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7

I have never paid for pussy in my life, and after my initial BP unlinking, have never sunk an unreasonable amount of time or energy into it. Pussy is cheap and abundant. There is literally no service on Earth I would pay $300/hr for. I could invest that money much more wisely.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 08:23 AM
12

This is pathetic.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 08:11 AM
18

This is why the try-hards make your best wingman.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 05:36 AM
30

Bullshit. “Strong and silent”, until engaged, is my entire game, and it works extraordinarily well for me. If you don’t garner attention without playing the puppy dog, then you’re simply nothing worth looking at.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 05:35 AM
14

You’re right about one thing: You do need to text younger girls for more than simply logistics. The rest of this post is a literal guide to being friendzoned.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/20 12:31 AM
1

They’re women. You want to play the game, you have to accept the rules.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:59 PM
2

/u/b1nkh4x0r : lack of close friendships This can also mean friends that they are “incredibly close with” but constantly arguing with. My BPD exes would have best friends that with one conflict would be discarded completely — as far as blocking their numbers and deleting off socials, then weeks or months later everything would just be fine. For women, I would count having no close female friends pretty high up there on its own, and, this sounds really bad, but at this point if a woman has a gay …
/r/askTRP12/11/20 08:30 AM
2

You’re welcome. It comes with being raked over the coals oneself. Be well.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 08:14 AM
4

I’d wager a significant amount. However, as I said above, BPD is just a massive exaggeration of all the traits we train for in TRP. And not only that, the weaknesses that pwBPD prey on massively overlap the traits I would expect the average TRP newbie to suffer from in earnest — reliance on external validation, low self-esteem, codependency, weak frame. They’re honestly designed to destroy us.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 08:11 AM
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/u/jrr6415sun Just to clarify, lovebombing is not confined to just the beginning of a relationship. That’s when it is its most insidious though, because you are forming your impression of a person, vetting in TRP terminology. So you’ll form an idea of this person as super sweet, caring, giving, submissive, etc. A literal TRP wet dream. But that is just them inadvertently catering to you, because that is what the disorder does. They idealize you initially, put you up on a pedestal, essentially si…
/r/askTRP12/11/20 08:08 AM
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The kind of guy who finds his way to TRP is an absolute sitting duck for Cluster B patients. It’s happened to me as well, and so many others on here that “BPD” has become a cliche and a misnomer on these boards. I had a 3-year bpd LTR and almost got caught up with another later on that was probably even worse. Most of us end up here because of a distinct feeling of lack of success. BPD women are initially like shooting fish in a barrel with TRP tactics. It works too well, because BPD is “woman” …
/r/askTRP11/11/20 08:38 PM
5

Yeah, she loves it and she’ll be back with him when she’s done with you. And the whole thing will begin again.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/20 07:48 PM
1

Succinct. Fucking pin this.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 08:31 PM
3

It is an insidious incel revenge fantasy that women wind up alone and miserable “past their prime.” There is a perpetual abundance of men willing to scoop them up and thinking they’re getting a deal in the process. I promise you, these women are going to wind up just fine. And lol at the “22-26” age range.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 08:28 PM
1

The guy doesn’t exist. The threesome/“fitness class” comments are cringey and don’t make sense. Amused mastery and disengage.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 05:14 AM
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Yes. This is sidebar 101 on shit tests.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 04:28 PM
1

First things first, I am a career bartender. So it’s my job to be out several nights a week. There’s no underselling how important that was to the process, both in terms of opportunity and perceived high SMV — you control the room and are seen as high-status to everyone clamoring for a drink. Additionally, when I would go out outside of work, the other bartenders/business owners in the area all know me and hook me up. Additional appearance of high status. Goes a long way. I’m also a musician, so…
/r/askTRP26/08/20 04:05 PM
7

I was LTR’d up until 28, discovered TRP and predictably that fell apart as I began to grow and focus on myself and not being taken for granted. My ex-fiancée was the 8th girl I ever slept with. I had already been starting to focus on myself, but it really took off from there, particularly my fitness. Gained ~40 lbs, muscled up, developed my personal style, started getting weekly haircuts from a talented barber. Honed my game and went out to practice pickup constantly. By 33, I had simply stopped…
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:42 PM
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The worst part is that they absolutely love that shit. They love feeling “wrong” and “dirty” so much that if she’s cheating with you, she’s getting off on the thrill, and anything you do to exacerbate that feeling will drive her absolutely crazy. Want to test this on a “good girl”? Start coyly escalating while she’s on the phone with her parents. I’ve gone down on girls during work Zoom meetings. They love, love, love feeling as dirty as fucking possible.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 03:34 PM
2

Definitely. And who’s talking about 30 years...?
/r/askTRP18/07/20 05:45 AM
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Kinda crazy how it works, huh? I usually see girls alpha widow’d from (often legitimately) “abusive” LTRs. It was a weird feeling watching this one play the part after only 2 bangs. Goes to show you can’t fake outcome independence— I legitimately couldn’t remember her name until I remembered her as “crazy flight attendant.” That obviously had an effect.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 04:36 AM
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It just goes to prove what’s often said here about women conflating what they find attractive in men as being attractive to men. It seems she thought I’d be impressed by the sheer scope (lol) of....other men she was a desperate slut for? Who knows. Either way, it’d be pitifully naive to assume that 32 even approaches a high n-count for a woman who would act this way. This simply means her 32 honorable achievers. She was a flight attendant, by the way. Go figure.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 04:25 AM
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I had a Tinder girl pull similar on me. We banged twice. When she sent it, I saw the thumbnail for the survey and never actually opened it. She told me “damn, out of 32 you’re the only one who didn’t answer.” She also exhibited a host of other crazy/clingy behavior: always the first to watch any story I posted, constantly DMing me despite zero responses, texting me SEVERAL times pretending that she had lost my number or had just gotten a new phone (an excuse to send me selfies), texting me very …
/r/askTRP18/07/20 03:15 AM
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That was a lot of words to essentially posit that the right has the polar opposite of abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 01:20 AM
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lol you couldn’t be more right!! I fell in a youtube rabbit hole from the comments here and stumbled on this video , where she straight-up admits she started doing porn for the “validation and male attention.” Turns out homegirl used to be a fatty and after losing 50 lbs and getting a boob job, suddenly men wanted something to do with her! Shocking. She actually basked in the attention, rode the CC in the most literal way possible, and now flips out over mention of her career three-month fling.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 04:33 PM
3

....what could she even possibly look like
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/20 12:54 AM
9

yep, and the surest way to make someone squirt is with one digit and a quick hand on the clit. have fun with your candles, my dude.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 11:21 PM
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Minimizing the importance of foreplay is a sure sign that you don’t fuck.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 10:51 PM
1

lmao at the ninja edit, did it make you feel better?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 08:06 AM
14

damn you’re fucking cool
/r/askTRP21/06/20 07:57 AM
0

Tell me how daddy hurt you, princess.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 04:32 AM
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My father was somewhat absent but was a fucking baller, I can’t even imagine what kind of daddy issue soyboy shit this post is supposed to represent.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 02:29 AM
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saw her pupils dilate every time we spoke Well, if this isn’t the spergiest shit I’ve ever read, the fact that you haven’t absorbed a word of the sidebar would clinch the fact for me. If you don’t work in the service industry or sometimes shitty retail, shitting where you eat has a high likelihood of biting you in the ass. And that’s WITHOUT the girl working in fucking HR... If this didn’t sound so realistically naive, I’d be calling Troll.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 04:09 PM
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AWALT, you fucking clown.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/20 01:58 AM
1

