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| 8 | Are guys maturing faster than women in the US and that's a problem?I don't think any of the people in this sub are representative of normal people in real life. I've said it before but 8/10 times, it's just people on here trolling or venting, saying dumb stuff they know they'd never say or do in real life. But to answer your question in my dating experience i've noticed the opposite. When I date a lot of women they don't know how to have fun. They go into dates already thinking about the next step, literally planning far into the future on the first date. Meanw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 01:07 AM |
| 2 | 30 yr old, single women in mediocre jobs, shouldn't expect more than average.I said it in another comment on a different post but the issue is main character syndrome. Social media has a lot of people thinking they're more important than they actually are. It reminds me of a scene in Fargo that stays in my head: Gaetano is an Italian mobster who when walking into the coffee shop slips on ice the boy is supposed to be cleaning but isn't. He then orders coffee and it's cold and bland and when he tells the owner he shrugs his shoulders. Gaetano then exclaims something like:… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 01:00 AM |
| 1 | When people say “don’t confess your feelings”, what do they actually mean?That's actually pretty sad and I'm curious to see how long that relationship last if the only thing separating your friends and your fiancé is sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 11:53 PM |
| 3 | When people say “don’t confess your feelings”, what do they actually mean?Bonding. Spending time alone together. Doing special things to show you care for one another that you wouldn't do for someone who's just a friend. Learning about each other. Being vunerable and trusting. Again have you never dated someone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 11:40 PM |
| 3 | When people say “don’t confess your feelings”, what do they actually mean?I don’t want them to confess their feelings because it would make everyone feel bad. So you prefer just for them to feel bad? Because that's what you're suggesting Honest question- what is the difference between a girlfriend and a friend who’s a girl? ....intimacy? Have you never dated before or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 11:29 PM |
| 3 | When people say “don’t confess your feelings”, what do they actually mean?What makes you think I’m failing to comprehend this? Can you comprehend that everything you said just further acknowledges my point? You don’t want them to confess their feelings because it would make you feel bad. Also how damaged are you to conflate wanting to be in a relationship with someone as “having a place to put their penis”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 11:01 PM |
| 3 | When people say “don’t confess your feelings”, what do they actually mean?Usually this is said in the context of a friend who is attracted to another friend confessing they are actually interested in dating them. I will translate it in that assumption: “Please don’t confess your feelings to me because it will ruin the friendship, in the sense that if I reject you, I won’t be able to benefit from the attention and special treatment you give me. You will either start to treat me normally or will distance yourself. I would rather you suffer in silence and figure it out i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 08:37 PM |
| 25 | Are guys maturing faster than women in the US and that's a problem?This is PPD. Anecdotes are basically peer reviewed journals here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 08:33 PM |
| 0 | Let's talk about tables and the evolutionary purpose of sexual attraction.Again if that’s what you want to do then that’s fine. But that’s not objectively true. You aren’t entitled to privileges just because you’re biologically able to do something. If it’s a problem don’t get pregnant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 08:24 PM |
| 0 | Let's talk about tables and the evolutionary purpose of sexual attraction.If that’s what you want that’s fine but that’s objectively not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Let's talk about tables and the evolutionary purpose of sexual attraction.According to the OP be athletic, tall, strong, successful, powerful, authoritative, have confidence and financial stability. Helping unwanted a kid that bad I can go adopt. So again i ask, aside from being able to produce a biological child, what do you bring as a woman that shows your would be good to make a child with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 06:53 PM |
| 2 | I would rather be single than settle for a man.The problem is many people don’t understand the difference between settling and being realistic. Put simply if you’re a 2/10 expecting to get a 10/10 and refuse to settle for a 5/10 you’re gonna be single a while. I also think the “I’m not gonna settle” mindset is a red flag. This means this person has built up their perfect person in their head and then project that onto other people and when those people aren’t able to fit this mold perfectly they get dumped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Let's talk about tables and the evolutionary purpose of sexual attraction.And I answered it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Let's talk about tables and the evolutionary purpose of sexual attraction.Huh? You think just because a woman births a child she’s good for the next 18 year on parental duties? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Let's talk about tables and the evolutionary purpose of sexual attraction.I’m answering the question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 05:07 AM |
| 6 | Let's talk about tables and the evolutionary purpose of sexual attraction.It is based on scientific facts and personal experiences. Not a single scientific fact was presented in this whole post If this was true in any way why does attraction differ so much around then world. Most humans have evolved the same way so why isn’t every culture attracted to the exact same thing? Why is is that in America many women feel they are entitled to men simply for existing while in the Philippines women think they have to be a good home maker and support line for man? To answer your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 09:48 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is worst? Getting blocked or getting purposely ignored? A debate regarding relationshipsI just recently started using the block feature liberally and love it. When people ignore you it means they want to keep open lines of communication or want you to still follow them When they block you you’re dead to them . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 09:42 AM |
| 4 | If the woman you meet is a virgin, what makes you think she’s going to stop being a virgin for you when she hasn’t done so for men she’s dated in the past?Because I’m not other guys…what a weird question. That’s like saying “if a guy hasn’t married other women he’s dated what makes you think he’ll marry you?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 09:38 AM |
| 1 | What's with the huge popularity of polyamory and open relationships at the moment?I think it’s a safety net kind of situation which is why you see it so much in dating apps. I notice (at least from what I can see) there’s always a major imbalance in the 2 people where I suspect it’s one person who is settling for the partner just so they aren’t alone while “ethically” trying to find another partner. The other partner accepts it because they know they’re being settled for and think this situation is better than nothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 04:51 PM |
| 0 | Why do women on dating apps ask what men do for work?If she asks if because the conversation is dying early on it just a conversation starter If the conversation is going well and she asks if out of nowhere I tend to think it’s a way to gauge how much money you make | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 04:48 PM |
| 9 | Men, if you made $1M a year, would you want a bang maid or a 50/50 relationship?I consider taking care of the kids apart of household duties but yes that’s still fine. We’d have minimal household duties to handle anyway because we’d pay someone to do them for us, in order to free up our time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 02:32 AM |
| 14 | Men, if you made $1M a year, would you want a bang maid or a 50/50 relationship?I pick 2 with zero hesitation. I'd probably be exhausted from work to and would probably spend that energy playing with my kids, helping them with homework, mentoring etc. $250k a year would be more than enough to make sure we have the ability to experience the world as a family, eat the best foods, wear the best clothes, have the best education and be able to afford to let my kids try any hobby. We'd be able to live debt free, likely retitre early and live the good life. Then we can have all th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Prostitution won’t work (change my mind)I actually spoke to someone who was very proud to be a prostitute user and he made a lot of sense. He said when you go to a restaurant and order a steak you're not paying pretending the chef is making you this steak because they care about you in anyway. You're paying because the chef knows how to make a good steak. Sure you could go home and have your wife make you a steak and it might even be good...but it's not gonna be as good as someone who's job it is to make steak. Not enough to convince … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 11:54 PM |
| 3 | Prostitution won’t work (change my mind)Prostitution is open is a very specific place in Thailand but it's definitely not accepted so much as it's tolerated. The vast majority of the women in Thailand that are prostitutes have been shunned by their families and are victims of human trafficking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Prostitution won’t work (change my mind)Affected nothing at all? Have you considered it's way easier to get away with human trafficking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Do You Know a Guy That is Top 5% on Dating App?That’s a ton of investment tbh. 50 super likes is like 40$ isn’t it? Plus a week of platinum is 30$? That’s like 70$ a week for 5 dates not including the time investment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 09:25 PM |
| 4 | Do You Know a Guy That is Top 5% on Dating App?The problem with dating apps is it’s not about how attractive or interesting you are in real life. It’s about knowing how to game the system. When I used tinder I was going on at least 2 dates a week at one point. What I did was every Thursday I would pay for the platinum membership then immediately refund it. That would give me 3 days to swipe on everyone. Problem is the more you swipe the less quality people they show you meaning even if you pay for the app, you actually are penalized for usin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 05:18 PM |
| 9 | All your dating problems come down to one thing....Nah Jockos a little more logical. This is is Goggins all the way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Do you think weaponised incompetence around housework exists? If not, why not? If so, where do you think it comes from?“Weaponized incompetence” at least how I’ve seen it is just another feminist man shaming word that allows women to be victims. Also you’ll notice that if the roles were reversed and a man called out his wife for doing something wrong he’s now an abusive and manipulative husband It’s just another word for feigned ignorance except specifically targeted at men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 03:51 PM |
| – | Your discriminatory opinions about the opposite sex are only as interesting as you areSo what you're saying is people should be more creative with their discriminatory opinions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 12:02 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe mods are on their trolling again removing anything they disagree with claiming “Reddit TOS”. May as well delete this whole sub in that case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Do you think straight men can seduce lesbians or women who have been in exclusively female relationships?What an idiotic statement. That’s equivalent to saying I’m black so I can’t be racist to black people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 04:07 PM |
| -1 | Do you think straight men can seduce lesbians or women who have been in exclusively female relationships?I never said they could either. But at least they admit it was their own opinion. But based on the current political nature in the US you’d be wrong and also homophobic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 03:29 PM |
| 0 | Do you think straight men can seduce lesbians or women who have been in exclusively female relationships?Who are you to define someone else’s sexuality for them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 02:02 PM |
| 0 | Do you think straight men can seduce lesbians or women who have been in exclusively female relationships?Yes. Not really sure if you can call it seduction but more so curiosity but there was a very lesbian girl who hooked up with a drink guy to see if she liked it. Guess she didn’t but he went on to brag about it later and she was pissed and then started accusing him of rape (even though it would’ve been her doing the raping) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Do you care if there's an age gap in dating?I dont care at all and anyone who does has some kind of insecurity issue if they project it onto others | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Making things transactional would have prevented this from happeningI have no idea what either of these people look like so idk what you’re saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 01:40 PM |
| 10 | To the men who complain about lonelinessNot sure how that fits here but I’m gonna sleep just as soundly as I did prior to reading this post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 01:27 PM |
| 11 | To the men who complain about lonelinessIn significantly more words yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 01:22 PM |
| 10 | To the men who complain about lonelinessYes a significant amount of men (and women) in the US are suffering from loneliness and the solution is…stop being lonely. Genius. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 01:12 PM |
| 5 | Why do guys stay in the friendzone if they know they're in it?You’re missing the fact that social interactions don’t exist in a vacuum and not everyone is clear about what they want. Here’s one simple example. I like a girl, ask her out and get friendzoned. Now you’re saying I should just leave and not stay around. Well if you’re close enough to a girl to get friendzoned, chances are you have mutual connections such as a mutual friend group. Should this person just abandon the friend group? Or when they’re in the friend group should they make it awkward an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 02:18 AM |
| 2 | If men want more casual sex from women why do you support/vote for policies that will discourage thisLike I said if there are socially progressive redpillers out there, let me know There are You seem to have a very low opinion of women. You don't know what women are thinking, and I'd hazard to guess you probably don't have a lot of conversations with real women to know What makes you think i have a low opinion of women? I am speaking from experience that I have had sex with many liberal women and I always use protection. Numerous times these women have told me I don’t need to use protection for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:19 PM |
| 4 | If men want more casual sex from women why do you support/vote for policies that will discourage thisMy assumption being that a majority of redpillers are conservative or conservative-leaning. Please let me know in the comments if you aren’t though What in the world are you basing this off of? If there were no financial/physical/social implications for having sex don’t you think women would be much more open to it and less selective? No. Because very few women are thinking about these things when they’re trying to get some dick If the barriers that exist that dissuade women from having sex were… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Why are women so aggressively worried about being murdered by men?Simple. Paranoia | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Why do some men feel the need to “test” you when you state your interests?Based on your interest it sounds like this is less about them being men and more about you all being nerds. Nerds like to show they’re smarter or know more than someone generally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 11:24 AM |
| 6 | Do men not care about having female friends?This is true and something i realized when i was younger. Had a female “friend” straight up tell me that she loved going out with me because she knew I’d make sure she got home safe at the end of the night while other guys would leave her to go with other girls. Idk why she thought this was a compliment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 11:14 AM |
| 3 | Do men not care about having female friends?From a lot of the posts I read here, it sounds like this is always in the forefront of a man’s mind when he is talking to a woman. Because this is a subreddit about dating. But to answer your question if I see an attractive women I’m not gonna approach her with the intention to be her friend. I’m going to make my intentions know from the start. Also what’s casually ambiguous meaning in this context | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?So you avoid being alone with any man in your life? Sucks to be you I guessn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?No. It’s that if you think it makes sense to fear being raped or assaulted by strange men because of statistics then you should be just as afraid, if not more, of men you do know. Otherwise it’s just paranoia | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many gay men get along with straight women?Probably because gay men and straight women are often interested in the same things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?Almost as if that’s my point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”I mean hey why should we respect anyone else’s time other than ourselves? Let’s be selfish and only spend our time on exactly what we want and nothing else. Im sure social interactions would be so great then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 03:10 PM |
| 1 | What is your solution to the issues in dating?What do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”In order to double book that person would need to have a lack of respect for one person or the other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”Alright maybe it’s just an American mindset I can’t understand but thats probably why the country’s in the state it’s in now. This attitude of “me, me, me” is seeping into everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 09:03 PM |
| 1 | What is your solution to the issues in dating?As I described in my previous post: More respect, Less hubris I think this is something Americans in particular have an issue with because there’s this idea that everything you ever do has to progress your towards your goals in some way. I started dating in Europe and for those 4 years I NEVER felt exhausted with dating. Reason why I because unlike Americans, Europeans know how to take it easy sometimes. Most of them are very humble, even the French surprisingly. Meanwhile come to America and de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”I mean you directly confirm what insanity this line: I would rather be doing something that had proven value to me The reason it’s exhausting based on what you’ve said is because you’re focused on you and what you’re getting out of it. You see making a human connection even with someone you won’t see again as a chore rather than an opportunity And I’m not equating holding a door to spending hours with someone and you know that. The fact that you think one is different from the other in someone s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”Sure if you think the only point of human interaction is to get exactly what you want with every interaction. You say you “agree!” that no one owes you anything, and yet you seem pretty butthurt that she didn’t owe you more of her time It’s really not a hard concept to understand. Let me make it simple. No one is obligated to hold the door if you’re coming in behind them but the world would be a better place if they did. Understand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”It’s not obligation or even social norms. It’s respect for others time. We both blocked out time from our days to spend with another person. Time that could’ve been spent doing anything else on both parts. I have no idea if we would’ve been friends or if I never would’ve seen her again in my life but to be able to sit and connect with someone without pretense has been lost in humans apparently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”As I said we were having a great time just not romantically. I’m sure that doesn’t work for your narrative but it’s facts. You could say maybe she wasn’t enjoying her time ENOUGH to the point she wouldn’t rather do something else but that just supports my post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 05:55 PM |
| 0 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”I take it you dug through my post history and are talking about this post: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/18oce4h/men_need_to_make_these_dating_resolutions_in_2024/ Please explain what you mean and how this post contradicts what I’ve said here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 05:41 PM |
| 0 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”What gives you the idea I was forcing myself to be in a situation I didn’t want to be in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 05:37 PM |
| 7 | Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partnerThe biggest question that I don’t see answered here is…why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Passport game is this generation's version of Woodstock.I just wanna add something I’ve said before in regards to the comments. So many women here seem to believe that any nonamerican woman is a poor, oppressed hooker. I find it double funny because there are a few commenters I’ve seen here defending prostitution but now they’ve switched to using it to shame not only men but also women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 05:31 PM |
| 5 | Why are men angry that women like 'Chad'?probably the same reason women are mad when men choose to seek out younger more beautiful women or those from overseas. They see dating as a competition where there’s a lack of options and everytime someone goes for the “better” options it forces them to work harder to create value or face scarcity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”Well I’d disagree and maybe the fact you and many others don’t see an issue with this is why dating is the way it is. I find it rather funny that people will complain up left down and right about dating, but change absolutely nothing to make it better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”I never said she was rude or wrong. What i said was this mindset is why dating is so terrible these days. Let’s take it to the extreme and say that on every single date, the 2 people meet and the second they realize they aren’t getting what they want they leave. Neither of these people owe each other anything and going from your logic there’s no issue with that. But you must agree that this would be a very shitty way to date yes or no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”Dear billionaire_penis, I would rather be alone than in bad company. That said I have many people in my life who have self respect for themselves and others. Hopefully you can find that one day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”There are plenty of people agreeing with me evidenced by the upvotes as well as many comments. Even if people didn’t agree with me, I don’t base my thoughts on what other people agree or disagree with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”K we’re done | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”I can see it. But I’m also pointing out how this mindset is what’s ruining dating. So far not a single person has disputed it and have simply said in more words what I said they would in my post “they don’t owe you anything” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 05:00 PM |
| 0 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”What do you mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”Let’s be honest when she left she wasn’t thinking about MY time she was thinking about HER time. When people leave a date early, ghost, flake or whatever they aren’t thinking of the other person they’re thinking of themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”What does that have to do with anything? Are you the same person who was commenting nonsense in my other post when you clearly didn’t read it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”Not sure how you got any of that from what was written but alright | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”She didn’t do anything “wrong”. What I’m saying is treating dating as if the only thing that matters is the end game is the cause for all the issues in datign. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”I’m not pissed at all. I stayed and had a good time and met other people. Just sharing an observation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”Do you think when going on a date the only thing that should matter is the end game? That’s to say if I as a guy went on a date with a woman but it was clear she wasn’t going to have sex with me, should I just leave at that point, even if having a good time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”Well put. When you form close connections in a community you are aware that the way you conduct yourself will reflect how others will see you where as if you have no connection to someone and don’t expect to see them again who cares? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”Agreed. “Hustle culture” has seeped into every aspect of modern life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”May be surprising but my life doesn’t exist on Reddit like some folks. This is a sub about dating discussions so of course I’m going to post about…dating discussions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”Well said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”Yeah almost like there’s a lack of respect in dating. The comments here are confirming it and not a single person has disproven that dating would be better if people showed more respect and less hubris | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 04:23 PM |
| 0 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”Enjoying time with another human = waste of time Smh thanks for the confirmation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”Sure you would | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”The fact that you think being more respectful in dating =\= entitlement just shows me how huge the issue is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”Yeah I’d say it’s crazy how this concept is going over so many people’s heads In these comments but then again not really. This is exactly why dating sucks. I think it could be because I presented it from a male perspective. I’m sure if I presented from the female perspective all the women would be like “omg true!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”Yeah it’s comical the stretches they’re going to in an attempt to misconstrue what’s being said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”Not sure how you got that from what was said but ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 04:07 PM |
| 0 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”you sound angry. Any reason the concept of respect is so triggering to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 04:07 PM |
| 0 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”Facts are facts whether accepts or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 09:46 PM |
| -15 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”I don’t see how the 2 are in anyway comparable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 09:46 PM |
| 0 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”How’s that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”Doesn’t this just support my point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 08:59 PM |
| -8 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”Of course you don’t go on dates to makes friends but would it be so bad if you went on a date and did? If you were able to connect with another human being, even for an hour or 2, is that a deterrent in your life? Should we all only give people enough time as needed to provide an expected benefit to ourselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 08:58 PM |
| -2 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”I disagree. When you plan a date, even a free one, you’re taking something more important than money you’re taking time. While I didn’t find this girl attractive how much of an ass would I have been to dip out on her simply because she wasn’t attractive? When she agreed to go on a date with me, I wasn’t just taking the time for the date, I was taking everything else she possibly could’ve been doing prior to, during and after the date. I’m not so much better than her that I can’t sacrifice an hou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”That just proves my point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 08:48 PM |
| -12 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”And I think that’s the issue is that the standard for what’s respectful is so low we don’t know what isn’t respectful. While we didn’t hit it off romantically we still would’ve been able to have a decent time just connecting with another human and learning about them with the time we blocked out. Essentially it’s just amounting someone’s value as a person to how attractive you find them which I feel is disrespectful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 08:47 PM |
| 0 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”Idk what you mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 08:42 PM |
| 4 | Do you think safety is one reason why women don't commit as many sex crimes as men?I don’t think it has to do with safety because female sex offenders are way safer than male sex offenders in everyday life and jail. There’s 2 things For any offender it’s about power. If they are in a situation where they feel they will get away with whatever they’re doing they’ll do it. If they believe they’ll get caught then they won’t. There’s a difference between what people consider a sex offender when it comes to men and women. It’s much more lenient for women. One example I like to point… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 05:01 PM |
| 4 | Opinion: You need to develop your data literacy if you’re going to use data/studies/statistics to make broad claims about society!Biggest culprit in this dive is that all men are rapist because 90-98% of rapist are men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 12:27 PM |
| 1 | A thought experiment for menAttraction is a part of an intimate relationship so I would use those glasses to find the few I’m attracted to physically as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 11:04 PM |
| 0 | Women often pretend they don’t show attractive men more respect as well. Why?Not sure where I conflated respect and sexual attraction. Can you post it out and explain? And women aren’t complaining about being respected. They’re complaining about more attractive women getting more respect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 08:47 PM |
| 7 | What do you think of going to college campuses as a non-student to get chicks?I lived in a college town so I was always “on campus”. Most campuses are like the where I live and I see no issue with it because it’s intergrated in the community. As for walking into the actual school? That would be weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Can we talk about the phenomenon of childless stepdads who are actually good?Because there’s far more single mothers than men willing to date them let along good men. The ones you describe (assuming that’s the reality. Remember you’re on the outside looking in)are the exception not the norm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 04:07 PM |
| 0 | Women often pretend they don’t show attractive men more respect as well. Why?That’s great if that’s what you actually do. But many women don’t or are hypocritical about it. When they show a man more respect and attention because of their attraction it’s not a big deal. But when men do the same to them suddenly it’s misogynistic and discrimination. I don’t know what this is attempting to say. Are we really still having conversations like these where men assume all women’s behavior as if it were a monolith. It’s so disheartening. What a disingenuous comment but it’s really… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Women often pretend they don’t show attractive men more respect as well. Why?Literally the first line I think it’s pretty clear to everyone that “pretty privilege” is a real thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 03:00 PM |
| 7 | Women often pretend they don’t show attractive men more respect as well. Why?Makes sense. It seems pretty obvious to me and even in hindsight it should be obvious to anyone right? So is it that they’re oblivious to the double standard or do they intentionally ignore it because it’s beneficial | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Women often pretend they don’t show attractive men more respect as well. Why?Yeah you’ve made it clear you have no desire to actually read the post so I’m not gonna waste more time on you. Have a good one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 08:56 PM |
| 7 | Women often pretend they don’t show attractive men more respect as well. Why?Ah yes! The classic “there’s no way others experiences can be any different from my own”. Guess a lot of people are just lying then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Women often pretend they don’t show attractive men more respect as well. Why?You clearly didn’t even bother to read the post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Women often pretend they don’t show attractive men more respect as well. Why?Evidence of what? Pretty privileged? Yes actually there’s numerous study which prove the bais. Here’s one: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4757567/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 08:13 PM |
| 8 | Women often pretend they don’t show attractive men more respect as well. Why?I don’t see why people respond to discussion and debate post with “get over it”. If it’s so much of a hassle to say anything of value why waste your time in the sub? I’m sure there’s way better things you could be doing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman that slept with your friend before you were exclusive?I think you may have reploed to the wrong comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/24 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t ppl get extra help?I have no idea what you’re trying to say. You mention steroids which are pretty easy to come by but they are illegal if you’re not prescribed, and cost money to acquire not mention the side effects if not properly administered by a medical professional. There’s also the self respect aspect where some will say it’s cheating because you didn’t actually put in the work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/24 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t ppl get extra help?Money Legalities Self respect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/24 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Is anyone else annoyed when people in the red pill community like Myron, Zherka and other red pill podcasters claim they speak for all men?I don’t know who those people are besides Myron and he’s a huge clown so no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/24 12:24 PM |
| 11 | Would you date a woman that slept with your friend before you were exclusive?nope not even if that friend wasn’t a scumbag. Unless you live in the smallest town ever the chances of the girl you’re seeing sleeping with a close friend without knowing is very low. Women will do some sort of research on guys Dating or not it means there’s some kind of attraction that may or may not come up again in the future. If there no attraction and she just slept with him just cause then it says a lot about her character If she was willing to sleep with a terrible person like the one yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/24 12:22 PM |
| – | Who should give respect first?I can…I have no problem with it. But the people in this sub seem to so I’m asking them what their solution would be. Really nitnthat hard to comprehend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/24 12:35 PM |
