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12	people on reddit always say things like "with that attitude no wonder you're a virgin/single" and "women are repulsed by you because you're a terrible person" but how much of it is true? no. anyone who talks like that is projecting insecurity onto others. smugness is the desperation of needing other people to believe they are wise, intelligent, witty, or savvy. the qualities that somebody attacks about other people reveals much about themselves. someone who mocks virginity once felt very badly about being or having been a virgin, and when they see others in the same position, putting them down allows them to distance themselves from it. if they think it'll hurt your feelings, it…	/r/seduction	02/07/22 09:27 AM
2	Is being bold a smart thing to do? I was in the same position, didn't realize I liked her until a certain point after five years, and just went ahead and asked if I could talk to her about something serious for a moment. It went great for me. She later showed me texts where she talked about it with her friend and her friend thought it was hot. where im gonna ask her if she likes anyone and if she asks me if i like anyone id be bold and just tell her that im looking at the person I like.. Right spirit, wrong execution. Don't try t…	/r/seduction	12/05/22 03:45 PM
0	Getting called annoying is often a good sign Of course. Boundaries aren't meant to keep them safe, or comfortable, or happy, they're meant to keep you out because they hate you specifically. And how dare they build that kind of prison for you, specifically? I own a girlfriend - she asked me to stop screaming obscenities in her ear whenever she looked at other people, so I cooked pennies in my frying pan and threw them at her every morning until she stopped trying to stop my hustle trajectory. That's a free tip from the sigmalpha, make sure…	/r/seduction	23/04/22 04:50 PM
3	Got rejected by more than 5 girls in a clubs, what am I doing wrong I worked in a sales job recently. Door to door. Realized it was a manipulative MLM pyramid after two days and dipped. The people I shadowed were REALLY GOOD at sales though (for a pretty competetive high-demand product) and I can tell you this: We went to around 60 houses on the 1st day. About 12 opened the door, and 3 were sales. We went to 41 houses on the 2nd day. About 11 opened the door, and only 1 was a sale. 5 people is not numbers. Hooking up at a bar is much the same in some ways. You c…	/r/seduction	01/04/22 09:46 PM
6	The "I Have A Boyfriend" Excuse - What To Say (+Infield) Okay thank god this is the first comment I see. It's like a life raft after reading all that. I felt like I was having a stroke.	/r/seduction	03/02/22 08:06 AM
1	Lost my virginity but couldn’t “finish” How long did it take to notice a difference?	/r/seduction	06/12/21 09:18 AM
77	If you’re very excited to meet this girl should you suppress it in order to appear cool and masculine? No. Hiding your emotions is insecure, not 'cool' or 'masculine'. It deceives the other person about who you are and implies that your true feelings are less valuable or embarassing. If you're excited, express it to whatever degree you feel is appropriate. I like acting like a goofball and I don't feel obliged to impress other people. I get excited spending time with people I like. I love it when girls giggle and call me a dork and an idiot. I can't think of anything more miserable than changing …	/r/seduction	03/12/21 04:19 PM
3	why do so many dating books recommended you just approach random girls? There are cultures that vary on how easy or even acceptable it is to talk to total strangers in certain environments, but ultimately it comes down to the individual. Depending on the environment, you might find it more or less common - but there will always be people, no matter what, who enjoy interacting with strangers. This is why people are encouraged not to be afraid of rejection, platonic or sexual or romantic or otherwise - sometimes you will meet someone who just doesn't wanna fucking dea…	/r/seduction	11/10/21 01:39 AM
1	[deleted by user] So one thing to keep in mind when choosing advice to follow is that this sub sometimes doesn't differentiate between 'cute' relationships and 'sexy' relationships. Not official terms in the slightest, but dealing with someone you have feelings and respect for can be different than with a stranger you want to entice and thrill, and sometimes John Nightgame will be quick to act like everythig is the latter. With friends and emotions, honest communication is sometimes the best you can do. My first …	/r/seduction	08/10/21 10:42 PM
3	Mental game ruined by small penis. What's the point of all this? You don't wanna dissapoint them. You don't want them to reject you. But you can't control how they feel. Maybe someone would be dissapointed. Maybe someone would reject you. Maybe someone would mock you or put you down. I'm not going to pretend those people don't exist. Fine, fuck it, let them - that just means you learned they have unrealistic expectations, or that they care a lot about a very trivial thing beyond your control, or that they're insecure assholes. You can control yourself. You de…	/r/seduction	01/10/21 12:23 AM
10	I’m really upset about how my first experience pursuing a women went and I feel lead on Yeah that's some abnormally two-faced bullshit. You are better off without her. It's unfair, it's okay to be upset that it was unfair. Accept the hurt, ride it out, and know that you deserve to walk away from this more than she deserves a second chance. The trick is not to invest yourself so much into other people. I'm not saying "don't ever be vulnerable again", that's actually the most dangerous reaction to emotional hurt. But make sure to understand and acknowledge - you can walk away from an…	/r/seduction	26/09/21 02:03 PM
1	From a fellow autist - flirting tips that actually work! Hey chief I found this while looking for general socialization advice and it's really good. I wanna ask, what do you consider to be the difference between 'witty' and 'funny'?	/r/seduction	24/09/21 05:33 AM