Honestly, thank you so much for the cautious reminder. I have a plate that I was just starting to feel going this direction — granting too much time, hangouts not based around fucking — I literally blew another plate off last night because I’m losing the hunger a bit. Thank you for the reminder that they’re not special. I tend to slip up and down very harshly. Reality checks like this help.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/20 02:14 PM
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Then honestly? Get the fuck out.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/20 05:13 AM
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I’m glad you gained some manner of insight, I like seeing people reflect and grow. But this post isn’t even marked as a Field Report and would honestly be rather low quality even by those standards. No offense, this is an honest question: without expounding meaningfully upon your personal changes/observations, what made you feel this was a productive post?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/20 06:32 AM
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This is an incredibly long-winded way of saying you had a very average night out and didn’t accomplish shit.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/20 06:12 AM
9

OP is looking for advice about responding to being AMOGed in a real-life situation. It’s a valid question and absolutely belongs here.
/r/askMRP13/02/20 02:35 PM
1

You can bet your ass the CIA officers and the Navy SEAL Senior Chief that briefed Obama on the Osama Bin Laden raid had a 20oz of Dunkin in their hand when going through those PowerPoint slides I’d bet my ass they didn’t. That’s too unprofessional even for the apparel company I work for — You’re not seeing some of the most powerful men in the world, literally in uniform, to make a presentation about one of the most important acts in history, acting like your insecure ass in a club. Also, if you’…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/20 04:23 AM
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It’s an Ayn Rand quote.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 12:22 PM
2

Up your protein intake. Supplement with Glutamine. Listen to your body over anyone or anything, rest appropriately. You will not progress by overtraining.
/r/askMRP12/10/19 02:15 AM
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Her chemical high is now focused on the fact she lost you. That will go away, so don’t look back. This is an incredibly important point, and you have stated it very succinctly. This is precisely why you never take back a cheater, and it’s so slyly congruent with female nature as to be undeniable. This guy gets it.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 03:26 AM
1

Understood. Will resubmit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/19 06:42 PM
2

lma-FUCKING-o dude. I truly hope that someday you read this post back and see it for how desperate it is. Please use this low point as an opportunity to actually own your shit, and start climbing upward.
/r/askMRP22/08/19 06:39 PM
2

This is A+ content. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 11:17 PM
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Not really. There’s a reason we discuss standards of femininity...because we ought to have standards.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 12:08 AM
1

Pretty sure I’m not the one looking stupid here.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 09:37 PM
16

What the actual fuck is wrong with you people?
/r/askTRP24/06/19 09:32 PM
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If this girl is a 7/10 to you, I just want to thank you for leaving more for the rest of us.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 09:32 PM
3

I have never seen such rationalization in my entire life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/19 05:04 PM
2

Afford?
/r/askTRP21/06/19 04:49 PM
4

As long as they’re allowing you to push their boundaries, your frame is solid. The solid truth is that every girl has their own preferences and experiences, which move their boundaries accordingly. A girl who has a ton of experience with heavy BDSM/humiliation is going to be much more open to repeated, heavy slapping, rougher facefucking, spitting etc. than another whose experience is largely vanilla. It is your job to gauge this and guide them based on that estimation. The more women you’re wit…
/r/askTRP21/06/19 04:41 PM
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Tell me more about how the sidebar is wrong, please.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 12:38 AM
3

TRP tenet #1: Sexual strategy is amoral. Feel how you will about it, these men owe you nothing.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 11:42 PM
3

Are they all on this sub, too, because this isn’t how it’s supposed to work. Actually, if they were on this sub, they would know that literally the first tenet of TRP is that sexual strategy is amoral. i.e. the friends don’t owe him shit. TRP is about how to fuck and how to improve yourself. Leave your “bro code” at the door.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 11:41 PM
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Congratulations, you’re not autistic. The material says to read and apply the sidebar, so you started reading and applying the sidebar. Now you’re seeing results. Are you shocked? Congrats, yes, this is how easy it is to enter the top 20%.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 03:45 AM
1

There’s a lot of wisdom in this comment. Women are eternally fickle; we know this. A million different variables will determine her actions and from this data you can glean your standing.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 07:31 PM
1

It’s okay, I’m a realist.
/r/MGTOW06/03/19 07:29 AM
2

It’s typically about 3-4 months for me. Around 2 months in, they start probing about other plates. You can A&A that for another month pretty easily, then they start to put some pressure on and you have to resolve it one way or another. If you’re spinning multiples (and you’re honest about it) it usually lasts a shorter amount of time, honestly. Most women will pretend to be down with a NSA thing at first but when they don’t see progress toward monogamy they bail. I feel like the guys quoting 6-9…
/r/askTRP06/03/19 07:25 AM
2

You are literally ranting completely unintelligibly.
/r/MGTOW06/03/19 07:16 AM
2

where the fuck are you getting the notion that anyone is preferring a daughter? What are you talking about.
/r/MGTOW06/03/19 07:01 AM
0

No kids. Just reasonable cognitive skills, homie.
/r/MGTOW06/03/19 06:58 AM
4

I wonder how many brain cells I’d have to kill off to wind up this fucking retarded
/r/MGTOW06/03/19 06:27 AM
2

This is gold and your frame is rock fucking solid. Good on you, this is a good example of what most of MRP should strive for.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/19 01:38 AM
1

How did you get to an LTR like this in the first place? You need to be setting the frame that good sex is a priority in your relationships from the moment you meet a girl. She should never even become a plate without understanding your expectations in that regard. My opinion is that you failed to set the stage for a successful sexual relationship with this girl from the onset, or this kind of shit test would never even come up. I have gotten “you only want me for sex” before, but never this test…
/r/askTRP06/03/19 12:49 AM
-1

Are you in PVD? Saw a comment mentioning RI. Fuck most of these fucking cucks responding to you, if you’re mid-twenties in PVD these days and operating under these principles, you’re so far above your peers it’s a fucking joke. Guys on these forums act like everyone comes from some homogenous melting pot. If you’re from where I think you’re from, the conditioning forces are turned up to 11. Good on you for hitting what you have, stay chill, believe in yourself and crush shit. It’s a tough city.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 06:41 AM
2

Have you read the sidebar material?
/r/askTRP27/02/19 03:06 PM
2

Personally, I give two reschedules, but I’m a bit older than many on here. Schedules are legitimately busy on both sides, and having other shit lined up in the meantime makes it essentially negligible. One chick or another, it’s worth the modicum of effort it takes for one of them to end up on my cock. Totally agree with the canceling a few hours before or in the case of straight-up flaking, though. If they ghost, a second chance is meaningless.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 08:22 PM
5

You sound super butthurt. That’s not only an attraction killer but it’s also pretty pathetic
/r/askMRP11/01/19 05:08 PM
8

The most successful man I know (legitimate empire, owns entire city blocks, name is on buildings) does coke in the back room of one of his bars on a regular basis. And a good amount of the local court system does as well. Success and vices are far from mutually exclusive. OP is a child. He’ll learn.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 04:47 PM
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You should be aiming for an imbalance, a very disproportionate ratio of action versus theory. This is actual a very powerful and well-stated insight. It’s a great and almost literal parallel to art or music - you can play those games without really knowing the theory, if you delve too pedantically into the theory, your art will become stilted, boring and predictable. And striving for this same aforementioned imbalance, weighted far more heavily toward action, will produce the greatest results.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 08:15 PM
1

tbh, as much as I enjoy vacations in solitude....if your girl is traveling without you (beyond maybe a single exception for a best friend getting married), you’re in the shitter to start with.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 10:25 PM
2