| 0 | Who should give respect first?Now, why would it be different with women? Well according many women here they don’t see a reason to respect men because they’re all dangerous rapist. Men on the other hand think all women are gold digging thots. Each side says someone has to prove otherwise and show them respect so who starts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 02:17 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: How is approaching random women out in the streets any better than online dating?The same reason it’s better to talk to your friends in person rather than over text. Human connection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Who should give respect first?I’ve seen extremely effeminate men who are straight and very masculine men who are gay….we’re done here though. You’re not mentally stable enough for this discussion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 12:18 PM |
| 1 | How much are men told to bottle up their emotions relative to girls?Laminate a ridiculous claim. This shows a clear understanding of not only boys but people in general. It also shows the cycle of men not being able to express their emotions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 07:09 AM |
| 3 | How much are men told to bottle up their emotions relative to girls?That would be convenient to believe wouldn’t it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 06:46 AM |
| 2 | How much are men told to bottle up their emotions relative to girls?*whiners And nah I normally hear it from women. The men I would hear it from are my peers generally because their mothers are telling them the same thing. But even if it was being propagated by other men it’s only because it’s been proven to be the case with women. I mean right now. There’s a trend of men talking about their feelings and what they want from a relationship and women are saying there “sassy”. If a man complains about the dating game he’s told he’s “not owed anything” and called an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 05:27 AM |
| 1 | How much are men told to bottle up their emotions relative to girls?To get over it? Mainly my mom, aunts and older brother | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 05:24 AM |
| 16 | How much are men told to bottle up their emotions relative to girls?Objectively men are told to repress their emotions more than women. I can’t remember a single time any woman in my family was told to bottle up their emotions even when they’re being irrational. In fact I remember telling a member of my family she was being emotionally irrational and never heard the end of it. Meanwhile if I was feeling some kinda way for whatever reason it was just “get over it” or something of that sort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Who should give respect first?Lmao what? How is a man visibly gay? Your logic or lack of it is pretty hilarious but I knew that’s what I’d get | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Who should give respect first?Most women have negative experiences with Males if you want to be accurate and talk about reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Who should give respect first?Ah so you’re not offended by people who dislike trans people because they don’t dislike You they dislike other trans people. Makes perfect sense… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 10:26 PM |
| 3 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Based on these comments it’s not actually “my body, my choice” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Who should give respect first?As if what..? You’re saying because some people of a group experience some disrespect from members of another group that justifies disrespecting all members of the group? Also would you think it to be fair if women were to be disrespectful to you as a transwoman (based on your tag). Or would you feel that to be unfair? Please explain your answer as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Who should give respect first?Interesting. What do you mean masculine men cannot respect women and feminine women can’t love men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Who should give respect first?No just in general. I see here women will say things like how men are trash, rapist, oppressive etc. Men will retort saying women are thots, manipulative, live life on easy mode. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 08:08 PM |
| 1 | alcohol and datingMaybe try finding hobbies done…not at home? And if you enjoy gardening and join a garden club with other people that enjoy gardening then yes it is like going to a bar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 06:10 PM |
| 1 | alcohol and datingwhy is there no socially acceptable place that fills the same role as a bar, that DOESNT serve alcohol? Have you heard of hobbies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 06:01 PM |
| 3 | We’re constantly talking about guys jacking off to porn but what about guys jacking off to girls they know?Yeah it 100% happens and any guy that claims he hasn’t thought of it is a liar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on themI think the title of the post and what women often say say is a clear sign of the way many feel. When women have a guy friend who’s interested in them it’s pretty obvious and many women have stated as such. They just say they CHOOSE to ignore it. Why? Because it benefits them. They get the special treatment and attention of the boyfriend without needing to reciprocate. But even if they don’t show any signs wht would you want your “friend” to live in frustration and confusion just to be around yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Do women want chivalry back?When I hear 'chivalry' i think of Age of Empires and the horsemen spam | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Do women want chivalry back?The funny thing is that many women believe chivalry is 'romantic' but also fail to realize it inherently based on the idea that women are inferior to men. It's based on the idea that women are incapable of doing things for themselves and are weak thus it requires a man to assist in her life. It's also heavily derived from Christianity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 10:35 PM |
| – | Believe all victims?Correct. But that’s protection of myself not punishment of my neighbor. I can’t go break into my neighbors house in an effort to take back what I believe they stole Sure an organization can do that. Doesn’t mean it’s right. What you’re doing here is appealing to authority. And only 60% of the board members agreed with the ruling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 07:45 PM |
| 4 | Western women and shaming gold-diggersI never said anything about the color of your skin being related to you character…. I asked do you believe that your culture and interest are a large part of your personality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Western women and shaming gold-diggersYou don’t think culture and interest plays a huge part into your personality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?It’s better than America in almost every way. Only down side is everything closes at 9pm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 07:09 PM |
| 21 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?Lmao this is besides the point but saying “use your tax return” shows me you’re either extremely financially irresponsible or are so rich you’re out of touch with the common man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?I have my passport and once I get more time I plan to go back to Europe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 07:02 PM |
| – | Believe all victims?You’re speaking in circles. You’re also making the assumption that someone “knows” a crime happened but what does that entail? If someone know a crime happened then so does the justice system since they would have the evidence. When you say “know” what you’re actually saying is assume. Anyone can assume anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 06:59 PM |
| – | Believe all victims?Cool then shut up and stay out of the discussion if you’re not intelligent enough to contribute | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 06:57 PM |
| – | Believe all victims?you don’t even know the difference apparently since it’s “above your pay grade”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 06:34 PM |
| – | Believe all victims?It’s not different at all. If you haven’t proven a crime has occurred then saying someone can decide based on their personal bias that it has is saying a single person can decide that the benefit of charging the person outweighs their due process. You’ve opted to say that he commanders decision is ultimately the fair one. So what about when high ranking military official are found to have commit sexual assault and they are given a slap on the wrist and it’s covered up because it would otherwise … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 06:33 PM |
| 5 | Western women and shaming gold-diggersCulture, interest and personality is superficial? What would you say’s isn’t superficial? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 06:28 PM |
| 14 | Western women and shaming gold-diggersThat concern is based on the assumption that for some reason foreign women are less intelligent and more easily exploitable than American women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 06:24 PM |
| 7 | Western women and shaming gold-diggersOf course they’re gonna shame men for this because they lose resources. The more men who choose to date over seas the more competition they have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 06:22 PM |
| – | Believe all victims?Who has the original purchase receipt? Was any money exchanged between the 2 prior to the exchange? Whose room was it originally in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 06:18 PM |
| – | Believe all victims?So do you have a reasonable complaint if that works both ways ? For example if someone is found to have commit a sexual assault but it’s decided that it’s more beneficial that they don’t face charges? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 06:14 PM |
| – | Believe all victims?Idk that’s what I’m asking you. Why are you being so vague instead of backing up anything you say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 06:12 PM |
| – | Believe all victims?Lmao so in other words you don’t know what you’re talking about actually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 06:11 PM |
| – | Believe all victims?So your personal opinion is that it’s fair for organizations to take action against people based on accusations alone even if not proven | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Why people never talk about the fertility in men dropping as they age?You said Reddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Believe all victims?We’re done speaking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Believe all victims?Clearly you didn’t read the post. Have a good one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 01:40 AM |
| 10 | Why people never talk about the fertility in men dropping as they age?Ah your source is Reddit! In that case there are people talking about male infertility. It seems to be pretty popular over at r/twoxchromosomes https://np.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/tpbrk0/mens_sperm_quality_decreases_at_age_35/ https://np.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/vip99p/age_gap_and_male_fertility_detailed/ https://np.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/15my2st/why_are_so_many_men_completely_unaware_of_their/ https://np.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/gqt38j/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 01:00 AM |
| 0 | Why people never talk about the fertility in men dropping as they age?Are they? Can you give some examples? And please don’t link some fresh and fit video | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 12:49 AM |
| 1 | How many men with net worth over $1 million would pay for sex if that means getting to know a woman that's much prettier and smarterThey didn’t say that at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 12:48 AM |
| 4 | Why people never talk about the fertility in men dropping as they age?Because the people talking about the fertility of women are generally other women who want to have children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Believe all victims?Why are you unwilling to answer the questions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Believe all victims?So what exactly is your stance? Let me give you a clear example. Someone accuses you of punching them in the face. There’s no evidence you did punch them in the face but you also can’t prove that you didn’t. What should happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Believe all victims?Depends on the context of the situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Believe all victims?The solution isn’t to charge everyone simply based on an accusation is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Believe all victims?I never said one way or the other. I’m asking you your personal opinion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Believe all victims?Please explain the difference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Believe all victims?Lmao the article actually does. You just are choosing to ignore it because it works for your narrative. Bye now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Believe all victims?It’s literally question number 2…you have no idea what you’re talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 12:13 AM |
| 1 | If a guy truly wants a healthy, romantic relationship, he wouldn’t be jealous of assholes that pumps and dumps and/or stay in toxic relationships.Didn’t ask | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Do relationships where a woman is with a man for his money have really dead bedrooms?I don’t see why a relationship like that would have that issue. Idk tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Believe all victims?And what was the misconduct…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Believe all victims?Good thing I never claimed it was a false allegation then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Believe all victims?And this is where the issue comes in and what I’m attempting to address with this post. 2 people willingly walk into a room. Sex happens. One person says it was consensual the other says it wasn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Believe all victims?Because it’s a case where we don’t know one way or the other…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Believe all victims?Neither of those things have been ignored Rape is not misconduct. It is a crime. If there was proof of rape he would’ve at the very least been NJP’d Yes and that burden is extremely low. I had a guy who was discharged for “being out of uniform” because he wore earrings in civilian clothes when returning to base. We also don’t know whether he lied about her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 08:54 PM |
| 0 | Believe all victims?At this stage the person would’ve been out of the military. They then go to the board and present their own evidence so anything is that was present at the time would be present in this situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Believe all victims?We aren’t assuming it was false. I’ve stated that in the post. What I’m saying is we don’t know one way or the other but it wasn’t proven. Also this is in regards to the discharge not the actual allegations Also only 3/5 people agreed with the ruling meaning if one person had a differing opinion then it would’ve been the opposite decision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Believe all victims?I don’t think they were disparaging just snarky | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Believe all victims?Correct and that’s what is the issue with a lot of these comments. They aren’t forming an opinion based on their own personal thought but are instead saying “well the military made the decision so it must be correct” This is also why I pointed out that 3/5 people decided it was fair. To show this wasn’t a split decision | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 08:44 PM |
| 0 | Believe all victims?Ok it seems like you’re appealing to power? let’s give a civilian example You walk by a coworker and like the jacket they’re wearing and saying “Wow that jacket looks good”. They report you to the police who open an investigation for sexual harassment and after interviews they drop the case and say nothing happened. Your boss decides you did say it in a sexually harassing way and proceeds to fire you with this being the reason. So what you’re saying is because your boss has the power and is perf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Believe all victims?What you’re failing to account for is that when a single person is able to decided whether or not someone is guilty of something, it opens the way for clear bias. This is one reason why black military members are punished to a far greater degree than white military members for similar infractions Your Sergeant Major was an idiot And that’s an idiotic snd objectively false statement. The military punishes people in good standing all the time. This is the exact reason for EEOC, DRB and BCMR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 08:10 PM |
| -2 | Believe all victims?It’s not founded on any false premise at all. It asks multiple questions looking at different possibilities of the situation from the information given and asking to form a personal opinion. It can be summarized to “who knows”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 08:01 PM |
| -1 | Believe all victims?What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 07:58 PM |
| 4 | Believe all victims?This really isn't that complicated. I'm not asking is the ruling appropriate based on the military justice system. I'm asking in their PERSONAL OPINION what should happen. I'll give yet another example. Very few people have an understanding of the Israel-Gaza situation, and don't have a basic understanding of geopolitics yet everyone has an opinion about what the US should do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Believe all victims?From what I understand, he was discharged from the Military due to a "preponderance of evidence" and not just on the accusation alone. We don't know what that evidence is as it's not listed in this report, but it was enough evidence to meet the burden of proof standard. Since the victim reported the SA to the local authorities, and assuming she reported the SA within a few days of it happening, they would have done a rape kit. They would have also more than likely asked her for her phone and ret… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 03:32 AM |
| 4 | Believe all victims?That has no bearing on whether they have the ability to form a personal opinion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Believe all victims?That would result in a discharge of "discharge in lieu of trial by court" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Believe all victims?So you don't believe in the presumption of innocent until proven guilty? It seems you're saying that system based on a spectrum is better but that would raise an inconceivable amount of issues | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Believe all victims?Ok lets use an example of something that was proven to be a false accusation. The USC student who was falsely accused by a woman. Based on your claim she had nothing to gain doing this so why did she do it? Or how about the football player who was falsely accused and faced up to 41 years in prision. Did she benefit from this? If not why did she do it? Also you still havent identified what benefit the average man gets from raping the average women that would outweight multiple years in prison. Do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 02:50 AM |
| 3 | Believe all victims?I'm not asking for their opinion on the military discharge justification. I'm asking them to formulate their own opinion about what should happen. It's no different from when Amber Heard and Johnny Depp went to trail. Everyone had an opinion on the situation and I'm willing to bet 90% of those people had no legal experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 02:44 AM |
| 0 | Believe all victims?That's a bit of a semantic stance don't you think. You're saying well we will never know whether he is or isn't a rapist, and sure he faced consequences without this being proven but not the same that a rapist would. Do you think this how we should handle all allegation that aren't proven, essentially cutting the difference? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 02:38 AM |
| -4 | Believe all victims?A single credible witness is enough to convict anyone of pretty much any crime. Witness testimony is evidence. Even if we assume that to be true the woman never testified. I'm also pretty sure I already respond to another comment that said this exact thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 02:30 AM |
| -1 | Believe all victims?You deleted your other comment but I'll repeat the same thing I said. It's not a false equivalency and honestly not even gonna take the time to explain it since you haven't even answered a single question Your rationality is skewed and is based on the idea that "women are wonderful" and can do no wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Believe all victims?Alright another person who isn't able to think for themselves and form an opinion. Have a good day/night | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 02:23 AM |
| -6 | Believe all victims?Being a victim of SA doesn't really grant you more credibility to speak on what should happen. Very weird thing to say. You also say a lot about what your assumption are of the legal system are but don't really answer the questions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Believe all victims?My post isn't about false allegations. But thank you for answering the questions Also I'm presented the summarize view of what was linked which is why I included that info | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 02:17 AM |
| 4 | Believe all victims?Then this isn't the discussion for you. Have a good day/night | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Believe all victims?First you're wrong. They aren't speaking on the evidence they're speaking on the discharge. In this forum the onus is on the appellate to prove he didn't rape anyone. Also you're avoiding the question and also appealing to authority when I'm asking you. To put it in terms you may understand what you are saying is that the guy who was found raping a woman in the alley with multiple witness and then got zero time in prison is fine because the judge ruled it to be. Or that a cop that shoots an unar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Believe all victims?As i said in another comment this is about as rational as asking what does the average man get from raping the average women that would outweigh the risk of jail and getting caught. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Believe all victims?What of the question presented? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Believe all victims?This is about as rational as asking what does the average man get from raping the average women that would outweigh the risk of jail and getting caught. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Believe all victims?I'm not sure what you mean by this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Believe all victims?Agreed but we don't know one way or another in this case which is why i posed the questions I did | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 01:50 AM |
| 6 | Believe all victims?How do you know the accusations that never result in convictions are mostly true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Believe all victims?He was discharged after a military trial (court-martial), which found there was sufficient evidence of misconduct to discharge him. He did not go to court martial. Otherwise he would've been imprisoned, put on the registry and given a dishonorable discharge. He was administratively discharged based on the accusation. Activity that is less than criminal may be deemed misconduct. What criminal activity was proven to have occurred? Also is there a reason you avoided the questions you chose not to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 01:48 AM |
| -1 | Believe all victims?Im curious as to why you decided to ignore the questions presented then the one you did respond to you didn't even give a straight answer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 01:44 AM |
| 3 | Believe all victims?OSI is the *office of special investigations (most people are more familiar with the naval counterpart NCIS) meaning any investigation they are apart of is a criminal matter. Had they enough evidence to warrant a conviction, he would've been offered the option of court martial (going through the military legal system which would result in a civilian conviction and likely put on the sex offender registry) or an Non-Judicial Punishment (which is decided by the commander, goes through legal and wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Believe all victims?I very clearly, multiple times stated we don't know one way or the other. Why are you avoiding the questions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 01:30 AM |
| 0 | Believe all victims?Ok and what of the questions presented? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 01:24 AM |
| – | Immaturity is a bigger problem with guys than they think.A lot of guys in this subreddit does not equal a lot of guys in the real world. I would like some examples of men saying this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 12:38 AM |
| – | Immaturity is a bigger problem with guys than they think.How many guys are watching romcoms let alone saying they lied to them. The main demographics of those movies are women and they are created for the 'female gaze'. Well women do this too...one guy calls her ugly and now all men are trash. And It's generally not one chick. It's usually multiple women or one chick who really broke their heart and didn't care at all. Now you might say "just get over it". Ok let's say that happens. You now expect this guy to get as emotionally invested in the next wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Is it even possible to "fix" the issues around dating apps?Of course it's possible and very simple. Gender imbalance: This really isn't something you can fix but also isn't really a major issue unless you're going for quantity over quality. With the amount of users on the most popular apps this is something that you wouldn't even notice without stats. Fake profiles and scams: Very easy. You add in a verificaiton process using phone and email, and also remove profiles who's pictures are duplicates. Each new profile can also be reviewed by a team of human… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 11:52 PM |
| – | What would happen if girls only got stranger danger drilled into them as much as boys do?I'd rather have all criminal explode into confettit the second they think about commiting a crime. Much more efficient (and festive) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 11:44 PM |
| – | What would happen if girls only got stranger danger drilled into them as much as boys do?Crime rates would remain the same for a few reasons: I assume most women have common sense and some sort of survival instinct so I believe they are able to identify danger. The vast majority of the time, if a crime is commit against a woman by a man, then that man is known to them. The current cultural paranoia that women are in more danger than men is not supported by statistics. One thing that would happen is there would be less misandrist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 11:39 PM |
| – | The problem with these menThis seems more like a rant than a discussion prompt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 11:32 PM |
| 3 | This is how women sound when saying "I'm giving the ugly guy a chance".I never said she spoke for all women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 11:29 PM |
| 2 | This is how women sound when saying "I'm giving the ugly guy a chance".Uh yeah…you said you’ve never heard a woman say it ever. I then provided you a well know example of a woman saying it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 06:26 PM |
| – | Social construct hipocracyYup that's usually how it works. Whether or not something is a social construct depends on how it supports you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Have you ever had a date turn out better than your expectations from OLD?When I was in the Budapest I was at a club and it was very weird because many of the girls there were obviously 16. I ended up matching with a Montenegrin girl around my age and but I was just passing the time and didn't think anything would come of it until she saw I was close and invited me over. In her pics she looked like she had a strong jawline, but I guess she just didn't know how to do angles well because she was a lot more attractive in person. We chilled for a few hours then ended up h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 12:51 AM |
| 28 | This is how women sound when saying "I'm giving the ugly guy a chance".I mean there's a pretty viral video of the famous emo singer Billie Eilish saying something similar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 12:34 AM |
| -2 | Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men.No you were responding to my comment. But even if you were responding to the initial post, your first thought was rape | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 05:05 PM |
| 0 | Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men.It’s very telling that you would rather rape a woman for sex than make her a sandwich. I’m glad most men don’t think like you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 04:18 PM |
| 0 | If "Being An Asshole" Was All It Took To Get Women, Why Are So Many Assholes Single?Being an asshole means treating women with disdain and a lack of respect Because being an asshole is not something you can switch on and off. It’s also not ALL it takes. I don’t even see how this logic makes sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 03:45 PM |
| 6 | If a guy truly wants a healthy, romantic relationship, he wouldn’t be jealous of assholes that pumps and dumps and/or stay in toxic relationships.I wake up at about 6am go to training, then school, then work usually not getting to sleep until 1-2am. This has afforded me a pretty good lifestyle but it’s very stressful. But the other day I decided to take the train and some people got on around my age, with an empty bottle of jack daniels drunk if their ass. I was very jealous of them because they likely have no real responsibilities or goals in their life and are just living life. With high standards comes increased stress and responsibly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 02:36 PM |
| 4 | Men who complain about how average women can "easily get casual sex from Chad," would you want to be in the same position?If average guys could easily get sex with a hot girl who is sleeping with a different guy every week, would they want it? Yes Would this girl be attractive to you and would you potentially marry her? You’ve already stated she’s hot so yeah she’d be attractive. Most likely not someone I’d marry If not, why would you want the hot girls to sleep around with a lot of "average" men and make themselves less desirable? I don’t understand this question. The would still be plenty of women who aren’t slee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 12:07 PM |
| 19 | Men who don't like women, why do you care if women don't like you?Criticism of women is not hatred of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 11:36 AM |
| 2 | Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men.Ok let’s assume this is the case…now there’s very few women so the vast majority of men still aren’t having sex and the ones that are are the most powerful. Now what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men.Again this would be predicated on the assumption that the majority of men would support rape. It really seems like you’re saying if women refuse to have sex then rape would be justified… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 11:30 AM |
| 4 | Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men.Sure but the vast majority of men don't and those men would be rapist in either scenario. I don't see why it still wouldn't be a crime either... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 02:49 AM |
| 6 | Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men.Men can easily disarm women. I would love to see you put this to the test against a gun | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 02:44 AM |
| 7 | Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men.You would assault a woman because she won't give you sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men.This would suggest that all men are rapist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men.Sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men.You think so? What happens when women rise up and say, men go make us a sandwich or you're never having sex again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 02:00 AM |
| 2 | What is wrong with being nice to have sex?You know this is an interesting question because it's often the same people who say sex and 'body counts' hold no value, while also placing a high value on sex in this situation. These 2 thoughts are contradictory. If we take the idea that sex and body counts aren't important and that sex is just a fun activity then it's no different than, say, playing a video game with someone. If I meet someone nice at a video game tournament who simply wants to play a match against me and never speak again th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 01:20 AM |
| 3 | What is wrong with being nice to have sex?This is a very morally high and mighty stance but in reality this is nowhere near the case for reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?Lmao tagline makes sense. Women can do no wrong i guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?Then you don't care about bigotry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?Why the knife and not his gender? Because his gender can't harm me...the knife can Would you be just as startled if a woman were doing it? Yes What is "people like you"? You don't know me. I know enough about you based on your comment Do trans people or women commit 90 percent of assaults?? Yes Transwoman do. Because the stat you're alluding to doesn't say men, it says males. So if you wanna use stats to be scared then you should be fearful of transwomen as well. It quite literally isn't It … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?Holding women accountable = misogyny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 05:59 AM |
| 2 | If men don't want to be chosen for being "providers" - why do they advertise themselves this way?It’s really not that hard. As a man I want to provide for a woman because she would love me even if I couldn’t provide for her. I don’t want my providing for her to be a condition of her love | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Toxic masculinity is the attempt of men to copy high value men in term of behaviours and nothing more .Toxic masculinity doesn’t exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 05:37 AM |
| 0 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?Well yes depending on the situation. For example if a man is charging at with a knife I will be in fear but that has 100% to do with the knife and not his gender. And this is something people like you seem to understand. Transman? No problem. Transwoman? No problem. Cisman? Oh no run for the hills they raping every body! Like because it’s the same thing. Duh. I know you’d not want to admit it but it literally is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?lol can’t prove your claim and I’m not taking it seriously. lol you have a great day as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?Still choosi my to ignore a very basic question so clearly you’ve got no value to add here. You’re dismissed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?I’m not upset at all and I’m not sure what have you that indication. I’m simply pointing out facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?I’m not upset at all and I’m not sure what have you that indication. I’m simply pointing out facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?I’m not even red pilled…You accused me of saying the quiet part loud without any actual substance and I’m being binary by asking an open ended question? Your lack of an answer shows me that you’re probably a simp who believes women can do no wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?Because it’s the truth. But I guess it’s easier for you to ignore it and continue to lack accountability. I’m not surprised so many women perpetuate this idea that they can do no wrong because once it goes away they actually have to be accountable for themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 04:53 PM |
| 0 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?You don’t think women should face the consequences of their actions in any form? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 04:51 PM |
