happens" in a way. The best type of game is natural game, not the kind where you have a motive and strategy behind every sentence you say. The end goal of developing good game is, in my opinion, developing a mindset that just means your default is good game.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 01:52 PM
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Well, I don't dislike attractive women who know they're attractive, but it does say quite a bit about them. It's kind of like being proud of being a stripper or a hooker. Yeah, we can see that you have a pretty face and a nice vagina, do you have anything else though? On that note, that's pretty much qualifying 101. Yeah, you're cute. Lots of girls are cute. What else do you. Bring to the table?
/r/askTRP09/11/17 09:47 AM
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Haven't read the post, but whatever went wrong, I'm sure it had a lot to do with her being Ukrainian. Or, you know, not. I'm extremely far from being a leftist sjw, but I swear, everyone is secretly racist these days. AWALT is AWALT. Not AUkranianWALT.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 09:41 AM
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The reason you can't just say "Hey, get on my dick" to a girl who really wants to get on your dick is plausible deniability. Your job is to be obvious and forward enough to first, let her know that you want to fuck her, and second, make that happen. But as the same time, you have to be vague and discrete enough that she can pretend she has no clue what's going on and act surprised when she comes with you to your apartment to see your stamp collection and it turns out you actually just wanted to …
/r/askTRP09/11/17 09:39 AM
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You're looking at shit tests the wrong way. Consider these two scenarios: You lift a weight. It's heavy and exhausting. You put it down. Next time you can and should lift an even heavier weight. Oh god, this is such a pain in the ass. You don't lift a weight. It isn't heavy or exhausting, and you don't have to lift one tomorrow, either. Wow, this is great. My point is, women don't test men because they're evil or mean. They test you to see if you're a real man. And constantly having your manhood…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 12:52 PM
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Well...it might exist online or something, I don't know. But I did it in person with a psychologist I'd been meeting for 2-3 months, and it was just one test among quite a few, 7-8 or so (the others testing concentration, working memory, problem solving and so on). I don't know how it works in whatever country you live in, but call your local mental health institute and tell them that you think you might be autistic, or something.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 12:46 PM
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There is zero money in MGTOW and Incels. Zero. Even if they almost always either work entry level jobs or live off of welfare, there is some money, and you can monetize with them as their niche. Great example of marketing to 15-30 sad chubby virgin boys/men: World of Warcraft. You're a failure in the real world? Come on in, try ours. You've been gaming since you were 5, you won't be a loser here. It'll just cost you most of your waking hours and $15 a month. Doing something similar with things l…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 12:43 PM
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Makes sense. Well, the good news is, at this point I think the risk of falling back into the habit of getting pizza delivered daily is more or less zero, so it's just a question of time before I'm rid of all this flab. I've done it before, except much more quickly with a much more extreme diet that didn't require making homemade meals a habit. Needless to say, that's the kind of strategy that leads to the infamous yo-yo dieting. As they say, a diet shouldn't be a temporary action, but a permanen…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 10:47 AM
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Oh, don't get me wrong, I haven't had the slightest hint of feeling suicidal, ever. That's why I think depression is most likely a completely wrong diagnosis for me. I originally sought it out because I was constantly tired and rarely managed to push myself to do the things I had to do to make life less shit. It has helped somewhat, but the serotonin-type antidepressants only fucked me up further, the ones that have helped are the noradrenaline type ones, both of which are or have been used to t…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 10:31 AM
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Regarding psychopathy, I think it's a good idea, like you said, to separate it into empathy and morality. I doubt I'm much of a psychopath, and I think most people who consider themselves psychopaths really aren't. It's one of those things young guys tend to self-diagnose as just to seem edgy. That being said, I've been accused of being one (or had the possibility brought up, but not in a hostile way) a few times. I took this autism spectrum test with a psychologist a while back where you were s…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 10:18 AM
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I'm not sure about this, but you could just straight up tell the angry pink-haired blob (when the girl/girls you're interested in can hear it) that she's obviously jealous because you're not hitting on her and that it's off-putting. Women tend to be very competitive, so in my mind, the cute girl would hear this and think "Oh shit, why didn't I see this earlier. She's trying to sabotage me, not help me. Fuck that chubby bitch".
/r/askTRP08/11/17 10:05 AM
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This sounds like something I probably should do. I always feel tired and just like OP describes, I spend a lot of time doing more or less nothing. I've been on antidepressants for years with moderate success, but I've never had the typical anxiety/sadness/suicidal thoughts that you would expect from depression. They're starting to lean more towards ADD now (because when I actually get into something, I do it almost maniacally), but I think both of these things are overdiagnosed as fuck and it wo…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 09:51 AM
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edit this is not directed at you Shukakun. Just a rant about how shitty it is for twerps on the internet to talk about stuff outside their wheelhouse. No worries, I figured. I tend to start a sentence with was and end then change over to is midway, so that switch to "you" wasn't so surprising. I know that feeling.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 09:22 PM
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If you weren't in scarcity, you wouldn't even consider having a girl in your life who brings so much drama and negative feelings. Think about it. What's better, having two plates and everything being fine, or having three plates and having to wrestle with your oneitis and her mindgames constantly? If you for some reason prefer the second option, I'm happy to tell you that there's a third option. You can have three plates AND not have to deal with her shit. Find a new girl and plate her. Exes are…
/r/askTRP07/11/17 04:44 PM
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No, you shouldn't reply. As a lot of people have already said, she's dead to you. But I think it's important to consider the tone. She's not dead to you as in, if you met her, you would angrily say "You're dead to me!". You aren't angry. You're just done with the chapter of your life that involved her, and now she's not part of your life anymore, and won't be in the future either. Not because you hate her, just because you're done.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 04:34 PM
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Yeah, some of the pua-style books aren't exactly classy. I like the book of pook, you actually have to open it before you can judge it. But day bang as you pointed out, and sex God method with it's pornographic cover picture, could definitely have more style.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 11:56 AM
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I'd say you aren't a clean slate, but you're pretty damn close. Your gender is not a social construct, and neither is your eye color, for example. When it comes to mental aspects though, like intelligence, personality and so on, the impression I've gotten is that it's mostly nurture and very little nature. So you can pretty much be whatever you want.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 10:12 AM
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You're right that tribalism is a part of more or less every human on this planet. It's just part of our biology, and we probably won't shake that habit for a long, long time, if ever. I'm a "White heterosexual cis male" as the left would say. And needless to say, being told that that's all that matters about my identity and that that makes me evil day in and day out, I turned to the right, watched some YouTube people, had some discussions. Probably goes for a lot of people here, considering the …
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 10:00 AM
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Crazy is like fire. Really bad idea to stay too close to it for too long, but also fascinating to sit and stare into it and kind of lose yourself in it. Add to that the fact that most BPD women are absolutely wild in bed. You definitely shouldn't give them your house key or let them live with you though. That's like lighting yourself on fire because it's really fascinating. You can have enough fire in your life without killing yourself with it.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 09:35 AM
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I agree, it has become somewhat of a meme and it's not a badge of honor or a battle scar, it's just pathetic. I've been there, I know how it is to be with a (clinically diagnosed) BPD woman. Yes, they're really, really fucked up. That doesn't mean you should be like that guy the other day posting something along the lines of "I have PTSD now because of my BPD ex girlfriend. She really broke me as a man and now I don't know how to put myself back together (please pity me)". I don't care if your e…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 09:29 AM
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As a good friend of mine once said, premature ejaculators have superior genetics. They score highest in the impregnated females per minute rankings and can move on to the next one quicker than other men. Jokes aside, caring 100% about your own pleasure and 0% about hers is probably nearly as bad as the other way around. That being said, good sex is not about you making sure she is enjoying it. It's about her enjoying you enjoying her.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 09:20 AM
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Oh please. Almost the entirety of that list is practically sidebar material. Go over to r/redpillbooks and see what you find. But by all means, random internet guy, enlighten me. What do you want me to read?
/r/askTRP07/11/17 05:07 AM
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Ugh. I know this is a thing that does happen regularly, so not caring about the risk of her falsely accusing you is dumb, I know. But I can't help but compare this to the whole affirmative consent thing. If you're making sure to acquire clear verbal consent from women before you kiss them, you've completely fallen into the ridiculous feminist frame, you're playing to their tune. I feel like by making sure to acquire irrefutable proof (some people suggest pocket recording devices every time you h…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 07:52 PM
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Sounds about right. The more I think about it, the more I start thinking that this whole problem may not actually be a problem at all. Trp has established that women like men who 1. Are themselves regardless of her reaction 2. Make them feel strong emotions, including negative ones 3. Have Machiavellian traits. So that bookshelf might not look too bad in her eyes after all, provided the rest of you isn't shit. It's kind of like glasses. Hot man with glasses looks intelligent, skinny socially awk…
/r/askTRP06/11/17 06:12 PM
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I think you're right. It's not just a bookshelf thing, this question makes sense on a larger spectrum too. At the end of the day, it seems like the answer is: Be authentic, but have some social tact. For example, if a girl goes on a tirade about marriage, where are all the good men, men need to grow up and take responsibility, all that, you can reply in a few different ways. Agreeing & amplifying or joking around in general would work. Ignoring it completely or saying something short like "borin…
/r/askTRP06/11/17 05:47 PM
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Hmm, good point. For short-term girls, if she even takes a look in the first place, humor and vagueness goes a long way. For an fwb or something committed, I'd just more or less tell them how it is, I'm really interested in evolutionary psychology and why we behave the ways we do when interacting with each other. That interest includes "bad" things like manipulation and seduction. If she is so offended by that that she wants to leave, she's free to do so. Plenty of girls out there to take her pl…
/r/askTRP06/11/17 05:05 PM
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True, your behavior is the most important thing, that goes without saying. But your bookshelf gives her a lot of fuel to think about why you behave like you do. If you meet an extremely flirty, charming girl, go home with her and you see 30 books about cannibalism in her bookshelf, you wouldn't go "Oh well, those don't really matter, she's such a really pleasant girl to hang out with". You would be worried. I'm not saying redpill, social psychology and PUA is as bad as cannibalism, but still. Th…
/r/askTRP06/11/17 04:01 PM
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Porn is probably a lot like a burger. If you're 230 lbs of mostly lean mass. A burger is fine, you can even use those fast carbs to train effectively. If you're an obese couch potato, that burger will mostly just help you fuck your life up further. Porn seems to work the same way. If you get laid 3 days a week and have to keep your windows barred to prevent your thirsty plates from breaking in and begging for sex on days when you have better things to do, go ahead, jerking off to some porn isn't…
/r/askTRP06/11/17 03:48 PM
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Yeah, it's not nearly as bad to be skinny or fat in a gym as people imagine. I went for a couple of months a few years ago (and didn't make any progress because I didn't care about what I ate, big mistake), and just minded my own business. The one time anyone bothered me during those months was a guy with a body that made it obvious he knew what he was talking about telling me "Hey, you're doing that wrong, you might get hurt" when he saw me deadlifting, and offered to show me how to do it with …
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 02:40 PM
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I assume you mean panties. I mean sure, I'm a bit of a dom and a sadist myself, but I would never stuff a girl's jeans into her mouth, that sounds difficult, and mean.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 01:57 PM
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I don't think I ever actually heard it here, but a common perspective among the PUA people is: Friendzone is fine as long as you're putting her in it, not the other way around. It's a great way to expand your social circle and get to know more women quickly. If that's a good way to think about it, I can't say for sure.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 09:38 AM
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How is it relevant whether or not it makes you happy? I once discussed life after death in high school. One of my classmates said he believed in reincarnation. We asked him why. He said "Because I want that, it would be great". It doesn't work like that. You can't just go back to believing what you believed before once you've learned something that is more logical than what you believed before.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 07:18 PM
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True. And as you said in the first post, this kind of behavior often shows up when you threaten to dump her or otherwise dread her. If you ever feel like you should dump a girl, you probably should, even if she does a bunch of stuff to keep you.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 04:38 PM
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What I'm saying is, if she's insisting on cooking you dinner, cleaning your house and giving you spontaneous blowjobs, then that's what she's doing. Why she's doing it is another story.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 04:31 PM
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Hmm, this is a bit odd. You've already extensively demonstrated to her that you do in fact not have a penis, but she's still letting you sleep in her bed. Most women wouldn't let orbiters do that. Well, you have nothing to lose, so make sure to make a move next time. Either she puts you out of your misery or you put it inside her.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 04:25 PM
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Oh, don't get me wrong, having kids is just as terrifying and risky as getting married. The difference is that having kids is an instinctive goal and a lot of people will feel that they want that in their lives sooner or later. Marriage is a social construct meant to create a more peaceful society, because sexually frustrated men are angry, rioting men, and if you let natural selection do its thing rather than assigning one woman to each man, you end up with 60-80% sexless, angry men. Now, I've …
/r/askTRP05/11/17 03:09 PM
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Goshinryu just seems to be a prefix you throw onto Japanese martial arts, roughly translates to "School of self-defense". So best case scenario, it might be jujitsu but with better real life application. I'm a bit torn about what variant to pick, honestly. I mostly want to do it for the community, but it's also for confidence and actual fights, should I ever need it. What I've heard about real life situations so far is this: 1. Ground-focused martial arts are bad idea, you can't lie there and ch…
/r/askTRP05/11/17 01:17 PM
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I haven't personally seen any but yeah, I can imagine people post about Jews sometimes, considering this is a place where people who are tired of the radical sjw left come, and those same people might also be drawn to other such places with less reasonable values. Personally, I've always found that people who hate Jews are incredibly funny. It is true that Jews are very prevalent in American media, education and finance, and that's because Jewish culture encourages hard work, meritocracy and int…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 10:39 AM
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The default rules for a girl is "I need plausible deniability so I can't say things that are too flirty, or say flirty things too often. It's his job to talk to me in a way that makes it clear he wants to take me home and bone me, but not so clear that I couldn't claim that I had no idea what his intentions were". To me, this sounds like her saying "Ugh, I'm not supposed to be this overt but I really want you to take me home and bone me, and you're really not getting it".
/r/askTRP05/11/17 10:18 AM
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I don't have any scientific evidence for this, it's mostly anecdotal, but I'd recommend embracing your inner monkey, or caveman if you will. I have a feeling that men tend to become happier by 1. Competing with other men, and 2. Doing physical things. Lifting, running, climbing, fighting. Fighting is something I'm especially interested in. I want to join a martial arts club, and I think most men, even those who dislike the idea of it, would enjoy it a lot. Simply because it contains both of thos…
/r/askTRP05/11/17 10:13 AM
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First of all I suspect college is riskier in the US than other places, both financially and for getting accused of shit you haven't done. But regardless of that, I'm going for a doctorate in CompSci->AI. There aren't going to be any women there to falsely accuse me of anything, I'm a genius.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 09:58 AM
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By the way, you hit the nail on the head perfectly. There's an incredibly important thing to focus on here. Buyer's remorse. I've been pushing this perspective for a while now, and it might be interpreted as pedestalizing, but honestly, do you want to fuck a woman because of her level of attraction to you, or despite it? Do you want to be Harvey Weinstein or do you want to be Ryan Gosling? I'm not saying all PUAs are pathetic creeps, and what they teach is valuable because it's not only tips & t…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 09:42 AM
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My personal irl experience still hasn't become unmanageable. Even though my friends are mostly bluepill, they're openly anti-feminist. Some of their girlfriends will then go online and claim to be feminists, post #metoo stuff and a few of them even identify as non-binary rather than female (online that is). But in real life, even in one-on-one situations with their respective boyfriends, they tend to agree when he makes his case for why feminism and sjw politics in general is bullshit. We don't …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 09:10 AM
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No such thing as a facade of effort. Her putting in effort is her putting in effort. She can't put on a facade of being pleasant, cooking you food and being enthusiastic in bed. If it's happening, it's happening. That's the entire point of dread. I think I get what you mean though. Don't interpret such behavior as "Oh, she used to be a bitch from hell but apparently she's great now. Let's be together forever, and I don't need any dread game." She'll obviously only be pleasant as long as she feel…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 08:00 AM
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You can have an LTR, that's fine. In fact, I personally think a traditional boyfriend/girlfriend relationship where you hang out multiple times a week, cook, watch movies, cuddle, kiss in public, go on adventures etc. together is ideal. The only difference between my version and the bluepill one is that I don't think a proper relationship is both of you promising to be exclusive with both commitment and sex. Neither of those things are the same thing for men as they are for women, since we are v…
/r/askTRP05/11/17 07:57 AM
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You might want to Google the definitions of those words, because I am neither attracted to pre-pubescent people, nor am I celibate, involuntary or otherwise. But hey, don't let your illiteracy hold you back. Don't let your dreams be dreams, buddy.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 07:49 AM
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That's kind of the entire point of puberty, moron. It makes you capable of breeding and very eager to do so. But by all means, let your moral dogma override basic biology. For the love of God, don't fuck her the week before she turns 18, she's a CHILD! Next week it's fine though.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 07:22 AM
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What's the difference between BJJ/JJ/Judo/Goshinryu JJ? I've been thinking about getting into some kind of martial art, and I'm not a huge fan of boxing. The terms are pretty similar though, it gets confusing.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 05:58 AM
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I get that you feel bad. You've been conditioned all your life to never be hostile or mean to people. They just forgot to tell you that sometimes, you can end up in these situations where it's just a shitty idea to talk to her, regardless of what you're going to talk about. I don't know if it's really related, but after I read Rollo's War Brides article, my current relationships with past lays made a lot more sense. I think women have a very strong tendency to cut all contact and develop a hosti…
/r/askTRP05/11/17 05:43 AM
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If you're inside her, you'll usually feel some noticeable convulsions, which is hot as fuck. If you're not, I agree that it can be a bit tricky to know if she came, just felt really good, or faked it. But I'm far from Don Juan. With more experience you can probably learn to see or even hear the signs.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 03:13 PM
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Ah, good point, I did not consider that difference. Unless she's the kind of girl who is interested in the kind of stuff that we're discussing right now, I doubt she'd go "Hah, this guy is giving up $200 for my pussy, I have him on a leash!". It has the same financial outcome for him, but for her, actually getting paid is a very different thing than him giving up a few hours of work. Edit: On a related note, I've bought public transport tickets online for girls to come visit me plenty of times, …
/r/askTRP04/11/17 02:54 PM
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Oh yes, that's a classic. Intrigues girls, infuriates other guys trying to get you to react. A few years back, I had two very drunk guys enter my tiny apartment where I was having a small drinking party with ~10 people, because someone from a completely different floor in our building had been taunting them from a window as they walked by. They seemed to understand that it wasn't us, but were clearly still in the mood to pick a fight, and it didn't take long until one of them had his shirt off, …
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 10:31 AM
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Yeah, I'd end that friendship, not because he physically attacked you, but because the mindset that would make him do that is pathetic. He literally felt that this chance for him to get with some random girl he didn't even know was so important that seeing her prefer you enraged him so much that he'd have to fight you to get you out of the picture. This is like, the highest level of mate guarding, except he's doing it for a stranger rather than his girlfriend, to a supposed friend rather than a …
/r/askTRP04/11/17 08:19 AM
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No, you don't NEED to fuck, you just really really want to. Get a grip, man. The only one that can take control over your life is you. For anyone else, they have to be willingly given it by you. Think of it like this. If you can't control your sex drive and will always reach a point where you'd do anything to get pussy, how do you expect any ons/fwb/ltr/wife/whatever you're into to be able to respect you? Doesn't matter what you say, she can literally just spread her legs and you're completely h…
/r/askTRP04/11/17 08:09 AM