I applaud you for what you’ve achieved and am stoked for your improvement, but I need to point something out: If you didn’t accept me at my heaviest, you don’t deserve me at my lightest This. Is. Absolute. Bullshit. This is literally Marilyn Monroe hamstered into a reframing for your benefit, and it is an absolutely toxic concept. You were a fat, neglectful piece of shit, and now you’re awesome. Your SMV was in the toilet, now you’re a rockstar. As a man, striving to improve, you must acknowledg…
/r/MGTOW22/12/18 09:59 PM
7

Women will never become friends on FB, IG, Snap with the guys they fuck. It’s the guys you never knew existed that smashed. This is a little pearl of Red Pill WISDOM that I’m unfortunately pretty confident is going to go criminally underappreciated here. I can’t even tell how many times I have easily bedded an overly eager partner, only to have them ghost even more readily than myself. Usually 1-2 follow up messages the next morning or so, then boom, gonezo. Without fail, blatant cheaters. I thi…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 05:34 AM
11

30k ring Is that seriously a thing? Please tell me that’s not a thing.
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 06:49 AM
1

Sperging at its finest.
/r/askMRP10/12/18 01:01 AM
1

This is pretty cringey dude.
/r/MGTOW07/12/18 07:50 PM
2

You’re wasting your time by even conversing with them and it’s a very, very bad idea to associate your name with anything MGTOW/TRP. You’re opening yourself up to a potential world of hurt here.
/r/MGTOW07/12/18 07:10 PM
10

STDs: 100% clean excepting HPV1, which is like calling weed a drug. Pregnancy Scares: The ex fiancée and I miscarried, in the following five years I’ve had an LTR for one year and we had a scare once. If you are careful, stay clean, and get tested, this shit is pretty easy tbh. I keep condoms and dick pills on me at all times so I’m prepared for random encounters.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 09:57 AM
12

Sidebar, sidebar, sidebar. Put in the work (especially in the gym/fashion/grooming.) Actually study and apply the materials, and go out a lot. I started in a good place aesthetically, but the rest made it fall into place.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 07:55 AM
13

I am 33 and have a partner count in the triple digits. I was engaged until the age of 28. My ex fiancée was the 8th woman I ever slept with. You do the math.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 07:39 AM
1

Increase your testosterone so you’re less emotional. This is the one part of your excellent post I would question. Simply curious if there is a defined correlation or if simply becoming more stoic is the advantage. Every time I have made significant gains in test count, whether naturally or not, I turn into a bit of a psychopath. Gear, dietary changes, nofap for extended periods, I lose my cool. I’m not smart enough to determine if it’s because of complementary chemicals my body is producing to …
/r/askTRP05/12/18 07:40 PM
1

Feels happen. This whole process is about struggling to reach the point where you can consistently and intelligently make good choices despite what feels may tell you. Besides that, when you eventually stop giving a fuck about having gotten the next “notch count,” you’ll realize you’ve made another big step.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 07:23 PM
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This isn’t super helpful in and of itself, but you need more experience. Have you had a long-term girlfriend before? TRP shits on LTRs as a matter of record, but to start getting your bearings on what being a good lover means, I believe it is essential. You can beat the shit out of a thousand thots and still learn literally nothing about pleasing a woman. LTR or at least FWB up a girl you can easily lock in, and spend some time really learning what she likes. Get your angles down, fuck around wi…
/r/askTRP02/12/18 12:01 AM
20

Found the faggot.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 09:58 PM
20

And yet here you came, asking for advice... It’s called Apocalypse approach, and it was a heavily discussed subject probably 6 years back or so. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 09:56 PM
1

if you don’t understand how pathetic and in effective this idea is, you haven’t learned anything here yet. Why don’t you just make her a PowerPoint?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/18 12:17 AM
6

There is a reason that everyone who red pills themselves eventually pulls off the sub for a while. It is in fact, exhausting to keep up with all of this when it’s not natural to you. What do you internalize a lot, and start living your life based on these principles, it’s only healthy to take a bit of a break to let your brain relax a bit. this is what your doctor is telling you. What you get your Shit sorted little more, you may feel honored to come back and refresh. Do it if so.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 11:08 PM
2

I was about to go full facepalm, but I actually laughed. Fair game.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 07:09 PM
1

Confirmed troll.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 07:06 PM
1

On mobile, there is a "hamburger menu" on the top right of every page.
/r/askMRP08/11/18 02:09 AM
2

Totally agree. Just seems like a massive oversight. Thanks again.
/r/askMRP07/11/18 08:17 PM
2

PERFECT. Thank you. I am still curious, however, why I have to use the old formatting to view it, is there some way to show this content in the new Reddit design that is just eluding me? Is some content simply being hidden?
/r/askMRP07/11/18 08:16 PM
2

That's precisely what I'm saying. From the main MRP page (reddit.com/r/marriedredpill) I have no way to access the sidebar on my desktop. I was asking in hopes that I'm just an idiot and this isn't part of the quarantine or something.
/r/askMRP07/11/18 08:09 PM
139

This breakdown is absolute gold.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 04:17 PM
5

This is an important concept that doesn’t get a lot of attention. I started as a sub ~140lbs skinny emo kid, now at a ripped 205. When you see people who knew you before, their jaws drop. The men acknowledge the work and discipline, the women fawn over the change in SMV. They don’t care about the work that went into it, but they acknowledge the severity of the change.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 03:54 PM
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It’s in your head. No one thinks about our mistakes more than ourselves. Focus on cultivating DGAF attitude and keep moving forward.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 03:52 PM
3

Being fit, aka not being a lazy beta slob, is the true tenet. Don’t be so black-and-white about it. As I stated before, being huge is a cheat code to jumpstart attraction. But think about it: you have a pursuit that you truly love, that will give you that fit body, plus ingrained high social status. That’s like an SMV nuclear explosion. Even more importantly, the true tenet at work here is to make yourself happy first. It makes you happy now, just imagine if you made it to pro? How important is …
/r/askTRP07/11/18 03:45 PM
1

If you’re about to stop doing something you love just to get attention from women, you’re already doing it wrong. One thing you’ll realize later is that while having a massive physique 100% undoubtedly helps with initial attraction, it doesn’t do all the work for you. If you’re a dullard, women will still ONS you for an exceptional physique, but it never really goes further than that. Women still cheat on chad every day with skinny guys that are compelling. Do what you love and fucking own it. A…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 03:12 PM
7

Jesus christ, dude. Just take the L.
/r/MGTOW22/10/18 07:04 PM
2

Constructive? Literally everything I said in the initial response. The only thing you did worse than completely losing frame and acting like a little bitch over opening a fucking door was get on your bike after a drink. Legal limit means jack shit, it’s indicative of stupid that can’t be fixed. Beyond that, you’re here whining about the most insignificant drunken argument possible. Frame is nonexistent, work on that after you sort your shit out. This is the kind of horseshit they don’t even reme…
/r/askTRP16/10/18 09:04 AM
3

Holy shit you sound absolutely insufferable. Step 1: Never get on your bike again after having a fucking drink. Step 2: Stop arguing, especially over completely inconsequential horseshit. You make abhorrent choices and your frame is nonexistent.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 08:38 AM
3

Because this response reeks of having no idea how society at large actually works. If you legitimately require elaboration on this, you’ve never had to deal with the adult court system. This behavior is a good way to figure out how that works, good luck.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 11:59 PM
1

This idiot’s bullshit still bothers you. Your frame is nonexistent. This shit about the girl is irrelevant.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 11:14 PM
8

It’s easy to tell when people on Reddit are under 25.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 07:39 PM
1

You’re a weak bitch and your pride will be your undoing. Fuck a girl or don’t, who gives a shit.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 07:38 PM
1