| -1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?I’m not arguing in bad faith at all. As I said I knew you would lie in your answer because without the inverse to compare it to you would 100% go on a tirade about how men shouldn’t touch women without consent and probably equate it to assault or something. The fact of the matter is the man shouldn’t need to ask for it back in the first place. I’m 100% sure you’d understand if we were talking about women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?Minute clearly out of touch with the world if you think anything would be done about a woman stealing your hat in the club. Also you claim I’m ignoring that men cause violence on each other when I literally addressed that numerous times in my comments. Yes men cause violence to other men. But men aren’t a monolith and recognize that it’s because of that person as an individual not because they’re a man hence the reason men aren’t paranoid to be around men just cause they’re men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?I don’t go to zoos, But if I did I wouldn’t antagonize the animals just because they are behind gates. Let’s also remember that animals lack human intelligence and mostly rely on animal instinct. If you want to compare that to men and say it’s somehow their instinct to harm women let me ask you, would you ever sit in an office with a lion? Also I’ve answered your question so can you answer mine: would you agree or disagree that for many women, this wariness and fear disappears and their actions … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?It is a straw man. Please identify where in any of my comments I said anything remotely along the lines that being raped is a consequence of something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 04:40 PM |
| 0 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?Yup let’s just continue to ignore the context of the post. Easier to avoid accountability that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?I don’t know a single person who’s scared of men simply because they exist. Then again I don’t hang around paranoid misandrist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?When did I say anything like that? Get the fuck out of here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 04:37 PM |
| -1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?Right because never in the history of mankind has a woman harmed another woman. And let’s ignore literally every animal that still views humans as a source of food | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?Yup that’s exactly what I’m saying and theres absolutely no way you’re miscontruing what I’ve said and adding in straw men in an effort to deflect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:53 AM |
| 0 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?I’m so glad someone gets it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:41 AM |
| 0 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?Yeah it hilarious. I’ve found that rape and abortion are the go to’s on Reddit when people don’t want to think critically about a situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:40 AM |
| 0 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?lol no there’s not. Do you really think anyone is going to do something about a woman stealing a man’s hat? Answer they won’t. Meanwhile if a man were to do something similar he’ll at the very least get kicked out if not have charges pressed against him. I mean let’s be real if you’re so into stats when it comes to stats regarding violence against women why do you ignore them when it comes to the disparity of women being charged vs men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:38 AM |
| 0 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?We're likely to act freer and less scared if the odds of being assaulted are lesser. Duh. Thanks for agreeing with me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:35 AM |
| 2 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?Do you think the persons intent is more important than the other person sense of comfort. For example if “flirtatiously” took one of those pink cowboy hats women wear and that made a woman uncomfortable would you say “get over it. He was clearly flirting?” Or would your response lean more toward “don’t touch women without their consent”. This is a rhetorical question because I already know the answer and know you you will lie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?I have yet to see any of that but maybe I’ll get ti it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:27 AM |
| 2 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?So are you wary around your male friends and family? Do you make sure you’re never alone with them and lock your doors whenever they come by? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:24 AM |
| -1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?You obviously don’t know what that means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?No I wasn’t. I very clearly said in my post social, legal and physical consequences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:21 AM |
| -1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?When did I say a thing about rape? That’s a clear attempt at a straw man so I’m gonna ignore it Ok let’s say all the things you said in the second paragraph are true. Let’s take it a step further and say 90% of men predators who harm you the second they get a chance. So why would a woman who’s fearful of men, say steal something from him in the club, an action she wouldn’t do outside the club? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:21 AM |
| -6 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?Statistically im more likely to be beat up by a man than a woman is but no im not scared of other men simply based on the being men. I also don’t change my behavior and my treatment of men (or women) based on how protected I am. I’d say it’s antagonized because it’s paranoid misandry which is accepted for some reason. A comparison I like to ask is say there is a white person who has had a couple negative experiences with black people. maybe he’s been jumped, robbed, whatever. This is a reality w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?Why’s that. I’m still going through them and haven’t seen anything crazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:07 AM |
| 3 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?I never said that was the case and yes sometimes the victims insight their own demise. I think it’s funny how the internet both has a problem with victim blaming but agrees that if you fuck around you’re gonna eventually find out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:06 AM |
| 0 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?lol how’d I know you were gonna ignore social and legal and go straight to physical? Interesting. One example of what I mean by physical consequences is when a woman physically attacks a man because she’s frustrated, angry or whatever excuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?As I’ve said social, legal and physical consequences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:00 AM |
| 0 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?Ive already given an example. A common thing women line to do in clubs is take objects from men such as hats, glasses, drinks, etc. they think it’s cute for some reason. Would this same woman that is so fearful of men ever do that in the event she was alone with this man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:00 AM |
| 0 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?Yeah there’s a lot of women in here that are displaying the “women are wonderful” effect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 05:52 AM |
| 2 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?Key word “strange” men. You should be wary of strange men just as you should be wary of strange women And would you agree or disagree that for many women, this wariness and fear disappears and their actions change when they have increased protection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?Although you’ve changed the context you’re just proving my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 05:46 AM |
| 2 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?I think it’s funny how when women touch men or take their things without consent they are given the benefit of the doubt. Yet when men do the same they’re labeled predators. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?K | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 05:39 AM |
| 0 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?As I said in the post legal, social and physical consequences She’s not traumatized at all and I never said that’s how women should behave. lol it’s funny that you don’t see the issue with taking a strangers hat. Would you ever do that in public? No and because you pretty much justified my stance. Because in the club when you do it you won’t face consequences. I wonder if you’d have the same stance if a man approached a woman he didn’t know and “playfully” took something of hers without consent.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 05:38 AM |
| 21 | How should men protect themselves from paternity fraud?A paternity test | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 01:28 AM |
| 1 | do you feel as a man that you struggle with communication more in general due to being raised to talk less about your feelings?As a man I’m not scared to talk about how I feel, but at the same time I don’t just trauma dump on anyone willing to listen. You shouldn’t be expressing them to everyone you meet and this is a reason I think women have 10x more drama. They tell their business to everyone and some of this people only ask so they can talk about it with other people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Why do men knowingly date gold diggers?Probably the same reason women marry men who abuse them would be my guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 07:27 PM |
| – | This sub passively censors red pill discussion through a strange list of “rules” that seems to grow by the dayI agree with you on the rules being terrible but disagree with the reason why. The rules here are specifically designed to foster toxic engagement. I can't tell you how many times i've attempted to make a reasonable and unbiased post just to have one of the mods take it down for some arbitrary reason. The mods have even said that the rules don't apply to them when they get involved in discussion. I've intentionally been making some of the most idiotic and low effort post just to see what would h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 01:06 AM |
| 2 | What have you guys learned from this subreddit?Yes. It's entertaining | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 11:35 PM |
| 0 | What have you guys learned from this subreddit?This question gets asked at least twice a week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Are women who date online "exploitative"?Not all of them but most of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Do you think men can be completely loyal, in your opinion?Yes... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 11:56 PM |
| 2 | 50/50 relationship are not equalThe woman gets safety from men (since apparently man believe a man will rape them the second they get a chance.). An almost 24/7 365 body guard cost much more than a sex worker | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 11:55 PM |
| 1 | If women started approaching men, they would still end up approaching a minority of themMost men are average. So even if women started approaching the attractive men there wouldn’t be enough of them to go around and only the most attractive women would get the attractive men. There would then be a trickle down effect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 08:49 PM |
| – | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?Here we go with more of the “I don’t owe them anything” And this isn’t a personal slight at you it’s just a sign of the times and why dating has become worse. You dont see these people as 3d dimensional humans beings you see them as a picture in the phone and that’s where they exist. This so why people ghost, flake on date and send disrespectful messages. There’s zero consideration for the person behind the screen because “I don’t owe them anything”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 08:46 PM |
| – | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?They're just matches on a dating app who I have no real connection to. Crazy how you don’t see a problem with this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on single parents by choice?I'm going to assume you're an adult and have be existing on the american economy for sometime. Can you give me a rough estimate of how many hours you alone work per week and how much money you have left over after you've paid all your necessities? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 01:54 AM |
| 5 | All is fair in love and war - Border CrisisI've dated a lot of latina women who come to the country to work for a few years and I have to say they are great. Very nice, sweet and fun. Not sure about people who are illegaly crossing the border though. Most of those people aren't young single women its families and men looking to work. Seems like it would be much easier to move close to the border and just dated someone who's in mexico | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 01:51 AM |
| – | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?So basically your comment means nothing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 11:33 PM |
| – | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?I'm not offended by it and understand that happens but also don't tolerate it. Especially with the addition of online dating, people have become way to comfortable with putting people on the back burner. I think it's a sign of the times but also one I choose to opt out of | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 11:32 PM |
| – | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?What's your thoughts on another user calling women who feel this way desperate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 11:30 PM |
| 0 | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?Yeah…a woman who wants to meet soon is desperate.. What a weird form of logic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 07:16 PM |
| 0 | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?It’s possible to not be needy and not have a rotation of women though. By needy I mean desperate where even if you have no women you’re not going to waste time and effort talking to one who wants to wait months. And when I think of talking for months I’m think of consistent talking. I’ve had people messages me weeks (one girl a year) after speaking. For me personally I never respond because not only have I forgotten everything and we’ll be starting from square 1, but it shows that it’s alright t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?That’s why I say the next weekend as in if not this Saturday the next one. If your life is so booked up to the point you can’t set aside an hr in 2 weeks then it probably means you won’t have time for me when dating either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?I never claimed that was the case. You actually did by saying people either exclusively wanted to get to know people or play the numbers game | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?If I want to get to know someone I want to meet them in person. That’s not exclusive to playing a numbers game since I could talk to one person at a time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 06:28 PM |
| 5 | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?I feel like it's the complete opposite. Seems to me like it would be more likely that the niceguys would be more willing to wait than the average guy. I feel like a normal non-needy guy wouldn't wait that long to meet someone because they'd be comfortable losing that person to spend time on someone who is potentially more willing to meet up with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?I feel like you didn't read the comment I was replying to before replying to my comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 03:16 AM |
| 0 | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?Yeah at maximum I'll do up to the next weekend. Just because my schedule is so booked most times. Even then that's very forgiving. I look at it as a case of 'if they wanted to they would' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 03:05 AM |
| 3 | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?Not gonna click that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?That doesn't make sense. If you know you're going to take the L why would you invest more time into it instead of less | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 02:59 AM |
| 5 | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?I"ve had dates within a few hours of meeting people and it's never been awkward. In fact the sooner I meet someone the less awkward it is because there's unlimited things to speak about. I'm actually curious how does this work for you having people wait months just to meet you? What kind of men are waiting that long and for what reason do you think they wait this long for you as opposed to spending that time on other women who would spend time with them sooner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?May as well get an AI gf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?k | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 02:53 AM |
| 6 | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?If that's what works for you then more power to you. I personally like to date human beings but you do you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 02:50 AM |
| 6 | Opinions on single parents by choice?Are you talking about OP? I think they're a dude and if they need to save up $18k then they're definitely not rich. Also money isn't the only thing. Children still need things, like love, support, and time. Whether couples are selfish or not isn't really relevant here. At the end of the day the OP would be intentionally bringing a child into the world for their benefit while putting the child in a less well off position. Anyone with that mindset isn't ready to be a parent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 02:47 AM |
| 3 | Men, which woman is better? Why?Woman 2. You didn't give this hypothetical woman any downsides | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 02:40 AM |
| 2 | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?Yeah I think it's important to not jump to conclusion but to also realize there are people who will use this to their advantage. Don't let people disrespect your time no matter how lonely you are because I feel like a LOT of women have gotten used to doing this with zero consequences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 02:34 AM |
| 4 | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?I'm similar but it depends on the response. Like if I ask you out and it becomes a guessing game of when you're free I'm not gonna play. But If i ask you out and you say you're not free this day , but are free this day then it's all good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 02:31 AM |
| 6 | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?Lmao wouldn't that just lead to the same outcome with more energy invested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 02:30 AM |
| 9 | Opinions on single parents by choice?I'm going to be brutally honest here but it's the stupidest and most selfish thing a person can do. I'm not sure if you've ever seen Aba and Preach but they interview a girl who wanted to do this because she said "fathers aren't needed". They then provided her numerous stats which say 2 parents homes with fathers do far better. Every time they gave her a reason her response was "but I want a baby". And we can see a lot of the same issues in your post reading it back there's a lot of I. I want to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Why do women really wait for dates? Does a woman making you wait longer for a date increase or decrease your interest?This makes sense. How long do you usually wait | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Is there any legitimate argument to be made for the superiority of women over men?No and to be honest it doesn't make much sense in many of the arguments. They often amount to "women are superior to men provided we are given lower standards that suit us" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 12:25 AM |
| 14 | CMV- Men who struggle to date in today’s social climate have serious physical, social, or emotional flaws."My life experiences really don't match so there's no way the world could be different for anyone else." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 12:21 AM |
| – | Want to ask a for solutionAre you talking about a physical fight or regarding the issues between men and women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 12:11 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLmao you fumbled hard. What you should've done is gone on the date had a good time then asked for separate checks. She wouldn't even be able to complain since if you go by the one who asks pays, she should've paid for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 01:15 AM |
| – | If someone is dating someone else but not enough to set her status on facebook from single and is friendly with you, how can you take her from him?I'm not sure what you mean by that. Are you saying that what it means to be honest and mature change as you get older or your personal standard for it does.. Op has deleted the post but previously he mentioned he had been talking to this girl for multiple days after this and that's he's trying to figure out how to asked her out. What should she have done? ...stopped communicating with OP? Is that hard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 04:05 AM |
| 1 | I think many women realize a huge portion of their 'attraction' comes from 'limited access'.If that's what you too from that then yeah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 04:03 AM |
| 1 | I think many women realize a huge portion of their 'attraction' comes from 'limited access'.Sure I'll give you an example from a womans pov. You are talking to a guy online and in his profile he's handsome, has a nice smile, flirty and very witty. He presents himself as an outgoing fun loving person. You meet him and he's not as handsome, smile is not as good, he's very nervous and when you suggest fun ideas to him he rejects them but then doesn't provide alternatives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 03:21 AM |
| 4 | "Enjoy the decline" is a perfectly viable strategyLmao imagine describing the person you intend to marry not on who they are as a person, but their wealth. Something tells me that marriage isn't going to happen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 03:09 AM |
| – | If someone is dating someone else but not enough to set her status on facebook from single and is friendly with you, how can you take her from him?If your boyfriend was entertaining another girl who he knew was into him would you consider him to be honest and mature? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 02:58 AM |
| – | If someone is dating someone else but not enough to set her status on facebook from single and is friendly with you, how can you take her from him?So you want to bag a girl who isn't honest, seems to be immature and has been leading you on apparently? Good luck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 02:19 AM |
| 1 | I think many women realize a huge portion of their 'attraction' comes from 'limited access'.No you wouldn't becuase then you'd value yourself less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 02:17 AM |
| 1 | I think many women realize a huge portion of their 'attraction' comes from 'limited access'.Yes it's a facade. If I come to you wearing a mask and you say "hey you're wearing a mask" would it make sense for me to say "well that's just you projecting"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 02:17 AM |
| 1 | I think many women realize a huge portion of their 'attraction' comes from 'limited access'.Tinder, hinge, and bumble I know for sure at least last time I checked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Do men require more support than women?I wouldn’t say more support but equal support at least. Where I live I have never seen a homeless woman but there are large encampments of homeless men. Why? Because there are far more support services for homeless women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 09:08 PM |
| 1 | I think many women realize a huge portion of their 'attraction' comes from 'limited access'.There’s a difference between being mysterious about who you are and creating a false perception | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 09:02 PM |
| 1 | I think many women realize a huge portion of their 'attraction' comes from 'limited access'.Of course I’m not saying this is the only factor but it definitely is a very prevalent one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 08:53 PM |
| 1 | I think many women realize a huge portion of their 'attraction' comes from 'limited access'.not saying these women are shut ins. I’d also bet these women are very focused on their appearance and keeping it up even around their friends except maybe the verry close ones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 08:48 PM |
| 1 | I think many women realize a huge portion of their 'attraction' comes from 'limited access'.It’s very common. The apps are also free | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 08:46 PM |
| 0 | I think many women realize a huge portion of their 'attraction' comes from 'limited access'.Not true at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 08:45 PM |
| 1 | I think many women realize a huge portion of their 'attraction' comes from 'limited access'.Well this just supports what I’ve said. If your value is determined by what people on the internet say then there’s an issue. And I’d say that’s just the internet. This also means it’s a self fulfilling issue created by the women who do this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 08:43 PM |
| 1 | I think many women realize a huge portion of their 'attraction' comes from 'limited access'.it’s true outside dating as well I believe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 08:35 PM |
| 1 | I think many women realize a huge portion of their 'attraction' comes from 'limited access'.I mean my musings are backed up by science and statistic. Apparently it’s such an issue there’s entire movement against the presentation of unrealistic body standards. And of course it would. Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you have a healthy view of yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 06:02 PM |
| 4 | I think many women realize a huge portion of their 'attraction' comes from 'limited access'.as did you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 03:05 AM |
| -7 | I think many women realize a huge portion of their 'attraction' comes from 'limited access'.Would you disagree that the average women is curating, altering, filtering and photoshopping her image far more than the average man? And I mean if you are constantly presenting a heavily altered image of you as reality what is one to think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 03:04 AM |
| 1 | I think many women realize a huge portion of their 'attraction' comes from 'limited access'.That's a part of it as well but obviously in order to meet someone eventually she can't be a shut in. But she always has the option to return to that façade should her ego be damage. I'd say that's part of the whole trend of going on social media and bashing your date. And of course it's that deep if not deeper. Unless your claim is that unrealistic standards of beauty have zero effect on how people (women specifically) view themselves and their value in society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 02:58 AM |
| -1 | If paternity tests were to become mandatory, we would also need a database with every man's DNA to compare them to.Ok so if it's everyone responsibility then we should all get a vote on whether or not she has to abort. Only fair right? You know Idk why I'm even entertaining this dumbass discussion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 02:27 AM |
| 1 | If paternity tests were to become mandatory, we would also need a database with every man's DNA to compare them to.Because not every man is truthful about who he is. Using a fake name and skipping town shouldn't be all it takes for a man to get out of paying child support. You don't understand how DNA works do you? It'd be an unfortunate scenario, but sure. The baby's gotta be provided for. Pay up. What is your definition of a fuckboy? This may come as a surprise to you, but it's possible to have opinions and still understand scenarios where people make decisions that I personally wouldn't. But here you're j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 02:24 AM |
| 3 | I think many women realize a huge portion of their 'attraction' comes from 'limited access'.Yes as mentioned in the post they're doing it for attention. Maybe they aren't interested but that doesn't prevent them from getting that ego boost from the fake them being applauded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 02:20 AM |
| -3 | I think many women realize a huge portion of their 'attraction' comes from 'limited access'.It's much more normalized for women and they are also able to hide behind the facade. Men not so much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 02:12 AM |
| -1 | I think many women realize a huge portion of their 'attraction' comes from 'limited access'.Thanks for agreeing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 02:11 AM |
| 0 | If paternity tests were to become mandatory, we would also need a database with every man's DNA to compare them to.Let's say I agree. How does that justify the responsibility inherently being put on every other man who didn't fuck her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 02:10 AM |
| 1 | If paternity tests were to become mandatory, we would also need a database with every man's DNA to compare them to.The answer is obviously no. That doesn't change that the fuckboys that do exist need to pay up. Sure so why should ALL men provide DNA when the woman can just say I had sex with this person, this person and this person? Of course it's not impossible. But that doesn't stop the fact that there's a whole-ass baby that needs to be provided for. So the man is still a fuckboy even though he was lied to? I'm for abortion all through gestation. I'm even for financial abortions (with a few stipulations).… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 01:54 AM |
| 1 | If paternity tests were to become mandatory, we would also need a database with every man's DNA to compare them to.Ok a couple of questions: You didn't answer my first one which was do you think every man is a fuck boy Is it impossible that the woman doesn't disclose that she's in a relationship with someone else? I take it you're against abortion? Do you think women lack the mental capacity to remember the men they slept with around the time they got pregnant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 01:16 AM |
| 1 | If paternity tests were to become mandatory, we would also need a database with every man's DNA to compare them to.Are you of the mind that every man is a fuckboy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Do unattractive women get hit up for sex more than attractive ones?Of course! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Why do older women not understand that most guys who end up with younger women are just playing the odds?I think the simplest way to put it is they're haters and haters gonna hate. That's what they do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 12:41 AM |
| 13 | Why do older women not understand that most guys who end up with younger women are just playing the odds?Why do you think you should get to make the decisions about how an adult woman chooses to live her life? This is a genuine question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 12:23 AM |
| 6 | If paternity tests were to become mandatory, we would also need a database with every man's DNA to compare them to.Since a man who is not the child's actual father isn't required to provide for them, there needs to be a way to find the actual father in these cases Perhaps the woman should know the people she slept with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Women will reject or lose interest in a guy for the most frivolous reasons, and then completely rule him out no matter what he does to redeem himselfIt's kinda funny I was talking to a girl for a bit and we were hitting it off. She said she was really into watching sports and I said I"ve never looked into it because I never had the time but loved playing sports. She decided that was her dealbreaker because apparently during football season she spends 12-14 hours a day watching sports and sports related stuff. Weird but this is why you always keep a roster until you're exclusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?Does the approval of another women dictate what women should wear or how they should present themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?…you do realize the penis is on the front of the body right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?Who said these people were going around rubbing their penises on things? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 07:37 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?If you don’t think there are many cultures that don’t cover genitals then you’re very uncultured. Also you’re still appealing to popularity So women’s autonomy shouldn’t be limited by the thoughts of others but men’s should? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 07:36 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?It shouldn’t. Why should men’s autonomy be limited by those same thoughts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?So does skin, mouths, noses and eyes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 07:26 PM |
| -2 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?Alright seems like you’re intent on misunderstanding what I’m saying. That’s usually what happens when people can’t keep up their bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 05:23 AM |
| -3 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?So confident yet so wrong. You would work more in reading comprehension and less on snark | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 05:14 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?No that was the other guy. Mine was asking your post about it being genitalia | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 05:00 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?Lmao how this comment is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 04:57 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?This isn’t to be rude but don’t think you have a good understanding of how penises work. Dudes aren’t just randomly busting in their pants and building up dirt. Not even sure what to respond to this because it’s just incorrect Idk how to ask the question any clearer tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 04:56 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?So? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 04:45 AM |
| -2 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?So you literally didn’t say Fine at a gym or a rave, not fine at work or around kids, as an example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?Sure but just because they exist doesn’t mean they should or that there’s any reason they do. A penis isn’t anymore unhygienic than your hands assuming this person cleans regularly. So do you think it’s fair to say you not wanting people to dress this way is because you have a negative perception of it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 04:43 AM |
| -7 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?Can you explain why you personally would find it inappropriate at a gym but not at a work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?Yes that’s an appeal to popularity. Would you say you only agree with the popular opinion or norm when it’s something that you believe is right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?So to be clear are you saying you don’t want to see in public but would accept it or that since you don’t want to see it in public it should be allowed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?It’s pretty easy to hide any part of the body. Ever seen someone in a Burqa? So by your logic everyone should be walking around in those Men sexualize a lot of the body parts of women. So should they be required to cover up the part men sexualize such as the butt, boobs thighs etc. pretty much go back to the “if you show and ankle you’re a whore days”? Or maybe just go full burqa just to be safe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?I haven’t made a claim to agree or disagree with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 04:16 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?So far you've given the most honest and straight forward answer. Everyone else seems to be to scared to answer, possibly out of fear of revealing their hypocrisy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?I used to shower cheek to cheek with 30-40 other dudes. Never noticed a single one of their penises | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 03:21 AM |