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I think he did the right thing. I went to a media/game dev high school (overall ridiculously nerdy), and one thing that happened there sort of relates to this. World of Warcraft was the big thing back then and almost everyone in the school played it, and about 20-30 of us started playing the WoW card game when it came out. These card packs would sometimes, 1 in 400-500 packs or so, contain a card with a part that could be scratched off to reveal a code which you could enter in the online game to…
/r/askTRP04/11/17 07:55 AM
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Indeed, "She's not yours, it's just your turn" is heard regularly here for a very good reason. And honestly, I've come to terms and am kind of happy with that fact. She'll stay with you until a more convincing prospect comes around. There are almost four billion men in the world, and trust me, you're not the one she'd like to be with the most out of those four billion. If you believe for a second that you might be, I've got a bridge to sell ya. An important realization to get past the whole ange…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 07:40 AM
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Yeah, I...fucked up my math badly there somehow, and I have no excuse. As for the whole investment thing, I'm still very new to it, and have definitely started slow. I live off of €1000 per month, which is what you get as a student loan in Sweden. Or rather, 30% of that is just money you get for free, 70% is a student loan with an interest rate of 0.5%, and that interest rate isn't active until you're officially not studying anymore. So in short...university is more or less free here, which is a…
/r/askTRP03/11/17 09:47 PM
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No, they aren't. When I say cheating, I mean that he's by one method or another sleeping with girls who are definitely not physically attracted to him. It's a personal taste thing I guess, but I've been both with girls who were and girls who we're attracted to me, and for me at least, there's a huge difference.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 06:34 PM
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I'm doing index funds, only been at it for a year, and I've set 5% as my estimate, because I figure it's better to have more money than you expected to than less, if you plan to make withdrawals etc. in the future. A friend of mine who is far more knowledgeable than me about the whole thing insists that in a 40 year period, an average of 10-12% is reasonable, but I'm skeptical to say the least. I'm at 7.6% so far this year.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 05:57 PM
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Compounding interest. Let's say you can get a steady growth of 8% per year, which is not unreasonable. Let's say that you can live off of $2,000 per month. If you have $115,000, it'll grow by roughly $24,000 each year, covering your expenses. You'll probably want to sell a lot less than your entire expected growth though, because some years you'll gain value and some years you'll lose some. Anyway, the point is, if you reach that point and instead of quitting your job you just keep putting a lar…
/r/askTRP03/11/17 04:16 PM
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Now that you mention it, people are never unbiased when retelling stories either, so if OPs version is "I think I pretty much raped her", reality was definitely "He really fucking raped her".
/r/askTRP03/11/17 03:34 PM
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Well, can't re-read the post now since he deleted it, but the getting her pants off part was pretty vague and up for interpretation. But then he went all Mr. Gray on her and she started crying. If she didn't feel like she was getting raped before his dick went inside her, she definitely did during and after, at least. Details aside, looking at the whole picture, it's extremely hard to not see op as a rapist.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 03:04 PM
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The first thing you learn in investing 101 is "Never tell anyone how much money you have". That goes for not only women, but family, friends and strangers too. Keep saving it, pretend to be poor, eventually you'll have enough that you can sometimes spend some on women if you want to. I usually compare women to cats in this scenario. If you have a cat in your life in a more serious way than just randomly meeting it on the street, petting it and then going your separate ways, of course you'll end …
/r/askTRP03/11/17 03:01 PM
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Like I said, LMR is a thing, almost all girls say no or deny you somehow at least once before you actually get down to business, it's standard behavior. A giggling, smiling girl saying no does not mean no, you need to listen to how she says it, not what she says. But yes, I agree, judging by OP's description, it's extremely likely that he basically raped this girl, which was a pretty retarded thing to do. Sometimes no does mean no, and if you can't tell the difference, you shouldn't be having se…
/r/askTRP03/11/17 02:56 PM
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Never said I had any studies to back it up. I am just as sure of most autists being male and most bpd-people being female as I am of most construction workers being male and most nurses being female. I've literally never looked at the stats, I've just seen and heard of A LOT of male construction workers/autists and female bpd/nurses, and almost never of the opposite. Similarly, I am pretty convinced that black people are on average better runners and basketball players than white people are. But…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 02:12 PM
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Remove her from your life, stop reading her social media and move on with your life. Ever since I consciously started working on not doing it myself, it has become very obvious that people complain and think negative thoughts constantly. And guess what good that does you? Nothing. Literally nothing. It just hurts and ruins your mood. That's all it does. You need to realize that while your emotions will never be completely controllable, it's completely up to you what to think and how to act. If y…
/r/askTRP03/11/17 10:00 AM
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I think the reason they're interpreting trp as a cult (if they actually are, wouldn't be the first time CNN were dishonest if not), is because of the kind of people who join cults. Cult members are often young, impressionable, lonely people looking for a place to belong to. Many trp readers are very similar. The difference is that an actual cult goes "Yes, absolutely, this is your only hope for salvation, give us your paycheck" while trp goes "Ugh...these ideas are tools to give you a better per…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 09:44 AM
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You do you, but I definitely wouldn't go about it that way. I have a "(almost) never choking, slapping or bringing out the cuffs, gag and blindfold the first time I fuck a girl"-rule. Have regular kind of tame rough sex with her at least once first. Then she knows you're not actually a psycho rapist in real life, just in the sack.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 09:39 AM
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Welcome to trp, enjoy your stay. Maybe you should look up ASD and LMR. If all men listened and gave up after the first time a girl said "No/I can't/Not on the first date/I'm not that kind of girl", humanity would be extinct a long time ago. That being said, op did cross a line, but not that one.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 09:37 AM
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Remember the old story about the Emperor's new clothes? The reason that thing is so widespread and well-known is because, like all good stories and myths, it has an important message. In this case being: People are incredibly impressionable and open to suggestion. This is why we talk so much about frame here. Holding frame is essentially saying "This is how I see reality, and that's how it is. You can disagree if you want to but I probably won't even notice it, because I know how things are". Th…
/r/askTRP03/11/17 09:28 AM
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I've honestly never experienced this, but heard about it plenty of times. That is, women who will gladly suck your cock, but not let you get in their panties. They seem to think that blowjobs are just barely above making out on the slut-scale. For me, it's usually the other way around. More than once, I've had an fwb who would gladly have anal sex regularly, but would be very reluctant to suck. What gives?
/r/askTRP03/11/17 09:12 AM
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It's also worth adding that some tigers have been told that they have to be domesticated kitties, otherwise no women will want them. This is not true, and women usually go "Ew, that's no tiger" and want nothing to do with them. Occasionally, a bit of the real tiger slips through despite his domesticated behavior and she's convinced he's the real deal, for a moment. But it won't take long until she realizes she thought she bought a tiger but actually bought a kitten, instantly filling her with bu…
/r/askTRP03/11/17 09:01 AM
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Well, there can only ever be one Zyzz, everyone knows that. Tom could probably never be nearly as slim, but from what I've seen, fat people can become pretty huge (in a good way) if they work out.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 09:49 PM
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You can cuddle with her, kiss her in public, fuck her four times a week, meet her parents. As long as she can be out of your house the second you want her out (ie she doesn't officially live there) and you haven't promised to not fuck other girls, she's just a really intimate fwb. Seems like one of the best solutions to me, because I really enjoy hanging out with her and giving her that "boyfriend experience", and it's pretty great for a couple of weeks/months, until she absolutely has to confes…
/r/askTRP02/11/17 06:34 PM
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Yeah, if he was 21 instead of 61, he very well might've been Dan Bilzerian's twin. I mean, he has the ladies, just not the body. And I guess I can't blame him, if I were in his shape at his age, I probably wouldn't see much of a point to start trying that late.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 06:04 PM
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I don't think men would have a code of honor if they didn't need one. Women are probably much less loyal because the consequences for becoming infamous for being a lying, stealing asshole is this: For men: You'll be exiled or killed, or in modern times, at least lose your friends and possibly your job. For women: Nothing much. Other women already know this is how they behave. Men look the other way because they want her pussy.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 05:02 PM
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I've been thinking about this. Ever since I heard the "Lift for yourself, not for pussy"-slogan back on /fit/ many years ago, I've agreed. Same thing with "Don't compare yourself to others, compare yourself to who you were yesterday". That mentality is healthy, because it fosters real confidence and real self-respect. But then I look at the biology. We're all driven by the instinct to spread our genes. And what is the genetic purpose for men, summarized in a very simple way? Compete with other m…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 04:51 PM
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The military is often a last ditch nothing else works-solution for turning boys into men. I do think most of them eventually come home as men, but the boy he was when he left wasn't necessarily someone she felt was the most alpha dude she'd ever meet in her life. That, and the fact that they're so incredibly far apart, for so long. It's the same reason LTRs don't work. She can get away with a lot, with very little risk. People do what you let them get away with, no exceptions. The only purpose o…
/r/askTRP02/11/17 04:26 PM
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True, Leykis has done a great job redpilling people, maybe more than anyone else. He's definitely a positive influence on the world. I just can't fully respect him because he looks like ass and is clearly undisciplined. He has a lot of fans, a couple of mansions and more pussy than he knows what to do with, but the one thing that he doesn't have is women who want to fuck him because of who he is rather than what he has. I think buying sex is fine if you have plenty of money, but instinctively, h…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 04:22 PM
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Well, the story in the book related to the law is about a prince who meets a peasant boy, becomes his best friend and makes him royalty, only to be overthrown by him later, so it's definitely a man thing too. I do think men act honorably more than women though, but not without reason. Everyone wants an honorable leader. No one wants a deceitful leader. The ultimate sexual strategy for a man is to be a leader. There might be one, but I can't think of any reason off the top of my head why women wo…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 04:16 PM
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Now that we're talking about loyalty, I was reminded of one of the laws from the 48 laws of power. I'm surprised I didn't see this parallel the first time I read it, but look at how similar these are: WHEN ASKING FOR HELP, APPEAL TO PEOPLE’S SELF-INTEREST, NEVER TO THEIR MERCY OR GRATITUDE If you need to turn to an ally for help, do not bother to remind him of your past assistance and good deeds. He will find a way to ignore you. Instead, uncover something in your request, or in your alliance wi…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 03:56 PM
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Trust me, you're not alone there. More or less all of the girls I've had great, normal, dominant, sometimes slightly bdsm sex with are all "Men gotta stop raping", "Wage gap!", "#metoo" on Facebook. Hell, a couple of them don't even identify as female (online that is, they've been perfectly fine saying they're female when I've met them).
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 03:40 PM
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Sounds like she's withholding sex already, and you aren't even in a relationship. I'll never understand the American way of dating where you have to entertain the girl and buy her things for weeks before anything happens. Here in Sweden (and we're the ones considered the duck country) it usually goes like this: 1. You meet on tinder or irl, flirt a bit until it's more or less agreed (plausible deniability of course). Sometimes the kiss already happens here, especially if alcohol is involved. 2. …
/r/askTRP02/11/17 03:28 PM
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You're on point, especially about the goal thing. Men under 30 these days are to a large extent unhappy, unmotivated and feel like life has no meaning, because they've never set any goals. I think this is why Jordan Peterson's stuff blew up as quickly as it did. As for the TRP vs PUA thing, I'd compare it to being a fruit merchant. PUA works purely on their salesmanship, and if they ever stop selling, they're left with nothing. TRP focuses partially on that (confidence, shit tests etc.), but mos…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 03:07 PM
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I agree, his genetics seem pretty good aesthetically. The only things that are unattractive about him is that he isn't fit and that he's being a hysterically crying cuck. But that last part isn't really a looks thing, and attitude can always be changed.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 03:00 PM
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That, I agree with. As demonstrated by bluepill guys who get shredded and still have the same insecure doormat behavior. I mean, he would not be at square one anymore, but not far from it either.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 02:33 PM
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Don't be this guy. Learn from his weakness. If you were going to walk away from this sub having learned only one thing, I think this would be it. I'd say it's the main thing that makes trp different from MGTOW/Incel/MRA. They go "This shit sucks, women are evil unfaithful, illogical sluts. I don't want to play anymore, I'm taking my ball and going home." TRP goes "Oh, so these are the rules, I've been playing the game wrong all along. Women are unfaithful, illogical and hypergamic by nature, not…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 02:28 PM
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The point is, if you don't have the body, you either don't want to look good and be strong (highly unlikely), or you haven't mustered up the discipline to build that body yet. In case of the latter, I can definitely see how it gives an impression of being more talk than walk.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 02:15 PM
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Most of the men posting on TRP are (or claim to be) above average, whether in looks, strength, smarts, money, social aptitude, whatever. It's universally accepted here that being average is a bad thing. But the issue is that most men are going to be average by definition, regardless of the standard. There's no way to get around that. Well, if trp consisted of men purely chosen at random, then yes, it would be very unlikely that the majority of them are above average. But considering we're compar…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 02:09 PM
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I like Tom Leykis, he's entertaining to listen to and has taught me a few important lessons, but let's be real, he's not a good role model. He has the right mindset when it comes to women, but his mindset regarding himself is probably (haven't read his mind) pretty shit, considering how he looks. Hell, I'd say Dan Bilzerian is a similar celebrity to follow if you necessarily want one, and that's guy is a fucking tool, but at least he has the discipline and ambition to lift.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 02:00 PM
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No idea how prevalent it is among endorsed contributors, haven't really considered it, but yeah, it's pretty common among regular users. Pretty much everyone who started out beta and found this board has two things in common: No sense of belonging. They've more or less been loners for a long time. Now they found somewhere where they want to fit in, so they make "rp-reader" their new identity. Little to no experience doing instead of talking. When you've been raised by a coddling mom and a beta o…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 01:56 PM
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That's...surprisingly honest. Seems more likely that she made up an excuse than her having intimate knowledge of evolutionary psychology and being fully aware of why she was doing what she was doing. There are lots of adjectives to describe women with, but scientific and introspective aren't the first ones that come to mind, if you know what I mean.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 12:28 PM
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Trust me, I know exactly how wrong you can handle that. Lost my virginity to a BPD girl I had had oneitis for for a long time, even came inside her without knowing she had an IUD (she told me the day after). During the first half of that day before I talked to her, I was thinking "Fuck, I came inside her, that was really stupid, risky behavior...but honestly, worst case scenario, if she's pregnant and refuses abortion, I could imagine raising a kid with her". Those oneitis-emotions can make you …
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 12:24 PM
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Very important. If you literally had no connections, you'd have to breed, slaughter and process your own food. You'd have to build your own home. You'd have to somehow figure out how to create electricity. Right now, people do that for you, in exchange for money which they in turn use to have other people do things for them. I realize you mean spending your free time alone, not literally becoming a hermit. But the point still stands. There's a reason the alpha is considered a leader and someone …
/r/askTRP02/11/17 11:33 AM
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Again, I risk sounding bitter here, but judging from my understanding of evo-psych, it would make a lot of sense if women were more or less romantic chameleons, and a lot of rp anecdotes seem to suggest the same. From the moment she decides you're someone worth spreading her legs for, her genetics are basically saying "Having this guy's babies is a good idea, but I have to make sure he stays", hence why women are all happiness and sunshine perfect girlfriends, the woman of your dreams...until sh…
/r/askTRP02/11/17 11:30 AM
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Yeah, I actually ran into that theory without anyone else suggesting it, but I think there might be something to it. Bpd men and autistic women are ridiculously rare, they barely even exist. We're all a mix of logic and emotion, and if you get a horribly skewed ratio, those diagnoses happen.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 11:25 AM
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You know the whole opposites attract thing? You and your wife are a father and a mother, opposites. She's supposed to protect him, you're supposed to challenge him. Both of you combined becomes a balanced, healthy upbringing. If you don't keep doing your thing, even if it means some fighting, it'll end up badly. Ever met a teenage/young adult guy raised by an overprotective mom who is either single or has a meek doormat husband? It's a travesty. Those guys are like men, but without all the man p…
/r/askTRP02/11/17 10:01 AM
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Is it wrong that you're looking for an alternative source of income when your employer is posting hiring ads saying "We're considering firing everyone and hiring new staff in two months"? It would be disloyal towards your employer, yes. But people in general are not loyal unless they have a very good incentive to be. Any employment situation is basically you and the employer simultaneously using each other. Relationships are the same thing. You basically have these options: You're staying loyal.…
/r/askTRP02/11/17 09:46 AM
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Been down the bpd route, and honestly, I'm not sure I agree with don't stick your dick in crazy. Definitely don't commit to, move in with or impregnate crazy, but you should absolutely enjoy crazy in occasional small doses. I've been pretty sold on the whole "everything consists of opposites, the world is order and chaos"-thing that Jordan Peterson and Taoism got me into. Yes, bpd women are crazy, irrational and potentially dangerous. But motorcycles and martial arts are also potentially dangero…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 09:34 AM
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The same way you get over your depression, ADD, OCD, bipolar disorder, anxiety and gender dysphoria. Grow up, stop pretending your life is a perfect storm of misery that is in no way caused by or fixable with your own behavior and mindset. Either you can take responsibility for your own life, or you can keep crying. Up to you.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 09:28 AM
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Yeah, emojis are here to stay, I get that people don't want to feel like 14 year old girls, but if you're texting, they really are needed to convey emotion. I have a friend who went full "No emojis ever"-mode, and practically every single girl he was "flirting" with quickly ended up asking him if/why he was mad at her. Emojis are necessary to convey emotions, tone and how serious you are through text. People in general need to stop being pussies though. If you don't meet irl, at least use phone …
/r/askTRP02/11/17 09:22 AM
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The thing is, humans are basically still mostly monkeys. Both when it comes to creating good habits and breaking bad ones for yourself, and when it comes to interacting with other people, we more or less behave like dogs do when trained. The concept of "training" a girl you're sleeping with is pretty controversial and morally ambiguous, but honestly, I think everyone does this to some extent with every other person in their lives, whether they're aware of it or not. For example, I praise my room…
/r/askTRP02/11/17 09:09 AM
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Yes, she's trying to demonstrate value. Women think that men are attracted to women that everyone wants to fuck, because women are attracted to men that everyone wants to fuck. Hint: She's wrong, we don't work the same way. She's cancelling something you had planned, so you're not going to get laid when you were expecting to (with her, at least). Sounds simar to "Honey, not tonight, I have a headache...". Basically, she's pretty shitty at being an fwb. If you let her get away with it, she'll lea…
/r/askTRP02/11/17 08:57 AM
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Cardio is great for your general health, and if you're going to have sex you're going to want at least some stamina. You can do that in the gym though. Mountain biking, hiking etc. belong more in the hobby category in my opinion, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't do them, just don't replace the gym with them.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 08:51 AM
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That's interesting. Never considered agreeing & amplifying when it comes to negative self-talk. Got any good examples?
/r/askTRP02/11/17 08:47 AM
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Reminds me of these lyrics: But, girl, don't sit on that couch 'cause I treat my objects like women.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 08:45 AM
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That's an interesting way of putting it. Makes sense. Whatever connotations" bad boy" might have, you definitely don't want to be "good boy". Unless you want to be a pet in a sexless marriage, I guess.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 08:42 AM
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I'm not going to put words in your mouth, but you might consider qualifiers (which is damn near mandatory when flirting) as "going out of your way to be rude to her". Tell me whether or not you think these examples are too rude: Her: You're flirting with me, aren't you? You: I'm not sure yet. Are you worth flirting with? You: You're my type, I love short redhead girls. Your outfit is a bit funny-looking though, do you always dress like this? Not the best examples, but conversations can go like t…
/r/askTRP02/11/17 08:38 AM
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"Treat women like shit" is the way a lot of people misinterpret rp. The actual message is "Treat yourself better than you treat women (or other people in general for that matter)". You're not going to "win" by dealing drugs, calling your girls bitches and punching them when you get mad. However, you're definitely going to lose by going "Oh you want to do X activity, yeah me too. Oh you like X, me too. Oh I disagreed with you, sorry please don't leave me". That's how a lot of men behave these day…
