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Attractive men don’t waste time with women they find unattractive. Why? Because there are hundreds of attractive women in the vicinity. They will do a quick lay sure but they are not taking someone they don’t find attractive on a date, gifts, etc. That would make them…. Silly…. If he takes you on a date then the door is open to get him to like his date. It’s up to her to grab the opportunity and walk through the door before he shuts it and only opens his “bedroom” door.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:20 PM
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Lol Yes looks I care less about if he has other great qualities. I am 23 and in a prime time to go after the best I can fall in love with. I want the best for myself. I think I would do myself a disservice to settle down with someone I don’t respect so early. (I tend to only respect men in 20%)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:16 PM
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Marriage is first and foremost a business agreement. So if you are smart when writing a prenup, cheating or no, you can mitigate your losses and risks with a thoughtful plan. Avoiding marriage is a personal choice however it can be used to an advantage. Especially when considering inheritances, life insurance, taxes, and quality of life. Example: a woman is unlikely to be a stay at home if she isn't protected legally. But having one could improve your quality life. Just like anything it is situa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:14 PM
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Again, I listen to James Sexton and other lawyers and they have more factual insights on prenups. I intend to be married. If you don't, power to you. However, this community tends to spread nasty or incorrect facts which I am trying to avoid in case someone happens to see this thread. I also know a good amount of successful people and they are all married. Prenups do not mean you don't lose a lot of money. It means you lose the amount of money you agreed to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:47 PM
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I could care less what you do with your assets. My post is about how I want to get married and you are doubling down on the incorrect belief that pre-nups are not effective. They are definitely effective or else so many successful people wouldn't be married. The prenups that go well aren't heard about because humans have a negativity bias. People only remember when it didn't work and in those situations there is almost always a lack of foresight or just plain bad decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:03 PM
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What are you talking about…. If a man finds you attractive then he finds you attractive. He will marry a girl he is attracted to. So as long as he is attracted to me then there is a possibility for more
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:15 PM
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If men my age showed any inclination that they wanted to start a family before 30, I would much much MUCH rather date in my age range. I haven’t met a single one to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:12 PM
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No. Getting married is a huge decision and one I don’t take lightly. My favorite divorce lawyer is James Sexton. Using anecdotal evidence only isn’t a smart way to make a life decision. There are also anecdotes of condoms failing. Does this mean we should all just give up condoms? No. You look at data and research to make a decision. A million dollars isn’t the only thing that makes a man attractive. I don’t even know why you mentioned this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:59 PM
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Personality and other qualifications are factors. I find men of all different leagues have shown attraction to me so as long as attraction is present, with the right personality and etc, it is definitely possible. I am also actively working on making myself a better wife and friend in my daily life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:00 PM
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You are incorrect and relying an anecdotal stories. Pre nups are contracts just like any other. If it was written by a diligent lawyer and signed when not in duress, there are very rare and few situations where it would bee thrown out. Situations that don't apply to in everyday life. Also, it is very easy to lie about a body count. You may want a better measure than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:55 PM
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Men who have one or two things going for them, become players. At least around me. Because there are more women than men (so they say). And yes, of course women want to be with men who have 1 or two things going for them. I don't disagree with red pill men. Women definitely want the top 20%. I don't think it is a bad thing though. It has been this way for a millennia. The best providers/best men were always the most coveted. Just watch Bridgerton lol or any historical film ever. What women do to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:31 PM
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The 45 year old player was a non attractive 20 something at some point. So even if I date a guy my age, he is extremely unlikely to be ready for kids and then when he gets older, if he is ambitious, he will be successful and then what.... want to be a player. I am of the opinion that it is better to settle down with a player when he has already been one for a while rather than a guy that wants to be a player someday. By then I will be what 30-40 with way less bargaining power whereas he will be …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:25 PM
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So should I just keep my expectations low until I lose weight? And just coast through the relationship? Not do anything for him anymore or suggest date ideas? Just go with the flow?