Answer one question: why are you taking this seriously? Or further, why do you need to ask us about it? To expound: shit tests are not overt. The vast majority of the time they are not done intentionally. Learning TRP is realizing that most of the inconsequential shit that women spout is to be treated as a shit test. For some reason this woman’s nonsense religion has you twisted up in knots to the point that you felt the need to ask strangers on the internet what exactly to do about it. Think ab…
/r/askMRP02/10/18 09:45 PM
4

Keep arguing. Keep asking me for advice. Your naivety shows itself.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:35 AM
5

Holy shit, I’m reading some shit on your other comments about her having genital warts? You know what, do us all a favor and just cum in this chick already. You clearly haven’t learned shit here.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:30 AM
3

...are you actually new?
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:26 AM
8

You literally describe your experiences with her doing "activities." Stop kidding yourself and stop wasting our time. If you have feels, do something about it. Otherwise, stop being a faggot. Having "two plates" or fucking twelve girls that one time does not mean you know shit, especially when you ask JV shit like this.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:23 AM
10

The relationship you’ve described here is by definition not a plate. I’d tell you to read the sidebar if it still existed.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:17 AM
24

Congratulations. You have a girlfriend who is fucking other men.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:13 AM
2

Seriously? Have you heard of a shit test yet...? Ignore. Continue. This is sub-101. Is this horseshit what's to come in a post-quarantine world?
/r/askMRP02/10/18 07:57 AM
1

Thank you for the clarification. Similar to my own shake except for the yogurt and kale. Personally, I have always struggled with the nutrition side of things. I have been using a meal-prep service more recently to ensure I’m generally hitting my macro goals, but my goal is to get to a point where I am prepping everything myself.
/r/askMRP06/09/18 09:32 PM
1

Serious question: "eat to recover"? Are we just talking about a high-protein diet that is not carb-shy?
/r/askMRP06/09/18 09:21 PM
33

… And monetizing that content is exactly in line with the concepts you’re here discussing. Understood.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 04:47 PM
77

Is this a post you are interested in contributing? I would fucking love to read your perspective/words of wisdom.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 04:18 PM
11

My band experienced some good success on an indie level—grueling tour schedules in the COTUS with big-name acts, record deal, etc. No real money made; that’s its own FR. You get a lot of things right — I am a natural skeevy introvert who had to fake it and be sociable to earn my living on the road. This lead to lifestyle changes that eventually found me the Pill. But your perspective is pretty naive/largely founded upon caricature. There is really only one important thing here — the idea that wo…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 01:50 AM
66

This is one of the simplest and most effective analogies I’ve seen in my entire time on the red pill. Excellently phrased.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 09:23 PM
9

The phrase has been co-opted so thoroughly at this point that it is essentially meaningless.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 06:00 AM
30

I thought you were going to say she fucked a whole platoon or something. Your frame is weak as fuck. ONE person from before you knew her is driving you this crazy? Look in the mirror mate, the problem is you.
/r/askMRP31/07/18 03:46 AM
20

TBH any girl worth having around past ONS will test you hard early, take a meet or two to fuck (aka waste of time if you’re running plates only) and will launch the “what are we” talk by 12 weeks max. YMMV, but it’s not exactly rocket science. Higher-value women will pursue their natural agenda and try to lock you down. This is why low-SMV women are ideal starter plates: if the girl is worth anything and you aren’t looking for exclusivity, she will weed herself out. Plates are many and disposabl…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 05:24 AM
6

If this girl is willing to accept his non-monogamy, then you are no one to judge their compatibility. She has done that more thoroughly than you ever could, already.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 04:26 AM
47

I really need to comment on this. You’re a fucking fool if you think “writing a letter” means she hasn’t been out banging strange. This is a concept I see inexperienced men on TRP propagating frequently. It is our romantic fantasy that women are so consumed with the drama and their wrongdoing, that they break down and cannot focus on anything else. Nothing can be further from the truth, and TRP newbies would know this if they have any experience whatsoever with women. I have had a woman cheat on…
/r/askTRP26/07/18 04:47 AM
2

This isn’t even machiavellian, this is just pathetic. You are literally making (hurting) the woman your mission. Find something better to do with your time.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 03:27 PM
3

Naw, you’re on the right track. Don’t reply with anything butthurt here. You wouldn’t be getting this shit test as a disqualifier if they weren’t already interested in your skinny ass, so push through. Easiest case is essentially ignore, as you have been. Another user commented “Bet I can pick you up,” which is a GREAT silly/neutral response, but if you can tell serious attraction is already there and this is a smarmy test, take a step further and turn it sexual.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:45 PM
8

To be honest, we need more information. When you say “flaked,” did she: 1) cancel last minute, giving a reason 2) cancel without explanation 3) simply not show up, without contacting you? If anything but 3, blocking her online and sending an “oh really” response comes across as massively butthurt. TBH, even if it was 3, all you’re doing is letting her know how much she’s got your panties in a knot. The best response would have been silence, or coolly/minimally playing the game if she verbally ca…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 01:34 PM
20

I have no idea why this post is written like something to brag about.
/r/askMRP05/07/18 07:28 AM
2

Can’t help but notice you keep forgetting to put “affair” in quotes.
/r/askMRP30/06/18 06:28 PM
114

Girl has always loved Husband. Oceania has always been at war with Eurasia.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 03:39 PM
2

I have been studying pua since mystery. But fitness opens every single door, and I’ve yet to see a successful LTR where the man let himself become a fat piece of shit. Good game is in fact tingle-inducing, so that part of my statement was too much. I would never submit that fitness is the only thing, but my opinion that it is prerequisite remains unchanged.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 10:22 PM
3

Those things are definitely great to have and some chicks get off on them, but it’s more like an assesory, not required. Eh, to be honest, I comprehensively call bullshit on this statement. Muscles are not a myth, they are a prerequisite. Certainly there is value to be found in other places, but it is not tingle-inducing, and focusing on those at the peril of your own fitness is the fastest way I can think of to get your brunch swung off of.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 08:42 PM
2

May I just ask exactly what you mean by “the myth” of muscles and abs?
/r/askMRP21/06/18 06:40 PM
1

You win.
/r/MGTOW21/06/18 04:59 PM
1

k bro
/r/askTRP15/05/18 08:45 AM
1

If you think it’s “running away,” then you’re already giving this old hag too much credit. You can keep trying to justify yourself if you’d like, but your replies to me are as butthurt as you appear if you act like you recommend in public.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 11:47 PM
1

Totally disagree. Acknowledging your “bullies” (an elderly woman?) is acknowledging their power. Do you really fucking care what that person thinks, at all? If her actions are in your mind even 30 seconds later then your self-confidence is pathetic. Also I can’t help but notice you failed to define the frame you think he should be inhabiting.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 11:30 PM
1

Describe the frame you think he should be occupying in this situation.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 02:06 PM
1

Naw. In this situation (drunk, late at night, walking up to an old woman butthurt and condescending) this is an absolute breach of frame. Anyone with a modicum of self control would have walked on by with zero issue. Responding at all in this situation is an indication of pathetic self-consciousness and complete lack of frame. Sorry not sorry.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 03:23 AM
1

Way to miss the point, dude. Good luck.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 03:20 AM
1

Naw. Acknowledging it falls immediately into their frame. You’re wrong.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 10:17 PM
3

Definitely is. My frame has never been stronger than the 18 months I stopped drinking. I think it’s time to get back to that.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 05:00 PM
5

You failed the shit test the moment you acknowledged her. Why the hell did you walk up to a laughing old woman? Who gives a fuck what she thought was so funny?
/r/askTRP13/05/18 04:35 PM
2

ehhhh I call bullshit honestly. The most obnoxious, high-maintenance bitches I’ve ever encountered are HB9+. In the west it’s rarer and rarer that the hottest women are feminine at all, really.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 09:45 PM
5