/r/askTRP02/11/17 08:20 AM
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Well, everyone has their circumstances, but I strongly suggest finding a way to stop living with your parents before you're 30. It'll do you a lot of good.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 05:08 AM
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My bad, fixed it. Thanks for pointing it out.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 05:06 AM
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Asians are pretty traditional, and they're pretty frustrated with the fact that their males are turning into children. You would probably have to deal with some strict and possibly racist parents if you plan to actually live anywhere near Asia, and they might insist on you getting married. But they're very into being feminine, so if you know you actually want to have a wife, an Asian girl is probably not a terrible idea.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 08:41 PM
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Marriage used to be a socialism-style approach to sex, making sure everyone got one girl instead of the girls flocking to the high value men, as they would naturally do. She paid the price of "I have to settle for this decent dude forever" and you paid the price of "I have to take care of her finances and security forever". It was a good deal for lazy, mediocre people, but working on yourself to actually become a desirable man has always been a better idea. Then somewhere down the line, we remov…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 08:39 PM
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It's not even a girl thing really. All people shit test as long as they're trying to figure out if you're fit for X role. If you ever try to join a new male clique, I assure you, you're going to get tested half to death. Hell, even job interviews are basically just a laundry list of shit tests.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 08:09 PM
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Had a similar conversation with a girl on a small niche social media site earlier today. Her: So, how often do you flirt with girls on this site? Me: Literally all the time. Even in my sleep. Her: How's it working out, are you getting anyone? Me: It's going great, I even have a checklist. I thought I had gotten past K but apparently I missed you (her name started with K). It can probably be done with much more finesse, but "Cocky but obviously not real" is extremely easy and always seems to work…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 08:05 PM
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I think that when your typical blonde blue-eyed D-cup 20-year old in Hollywood is aggressively convinced that she needs a massage and then feels ol' fat greasy Harvey's chubby pushing on her butt, she knows very well what options she has, and she probably did from the moment she was invited to the hotel room. It's a lot easier to suck Harvey's cock than to be a talented actress, and most people tend to go for the easy way out. So why do they out him after all these years? Well, they don't need h…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 07:59 PM
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Look, pussy is great, but when you have other problems that make it unnecessarily hard to get, put it on the shelf for a moment. Living with your parents in a room without a door? Pussy is good, getting out of there is better. Having a hard time getting girls because you're fat/skinny and have no muscles worth mentioning? Pussy is good, but a gym card and a cookbook is better. Having a hard time getting girls because you're depressed? Pussy is good, but fixing your miserable life is better. I ge…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 07:46 PM
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That's actually a good idea. I was already a fan of having my own place and didn't feel great about the idea of cohabitation with some girl who would inevitably change it in ways I wouldn't like (Saw my father's childhood friend, a 50 year old military veteran move into a literally completely pink house recently...), but that's not even the only thing, now that I think about it. Girlfriends always seem to end up costing their partner a certain amount of money, not rarely a very high amount. If t…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 07:12 PM
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Regardless of whether or not she has fucked other people during those conveniently uncontactable nights, I think you're still done. What she's saying is basically "I'm not getting any younger and I feel really invested in you, but I stupidly believe that I maybe maybe can get someone even better before I hit the wall. I'm not ready to be someone's girlfriend because I still want to look around and try my luck. I'm a dumbass who can't gauge my own situation even remotely well. Dump me and find so…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 07:08 PM
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Yeah, it can happen, but it seems a lot less likely. Like, the risk of getting hit by a car when crossing a road, compared to sleeping on the road.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 11:10 AM
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Just talk, and stop caring so much about sounding serious and believable. It doesn't matter if what you're saying is dumb, as long as you're genuinely having fun. Exaggerating or being vague is fine. Examples: A girl asks you how many girls you've had sex with (not a number you're supposed to share, regardless of what it is). You just reply "Millions, of course. Look at me." You're at a party and girl you're making out with asks you what your job is. You don't want to tell her you're on welfare,…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 09:18 AM
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Yes. This YouTube channel SimplePickup had a thing after they more or less stopped doing pickup, where they'd go around interviewing people about different things each episode. I remember one of them very well, because it was hilarious. The question was "Would you fuck on the first date?". Their conclusion was this: All guys will fuck on the first date. No girls will fuck on the first date...but all their friends will.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 09:03 AM
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You're going about this all wrong. Women need men for two things, genetics and security. The unicorn man is someone like Ryan Gosling, who is attractive and a social and financial god. Harvey Weinstein is not that, at all. Sure, he has social power, so girls want to be on his good side. He also has shitloads of money, so girls want him to pay their bills. But, when you look at him, it's obvious even from just a glance that he has shitty genetics. Having his dick inside her vagina, or admitting t…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 08:46 AM
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True, that's the bad side of monk mode, it can be an excuse to never socialize. Confidence, charm, happiness, passion, money and physical fitness may be a large part of being attractive, but let's not forget that women basically live and die by their reputation and social status. Doesn't matter if you're a shredded millionaire, she'd still be ashamed to admit she had your dick inside her if you're the kind of guy who has no friends and never leaves the house.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 08:09 AM
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This might compromise your belief in a literal God, but you should watch Jordan Peterson's YouTube videos (there are many many hours of them). He's a Christian psychologist/professor, and his perspective was the first time I felt any respect for Christianity since I decided it was all bullshit about 15 years ago. The basic gist of it is that the biblical stories did not literally happen, but are all ancient moral guidelines that have probably been passed along for thousands upon thousands of yea…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 08:06 AM
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On the topic of living by someone else's rules, you mentioned in your opening post that you weren't influenced or convinced by anyone to become religious. To that I say, of course you were. No one is born and goes "Hey, that God guy, he must've made all of this, I'm pretty sure of it. No clue how I even know about him, but now I do. No one is born a believer, everyone is converted.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 07:48 AM
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Forget marriage and forget celibacy. I don't know what your political views are, but there's a pretty apt comparison for this kind of thing. Economics Capitalism: The products with high demand sell a lot. The product with low demand don't. Some companies suck, so they fail. Others have great business ideas, so they become rich. Communism: Fuck corporal profit. Everyone should get an equal piece of the pie, regardless of what effort they put in, or how much that effort actually helps. It's the on…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 07:41 AM
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"How can I be popular if I have no friends?" You can't. It's quite a hurdle in the beginning, because most people who recently became redpill have a collection of long-term friends who are all bluepill. You'll have to make some friends who aren't vaginas. Rock climbing or martial arts or something is probably a decent bet.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 07:30 AM
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Other than lifting, what do you do with your time? Regular gym sessions + school/work goes a long way, but you might want to fill the rest of your time with something better than snapchating dozens of women. I've been there. Chances are you'll become more confident and get a better mentality if you genuinely barely have time for them because you're doing jujitsu or playing tennis or playing in a band or programming apps or whatever during your free time.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 07:27 AM
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I get where you're coming from. If you don't have more plates than you can handle, additions are always welcome, even if they're a little boring. Gotta start somewhere. Honestly though, I think this is mostly on you. As you said, if you were more attractive, she'd probably be more eager to please you. Also, if you were more attractive, you'd have more girls to choose from, so you wouldn't have as much patience for her.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 07:23 AM
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Look, I understand what you're feeling for this girl. I've been there. It's easy to just spam "Oneitis oneitis!" when we're here, but for you it probably feels pretty damn genuine and serious right now. The hard part is learning that it really is not. It's just a temporary feeling, and it's your brain's way of saying "Shit, I'm about to lose this source of regular pussy. Need to secure that long-term no-effort pussy, right now!". What you need to do is this: 1. Decide how much you would want to …
/r/askTRP01/11/17 07:14 AM
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I assumed you were hanging out at your place, considering you were alone. But if you're usually at her place, that's fine too. The important thing is that you're in a private place where her letting you fuck her won't have any social consequences. For example, I wouldn't recommend making a move in a public place, or anything. She'd probably love to have your dick inside her, but I doubt she'd love being that girl people saw having your dick inside her on a bench in the park last Friday.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 06:17 AM
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Another thing worth mentioning is why a girl with male friends would fuck them even if she isn't trying to trade her boyfriend for a better one. The thing is, both genders are really bad at putting themselves in the other one's shoes, and we have completely different genetic (sexual) goals. Let's say you're a caveman. You see your cavegirl get fucked by new dudes every day. Your instinctive reaction is "We're in 8000 BC. paternity testing is not a thing yet. If she pops out a kid and I raise it …
/r/askTRP01/11/17 06:14 AM
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Hah, hooray edit wars. But yeah, like you said. It's not impossible that she just wants you for validation, since she has a lot of guy friends. But guys who have a girlfriend with a lot of male friends worry for a reason. She usually ends up fucking one or multiple of them. The good news are that she initiated the contact and gave her number, which is very rare. Pretty much guarantees that she either wants you to spread her legs or wants you to buy into a pyramid scheme/join a cult. In addition …
/r/askTRP01/11/17 06:01 AM
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I just did, but I assume you wrote that reply before I actually edited in 90% of the post. It should be more helpful now.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 05:56 AM
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It's not rocket science. You said you hang out with her alone regularly. Let me quote something I wrote yesterday: Correct me if I'm wrong, but it sounds like you're more or less asking how to avoid being friendzoned. You can't be completely overt about it though. If the first thing you say to a girl is "Well hello, now I know who I want to bring home and fuck tonight". Even if you're the hottest thing she's ever seen she'll probably act disgusted and insulted, especially if any of her friends a…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 05:47 AM
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Do women eat dirt when they can't manage to find actual food? Sure. But dude. Food is not scarce these days. I don't know why you asked this, but if you did because you're planning to go with the strategy of staying as a beta orbiter and hoping to be her dildo when she's sad and lonely, you're going to hope for a looong time. Hey, here's an idea. How about you become the kind of guy girls want instead of hoping to be their last resort?
/r/askTRP01/11/17 05:42 AM
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I can't say I've been in your situation, at least not with alcohol. Never gotten past the 24-48 hour period of "I'm hung over and feel like shit, I will never drink again". I do know what you're going through though, I have my fair share of vices too. As some people mentioned in the thread already, look up the rat park experiment. The basic gist of it is: An isolated, unstimulated rat (that'd be you) will drink from a water tube containing morphine over and over again and abuse it until it kills…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 05:30 AM
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I agree that those were better, as expected, considering Vasilly is far more knowledgeable than me when it comes to this stuff. I don't think this is anywhere near as bad as reacting by getting angry or sulking about it though. Ignoring it or just shrugging is fine. The point is you show that you aren't afraid of other people stealing her away, or of the idea of being with another girl instead of her (implied by saying you'd have to dump her if no one else wanted her). Ideally though, you're sup…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 09:01 PM
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The thing is, women test men. It's up to men to not fail those tests. Trying to get him to mate guard is one of those tests. If your requirement to keep a girl around is "She's not allowed to test me", you're going to be looking for a looong time. Probably just as likely to find one with three eyes or something.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 08:48 PM
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If you start a Mario game and just press and hold right, you'll die quickly. But you did something. Go in and say some random shit, see what happens. Keep doing the things that work. Stop doing the things that don't. For a lot of people, game isn't actually even about learning what to say and how to say it. It's mostly just getting rid of your fear of rejection and your subconscious belief that every rejection is a catastrophe. We don't live in tribes of 50-200 people anymore, but your brain has…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 08:10 PM
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Well, flattery is flattery, true. It's not like you being told you have a manly jawline or a girl being told she has perfect breasts isn't flattering. But for most people, they want to feel like they've accomplished something. If someone tells me "Wow, you have such beautiful blue eyes", I feel like "Alright, thanks...but I didn't do anything to get them, and I'm not doing anything to keep them either". It's like saying "Wow, you live in such a nice house" when you're 16 and the house is obvious…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 07:36 PM
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I don't live in USA so I can only judge from the ones I've seen on reddit. But from what I've seen, Indians, Asians, Latinos, pretty much every fucking ethnicity that isn't white, have this tendency to go "But what if I can't get girls if I'm not white...how do I get girls in X city if I'm my ethnicity...how do people with my ethnicity get girls? And you know what? That has absolutely nothing to do with your ethnicity. Girls aren't rejecting you because you're Indian, or Asian, or Latino. They'r…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 06:54 PM
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You: So, how do you live? With parents, with room mates, alone? Her: Alone. You: Alright, cool. You: So, how do you live? With parents, with room mates, alone? Her: Why are you asking me that? You: Just curious/why not? It really isn't a loaded question if you ask me. A girl has to be pretty prudish to react defensively to that. But yeah, it sounds like she just wants you as her meal ticket. And you seem to know the most simple (doesn't mean easy) solution to that. Keep working on that SMV, and …
/r/askTRP31/10/17 06:27 PM
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Good. If it's happening regardless, then it doesn't really matter how they'll react, does it? Let's put it this way. Ambition and money are both parts of what makes a man attractive. If your old mission was to become a CEO and your new one is to flip burgers, yeah, they'll probably be disappointed. But if isn't anything that hyperbolic, I don't think the financial aspect matters nearly as much as whether or not you're serious and passionate about it. Changing missions isn't necessarily a bad thi…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 05:49 PM
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When something a girl says doesn't make sense, remember to add "right now, I feel like..." as a prefix. I've always loved you! (Wtf, no you haven't?) Right now, I feel like I've always loved you! Makes a lot more sense now, doesn't it? I don't know the details, but I'd guess you've known this girl and been on an acquaintance/friendship level for quite a while, and when you considerably improved yourself recently, she definitely noticed. I recognize that "pillar of calm"-comment. I'm still at the…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 05:37 PM
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Does being someone who would or would not change his life mission depending on what his fwb would think of him cause girls to lose attraction? Yep. You know that guy who decides to go to the same college as his girlfriend because they want to stay together? Don't be that kind of guy.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 05:15 PM
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There are two girls you want to approach? Widen your scope, buddy. There are billions of girls in this world. Are you physically attractive, confident and happy? If not, worry about that, not about how to talk to girls. You can invest hours upon hours into learning pickup, but it's the wrong place to start. It's a lot easier for a bad salesman to sell an amazing product than it is for a good salesman to sell a terrible product.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 05:10 PM
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Don't worry about the top 1% of men. You're probably never going to be more attractive than them, and you don't really need to be. Women are picky, but not that picky. Look at the typical man today. The competition is ridiculously weak. Get fit, confident and not unemployed, and plenty of women will want you. Say you have 100 guys. 80 are fat, depressed, unemployed slobs. 1 is a very popular athlete. Then there's 19 guys who are somewhere below the athlete and still clearly in a completely diffe…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 05:07 PM
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That depends on where you're drinking coffee. She probably means a date at a café. Bad news, she wants to screen you thoroughly before coming to your place. Good news, at least she's not trying to get you to buy her dinner. In Sweden, there's more or less an unspoken tradition of drinking coffee around 2-3 AM if you've been drinking alcohol, because that's around the time where you start to get sleepy from the drinking and partying. So if you've been out partying and you're walking around town w…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 04:10 PM
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Yeah, I think it's more likely that she met that other dude because she wanted sex with a proper beast man, whereas she can't possibly see you as a beast because both you and her have worked pretty hard to turn you into a pet. If I were you, I'd just let it go and live your own life without her. I don't see why you feel like you're missing out, anyway. You shouldn't want to be a pet. If a girl is is extremely attached to the idea of marrying a particular guy and terrified of ever losing him, she…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 03:46 PM
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It's probably one of the opinions I have that are anywhere near actual misogyny (unlike general redpill views), but I really think that people of both genders are better off having serious long-term friendships only with people of your own gender. No matter what your passions are, hiking, lifting, video games, hunting, rock climbing, beer-brewing, beardgrooming, sports, programming (and so on, basically, most things men are interested in), you're just a lot more likely to be better off with anot…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 03:28 PM
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Move to a place where abortion is legal. Don't cum inside women who aren't both on birth control and promise to get an abortion if you end up with an unplanned pregnancy. And a promise is far from a guarantee, either. Get a vasectomy. There are still medical procedures to use your own sperm to make kids if you really want them in the future. If you're having sex with women in a country where abortion is illegal, and you don't want to get a vasectomy. You should probably settle for cumming on her…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 03:04 PM
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I'm just going by my own reasoning, but I think keeping it vague and not really telling her, something along the lines of "I don't know yet, we'll see where it goes". Saying "fun" is basically a nicer way of telling her "I enjoy your pussy. I don't want you as my girlfriend". That'd make her more likely to cut her losses and look for someone else. But I'm far from an expert. You'll probably want to check out the sidebar. It has an entire section dedicated to the "What are we?"-question.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 02:57 PM
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Honestly, as cautious as I am about the idea of having a wife and kids (to the point of considering never having either), I think you're in a pretty good spot. Sure, you've only been with your girlfriend for a year, it's usually a good idea to screen her for a little longer like that (3-5 years at least), but that estimate is mostly for single men with no prior wives or children, I think. I don't think single fathers are as big of a pariah on the dating market as single mothers are, but they're …
/r/askTRP31/10/17 02:46 PM
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I pretty much use them as synonyms, but strong independent women think that girl is to woman what boy is to man. In other words, it's the younger, naive, immature, less desirable version. Of course, that isn't true. Younger girls (18-25) are the most desirable. It's just a way for older women to convince themselves that they aren't well past their expiration date. Example: If you ignore a girl, she will chase you. If you ignore a woman, she will replace you. It's a nice thing to tell themselves,…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 02:19 PM
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That's the thing, even if you want a fucktoy, you can't make her feel like one. Sex without commitment for women is like commitment without sex for men. If she realizes you never will commit to her and just enjoy fucking her, she'll feel like you would if you'd been in a relationship with a girl for two months thinking you were happily in love, then learned that she isn't attracted to you whatsoever, never plan to have sex with you and just keep you around because she enjoys free food and taxi s…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 02:04 PM
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The reason you're better off complimenting things she chose is because, well, she chose them. She can't help being born with brown or blue eyes. "He likes my sense of style" is a better feeling than "He likes the results of my genetic roll of the dice". Tongue piercings in particular is a personal favorite of mine. It literally always goes like this. Me: So, ever thought of getting a tongue piercing? If she doesn't have one, she'll talk about whether or not she wants one, pretty meh. But if she …
/r/askTRP31/10/17 01:51 PM
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Correct me if I'm wrong, but it sounds like you're more or less asking how to avoid being friendzoned. Make sure she knows you're a male who is sexual and not afraid of showing it. Subtly insinuate that you're thinking about having sex with her. For example, last time I was at a party I talked with an engaged girl about open relationships, and she said something along the lines of "I'm an open relationship kind of girl, I guess I'm just holding back right now for his sake". I looked at her quiet…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 01:19 PM
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You might come across as that, as long as that's what you believe you are. It's called incongruence. But it'll fade over time, as you start to genuinely think more highly of yourself. My suggestion would be to first focus on becoming someone interesting, respectable and attractive, then start working on behaving like someone who is interesting, respectable and attractive. A lot of people try to do it the other way around, and I'm pretty sure that's the hard way. I mean, I'm no woman and I don't …
/r/askTRP31/10/17 12:26 PM
3