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/24 02:05 PM
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Yes! We are definitely dating
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/24 03:27 AM
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Yes! We are definitely dating.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/24 03:26 AM
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I think you are definitely up there to get a “pass.” Not necessarily for a harem lol I don’t encourage more partners because it is a can of worms. I know this because this guy friend I am talking about is actually my boyfriend. I resent him sometimes and other times I can understand his perspective. Thank you for sharing. It is very nice as I don’t have people in real life to ask these questions to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:08 AM
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Actually I have one more question actually. From the sound if it you are what this community calls a “high value man” . (Meaning you have wealth, looks, intelligence, or personality or all of these.) Do you still want to be monogamous going forward? Do you think money has changed your thoughts on having multiple partners etc? Do you feel like you have “earned” it so to speak? To be surrounded by beautiful women and settle down but still have side pieces or even two girlfriends/wives. I was told …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 02:45 AM
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Thank you so much! This is so helpful. I was planning to focus on cooking in 2024 but I wanted to make I wasn’t wasting my time. I am college educated and my parents make six figures each. But I make a very low salary right now because I decided to work in advertising. I might switch back to finance though! This is great advice and a great start! I always like to get advice from people who actually have what I want. Not from people who just have opinions. Wishing you all the best!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 02:26 AM
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Are you in you 20’s, 30’s? I also feel like this is a common trope. Either a successful man found his partner before the success and they are together forever. Or only successful women pair with a successful man. I have recently turned 23 and more motivated than ever to make sure I am setting up my life to achieve all my goals. Including a man I love/respect and putting my children in private schools. And having a house with a garden and a spa. (Lol) What do you recommend that I do? Focus on bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 11:42 PM
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Are you in a relationship? If not, what are some things that you look for when SEARCHING for women? (Once you meet someone, feelings should come organically. But, how do you select the people you go on dates with?) There is a lot of narrative that men look for a women who cook, cleans, etc feminine things. But, in my limited experience with very wealthy men, they typically go for women who are equally pretty impressive. Either she was born with an incredible attractive everything or has great ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 10:17 PM
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And when you say women don’t have much to offer that strikes me as a very ….. funny…. thing to say. Women literally bring life into the world. And second, are you measuring women by masculine metrics? Ie money, power, interest? Because if so, there lies the problem. Women think men have a lot of masculine things to offer but very little feminine. It is strange that you say women offer little to offer because there is a plethora. But your life is your own. But I would encourage you to dive deeper…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:02 PM
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Are you sure you like women….? Not sexual attraction but the ability to feel deep love and commitment. Maybe you should explore that a little more. It doesn’t sound like it at all. Also, why are you low balling the other one and favoring the other? Why even call her your gf. It seems clear there is one you like more than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:57 PM
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In response to the other threads from this comment. Women do not value men who sleep around per say. Too many ons and you seem like a red flag littered with std. but this does depend on the kind of women you are around. But the high value comes in with a mans ability to GET sex. Women are selective. Even a woman with a lot of bodies, says/indicates no 90% of the time. So a man that has the charisma/looks/status/wealth/charm to sleep with many women makes him desirable because he must have attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:08 PM
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What led you to desiring 2? Do you take care of them both financially? How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:52 PM
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What do you mean distribute women to men? So do you think the women he is truly with, not just fwb, should be okay with this since its instinctual? Its a womans instinct to want monogamy though. Because it guarantees a father for children and safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:22 AM
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Also this isn’t him being single and dating around. He is in a relationship and every relationship he ever has, he fully believes have side pieces is a natural and reasonable part of being a man. He has earned it by working hard on himself. Now he is adhering to the masculine, biological part of himself that desires socio sexuality. That is his perspective. Im curious if this something most HVM and their partners know and accept. Should women accept this as common knowledge? Am I being naive by …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:41 PM
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I don’t want to change his mind. He is who he is and I respect his honesty. I am asking these questions because I know I want to be with a man I respect and admire. Those men tend to be HVM. And I want to know if I am being a bit naive. I haven’t dated before. And It makes logical sense what he says. But as a woman, it doesn’t make sense emotionally to me. But if this is something that most men understand and agree with then this may be a lesson I need to learn. We see it in movies all the time.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:35 PM
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Great analogy. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:56 PM
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