The real question is if you see this motherfucker every two weeks, why you’re only tipping him once a month. I see my barber every week and tip him 30% every goddamn time. If he’s any good, this man is largely responsible for your heightened SMV, not to mention a masculine environment you get to absorb and shoot the shit in. Treat him well or GTFO to your amateur friend with his limited clientele and new shop. I’m sure he’ll shave your sidepart for you.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 12:34 AM
1

She won’t go more than a few hours without contacting me. I’m normally able to banter a bit during the day (I know, logistics only, but she’s 23....), but the other day I didn’t respond for about 11 hours and she freaked out a bit. I don’t think investment is the issue, I’m just trying to make her feel some more passion. Do I just need to game more?
/r/askTRP08/05/18 12:28 AM
2

Agreed. My hair is what has been referred to as a “fuckboy high-and-tight” — sides straight-razored, top a neat side-part, and if I’m not in the chair on time for my weekly appointment, it looks like shit, and FAST. The nearer your style, the more regular the necessary upkeep.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 09:38 PM
1

This dude is fucking hammered. Just look how sluggish his EVERY response is.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/04/18 09:36 PM
2

Sounds to me like you’ve got zero spine and your chick is just giving you shit. MAKING FUN OF YOU IS A TEST. If you can’t handle it gracefully, you’re a chump, and yes, you don’t deserve her. The example you gave MIGHT be appropriate if you said it DIRECTLY TO HER — but in front of HER family, anything but rolling your eyes, with a calm chuckle and maybe a subtle NON BUTTHURT remark, is suicide. She is testing your frame, no doubt, for a LOT of things. To see how strong you are, how much bullshi…
/r/askTRP24/11/17 11:10 PM
2

You're 21. Your value is inherently low. Ain't no one chasing you. When you get older, learn how to dress well, and actually make money (without trying to "look like you make money"), then the women will embarrass themselves coming after you. If you want an early taste, start spending your entire life in the gym and put on 30 lbs of muscle. You'll see the change.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 08:53 AM
2

I started off 140, four years later I'm one of those "200+ pound buff dudes." What's your excuse?
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 08:48 AM
2

This is hysterical. Here folks, we have the typical whiny bitch omega who "is too much of an ectomorph!!" to get in the gym and get his ass in gear. Shut the fuck up, get in the gym, eat something. If your face is at the level you claim you'll be drowning in pussy, the only thing that matters apparently, in 90 days. But you won't, because you only like to bitch, and don't like to work.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 08:44 AM
4

Most of the time, yes. It also depends on the province you're in. I'm in MA so generally speaking the courts are liberal as fuck. But a plate of mine is a mother (also VERY good looking and used to getting her way) and had to go in for custody issues recently and had her ass HANDED TO HER by the judge. Like, "speak to me appropriately" kinds of judgement. She lost the hearing as well. I've had the police here side with me against women on DV calls as well. So even in liberal mecca, there are alw…
/r/MGTOW07/09/17 11:12 PM
1

That ending one-shot is sublime.
/r/MGTOW22/07/17 05:27 AM
3

Oh my god, that was exhausting.
/r/MGTOW22/07/17 01:17 AM
1

Alright, I'm starting to see with the age and chat profile etc... I assumed it had some profile with user images etc. Way too much work if I can't even see them first.
/r/MGTOW21/07/17 05:28 PM
0

Yeah, I don't even see anyone sharing selfies. I've literally never used it and thought it was just for making shitty text overlays.
/r/MGTOW21/07/17 05:20 PM
1

Could you elaborate? I thought whisper was just for talentless fucks to easily make shitty memes
/r/MGTOW21/07/17 05:15 PM
3

And precisely how does someone learn that this behavior yields results? She probably was distressed, but people paying attention to this horseshit is the only reason she's learned to act this way in the first place.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/06/17 05:26 PM
0

lol
/r/seduction05/06/17 04:37 PM
27

Her "crying" is so forced it's embarrassing. She sounds like a fucking two year old.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/06/17 03:37 PM
2

You're missing out on some of the best sex of your life.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 10:35 PM
1

Because you're wasting your time "pretending" instead of actively cultivating a lifestyle that leads to your own improvement. People probably think you're a douchebag. And from what you're describing, they're probably right.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 04:38 PM
2

I've hit a point where n-count of my plates doesn't bother me in the least. That's why they're in my bed, after all. That being said, the TRP definition of what makes a good LTR partner, I find incredibly boring. Those good girls just don't do it for me. Guess I'll just keep spinning.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 07:01 PM
1

When you make it obvious that you're not going to judge women for being transparent about subjects most men would cringe at, it makes it much easier for them to open up to you. The RP truths come pouring out.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 06:58 PM
3

I'm a 32yo recovering alcoholic. I wish I could offer you some really solid key advice here, but it was really the same as anything else. I got very very sick one day, and after spending 16 days bedridden, vomiting and suffering the DTs, enough was enough. When I recovered, I had lost 27 lbs and looked grey-skinned and sickly. But I got myself back in the gym, used the work ethic and dedication I had learned there to build myself back up, and used the hard reset to work things up properly. I'm n…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 09:42 AM
5

Honestly I wouldn't say so. I'm 32, and as I age I actually am more likely to become attached to a woman I have great sexual chemistry with. My desire to chase down every new piece of tail I see has waned a bit, mediocre encounters seem a lot more hollow than they used to, but I'm actually way more likely to put effort into following up with a girl these days....if the sex was good.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 04:35 AM
33

If this is truly written by a female then she is one in a million. I have never met a woman this self aware. Really? Women are this honest with me all the time. Create a non-judgemental frame, make sure they know they have nothing to lose, and these truths just come pouring out.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 04:28 AM
1

Meh. At its simplest, it's an old-school "neg." Not something i've ever intentionally set out to use, but it's definitely a good-natured tease. I'm having trouble envisioning a situation where teasing someone for being bad at beer pong ends up with them actually being insulted.
/r/seduction20/02/17 09:49 PM
1

TOTALLY depends, this would be an easy thing to spin into playful teasing. A lot of it is in the tone of how it's initially said. I've recovered from a lot worse.
/r/seduction20/02/17 08:34 PM
1

You hold frame. If she is so set on marriage, and that's not our interest, it won't work. And that's okay.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 07:44 AM
1

Yes. She's saying that you seem too comfortable in the relationship as-is and is pushing you to commit further. At the very least it's a comfort test.
/r/askTRP18/02/17 07:03 AM
4

She's talking about as you relate to her. Your attitude towards work, your social life, or anything that doesn't include her is completely irrelevant to her. She's talking about her feelings regarding your attitude toward your relationship/her comfort.
/r/askTRP18/02/17 03:16 AM
2

The points you state very simply here are lost on a good portion of this subreddit. I'm glad to see as time goes by, a lot more levelheaded users like yourself really letting their points be known.
/r/askTRP18/02/17 03:13 AM
1

I'm also angry at something else. Why the flying fuck do I have to improve myself? For others? Because Rockefeller, Tinder, Internet, femisim activits or whoever the fuck made the world what it is today? Fuck that. I should not be improving myself. Admitting I must improve myself is a defeat. I'm sorry, I didn't realize what a snowflake I was speaking to. You reference all the same tawdry bullshit as any other disillusioned fuckwit on here who makes excuses instead of doing the work. Rockefeller…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 11:03 PM
5