| -8 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?What's that got to do with what you previously said. You said I'm talking about emphasizing literal genitalia but didn't come to a point regarding that statement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 03:15 AM |
| – | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?So you're appealing to popularity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 03:13 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?I don't have a problem with women wearing yoga pants | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 03:12 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?Not really | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 03:12 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?Then don't look at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 03:04 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?Why's that? Do penises offend you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?When I do please point it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 03:01 AM |
| -7 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?Go on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?Testicles and penises ARE genitalia and don’t need to be displayed naked in public The question I'm asking is why? Because it's genitalia is a circular answer. it's not different from me saying people shouldn't display their feet in public because they're feet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 02:58 AM |
| -1 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?Tbc its 100% intentional in all of these cases. It's a fashion choice that they enjoy and makes them feel confident about themselves. Not sure about your personal feminine hygiene but assuming a man is showering regularly a penis would not be any dirtier than say his hands. As for space where's the line between controlling what men can wear and decorum | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 02:56 AM |
| – | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?Interesting. Can you explain why it matters whether something is genitalia? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Would you have an issue with men showing off their penises?They're not showing it off for anyone. They just like the way it looks and makes them feel more confident in themselves. And why does it matter if it's genitalia or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 02:44 AM |
| 3 | Dating advice, therapy bait-and-switchAlong with that most people who go to therapy and boast about it are ALWAYS some of the most maladjusted people. They will use therapy as bot something to say they're better than you and also use it to defend themselves when they fuck up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 02:34 AM |
| 25 | Would you care if your gf hung out with guys she’s slept with in the past?Yes You don't just sleep with someone you have zero feelings for. And if she is able to do that that creates a bigger issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls tend to arrange social groups in terms off attractiveness, whereas boys tend to do it in terms of interest?Almost like I was hyperbolizing when saying "perfectly" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls tend to arrange social groups in terms off attractiveness, whereas boys tend to do it in terms of interest?Yes but there is still the element of truth. In this case it identifies that pretty girls get privilege's in a school environment and is taking that theme and exaggerating it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 01:18 AM |
| 5 | Do things become easier when you are a high-value man?I mean look at any male celebrity. I'd say the vast majority of them have some story about how suddenly when they gained fame women started finding them attractive and wanting to spend time with them. I think thats the evidence right there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 01:10 AM |
| 10 | Change my mind: Men shouldn't settle for a woman past her primeWhat if that man himself isn't shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls tend to arrange social groups in terms off attractiveness, whereas boys tend to do it in terms of interest?And numerous, if not all movies, take inspiration, themes and truth from real life in order to present a story that the audience can relate to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls tend to arrange social groups in terms off attractiveness, whereas boys tend to do it in terms of interest?That’s what I said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 02:50 PM |
| -1 | Why do girls tend to arrange social groups in terms off attractiveness, whereas boys tend to do it in terms of interest?Yeah I'd hope not considering the school system is filled with adults. I'm talking about within the social aspect among students. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 01:37 AM |
| 25 | Why do girls tend to arrange social groups in terms off attractiveness, whereas boys tend to do it in terms of interest?The movie Mean Girls explains it perfectly. It's a value thing. Normally the pretty girls are the ones who get the special treatment in school and by being a pretty girl you get the perks of that. Boys on the other hand, just wanna have fun | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 12:33 AM |
| – | Women, if you’re fatter than your dating profile pics, let people know or use newer photosI actually just had the same thing happen to me as well a few days ago. The girl in the profile was ok, not what i would normally go for but i've been challenging myself to go on 50 dates just to see what's out there. When I met her she was bigger than in her pictures, had a big ass forehead and not very attractive. I figured whatever, I'm here and she made the trip so let's make the best of it and maybe we can be friends. From the start her vibe is just off, and one of the first comments she ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Women on Reddit do not represent normal, every day girls and so the dialogue and “blue pill” opinions here are irrelevant to most menI agree but I also think with the amount of males you'll get a wider variety of opinions. most of the women here seem to have some kind of neurodivergency and seem to be either under 18 or over 35 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 12:11 AM |
| 0 | Women are afforded a lot more leeway in what they can get away withI’m not gonna keep reading the same thing just for you to backpedal. If you wanna go in circles feel free to reread the thread as many times as you like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 08:01 AM |
| – | Women wearing revealing clothingThen you have a skewed view of how women normally look when lazily chilling at home | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Women wearing revealing clothingNever said she was dressed like a stripper | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 02:29 AM |
| 0 | Women wearing revealing clothingAlrighty then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Women wearing revealing clothingIt's the one linked in the comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 02:15 AM |
| -5 | Women wearing revealing clothingYou clearly didn't watch the same video as me then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 02:11 AM |
| 0 | Which one is correct?Why does it have to be one or the other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 01:56 AM |
| -2 | Women wearing revealing clothingWhat about fresh makeup, perfect hair and a cameraman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 01:53 AM |
| 0 | Women wearing revealing clothingWhen women say they don't dress like that for other people it's a lie. Just because they say it's not doesn't mean too much. I mean with the tiktoks or whatever those are you shared. it's clearly staged unless you think the camera man is just invisible. She clearly prepared what she was wearing so she could look good for the camera. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 01:38 AM |
| 0 | Women are afforded a lot more leeway in what they can get away withI can read but your comment makes an assumption specifically in an attempt to support your narrative. Just as it's possible a couple may not be able to afford a maid (they aren't that expensive) they maybe able to as well. Further whether or not you can afford a maid has nothing to do with whether the profession exist or not. Also I don't agree with you. Your second paragraph just shows the issue in your thinking because you're saying that for some reason in the event a trash needs to be taken o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenBeing alone and far enough away are 2 different things and clearly neither of those things were true. Quit defending predators | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 01:25 AM |
| 1 | What advice would you give your daughters when it comes to dating, marriage and family formation?I have a baseline for how I would raise my kids which is play at least one sport, practice at least one instrument, and study at least one language. They would have chores to complete around the house but they would get an allowance as well. They would be required to wear clothes that present them in a respectable manner and doesn't give off the image of a low class person. Based on how the school system is going today I would either home school or send them to a private school not necessarily t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 12:16 AM |
| 0 | Women are afforded a lot more leeway in what they can get away withIf a man doesn’t know how to load a dishwasher, there isn’t a professional he can call to help him solve the problem; That would be called a maid It adds to their partner’s mental load without taking something else off, just so the man doesn’t have to learn how to do a non-preferred task. So kind of like when a woman has the man change a tire, take out the trash, or mow the lawn or do other basic handyman task? All of things which she can learn to do? This just supports my point that women get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenShe thought she was alone...on a public beach...with numerous people nearby? ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 11:58 PM |
| 4 | The DHS paid almost 700k to a counter-terrorism NGO to intercept and divert Twitter traffic away from people in the “manosphere” and those who take issue with promiscuity. Do you agree with these actions and the funding of this report?Only question I have is wtf did they do with that $700k because it's clearly not being used to divert people away lol. I'm not even into the 'manosphere' and get promoted all these videos | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 02:10 AM |
| 2 | If men don’t pay for dates are they willing to change their preferences for the sake of equality?You are not understanding. Paying is one OF MANY WAYS to make someone feel special. I understand completely. The problem is that in your thread you've only equated feeling special or feeling the need to do any of these things to money. What you're not understanding is you're looking at this from your own selfish view point and acting as if the man isn't providing anything of value to the date if he's not paying. Men prefer make up just like women prefer a fit body. Men like good skin just as wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 01:51 AM |
| 2 | If men don’t pay for dates are they willing to change their preferences for the sake of equality?Yeah and I accepted your compromise and then you decided you to renege on it. How hard is it for a man to make a woman feel special emotionally? How hard is it for you to make yourself feel special emotionally? If you self worth is based on the money you recieve from men in return for wearing make up and having sex then there are deeper issues that you need to solve before you start dating I’m not willing to put my time into someone who doesn’t make me feel special in some way, because it shows … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 01:29 AM |
| 9 | Women are afforded a lot more leeway in what they can get away withSure just like a woman can learn to change a tire, take out the trash or mow the lawn. I have a lot more to say on that subject but even if I accept your comment at face value, men don't get away with it while women do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Women are afforded a lot more leeway in what they can get away withBecause there were multiple messages in our previous chats where I brought it up. Next excuse? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 01:06 AM |
| 2 | If men don’t pay for dates are they willing to change their preferences for the sake of equality?Or even better, quit depending on men to provide these things for you. The fact that you are equating men wanting to pay for you on a date to your own perception of your self worth shoes there are deep seated issues there. Make yourself feel beautiful without make up. Make yourself comfortable with aging. Don't sleep with men who pressure you to be on birth control. Then when you find that man pay for yourself or better yet maybe he'll even pay for you. Just be ready to make a compromise on your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Women are afforded a lot more leeway in what they can get away withBecause she has a normal mental capacity and the messages were still in our chat. So even in the case she did forget she could easily go back to remind herself about something we spoke about multiple times (which she did but only when it was convenient for her). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 12:59 AM |
| 37 | Women are afforded a lot more leeway in what they can get away withIt's weaponized incompetence and i'd say 99% of women use it at least weekly. Have a female acquittance, and I decided to have a straight up discussion with her about something I had been friendly about before. Suddenly her memory goes blank and she can't recall something that happened less than a month ago and despite me attempting to speak to her numerous times about it she "has no idea where this is coming from". I was attempting to reconcile an issue but at that point I realized she's the is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 02:22 AM |
| 2 | If men don’t pay for dates are they willing to change their preferences for the sake of equality?I did the math on it and Op's total entitlement for a date where she's agreeable, looks good and is putting out at the end of the night is $7.80. Definitely not a long term thing i'd go for but if I was bored and wanted to get out then it seems reasonable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 01:38 AM |
| 2 | If men don’t pay for dates are they willing to change their preferences for the sake of equality?If women are expected to pay to compete for your attention but you not theirs, that is not equality. When are women expected to pay to compete for men's attention? Men have an undeniable preference for women who wear make up. Curling my hair is cheap, make up is not ($100 a month), and the prices are raising. Even men who say they don’t like make up they unknowingly praise us for wearing it contributing to our usage of it. Men need to have a genuine preference for women who don’t wear make up. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 01:36 AM |
| 5 | In the current year, do you think men should pay for dates? Why or why not?No a man shouldn't have to pay for a date and it shouldn't even be an expectation anymore. The purpose of the date is to go out and meet someone and have a good time with them. If a woman's acceptance of a date is based on whether he pays or not, she's a user. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Is it becoming a growing trend for women (and especially young women) to casually disrespect and sexually demean men they believe are less attractive than them with no provocation?What do you think was spiteful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Can advocates of casual sex propose it’s merits?WHy do you think it leads only to the objectification of women? Why do you think every connection we make in our lives needs to be committed, deep and meaningful? What's wrong with rudimentary pleasure? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Is it becoming a growing trend for women (and especially young women) to casually disrespect and sexually demean men they believe are less attractive than them with no provocation?That response doesn't even make sense but Why would I be embarrased? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Is it becoming a growing trend for women (and especially young women) to casually disrespect and sexually demean men they believe are less attractive than them with no provocation?Lol so the guy she wanted was some invisible dude in the middle of the parking lot? Because besides the 30 seconds I spent attempting to talk to her, I didn't see her the rest of the night | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Is it becoming a growing trend for women (and especially young women) to casually disrespect and sexually demean men they believe are less attractive than them with no provocation?Who said it made me a better person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Is it becoming a growing trend for women (and especially young women) to casually disrespect and sexually demean men they believe are less attractive than them with no provocation?So she was too nervous to hold a conversation but not nervous enough to request a ride with a stranger Girls ditch their friends all the time. I see it happen every other time I go to the club at least | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 11:02 PM |
| 3 | Is it becoming a growing trend for women (and especially young women) to casually disrespect and sexually demean men they believe are less attractive than them with no provocation?I think it’s not even new. Many women seem to have the idea that if they aren’t attracted to a man they don’t need to show basic respect. I can see a major change in the way women will act when they think they are “out of my league” be when I have something to offer them. I’ve mention before in this sub the quickest switch I’ve seen. one day I tried started a conversation with a girl in our mutual group (the only one I didn’t know) and she completely ignored me and acted like i was annoying her.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Contrary to what the Internet and Hollywood makes you belief, why does it seem Cougars are a minority and most women don’t want to date men their age nor younger than themselves?Yeah he seems to have deleted that part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Contrary to what the Internet and Hollywood makes you belief, why does it seem Cougars are a minority and most women don’t want to date men their age nor younger than themselves?I’m not talking about the cougar part I’m talking about his story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Contrary to what the Internet and Hollywood makes you belief, why does it seem Cougars are a minority and most women don’t want to date men their age nor younger than themselves?Maybe it didn’t have to do so much with your age but you and having different interest Edit: OP initially had a story about a girl in her mid 20s who was the same age as him. She didn’t want to date him because she wasn’t into partying while he was. Must’ve seen this comment realized how stupid he sounded and deleted that part | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 08:02 PM |
| – | Hypothetical: Consent and ConceptionI answered it once. And no the man wouldn’t have a say in the outcome, he just doesn’t have the responsibility of the outcome. It’s not that hard you’re just over complicating it for some reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 07:53 PM |
| – | Hypothetical: Consent and ConceptionWhy are you asking the same question twice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 06:56 AM |
| 3 | Rape complainants should not be believed by defaultYou’re being purposely vague because giving details would prove youre either embellishing or outright bsing. I can go online and find you public court records where people were convicted of rape that includes the names of the investigators, and judge. But even if we believe you this means you also have no idea of what the evidence specifically was nor the outcome. But shouldn’t you be complaining to your sibling who “work on investigating rape cases to do a better job” Yes the prosecution rate i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 06:52 AM |
| – | Hypothetical: Consent and Conceptionwhichever gender is the rapist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 06:39 AM |
| – | Rape complainants should not be believed by defaultUm if your siblings work in rape investigations (not even sure wtf that means. Are they Detectives? Forensic Analyst? Crime Scene photographers?) and they are telling people what evidence they got in an ongoing investigation then I'm thinking they might be the problem. While rape isn't always prosecuted it's also not under prosecuted and the standard of evidence isn't high. It's the same standard of evidence given for any other case under the law. If you want to lower that standard then you woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 01:12 AM |
| – | Hypothetical: Consent and ConceptionSheesh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 12:58 AM |
| – | Hypothetical: Consent and Conception1: By drunk, i'm going to assume you mean like slurring words, falling out of chairs and things of that nature. In that case it's not possible for either person to consent. 2: Since consent isn't possible to be obtained the nondrunk person is responsible for any result of their actions. These answers would remain the same regardless of the gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 12:57 AM |
| 8 | Many men seem to not be interested in promiscuous women. What are the positives?If we compare 2 women who are the same in everyway except promiscuity there's really nothing positive about it even if you're a promiscuous man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 12:47 AM |
| 1 | I think offering money to women is so effective that they make it illegal.I mean have literal proof it does though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 09:06 PM |
| – | Debate A Man should be allowed to opt out being a father if he says it enough early in a pregnancy.How ironic is it that 200 years ago, some white dude was saying this same thing about black people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 05:03 PM |
| – | Debate A Man should be allowed to opt out being a father if he says it enough early in a pregnancy.You’re gonna get a lot of the same parroted responses that always come up in these discussions which basically can be summed up to: “I see no problem with a woman aborting a baby because it’s not yet a human and it’s her body but if you don’t want provide financially you are literally the devil” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t the men here do speed dating?But they still go. Enough for these events to continue and be successful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 04:47 AM |
| 3 | Why don’t the men here do speed dating?Lol if I edited my comment it would say 'edited x minutes' ago which it does not. Good try tho. Better luck next time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 03:13 AM |
| 8 | Why don’t the men here do speed dating?Even in those select videos there were men. So...yeah men are going to these events | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 03:12 AM |
| 6 | Why don’t the men here do speed dating?Why would a man go to a lesbian speed dating event? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 03:09 AM |
| -1 | I think offering money to women is so effective that they make it illegal.It's funnier you think it won't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Why attempt to change your partner’s lifestyle rather than just finding someone who matches yours?I completely agree. I was sleeping with women and spending my money recklessly on myself while single and she expects me to change in anyway which acknowledges and appreciates her feelings in a relationship? Next thing you know she's going to want me to take time away from doing what I want to do and spend some of it with her. Sounds like an abusive relationship to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 03:06 AM |
| 13 | Why don’t the men here do speed dating?If women are going to speed dating events and was able to get 100 first dates (assuming they were all men) that means that men are going to speed dating events... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Can men give some concrete examples of being emotionally vulnerable to women, and women reacting negatively?I don't think i've ever been emotionally vulnerable with a woman because I've never gotten the chance. When ever I have wanted to have this conversation they just disengage, make it about themselves or completely zone out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 11:42 PM |
| 1 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionCan you provide me some proof of that claim? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 11:35 PM |
| 1 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionI agree but I also think it's intentional in order to be bais towards women. Plus in these studies I don't think they're actually going into peoples homes and tracking how long they spend on chores. I'm pretty sure it's perception based where they ask people how long they THINK they spend on chores. So for all we know women could just be over inflating the numbers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 11:33 PM |
| 1 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionMany people will intentionally try to make their lives seems worse than they actually are either for sympathy, leverage or a sense of superiority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 11:30 PM |
| 1 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionThe people who are more likely to get shot are also the same people who place themselves in situations where they are more likely to get shot (Ex. commiting crimes). So thanks fo helping prove my point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 11:27 PM |
| 1 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionI'd say women since most of the chores men handle around the house are also the chores generally don't want to do and if most men took over the chores women do they probably would be accused of, as another user brought up, weaponized incompetence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 11:26 PM |
| 1 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question Discussionwhere are these women? Also if women didn't want to do the chores as much they could...do them less maybe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 11:22 PM |
| 1 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question Discussionwho’s demanding chores to be taken away | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 05:37 PM |
| 1 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionOf course they do. It happens all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 05:31 PM |
| 1 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionI don’t know what you mean by this. Please explain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 03:58 PM |
| 1 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionSome studies shows that women are more observant and have better memory due to increased estrogen so that would suggest they notice and are more aware of when things aren’t neat. Cleaning has been shown to provide a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction. So to combine that a man may clean something and not get the same enjoyment out of a women because it doesn’t make a significant difference. This is why some men may wait till a chore is big to take care of it rather than doing the small thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionNah they can wait | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 03:46 PM |
| 0 | The persistent myth of the "second shift"10-15 minutes a day more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 03:46 PM |
| 2 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionI actually knew a couple with a cleaning person and the wife would insist on cleaning before the cleaning person came because…they didn’t want them to see their dirty house | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 03:45 PM |
| 2 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionMy request “doesn’t make sense” because you can’t prove your claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 03:41 PM |
| 6 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionIf the nice colorful charts can’t help you then neither can I | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 04:53 AM |
| -1 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionCool studies now please provide the one I asked for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 04:45 AM |
| 4 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question Discussionhttps://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 04:43 AM |
| 6 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionHaha yes I was gonna bring that up. I see the “weaponized incompetence” Bs everywhere now. Like literally videos of men asking for help with something or messing up something and it’s weaponized incompetence. But imagine if a man did the same thing everytime the wife fucked up? That’s be emotional abuse I bet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 04:29 AM |
| – | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionOh I see you’re just saying random words in hopes you get lucky and they happen to mean something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 04:18 AM |
| 7 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question Discussionyou didn't engage with a single thing i've said here so i've got no idea wtf you're on about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 03:38 AM |
| 2 | The discussion surrounding the chore gap is missing a major question DiscussionCan you show me a study that shows a significant amount of women are divorcing over doing 2hrs more of chores a week? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 03:35 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo prostitution as a form of welfare? interesting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 02:35 AM |
| -4 | The persistent myth of the "second shift"Here's the funny thing about this. You ever notice that most of the time the women who are complaining about spending an extra 10-15 minutes a day on chores also aren't the women who are married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Will AI boyfriends make males obsolete?Lol yes. Because everyone knows males exist for the sole purpose of catering to females. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Career women, "tradwives" and generational poverty.I’m sorry and don’t take this as an insult but you’re 16…my guess is you’re still in high school, live with your parents and follow their rules. I’d also bet that your business isn’t registered and you don’t pay taxes on it. All that is just to say you’re living life on easy mode right now and don’t have the responsibilities of an adult. This is what you think you want and maybe in the future it will be. But it’s kinda ridiculous to claim what lifestyle makes women most happy when you don’t have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Do men feel "threatened" when a more attractive male enters the room?Never had the issue. As a straight guy I don’t see men as attractive in the way women see them as attractive, and I guess what i notice would be admirable. If I see an admirable feature (Good style, good skin, something like that) I normally will give them a complement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 08:42 PM |
| – | Debate: It is a logical fact that if a Father „helps“ his daughter to find a man, that she will pick better and in fact it is sad that we dismissed that concept.Wtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 03:30 AM |
| – | Debate: It is a logical fact that if a Father „helps“ his daughter to find a man, that she will pick better and in fact it is sad that we dismissed that concept.If you think this is a logical fact the what is there to debate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Men need to make these dating resolutions in 2024I have read your comments and that's not the compariosn you made Just remember. These rules should be for finding a long term partner. You can still bang all the women that dont fill your criteria. Otherwise it might be a long wait. Most women nowadays arent for relationships. It's clear you havent read this post. It's not about not talking to women at all. It's about not wasting energy on people who don't reciprocate or progress. If you want to hook up with a girl and she's rejecting you or pla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Men need to make these dating resolutions in 2024The comparison isn't between sending a text message here and there and constantly keeping in touch with someone. It's between sending a text message here and there and NOT keeping in touch with someone at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Men need to make these dating resolutions in 2024You literally just described giving more effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Men need to make these dating resolutions in 2024Why would you put more effort into someone you want to hook up with over someone you want a relationship with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Men need to make these dating resolutions in 2024Doubt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 10:26 PM |
| 12 | Q4M: would you feel disappointed or betrayed that a friend wants to date you?All except D. They're very specific and assume either ignorance or malice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 03:02 AM |
| 14 | Q4M: would you feel disappointed or betrayed that a friend wants to date you?To be fair, the option you provided seemed to be intentionally assuming the worst rather than giving fair and reasonable options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 02:26 AM |
| 16 | Q4M: would you feel disappointed or betrayed that a friend wants to date you?B. Disappointed and betrayed that she was pretending to be your friend in order to get sex You make that implication here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 02:24 AM |
| 25 | Q4M: would you feel disappointed or betrayed that a friend wants to date you?D. Other I would appreciate the interest and if I was interested in her I'd see how we'd work out. If I wasn't then I'd politely tell her I'm not interested. If she feels the need to cut ties because she wants something more I'd understand it and would give her all the time she needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 02:23 AM |
| 5 | Do women use 'casual sex' as a way to 'relationship zone' men? Or do men and women understand 'casual' differently?Sure I agree but that's when you talk about what you want. If the woman continues to say they want something casual while also seeking things of an exclusive relationship, what would you call that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 02:13 AM |
| 4 | Do women use 'casual sex' as a way to 'relationship zone' men? Or do men and women understand 'casual' differently?Can you rephrase? I'm not sure what you're asking in connection to the prompt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 12:59 AM |
| – | Would you be with someone who accuses you of cheating for no reason?People aren't always logical. If someone accused me of cheating and there was a way I could 100% prove to them whether I was or wasn't I'd do that. If there was no way to prove that then I would sit down and talk to them about why they think I am and try to show them that I'm not. If they still accuse me and theres nothing I can do then I'd break up with them and find someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 12:34 AM |
| 0 | Should guys take it personally if they have to wait till their 30s to have success with women?I'm not sure what you mean by personally but in my mind I'd say yes because if you have to wait until your 30s it's something about you personally. That's not to say you should be bitter against anyone in particular | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 11:40 PM |
| – | Why would someone claim sexism without any proof?It’s easier to say something is sexist rather than take personal responsibility | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 09:02 PM |
| 1 | For those of you who think women can get anything for free?If you’re speaking specifically about home bills then duh… why would they have the information to do that. We clearly are talking about bills such as restaurants bars and retail | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Men need to make these dating resolutions in 2024Lmao so you’re attempting to simultaneously brag about “speaking to more women than me” while also saying people shouldn’t talk to women. Thank you for being an example of who not to be like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Men need to make these dating resolutions in 2024So what you’re saying is you’re ok with doing everything except getting out of your comfort zone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 08:42 AM |