I'll try to explain this in a relatively simple manner. We're still mostly monkeys and we have less self-control than we'd like to think. A large part of our decision making is still centered around our main instinctive goal: perpetuating our genes. For a woman, this means 1. Fathering the child of as manly a man as she can find, and 2. Having someone who will take care of her and her babies, making sure they're protected and will survive. It isn't impossible for one man to fill both of those ro…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 12:17 PM
1

Sheesh. I know where you come from, but you have to realize that these terms are extremely over-diagnosed by professionals, not to mention friends, family and yourself. I've been analyzed and tested quite a bit and had results that sound similar to yours. Very high IQ, hints of Asperger's but not enough for a diagnosis, hints of ADD but not enough for a diagnosis. More than a few (non-professional) people have insinuated that I'm somewhat of a psychopath. Officially I just have garden variety de…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 11:28 AM
13

"I should hope so, if I had a girlfriend that no one wanted except me, I'd have to reconsider my choice of girlfriend."
/r/askTRP31/10/17 11:11 AM
2

I live by this: Lie if you have to. But being yourself is both a lot easier and a lot less self-destructive mental health-wise. So if "being yourself" isn't going to go well, yourself is shit and you should take a long, hard look at what you can improve, then do so. For example, let's say you're in a bar with your friends or something. Some girls you don't know walk up to your table. Someone asks you "Are you going to go home, jerk off and cry yourself to sleep if you don't get any pussy tonight…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 10:39 AM
1

This fear is a lot more common than it used to be. The thing is, all humans constantly look at how their peers are behaving and what they're saying in order to calibrate their own perspective on life. And that's not even voluntary behavior, everyone does it to some extent. Not doing it at all is what you see when someone is autistic, loves talking about trains and thinks that everyone loves hearing him talk about trains, while in reality everyone else just sees him as the social retard he is and…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 09:36 AM
2

We've lived in small tribes ever since we were monkeys, and that behavior is persistent. It seems like you're still part of "them" rather than "us". Something you often hear is "If you want to be socially accepted in prison, what you should do is walk up to the biggest guy you can find and punch him in the face". Probably not good advice to take literally, but there's something to it. It's a question of respect and of "fitting in". What kind of people are these guys you're trying to fit in with?…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 09:01 AM
1

Get a gym membership, maybe a book or two about how to work out and how to eat properly. Make sure to stick to it and go regularly. Don't give up. Fashion absolutely makes a difference. But trust me, a $5 shirt on a fit body is infinitely more appealing than a $200 shirt on a dad bod.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 08:28 AM
2

I don't want to discourage you from going out and socializing, you probably need to work on your social skills, most people do. That being said, I have a little story that I think explains things pretty well. Imagine you're a banana merchant. In the beginning, your bananas are small and disgusting, and you're so shy and awkward that you can barely muster up the courage to talk to potential customers. Simply put, both your product and your salesmanship are shit. So you get really into salesmanshi…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 08:12 AM
2

I'm not into the idea of getting married and having kids, but I don't like this one either. How about making good money, investing it instead of spending it on shit and retiring when you have enough to live off of? As for the wife/autonomous sex-bot part, I think that working on your physical body and your social skills is fun and a good thing to always aim to improve. If you get good enough, I'm sure you'll get enough pussy to stay satisfied without that pussy being mechanical or bribed with a …
/r/askTRP31/10/17 07:22 AM
13

We've been through this. The survey is irrelevant. Listen to what they do, not what they say.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 07:16 AM
4

I usually compare the boyfriend/girlfriend dynamic to the father/daughter one (or son/mom if you're a bluepill beta). Makes sense in this context too. It's alright to give your daughter a gift every now and then because she's your daughter and you like her. It's not alright to buy her the latest iPhone because she locked herself in her room and refuses to come out until she gets the phone.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 07:09 AM
1

Sort ourselves out, indeed.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 06:14 AM
6

Why wouldn't we want to increase competition? I wouldn't be proud of winning a bike race because the other competitors don't know where the pedals are. Competition is part of the fun, and probably also a huge part of male friendship. I was listening to this the other day and Eric randomly started talking about some dude he knew who he considered his nemesis. Joe seemed surprised and that's not odd, because who even talks about something like that these days? But when I thought about it, it made …
/r/askTRP31/10/17 05:34 AM
2

Thanks, I'll look into it. I figured there must be waterproof high status watches out there, but they sure aren't as prevalent as you'd think.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 05:08 AM
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Our instincts, and therefore naturally also the structure of society, is based on the fact that you need very few men to impregnate many, many women. Almost all women who are born can and probably will get someone to cum inside them. They're all intended to reproduce. When it comes to men, nature is more experimental. A fuckload of men are born, and since very few are needed, we compete and sort ourselves out, and the ones who come out at or near the top get the girls.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 05:56 PM
2

Older women are desperate. You're married, and probably wearing a ring and/or a demeanor that shows it. Some other woman marrying you is a huge indicator that you're someone worth getting.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 05:51 PM
1

Did you cum inside her? If not, chances are she's not. And if she has her own birth control method, chances are she's not. I've had unprotected sex, just using the pullout method with girls who aren't on any kind of birth control hundreds of times, and no one got pregnant. You know that people who want kids actually have to try for a while, right? The odds that it happens accidentally if you aren't blowing your load inside her is unlikely.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 05:48 PM
16

I'm 26, and I used to be a take my phone out of my pocket to look at the time kind of guy, until the summer of 2016. I got into the habit of swimming for an hour every morning at the local swimming pool, but I can't wear glasses or contacts while swimming, so I couldn't tell when an hour had passed. Bought a black plastic waterproof watch for €30, and now I wear it 24/7 (sometimes sleep without it). Didn't know I needed it until I tried it, but I'd never go back. It seems like fancy, expensive w…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 05:44 PM
1

Well, there's me, and I'm pretty sure there's a whole lot more than just me. Different strokes for different folks I suppose, but to me, the ideal thing would be having 1-3 girls that come over to fuck, play games/watch movies and series, and cook together. Maybe one afternoon/evening per week or so (not the same girl each week if you have more than one, of course). I actually think most men with a decent self-image and a decent life would enjoy that. But some people do enjoy long-term monogamy,…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 05:27 PM
1

If you friend zone someone you really like, that's on him. It's the man's job to initiate, and if he isn't showing interest properly, you can't really know. You're not a mind reader. As for guys being vague about what they want, there's a reason for that. Say you meet a girl, have sex with her and enjoy it. You'll probably want to do it again every now and then. And guys aren't really picky about sex, as long as you're not ugly or completely intolerable, he'll want to fuck you regularly. Now, it…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 12:57 PM
1

Look, there's plenty of reasons both for having and for not having children. But if you do have one, you don't have to worry about them being "low SMV", or shitty people, or anything like that. There are two factors that decide what people are: Nature and nurture. Nature: Are either you or your girlfriend genetically terrible? Are you going to get a one-eyed deaf kid? If not, you'll probably be fine on the nature part. Nurture: This is mostly how you raise your kid. Their friends and their schoo…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 12:40 PM
2

Depends on who your room mate is, I'd say. I'm in a situation where I used to be a lazy undisciplined fuck, but have become a lot more disciplined recently. But even if I would keep my shit 100% clean, the apartment would be two thirds shithole because my room mates are just like how I used to be. Needless to say, I can't wait to get my own tiny apartment when I move next summer. So basically, having a roommate, or even multiples of them, can be great economically. I live in a pretty large apart…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 12:34 PM
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Realize that it isn't unfair. Her disadvantage just comes a later point. Ever heard the saying "Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment "? Ever heard a woman complain about guys being players and just pumping and dumping her? The thing is, a woman may reject 95% of men who want to fuck her. But when she actually does spread her legs for someone, she's very often going to try to get that guy to be her boyfriend, and he'll reject her at a similar rate that women rej…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 12:19 PM
183

This is extremely important, both for your own mental health and for your social status. No one likes people who constantly complain. Also, talking about your problems is similar to being a beggar. The difference is that you're begging for free shrink sessions, rather than money. People will feel used and look down on you if you're going to treat them like amateur shrinks. And if you're on this boars, I'm sure you realize what this means in the context of a relationship. The quickest way to ruin…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 12:12 PM
2

You being upset about this is a natural reaction, but not a very pragmatic one. Your primal instinct is saying "The woman I'm fucking is being fucked by someone else too, when she pops out our baby I can't be sure it's mine, so now I'm really angry". Needless to say, if she's just a plate and not someone you ever plan to raise a kid with, her fucking someone else is fine. But instincts are instincts, and most men hate sharing women with others, even if they themselves sleep with multiple women. …
/r/askTRP30/10/17 06:10 AM
1

Mostly, yes. But it depends on what you're looking for. Most people here, me included, prefer casual sex over committed monogamous relationships, and for casual sex, beta bus is nothing but shooting yourself in the foot. Think of it like this. You have a scale. 0 is pure beta. 10 is pure alpha. The higher your score is, the more likely it is that she'll spread her legs. The lower your score is, the more fit you'll seem for a long term relationship, eventually leading to babies and cars and all t…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 04:12 AM
2

Men these days who are from my generation (currently 26) or younger have one major problem. There are plenty of reasons to call them pussies, but the biggest one in my opinion is about communication. So few have the balls to meet up irl or even talk on the phone. How do you expect a girl to be genuinely into you if she hasn't even heard your voice? Go ahead, slide in her DM's all you want, but as long as your communication with her is exclusively through text, you're little more than a validatio…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 03:59 AM
4

Regarding them being conservative, don't forget that a woman who has set her sights on you is a bit like a chameleon. She'll try her best to be the girl she thinks you want and align herself with your values and interests. Case in point — How many women do you know who are really into video games and have a boyfriend who is too? How many women are really into video games that don't have that boyfriend? The answer is, most women don't choose that hobby on their own, just like they usually don't c…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 03:51 AM
1

I suppose the simplest explanation would be the men = logic and women = feelings thing. That wasn't apparent to me before I got here, but once you start putting peoples' actions into that perspective, it just fits perfectly. As a woman I assume it sucks to hear that you're a dummy who can't use logic, but honestly, if they want us to change that "sexist" perception, they gotta stop disagreeing with objective facts all the time. As for your theory that this would be some sort of conspiracy, it's …
/r/askTRP29/10/17 02:41 PM
0

Also add subtle amount of dread by implying you wouldn't sleep with her because of it. Can't emphasize this enough, it's gold. Was a party yesterday and talked a lot with an acquaintance's girlfriend, and it got a bit more flirty than it should have. I'm more or less a beta nerd in recovery, and the rest of our social circle is similar except, well...not recovering. Here are some excerpts: Me: So, what's your deal with open relationships, for or against? Her: I think they're great. It's the way …
/r/askTRP29/10/17 01:55 PM
2