Not necessarily a strict meditation regimen, but some kind of regular activity that allows for frequent introspection, is absolutely essential for your development as a man. For me, these activities are camping/hiking solo, and my daily ventures to the gym/swimming. Throwing on headphones and ignoring the outside world, paying attention only to your body, is underrated as far as its zen importance, if you ask me.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 04:10 AM
2

Hardcore anger phase. If this lasts, it's unhealthy, but we all felt it when we began realizing the true nature of women. You are very self-aware in saying that you hate them because you cannot get them. You are very aware of your own inadequacies, and this spurs your hatred of the "unattainable" women that are a physical manifestation of these inadequacies. Your answer is simple to state and incredibly difficult to accomplish, and it is the chief tenet at the core of TRP: you must improve yours…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:32 AM
2

im trying to make time Hamstering. Do or do not, there is no try. You make going to the gym a priority. Your day simply does not start until you've been to the gym. ....or, you don't. It's a matter of priorities.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 08:33 AM
1

"Male shit testing" is otherwise known as AMOGing and there is a lot of material available in the seduction community about the practical side of how to deal with it. However, what you've intuited here is that AMOGing is in fact a highly beta action - borne from insecurity. This is important to note - what you've identified as a *"BP-alpha"** action is in fact inherently low-value*. As with all shit tests, the best answer is simply to hold frame and ignore. This is simply someone picking at you.…
/r/askTRP07/02/17 08:30 AM
26

31-year-old checking in. Recently, I went for longer than two weeks without getting laid for the first time since I lost my virginity at 16. I haven't been "on a date" since my last LTR 3 years ago, and even before her, the closest I've gotten to a "date" is meeting for drinks first. That's basically the Millenial version of a date now anyway -- the bar has successfully been lowered. Don't waste your money.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 05:03 AM
1

yes.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 08:31 PM
1

I make a game out of it. "You can be my trash queen." I've used that line multiple times. It works.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 11:48 PM
1

Lighten up. Say it humorously, and it's actually a funny burn. It's not like she's aggressive and serious when she talks shit to you about not getting pussy, right?
/r/askTRP01/02/17 10:04 PM
13

Women love to start with sex when probing boundaries. This is a MASSIVELY profound statement, and warrants in-depth discussion on its own.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 09:39 PM
1

Goddamn, do I not miss being in a relationship. I used to think a lot of TRP-branded monk mode stuff was horseshit, but the longer I'm single, the better my life really is. I couldn't tell you the last time I had to worry about "getting in a fight" or even care whatsoever about another person's feelings.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 06:47 PM
1

I've never added a girl on snapchat. In my experience, they add you on snap pretty soon after the confirmation text exchange ("nice meeting you tonight," irl or soon after the number exchange via Tinder, etc.) Not 100% on if this indicates high interest or if girls really just use social media that much that it is commonplace to just add someone new as soon as you get their number. I have a whole other theory about Snapchat's place in flirting. Simply because of its casual place in the social me…
/r/seduction28/01/17 07:12 AM
2

"Text for only logistics" is a good guideline for inexperienced men who would otherwise gab away and ruin attraction. However, for this to be effective, you must have created massively high interest in the first place. In my experience (as a very fit, reasonably attractive man - I get a lot of initiation), this is not super common. I get a lot of initial interest, but using Tinder as an example, if I try and rush straight to a meetup within the recommended 5 or so texts, I have a very high flake…
/r/seduction26/01/17 07:07 PM
17

Naw, that's last-ditch ASD. I sit on the floor next to her. It makes for very natural kino into a kiss and then, you're already a step closer to getting "dirty." Pull her onto your lap and go for it.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 05:21 PM
2

Oh god, my ex used to pull this shit all the time. Now my only priority is me.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 04:26 AM
4

This is very useful. I do review my old texts from time to time (usually to try and identify where things went right in a particularly successful interaction) but this has given me a tangible, useful set of guidelines to use to analyze those interactions, particularly the failed ones. Thank you, OP.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 05:46 PM
6

Seems pretty obvious to me that there's another guy involved. You're not the "in" flavor at the moment, so off she goes, with some bs rationalization. Expect to hear from her in a bit when things with this guy go south.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 04:47 PM
2

It's a fear of being AMOG'd, really. I don't blame you, but that obscure, remote possibility is something you just must live with, unless you're going to date a virgin. I get the feeling you're somewhat younger - these situations, and fears, all but disappeared in my life after high school/early college years.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 09:52 PM
1

....you've never even met the dude? I was under the assumption this was a guy who was just in your mutual extended social circle. It seems from other replies that you've already got your mind made up (with a solid course of action) but please, OP, learn from this. Everything you have to say about this situation has red flags raising like iwo jima out of it. You don't say how long you two have been together, but she very deliberately has been hanging out with this guy - this ex - without you for …
/r/askTRP12/01/17 09:49 PM
2

The response to #7 is brilliant.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 07:27 PM
1

Do you care about your relationship with your friend? Cos this is a great way to fuck that up. If you don't, go for it. But no pussy is worth destroying a good friendship. To go for her in the face of this indicates a serious lack of abundance.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 09:08 PM
9

Obviously. This comment was saying not to let her know that he is aware of her infidelity. Just ghost on the relationship so she is tortured, turning over and over again in her mind what she could have done (that he knows about) to fuck things up. If he never responds or acknowledges her this will fuck her up severely. Brutal, but effective.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 09:02 PM
11

"Learn the rules, before you break them." The more I improve, the more I realize that so many of these steadfast "rules" of the seduction community are really just recited rote because they keep newbies from saying too much or mask their obvious lack of confidence when saying things like this that need to be delivered boldly to be effective. I'm losing count of the rules I've I can get away with breaking at this point. If you are confident and your SMV is high enough, you can let pretty much any…
/r/seduction10/01/17 08:56 PM
1

Small Northeastern US sea town. Not NYC or Boston or LA or anything crazy.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 01:12 AM
2

I'm 31 and bang shitty 22-yr-olds on the reg....because I'm forced to be in a bar 6 days a week. Quit complaining and go out more.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 05:34 PM
1

One decent beer ~ $4-$7 plus tip one soda water ~ $0-1 plus tip
/r/askTRP05/01/17 08:48 PM
6

I am a career bartender who is five months sober (basically unheard of) I spend my entire life in bar scenarios so going sober was no easy task. The best advice I can give is just GET USED to being in these same situations while not drinking. I noticed immediately that it took much longer to get "on/in state" without alcohol. Without the social lubricant it took longer to loosen up and feel comfortable. Accept that it will be this way for a while. I'm in the environment nightly and it's only jus…
/r/askTRP30/12/16 08:18 PM
1

Someone's still in the anger phase. When you actually become confident in yourself, you'll no longer have this impulse. By then you'll have learned that it never quite works that way, and wouldn't matter to her even a bit in the end, anyway.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 07:25 AM
5

Trust me, those girls respond to RP tactics MORE than your average white-bread chick. It's almost comical. Sure, they'll shit-test hard, but when you blow through it they're yours for the pickin'. Source: Recovering hipster turned bodybuilder-type. In actuality, I probably get shit-tested even harder for still dressing the part but with a nice body and short, well-groomed hair.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 09:21 PM
2

I used to think that was average too. Turns out we're actually on the pretty big side. Not porn big, mind you, but definitely above average.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 06:27 AM
13

The popular notion of "The Wall"revenge fantasy itself is almost entirely a resentful beta construct. It is largely something we notice based on our priorities, not women, and provides an easy out for frustrated men. People here like to imagine it will be this defining crash that utterly shatters a woman's sense of self and leaves them devastated. The truth is that women only gradually become aware of it as male attention begins to wane and focus elsewhere, and they're able to rationalize away 9…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 06:42 PM
21