| 1 | For those of you who think women can get anything for free?Then either you’re drastically over estimating the attractiveness of the group, have something very offputting about you or don’t ever go out to public businesses | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Men need to make these dating resolutions in 2024These same rules woudl aply for a short term partner as well and probably more stringent. A lot of people have it backwards where they are willing to put more effort into something casual for some reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 08:37 AM |
| 0 | Men need to make these dating resolutions in 2024I didn’t say that was my idea of success but let me tell you why all that doesn’t matter. If I approach you in the store and you reject me then for all intents and purposes it’s the same outcome if I never approached you at all. Nothing changes in my life. Chances are I will never see you again and if I do the interaction probably wouldn’t be significant enough to remember you unless I decided to approach again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 08:35 AM |
| 36 | For those of you who think women can get anything for free?Are you ugly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Men need to make these dating resolutions in 2024Mate your standard realistic tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 07:04 AM |
| 2 | I recently came across a video that says men who want to assume both gender roles in a relationship are inherently narcissistic. Is this true?Didn’t even watch the videos. Saw the profile. Straight shill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 07:04 AM |
| 2 | I recently came across a video that says men who want to assume both gender roles in a relationship are inherently narcissistic. Is this true?Unless she’s got any actual qualifications it sounds like a grift. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 12:25 AM |
| 1 | I recently came across a video that says men who want to assume both gender roles in a relationship are inherently narcissistic. Is this true?Was this video based on actual science or was it just some random person with a theory | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Men need to make these dating resolutions in 2024I’ll assume that answer means zero times. And thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Men need to make these dating resolutions in 2024No you’re approaching because you see a woman you find attractive and want to get to know. How many times have you or a someone you know faced some significant set back from approaching a woman in the street? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Men need to make these dating resolutions in 2024I think this is just paranoia. I’ve cold approached numerous time and have never been pepper sprayed, beaten up by a bf or arrested by police. Unles you’re chasing women down alleyways demanding their number you’re going to be good 90% of the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Men need to make these dating resolutions in 2024Thank you for this comment. I think it better shows why men need to follow these changes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Men need to make these dating resolutions in 2024but men don't wanna pay for dates for women they don't know "what they bring to the table" Seems like the solution to this would be for women to pay for themselves. Penpals is just a waste of time for both parties and will lead to disappoinment 9/10 times. Reason being you're not becoming attracted to them, you're becoming attracted to your idealized version of them. Obviously very few can meet that standard so it can only go lower | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Men need to make these dating resolutions in 20242 weeks to meet in person and actually talk. 1 week is ideal but 2 weeks is more realistic since she's probably got other things planned. If yall can't find an hour or 2 to meet in person in 2 weeks it's a major sign it's not gonna work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 04:43 PM |
| 1 | What’s the deal in regards to woman on women sexual abuse being completely ignored?Transpeople, everywhere, all the time in any circumstances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 04:39 PM |
| 1 | What’s the deal in regards to woman on women sexual abuse being completely ignored?So how do you explain so much coverage of transpeople who make up maybe 1% of the population | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Men need to make these dating resolutions in 2024So confident yet so wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 02:16 PM |
| 17 | Men need to make these dating resolutions in 2024I know. But hopefully at least one guy will come across this and follow it like I did many moons ago | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Men need to make these dating resolutions in 2024Lol you’re saying I don’t know the meaning of marketing? Good thing my bosses haven’t figure that out yet I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 12:09 PM |
| 2 | Men need to make these dating resolutions in 2024So you’re telling me the purpose of marketing is to invest time and resources into spreading a wide net and hoping to find customers rather than investing those resources and that time into targeting a specific demographic of people most likely to buy the product? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 11:56 AM |
| 9 | Men need to make these dating resolutions in 2024I see how you can call it strict but that’s because it’s meant to be. Being strict and intentional is what keeps the quality high. You want people that want you and if you’re hitting it off chatting they should have no issue finding a time in 2 weeks (at least that’s been the case in my experience) Also 3 flakes for someone you haven’t met is wild! This really just shows a lack of self respect and dignity. Have you seriously had a first date with someone who’s flaked on you 3 times? How’d that g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Men need to make these dating resolutions in 2024and I get the feeling that your the kind of dude who takes any kind of push back as a personal affront. Just giving advice that worked for me I also don’t think you know how marketing works since what you describe is the opposite | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 11:36 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPretty sure it’s another fake story. You can’t just kick someone out of their own house | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 11:28 AM |
| 4 | Men need to make these dating resolutions in 2024That would fall under #4. And yes patience is key but it does matter how patient you are if you’re waiting for a bucket to fill with water with a hole in the bottom. You plug the hole or it’s not gonna happen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 11:17 AM |
| 3 | Actually a man still being inexperienced in his 20s can be a red flag...And people with those traits tend to be virgin more often than the average population. If we assume this is true it’s not because they’re virgins that they act like this, but rather that them acting like this is why they’re virgins You propably wouldnt feel FOMO, if you werent a virgin. So you would be less likely to be as desperate to find a relationship. So In your mind it makes more sense that instead of locking down the person who wants to have sex with this sexual struggling person, that pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 11:14 AM |
| 2 | What’s the deal in regards to woman on women sexual abuse being completely ignored?Oh my bad “2.5% of the population faces sexual assault by their partners” “Annnndddd….?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 11:04 AM |
| 11 | Actually a man still being inexperienced in his 20s can be a red flag...Your logic doesn’t make sense because it’s backwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 10:29 AM |
| 6 | What’s the deal in regards to woman on women sexual abuse being completely ignored?What an insane response lmao. “43.8% of lesbians experience sexual assault by their partners” “Annnddd….?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 10:25 AM |
| 16 | Actually a man still being inexperienced in his 20s can be a red flag...1) that has nothing to do with being a virgin. Many people in specialized fields are this way. 2) doubt but again has nothing to do with being a virgin 3) so now virginity causes autsim.. hmm 4) ok well chances are they’re still asocial nerds so what’s changed that people now want to pursue them. Could it be that stem degree that gets them close to 6 figures | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 10:22 AM |
| – | If ever, at what age do you think “youth” stops becoming an excuse?Interesting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Does Any Man Actually Do Better On Dating Apps Than In Real Life?Both It’s very easy for a woman to hide their true looks behind filters and edits and also their personality by having the abilty to think of how they want to come off and that can’t be done irl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 03:17 AM |
| 15 | Does Any Man Actually Do Better On Dating Apps Than In Real Life?I get more quantity on apps but better quality in person and that’s really just because it’s easier to get someone’s vibe in person so you know to bail out whereas on apps it’s a sunken cost thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Why do fathers react so differently to the idea of their daughters dating?I think this has less to do with her going away with a boy and more to do with knowing one day she won’t be a little girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 05:38 AM |
| – | Women hate age gap relationships because they are scared of being tossed aside in favour of young womenOne thing I love about this conversation is that I’m feminism it’s always “let women do what they want it’s not your business”. Onlyfans? Empowering. Sexwork? Get your bag girl. Dating a guy 10 years old? REEEEE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 05:35 AM |
| 1 | If ever, at what age do you think “youth” stops becoming an excuse?So how do you explain others who were also young who didn’t make do stupid shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 05:32 AM |
| 1 | If ever, at what age do you think “youth” stops becoming an excuse?I’ve said numerous times I didn’t listen to the Miley Cyrus song. I don’t know anything about her. I said the song just reminded me of people using youth as an excuse Saying I was young is a way of excusing the behavior because it suggest that youth is the reason. But everyone is young at some point but haven’t made those mistakes so “youth”. The reason you made those decision was because you were lazy or didn’t care One uses passive language which takes away the responsibility. The other uses a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 05:30 AM |
| 1 | If ever, at what age do you think “youth” stops becoming an excuse?I do but usually for guys it’s not a valid excuse where as for women it is many times. The only men I’ve seen use this successfully are the affluent ones as mentioned in my post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 05:26 AM |
| 0 | Why men will judge your personality and character based on how you dress and act and why it makes complete rational sense to do so when choosing a 'wifey material' woman.My point is there is an obvious and significant difference between the 2. It’s not complicated anywhere else besides this sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 03:41 AM |
| 1 | If ever, at what age do you think “youth” stops becoming an excuse?As I said I didn’t listen to the whole song and am not making this post based o. Whatever she said in it. It just made me think of people who do use this as an excuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 08:37 PM |
| 1 | If ever, at what age do you think “youth” stops becoming an excuse?Pretty sure she was 21 or 22 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 07:29 PM |
| -1 | If ever, at what age do you think “youth” stops becoming an excuse?Not knowing what your job was I’m gonna assume yes but would still classify that as a decision for yourself. Not wanting to go to work is a good enough reason not to go in for me because the only deal is between you and your boss which is “you show up, you get paid. You don’t show up, you don’t get paid”. There’s not really an obligation to your coworkers and they can do the same But even if that were the case I was young isn’t really a good excuse because they were young too and not doing that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 07:24 PM |
| -1 | If ever, at what age do you think “youth” stops becoming an excuse?Agreed. Like that woman who attacked a teenager then went on tv a few weeks later like “well I’m young…”. Such a cop out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 07:05 PM |
| -3 | If ever, at what age do you think “youth” stops becoming an excuse?I didn’t listen to the sign past the chorus once so Idk. I think your example is different thought. I’m not talking about I’m regards to you making decisions about yourself I’m talking about decisions that effect others. I don’t think there’d ever be a time when you have you explain why you called of work 10-20 years ago | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Why men will judge your personality and character based on how you dress and act and why it makes complete rational sense to do so when choosing a 'wifey material' woman.Your entire comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Why men will judge your personality and character based on how you dress and act and why it makes complete rational sense to do so when choosing a 'wifey material' woman.So again we’re avoiding all nuance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Why men will judge your personality and character based on how you dress and act and why it makes complete rational sense to do so when choosing a 'wifey material' woman.A man jerking off to porn is a woman getting off to an erotic novel. It’s not real, and there’s no way they could place themselves in a predicament to cheat A woman waking around in a miniskirt to get attention from men is like a guy flaunting his money to attract attention from women. You’re now attempting to impress real people which could less to cheating. Make sense? Or should I make it easier to understand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 05:28 PM |
| 0 | Why men will judge your personality and character based on how you dress and act and why it makes complete rational sense to do so when choosing a 'wifey material' woman.Eliminating all nuance sure that logic would make sense. But that would also mean that giving another guy a blowjob and making another guy a sandwich at work is the same thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 05:15 PM |
| 0 | Why men will judge your personality and character based on how you dress and act and why it makes complete rational sense to do so when choosing a 'wifey material' woman.There’s a significant difference in those 2 things. A man jerking off to porn is only benefiting himself. A woman dressing sexy to get attention is benefiting her and other men as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 05:04 PM |
| 1 | RedPillers: if women are basically children, why do you not look after them like they’re children?Because the idea is to avoid these kinds of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 02:39 PM |
| -1 | Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did?Yes I do. Yes the rape laws were probably less strict then but I also don’t think most men are rapist now or then. I think the rape argument, especially in this context, is just a gotcha that you’re adding in because it’s not something you previously mentioned these women brought up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 02:34 PM |
| -1 | Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did?These are really the same excuse some people use today even with modern medicine. The control is abstaining. Societal pressure is always there but it’s ultimately up to them. And what laws forced women to have children? While all those things are factors I don’t think it fits the idea of being forced.otherwise everyone is “forced” and had no control over their life path | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 02:20 PM |
| 0 | Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did?An excuse for not actively pursuing the life they wanted and blaming other things besides themselves for the outcome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 07:47 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Women only dance clubs. Genius idea?To start you’re banning at least 50% of your potential customers. Then you have to think about how many women would regularly go to this club as opposed to the other ones. With that alone you’d be lucky to break even | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 07:46 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: Women only dance clubs. Genius idea?I’m not the person who made the comment but I’m guess they assumed you were a troll who was aware how often female only clubs fail | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 05:30 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Women only dance clubs. Genius idea?You are the “he” since only men can ask q4w | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 05:19 AM |
| 6 | Q4W: Women only dance clubs. Genius idea?So a lesbian bar that makes little profit and has 5 songs on a loop | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 02:14 AM |
| 11 | What is an unpopular dating opinion you have about your gender?As in men need to date how women date without feeling bad. Badicaly just treating women with the same “I don’t owe you anything” attitude a lot of men get | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 02:08 AM |
| 0 | Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did?Oh That seems more like an excuse than anything tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 02:06 AM |
| 7 | What is an unpopular dating opinion you have about your gender?Men need to start dating like women and feel no shame about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did?WW2. Most popular war that all Americans learn about extensively. You recall the whole thing where mustache man invaded Poland and enacted the whole Final solution situation. You’re telling me the allied involvement didn’t save countless lives? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did?Yeah…don’t join the military. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did?you have no idea what you’re talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 05:53 PM |
| 3 | Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did?Both my grandparents told me not to go for these “fast little girls” because they aren’t worth the time Many older women with many children (I'm talking about 4+ children) also say they would never have had so many children if they had had a choice. What do you/they mean by this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 05:51 PM |
| – | Thought Experiment: What’s the difference between a post-op M2F transexual and a sex robot?A robot is gender/sexless while a trans woman is a male being straight I would rather have sex with the robot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenIt’s still sexually predatory | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenLiterally my previous comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenSo you’re ignoring that people were saying her arrest was too harsh (not to mention she was released soon after) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenLol I’m asking for specific differences that relate to this situation. They’re different because they are isn’t really an answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenK | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenIf we’re thinking about the same teacher, not only did she get little of any punishment because she also got child support from her victim | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenThat’s not why she killed herself. Didn’t even bother to read the article clearly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenYou don’t know what projection is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenYup when men sleep with a student they say the right word “Man molests/rapes/assaults student” When a woman does it it’s often “woman slept with/had sex with/had inappropriate relations with student | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenGuess we’re just gonna ignore the part about it being on the news and then saying she shouldn’t have been treated that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenHow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenWhy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 08:11 PM |
| 8 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenYeah I feel like they’re completely ignoring the defense she got. This is like a black man getting 15 years and a white man getting 1 for the same time and people saying “well they both got arrested so there’s no disparity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenHow’s that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenYup 🤡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 03:30 AM |
| -1 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenYou can see in the story it showed comments of people sympathizing with her. I also originally saw this on the local news when since they were talking about whether the police handled this “inappropriately” by arresting her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenYeah obviously missed the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenWhat biological differences are there between men and women where one should go to jail for predatory actions while the other is defended. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenAh yes there is some gold from the sympathizers in this thread which is exactly what I was looking for. Add to the list that female predators are 'imaginary' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenYou don't think we should rage about sexual predators going free? Weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenI did. Every time you condemn it you followed up with a 'but'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 01:38 AM |
| 3 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenThat's comparing 2 different situations you're comparing a man raping someone to a woman masturbating. If a woman were to rape a man do you think she should get less punishment than a man raping a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 01:33 AM |
| 3 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenYou didn't say that at all. You literally said it's not fair and made an excuse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 01:31 AM |
| 6 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenyeah I figured because you can't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 01:30 AM |
| 0 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenIf this was on a private beach or in their home or something yes. But on a public beach? you're at best a deviant and at worst a predator | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 01:30 AM |
| 3 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenWell at least we're getting a glimpse into the mind of female predator sympathizers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenI've proven my claim by providing an article where people are defending a woman for public masturbation in the presence of a child. Show me one where they do the same for a man. Can you or can you not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 01:22 AM |
| 4 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenYou've clearly missed the point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 01:19 AM |
| 5 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenI still don't see how that is a justification | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 01:15 AM |
| 3 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenUm yes multiple. People are constantly calling for male sexual predators to be killed or castrated. A better question is do you have any examples of a man masturbating in public and being defended for it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 01:14 AM |
| 9 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenOk but we aren't even talking about rape (though saying one type of rape is better because it does less harm is a very weird stance) What we're talking about is indecently exposing yourself to the public. How does a penis do more damage? Even if you could prove it does more damage do you think that's a logical reason to accept it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: For those who have experienced this - why do males approach less nowadays?It might have something to do with her level of attractiveness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 01:06 AM |
| 5 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenPlease explain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 01:04 AM |
| 12 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenThose people would be stupid then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenTHought I linked this one https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12811033/Christina-Revels-Glick-arrested-masturbating-beach-suicide.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 01:00 AM |
| 14 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenPlease explain how a man exposing himself in public does physical damage while a woman exposing herself doesn't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 12:54 AM |
| 8 | Sexual deviancy for men is sexual liberation for womenShe was arrested but people were treating it as if it was no big deal. She ended up killing herself for other reasons (this was probably a factor) and people were acting like the police were in the wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do women truly believe men want to remain friends with them?Interesting. I'd disagree and say this thought shows more about how you see men than how men see women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 12:38 AM |
| 9 | Q4W: Do women truly believe men want to remain friends with them?You're asking if I can't speak English but you're the one who's failing to understand a sentence a toddler could comprehend? Guess it's easier to play stupid than to back up the bullshit comments you continually make in this sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 12:19 AM |
| 14 | Q4W: Do women truly believe men want to remain friends with them?And why 6 months later haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Why do guys take it personally when women see them as a safe option, when guys end up marrying those options as well?I'm not sure how it compares to women but my assumption would be that most people are looking for more substance in a partner over whether they're just attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Do women truly believe men want to remain friends with them?Can you explain what in my post suggested offensive was taken to the offer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 11:33 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: Do women truly believe men want to remain friends with them?You said stop taking this so serious. I'm asking what actions in my post are you saying are "so serious" and what is your recommend course of action? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Why do guys take it personally when women see them as a safe option, when guys end up marrying those options as well?Guys go for the “hotter” and more adventurous women because they aren’t looking for something long term. When a guy is ready to settle down they expect a lot more than being hot and having sex. It’s not choosing the “safe” option it’s choosing the best option | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 08:17 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: Do women truly believe men want to remain friends with them?Generally only in situations where there was romantic interest in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Do women truly believe men want to remain friends with them?That’s not me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Do women truly believe men want to remain friends with them?That what I figure or at least a way to make herself feel better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 08:01 PM |
| 7 | Q4W: Do women truly believe men want to remain friends with them?What actions would you say about this being too serious and what actions would you recommend instead | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 07:54 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: Do women truly believe men want to remain friends with them?Can you explain what about this is crude or speaks of a woman as a sex object? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 07:53 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: Do women truly believe men want to remain friends with them?I am the op. Can you share which comments(s) in this post shared that tone? Which comments were speaking of women only being useful only if they provide sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 07:38 PM |
| 8 | Q4W: Do women truly believe men want to remain friends with them?What is this obsession with amounting every social interaction with a man to dick? I think that’s say more about you than them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 07:17 PM |
| 7 | Q4W: Do women truly believe men want to remain friends with them?What a 0 to 100 response. Thanks for your input | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 05:55 PM |
| – | General question: how do you feel about your SO ‘acting things out’ with an artist/singer on stage?When have you had to bring a stranger on stage and kiss them? I feel like that would be very weirdo don’t watch stage plays so maybe this is normal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Child support at conception gaining support [Unborn Child Support Act]Yea that’s what I said. I was pointing out most of the people in the left states (prochoice/feminist) would not go for this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 04:46 PM |
| – | General question: how do you feel about your SO ‘acting things out’ with an artist/singer on stage?That’s a bit different don’t you think. I’m your situation you’re acting. I’m what the op is describing they’re doing it for enjoyment and to get the attention of the singer and crowd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Child support at conception gaining support [Unborn Child Support Act]AFAIK women can already sue for 50% of the medical cost involved with pregnancy if some is found to be the father. I’m all for it but there’s a reason it’s only taking off in red states as you say. It’s a conflict of interest for the left/prochoice crowd. While this helps women, by implementing child support at conception it both identifies fetal personhood and provides rights to baby daddies, meaning this would be a step towards stricter abortion laws. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 04:39 PM |
| -1 | what do women gain from being in a relationship with men if they’re seen as valueless after 25?I’m going to answer this based on the idea that this is true. If we assume that women are valueless after 25, that means no one wants them. “Love and belonging” being a part of what every human needs, by dating a man who may not value her, she would still be fulfilling that need, maybe to the full extent, but it’s better than nothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 03:17 AM |
| 8 | Why do men say women have high standards?There was a study done that explains this. I'll try to find it later but the short version is that in the asked men and women what their standards were and how rigid. What it found is that men had a shorter list of standards and were also more flexible. It was something like men would be willing to date a woman that met only 60% of the standards while women were only willing to date a man that met 90% of their standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 01:38 AM |
| 1 | What is a the bitter truth for men about dating over 30Not 30 yet but after talking to a few older guys about this, dating gets easier but your options get worse. Many guys say almost all the same women who rejected them and were still single hit them up to reconnect. Usually they were now more hefty, had kids, baggage or didn’t really move forward past a certain point. The caveat is that these are all men who took care of themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 08:17 PM |
| 22 | Passportbros, s*x tourists, or s*xpats of Reddit, did dealing with women overseas mess up your view of women in your own country?I lived in America for a bit and never had an issue with American women. When I went to Europe to live for years I realized how much better it could be. It wasn’t even about being able to get more women it was about being treated like a human. I could walk around without being seen as a predator. Coming back years later it didn’t make me dislike American women but it did raise my standard for the treatment I would tolerate and unfortunately many American women aren’t willing meet that standard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 08:09 PM |
| – | Guy asks girl who switches up the deal to leave. Subreddit goes wild.A guy like what? That is respectful, honest about what he’s looking for, and doesn’t lie just to get into her pants? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 07:57 PM |
| – | Guy asks girl who switches up the deal to leave. Subreddit goes wild.The thing about AITA is men will always be the asshole in a situation involving women. I actually have made post only switching the gender and that’s always the case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Being gay, bi, or trans is better than being straight in 2023 in first world countriesI can literally see your post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Being gay, bi, or trans is better than being straight in 2023 in first world countriesYou entire post was about more enjoyablensex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Better to lie to Women than be honestWho said that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Being gay, bi, or trans is better than being straight in 2023 in first world countriesThat hasn't been the case for about 100 years. I think you'd also be hard pressed to make the case that even over 100 years ago 'incels' didn't exist. But even then 'incels' aren't the people having sex in the first place. So again I ask how does women having rights lead to less enjoyable sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 12:13 AM |
| 3 | simple solutionAnd this report shows there's no way that has anything to do with the social isolation of the lockdowns, many people losing life long careers and going into crippling debt, prior mental health issues, or the pressure placed on men that if they aren't working they aren't useful? I'd like to see this report you're referring to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Being gay, bi, or trans is better than being straight in 2023 in first world countriesGo on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Better to lie to Women than be honestIt doesn't. Who do you think is blaming someone else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 12:03 AM |
| 1 | simple solutionThis entire sub is trolls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 12:00 AM |
| -1 | Better to lie to Women than be honestMorals are defined by the individual. Ethics are defined by society. Considering that everyone lies to some extent to get what they want, everyone is unethical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Being gay, bi, or trans is better than being straight in 2023 in first world countriesBiggest reasons: Straight men are in a crisis because they don't know what to do when women have all their rights. Heterosexuality just doesn't work as well when women have freedom. I really need to know how women having all their rights (which has been the case for at least 100 years and I don't think anyone here is even over 50) connect to worse sex for men. You really gloss over that point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 11:44 PM |
| 3 | simple solutionYou really think there's an epidemic of lonely people in the entire US because a few people have issues finding romantic partners? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 11:38 PM |
| 3 | simple solutionStop being lonely isn’t actionable at all. If it was then we’d just… stop. It’s like telling someone who broke their leg “well hey why don’t you get up and walk”. My victim status? What victim status are you referring to exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 11:29 PM |
| 6 | simple solutionThe loneliness epidemic is not “male” or “female” specific. It’s a nationwide (possibly worldwide) issue which is caused by an increase unhealthy social media usage as well as a diminishing standard in what we (we as a group) expect and provide in relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 11:27 PM |
