The title may be slightly misleading. But stick with me.

I know i posted on here a little bit ago. But I want to talk about all these new things and ideas I am being exposed to by my bf.

If a woman is dating a mid 20s intelligent, charismatic, socially competent man who is 6 ft +, fit, handsome, and funny. Great salary job, educated, and a big big provider mindset. He is great in group social settings and when he walks into a room people just naturally…. Move. He commands space and respect naturally. But all this said, he knows he is hot commodity. He is in the 10%. And because of this he doesn’t believe he needs to be monogamous. He thinks monogamy is something that women want and benefit from the most.

He says that it goes against his nature and that women don’t really care about that anyways as long as they are taken care of, shown attention, and affection. So the gf is the one who gets his time and attention but he has other women who are just fwb.

He is transparent about this! Doesn’t lie or cheat.

Is it naive for women to expect monogamy out of a high value man? Especially if they are getting the best treatment of all the women?

HVM have committed to just your wife? Do you feel like you have worked hard enough that you have earned having multiple women?

Men who are not high value only have the choice to be monogamous because he has way less options and still want a relationship. Men who do have option’s don’t have a “scarcity mindset.” —-> is another way to interpret this situation.