Like I said in the opening post, it's not a behavior I plan to keep, because I believe that the best way to live is "Don't make yourself cum, either have a woman do it or don't cum at all until you find one". But until recently I've been a 10-12 jerk-offs per week kind of guy, and I'm working on getting rid of that bad habit, currently at about twice a week. But for those two times, I sure as hell prefer cam or phone sex, or even just chatting with some chick I've slept with in the past, because…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 01:17 PM
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Lead her. Dominate her. Put her behind you and she will follow you with those cute doe eyes adoring you more and more each time. But...but...Instagram says this is the ideal relationship. What is this, how can social media be WRONG?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 12:35 PM
2

Fair enough. It's regular old jerking off, except you're talking to a real person. So it's a whole lot better than porn, but still pretty sad. Once in a blue moon these girls actually agree to meet up and bring it to real life though, which is cool.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 01:23 AM
1

Easy enough, provided you don't live with her (which is probably a bad idea in the first place).
/r/askTRP28/10/17 11:48 AM
1

It's not an actual attempt to end the relationship. Just planting the idea in her head that you might be better off without her (otherwise you'd never say such a thing).
/r/askTRP28/10/17 09:20 AM
1

Good point, "Speak their language, not yours" (in other words covert, not overt) is something I hear repeated regularly here, so saying things as bluntly as these examples might be bad. I'm curious about the whole "Punish bad behavior by withdrawing attention"-thing though. How do you pull that off without seeming like you're sulking like a baby?
/r/askTRP28/10/17 09:19 AM
1

Your parents are terrible fucking parents if they tell you to stay once you're 18 or older. It's the equivalent of mama bird not letting her hatchlings leave the nest, meaning they'll never learn to fly. Sure, if you want some fucked up worthless birds that can't even fly, by all means, protect them from the big bad world indefinitely. That's basically what's happening very often with these most recent generations (90s and later at least). Moms hold their little boys until they're 35, effectivel…
/r/askTRP28/10/17 09:14 AM
1

Do unto others as you'd want them to do unto you is a great idea, until you realize that a bull would gore you regardless of whether you pet it or poke it with a sword. Social interaction is composed almost entirely of give/take, and sometimes, like with good, close friends, you give, they give and you both get the same value back. But you can't trust people in general who have no reason to feel any loyalty towards you to honor that kind of agreement. People love taking as much as they can get a…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 02:56 PM
1

The only people you should tell about their girlfriend cheating is people you are close with and really care about. If a long-time close friend of mine had a girlfriend who jumped in bed with me or someone else, I'd definitely tell him to dump her. If the dude she's cheating on is just an acquaintance or stranger to you, it really is his problem, not yours.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 02:50 PM
2

Weed, like alcohol, orgasms not involving a woman, soda, anything that could be categorized as instant gratification, all follows the same rule: Once a week is fine, once a day will fuck you up. Psychedelics are cool though. I think most people would benefit from trying DMT or LSD at least once in their lives.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 02:25 PM
2

Something else that I've thought about is, other than just showing that you're high value rather than telling, how exactly do you convince a woman to agree to a committed relationship where you and only you are allowed to fuck other people, while always having her as your "main girl"? Biologically speaking, it is a fair deal. But I can say from experience that explaining biology/evolutionary psychology to women isn't usually a great way to to about things. I've attempted to tell random women I'v…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 01:57 PM
2

You're onto something, but I think you should consider what happens after you commit and make babies with one of them. Single motherhood is nothing short of an epidemic these days. What she cares about is having someone to provide for and protect her and her child(ren). So if you're going to be with the mother of your child and only the mother of your child in the end, you better stay on top of your game, because she really doesn't give a fuck whether the dude taking care of her kids is their bi…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 01:48 PM
1

Judging from what that guy wrote, living with two women who perceive you as high value basically leads to two well-behaved, loving girlfriends, so if you can manage to keep it relatively drama-free, it doesn't sound too bad. I imagine the biggest problem would be making sure that they become friends rather than claw each others' eyes out. Just like with any bullshit drama behavior, you would have to reinforce that "You shouldn't argue and hate each other, and if you don't play nice, I'm going to…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 01:21 PM
1

I'm not surprised. The nofappers are great guys and they have admirable discipline, but they're far from redpill people. Redpill and nofap does have quite a bit of crossover, but there are also a lot of people there with different perspectives. A few that I can think of off the top of my head. I can't get it up with my wife anymore and she's threatening to leave me, so I have to fix my porn addiction. I'm a devout Christian and I hate myself for constantly jerking off to porn, because I definite…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 01:12 PM
2

I don't know of any articles, and I would love to read some, it's a very interesting topic. It's basically the miniature version of a harem, which used to be a thing for kings, chieftains etc. back in the days. Of course, you can't really fuck more than 3 times a day and still be a good leader, that shit takes energy, and you have leadership business to deal with too. At a certain threshold of sexual market value you'll definitely be able to keep two girlfriends at the same time, but I bet the b…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 12:58 PM
1

Yes, I would definitely recommend doing nofap. There are a few reasons for it. Porn is the easy way out. Orgasm comes with a signal of accomplishment to your brain saying "Great job! You came inside a girl and perpetuated your DNA. Clearly you're doing everything right so don't change yourself, just rest and conserve your energy for now". It trains you to be fine with being a garbage human and drains you of motivation. Not cumming for weeks will be fucking frustrating. When you feel that frustra…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 12:50 PM
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Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment. What she has to offer you is sex (instinctively, impregnating her), and if she doesn't keep that exclusive you might end up raising a kid that isn't yours, which is why men become very angry when their girlfriends cheat. What you have to offer her is commitment. Instinctively speaking, you're saying "I'll protect you and the kids we make, and I won't compromise that by protecting other women too". That is, biologically spea…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 12:39 PM
3

I'm sure men are predictable too, but less so than women. The thing is, as I said in the other post, men are nature's way of experimenting. If you have a group of 9 women and a man, they can make 9 babies every 9 months. If you have a group of 9 men and a woman, they can only make 1 baby. This makes women the bottleneck of reproduction, and it also makes dicks a plentiful resource. As we all know, men want as much pussy as possible, while women want a dick that is as amazing as possible. This ma…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 11:53 AM
1

Different methods for different people, I guess. The standard American thing seems to be to go out and get coffee, dinner or alcoholic beverages with her. I've never personally done that and it seems like too much time, money and attention spent too early in my opinion. If she likes you, she won't say no to hanging out at your place. Turn on a movie or a tv-series or some shit, sit on your bed together and watch it for 10-30 min, then start slowly ramping up the physical contact until you're eve…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 11:13 AM
1

You should definitely watch Jordan Peterson, yes. That man will set you straight and give your life meaning, especially if you do the self-authoring stuff. Become someone you can respect, or die trying. The fact that you know the word hikikomori says a lot, I've been there. The "Look at him, what a nerd, forever alone haha"-stereotype is not just retarded jocks making fun of you. Shutting yourself in and spending all day and night consuming that kind of media has effects on your mindset. You kno…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 11:03 AM
1

I know, right? I almost triggered myself.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 04:13 AM
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As the late Patrice O'Neal said, women don't want to win, they want a winner. They'll stand right before the finish line, look as pretty as possible and join the first man that comes running as he crosses he finish line. So basically, if you can't even run without coughing, weezing and halfway dying afterwards, there's no point think about women. Don't chase women. Become a winner.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 06:59 PM
-1

Well, there you go. I aim to please.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 06:38 PM
2

Not that one, but the keeping multiple things in mind at once part seems pretty broken. After about three sentences I thought "And then I'll put 'I know that OP is satire by the way, not calling him out, just talking about things related to the topic.'", but apparently I forgot that part.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 05:54 PM
-14

I do hate this #metoo shit, but men who try to make it a "Men get sexually harrassed too!"-thing are even more repulsive. Stop the fucking whining. First fucking day on this board, you learn that women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of commitment. A man having his crotch grabbed at a bar or a teenage kid fucking his 25 year old blonde big-breasted teacher obviously enjoy it, they aren't victims at all, and I don't get why they want to pretend that they are. For the last t…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 05:45 PM
2

True, if he said he'd be sexually exclusive then that's what he promised. What any sane man who doesn't get into an LTR just because of scarcity mentality should say though, is something along the lines of "You're my girlfriend, and you're my only girlfriend. I'll still fuck other girls from time to time, but mostly you, as long as you're up for it. If I find out you fucked someone else, we're done".
/r/askTRP26/10/17 03:20 PM
3

Males getting sex is equivalent to females getting "love" (security). As a male, the challenge is getting sex. As a female, the challenge is getting security. Judging by those facts, what you're promising a girl you enter a relationship with (a non-bluepill relationship anyway) is that she's the only one who will get your security (but others can still get your dick), and she's promising you that you're the only one who gets her sex. She broke that deal and you didn't, so it's definitely underst…
/r/askTRP26/10/17 09:04 AM
3

I've heard people say that there are scientific reasons for why we would like to pair bond, but I haven't looked into it yet. It could be true, but it's opposed to an instinct that I know for sure that we have, which is impregnating as many different women as possible, so I'm not sure. The way I see it, the urge that a lot of guys have to settle down is mostly a desire to have a woman that actually cares about them and takes care of them. And guess what, that's mommy's role. If you're old enough…
/r/askTRP26/10/17 08:33 AM
3

I'm in a similar situation. Trying and sort of succeeding with the whole nofap thing, but after 5 days or so I start becoming really fucking horny. I've sated that lust with phone or can sex a couple of times, but in the end it isn't satisfying, because I know I'm talking to women who I'll never even meet. I think I would feel the same about prostitution, it isn't "real", because it's too easy. There's no chase. As much as the predator/prey dynamic is blown out of proportion in media these days,…
/r/askTRP26/10/17 05:37 AM
1

Yeah, I don't really care about collapses. Those are for in & out investors. I'm more of a fire & forget kind of guy.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 07:38 PM
1

Ah, I see. That's just normal anger phase stuff, that's alright. Figured you wanted to, you know, put yourself in the role of the hated men in these fantasies.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 07:09 PM
3

Wouldn't know, not a cuck.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 06:44 PM
3

Cuck.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 06:39 PM
4

Yeah, I should clarify that. Of course there are plenty of very fuckable women who are horrible, rotten people. OP was talking about low quality women as in "Women who can't easily get laid". Those don't really exist unless they're obese and/or have some other major aesthetic problem (missing an eye or something).
/r/askTRP25/10/17 04:40 PM
1

Glad to hear it helped you. See, I don't even know why the whole yin-yang order vs chaos thing fits so well into pretty much everything. I've known about the yin-yang symbol since I was a kid of course, but never really heard about it. Then I watched a few of Jordan Peterson's lectures, and he talks a lot about the order vs chaos thing. Really got me thinking. I did pick up a copy of the Tao Te Ching (basically the equivalent of the Bible for the Chinese religion Taosim, the guys who came up wit…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 04:35 PM
3

That's what you get for studying English, I guess. I'm currently doing a university-preparation baseline year consisting of math, physics, chemistry and biology, and I was delighted to hear the teacher explain in depth that there are two genders and how reproduction works. Planning to go for computer science when I get to university next year, where you get 90% nerdy intelligent men who couldn't care less about feminism. Looking forward to it. Simply put: You joined the girls' club, of course th…
/r/askTRP25/10/17 04:21 PM
-2

No such thing as a low quality woman unless she's hideous, in which case it's a no-brainer. Cute, slim, mentally unstable women don't have a hard time getting laid. As for the low n-count thing, some science indicates that a high n-count makes it difficult for women to pair-bond. So if you're looking for a lifelong partnership (good luck), low n-count is a good thing. If you're looking for a one night stand or a fuckbuddy, it really doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 04:15 PM
3

No such thing as a low quality woman unless she's hideous, in which case it's a no-brainer. Cute, slim, mentally unstable women don't have a hard time getting laid. As for the low n-count thing, some science indicates that a high n-count makes it difficult for women to pair-bond. So if you're looking for a lifelong partnership (good luck), low n-count is a good thing. If you're looking for a one night stand or a fuckbuddy, it really doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 04:15 PM
12

Shave the hair, grow a sweet beard (learn to groom it), get contacts to replace the glasses, lift, lift, lift. All of a sudden, not ugly anymore.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 03:11 PM
1

Yeah, I've heard a lot about an upcoming crash, and judging with the little knowledge I have, it seems to make sense. That being said, regular investing regardless of how the market is going is not about buying at an optimal price. The main factors that push me towards that method are "Buy as early as possible, hold forever" and "People, me included, have a tendency to spend their money, regardless of how much they have". For example, last February, I saw a treadmill for €1100 on 50% sale, so I …
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 03:10 PM
1

I'm currently going with invest regularly regardless of how it's going (which long term means invest when it's average, neither high nor low), and never selling. But we'll see in the future. Only been at it for a year, and I haven't needed it as an emergency fund yet. Guess I have needed it, but my intention is to treat it as money that doesn't exist, so it'd pretty much have to be a life and death situation for me to withdraw.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 02:15 PM
3

From a scientific point of view, I've seen a lot of stuff hinting that sex and sex alone is very potent at making people catch feelings, but don't quote me on that. You make a good point. With pretty much all of my fwb's there has been lots of cuddling and kissing and I usually let them sleep over. Basically, my words said "no commitment" while my actions said "maybe commitment". And like you said, they did stick around for sex for a while even after being rejected, and they went directly from m…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 02:12 PM
2

Isn't the point of dividendless investments that you're supposed to sell some of them to get an amount of money roughly equal to actual dividends? The way I had it explained for me was that a company can either use its surplus money to pay dividends, or to invest in more growth. If that isn't a load of bull, investing in a non-dividend stock makes sense long term, especially if you don't need the dividends to survive right now. That being said, I'm not saying "dump everything into bitcoin for lo…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 01:43 PM
4

Isn't leading bitches on exactly what spinning plates is? Isn't that usually why they break, they give up on trying to domesticate you? Women seek commitment like men seek sex. Men will fuck pretty much any woman, and women will commit to pretty much any man who she accepted to get fucked by. I think women saying they want fwb relationships either do it as a validation/dopamine source, or say that they're fine with fwb and slowly try to convince the man to commit to her. I'm not exactly an autho…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 10:57 AM
1

Okay, so...don't get scared now, but I feel that I should warn you. You know the things that we preach as the core of masculinity here? Dominance, rationality, mental stability, creation (as in don't fuck around with games, porn, junk food and other consumption, make something, or make yourself into something. Produce). I like to think of the world in opposites. The yin-yang thing, you know. Most things made a lot more sense once I started considering that perspective. Women are the opposite of …
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 10:02 AM
1

How did you come on too strong? By kissing her? Hardly a problem. The thing is, women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of commitment. It goes like this. Man wants sex->[woman decides]->woman wants relationship[man decides]. So basically, if a girl has had your dick inside her, she probably wouldn't mind having you as a boyfriend. Kissing her is going to encourage her if anything, not scare her away. The thing you have to worry about after sex is not scaring her away. It's k…
/r/askTRP25/10/17 09:40 AM
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To an extent, this is literally scientifically true. While male and female average IQ is similar, men have a higher rate of standard deviation. In other words, if you pick a random woman, her intelligence is likely closer to the average female intelligence than if you would do the same thing with a man. We're the morons and the geniuses, nature's experiment, if you will. Makes sense, because women want exceptional men, not average men. Men just want women, preferably many of them.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 06:41 AM
1

I used to be a complete fuckup when it comes to sleep. These days I fall asleep quickly and sleep well, thanks to following a couple of rules. 1. Always get up at 06:00 and go to bed at 22:00, give or take 15 minutes. 2. Never bring your phone to bed. Turn that shit off a bit before bedtime and get an old school alarm clock. 3. Never be in your bed unless you're sleeping or having a girl over. Condition yourself psychologically to feel that the bed is a place where you sleep, not fuck around on …
/r/askTRP25/10/17 05:00 AM
1

Well, it sounds like we're both working with 2 hours, but you have a lot less stuff on your morning schedule. Mine does feel a bit hectic, but at the same time, it's stuff that needs to get done.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 04:41 AM
1

I'm curious how people manage the whole "lift first thing in the morning" business. I used to do that when I wasn't in school and didn't have a schedule, and that was fine. These days, I wake up at 6:00, make the bed, do some pushups, meditate 5 min, write down my weight, check my calendar to see I have any appointments etc. today, eat breakfast, do the dishes, brush my teeth, shower, pack my school bag, empty trash cans if necessary and take out any trash. That gives me about 15 minutes of brea…
/r/askTRP25/10/17 04:31 AM
2

Like most people, I've heard this line many times. I've never tried this response, but I'm curious what you guys think about it: Her: Some dude hit on me blabla. Me: I should hope so. If no one did, I must've chosen a pretty unattractive girl to be with.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 05:22 AM
1

Just googled some quick stats. In the UK 2015, the population was about 65 million. About 100k of those had HIV. Over half of those were homosexual men. Out of the heterosexual people who had it, over half of them were black men. So we're talking about a population of 32,5 million women where at most 25k, and probably quite a bit less, have HIV. If you're worried about those numbers, I don't know how you can fall asleep at night with all that neurosis. I'm more worried about a one night stand be…
/r/askTRP23/10/17 04:17 AM
1

You're upset about how rp people "manipulate" women, it seems. I suppose it's correct that we do treat women like dogs, in the Pavlov sense. But personally, I think you should treat both genders like that. We're basically ancient monkeys that discovered self-reflection a few seconds ago. Most of our behavior is subconscious and primal, and can be affected by social conditioning. Even the act of building good habits and breaking bad ones is basically manipulating yourself. I'm sorry if you aren't…
/r/askTRP22/10/17 06:54 PM
1