| 1 | simple solutionYes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 11:17 PM |
| – | simple solutionSo your solution to the alleged loneliness epidemic is “stop being lonely”. Genius! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 09:05 PM |
| 7 | Men raised by single mothers are the worst kinds of men to dateSure I agree but not because of what you said. I would also add the man is only the worst kind to date if you’re the worst kind of woman. Men who are raised by single mothers often have many years of dealing with emotional manipulation and becoming immune to the women are wonderful effect. The “problems” in these relationships come from not dealing with the BS which is really only a problem for the woman. The man on the other hand is use to it. I mean do you think it’s the men of both parents wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 05:17 PM |
| – | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseCool now respond to what I said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 05:06 AM |
| – | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseSo why instead of using the clear one woudl someone opt to use a vauge one? Why would someone use either when a man only asks for basic respects and cordial treatment from a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 05:05 AM |
| – | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseProtecting women has nothing to do with red pill. Men not protecting women is something women complain about. I’m gonna let you pretend it’s not something constantly said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 05:04 AM |
| – | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseAre men demanding that? Or are you being delusional and think when a man asks for common decency and basic respect in your paranoid mind you’re hearing “suck my dick because I held the door open” It doesn’t seem like you understand the stupidly so I’ll explain it. Saying you will continue to discriminate against an entire group of people based on the actions of a few is bigoted and idiotic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 04:25 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow exactly did you suffer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 04:20 AM |
| – | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseOk so why change it from “women don’t owe you sex” which is specific and clear, to “women don’t owe you anythign” which is vague and unclear. Please explain to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 04:16 AM |
| – | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseIt’s not proving your point at all. For one, if a man protected a woman in these situations it wouldn’t make the news because it didn’t happen. But at the same time when it does happen the complaint is “where are the men!!” If you believe that then whenever a woman claims all men are x or complains about men not stepping in then speak up. But it seems you’d rather pretend this isn’t common. Easier to ignore that way I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 04:13 AM |
| – | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseYou must understand the stupidity of that request right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 04:08 AM |
| – | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseGreat to hear | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 03:22 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDoesn't really seem like she was hiding it then. Just doesn't seem like something that would be relevant. And she's right there are a lot of autistic kids who are assholes and blame it on their autsim when really they're just jackasses | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 03:22 AM |
| – | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseWhat do you mean the original intention? I've always heard "women don't owe you anything" in regards to any complaint about their negative behavior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 03:19 AM |
| – | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to losehttps://www.nbcnews.com/news/asian-america/police-arrest-16-year-old-asian-american-woman-attacked-boston-train-rcna118898 https://www.wcvb.com/article/boston-indecent-assault-and-battery-south-end-columbus-avenue/44802682 https://www.boston25news.com/news/local/da-boston-man-viciously-attacked-woman-who-didnt-say-good-morning-him/3EPZPG52AVDZ3GPG4EJJWOTNPE/ And apparently nowhere since women are always complaining how men don't protect them. I suggest the CEO of women get everyone together to c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 03:19 AM |
| – | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseGood job!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 03:14 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou said your mom hid your diagnosis but also that you refused to use accommodations in school which negatively impacted you. If you had accommodations then doesn't that mean she informed the school of your diagnosis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 03:13 AM |
| – | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseSo why are so many women complaining about men not protecting them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 03:11 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm willing to bet the person you currently work for (even if it's yourself) has said dumb shit in the past as well. Dig back far enough and you can get dirt on anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 03:11 AM |
| – | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseI never have behaved in that way so deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 03:10 AM |
| – | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseIn a major city | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 03:08 AM |
| – | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseI mean 'anything' seems to imply anything and I've seen it used even when sex and companionship aren't on the table. Like if a guy holds a door and complains the woman didn't say thank you it's come up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 03:07 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is a very confusing comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 03:06 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThoughts on women hiding behind alleged sexism as a justification for seeking petty revenge | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 02:57 AM |
| – | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseYeah it seems like what is 'owed' only goes one way. Many people will say that women don't owe men basic respect while also saying men owe it to women to protect them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Do You Think It’s A Good Idea, To Split The Gym By Gender?The women who make these videos would never go to the gyms even if they were an option. Attention seeking behavior is the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 10:03 PM |
| 0 | How did the patriarchy start in the first place?I’m going to assume you’re talking about the US? If so “the patriarchy” doesn’t exist here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman who left-swiped you on a dating app?Yeah I wouldn’t mind. I’ve probably done the same thing. If she was an asshole though I’d drop her because that’s who she really is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 06:17 PM |
| 6 | men only dislike ‘hookup culture’ when they can’t participate in itI can participate in hook up culture and have. Still hate it and here’s why It promotes a lack of respect for your partners. Numerous people who participate in hook up culture only see the other person as an object and have no care for what happens to them after they’re done It reinforces negative self image issues. The more you participate in it the more you view yourself as an object because that’s what you are Both of these things combined it starts to ruin your actually potential relationshi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you would like a less toxic experience, i invite you all to r/PurplePillDebateNT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 09:01 PM |
| 9 | What is a dating issue that men or women cannot blame on the opposite gender?For both men and women, staying with trash people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 07:51 PM |
| 2 | We don’t need Paternity Tests.Then the same would also need to happen for normal abortions as well if were being “fair” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Success with women is influenced by the “observer effect”ah I see what’s happening here. Insanity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Success with women is influenced by the “observer effect”Why’s that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Success with women is influenced by the “observer effect”No it’s not. Most women have an advantage dea of the kind of guy they like. You can be confident as ever but if you’re not her type it’s not just gonna neutralize that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Success with women is influenced by the “observer effect”So how do you suppose one puts a woman’s mind in a “state of flux” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 05:27 AM |
| 2 | Success with women is influenced by the “observer effect”I’ll be honest, it seems like you’re just throwing together concepts while not connecting them I think a positive outcome is more likely to be achieved when woman’s mind is in a state of flux and variability, or more “open” to suggestion What you’re describing here is essentially saying “if you get a woman drunk she’s more likely to be into you”. That’s a problem for numerous reasons Each women had individual preferences so if you identify here preferences and fit them you’ll have more success I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Success with women is influenced by the “observer effect”What you're talking about doesn't deal with the observer effect. If you're talking about what I think you're talking about the most common example of that is Schrodinger's cat. In this example, the only thing the observer is capable of is well...observing. They don't have any other input on the situation and doesn't connect to what you're talking about. What you're talking about is optimism bias or a positive feedback loop. This is really why the whole red pill thing always starts with 'go to th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Can the mods please make a rule that comments saying that somebody is just lying about their personal experience will be deleted?So you're telling me that if I say I had an expereince banging your mom and birthing you should get moderated for calling bullshit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 12:14 AM |
| 4 | Why are so many men obsessed with being the top guy when they know most men will never be the top guy?Based on your comments you're not someone that's really strived for something in life and have played it safe, taking very few if any risks in your life, and accepting what's been given to you and nothing more. Again this is fine but if you have no experience striving to be successful you really can't add anything of value to a discussion about striving for success | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 12:12 AM |
| 5 | Why are so many men obsessed with being the top guy when they know most men will never be the top guy?Of course not everyone can be the top. But at the same time someone will be at the top | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 12:06 AM |
| 5 | Why are so many men obsessed with being the top guy when they know most men will never be the top guy?Ok how ever you phrase it. if that’s how you choose live your life that’s fine and you should do what works for you. If you want to limit yourself to specific level of potential success because you’re scare to strive for more that’s fine. But simply because it’s what you want to do doesn’t mean it’s the only “right” thing to do. Without people setting “unrealistic” goals we wouldn’t have airplanes, space travel, modern medicine, probably not even lights or the wheel. It’s the dreamers that have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 06:42 PM |
| 7 | Why are so many men obsessed with being the top guy when they know most men will never be the top guy?So what you’re saying is…you would rather be depressed from trying to become better. If you’re setting goals that means you’re attempting to better yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 06:36 PM |
| 14 | Why are so many men obsessed with being the top guy when they know most men will never be the top guy?Wouldn’t you rather be depressed and pissy from trying to become better rather than depressed and pissy from staying in the same place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 05:01 PM |
| 18 | Why are so many men obsessed with being the top guy when they know most men will never be the top guy?In other words you’re askign “Why strive to be great when you’ll never be the greatest.” It’s fine to maintain contentment and not want more from life but it also makes sense that people want to want to push for better things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 04:45 PM |
| 0 | Redpill ideology, when used actively to pursue women, puts someone in a similar mindset as a sexual predatorFrom what I’ve read that’s not what dread game is at all. It doesn’t even mention sex. It says it basically existing in a way where the woman knows you have options outside if her. This is literally what women do. Do you think Beyoncé is promoting predatory actions because she’s sang lyrics such as “I can have another you in a minute” or “don’t be mad cause you see that he want it/ if you like it then you should’ve put a ring on it”? In a relationship anyone is free to say “I want xyz”. The othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 04:25 PM |
| 3 | Redpill ideology, when used actively to pursue women, puts someone in a similar mindset as a sexual predatorI'd say that could be seen as pretty shady but not exclusive to red pill and still pretty far from being a sexual predator | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 03:10 AM |
| 4 | Redpill ideology, when used actively to pursue women, puts someone in a similar mindset as a sexual predatorOh that just seems like teasing and way away from being a predator | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Women are only “loney” if they choose to beBlindspots in other words. Let's use ghosting as an example Imagine that you grew up as an attractive girl all your life through college and you were constantly ghosting people. Sometimes you'd contact people you ghosted for attention and they'd let you know it's not a problem and if someone did call you out on it, your friends would back you up and say they were overreacting. So over time it's instilled in you that there's nothing wrong with ghosting people and if anyone tells you otherwise the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 02:27 AM |
| 0 | Women are only “loney” if they choose to beIn some cases its a result of people constantly approving of their shitty actions to the point where they accept it's normal behavior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 02:07 AM |
| 7 | Redpill ideology, when used actively to pursue women, puts someone in a similar mindset as a sexual predatorCan you explain what dread game is? I've never heard of this. I'd don't think I've ever heard of leading someone on to be a redpill tactic but even so I don't see how that would make someone comparable to a sexual predator | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 01:19 AM |
| 4 | Redpill ideology, when used actively to pursue women, puts someone in a similar mindset as a sexual predatorI'm not asking you to explain redpill basics. I'm just asking for you to give one or two of these tactics you're referring to in your post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 01:14 AM |
| – | If you install dating apps on and off every couple of months, isn’t that an indication you actually want a relationship?Not necessarily. It's most likely just a sign you're bored | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 11:34 PM |
| 16 | Redpill ideology, when used actively to pursue women, puts someone in a similar mindset as a sexual predatorOk can you give an example of a couple of these tactics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 11:29 PM |
| 0 | What would the ideal conditions for financial abortion look like?It should have the same timeline as a normal abortion. Up until that time the father can decide he doesn’t want to take financial responsibility. If the mother fails to identify a father in a reasonable time that would allow paternity testing then she forfeits cho support unless the father is intentionally dodging the test to stall | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 10:53 PM |
| 2 | No, men are not "creating single moms"Great based on all your answer we’ve established that pregnancy and parenthood are separate . Meaning a woman can get pregnant and not be a mother and, vice versa, she can become a mother without getting pregnant To answer your questions: Yes Yes (assuming she keeps the child) Both of these scenarios still require the woman to accept responsibility for the child | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 09:10 PM |
| 2 | No, men are not "creating single moms"Gonna ask you the same questions I asked another user and I’m honestly expecting the same answer I’m going to give you some scenarios and I want you to answer yes or no to if a reasonable person would consider the woman a single mother: A man impregnates a woman and leaves. She has an abortion. Is she a single mother? A man impregnates a woman and leaves. She puts the baby in adoption/foster care/Safe haven. Is she a single mother. A single woman who’s unable to get pregnant adopts a child. Is s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 08:51 PM |
| 6 | Paternity tests should not be used as a weapon against opposite sex, but as a logical progression of rightsI love how people complain about thing like surveillance and DNA data while posting their entire lives on multiple social media sites and send it to 23andMe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 08:31 PM |
| 2 | No, men are not "creating single moms"Nope. The creation of a single mom requires the woman to accept responsibility. A man can’t force her to or not to do that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 07:46 PM |
| 0 | No, men are not "creating single moms"Lol backtracking! I love it when I’m right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 07:43 PM |
| 2 | No, men are not "creating single moms"I know that’s what you want it to mean but no that’s not what I mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 07:33 PM |
| 0 | No, men are not "creating single moms"I actually wasn’t thinking of those women but yes they would be included too. But what you’re asking me is “Are you really going to include a valid group of women just to prove what I said was wrong”? Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 07:30 PM |
| 1 | No, men are not "creating single moms"Nope not how parenthood works. As any prochoice person will tell you pregnancy =\= parenthood | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 07:27 PM |
| 2 | No, men are not "creating single moms"There was a child. She accepted responsibility. I’m not sure how much simpler it can be explained | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 07:27 PM |
| -1 | No, men are not "creating single moms"She took on the sole responsibility of a child… it’s right there in the definition I’ve given | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 07:05 PM |
| 0 | No, men are not "creating single moms"Let me ask, do you think it’s impossible for a woman to become a single mom without direct involvement from a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 07:05 PM |
| 0 | No, men are not "creating single moms"A single woman who has the sole responsibility of parenting a child | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 06:55 PM |
| -3 | No, men are not "creating single moms"Men do impregnate women but they don’t create single moms. A woman has many options to not have the responsibility of a child | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Paternity tests should not be used as a weapon against opposite sex, but as a logical progression of rightsAre you telling me that otherwise good women are incapable of being unfaithful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 05:51 PM |
| 37 | Paternity tests should not be used as a weapon against opposite sex, but as a logical progression of rightsA paternity test can’t be used to scare women unless that women has a reason to be scared. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 05:29 AM |
| 9 | If you frequently hook up, how do you keep oops babies from happening?Everyone seems to have a different example of what a hook up means so i'll specify that a hook up to me is the same as a fuck buddy. The amount of women who will be down to have sex on the first date without a condom is insane to me. They'd have you think it's the men who are insisting not to use a condom but that's not the truth at all. Due to this I ALWAYS use a condom because you never know who else they're sleeping with. I pull out even when using a condom Verify she's on virth control Plan … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do some men demand obedience over collaboration in a marriage?What uniquely qualifies a man to be the authority? Because this is what most women want. What uniquely qualifies a woman to be subservient? If someone is taking the lead then someone needs to support them in their leadership. What makes obedience superior to collaboration? nothing What are the drawbacks to collaboration? Why is it inferior It requires that each person has equal responsibility and has the same idea of what they want the outcome to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 03:33 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women complain about the double standards when it comes to sex while also identifying the reason when it’s convenientOk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many men convinced statistical analysis, pattern recognition, evo psych and other analytics can give them an advantage in dating?Where do you think statistics come from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 12:01 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Women complain about the double standards when it comes to sex while also identifying the reason when it’s convenientK | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 12:00 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Women complain about the double standards when it comes to sex while also identifying the reason when it’s convenientThe wouldn’t make sense because the situations would be uneven. To clarify the men in the second situation aren’t having sex with other women either l | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 10:27 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women complain about the double standards when it comes to sex while also identifying the reason when it’s convenientBecause it’s the same situation with just the sexes being switched… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 10:23 PM |
| -2 | CMV: Women complain about the double standards when it comes to sex while also identifying the reason when it’s convenientYour entire premise is based on not only the idea that contraception is 100% effective, but also that people are using it 100% of the time and are using it correctly. But we know this isn’t true at all. I’d also be willing to be that there’s an overlap of high promiscuity and people who don’t properly use contraception. I mean IF your comment was true the ongoing debate about abortions wouldn’t be a thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 10:16 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women complain about the double standards when it comes to sex while also identifying the reason when it’s convenientHOW COME IN THIS SITUATION THE WOMEN ARE ALL CELIBATE AND PURE? They aren’t considering they had sex with the hypothetical man… Why are they suddenly not celibate and pure in this example?? There’s only one women in this situation in the same exact situation as the man in the original scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 10:11 PM |
| 7 | Why are so many men convinced statistical analysis, pattern recognition, evo psych and other analytics can give them an advantage in dating?Which is why it would make sense for people struggling to follow the statistics…thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 10:03 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women complain about the double standards when it comes to sex while also identifying the reason when it’s convenientNo..I’m not. The reading comprehension skills in this sub are abysmal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 10:02 PM |
| 6 | Why are so many men convinced statistical analysis, pattern recognition, evo psych and other analytics can give them an advantage in dating?Answer mine and I’ll answer yours | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 10:01 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Women complain about the double standards when it comes to sex while also identifying the reason when it’s convenientThis is not about a hysterectomy vs vasectomy. Let me break it down nice and simple with same example. As a man I can have sex with as many women as I want. If these women have sex with no one else and get pregnant we know who the father is. A woman who has the same amount of sex risks getting pregnant, being out of commission for 9 months and bringing in a child of questionable paternity. Do you agree or disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 09:59 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women complain about the double standards when it comes to sex while also identifying the reason when it’s convenientSo you disagree that women take on a greater risk when it comes to sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 09:49 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women complain about the double standards when it comes to sex while also identifying the reason when it’s convenientVery well put. I would agree double standard is not the correct word simply because sex for men and women isn’t equal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 09:37 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Women complain about the double standards when it comes to sex while also identifying the reason when it’s convenientI haven’t shifted the goal post at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 09:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women complain about the double standards when it comes to sex while also identifying the reason when it’s convenientNot at all because if that man had a lower standard for himself these women likely wouldn’t have slept with him. Sure the man takes on some risks but the risks a woman take on is vastly greater. It’s like one person putting in 1$ and another person putting in $100 but both the person who put in less money is getting the same outcome but has the same risk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 09:33 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women complain about the double standards when it comes to sex while also identifying the reason when it’s convenientTake 5 men and 5 women. Ideally it would be 1 to 1 but that’s not how it works irl. But If one man is able to sleep with all 5 of those women it means there is something about him that makes those women willing to risk everything that could come with pregnancy. On the other hand if one of those women has sex with all 5 of those men it means that she has a much lower standard for herself and the treatment of her body. You can see the acknowledgment of increased risk by (alleged) women in this sub… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 09:16 PM |
| 7 | SURVEY RESULTS, NEW MODS, AND OTHER JANNYISMSshould’ve asked about education level cause some of these people…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 08:42 PM |
| -2 | CMV: Women complain about the double standards when it comes to sex while also identifying the reason when it’s convenientThat’s not my argument on vasectomies. That’s a single argument that people have used to justify why men should have vasectomies. At no point did i take a stance on that in this post Women are shamed no matter what, just for having sex. Yes. That’s what the post is about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 08:40 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Women complain about the double standards when it comes to sex while also identifying the reason when it’s convenientfrom reading the title of the post and the body of the post, how did you come to the conclusion that the point being debated was who should get the surgery? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 08:38 PM |
| -2 | CMV: Women complain about the double standards when it comes to sex while also identifying the reason when it’s convenientCan you explain why you think it’s a straw person argument? Because I think once you think it through you’ll see why that doesn’t make sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 08:31 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women complain about the double standards when it comes to sex while also identifying the reason when it’s convenient... the chance of getting pregnant isn't based on the number of partners, it's based on the number of times you have sex. …duh. The fact that you intentionally left out the full quote shows me there’s not gonna be much substance to the rest of this so I’m not wasting my time reading it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 08:30 PM |
| -5 | CMV: Women complain about the double standards when it comes to sex while also identifying the reason when it’s convenientYes the man could potentially be impregnating multiple women. If he doesn’t take care of the child, he’s a deadbeat, which we already shame men for. But when it comes to sex, women solely take on the risk of pregnancy. Idk what claim you’re saying is bullshit considering I only gave the example of one of the arguements and never said it was the only one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 08:24 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women complain about the double standards when it comes to sex while also identifying the reason when it’s convenientOk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 08:18 PM |
| -4 | CMV: Women complain about the double standards when it comes to sex while also identifying the reason when it’s convenientSure but that’s beside the point of the post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 08:18 PM |
| 20 | Why are so many men convinced statistical analysis, pattern recognition, evo psych and other analytics can give them an advantage in dating?So you’re trying to tell me that if statistics show that a certain approach works best, if men follow that approach they won’t increase their chances of getting a date? Maybe I’m not understand but how do you think statistics work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 08:02 PM |
| 1 | High Value Men Aren’t Monogamous?Maybe for a young man but not an older man. As a young HVM you’re in a “live fast, eat ass” mindset. But as you get older you value your limited time and peace more. Why in the world would a HVM continually disrupt his peace and waste his time on LVW assuming he’s found a HVW he can build with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 07:46 PM |
| – | Why do men make fun of things women like?It’s called teasing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 04:58 AM |
| 3 | Why do guys keep complaining about tinder and hookup but keep insisting on participating in both?I guess the same reason women will constantly complain about men and how “dangerous” they are while still dating men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 04:56 AM |
| 6 | Would you be ok with your wife asking for a paternity test?As long as the coworker consents to have her child tested then sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 04:40 AM |
| -1 | Is the term “pick me” over used?I don’t hear white knight as much but a few years ago it was a similar thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Suppose you're a libertarian / conservative / right-of-center dude in a coastal city. How are you supposed to date women?One thing you’ll notice is A LOT of people only parrot views because they think that’s what they’re supposed to say. Most of them don’t believe the extreme left bs so as long as you aren’t extreme right there usually no issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 06:16 AM |
| 15 | Is the term “pick me” over used?It’s definitely overused. Often times when I see a woman being called a pick me it’s when she’s calling other women out on their bullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 06:14 AM |
| 13 | What icks/turn offs do you have for womenBabies Sleeping around Lack of accountability for their actions Heavy drugs or dependence on Weed or alcohol Social Justice Warrior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 01:45 AM |
| 1 | when is a woman actually good enough to commit to?I’ll let you know when I find out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Past promiscuity stances from RP are misleadingIf a young person sows their wild oats, they behave in a rather uncontrolled way, especially by having a lot of sexual relationships. https://tinyurl.com/563sfjuf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Past promiscuity stances from RP are misleadingsewing you wild oats refers to having sex with multiple people indiscriminately. More sexual partners also can lead to a skewed view of relationships So why not just date multiple people and form bonds on things other than sex? I don’t think many sensible people would call that being a hoe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 12:17 AM |
| 5 | Past promiscuity stances from RP are misleadingDo you think there’s no grey area between dating the first person you meet and being a hoe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that Men „enjoy“ being seen as Sex objects, while Women don‘t?(Some) Women do enjoy being seen sex objects. Otherwise they wouldn’t regularly present themselves as sex objects | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 10:33 PM |
| 1 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtOk? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 10:05 PM |
| 1 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtYes. Other people doing worse things isn’t really a reason that would make sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 07:07 PM |
| 1 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtBesides thinking realistic and reasonable are the same thing interesting logic. But as I said (either to you or someone else) the problem is that it’s self centered and only focused on you and what you believe to be true. Let me ask you: say you have a new partner. If you were to ask them to get a test done before you’re sexually active, is that an accusation that they have STDs? Or is it request to make sure they don’t? And if they just told you “Trust me I’m good” would you say “ok” because th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 04:54 PM |
| 2 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtBecause it’s not your body and not something you can control Can you explain why you think it’s not my body or something I can control? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 04:42 PM |
| 0 | Does being an emotional tampon lead to the friendzone? Or only in certain cases?If you’re an emotional tampon you o someone you’re not in a relationship with then you’re in the friend zone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 04:20 PM |
| 1 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtIt’s almost like we…disagree on the topic. Weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 03:23 PM |
| 1 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtCool it’s not what I asked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 03:20 PM |
| 3 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtCan you explain why “my body, my choice and my reason” doesn’t apply here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 01:59 PM |
| 2 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtThat’s pretty disgusting tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 01:58 PM |
| 1 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtWell it’s objectively realistic because DNA test are very easy to acquire. So why don’t you try to explain why it’s unreasonable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 01:52 PM |
| 2 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtThat’s not what i asked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 01:25 PM |
| 2 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtWhy do you think asking the same question a second time would change my answer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 11:38 AM |