I've had a very similar experience. It's all about broadcasting intent. What kind of openers are you using on these girls?
/r/askTRP21/12/16 09:54 PM
3

Make a new completely private FB account and use that to link to the apps. I did this for Tinder and it has worked just fine. Just make sure that the active default image on this FB account is not of you.
/r/seduction20/12/16 11:54 PM
1

I've experienced this a bit. Ive been told I have a "reputation" in my area, and while many girls will snarkily say something about this while rubbing my thigh, quite a few will say some variant of "I've heard about you" while cutting things short. I just say meh and move on.
/r/seduction20/12/16 11:53 PM
1

I've learned that any time I have to put words in there to explicitly convey something like that, I already lose simply by stating it. Saying you are outcome independent only proves that you are not.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 04:55 AM
3

This isn't a shit test, this is you failing to establish frame as someone who is not going to commit and will be seeing multiple women.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 04:52 AM
12

I had this problem when I quit drinking. At first it was "Oh, come one, just have a shot!" Then it was, "You're SURE you don't want a drink?" Then finally down to certain people who would tell me "How boring I am now" despite still going to the same places with the same people, just with a clear head and able to remember all the antics everyone else had fogged straight out of their brain. These were friends doing this, too. Acquaintances who found out were generally supportive and often full of …
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 07:17 PM
7

No dude, she's bringing you to her social circle to show you off. So that she can brag to her friends that she is valuable enough to have snagged a prime stud, still in his youth. She values you so highly that she is using you to reflect on her own value. Keep that mindset, you were slipping already!
/r/askTRP05/11/16 07:17 PM
4

If you have to lie it just means your actual life isn't interesting enough.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 01:08 AM
2