It's not about whether or not you can see them. It's about how small the risk is. Riding a motorcycle without a helmet is stupid, because the risk is large enough. Going outside without worrying about cars or having sex with worrying about HIV is really not on the same level. If you're even remotely likely to get a disease that will do more than put you on a pill a day for 2-3 weeks to cure it, then I applaud you, because you're having A LOT of sex. Yes, herpes is incurable, and no, it does not …
/r/askTRP22/10/17 04:50 AM
3

Wow. You need to get out of your own head. By the way you're describing the experience, I'm surprised you weren't overthinking it to the point of losing your erection. Taking someone's virginity is pretty exciting if you ask me, definitely not a turn-off. And there's biological grounds for that, no risk of false paternity, yada yada. But you don't even seem focused on the experience itself, just "What people will think of you for robbing this poor girl of her purity and innocence". 1. You didn't…
/r/askTRP21/10/17 05:46 AM
1

Cars are out there and if one hits you it might kill you, so never cross roads, you dumb bitch
/r/askTRP21/10/17 04:12 AM
1

Curable, negligible or extremely uncommon in the civilized part of the world. And no, I'm not worried about herpes. Literally everyone has it by the time they're 3 years old.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 07:27 PM
1

You have a point, I guess I could imagine having someone around regularly might not be so bad. I've had similar experiences in the past, with a fuckbuddy who came over to my place twice a week. Needless to say she did that because she wanted to change my mind on the "We're not having anything more serious than sex" and when she finally realized I wouldn't change my mind she left, but still. I guess it wouldn't be so bad to just say "Yeah sure, you're my girlfriend, why not" to such a girl. It's …
/r/askTRP20/10/17 11:41 AM
1

Sounds about right. I want to start doing Judo, JJ, BJJ or something along those lines in the future. I'm just too chicken to start for now, my excuse is that I can't start until I stop being a fatty who's out of breath after a 20 minute walk. But I'm not sure how legitimate that excuse is. Either way, martial arts seem great. It helps you with confidence and frame, but I imagine it also means you'll meet a lot of cool people with good mindsets and good outlooks on life.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 11:17 AM
4

It's how human sexuality works, biologically. Women are picky with their choice of mate. Once she has spread her legs and let you stick your dick inside her, she has essentially "chosen" you as her mate. Now it's up to you to accept or decline that offer, the ball isn't in her court anymore. You know how it is incredibly easy for a woman to get laid if she's fine with any guy? It's just as easy for a guy to make a girl his girlfriend once they've had sex. Most virgin guys are incredibly frustrat…
/r/askTRP20/10/17 11:10 AM
2

I haven't met a chick who hasn't (eventually) let me do her raw yet, and that's without any protection whatsoever, don't have a vasectomy yet unfortunately, it's easier said than done to convince anyone to do it (and that's understandable, can't have any single moms entrapping dudes if dudes get vasectomies, can we). That being said, I've been lucky. You should either have a vasectomy or make sure they are using some kind of protection. I don't give a shit about STDs, but babies would be a pain …
/r/askTRP20/10/17 09:36 AM
-4

Pros and cons, my friend. Sex with a condom ruins the whole thing in my opinion. It's literally as bad as kissing through a plastic sheet. No skin contact, no pleasure.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 07:56 AM
0

Oh boy, taking antibiotics for 2-3 weeks sure is hard. Maybe you should start kissing through plastic sheets for STD prevention too. Or never leaving your house, in order to prevent being run over by cars. Or you could, you know live a little.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 06:48 AM
2

You don't get pregnant just from pre-cum. That myth comes from the fact that there's always a bit of the load left inside after you cum. The only way pre-cum gets anyone pregnant is if you cum, wait, then have sex again without taking a piss. If you do that, the pre-cum might contain sperm. Why are you wearing condoms in the first place? Shit sucks. Get a vasectomy.
/r/askTRP20/10/17 05:53 AM
1

The thing is, equality in this situation is a bit retarded. It's like painting an orange red, putting it next to an Apple and saying "Yay, equality". Women aren't men. A polygamous woman is just a woman who decides to be polygamous. A man being polygamous implies that he's high value, because he's getting laid left and right. That's why women aren't as hurt by men cheating as the other way around.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 10:12 AM
1

Discussions haven't really helped me much, no. I attempted cognitive behavioral therapy but had terrible chemistry with that old dude, that definitely didn't help. It was basically just "Until next week, take x amount of walks", stuff like that. After the third time I just stopped going. Oddly enough, I'm doing a similar thing with someone else working at the same mental health facility, and she's just a dietician, so she's really only supposed to say things like "Okay, until next time we meet, …
/r/askTRP18/10/17 07:44 PM
4

Depends on the type. Definitely don't get any kind of SSRI. They mainly affect serotonin, and what that basically does is remove feelings of discontent. Might vary from person to person, but what it did for me was make me less interested in attending class, eating well, working out etc. It basically made me more okay with being shit. The noradrenaline- and/or dopamine-focused meds are better. They'll help you go from thought to action, and will diminish feelings of tiredness and laziness. I'm on…
/r/askTRP18/10/17 07:22 PM
2

Same way you would deal with an angry/pissy child. If they don't have a legitimate reason to be angry (irrational hormone-fueled feelings don't count), either ignore them, or calmly tell them that they're being silly, and then ignore them.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 05:02 PM
5

Let's not get hasty. That's like locking your 7 year old daughter out of your house and never letting her in again just because she said "I hate you, dad!". Women are children. Half the time they don't know what they want or what they're talking about. Do what you would've done if it was your 7 year old daughter. Don't apologize and try to make her happy again. Don't go on a long speech about why she doesn't actually hate you and just thinks she does. Just let her do her thing, she'll have a new…
/r/askTRP18/10/17 11:59 AM
1

Is it possible to whiten teeth that aren't actually, well, teeth? I brush every morning & evening these days, but I neglected my teeth in my teens and ended up having cavities in the front upper half of most of my commonly visible teeth. Those were filled in with whatever it is dentists use, some kind of plastic. They work great, but that filling has a yellowish tint.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:18 AM
1

People don't tell newcomers to never apologize because literally never apologizing is a thing to do. It's done for the same reason that people are being told to be cocky, confident assholes. When you're a bluepilled virgin raised by a single mom, chances are you apologize and explain yourself waaay too often. In that case, it's often best to err on the side of unapologetic. But yes, there is a time and a place for an apology, it just isn't very common. Imagine yourself writing a heartfelt apolog…
/r/askTRP18/10/17 05:43 AM
1

Cool.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 04:47 AM
1

Her being childish and holding dumb political opinions is not a good reason to next her. Women being childish and irresponsible is a common theme around here. If your requirement is a mature, adult woman, you're better off going gay. Besides, what does sex have to do with political opinions? I don't give a fuck what plates think about politics, their purpose is not political debate. Just like I don't give a fuck what my barber thinks about politics, he's for cutting my hair, not debating. The on…
/r/askTRP18/10/17 04:41 AM
1

Start with making it not be the first thing you do when you wake up and the last thing you do before you fall asleep. I used to literally have my phone in my bed, figured it made sense since I used it as an alarm. Needless to say I spent many nights fiddling with it for 1-3 hours instead of falling asleep at a reasonable time. So I bought an old school alarm clock that I keep next to my bed, and I now mute my phone and put it on my desk half an hour before I go to bed. I sleep like a baby.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 06:06 AM
4

I'd even go so far as to say that it's pretty arrogant to think you're capable of not being a dumb animal. It's like saying you can use willpower to overcome your need for food or sleep. You're 1 part human and 6 parts monkey. The good news is that that monkey can be tamed, but it's not easy. And you can't really get rid of it, unless you plan to take a scalpel to your head and remove everything except your neocortex. Probably an unhealthy option. I say, embrace the monkey. Learn to keep it unde…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 12:56 PM
12

You're right, putting pussy on a pedestal is a bad idea and you should have something going on in your life that is more important to you than getting your dick wet. But you compared lust for sex to hunger for food, and that's absolutely right, the urge is at that level. It isn't odd that people keep managing to fuck up their lives over pussy. Biologically speaking, if you ask your instincts, pussy literally is the meaning of life. Impregnate as many women as possible to perpetuate your genes, o…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 12:44 PM
4

The whore part aside, you're absolutely not supposed to use women as armchair psychologists to vent your problems to. There's only one unique very special amazing woman out there in the whole wide world who you're supposed to discuss your problems with. And you've already found her. She's called mom. Now it's up to you if you want to stay with her and her safety or move out and deal with your own shit.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 04:45 AM
2

Yes, monogamy is a joke. Take one quick look at the biology that drives us and it's obvious. Men are driven to 1. Compete with other men in order to show women that they're great 2. Impregnate as many women as possible. Women are driven to 1. Be impregnated by these great males who win the competitions 2. Raise her children while being provided for and defended by a male. Not necessarily the father of the children, as long as he thinks they're his he'll be fine with it, which is exactly why huma…
/r/askTRP14/10/17 04:39 AM
7

In biology and psychology, the Coolidge effect is a phenomenon seen in animal species whereby males (and to a lesser extent females) exhibit renewed sexual interest if introduced to new receptive sexual partners, even after cessation of sex with prior but still available sexual partners. The evolutionary benefit to this phenomenon is that a male can fertilize multiple females. The male may be reinvigorated repeatedly for successful insemination of multiple females.This type of mating system can …
/r/askTRP12/10/17 10:19 AM
2

I've said it many times before, women are like cats. They can be the indoor variety, but having one that goes out doesn't mean it isn't yours. Just be prepared for the event that it might run away or get killed one day. Sure, it'll suck and you'll be down for a while but you can always get a new one, no problem. And for the love of God, don't spend half your paycheck on it. If you're spending more money on a girl than you would on cat food, you're her ATM.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 09:43 AM
1

Never done any and 5+ years since I read about it, but I imagine it does, would make a lot of sense.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 02:02 PM
1

This is her trying to dread you and show off her high SMV, in a retarded way. The thing is, neither gender is particularly good at understanding how the other one thinks. She thinks that her telling you this says "Look, people want to have sex with me, I'm very desirable". A man saying the same thing does mean that, but getting sex is not a challenge whatsoever for women. The message that comes across to us is "Look, I considered this opportunity to have sex with someone else, if you impregnate …
/r/askTRP11/10/17 01:58 PM
3

All orgasms aren't born equal, mate. There's a little something called oxytocin that you get a rush of by being in physical contact with other people. It's the difference between the "Tired, relaxed and satisfied" after sex feeling, and the "Lethargic and depressed" after jerking off feeling.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 01:47 PM
13

I know that this "We're not having sex" last minute resistance thing is classic anti-slut defense. I've successfully pushed through it in the past and I'll probably keep pushing in the future too. The thing that worries me though, is the fact that if she says "we're not having sex", even if we know that she obviously doesn't mean it, and you push through and have sex with her, she now has access to the "You raped me"-card. I took a girl's virginity that way and she was fine with it, enjoyed the …
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 12:28 PM
2

How to deal with a girl that must be in control? Don't. Since you're asking this question, I assume that you're a normal man who wants to lead, not follow. In that case, you're trying to stick your peg into a peg. That doesn't work. Stick it in a hole instead.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 01:27 PM
3

Can't endorse this enough, learned helplessness and bad habits really are one of the most important things to handle. I first started reading about habits etc. about a year ago and I still stayed stuck in that rut. I made a schedule of what to do each day and in what order, pretty packed with only 1-2 hours of free time, and after not even two weeks, I feel a huge difference. Feeling productive really kills that loser self-perception.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 01:15 PM
2

Okay, so it's either a genuine question, or a shit test checking if you're the kind of guy who will pretend that he doesn't have a dick because he's afraid that his sexuality will offend her. Either way, the answer is obviously yes.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 03:55 PM
7

If you're having trouble with baldness, try these: 1. Shave/buzzcut regularly. Bald is hot, balding is not. 2. Build muscle 3. Grow a beard
/r/askTRP06/10/17 03:49 PM
1

Judging from Peterson's analysis of Christianity, I'd say it's likely that religion comes from our morals (unwritten social rules, if you will), not the other way around. "The Almighty One wants it this way" is simply more convincing than "This is how we do things here."
/r/askTRP06/10/17 08:22 AM
2

Nah, they were actually good people, they weren't malicious, just misled. I value personal freedom so I think everyone has the right to believe in whatever they want. They don't, however, have the right to forbid me from thinking lesser of them for their beliefs. I've always been puzzled by how discrimination is defined. You shouldn't discriminate against people based on things they can't control, sounds good so far. But then they go on to list those things as "Gender, ethnicity and religious be…
/r/askTRP05/10/17 11:22 AM
3

Well, as Nietzsche said, God is dead. Some humans are able to rely on themselves for discipline and become leaders, but many are meant to be followers, and following a person, no matter how royal he is, is only ever temporary. Even the least disciplined, productive people will come up with this and that reason for why the king is trash. That's the purpose of God. If you have an invisible king that is perfect in every way, it just might keep people in order. So yes, our loss of religion probably …
/r/askTRP05/10/17 08:18 AM
2

That city didn't ruin your life, the people in it didn't either. You did. You are not a victim. Until you start taking responsibility for your own life, you'll never be able to change it. You have plenty of reason to be angry, the anger phase exists for a reason after all. The world is pretty shitty, in many ways. The way I got past it wasn't changing my perspective on the world. I just realized that the only thing my anger does is make me miserable. It doesn't do anything productive. Like someo…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 06:24 AM
3

Why do you insist on getting an LTR? You're looking for a woman who will never leave you and will make you feel happy and secure, she loves you and you love her. How beautiful. You know what such a woman is called? Mom.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 02:07 PM
1

Getting cheap quick dopamine kicks without having to actually achieve something is a bad fucking idea. If you don't want to call it addiction, maybe vicious bad habit sounds better to you. Daily ejaculation with chicks is not unhealthy, because it's working as intended, as a reward for you going out there and getting some. Incels these days treat masturbation like people treat cigarettes. Anxious? Fap Upset? Fap. Bored? Fap Tired? Fap. That being said, it is not the source of all the problem in …
/r/askTRP28/09/17 01:51 PM
1

Why wouldn't you bang her? It's not your responsibility to keep their relationship intact, it's theirs, and she's clearly willing to ruin it anyway. Same kind of mindset people have who walk past $50 on the street thinking "I shouldn't pick that money up, it's not mine". By all means, if you want to be Mr. Holier than thou, go ahead, but don't be surprised when the world shits on you and laughs about it.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 10:17 AM
5

That's an interesting mindset, mate. "Don't hit girls" is a retarded white knight mantra. Not saying you should throw the first punch, but if anyone, regardless of age or gender is throwing punches at me, I'm punching back.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 10:11 AM
12

There's no point picking a fight with the guy. There'll always be another guy, but your girlfriend is always the same girlfriend, her behavior is the one that has to be changed here. You don't try to put out all flames in the entire world, you train your fucking moth to identify fire and avoid flying into it. Or, you know, you get yourself some more moths. That way, it won't be the end of your life if one or two burn. And honestly, you shouldn't have to train her to behave properly in the first …
/r/askTRP28/09/17 09:55 AM
3

Don't hurt him or fuck his shit up, you'll end up in prison, not worth it. If you tell your mother she'll probably break up with him, that'd he best, but you don't seem to want her to end up alone again when she finally settled down, and I can understand that. If I were you, I'd move out and stop talking to your mother and her dude. Don't explain why. Leaving the nest and becoming independent when you're 20 is perfectly normal.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 09:47 AM
4

I've used this metaphor before, and I'll use it again. Men are swords. When a woman finds a sword, she hammers it over and over (tries to turn you beta) to see if it breaks, and if it breaks, it's obviously shit. Now, if you find a sword in some corner that is already shitty, bent and rusty, what are you going to do with it? Like it? Hardly. You'd probably try to get rid of it, or at least get away from it. No one wants worthless shit like that.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 09:41 AM
3

Wait, since when is blue pill synonymous to thinking that failure is solely one's own fault? In my experience it's the opposite, every single bluepill "nice guy" I've ever met had a victim mentality and loved complaining about everything and everyone. The red pill does acknowledge that people are not born equal. But it also strongly discourages you from whining about the bad hand you were dealt. In fact, the only two things that whining can lead to is 1. People pitying you, and 2. Your negativit…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 05:59 PM
4

What do you think famous people are, unicorns? Maybe we shouldn't bring up rich people or fit people or confident people or happy people either. Unrealistic unreachable goals, all of them! In fact, you're probably the one we should look up to, the pinnacle of achievable mediocrity.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 05:49 PM
5

asktrp regularly has threads about how some guy decided to share his newfound redpill knowledge with his friends and/or romantic interests and now needs help to fix the shitstorm. So yes, they do.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 05:48 PM
4

The thing is, men are more of a blank slate than women are. We have a larger range of possible change. Say a woman is born a 5. She can move up to 7 or down to 3. A man who's born a 5 is more flexible, he's capable of much more failure, but also much more success, than her. Depending on how he lives his life, he'll be anywhere from 1 to 9. This also means that even a man born a 1 can become a 5. Even if you have a burnt face with no nose and also happened to be born with one of your eye sockets …
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 05:49 AM
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I like Paul. He's a great example of how powerful suggestion is. He's an unattractive slob but behaves without fear of rejection and without whining or seeming bitter about anything. It's the emperor's new clothes effect. Women see him being happy and not being afraid of upsetting or scaring off some women, and they think "Wow, this guy is bold so he must have enough backup pussy to stay satisfied, and he's so chill and happy, he must have a great life. I want in on that!". There's a reason fake…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 05:28 AM
8