| 2 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtLol uh 30% of men is still a significant amount. Even if the percentage would be lower (it definitely wouldn’t be 90%) the number would still increase. Basically what you’re saying is that even though 100% of people could have the paternity determined with absolute surety, you’d rather have 30% or even 90% of people not know just because | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Makeup is basically a pretence and a sign of insecurity.In some situations I get it. Special events, cosplay, Art definitely understandable. But when you can’t bare to walk out the house without makeup and will spend thousands yearly for it, something is wrong. I know so many women who’s personalities and confidence are based on whether they’re wearing make up or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 08:46 AM |
| 2 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtSure. I’d actually be interest to take one to see how it works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 08:42 AM |
| 1 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtLol women ☕️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 02:16 AM |
| 0 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtNow read the whole thing. Read what you claimed I said. Do it slow if you need to. Think about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 01:57 AM |
| 3 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtNever made that claim | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 01:49 AM |
| 7 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtImagine if your woman made you go through random stds tests without any reason like random drug testing from an employer “just to be sure”. That’s called taking responsibility for your sexual health and I would love it if more women did that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 01:40 AM |
| – | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtThis is what I’m getting from the detractors. Although it’s clearly the responsible and sensible thing it hurts their feelings so it’s wrong” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 01:37 AM |
| 13 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtYeah there’s so many scenarios where the test is better and not a single one (besides cheating) where it’s not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 01:28 AM |
| 9 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtHaha I know there’s some pretty unhinged post. I do enjoy seeing the responses though. Very entertaining | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 01:25 AM |
| 5 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtI don’t see that as a downside. If the relationship can’t survive a reasonable and realistic request regarding a major life event then it’s probably not a relationship that will do well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 01:24 AM |
| 36 | Having 0 suitors and 100 suitors is the same thing if you don’t like any of themAh yes. Because at no point in history has a woman ever taken advantage of a man that she knew liked her that she’d never date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 01:22 AM |
| 8 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtSo a loyal and faithful wife who has borne your child should meekly accept that you believe that not only would she cheat on you, she would have unprotected sex with you and someone else within the same fertility window, she would lie to you, to both families, all of your friends, and her own child every day for the rest of her life. She would potentially endanger that child by not providing accurate health information and she would do all of this knowingly and intentionally. You write this as i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 01:05 AM |
| 5 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtI’ve never had to because regularly getting tested is something everyone I’ve ever seen does. It’s pretty disgusting not to imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 01:01 AM |
| 4 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtInteresting logic. It’s not sound but interesting nonetheless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 01:00 AM |
| 6 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtBy taking the test he will learn the kid is his | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 12:08 AM |
| 8 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtDo you think preventative solutions to realistic problems shouldn’t be taken? For example, prenups | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 12:08 AM |
| 18 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtWhen married a husband is automatically and legally considered the father. Even more reason to get a paternity test | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 12:00 AM |
| 5 | How many men would a man need to be able to defend against before it's not unattractive to run away?Yeah this is a pretty hilarious comment. Apparently women are in so much danger from men all the time but can’t possible imagine a time where a man would be in danger with no one else around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 11:59 PM |
| 3 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtLmao more power mod bs. If you’re going to prevent people from agreeing in discussion post you may as well take away discussion post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 11:55 PM |
| 9 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtPaternity test also prevents problems on the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 11:48 PM |
| 6 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtThere’s a pretty huge gap between sleeping i with someone else and being mentally ill felon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 11:46 PM |
| -4 | Women are against the legalisation of prostitution because they want the "hoeflation" to continue, and are ok with men being miserable.Here’s what I think it is. Women support sex work when they’re young because it allows them the “freedom” to make money from sex. But then as they get older a few things happen: 1.They get older and less desirable. Why would a man pay $200 for damaged goods? The money dries up and suddenly the “empowerment” is gone Even after this is done they will generally continue to be seen as sex object because…thats what they have opted to be. It’s a requirement for those who support sex work to have certa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 11:45 PM |
| 8 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtNot really. It’s no more toxic than getting a prenuptial agreement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 11:32 PM |
| 13 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtAnybody is capable of being a “whore”. It’s not even that hard to hide it. Only difference is that when women do it, a child is produced along with at least 18 years of parental and legal responsibilities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 11:31 PM |
| 8 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtYeah when people say “well In x tribal society they don’t care about paternity because the village as a whole takes care of the child”. If that’s the culture of that society all good. But that’s not this society and more often than not the people who use those example will only take the parts of the society that they benefit from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 11:29 PM |
| 5 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtYeah it’s so weird. I guess to these people only men have the ability to lie and cheat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 11:25 PM |
| 13 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtThat would actually be really nice of you. That way you’d be able to confirm and look out for any medical issues he may be susceptible to that his family may have forgotten about or not known of. Plus it gives a good chance to get in touch with family history | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 11:23 PM |
| 11 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtHow many toxic relationships would you say are also build on blind trust | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 11:22 PM |
| 3 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtNo I’m not you are? You just said the only reason your partner would want to verify paternity is if you’re a lying cheating hoe. Sure this is what most people do but also 30% of men who do get paternity test turn out to not be the father as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 10:41 PM |
| 9 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtIt’s not a waste of time and money. Using your analogy, I personally get tested yearly on my bday and whenever I get a new partner for STDs. Taking care of your health and by extension respecting your partners health has nothing to to with trustworthiness, it has to do with responsibility. If my partner asked me to do something reasonable and responsible the only reason I’d get mad is if I had something to hide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 10:38 PM |
| 2 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtGreat way to put it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 10:32 PM |
| 2 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtDid you mean to reply to the other commenter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 10:31 PM |
| -1 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtLmao so you use the incorrect term for what you’re attempting to describe but it’s my fault? And I guess you missed what I said directly after Simply based on the way DNA works this is impossible and would only happen if the biological father was not tested against the child in the first place I always find it interesting when people don’t understand the basics of how DNA and genetics work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 10:30 PM |
| 5 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtLast I checked 1000€ was more than free. Other than that I’m not sure what your comments meant to be besides info on how find my iPhone works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 10:24 PM |
| 11 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtLmao so the child should instead be in a toxic 2 parent household rather than have a coparent a who are happy with other people. I think the biggest issue with your logic is that the only consideration you’re giving is to yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 10:22 PM |
| 0 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtYour original comment said: ever hear of false positives What you’re describing is a false negative. Simply based on the way DNA works this is impossible and would only happen if the biological father was not tested against the child in the first place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 10:14 PM |
| 1 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtIt would really be up to you. Do you think it’s beneficial to stay im a relationship with someone who thinks of you that way? Sure discussing this beforehand os also beneficial but we know that’s often not how it goes. But that also doesn’t negate the benefits of getting the test without discussion either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 10:08 PM |
| 4 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtWho will pay for it? Insurance? Co-Pay? Public Health System? Yes or out of pocket if they don’t have insurance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 10:02 PM |
| 1 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtThis assumes the man has signed the birth certificate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 09:58 PM |
| 2 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtNo because if we assume that was the case, by not getting a DNA test he’d have the exact same outcome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 09:48 PM |
| 0 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtThat’s not a downside though… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 09:44 PM |
| 6 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtIf you believe the man feels that way based on wanting a paternity test it’s still a benefit. The only difference is now that idea of you will be hidden until it comes out somewhere down the road. And yes if my wife thought I was a lying cheating hoe id like to know. Assuming the relationship is otherwise good and I wanted to maintain it I’d ask her what gave her this impression and do what I could to provide proof that’s not the case. If nothing can be done it’s only fair for both of us to go f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 09:38 PM |
| 2 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtDidn’t even think of this but yeah another good benefit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 09:33 PM |
| 5 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtYes this happens in many situations which is the reason there is science to double check or explain the false positives. That’s not a reason not to get the test any more than a false positive is a reason not to take a pregnancy test in the first place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 09:33 PM |
| 4 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtRegular couples counseling is also a good thing. Having a mediator help identify and solve issues before they get out of hand is probably something that would benefit a lot of relationships today | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 09:29 PM |
| 11 | There’s no reason not to get a paternity test unless there is some n fact doubtWhat you’ve just described is a far more expensive version of “Find my friends” on iPhone and just about everyone I know has their significant other and close friends active on there Even then the comparison doesn’t work at all but I guess that’s why you didn’t even try to explain it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Guys who focus on single motherhood, paternity fraud, medication use, etc are bad judge of character.There’s never an original idea or even new evidence or theories presented in your posts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 09:00 PM |
| -2 | Do women act incognizant to avoid accountability?It’s fishing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 02:20 PM |
| – | We should judge men for their pastWhat a delusional post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 02:19 PM |
| – | Q4M: how would you feel if a girl put you on a pedestal?I'd love it and reciprocate but at the same time wouldn't take advantage of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 02:53 AM |
| 1 | PPD 2023 DEMOGRAPHICS SURVEYLmao facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Why would a high effort man want a low effort woman?At no point did I say I was deciding what standards others should have. I specifically noted my experience as far as my personal standards regarding the situation and that I was looking for the experience of others | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 10:14 PM |
| -1 | Why would a high effort man want a low effort woman?Well considering I said not only if reels but also this is based on personal experience with women who think this way I’m assuming your reading comprehension isn’t so good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 10:10 PM |
| 1 | What sex act permanently taints a woman?Same thing Toxic_ligmamale said but also adding anything with animals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Is "netflix and chill" / cinema date dead?Just had one like 2 days ago so I’m gonna say no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Why should women today deal with the averаge man?They shouldn’t but they should also expect to be lonely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 11:35 PM |
| 1 | If men and women were so fundamentally different, they wouldn’t behave the same 90% of the time. It’s just guys here are more in denial of the similarities.Are you saying 90% of the time across life or in these specific situations. Because according to women themselves men will never know what it’s like to exist as a woman and constantly being in fear for their safety, dealing with pregnancy and hormones, discrimination etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Would you plan a family with a woman you suspect to cheat on you?I feel like you ask this same question in different ways every few days. Did someone ask you for a paternity test or something and it ended the relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 11:32 PM |
| – | Q4M- How would you feel if your wife got your child a medical exam after you looked after them to make sure you didn't molest them?Because it’s in the best interest of me and my child | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 01:39 AM |
| -2 | Do men realize that the “loose pussy” is the kind that most women have?I have never had sex with a women with loose pussy so maybe this convo isn’t for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 09:15 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Normal women get ignored.Literally my point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 05:23 AM |
| 10 | CMV: Normal women get ignored.This user just makes the most unhinged post. I’m here for it lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 05:23 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Normal women get ignored.You seem to be living in an alternate reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 05:22 AM |
| 13 | CMV: Normal women get ignored.The vast majority of women I know haven’t been sexually assaulted or aren’t complaining so does that mean it doesn’t happen and we shouldn’t trust women’s concerns regarding it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 12:07 AM |
| 28 | CMV: Normal women get ignored.Your comments aren’t making any sense and it’s because you’re trying to prove a point without actually thinking about what you’re saying. You’re saying normal women don’t get approach, which I said is false because normal women always complain about it. You then say, then why are men complaining about women dating asshole felons which doesn’t make sense because it’s possible these women are still being approached by men despite being in a relationship. There’s not a bubble that prevent men from … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 11:26 PM |
| 24 | CMV: Normal women get ignored.What makes you think these 2 thoughts are contradictory to each other? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 11:14 PM |
| 67 | CMV: Normal women get ignored.I’d say this is obviously false considering how many normal women complain about men approaching them in public. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 10:30 PM |
| 1 | For men who do get approached, do you mostly get approached by women you actually want?I can’t recall a time a woman approached me who I was into so I’m gonna say no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 10:27 PM |
| 3 | It is not men's responsibility how individual men behaveYes, go on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4M- How would you feel if your wife got your child a medical exam after you looked after them to make sure you didn't molest them?I’d appreciate and respect her concern but I would divorce her and file for full custody. Hopefully she did this out of true concern and not malice but either way it would be in both me and my child’s best interest not to be near her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 08:06 PM |
| 6 | It is not men's responsibility how individual men behaveNot at all. Why should anyone, especially a man who is more likely to go to jail, put themselves at any sort of risk to help a stranger aside from calling the police? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 07:59 PM |
| 2 | The problem with stepdads is that most of the time these women wouldn't date them if they didn't have kidsThis comment is really besides the OPs entire point and doesn’t really address the post. Not a single place in here did OP even talk about sex so for all we know this guy can be clapping cheeks every day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: If the guys here aren’t cold approaching or giving women attention where is all there attention this forum claims they are getting coming from?Your conclusion doesn’t make sense On one end you have guys saying women don’t want to be approached or interact with normal men and thus men should no longer cold approach women Nothing here shows that men aren’t cold approaching, just that someone is saying they shouldn’t and women are saying it’s weird. The conclusion that nobody is giving women attention doesn’t connect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 11:33 PM |
| 2 | The men here might be concerned about the wrong things?Every single on of these scenarios you’ve presented is a straw man. I feel like while coming up with this question you realized many of the concerns men have are logical so you intentionally decided to misrepresent common concerns of men when seeking relationship. Some men worry about these things because there is an increase in extreme feminism which promotes and encourages women to do these things. Many men have either experienced or have a friend who has experienced these things as well. Let … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Cmv: If you can’t trust people, then don’t be around people. Just be happy being single, childless, and friendless.You make it sound like being betrayed is some rare thing that almost never happens when it happens on literally a daily basis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Cmv: If you can’t trust people, then don’t be around people. Just be happy being single, childless, and friendless.I’d say it’s also silly to have full trust in your family as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you want your daughters to date a redpiller?Yes you have. That’s called mauvaise foi or bad faith. Basically the difference is in one (straw man) the person presents a bad faith argument and in the other (mauvaise foi) the person responds in bad faith to a valid argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 06:24 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you want your daughters to date a redpiller?I'd tell her to flip a coin. Heads being the 'normal' guy and tails being the 'red pill' guy. Whichever side it lands on that's who she should date. If it lands on a side and she doesn't like that answer then I'd tell her go for the other guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 01:42 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: Would you want your daughters to date a redpiller?It means you've intentionally given a very skewed scenario in order to get the answer you want and can argue against. They definitely used it correctly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 01:40 AM |
| – | What are some dating tricks you use which some may find bad but you feel are necessary?Do you mean literal plate spinning or are you talking figuratively | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Does this subreddit actually help anyone?If you're coming to the sub for advice you're in the wrong place. r/relationship_advice is better for you. This sub here is for being entertained by seeing how terrible the dating world could be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 02:52 AM |
| 1 | What is your experience with women who earn significantly more than their partners/husbands?wanting to carry a life that their male doctor colleagues carry - like being able to put her kid in an international school. I'm confused. If a male doctor is married to a low earning woman and is able to carry a particular lifestyle, why wouldn't a female doctor in the same situation be able to do the same. In my experience, it's not that big a deal because it's not about the money, its about the relationship. Plus the 'low earnings' are generally still pretty good compared to most people. The … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 02:47 AM |
| 1 | What are some dating tricks you use which some may find bad but you feel are necessary?I don't downvote and I'm on the web so I can't even see the downvote button. Most likely someone else seeing your comments and sharing that they're low value | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 02:34 AM |
| 1 | What are some dating tricks you use which some may find bad but you feel are necessary?I'm not bothered at all. Just trying to understand why your delivery is very standoffish and defensive. Gives the impression that you have personally been afflicted or tricked in some why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 02:33 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhile I understand that this has less to do with him as a person and more to do with her, i can empathize with the socially awkward guy. Assuming the post is real, my guess is this girl is not very attractive, and this is the first time a guy has approached her. She wants to be just like the other pretty girls who are able to reject guys and be harsh with no consequences and saw this as her chance. Otherwise this wouldn't even be something worth posting because it would be so normal. I'm guessin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 02:26 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSome girl added me on IG and I went to her story to see who see was. Her very first story was a post saying "I'm not gonna link up with y'all cause I'm not so hoe so stay out my inbox" I then got 2 messages from her. One was a pic of her in her underwear and the other was a message saying "Hey if you wanna see more I'm having a sale on my onlyfans" Reported and blocked. Hoes be trippin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 02:18 AM |
| 0 | What are some dating tricks you use which some may find bad but you feel are necessary?I actually was in the position of having to turn down one man to see another and I felt so awful about it I never did it again. And that's why this other man should've had a second option lined up. Thank's for proving my point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 02:12 AM |
| 1 | What are some dating tricks you use which some may find bad but you feel are necessary?Can you comprehend the difference between asking for advice and asking for people to share their experiences? You seem to be very triggered by this discussion while everyone else is unbothered and civil. Any reason why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 02:09 AM |
| 1 | What are some dating tricks you use which some may find bad but you feel are necessary?Incorrect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Passport bros seems like a lot of work. Are things really that dire?It's passport bro not citizenship bro. You don't move their you're just going for vacation. Plus it's not that bad considering there are numerous countries where the quality of living is better than the west | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 01:42 AM |
| – | There is a minimum amount of money an individual should be expected to pay for a traditional engagement ring.Ringpop. Take it or leave it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 01:19 AM |
| 1 | do you experience more understanding from older men or women your age?Definitely from older men. Like another commenter said older men would tell me a lot of things that at the time I'm like "you're an old man what do you know" but now I see they were right. While i've had some older women be very honest and say "as long as you're attractive you don't really need to say anything" most of them still opt for the 'women are wonderful" idea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 01:08 AM |
| 4 | Q4RP: How do you think redpill has changed from when it first became a popular thing (early 2000s) to now?How do you figure? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 01:04 AM |
| 23 | If mens nature is used to justify looking at sexy women then there's nothing wrong with women being wearyThere's a huge area between looking at someone and sexually assaulting them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 12:43 AM |
| 1 | What are some dating tricks you use which some may find bad but you feel are necessary?Weirdly enough i've been getting ads about those socks that make you taller. I'm 6'1 already but I was considering buying a pair just to see if it actually does something. Plus they look comfortable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:59 PM |
| 0 | What are some dating tricks you use which some may find bad but you feel are necessary?Where did I ask for advice? Also in regards to the women I'm speaking to one just got of work and is going to feed her rabbits, the other is in class for the next 2hrs and the other is at work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:55 PM |
| 0 | What are some dating tricks you use which some may find bad but you feel are necessary?I didn't miss anything of what she wrote. You're looking at this from a confirmation bias standpoint and thinking "well because it worked in this situation it must work in all situations". You're also assuming that allowing yourself to have options means you don't actually care about the person or that you're just looking for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:53 PM |
| 1 | What are some dating tricks you use which some may find bad but you feel are necessary?As a woman, if a guy i like chooses me, that strengthens and solidifies my feelings about him. While this may be true it also doesn't mean you're going to choose him. Additionally, and not saying this is something you'd do, there are many women who would take advantage of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:49 PM |
| 1 | What are some dating tricks you use which some may find bad but you feel are necessary?What does #2 mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:44 PM |
| 1 | What are some dating tricks you use which some may find bad but you feel are necessary?Yes this is another thing I learned from classic redpill. When I first went on dates I would never make physical contact or get to close and was always expecting a 'sign' from the women. Then i wouldn't get a second date because by not making a move I didn't seem interested | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:39 PM |
| 1 | What are some dating tricks you use which some may find bad but you feel are necessary?yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:35 PM |
| 1 | What are some dating tricks you use which some may find bad but you feel are necessary?I'm guessing this hurt is from a personal experience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 11:35 PM |
| 6 | What are some dating tricks you use which some may find bad but you feel are necessary?Madlad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 05:14 AM |
| 7 | What are some dating tricks you use which some may find bad but you feel are necessary?Yes I’m askign out women I actually like and find attractive. Despite your theory it’s worked out pretty well for me these past few years as opposed to the alternative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 05:14 AM |
| 8 | What are some dating tricks you use which some may find bad but you feel are necessary?I wouldn't call that a trick and agree with the other commenter that it's not really their business | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 02:56 AM |
| 4 | What are some dating tricks you use which some may find bad but you feel are necessary?Haha I actually was honest about that one time. She started making small talk about her job, and I was just exhausted because it's such a boring conversation and one that people have over an over. Plus it always just comes off as them trying to gauge how much money you make and not actually what you're interested in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 02:54 AM |
| 6 | What are some dating tricks you use which some may find bad but you feel are necessary?That approach would not work for the majority of situations but glad it worked out for y'all. Idk why I would say you're a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 02:50 AM |
| -1 | When Gen Z men get into their 30s will it even be worth it to date 30s women?Most people deteriorate as they get older because they don't take care of themselves. I think if a mane stays fit, and has a solid career there's no reason he won't be able to get a 23-26 year old woman at 35. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Where's the logic behind the belief that "women prefer bad boys?"Because it’s true. Not necessarily the “bad boys” but the excitement. Most average men have a standard job M-F job, responsibilities and non-expendable income. Not many “exciting” things you can do on a normal basis that someone better off can do. Meanwhile the “bad boys” are living like idiots. Generally spend money like it’s going out of style either because they’re in major debt or getting it illegally. They also generally are more risk taking and are probably more likely to approach and be p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 09:31 PM |
| 5 | The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill.Idk how common it is but it’s definitely not rare | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 09:24 PM |
| 3 | Why are You on this Sub if You Never Dated?Let’s use your example. I’m a hopeful premed student and I’ve applied numerous times and have been rejected because I have a 3.0 gpa. You give people advice saying “all you have to do is have at least a 3.0 gpa and you’ll be accepted”. Regardless of me being accepted into med school or not, I can identify that advice as bullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 09:22 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on 'It's how I was raised"?Please show me where I did that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 07:05 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on 'It's how I was raised"?I didn’t equate anything. I provided 2 examples | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 05:36 PM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on 'It's how I was raised"?Redditors love this false equivalency word but don’t seem to know how to use it properly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 04:52 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on 'It's how I was raised"?Gee thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 11:19 PM |
| 2 | What has been the reaction when you tell the person you're on a date with you're splitting the bill. What has been your reaction when you're told the bill is being split?Pretty much like you described. The man leads and you follow. For example he chooses the restaurant l, what you order, and pretty much the entire agenda and your job is to sit and look cute. Also I don’t understand what you mean when you say you expect the man to pay but also that your woudl insult yourself by not providing for yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 07:34 PM |
| 1 | What has been the reaction when you tell the person you're on a date with you're splitting the bill. What has been your reaction when you're told the bill is being split?it’s that and your comments afterwards. Not sure how you are irl but that can be off putting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 07:29 PM |
| 2 | What has been the reaction when you tell the person you're on a date with you're splitting the bill. What has been your reaction when you're told the bill is being split?do you think paying would change that and if it was the deciding factor, is that someone you’d want to be with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 06:57 PM |
| 1 | What has been the reaction when you tell the person you're on a date with you're splitting the bill. What has been your reaction when you're told the bill is being split?Lol yeah that is pretty funny. “I have no problem splitting the bill but also it’s a huge problem that I will blow out of proportion and never see the person againl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 06:55 PM |
| 1 | What has been the reaction when you tell the person you're on a date with you're splitting the bill. What has been your reaction when you're told the bill is being split?Not relevant to the overall post but this comes off as very “nice guy”ish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 06:20 PM |
| 2 | What has been the reaction when you tell the person you're on a date with you're splitting the bill. What has been your reaction when you're told the bill is being split?If Ukrainian dating culture is similar to other Eastern European cultures then it’s pretty conservative and traditional. Would you say you also put a lot of effort into your image and are very submissive on these dates? What are the other cultural norms you follow in regards to dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 06:15 PM |
| 5 | What has been the reaction when you tell the person you're on a date with you're splitting the bill. What has been your reaction when you're told the bill is being split?What culture did you grow up in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 01:57 AM |
| 9 | What has been the reaction when you tell the person you're on a date with you're splitting the bill. What has been your reaction when you're told the bill is being split?Lol this is facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 01:55 AM |
| – | If men are supposedly violent, rapist sociopaths by nature, women are manipulative and deceptive by natureI’d say about 90% of the women on this sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 09:43 PM |
