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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Might be divorcing. I'm alone, not doing well. Not sure what to do. Please help. | Significant-Air-2302 | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/23 03:34 PM |
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| 2 | Ex wife jealous?Live your own life. She won't change, specially if you go back to her, the message you're sending her is " you treat me like sh*t and I'll still be there for you and love you" Respect yourself, love yourself even more than the love you feel for her. You come first. She's obviously upset you started going on dates because she's angry you might be over her, she just wants the attention and the "opportunity " of having you as back up. Don't be that back up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Wife’s new 23 year old bfHang in there. I know it's difficult by try to focus on yourself and the kids. Unfortunately she's no longer your responsibility in any way shape or form other than the mother of your kids. That's it. Whatever she does on any other areas of her life other than being a good mother doesn't matter anymore. Focus that anger resentment or hurt on yourself. Change that energy into something useful, hit the gym, think of activities for your kids, be the best version of yourself in many shapes and forms… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/23 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Wife Blames me for everythingDamn, she will continue to blame you because she's shown you there's no remorse, no accountability, no emotional responsibility, and that's OK she can go to therapy and fix it show you she truly values you, your opinion and relationship but if she doesn't then it's time to move on. I'm here if you wanna talk, man. We need to support each other as men, because only as men we view things differently and know the abuse we've gone through. Women will rare own up to it and that's also ok, we can't fo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/23 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Wife Blames me for everythingI feel you, brother. I wasn't able to stand up for myself for years. My wife gaslighted me several times until recently I just decided not to pit up with it anymore. She yelled at me, hit (with a pillow) I know it doesn't physically hurt but emotionally man it breaks you. When you choose yourself before others and end the aid and attention you were giving them and place healthy limits they get angry and upset because they were taking advantage of you. That's what I learned from my marriage. Wife… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/23 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Might be divorcing. I'm alone, not doing well. Not sure what to do. Please help.Thanks. Basically I've supported her through everything. Once we moved and she started working as a model she started posting pics in underwear. I told her I wasn't ok with it she gaslighted me and said I was insecure ( I wasnt) years later she is no longer a model, she's a tattoo artist, she has an ig for her business and another for her personal account. She has a few pics in her personal one in underwear or suggestive poses (what I consider) I placed limits I am not ok with that, told her to … | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/23 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Might be divorcing. I'm alone, not doing well. Not sure what to do. Please help.I agree and that hurts. I'm dealing with that. We have agreed to couple's therapy and to a third opinion to maybe work something out where we both are ok. She agreed to that. But yes deep inside I do feel like it's a momentary solution, and eventually she will just end it, but let's see what happens at least I'm trying if she decides to end it, it's her choice and I tried everything. At least I'll go with that satisfaction. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/23 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Might be divorcing. I'm alone, not doing well. Not sure what to do. Please help.I won't share that, it's personal info. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/23 10:47 PM |
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