Exactly, the "You're the prize!"-mindset requires that you also actually work on yourself and make yourself valuable. Otherwise you're just a bitter, depressed incel with an absurd self-image. Let's face it, most of us are not much of a prize at all. The decision you have to make is whether you want to stay here and become the prize or die trying, or whether you want to join MGTOW & Co, deluding yourself that you are absolutely perfect and everything wrong in your life comes from the world, not …
/r/TheRedPill26/09/17 04:06 AM
2

Sounds like a good time to me. The odds that you get an STD and/or make a baby are low enough, live a little.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 06:03 AM
1

Sounds to me like you ago become better friends with your instincts. You'll probably be happier that way.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 02:22 AM
1

You don't necessarily need to settle down at all, that's up to you, you're not forced to. Most importantly, guys almost always settle down because it's an easy way to get regular sex. If you hope to have a genuine, healthy relationship, you need to get rid of that weakness, or your girlfriend will always have you on a leash, whether either of you are aware of it or not. Imagine you wanted to cheat on your girlfriend, once a week, with a different girl every week. Could you pull that off? If you …
/r/askTRP25/09/17 02:18 AM
3

They seem to care about you a lot so I don't think you have to worry about saving face. But it's understandable that you feel like a pussy after that, I've been through a depression of almost three years, and I think I can explain why you feel like that, or at least why you should feel like that. Depression is real, no doubt about that, brain chemistry is a thing and that thing can become fucked up. However, it's far from the entire picture, and it's important that you realize that. There's a re…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 01:49 AM
1

20 sounds about right, but like you said, it isn't a hard number. I'm currently at 5 and I feel nowhere near ready to settle down. The reason most met settle down (whether they are aware of it or not) is to have secure, regular access to sex. I say fuck that. That's a terrible reason to do it. Anyone who can't get laid at least three times a week every week of the year while single has no fucking business settling down. If you can't even get random women, what makes you think you can convince on…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 06:14 AM
2

I heard that the show had gotten a lot of critical acclaim. Got through 3 or 4 episodes before I gave up watching it. Incredibly dull, slow-paced and uninteresting so far. It's basically "Look how oppressed women are" the TV show. But as we all know, it isn't even a tiny bit realistic. It is neither surprising nor coincidental that this bizarre perspective below is part of the list of receptions on its Wikipedia page. There was much debate on whether parallels could be drawn between the series (…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 05:29 AM
6

If you're autistic, I'd almost say you might have an advantage when it comes to frame. The quickest way to quickly lose frame is to be afraid of how people will react to what you say and do. Let's say you've seen the latest movie, and you really liked it. The girl you want to fuck comes along and says "So I watched that new movie yesterday. It was really terrible, right?". Someone with weak frame would agree with her because he fears her disapproval if he disagrees. Someone with strong frame wou…
/r/askTRP19/09/17 02:12 AM
4

You're onto something, it's definitely psychological, I don't buy the "It's tighter than the pussy so it feels better"-argument. I don't think it has to come from a place of resentment as you seem to imply though. The natural baseline male sexuality includes being dominant. Personally, I don't care about how the hole feels. I care about the fact that she's lying under me, whimpering as I push it into her ass. Imagine how it must feel for her to be in that situation. I had a fwb a while back who …
/r/askTRP19/09/17 01:36 AM
1

Honestly, I stopped caring long ago. Probably around the same time I lost any hints of social anxiety. I can't say exactly when or why it happened though. Do you feel that it's important to consider yourself a good person? I don't know...it probably is, to an extent at least. I openly admit to being selfish, arrogant and not caring about other people who aren't close to me. I definitely see myself as a bad person. I've never really believed in the whole "subconsciously punishing yourself because…
/r/askTRP19/09/17 01:21 AM
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Why in the world would you ever consider Maslow's hierarchy? Maslow was a moron. The psychological perspective he founded basically came about because he "felt something mystical" when looking at his infant daughter, something that "can't just be explained with science." He's basically the poster boy for feels before deals. I mean sure, it's true that food, water, safety, sex and social interaction are all fundamental needs that we'll be miserable without, but someone more rational could've told…
/r/askTRP19/09/17 01:05 AM
1

I've been thinking about this problem myself. I hate asking for blowjobs, and I've done it a lot. It's a little less needy when she's used to you bossing her around during sex, but still, if you let that dominant attitude morph into having to "forcefully beg" for sex whenever you want it, you're treading on thin ice. It's true that it should be happening on your terms, but the question is how difficult it actually is to make it happen. Brad Pitt or David Beckham wouldn't have to say things like …
/r/askTRP18/09/17 12:24 AM
1

I'm skeptical about the wording "Every day should be like an anniversary", but you bring up a good point. Birthdays, Christmas and anniversaries are terribly inefficient if you actually want people to appreciate the gifts you give them. It can be simply explained with math "Appreciation = Anticipated gift value - Actual gift value". If you give your girlfriend something expensive for your anniversary, or even buy her a ring for thousands of dollars, she still won't be all that impressed, because…
/r/askTRP18/09/17 12:09 AM
1

I'm just amazed that you're even using Snapchat. Do you post selfies and share "deep" quotes on Facebook too? As you know from experience if you've ever been beta, behaving like the girl is a terrible way to make her attracted to you. Regarding Snapchat, I personally install it every now and then for a couple of days, then get rid of it. Literally the only thing I use it for is for girls who want to send dirty shit but are too afraid to do it without the "This will be gone in 15 sec"-gimmick. Th…
/r/askTRP16/09/17 04:46 PM
6

It's called AWALT, not SWALT. Saying some are like that implies that some aren't, and if some poor misguided fuck makes it his life's mission to find one that isn't, he's gonna have a bad time.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 12:07 PM
2

If you want something resembling a lifelong partner, and you insist that it has to be a female rather than just a close male friend, then yes, you'll probably want someone with more masculine tendencies, someone with rationality and discipline. Someone whose emotions go up and down like a rollercoaster and who is completely controlled by those emotions with no ability or desire to resist them is bound to crash and burn pretty quickly, I give it five years, and that's generous. My point is, you d…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 09:15 PM
5

Sounds like a textbook case of an extremely feminine girl. It's no coincidence that the ones who are abnormally emotional/irrational (Bipolar, borderline etc.) are usually also extremely charming, attractive and horny. There's something about that kind of girl that just oozes femininity. But trust me, every emotionally volatile woman has a dark side, and dealing with it is definitely NOT worth the hassle. Enjoy her by all means, but whatever you do, do NOT commit to her.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 09:19 AM
3

Human breeding works like this. Women can make one kid every 9 months, you can make a couple of them every day. That makes them the "bottleneck" of reproduction. Every pussy gets dick, but some dicks are better than other dicks, so those get multiple pussies, leaving some dicks without any pussy. That's why you have to be an attractive, successful man to get sex and a woman just has to be a woman. But being angry about that is like being angry about water being wet, it's no one's fault, no one i…
/r/askTRP11/09/17 09:27 PM
3

The whale is a stepping stone, my friend. The point of sleeping with them is to get experience having sex, and getting used to it so that you won't be nervous when you fuck someone you're very attracted to.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 09:18 PM
2

We men primarily go for physical fitness and looks, but women don't. Looks matter, but if they see a fit guy who is liked and respected by no one, she won't be interested. Similarly, if she sees a fat guy with high social status and lots of money (Tom Leykis for example), she'll be interested despite the fact that he's ugly. Don't get me wrong though, you don't have to be a CEO or anything. Just earn enough money so that you don't have to worry about it, and join some sort of social activity, ma…
/r/askTRP11/09/17 07:34 PM
3

I understand that you don't like fatties, neither do I, but you really should fuck them. You're like a guy who hasn't had a bite of food for a month saying "An apple? Hell no, I want steak". We get it, you don't like apples, but you're starving, dude.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 07:29 PM
4

With no condom, are you crazy? What if he gets her buttpregnant?
/r/askTRP11/09/17 06:51 PM
1

Sure, your biological base would lead to you behaving a certain way, and most people live more or less on autopilot. If a twin becomes a dentist it is likely that his brother who he doesn't even know will too. But if one of them were told that he was very likely to become a dentist, I don't think there's anything stopping him from becoming a comedian instead. Sure, some people are born with limits such as intelligence far below average, but it doesn't seem to me like the average person is fated …
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 06:04 AM
1

Been there, also with an extremely unattractive girl. I think it's a lot like using cheat codes in a video game. You just get sex right away, no thrill of the hunt. That combined with the fact that her body and face do nothing for you and literally the only thing you're enjoying is her wet hole, it makes a lot of sense that you don't feel as good as you do after normal sex. On the other hand, it's not really a huge opportunity cost either, might as well fuck her. Like the saying goes: Sex is lik…
/r/askTRP10/09/17 08:22 AM
2

Surprised the study is complete. I would've expected them to, you know...give up.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 08:10 AM
1

Okay, so women are incompetent more often than men and care little about "dying" men (currently having a heart attack, recently lost his job, fell into depression etc.), this isn't news, incompetent men aren't men in their eyes, which makes sense biologically. But my point is, we already knew this. There is literally not a single constructive thing to learn and take away from this post. It's 100% anger phase. We're not the MGTOW or Incel subs, guys. You're hating on water for being wet again.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 08:07 AM
1

Exactly. Besides, the fact that sugardaddy is pretty damn close to being a synonym for "money slave" rubs me the wrong way. It's for submissive people who get off to having to pay to maybe get sex, if she approves. I'd rather through great effort become someone who gets pussy thrown in his face on a daily basis whether he wants it or not, than continuing being unattractive, rich and having plenty of sex for money.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 12:20 AM
1

Eh, even if I had the kind of play money that you'd need to pay for sex, I doubt I would. Call me validation-seeking or whatever you want, but I want the girls I fuck to have sex with me because they are attracted to me. Ever had sex with a girl who's clearly not into it? It's shit. If she's deluding herself that I'm eventually going to put a ring on her finger or buy her a car or whatever, at least she'll act the part. Prostitutes (that includes sugarbabes) don't really have that incentive, the…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 12:16 AM
3

Hey, there's always porn. Porn doesn't discriminate. Porn accepts you even if you have panic attacks and cry. (Hint: That was sarcasm. It's not them, it's you. Gotta stop being a little bitch. Nobody likes a little bitch.)
/r/askTRP09/09/17 07:05 AM
1

Most of that is spot on. It's obvious why you weren't afraid of rejection when you were a little child though. You can't get rejected by potential breeding partners if you aren't sexually mature and interested in them yet.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 12:07 AM
20

Yes, exactly. Like many have theorized before, I also believe that nice guy syndrome is so widespread because of the way single mothers and couples where the man is a beta doormat and the woman "wears the pants" raise their children. Mothers are loving and forgiving, fathers are challenging and either disappointed or proud depending on the child. If the father is absent or doesn't know how to be a man, no one will challenge the child. All they'll get is "Always be yourself" when they should be t…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 11:52 PM
13

True, when I talk about weak and strong men, I don't mean genetically. I don't have any studies or data to back it up, but it seems to me that on the whole nature vs nurture thing, nurture is far more important. Like, maybe 90% nurture 10% nature.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 11:26 PM
96

Let's put it in very simple, primal terms. All females get to breed. Males compete, and the strong ones get to breed. That's human nature. A male goes out and tries to find a mate. He is unsuccessful. He is clearly a weak male. If he wasn't, he would have been desired. The weak male announces to all the females "I went out to breed, and I was unsuccessful! Because of this, I am now unhappy and mentally unhealthy!" He is met with hostility by males and females alike. That's because he's trying to…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 10:53 PM
6

I get that you're traumatized and I don't mean to make light of that, and you're probably right that fear of women is unhealthy and unrealistic. That being said, make no mistake, women ARE a threat to your safety and sanity. And that's why they're so much fun. Ever met a bipolar chick? They'll ruin your life, but they're incredibly flirty and charming, and they fuck like animals. I'm going to get a bit symbolic on you here, Jordan Peterson/Taosim-inspired stuff. Some might consider it weird but …
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 10:35 PM
72

You're right, and I'm guilty as hell of this manchild behavior. It's really fucking easy to know what you should do to become better. Hell, I have multiple books about it. Knowing what to do is not a problem. The problem is going from theory to execution. I'm sure many regular readers here do this. You know you should lift, socialize, live frugally and invest, read educational books (not for entertainment, to actually apply it). Still, you stay in your miserable but comfortable little bubble fil…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 10:13 PM
4

Wanting sex is not beta. I haven't been to America so I base this mostly on hearsay and media, but the American dating culture really baffles me, man. It's like the entire dating male population is cucked. You meet up, probably pay for her shit, qualify yourself to her, then if she's satisfied, she might reward you with a kiss. But you gotta do this at least 2-3 times before sex, very important! Want to know how I do dates? And I'm not even an attractive guy, so this doesn't require anything oth…
/r/askTRP08/09/17 09:58 PM
5

She is NOT insecure that you will leave her. If she thought you were weighing the pros and cons of being with her vs the other girls who you're currently flirting with that want you, she would be on her best behavior. She's acting like a bitch, disregarding your wishes and openly talking about possibly getting back with her ex, precisely because she knows you won't leave her. Her motive behind meeting the guy is probably that she thinks he's more likely to put a baby in her belly and care about …
/r/askTRP08/09/17 09:26 PM
1

Rationally, you're right. Emotionally, you're not. We like to talk about female hamsters and feels, and it's true that they have a stronger tendency to rely on emotions over logic than men do, but the unfortunate truth is that even male humans have a tendency to be too emotional for their own good, and not rational enough. Being socially popular and constantly being validated rather than rejected bathes your brain in serotonin. It literally makes you calm and happy. We can explain to ourselves w…
/r/askTRP08/09/17 09:20 PM
2

Hah,, thanks. So yeah, I would've done the same thing you did if I were you, break up with her. But she's right, in a way. Replace girlfriend with daughter and it all makes sense. Is it your responsibility to make sure your daughter behaves? Yes. Are you a terrible father if you're 100% selfish and disregard her needs completely? Yes. That's why I'm not a fan of LTRs. One night stands or friends with benefits is like going to the zoo to look at the animals every once in a while. An LTR is like b…
/r/askTRP08/09/17 09:09 PM
5

They were going to settle down HE (via parents) rejected HER, meaning she probably still wants him. She seems to at least be considering settling down soon. Do you want to marry her (You shouldn't)? If you don't, he will. You're demanding things and she's not into you enough or afraid to lose you enough to listen to you. She doesn't even respect you, so I don't get why you want to LTR her.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 09:00 PM
12

Iirc, he knew her and was infatuated with her since childhood, and she pretty much had her fun and eventually got together with him when he started to become a high value man (social status, education, job etc.). Guess her approaching the wall was also a contributing factor. JP has a lot of wise, important things to say, and while I definitely wouldn't have gotten married if I was him, at least he's doing it the right way. Plenty of family, respected, cherished, relied on, faithful wife, no divo…
/r/askTRP08/09/17 08:47 PM
4

I'd say this is related to the parent/child, owner/pet etc. dynamic that most relationships follow to some extent. RPW women are on the right track, but they're still women and they still want to be treated like children, in other words, have someone else being responsible for their lives. Something that definitely opened my eyes on this thing was This: Rights and responsibility go hand in hand. Take a king for example. He has lots of rights. A harem, a huge fortune, any food he wants. But he al…
/r/askTRP08/09/17 08:30 PM
2

Most women crave strong emotions, both I hate you and I love you basically translate to "You make me feel very emotional and you matter a lot to me". There's a reason why hatesex is extremely similar to and just as passionate as "madly in love"-sex.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 12:31 PM
1

Things like crystals or prayer can help you, but it's psychological, it's not because the crystals have energy or god exists. Placebo can be a powerful thing for sure, so it's not entirely useless, but I tend to favor methods that are based in reality. That being said, meditation is that a lot of people consider spiritual nonsense, but I think it has a very real positive effect that can be explained with science. It helps lower your stress and trains your discipline when it comes to not doing th…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 02:35 PM
8

If they actually are effective tools, by all means, knock yourself out. The impression I've gotten is that a lot of positivity-related practices are more similar to praying or putting crystals under your pillow.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 02:21 PM
1

Sounds about right. The longest I've ever gone was about a month, and I felt a huge difference. But I think somewhere between 2-6 weeks is as good as it'll get, masturbating once or even twice a month is probably not a problem.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 01:35 PM
1

I'm curious, how long has your longest dry spell been since then, and how long would you say they are on average? I haven't mustered up the willpower to completely refrain from masturbation yet, but I definitely want to.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 01:13 PM
13

Those things, and positive thinking. Not all that mumbo jumbo about visualization and daily self-appreciation mantras, that's definitely overdoing it, but learned helplessness is a real thing, it's good to take a critical look at your yourself and your habitual thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 01:02 PM
8

True, you don't need to do manly things, just like you don't need to think about your calories and nutrients. You'll survive just fine eating nothing but McDonalds. Probably a pretty miserable life though.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 01:00 PM
5

To a certain threshold, at least. It's not like going three years without cumming is going to turn you into a chiseled man-god. The important thing is that doing it too often, habitually, will absolutely fuck you up and leave you a husk of a man with zero motivation. I think the "You are not allowed to make yourself cum, only women are" is a reasonable approach though. Lights a fire under your ass and makes sure you actually make progress. Fucking a girl four times a day for three days straight …
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 12:57 PM
26