| – | Men don't get it. Women have moved onIt was a nice day today so I decided to ride my ebike to work. On my way, I saw multiple heterosexual couples of different races, cultures and ages. How do you explain that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 06:52 PM |
| 0 | [Q4All]What are your thoughts on “Foodie Calls”?Ah you mean the hobosexuals! They’re humans just like us but they gotta be honest with their partner. Who knows maybe they’re into that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 06:31 PM |
| 5 | What exactly is the thesis of The Red Pill?Like any philosophy there are numerous varying ideas especially now since this is so mainstream. When you look at what the name is based off the context is pretty much that blue pillers are just going through life and accepting what's given to them because it's easier, while red pillers are breaking out of what they've been taught to believe about themselves, and society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 11:28 PM |
| – | CMV: You can't expect women to believe that men are being falsely accused of being creepy without evidence.Sure and you can't expect men to 'just believe women" when they claim they've been sexually assaulted or harassed without evidence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Why should men commit? What makes being my wife better than being my GFThe only reason to commit is because there are financial incentives. Other than that there's no reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the concept of the 'Better guys" dating app? What does the design say about women's expectations in online dating?I've skimmed this whole thing and was gonna respond but besides contradicting yourself and responding partially to the context in a way that suits you, you're basically saying that you have this 'high quality friend' that you would endorse for this app but would drop them in a second based on the word of a random woman. I appreciate you answering because this is one thing I didn't add in my original post. That there will be women who endorse their 'friends' and then proceed to sabotage them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 11:04 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on the concept of the 'Better guys" dating app? What does the design say about women's expectations in online dating?Lmao very true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Politics defines modern dating.I don’t watch the news either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 07:50 PM |
| 3 | Women Choosing Better MenK | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 09:30 AM |
| 4 | Thoughts on the concept of the 'Better guys" dating app? What does the design say about women's expectations in online dating?Yeah that’s where everything would stop. Both women are just gonna ghost each other after the first message | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the concept of the 'Better guys" dating app? What does the design say about women's expectations in online dating?I helped.anu of my friends set up their profiles to get more matches. And I'm. Willing to invest a lot in my friends. It's just not my preferred tactic for meeting people. And I wrote a research paper on dating apps for my sociology class in UNI. That doesn’t answer the question of how you plan to filter the women and how much time you’re willing to invest into it. That says a lot about him too. Such as what? He finds women sexually attractive and possibly takes risk or says stupid things someti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 09:10 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on the concept of the 'Better guys" dating app? What does the design say about women's expectations in online dating?Because I love my friends and want them to be happy. I also know their types pretty well and would filter out based on that. You say you’ve never used dating apps so tell me how you believe you would filter out these women and how much time you’d be willing to invest into it? How many days/weeks/months do you think you’d put into it until you decide it’s not worth the time? Because it's text based and she'll have the receipts. Evidence. I would absolutely want to know if I had misjudged my frien… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 08:04 AM |
| 14 | Thoughts on the concept of the 'Better guys" dating app? What does the design say about women's expectations in online dating?They won’t be satisfied until a high value man who caters to their every whim is at their beck and call | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 06:21 AM |
| 2 | Politics defines modern dating.Never lived around religious conservatives but I’ll take your word for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Politics defines modern dating.the problem isn’t really politics but more the culture of young liberals. So many of them have this idea that they’re right about everything, the world revolves around them and have no idea how to discuss different ideas. Additionally in current culture there’s the idea that as long as present myself as the victim I can’t be wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the concept of the 'Better guys" dating app? What does the design say about women's expectations in online dating?I think the solution to increasing success is simple. In order for people to remain on the app they have to maintain a certain level of interaction with the people they matched with. If they match and don’t respond or ghost that level drops and when it drops low enough the account is hidden. In order to reset it the user has to pay a fee. This wouldn’t be as profitable as just allowing people to act like shitbthough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the concept of the 'Better guys" dating app? What does the design say about women's expectations in online dating?I agree “sponsoring“ in the sense of introducing a male friend to a female friend works. The problem is these aren’t your female friends they’re just a stranger. I would say it’s pretty naive at best to think that the worst thing that could happen to a man is that they meet a fattie and ignores the numerous men who have been killed, raped, robbed, etc. that’s also not the reason arranged marriages exist. Very weird comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 05:20 AM |
| 5 | Thoughts on the concept of the 'Better guys" dating app? What does the design say about women's expectations in online dating?I agree that men will want to use it but it’s unlikely it will be these “high quality men” that the women would be seeking through the app. And I agree I think any female friend of a high quality man isn’t going to have him meeting random women on the internet and will likely take him out or introduce him to women irl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 05:15 AM |
| 22 | Women Choosing Better MenAnd I'm asking Op for their examples. Sometimes red flags aren't actually red flags and there's a strong chance that the OP is in fact the problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 12:53 AM |
| 23 | Women Choosing Better MenCan you give some examples of the things you're considering red flags? Also what are your red flags? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 11:45 PM |
| 7 | The biggest mistake of passport broWell considering there are at least a couple thousands of women in these places I don't think a 50-100 dudes coming there is going to hurt anyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you break up with a girl because she's boring?If she was boring yes. I find most of those hobbies to be entertaining but if she was into things I found boring it probably means we need to find someone with things that are more in line with our interest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 11:40 PM |
| 1 | If the majority of men get no matches on dating apps, how do the majority of couples meet using apps, and how to the majority of people still get married?Where are you getting the stats that almost 50% of people are meeting through apps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Women claiming men should "hold other men accountable" just want to deny their own responsibilyIf that's your definition of holding someone accountable then you would agree that men are in fact hold men accountable considering most men are condemning violence against women online | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 11:32 PM |
| 1 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?Beats me cause I never talk to people for 2 weeks cause it's not worth it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 07:45 PM |
| 0 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?It seems like you're talking specifically about hooking up so Ill answer in that context. If I wanted a hook up in America, first I have to deal with finding a woman who wants to do that and is honest about it, doesn't ghost and that I'm attracted to. Then there's the whole "i want to get to know you" which is fine if you chat for a day to make sure they aren't crazy but 2 week minimum is insane. Then there's the date part, the planning, actually going, generally paying. All this on the presumpt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Women claiming men should "hold other men accountable" just want to deny their own responsibilyThat’s hardly holding someone accountable and it’s actually a hilarious suggestion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Women claiming men should "hold other men accountable" just want to deny their own responsibilyCongrats? Idk what that has to do with what was previously said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 03:42 AM |
| 4 | Women claiming men should "hold other men accountable" just want to deny their own responsibilyThe key word here is friends. When people say men should hold other men accountable they’re talking about men as a group | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 03:18 AM |
| 3 | Why go on dates if he's not attractive ?It's because there's a lack of remorse or accountability when using men. We've seen it many times and they've all but outright at men they are manipulators and don't care. There's literally a phrase for it called 'foodie call'. I remember when tinder first became popular they did a story on women who would literally match with guys under the guise of a date, use them to do something for them (change their oil, replace brakes, move something heavy to storage) then tell them to leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Why do (some) men believe women cheating is “worse”?That's still a cost the man would need to incur for the action of the woman. It also assumes the guy has reason to believe she's cheating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 01:23 AM |
| 6 | Women claiming men should "hold other men accountable" just want to deny their own responsibilyThis is true. No single man owes me accountability simply by virtue of being a man and I have yet to see women hold other women accountable for anything. I've seen women hitting on men at the club with the friends backing her up but the second the dude so much as pushes her is "SHES A GIRL" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 12:49 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Using a man to be a penpal/surrogate is just as bad as using a woman for sexThey are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 12:24 AM |
| 6 | Why do (some) men believe women cheating is “worse”?Because men and women can get an STI. Only women can get pregnant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 12:16 AM |
| 60 | Why do (some) men believe women cheating is “worse”?I'd say both are equal with the only difference if a woman goes and gets pregnant by another guy it's possible for the man to be liable for the child that's not his | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 10:18 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Using a man to be a penpal/surrogate is just as bad as using a woman for sexIf you're practicing safe sex the risk is almost 0. Also as I previously said those risk exist regardless of the intentions and when you consent to sex you inherently consent to those risk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Dating would be so much easier if there were wholesome communal meeting places for younger peopleI feel like you’ve just described having a hobby and going to events having to do with said hobby | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 11:07 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Using a man to be a penpal/surrogate is just as bad as using a woman for sexI haven’t many episodes of that show but this is such a common and normal thing in kids cartoons it’s insane | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 04:45 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Using a man to be a penpal/surrogate is just as bad as using a woman for sexBecause a surrogate boyfriend isn’t a friend. It’s a guy you know is interested in you that you’re using under the guise that he’s your friend to get the benefits of a boyfriend while not reciprocating. To put it in a different perspective. Imagine a friend that only hangs out with you because you have a car and can take them places. They only invite you out when they need you to drive, don’t pay for gas and the second they get their own car or a friend with one, they stop contacting you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 04:43 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Using a man to be a penpal/surrogate is just as bad as using a woman for sexUsing someone for your own benefit isn’t friendship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 04:39 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Using a man to be a penpal/surrogate is just as bad as using a woman for sexA woman can get pregnant or an std from sex regardless of the intentions behind it. It’s also not a platonic distance relationship it’s manipulation. You also don’t know what’s going on with the person emotionally or mentally and can cause harm to them. I mean we’ve heard stories about people ending their lives over things like this no? I also don’t know what you mean by take back sex. You can’t take back the time or emotions you spent talking to the person either so in both cases the person who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 04:36 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBecause it's not serious. There is no obligation on either party to see each other at a certain time, to keep up a certain amount of contact or schedule and it can end anytime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 02:14 AM |
| 9 | Mario Batali was found not guilty and wants to resume his career. He’s getting a lot of backlash. How do you feel about men being found not guilty from sex allegations and still not being allowed to move on from it?I do think it's unfair adn the entire way sexual assault is handled is terrible. Although we've seen these false accusations used to ruin men numerous time instead of calling for a complete overhaul that protects innocent people and victims, feminist would rather have you #believeallwomen and if someone innocents is caught up then they should gladly be a martyr | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 02:13 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadA hook up is about sex. Wham, Bam, Thank you ma'am | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 02:06 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe connection of being with another human being? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 02:02 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadA casual and consistent connection with someone isn't a hookup. A hook up requires zero connection and is strictly sex. This also isn't a FWB relationship because that would suggest you're friends as well so maybe the sex would end but you would still be friends. It's exactly what is described. Casual and consistent What do you mean how? You meet someone you vibe with that's attractive but not on a romantic level. You get together to chill and have sex knowing you're both able to see other peopl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 02:00 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's dumb for men to be upfront about what they want now? Sheeessshhh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 01:48 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Using a man to be a penpal/surrogate is just as bad as using a woman for sexok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 01:45 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Using a man to be a penpal/surrogate is just as bad as using a woman for sexI can assure you I as a young male know more about the young male dating experience than you as a 50 year old woman, regardless of you being an escort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 01:44 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Using a man to be a penpal/surrogate is just as bad as using a woman for sexThe simple answer. Emotional vulnerability. I'm not going to sit and argue with you about whether this is a thing or what people should do. It is a thing and what people SHOULD do is obvious same with the sex scenario. Humans are illogical. Regardless it's off topic because I'm not talking about how often it happens because it's irrelevant to the main post. I'm comparing the 2 situations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 01:35 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Using a man to be a penpal/surrogate is just as bad as using a woman for sexSo you think I don't know a significant amount of men and you somehow do because you're an escort...but that you know a significant amount of women to say it's not a thing? But then also say it's 50% which would be significant? I will say that being a 50 year old escort might have to do with a bit of the reason you haven't seen this. It's not really something that pertains to your demographic. But I'm sure if you asked your clients about this I would be willing to be that at least 80-90% of them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 01:32 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Using a man to be a penpal/surrogate is just as bad as using a woman for sexIf only everyone in the world was like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 01:25 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Using a man to be a penpal/surrogate is just as bad as using a woman for sexWell I could take the PPD arguement and say the man 'gets' to have an interaction with a lovely lady | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 01:24 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Using a man to be a penpal/surrogate is just as bad as using a woman for sexNope. I do know every man i've ever met had experienced it and it's a common complaint among men so it's clearly happening | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 01:20 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Using a man to be a penpal/surrogate is just as bad as using a woman for sexOk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 01:18 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Using a man to be a penpal/surrogate is just as bad as using a woman for sexYes if both people agree to that before hand then nothing wrong with it. Just like if 2 people agree to have a fuckbuddy relationship there's no problem. The issue in what I'm talking about is when the person is mislead implicitly or explicitly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 01:18 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Using a man to be a penpal/surrogate is just as bad as using a woman for sexJust as anyone can be used for sex if they allow it right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 01:15 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Using a man to be a penpal/surrogate is just as bad as using a woman for sexDo you think men can be used as emotional tampons as another commenter put it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 12:59 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Using a man to be a penpal/surrogate is just as bad as using a woman for sexIt's one sided because similar to sex, the conversation is based on the thought that this is an investment that is leading to something deeper or progressing the relationship somehow when it's not and only one person is fully aware of it. And yes in both interactions the people have the ability to opt out if they want but generally they're incentivized to put a little more effort than they would if the person was honest and said "this isn't going any further" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 12:57 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Using a man to be a penpal/surrogate is just as bad as using a woman for sexIt's a pretty common thing. Idk how many woman are doing this but a significant portion are. I'm willing to bet most men in dating have experienced at least a few women like this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 12:54 AM |
| 7 | Should we feel sorry for guys who are forced to have relationships in order to get sex?Why should we feel sorry for them? I'd say this should be applauded because its more healthy, less chance for stds or babymama drama and shows a high emotional stability | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 12:36 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Using a man to be a penpal/surrogate is just as bad as using a woman for sexPenpal is when you meet someone and only speak to them through secondary means (text/online/phone) but have no intention of ever seeing them in real life or developing a meaningful relationships. It's usually extremely one sided where the conversations happen when you choose and the subjects revolve around what you want. A surrogate BF is similar where you basically have a guy in the friendzone and you get all the attention and treatment you would a boyfriend with no reciprocation or intention t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 12:33 AM |
| 6 | What has worked for you in terms of getting a woman to date you?It's a numbers game. Usually I would be very specific with the girl I wanted that I could have a relationship with. but then once I started talking to more women that fall outside that and looking at women who might just be fun for a while it got better. Also not going with the time wasting bullshit like needing to talk for a specific time before meeting or leading on. If we don't have plans within a few days I'm putting them on the back burner because if we don't meet within 2 weeks it's not ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Cold approaching doesn’t workI just walked up on a girl on the street a few days ago and introduced myself. We walked and talked for a little, I got her number and we're going to the gym tomorrow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 11:28 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Stoicism is definitely overrated in regards to success with womenAlmost like stoicism isn't about getting woman. Where do you get your information about what stoicism is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 11:26 PM |
| 1 | On dating apps over the past 5-8 years, why do you see the same exact women on them? Why are they perpetually single?There's a few reasons: They aren't the same person Often times women want to spend weeks talking to someone before meeting them for the first time. To me this is backwards. Because what happens is the woman pics the best images with makeup and filters, can cater the way they speak and basically be someone they aren't. But while the woman is looking for signs not to date the guy, the guy is looking for reasons to date the woman meaning he will see her in the ideal way. Then when you meet them in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Would you date the opposite gender versiomof yourself?Assuming our schedules were the exact same as well then yes 100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 11:10 PM |
| 1 | If men cared about a woman's money, then women would fight against poor-shaming.Sure do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 10:54 PM |
| 2 | If men cared about a woman's money, then women would fight against poor-shaming.Neither you or the other commenter seem to understand how preferences or statistics works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 10:51 PM |
| 3 | What do men get for paying for the first date?Ok let's say that is true. Then why complain about it. The more ulgy men that are becoming passport bros and finding women in other countries the more 'good men' that are left for you. Win win But the fact is it's not the ugly men who are doing it. It's delusional to think so and I'm curious the reason why you want it to only be the ugly losers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 10:43 PM |
| 1 | If men cared about a woman's money, then women would fight against poor-shaming.Literally every night club I've ever been to. And cool I'll just drink less. Still beats paying for some girls applebees | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Women just expect men to pay, even on bad dates. Is this reasonable?It's not reasonable at all and I think men should stop paying. A similar thing happened to me 2 times actually. Most recently, I met a girl and we were supposed to meet at a bar. The bar was the perfect vibe, nice music, lowkey atmosphere good view. She wasn't my type from the start but I figured we came all the way here let's get to know each other. I'm talking to her trying to relate on things anyone else should be able to relate to and she's not even trying and is just killing the vibe. 20 mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 01:58 AM |
| 4 | If men cared about a woman's money, then women would fight against poor-shaming.The present study examined the characteristics and dating preferences of members of a matchmaking service. One hundred eighty-one male and three hundred forty-six female clients responded to questions dealing with their personal characteristics as well as the characteristics they desired in a match. Clients were introduced by a matchmaker; and following their first date, clients rated their satisfaction with their match. Results indicated that men preferred younger, more attractive women, wherea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 01:29 AM |
| 5 | If men cared about a woman's money, then women would fight against poor-shaming.I've never been to applebee's but if it cost $55 then no. $20 cover, 5 $7 drinks. Thats $55 right there spent only on me and an almost limitless supply of broke women to talk to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 01:23 AM |
| 3 | If men cared about a woman's money, then women would fight against poor-shaming.Why would you spend more money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 01:17 AM |
| 8 | If men cared about a woman's money, then women would fight against poor-shaming.Evidence of the obvious? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 01:16 AM |
| 5 | If men cared about a woman's money, then women would fight against poor-shaming.That's called going to a club | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 01:01 AM |
| 10 | If men cared about a woman's money, then women would fight against poor-shaming.One of what things? Sexually successful? Even on the assumption you're telling the truth, are a rich, handsome, 6ft'5in specimen of a man who just happens to date specifically old, fat women with a long sexual history, that just means you're in the minority. Statistically the majority of men (Successful or not) do prefer those things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 12:55 AM |
| 9 | If men cared about a woman's money, then women would fight against poor-shaming.You understand "sexually successful" men also hold these preferences too right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 12:49 AM |
| 14 | If men cared about a woman's money, then women would fight against poor-shaming.I noticed that anything that results in women being accountable for themselves or their actions is generally rallied against. Anything that calls for women to take accountability is misogyny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 12:38 AM |
| 15 | If men cared about a woman's money, then women would fight against poor-shaming.Probably because when you're in the same social class the places you frequent and are more likely to meet your mate are places where someone of your social class would be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 12:36 AM |
| 13 | If men cared about a woman's money, then women would fight against poor-shaming.It doesn't even seem like you read the Ops post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 12:35 AM |
| – | The average woman is more attractive than the average manThe average woman also feels the need to wear make up to improve their looks, while complaining that if they don't wear it people will comment on them looking 'tired' or 'sick' So I'm gonna have to say false | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Why are woman so annoyed by men finding their promiscuity unattractive when these same woman will invariably judge a guy that uses sex workers?Because it's consequences for their actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 10:59 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about the small percentage of women who are thugs and criminals?Same thing that goes through my mind in regards to men. "hey look a criminal" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 10:53 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel if he or she is with you for the money?At this point in my life I would have an issue if that were the case. If i'm older and still single otherwise whatever. It's a mutual transaction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 10:40 PM |
| 3 | What do men get for paying for the first date?So if a guy is expecting sex on a first date it's transactional. But if a woman is expecting payment for their food, it's not? You say the man is treating her well by paying for her date because she is worth something to him and vice versa. What's the vice versa? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 10:28 PM |
| 3 | What do men get for paying for the first date?Is telling someone I'm willing to give up my time to spend getting to know them not thoughtful? Is planning a date I think they'd enjoy not thoughtful? Why is it that money is a requirement. Women typically pay a lot of money to get ready, you’re not obligated to pay for anything but it does show you appreciate her assumed effort. What about my effort? If she doesn't look as good as ai want can i lower the percentage I'll pay? Also did she go out and buy a brand new set of clothes and makeup s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 02:15 AM |
| 4 | What do men get for paying for the first date?Maybe, maybe not. But would I really want to be with a woman who's only issue with me was that I didn't pay for her? For me that's a no, so it's also a bullet dodge. I mean it's kinda like sayign hey "you missed out on a great guy because you didn't have sex with him on the first date and he didn't want a second". Can you really say that's a great guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 02:12 AM |
| 7 | What do men get for paying for the first date?What kind of men do you think have the ability to become passport bros? I assure you it's not the 'losers'. And if it were the losers why complain about it? That just means they will leave you alone no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 02:04 AM |
| 4 | What do men get for paying for the first date?Hmm seems you're projecting your wishes onto me. So you want a man to pay to make you feel like a princess and improve your self esteem. So can this man expect to be given prince treatment? Or does it only work one way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 02:03 AM |
| 3 | What do men get for paying for the first date?What do you base this on? I've gotten second, third, consistent dating, fwb etc from going dutch on dates. Has this been your experience when you don't pay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 02:00 AM |
| 1 | What do men get for paying for the first date?That's what i'm hearing lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 01:58 AM |
| 6 | What do men get for paying for the first date?Really? So why are woman constantly complaining "where have all the good men gone"? If there's an abundance of good men and they assume themselves to be good women then there's nothing to complain about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 01:56 AM |
| 8 | What do men get for paying for the first date?Dates where men pay for everything aren't the only dates | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 01:55 AM |
| 13 | What do men get for paying for the first date?It's toxic that I think women should split the bill? Hmm weird but my apparent toxicity hasn't been an issue yet so here's hoping to more luck in all my endeavors | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 01:53 AM |
| 6 | What do men get for paying for the first date?I can and have dated a woman who covered the whole bill. I didn't like the feeling of someone else paying for me because I was there to meet, get to know them and felt like I was taking advantage of them because I could pay for myself. It didn't change how I saw women who go 50/50 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 01:49 AM |
| 0 | What do men get for paying for the first date?Second, you don't get anything by paying, but you could lose something by not paying. This doesn't make sense because if you aren't going out with the woman you have her. If your payment is a requirement to go out on a date then you're getting a date. Like if a prostitute says you have to pay for her and you refuse, you're not losing out because you didn't pay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 01:47 AM |
| -3 | What do men get for paying for the first date?Goodwill in a way such as? Also that makes no sense since the literal point of goodwill is to get something in return | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 01:43 AM |
| 6 | What do men get for paying for the first date?Why would I stop going on date when there are women who have no issue splitting dates? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 01:42 AM |
| 4 | What do men get for paying for the first date?That's a very weird thing to say imo. "Hey you know these years we've been together and the memories we've made? I would've thrown that away for a few extra dollars" Edit: I read that as wife not exwife so it seems that maybe that should've been the case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 01:40 AM |
| 4 | What do men get for paying for the first date?I don't thanks. Just interested to know what I get if I do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 01:38 AM |
| – | Who has more unrealistic dating expectations, men or women, why?Yeah I can't even count how many times, I've been ghosted only to have the girl contact me months, sometimes a year later to try to reconnect because their relationship didn't work out. It happens so often I'm starting to wonder if women realize how disrespectful it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 01:30 AM |
| – | Who has more unrealistic dating expectations, men or women, why?I think women will say that's what they want but many women aren't going for that guy. I think the reason is because they know in a relationship like that, they actually have to give some effort back and if they were to lose this caring guy, it would just reflect on how undateable they are. Going for the dudes who don't care it's way easier to get rejected or reject them because it's easier to point and say "he's the bad guy". If the average man can get that then they probably wouldn't pass it u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 12:12 AM |
| – | Who has more unrealistic dating expectations, men or women, why?Women for sure. I think the most unrealistic thing that I've found to be pretty normalized is that women seem to think in dating, the world revolves around them and that men should wait for them. This as well as a lack of accountability in themselves and basic decency and respect. This is on top of all the "men must be traditional but I don't have to be" thing Guys on the other hand just wanna go out with a cute girl and maybe get laid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 12:04 AM |
| 4 | Men who refuse to raise a child that isn’t biologically yours but want kids, why do you want kids?If i were to have a kid it would need to be my own biologically for numerous reasons. The first and most obvious reason is that me and their mom would be their only parents and we'd make the decisions for them. A child that's not mine has a third parent who ultimately has more say than me. Along with that having a child that's biologically yours it's easier to know what health risks they face and can be easier to figure out what is wrong with them. Finally, the kid knows that the people in his f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 11:27 PM |
| – | CMV: Too many men place their respect for women above their respect for themselvesIt's going out of your way to respect others and not present yourself as dangerous? Um...yes. Especially when your fear is based on prejudice and stereotypes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 11:13 PM |
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