This article is super informative, thank you
/r/askTRP04/11/16 07:04 PM
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20% more? Do you have some kind of documentation for this? That's an insane number.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 03:47 PM
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I actually quite agree with /u/W_O_M_B_A_T I found myself in a position where I despised an ex for her actions, to the point that I used thoughts of her and her new lover as motivation in the gym. It might have been helpful or even healing at the time, but in the end, holding onto that seething hatred only damages you. She's going to keep on being the same person, piece of shit or otherwise, whether or not you feel a blinding hatred for her. In the wake of my breakup, I learned to accept respons…
/r/askTRP29/10/16 06:16 PM
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men's value is in their commitment. Women are constantly seeking to lock down a high-value man. you were not offering her the commitment she desired. So she looked elsewhere. If she is truly just a plate, then this is not cheating. If she is truly just a plate, you shouldn't have any problem with this, and in fact should wish her well, and thank the other guy who's taking the bullet for you.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 12:25 AM
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I'm 31 and despite being a "side gig," it's both a significant source of income and a significant source of pussy. Prepare to learn first hand exactly what social proof really is when they entire room is by necessity vying for your attention.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 07:05 PM
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It is very, very hard coming out if a relationship with someone with a personality disorder like BPD. You've been manipulated into essentially being her caretaker, and you're liable to feel massively guilty in the immediate aftermath. Don't let traditional TRP creed keep you from letting yourself feel the emotional effects of this breakup, and under no circumstances are you to keep in touch with her family -- they will guilt you like nothing you've ever experienced. This relationship was likely …
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 06:58 PM
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ALWAYS UPDATE YOUR TINDER PROFILE to something like "In town for the weekend, what's good?" WHEN TRAVELING. It makes women behave much like when they're on vacation -- "he'll be gone in a few days, what does it matter?" It also gives you plenty to discuss to build quick rapport before meeting up, and an excuse to hang out ("show me around?") It should also be noted that if you match with a girl who has something similar in her bio, you're golden. Be direct and authoritative. PS -- this is why yo…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 09:02 PM
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Great point. I'll be honest - my memory is not the best. However, I constantly inquire about what people are telling me in conversation, and however much information I absorb, it instills them with the impression that I care about what they are saying, am interested in them and their experiences, and wish to know more (which is usually quite true). Either way, asking questions leaves a lasting impression, and the other person comes away with a memorable interaction. I think if your friend is com…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 06:34 PM
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Beyer Dynamics are a hidden gem among studio monitor phones.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 06:07 PM
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Great post. This is a very, very important concept to remember. No matter how confident or "alpha" a man, it can still be a bit of an ego blow when you realize you're just another dick to her, even when you're not terribly invested. This is precisely what we are setting up when we establish relationships of this dynamic -- it is in fact the goal we're striving for in "plating" women, and we need to remember that it goes both ways. I've experienced this recently, with more than one regular hookup…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 05:36 PM
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I wonder if OP can even squat two plates I chuckled way too hard at this.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 11:45 PM
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I found this post inspiring for about a paragraph before I realized it was absolutely devoid of content. Seriously dude, you might as well have reposted an Instagram photo about "WOLVES LEADING THE SHEEP" or some shit.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 03:50 PM
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The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
/r/askTRP01/05/16 08:25 PM
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This chick is going to distance herself and just when I get that first tinge of :( she's going to come rushing back in with affection, kisses, hugs, food and good sex Not from what you described here. Yes, getting rid of her is in your best interest, but you still have handled this like a whining beta. You're on the right track though. Just keep it up and don't cave. The hardest part of becoming the man you need to be is staying consistent and not caving to the urge of easy, lazy behavior.
/r/askTRP01/05/16 08:22 PM
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Part of being Red Pill is being a man of your word. If you say you are going to do something, you do it. If part of being Red Pill is READING THE FUCKING SIDEBAR ONCE, BP fag. Then you'd at least know what a Machiavellian trait is lol
/r/askTRP26/04/16 09:36 PM
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lol no it's not I'm glad you manufactured your own definition though Next time try reading the sidebar, at least once
/r/askTRP26/04/16 09:33 PM
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Oh yeah I forgot that Ghandi was drowning in pussy! Thanks for the reminder.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 09:32 PM
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Yeah, welcome to TRP, buddy.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 09:31 PM
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Everyone here can have their own stance on the issue, but the true answer has long been stated in the sidebar. "The Red Pill is sexual strategy, and strategy is amoral." If you don't want to cheat, don't cheat. It's your decision to make.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 08:01 PM
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No, I agree that girls who would just brag about it for their own gain (to a suitor, etc) are on the wrong side of things. I've had women try to "game" me that way and it reeks of a) desperation and b) a fundamental misunderstanding of the sexual marketplace. (Example: the bisexual girl who claimed all men are terrible at eating pussy but sucking dick is simple in a bar argument, gave me BY FAR the worst head I've ever received. She was a stripper by the way sooo.) Men who can claim of sexual co…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 04:56 PM
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Also it helps if you can keep your fucking mouth shut about it. It's one thing for a girl to get kinky for her man, it's a whole other thing for people to know she's kinky. Perception being more important than reality is a staple of the female brain, don't play with that fire unless you don't mind getting burned by it. I totally disagree on this last point. My last several longterm plates/LTRs have reveled in me bragging of our exploits. It feeds into a few things - your not being afraid to be o…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 02:57 PM
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Read the sidebar, don't make someone quote it for you.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 04:22 AM
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This video is horrifying. I have an ex who I could see turning into this woman exactly: very attractive, somewhat vapid, aspiring social-media whore. She was pregnant with a new guy two months after our five-year relationship ended. Wonder if something "went wrong" with her birth control, too. I didn't know this kind of "celebrity" existed....she spends the first four minutes talking about social media.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 06:51 PM
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You're referring to this as a "second date." You never had her alone to begin with. You failed to even vet her for interest by isolating. This never got anywhere from the jump.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 05:36 PM
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Women can play any game just as well as men. The game might need to be changed to be less sexist, but men and women are definitely equal 100%. All animals are equal. Some animals are more equal than others.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 04:57 PM
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had a shot If someone needs to tell you this, you're doing it wrong.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 04:54 PM
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Your problem is in thinking that you had a desireable frame at any point in this interaction. You botched this from the very beginning.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 04:32 PM
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THIS, my friends, is an example of where meditation can really help becoming a fully-realized man. Before meditation, I would have followed the first 80% of this example...then during her venting, lost my cool, said something wrong, and the entire situation would have escalated. The more you learn to be at peace with yourself and your surroundings, and take responsibility for your own anger/impatience, the more coolly you will be able to "let things roll off your back," the more capably you will…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 05:01 PM
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Read my history if you must, I don't stick to RP theory rigidly at all. I just think you're being a dunce for agonizing over this when this girl isn't even your GF. If you want the RP version it's "disappear without a trace so that when you're bored in 6 months and want a quick bang she'll likely be receptive." But she's not your GF, so you don't need to tell her you don't want to see her anymore. You don't need to say a thing, and it's not going to destroy her. You don't owe her anything, and s…
/r/askTRP17/03/16 12:32 AM
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Why are you so convinced she's going to feel like shit? No one is telling you to go out of your way to "make her feel like shit." Dude, at this point you're just refusing to get it. You learn to be unapologetic to yourself. You have had to rationalize six ways to sunday about a decision you seem firm making. Why? Who are you trying to convince you're not a bad guy? No one gives a shit. Your problem is that you are just fundamentally opposed to prioritizing yourself. You're conditioned to sacrifi…
/r/askTRP16/03/16 03:27 PM
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It's a mature realization, dealing with your own bitterness. Don't let it get in your way.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 04:23 PM
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I still say you are overthinking things. In a "breakup" someone is always left feeling bad. It's part of life, dude. What you have to learn is to be unapologetic for prioritizing your feelings over those of another person. If they're going to be out of your life soon, why are you prioritizing their feelings (over which you have no control) over your own happiness? You are keeping yourself from being happy.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 04:20 PM
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Honestly? You're giving wayyyy to much of a fuck about her feelings here when you really want out. If you can't muster up the courage to say something, just fucking ghost. Don't return texts, don't meet up any longer, just fucking don't. You're overthinking shit in this situation. As far as going forward....grow a fucking spine. You can't say "no" because you are valuing other peoples' feelings above your own. Knock that shit off.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 02:10 PM
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Spot-on.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 01:32 AM
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"Monk mode" is horseshit. Originally, this only existed for SUCCESSFUL men who had grown tired of the effort it takes to game women, and decided to eschew the whole thing for a bit. In truth, on this board it has mostly come to stand for pussies who couldn't get their dick wet to save their life, and need another excuse to not get into the real world and approach women. Realistically, if you don't have much experience right now and you shoot right for grade-A pussy, you're going to bomb, hard. A…
/r/askTRP15/03/16 01:32 AM
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1) The single most important thing you can do to change how women perceive you is to get in the gym and take care of your appearance (wardrobe, grooming, haircut.) Hand-in-hand with this is taking notice of your posture. You will notice this change very quickly so long as you are actually going out and attempting to talk to women. 2) You use the phrase "how women respond." Changing your physical appearance only opens a door for you – unless you are very physically attractive, simply looking nice…
/r/askTRP14/03/16 04:10 PM
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What, did you think he was invincible? Did it break your little heart to see the UFC's flavor of the week lose? It happens in this sport more than most others. You're right in that you obviously placed too much emphasis on this if it actually affected you this much....but plenty of MEN are into sports, dude. Plenty of men get really into their team and spend time learning about their teams, betting, drop money on tickets, etc. I don't think this has anything to do with "living vicariously" throu…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 04:05 AM
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I've had this happen a few times. Opened with "lol" nothing more, waited. It was like 70% success rate from there
/r/askTRP27/02/16 08:28 AM
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I think a lot of first-time attendees have this misconception that the guys at a BJJ or MMA gym are going to be these intimidating, macho douchebags. When in reality my experience is more that they're some of the most laid-back dudes I've ever met.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 08:44 PM
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There's no particular method that's going to "build more muscle for BJJ," but it will behoove you to intelligently choose what muscle groups you want to tone, and what you want to add size to. Be careful about where you're adding your size, mostly. I've been training BJJ for about five years and have found: Powerful back, delts, and tri's will be very useful for collar control from the guard and overall position control. Thighs being too big can make triangle chokes and body triangles difficult,…
/r/askTRP17/02/16 08:36 PM
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Intellectually I know you're 100% right. I knew it anyway. It's just in my head since I hadn't seen her once since the breakup until they walked in mid-squat. I'm overly concerned with not appearing like a chump and that's on me. Just going to keep working harder.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 04:29 PM
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Been there. Not for me.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 06:12 AM
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You're right. Thanks.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 04:27 AM
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Heh. All natty for me, thanks. I've spent the past two years busting my ass with ~35 lbs of muscle to show for it; that's good so far in my book. I wouldn't mind out-lifting him (seems like we're at pretty similar levels actually) but I'm not going to be outwardly aggressive and classically AMOG him or anything. To me that seems more butt hurt, and it's not my style.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 04:23 AM
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No. Just a thirty year old man who dates women I actually respect.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 01:17 AM
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Jesus a lot of the advice in this thread is reprehensible. Listen, TRP at large is about being a man. It sounds like she is a good girl and you really care for her. So BE A MAN. Be there to support her. It's going to be hard and truth be told your relationship may not survive the psychological damage she has incurred by this horrifying, traumatic experience, but if you are an honorable hardworking person who believes in their own judgement you should give this woman a chance and be there while y…
/r/askTRP04/02/16 10:52 AM
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lol
/r/MensRights04/02/16 09:07 AM
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1) no one believes any of this bullshit Seriously, my first thoughts reading this; BS alarm on high
/r/askTRP04/02/16 08:57 AM
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You're an idiot.
/r/MensRights02/02/16 11:32 AM
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....I didn't mention burping at all...?
/r/askTRP19/01/16 08:05 AM
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Not to mentioning essentially regurgitating "Sidebar 101" with zero elaboration or profound understanding.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 04:59 PM
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It's like dating an NPC. I laughed entirely too hard at this.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 08:50 PM
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This post is incredibly self-aware. It's rare that I truly appreciate the first-person "my-TRP-Journey" posts on here, but yours is intelligently written, very self-reflective, and can serve to help inspire some on their own journey. Kudos on your progress and improvement, my man.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 08:12 PM
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Are you speaking about lounging around or that she puts less effort into looking good while being out and about with you? If it's the latter, it's because she feels she "has" you so to speak. Does it matter? If I'm going to LTR a girl, it is someone I want to find worthy and exciting at all times. Certainly, going out can be the metric for extreme dolling-up, but if she starts dipping below standards at home that's a way bigger problem for me. I don't give a shit what face she wants to put on fo…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 07:45 PM
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BPD is a personality disorder and as such is treated mainly with therapy, not (solely) medication. It's also not typically characterized by manic episodes. As far as the n-count - we've never had a discussion about it. I have independently verified it. But that's not a point of focus for me at all at this point.
/r/askTRP
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low (verified) n-count You looked under the hood at the secret counter? She's been with three women and two men braids myself. She didn't tell me this, I've confirmed it. In this day and age that's basically a virgin. It's as simple as anything else, you just have to get over your hangup about fighting this manipulation tactic. If she broke a leg and wanted you to constantly fetch items for her, would you allow that? no, of course. You'd reasonably accomodate but she'd still have to be a respect…
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