There's a great reason to, it's not exactly obvious unless you try it though. Ever met a depressed martial artist? Can you even imagine one? Doing manly stuff makes men happier, because it used to be important, and evolution is slow as fuck and hasn't gotten the memo yet.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 12:45 PM
14

Your claim that plastics reduce our testosterone is reasonable. Your conclusion that this is somehow a major factor and extremely important however, is just not. Whether or not you lift affects testosterone much more than plastic does. Whether or not you masturbate a lot affects testosterone much more than plastic does. Whether or not you're setting goals in your life and pursuing them affects testosterone much more than plastic does. But for anyone reading this, rest assured, chemicals in your …
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 12:43 PM
12

Are you saying it's the other way around, then? They're intentionally turning our frogs gay? I should get off the grid while I still can? Before they put a chip in me? #Illuminati? Not saying the chemicals we absorb on a daily basis don't matter whatsoever, but it's healthier to think "I'm sad and lethargic because of my lifestyle, I should change" than "I'm sad and lethargic because everything is a conspiracy and they're poisoning our food and water".
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 12:18 PM
23

I'm no scientist, but I'm pretty sure this is a disappearingly small contributor to low testosterone, compared to the fact that we barely fight, risk our lives or even move these days.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 11:55 AM
14

I definitely agree with the "Don't date if depressed" part. Casual sex, sure, but nothing serious. A therapist once told me "It might help if you get a loving girlfriend who can help you handle your problems, and you can help with hers." Needless to say, she was pretty clueless. Sure, being alone is bad for your mental health, but getting people involved in your life just to make them involuntary amateur therapists is definitely a very, very bad idea.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 07:40 AM
7

Classic LMR. Say something like "It's okay", keep kissing her and try some more. She needs it to be "your fault". If she genuinely doesn't want to, she'll tell you loud and clear.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 07:30 AM
-8

Ugh, this again. Didn't even read the thread, the title is enough. Nobody cares if you're Indian or Asian or whatever the fuck. You're either using it as an excuse to not try, or you're using it for attentionwhoring. Either way, it's pathetic. Your ethnicity is not a significant factor when it comes to attracting women. Get over it. Come back when you're in a wheelchair, or blind, or a bird, or something. That's an unusual situation, you'll need some personalized advice. If you're just a normal …
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 12:45 PM
1

I primarily meant when it comes to survival. It's the part of your mind that tells you to gobble up a pizza or a bag of chips when you start eating it, even though you've had enough long before you've eaten it all. It's why people become fat. We don't need to be gluttons to survive anymore, food is plentiful, but the brain doesn't know that. As for how that is related to things like mateguarding, oneitis and being a doormat I'm not sure, but I made that connection because both are cases where yo…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 03:10 PM
1

You make a good point there. There are a lot of restrictions that apply. For example, most people I know wouldn't travel for more than an hour to meet a fuckbuddy. I highly doubt that half the women in the world literally sleep exclusively with Brad Pitt. But this law might make a decent representation of how many "Perfect men" there are in the world.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 12:53 PM
3

That chase hierarchy is close to right, but not quite. It's more like this: Top 20% males All females Bottom 80% males The less attractive a woman is, the less likely she is to pull a quality man and the more likely she is to get with the bottom ones, but even low value women are vastly more valuable on the sexual market than low value men. I had a fuckbuddy a while back. I was 24, overweight and poor, but assertive, rather confident, very intelligent and with good facial aesthetics, so far from…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 10:24 AM
18

Exactly, keep them in check. Catching feelings is not the problem, and probably not something you can get rid of, at least not entirely. The problem is letting your feelings dictate your actions. "I'm going to walk on eggshells around this girl and buy her lots of things and whine at anyone who comes near her because of my feeeelings for her" is the exact same problem as "I'm going to hit the snooze button for half an hour instead of taking a shower in the morning because I feel sleepy" or "I'm …
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 09:55 AM
4

How does he do it 2-3 times a day and still muster up the willpower to actually go to the gym? It isn't a rare occurrence for me to wake up, think "Today I feel like doing A, B and C", fap, and shortly after be like "Hmm, what should I do...I don't really feel like A, B or C..."
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 09:42 AM
5

Fucking peoples' wives is one thing. Telling people in casual conversation that you're fucking peoples' wives is another.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 10:58 PM
3

Why would you care about a marriage between a girl you just recently hit on and a guy you don't know at all? I take it you're also the kind of guy who would say no if you were offered a million dollars at the cost of a random person you'll never meet spontaneously dying? If so, congratulations man, you're literally the second coming of Jesus. The rest of us mere mortals are selfish creatures though, and hopefully humble enough to admit it, at least to ourselves.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 10:51 PM
3

The only thing wrong with cheating is cheating on someone. If you're single and the person you're fucking isn't, you're not doing anything wrong and shouldn't feel bad about it. If she wants to cheat she's going to, there are billions of men to do it with.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 10:45 PM
5

Wow, now that right there sure changed my mind. Are you gonna make retarded kids? No? Are you close enough that your feelings about each other are sibling-like/platonic? No? Then it's literally just a girl. I personally have about 60-65 cousins, 10-15 who I've never even met. How are they any different from strangers if I don't plan to impregnate them, exactly?
/r/askTRP31/08/17 10:36 PM
1

Wow you must be really starving if you'd be willing to eat locally grown apples. Everyone knows you should only eat imported apples. Gross. Or, you know, female cousins are just girls. Like /u/max_peenor said, as long as you aren't breeding, it isn't a problem. Now, if you've grown up with her and have a sibling-like relationship, that's another story. But a lot of the time people barely know their cousins. So by all means, sleep with them. Why the hell not?
/r/askTRP31/08/17 10:29 PM
24

You know that feeling right after you cum, how you sometimes instantly wish that the girl you were just inside would just leave you alone and go home? It's similar to that. When you're making out in a loud, high energy environment like a party, she's in an excited, curious, horny mood. The day after, she's just on her phone talking to orbiters, not excited, just regular dull life. It doesn't matter if you texting her makes sense, it doesn't matter if you haven't done anything wrong. If she isn't…
/r/askTRP30/08/17 07:24 PM
1

If 80% of men are at the mercy of their selection then they are by definition the selector. And if two high value men want the same woman, it's probably up to her which one she'll end up with. Even if you're Brad Pitt, walking up to a woman and saying "Let's have sex" can result in you ending up in jail, when a woman doing the same thing to a man probably results in sex. So on a societal level, women are definitely the selectors. But yeah, if you're in the top 20%, those are pretty much just sem…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 07:43 AM
14

Generalizing is how we've survived for thousands of years as a species. If I see a panther, I'm going to assume it wants to kill me and act accordingly. If, after some time, it turns out that the panther isn't killing me, I might change my opinion of this particular panther, but not panthers in general. Thinking "Women in general aren't as philosophically developed as me, and this one probably isn't either, but if she proves me wrong, I'll change my opinion of her" isn't evil, just realistic. Su…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 05:27 AM
0

On the surface level you're absolutely right, caring what women think about you, being agreeable and supplicating is a terrible idea. We all know that, most of us from experience. However, from a biological, subconscious point of view, the opinions of women do matter. They have the more scarce reproduction, putting them in the position of selector. I'm not saying you should listen to her problems and pretend to like Pretty Woman, but being someone that appeals to women is literally how you pass …
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 05:21 AM
3

It's an antidote to the "all women are special unicorns like your mother" which plenty of guys subscribe too. FTFY. More accurate description of that particular mindset. Men look for a bit of fun. Adult children look for a new mom.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 05:05 AM
18

It depends. Do you want to be a viking or a K-pop boy band singer?
/r/askTRP29/08/17 12:10 PM
1

In my experience, relationships dynamics almost always have a "parent" and a "child" (no wonder girls love the whole oh daddy thing). Usually the guy is the parent and the girl is the child. The reason beta guys raised by single moms usually are so hopeless romantically is because they insist on playing the child role, wanting their women to be moms, psychotherapists and what not. The only explanation I can see for this girl liking a person like him is that she wants to be the parent, which woul…
/r/askTRP29/08/17 12:06 PM
1

You will get over that horrible feeling, but if it has only been two months, you're in for some more. I was depressed and obsessed with the first girl I had sex with for about 18 months before I finally let go, felt like it would last forever, but trust me, it won't. You'll move on, fuck some other girl, that'll end too, you'll probably feel down about it but for a shorter period this time. Repeat until you're pretty much fine with it. These days, if a fwb arrangement of mine goes awry and we st…
/r/askTRP29/08/17 11:50 AM
1

ONS is short for one night stand, not oneitis. Completely different things.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 11:45 AM
20

I try to stay away from the MGTOW mindset as much as possible. Feeling like you're a victim and that the world owes you something isn't going to do you any good, it's just going to make you unhappier, and make you seem pathetic. I know it can be hard, but try to stay positive. In terms of the whole male privilege and disposable low value males thing, think of it like this. On a scale of 1 to 5, men start out as a 1, and if you let yourself stay there, you will be worthless and shunned by everyon…
/r/askTRP21/08/17 03:16 PM
3

Ugh, this again. For the love of god, yes. The only people who cannot are the ones who like to look for excuses to justify not even trying. "Oh no, I'm asian, I'm indian, I'm a ginger, I'm only 170 cm tall, my nose is ugly." If you aren't attractive, the only thing that stops you from becoming attractive is you, not your genetics. Sure, height or facial structure do matter, but if an ugly, short, skinny asian guy takes care of his health and fitness, dresses well and trains himself to be confide…
/r/askTRP14/08/17 07:49 AM
4

"And then suddenly, we stopped talking about boys and painting each other's nails". This is what I hear when people talk about snapchat streaks, which is pretty common here for some reason. Forget frame, if you genuinely care about snapchat streaks, you're so far up her ass we can barely see your feet. Get a grip, man.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 04:22 PM
3

I like how no one in that first video is even remotely sexy, oh the irony. In a way I agree with you here, but I think you're approaching it with the wrong mindset. If your five year old walks up to you and accuses you of breaking the imaginary law of the imaginary country he/she made up, you don't get mad, you either laugh or ignore it. Is this shit becoming uncomfortably mainstream? Yeah. Is it completely ridiculous? Yeah. But if you let your own mental well-being be affected by stupid shit li…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 12:06 PM
1

I'm 25 right now, and the way I see it, sure, I'll probably want to have a kid or two somewhere down the line, my own, not adopted. But I'm probably going to get a vasectomy pretty soon, removing the risk of having a kid without it being on your terms is worth it, even if it means having one when I actually want to will be complicated. I mean, let's say I'm in my forties, decide I want to be a dad, and it turns out neither vasectomy reversal nor sperm extraction works out, alright then, those we…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 08:44 AM
3

I used to make long, drawn out threads similar to this on an advice message board a few years back, so I know where you're coming from. You may or may not have a oneitis problem with this girl, but more importantly, you have an attention-seeking problem for even writing something like this. You just wrote a huge wall of text describing in detail the happenings of your social circle over the course of several weeks/months. Like I said, I've done the exact same thing, and after a while you realize…
/r/askTRP16/04/17 03:38 PM
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Why do you care? I'll give you three choices, you can be one of these people: 1. I'm black, let's use this "disadvantage" as an excuse to stay bluepilled and watch porn instead of trying to get laid. 2. I'm black, let's be an insane MJ wannabe and surgically make myself white, that's probably a great idea. 3. I'm black, some people are. Some people are white. Some people are yellow. Some people are brown. The color of my skin is actually pretty irrelevant. Woah, what a ridiculous reddit thread I…
/r/askTRP15/04/17 08:55 PM
1

I don't see how you explained frame or what holding it means in your post at all. If anything, it sounds like you're, in needless detail, explaining the purpose of a literal picture frame.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 08:25 AM
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Women are like cats. Having one is fine. Having it live in your house is fine. Feeding it is fine. Just be prepared for the possibility that it runs away, and for the love of god, don't keep a pet that is going to cost you more than 5% of your spending money. Having a spoiled girl who expects you to buy her $200 shoes every month is fine, if you have $4000 or more to spend frivolously.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 03:28 AM
3

Accidentally auto-corrected cuck porn to duck porn up there apparently, but I'm leaving it in, that's fucking hilarious. And about as healthy.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 02:14 AM
2

I've got two things to say about this: Men and women naturally enjoy some dominance and submission respectively, but other than that, anything that could be called a fetish is probably not as common as you see today. Porn is a big cause of it. You watch some normal porn, it gets boring, you watch some gangbang porn, some duck porn, some shemale porn, some passed out girl porn, the list goes on. We're naturally inclined to be curious about "new" sex, it's an instinct we have to make us spread our…
/r/askTRP03/04/17 02:11 AM
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I'll openly admit to not taking action as far as going out and getting laid goes, but I am taking action when it comes to fitness, diet, procrastination, porn overuse and other bad habits. Currently on antidepressants but my mood is getting better every day, so hopefully I can drop them in a couple of months. A day for me is basically: Wake up Go for a 40 minute treadmill session Do my best to study instead of procrastinating Do these things inbetween studying and (healthy) meals: Read redpill s…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 07:42 PM
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Hamster translation: Can I use my location as an excuse to not leave my comfort zone? Can I use my ethnicity as an excuse to not leave my comfort zone? Women are women. You can flirt with them as an indian in Atlanta, as an african in Norway, as an asian in France. The dating scene is just fine, everywhere.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 05:58 PM
1

"You can't teach, lead by example" is a great motto, people don't give a shit about arguments, results talk. That being said, having a book is not exactly arguing. If someone I wasn't fucking/trying to fuck asked about one of those books, I'd say something along the lines of "You can read it if you want to, even if you don't like it, a new perspective doesn't hurt".
/r/askTRP12/03/17 01:42 PM
1

Sure it does, if you can pull it off properly. If it comes off as you not wanting to say because the answer lowers your value, it just comes off as insecure. Like, if you've only had sex with two girls and someone asks you how many, most guys who are that inexperienced would probably stutter "N-n-none of your business!" like scared children. Just like you can't argue politics with women, I imagine explaining redpill books to them is similar. That being said, K don't feel like covering the booksh…
/r/askTRP12/03/17 01:28 PM
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How do I finger a girl?: Shove your index and middle finger inside her vagina, pull them out, repeat. It isn't hard. If you want to get technical, push them in, make a hook with your fingers, like a "come here" motion, and continue rhythmically pushing there. Some love it, some don't really care for it more than regular fingering. How do I make sure to please her?: You don't. Women don't work like you do. Men are aroused by the feeling of a woman's body and by seeing and hearing her as you fuck …
/r/askTRP12/03/17 12:49 PM
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Alimony: Don't get married. False rape accusations: Move to a country that doesn't punish people without proof.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 04:32 PM
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Women are more like cats than dogs. Cute, pleasant to cuddle with, and not really capable of hurting you unless you're being extremely needy. Worst thing that can happen is that she leaves, and you know what getting a new cat costs. Cats are literally free, because while everyone likes to cuddle and pet them, many of them struggle to find someone whose home to live in and who will feed them.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 04:18 PM
2

I'm currently t-shirt & jeans (black ones at least, but still) & sneakers scum, looking to change that at least somewhat, probably gradually, I imagine a good look is expensive. Are there any forums, faqs, guides, infographics and so on on how to develop a good sense of style as a man?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 01:16 PM
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Not using manipulation because you consider it immoral is like not using violence against a lion because you consider it immoral. Sure, you'll have the moral high ground, but chances are you'll be devoured faster than you can say the word honesty. In short, don't restrain yourself when it comes to manipulation, especially not if you're doing it to create harmony.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 11:55 AM
1

"Addictive personality", fuck that shit, hurts to hear it as often as I do these days. The modern lifestyle that most people default into is based on fueling addictions to shitty food, laziness, porn, buying expensive shit you don't need, what have you. But you don't have an addictive personality, in fact you don't have any personality strictly speaking, that's like saying "Dieting doesn't help me, I have a fat personality". You have addictive habits, and every time you do something to reinforce…
/r/askTRP07/08/16 06:15 PM
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Not saying females aren't crazy as dog shit but you don't exactly come off as sane here either. That's a lot of lies really early into the interaction for no good reason, and unless the date location you agreed on is in an abandoned alley, I'm not sure why you're worrying about rape. At this rate I'd be surprised if you even end up getting her naked. If you aren't confident enough to invite her to something explicitly datelike, you could've gone with coffee, bowling, drinks at a bar, or actually…
/r/askTRP25/07/16 08:55 AM
1

Nope. Not gonna be too specific with her privacy in mind, but she was under 18 at the time, the age of consent is a little lower where we live. I'm not sure but I think so. I get the impression that she's an intelligent, introverted girl. No prior real life experience with guys, just a little bit with female friends. Hmm, hard to say. She has quite a bit of interest in make-up and dressing up and she has an amazing body for her age, but I don't think a lot of people notice that, she wears glasse…
/r/askTRP25/07/16 08:41 AM
1

Yeah, that's possible. I love girls who are into that and I vaguely recall her having at least mentioned fantasies like that, but unfortunately first-time sex rarely seems to work out that way. Most girls I've fucked had this "Might happen might not" bs going on beforehand so taking them by force would be putting myself at risk of being accused of rape. If I ever hook up with someone and they happen to mention wanting to be ravaged while we're making out then I'd be more than happy to oblige.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 05:07 PM
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