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FundamentalsSilent_Length/r/seduction11/02/22 04:00 PM
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FundamentalsSilent_Length/r/seduction16/02/22 03:46 PM
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ConversationSilent_Length/r/seduction31/01/22 12:19 AM
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When it comes down to it though, I feel like they’ll be able to tell I’m a virgin innit, so reckon it’s better to mention like right before I’m not too experienced or whatever just to give her like a heads up? Or just keep quiet and hope I know what I’m doing haha
/r/seduction31/03/22 12:24 PM
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Yeah that’s a good one. Was thinking shirt too just hopefully it’s something actually like decent so it doesn’t just sound forced. Or if she’s wearing the same colour shirt as me or smth
/r/seduction20/03/22 09:54 PM
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How do you do that btw lol?
/r/seduction10/03/22 02:06 PM
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Yeah I agree with the indirects. I read that it’s best to obv do direct complimenting and asking her out, so I figured I might as well skip straight to direct, but feel like I might need to start indirect like you said. Asking where something is or whatever and then asking her after
/r/seduction09/03/22 10:51 PM
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Yeah man the thing is I’m always good at convo, like was talking to her for a bit after, laughing, and then just said see you later or whatever but I always don’t close to ask her out (I do still have her on our WhatsApp group but I’d much have rather asked for out in person the last time I’d realistically see her than text her after innit). Plenty more fish
/r/seduction09/03/22 10:48 PM
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Nah like fr I do need to improve, the amount of times I’ve not been able to close when I literally had the chance like idk I need to improve
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:26 PM
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Can I ask how old you are? Do you cold approach just in town and stuff? I’m kinda in the same boat atm as in you before. Not been in the best mental state and struggling with girls. Need to step it up and start cold approaching Also how’d your mindset change from a few weeks ago? Did you just say fuck it and start cold approaching or?
/r/seduction08/03/22 09:34 PM
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Just leaving this here so I stay updated on the activities lol
/r/seduction28/02/22 01:01 PM
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Kiss the first time? Surely not until after the date
/r/seduction19/02/22 11:33 PM
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You’re doing better than most man. Numbers game. Keep at it.
/r/seduction17/02/22 05:02 AM
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Oh shit I’ve seen some of them yeah. You’re an absolute legend hahaha.
/r/seduction17/02/22 04:45 AM
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Ye I’m down
/r/seduction17/02/22 04:40 AM
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Yeah I feel you. I’m just really bad at picking up the signs of interest/disinterest though. In terms of the closeness, the problem is all the clubs here is completely packed everyone is right on top of each other whether you like it or not.
/r/seduction17/02/22 01:12 AM
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This is why I suck at pulling in clubs haha. I can talk well, a bit above average in looks and height I’d say. But god my body language sucks ass. I can’t dance for shit, I’m stiff af, and don’t have the confidence to do well with dancing with girls and getting them to grind on me and shit
/r/seduction17/02/22 12:44 AM
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Help me out. How do I start dancing with them? Can never find the right balance with trying to dance with a girl but also not being creepy by putting my hands on her waist without consent
/r/seduction17/02/22 12:40 AM
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Tbf that’s a great shirt haha need to get me one
/r/seduction17/02/22 12:39 AM
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This is what I struggle with when they’re close to me and almost begging me to start dancing with them I never get the balls to do it and then they lose interest. I don’t wanna be creepy but by being too respectful they lose interest. How do I get them to start grinding on me respectfully and not creepily?
/r/seduction17/02/22 12:38 AM
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I’m the opposite in the sense that I’m fine talking to girls but In a club trying to dance with girls and finding a good balance of not being creepy but also showing interest is so fucking hard for me like my body language sucks. Like once they start grinding on me for sure it’s all good from there but I struggle getting to the grinding since I never know whether I should or shouldn’t put my hands on their waist.
/r/seduction17/02/22 12:34 AM
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Any resources for learning ‘game’?
/r/seduction17/02/22 12:10 AM
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Yeah in this particular instance I was talking to her for a good like 30 mins maybe in a previous bar at pre’s, and in the club you could tell she wanted me to like make a move, but I’m just so awkward with like body language shit it’s frustrating
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:34 PM
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This is helpful thanks!
/r/seduction11/02/22 04:44 PM
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Ok so what then just straight up go up to them and introduce yourself?
/r/seduction11/02/22 04:38 PM
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Feel like it’s as if I’ve just typed this post, just wanna lose it now
/r/seduction01/02/22 04:20 PM
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Do you have any resources on how to do this for a beginner? Completely new to mindfulness
/r/seduction01/02/22 12:48 AM
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Feel like I’m losing brain cells on this subreddit half the time lmao
/r/seduction31/01/22 04:06 PM
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She was like ‘i would show you photos but how do I get them to you’ so I said ‘Snapchat’ and she sent me her user straight away. Also in the UK especially my age range 18-25 everyone primarily uses Snapchat to talk she had like over mill score on it or some shit lol. As for the meeting, yeah you’re probably right I should’ve at least theorised meeting a bit sooner, I was going to but.. if we lived in the same place would’ve deffo offered sooner but it’s like 45 mins on the train. All good tho
/r/seduction31/01/22 12:31 AM
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Any good sources for learning about ‘game’?
/r/seduction01/01/22 11:14 PM
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Question, how do I stay looking forwards and not glancing, but also know if the girl is looking at me/checking me out?
/r/seduction18/12/21 01:47 AM
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Where you from? I would consider myself fairly above average in looks maybe a 7/10 (although I must admit I have no idea how to take good pictures) but I barely get matches with hot girls.
/r/seduction10/12/21 10:35 PM
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What would be the signals to kiss her? Even when I start dancing with girls in clubs I still fuck it up I feel like by not having the balls to go for it and then they lose interest
/r/seduction10/12/21 03:26 AM
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Just gonna post this here so I can follow this thread lol
/r/seduction10/12/21 02:48 AM
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Can you add me haha
/r/seduction25/11/21 02:54 AM
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